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Speaker 2: Jordan is on the phone today for a first Day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Christa.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Jordan, how long is it,
Speaker 2: Vinces you heard from Christa?
Speaker 3: I mean it's been it's been a few days. I
Speaker 3: left a voicemail. I mean it just fell right, I
Speaker 3: mean the date was fire.
Speaker 4: It's only been a few days, though. Are you sure
Speaker 4: you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: I mean, look, it's it's just a vibe, and it's
Speaker 3: just I was just after a few days, I'm kind
Speaker 3: of like, what's up?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 5: So you expected her to be like right.
Speaker 6: On it, Oh yeah, yeah, no doubt locked in.
Speaker 3: I mean I knew the second the second we nash
Speaker 3: like national online, I knew that date was going to
Speaker 3: be fired.
Speaker 5: What did you say in the voicemail?
Speaker 3: She said, there's a vibe, there's fires, you know, they
Speaker 3: I was just saying stuff that I was just making
Speaker 3: her laugh, you know, she was listening and you know,
Speaker 3: I was just throwing down some motivational things about like,
Speaker 3: you know, how my life all figured out, and you
Speaker 3: know how I started from the bottom.
Speaker 6: Now I'm up there, you know. And I just.
Speaker 3: Got that vibe that she kind of responded to me
Speaker 3: a little sarcastic, but but she was with it.
Speaker 6: And I'm all about a girl and keep up with me,
Speaker 6: you know.
Speaker 5: Okay, So when was all this going down? Was this
Speaker 5: part of the date?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 7: No, I mean it started off in the d MS, okay.
Speaker 7: And then afterward, after I said, you know, she can
Speaker 7: keep up, you know she's got it, I decided to
Speaker 7: take her over to you know it fancy joints and
Speaker 7: shows that I.
Speaker 6: Got class, you know, right.
Speaker 5: Was she impressed?
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I mean she was attracted.
Speaker 3: I could tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I
Speaker 3: sat down all classes.
Speaker 6: She could not keep her eyes off me. I could
Speaker 6: feel my magnetism just pulling that all in.
Speaker 5: You get the same feeling when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 6: Oh of course I'm drawn to it, you know.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 6: So dinner starts off perfect, right, and I'm like, I'm
Speaker 6: just vibing.
Speaker 3: Now, I'm just killing it with my stories, Okay, I
Speaker 3: mean especially Yeah, my gym routine. I mean, like, this
Speaker 3: is it's something special, you know, it's something it's built
Speaker 3: from inspiration.
Speaker 2: Is she into working out and stuff? Like would you
Speaker 2: be interested in that? Because you know, sometimes he was
Speaker 2: thrown into it. They don't want to hear about the
Speaker 2: gym stuff.
Speaker 3: No, I knew she was into it, Like, but she
Speaker 3: was making jokes about it. But that's just she's just sarcastic,
Speaker 3: you know. Okay, she knew my moves were bold and
Speaker 3: she was liking it.
Speaker 6: She was with it.
Speaker 5: Okay, you're talking about how much she was with Like
Speaker 5: what did you like about her?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 5: Was she engaging other than being sarcastic? Other than your
Speaker 5: gym routine? Was anything else going on?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 6: She was just a good listener. But she she could
Speaker 6: keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked.
Speaker 4: So what could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3: Then? Maybe, you know, maybe it's I just got a
Speaker 3: little too motivational because that's my future. Like I'm going
Speaker 3: to be a motivational speaker. Okay, you paid like six
Speaker 3: figures to say a few things, knowing the kids believing.
Speaker 6: Themselves, you know.
Speaker 3: So I went from my gym routine straight into my
Speaker 3: motivational speech, because like the mood was there right, Like
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, you know, talking about.
Speaker 6: Like what we're doing with our lives.
Speaker 3: And I just stood up and I hit the restaurant
Speaker 3: with some high energy like I'm talking. People were looking
Speaker 3: at me like I was like Tony Robbins, you know,
Speaker 3: and I just I told her. I looked her in
Speaker 3: the eyes and I said, it's my purpose to inspire
Speaker 3: people to change lives.
Speaker 6: You know, So you.
Speaker 5: Didn't just address her, you addressed the entire restaurant.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, they were looking at me. They knew, you know.
Speaker 6: And she was smiling. I mean she was shaking her
Speaker 6: head in.
