1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: The following episode was recorded before the WGA sag Aftra 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: strikes of twenty twenty three. 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 2: When I first heard about the revolution in Iran, it 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 2: just made me think so much about how truly grateful 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 2: I am for the freedoms of my daughter and my wife. Gosh, 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: there's so much that we take for granted here in 7 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: this country. Yes, we have a long way to go 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: in terms of equality, gender equality, and things like the 9 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: Equal Rights Amendment that still hasn't been able to pass. 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 2: But at the same time, there's parts of the world 11 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 2: where being a woman limits your opportunities. To have a 12 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: society that is based on that and on those traditions 13 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:53,279 Speaker 2: of silencing the voices of these incredible women is really 14 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 2: a tragedy, and I think that it's very inspiring to 15 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: me to see these women that have risen up and 16 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 2: Iran and Afghanistan and other countries. I have a tremendous 17 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 2: privilege as a man, and the safety that I feel 18 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 2: traveling most places in the world is something that is 19 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: very very easy to take for granted. So today we 20 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 2: have nazanin Boniati and her guest Roya, both from Iran. 21 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: They've got some very very powerful stories to share. This 22 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 2: is a very very timely issue, so please lean in. 23 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 2: I'm glad you're here. Okay, here we are with Nozanin Boniatti. Now, 24 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: first off, did I get it even close to being right? 25 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 3: I'm so impressed you nailed it. 26 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 2: Listen, that is a star's name. I mean a change 27 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 2: your name. Did you change your name? 28 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 3: No? In fact, a lot of people told me to 29 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: change my name, and I thought, you know, I started 30 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: act and sort of about post nine to eleven climates, 31 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 3: so it was you know, nobody's going to that's not 32 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 3: going to resonate with anyone. You'll you'll be stuck, stuck 33 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 3: playing sort of human shields for the rest of your 34 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 3: life exactly. 35 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. What were some of the worst names that 36 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 2: they suggested? 37 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 3: A lot of people wanted me to be named Nina, 38 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 3: Like my first name to be changed from Nazanine to Nina. 39 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: Well that's still kind of Iranian, but you can, you know, 40 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 3: it's westernized, and I think very few people had a 41 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 3: huge name with a problem with my last name. It 42 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: was mainly just sort of the first name. But you know, 43 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 3: you have so many great Iranian actors with incredibly sort 44 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: of complex and gorgeous names like shre Alta shlu and 45 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: and why not. I mean, that's why not. 46 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: I mean, come on, it's people have actually asked me 47 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 2: if I changed my name to Bacon because I thought, 48 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: you know, that that would be as somehow would I 49 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 2: don't know, And I'm like, what kind of a fool 50 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 2: would want to be? You know, have a lifetime of 51 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: jokes about your last name being a breakfast food and 52 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: I was, I couldn't believe it when when people, I mean, 53 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 2: I can't. I don't think I ever really thought about 54 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,839 Speaker 2: switching it. But you know, also there's a very very 55 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 2: large population of the of the world that the name 56 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 2: Bacon does not bring up good feelings. 57 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 3: Oh well, yeah, I never thought of that. But you 58 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 3: know what, I really I dig your name and thank 59 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 3: you she didn't Thank goodness you didn't change it. 60 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for saying that. You know, 61 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 2: a lot of times when people come on the actor 62 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: pretty much everybody that's been on this on this podcast, 63 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: we try to, I try to think about or actually 64 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: do research into whether or not there are actually any 65 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: connections because of this, you know, six degrees thing. Yeah, 66 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: and I don't think that we've ever worked together in 67 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 2: the same project as far as I can tell. Now, 68 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: I'm absolutely certain that you've worked with someone that I've 69 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: worked with, although I'm not exactly sure who that who 70 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 2: that necessarily is. But one connection that we do have 71 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: is a history of soap operas. 72 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't know that. Which one were you on? 73 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: Well? I started in the seventies in New York and 74 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 2: one of the first soap opera that I did was 75 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 2: called Search for Tomorrow. Oh not, it doesn't even exist anymore. 76 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: And I was a boy who just in for the summer, 77 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 2: and the reason that I was there was there was 78 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: a very very popular young lady who was in the 79 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: course of that summer going to turn sixteen and have 80 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 2: her first kiss, and I was going to be the kiss, 81 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 2: but it was kind of the build up to that. 82 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 2: And then I went on to The Guiding Light, which 83 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: I was on for a year as Tim the Teenage Alcoholics. 84 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: So how did you find in your way to to soaps? 85 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 3: I mean, it was right the beginning of my career, 86 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 3: and I feel like goodness now I'm thinking back. It 87 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 3: was a very long time ago, and I I appreciated 88 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 3: the fact that it was like boot camp because you're 89 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 3: learning what an episode of dialogue a day, and it's 90 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 3: just it's a lot and you're making I made all 91 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 3: my mistakes on screen. I mean I cringed sometimes when 92 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 3: I look back at those episodes, and I'm like, what 93 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 3: was I thinking? I mean, I was headed to medical school. 94 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 3: I was going to be a doctor, like every good 95 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 3: Iranian girl is supposed to be. 96 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 2: Wow, what kind of medicine were you going to do? 97 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 3: I was thinking pediatric oncology, which would have been hugely depressing. 