1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: J Lo and Ben Affleck, Prince William and Kate Middleton, 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: Nick Cannon and Baby Mama's Number four and seven. Wow, 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: just a few examples of couples who dated and broke up, 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: only to get back together years later because they realized, 5 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, I think maybe they were the one. 6 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: I thought it was three but which Yeah, gets a 7 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: little messy there, But the point is you never know 8 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 2: until you try. 9 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: And if you have an ex that you look back 10 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: on and think, did I make a mistake by letting 11 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: them go? We created this segment called Say Yes to 12 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: the X so that we can reach out and see 13 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 1: if there's a chance, if they want to give it 14 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: one more shot day and it was really intended for 15 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: long lost loves to reunite. Yeah, I'm not really sure 16 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: if today's caller, Landon falls into that category. 17 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 3: Why was it like a one night stand he wants 18 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: to reconnect with? 19 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: Well, his email said him and his girlfriend have only 20 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: been separated for six weeks, but he's ready to jump 21 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: back out and see if there's another chance there. 22 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 4: Let's talk to him. Landon, Welcome to the show. 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 5: Hey guys, Okay, some people take years, some people take weeks. 24 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, my sister and her boyfriend at the time broke 25 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 6: up for five days and then got back together and 26 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 6: they got married. Hey, it was a very hard five days. 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 6: In that time, he got a tattoo and joined the navy. Yeah, 28 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 6: he was dealing with something. Don't know what happened six weeks. 29 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: A red flag After hearing that story, are you sure 30 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: you want to go? 31 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 32 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, guys, I don't want to let hers to belay it. 33 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 7: That's become really clear to me over these pasts. 34 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 4: Six weeks okay, and what's her name? 35 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 7: Her name is Jessica, And yeah, we were together for 36 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 7: like about a year and it was I mean, she's 37 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 7: the most serious club friend I've ever had. 38 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, why did you guys break up six weeks ago? 39 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 7: Well there are reasons, you know, which we can get into, 40 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 7: but I'll just say like, I've been pretty miserable ever since. 41 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 7: And she didn't tell me in person. She did, she 42 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 7: did let me know via you know, words on a page. 43 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 3: Oh she dumped you. Okay, yeah, okay. 44 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: What I was wondering why you were like having trouble 45 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: coming out with it. You're clearly it's still pretty row. 46 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: It only happened six weeks ago. 47 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 7: I mean, look, it was some stuff that I didn't 48 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 7: necessarily agree with, but she had her reasons. 49 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 3: Okay, And so she wrote you what sounds like a letter. 50 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 3: I'm guessing did you guys talk in person? 51 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 5: Ever? 52 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 7: Well, it was a note on my door. 53 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 4: Actually, she broke up with you via door note. 54 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 6: Are you sure she's not your landlord and trying to 55 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 6: evict you? 56 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 7: No? No, I mean I've been through that before. But no. 57 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 7: I mean. 58 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 5: It's like I've broken up with a building before. Yeah, 59 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 5: I know that. 60 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's gotta be hard to take, man. 61 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was really harsh. It was like a list 62 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 7: of reasons. 63 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 4: Oh god. 64 00:02:58,200 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 7: Yeah. 65 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: Our producer told me that you actually have the breakup 66 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: note with you. 67 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 4: Oh no, yeah, would it be okay? 68 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: Like, if it's not too painful for you, would you 69 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: mind like telling us some of the things that she 70 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: said in it. 71 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 7: I mean, honestly, I don't know if I'm comfortable doing 72 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 7: that because they were pretty mean, and I don't feel 73 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 7: like they're accurate, so I would prefer not to. 74 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if she's being rude and mean to you, 75 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: why do you even want to get back together with her? 76 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 7: Yeah? Well, because she has some points that are kind 77 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 7: of valid, I guess, and I think that I've improved 78 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 7: on those areas. 79 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 5: It's good to admit that you've made mistakes. Like if 80 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 5: she's like, you did this and this, and you fix 81 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 5: those and maybe. 82 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 3: She won't want to. I mean, if she's writing a 83 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 3: list of mean things. 84 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 7: She's mad. 85 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 3: She's mad, mad, like at that's your normal. 86 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 5: Girlfriends are like though. 87 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 6: Right, No, no, I mean is it one specific thing? 88 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: Did you cheat on her or something? 89 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 7: No? No, no, I did not cheat. I'm not okay there, 90 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 7: but I'm not going to read the entire note. But 91 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 7: I'll tell you, guys a couple of the things she. 92 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: Gives, give us the bullet points of it, and then 93 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: we'll post the whole thing on the brook No no, no, okay, we'll. 94 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 3: Stay flyers and put it on doors. 95 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 5: Around the city. 96 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: Well he's kidding, bro Okay, just give us a couple 97 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: of them, Okay. 98 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 7: The first one is you refuse to use the word 99 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 7: selfie because you think it's too girly. 