WEBVTT - Miss Kristen Doute 

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio Podcast. Hi, Hi, Hi beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. First of all, congratulations, are you

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing June? Yeah, I just hit third primester today.

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<v Speaker 1>According to one app, Oh gosh, I feel like not

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<v Speaker 1>to jinx it, but like the third trimester gets easier.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh earl easier? I heard them now because you can't move. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard them like in the calm part before the storm.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like up until for me, up until twenty weeks

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<v Speaker 2>was really hard. And then I feel like the last

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a couple of months have been like I

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<v Speaker 2>had more energy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like anxious as like I was before. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of just things that kind of got easier.

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<v Speaker 2>And now I heard it's about to get really shitty

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<v Speaker 2>because I'll be so big that I'm uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I just lied to you. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>the third trimester. It's the second trimester. Yeah, just when

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh, I'm finally adjusting, your body's like nope,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get even bigger. So when did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>find out you were having a little girl? So we

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like I was like, give me the blood test.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to find out immediately. Okay, well I think

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<v Speaker 1>I was like nine weeks or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So we we got engaged in the beginning of September

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<v Speaker 2>and we jumped right into EUI like three weeks later,

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<v Speaker 2>and we got really lucky, fortunate that it stuck. So

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<v Speaker 2>found out I was pregnant a few weeks later, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I was just like counting down the minutes until

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<v Speaker 2>I could find out the sex. I don't understand people

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<v Speaker 2>that just like waited out.

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<v Speaker 1>I could never I did that all on all of them. No, Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the first two we found found out and first was

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<v Speaker 1>a boy, then a girl, so we're like, we got

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<v Speaker 1>one of each. And I was like, when else are

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<v Speaker 1>you going to have this big a surprise? You know

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<v Speaker 1>when the doctor like pulls a baby out of your

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<v Speaker 1>vagina and you're like it's a girl, it's a boy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, cool, let's do it that way. But

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<v Speaker 1>then everybody has an opinion when you don't find out,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I remember my last one, everybody was like no, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>my fourth one, everybody's like, you're carrying a girl. You're

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<v Speaker 1>carrying a girl. Like I remember being waddling into Valet

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<v Speaker 1>once and He's like, oh, there's a girl in there

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<v Speaker 1>and like grab my belly. I was like, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a boy. So they were all wrong. I had

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<v Speaker 1>all the wrong clothes picked out. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>people just go in touch your belly? Yes? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel about that? I hate it? I hate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm so I'm a really social person, but there's

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<v Speaker 2>something about pregnancy that's made me, I don't want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>like antisocial, but just like here's my bubble, and my.

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<v Speaker 1>Bubble pretty much my house.

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<v Speaker 2>But like when I'm out, it's like my very best friends,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care of course, Like right, my best friend

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<v Speaker 2>Zach and Brittany from the show, like they literally will

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<v Speaker 2>like walk up, put their start talking to my belly.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like faces on my belly, Like it's totally fine.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyone outside of that small little group of like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm like, did I ever used to

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<v Speaker 1>do that to pregnant people? You probably didn't, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>would I still because I have PTSD from people just

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<v Speaker 1>like oh and just grabbing the belly. Like I still

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<v Speaker 1>ask friends when they're pregnant, like can I touch And

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, of course, and I'm like, no, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to be respectful, right, and especially you're recognizable, like

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<v Speaker 1>so people see you on their fans and they're like.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, yeah, that's that's the hard part. I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>why I've tried to like stay not like stay in

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<v Speaker 2>as much as possible, because I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 2>a bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't hurt anyone's feelings, and I'm trying to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like cool and kind to fans and viewers because but

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<v Speaker 2>also like don't fucking touch me, especially in this time

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<v Speaker 2>of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, touch me, I understand. And then way for it,

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<v Speaker 1>it gets worse because then when you have the baby

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<v Speaker 1>out in public, people think they can just touch your baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. And that was like no, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest I did not know about the like don't

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<v Speaker 1>kiss the baby thing, not that I think I would

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<v Speaker 1>want to kiss the baby, yeah, just meaning like one

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<v Speaker 1>we can, but like other people, I don't know. They're

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<v Speaker 1>saying like you could have you might not even know

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<v Speaker 1>you have like the simplest cold, or you might not

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<v Speaker 1>know you have God forbid whatever, and you have a

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<v Speaker 1>like new newborn, and then people want to come over

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<v Speaker 1>and see the baby within the first couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like kiss They're like, don't let anyone kiss

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<v Speaker 1>your baby. I'm like, okay, I mean, yeah, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>fucking kissed if someone like gives my kit's my baby sick.

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<v Speaker 1>But I about that with strangers, not kissing my baby,

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<v Speaker 1>but strangers just being out and feeling like they can puch.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've never been more protective over something that's not

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<v Speaker 1>even here yet, because you're theirs now. Yeah, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>world's now, and they think they can just go in.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, will'd you have a baby shower yet? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I have two when I'm so not a party kind

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<v Speaker 2>of girl. I'm not like a make it about meat

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<v Speaker 2>or I don't celebrate my birthday. But I have My

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<v Speaker 2>family's all back in Michigan, and so it's just like

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<v Speaker 2>a few of them could fly out here, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>like there's so many so it's a lot easier to

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<v Speaker 2>have a small one there and then a big one here.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have one at the end of March and

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<v Speaker 1>one the end of April. Oh nice, will you do

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<v Speaker 1>something in Colorado?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Luke's family all there. No, he's from Indiana. I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he has property in Colorado, so he oh, got it? Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so he lived in Colorado before. Well still, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>he still has seventy acres there.

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<v Speaker 1>He lived, no family there, no, okay, got it. So

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<v Speaker 1>his family they're going to be driving to Michigan. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, are you gonna move to Colorado? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I just read it. It was the other day. I

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<v Speaker 1>love those That was my favorite. It was like, Kristin

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<v Speaker 1>and Luke are giving up the Valley and moving to

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<v Speaker 1>see his family in Colorado, and I'm like, what the

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<v Speaker 1>hell are you talking about? Never. I would never move

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<v Speaker 1>to Colorado. I mean not right. It's fun to visit, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I is. I can't live like in the middle of nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>like permanently. We can have a house there, which is

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<v Speaker 1>lovely and I love how online they allude to the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that even if you move to Colorado that they'll

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<v Speaker 1>still film season three there the valley. Yeah, as if

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<v Speaker 1>it came from you, Like You're like, yeah, I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>going to be on the show. They'll just film us there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>We're just going to follow me anywhere, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? Yeah, I do. So you live I live

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<v Speaker 1>in the Valley as well. Oh so I was very

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<v Speaker 1>excited when when the show started because I was like, great,

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<v Speaker 1>now they're in my hood. Yeah. Once I start having kids,

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<v Speaker 1>I moved off the West side, Yeah, to the valley. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't go over the hill anymore. It gives me anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like working traffic people. I come over to the

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<v Speaker 2>side so you can breathe peace.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I feel like there's really good restaurants here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more adult over here. Huh adult. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's more so because it's not like, yeah, like if I.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to West Hollywood, I know that I'm probably not

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<v Speaker 2>just having like dinner and going home. Like my friends

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<v Speaker 2>that are that still live over the hill are like

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<v Speaker 2>where are we going to next?