98 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 3: But I'm wow, yeah, yeah, And I graduated with honors 99 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 3: in pre med and then I became a nurse on 100 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: general hospital. So my dad was like, that makes no 101 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: sense to me. 102 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: You got the motive, You got the motor was it 103 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 2: became an actor. Doesn't that happen to us a lot? 104 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 2: I think got a lot of that. Yeah, you know, yeah, 105 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: you know you you you work so hard as a 106 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: waiter and then you know your first job is as 107 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 2: a busboy in a movie. You know, But that's but 108 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 2: that's that's fascinating. So but take me back to you 109 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 2: were born in Iran, correct, Yes, and and you left 110 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: right around the time of the revolutionary right after the. 111 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: Rainy Revolutionary Yeah, right after the Islamic Revolution, which was 112 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: seventy nine, and so I was What actually happened was 113 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 3: my parents tried to leave when my mother was eight 114 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 3: months pregnant, and then you know, a scene straight out 115 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 3: of Argo. Basically, my father's name was announced on the 116 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 3: PA system at the airport as they were trying to leave, 117 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 3: and mister Bonneli was summoned to the revolutionary court. And 118 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 3: what that meant was they were both dissidentced they didn't 119 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 3: they were opposed to the newly forming Islamic Republic, and 120 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 3: they they realized that raising a child in that environment 121 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 3: where political, social, legal rights were just quickly being stripped 122 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 3: away from people wouldn't be a good thing. And my 123 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 3: dad would probably be executed because he was against the regime. 124 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 2: And so was he was he a doctor? Was he 125 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 2: in medicine as well? 126 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: He was a journalist. Journalist, you know, they don't like 127 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 3: gen they don't like anybody who sort of uses free expression. 128 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 3: He worked for the King's newspaper, So anybody who worked 129 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: under the former guard that was sort of like target 130 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 3: public enemy number one, and so we were summoned. I 131 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 3: happened to be born while he was waiting for his 132 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: court date, which you would have most likely been just 133 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 3: summarily executed, and we managed to escape on fake passports, 134 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 3: you know, twenty days or something after. 135 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: Where did you fly? Where did you fly? London? 136 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 3: That's that's where I was raised. We got political asylum 137 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 3: in London. My uncle was there at the time, so 138 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 3: it made sense. My parents obviously knew a tiny bit 139 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 3: of English because it was like the second language, second 140 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 3: or third language at the time being taught, and Iran 141 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: and it just made most sense. And so I grew 142 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 3: up in London and council flats and bed and breakfasts, 143 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 3: and I managed to sort of get a scholarship to 144 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 3: a private school because I studied really hard. The typical 145 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 3: immigrant story of parents wanting their kids to sort of 146 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: be successful and you know, yeah, wow. 147 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 2: What a story. Now, So the passports had to be 148 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 2: gathered off of like the black market or something like 149 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 2: that or no. 150 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 3: Actually, oddly enough, the guy who took over the newspaper 151 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 3: that my father was working for, in which he was 152 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 3: sort of head chief accountant and occasionally wrote as well. 153 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 3: He he was he worked for the new government, the 154 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 3: new regime, but he took a liking to my dad 155 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 3: and he said, look, you will be executed. You need 156 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: to get out, and he helped us escape and then 157 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 3: a year later he was executed. 158 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 2: Oh so yeah, wow, that is so story. Yeah, and 159 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: I guess this has probably happened to a lot of people. 160 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I actually just had dinner with a 161 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: man the other night who had a very very similar 162 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 2: story but ended up in England and went to school 163 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 2: in the UK. So you're there living in London and 164 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 2: what did your parents do then, I mean did they 165 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 2: just kind of fundy any job they could or. 166 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, menial jobs. You know. It was a huge again, 167 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: much like any other sort of refugee where you leave 168 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 3: sort of a stable life, things that you're familiar with 169 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 3: in know, and perhaps even great success, and you leave 170 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 3: and you have to sort of start from scratch, except 171 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 3: for this as a young couple. My mother was twenty 172 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 3: at the time, my dad was thirty, and I was 173 00:09:56,880 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: twenty days when we got to London, so you can imagine, 174 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 3: and it adds a lot of pressure to a couple 175 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 3: who don't really know the language or how to navigate 176 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 3: life at such a young age. 177 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 2: And then what was the evil cup that you dragged 178 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 2: become an actor. That made you go, I think I'm 179 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 2: not going to save you know, babies, I think I'll 180 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: be an actor. 181 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: Oh goodness, I feel like Okay. So I was in 182 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 3: every single high school play. I was very sort of 183 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 3: artistic growing up, but it was always encouraged that that 184 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 3: would well, that's just your hobby, right, so's you can 185 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 3: do that. You can go take ballet classes and do 186 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 3: ice skating performances on the ice rink, and you can 187 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 3: play the violin, and you can be in every high 188 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 3: school play. But that's always just going to be a hobby. 189 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 3: I think it's just ingrained in our culture that we 190 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 3: have to be academic. It's a running joke Iranians have 191 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 3: to be doctors. You have lots of choices, doctor, engineer, lawyer, dentist. 192 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 3: Those are your option, and I chose sort of like 193 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 3: I thought. I always knew I wanted to help people. 194 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 3: I thought, well, medicine, that's just how I'm going to 195 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 3: help people. And I sort of suppressed the artistic side. 196 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: And then I got to a point where I got 197 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 3: my I studied so hard, Kevin, I thought it just 198 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 3: didn't come naturally to me to get a's so to 199 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 3: get the a's and to graduate with honors, I went 200 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 3: to UC. I went to UC Irvine, I moved for 201 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 3: university and I thought, okay, I just had to study 202 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 3: so hard. It didn't come naturally at all. So when 203 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 3: I graduated with honors, I remember thinking this is great, 204 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 3: but it just ruined, like it ruined every ounce of 205 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 3: my soul. Again, it didn't come naturally, and the arts 206 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 3: did and do. So it feels like I made the 207 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: right choice. 