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Speaker 1: we fucking made it. Another episode of motherfucking horrible fucking Decisions. Yes,

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Speaker 1: getting here. I'm over this fucking remote record. We were

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Speaker 1: God damnit in my life this whole time. This is

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Speaker 1: a this is a horrible Decisionship. I'm gonna smoke some

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Speaker 1: weed and some hollow Oh goodness. Anyway, guys, welcome again

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Did's your girl? Mandy

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Speaker 1: be Ak stand ak bitch a k A Mandy Baskins,

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Speaker 1: bitch Mandy Baskins. Um, what's up? Paulo? Santo? Home? And

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Speaker 1: I'm high. There's only been three episodes to date where

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Speaker 1: as far as we'd just three and today's number number

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Speaker 1: O trace number. I'm I'm doing this for Carman. What

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Speaker 1: the fun? What I'm saying? So, guys, I'm excited today

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Speaker 1: because we have another couple joining us. And so if

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Speaker 1: you know, good for fucking you. Um, this episode is

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Speaker 1: gonna talk about how the hose was present with me

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Speaker 1: So can you guys go ahead? We do awful of

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Speaker 1: introducing our guests. I thought that was good enough. Y'all

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Speaker 1: what you guys do because you guys also have a podcast,

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Speaker 1: So can you tell our audience who you are? Um, So,

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Speaker 1: my name is Carmen and my name is Aidian and

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Speaker 1: we're the Bull and Bunny Podcast. How y'all start a podcast?

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Speaker 1: Is this how it goes? Pret it's been a year.

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Speaker 1: So we actually what like two years ago when you

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Speaker 1: we restarted our podcast last year when you guys did

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Speaker 1: your first live show, we had just been doing it

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Speaker 1: First off, my smile lights up the room like here's mad. Hard,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I used to think a duel,

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Speaker 1: a gang shootout. No, because you know, if he'll kill

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Speaker 1: men are killing for drugs the money first of all

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Speaker 1: and the rest of the percent. Because I don't do mathematics,

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Speaker 1: that's what it is. That's your excuse. I'm gonna bitch

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Speaker 1: read this Vanilla's ship to be honest. Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: you how many times being said the word euphemism? How

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Speaker 1: It was some bullshit. Anyways, we're gonna get it to

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Speaker 1: our vanilla ship. As you guys know, vanilla ship involves

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Speaker 1: sex in the news and of course, um without giving

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Speaker 1: all of the shines to only fans. I found an

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Speaker 1: work has come home. More of us are making and

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Speaker 1: a few of the models on cam Soda who are

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Speaker 1: It says that there has been a seventy increase in

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Speaker 1: overall sign ups, which make about three point seven million

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Speaker 1: How to fund that? Math go? Because sixt so can Soda.

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Um, And it says that

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Speaker 1: guess Niggas is just really on there, not trying to

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Speaker 1: still not getting checks every two weeks. Every week the

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Speaker 1: This leads me to bring into other ways people are

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Speaker 1: in Joe sex visually. So guys, I shared with you

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Speaker 1: doing on camera, um, and kind of how it helped

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Speaker 1: Daniel saying he is. We're actually going to have him

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Speaker 1: good go of an episode. But Dannil Saint is the

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Speaker 1: founder of a sex club called n SFW and it's

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Speaker 1: been called the premier place up to to have sex

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Speaker 1: I want to get into of course, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: ask you what you thought, how the people looked, what

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Speaker 1: they did like, I want to get into that just

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Um, so if you guys can please

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Speaker 1: share your experience as a couple going onto a virtual orgy.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like we were kind of against the

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Speaker 1: idea to join virtual sex orgies because we've gone to

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Speaker 1: tickets are like moderately priced um at ship. At this rate,

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Speaker 1: the way I'm talking about tickets, I really feel like

425
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 1: we don't have the I'm not gonna lie just even

426
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:29,719
Speaker 1: the production it was a lot, Well you gotta pay,

427
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: Like I don't want a DJ because I feel like

428
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: that's weird because DJ the DJ don't I saw it too.

429
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Speaker 1: But at the same time, like I mean, if you

430
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Speaker 1: guys are trying to start your own I got an

431
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 1: idea for a different way to do this that I've

432
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 1: been dying to, like try it out, but we could

433
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 1: talk later because hear me out right, if the DJ

434
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Speaker 1: is on and then you got somebody dancing and he's

435
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Speaker 1: on a one to one too, but she hears it

436
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: one second delay and she on a three four five.

437
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 1: Oh that's why that's why we ain't listening to hip

438
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 1: hop where you gotta be on beata. He was playing

439
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: some other type of white people ship ship right yo,

440
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 1: ships where there is no beat. I felt like I

441
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,439
Speaker 1: should have been on like doing shrooms or something, and

442
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: I've never even done anything else besides smoke. But it

443
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: didn't sound like this here we go. No, it actually no, No,

444
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: that's like porn music, not too porny. No, it was

445
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 1: like more housey space vibe let. It was. It was

446
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: like the type of music where you don't know when

447
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: it starts and when it ends, but it's like you know,

448
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 1: at some point he changed the song. It's just like

449
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 1: it all sound even when the song change. But also

450
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: you can still fun to it. So it was. It

451
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: was cute. It was cute. It was cute. Well, I

452
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: like what you said, Um, I agree. I think that.

453
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: Of course, with this podcast, a lot of people have

454
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: thoughts of going to sex founding and like if transform

455
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: um who did I know that, Like a lot of

456
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: people definitely wanted to get into um sex clubs, orgies

457
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: group sex um. So again, I definitely recommend this UM.

