WEBVTT - Boeing Astronauts Return From Space, Trooper Michael Proctor Fired, Jim Morrison May Be Alive, and More!

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<v Speaker 1>Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On this episode, we

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be talking about more celebrity death conspiracy theories,

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<v Speaker 1>the astronauts that were stranded in space finally coming home,

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<v Speaker 1>a man who lived with his dead girlfriend for twenty days,

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<v Speaker 1>and not telling your family when you have a terminal illness.

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<v Speaker 1>We also have a lot more to discuss on today's episode,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start off with this newest celebrity death conspiracy theory.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So basically this new docu series drafted on Apple,

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<v Speaker 2>where these people are saying they believe that Jim Morrison

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<v Speaker 2>of The Doors is alive even though we believe that

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<v Speaker 2>he died back in nineteen seventy one.

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<v Speaker 1>So is this something that is new because I know

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<v Speaker 1>that forever there's been conspiracy theories of him and Elvis

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<v Speaker 1>and whoever else like still being alive. There's been parodies

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<v Speaker 1>in movies. Do you remember I think it was like

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<v Speaker 1>death that Becomes Her. They were, you know, like all

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<v Speaker 1>those people had taken that potion and there was like

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<v Speaker 1>this party afterwards, and Elvis was there, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like things like that, like fun things and movies, just

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<v Speaker 1>acting like these people are still alive. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there was definitely shadiness when he died, so I could

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<v Speaker 1>understand why people this is exactly why conspiracy theories happened,

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<v Speaker 1>because things aren't done according to protocol, right, Yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>When he died. He was only twenty seven when he died,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was just after they finished recording an album

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<v Speaker 2>and he was notably dealing with severe drug problems at

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<v Speaker 2>the time. But basically he was found dead in a bathtub.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't do an autopsy, and then he got buried

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<v Speaker 2>in pairs, which I thought was really weird. But I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really know all that much about his life and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe if he wanted to be buried there or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>but it all seemed to go down pretty quickly. But

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<v Speaker 2>it is unusual, in my opinion, it's unusual that they

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't do an autopsy, especially on such a high profile person.

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<v Speaker 1>So was his girlfriend at the time. I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>know a ton about this. Was his girlfriend at the

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<v Speaker 1>time from France.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think she was. I think that she

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<v Speaker 2>was American and they met in the United States. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so well, regardless they they were there, and I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>a couple different things that she was They were a

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<v Speaker 2>longtime girlfriend and boyfriend, so there might have been a

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<v Speaker 2>thing that he was considered to be common law with her,

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<v Speaker 2>which may give her some rights as far.

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<v Speaker 1>As where he's buried. And maybe, I mean, one possibility

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<v Speaker 1>is that they just loved that city and that is

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<v Speaker 1>where she would thought he would want to be buried.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just have a lot of questions about how

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<v Speaker 1>it all went down. So I guess the first shady

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<v Speaker 1>thing is is that he died and they didn't alert

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<v Speaker 1>anybody or the media, Like nobody knew for six days,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was already buried by the time the public

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<v Speaker 1>found out, so his family and friends were very surprised

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<v Speaker 1>to hear about it. And I feel like her story

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<v Speaker 1>changed a lot about what happened that night.

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<v Speaker 2>And she was a drug addict too, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>I think she ended up overdosing not long after him, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Regardless, her story changed a lot. And then obviously when

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<v Speaker 1>people are on drugs are drinking and stuff, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>story is going to change. But I guess it did

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<v Speaker 1>come out to be true years later that the scene

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<v Speaker 1>was not initially what investigators suspected, so they came up

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<v Speaker 1>to the house and found him in the bathtub dead.

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<v Speaker 1>But then later when they did some investigation, witnesses came

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<v Speaker 1>forward and said that it actually, this is the newest

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<v Speaker 1>allegation that it appears that he had an overdose in

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<v Speaker 1>a nightclub that night, and he had been found in

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<v Speaker 1>the nightclub bathroom, bent over the toilet, unresponsive, and the

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<v Speaker 1>people that had sold him the drugs that night had

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<v Speaker 1>taken him back to the house and put him in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathtub. Now, the shady thing that comes out of

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<v Speaker 1>that is that these two people who were selling the

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<v Speaker 1>drugs at the club were these high profile drug dealers

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<v Speaker 1>that sold to celebrities, and they were called aristocrats or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>They're really high profile people, and they were trying to

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<v Speaker 1>cover it up. And the very interesting thing is that

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<v Speaker 1>there's allegations that one of these drug dealers was having

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<v Speaker 1>an affair with Jim Morrison's girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's totally possible that this happened. It was

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<v Speaker 2>also the seventies, so just like it's the seventies, you're

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<v Speaker 2>in a different country. They have different forensic protocols when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to finding a dead person.

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<v Speaker 1>I do clearly know standards whatsoever, because this easily could

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<v Speaker 1>have been figured out. And I guess you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>could say this with all sorts of celebrity deaths, that

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<v Speaker 1>normal protocols aren't aren't followed, and look what happens. Like

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<v Speaker 1>so in a normal situation, you would one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>do an autopsy. In this case because the guys twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seven drugs were involved. There's just multiple reasons why you

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<v Speaker 1>would do an autopsy in this case. The girlfriend said

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<v Speaker 1>she found them, like okay, okay, Like why don't we

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<v Speaker 1>do the autopsy and figure out what really happened because

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<v Speaker 1>we're not listening to people's stories because I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>There's just been a history of people lying about what

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<v Speaker 1>actually happened forever. So that's why autopsies are done. So

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<v Speaker 1>the very first thing that we could notice with just

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<v Speaker 1>an external exam in a situation like that is if

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<v Speaker 1>his body was indeed moved after he died, so that

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<v Speaker 1>could have been something that was done without even cutting

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<v Speaker 1>his body open. Is to be able to tell that.

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<v Speaker 1>And the way that we could tell that is, so

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<v Speaker 1>let's say, for example, the story that we're hearing is

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<v Speaker 1>true that he did in fact die at the nightclub, so,

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<v Speaker 1>which is which is also interesting because of what the

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<v Speaker 1>witnesses said. So they went in the bathroom and they

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<v Speaker 1>found them slumped over the toilet for an unknown amount

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<v Speaker 1>of time. And this person that found him had said

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<v Speaker 1>that he was unresponsive, he was already dead, and he

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<v Speaker 1>had foam coming out of his mouth and his nose.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is what is expected to be seen in

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<v Speaker 1>a person who has had an opioid overdose because it

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<v Speaker 1>depresses the respiratory centers in the brain and it causes

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<v Speaker 1>pulmonary edema, which is fluid in the lungs. So when

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<v Speaker 1>people are taking their last breaths, that little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>air mixed with that fluid creates a foam and it

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<v Speaker 1>froths out through the nose and at autopsy you would

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<v Speaker 1>see that in the long tissue as well as in

