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Speaker 1: What's up, Gorgeous? It is Laalacat with Rand. Big Big Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: Huge Wednesday, I.

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Speaker 2: Would say, the biggest Wednesday of two years that we've

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Speaker 2: been doing this podcast.

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Speaker 1: I am back on TV with my crew.

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Speaker 2: Wow. I know what makes this Wednesday special is that

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Speaker 2: you have been on a show for a long time.

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Speaker 2: The show went into hiatus yep because of the pandemic. Yes,

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Speaker 2: and you had the season premiere last night.

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Speaker 1: Go along, Yes, give him a good clap. Rand loves

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Speaker 1: a good clap.

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Speaker 2: All right, tell us let's jump right into it. Nobody

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Speaker 2: wants to hear any bullshit today. They want to hear

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Speaker 2: you spill the fucking teeth.

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Speaker 1: All right, So let's do a pre rec real quick.

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Speaker 1: Keep in mind, like the season is completed, a lot

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Speaker 1: of us went toes, A lot of us get along,

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Speaker 1: a lot of us don't. A lot of us are

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Speaker 1: cool now. But let's talk about last night's episode, Randa,

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Speaker 1: what did you think of it?

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Speaker 2: First of all, I honestly had so much fun watching it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there are parts that you know, like that

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Speaker 2: I probably didn't love as much, the buttle enough with it.

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Speaker 1: I thought it played out really nicely, like I thought

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Speaker 1: it was going to be a much bigger deal, and

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Speaker 1: it was actually just like a clip.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, there's a different time in your life.

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Speaker 2: And we've discussed this, but here at the end of

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Speaker 2: the day, I want to talk about the show, the

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Speaker 2: parts that I do love. I think that your cast,

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Speaker 2: and I've said this for a long time, the fact

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Speaker 2: you've been together now for nine years and you guys

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Speaker 2: still go at it. I mean, I'm in shock. It

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Speaker 2: is off the chain. When your group gets together.

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Speaker 1: There's just like whoa rewatching it. It was like, I

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Speaker 1: remember it so vividly, you know, because I came into

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Speaker 1: the season as kind of an outsider, right.

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Speaker 2: Because you can that's right, because you hadn't even seen

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Speaker 2: the show.

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Speaker 1: Well, my my crew that you know I am down with,

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Speaker 1: they're no longer on the show anymore. So I came

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Speaker 1: in I had Katie and that's pretty much where my

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Speaker 1: alliances ended.

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Speaker 2: You know, you have Katie and that's it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I just felt like that day was amazing.

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Speaker 1: It was the first day that we had filmed. I

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Speaker 1: was promoting my book, I had a new baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're you're you're you're feeling yourself.

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Speaker 1: I was feeling myself. And you know, the whole thing

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Speaker 1: was Sheena after I watched the episode and she had

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Speaker 1: texted me and she was like, what did you think?

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Speaker 1: And I said, well, our scene made me sob and

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Speaker 1: it continues to make me sob and she was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I did the same thing. I just cried.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy because I watched you watch the episode and

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Speaker 2: you had tears in your eyes.

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Speaker 1: I can't stop crying every time I watch it because

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Speaker 1: it was that was the end of our friendship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, there's no coming back from this. No

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Speaker 1: the fucked up thing about perception is we all have

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I again, I wasn't in the calls

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Speaker 2: and the text, but I do know throughout the day

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Speaker 2: you were saying do you want me to come see you?

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Speaker 1: And if you but if you watched the scene where

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Speaker 1: You can't expect everyone to drop everything when you're finally ready.

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Speaker 2: Right. So, but from what I understand, and tell me

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Speaker 2: if I'm wrong. That day, because I was around you,

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Speaker 1: Yep, she wanted to go to sleep with Brock with

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Speaker 1: And then she called me and said, you know, I

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Speaker 1: saying she chose celebrity. No, no, no, I didn't. If anyone

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Speaker 1: And I was on my way to dinner. I said,

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Speaker 1: Right, I told her, like, I can for sure, I'm

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Speaker 2: So well, this is what I don't understand about that

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Speaker 2: and at that time she didn't want you there.

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Speaker 2: And then when she called you, I think she made

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Speaker 2: Like we had by the way, we had dinner with

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Speaker 1: So luckily, you know, last night we squashed it. We

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Speaker 1: It was NonStop. She wouldn't let me talk and I

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing, shock.

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Speaker 1: I don't like conversations that are not productive for me.

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Speaker 2: I understand. Yeah. What I don't understand though, is that

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, it's one of those things where you

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Speaker 1: we feel. We think that everyone needs to know every

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Speaker 1: great because for the most part, our rugs are clean.

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Speaker 3: twenty fourteen. They came in and said it's time and

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00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:52,760
Speaker 3: I was like, well, wait a minute, how is this

439
00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,679
Speaker 3: going to work. I'm making at that time, I was

440
00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:56,920
Speaker 3: making two hundred thousand dollars a year. I was very comfortable.

441
00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,040
Speaker 3: I had these two kids to raise, a house in

442
00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,919
Speaker 3: a car. And I said, this is not how it

443
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,439
Speaker 3: works in the material world. I can't just you know, I.

444
00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:08,160
Speaker 2: Mortgage on a psychic mission. That's tough.

445
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:10,520
Speaker 3: So Jay was living with me at the time. He

446
00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:12,320
Speaker 3: actually helped me run the company that we were working

447
00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,360
Speaker 3: at before. And I told Jay, I said, it's time

448
00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:15,800
Speaker 3: and he was like, well, what do you mean And

449
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:17,399
Speaker 3: I said, they want me to start doing this as

450
00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,159
Speaker 3: a profession. Now He's like, how are we going to

451
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,560
Speaker 3: do this? I said, I don't know. Reach out to

452
00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:24,040
Speaker 3: every celebrity, every radio station, every televisiation, anywhere that wants

453
00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,000
Speaker 3: a psychic reading. And then the first thing he booked

454
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:26,640
Speaker 3: was Comic Con.

455
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,639
Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, so I saw that in your bio

456
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,760
Speaker 1: that you gave a read to a little girl.

457
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, this one was. This is the first. So when

458
00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,880
Speaker 3: people ask me who are your guides? Who are they?

