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Speaker 1: If you are interested in dating or interested in not dating,

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Speaker 1: listen to this second date update right now. Joseph writes

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Speaker 1: to us that he met this sweet girl, he says

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Speaker 1: in an email at a friend's college graduation. They swapped

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Speaker 1: numbers and they went to golf and stuff. First date.

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Speaker 2: Golf and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, they have arcade and bumper cards and stuff, right, Joseph,

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Speaker 1: are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Sorry, I'm here. Yes, they do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, did you do the stuff and go carts

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Speaker 2: and you did the stuff?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, so you go to golf and stuff and

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Speaker 1: do all the golf and the stuff. And then the

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Speaker 1: second date was at your place. I loved this.

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Speaker 2: You made her dinner.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I made her enchiladas and they actually turned out

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Speaker 3: like really.

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Speaker 1: Well, did you red sauce, green sauce?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, red sauce. I kind of just followed the recipe.

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Speaker 3: I've only made him like one other time.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just that they thought enchiladas like rests my heart,

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Speaker 1: you know, like puts me at ease on a date

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Speaker 1: if I'm over at your place. So that all seems great.

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Speaker 1: What happened after that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I thought we had a great

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Speaker 3: rest of the night and then she left my place

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Speaker 3: and it just seems like she's been blowing me off

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Speaker 3: ever since. I haven't heard back from her. She won't

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Speaker 3: reply to my text or anything.

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Speaker 1: But but but did she enjoy the meal? Was she grateful?

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Speaker 1: Was she thankful? Was were you thoughtful?

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Speaker 2: Like? What what was the tone of the evening after

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Speaker 2: the enchilada?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean she's really sweet, Like she like said,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, this is so good, and like she

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Speaker 3: thanked me, and like afterwards she had to get up

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Speaker 3: early for work, so like it was already kind of

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Speaker 3: planned that you know she was going to leave in

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Speaker 3: all of that. Yeah, so it gave her a hug

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Speaker 3: to buye and like it all seemed very normal, like

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Speaker 2: So you felt like it was what you had planned?

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Speaker 2: Did you have you kissed her?

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Speaker 3: No? Not yet.

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Speaker 1: And now as she sent you any sort of text,

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Speaker 1: have you what has been the communication since.

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Speaker 3: I text her the next day, just you know normal,

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Speaker 3: had fun last night and all that, and she never replied. So,

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Speaker 3: like I said, I text her again and was like, hey,

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Speaker 3: and she hasn't any reply to that, So I was like,

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Speaker 3: maybe my text aren't going through. So the next day

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Speaker 3: I tried calling her and it ended up just going

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Speaker 3: to voicemail and just nothing. She hasn't reached out to

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Speaker 3: me at all.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hold on for one second, going to get her name,

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Speaker 1: going to get her number, going to call her, gonna

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Speaker 1: find out what's up. Hold on one second, or Joseph

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Speaker 1: any hunches here a siciny.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like something went wrong after the right but

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Speaker 2: that's I love a homemade dinner day. Love it. I

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Speaker 2: did too.

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Speaker 4: Either something was said that rubbed her the wrong way,

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Speaker 4: but at least like say thanks for dinner.

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Speaker 2: But I don't see anything with or something or something

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Speaker 1: Maybe that a picture of somebody else who knows.

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Speaker 2: She sounds offended? All right, let's come, we don't even matter.

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Speaker 2: How does she sound? This is just hunch speculation. That's

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Speaker 2: what we do here on Air on.

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Speaker 4: Air with Ryan Seacrest, Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: In Seacrest, is this name Tanya Morning in the back room?

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Speaker 1: All here for a second date update. You may listen

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Speaker 1: to these and think, gosh, dating is great, or you

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Speaker 1: may not. You may be grateful you're not dating, or

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Speaker 1: maybe you're inspired to be a better dater. Right, maybe

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Speaker 1: you'll learn something when you're dating about dating.

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Speaker 2: In the second date up thing, it's like what not

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Speaker 2: to do.

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Speaker 1: So Joseph is online. Joseph, I'm going to be very quiet.

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Speaker 1: I've got Leah. She's agreed to come on. We're going

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Speaker 1: to talk to her. You'll be able to hear us.

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Speaker 1: But just don't say any Okay, let's say we can

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Speaker 1: find out about why she.

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Speaker 2: Blew you off?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, all here we go, Leah, Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for holding on. You're on the air

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Speaker 1: with myself, Ryan and Tanya and sisening here on Kiss FM.

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 1: So we're calling about a guy that you went out

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Speaker 1: with a couple of times named Joseph.

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Speaker 2: Does that sound familiar?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, tell us about Joseph. What do you like about him?

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Speaker 5: And I mean we went on on two dates. He's

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Speaker 5: you know, he's not my vibe.

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Speaker 1: So what was it about, specifically the second date that

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Speaker 1: made you determine after two dates he's not your vibe?