458
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: But anyways, we're gonna get God damn this fun ship

459
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: a bitch is burning. Well, we're going to get into

460
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Speaker 1: the Horror Derve. If you guys have never heard our show,

461
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: the Horror of Derve is an awesome segment and it

462
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: is about all the sex tips we can give you.

463
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 1: And here is the one for this week. So trying

464
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: kneeling beside your partner during oral instead of in front

465
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Speaker 1: of them. If you typically kneel in front of someone

466
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: during a blowjob, try and kneeling beside them. Not only

467
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: will this give you give them a great view of

468
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Speaker 1: your ass, but you also might it more comfortable and

469
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: easy for you to stimulate your kids clip while giving

470
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Speaker 1: it all. Now, I've given this tip all of the

471
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Speaker 1: time in reverse as far as men eating pussy from

472
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: the side because the lips match lips. Oh, you have

473
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Speaker 1: given this as a sex tip I get everywhere because

474
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's really really helpful, and like we

475
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: just keep the monotony so much with certain things like oral.

476
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: I think we think the way to change it up.

477
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Speaker 1: At sixty nine, do you guys have a sex tip

478
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: for us? Oh? Um, off the top of my head

479
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: could be solo. Just whoever comes out with it first.

480
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 1: Boat Off the top of my head. I was just

481
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: gonna say, buy something and try, like whether that's a

482
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: toy or restraint anything like that, Like just something because

483
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: it's it's gonna make you do something different, especially the

484
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: longer in a relationship and you want to find a

485
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: way to switch it up a little bit and just

486
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: regular sex might not just cut it. So what's what's

487
00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 1: the last thing you guys brought together? Quick? Okay, I

488
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: don't really know how to explain it. I said, it's

489
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: like a restraint. It's probably a restraint. It's the best

490
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: way to put it. So, um he puts it like

491
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: on my chest and then it holds my arms in

492
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 1: place and my legs in place. I feel like, now, oh,

493
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 1: I see oh ship. So it's actually it's kind at

494
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: some bondage type of ship. Yeah. So it basically her legs,

495
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: like from her thighs get strapped up to her arms

496
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: or and then you can get those big can those

497
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: fit um big die hose like me because my dad's

498
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: don't be wanting to fit in no gardens. And none

499
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: of that is adjustable, bro, Yeah it's adjustable. Doesn't say

500
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 1: big die adjustable like good for big dies. Conferences three

501
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: inches on circumference for the thought. Hell, no, my thighs

502
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: like the same size of my waist. It's circumforts like yeah,

503
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: but I know my waist is like aund about right,

504
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,199
Speaker 1: but my waist and I think my thigh is the

505
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: same as my waist. I got it halfway halfway down. Okay,

506
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: all right, Well I'm gonna have to put them holes

507
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: around my ankles. Ankles, so you you tied each other up.

508
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: I guess too. This was a question I was gonna

509
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: ask in the horrible decision when we get into it.

510
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: But um, since we're talking about it now, for vanilla couples,

511
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: I hate to label them that way, but couples who

512
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: may not be in the life started couples, what would

513
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: you suggest for a couple who is just now trying

514
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: to introduce things into the bedroom, what thing would you

515
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: suggest them to buy? First? Um, so I would say

516
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: this kind of sounds intense. But the wax, um, it's

517
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: it turns into massage oil. So it's a candle. You

518
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: light it, it turns into massage oil, and then um,

519
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: you can pour it on the body. And I like

520
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: the warmth. It's not too hot like candle wax. Like

521
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: your point candle wax onto you. But it's nice because

522
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: then you could um use that to kind of like

523
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: stimulate your partner and a full body massage like one

524
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: I want to. I think hot wax is actually so

525
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: far down. I'm shocked you said that. Really, what would say?

526
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: You think? You think that that's too that's too intense.

527
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: Do you think it needs to be something more vanilla? Yes,

528
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: But I also think that the suggestion is really different.

529
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: Like I feel like people have heard this ship all

530
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: the time. I would say like super small, like blindfolding,

531
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: which sounds basic, but to lose sight is very intense

532
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: during sex. Um, I would say basic thing would be

533
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: like the tape to tape around your wrists like hand

534
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: or hand for the same time, if we're if we're

535
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: doing like real vanilla ship, I would say like a

536
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: clip stimulators and that I was gonna go there. Um.

537
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: The first person that brought sex toys into the bedroom

538
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: with me, we went to the sex store together and

539
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: he bought the wand so he was really trying super

540
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: hard to make me squirt and I guess he saw

541
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: it in a porn this fucking and this was it

542
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: was like yeah, and this is when it plugged into

543
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: the wall because this is about two thousand, like eight

544
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: two nine. So I plugged in the wall, but it

545
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 1: had a big old like mushroom tip and it just vibrated. Like,

546
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: what's the problem? I was eighteen puss all ship Anyway,

547
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: I've grown up my ship charges now, Okay, it doesn't

548
00:30:55,480 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: need to be you haven't grown up technology that too. Um. Anyways,

549
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and now get into our whole facts.

550
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: I do like again, if you guys have any tips

551
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: on what you brought into the bedroom with your partner, first,

552
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: please share it with us. UM tweet us hashtag horrible

553
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,719
Speaker 1: decisions on Twitter, right it under the comments when we

554
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: post the cover art for this episode. Um, and yeah, like,

555
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: let's just, you know, share what we bring into the

556
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: guy damn bedroom. So speaking of vibrators, it leads us

557
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: into our hole facts. I found this completely interesting and

558
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: Carmen let me know, or Wheezy let me know if

559
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 1: you knew this. Vibrators were actually created for crazy women.