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<v Speaker 1>the trachea. But so this is important that this guy

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<v Speaker 1>saw this. But when you die, all of the blood

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<v Speaker 1>leaves your circulatory system and it starts going to the

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<v Speaker 1>dependent areas based upon gravity. So, for example, when we

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<v Speaker 1>do autopsies on people who die in the hospital, when

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<v Speaker 1>you die laying in bed, when the blood starts leaving

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<v Speaker 1>your circulatory system, it goes to the lowest point, which

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<v Speaker 1>would be the entire back of your body, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we see usually in hospital autopsies. But if he died,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, in the bathroom at this club, and was

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<v Speaker 1>bent over the toilet, so let's say he was kneeling

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<v Speaker 1>next to it like you would be if you were vomiting,

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<v Speaker 1>then you would expect to see this blood pulling. This

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<v Speaker 1>is also called lividity or live re mortis. You would

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<v Speaker 1>see this in the front of his body wherever he

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<v Speaker 1>was leaning over, so you would see it in his

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<v Speaker 1>face and his belly. So even if those guys picked

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<v Speaker 1>him up and moved him back to the house and

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<v Speaker 1>put him in the bathtub, you would still expect to

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<v Speaker 1>see the live re mortis on the front of his body,

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<v Speaker 1>which to any death investigator you would be like HM's

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<v Speaker 1>that he has lividity on the front of his body

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<v Speaker 1>when he was found in the bathtub on his back.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you understand like that that to me would

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<v Speaker 1>be really unusual. I guess the girlfriend said that he

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<v Speaker 1>had blood coming out of his nose in his mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>And another way that you could explain that is that

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<v Speaker 1>when a body starts decomposing, the bacteria start breaking down

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<v Speaker 1>the organs, and this fluid could come The organs essentially

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<v Speaker 1>start to liquefy and they could come out of the mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when the bodies move. So sometimes if we find

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<v Speaker 1>a body there's nothing there and then you move the

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<v Speaker 1>body just to bring the body to the morgan, this

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<v Speaker 1>fluid comes out of their mouth and nose, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not really blood. It's like a brownish fluid. It's called purge,

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<v Speaker 1>but some people mistake it to look like blood. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's another indication that he was moved, and also that

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<v Speaker 1>he was decomposing for some time before authorities were called

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<v Speaker 1>to the house. So this is exactly why autopsies need

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<v Speaker 1>to be done, because you just can't especially with people

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<v Speaker 1>that are on drugs, you can't trust them.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I have a side note question. So this new

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<v Speaker 2>show came out this week with Amanda Seifred on Peacock.

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<v Speaker 2>It's she's like a cop in Kensington in Philly and

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<v Speaker 2>she deals with like all the drug addicts on K

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<v Speaker 2>and A and everything. But on the first episode of

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<v Speaker 2>the show, all these women are showing up dead and

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<v Speaker 2>then they're saying the medical examiner is just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>they just odeed, so we're not doing autopsies. Is that

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<v Speaker 2>standard that they would find an ode person on the

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<v Speaker 2>street and does not assume.

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<v Speaker 1>No they And that was actually interesting to me as

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<v Speaker 1>a student because I remember one time and we had

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<v Speaker 1>so many drug cases and this was when it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even super crazy like it is now in Philly, but

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<v Speaker 1>we would do We had an autopsy on this one

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<v Speaker 1>guy who was like my age. He was in his

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<v Speaker 1>young twenties and he odd in the basement of his

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<v Speaker 1>house and his parents found him dead, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>I just was upset about it because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is terrible for parents to find their kids. And

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<v Speaker 1>the mom said, you know, he's had problems his whole

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<v Speaker 1>life and this and that. So my first question, because

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<v Speaker 1>this is when I was a student still, I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like, all right, well, he has injection marks

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<v Speaker 1>in his arm, he has this long standing history of

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<v Speaker 1>overdosing and being on drugs, Like he was found in

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<v Speaker 1>all the classic ways you would see from an overdose death,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why are we doing this autopsy right now? And

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<v Speaker 1>that's just what happens. They're all done because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know, you just want to confirm it. Toxicology will

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<v Speaker 1>confirm it. And this is another thing too, like you

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<v Speaker 1>have a guy that overdosed and you didn't even do toxicology.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually came out and said with Jim Morrison that

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<v Speaker 1>his cause of death was or his manner of death

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<v Speaker 1>was natural. And they said that maybe he had a

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<v Speaker 1>heart attack. Yes, they didn't even say that. The speculation

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<v Speaker 1>of him overdosing actually didn't even come up until fans

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<v Speaker 1>back in the US were just like, Yeah, this guy

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<v Speaker 1>had like a drug problem and he probably over.

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<v Speaker 2>And how is a twenty seven year old that's seemingly

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<v Speaker 2>healthy just gonna have a heart attack and die.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that could happen, so don't you don't mind.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm saying it's not usual, and they're therefore in

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<v Speaker 2>autopos It absolutely is not usual. And especially listen when anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>like if you had a twenty seven year old that

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<v Speaker 2>was it, that went to the hospital and then got

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<v Speaker 2>diagnosed with a heart condition, maybe a congenital heart condition

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<v Speaker 2>that was unknown or something, and they died, it might

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<v Speaker 2>not be indicative to do an autopsy when you find

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<v Speaker 2>a twenty seven year old dead in a bathtub, like

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<v Speaker 2>it's you do an autopsy, You just do, especially when

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<v Speaker 2>they have a history of drugs, especially when they're freaking

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<v Speaker 2>Jim Morrison, Like, the whole thing's crazy. But I mean, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what happened in the seventies in

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<v Speaker 2>this country, let alone. But I do know.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we've covered a lot of celebrity death dissections that

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<v Speaker 1>happened during this time period, and I do know that

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<v Speaker 1>they had the ability to see all of these things

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm talking about right now. They had toxicology, They

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<v Speaker 1>had the ability to use a knife and cut him

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<v Speaker 1>open and look at his lungs, look at them under

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<v Speaker 1>the microscope, and they would easily been able to rest

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<v Speaker 1>all of this. But maybe, I mean, maybe they were

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<v Speaker 1>afraid of the media getting crazy and they just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get him in the ground and move on. But

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<v Speaker 1>I always think it's suspicious when people are very quick

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<v Speaker 1>to get someone in the ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, this is kind of adding to why this

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<v Speaker 2>docuseries has come out and is really controversial, because they're

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<v Speaker 2>basically alluding to the fact that because of how suspicious

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<v Speaker 2>his death was and how quickly he was buried in everything,

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<v Speaker 2>that they think he might have faked his death, and

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<v Speaker 2>that he's this man named Frank that's currently living in Syracuse,

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<v Speaker 2>New York. So I don't know how this filmmaker came

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<v Speaker 2>to this conclusion or ended up finding this person named Frank.

