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Speaker 1: All right, This is from Shelle and Newport News. Shell says,

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Speaker 1: I will be forty years old in three weeks and

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Speaker 1: I plan to leave my deadbeat husband and move in

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Speaker 1: with my mom. I am telling you guys before I

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Speaker 1: tell my husband. He doesn't come home some nights and

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Speaker 1: he can't keep a job. Lately, I've been making plans

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Speaker 1: and I've arranged for the movers to put my furniture

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Speaker 1: in storage. I bought everything in this house, and I

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Speaker 1: want to leave him with nothing. My mom said that

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Speaker 1: this type of behavior will block my blessings. Why should

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Speaker 1: I behave like a Christian and he doesn't do I

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Speaker 1: have to tell him that I'm leaving.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, oh, mothers. Mothers have a sense of

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Speaker 2: awareness and experience and knowledge that sometimes you don't. In

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Speaker 2: the words of my father in law, just because you

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Speaker 2: can do something don't mean you should. Now you can

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Speaker 2: lead this man. I'm not telling you to stay. He

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Speaker 2: ain't try the work, he don't come home some nights. Man. Bye,

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Speaker 2: But there's a way to do it. If you gonna leave,

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Speaker 2: you can leave. You can leave clean. You don't have

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Speaker 2: to do the shock value. But you ain't got to

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Speaker 2: leave you nothing. You ain't gonna have nothing, no way.

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Speaker 2: So I just kind of listen to what your mom

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Speaker 2: is saying, because you're gonna create another problem too. Now

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Speaker 2: when you do it like that, what I mean, he

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Speaker 2: gonna get mad, then here come all that other Just

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Speaker 2: find the right way to do it and get on out.

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Speaker 2: Take your furniture, gonna move in with your mama.

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Speaker 1: So are you saying, should she tell.

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Speaker 2: Him or hey, hey, get your stuff, whatever it is,

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Speaker 2: box it up, get ready Friday, the movies is coming,

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Speaker 2: the movies come on in there, boom, set him on up. Now. Now,

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Speaker 2: if you know something that we don't know, that he's

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Speaker 2: been violent or abusive, then do it. Wait till he

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Speaker 2: go to wherever he goes, and then sneak out. If

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Speaker 2: he's at sneak out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's what you know, Dad, If you're gonna

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Speaker 1: leave a man, leave all these announcements and all that,

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Speaker 1: just go yeah.

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Speaker 2: But if you go do it that way, go in

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Speaker 2: and do it, and don't you know, worry about that

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Speaker 2: Christian thing. You're gonna ask the Lord for forgiveness, Pack

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Speaker 2: your stuff up, ask for forgiveness, get out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it must be bad if she's moving back with

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Speaker 1: her mom. Yep, all right, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Valerie and Little Rock. Valerie says, my

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Speaker 1: husband and I have a landscape business, and I found

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Speaker 1: out that he's been giving one of our customers the discount.

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Speaker 1: The customer is a single mom, and my husband said

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Speaker 1: that he gives her a break because we take care

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Speaker 1: of other yards in her neighborhood, so he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: her yard to make our business look bad. I want

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Speaker 1: to believe he's doing it to be nice, but could

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Speaker 1: there be another reason?

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Speaker 2: Well, he landshare single and you know, got a couple

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Speaker 2: of kids. Maybe maybe he's just trying to help out. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you have no proof of anything else happening. You have

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Speaker 2: no evidence, so you that's just it.

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Speaker 1: You know, shut up, Tommy to stop. You know that

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Speaker 1: man over the landscaping, you know what he's dealing.

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Speaker 2: Stop that.

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Speaker 1: Why would you say so, sip of you because.

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Speaker 2: Everybody else got to be.

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Speaker 1: Tried, right, I mean, why are you saying that though, Tommy? Seriously,

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Speaker 1: I cut.

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Speaker 2: Yard, Nobody cut y off for free. Don't nobody to

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Speaker 2: cut you off discount?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's giving her account mm hmm, okay, well you counted,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, twenty off maybe that's a lot. I think

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Speaker 1: he's doing what Tommy says he's doing. Yes, so we

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Speaker 1: have another one. What's your advice?

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Speaker 2: I just told you know, the man just being nice.

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Speaker 2: He can gave the woman a discount. She's singing. She

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Speaker 2: got them kids up there, she's just trying to be kind.

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Speaker 2: She can't afford the regular price. She's single. Why doy

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Speaker 2: keys ain't out there cutting yods? Whyddy keys ain't out

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Speaker 2: there cutting YoY Day four and three, Daughter daughter yas.

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Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with Tommy, Yes, Steve, what's wrong? Hey?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you go over there? So used to cut yachts?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you.

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Speaker 1: Going you major uncle man? Tommy coming up in twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.