560
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: Have actually talked about this before? Did we? This is

561
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: this is now? I think we said we were gonna

562
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: talk this is I'm sorry, have we all heard this before? No?

563
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: We have not like so back in the day vibrators

564
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: when they were first introduced, it was because obviously female

565
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: orgasm is so fucking foreign to anybody that they found

566
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: it to be the way of release. And there was

567
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 1: a psychologist that did it. Doctors. Um, I mean I

568
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: think at one point I was reading something about like

569
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: and this could be just like some bullshit, but it

570
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: was noticed hysteria, right, So this woman went in there.

571
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: There's movies about it. But this woman went in there

572
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: apparently so many times within the day they had like

573
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: banned her and like called her like a crazy person

574
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: and wanted to like lock her up because she wanted

575
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: to come that much like this is Japparently we've talked

576
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: about nymphomania, which is why they thought women who wanted

577
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: to have sex needed to go into the craziest side. Well,

578
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: like right, the hysteria that so, hysteria is the cause,

579
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: they were saying, along with anxiety and you know, irritability

580
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: and nervous is and they would umbrella that as the

581
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 1: term for women that needed to fucking come. Um. But also,

582
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: by the way, hysteria is um uterus and Greek for real. No, bro,

583
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: we ain't talked about this because I ain't know that, Like,

584
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: but she didn't have a break podcast now is like

585
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: no in real life, Like I feel like that's one

586
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: of those little things. Like we've been doing this podcast

587
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: for three years now, and I know that that would

588
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: have been something I was just throwing out at the

589
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: bar when I'm drunk, Like I totally would have remembered

590
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: something like that. So now, bro, we ain't talked about

591
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: this ship because I would have remember, I probably didn't

592
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: drop the Greek thing. But Michelle Hope, I think, is

593
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: the one who first may have talked about that with

594
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: us when she brought out all the sex toys and

595
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 1: ship like that. Oh she did bring them up, that's right. Okay,

596
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: And I got my child. I'm so high I can't

597
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: even think of my last name, but that somehow when

598
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: I was like, oh I remember that thing. I don't

599
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: know how you remember anything got damn. But I'm just

600
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to find a way to set good

601
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: to the next motherfucking Anyways, we're gonna get into the

602
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: horrible decision this one Wheezy can share as someone with

603
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. You guys, congratulations, are are now married or engaged? Okay?

604
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: Same ship. So yes, congrats, I'm super excited. So for

605
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: this week's horrible decision, I wanted to talk about outside

606
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 1: now of the virtual orgies, because we discussed it already.

607
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about keeping it spicy during quarantine,

608
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 1: being a part of the lifestyle, and how you are able,

609
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 1: I asked, wheezy and um, you know without being able

610
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: to add thirds or fourths or couples, how you're going

611
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,959
Speaker 1: with that or if you have a couple. Um? And also,

612
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: like I said, just for people who are now bitch

613
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 1: up under each other all the motherfucking time, how you

614
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: guys don't get sick of each other? So well? Started first, Um,

615
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,320
Speaker 1: can you let our listeners know where you guys feel

616
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: you fall into the lifestyle? So are you swingers? Polly open? What?

617
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 1: Why are you laughing? Bro? Was that I can't ask.

618
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,760
Speaker 1: I just always laugh at the lifestyle because it sounds

619
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: like a cult, dude, And every time someone tells me

620
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 1: they're in the lifestyle, I'm like, oh my god, these

621
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: are fucking freaks. Mona. We just tell you. I've eaten

622
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: cream pies out of bitches, And I still think when

623
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: someone tells me they're in the lifestyle, and like they

624
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: are sick. You're in a lifestyle if you want a

625
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: picket fence and a husband with a kid and a dog,

626
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: that's like a real Basically, I wish we could just

627
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: find another like word except for like I'm going to

628
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: a lifestyle party. That's so like for us, we don't

629
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,439
Speaker 1: really like the words swingers. So we tell people that

630
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 1: our relationship is emotionally monogamous, sexually open. So emotionally it's

631
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: just us and sexually you know, so many it's better

632
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: than saying swingers because swinger has such a like weird

633
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: connotation with it. When people hear the word swinger, they're like,

634
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: they look at you dirty swingers. Also, if we think

635
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: about it, I mean the actual by definition is couple swapping.

636
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: And I think that's what a lot of people don't

637
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: like when they're polyamorous. They're like, oh, you're swingers, Like

638
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 1: they hate to be under that term because that's just

639
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: truth be told. What we all assume. We know, that's

640
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: the blanket statement for you know, being sexually virtuous as

641
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: a couple. So you're emotionally monogamous, sexually open, and so

642
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: what have you guys done? You shared that you've been

643
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: to sex clause before, have you guys done couple swaps

644
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: or and brought in thirds to your bedroom? Like? To

645
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 1: what extent are you guys? Um? I'm trying to say

646
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: another word instead of life. What's O? What's our experience?

647
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: So we've done soft swap, which is usually usually just oral. Um,

648
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: We've done a full swap, which is like both partners switch.

649
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: We've brought in um girls. We've tried to bring in

650
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: a single guy a few times, but I just I

651
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: wasn't vibing with them, so we kind of just stopped it.