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<v Speaker 2>They did interview this man, I will say. Looking at

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<v Speaker 2>pictures of him and a young Jim Morrison, they do

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<v Speaker 2>look very similar. But again, this could be solved with

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<v Speaker 2>a simple DNA test. So I don't know why there's.

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<v Speaker 1>Alla And his brother is in the documentary as well,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe, so that again very very simple for them

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<v Speaker 1>to figure that out. And also I mean in theory,

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<v Speaker 1>if he was buried in Paris, he's his body's still there,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you really if if you really wanted to know,

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<v Speaker 1>and the brother is the legal next to kin, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it just exzoom him and find out. Exzoom the body

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<v Speaker 1>and see if it's him. I mean, this could just

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<v Speaker 1>be close. What's the why is it like this? What

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<v Speaker 1>is there so many questions about it's I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's an easy fix.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel like it's an easy answer. I was

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<v Speaker 2>looking online and it doesn't seem like the reviews of

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<v Speaker 2>the docuseries are that great and saying it's very long

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<v Speaker 2>and drawn out and not really giving definitive answers, so

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<v Speaker 2>kind of what's the point. But I yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>if you just look at the pictures of these people

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<v Speaker 2>next to each other, you could say that. But everybody

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<v Speaker 2>has doppelgangers, so you can't just say that this man

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<v Speaker 2>is is Jim Morrison. And maybe he is, but like,

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<v Speaker 2>just get the DNA test.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the questions that I did have about this, though,

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<v Speaker 1>is to see who the beneficiary was. Because I did,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't really get a clear answer. It seems like

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<v Speaker 1>she could have been, like I said, because they were

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<v Speaker 1>saying that they were common law because he did he

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<v Speaker 1>had money, right, And I mean, come on, if this

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<v Speaker 1>woman was having an affair with the guy that sold

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<v Speaker 1>him drugs, I mean, it is quite possible that it

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<v Speaker 1>was just a bad batch or whatever he just did

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<v Speaker 1>too much, because that happens often. But it's a little

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<v Speaker 1>shady that the guy who gave you the drugs that

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<v Speaker 1>killed you was actually having an affair with his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just yeah, but what would be the point

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<v Speaker 1>of inheriting it if she ended up over overdosing not

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<v Speaker 1>that long after him. Well, she didn't know she was

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<v Speaker 1>going to She didn't know she was going to die.

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<v Speaker 1>And furthermore, like if she had any involvement with his death,

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<v Speaker 1>she probably if she if it was truly accidental, she

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<v Speaker 1>might have felt terrible about it. And I mean, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>if you do heroin, the chances of you still doing

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<v Speaker 1>it are just going to be greater, and especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you have a big loss. So I'm not necessarily saying

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<v Speaker 1>that it was intentional, but it's also just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like it just deems an investigation at the very least.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm sure most of our listeners know about this too.

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<v Speaker 2>But Jim Morrison's in this like unofficial club called the

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<v Speaker 2>twenty seven Club, which is these people that were young

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<v Speaker 2>and at the peak of their career that ended up

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<v Speaker 2>dying when they were twenty seven years old. So in

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<v Speaker 2>addition to Jim Morrison, there's Jimmy Hendrix, Kurt Cobain, and

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<v Speaker 2>Janis Joplin. They all died when they were I think

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<v Speaker 2>Keith Ledger too. Oh maybe he thought I thought he

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<v Speaker 2>was a little older, but maybe not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying.

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<v Speaker 2>Aren't they all drug related deaths? Yeah, every single person

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<v Speaker 2>that's in this club. So I think that's really interesting

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<v Speaker 2>culturally that you reach this point and then you're just like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I was talking to Ricky about this

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<v Speaker 2>recently because I really love the Doors music. I know

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<v Speaker 2>you're not the biggest fan of the era of music,

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<v Speaker 2>but I really love their songs, and I was saying

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<v Speaker 2>how I was surprised that the band put up with

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<v Speaker 2>him because he seemed like such a fucking miss with

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<v Speaker 2>the way he gave me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why they put up with him because he was the

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<v Speaker 1>band Nobody can even can name one of the other

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<v Speaker 1>members unless you're like a superfan.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I know that. So it's like it kind of

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<v Speaker 2>sucks because you're faced with this person that's such a problem,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's the face of your band, Like, yeah, they

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<v Speaker 2>could have kicked him out and got another singer, but

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<v Speaker 2>it wouldn't have been the same never goes over, Well, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it never would, and it's you know it happened with

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<v Speaker 2>Nirvana to like the singers die and then your whole

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<v Speaker 2>band's over.

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<v Speaker 1>I do see though, like I know that the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing happened with Kirk Cobain, that he was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of over the band and the fame and all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can see a time where people, especially like

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<v Speaker 1>if this was totally he totally could have faked his

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<v Speaker 1>own death for sure, the way that this went down.

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<v Speaker 1>But I could see you just wanting to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, like I'm just going to fall off

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<v Speaker 1>the face of the earth and act like I died

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just gonna another identity. One of the things

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<v Speaker 1>I think I saw from the clip of the documentary

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<v Speaker 1>was saying that his Social Security number was still active.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, from other stories here, I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say that I was going to say, like, I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure that we just learned that there's like hundreds of

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of Social Security numbers that are still active. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if he died in Paris and nobody really ever reported

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<v Speaker 1>it to the United States, then there's a possibility that

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<v Speaker 1>just that's all it is, and unless like someone's physically

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<v Speaker 1>collecting off of that money and then they should easily

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<v Speaker 1>be able to trace that as well. So whatever it's

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<v Speaker 1>it is interesting. Are you gonna watch it?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because I watched a couple of people

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<v Speaker 2>reviewing it that said it was like really hard to

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<v Speaker 2>get through because it was just a lot of nonsense interviews.

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<v Speaker 2>Because at first I was really interested. But it's three

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<v Speaker 2>hours long, it's three one hour long episodes. I so,

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<v Speaker 2>how did this get on Apple?

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<v Speaker 1>If it's on Apple TV, can this just be like

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<v Speaker 1>some guy who made this low budget or someone actually

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<v Speaker 1>had to put money into this, because I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>the trailer was a little like weird. It just looks

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<v Speaker 1>like someone made it in their basement or something.

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<v Speaker 2>He could have made it beforehand, and then after it

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<v Speaker 2>was made, sold it to Apple to distribute. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>always have to be involved in the beginning. But I

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<v Speaker 2>guess my final thoughts are, let's say it is Frank

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<v Speaker 2>person in Syracuse really is Jim Mars and he did

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<v Speaker 2>fake his death. Just leave him alone. He clearly did

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<v Speaker 2>it for a reason and he wanted to start over.

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<v Speaker 2>Just let him be and let him live the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of his life. He's old.

