1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: Jordan is on the phone today for a first Day 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Christa. 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see 6 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe 7 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Jordan, how long is it, 8 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: Vinces you heard from Christa? 9 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 3: I mean it's been it's been a few days. I 10 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 3: left a voicemail. I mean it just fell right, I 11 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 3: mean the date was fire. 12 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 4: It's only been a few days, though. Are you sure 13 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 4: you're getting ghosted? 14 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 3: I mean, look, it's it's just a vibe, and it's 15 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 3: just I was just after a few days, I'm kind 16 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 3: of like, what's up? 17 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 4: Okay? 18 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 5: So you expected her to be like right. 19 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 6: On it, Oh yeah, yeah, no doubt locked in. 20 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 3: I mean I knew the second the second we nash 21 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: like national online, I knew that date was going to 22 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 3: be fired. 23 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 5: What did you say in the voicemail? 24 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 3: She said, there's a vibe, there's fires, you know, they 25 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 3: I was just saying stuff that I was just making 26 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: her laugh, you know, she was listening and you know, 27 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: I was just throwing down some motivational things about like, 28 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 3: you know, how my life all figured out, and you 29 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 3: know how I started from the bottom. 30 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 6: Now I'm up there, you know. And I just. 31 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: Got that vibe that she kind of responded to me 32 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 3: a little sarcastic, but but she was with it. 33 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 6: And I'm all about a girl and keep up with me, 34 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 6: you know. 35 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 5: Okay, So when was all this going down? Was this 36 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 5: part of the date? 37 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 38 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 7: No, I mean it started off in the d MS, okay. 39 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 7: And then afterward, after I said, you know, she can 40 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 7: keep up, you know she's got it, I decided to 41 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 7: take her over to you know it fancy joints and 42 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 7: shows that I. 43 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 6: Got class, you know, right. 44 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 5: Was she impressed? 45 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I mean she was attracted. 46 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 3: I could tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I 47 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 3: sat down all classes. 48 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 6: She could not keep her eyes off me. I could 49 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 6: feel my magnetism just pulling that all in. 50 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 5: You get the same feeling when you look in the mirror. 51 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 6: Oh of course I'm drawn to it, you know. 52 00:01:58,520 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: Right. 53 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 6: So dinner starts off perfect, right, and I'm like, I'm 54 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 6: just vibing. 55 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 3: Now, I'm just killing it with my stories, Okay, I 56 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 3: mean especially Yeah, my gym routine. I mean, like, this 57 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 3: is it's something special, you know, it's something it's built 58 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: from inspiration. 59 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: Is she into working out and stuff? Like would you 60 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: be interested in that? Because you know, sometimes he was 61 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: thrown into it. They don't want to hear about the 62 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: gym stuff. 63 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 3: No, I knew she was into it, Like, but she 64 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 3: was making jokes about it. But that's just she's just sarcastic, 65 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 3: you know. Okay, she knew my moves were bold and 66 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 3: she was liking it. 67 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 6: She was with it. 68 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 5: Okay, you're talking about how much she was with Like 69 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 5: what did you like about her? 70 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: Like? 71 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 5: Was she engaging other than being sarcastic? Other than your 72 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 5: gym routine? Was anything else going on? 73 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 8: Oh? 74 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 6: She was just a good listener. But she she could 75 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 6: keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked. 76 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:47,679 Speaker 4: So what could have gone wrong? 77 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 3: Then? Maybe, you know, maybe it's I just got a 78 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 3: little too motivational because that's my future. Like I'm going 79 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: to be a motivational speaker. Okay, you paid like six 80 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 3: figures to say a few things, knowing the kids believing. 81 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 6: Themselves, you know. 82 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: So I went from my gym routine straight into my 83 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 3: motivational speech, because like the mood was there right, Like 84 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, you know, talking about. 85 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 6: Like what we're doing with our lives. 86 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 3: And I just stood up and I hit the restaurant 87 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 3: with some high energy like I'm talking. People were looking 88 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 3: at me like I was like Tony Robbins, you know, 89 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 3: and I just I told her. I looked her in 90 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 3: the eyes and I said, it's my purpose to inspire 91 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: people to change lives. 92 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 6: You know, So you. 93 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 5: Didn't just address her, you addressed the entire restaurant. 