208 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 2: Oh well, clearly you made the right choice. Just as 209 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 2: I'm just circling back, just thinking about something. As a 210 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 2: scholarship student in a London school or in the British 211 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: school system and being an Iranian refugee, did you find 212 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: that people were welcoming? I mean, I'm assuming that there 213 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 2: weren't a lot a lot of other uh you and 214 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 2: they'll have a lot of friends who were who were Ranian. 215 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 3: No. In fact, I think there it might have only 216 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 3: been one more Iranian person in There was one rounding 217 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 3: guy in my class, I think maybe in all my school. 218 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean that was just a huge difference 219 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 3: between I would go home to a council flat government 220 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 3: which is government housing, and then go to this really 221 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 3: push school with you know, a bunch of rich kids, 222 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 3: and you know, I counted my blessings every day that 223 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 3: I got to sort of get that education. But yeah, 224 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 3: the two lives that I led sort of at home 225 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 3: and were very different. 226 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 2: And how is how did you Was it a kind 227 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 2: of a culture shock to land in southern California and 228 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 2: see that. 229 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is. It's odd. It's I mean, I'm sure 230 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 3: you spent a lot of time in the UK. We 231 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 3: speak the same language, but it is it's hugely different. 232 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:04,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, sure it is. 233 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, So yeah, people sort of take it for granted, 234 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 3: like I just moved to London or I just moved 235 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 3: to la But it is. It takes them adjusting, and 236 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 3: it's it's just different. 237 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: So you're in California and you're finishing up medical school 238 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 2: and you have this giant, giant fork in the road 239 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 2: and you take a different turn. Yeah, how is it? 240 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 4: So? 241 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 2: I'm assuming, like I'm not really sure on the I 242 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: didn't I didn't go to college. I'm not sure on 243 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 2: the math of what you'd be in your twenties maybe 244 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 2: or Yeah. 245 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 3: So I finished pre med, so I got a degree 246 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 3: in biology, and I was applying to medical school and 247 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 3: I was twenty four, I guess twenty five. And that's 248 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 3: when I when I decided I wanted to I actually 249 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 3: wanted to act. And I called my dad who's still 250 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: in London, and I said, thanks for helping me with college, 251 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 3: but I'm going to go act now. Needless to say, 252 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 3: that didn't that didn't necessarily go down very well. 253 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 2: Ah, I can't imagine. I mean, I've not picturing like 254 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 2: an emoji with your with his head blow it off. 255 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. 256 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 2: Wow, he was not happy. No, I'm sure he's been that. Yeah. 257 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 3: He said something along the lines of, couldn't you have 258 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 3: decided this, like maybe four or five years ago before 259 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 3: we before we invested sort of five years for four 260 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 3: or five years in college. 261 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: How do you even begin, you know, to to have 262 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: that career? I mean, I mean, I think people are 263 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 2: always fascinated in what you know. How how do you 264 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: start to be an actor? 265 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 3: Gosh, I wish there was I'm sure you get asked 266 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 3: this question all the time, and I wish there was 267 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 3: sort of this like just one answer that we could 268 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 3: give everyone and help them along the way. It is 269 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 3: sort of hit or miss, and you try everything. And 270 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 3: for me, just because I just graduated UNI. I thought, okay, 271 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 3: I'm just going to go to U C LA and 272 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 3: USC and asked to be in every single student film 273 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 3: and put a reel together and work for free and 274 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 3: then submit to get sort of a manager and see 275 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 3: how that goes. I was really lucky because you know, 276 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 3: everybody said, you're in your mid twenties as an actress. 277 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 3: As a woman, it's harder as a minority woman. It's 278 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 3: even harder, especially in a post nine to eleven climate. 279 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 3: It just all felt sort of the wrong time for 280 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 3: me to start. And also I was aware that people 281 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 3: were doing this since they were nine and still hadn't 282 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 3: quite whatever made it means, but in their minds hadn't 283 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 3: made it. And then I was lucky because I managed 284 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 3: to get a SAG card nine months after I decided 285 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 3: acting to start acting. So I just thought that's and 286 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 3: then I realized, okay, so maybe I am supposed to 287 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 3: be doing this. 288 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good sign. But I got to tell you, 289 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: I don't know that I know of anyone or I've 290 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 2: never spoken to it. I started in New York, but 291 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 2: I'd never spoken to anyone that actually went that. That's 292 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 2: a fascinating rap to actually go to USC and U 293 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 2: C l A and just what do you go, like 294 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: up to a message board or something and just see 295 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 2: if there's anybody be cast in a part. Yeah, that's 296 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 2: really smart because because then you end up with with film, 297 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 2: you know, and and and you get and you get 298 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 2: end up with two great things. One is film and 299 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 2: one is experience. And and by the way, I don't 300 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 2: know if you feel this way, but I'm still waiting 301 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 2: to make it. I mean, I mean, you know, I 302 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: don't you know that idea that somebody feels like they 303 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 2: got there is It's it's not very common, I think 304 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 2: among actors. I think we really are constantly, you know, 305 