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<v Speaker 1>Just tell him to do one more concert like or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't All right, let's talk about these astronauts because

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<v Speaker 1>this is super interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. So last summer we reported that these

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<v Speaker 2>two astronauts had gone up on this Boeing Starliner capsule.

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<v Speaker 2>Their trip was only supposed to be eight days, but

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<v Speaker 2>of course the capsule had technical difficulties, so NASA decided

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<v Speaker 2>they were going to hold them at the International Space

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<v Speaker 2>Station and send the capsule back empty, just so there

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't any risk of their life. But it has taken

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<v Speaker 2>nine months to get them home. But finally on Tuesday night,

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<v Speaker 2>after SpaceX went up, they retrieved them and they're back

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<v Speaker 2>on Earth.

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<v Speaker 1>This is so cool to me from a medical perspective

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<v Speaker 1>because a couple years ago we went to the Kennedy

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<v Speaker 1>Space Center NASA in Florida and we were able to

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<v Speaker 1>have this breakfast with an astronaut thing, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>so cool and we were able to ask them questions

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I guess I never really thought about

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<v Speaker 1>it up until then, about what happens to you when

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<v Speaker 1>you go up in space. But you have to think

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<v Speaker 1>about it that there's no gravity, so you're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the human body is made and designed to live on

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<v Speaker 1>Earth and with our environment. So there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>different things that happen with these people when they come

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<v Speaker 1>back to Earth because they think about this, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you're floating for a while, you're just you're not staying

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<v Speaker 1>on the ground. You almost lose your ability to walk,

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<v Speaker 1>Your muscles waste away your bone density lessons because you're

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<v Speaker 1>not using them to keep yourself on the ground and

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<v Speaker 1>to keep yourself upright. And so when these people come back,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you're only there for a few weeks, when

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<v Speaker 1>you come back, you have to go through this whole

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<v Speaker 1>intensive physical therapy thing to get back to walking normal,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why they were taking them out on stretchers essentially,

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<v Speaker 1>because those people would fall right to the ground. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy to think that you're in your sixties or

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<v Speaker 1>something and you would have to relearn how to walk again.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's the same thing. Think about when you ride

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<v Speaker 1>a bike. It's very simple. If you know how to

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<v Speaker 1>ride a bike, you just get on it. But before

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<v Speaker 1>you know how to ride a bike, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>you have to learn how to use your muscles in

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way to keep the bike up right in

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<v Speaker 1>order from falling down. And it's kind of just like

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<v Speaker 1>what babies have to do when they start walking. So

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do that again as an astronaut, which

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<v Speaker 1>is it's kind of cool to think about that. That's

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<v Speaker 1>they're dealing with all these medical issues on top of god,

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<v Speaker 1>the psychological issues. I can't even imagine.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean, it must have been really terrified. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like in some regard they have to be prepared

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<v Speaker 2>that their trip is not going to be the length

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<v Speaker 2>it's intended to be, and there could be issues, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>but going from eight days to nine months is extremely long. So,

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<v Speaker 2>like you're saying, now, they have to enter this forty

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<v Speaker 2>five day rehab program to get basically learn how to

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<v Speaker 2>walk again and just make sure they're okay to just

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<v Speaker 2>going back to being normal people. It's nuts.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also so many other things that happen to the body.

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<v Speaker 1>There could be like cardiovascular effects. And it's another interesting

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<v Speaker 1>thing too, is with gravity. So when you're standing on

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<v Speaker 1>the ground, your fluid is in your body is equally

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<v Speaker 1>distributed from your head to your toes, but when you

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<v Speaker 1>have no gravity, it all kind of goes up towards

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<v Speaker 1>your head. So most astronauts that go up into space

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<v Speaker 1>have problems with this and they get what's called spaceflight

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<v Speaker 1>associated neuroocular syndrome, which is they get a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>swelling around their eyes, but they can get changes in

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<v Speaker 1>the pressure in their head. I imagine they get terrible headaches,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not able to see well. So that's also something

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<v Speaker 1>that you know as soon as you come back to Earth,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like all the fluid goes back down, so then

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<v Speaker 1>the people might experience dizziness. And it's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>wild thing to even think about that and experience because

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<v Speaker 1>there's not many humans in the world that experience these

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<v Speaker 1>medical symptoms.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it is really cool. And did you see when

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<v Speaker 2>their capsule landed in the ocean there is like all

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<v Speaker 2>these dolphins surrounding it checking it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen that video like looks.

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<v Speaker 2>Fake to me? Did you see it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like they No, you need to watch it because you're

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<v Speaker 1>just like, this is like it has to be AI

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<v Speaker 1>enhanced or something like it just doesn't even look real.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe it's just because the situation is just unusual,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're looking at it and you're like, what's happening

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<v Speaker 1>here right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Like maybe you're just a space truther.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't realize I'm becoming a space truther, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the more and more I think about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I started really thinking about it when I really did

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<v Speaker 1>a deep dive into the chap Equittic situation. That was

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<v Speaker 1>a couple years ago. When I went there and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like so intrigued with the Ted Kennedy chap Equittic thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote up a celebrity death dissection or a well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it would be considered a high profile death

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<v Speaker 1>disseection in the Gross Room about it and that that

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<v Speaker 1>happened like a day or two before they announced the

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<v Speaker 1>man walked on the moon and he was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>run for president. It's just like the whole thing was

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<v Speaker 1>so weird. And then I'm thinking, like, this is just

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<v Speaker 1>the videos are really terrible and you look at it

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh god, this is kind of doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>look like what they told this it was.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a really funny movie that came out last year

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<v Speaker 2>called fly Me to the Moon with Scarlett Johansson and

0:24:06.000 --> 0:24:09.840
<v Speaker 2>Channing Tatum and they are making like the movie set

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<v Speaker 2>for the moon landing, and it's just like this whole

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<v Speaker 2>like does it look exactly like the moon landing? Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you should watch it because it's pretty funny about like

0:24:17.760 --> 0:24:20.359
<v Speaker 2>the jokes about it and up being top secret evidence,

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, you should definitely watch it. It's pretty Just.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch the video of this if it's the like, I've

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<v Speaker 1>just seen it a couple of times and it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like it's just bizarre.