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<v Speaker 1>Where are we going to next?

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like a two am night here, It's like

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<v Speaker 2>I can do that or like go back to like

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<v Speaker 2>a friend's house and like, oh, I'll have like some

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<v Speaker 2>wine there, whatever, a couple drinks there.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels more adult. Oh my gosh. I remember I

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<v Speaker 1>just moved to the valley and we had our first

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<v Speaker 1>born and and then there was a rap party form

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<v Speaker 1>my reality show and they did it at Hamburger Mary's

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<v Speaker 1>and who And I was what was that movie with

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<v Speaker 1>Reese Witherspoon which's like, oh, you have a baby in

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<v Speaker 1>a bar? That was me. I had my newborn like

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<v Speaker 1>at Hambger Mary's and watching a drag show. But yeah, that.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a blast though, Like I would totally bring

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<v Speaker 2>my baby to Hamburger Mary's.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I was that mom, Like, you know, life still

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<v Speaker 1>goes on. It's like, oh, he's sleeping and we're eating

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<v Speaker 1>dinner at eight o'clock at night, like, and it was fine.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I had my second and I was like great.

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<v Speaker 1>In the first restaurant we went to, she screamed the

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<v Speaker 1>entire time and we didn't go out for like another

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<v Speaker 1>seven months. Now you have an adult. I have an adult,

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<v Speaker 1>grow an adult. How is that crazy? Yeah, it's starting

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<v Speaker 1>to like I didn't free I'm fifty one, Like fifty

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<v Speaker 1>didn't freak me out as much as having an eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>year old child freaks me out. Right. I can't even imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's fine, No, I'm just kidding because I

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<v Speaker 1>used to see those moms that had teens and they

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<v Speaker 1>look at me with my little ones and they'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it goes so fast. Don't blink. You're so lucky. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I have tons of time before

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<v Speaker 1>they're teenagers. It really goes really quickly, that's what you're hearing.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like the newborn time goes so fast, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you blink in their wand and then they're like walking

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<v Speaker 1>and talking, and then it's kindergarten and I'm like, wait

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<v Speaker 1>when they're eighteen and then they're changing your diapers and

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<v Speaker 1>then you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, like, am I the only one who doesn't like

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<v Speaker 2>being pregnant? It's not my favorite thing? But I like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really like, it's it's a meaning.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved it. I'm really excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy. I'm not like, what the hell was I thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so stoked, But it's just I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I don't know if it was like expectation versus

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<v Speaker 2>reality or what it was, or or maybe it's just

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<v Speaker 2>my age too, like it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Harder or different, and I don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it. It's weird. It's very it's much better now.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, so, I'm speaking more of like the

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<v Speaker 2>beginning of my pregnancy, but it wasn't really.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the whole sick thing. I think it was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of like anxiety. And then when I had people

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<v Speaker 2>start asking me like, oh, are you afraid of giving birth?

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<v Speaker 1>Or like are you scared of labor? I'm like, well

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of wasn't and now I'm having Yeah, now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm freaking out a little bit. Yeah. And then people

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<v Speaker 1>go deeper than that and they're like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you worried You're going to poop on the table? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I hear it all the time. Yeah. The first time

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<v Speaker 1>someone said that to me, I was like, Nope, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know about that. Is that a thing?

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<v Speaker 2>And it is apparently a thing? Well you would know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it is a thing. I'm like, okay, I mean that's

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<v Speaker 2>the worst that happens during giving birth, Like, God bless it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine with me. Oh my gosh, No, I had

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<v Speaker 1>mine ended up being c sections, but I had that fear.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, like that's crazy. Yeah, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>weird thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a lot of Strangely, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>everyone gets pregnant and then they always have pregnant friends,

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<v Speaker 2>but I actually do have like a lot of pregnant friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, and a handful of.

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<v Speaker 2>Them are all sea section moms because they either were

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<v Speaker 2>the first one or that's what they're choosing, or they

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<v Speaker 2>need to or whatever it is. Most of them, it

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<v Speaker 2>was a long labor first pregnancy ended up in an

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<v Speaker 2>emergency sea section. So then I'm talking to my doctor like,

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<v Speaker 2>do I just want to do that or is that

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<v Speaker 2>not a good idea? And he's like, obviously, no, surgery

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<v Speaker 2>is always like if you can just choose that, He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>but totally, if that's what you want, whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, maybe it's just that, I don't know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just very wild.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole experience. Well I never did it the natural way,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know. But sea sections are brutal, Like

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<v Speaker 1>the recovery is really brutal. It's yeah, it's a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know how many kids you guys want,

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<v Speaker 1>but once you do two C sections, the rest have

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<v Speaker 1>to be right. Yeah, I mean, if which I didn't know,

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<v Speaker 1>or I would have done the feedback. Oh interesting, I

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<v Speaker 1>think so, just I don't know. You're like, who knows,

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<v Speaker 1>but almost all your friends have kids. Yeah, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're all like turning four in the next three months.

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<v Speaker 2>All of the girls like that that we're on the

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<v Speaker 2>show that are all my friends, and then yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>handful of friends I have that are about to give birth.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm very lucky in that way because I think

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<v Speaker 2>before like the pandemic and all of my friends having

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<v Speaker 2>babies during the pandemic, I had not been around like

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<v Speaker 2>a newborn or like helped care for a newborn in

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<v Speaker 2>so many years. Like my niece and nephew are adults.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, oh my god, this is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be really wild. But now I feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>just have so much hands on experience and being able

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<v Speaker 2>to watch my friends like go through their pregnancies or

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<v Speaker 2>raise their babies, like it becomes that part of it

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<v Speaker 2>and made it a lot less scary for me because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, I'm literally a bit like hands on

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<v Speaker 2>watching my friends have no idea, and they're like, it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just comes to you. It just comes. Just just it'll happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what about breastfeeding, I don't know what I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, it'll just you'll just know. Just don't take

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<v Speaker 1>advice from anybody. No, people always give me advice. I know, no,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why when people are like, give me advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, nope, it's such an individualized experience in each

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy that I never And that's always the big thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you get this all the time, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>is Brittany giving you advice? Like for me, they'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you're nine to two and o castmates giving advice?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, yeah, Britain, That's the thing I've asked,

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<v Speaker 2>especially Brittany like a lot. Only advice I would say

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<v Speaker 2>she's ever given me is like, don't waste money on

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<v Speaker 2>shoes when they're newborns, Kristin, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to is to write a passage.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she probably bought her son CRUs like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>pairs of air Jordans that were like new size, and

0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.800
<v Speaker 2>she goes that was the biggest waste of money. However,

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<v Speaker 2>she's already bought my daughter her first two pairs, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, perfect because they become an art collection.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, That's what I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Her closet's full, Like I didn't know her furniture yet

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<v Speaker 2>and her closet is backed.