459
00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,840
Speaker 3: And I've only labeled them guides because that's what the

460
00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,760
Speaker 3: public labels them. And I used to just say they

461
00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,960
Speaker 3: don't I've never said I never used those metaphysical hochey words,

462
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,360
Speaker 3: you know, and so so, for lack of a better word,

463
00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 3: that I would say guides. So I'm sitting there and

464
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 3: this woman comes in. She wants a reading, and she said,

465
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,119
Speaker 3: you know, I've heard great things about you like a

466
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 3: reading and I said, yeah, perfect, I said, but I

467
00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,920
Speaker 3: want to read your daughter first. And the girls like

468
00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,400
Speaker 3: eight or nine years old. And the woman goes, well,

469
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 3: what for And I said, because she's a medium, And

470
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,120
Speaker 3: she said what And I was like, yeah, I said,

471
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 3: she talks to dead people. Come on, yeah, come on,

472
00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 3: yes for sure. And the girl was like, So I

473
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,000
Speaker 3: told the mom, I said, just have her sit down

474
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,240
Speaker 3: and say you can leave the door open. And I said,

475
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 3: you can hear what I'm telling her, that you don't

476
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,680
Speaker 3: have to close the door. And I asked the little girl,

477
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 3: I said, you know you're different. I said, tell me

478
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 3: about the people that you talk to that that nobody

479
00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 3: else can see. And she said, oh, you mean the

480
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 3: little bald girl that comes and plays with me? And

481
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 3: my yes, I can't. This is sixth sense and shot

482
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 3: on movie right here, and this is a little girl

483
00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,639
Speaker 3: whose mother I was supposed to read, not her.

484
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 2: And you read her and he said, because she speaks

485
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 2: to she speaks to dead people, right. And then she

486
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 2: says to you, oh, the little girl that comes in

487
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,159
Speaker 2: plays And then she tells me about her dad fall

488
00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:46,679
Speaker 2: out of the chair.

489
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 3: Her dad died of an overdose, and so she's like,

490
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,919
Speaker 3: my daddy comes and apologize for me. He cries all

491
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,960
Speaker 3: the time. Yeah, and then she stops midsentense. So this

492
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 3: is going to freak you out. And I'm already getting

493
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 3: goosebum I know.

494
00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 1: I know.

495
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 3: She's like. She stops and she goes and I'm like,

496
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 3: what's the matter and she goes, She's just like looking

497
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,919
Speaker 3: right behind me, and behind me was a wall. There

498
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 3: was nothing there. And I was like, what are you

499
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,480
Speaker 3: looking at? And she goes, I know how you know

500
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 3: how to tell people what to, how to, how to?

501
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 3: I know how you tell people what to say or

502
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 3: what what? What what you're telling people? I know how

503
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 3: you get it? And I was like how? And she

504
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 3: goes the two ladies that are talking inside your ear

505
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 3: and the big guy behind them telling them what to say.

506
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:27,880
Speaker 3: And I was like, you can see them right now?

507
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 3: And she goes, yeah. She goes, she goes, can't you

508
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 3: hear them? And I was like no, and she goes,

509
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 3: that's what. That's how you know what to tell people.

510
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 3: They tell you. And I was like, you can see

511
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 3: them and she goes, oh, my only medium that I've

512
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 3: ever had to read me was.

513
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 2: A nine year old with her No, Oh my god,

514
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 2: that's amazing. Okay, you have to jump into us.

515
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 1: Speacause, hold on, do you have any idea who she

516
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,360
Speaker 1: may have been talking about when she said the big

517
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: guy behind you?

518
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 2: None of them would I would lose my I lose

519
00:21:59,080 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: my shit.

520
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 3: If yeah, they don't come and talk to me like

521
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 3: I'm sitting here talking to you. They don't say, oh,

522
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 3: tell la, la, x Y and Z. You just it

523
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 3: just it's just pictures and it's it's just in my head.

524
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 3: I just it just comes on. And before I would

525
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 3: have to sit there and look at a picture for

526
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 3: a little bit and say, okay, let me let me

527
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: dissect what I'm going to tell her, And now my

528
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 3: GUIDs are like, no, you're going to get the information

529
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 3: as soon as she picks up with the bone or

530
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 3: as soon as you sit down in front of them.

531
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,360
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I like you, so honored to have

532
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 1: you on the podcast much thank you. Amazing and like,

533
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 1: what an incredible experience that nine year old.

534
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let's jump right in because I need to

535
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 2: hear something. This is too too you know me. I

536
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: love this stuff.

537
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 1: Do you care if we get to read from you?

538
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 3: Nope, let's do it.

539
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, Randal's first, I'm going to.

540
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 2: Give you up first.

541
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to give you my spiel first, just

542
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 3: to let you know before you answer this question, I

543
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 3: do not discuss death and I do not discuss anything

544
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 3: that's going to scare the shit out of you.

545
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So keeping said, is.

546
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 3: There anything that you want me to stay away from?

547
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 1: No, perfect, not at all.

548
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 3: The second thing is, for the first couple of minutes,

549
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 3: I'm going to go in and give you what my

550
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,719
Speaker 3: guides are giving me to give you directly, and then

551
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 3: I'll open the reading up to any questions that you

552
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 3: have in regard to what I said, or if you

553
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 3: want to know about something that we didn't get a

554
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 3: chance to touch on, we could do it at that time.

555
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 3: Does that work?

556
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 1: That works great?

557
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 3: Perfect? And then the final final thing, and your time

558
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 3: is very important and expensive to me. I want you

559
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 3: to feel free to jump into call bullshit at any time,

560
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 3: Do not hold back, do not worry about trying to

561
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 3: be polite. And I want to hurt my feelings, none

562
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 3: of that.

563
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

564
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 3: If it doesn't resonate or if it sounds off, let

565
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 3: me know. When I do had stuff, simply confirm yes,

566
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 3: but do not give me any additional detailskat Okay, he's.

567
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: The real freaking deal. Nice a welcome.

568
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 3: I don't know, don't be go ahead, So I'm not

569
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 3: going to tell you anything that you don't already know,

570
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 3: so when it comes to we touch on it briefly.