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<v Speaker 2>This episode is brought to you by the Gross Room. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>The Gross Room is on sale for only twenty dollars

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<v Speaker 1>for the whole entire year, So that's for three hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and sixty five days of what I call gross gross

0:24:49.440 --> 0:24:53.199
<v Speaker 1>pathology means looking at pathology with the naked eye, but

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<v Speaker 1>gross also implies that it is definitely a little gory,

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<v Speaker 1>way too gory for Instagram for sure. We have so

0:25:01.560 --> 0:25:04.199
<v Speaker 1>many cases. I am actually thinking that we might do

0:25:04.200 --> 0:25:06.760
<v Speaker 1>a celebrity death disseection on Jim Morrison at this point

0:25:06.800 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 1>because we need to like do a deeper dive into

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:12.960
<v Speaker 1>that story. And it's odd that we haven't covered that yet,

0:25:13.040 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 1>but I think that that might be a good story

0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:18.479
<v Speaker 1>to do. But this week we're starting we were working

0:25:18.520 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 1>on a two part Ruby Frank one which is really

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting. Next week we are going to be working

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<v Speaker 1>on a case of mistaken identity, unless, of course, I

0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:31.000
<v Speaker 1>tell you guys all the time, there's any breaking celebrity desks,

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:34.919
<v Speaker 1>then we'll definitely do that first. We have just so

0:25:35.040 --> 0:25:37.960
<v Speaker 1>many different cases. We have the Karen Reid trial with

0:25:38.040 --> 0:25:40.520
<v Speaker 1>John O'Keeffe and we're going to be talking about that

0:25:41.280 --> 0:25:43.960
<v Speaker 1>in our next story. Actually, So that's a really interesting

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<v Speaker 1>two part to section that you guys might want to

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<v Speaker 1>read Yeah, head over to the growth room dot com

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<v Speaker 1>now to sign up. Okay, So, speaking of the John

0:25:55.080 --> 0:26:00.400
<v Speaker 1>O'Keeffe and Karen Reid situation, last night, word came out

0:26:00.480 --> 0:26:03.880
<v Speaker 1>that the trooper that was associated with this case has

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:05.159
<v Speaker 1>finally been let go.

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, he was the lead investigator, so like he was

0:26:09.080 --> 0:26:11.359
<v Speaker 2>more than just a cop involved in the sidelines. He

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:12.320
<v Speaker 2>was a major player.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just don't understand, like this whatever happened, accident, murder,

0:26:17.320 --> 0:26:19.480
<v Speaker 1>whatever you want to call it, happened in January of

0:26:19.520 --> 0:26:22.440
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty two, and it took almost three whole years

0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:23.840
<v Speaker 1>to finally let this guy go.

0:26:25.520 --> 0:26:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I don't even think so this trooper

0:26:28.600 --> 0:26:31.879
<v Speaker 2>Michael Proctor. Oh my god. So there. I don't know

0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:34.440
<v Speaker 2>if historically you know this, but in the Salem witch

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:37.800
<v Speaker 2>trials there was a person killed named John Proctor, and

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:41.159
<v Speaker 2>then with the victim's name, well I'm wondering if they

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:44.359
<v Speaker 2>are related since it's in the same area, but with

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.680
<v Speaker 2>the victim's name being John O'Keeffe and his name being

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:50.800
<v Speaker 2>Michael Proctor, Like, my brain just has a really hard

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:53.879
<v Speaker 2>time with this. But anyway, after Karen Reid's mistrial a

0:26:53.920 --> 0:26:57.840
<v Speaker 2>couple of months ago, trooper Michael Proctor had been suspended

0:26:57.880 --> 0:27:01.080
<v Speaker 2>without pay while they did an investigation because during her

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:04.760
<v Speaker 2>trial all these really inappropriate text messages popped up where

0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 2>he was calling her a whack job. He said he

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:10.280
<v Speaker 2>hoped she killed herself. There was even, you know, this

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 2>part where he said he was looking through her phone

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:15.680
<v Speaker 2>and he hadn't come across any nude shit. So obviously

0:27:15.680 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 2>that's concerning when it's a police officer and made investigating

0:27:18.800 --> 0:27:22.439
<v Speaker 2>a possible homicide. But I don't know, it seems like

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:25.680
<v Speaker 2>he had all this other misconduct and the Massachusetts State

0:27:25.720 --> 0:27:28.879
<v Speaker 2>Police decided to suspend him and do an investigation, and

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<v Speaker 2>after their investigation, they decided to officially fire him.

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<v Speaker 1>So isn't it interesting that a couple weeks ago the

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<v Speaker 1>federal government, who was also investigating this investigation, had said

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<v Speaker 1>that they closed their investigation, and now this comes out

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<v Speaker 1>a couple weeks later. Do you think that their investigation

0:27:46.119 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 1>had anything to do with his final determination that they

0:27:50.080 --> 0:27:51.800
<v Speaker 1>were going to get rid of him.

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:54.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, I would say so, because I think

0:27:54.200 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 2>that they do these investigations and then they present all

0:27:56.840 --> 0:27:58.919
<v Speaker 2>their findings to a board and it just takes a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of weeks to go over everything and make a determination.

0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 2>So they're saying, you know, well, another major problem he

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:10.439
<v Speaker 2>had was that he didn't disclose his connection to people

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 2>involved in this case, which obviously is a major conflict

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:16.640
<v Speaker 2>of interest. So I think with all these other things combined,

0:28:16.880 --> 0:28:17.480
<v Speaker 2>they're just like.

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Which is important to note, because he was apparently friends

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:26.159
<v Speaker 1>with the people where this guy's body was found on

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:29.119
<v Speaker 1>the lawn, if you remember, and we just thought it

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 1>was weird in general that you find a dead body

0:28:32.320 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>on someone's lawn and you don't even go into the

0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 1>house and search it to see what was happening. Like

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:41.520
<v Speaker 1>that to me was one of the biggest screw ups

0:28:41.520 --> 0:28:43.760
<v Speaker 1>in the case. But of course you wouldn't search it

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:46.640
<v Speaker 1>because you're friends with the people, right. This is why,

0:28:47.040 --> 0:28:49.400
<v Speaker 1>this is why there's questions with these cases because of

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>the way they're handled improperly.

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:53.680
<v Speaker 2>So this is what the trialdboard is saying. They found

0:28:53.720 --> 0:28:58.240
<v Speaker 2>him guilty of violating four department policies, which included sending

0:28:58.240 --> 0:29:02.240
<v Speaker 2>the inappropriate text messages about Karen Reid, sharing sensitive information

0:29:02.280 --> 0:29:05.440
<v Speaker 2>about her case with people outside law enforcement, creating an

0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 2>image of being biased against her, and then drinking while

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<v Speaker 2>on duty. And connection to an unrelated cold case.

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which is exactly what she's being accused. All of

0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 1>his drinking and driving. And you know that whole culture

0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 1>of that whole group of friends is just like that, right.

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:23.120
<v Speaker 2>I was just gonna say that they all seemed like

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:25.880
<v Speaker 2>they had issues with drinking. I mean, they definitely shouldn't

0:29:25.880 --> 0:29:28.600
<v Speaker 2>have been She one hundred percent, regardless of what you think,

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 2>should not have been drinking and driving. Like I feel like,

0:29:32.280 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, nobody should be no, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>a lot in this case. This case is extremely controversial

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 2>because you're like teamed police department or team Karen Reid.

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 2>And I think a lot of Karen Reid supporters are

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<v Speaker 2>also not acknowledging that she was still doing something bad.

