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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio Podcast. Hi, Hi, Hi beautiful,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. First of all, congratulations, are you

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Speaker 1: you're doing June? Yeah, I just hit third primester today.

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Speaker 1: According to one app, Oh gosh, I feel like not

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Speaker 1: to jinx it, but like the third trimester gets easier.

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Speaker 1: Oh earl easier? I heard them now because you can't move. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've heard them like in the calm part before the storm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like up until for me, up until twenty weeks

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Speaker 2: was really hard. And then I feel like the last

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Speaker 2: you know, a couple of months have been like I

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Speaker 2: had more energy.

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Speaker 1: I'm not like anxious as like I was before. There's

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Speaker 1: a lot of just things that kind of got easier.

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Speaker 2: And now I heard it's about to get really shitty

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Speaker 2: because I'll be so big that I'm uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I just lied to you. It's not

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Speaker 1: the third trimester. It's the second trimester. Yeah, just when

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Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I'm finally adjusting, your body's like nope,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get even bigger. So when did you guys

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Speaker 1: find out you were having a little girl? So we

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Speaker 1: I mean like I was like, give me the blood test.

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Speaker 1: I want to find out immediately. Okay, well I think

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Speaker 1: I was like nine weeks or something like that.

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Speaker 2: So we we got engaged in the beginning of September

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Speaker 2: and we jumped right into EUI like three weeks later,

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Speaker 2: and we got really lucky, fortunate that it stuck. So

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Speaker 2: found out I was pregnant a few weeks later, and

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Speaker 2: then I was just like counting down the minutes until

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Speaker 2: I could find out the sex. I don't understand people

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Speaker 2: that just like waited out.

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Speaker 1: I could never I did that all on all of them. No, Now,

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Speaker 1: the first two we found found out and first was

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Speaker 1: a boy, then a girl, so we're like, we got

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Speaker 1: one of each. And I was like, when else are

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Speaker 1: you going to have this big a surprise? You know

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Speaker 1: when the doctor like pulls a baby out of your

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Speaker 1: vagina and you're like it's a girl, it's a boy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, cool, let's do it that way. But

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Speaker 1: then everybody has an opinion when you don't find out,

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Speaker 1: Like I remember my last one, everybody was like no, sorry,

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Speaker 1: my fourth one, everybody's like, you're carrying a girl. You're

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Speaker 1: carrying a girl. Like I remember being waddling into Valet

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Speaker 1: once and He's like, oh, there's a girl in there

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Speaker 1: and like grab my belly. I was like, and it

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Speaker 1: was a boy. So they were all wrong. I had

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Speaker 1: all the wrong clothes picked out. Do you feel like

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Speaker 1: people just go in touch your belly? Yes? How do

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Speaker 1: you feel about that? I hate it? I hate it.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm so I'm a really social person, but there's

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Speaker 2: something about pregnancy that's made me, I don't want to say,

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Speaker 2: like antisocial, but just like here's my bubble, and my.

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Speaker 1: Bubble pretty much my house.

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Speaker 2: But like when I'm out, it's like my very best friends,

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Speaker 2: I don't care of course, Like right, my best friend

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Speaker 2: Zach and Brittany from the show, like they literally will

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Speaker 2: like walk up, put their start talking to my belly.

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Speaker 1: They're like faces on my belly, Like it's totally fine.

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Speaker 2: But anyone outside of that small little group of like,

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Speaker 2: it's it's just weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm like, did I ever used to

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Speaker 1: do that to pregnant people? You probably didn't, Like I

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Speaker 1: would I still because I have PTSD from people just

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Speaker 1: like oh and just grabbing the belly. Like I still

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Speaker 1: ask friends when they're pregnant, like can I touch And

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Speaker 1: they're like, of course, and I'm like, no, I just

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Speaker 1: want to be respectful, right, and especially you're recognizable, like

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Speaker 1: so people see you on their fans and they're like.

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Speaker 2: Ah, yeah, that's that's the hard part. I think that's

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Speaker 2: why I've tried to like stay not like stay in

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Speaker 2: as much as possible, because I don't want to be

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Speaker 2: a bitch.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't hurt anyone's feelings, and I'm trying to be.