100 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 4: You refuse to use the word selfie. 101 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 7: Landing, Yeah, I don't use the word selfie. I use 102 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 7: the word celfo, like you know, like in Spanish, there's 103 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 7: like feminine and. 104 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 5: Singular singular plural masculine would be. Are you that worried 105 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 5: about your masculinity? 106 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 6: You think adding an i e to the end of 107 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 6: a word is gonna alter Well. 108 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 7: No, I just think that, I mean, just to be 109 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 7: like more grammatically correct, I guess, like to say, celfo. 110 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 3: I don't think that's grammatically correct at all, sir. I 111 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 3: don't think you could find that any if. 112 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: You're in the club with your boys going to be like, hey, Jonathan, 113 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 1: let's take a selfie together, like bro. 114 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 5: Me and my bros yo dog. You look super cute 115 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,119 Speaker 5: right now, get over your homie. 116 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's cell phoe it up. 117 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 7: Yeah exactly, But you guys see what I'm talking about, Like, 118 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 7: that's really nitpicky, Like that's not a reason to break 119 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 7: up with someone, even if it's a little annoying, right. 120 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 3: It sounds kind of like an excuse. But yeah, so 121 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 3: what else? 122 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 4: Were they all like that? 123 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 7: Yeah? I mean I think they're all like that. I 124 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 7: mean the next one she says is you thought you 125 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 7: were tough enough to share at a solar eclipse? 126 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 3: Are you blind right now or can you see so 127 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 3: I can see? 128 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 7: It was a little blurry for like the day. But 129 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 7: how often does a solar eclipse happen? 130 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 3: Like? 131 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 7: I didn't? Okay, yes, I also thought like it'd be 132 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 7: cool to like look at the sign, but. 133 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 3: Those are all questionable things. 134 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 135 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: At the same time, what are women gonna dump a 136 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 1: guy every time they do something a little bit stupid 137 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: to prove their masculinity of them? 138 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? How many pages do we have here? 139 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 4: Maybe? 140 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: Do you have like a last one for us Landon? 141 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 7: Sure, I can give you one last one. 142 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 5: The fact that there is three is kind of like there. 143 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 3: I just mean, okay, okay. 144 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 7: She says you jumped on a trampoline from the second 145 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 7: floor to prove your abs and back muscles were strong enough. 146 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 4: Guy. 147 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 5: To me, you sound like one of my friends. 148 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 6: You sound like an annoying little brother. 149 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: Hold on, were your abs and back muscles strong enough 150 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: to absorb the blow? 151 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 7: No? I mean I I definitely hurt myself and I'm oh, no, you. 152 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 5: Hold your bag? 153 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, maybe. 154 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 3: She doesn't trying to prove your manliness. 155 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 1: I'm seeing a lot of red flags. That's not the 156 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: right word I'm looking for. 157 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 7: I would say they're like, they're more like highlights. Those 158 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 7: were the fun part. 159 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 3: So it's not that you learned anything from the letter, Okay. 160 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 7: I mean what I learned was that those are the 161 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 7: fun things in a relationship. And she needs to relax, 162 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 7: and I miss her, and I bet she misses me too. 163 00:06:58,880 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 4: Here's like zero fire. 164 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna let you know if we're gonna how 165 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 3: does this work again? Does he ask her back out? 166 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 5: Yeah? 167 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: We call the girlfriend and let him talk for it. Okay, 168 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: let's he has to win her back himself. 169 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 6: Let's not use any of that sentence that you need 170 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 6: to relax, you need to calm down. 171 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 3: I'm just some hot advice there. 172 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 7: Okay, fair, fair, okay. 173 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, And those are the problems that she had with you. 174 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: So if you want her back, you're probably gonna need 175 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: to compromise a little bit. Like can you agree that 176 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: if she wants you back going forward, you won't stare 177 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: into solar eclipses anymore? Are you capable of that? 178 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 7: Guys? I already learned my left I'm not doing that again. 179 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 7: That's gloss. 180 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 4: That is what we're trying to accomplish here. 181 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 3: He's just trying to see if you can use the 182 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 3: word selfie in a sentence. 183 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: Yes, So We're about to dial your ex Jessica, and 184 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: we'll get her on the phone and let you try 185 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: and win her back yourself. All right, we'll come back 186 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: and see if she says yes to the. 187 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: X right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 188 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: You know, I rarely do this, but during the break 189 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: I got on the phone and talked to Landon. Oh 190 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: you did off the air, and I just told him 191 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: how we felt honestly in the room. 192 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: I don't know that I like you talking for all 193 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: of us, think we're on the same page because based 194 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:16,239 Speaker 2: on the breakup note, it seems like Landon has done 195 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: some dumb things. 