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 2: still searching for something else because you know, we we 306 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 2: we we're we're freelance operators, you know, and we got 307 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 2: to keep keep the work rolling in So you get 308 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: on your soap and and that that soap was shot 309 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 2: in l A General Hospital, right, gosh. 310 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 3: Yeah it was, it was l A. And it just 311 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 3: it just makes me feel so warm it to hear 312 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 3: you say that, Evin, because it just this idea that you, 313 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 3: with your your level of success, still have that feeling 314 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 3: you know. 315 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 2: Of I'm always waiting for the phone to ring. I'm 316 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,239 Speaker 2: always waiting for the phone to ring. I mean, I 317 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 2: just I don't want it anymore, you know what I mean. 318 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 2: I you know, and I have my moments where sometimes 319 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 2: I go, yeah, you know, you're doing okay, But most 320 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 2: of me, it's kind of like the opposite, Like you know, 321 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. I've talked. I've talked to other actors, 322 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 2: you know, to friends about how we actually get through this. 323 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 2: I think you would probably agree. And when when I 324 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 2: when I ask about the process of how you actually 325 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: got involved and got your you know, sad card and 326 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. I think that one of the 327 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 2: things is that you wake up every day and you 328 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 2: do some kind of baby step towards what it is 329 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 2: that you're hoping for, so you don't let the big 330 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 2: big picture, you know, kind of overwhelm. You focus on 331 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: what what and I do today? You know, because the 332 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 2: hard thing about if you're a violinist, you know, you 333 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 2: got your violin, you can take it out and play 334 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: all day, you know. If you're an actor, it's kind 335 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: of hard to just walk around and act. 336 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 3: That's so true. 337 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 2: But that's so I mean, I find this story so 338 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 2: inspiring from so many levels. I mean the terror that 339 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 2: your parents went through with their their their lives on 340 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 2: the line, being able to escape, then coming to the 341 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 2: UK with nothing. This scholarship, this all the work that 342 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 2: you put in towards towards the medical career, and that 343 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 2: you even you know, specifically wanted to help babies. I mean, 344 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 2: I everything is is just very very inspiring and I 345 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 2: and I really do think that making it's so terrifying 346 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,399 Speaker 2: when you're twenty four. You don't feel like a kid. 347 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 2: Right now, at my age, I think it's someone the 348 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 2: twenty four I think of them sort of a dang kid. 349 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: But when I was twenty four, there was no part 350 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 2: of me that thought of myself as a as a kid. 351 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 2: And to make a giant turn in your life at 352 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 2: that point I had the courage to say, you know, 353 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 2: I think I want to put them the stethoscope and 354 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 2: pick up a script is just it's it's very it's 355 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 2: very inspiring to me if I think kind of fascinating, 356 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 2: Thank Ken, are you working now? 357 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 3: You know what's odd is I the the past ten months, 358 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 3: of course, I've been just committed and diverted to this 359 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 3: woman life freedom revolution in Iran. But before that you know, 360 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 3: I was working and he did you know, all of 361 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 3: the rings and again, like you, much like you, I'm 362 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 3: waiting for the for the phone to ring. And and 363 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 3: but also I've been really happy with sort of turning 364 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 3: down the work in the past ten months because this 365 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 3: has been for my focus and I've really been happy 366 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 3: to sort of stay focused on this. It's not sustainable. 367 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 3: We have to make livings and we have to sort 368 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 3: of keep doing the work, and also to nurture our 369 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 3: artistic brains. Because I don't know about you, Kevin, but 370 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 3: when I'm when there's a lull, I do feel like 371 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 3: something's missing. I feel like I need to get back 372 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 3: in the groove of things and be in an artistic community. 373 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 3: And so, yeah, it's getting to that point. 374 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 4: Now. 375 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 2: Have we turned any kind of a corner in your mind? 376 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 2: You know, you spoke briefly about being in a post 377 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 2: nine to eleven situation being an Iranian actress with the 378 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 2: ARII and name the limited possibilities in terms of people's 379 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 2: minds casting wise, Have we turned any kind of a 380 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 2: corner and in terms of that in our industry, do 381 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 2: you think, because I just wonder if there's been any movement. 382 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I've I've deliberately tried to make choices 383 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 3: I think that have veered away from being pigeonholed and 384 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,959 Speaker 3: that sort of like just stereotype. I was lucky because, 385 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 3: you know, twenty eleven, I got the role of Nora 386 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 3: on How I Met Your Mother, which was she was 387 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 3: just a girl and and sort of the first real 388 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 3: love to Bernie Stinson. And she happened, I happened to 389 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 3: be Iranian, but there was no mention of you know, 390 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,919 Speaker 3: where she's from or background. 391 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 2: She was just English. Did you do an English accent? 392 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 3: I did my own accent yet, And it was fun 393 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 3: to do a comedy and just to play a woman 394 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,719 Speaker 3: and not be sort of stereotyped, to pigeonholed. And then, 395 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: of course, right after that Homeland where I did play 396 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 3: a Muslim Iranian woman with a headscarf, and it was 397 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 3: just thank you, and it was such a lesson in 398 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 3: sort of you know, it was a step in the 399 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 3: right direction. At the time, I knew what they were doing, 400 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 3: which was not all Muslims are bad and not you know, 401 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 3: let's portray this positive character. This is a sort of 402 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 3: epitome of what it's like to be a representation of 403 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 3: just a Muslim woman and not a not a baddie 404 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 3: or a villain, right, and so that was a step 405 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 3: in the right direction today, by today's standards, if we 406 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 3: look at that, we would say, okay, maybe there was 407 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 3: room for sort of adjustment. And then it kept growing 408 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 3: and growing after that. Of like, you know, I think 409 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 3: things are shifting, They're heading in the right direction, for sure, 410 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 3: you do. 411 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm glad to hear it. I'm glad to hear 412 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:54,399 Speaker 2: you say that. Well, talk to me about women life freedom. 