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 5: I like, it's sort of none of my business, you know,

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Speaker 5: But like I just I thought his priorities were like

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Speaker 2: His priorities are weird.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I mean like he was in this like

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Speaker 5: tiny studio apartment and it's like tiny, like like like

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Speaker 5: it's a kitchen and a bathroom and a futon and.

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Speaker 3: Like that is it?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Will you sound anxious about that or a little you know,

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean like I mean rents expensive.

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, no, yeah, And the thing is like it

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Speaker 5: wouldn't be that weird, Like I get, I get it,

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Speaker 5: but like he drives a Porsche, So like how do

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Speaker 5: you spend that much in a car and that little

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Speaker 5: on your apartment? Like it just seems weird to me.

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Speaker 5: Like I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: I get what I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what is it, Leah that you think when

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Speaker 1: you think about the fact that he's got a tiny

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Speaker 1: apartment that drives an expensive car, Like what does that

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Speaker 5: Like I just wouldn't want to live in a dump

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Speaker 5: but have really nice stuff, Like I would want.

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Speaker 1: To priorities out of the Yeah, like he cares about

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Speaker 1: what people see him as on the streets versus versus

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Speaker 1: how he's treating himself correct exactly what your theory was.

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Speaker 2: That's what That's what I think. Yeah, so Leah, thank

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Speaker 2: you for your go ahead.

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Speaker 5: No, it's like it's in my business, you know, but

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Speaker 5: like I just don't I don't really want to live

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Speaker 4: I think you're kind of putting the horse before the

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Speaker 4: that backwards. You're putting the carriage before the horse, saying.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say cards used to carrig.

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Speaker 4: What I'm trying to say, Like you're you're jumping the

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Speaker 4: seeing like marriage and you're moving in with him into

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Speaker 4: the studio apartment and like give it a.

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Speaker 1: Chance, and that you're saying about maybe the priority is off.

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Speaker 4: And I told a conversation with him, and if you

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Speaker 4: actually do end up liking him and then building a relationship,

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Speaker 4: all of that can change, you know, because you actually

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Speaker 4: do enjoy each other's company.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to tell you that we have him

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Speaker 1: listening to this now, and I need to just bring

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Speaker 1: him in because I need to know Joseph, what is

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Speaker 1: your reaction to hearing about this, and what's the deal

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Speaker 1: with the Porsche.

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Speaker 3: I can actually completely explain that. That makes so much sense.

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Speaker 3: So I sell real estate and my clients see my car,

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Speaker 3: they don't see my apartment, and they spend the times

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Speaker 3: that I give. Yeah, there will be times that I

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Speaker 3: give my clients like rides to different houses. So I

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Speaker 3: kind of need the nice car to be like, look,

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Speaker 3: you could afford this too.

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Speaker 2: I got it. I got to tell you, you know what.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Joseph, when I first moved here, I was living

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Speaker 1: in Burbank and splitting a bedroom Leah with a dude

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Speaker 1: because I was paying split in the rent, and I

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Speaker 1: went and bought like matching what are you going to say,

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Speaker 1: checkered colored shirts with matching gap jeans.

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Speaker 2: Like burgundy and burgundy and green and green.

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Speaker 1: Because I would wear those two meetings thinking that I

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Speaker 1: was going to make a good first impression. Not its

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Speaker 1: a little different, but I do remember thinking to myself,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to convey something more than I was.

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Speaker 2: At that point.

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Speaker 4: Everyone likes to have something nice to feel good or

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Speaker 4: present themselves in the best light, like.

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Speaker 2: Fake it till you make it.

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Speaker 3: Kind of No, exactly, if they think I'm successful, they'll

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Speaker 3: buy a house for me, and I'm actually doing like

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Speaker 3: pretty good. I'm actually saving to buy myself a house

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 2: I like it. Yeah, I like it. Yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 1: Does it change your mind at all? The about Joseph?

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Speaker 5: I mean, like that that does make sense A portions

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Speaker 5: really starvagant. But yeah that I mean that does make sense.

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Speaker 3: All right, There you have it. I had a blast

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Speaker 3: on our dates, and let's go out again. Love to

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Speaker 3: go on another. I mean, if we could start over

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Speaker 3: if you want. I just you were so much fun

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Speaker 3: and I just want to hang out again. Wow.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I really did have fun too, So I.

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Speaker 2: Love this so much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, great, we're gonna go bye a good luck, congratulations. See.

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Speaker 2: But you know, speak of the car.

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Speaker 1: I also remember when I was working at what is

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Speaker 1: now ninety eight seven at Star back in the day

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Speaker 1: when I could first afford like big rims on my car,

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Speaker 1: I put rims on my car because I wanted to

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Speaker 1: like have a cool looking we get it, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I just think that.

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Speaker 2: So what I like Joseph. Yeah, he really flipped me, honestly,

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Speaker 2: such a good and he's like hustling.

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Speaker 4: Yeah,