571
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:33,479
Speaker 3: I just wanted to make sure that I can hit

572
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 3: on these things while we're on the show. So with you,

573
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 3: even though you and Lala come as a package deal,

574
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 3: you guys still have your separate roads of life that

575
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 3: you're going down. And with you, I would I said

576
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 3: I said redemption earlier, but I don't feel it's that hardcore.

577
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 3: I feel like with you, what you're doing is you're

578
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 3: kind of like revisiting where you are right now in

579
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 3: this time and space, and I feel like there's adjustments

580
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 3: that need to be made as far as like when

581
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 3: it comes to your way of thinking, things that used

582
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 3: to work for you before aren't working for you right now,

583
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 3: as far as like the way that you're going about

584
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 3: doing things, the way in the way that you feel inside.

585
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 3: I feel like you keep it going that you're they

586
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 3: give you a very service level to other people, but

587
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 3: incredibly intuitive and also an overthinker when nobody else is

588
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,239
Speaker 3: around correct And I feel like with you that you

589
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 3: can This is not a shot at you, but I

590
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 3: feel like you need to work on how you can

591
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 3: take it rather than you dish it because you love

592
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 3: to dish it, but can't take it back necessarily, and

593
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 3: so your guides is So I feel like with you

594
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 3: that the hardest part right now for you is understanding

595
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 3: that and realizing that it's it's not about being vulnerable

596
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 3: or weakness or you know, lowering your power in any way,

597
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 3: shape or form here. But I feel like with you

598
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 3: that again, like I said, there's this thought process to

599
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 3: where I want to evolve, but I don't know how

600
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 3: that's going to look. I don't I don't know. I

601
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 3: don't know whether or not it's going to be accepted.

602
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Yeah, That's where I feel like

603
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 3: you're at right now.

604
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 2: I think it's beyond on point because I'm going through

605
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: a whole rebrand in life and just a new way

606
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:56,400
Speaker 2: of thinking, and I'm trying you know what I mean.

607
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 2: I'm just really like low and I just talked about

608
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: it literally thirty minutes before you came about just you know,

609
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 2: I want I'm trying to I'm changing careers and all

610
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: this stuff is happening, and it's like overload overload. So

611
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 2: what I am in my thoughts alone? Yeah? I am.

612
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: You thought You've.

613
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 3: Gone through a lot in the short time that you've

614
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 3: been here, mentally, you've seen a lot, You've witnessed a lot,

615
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 3: and so with you, I feel like your memory is

616
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 3: the one thing that you need to put into check

617
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 3: because I feel like sometimes as much as you want,

618
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 3: you want to be about the future, you can really

619
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 3: bring your past, from your problems from the past into

620
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 3: your future and stop yourself. And I feel like I

621
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 3: feel like again your intuition for whatever reason, And again,

622
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 3: I know you come as a package deal, but there's

623
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 3: something different about your progression right now. So make sure

624
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 3: that you take time with it and that you that

625
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 3: you allow yourself the opportunity to make the mistakes or

626
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 3: learn what you need to learn at this point in time.

627
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 3: Because I feel like with you again to say redemption

628
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 3: that's a hardcore word, but I also feel like you

629
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 3: don't you don't have with all not that not that

630
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 3: death is coming here, but you don't have a lot

631
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 3: of time to be fucking around. I feel like with you,

632
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 3: there's that the next two years are going to be

633
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:56,719
Speaker 3: very fast paced for you.

634
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say the next two years are probably

635
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 2: the most important year both personally because I have a

636
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 2: newborn you know, child, and you know relationship wise and

637
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 2: then career wise. I think it's all that I put

638
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 2: a lot of pressure on myself a lot about time lately.

639
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: I never did that before, but now that I'm fifty,

640
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 2: I think about it a lot, like every day means

641
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,199
Speaker 2: something today versus like I think when I was in

642
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 2: my thirties, I never even thought about.

643
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 3: That's why I'm saying, there's something, there's something with your

644
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 3: mentality that's changing here. But I don't want you to

645
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 3: stop the progression of that because you're overthinking it, or

646
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 3: you're or you don't or you don't see it as

647
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 3: clearly as you used to be able to see it before,

648
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 3: because now now you're going to be working on not

649
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 3: necessarily your intuition here, but a different phase, a different

650
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 3: chapter of life. I feel like that what you've gone

651
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 3: through before was again a lot of lessons, so now

652
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 3: now you have the opportunity to correct what you've learned

653
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 3: and kind of move at a different in a in

654
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 3: a different direction, somewhat the same, but a different feeling

655
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 3: that goes along with that.

656
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent, and I think I'm trying to

657
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: enjoy life more so than worrying about the destination. Every

658
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 2: five minutes, because for thirty years of my career was

659
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 2: get it done and personally, don't worry about anything else,

660
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 2: just get there and and today I want to enjoy

661
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: the things that are more important, which is my family

662
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 2: and a new birth of my career.

663
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 3: How's your physical health been lately? The reason, the only

664
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 3: reason why I ask, is because you got to take

665
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 3: it easy, especially when it comes to your stress and

666
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 3: it comes to I don't know if you're an emotional eater,

667
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 3: but you, but you you he talked, He knows what

668
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 3: needs to be done, but getting him to do it

669
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 3: is a different story sometimes. So take it easy because

670
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 3: I don't like the way. I'm not saying. I'm not

671
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 3: a doctor to take this with a brain of salt

672
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 3: if you need to, and I'm not. I would never

673
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: talk about being overweight because I am as well too.

674
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 3: But there's a lot of I feel like with you

675
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 3: sometimes I question whether or not people know how stressed

676
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 3: you are or what's going on on the inside of you.

677
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 3: She may know because she know, yeah, But I feel

678
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 3: like with you, that that that I.

679
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 2: Share with you, I try to be. I think I

680
00:27:55,200 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 2: think I've built myself over the decades into a way

681
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: if somebody like She'll always say, I can't believe your

682
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: hand the stress that you handle the way you do.

683
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 2: I think I've packaged myself into a way where it's

684
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 2: just kind of how I operate. At the same time, definitely,

685
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 2: I have to be concerned with my heart, and.

686
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 3: I definitely have I'm glad you said that.

687
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have issue. I definitely have some you know,

688
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: issues that I have to take some preventative medication to prevent.