0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't mean she murdered him, but she still shouldn't

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 2>have been drinking and driving. Now it's important to acknowledge.

0:29:56.320 --> 0:30:00.680
<v Speaker 1>So I got I got a direct message from one

0:30:00.720 --> 0:30:04.640
<v Speaker 1>of our listeners a few days ago, and she sends

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:06.320
<v Speaker 1>me a link to this next case we're going to

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:09.240
<v Speaker 1>talk about, and said that she was friends with these people.

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 2>So, oh my god.

0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:12.840
<v Speaker 1>And I wrote her back and I was like, wait,

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:16.240
<v Speaker 1>you like actually know these people and she's like, yeah.

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:19.960
<v Speaker 2>All right. So this guy at Milwaukee calls the cops

0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:22.040
<v Speaker 2>and says his girlfriend's dead, and when they get there,

0:30:22.120 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 2>she's obviously been dead for a while, and this scene

0:30:24.680 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 2>has clearly been staged. So he admitted that he found

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 2>her twenty days earlier, but said because he's from another country,

0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:35.160
<v Speaker 2>he didn't know the laws here about reporting a dead body.

0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I love that the investigators because he's from Turkey. So

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the investigators were like, well, how would you report this

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>in Turkey if you live there, Like it's like, come on,

0:30:45.000 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 1>that's the biggest bullshit answer, Like Turkey has accountability for

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:52.400
<v Speaker 1>you killing people as well, Like you can't just you know, like,

0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:53.520
<v Speaker 1>good try though, dude.

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he said he went this is what he

0:30:56.760 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 2>is saying. He said he went out to go run

0:30:59.080 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 2>an errand for an hour, and when he came back,

0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:03.160
<v Speaker 2>the girlfriend was just covered in blood. He didn't know

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 2>what happened, and then he fainted and slept next to

0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:08.680
<v Speaker 2>her dead body for twenty days because he didn't know

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 2>what to do, and at one point he considered taking

0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 2>his life, so he tried to do that with a

0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 2>nail gun. They did find a nail in his head.

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:19.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that's true that all they actually found the

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 1>nail in his head that was going into his brain

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 1>at the hospital, they had to remove it. So this

0:31:26.160 --> 0:31:29.800
<v Speaker 1>is an interesting side note talking about the cases that

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 1>we have in the gross room. If you just go

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:34.719
<v Speaker 1>in there and search nail gun, you're going to see

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:39.440
<v Speaker 1>many cases where people not only intentionally put a nail

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.640
<v Speaker 1>gun in their head to try to kill themselves, but

0:31:41.680 --> 0:31:44.920
<v Speaker 1>also accidental cases. And you wouldn't believe how many times

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>it actually happens when people go to the hospital and

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 1>have to get a nail removed out of their head.

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:52.360
<v Speaker 1>But the imaging is just crazy that you could see

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:56.840
<v Speaker 1>it going right through the person's brain. So in this case,

0:31:57.240 --> 0:32:00.360
<v Speaker 1>it was obviously like this is what you're going to do.

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 1>You find this person there and twenty days dead is

0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:09.800
<v Speaker 1>really disgusting. So she was probably really decomposed. And on

0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:13.160
<v Speaker 1>top of that, you do the autops scene, it's just like, oh, well,

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 1>how did she die exactly because we've found twelve knife

0:32:16.640 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 1>wounds sharp force wounds in her body that severed multiple organs,

0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 1>and her cause of death was a massive bleed.

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:28.320
<v Speaker 2>Like, what's your story now, dude, Well, he still denied

0:32:28.440 --> 0:32:30.800
<v Speaker 2>killing her. But he admitted he did move her body,

0:32:31.240 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 2>and they're alleging that he only finally called about it

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 2>because the landlord was going to be coming into the

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 2>apartment to inspect it because they were getting evicted.

0:32:40.480 --> 0:32:43.560
<v Speaker 1>So when they did the investigation, of course they were

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 1>able to find So they found surveillance of him going

0:32:47.200 --> 0:32:49.760
<v Speaker 1>to a store and buying lots of cleaning supplies. There

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:52.160
<v Speaker 1>was evidence that the scene was there was a lot

0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 1>of blood there, and there was evidence that someone tried

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 1>to clean it up. Then they found surveillance footage of

0:32:57.960 --> 0:33:01.200
<v Speaker 1>him buying an algun, which was the day after she

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>had died. So, yeah, you're cook, dude, And I can't

0:33:06.880 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 1>believe that someone that listens to our show knows these people. No,

0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:15.719
<v Speaker 1>I really just like, could you imagine just knowing a couple,

0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:19.080
<v Speaker 1>even knowing that their relationship may be tumultuous or whatever,

0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:23.120
<v Speaker 1>and just hearing this, especially hearing someone that you know

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 1>gets killed as bad, but knowing that he was like

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:29.280
<v Speaker 1>laying along her dead body for twenty days, And I

0:33:29.400 --> 0:33:33.120
<v Speaker 1>just think like with a stabbing death, especially all that

0:33:33.200 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 1>blood would just smell so terrible after twenty days and

0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:40.040
<v Speaker 1>just be like matted into the carpet. I just it's

0:33:40.120 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 1>just so, it's just so weird.

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:44.440
<v Speaker 2>Right, No, it's just very disturbing.

0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:48.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I was reading this deer Abby. I love

0:33:48.840 --> 0:33:51.720
<v Speaker 1>the deer Abby's even though they're not technically news stories,

0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 1>but they are because they were.

0:33:52.960 --> 0:33:54.280
<v Speaker 2>In the news this week.

0:33:54.360 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 1>But this woman was saying that she had a terminal

0:33:58.360 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 1>illness and she didn't know what to do about it.

0:34:01.760 --> 0:34:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Well, not that well, she didn't know what to do

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:06.120
<v Speaker 2>about it, but she was also asking for advice because

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:08.719
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't want to tell her family about it. So

0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 2>how do you feel about that? Well, I don't know.

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:17.279
<v Speaker 1>I think that her reasoning is just she said since

0:34:17.320 --> 0:34:20.200
<v Speaker 1>she was thirteen she was dealing with suicidal thoughts and

0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:23.880
<v Speaker 1>depression and self harm. And it's weird how it was

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 1>mentioned that she said that she's dealing with an illness

0:34:26.680 --> 0:34:29.400
<v Speaker 1>that can kill her, Like what does that even mean exactly?

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:31.880
<v Speaker 2>Like is it a terminal illness or is it so?

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:33.399
<v Speaker 2>Or is she just suicidal?