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Speaker 2: Like cool and kind to fans and viewers because but

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Speaker 2: also like don't fucking touch me, especially in this time

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Speaker 2: of my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, touch me, I understand. And then way for it,

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Speaker 1: it gets worse because then when you have the baby

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Speaker 1: out in public, people think they can just touch your baby.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. And that was like no, it's like

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Speaker 1: my biggest I did not know about the like don't

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Speaker 1: kiss the baby thing, not that I think I would

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Speaker 1: want to kiss the baby, yeah, just meaning like one

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Speaker 1: we can, but like other people, I don't know. They're

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Speaker 1: saying like you could have you might not even know

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Speaker 1: you have like the simplest cold, or you might not

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Speaker 1: know you have God forbid whatever, and you have a

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Speaker 1: like new newborn, and then people want to come over

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Speaker 1: and they're like kiss They're like, don't let anyone kiss

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Speaker 1: your baby. I'm like, okay, I mean, yeah, I'll be

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Speaker 1: fucking kissed if someone like gives my kit's my baby sick.

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Speaker 1: But I about that with strangers, not kissing my baby,

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Speaker 1: but strangers just being out and feeling like they can puch.

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Speaker 1: Like I've never been more protective over something that's not

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Speaker 1: even here yet, because you're theirs now. Yeah, you're the

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Speaker 1: world's now, and they think they can just go in.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, will'd you have a baby shower yet? No?

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Speaker 2: I have two when I'm so not a party kind

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Speaker 2: of girl. I'm not like a make it about meat

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Speaker 2: or I don't celebrate my birthday. But I have My

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Speaker 2: family's all back in Michigan, and so it's just like

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Speaker 2: a few of them could fly out here, but it's

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Speaker 2: like there's so many so it's a lot easier to

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Speaker 2: have a small one there and then a big one here.

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Speaker 1: So I have one at the end of March and

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Speaker 1: one the end of April. Oh nice, will you do

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Speaker 1: something in Colorado?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Luke's family all there. No, he's from Indiana. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 2: Well, he has property in Colorado, so he oh, got it? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so he lived in Colorado before. Well still, I mean

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Speaker 2: he still has seventy acres there.

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Speaker 1: He lived, no family there, no, okay, got it. So

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Speaker 1: his family they're going to be driving to Michigan. Actually,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, are you gonna move to Colorado? No?

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Speaker 1: I just read it. It was the other day. I

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Speaker 1: love those That was my favorite. It was like, Kristin

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Speaker 1: and Luke are giving up the Valley and moving to

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Speaker 1: see his family in Colorado, and I'm like, what the

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Speaker 1: hell are you talking about? Never. I would never move

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Speaker 1: to Colorado. I mean not right. It's fun to visit, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I is. I can't live like in the middle of nowhere,

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Speaker 1: like permanently. We can have a house there, which is

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Speaker 1: lovely and I love how online they allude to the

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Speaker 1: fact that even if you move to Colorado that they'll

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Speaker 1: still film season three there the valley. Yeah, as if

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Speaker 1: it came from you, Like You're like, yeah, I'm still

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Speaker 1: going to be on the show. They'll just film us there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: We're just going to follow me anywhere, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah, I do. So you live I live

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Speaker 1: in the Valley as well. Oh so I was very

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Speaker 1: excited when when the show started because I was like, great,

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Speaker 1: now they're in my hood. Yeah. Once I start having kids,

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Speaker 1: I moved off the West side, Yeah, to the valley. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I can't go over the hill anymore. It gives me anxiety.

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Speaker 2: I'm like working traffic people. I come over to the

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Speaker 2: side so you can breathe peace.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I feel like there's really good restaurants here.

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Speaker 1: It's more adult over here. Huh adult. Yeah. I think

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Speaker 1: it's more so because it's not like, yeah, like if I.

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Speaker 2: Go to West Hollywood, I know that I'm probably not

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Speaker 2: just having like dinner and going home. Like my friends

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Speaker 2: that are that still live over the hill are like

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Speaker 2: where are we going to next?

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Speaker 1: Where are we going to next?

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Speaker 2: And it's like a two am night here, It's like

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Speaker 2: I can do that or like go back to like

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Speaker 2: a friend's house and like, oh, I'll have like some

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Speaker 2: wine there, whatever, a couple drinks there.