652
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: Now we got to talk about it. You letting so,

653
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: so are you allowing her to pick the men that

654
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: you bring into the bedroom? Like how did that conversation happen?

655
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: So we get so many questions about women trying to

656
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: figure out how to have a threesome with a woman,

657
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 1: But I guess, Adien, I want to know what that

658
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,959
Speaker 1: conversation is like for you and Carmen. How you brought

659
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: up that you wanted to bring a guy into the

660
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: bedroom or Carmen first already? So all right, So I

661
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: think to get there we should probably go back to

662
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: how we even got into lifestyle in the first place,

663
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: which is all hurtful if you want my fault, like

664
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 1: it's a bad thing. Was not complaining, well you want

665
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: to tell them, but just basically, one night we're fucking,

666
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: we had just smoked, were drinking whatever, and she's telling

667
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: me how she wants to have a threesome we one

668
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 1: of her friends, and I'm like, okay, cool. Next day

669
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: I wake up, I'm like, I'm like, you know, you

670
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: were so funked up last night, like you said you

671
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: wanted to suck your friend blah blah, and I'm laughing

672
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: about it. She's like, oh, yeah, I know. So I'm like, oh, okay,

673
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: Like let's figure this out. Um. Fast forward that we

674
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: started looking stuff up. We found out about the lifestyle,

675
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: We went to a few parties whatever, and the idea

676
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 1: of bringing into that or not necessarily bringing in another man,

677
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: but just swapping, you know, even that came up and

678
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: obviously I gotta share her with somebody. The idea of

679
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: bringing in another girl, that's no problem, is easy. I

680
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: don't gotta really think much about it, but sharing her

681
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: with another man is different. So we had our first

682
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: swap experience. That was cool. The couple we knew for

683
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,760
Speaker 1: a while, so we had a lot of comfort build

684
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: around it. There's a lot of respect there, and I

685
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: think that's one of the biggest things with bringing in

686
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: another guy for me at there has to be a

687
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: lot of respect there, Like you gotta respect me, you

688
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 1: gotta respect her, and I gotta be able to respect

689
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: you because I'm letting you have something that's like, you know,

690
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: this is my queen at the end of the day.

691
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:14,959
Speaker 1: So for that reason, you know, we tried a couple

692
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: of times with one person, two people, whatever, but it

693
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: just didn't work out because of how she felt and

694
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I mean, that's the

695
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: most important thing. So if it doesn't, if she doesn't

696
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: feel right, then what's your ideal um scenario for male

697
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: male female threesome? Because I know we see fantasies all

698
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: the time in port and play out where it's like

699
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: friends and it happens, or it's just two guys in

700
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: a bar, like being that you do it with your fiance.

701
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: What would be like the best case for you on

702
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: vacation because I feel like I'm already relaxed and it

703
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: would be somebody that somebody tall because I have a

704
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: hype requirement. I'm five six I feel like I'm so

705
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: tall for a girl, so I need someone who's at

706
00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: least like five eleven or taller. Okay, no, less um,

707
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 1: And I mean really it could happen, Like we could

708
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 1: be at a bar, we could be on a cruise

709
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: and we could meet someone and we could just hit

710
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: it off. Maybe like you flirting with a guy and

711
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: you come and tell your fiance and you bring it back,

712
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: or you guys are like kicking the ship at the

713
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: bar and they're like, oh, he's cool. I feel like

714
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: I would flirt first. I don't think that couples approaching

715
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: a guy is actually really a good idea. I feel

716
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 1: like it's intimidating, like work girl, Yeah, it's hell intimidation.

717
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: Don't agree, you know? So I'd rather be the one

718
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: to flirt and then um introduce them to each other,

719
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: be like, hey, I'd have already told him, like he

720
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 1: would have already known from the bat that I was

721
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: going to go talk to this guy, because I would

722
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 1: just walk up to him and if he was cool

723
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: and I was cool and he was cool, then we

724
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: go back and get it popping. Um, have you guys

725
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: used dating apps at all to meet thirds? And how

726
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 1: has that worked for you guys. So, um, I'm on

727
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: Tinder and I'm on Bumble, and I just feel like

728
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: there's a lot of girls on there that say that

729
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: they're not looking for a threesome. Um. I've never actually

730
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: looked for a guy because I just don't really feel

731
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: like the type of guy that I'm looking for is

732
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: on there. Um, but it definitely sucks like trying to

733
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: find girls on those apps. I wouldn't suggest it because

734
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: most of them put in their bio like not looking

735
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: to be your unicorn, and I'm like, yeah, I'm not

736
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: even trying to have you be unicorn, Like they just

737
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 1: think we're gonna jump into everything that what was You

738
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: didn't have that experience though, right weezy, like you were

739
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 1: able to find thirds fairly easy on there. I feel bad,

740
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: but I am curious to know what do you mean

741
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 1: You're not trying to get them to be your unicorn

742
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 1: if you're swapping girls how um, So I feel like

743
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: you're defining, you know, like in a relationship way, because

744
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 1: I think some girls kind of take it like we're

745
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: trying to be Polly or trying to bring them in

746
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: and just like straight, I think I think unicorn is

747
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: a one night thing too. Though, to be honest with you,

748
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: I don't think unicorn because if it is a unicorn,

749
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: it's like we know that it's someone that will have

750
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: sex with a couple. But in a Polly term, I

751
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 1: feel like you would it would read I'm we're looking

752
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 1: for a girlfriend. No I think unicorn. No, I agree,

753
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: But some girls I think they think that. I feel

754
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 1: like there's categories, Like there's different types of girls for

755
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: different things. There's the girls are gonna sleep with one

756
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: night stand. That's a unicorn, you know, like she's down

757
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: to funk, she doesn't give a funk. But then there's

758
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: girls that I'm willing to have a friendship and like

759
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: we're either just hanging out Vanilitia or we can play

760
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 1: and it's cool. But everyone's cool, you know when you're

761
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,919
Speaker 1: probably around our life a little bit longer. The third

762
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: category is that I'm considering Polly um, which we've talked about,

763
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: like having a girlfriend um that we share and I

764
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: feel like, then you're that person. You know, I have

765
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: actual love for you and he has love for you.