0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:37.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. But she doesn't want to tell her child,

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:41.239
<v Speaker 1>her children and kids, and I don't know. I think

0:34:41.280 --> 0:34:46.440
<v Speaker 1>that most people, like from a mom's perspective, I feel

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:48.360
<v Speaker 1>like if I told my kids, right, now that I

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 1>was going to be dying next year. It would like

0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:55.960
<v Speaker 1>ruin their life for the next year, but right, and

0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I just wouldn't want to put that on them. But

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:01.800
<v Speaker 1>also the best I guess you would say of knowing

0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:04.919
<v Speaker 1>that you're going to die is that, like you can

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:07.760
<v Speaker 1>tell your family and talk to your family every single

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:10.839
<v Speaker 1>day till that time about everything with your life and

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:14.600
<v Speaker 1>just like things that a lot of people don't get

0:35:14.640 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>when one of their loved ones just drops dead. So

0:35:18.880 --> 0:35:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I understand, like you don't want to upset your husband

0:35:23.239 --> 0:35:27.080
<v Speaker 1>and child, but your your husband and children also love you,

0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:31.560
<v Speaker 1>and they would probably want to support you and help you,

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Like before you die, be like be happy in your life.

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:37.759
<v Speaker 1>So when you finally do shut your eyes for the

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:40.960
<v Speaker 1>last time, like you know what I mean, that you

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:42.920
<v Speaker 1>feel like you were loved and you weren't dealing with

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 1>all that by yourself.

0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:47.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, I just think there's elements to consider with this case.

0:35:48.520 --> 0:35:51.040
<v Speaker 2>She said she had something that could kill her, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I think having a definitive terminal illness is something that's

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<v Speaker 2>a little different because if you're dealing with something that

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<v Speaker 2>you know you're gonna die from, I don't know, I

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 2>struggle with it. I understand, but in the same breath,

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:08.920
<v Speaker 2>I think it's a little selfish because you're not giving

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<v Speaker 2>your family the time to process your loss, even though

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:14.600
<v Speaker 2>it is your illness and you should deal with it

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:17.600
<v Speaker 2>however you see fit, but you don't want them thinking

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:19.960
<v Speaker 2>that you were suffering and they weren't doing enough to help,

0:36:20.000 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 2>and then they have to live with that guilt the

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<v Speaker 2>rest of their life. I just think it's really interesting, though.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Abby had said you should tell them. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I do understand where she's coming from, though.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand not telling the kids right away, because, like

0:36:37.640 --> 0:36:40.279
<v Speaker 2>you said, you don't want to ruin their life. But

0:36:40.880 --> 0:36:43.480
<v Speaker 2>the husband, I feel like you should definitely be telling

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<v Speaker 2>because also if you are getting sick like the like

0:36:46.960 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Abby said, he's going to notice that you are changing

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:52.240
<v Speaker 2>and visibly dying well, And.

0:36:52.200 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 1>The same could be said about kids. A lot of

0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 1>times you think that, like, oh, kids, you know that's

0:36:57.920 --> 0:37:00.279
<v Speaker 1>I even say that with you sometimes because sometimes you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be talking about an adult matter and one of the

0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:04.680
<v Speaker 1>kids will say like, what did you mean, and you're

0:37:04.760 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 1>just quick to say like, oh, nothing, don't worry about it,

0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:09.359
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, they can understand if you talk

0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:12.040
<v Speaker 1>to them in a certain way. They could understand a

0:37:12.080 --> 0:37:14.960
<v Speaker 1>lot more than we think they could understand, and they

0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:19.480
<v Speaker 1>should be privy to some conversations as well as far

0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:20.920
<v Speaker 1>as that likes.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids are very very.

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<v Speaker 1>Intuitive to know when something's off in the house, whether

0:37:26.480 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, and like, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>respectful to them to talk to them about it, you know.

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:36.000
<v Speaker 2>And I don't think you necessarily have to give them

0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:39.320
<v Speaker 2>every detail and be like I'm dying, but you could

0:37:39.320 --> 0:37:42.240
<v Speaker 2>prepare them for it by being like, I'm sick. Yeah,

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:44.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, you don't have to be like I might

0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:47.400
<v Speaker 2>drop dead tomorrow, so get used to your time with me.

0:37:47.520 --> 0:37:50.719
<v Speaker 2>But I don't know. I definitely think it's important to

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<v Speaker 2>confide in family because also why would you want to

0:37:53.239 --> 0:37:54.920
<v Speaker 2>suffer through something like that alone.

0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:55.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm not sure.

0:37:56.640 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 2>There's a show called The Big Sea that came out

0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:01.879
<v Speaker 2>probably if fifteen years ago with Laura Lennie, and it's

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:03.799
<v Speaker 2>the same concept. I mean, it's hard.

0:38:03.880 --> 0:38:07.040
<v Speaker 1>It's hard to say because you and I have never

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:10.480
<v Speaker 1>been in that situation, and until then it's like you

0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:12.719
<v Speaker 1>just don't. It's the same thing with a lot of

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:14.759
<v Speaker 1>these stories that we talk about. It's just like you

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:17.880
<v Speaker 1>just don't really know like how you would react until

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you were in that particular situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure. All right, let's move on to questions

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<v Speaker 2>of the Day. Every Friday at that at mother nos

0:38:25.239 --> 0:38:27.440
<v Speaker 2>Death Instagram account, you guys get head to our story

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 2>and ask us whatever question you want. First, have you

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<v Speaker 2>done an autopsy on someone with more than the normal

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:34.760
<v Speaker 2>amount of organs?

0:38:35.400 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 2>I have.

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:40.719
<v Speaker 1>In any case when you do, like somebody an autopsy

0:38:40.719 --> 0:38:43.719
<v Speaker 1>on somebody that has a kidney transplant, It's it's a

0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 1>very interesting fact that most people don't know that when

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:49.760
<v Speaker 1>you get a kidney transplant, they leave the old kidney

0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:52.120
<v Speaker 1>in there. So I've done autopsies on people with three

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>and four kidneys. Also, you could get accessory organs, like

0:38:56.560 --> 0:38:59.959
<v Speaker 1>an accessory spleen. Sometimes you could get multiple of those,

0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:03.160
<v Speaker 1>So in cases like that yet, for sure, I've had

0:39:03.160 --> 0:39:03.640
<v Speaker 1>that happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay too. What motivated you to start educating the public

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<v Speaker 2>with your website and YouTube?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it first started with doing autopsies at the hospital,

0:39:14.320 --> 0:39:17.480
<v Speaker 1>and we had this conference every week which was called

0:39:17.520 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 1>the Gross Conference, where we would present organs from autopsy

0:39:21.640 --> 0:39:28.560
<v Speaker 1>and surgical pathology to medical residents. Medical students, surgeons attending physicians.