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Speaker 1: It feels more adult. Oh my gosh. I remember I

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Speaker 1: just moved to the valley and we had our first

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Speaker 1: born and and then there was a rap party form

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Speaker 1: my reality show and they did it at Hamburger Mary's

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Speaker 1: and who And I was what was that movie with

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Speaker 1: Reese Witherspoon which's like, oh, you have a baby in

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Speaker 1: a bar? That was me. I had my newborn like

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Speaker 1: at Hambger Mary's and watching a drag show. But yeah, that.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a blast though, Like I would totally bring

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Speaker 2: my baby to Hamburger Mary's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I was that mom, Like, you know, life still

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Speaker 1: goes on. It's like, oh, he's sleeping and we're eating

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Speaker 1: dinner at eight o'clock at night, like, and it was fine.

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Speaker 1: And then I had my second and I was like great.

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Speaker 1: In the first restaurant we went to, she screamed the

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Speaker 1: entire time and we didn't go out for like another

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Speaker 1: seven months. Now you have an adult. I have an adult,

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Speaker 1: grow an adult. How is that crazy? Yeah, it's starting

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Speaker 1: to like I didn't free I'm fifty one, Like fifty

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Speaker 1: It's like it's fine, No, I'm just kidding because I

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Speaker 1: used to see those moms that had teens and they

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Speaker 1: look at me with my little ones and they'd be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it goes so fast. Don't blink. You're so lucky. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I have tons of time before

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Speaker 1: they're teenagers. It really goes really quickly, that's what you're hearing.

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Speaker 1: They're like the newborn time goes so fast, and then

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Speaker 1: when they're eighteen and then they're changing your diapers and

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Speaker 2: Know, like, am I the only one who doesn't like

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Speaker 2: being pregnant? It's not my favorite thing? But I like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm really like, it's it's a meaning.

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Speaker 1: I loved it. I'm really excited.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy. I'm not like, what the hell was I thinking?

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Speaker 2: I'm so stoked, But it's just I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: think I don't know if it was like expectation versus

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Speaker 1: Harder or different, and I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 1: It's just it. It's weird. It's very it's much better now.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, so, I'm speaking more of like the

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Speaker 2: beginning of my pregnancy, but it wasn't really.

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Speaker 1: Like the whole sick thing. I think it was a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of like anxiety. And then when I had people

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Speaker 2: start asking me like, oh, are you afraid of giving birth?

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Speaker 1: Or like are you scared of labor? I'm like, well

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Speaker 1: I kind of wasn't and now I'm having Yeah, now

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Speaker 1: I'm freaking out a little bit. Yeah. And then people

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Speaker 1: go deeper than that and they're like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: aren't you worried You're going to poop on the table? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I hear it all the time. Yeah. The first time

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Speaker 1: someone said that to me, I was like, Nope, didn't

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Speaker 1: know about that. Is that a thing?

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Speaker 2: And it is apparently a thing? Well you would know, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it is a thing. I'm like, okay, I mean that's

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Speaker 2: the worst that happens during giving birth, Like, God bless it.

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Speaker 1: That's fine with me. Oh my gosh, No, I had

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Speaker 1: mine ended up being c sections, but I had that fear.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like that's crazy. Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 2: just it's like, that's why I feel like I've always

429
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 2: meant to be a mom. I have this like mama

430
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 2: bear mentality, like I will protect at all costs and

431
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 2: I will win, like I will always win that battle.

432
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: Right because you already with your friend group, you already

433
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 1: do it again. I'm talking like I know you wait,

434
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 1: that's this feels so weird. I love reality TV so much,

435
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: Like honestly, like an A list movie star could walk

436
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 1: by and I'd be like, I don't care if it's

437
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: Brad Pitt, like George Clooney, whatever, but anyone that's on

438
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: a reality TV show, I'm like, oh, yeah, when you

439
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 1: did it, did it change your perception at all? A

440
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 1: little bit? Yeah? A little bit? But each show's so different.

441
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:12,719
Speaker 1: Oh true, So but I definitely, you know, have watched

442
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 1: your shows, and I'm trying to piece together like not

443
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 1: I don't want to say not real because we know

444
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 1: everything's real, but.