766
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 1: So it would you would bring it in three categories? Yeah, Um,

767
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: I want to know um getting back especially into the

768
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: fact that now maybe a third isn't an option right now.

769
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: How you guys are not getting sick of each other

770
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: um during quarantine And how if you guys are having

771
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: more sex less sex if you find sex being boring? Um,

772
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 1: how has it affected the sex life? So I don't

773
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 1: have to go into the office, but he does. But

774
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: he's home this week, Like he spent this week home

775
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: and I'm distracted, is what I told somebody, Like he

776
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 1: um when he does go into the office. He actually

777
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: came home one day and surprised me and fucked me

778
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: and then went back to work like nothing happened. Break.

779
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: But I feel like it keeps it interesting though, because

780
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 1: I'm not expecting to get some dick in the middle

781
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: of the day if he's not the first like dick

782
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: surprise like that too. What day of the week was that?

783
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: But what was this was having a couple of tones

784
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: like on a Monday on a Wednesday, you know that,

785
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 1: like I'm going to help you get through the middle

786
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: of the week something to live forward to. Mine was

787
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: weird because I didn't expect it to have it either,

788
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: but it was like a Saturday, So I don't know

789
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: what the funk we were doing we try to read,

790
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 1: you know what I mean during the week, like try

791
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: to just do things in the same space without talking.

792
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: And I actually really enjoy that because sometimes you always

793
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,439
Speaker 1: feel like when you're around someone you have to fill

794
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: in that dead air and you don't like we can

795
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: be hours together doing other ship working or something creatively

796
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: learning a language and do not speak. It's weird. But anyway,

797
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: So I'm walking about to clean, go ahead, what oh no, no,

798
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 1: no that. So I was about to clean and I

799
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: was like, where's the whatever I was looking for right

800
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: like the soap or whatever. He's like, you're not about

801
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: to do that right now? And I was like why

802
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: and he's like, because I need to come, and you're

803
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: gonna make me come. I was like, excuse, you know,

804
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: I am a little feminist here. I was like, nigga,

805
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: shut up and he dead asked, fucking grabbed me by

806
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: my fucking dress, put me on the floor, pulled his

807
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: dick out and put it in my mouth. Bitch. I

808
00:44:55,760 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: came before they were because you know, it's really disper backful,

809
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: but I felt like it was okay to be disrespected

810
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: at that time, you know, was the weekend I didn't

811
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: have anything to do. I wasn't scheduled for anything, and

812
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: I was about to clean and I hate dishes anyway,

813
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: hate them. So why don't you look it? I'm over here, like, oh,

814
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: let me share about how I disrespected my own pussy

815
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: fucking lowly over here. Fuck damn, I'm over You're getting

816
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: moist talking to you, guys. Um, I'm voised over here. Um,

817
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: old lady moist, shut up, bitch, shut up. I'm about

818
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: to be thirty. Okay, this ship about to blow powders soon.

819
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: Let me let me live, Let me live. Um. So

820
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, I guess one more question

821
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: because it seems like you guys have been fairly open

822
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 1: with you know, Carmen what you want to bring into

823
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: the room and Aden, I'm sure you can even kind

824
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: of voice what you like with her. What do you

825
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: guys do when you feel like there's nothing else left?

826
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: Have you guys reached a point where you're like, Okay,

827
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: sex is boring, let's try something new. And for the

828
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,439
Speaker 1: couples who made me feel like, okay, my my sex

829
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: life right now is really routine, how would you what?

830
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: I guess I know we talked about the toys. What

831
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: would you say could be something to make sex less

832
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: boring for a couple, especially right now. So I think

833
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: I like the popping into by the way. UM, I

834
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: think for us like one thing that we enjoy. You

835
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: were talking about camp soda earlier. We um, we have

836
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 1: a running joke on our podcast about how much we

837
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: go on chatter Bait. It's the same thing but just

838
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: different girls. UM, And we actually interviewed a girl. Her

839
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: name is Nora from chatter Bait. She's probably one of

840
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: our favorite. She does great shows and like just really cool,

841
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: you know, the like having that especially now because we

842
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: can't go to parties and we can't obviously bring somebody

843
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: into our home. UM, it's nice to be able to

844
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: change things up in that way. So either cam girls

845
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: or just regular porn, there's another way to kind of

846
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: bring things up into to spice it up. Like we

847
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: were fucking earlier watching a porno and just like oh yeah,

848
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: I want to do that. And you know you mentioned

849
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: cam girls. I feel like a lot of people watch porn.

850
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: Can you talk about the cam girls do you like? Um,

851
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: type in the chat and tell them some things. Do

852
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 1: you join with your camera or do you just watch

853
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: or so and tower. If you do a private you

854
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: could join with your CA. Okay, okay, if you do

855
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 1: like their regular stream, it's just a chat that's going

856
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: and then maybe they'll do like a special show. So

857
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: like this one girl does ticket sales and she sells

858
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: like tickets for tokens. We buy tokens, and honestly, I

859
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: feel like I'm in a strip club and so much

860
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: better because I'm not actually like throwing money and watching

861
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: it go away and then only getting like their ash shaking,

862
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: like I'm I'm actually getting something from it and I can't.