Speaker 8: A few things.
Speaker 6: I know that kind of hadshake.
Speaker 3: You know. You know, I guy had shake when you
Speaker 3: know you're still lucky, like like you won the lottery
Speaker 3: or embarrassed. Well, you just see this guy with great
Speaker 3: sayings and great gains.
Speaker 5: I like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I said good night. You know, I
Speaker 3: said good night. I'm a class dy dude. You know
Speaker 3: I wanted I was, you know, wanting to get to
Speaker 3: know her more. I said a text later, telling her
Speaker 3: I had a blast and I just let the voice
Speaker 3: not the next day, you know, I'm just because I'm
Speaker 3: just being thoughtful, you.
Speaker 4: Know, Well, why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3: I think I just think I'm gone.
Speaker 6: Maybe I went a little too big.
Speaker 3: It's in five days, and I mean, but we had chemistry,
Speaker 3: and I mean, I know she wants to confident guy outgoing.
Speaker 6: Can't get more outgoing.
Speaker 3: Than that, and I just think maybe maybe I'm being
Speaker 3: a little misunderstood.
Speaker 6: But but I'm definitely her tight bro definitely or tight.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll try to figure out where you
Speaker 2: play a song come back, and then call her and
Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's.
Speaker 4: Ghosting you and maybe get you another day to write.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you got it, you got it?
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, play song, come back, and get your
Speaker 2: first AFE follow up.
Speaker 4: Next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first date follow up
Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Jordan is on the
Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Christa. So we're about
Speaker 2: to call her and see if she'll tell us why
Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jordan,
Speaker 2: why don't you kind of recap your day for us?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we went out to a fancy place. We
Speaker 3: hit it off. The spot definitely had chemistry. She couldn't
Speaker 3: keep her her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her
Speaker 3: eyes off her. I was just being confident, you know,
Speaker 3: just showing off my outgoing nature.
Speaker 6: I told her some stories.
Speaker 3: We hit it off, and you know, I went into
Speaker 3: my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation,
Speaker 3: and uh, we hit it off. I had a I
Speaker 3: had a blast, and I've been texting her about Hey, yes,
Speaker 3: let's keep this going, like, let's when I am.
Speaker 6: When am I going to sen your game?
Speaker 2: Ready for us to call her? Yeah, no doubt, let's
Speaker 2: do it. Here we go, hell, Hi, may I speak
Speaker 2: to Christal please? Hey Christa, how are you? My name
Speaker 2: is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called
Speaker 2: The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Christo, we're all here. My name is Nina, Hi,
Speaker 5: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8: Okay, I know you guys.
Speaker 4: Oh you do?
Speaker 2: Sweet well, thank you very much for knowing us. Appreciate that.
Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show. It's called the
Speaker 2: First Day follow Up. It's where if you go on
Speaker 2: a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: that person can email us to call you and find
Speaker 2: out why.
Speaker 4: You're ghosting, So any idea who would email us about you?
Speaker 8: Jordan?
Speaker 4: Obviously, yes it is Jordan.
Speaker 5: So you are asked you are blatantly ghosting Jordan, Oh yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4: Huy, Okay, would you mind telling us why?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, like the whole day just felt like I
Speaker 1: was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show.
Speaker 8: It was an absurd human I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know any highlights of the reality show that
Speaker 5: you felt like.
Speaker 8: You were on so many let's see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, okay, first off, he's he's really not my type, like,
Speaker 1: is not normally the type of guy I would go
Speaker 1: out with, but you know, he's accute, and me pick
Speaker 1: a fancy restaurant, so I figured, you know, why not?
Speaker 1: And so I walk in and there he is in
Speaker 1: this like totally skin tight, like long sleeve white almost
Speaker 1: see through shirt with like you know, his biceps are
Speaker 1: like screaming to please give me a break from bicep curls.
Speaker 1: He just was a total meat head, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like you could just tell. And so dinner
Speaker 1: started fine until like Jordan started talking and he noticed
Speaker 1: the waiter who was like the kind of a skinny,
Speaker 1: young you know, dorky kind of guy. So Jordan starts
Speaker 1: calling him scrawny to his face, and then out of
Speaker 1: nowhere it got worse. So like that was embarrassing enough,
Speaker 1: but then out of nowhere, Jordan like grabs the guy's
Speaker 1: arm and is like and looks at me and goes, Babe,
Speaker 1: check this out, and then challenge arm wrestling.