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<v Speaker 1>Really I'm really excited. I just love that. So I

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<v Speaker 1>have to say I have watched you on vander Pump

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<v Speaker 1>Rules originally and I used to love your hair, like

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<v Speaker 1>I used to love your look, your short hair. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you'll ever cut it again?

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<v Speaker 2>If I get really skinny again, then I would like

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<v Speaker 2>my girl. My friend Rihanna cut my hair out that

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<v Speaker 2>long ago, and she was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, okay, what are we doing? And I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting my extensions, my longer ones put back in, but

0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:10.360
<v Speaker 1>like I just need some shape or something. And we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about my pregnancy and she was like, don't fucking

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<v Speaker 1>cut all your hair off. I will kill you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do not cut all your hair off until you get

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<v Speaker 2>really skinny. Like you're not wrong, that's yeah. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>like so maybe one day, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, your hair is just dark and short,

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<v Speaker 1>like I used to like, girl crush on you all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Thank you so much. Yeah, Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>into girls, but when I used to watch that show,

0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, oh, if I were ever to make

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<v Speaker 1>out with a girl, that's my vibe and it was

0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:45.680
<v Speaker 1>your look. Yeah, oh my gosh, way to make me blush. Yeah,

0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I think if I could. If I God, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Why I don't know why it keeps going on. It's

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<v Speaker 1>literally like toy podcast. Okay now, we're all done with alarms.

0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't like my pregnancy brain. Oh that's real, by

0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:02.760
<v Speaker 1>the way, Oh, pregnancy brain is so real. Never goes away,

0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.320
<v Speaker 1>never Like that is just I feel like I'm just

0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.520
<v Speaker 1>giving you bad news to im, like worried about pooping

0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:12.040
<v Speaker 1>on the table. Pregnancy Brain's never going away. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>real real though, you know, fugar coating show you. When

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<v Speaker 1>I did get advice was breastfeeding. I never could get

0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:23.240
<v Speaker 1>them to like latch on. So my friends would come

0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:25.720
<v Speaker 1>over and they bring like a beer because you're supposed

0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:30.680
<v Speaker 1>to have one beer to get the milk flowing. Amazing

0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:34.200
<v Speaker 1>love that. Yeah, So I did take that advice because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I don't know how to do this. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally like I don't know what and they'll like

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<v Speaker 1>show you in the hospital and then they just like

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<v Speaker 1>let you free into the world and You're like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what to do here there with the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, can I take one of you home with

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<v Speaker 2>me and to like teach me the ways? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fully planning on having a night nurse because I

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<v Speaker 2>need the assistance.

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<v Speaker 1>I fought against that, you did, yeah, because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to. I was like Oh, that's so bougie, and

0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:07.200
<v Speaker 1>like people expect me to have that, so I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to have that. I did have it, and she's

0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:14.719
<v Speaker 1>still like part of our family, Like it saved my life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what it was.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I really want to like find someone that

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<v Speaker 2>I can carry with us for like at least a

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<v Speaker 2>period of time.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously I don't know what. I don't know, but I

0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:26.520
<v Speaker 1>do know me and.

0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:31.960
<v Speaker 2>I know like I'm mostly just nervous about being nervous,

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<v Speaker 2>like of being unsure. So if I just have that

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<v Speaker 2>like you're doing it right, it's fine. Type of a

0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:41.480
<v Speaker 2>type of a cheerleader right there, or like a teach

0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:49.520
<v Speaker 2>me cheerleader, that'll be really helpful.

0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:55.480
<v Speaker 1>The best thing is to you'll see your fiance change

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<v Speaker 1>her poop for the first time and knows be like, yep,

0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:05.440
<v Speaker 1>you're welcome, yeah, because it's so funny the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>They're just like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked him that the other day because he Luke

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I think we should take a baby class,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, what people still do that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, And I was like, what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>Mamma's I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I was literally thinking back to like full house, like

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<v Speaker 2>family matters.

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<v Speaker 1>Dace so like Lama's classes on like sitcoms in the nineties,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what kind of class do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to take? He's like, I don't know, just like one

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<v Speaker 1>that teaches me things. But I'm like, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>how to change a diaper?

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<v Speaker 2>He goes, well, yeah, I mean it's been probably like

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<v Speaker 2>six or seven years.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, but you have changed a diaper before?

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<v Speaker 1>He said he has six or seven years ago. Who's

0:18:48.560 --> 0:18:53.680
<v Speaker 1>diapers a nephew? Okay, But I'm like, you didn't live there,

0:18:54.000 --> 0:18:56.800
<v Speaker 1>have you. Now? I'm like, has he actually changed a diaper?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, don't shame, I know he probably yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it's just like with little girls. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a whole new world for even us women when

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<v Speaker 1>we are changing it. And I just remember we used

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<v Speaker 1>to call it poop up the puss because yeah, the

0:19:17.600 --> 0:19:19.439
<v Speaker 1>poop just comes to the diaper and goes up and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, whoa, I'm cleaning from front to back, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on here?

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<v Speaker 2>Or then just a little swipe like you really got

0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.200
<v Speaker 2>to get it there. But I feel so I always

0:19:29.280 --> 0:19:31.479
<v Speaker 2>wanted boys. I don't know why that was just like

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<v Speaker 2>I think because you're.

0:19:32.520 --> 0:19:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Such a girl's girl. Yeah, and I say that as

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<v Speaker 1>a fan.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't the easiest, Like I'm number two of three,

0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.359
<v Speaker 2>I have an older sister, younger brother, And I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>like a bad kid, like I didn't get in like

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<v Speaker 2>real real trouble, but like I was very sassy, mouthy,

0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:57.440
<v Speaker 2>like insubordinate, like snuck out, like like very rebel without

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<v Speaker 2>a cause, like I want to wear blue lipstick and

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<v Speaker 2>ca the necklaces and chains at like twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, my mom's like, what the fuck's going on?

0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:08.720
<v Speaker 2>Changing my identity every three seconds. So I was really

0:20:08.760 --> 0:20:10.840
<v Speaker 2>nervous about having a girl. So I'm like, I just

0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:12.679
<v Speaker 2>want two boys. That's all I want, is like two

0:20:12.760 --> 0:20:14.879
<v Speaker 2>boys and call it a day. And then when I

0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:18.199
<v Speaker 2>found out I was pregnant with her, I'm like, you

0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:21.760
<v Speaker 2>know what, there's no one better suited on this planet to.

0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Raise a little me than me. I have this on lockdown.