863
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: So it's very rewarding, very already. Don't that you guys

864
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: do that like that that I don't have you guys

865
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,959
Speaker 1: spent this month or well, let's just say April because

866
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: may now, But how much have you spent in April

867
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: on cam girls? Maybe like I wouldn't. I don't know

868
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 1: how much we spent in April only because our favorite

869
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: girl hasn't been on there, Like we literally now are

870
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: at the point where if she's not on, we're like

871
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: hardly getting them. But this year, oh yeah, like we're

872
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: actually friends. Yeah we had her on our podcast, said

873
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 1: you said so for this year for you guys have

874
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: probably spent you said two probably maybe you spent thou

875
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: dollars on it. Oh, probably very easily, have you. Yeah,

876
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: because we just started like you keep adding it more

877
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: and then you just keep throwing them. So and that's

878
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: I mean from any of them in person. No, we

879
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: met some like like exotical, but not like any that

880
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: we know. You know, we just met them and that

881
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 1: was it. I swear I didn't this. This is a

882
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: perfect segu by the way, I did not know I

883
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: was picking. So the home mail for this episode is

884
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: exactly has to do with this. And I want both

885
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: of your opinions on this. Um maybe taking your relationship

886
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: back before you were as open as you were with

887
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: when you guys were into um. The title of this

888
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: whole mail, and I wish I could make this up

889
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: is watching live cam girls cheating. That's the question. So hey,

890
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:45,799
Speaker 1: Mandy and Wheezy, Okay, I have two problems. I went

891
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: through my man's phone while he was sleeping. That's definitely

892
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: problem number one. I know this is wrong, but I

893
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 1: have trust issues. He's cheated on me a lot. He's

894
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: ten years younger than me, but we have been together

895
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: for four years going on five in August, and we

896
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: are expecting our first child together. In October. When I

897
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: went through his phone, I saw in his browser that

898
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: he watches live cam girls that you can chat with.

899
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't discuss this with him, however,

900
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: because of how I found out about it, snooping. Is

901
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: this considered cheating? What if he's chatting with them that

902
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: is different than porn because it seems more personal. He

903
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 1: doesn't open up to me sexually, doesn't tell me his

904
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: fantasies are fetishes. I just know he cheats on me

905
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,879
Speaker 1: with white girls, so I assume that's what he likes,

906
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 1: except he says I'm into Latinos like me, or he's

907
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: into Latinos like me. I don't even understand why he cheats.

908
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: I give him what he wants sexually, sex and head

909
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: every day, except when I catch him cheating. That drives

910
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 1: me away. And she's pregnant. Oh my god. I think

911
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 1: I've caught him cheating so many times that he's learned

912
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: to cover his tracks. But I don't think he knows

913
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: that I checked his browser too. Sincerely, pregnant, old and insecure.

914
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 1: Who's going to do it? And we want me to

915
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: do it. Let me do it. No, no, don't read

916
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 1: her yet. Let's get some really nice advice. You're already

917
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: look at your tongue, so the karmen well, actually, Karmen,

918
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: I do want to ask you again, going into the

919
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: earlier phases of your relationship, or maybe even thinking of

920
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 1: past relationships, would you consider a guy watching cam girls

921
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: as cheating? So I wouldn't consider it cheating. We actually

922
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: weren't open about like a d and watching porn at

923
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: first in a relationship. Um so the first so we've

924
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: been an go eight years. First three years were monogamous. Um,

925
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: the thought of even being open going to a sex

926
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: party never would have crossed my mind. Um. I overheard

927
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: him talking to somebody about like porn and at this

928
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: point like, I'm young, I'm not even like who's who's watching?

929
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: Like I want to know because we never had that

930
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: conversation and I was young, I was insecure, So UM,

931
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: I pulled him aside. We were at a family cookout

932
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, I heard you talking about um,

933
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: like you're watching porn whatever, Like what's up? Because you

934
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: just told me a couple of weeks ago that you

935
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: don't watch porn. So he lied to me, like dead

936
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: to my face. And then he says, all right, I'm

937
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 1: gonna be honest, like I do watch it. And I

938
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,879
Speaker 1: was upset. I'm not even gonna lie, like it's okay

939
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:31,280
Speaker 1: to be upset. I was upset because I was insecure

940
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: at the time. You know, I was a lot younger.

941
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: What about what specifically about it made you feel insecure?

942
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: I think the first part of it was him lying.

943
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 1: It was him lying because if he was honest when

944
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: I when we first talked about it, sure it might

945
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: hurt a little bit because I wasn't feeling the most

946
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: confident in myself. But I can accept it, and I

947
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: think it probably probably we would have avoided an argument

948
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: if he was honest, But because he lied, we had

949
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: an argument um afterwards, like a couple of weeks after

950
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: because I needed some space to kind of like process

951
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: that I ended up talking to him. I actually, um

952
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: wanted to kind of take control of the situation. So

953
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: I found porn and like pulled it up on his

954
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: computer and we watched it together, and like that was

955
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: our first experience, UM watching porn together. Two girls real.

956
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: I guess my, my, My next question to you before

957
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: um wheezy you know her for filth. I'm waiting for it.