94 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, they were looking at me. They knew, you know. 95 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 6: And she was smiling. I mean she was shaking her 96 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 6: head in. 97 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 8: A few things. 98 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 6: I know that kind of hadshake. 99 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 3: You know. You know, I guy had shake when you 100 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: know you're still lucky, like like you won the lottery 101 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 3: or embarrassed. Well, you just see this guy with great 102 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 3: sayings and great gains. 103 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 5: I like that. 104 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I said good night. You know, I 105 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 3: said good night. I'm a class dy dude. You know 106 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 3: I wanted I was, you know, wanting to get to 107 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 3: know her more. I said a text later, telling her 108 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: I had a blast and I just let the voice 109 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 3: not the next day, you know, I'm just because I'm 110 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 3: just being thoughtful, you. 111 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 4: Know, Well, why do you think she's ghosting you? 112 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 3: I think I just think I'm gone. 113 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 6: Maybe I went a little too big. 114 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 3: It's in five days, and I mean, but we had chemistry, 115 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 3: and I mean, I know she wants to confident guy outgoing. 116 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 6: Can't get more outgoing. 117 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 3: Than that, and I just think maybe maybe I'm being 118 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 3: a little misunderstood. 119 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 6: But but I'm definitely her tight bro definitely or tight. 120 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll try to figure out where you 121 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: play a song come back, and then call her and 122 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's. 123 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 4: Ghosting you and maybe get you another day to write. 124 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you got it, you got it? 125 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, play song, come back, and get your 126 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 2: first AFE follow up. 127 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 4: Next. 128 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first date follow up 129 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Jordan is on the 130 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Christa. So we're about 131 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 2: to call her and see if she'll tell us why 132 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jordan, 133 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 2: why don't you kind of recap your day for us? 134 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, so we went out to a fancy place. We 135 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 3: hit it off. The spot definitely had chemistry. She couldn't 136 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 3: keep her her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her 137 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 3: eyes off her. I was just being confident, you know, 138 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: just showing off my outgoing nature. 139 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 6: I told her some stories. 140 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 3: We hit it off, and you know, I went into 141 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 3: my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation, 142 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 3: and uh, we hit it off. I had a I 143 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 3: had a blast, and I've been texting her about Hey, yes, 144 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 3: let's keep this going, like, let's when I am. 145 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 6: When am I going to sen your game? 146 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 2: Ready for us to call her? Yeah, no doubt, let's 147 00:05:51,120 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: do it. Here we go, hell, Hi, may I speak 148 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: to Christal please? Hey Christa, how are you? My name 149 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 2: is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called 150 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: The Jebel Show. 151 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 5: Hi, Christo, we're all here. My name is Nina, Hi, 152 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 5: and I'm Victoria. 153 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 8: Okay, I know you guys. 154 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 4: Oh you do? 155 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: Sweet well, thank you very much for knowing us. Appreciate that. 156 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show. It's called the 157 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 2: First Day follow Up. It's where if you go on 158 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, 159 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: that person can email us to call you and find 160 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: out why. 161 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 4: You're ghosting, So any idea who would email us about you? 162 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 8: Jordan? 163 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 4: Obviously, yes it is Jordan. 164 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 5: So you are asked you are blatantly ghosting Jordan, Oh yeah, definitely. 165 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 4: Huy, Okay, would you mind telling us why? 166 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 167 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: I mean, like the whole day just felt like I 168 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show. 169 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 8: It was an absurd human I don't know. 170 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 5: I don't know any highlights of the reality show that 171 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 5: you felt like. 172 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 8: You were on so many let's see. 173 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, okay, first off, he's he's really not my type, like, 174 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: is not normally the type of guy I would go 175 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 1: out with, but you know, he's accute, and me pick 176 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: a fancy restaurant, so I figured, you know, why not? 177 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: And so I walk in and there he is in 178 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: this like totally skin tight, like long sleeve white almost 179 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: see through shirt with like you know, his biceps are 180 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: like screaming to please give me a break from bicep curls. 181 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: He just was a total meat head, you know what 182 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: I mean, Like you could just tell. And so dinner 183 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: started fine until like Jordan started talking and he noticed 184 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: the waiter who was like the kind of a skinny, 185 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: young you know, dorky kind of guy. So Jordan starts 186 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: calling him scrawny to his face, and then out of 187 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: nowhere it got worse. So like that was embarrassing enough, 188 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: but then out of nowhere, Jordan like grabs the guy's 189 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: arm and is like and looks at me and goes, Babe, 190 00:07:54,720 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: check this out, and then challenge arm wrestling. 