445
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: Well, I mean everything isn't always real because you can't.

446
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 2: I mean I will say everything I do and say

447
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 2: is very real. Just logistically, they have to plan stuff.

448
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: People. I think people think that like, oh, they just

449
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 1: happen to like walk into this restaurant, sit down and eat.

450
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,120
Speaker 1: It's like no, they have to producers have to call

451
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: the restaurant and like get yeah they do. Yeah.

452
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,239
Speaker 2: People do kind of think that like there's just like, oh,

453
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 2: they're just following us down the street, but they didn't,

454
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 2: like as if it's like a one shot show. But

455
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: then they just cut those in between. You're like, no,

456
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 2: it's not like twenty four to seven. That's a good point.

457
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: I don't think people do really said like we don't

458
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 2: want to ruin the magic for you. But there are

459
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 2: amazing crews that also have to work on this show

460
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 2: that they do a lot.

461
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: For sure. Definitely, I just feel like, yeah, I would

462
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 1: never have survived your show, like I would have been terrified.

463
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,239
Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of people wish to be

464
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, that's why I always said, like the

465
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: Real Housewives, I couldn't. I don't think I could do that. Like,

466
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: you know, they all sit at these dinner parties and

467
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: like attack each other, and I'm like, oh, I don't

468
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: think I could do that.

469
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 2: I don't think I could ever do Housewives, Like they

470
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 2: scared me too, Like it just general is an overhaul

471
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: and I don't know it just it's not my thing

472
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,399
Speaker 2: to just be like full blown on attack.

473
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 1: I feel like I attack the people who attack. That's

474
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 1: the that's.

475
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: Like if you're attacking people and being like unnecessarily cruel

476
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 2: or mean or rude or or something like that, Like

477
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: that's when I go on the attack and I'm like, Okay,

478
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: let's bring you down a few notches.

479
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, wait, can I ask you a question?

480
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: When the Valley started, how did that? Like? Who was

481
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: the first? It was Jackson Brittany that moved first. Okay, yeah,

482
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: they did move first. It was all within within months,

483
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: within like four months.

484
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 2: It was like Jackson Brittany, I think, then Tom and Ariana,

485
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 2: and then Tom and Katie and then we in twenty nineteen.

486
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 2: We all moved within a span.

487
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: Of like four months. But not to do the show

488
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: the Valley because you guys orally you want it to move.

489
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 2: That was just during that was still during the vander

490
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 2: Pump Rules, like pre pandemic, it was okay, okay, I

491
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 2: think it was like, yeah, it was like Brittany was

492
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: about to get pregnant. I think it was just at

493
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 2: the point like we could all afford it, and it

494
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 2: was like when what if this doesn't last forever? Like

495
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: what if this show doesn't which the show's not going

496
00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 2: to last forever, like and these opportunities we need to

497
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 2: like really take this and do something smart with our money,

498
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 2: and like why are we still renting in West Hollywood?

499
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: Yeah? I never did that. I was never smart. It

500
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 1: was hard.

501
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 2: I mean I did it by myself, which was really difficult,

502
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: and I think it was I mean, I know everything,

503
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 2: I will truly believe everything happens for a reason. But

504
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 2: I think my one regret in my adult life was

505
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 2: letting my house go, like selling my house. I think

506
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 2: I should have kept it, but I was dating someone

507
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 2: at the time who like had his own house, and

508
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: it was like I lost my job on Vanner Pumt

509
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 2: and it was like, well, this just probably makes more sense.

510
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: Let's just sell it and move in with you. And

511
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: then it was like six.

512
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 2: Months later we broke up and I was searching for

513
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 2: a little apartment again.

514
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh god, here we go back to square one.

515
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: I think that was like, yeah, the things we do

516
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: for boys, oh boys, not so so your engagement will

517
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: that be shown? I have boys, not men. I always

518
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: call them boys. I never call them men men, but

519
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: I call us girls. I don't say women. Yeah we

520
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 1: are girls. That's true. Okay, I don't know, it just

521
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 1: feels cute. But will your engagement be on this season?

522
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: Season two? Yeah, I'm very excited.