689
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 2: And I also have to change my diet completely. And

690
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: this all happened what like two weeks ago. Yeah, now

691
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 2: I have a food delivery thing because I'm trying to

692
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 2: eat really clean.

693
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 3: But remember something, This is what I talk about when

694
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 3: people talk about manifestation or the power of good intention.

695
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: Make sure that the intention is there. You've read all

696
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 3: the books. You know what I'm saying. You already know

697
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 3: what you need to be doing. Start feeling that. Because again,

698
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 3: it's one thing to say what you're going to do,

699
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 3: it's different for you. I'm talking to as you as

700
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 3: an individual to actually to actually put the not the

701
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 3: effort to work in, but allow yourself to take yourself there.

702
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 2: Right instead of right, instead of just knowing it actually

703
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: feel do it right right? And I think for the

704
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: first time, I really freak myself out with my health

705
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: and and la la, I was like, you need to

706
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 2: no more fucking around, Like this is your wake up call.

707
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,479
Speaker 2: And so now I'm really I've changed the food thing.

708
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 2: I've made a commitment to really start there and then

709
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 2: hopefully continue down the road. But you're, yeah, you're on

710
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 2: point with all that, because that's all happening right now.

711
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 3: Do you have any questions in regards to that before

712
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 3: I jump off to lala.

713
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 2: Am I going to die early?

714
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: No, don't ask that. I won't ask.

715
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 3: That's why I'm telling you to make sure that you're

716
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 3: taking it easy.

717
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: I'm not saying a fucking hint.

718
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 3: But again, your way of thinking and tell me if

719
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 3: this is wrong, called bullshit if you need to. I

720
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 3: feel like again, like I said that, you're that you're

721
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 3: very sensitive. But I but I question whether or not

722
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: you're seeing everything that's going on here because you've been

723
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 3: told either don't overthink or whatever the casey B So

724
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 3: you bottle a good majority of I.

725
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: Think I do, and I think I'm really working I

726
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: have to work on that. I think that's something that

727
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 2: I want to, you know, be able to communicate better.

728
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 2: And I think that's something that I have to like

729
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 2: work on because you know, you, you know, something thinks

730
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 2: so well, like whether it's your career or you've been

731
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: successful in life or whatever it may be, and then

732
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 2: you kind of wake up and you realize, Okay, I've

733
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 2: got to pivot, you know, I've got to be open minded,

734
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 2: I've got to be more vulnerable. And I think that's

735
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 2: something that I'm definitely committed to working on, you know,

736
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 2: as being way more vulnerable than I've been over the decades.

737
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I feel like, like I said, whatever whatever's

738
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 3: gone on in the past with you, you're making again

739
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 3: to say redemptions. That's just a strong word, but you're

740
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 3: making up for the shit that's gone on. And I

741
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 3: feel like with you that, like I said, I don't

742
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 3: have anything negative to say when it comes to how

743
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 3: you earn your money or your career, I don't see that.

744
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 3: I feel like right now is a very personal time

745
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 3: for you. The next two years are very personal as

746
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 3: far as your own personal progression. But then after those

747
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 3: two years, I kind of feel like you're going to

748
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 3: reach a point and no one's ever completely blissfully happy

749
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 3: or peaceful. But you're going to reach out point to

750
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 3: where I kind of like the way that I look.

751
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 3: I put the time and effort in here, things are

752
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 3: kind of I just I feel like you're going in

753
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 3: a different direction I am.

754
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 2: And it's probably the biggest change in my life right

755
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm really really going through a lot of

756
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: change right now and rebranding, you know, business, and I'm

757
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 2: going into a different path and also personally with that

758
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 2: a lot of change. You know, I have a brand

759
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: new daughter six months old that I want to be

760
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 2: perfect for, and I think I've put a lot of

761
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: pressure on myself to be the best version of myself

762
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 2: so that when she's old enough to you.

763
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 3: Know, there's going to be some lessons to be learning

764
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 3: with the baby as well too. She's a beautiful baby,

765
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 3: but she's I mean, when she starts to get older,

766
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 3: you're going to start to see some of the things.

767
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 3: And I'm not I'm not putting a hex or saying

768
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 3: anything negative there, but you're going to see some of

769
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 3: the things that you think about. She's gonna she's gonna

770
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 3: say out loud, and I'm not saying that she doesn't

771
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: have her mother in her, but you're going to see

772
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 3: that sensitive side to her to where you're going to

773
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: be like, Okay, well wait a minute, we need to

774
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: switch us up in some way. I feel like I'm

775
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 3: not saying she's going to be overly emotional, but the

776
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 3: way that she chooses about her boundaries or how she

777
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 3: cooperates with other people, you're going to see very much

778
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: yourself in her. I see a huge lesson there with

779
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 3: her in you, and.

780
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: I want to be when she's old enough to really

781
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 2: have conversations. I really want to be dialed in and

782
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 2: in the vulnerability, and you know, because I'm sensitive, like

783
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: beyond like she knows. I mean, you know, I mean

784
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: I can.

785
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: I think he's more sensitive than I am.

786
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: Oh I think so, I'm gonna say that, but I

787
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: feel like with her, I feel like.

788
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: That's not true. We're both pretty session.

789
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: I want to hear that, but she's she's super It's

790
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 3: not that you're afraid to talk shit or or to

791
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 3: call people out. She's a little bit more direct. But

792
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: I feel like with her sometimes that ends up happening

793
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 3: is that she doesn't go as hardcore as she needs

794
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 3: to sometimes, and she can hold herself back and then

795
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 3: end up presenting it because she can be like, well,

796
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 3: I wish I would have said this or god, you know,

797
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: blah blah blah, this or whatever. It's difficult for sometimes

798
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,959
Speaker 3: because she wants to speak up. But at the same time,

799
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: I feel like that you don't get everything out because

800
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 3: that makes sense.

801
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense.

802
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: And then so when I when I was doing your

803
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 3: session earlier than thinking about, Okay, what am I gonna

804
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 3: tell her? I know who she is. I I've seen

805
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 3: you before. Don't be afraid to burn these bridges, especially

806
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 3: when you know there's nothing there. And I feel like

807
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 3: with you that that I feel like you're cut from

808
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 3: a different cloth. Again, it doesn't matter what I think.