413 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 2: It seems to be we highlight a lot of organizations. 414 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 2: This feels a little bit more like a movement than 415 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 2: an actual organization. Am I correct in that? 416 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it's a movement. It's the slogan, it's 417 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 3: essentially the battle cry in the aftermath of the murdering 418 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 3: custody Massagena. I mean, of course, the twenty two year 419 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 3: old kadish Iranian woman who was arrested for quote unquote 420 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 3: inappropriate hijab by the again so called morality police. It's 421 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,439 Speaker 3: such a dystopping reality they live in. I've had my 422 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 3: own run in with the morality police in when I 423 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 3: visited Iran when I was twelve, and it was a 424 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 3: really harrowing experience of just being grilled, and it was 425 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,920 Speaker 3: a glimpse into sort of the daily indignities that women 426 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 3: and girls face in Iran. And so in the aftermath 427 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 3: of her murder, people rose up and the battle cry 428 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 3: became woman life Freedom, which is essentially, we want women's 429 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,239 Speaker 3: rights and equality and we want the you know, we 430 00:23:55,280 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 3: want a normal life, and we want freedom. And that quickly, 431 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 3: you know, women took the streets, young girls took the streets, 432 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 3: taking off their compulsory her jobs. 433 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 2: And incredible to watch from here. 434 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so inspiring and saying the slogan's slogan woman 435 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 3: life Freedom. That led to sort of a pro democracy 436 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 3: uprising because I think what people don't realize is that 437 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: Massa wasn't just young and a woman. She was also 438 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 3: a member of an ethnic and religious minority group. She 439 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 3: was a Curred and she was a Sunni Muslim. And 440 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 3: so what it did to society was anybody who's a minority, 441 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 3: anyone who's fighting for any kind of right, basic human right, 442 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 3: understood that until women and girls have their freedom, democracy 443 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 3: won't prevail. So it became a pro democracy uprising and 444 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 3: they're still going. We may not see the numbers on 445 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 3: the streets but as much as we did in the 446 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 3: past few months, but that that sort of revolution is 447 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 3: in their hearts and their minds. And I talked to 448 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 3: people in the on the ground every day and they 449 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 3: are saying, please, don't give up on us, which is 450 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 3: why I'm so grateful to you, Kevin for spotlighting this now. 451 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,719 Speaker 2: Is it all? I'm wondering about that because is it 452 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 2: a the fact that we haven't been seeing that much 453 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 2: of it in it? I mean, obviously people have such 454 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 2: short memories in this age that we're living in. Is 455 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 2: that a function of the movement being sort of squashed 456 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 2: or is it a temporary thing? I mean, what can 457 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 2: we learn about that? 458 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 3: That's a great question. I you know, these uprisings really started. 459 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 3: What people don't realize, the anti compulsory HDJAB uprising started 460 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 3: in December twenty seventeen. They've been ebbs and flows. The 461 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 3: only real big break and the uprising has been the pandemic, 462 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 3: which which is very talented, tells you everything about the 463 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 3: Iranian people. They don't want to put other Iranians at risk, 464 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 3: so they won't take to the streets if they feel 465 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 3: like they might be contagious and they'll get somebody else 466 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 3: sick and that might lead to their death. But they 467 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,640 Speaker 3: are very willing to take to the streets and risk 468 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 3: their own lives, you know, at the hands of the 469 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 3: regime so called security forces, and take a bullet. I mean, 470 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: they're being shot in the eyes and blinded. They're being 471 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 3: young girls, are being school girls are being gassed, and 472 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 3: yet they keep protesting. Of course, it's not sustainable because 473 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 3: the reason we're not seeing the numbers on the streets 474 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 3: is because after being killed and tortured and raped and 475 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 3: all these things, there's only so much people can take. 476 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 3: So you see sort of them, you know, taking a 477 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 3: step back, regrouping. But the ebbs and the time between 478 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 3: the ebbs and the flows are getting shorter and shorter. 479 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 3: I don't doubt that that we're going to see another 480 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 3: mass uprising soon. The question is, can we the international 481 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 3: community step up this time, make sure Iranians have internet access, 482 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 3: really condemn and hold the Iranian regime to account, and 483 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 3: stand with the Iranian people. As long as we keep 484 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 3: negotiating with their leadership, as long as we normalize them, 485 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 3: we we're not really standing with the people. We need 486 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 3: to all we need to do is stand with the 487 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 3: people so that they decide what they want for their 488 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 3: own future. 489 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 2: That's an excellent, excellent point I want to bring into 490 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 2: this conversation, Roya pr I. First off, thank you welcome 491 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 2: and thanks for joining us. Do the two of you 492 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 2: know each other? 493 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 3: Yes? 494 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we do? 495 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, And how are you, Roya? 496 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 4: I'm fine. I'm somehow struggling with a lot of ups 497 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 4: and downyl's but at this roll rules I'm better. I'm 498 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 4: getting better. But you know, I always say that until 499 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 4: we overthrow this regime, the Islamic Republic of your own, 500 00:27:53,640 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 4: and until we steak justice will be able to gain 501 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 4: justice in your own I think I'm not going to 502 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 4: be fine till that time, but I'm better now. 503 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 2: First off, let me just say from the bottom of 504 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 2: my heart, this is a very difficult thing for you 505 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:24,880 Speaker 2: to discuss, and I am truly truly sorry for your 506 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 2: loss and up and thank you for having the courage to, 507 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 2: you know, to take that terrible situation and use your 508 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 2: voice to try to try to facilitate some kind of 509 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 2: change in people's thinking. But can you just tell us 510 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 2: the story first? 