1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to move my 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: husband's service dog out of the house because my niece 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: is uncomfortable? 4 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: Yo, uncomfortable? 5 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 3: But the service dog is doing a service and that 6 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,079 Speaker 3: service is making everyone uncomfortable around it. 7 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 8 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, create a perimeter around this person. This person 9 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 3: can't see, so can't feel whatever is wrong with that person. 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: Surround the niece with other service dogs. Yeah, such as 11 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: you need smatter is something amiss? My husband is disabled 12 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: one expand on that for privacy, and we got him 13 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: a service dog four months ago to help him out 14 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: on a daily basis. My brother and his family lost 15 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: their home and asked to move in with us for 16 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,959 Speaker 1: a few weeks till they land another place to stay. Now, 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: the thing is, my niece fourteen, started complaining about the 18 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: service dog making her uncomfortable. 19 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: Like why it's a dog. Uh, it's an uncomfortable dog. 20 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 2: It's a dog with a job. Dog shouldn't have jobs. 21 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 2: What is that studied? Recently? 22 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 3: I went to the my chemical romance. Uh yeah, and 23 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 3: there was a service dog there, or like there was 24 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: like a bomb stiffing dog there. And I'm like, I 25 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 3: don't know why I said this, but I went up 26 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 3: to the guy of like, dude, I love dogs with jobs. 27 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 3: How long has your dog had this job? 28 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 2: And it's like the security guy And I don't know. 29 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: That's funny, he was, Jill, that's funny. By the way, 30 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: I tell Nima that you went to my chemical chemical. Yeah, Jewel, 31 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 2: I never heard a song before going. I couldn't name one. 32 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 2: I could. That's honestly fun because you got the outsiders. 33 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: For it was good. He was very angry, an angry man. 34 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 3: He went like ranting or like in the song. But 35 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 3: black Parade excellent, that's a good song. Oh, so you 36 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: do know, I said I couldn't get lie. 37 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: I said, I couldn't name my song, Sir, I said 38 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: I could not. I couldn't remember who did that one. 39 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: So speaking of uh, the emo punk concerts. J Now 40 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: it's strange because there's no allergies or anything else that 41 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: would make her just uncomfortable. She told my brother and 42 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: he asked if I could move the dog where where away? 43 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 3: Maybe I could move it to another house if your 44 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 3: house didn't get taken from you. 45 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: Oh, oh, you're poor. That's the joke. Make money next time, 46 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: pun you. 47 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 3: Think about being poor before you decide, before exactly, why 48 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 3: do you invest in apple? Yeah, exactly, why don't you 49 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 3: think about money? I said, absolutely not. 50 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: This dog is literally as helpful as a human being 51 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to people with his abilities, and he's 52 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: incredibly smart, and more importantly, he minds his own business 53 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: and never bothers my niece. But she's just uncomfortable with 54 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: having him for some reason. Like there's literally no reason. 55 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 3: Unlike the niece, this dog is not dead weight, like 56 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 3: the dog has a look at job. The just complains 57 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 3: niece is basically a meat sack. Yeah, like, yeah, completely useless. 58 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: My brother and his wife started begging, saying it's temporary, 59 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: but I refuse. 60 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: What, oh temporary? Where? Like where are you gonna put 61 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 2: this dog? I don't understand. 62 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: It's truly just buy a doghouse, which also completely defeats 63 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: the point of the service dog. 64 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 65 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: They said that my husband doesn't really need the dog 66 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: as of now, since he's home most of the time. 67 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: He doesn't really need it. Bro, he's disabled. 68 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 3: We don't know what kind of disabled for privacy reasons, 69 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 3: but he has a service dog. 70 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: Is that not proof or not? 71 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: Like? 72 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: Come on yet, I still refused. They tried talking to 73 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: my husband directly, but I shut that down immediately. 74 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 2: He's disabled. She will not talk, that's right. 75 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: My brother's wife started in argument with me right after 76 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: my brother went to work, and she started yelling about 77 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: how I value my dog over my niece and her comfort. Yes, 78 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: some people in these retas stories make your bil My 79 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: stomach is about to explode. I said, it wasn't just 80 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: a dog, but it's my husband who needs him. My 81 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: brother came home and we kept arguing. He said that 82 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: I was being unsupportive and cruel to my niece who's 83 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: already been through enough. 84 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 2: Oh god, it's a dog. It's a dog. Bro. 85 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: My husband got involved and asked me to take him 86 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: to his father's house with the dog, but I said no, 87 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: not after what his dad said to him, and that 88 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: him and the dog are staying. 89 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 3: I feel like there's like like family drama that were 90 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 3: just skirted around with the dad whole thing. 91 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, way, what do you mean? What did his 92 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 2: dad say? Day? With the dad? 93 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: My brother and his wife are in the guest room 94 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: sulking hard while my niece is ignoring me. Meanwhile, my 95 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: husband is sitting in the kitchen right now trying to 96 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: convince me to let him go stay with his dad's 97 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 1: to keep peace with my brother. Wow, it's not even 98 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: his own brother, like bro the death, Like Opie's husband 99 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: is doing way. 100 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: More than Yeah, crazy, this man. 101 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: My husband is like this all the time, always willing 102 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 1: to do what others want just to keep the peace. 103 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: You can literally cuss him out and he'll apologize for 104 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: it like it was his fault. 105 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: Oh goodness, sounds like a nice guy. Yeah, maybe overly nice. 106 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: He thinks he owes people for accepting him as a 107 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: disabled man, which is sad. And it's true that he's 108 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: home most of the day, but he needs his service 109 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: dogs throughout the rest of the day. So am I 110 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: the a hole for refusing to move out the dog temporarily? 111 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 2: I think no. 112 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 3: I think she's like standing up for her husband because 113 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 3: it doesn't seem like he wants to or can. I 114 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 3: don't know, like literally, it's just like the niece's side 115 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: is so stupid. Oh yeah, I mean, but like it 116 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 3: is not even a reason. I just feel uncomfortable over yourself. 117 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: At the absolute barest of minimums, the barest of minimums, articulate, Yeah, 118 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: that's the bare minimum. If you were if you had 119 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: if you were attacked by a dog or something, yeah. 120 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: Or okay, if you are allergic to the dog, that at. 121 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: Least explains why not that that still doesn't justify them 122 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: getting rid of the dog. But like it's like, at 123 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: least explain yourself, but you won't. People die,