809
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 3: Start capitalizing on that because I feel like with you

810
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 3: that you're going to go into a direction, especially when

811
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 3: it comes to business that I'm just going to say

812
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 3: this that I feel like is going to be very

813
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 3: much admired.

814
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 2: Wow.

815
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: Wow, that's I mean, that's a huge.

816
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. There's two types of people. There's the ones that

817
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 3: capitalize on their success and able to you know, turn

818
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 3: it into more than than what they had anticipated it

819
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 3: was going to be. And I feel like you're on

820
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 3: that you're on that part too, But what ends up

821
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 3: happening to you is that you get sucked into playing

822
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 3: the game. How do you feel about that?

823
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: I am yes to everything you're saying, but you remember.

824
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 3: What I said about you being on two different paths here.

825
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 3: He's already, in some way, shape or form, has seen

826
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: some of that power he's come into. He's he's witnessed

827
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 3: how how the game works. Because he's older than you,

828
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 3: he's he's and I'm not saying he's reached every little bit,

829
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: every bit of success in his career. But you're getting

830
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 3: ready to You're you're getting ready to make some decisions

831
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 3: here that are going to be I feel like you're

832
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 3: going to carry you over the next six years as

833
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 3: far as like what you do for business here, So

834
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 3: don't be afraid to branch. I don't be afraid to

835
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 3: do something completely different than what's being done here because

836
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 3: I feel like with you again, like I said, you

837
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 3: have all these you have all these thoughts her, you

838
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 3: can envision it. You you you know the practical and

839
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 3: logical side of things, but getting you getting yourself to

840
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 3: do it and not overthink it or or it makes

841
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 3: it seem like you're a follower, but that's not where

842
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 3: I'm going with it. I feel like sometimes you can

843
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 3: kind of like wait, wait a little bit till it's

844
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 3: too late. Yeah.

845
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,439
Speaker 2: Yes, she's an overthinker, and she'll procrastinate for for two

846
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 2: days straight and before she pulls the trigger sometimes.

847
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,439
Speaker 3: But it's not but see. But here's the thing with her, though,

848
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 3: is that she she knows that I would never ever

849
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 3: call you dumb. I would never say that she's a dumber.

850
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 3: So I feel like she's very that she could be

851
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 3: very calculated and know what it is that she wants.

852
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm gonna steal from what you said.

853
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 3: I feel like she does overthink. I feel like she

854
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,919
Speaker 3: does not want to do anything that's going to paint

855
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 3: her in a bad in a bad light, even though

856
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 3: some of the you know, some of the ship that

857
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 3: she's already done has kind of put her in that position.

858
00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 3: But I feel like with her, with her again, it's

859
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 3: kind of like, you know what needs to be done,

860
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 3: don't hold yourself back, and don't wait for somebody else

861
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 3: to tell you what to do again, not you being

862
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 3: a follower here or kind of guide you in that direction,

863
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 3: I feel like you end up kicking yourself on the

864
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 3: ass when you don't do what you originally said you

865
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 3: were going to do.

866
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's that's so crazy that you got them. Because

867
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: I think I'm a pretty you know, I don't. I

868
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't say I'm book smart, but I think I'm a

869
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: pretty smart cookie when it comes to the real world.

870
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 1: But again, the logical side of me is always like,

871
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: but why would we do that? Because here is where

872
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: it's safe, and this is where we know that we're gonna,

873
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: you know, be okay. And I constantly it's so funny

874
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: because I said to my mom yesterday, I was like,

875
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: I just need someone to tell me what to do.

876
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,839
Speaker 1: You know, I'm so sorry.

877
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 3: It's okay. It like I said, that's why I want

878
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 3: to stay away from this, from this emotional stuff here,

879
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 3: because again, like I said, I feel like you, I

880
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 3: feel like your guide's angels, messages, whatever it is that

881
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 3: you're going to, whatever it is that you choose to

882
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 3: call them here, have already implemed minute this thought process

883
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 3: in your head. The hardest part is for you to

884
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: let go and you not to overthink it. But at

885
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 3: the end of the day, how many times has she

886
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 3: been has she been wrong when it came to what

887
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 3: is that she wants to do and.

888
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 2: I'm mutching and here's the thing. She overthinks things and

889
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 2: then we talk about it multiple days and I'm like

890
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 2: a doer on the opposite and I say to her,

891
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: just just go out. Stop thinking about it, like you

892
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: know that your reads are always right law like every time,

893
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 2: Like when she wanted to start the beauty company, she

894
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 2: just did it. And when she does it and it

895
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: works out for I feel like when she sits in

896
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 2: her head too long, that's the stress. That's the questioning herself,

897
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 2: questioning herself, and she's waiting for somebody to say to her,

898
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 2: this is the path. The path is her. She needs that.

899
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 2: She's so good at what she does that when she

900
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 2: makes a decision, it works out.

901
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 3: It always works you already you have to look at

902
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 3: yourself again. Like I said, I'm not disrespecting the other

903
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 3: cast members here, but you have to look at yourself

904
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 3: in a different light. Look what you brought into fruition

905
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 3: on your own right and keep doing that because I

906
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 3: feel like with you again, like A said, you have

907
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 3: the thought process here to say that you're practical, logical. Yeah, Well,

908
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 3: I'll give you that too, But I also feel like

909
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 3: when I talked about being calculated and manipulative, people would

910
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 3: look at those words as being negative here. But I

911
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 3: feel like with you that you're able to read between

912
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: the lines and see things that most people don't see

913
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 3: or would never call out here the difference. What you

914
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 3: need to do is start going for it and not

915
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 3: hold yourself back, because I feel like that the other

916
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 3: shoe is getting ready to drop here when it comes

917
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: to you, And I'm not worried even if you guys

918
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 3: were I'm not saying anything negative about the marriage. But

919
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 3: let's say that you guys were to break up, You're

920
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 3: going to be okay. You do realize that, right you

921
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 3: haven't even you you she's a baller.

922
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 2: But but let me let me just say this about her.

923
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:40,280
Speaker 2: If she jumped in more headfirst, into the into the pool,

924
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 2: head first, without overthinking everything every step, I think her

925
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 2: business would be a thirty multiple by now because she's

926
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 2: so focused and driven and smart, and sometimes she just

927
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: holds herself back saying I don't have the answer, but

928
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: she doesn't need the answer because she could figure it out.