958
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 1: But but before we get there, Carmen, I want to

959
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 1: know because she mentioned him watching white girls and of

960
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: course her being a Latina, I want to ask you

961
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 1: if if when you were insecure, if the type of

962
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: women that Aden was watching. And I know a lot

963
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:58,439
Speaker 1: of people think this, like if I'm a black, voluptuous

964
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: woman and my man watching white skinny women, does is

965
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: that what he wants? So would that insecurity be there

966
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: or would you have a problem in present day if

967
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: Adian watched porn with women that didn't look like you.

968
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: So it's been a problem I'm in the past. But

969
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: it went from being like the Instagram model the like

970
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: really big titty's big ass, like super curvy too. Then

971
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: he was like, okay, well if that's a problem, he

972
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: went to like super skinny girls like really Flaka, And

973
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, like, where do I fit into into this?

974
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: Because when you go from skinny to like um these

975
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: current girls? And then he was looking at BBWs, I

976
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: was like, yo, do you like my body? Like such

977
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: a normal thing to be to try to figure out, like,

978
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 1: am I enough? You know? I think that's a normal feeling. UM.

979
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: Insecurities okay to feel, but it's how you overcome that. UM.

980
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,919
Speaker 1: Part of it was having a conversation. I'm not gonna

981
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: I and tell you like, oh, conversation is going to

982
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: be the thing that's going to make you feel better

983
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: about yourself. You actually need to put in some work. UM.

984
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm still putting in work, Like I go to therapy

985
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 1: UM and talk about any insecurities that I have or

986
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: things that have happened in the past UM or I mean,

987
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 1: just like taking care of myself physically to helps, like

988
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 1: I feel good. And I understand that when you're when

989
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: you get into a relationship, I think it's so easy

990
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: to to think that whatever your partner found attractive automatically

991
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: just goes away because they're with you, And it doesn't

992
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: work that way, Like you still have attraction for other people,

993
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: Like I curious if she s these guys that she

994
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: finds attractive or girls she finds attractive, UM, and she

995
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: doesn't talk about it with him, so they're secretly going

996
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 1: on from both sides. UM. And I actually had to

997
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 1: check myself for that because I was upset with him

998
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: for lying, but lying about like porn and stuff but

999
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 1: I was all so lying, like I was watching porn,

1000
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,360
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't tell him that. And I was interested

1001
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 1: in girls, and I was interested in different types of guys,

1002
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't tell him that. When you cross that barrier,

1003
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:10,800
Speaker 1: I think that that's probably the biggest barrier um at first.

1004
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: When you can cross that and have those conversations, then

1005
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: I like that you. I like that you brought up

1006
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 1: to even the insecurity of we we we feel insecure

1007
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:27,720
Speaker 1: or get jealous because maybe our partners are our lovers,

1008
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: whoever we're dealing with checks out another girl or is

1009
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: watching porn in this case. But what's crazy is we

1010
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: do it subconsciously too. We double tap pictures on Instagram.

1011
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: And I know a lot of women get into hating

1012
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: when their man likes pictures on Instagram of these Instagram models.

1013
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: But we go on and like pictures. I'm gonna just say,

1014
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,320
Speaker 1: Jadinna because bits everybody be liking anything, But we go

1015
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 1: on and we like pictures. We comment if we someone

1016
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: to see it's someone attractive in the street. Like you said,

1017
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: we can't help if we're attracted to some else, even

1018
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: when we're in a relationship with somebody. I think that

1019
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: there definitely is just a level of respect. And I'm

1020
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. It's fun for me to be with

1021
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:11,439
Speaker 1: anyone i'm fucking or hanging with and we check people

1022
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 1: out together. It's fun. So I think that that's definitely

1023
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: um something to do. I guess wheezy um snooping is bad.

1024
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: We know she's pregnant, so be nice, y'all. She's drinking

1025
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: water blood. First of all, congratulations on your baby. That's

1026
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: super exciting and I wish your energy could be focused

1027
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: in that, but unfortunately it isn't. And the reason I

1028
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 1: have a big issue with this question, it's not just you,

1029
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: it's people that ask us about what cheating is and

1030
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 1: don't define any rules between each other. That is, oh wait, wait, wait, y'all,

1031
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: can we get I like that? Tell me you cannot

1032
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: tell ma, Andy, we cannot tell you. There's nothing between

1033
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: you and your man is what cheating is. That is

1034
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: something that's defined so early on. To be quite honest

1035
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: with you, I'm not saying that you even need to

1036
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 1: know it right in the beginning, because maybe you don't know.

1037
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: You're kind of just learning. What I would tell you

1038
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: is this for a man that you claimed has cheated

1039
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: on you so much that you've stayed with You have

1040
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: now what it's called a price of admission, and that

1041
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: price of admission is him watching cam girls while you're pregnant,

1042
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: and you, honest to God, need to get over it.

1043
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: Here's why if cheating by definition to you when you

1044
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 1: wrote us, meant he was sucking other people, and you

1045
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: know he's this person, Really, what more do you expect

1046
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: from him? Right, I'm gonna give you an example. Right,

1047
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: I know my nigga was a whole I know this,

1048
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 1: and I'm super comfortable with it. We go out together

1049
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 1: and I see girls look at him and he smiles back.

1050
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 1: If I'm walking back from the bathroom and he's smiling

1051
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: and he's talking to them and my shocked, do I

1052
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 1: get super uncomfortable and instcure, No, because that's just, honest

1053
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: to God, this is who he is. I come to

1054
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 1: the body's like, oh this is my baby, baby me chanelle. Cute.