511 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 4: Of all, thanks for having me her, It's a lot alert. 512 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 4: I was born in your own I was born in 513 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 4: the city of Kerlouansha. It's a Kurdish city. I'm a 514 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 4: Kurdish girl. I was born in the Kurdish family. My 515 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 4: family were pretty decent, like, I had a healthy family, 516 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 4: not traumas. Even the fact that I was growing up 517 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 4: in a society under the control of an outdated regime 518 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 4: with with outdated ideologies they have the design of republic. 519 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 4: I think I had a good life. We were good together, 520 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 4: me and my family. I have two siblings. I have 521 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 4: a brother sister, both older than me, and I was 522 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 4: the last child. Took kind of spoiled. So and my family, 523 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 4: they were not religious at all. And on my father's side, 524 00:29:53,920 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 4: actually we uh we were Jarasan, which is uh religion 525 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 4: in the Kurdish province. It is uh. A lot of 526 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 4: people there are a part of that community and uh 527 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 4: uh their religion is Arson. But me myself, we I 528 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 4: don't believe in anything like an agnostic and yeah, so 529 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 4: religion was not a big deal in our family. So 530 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 4: somehow in my house, in my family, I had freedom. 531 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 4: But you know, when you go out, when you municate. 532 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 4: It's it's like you become a hypocrite. You have to 533 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 4: show something, especially in UH school, in UH universities, and 534 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 4: when you go to administrations to do something, you have 535 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 4: to become something else. 536 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 2: Something to life. It's like you have exactly you have. 537 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 4: To always put on WS. This was, you know, the 538 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 4: explanation that I thought that I need to make, yeah, 539 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 4: before I get into the story. 540 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 2: So it was, It's great, It's very helpful, it's fascinating. 541 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 4: Thank you. So it was on September twenty, twenty twenty two. 542 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 4: That morning, I was with my mom at home and 543 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 4: we used to go to the gym with each other. 544 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 4: So she was a bit away from exercising and she said, 545 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 4: I'd better start exercising and yon and coming to the 546 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 4: jedil with you. But I don't. That day, I was, 547 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 4: I felt a bit sick, and I just told her 548 00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 4: that I'm not really in the mood. I don't feel well. Uh, 549 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 4: And we didn't go. After that. At lunch story, I 550 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 4: got out of home and that was the last time 551 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 4: with selwein Wo. I went to join my friends for 552 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 4: the launch and after that I had to go to 553 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 4: my brother's house to peep the cats because they were 554 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 4: a traveling they were in Tehu. So yeah, I didn't 555 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 4: know that she was going to join the protest. She 556 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 4: didn't tell me anything about it. She just saw me 557 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 4: maybe uh she would go, uh do some pain poll. 558 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 2: Because why do you think she didn't tell you about it? 559 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: I'm curious. I don't think. 560 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 4: I don't think there is no I don't think she 561 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 4: wanted to keep its secret like she was worried, uh 562 00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 4: like if I joined her. No, I think it was 563 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 4: like a sudden decision that it was just like her. 564 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 2: It was kind of like on her route. Maybe she 565 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 2: just got a sense that it was happening and decided 566 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 2: to join in. 567 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it was not unexpected because my mom she 568 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 4: used to participate in the previous uprisings, like uprising in 569 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 4: twenty nineteen, twenty twenty which people are you know, they 570 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 4: call it the Bloody November or Bloody Alburn, And she 571 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 4: participated in that in a green movement. And yeah, all 572 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 4: of my family they were always opposed to the Islamic Republic. 573 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 4: So she felt that responsibility and she always cared about people. 574 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 4: She was I'm not saying this because just my mom. 575 00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 4: Everybody loved their room. But yeah, she is truly curring parted. 576 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 4: I think she did what she had to and asked 577 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 4: her and uh sorry. And when she got out, my 578 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 4: father was with her. It was seven point thirty, Yeah, 579 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 4: waiting around that time. She said to my father that 580 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 4: she wants to Corney Street drying protests. And my father 581 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:31,280 Speaker 4: was really worried as we already seen that they kill people, 582 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 4: like in the Bloody November it said that they have 583 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 4: killed one thousand, six hundred people. So he was worried 584 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 4: about her, and he said that don't go, and she 585 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,319 Speaker 4: told her, told him that if I don't go and 586 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,720 Speaker 4: you don't go, then who will go. Then the youth 587 00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 4: will go out and they will be killed. So that's 588 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 4: how she felt about this, right, she felt sympathy and 589 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 4: empathy for Massa, for Genier, a twenty two year old 590 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 4: girl and was killed just for improper a job she 591 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:24,399 Speaker 4: had a job on. It was just not proper to them, 592 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:31,720 Speaker 4: to the morality police, and it's just really absurd. It's ridiculous. 593 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:38,320 Speaker 4: And her death was like a spark like the society. 594 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 4: They had the potential, they had the anger towards the 595 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 4: regime because they were struggling with a lot of things 596 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 4: in your lives, the lives that the Islamic Republic made 597 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 4: for them. They were struggling with poverty, with discrimination, gender partheid, 598 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 4: corruption in everything like administrations, the ecologomy, with that they 599 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:10,439 Speaker 4: don't have a basic human rights. So they were fed 600 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 4: up with it. Yeah, as I said, my mother, she 601 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,160 Speaker 4: was always host to this regime. 