929
00:37:58,760 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 2: She can figured it out.

930
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: I feel like you need to trust yourself more and

931
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 3: not hold yourself back. I mean you you again, when

932
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 3: I talked about him talk you know, he likes to

933
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 3: dish it, but he can't take it here. You are

934
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 3: the same way too. You talk a lot of when

935
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 3: not shit talking, but you see things or you're able

936
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 3: to read between the lines. Here, start calling that shit out,

937
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 3: Start taking yourself where you need to go here. Stop

938
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 3: holding yourself back, because that's what I feel like your

939
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 3: guys are trying to show you. Here is enough with

940
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 3: overthinking and again, but.

941
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 2: I want to say one thing to that. When I

942
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 2: met her and even today, she just is a one

943
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: of the smartest people I know, and people don't realize,

944
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 2: like people in the public don't realize that she's built

945
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 2: an empire, not from any like we're a team. We're

946
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 2: a team because we're a couple with a baby and

947
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: we do some things together like podcasts and stuff. But

948
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 2: she's her own CEO. She built her own business, she

949
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 2: put her own money in it, she makes her own decisions.

950
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: Every deal she does is driven by her. I have

951
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. So when people like come

952
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 2: up to me and say, you know whatever, I say,

953
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 2: she's a boss like she's a real boss. And I

954
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 2: think she's in that same place what you're saying, because

955
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 2: we talked about it a lot lately. She's struggling a

956
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 2: lot lately because she says, I'm ready to go to

957
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: the next level of her business, and I think she

958
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: just got to jump ahead first. She's so good at it.

959
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, And also, do you have to trust in the

960
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 3: people that are around you to do you honestly think

961
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 3: that he would let you do something that was going

962
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 3: to make you look you know.

963
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, And she's got partners. She's got partners in New York.

964
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 2: She's got partners all over the country and they have

965
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 2: her back. And I know, it's funny. This is what

966
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: I what I what I'm most about my girl that

967
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 2: she doesn't realize. She's got these partners in New York

968
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 2: that are super successful, right, you have a brand with them,

969
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: and they've hit a wall. They don't know what to do,

970
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 2: and they look to her. They look to her. These

971
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 2: are older people who've made a lot of money in

972
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 2: business and they look at her and they say, La,

973
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: how we get into the next level. And La is

974
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 2: the one who's put it all on herself to go

975
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: to the next level in her brand, and she's the leader.

976
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 2: She is the leader of all of them. She just

977
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 2: needs to do it. And that has to be.

978
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 3: Difficult for you too, because again, you are an overthinking

979
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 3: You can be too much INSI your own head and

980
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 3: looking for that. When I say validation, people look at

981
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 3: that as it's being a negative type of thing. But

982
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 3: you just want to make sure that you're doing a

983
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 3: good job. I feel like you've you kind of came

984
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 3: in here. And maybe Mom could speak on this too,

985
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 3: I would say you kind of came in here pretty

986
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 3: fast as far as like growing up and being independent,

987
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 3: kind of like you know, does she learn how to

988
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 3: talk and walk really fast at a young age?

989
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

990
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 3: I feel I feel like that that's that if we

991
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 3: were going to dip into past lives, I feel like

992
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 3: you kind of had it a little bit too good

993
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 3: in the past life where things were a little bit

994
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,879
Speaker 3: easier for you, and you kind of got that here.

995
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 3: But now, but now the next step is we're in

996
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 3: a different time page, we're a different phase of life here.

997
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 3: Uh go go get those opportunities. I feel like you're

998
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: not the bottom line, I feel like you're not challenging,

999
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:38,959
Speaker 3: You're challenging yourself.

1000
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: Enough, I feel like you'll agree with you.

1001
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 3: I feel like you're bored, and I feel like I

1002
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 3: feel like with you that again, that if if you

1003
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 3: don't do it, or you don't allow yourself the opportunity

1004
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 3: to go strike all the irons hot or do something

1005
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 3: that's completely different than what's going on here, you I

1006
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: don't mean to put my finger, but you will end

1007
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 3: up resenting that decision. And the one thing, the one

1008
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 3: color that looks horrible on you is resentment enough. Because

1009
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 3: you you, she she will think about it and then

1010
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,919
Speaker 3: and then and be like, well, I wish I would

1011
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 3: have capitalized, or wish I would have done that.

1012
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: And when she's so crazy that you you talk about

1013
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 1: resentment because in the program I'm in for being an alcoholic,

1014
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 1: they gave me a black chip that is the resentment chip.

1015
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: And they probably gave this to me. I mean it

1016
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: was before I conceived my daughter, so oh it was

1017
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: a long time. And the rule with it is once

1018
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: you get rid of your resentments, you pass the chip

1019
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: to someone who needs it more. I'm still holding onto it.

1020
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm not ready to let it go. So I definitely

1021
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: agree it doesn't it doesn't fit well on me.

1022
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 2: But I think he's I think, but I think in

1023
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 2: your business, he doesn't want you to wake up five

1024
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 2: years from now and not have gone after it without

1025
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 2: not thinking, like.

1026
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 1: Well, I think he's talking about in life.

1027
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, in all aspects, because I feel like with her,

1028
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 3: like I said, with her overthinking or or however she

1029
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: gets down, I feel like she it can cause like

1030
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 3: a level of anxiety no wonder. I mean, I'm not

1031
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 3: saying that, no wonder you were an alcoholic, but she's

1032
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 3: she's too amped up sometimes and I feel like what

1033
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 3: ends up happening to her is that that anxiety or

1034
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 3: that demon and not not saying that you're possessed, but

1035
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 3: that little thing that likes to fuck with you. It's

1036
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 3: it's sometimes it's hard to turn off. And I feel

1037
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 3: like with her that you know, she's a very beautiful woman,

1038
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 3: and I feel like sometimes she thinks that, you know

1039
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 3: that people look at her in a different type of life.

1040
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 3: They don't, they don't see that the human side to her.

1041
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 3: And I feel like she struggles with that humans, with

1042
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 3: that human side of herself as far as like you know, again,

1043
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 3: what's going on on the inside here, Yeah, more than

1044
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 3: just a beautiful facer. But you guys don't know what

1045
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 3: it's like to be me.