196 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, correction, a lot of dumb things in his relationship, 197 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: and his attitude was Jessica just needs. 198 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 4: To chill out and relax. 199 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: And if Landon really feels like it's all on her 200 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: to change herself and just relax about it, then why 201 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 1: are we doing this segment? 202 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, Because then it's just going to be her getting 203 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,239 Speaker 6: angry at him all over again because. 204 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: She says what the problem was, and he says that 205 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: shouldn't be a problem for you. So what we're trying 206 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: to do here is get some growth, because all of us, 207 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: as humans are constantly evolving, trying to become better people, 208 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: and frankly, Landon, I'm not sure if in the past 209 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: six weeks since the breakup there's been enough growth on 210 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: your end from what we just heard to warn her. 211 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 3: Yes, that is the most adult thing that Jeffrey's ever said. 212 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 4: Honest with you. I know we're supposed to be fun, 213 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:08,959 Speaker 4: but yeah, pretty real. 214 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 5: I tell you to say that because honestly, you could 215 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 5: never say that on your own. 216 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 4: Landon, what was that last bit? 217 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 7: I missed that last? 218 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: They were all telling me that I'm not smart enough 219 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:18,199 Speaker 1: to come up with that on my own. 220 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 3: Have you had any growth in the last six weeks, 221 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 3: land jeff Yeah. 222 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 7: I I appreciate that. Look, I made changes, and I 223 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 7: see that there are some mistakes that I made, Okay, 224 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 7: And the reason I'm so, you know, I want to 225 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 7: take this opportunity now, even though it's been just six weeks, 226 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 7: because I think we have an opportunity to grow together 227 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 7: Jessica and I rather than growing apart. 228 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 3: See that's good. I like that. That's a good sentiment, 229 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 3: you know for sure? You know? Can we ask real 230 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: quick is she dating right now? Or is she just single? Single? 231 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 7: Have you heard, well, she better not be dating. It's 232 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 7: only been six weeks, That's what I'm saying. 233 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 5: People do that after a month, it's fair game. 234 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 6: But yeah, I think after two weeks your significant other. 235 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 3: That's why we broke up with them. 236 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: We have to reach out to her to find out 237 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: some of these answers. And if you're just listening for 238 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: the very first time, say yes to the exes. It's 239 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: a little bit different than a second date update because 240 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: these people have had a previous relationship before. They already 241 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: know each other, and we're going to try not to 242 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: jump in on the conversation as much as we normally do. 243 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 4: We're going to try and. 244 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: Let them talk and work it out as much as 245 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: possible amongst themselves. 246 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 4: That's the goal. 247 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 1: It's going to show if they've really had any growth 248 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: in their relationship or not. And so now I'm about 249 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: to punch up Jessica. Our producer got her on the 250 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 1: other line. 251 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 4: You're ready to. 252 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 3: Talk to her, don't punch it, ex girlfriend, Okay. 253 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 4: Let's just bring her on the line with you. Here 254 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 4: we go, Hell, Jessica, you there. 255 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 3: Hello, Hi Jessica, Hey Jessica. 256 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 4: This is Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 257 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: Obviously, thanks for being on the show with us. 258 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, Hi, it's not gonna lie. I'm a little bit 259 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 8: caught off guards. But what's up? What's going on? 260 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 1: So our producer told you that we have your ex 261 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: boyfriend Landon on the phone right now and he really 262 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: really wants to speak to you for a second. 263 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 4: Hey, Jessica, that's Landon. 264 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: So what we're gonna do here is we're just going 265 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: to back away and let you and land And have 266 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: a chat for a second. 267 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 4: All right, go ahead, Landon. 268 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 7: Hey, Yeah, sorry about this, but you know, I just 269 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 7: have something to say to you. 270 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 8: Okay. Well, I mean, like, why do you have the 271 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 8: radio station calling me? 272 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 7: No, don't worry about that. I mean, just pretend like 273 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 7: it's you and me. There's nobody else here. 274 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not laughing. 275 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 8: I don't even know, like is this on air with 276 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 8: like viewers, Like, come on, viewers. 277 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 7: I don't think they can see us, but I think 278 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 7: just focus on what I'm about to say. 279 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 8: Okay, what you have to say, Landon? 280 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 7: Okay, For the last six weeks, I've noticed that I've 281 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 7: missed you a lot and and I just I need 282 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 7: you back in my life. So okay, I'd like you 283 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 7: to say yes to the ex. 284 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 8: Just what does that even mean? 285 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 7: What they're doing on the show and they've done up 286 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 7: before with somebody else, and help them get back there. Ax, 287 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 7: So now I'm trying with you. 288 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 3: Maybe talk to her about are. 289 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 8: You you you want us to get back together? 