523
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: I've seen like a tiny little smidgeon of a clip

524
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: of just like the camera angles and the lighting and

525
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 2: that kind of thing, and it's so pretty. It's so beautiful,

526
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: and I mean it's on the trailer. The only thing

527
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 2: I hate, Like it's on the trailer in the very beginning,

528
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: and the first thing I say is oh fuck. I

529
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 2: was like that's so real, Like why Kristin, Like why

530
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 2: wasn't it this like bachelor moment of like oh in

531
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: the ring and like all the fairy fairy tale book

532
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: type things.

533
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: See. No.

534
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 2: My response was like I turn around, having no idea

535
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: that he's sat on one knee on a boat and I'm.

536
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: Just like it, just like that's so romantic. Good job, Kristen.

537
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 1: Of course me like knowing reality TV, I was like

538
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: screenshotting it zooming in like no she does, Like you

539
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: can always tell them. People are like I had no

540
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: idea it was happening. And then they have like beautiful

541
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: nails done and like so much glam socially on TV shows. Yeah,

542
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, you look natural and great, and

543
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 1: I was like, she had no idea.

544
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 2: Wow, No, I mean literally it was. I mean, well,

545
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: this will kind of be on the show too, but

546
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 2: it was. We were on a fishing boat. So in

547
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: my mind, I'm like, I'm not even putting makeup on,

548
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 2: Like we're doing a fishing boat. Like I'm I'm not,

549
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:31,239
Speaker 2: I'm vegetarian, I don't fish. My fiance excuse me. My

550
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: fiance is like such a fisherman. And in my mind

551
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: I'm picturing like Bubba Gump shrimp from fourth like just

552
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 2: fish guts all over the like.

553
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we what was it? It was like a yacht.

554
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 2: It was like a nice boat with like fishing poles,

555
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: like okay, it screwed into it or whatever. So I

556
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: but I didn't know, and I'm like why when I

557
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 2: get cute, And even though we had just gotten to Hawaii,

558
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: one of my nails came off, so I'm like, great,

559
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 2: it wasn't my left hand, luckily. But I'm just like, think, okay,

560
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: so let me glue this one on, not the same

561
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: color whatever. And there were just so many little things

562
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 2: that were happening that you'll see on the show that

563
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: are very much proved, Like I had no idea what

564
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: was going on, and it blows my mind because everyone

565
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 2: calls me Detective Doughty, like how did I not see

566
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 2: this car?

567
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: How did I not? Because it pertained your life, not

568
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: other people, right.

569
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 2: I mean there were times like I would go through

570
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 2: his bag to like look for something, and the ring

571
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 2: would be the rings in there, Like I didn't know

572
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 2: to look for a ring.

573
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: Why would I even.

574
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 2: Think of you know what I mean. So it's like

575
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: it didn't even occur to me. It never hen know, Well,

576
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: how did you pass over a ring box?

577
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: It wasn't. I wasn't looking for it. I was looking

578
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: for something else. And so in hindsight, I'm like, what

579
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: are you looking for? So many signs we went to

580
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: the pictures. We went to visit his grandma one day

581
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: and like he's like, oh, where are those pictures at

582
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: that my mom gave us. I'm like, I'll go to

583
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: the car. So I'm like ripping through every bag looking

584
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: for these and the ring in Orleans. But he had

585
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: a box. But I didn't see the box. And if

586
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 1: I would have saw a box, it, says Kyle chan

587
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: On it a ring box, I would have known in

588
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: a heartbeat. Oh my gosh. Wait, I'm fascinated that you

589
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: got engaged on a fishing truck. Wait had you fished

590
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,239
Speaker 1: already or No? I mean I didn't fish at all.

591
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: It was just a roost. Yeah. Yeah, it was like

592
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: for him, like he really wanted to go and we had.

593
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: I love fishing. You, Oh, Luke's favorite thing in the

594
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: entire world. What does he fish? Like? What kind of fish? Yeah?

595
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: Like big ass fish or like yeah, I mean ocean's lakes.

596
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: Sea fishing where you get like the huge.

597
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he has before. I mean he grew

598
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: up around lakes, so that was mostly what he did.