0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:30.080
<v Speaker 2>I know exactly what to do with her, Like if

0:20:30.080 --> 0:20:31.960
<v Speaker 2>she's exactly.

0:20:31.560 --> 0:20:36.240
<v Speaker 1>Like me, hopefully she's like too. But so you're a

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<v Speaker 1>middle child. Yeah that explained a lot from viewing you

0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:44.800
<v Speaker 1>on the show. Oh yeah, like to a tea absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like you're a people pleaser? Yes, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just I have these like different facets where I'm

0:20:52.560 --> 0:20:57.040
<v Speaker 2>there is that like one of my old executive producers

0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:59.080
<v Speaker 2>used to be like called me a rubble a lot,

0:20:59.119 --> 0:20:59.360
<v Speaker 2>and he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, you just don't fucking care. He's like, you

0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:02.119
<v Speaker 1>really don't.

0:21:02.119 --> 0:21:05.320
<v Speaker 2>He's like because he goes I as just like a person,

0:21:05.320 --> 0:21:05.920
<v Speaker 2>not a producer.

0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:08.040
<v Speaker 1>He goes, I care what people think. He's like, you

0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:09.200
<v Speaker 1>really don't fucking care.

0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:11.639
<v Speaker 2>So I have that part of me that's really like

0:21:11.840 --> 0:21:15.399
<v Speaker 2>social justice, like I'm gonna bring you know, like I

0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:18.919
<v Speaker 2>need a cause to fight for and like damn the man,

0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:20.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna bring that person down, and like I'm gonna

0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:23.520
<v Speaker 2>lift up the underdog. So I have that part, but

0:21:23.560 --> 0:21:26.760
<v Speaker 2>then I also am very much a people pleaser.

0:21:27.760 --> 0:21:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Well I wish I had I'm a people pleaser, but

0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:33.320
<v Speaker 1>I wish I had that other side where more of

0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:37.360
<v Speaker 1>a fighter. Yeah, it's just it's only or I wish

0:21:37.400 --> 0:21:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I had a friend like you. Yeah, I'll fight people

0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:43.919
<v Speaker 1>for you don't. Like metaphorically speaking, I'm not like a

0:21:43.920 --> 0:21:48.240
<v Speaker 1>fist kind of girl anymore. But yeah, I just stay

0:21:48.280 --> 0:21:53.440
<v Speaker 1>anymore anymore. Got into a fight before. Not with a girl, No,

0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:59.200
<v Speaker 1>never with a boy. Oh my Pools is bad. Yeah,

0:21:59.240 --> 0:22:01.719
<v Speaker 1>it's it's like I don't really fight people on my

0:22:01.800 --> 0:22:07.800
<v Speaker 1>own behalf, like I don't care, like like it's so

0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:08.480
<v Speaker 1>boring to me.

0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:11.640
<v Speaker 2>But if you come after like my friends, my family,

0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:15.639
<v Speaker 2>my man, like you come after anything like that, like

0:22:15.760 --> 0:22:18.119
<v Speaker 2>that's it, Like you've now crossed the line. And I'm

0:22:18.200 --> 0:22:22.159
<v Speaker 2>just it's like, that's why I feel like I've always

0:22:22.359 --> 0:22:24.040
<v Speaker 2>meant to be a mom. I have this like mama

0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:28.320
<v Speaker 2>bear mentality, like I will protect at all costs and

0:22:28.320 --> 0:22:31.000
<v Speaker 2>I will win, like I will always win that battle.

0:22:31.760 --> 0:22:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Right because you already with your friend group, you already

0:22:34.160 --> 0:22:37.440
<v Speaker 1>do it again. I'm talking like I know you wait,

0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:43.560
<v Speaker 1>that's this feels so weird. I love reality TV so much,

0:22:44.600 --> 0:22:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Like honestly, like an A list movie star could walk

0:22:47.560 --> 0:22:49.560
<v Speaker 1>by and I'd be like, I don't care if it's

0:22:49.600 --> 0:22:53.359
<v Speaker 1>Brad Pitt, like George Clooney, whatever, but anyone that's on

0:22:53.400 --> 0:22:57.720
<v Speaker 1>a reality TV show, I'm like, oh, yeah, when you

0:22:57.760 --> 0:23:03.159
<v Speaker 1>did it, did it change your perception at all? A

0:23:03.200 --> 0:23:07.120
<v Speaker 1>little bit? Yeah? A little bit? But each show's so different.

0:23:07.680 --> 0:23:12.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh true, So but I definitely, you know, have watched

0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:18.399
<v Speaker 1>your shows, and I'm trying to piece together like not

0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:20.439
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say not real because we know

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:21.640
<v Speaker 1>everything's real, but.

0:23:24.400 --> 0:23:27.080
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean everything isn't always real because you can't.

0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:29.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean I will say everything I do and say

0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:33.159
<v Speaker 2>is very real. Just logistically, they have to plan stuff.

0:23:33.200 --> 0:23:35.600
<v Speaker 1>People. I think people think that like, oh, they just

0:23:35.640 --> 0:23:38.360
<v Speaker 1>happen to like walk into this restaurant, sit down and eat.

0:23:38.400 --> 0:23:41.120
<v Speaker 1>It's like no, they have to producers have to call

0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:44.240
<v Speaker 1>the restaurant and like get yeah they do. Yeah.

0:23:44.280 --> 0:23:46.239
<v Speaker 2>People do kind of think that like there's just like, oh,

0:23:46.240 --> 0:23:48.159
<v Speaker 2>they're just following us down the street, but they didn't,

0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:51.199
<v Speaker 2>like as if it's like a one shot show. But

0:23:51.240 --> 0:23:54.680
<v Speaker 2>then they just cut those in between. You're like, no,

0:23:55.040 --> 0:23:58.600
<v Speaker 2>it's not like twenty four to seven. That's a good point.

0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:00.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't think people do really said like we don't

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:03.479
<v Speaker 2>want to ruin the magic for you. But there are

0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:06.200
<v Speaker 2>amazing crews that also have to work on this show

0:24:06.240 --> 0:24:07.480
<v Speaker 2>that they do a lot.

0:24:08.680 --> 0:24:12.359
<v Speaker 1>For sure. Definitely, I just feel like, yeah, I would

0:24:12.359 --> 0:24:16.679
<v Speaker 1>never have survived your show, like I would have been terrified.

0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:19.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't think a lot of people wish to be

0:24:19.359 --> 0:24:21.280
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, that's why I always said, like the

0:24:21.320 --> 0:24:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Real Housewives, I couldn't. I don't think I could do that. Like,

0:24:24.760 --> 0:24:27.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, they all sit at these dinner parties and

0:24:27.240 --> 0:24:29.960
<v Speaker 1>like attack each other, and I'm like, oh, I don't

0:24:29.960 --> 0:24:30.800
<v Speaker 1>think I could do that.