290 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, it just makes sense. It's like peanut butter and jelly. 291 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 8: Okay, like Landon. 292 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 7: Look, I promise it's going to be better. I have 293 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 7: a feeling about it. 294 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 8: I mean, are you still living with your mom? 295 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 7: Well sort of, but it's it's really different from last time. 296 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 8: Okay, different? 297 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 7: How well? Okay, so if you remember before, my bedroom 298 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:44,199 Speaker 7: was on the main floor of my mom's house, but 299 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 7: like the first floor. Okay, yeah, well now you know, 300 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:50,599 Speaker 7: I mean she's getting older, as you know, and she 301 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 7: doesn't like using the stairs. So last week I offered 302 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 7: such rooms with her and she said yes. So now 303 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 7: I actually have the entire top floor to myself, and 304 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 7: you know, it's kind of like a penthouse. 305 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 8: Okay, but you're you're basically still living with her though, well. 306 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 7: I mean it's like my own place. And in a 307 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 7: year or two, I'm gonna save up enough money to 308 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 7: build a separate entrance. You know, a staircase that goes 309 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 7: from the outside to my room. 310 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 8: A slide slides Okay, I mean that's not even different. 311 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 8: It's like the same thing that you were doing before. 312 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 7: I mean I would have moved out sooner, but you know, 313 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 7: my credit screwed up from my identity being stolen, which 314 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 7: was you know, I was a victim. 315 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 8: But you did that on campus. You put your soul 316 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 8: security in the online because, oh my god, you think 317 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 8: it'd be so funny if somebody stole it and realized 318 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:41,719 Speaker 8: that you didn't have any money, Like. 319 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 4: What was that? 320 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 7: I mean, it was funny. It was hilarious to be 321 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 7: on the dark web and experiment with the dark web. 322 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 7: But I admit that it's backfired. 323 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 3: What look like. 324 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 7: I just think now things are different from me. I'm 325 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 7: moving up in life, I mean literally up a floor. 326 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 7: So maybe you'd want to hang out again and we 327 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 7: can grow together instead of growing apart. 328 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 8: I appreciate the sentiment and thank you for reaching out, 329 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 8: But no, Landon, No, I don't want to live with 330 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 8: your mom. I'm sorry. 331 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 7: Tell me, are you dating anyone else? 332 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 8: That's none of your business. I'm single. 333 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 7: That sounds like a confession or something. I don't know. 334 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 8: That's I'm not seeing anybody right now, but I plan 335 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 8: on it. 336 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh okay, not seeing anybody until you say yes 337 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: to the X and then you'll be seeing. 338 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, you're not seeing anybody, Please say yes to the X. 339 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 4: That's right. That's the whole goal of the segment. 340 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: And Landon has the endorsement of every member of This 341 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 1: Morning plus all of our listeners, all twelve of them. 342 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 3: Growing she just said no eight times while you were talking. 343 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 4: Well she didn't. 344 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: She didn't say it nine times. 345 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 4: That's the magic number. 346 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: I mean, you get nine lives in dating. 347 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 6: I will say it sounds like he really does care 348 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 6: for you and love you. 349 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 8: He lived his leg on the fire with ex body spray. 350 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 8: I will let you know that. 351 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 7: I mean that was to prove that there should be 352 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 7: a product warning on. 353 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 3: Trat guys put together on. 354 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 5: Every Arizona. 355 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 8: Landon, like, in all seriousness, you have way, way, way 356 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 8: more grossy. You need to go through personally, and I 357 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 8: support you. I hope you do before we ever have 358 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 8: any type of conversation ever, and it's going to be 359 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 8: more than six week or six months. 360 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 3: I support you with silence. 361 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 4: But look The key is that wasn't a no. 362 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 5: That wasn't a no. 363 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 7: I thought, here's what here's what I think we should do. Well, 364 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 7: I want to check in again in six weeks, and 365 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 7: I just want you to promise that between now and 366 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 7: then you don't see anyone else. 367 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do that. 368 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know about that. 369 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: I mean it's like people taking time apart to figure 370 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: out themselves before they get back together stronger than ever. 371 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 6: Oh I always thought people were doing other people when 372 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 6: they took time atparty. 373 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 4: That's what you do during your time apart to make 374 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 4: yourself stronger. That's what it takes. 375 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 7: I promise, and I guarantee I will be celibate the 376 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 7: next six weeks. I'll be like a priest. 377 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 4: You probably longer than that, if we're being honest. 378 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 3: Right below, you're a man. 379 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. 380 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: It sounds like we're not gonna be able to get 381 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: your ex to say yes she said no to the All. 382 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 7: Right, well look for now she did, but six weeks 383 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 7: later we're checking 384 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: It looking Jeffrey in the morning,