599
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, at for his birthday, I got or not

600
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: for his birthday for since I got him like a

601
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: fishing trip down and like Coasta Mesa and he's.

602
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: Just like, however, I bring his vibe into La. Oh

603
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: my god, poor guy. He has no idea. He's not

604
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: going to be fishing for a really long time. So

605
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: I hope he does a lot of it now. Yeah,

606
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: I know Elie is really hard for him.

607
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: He's not like the biggest fan, but he's been such

608
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 2: a trooper and like sticking with it and the show

609
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 2: and like my life and having the baby here and

610
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: you know, I'm like, we're not we don't have to

611
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 2: be here forever, but it's it's a right now thing.

612
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 2: And I love that we have Colorado, like we'll always

613
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: have Colorado. We want to have property and maybe like

614
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 2: Tennessee or something I think would be really great for us.

615
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: So on the show, I'm like, back to the show.

616
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: You don't get to see it typically right before it airs,

617
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: or that's not true, like a day before before everyone

618
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: else sees it. Oh, I've just because I didn't know

619
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: if that was a Bravo thing, because I've heard House

620
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: WHOI I've say before like I didn't even know until

621
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: I saw it on No, that's not true.

622
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean people want to I mean, they'll send

623
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 2: it to us like the day before so we're like aware, or.

624
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: If we're doing press or something like that. And some

625
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 1: people just don't watch it like I watch it and

626
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: I meticulously like go through every scene like what happened?

627
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: What did they say? What did I say? Oh? God?

628
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: So what is it like going through an episode and

629
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: all of a sudden you see somebody just give you

630
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: a shade like someone said something. Oh that's the that's

631
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: the crazy part. It's like do you wait till it airs?

632
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: Do you call that person before and be like, uh,

633
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: what the fuck? For me?

634
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 2: Personally after all these years, Like I don't take stuff

635
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 2: like that really personally because I know if I'm friends

636
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 2: with them now and that happened, then I hope they're

637
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,479
Speaker 2: at least funny about the shade, you know, like be funny,

638
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 2: Like if you're going to insult me, just like make

639
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 2: it a good one liner, make it memorable, make.

640
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: It TV gold. Yeah. But and if it's somebody that

641
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: I'm not friends with, it's like, okay, no back pocket reunion,

642
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:22,959
Speaker 1: gotcha get reunions that those seem like such high pressure

643
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: and I'm going to be so extremely pregnant when you

644
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,479
Speaker 1: do the reunion. Yeah, my friend and I both well,

645
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: we're about a week apart.

646
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we're going to be there like nine

647
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: months pregnant.

648
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: I mean it's actually it'll be better because you won't

649
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: give two fucks because you'll be like, exactly, you know

650
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: what I'm doing here and creating. I don't give a

651
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,719
Speaker 1: fuck what you're saying about me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's

652
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: batter and like no one is gonna bother me, Like

653
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: what are you even talking about? Like I literally have

654
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: a baby cooking inside of me right now, Like you're

655
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: so not important. Yeah, but also you're like sacred ground.

656
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: They can't really say bad things to you, can I

657
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: I mean, they would be pretty fucking evil if they did.

658
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a beat my little crystals, like a

659
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: little a little speaker for music when I'm getting like,

660
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: you're a good girl, don't worry, she's strong. Oh my gosh,

661
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: you guys have a name picked out. I won't ask it,

662
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: but yes, that you agreed on. Oh yeah, before before

663
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: I even got pregner, we knew her name. We didn't

664
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: have a boy name for sure, but we had her name.

665
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:38,720
Speaker 2: Interesting, And I now know why people don't tell people names,

666
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 2: because I did that. My friend's closest friends and family

667
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 2: do know her name. But when we were toying with

668
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 2: boy names, and I trusted a few really like my

669
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: best friends, Like these are like a few of the

670
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 2: ones we picked out.

671
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: I had one of.

672
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 2: My girlfriends, Rachel, call her out and she was like,

673
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: what's the name for the boy? And I the name

674
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: and she goes, he sounds like an asshole, And I'm like,

675
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 2: and this is why people.