0:24:31.080 --> 0:24:32.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I could ever do Housewives, Like they

0:24:32.960 --> 0:24:36.760
<v Speaker 2>scared me too, Like it just general is an overhaul

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:41.560
<v Speaker 2>and I don't know it just it's not my thing

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:45.399
<v Speaker 2>to just be like full blown on attack.

0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I attack the people who attack. That's

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:49.120
<v Speaker 1>the that's.

0:24:50.800 --> 0:24:54.240
<v Speaker 2>Like if you're attacking people and being like unnecessarily cruel

0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:58.119
<v Speaker 2>or mean or rude or or something like that, Like

0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 2>that's when I go on the attack and I'm like, Okay,

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:02.520
<v Speaker 2>let's bring you down a few notches.

0:25:03.920 --> 0:25:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, wait, can I ask you a question?

0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 1>When the Valley started, how did that? Like? Who was

0:25:09.520 --> 0:25:13.720
<v Speaker 1>the first? It was Jackson Brittany that moved first. Okay, yeah,

0:25:13.760 --> 0:25:18.920
<v Speaker 1>they did move first. It was all within within months,

0:25:19.000 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 1>within like four months.

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:24.359
<v Speaker 2>It was like Jackson Brittany, I think, then Tom and Ariana,

0:25:24.560 --> 0:25:28.439
<v Speaker 2>and then Tom and Katie and then we in twenty nineteen.

0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:29.680
<v Speaker 2>We all moved within a span.

0:25:29.560 --> 0:25:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Of like four months. But not to do the show

0:25:33.600 --> 0:25:36.840
<v Speaker 1>the Valley because you guys orally you want it to move.

0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:39.600
<v Speaker 2>That was just during that was still during the vander

0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Pump Rules, like pre pandemic, it was okay, okay, I

0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:46.879
<v Speaker 2>think it was like, yeah, it was like Brittany was

0:25:47.000 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 2>about to get pregnant. I think it was just at

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 2>the point like we could all afford it, and it

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:54.760
<v Speaker 2>was like when what if this doesn't last forever? Like

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:57.159
<v Speaker 2>what if this show doesn't which the show's not going

0:25:57.240 --> 0:26:00.280
<v Speaker 2>to last forever, like and these opportunities we need to

0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:03.160
<v Speaker 2>like really take this and do something smart with our money,

0:26:03.200 --> 0:26:05.639
<v Speaker 2>and like why are we still renting in West Hollywood?

0:26:05.960 --> 0:26:09.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I never did that. I was never smart. It

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:10.080
<v Speaker 1>was hard.

0:26:10.119 --> 0:26:13.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean I did it by myself, which was really difficult,

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:15.800
<v Speaker 2>and I think it was I mean, I know everything,

0:26:15.920 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I will truly believe everything happens for a reason. But

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:21.199
<v Speaker 2>I think my one regret in my adult life was

0:26:21.280 --> 0:26:24.280
<v Speaker 2>letting my house go, like selling my house. I think

0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:26.520
<v Speaker 2>I should have kept it, but I was dating someone

0:26:26.520 --> 0:26:29.320
<v Speaker 2>at the time who like had his own house, and

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:33.000
<v Speaker 2>it was like I lost my job on Vanner Pumt

0:26:33.080 --> 0:26:34.920
<v Speaker 2>and it was like, well, this just probably makes more sense.

0:26:35.000 --> 0:26:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Let's just sell it and move in with you. And

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:37.600
<v Speaker 1>then it was like six.

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:41.120
<v Speaker 2>Months later we broke up and I was searching for

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:42.240
<v Speaker 2>a little apartment again.

0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:44.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh god, here we go back to square one.

0:26:44.880 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 1>I think that was like, yeah, the things we do

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:54.760
<v Speaker 1>for boys, oh boys, not so so your engagement will

0:26:54.800 --> 0:26:57.119
<v Speaker 1>that be shown? I have boys, not men. I always

0:26:57.119 --> 0:27:00.520
<v Speaker 1>call them boys. I never call them men men, but

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 1>I call us girls. I don't say women. Yeah we

0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>are girls. That's true. Okay, I don't know, it just

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:09.359
<v Speaker 1>feels cute. But will your engagement be on this season?

0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Season two? Yeah, I'm very excited.

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 2>I've seen like a tiny little smidgeon of a clip

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 2>of just like the camera angles and the lighting and

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 2>that kind of thing, and it's so pretty. It's so beautiful,

0:27:23.640 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 2>and I mean it's on the trailer. The only thing

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 2>I hate, Like it's on the trailer in the very beginning,

0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:32.119
<v Speaker 2>and the first thing I say is oh fuck. I

0:27:32.200 --> 0:27:35.879
<v Speaker 2>was like that's so real, Like why Kristin, Like why

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 2>wasn't it this like bachelor moment of like oh in

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:43.320
<v Speaker 2>the ring and like all the fairy fairy tale book

0:27:43.359 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 2>type things.

0:27:43.840 --> 0:27:44.119
<v Speaker 1>See. No.

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 2>My response was like I turn around, having no idea

0:27:47.119 --> 0:27:49.960
<v Speaker 2>that he's sat on one knee on a boat and I'm.

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 1>Just like it, just like that's so romantic. Good job, Kristen.

0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 1>Of course me like knowing reality TV, I was like

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:02.720
<v Speaker 1>screenshotting it zooming in like no she does, Like you

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 1>can always tell them. People are like I had no

0:28:04.440 --> 0:28:06.400
<v Speaker 1>idea it was happening. And then they have like beautiful

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:11.200
<v Speaker 1>nails done and like so much glam socially on TV shows. Yeah,

0:28:11.240 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you look natural and great, and

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, she had no idea.

0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Wow, No, I mean literally it was. I mean, well,

0:28:18.240 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 2>this will kind of be on the show too, but

0:28:19.680 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 2>it was. We were on a fishing boat. So in

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 2>my mind, I'm like, I'm not even putting makeup on,

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 2>Like we're doing a fishing boat. Like I'm I'm not,

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:31.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm vegetarian, I don't fish. My fiance excuse me. My

0:28:31.280 --> 0:28:33.600
<v Speaker 2>fiance is like such a fisherman. And in my mind

0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:38.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm picturing like Bubba Gump shrimp from fourth like just

0:28:38.640 --> 0:28:40.440
<v Speaker 2>fish guts all over the like.

0:28:40.600 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we what was it? It was like a yacht.