Speaker 8: Challenge him to an.
Speaker 1: Arm wrestling match. Luckily, Grownnie declined, so we got away
Speaker 1: with not dealing with that. But yeah, and then he
Speaker 1: just like wouldn't stop talking about like his gym and
Speaker 1: like ever ingredient and his protein shake in the mornings
Speaker 1: and like all of this crap. And then the worst
Speaker 1: part was it's towards the end. I mean, I'm just
Speaker 1: kind of laughing at him because he's again an absurd human.
Speaker 8: And towards the end he starts talking about how he
Speaker 8: wants to be like a Tony Robbins, like.
Speaker 1: Motivational speaker guy, and he stands up and does like
Speaker 1: a motivational seat to the back corner of the restaurant.
Speaker 4: We talked that he was really proud of it, of
Speaker 4: course he was.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it was mortifying. It was mortifying.
Speaker 8: And then when the date was, so he.
Speaker 1: Bade the check, sat back down, you know whatever, and
Speaker 1: then he wanted to go like he wasn't ready for
Speaker 1: the night to be over and wanted to take me
Speaker 1: to some bar so that he could arm wrestle more.
Speaker 4: Got like I want to off more.
Speaker 8: Yeah. Yeah, he just.
Speaker 1: Got to like show off that he could like arm
Speaker 1: wrestle or bench press anybody.
Speaker 8: I don't know. It was just absurd.
Speaker 1: So you didn't go no, no, no, I got out
Speaker 1: of there.
Speaker 4: You know who might be surprised to hear that you
Speaker 4: felt that way.
Speaker 8: Jordan.
Speaker 2: Yes, And guess what, Jordan is actually on the phone
Speaker 2: listening and wants to talk to you. Oh god, okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: hey Christa good to hear from you.
Speaker 6: Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 8: I just want to say that.
Speaker 6: You're misunderstanding the whole thing.
Speaker 3: Like I get that that maybe the arm wrestling was
Speaker 3: the It was been much, but you know, I'll try
Speaker 3: and keep things fun. You know, we were having fun
Speaker 3: and and it wasn't about it wasn't about showing off.
Speaker 3: I mean, look, I'm not It's natural, maybe a little
Speaker 3: because that's who I am, but it's because I wanted
Speaker 3: you to see I'm not.
Speaker 6: I'm not boring. I don't play it safe. I'm not
Speaker 6: that kind of guy.
Speaker 3: But I didn't realize it comes off or I came
Speaker 3: off in any way as anxist. And I'll admit I
Speaker 3: probably went overboard. But but that's me being me, that's
Speaker 3: Jordan being Jordan's you know. But but for real, I
Speaker 3: think there's still chemistry there with us. And I promise
Speaker 3: I'll turn it down because I'm not so meat head
Speaker 3: trying to prove himself. I'm proven. I just wanted to
Speaker 3: make a good impression.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I really appreciate how confident and out knowing
Speaker 1: you are, and I think that's that's super great. And
Speaker 1: you're not afraid to be yourself, and I think that's great.
Speaker 1: I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably
Speaker 1: like looking for different things. You know, You've got this
Speaker 1: like big bold personality thing going and I don't really
Speaker 1: mess with that kind of energy, like that's not my
Speaker 1: jam kind of.
Speaker 3: Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big
Speaker 3: and bold presence.
Speaker 6: Who I am, and you you appreciate.
Speaker 3: My confidence, and then that's great. And I just want
Speaker 3: to know if I could see you again.
Speaker 4: Chris, would you like to go?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 4: Jordan again? We'll pay for it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, No, I'm good, thinks so yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if you hear right there, you started
Speaker 3: off with a yes and change, so you just new
Speaker 3: changing your mind there.
Speaker 8: I see you're still working it out.
Speaker 6: I know there's stuff you just need some time, you know.
Speaker 1: And hey, I'm not to keep in touch you know now,
Speaker 1: Joran Jordan's delete my number.
Speaker 8: I think that would be the best if you need me.
Speaker 6: Look, if you don't like fitness, I don't mess.
Speaker 8: A Jordan, go back to the gym. I'm I'm I'm good.
Speaker 3: Well, if I delete your number, how will I know
Speaker 3: when you decide to call me?
Speaker 1: You will?
Speaker 4: The first date follow up