0:39:28.600 --> 0:39:30.399
<v Speaker 1>They would come down to the Morgan we would talk

0:39:30.440 --> 0:39:32.600
<v Speaker 1>about all of the interesting cases for the week, which

0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 1>was super cool because not only were we helping and

0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:41.640
<v Speaker 1>educating them about the patients they were actually taking care of,

0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 1>but we were also really able to explain what we

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:48.759
<v Speaker 1>were looking at from our perspective, which is always helpful

0:39:49.080 --> 0:39:52.839
<v Speaker 1>for doctors to just be very integrated in how we

0:39:53.000 --> 0:39:58.040
<v Speaker 1>diagnose things. And that conference stopped happening, and that was

0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:00.880
<v Speaker 1>like a huge missing piece of my life because I

0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:04.279
<v Speaker 1>really enjoyed doing that. So then I decided that I

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:06.480
<v Speaker 1>was going to make a blog and just start writing

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:11.400
<v Speaker 1>about the interesting cases that I was seeing. But it

0:40:11.480 --> 0:40:13.239
<v Speaker 1>was just like I was just doing it, and I

0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 1>was writing every single day, like all this stuff because

0:40:16.200 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 1>Maria was older at that point and she didn't need

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:22.839
<v Speaker 1>like mom attention as much as like an eight year old.

0:40:23.239 --> 0:40:25.360
<v Speaker 1>She knew when to go take a shower and stuff

0:40:25.360 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 1>like I didn't have to be like, you know what

0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like, she was kind of self functioning as

0:40:30.440 --> 0:40:32.480
<v Speaker 1>a teenager at that point. So I had time on

0:40:32.560 --> 0:40:34.640
<v Speaker 1>my hands, and I was done college at that point,

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:37.239
<v Speaker 1>so I would come home and write for a couple

0:40:37.360 --> 0:40:41.400
<v Speaker 1>hours and it was really it was really awesome, but

0:40:41.480 --> 0:40:44.480
<v Speaker 1>like no, I just would think, like, how is anybody

0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:47.759
<v Speaker 1>going to see my blog? And then my husband had

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:50.279
<v Speaker 1>suggested to me, I guess he was my boyfriend at

0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 1>the time, and he had suggested to me, like, hey,

0:40:52.200 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 1>why don't you take these pictures and then just write

0:40:56.719 --> 0:40:59.880
<v Speaker 1>these things for Instagram, but just make them shorter like

0:41:00.120 --> 0:41:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Instagram post. And then Maria was you know, like I said,

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:06.360
<v Speaker 1>she was a teenager, she was eighteen at the time,

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:10.959
<v Speaker 1>and she helped me set up the Instagram account because

0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:13.279
<v Speaker 1>I didn't, like, I'm a boomer, right, so I don't

0:41:13.280 --> 0:41:16.040
<v Speaker 1>know how to I don't know how to use social media.

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:19.239
<v Speaker 1>And it kind of just went from there, like it

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:22.839
<v Speaker 1>picked up right away, like very fast after being on there.

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:25.400
<v Speaker 1>And then I just kept doing the same thing that

0:41:25.400 --> 0:41:29.120
<v Speaker 1>I had been doing for years, just in a shorter format.

0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 2>All right, last, what's your best parenting advice?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess just I guess I would say the best

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 1>thing is just to have like an open relationship with

0:41:41.600 --> 0:41:43.200
<v Speaker 1>your kids so they don't feel like they have to

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:48.920
<v Speaker 1>like hide stuff from you. I don't know, like what

0:41:49.080 --> 0:41:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what do you think I think that was

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:53.719
<v Speaker 1>good with Like whenever Maria was having some kind of

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like difficult situations that she would always like come to

0:41:57.960 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 1>me and just tell me about it, because I guess

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:03.560
<v Speaker 1>the biggest things for kids to understand is like you

0:42:03.640 --> 0:42:05.799
<v Speaker 1>might be having a hard time or you might be

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:11.400
<v Speaker 1>in trouble, but you might upset me too, but like ultimately,

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 1>like I'll always love you, so like I could help

0:42:15.080 --> 0:42:17.719
<v Speaker 1>you more than anybody else could help you, So just

0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:20.640
<v Speaker 1>don't be afraid to tell me something like.

0:42:22.520 --> 0:42:25.200
<v Speaker 2>I think you had a really good balance with me,

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 2>in particular with our situation of being like a good

0:42:28.640 --> 0:42:32.520
<v Speaker 2>mixture of my friend and my mom, because sometimes it

0:42:32.560 --> 0:42:34.560
<v Speaker 2>goes one way or the other. You know, where people

0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:38.760
<v Speaker 2>are like all parent and they have like no casual

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:41.439
<v Speaker 2>relationship with their kid where they don't feel comfortable going

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:43.640
<v Speaker 2>to them, or you have the parents that are one

0:42:43.719 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 2>hundred percent your friend, and then your kids are like

0:42:46.360 --> 0:42:48.800
<v Speaker 2>getting into trouble because you're just letting them do whatever

0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:51.080
<v Speaker 2>they want. But I think you figured out a really

0:42:51.120 --> 0:42:53.759
<v Speaker 2>good balance that and I did always feel comfortable telling

0:42:53.800 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 2>you everything. I mean, I still have like diarrhea of

0:42:56.200 --> 0:43:00.000
<v Speaker 2>the mouth when I talk to you about yeah exactly,

0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 2>but it's it's it's.

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Better to be that way than to be hidden because then,

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:08.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, now you're older, but with kids, little kids

0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:11.560
<v Speaker 1>and teenagers especially, like it's it's like the most crucial

0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:14.319
<v Speaker 1>thing ever, because that's when they can really get into

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>trouble with major things that will affect the rest of

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 1>their life.

0:43:19.200 --> 0:43:19.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally.

0:43:20.080 --> 0:43:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I want my kids to feel comfortable calling

0:43:23.239 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 1>me and saying, I'm at a party and people started

0:43:28.120 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 1>doing things here that I'm not comfortable with and I

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:32.799
<v Speaker 1>want to come home, you know, like things like that,

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:37.040
<v Speaker 1>because normally a parent might freak out about that and

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:38.840
<v Speaker 1>just be like, why are you hanging out with people

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>that do drugs and like, and you're just like, no,

0:43:41.000 --> 0:43:42.360
<v Speaker 1>I want you to call me at three in the

0:43:42.360 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 1>morning and I will call whatever, And like, honestly, my

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:48.480
<v Speaker 1>kids don't want to ever leave the house, So I

0:43:48.520 --> 0:43:51.160
<v Speaker 1>don't even know if that's ever going to be a situation,

0:43:51.320 --> 0:43:53.680
<v Speaker 1>but I you know, you never know, and I just

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I always want that to be a thing that they

0:43:57.200 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 1>feel like they could come to me whenever they're in trouble.

0:44:00.440 --> 0:44:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, thank god I succeeded at being a good big

0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:06.640
<v Speaker 2>sister and got them hooked on the sims, Yeah, exactly,

0:44:06.840 --> 0:44:13.239
<v Speaker 2>they'll never go out, all right. Well, thank you guys

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0:44:30.200 --> 0:44:34.000
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0:44:34.000 --> 0:44:38.360
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0:44:41.760 --> 0:44:45.360
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