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 2>It was like a nice boat with like fishing poles,

0:28:46.120 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 2>like okay, it screwed into it or whatever. So I

0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:51.240
<v Speaker 2>but I didn't know, and I'm like why when I

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:55.520
<v Speaker 2>get cute, And even though we had just gotten to Hawaii,

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:59.920
<v Speaker 2>one of my nails came off, so I'm like, great,

0:29:00.120 --> 0:29:03.640
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't my left hand, luckily. But I'm just like, think, okay,

0:29:03.640 --> 0:29:05.560
<v Speaker 2>so let me glue this one on, not the same

0:29:05.600 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 2>color whatever. And there were just so many little things

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:12.160
<v Speaker 2>that were happening that you'll see on the show that

0:29:12.280 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 2>are very much proved, Like I had no idea what

0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:18.280
<v Speaker 2>was going on, and it blows my mind because everyone

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:20.600
<v Speaker 2>calls me Detective Doughty, like how did I not see

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:21.000
<v Speaker 2>this car?

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:24.160
<v Speaker 1>How did I not? Because it pertained your life, not

0:29:24.280 --> 0:29:25.840
<v Speaker 1>other people, right.

0:29:25.680 --> 0:29:27.520
<v Speaker 2>I mean there were times like I would go through

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:30.560
<v Speaker 2>his bag to like look for something, and the ring

0:29:30.600 --> 0:29:33.360
<v Speaker 2>would be the rings in there, Like I didn't know

0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 2>to look for a ring.

0:29:34.160 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 1>Why would I even.

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 2>Think of you know what I mean. So it's like

0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:38.160
<v Speaker 2>it didn't even occur to me. It never hen know, Well,

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:39.800
<v Speaker 2>how did you pass over a ring box?

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:42.680
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't. I wasn't looking for it. I was looking

0:29:42.680 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 1>for something else. And so in hindsight, I'm like, what

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 1>are you looking for? So many signs we went to

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:51.800
<v Speaker 1>the pictures. We went to visit his grandma one day

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>and like he's like, oh, where are those pictures at

0:29:54.680 --> 0:29:56.320
<v Speaker 1>that my mom gave us. I'm like, I'll go to

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 1>the car. So I'm like ripping through every bag looking

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 1>for these and the ring in Orleans. But he had

0:30:02.680 --> 0:30:06.040
<v Speaker 1>a box. But I didn't see the box. And if

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I would have saw a box, it, says Kyle chan

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>On it a ring box, I would have known in

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:20.840
<v Speaker 1>a heartbeat. Oh my gosh. Wait, I'm fascinated that you

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 1>got engaged on a fishing truck. Wait had you fished

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:27.239
<v Speaker 1>already or No? I mean I didn't fish at all.

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 1>It was just a roost. Yeah. Yeah, it was like

0:30:30.960 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 1>for him, like he really wanted to go and we had.

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:37.720
<v Speaker 1>I love fishing. You, Oh, Luke's favorite thing in the

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 1>entire world. What does he fish? Like? What kind of fish? Yeah?

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Like big ass fish or like yeah, I mean ocean's lakes.

0:30:48.360 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 1>Sea fishing where you get like the huge.

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:53.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean he has before. I mean he grew

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 2>up around lakes, so that was mostly what he did.

0:30:56.840 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, at for his birthday, I got or not

0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:00.840
<v Speaker 2>for his birthday for since I got him like a

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:03.800
<v Speaker 2>fishing trip down and like Coasta Mesa and he's.

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Just like, however, I bring his vibe into La. Oh

0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 1>my god, poor guy. He has no idea. He's not

0:31:13.000 --> 0:31:15.720
<v Speaker 1>going to be fishing for a really long time. So

0:31:15.760 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 1>I hope he does a lot of it now. Yeah,

0:31:19.400 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I know Elie is really hard for him.

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 2>He's not like the biggest fan, but he's been such

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:27.120
<v Speaker 2>a trooper and like sticking with it and the show

0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 2>and like my life and having the baby here and

0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:32.840
<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm like, we're not we don't have to

0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:35.560
<v Speaker 2>be here forever, but it's it's a right now thing.

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:38.840
<v Speaker 2>And I love that we have Colorado, like we'll always

0:31:38.840 --> 0:31:41.160
<v Speaker 2>have Colorado. We want to have property and maybe like

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:45.040
<v Speaker 2>Tennessee or something I think would be really great for us.

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 1>So on the show, I'm like, back to the show.

0:31:50.840 --> 0:31:53.840
<v Speaker 1>You don't get to see it typically right before it airs,

0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 1>or that's not true, like a day before before everyone

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:03.680
<v Speaker 1>else sees it. Oh, I've just because I didn't know

0:32:03.720 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 1>if that was a Bravo thing, because I've heard House

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 1>WHOI I've say before like I didn't even know until

0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I saw it on No, that's not true.

0:32:10.920 --> 0:32:13.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean people want to I mean, they'll send

0:32:13.680 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 2>it to us like the day before so we're like aware, or.

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 1>If we're doing press or something like that. And some

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 1>people just don't watch it like I watch it and

0:32:22.520 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I meticulously like go through every scene like what happened?

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 1>What did they say? What did I say? Oh? God?

0:32:30.080 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>So what is it like going through an episode and

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden you see somebody just give you

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:43.400
<v Speaker 1>a shade like someone said something. Oh that's the that's

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:45.880
<v Speaker 1>the crazy part. It's like do you wait till it airs?

0:32:45.920 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you call that person before and be like, uh,

0:32:48.040 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 1>what the fuck? For me?

0:32:49.880 --> 0:32:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Personally after all these years, Like I don't take stuff

0:32:52.080 --> 0:32:54.760
<v Speaker 2>like that really personally because I know if I'm friends

0:32:54.760 --> 0:32:57.960
<v Speaker 2>with them now and that happened, then I hope they're

0:32:58.000 --> 0:33:01.479
<v Speaker 2>at least funny about the shade, you know, like be funny,

0:33:01.520 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Like if you're going to insult me, just like make

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:08.120
<v Speaker 2>it a good one liner, make it memorable, make.

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>It TV gold. Yeah. But and if it's somebody that

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not friends with, it's like, okay, no back pocket reunion,

0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:22.959
<v Speaker 1>gotcha get reunions that those seem like such high pressure

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:26.840
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to be so extremely pregnant when you

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:30.479
<v Speaker 1>do the reunion. Yeah, my friend and I both well,

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 1>we're about a week apart.

0:33:33.080 --> 0:33:35.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, we're going to be there like nine

0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 2>months pregnant.

0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's actually it'll be better because you won't

0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:43.600
<v Speaker 1>give two fucks because you'll be like, exactly, you know

0:33:43.640 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing here and creating. I don't give a

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:48.719
<v Speaker 1>fuck what you're saying about me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:51.280
<v Speaker 1>batter and like no one is gonna bother me, Like

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 1>what are you even talking about? Like I literally have

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 1>a baby cooking inside of me right now, Like you're

0:33:56.840 --> 0:34:01.000
<v Speaker 1>so not important. Yeah, but also you're like sacred ground.

0:34:01.040 --> 0:34:04.640
<v Speaker 1>They can't really say bad things to you, can I

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, they would be pretty fucking evil if they did.