1046
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I'm like infatuated. I love everything that you're saying.

1047
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: We're going to take a quick break. We will be

1048
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 1: right back. We are back with Chris Medina, the most

1049
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: epic psychic I've ever been around, ever, and I'm big

1050
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: on psychics. I would like you to talk about my daughter,

1051
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 1: if that's okay, Ocean and your feels.

1052
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 3: My feels with her is I feel like she's going

1053
00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 3: to be okay. Like I said at the very beginning

1054
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 3: of the reading here that I feel like she and

1055
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 3: dad are going to have some very similar issues as

1056
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 3: far as the way that their thought processes as a kid.

1057
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 3: And now that I know, and I'm going to incorporate

1058
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 3: just a little bit of astrology here. You know, you're

1059
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 3: the polar opposite of your daughter, right, Yes, so you're

1060
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 3: Virgo and she's Pisces. The one thing with that there

1061
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 3: is that since it's the polar opposite, the lessons that

1062
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 3: could be learned between the two of you guys, as

1063
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 3: far as like you having her think a little bit

1064
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: more practically and logically with those boundaries between her and

1065
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 3: other people and also she can teach you how to

1066
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 3: be a little bit more emotional, okay, and not and

1067
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 3: not be so black and white sometimes. And I feel

1068
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 3: like with the black and white as that you can

1069
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 3: cause that even though you are black and white, it's

1070
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 3: still there's still that again. You your your frequency is

1071
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 3: a little bit high strung, A little bit, A little.

1072
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 2: Bit, A little bit, yeah, a little bit.

1073
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: It's very high strung. In fact, I just did this

1074
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: interview and they said in one of the questions was

1075
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: what's one thing you would change about yourself. I said,

1076
00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to be so high strung.

1077
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 3: That's what your daughter is going to teach you is

1078
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 3: that is that compassion, that being able, that patience there.

1079
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 3: But I feel like the only I feel like the

1080
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 3: thing that you're going to get irritated with her is

1081
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:09,439
Speaker 3: that she's going to move too slow.

1082
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: Oh yes, slow people really anger me out.

1083
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 3: And but she but but she also I looked at

1084
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 3: the picture online and I was looking at her face.

1085
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,399
Speaker 3: I also feel it for a sensitive that she's going

1086
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 3: to be. It's she's going to be. She's going to

1087
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 3: be a little bit feisty as well too.

1088
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:29,959
Speaker 1: She's I could definitely see that she's now, she's going

1089
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: to have that that that sensitive side.

1090
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 3: But I feel like when she when she's mad, or

1091
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 3: when she's or when she's overly emotional there, then you're

1092
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 3: going to start to hear the words come out. And

1093
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 3: I feel like that's where she's going to get her

1094
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 3: mother's her mother's words or the way she the way

1095
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 3: that she says certain things. Here, it's going to be

1096
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 3: very quick and cut.

1097
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: Like you, it's like her mom, Wow, we're all in

1098
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: for a really big treat.

1099
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 2: Wa wait till the teenage years.

1100
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 3: But I don't I don't feel like I don't feel

1101
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 3: like anything negative. I I kind of feel like she's

1102
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 3: going to be a little bit unique as far as

1103
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 3: I her learning process too, so kind of have patience

1104
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 3: with her. How is she now? I know that she's

1105
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 3: only six months old? How is like her building blocks

1106
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 3: and things like that?

1107
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: You know, she's actually I'm her mom, So of course

1108
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: I look at her and I'm like, she's a fucking genius.

1109
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,439
Speaker 1: She's like Albert Einstein. But I mean, as what I've

1110
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: seen is she is very curious. She is hyper, Like

1111
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: if you and I are having a conversation, I'm holding her,

1112
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 1: she will be staring at you the entire time you talk, yeah,

1113
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 1: and scowling at things that you say. I've been around

1114
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 1: a lot of I've been around a lot of babies

1115
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 1: since all my friends have had babies, and you know,

1116
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 1: their babies are babies. They're looking around, They're like playing

1117
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 1: with the zippers on their mom shirt. My baby is

1118
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 1: like watching you speak every word, and if someone else

1119
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: starts talking, she's her attention is on them.

1120
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 3: She the way that she visualizes, the way that she's

1121
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 3: going to learn, is just going to be a little

1122
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 3: bit different. It's not going to be slow or or

1123
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 3: you have something for you to worry about. She's very

1124
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 3: much I'm gonna say she is an observer, but she's

1125
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 3: also somebody. She's also a child that's only gonna I

1126
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 3: feel like it's going to look at a thing, look

1127
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 3: at it a couple of times, and get the hang

1128
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 3: of it really really quickly.

1129
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: Okay, I love that.

1130
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 3: That's what I get.

1131
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: I'll tell you she's she's very observant. I mean that's

1132
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 2: what she watches everything. She watches everybody, you know, and

1133
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 2: I think I think a lot of kids are all

1134
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 2: over the place, like when they're young. She doesn't do that.

1135
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 2: She stares right at you. She watches everything.

1136
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: And when I the other day, I was telling her

1137
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: one minute and she put her hand up and she

1138
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: was trying to do you know, And when she did,

1139
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,280
Speaker 1: I was like, you're so genius. You should go to Harvard.

1140
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 3: She wanted to talk. Now she is she she.

1141
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: Begging to talk. I mean, she is trying to communicate

1142
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: in any way she possibly can.

1143
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's over like not having a say in the conversation.

1144
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's ready to you know, if she's an old

1145
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: soul or a new.

1146
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 3: Soul, I feel like she's a little bit of a

1147
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 3: newer type of soul. If we were going to dip

1148
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 3: into the past life with her. And it's so hard

1149
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 3: to say this because she is a baby. I kind

1150
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 3: of feel like this is to where she's born at

1151
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 3: a different time in this lifetime as far as having

1152
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 3: a little bit easier for her, not not because of

1153
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 3: who her parents are, but because I feel like she

1154
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 3: kind of struggled in the past life before and in

1155
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,760
Speaker 3: this lifetime here she has just a little bit easier

1156
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 3: for her this time around. But my one, my one

1157
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 3: concern with her is that she's going to want to

1158
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 3: do everything. So watch out for that because those newer

1159
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 3: type of souls, and I've seen this recently too, with

1160
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 3: all the changes that are going on in the world here,

1161
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 3: those newer type of souls are more curious, They're more

1162
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 3: wanting to get their hands and everything else. It's not

1163
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 3: just a vibe for them, it's the experience, okay. And

1164
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 3: also and also making those memories.