191 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 8: Challenge him to an. 192 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: Arm wrestling match. Luckily, Grownnie declined, so we got away 193 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: with not dealing with that. But yeah, and then he 194 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: just like wouldn't stop talking about like his gym and 195 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: like ever ingredient and his protein shake in the mornings 196 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: and like all of this crap. And then the worst 197 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: part was it's towards the end. I mean, I'm just 198 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: kind of laughing at him because he's again an absurd human. 199 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 8: And towards the end he starts talking about how he 200 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 8: wants to be like a Tony Robbins, like. 201 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: Motivational speaker guy, and he stands up and does like 202 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:43,359 Speaker 1: a motivational seat to the back corner of the restaurant. 203 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 4: We talked that he was really proud of it, of 204 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 4: course he was. 205 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it was mortifying. It was mortifying. 206 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 8: And then when the date was, so he. 207 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 1: Bade the check, sat back down, you know whatever, and 208 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: then he wanted to go like he wasn't ready for 209 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: the night to be over and wanted to take me 210 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: to some bar so that he could arm wrestle more. 211 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 4: Got like I want to off more. 212 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 8: Yeah. Yeah, he just. 213 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: Got to like show off that he could like arm 214 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: wrestle or bench press anybody. 215 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 8: I don't know. It was just absurd. 216 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 1: So you didn't go no, no, no, I got out 217 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:25,199 Speaker 1: of there. 218 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 4: You know who might be surprised to hear that you 219 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 4: felt that way. 220 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 8: Jordan. 221 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 2: Yes, And guess what, Jordan is actually on the phone 222 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: listening and wants to talk to you. Oh god, okay, yeah, 223 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: hey Christa good to hear from you. 224 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 6: Hey, how you doing. 225 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good. 226 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 8: I just want to say that. 227 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 6: You're misunderstanding the whole thing. 228 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 3: Like I get that that maybe the arm wrestling was 229 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 3: the It was been much, but you know, I'll try 230 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 3: and keep things fun. You know, we were having fun 231 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 3: and and it wasn't about it wasn't about showing off. 232 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 3: I mean, look, I'm not It's natural, maybe a little 233 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 3: because that's who I am, but it's because I wanted 234 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 3: you to see I'm not. 235 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 6: I'm not boring. I don't play it safe. I'm not 236 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 6: that kind of guy. 237 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 3: But I didn't realize it comes off or I came 238 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 3: off in any way as anxist. And I'll admit I 239 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 3: probably went overboard. But but that's me being me, that's 240 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 3: Jordan being Jordan's you know. But but for real, I 241 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 3: think there's still chemistry there with us. And I promise 242 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 3: I'll turn it down because I'm not so meat head 243 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 3: trying to prove himself. I'm proven. I just wanted to 244 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 3: make a good impression. 245 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 1: Okay, So I really appreciate how confident and out knowing 246 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 1: you are, and I think that's that's super great. And 247 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: you're not afraid to be yourself, and I think that's great. 248 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 1: I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably 249 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: like looking for different things. You know, You've got this 250 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 1: like big bold personality thing going and I don't really 251 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: mess with that kind of energy, like that's not my 252 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: jam kind of. 253 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 3: Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big 254 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 3: and bold presence. 255 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 6: Who I am, and you you appreciate. 256 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 3: My confidence, and then that's great. And I just want 257 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 3: to know if I could see you again. 258 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 4: Chris, would you like to go? 259 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 3: What? 260 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 4: Jordan again? We'll pay for it? 261 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, No, I'm good, thinks so yeah. 262 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if you hear right there, you started 263 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 3: off with a yes and change, so you just new 264 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 3: changing your mind there. 265 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 8: I see you're still working it out. 266 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 6: I know there's stuff you just need some time, you know. 267 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: And hey, I'm not to keep in touch you know now, 268 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: Joran Jordan's delete my number. 269 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 8: I think that would be the best if you need me. 270 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 6: Look, if you don't like fitness, I don't mess. 271 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 8: A Jordan, go back to the gym. I'm I'm I'm good. 272 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: Well, if I delete your number, how will I know 273 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 3: when you decide to call me? 274 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: You will? 275 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 4: The first date follow up