602 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,359 Speaker 2: I mean, it's a terrible, terrible piece of news to 603 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 2: get and devastating I'm sure for your father and for 604 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 2: your siblings. But it seems as though you have decided 605 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 2: to uh kind of take it and start using your 606 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 2: voice in terms of this. And I'm and you know, 607 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I would think that a lot of people 608 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 2: would kind of go the other direction, you know, would 609 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 2: sort of say, well, this is just too painful and 610 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 2: not to mention too danger terius and to life threatening 611 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 2: to be able to you know, kind of speak about this. 612 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 2: What what what is it that that made you specifically 613 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 2: want to get involved and continue to you know, uh, 614 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 2: carry on your mother's legacy of wanting to want to change. 615 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 4: In the beginning, Uh, the way that I protested against 616 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:30,320 Speaker 4: what happened, uh, what they did to my mother and 617 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 4: to my family, it wasn't in words. I didn't speak. 618 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 4: I showed it with a picture. That was my way 619 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:45,240 Speaker 4: because somehow I'm an intulbird person and I can't really 620 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 4: put my feelings into words. I managed to uh take 621 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 4: that picture and look into the camera with my hate 622 00:37:56,000 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 4: head shape and with my hair and my hairs. That 623 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,799 Speaker 4: that was it. That was all that I felt. And 624 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:08,720 Speaker 4: people received waring message. People understood that feeling, that anger 625 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:15,479 Speaker 4: that I had in that grief, and I wanted that 626 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 4: that picture to uh go viral and uh to be 627 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 4: seen and and somehow it's with its then viral like 628 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 4: not not the way that I expected, because it was 629 00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 4: just not Iranians like people outside Iran and seeing that 630 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:42,879 Speaker 4: picture and felt what I felt. So now so yeah, 631 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 4: at the beginning it wasn't with h speaking up. But 632 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 4: after I got out of Iran, so I first I 633 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 4: went to Turkey and I stayed there and then I 634 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 4: went to friends. That was the time that I had 635 00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 4: I was able to speak up. When we met President 636 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 4: Nakan with a group uh like with UH journalists and 637 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 4: activements political activists, mass miss uh load and woman and 638 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 4: Shimubibi which uh these two they were also breathed like uh, 639 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 4: she was that UH was abducted by Isladic Republic and 640 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 4: the father of Ladin women UH was killed, was. 641 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 3: UH terrorized a terrors uh? 642 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 4: And yeah, that was the time that uh I found 643 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 4: a platform to speak. And at that time I literally 644 00:39:54,600 --> 00:40:00,080 Speaker 4: uh think like properly, like I was like in a 645 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 4: Hilight modes and I felt like, Okay, this is the 646 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 4: right thing to do. This is an opportunity and I 647 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,920 Speaker 4: have to use it to speak on behalf of the 648 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 4: lost voices like gray wolves. 649 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 2: Uh. 650 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 4: So I continued accepting some interviews. Yeah, and then I 651 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:29,719 Speaker 4: applied for visa for UK. My sister she's living in UK. 652 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,720 Speaker 4: So I had no one in h friends, no channeling members. 653 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:39,879 Speaker 4: So I was granted visa and I went to UK. 654 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 2: And now you have you don't have it. You don't 655 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 2: have a British accent yet? 656 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, right, yes, because in Iran the English classes are 657 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 4: mainly uh in American accent. They don't. 658 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 2: The correct kind of English. 659 00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:06,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. So uh. Yeah it continued my uh like my activities, 660 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,799 Speaker 4: but I'm not that active because it needs a lot 661 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 4: of energy. I'm not an activist yet. This is not 662 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:20,439 Speaker 4: the path that I have chosen. I could never think 663 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 4: of this like uh, you know, uh, this happening to me, 664 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 4: and you know, going into this path, I don't see 665 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 4: myself like this kind of person who would be active 666 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 4: and becoming activists and what would. 667 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:40,240 Speaker 2: You like, what would you like to be doing in situations? 668 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 4: So I was always interested in arts. Unfortunately I couldn't 669 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 4: do that in uh Iran because in the city that 670 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 4: I lived lived in in cameon Shaw. The university is there, 671 00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:00,480 Speaker 4: they don't have artistic majors. So when I was there, 672 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 4: I chose architecture because okay, it has argulated. Yeah, so 673 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 4: I started to a study architecture, but it wasn't really 674 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 4: a big deal for me. 675 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:22,040 Speaker 3: I was really, guy, how did you connect? I? First off, 676 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 3: she roy You're so brave, and you know, we've known 677 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,160 Speaker 3: each other for a few months now. I first spoke 678 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,319 Speaker 3: to Roya through a mutual friend when she was in Paris. 679 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 3: She was still in Paris and she was seeking to 680 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 3: go to the UK to join her sister where she 681 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,239 Speaker 3: is now. And and so I think a bunch of 682 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,959 Speaker 3: us just sort of tried to talk to the UK 683 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 3: government and the American government to try to get her 684 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 3: visit to one or the other, but preferably the UK 685 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 3: so she could be with Massa, her sister, her lovely 686 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,800 Speaker 3: sister who I've had I've now had the honor of 687 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:57,040 Speaker 3: meeting in person both of them, and your courage, Roya. 688 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,960 Speaker 3: You know, like you said, you didn't choose this part. 689 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,360 Speaker 3: Some of us have chosen this path. You didn't, that 690 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 3: you were thrown into it. But what stands out to 691 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:11,279 Speaker 3: me is the grace with which you've handled this situation. 