1165
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:42,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Oh my gosh, this was so amazing. Well,

1166
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 1: now that I've sobbed and you've given me a lot

1167
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 1: to think about, don't in all the best ways and

1168
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,879
Speaker 1: all I'm not going to I'm gonna start making decisions.

1169
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 3: And if you need help, you can always hit me up.

1170
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: You don't want to say that to me, because I'm

1171
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: I know.

1172
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 3: If there's one thing I know, it's Virgo. Really, guys,

1173
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 3: are you guys? Are you go self sabotaging at times?

1174
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 3: But know a little bit about a lot of different

1175
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 3: things here. You guys are always the boot. If you

1176
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: want a quick, fast answer, go to a virgo.

1177
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, she knows. It's amazing. I get

1178
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 2: in bed, she's got some show on. I'm like, what's

1179
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 2: the ship? Oh, you don't know? So this was a

1180
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 2: murder in nineteen eighty seven in Miami and this guy,

1181
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 2: and I'm like, who knows this? And then the next

1182
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 2: day you go in it's like and it's the story.

1183
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 2: I mean, it's so all over. She knows a little

1184
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 2: bit about everything.

1185
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: Who knows if any of it is? Like it's worth something?

1186
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 3: What's her moon ender?

1187
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I always forget what my rising. I

1188
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: know that I have aries and scorpio, and I forget

1189
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: my what my moon is, and I forget which one

1190
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: is my rising.

1191
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 3: I have to look into that. Yeah, shoot me your

1192
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 3: stuff later.

1193
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 1: I would love to is that Okay, it's perfectly put you.

1194
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: I'll put you on the pirole.

1195
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 3: So what sign are you?

1196
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 2: Aries? Okay? All right, but I mean you come home

1197
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 2: to our house and she has something new to share

1198
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 2: with you about something that she has found wound, looked

1199
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 2: at red or watch? Yeah, no, she's and then schedule

1200
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 2: but schedule.

1201
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 3: The one again, the one. The hardest thing for virgo

1202
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 3: real fast is allowing yourself the opportunity to be present

1203
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 3: and not not think three four steps ahead before taking

1204
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 3: steps one through two, one, two and three. Be present

1205
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 3: and allow yourself the opportunity to be here.

1206
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: I love that you say that I've because I have

1207
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 1: to actively tell myself, no, this is the moment we're

1208
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 1: going to stay in.

1209
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 3: Because she'll start thinking, she'll start planning for stuff, and

1210
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 3: it's like it's going to cause her anxiety.

1211
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: What for, Oh, the anxieties through the roof. I have

1212
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: nothing to buffer it. I used to have a cocktail.

1213
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. Since the cocktails have gone away, there's

1214
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:38,760
Speaker 2: not a real there's.

1215
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: No buffer either. No, I'm completely so worry.

1216
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 3: Would probably she'd be like, oh, you should weave Chris.

1217
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: I would think people were in my apartment there to

1218
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: murder me. I'd be by myself by the way, and

1219
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 1: I'd be looking in the shoe because I'd be like,

1220
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: they're hiding in the shoe. I know they're home. It

1221
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 1: was not good.

1222
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 3: Well, if you need someone to calm you down, you

1223
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 3: could always hit me up. But I don't have anything

1224
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 3: negative to tell you, like I said, and I didn't

1225
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 3: tell you anything. You guys can already know. This is

1226
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 3: the first time that we've met.

1227
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 2: So I love that. I love that you knew about me,

1228
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: that I'm going through this like major shift personally and

1229
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,439
Speaker 2: business wise. I'm really trying to. It's like nobody knows.

1230
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 2: Only she knows. I mean the conversations I've had, so

1231
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: that's that's neat, and then also all the stuff about her.

1232
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,240
Speaker 2: That's her biggest thing. I mean right now in your life.

1233
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 2: I mean, let's be honest, the biggest thing for you

1234
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 2: right now in business is that you're trying to move

1235
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 2: to the next level.

1236
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 1: Personal business wise.

1237
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 3: I mean, if anybody's going to do what, it's going

1238
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 3: to be her. I mean she I mean, like I

1239
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 3: said to say that, to be manipulative and calculated, not

1240
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 3: in a negative way, start capitalizing on that because you

1241
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 3: know what needs to be done. And then she ends

1242
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 3: up saying I wish I would have done that.

1243
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: I know more of.

1244
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 3: That I already knows.

1245
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 2: It's like it's is. When I'm going to say it

1246
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 2: one last time, I repeat myself, she calls it the

1247
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 2: hampsteruroll when I review myself. If she just gets on

1248
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: the diving board and she jumps off, even if she

1249
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 2: doesn't know how deep, how far, he figures it out.

1250
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 2: She's one of the rare people I've ever met that

1251
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 2: figures out a blueprint without anybody telling her.

1252
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 3: Because she hates surprises. She hates to be caught off

1253
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 3: The surprises she likes is diamonds in a shoebox or

1254
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 3: money in a shoebox. But to be caught off guard,

1255
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 3: forget about it.

1256
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 1: You are you have to fly on my wall. Oh

1257
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: my gosh, what a pleasure to have you. Thank you American.

1258
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: Where can people find you?

1259
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 3: They could find me on my website Chris Medina dot guye.

1260
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 3: Sign up for a session half hour hour long session.

1261
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,439
Speaker 3: I love to look me up, see what I'm doing.

1262
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 3: I don't post a lot of pictures on myself, but

1263
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 3: feel free to visit my social media at Psychic Chris M.

1264
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 2: And we're also gonna we're obviously we're gonna post you

1265
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,399
Speaker 2: and they can go to our Instagram. Yeah and look

1266
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 2: at at Psychic Chris M. It has been the most

1267
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 2: fun morning. This has been fantastic. We're really grateful to

1268
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 2: have you.

1269
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, and thank you guys for listening

1270
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: to another episode of Give Them Laala with Randall. We

1271
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: will catch you next week.