0:34:06.720 --> 0:34:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have a beat my little crystals, like a

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:13.239
<v Speaker 1>little a little speaker for music when I'm getting like,

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:18.799
<v Speaker 1>you're a good girl, don't worry, she's strong. Oh my gosh,

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys have a name picked out. I won't ask it,

0:34:20.560 --> 0:34:25.480
<v Speaker 1>but yes, that you agreed on. Oh yeah, before before

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 1>I even got pregner, we knew her name. We didn't

0:34:29.080 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 1>have a boy name for sure, but we had her name.

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:38.720
<v Speaker 2>Interesting, And I now know why people don't tell people names,

0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 2>because I did that. My friend's closest friends and family

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:44.120
<v Speaker 2>do know her name. But when we were toying with

0:34:44.280 --> 0:34:48.840
<v Speaker 2>boy names, and I trusted a few really like my

0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 2>best friends, Like these are like a few of the

0:34:51.400 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 2>ones we picked out.

0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I had one of.

0:34:52.920 --> 0:34:56.960
<v Speaker 2>My girlfriends, Rachel, call her out and she was like,

0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 2>what's the name for the boy? And I the name

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:02.920
<v Speaker 2>and she goes, he sounds like an asshole, And I'm like,

0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:04.440
<v Speaker 2>and this is why people.

0:35:04.160 --> 0:35:08.760
<v Speaker 1>Don't tell people names. It's true, or they'll be like, oh,

0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>my worst boyfriend had that name or like that. I mean,

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:16.520
<v Speaker 1>you can't win. So how wait, how often do you

0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 1>guys do your podcast? We did it once a week,

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:23.439
<v Speaker 1>once a week, but it's pretty much me. I'm I've

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 1>pretty much taken it over now or just kind of

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 1>the rebrand. It's just we were having so much fun

0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:32.759
<v Speaker 1>doing it together, and I think for the sake of

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 1>like our relationship and especially with the baby in the

0:35:36.680 --> 0:35:39.279
<v Speaker 1>house and just like all these things and shooting the show,

0:35:39.760 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 1>it was a lot for us to do together and

0:35:43.160 --> 0:35:45.680
<v Speaker 1>it's it kind of Luke was like, really good.

0:35:45.800 --> 0:35:47.319
<v Speaker 2>I feel like he has such a great voice for

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.719
<v Speaker 2>it and He's like so fun to talk to, but

0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 2>it like it's not really his thing, like the stuff

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:56.280
<v Speaker 2>that I like to talk about. It's just not like

0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:59.480
<v Speaker 2>like the chatty conversations with my friends or just with

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:02.839
<v Speaker 2>anyone about especially pop culture or anything like that, just

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 2>like not really his jam. So I've just taken over

0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:08.760
<v Speaker 2>and I think that's starting. We're kind of like figuring

0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:10.879
<v Speaker 2>that part out, like does this work better for us

0:36:10.960 --> 0:36:12.319
<v Speaker 2>or does this work better for us?

0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:17.080
<v Speaker 1>Right? I think me stealing it works a little bit

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:19.759
<v Speaker 1>better for us. You're gonna love having that podcast when

0:36:19.800 --> 0:36:22.479
<v Speaker 1>you have a newborn. It's going to be great because

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:26.520
<v Speaker 1>you have to leave. Do you do it from home? Yes? Yeah,

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 1>it's yeah, that's going to be saving grace. When I

0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 1>had mine, there were no podcasts, so because I know

0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 1>during my pregnancies, whenever the show wasn't filming, there was

0:36:38.560 --> 0:36:41.520
<v Speaker 1>always a discussion like, well, are we going to just

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:45.000
<v Speaker 1>come in and have some footage in case there's a

0:36:45.040 --> 0:36:49.719
<v Speaker 1>season three, which there will be, but yes, oh that's yes. Yeah, No,

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 1>so the meaning about this season three or I mean,

0:36:52.239 --> 0:36:56.320
<v Speaker 1>we never know until we know, we're meaning they're smart

0:36:56.520 --> 0:36:59.200
<v Speaker 1>to get footage filmed anything with me?

0:37:01.360 --> 0:37:04.360
<v Speaker 2>Who can I call I know, it's it's crazy. Like

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 2>we said when we wrapped season two, it was like

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:09.759
<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, I got pregnant. My friend Nia

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 2>got pregnant. My friend Jasmine who's on the show, she

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 2>and her girlfriend got engaged, and I was like, this

0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 2>whole year just is flying right by with all of

0:37:18.640 --> 0:37:20.160
<v Speaker 2>these pieces.

0:37:20.800 --> 0:37:24.520
<v Speaker 1>No, so it's it's you know, on a season.

0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:27.279
<v Speaker 2>Three, you know, hopefully it'll go from like I just

0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:30.280
<v Speaker 2>got engaged and now I have like a newborn baby.

0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:36.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, we'll take lots of personal footage. I

0:37:36.280 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 1>have a lot. They're gonna want that in season three,

0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:41.960
<v Speaker 1>although I really think they should be just sending a

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 1>crew with you around, just a small crew, I know, little,

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:49.920
<v Speaker 1>especially to the hospital, maybe not the hospital, on the

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:54.320
<v Speaker 1>way from the hospital, like when you bring the baby

0:37:54.320 --> 0:37:59.000
<v Speaker 1>home for the first time. Like yeah, I'm so excited.

0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm more excited I'm nervous, for sure, Like way more

0:38:03.000 --> 0:38:05.080
<v Speaker 1>excited than I am nervous. But there's still a little

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>bit of like what are we doing? And I never

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I always thought i'd be so much.

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Younger, but I feel like I've lived I've lived a life,

0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:17.200
<v Speaker 2>and I think that that's really great, Like I've lived so.

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Much of a life that now I have all this time.

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:25.600
<v Speaker 2>And like much more maturity about me and like life,

0:38:26.200 --> 0:38:28.840
<v Speaker 2>you know, just life lessons that I've lived and to

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:32.359
<v Speaker 2>be able to be a better mom to her, and then.

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:36.400
<v Speaker 1>We'll live my other adult life, you know, when she's grown.

0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>That's true. Okay, So the process you did, what was

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 1>the name you said, I I I Yeah, so auasca

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:47.040
<v Speaker 1>a ahuasca?

0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:53.040
<v Speaker 2>We so, yeah, So we first started with just hormones,

0:38:53.080 --> 0:38:54.880
<v Speaker 2>like I was going to try just doing hormones, and

0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:57.120
<v Speaker 2>then we were going to try to concede naturally, and

0:38:57.160 --> 0:38:59.240
<v Speaker 2>they just say that IUI gives you like an extra

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:02.240
<v Speaker 2>I think fifteen or twenty percent chance of it working.

0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 2>So essentially it's just Luke gives his sample at the

0:39:06.960 --> 0:39:09.600
<v Speaker 2>doctor's office and they do what they call it spin

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:13.840
<v Speaker 2>and clean the sperm, and then my doctor injects it

0:39:13.960 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 2>right into my cervix.