692 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 3: You're impeccable English, which I'm just still I can't believe 693 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 3: your English is so good, that you conduct yourself in 694 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:22,759 Speaker 3: these interviews so well. And I think the first time 695 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,400 Speaker 3: I became fully aware of her courage and her and 696 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 3: just everything she's endured was when she met with President 697 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 3: mccran and how eloquently you spoke, and the courage and 698 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 3: how much you inspired so many of us and the 699 00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:41,319 Speaker 3: message of keep going. We need your help because unfortunately 700 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 3: Roy's story and massive story are not unique, and there's 701 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 3: so many kids who've lost Now I say, kid, Rory, 702 00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 3: You're not a kid, but you know you'll always be 703 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 3: a kid to your parents who've lost parents, or parents 704 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 3: who've lost children and siblings, and the list goes on 705 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,320 Speaker 3: and on. But there's this incredible logan for every person 706 00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,919 Speaker 3: who gets killed, a thousand will rise up behind them. 707 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 3: And I think that's what Roya personifies, is this idea 708 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,840 Speaker 3: of one person standing up and galvanizing thousands of people 709 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 3: for the cause. 710 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 2: You know. That brings me to the question of we 711 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 2: sit over here and see what's going on over there 712 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:28,840 Speaker 2: and sometimes scratch our heads in terms of how we 713 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 2: can be helpful and how we can get involved. And 714 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 2: I'm just wondering if there's a if either one of 715 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 2: you have any kind of suggestions in terms of that, 716 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 2: you know, is there a call to action here that 717 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:47,800 Speaker 2: we can explain to people. 718 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 3: Yes, and maybe Roya has something to add to this, 719 00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 3: but I would say, please, there's a quite correctly said 720 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,920 Speaker 3: that Iran as a gender apartheid state that isn't legal 721 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 3: recognized in international law. Apartheid only applies to race, whereas 722 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,879 Speaker 3: countries like Iran and Afghanistan women are segregated for men 723 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,640 Speaker 3: and men and oppressed in a way that can only 724 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 3: be defined as gender apartheid. To get that legally defined, 725 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 3: please go to end gender Apartheid dot today and gender 726 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 3: Apartheid dot today, add your names and amplify as their 727 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 3: clear instructions of what the campaign is and if you 728 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 3: want to donate, please donate to Iran Rights dot org, 729 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,879 Speaker 3: the Abduraman Buraman Center and of course Ladan Buraman as 730 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 3: one of the people who went with Royal to see 731 00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,319 Speaker 3: President mccron Iran Rights dot org. Roya, do you have 732 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 3: anything to add? 733 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:50,480 Speaker 4: I always say that stand with people, stand on the 734 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 4: right side up the history. I think we should always 735 00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 4: see the true from the people of a country. So 736 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 4: listen to them and hear what they have to say. 737 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 4: I know in the end it's the people that should 738 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:19,560 Speaker 4: win this revolution and overthrow this regime. But any help, yeah, 739 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,759 Speaker 4: we would appreciate that. We're region go on. 740 00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, thank you, yeah, thank you. I mean, 741 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 2: roy I just have to say I think you are 742 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 2: an incredible person. I think that you know, as we mentioned, 743 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,640 Speaker 2: you could run, you could hide, you could stay silent 744 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 2: for the rest of your life. And and as you 745 00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,840 Speaker 2: pointed out, this was not a this was not a choice, 746 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 2: This was something that was thrust upon you. And to 747 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,239 Speaker 2: stand up in the way that you have given this 748 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 2: these terrible, terrible circumstances is really nothing short of hero 749 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:05,759 Speaker 2: and so I wish you all the best with your 750 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:09,479 Speaker 2: art and your architecture and and. 751 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 4: Yeah maybe not architecture. I think I'm going to uh 752 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 4: do an art foundation to just figure it. 753 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:18,319 Speaker 3: Figure it out. 754 00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 2: That's great, you know, listen to in whatever you want 755 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,239 Speaker 2: to do. I can picture you being great at it. 756 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 4: Thank you. I need to add I'm in a safe 757 00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 4: country somehow, so I think any Iranians that have been 758 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:45,400 Speaker 4: victimized by Islamic Republic, if they have a safety zone, 759 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 4: if they go to a safe country, I think many 760 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 4: of them would speak up. And I think there are 761 00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 4: there are just a lot of people that are more 762 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 4: brave than me. We have more carriage than those who 763 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:07,839 Speaker 4: went to the streets and protested empty with empty hands 764 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 4: against the guards that had shotguns in their hands or 765 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 4: even having machine guns, military machine guns like the massacred 766 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:25,759 Speaker 4: that they did in the Kritish province in Iran. In 767 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 4: gen or life, life, freedom uprising. I think that is 768 00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,400 Speaker 4: the real courage to me. 769 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,920 Speaker 2: Well, thank you, thank you for being here, nazing In. 770 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:49,640 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for highlighting this and also for 771 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 2: your work. Keep up your good work, beautiful work, keep 772 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 2: doing it. I wish you all the best luck and 773 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 2: you know you we know that what we what we 774 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:06,239 Speaker 2: like to talk about on this on this show is that, 775 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,640 Speaker 2: you know, sometimes people that are in the arts also 776 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:15,319 Speaker 2: care about other things, and you're a perfect example of that. 777 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:20,879 Speaker 2: And so I applaud you for that and thank you and. 778 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 3: We thank you for you. 779 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you ever for caring. 780 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:28,359 Speaker 2: Thank you right, absolutely, all right, Well, take good care. 781 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,840 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to another episode of six Degrees with 782 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 2: Kevin Bacon, Nazenine and Roya's story. It's so poignant, it's 783 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:41,239 Speaker 2: so relevant. This is a crisis that is going on 784 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:44,240 Speaker 2: right now. And if you want to learn more about 785 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:50,760 Speaker 2: woman life freedom movement, head to www dot end Gender 786 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:54,400 Speaker 2: Apartheid dot today. You can find all the links in 787 00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 2: our show notes. Make sure you subscribe to the show 788 00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 2: and tune into the rest of our episodes. You can 789 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 2: find six Degrees with Kevin Bacon on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, 790 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts. 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