676
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 1: Don't tell people names. It's true, or they'll be like, oh,

677
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: my worst boyfriend had that name or like that. I mean,

678
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: you can't win. So how wait, how often do you

679
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: guys do your podcast? We did it once a week,

680
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 1: once a week, but it's pretty much me. I'm I've

681
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: pretty much taken it over now or just kind of

682
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: the rebrand. It's just we were having so much fun

683
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 1: doing it together, and I think for the sake of

684
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: like our relationship and especially with the baby in the

685
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: house and just like all these things and shooting the show,

686
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: it was a lot for us to do together and

687
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: it's it kind of Luke was like, really good.

688
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 2: I feel like he has such a great voice for

689
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: it and He's like so fun to talk to, but

690
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 2: it like it's not really his thing, like the stuff

691
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,280
Speaker 2: that I like to talk about. It's just not like

692
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 2: like the chatty conversations with my friends or just with

693
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 2: anyone about especially pop culture or anything like that, just

694
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: like not really his jam. So I've just taken over

695
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 2: and I think that's starting. We're kind of like figuring

696
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 2: that part out, like does this work better for us

697
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 2: or does this work better for us?

698
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: Right? I think me stealing it works a little bit

699
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: better for us. You're gonna love having that podcast when

700
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,479
Speaker 1: you have a newborn. It's going to be great because

701
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: you have to leave. Do you do it from home? Yes? Yeah,

702
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 1: it's yeah, that's going to be saving grace. When I

703
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: had mine, there were no podcasts, so because I know

704
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: during my pregnancies, whenever the show wasn't filming, there was

705
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: always a discussion like, well, are we going to just

706
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: come in and have some footage in case there's a

707
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 1: season three, which there will be, but yes, oh that's yes. Yeah, No,

708
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: so the meaning about this season three or I mean,

709
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 1: we never know until we know, we're meaning they're smart

710
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: to get footage filmed anything with me?

711
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 2: Who can I call I know, it's it's crazy. Like

712
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 2: we said when we wrapped season two, it was like

713
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I got pregnant. My friend Nia

714
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 2: got pregnant. My friend Jasmine who's on the show, she

715
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 2: and her girlfriend got engaged, and I was like, this

716
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 2: whole year just is flying right by with all of

717
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 2: these pieces.

718
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: No, so it's it's you know, on a season.

719
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 2: Three, you know, hopefully it'll go from like I just

720
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 2: got engaged and now I have like a newborn baby.

721
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we'll take lots of personal footage. I

722
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: have a lot. They're gonna want that in season three,

723
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: although I really think they should be just sending a

724
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: crew with you around, just a small crew, I know, little,

725
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 1: especially to the hospital, maybe not the hospital, on the

726
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 1: way from the hospital, like when you bring the baby

727
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: home for the first time. Like yeah, I'm so excited.

728
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm more excited I'm nervous, for sure, Like way more

729
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: excited than I am nervous. But there's still a little

730
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: bit of like what are we doing? And I never

731
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: I always thought i'd be so much.

732
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 2: Younger, but I feel like I've lived I've lived a life,

733
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: and I think that that's really great, Like I've lived so.

734
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 1: Much of a life that now I have all this time.

735
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: And like much more maturity about me and like life,

736
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 2: you know, just life lessons that I've lived and to

737
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 2: be able to be a better mom to her, and then.

738
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: We'll live my other adult life, you know, when she's grown.

739
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: That's true. Okay, So the process you did, what was

740
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: the name you said, I I I Yeah, so auasca

741
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: a ahuasca?

742
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: We so, yeah, So we first started with just hormones,

743
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 2: like I was going to try just doing hormones, and

744
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: then we were going to try to concede naturally, and

745
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 2: they just say that IUI gives you like an extra

746
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 2: I think fifteen or twenty percent chance of it working.

747
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 2: So essentially it's just Luke gives his sample at the

748
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: doctor's office and they do what they call it spin

749
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 2: and clean the sperm, and then my doctor injects it

750
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 2: right into my cervix.

751
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: So it's like, okay, that's it.

752
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 2: We're basically we're just not having sex to conceive the baby,

753
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: got it.

754
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: So there was no freezing of your eggs or anything. No, not. Yeah,

755
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: we didn't have to get to that point, thank god.