0:39:15.880 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, okay, that's it.

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 2>We're basically we're just not having sex to conceive the baby,

0:39:21.280 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 2>got it.

0:39:22.440 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 1>So there was no freezing of your eggs or anything. No, not. Yeah,

0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 1>we didn't have to get to that point, thank god.

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:31.360
<v Speaker 2>I mean, that was really possible, and in the cards,

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:33.000
<v Speaker 2>like we were just trying, like, okay, so if we

0:39:33.040 --> 0:39:35.840
<v Speaker 2>try the hormones first and that doesn't work.

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Then we'll try UI. But we decided just to go.

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 2>For it and then if EUI didn't work, we were

0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:43.319
<v Speaker 2>planning on giving it a second go, and then if

0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 2>that didn't work, then we were going to.

0:39:44.840 --> 0:39:48.439
<v Speaker 1>Have to, you know, move forward with like Okay, maybe

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 1>it's IBS.

0:39:50.000 --> 0:39:51.919
<v Speaker 2>So that's why I'm a little nervous about my having

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:54.439
<v Speaker 2>a second because I've never wanted just to have one,

0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Like I've never wanted an only child because we both

0:39:57.400 --> 0:39:58.959
<v Speaker 2>like Luke has three siblings.

0:39:58.680 --> 0:39:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I have two.

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:03.560
<v Speaker 2>But and like with my age, like I hopefully we

0:40:03.680 --> 0:40:06.280
<v Speaker 2>can you know, conceive another child.

0:40:06.560 --> 0:40:09.320
<v Speaker 1>Fingers crossed. I feel like you should freeze your eggs.

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like every woman should freeze her eggs. I

0:40:12.520 --> 0:40:14.960
<v Speaker 1>agree with that now, And no one teaches you that

0:40:15.080 --> 0:40:17.600
<v Speaker 1>when you're young, because it's not even like sometimes not

0:40:17.640 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 1>even age thing. It's just shit happens, and it's just

0:40:20.800 --> 0:40:23.800
<v Speaker 1>would have been nice to have that choice of taking

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 1>some and freezing just to have it you never have

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:29.520
<v Speaker 1>to use them. Yep.

0:40:30.440 --> 0:40:32.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have a few friends like she I remember

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:36.920
<v Speaker 2>watching she know go through it, and it kind of

0:40:37.560 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, we were younger, but it made me nervous

0:40:40.719 --> 0:40:43.719
<v Speaker 2>watching just seeing like emotionally like what she was going

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 2>through hormones, and I was like, I don't know if

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I can handle that. Like, of course I could handle

0:40:48.160 --> 0:40:51.360
<v Speaker 2>it because I essentially kind of went through something similar

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 2>by getting my pons anyway, but at the time I

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:59.480
<v Speaker 2>was just so nervous seeing how difficult it was on her.

0:40:59.600 --> 0:41:03.919
<v Speaker 1>But then it's like the good outweighs the bad so incredible.

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:06.880
<v Speaker 1>So in hindsight, I totally agree with you, though I

0:41:06.920 --> 0:41:09.279
<v Speaker 1>wish that I had done that at a younger age.

0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:15.080
<v Speaker 1>So ladies, I'm here to say, yeah, if you Kristin

0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:18.160
<v Speaker 1>and I approve freezing of the eggs, come on, come on.

0:41:18.520 --> 0:41:23.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no coman involved in that. But do you understand? Okay?

0:41:23.640 --> 0:41:28.360
<v Speaker 1>So April fifteenth is the premiere season two. I'm very excited.

0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:32.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad you guys are in my hood now. Yes,

0:41:33.320 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 1>so stoked, but yeah, I'm really excited about the premiere.

0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 1>I've seen as much as everyone else has, but I

0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:43.480
<v Speaker 1>did live it. It was very wild. There's a lot

0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:47.319
<v Speaker 1>that goes on and our our ep are like Our

0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:51.400
<v Speaker 1>Main executive producer Alex Baskin said this was the craziest

0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:55.600
<v Speaker 1>second season of any show that he's ever worked on. Whoa,

0:41:56.560 --> 0:41:58.799
<v Speaker 1>I know, I was like Manner from Rules season two.

0:41:58.960 --> 0:42:03.320
<v Speaker 1>That's a big state meant for him. He's seen it all.

0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:07.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Oh I just got more excited. Oh God,

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:09.879
<v Speaker 1>can you tell me one little thing before we go?

0:42:10.920 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Give me one hints? It's something.

0:42:13.760 --> 0:42:16.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's just it's I think what I'm excited

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:20.359
<v Speaker 2>about is my journey is not as shitty as it

0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:21.480
<v Speaker 2>has been before.

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Like, I get it.

0:42:23.160 --> 0:42:26.000
<v Speaker 2>There's nothing I'm actually nervous about now. I say that now,

0:42:26.840 --> 0:42:29.160
<v Speaker 2>who knows that I'm like, oh, insert foot in mouth.

0:42:29.400 --> 0:42:34.799
<v Speaker 2>Probably there's nothing that I'm personally nervous about. But it's

0:42:34.880 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 2>just such like I feel like it's just like a

0:42:37.280 --> 0:42:40.600
<v Speaker 2>higher level of the drama because it's it's not like,

0:42:42.040 --> 0:42:44.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's some cheating scandal, but it's not like

0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:46.160
<v Speaker 2>the old Danner Pump Rules days where it's like.

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.440
<v Speaker 1>Who a cheating scandal we know about or don't know about.

0:42:49.800 --> 0:42:52.120
<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like in the trailer a little bit

0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 2>yeah about like Jesse and Michelle. It's in the trailer,

0:42:56.440 --> 0:42:58.480
<v Speaker 2>so but it's like elevated, you know what I mean,

0:42:58.600 --> 0:42:59.400
<v Speaker 2>Like we're adults.

0:42:59.400 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 1>There's like more steak now. So I think that's what

0:43:02.600 --> 0:43:05.600
<v Speaker 1>makes it kind of like a lot of oh shit moments.

0:43:06.800 --> 0:43:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Well I'm very excited. There's just a lot. It's a lot.

0:43:11.080 --> 0:43:15.960
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot, and that's why we love it. Yeah,

0:43:16.320 --> 0:43:21.560
<v Speaker 1>watching you guys go through a lot. Well, if I don't,

0:43:21.880 --> 0:43:24.399
<v Speaker 1>hopefully i'll meet you one day in person. I get

0:43:24.440 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>to give you a hug, not touch the baby, but

0:43:27.320 --> 0:43:31.319
<v Speaker 1>or kiss the baby. Oh my god. Okay, but good

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:35.960
<v Speaker 1>luck with everything, happy pushing, that's what happens. Thank you

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:41.560
<v Speaker 1>so much for being on today, Kristen. Okay, bye,