756
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 2: I mean, that was really possible, and in the cards,

757
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 2: like we were just trying, like, okay, so if we

758
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 2: try the hormones first and that doesn't work.

759
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: Then we'll try UI. But we decided just to go.

760
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 2: For it and then if EUI didn't work, we were

761
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 2: planning on giving it a second go, and then if

762
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 2: that didn't work, then we were going to.

763
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 1: Have to, you know, move forward with like Okay, maybe

764
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: it's IBS.

765
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 2: So that's why I'm a little nervous about my having

766
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 2: a second because I've never wanted just to have one,

767
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 2: Like I've never wanted an only child because we both

768
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:58,959
Speaker 2: like Luke has three siblings.

769
00:39:58,680 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: I have two.

770
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: But and like with my age, like I hopefully we

771
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 2: can you know, conceive another child.

772
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 1: Fingers crossed. I feel like you should freeze your eggs.

773
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: I feel like every woman should freeze her eggs. I

774
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: agree with that now, And no one teaches you that

775
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: when you're young, because it's not even like sometimes not

776
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: even age thing. It's just shit happens, and it's just

777
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 1: would have been nice to have that choice of taking

778
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: some and freezing just to have it you never have

779
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: to use them. Yep.

780
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a few friends like she I remember

781
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 2: watching she know go through it, and it kind of

782
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: I mean, we were younger, but it made me nervous

783
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 2: watching just seeing like emotionally like what she was going

784
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 2: through hormones, and I was like, I don't know if

785
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: I can handle that. Like, of course I could handle

786
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 2: it because I essentially kind of went through something similar

787
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 2: by getting my pons anyway, but at the time I

788
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 2: was just so nervous seeing how difficult it was on her.

789
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,919
Speaker 1: But then it's like the good outweighs the bad so incredible.

790
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: So in hindsight, I totally agree with you, though I

791
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: wish that I had done that at a younger age.

792
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: So ladies, I'm here to say, yeah, if you Kristin

793
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: and I approve freezing of the eggs, come on, come on.

794
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, no coman involved in that. But do you understand? Okay?

795
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: So April fifteenth is the premiere season two. I'm very excited.

796
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,919
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you guys are in my hood now. Yes,

797
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: so stoked, but yeah, I'm really excited about the premiere.

798
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: I've seen as much as everyone else has, but I

799
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: did live it. It was very wild. There's a lot

800
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: that goes on and our our ep are like Our

801
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: Main executive producer Alex Baskin said this was the craziest

802
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: second season of any show that he's ever worked on. Whoa,

803
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 1: I know, I was like Manner from Rules season two.

804
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 1: That's a big state meant for him. He's seen it all.

805
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Oh I just got more excited. Oh God,

806
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: can you tell me one little thing before we go?

807
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: Give me one hints? It's something.

808
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just it's I think what I'm excited

809
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 2: about is my journey is not as shitty as it

810
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: has been before.

811
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: Like, I get it.

812
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 2: There's nothing I'm actually nervous about now. I say that now,

813
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 2: who knows that I'm like, oh, insert foot in mouth.

814
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 2: Probably there's nothing that I'm personally nervous about. But it's

815
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: just such like I feel like it's just like a

816
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 2: higher level of the drama because it's it's not like,

817
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 2: I mean, there's some cheating scandal, but it's not like

818
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 2: the old Danner Pump Rules days where it's like.

819
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: Who a cheating scandal we know about or don't know about.

820
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 2: It's kind of like in the trailer a little bit

821
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: yeah about like Jesse and Michelle. It's in the trailer,

822
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 2: so but it's like elevated, you know what I mean,

823
00:42:58,600 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 2: Like we're adults.

824
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: There's like more steak now. So I think that's what

825
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: makes it kind of like a lot of oh shit moments.

826
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: Well I'm very excited. There's just a lot. It's a lot.

827
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: It's a lot, and that's why we love it. Yeah,

828
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: watching you guys go through a lot. Well, if I don't,

829
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 1: hopefully i'll meet you one day in person. I get

830
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: to give you a hug, not touch the baby, but

831
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 1: or kiss the baby. Oh my god. Okay, but good

832
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: luck with everything, happy pushing, that's what happens. Thank you

833
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: so much for being on today, Kristen. Okay, bye,