1055
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: That's just how my nigga is. Okay. Now, if I

1056
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 1: was dating a man there was a super introvert and

1057
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: that didn't like to go out and talk to people.

1058
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: And I walked back from the bathroom and I saw

1059
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: him talking to a woman. Maybe then I would freak

1060
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: the funk out. And I say all that to say,

1061
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: you know he has a large sexual appetite and poorn

1062
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: somehow is bothering you. You are never going to get

1063
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: the person you want. If you think that this is

1064
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: that big of a deal that you had it right

1065
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: into us, he will. It's almost like you have to

1066
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: find something at this point. You know he cheated on

1067
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: you so many times, so nothing is gonna satisfy you

1068
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: because everything will fucking bother you. If he's the perfect man.

1069
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: Now he knows how to hide his phone from you.

1070
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: If he's not sucking other bitches. Now it's the cam girls.

1071
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 1: If he's not watching cam girls. Oh when he goes

1072
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: to the gym, why is he wearing clothes like that?

1073
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: It's always going to be something. And if you want

1074
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 1: to just have a healthy life and a healthy pregnancy

1075
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: and not stress yourself out, you gotta let this ship go.

1076
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: To be honest with you, I find it not just

1077
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: a phone thing. Just I obviously we know the phone

1078
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: thing is bad, but I've been there, like if you

1079
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: can't stop it, you can't stop it is what it is, right,

1080
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: But the browser in pretty you getting into the snooping part.

1081
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: I want to talk about the browser. That is something

1082
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:27,959
Speaker 1: that is private and honestly, are sexual desires. I don't

1083
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: think need to be everyone else's business, even too, even

1084
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: if if I had a husband, I don't really think

1085
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: it's my business. If you choose to share that with me, cool,

1086
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 1: But sometimes people have desires or things they're into and

1087
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: they find it more fun. Maybe right now, cam girls,

1088
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: it's an amateur thing. It's very exciting to do. It

1089
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 1: feels more real. Trust me, they don't give a funk

1090
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: about your nigga. They don't. They literally don't, and he

1091
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: doesn't care either. He just wants to come. So I

1092
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: think that, like, you may have to take all of

1093
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: your projections and maybe how you view sex and kick

1094
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 1: that out of the window because he's seeing it differently.

1095
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: You know, maybe you're not horny enough to get on

1096
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 1: a fucking cam site and masturbate and be done with it.

1097
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: But that's just the sexual appetite that he has. So

1098
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,439
Speaker 1: either you accept it or you don't. But you can't

1099
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: just sit here and be like, is he cheating on me?

1100
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: Because you're used to him cheating on you and just

1101
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: fabricating this ship in your head because you're only gonna

1102
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: drive your own self crazy and or push somebody away.

1103
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 1: Don't you dare tell that nigga you looked through his phone.

1104
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 1: And if you ever do need to tell him you

1105
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: look through his phone, it better be because you found

1106
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 1: out he was cheating. Do not tell that man that

1107
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: you went through his phone and you found out he

1108
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: looking at cam girls. God forbid, I don't care if

1109
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: he spent this. I mean, I'm not gonna lie. At

1110
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: this point, he probably gonna laugh in your face. Consist

1111
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 1: you stayed after the cheating. So I say it all

1112
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: the time. A man will only do to you what

1113
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: you allow. So the fact that you stayed, the fact

1114
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: that he's been cheating on you, the fact that, um,

1115
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: you know you're about to have his kid and you're

1116
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 1: still putting up with the fact that he's a cheater

1117
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:00,960
Speaker 1: and you can't trust him. You may need to now

1118
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: change how you view your relationship because maybe now he's

1119
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 1: not cheating on you, because bitch, clearly he's he's telling you.

1120
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: You said he's getting better at covering his tracks, but

1121
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: you know what's happening, and if you choose to stay,

1122
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: the idea of monogamy may not necessarily be what you

1123
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: what you what you really want, because you didn't leave

1124
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: him for cheating the first time, which is why he

1125
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 1: you still think, and he probably feels comfortable cheating still.

1126
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: They will only do what you allow since and you

1127
01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 1: still there. So I don't think that. Lets see, this

1128
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 1: is the hard part because like at this point, it's

1129
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: too far gone. We can't even like what she's gonna

1130
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 1: do break up with him? No, I think no, it's

1131
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 1: a pandemic, and I think all you could do is

1132
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 1: move forward. Man, And if like the price of admission

1133
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 1: to your nigga is that he likes cam girls and

1134
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 1: just let him, like can girls don't like bro? I

1135
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 1: honest to god, I thought I was gonna get broken

1136
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: up with for going to the club all the time

1137
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: by somebody was eating with He was like, you just

1138
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: love going out and I wouldn't even get super lit.

1139
01:02:58,160 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 1: He's like, you just have to go out and you

1140
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: have to put on makeup and you have to talk

1141
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: to people. I'm like, that's my ship. I don't know

1142
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: what it is, but for some reason, I love being social.

1143
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 1: That makes me feel good about myself. You know what

1144
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't I don't know what it is.

1145
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: I get my energy from other people. So like if

1146
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: he fabricated that into thinking, the more and more you

1147
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: go out and the more you look at people, you're

1148
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: gonna want to sunk one of them. That's what you're

1149
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:22,560
Speaker 1: gonna sound like to this nigga. Oh my god, what

1150
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 1: you look at cams? What are you gonna do next?

1151
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: You gonna try to meet in my line? Do not.

1152
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm telling you you're gonna sound irrational, and men always

1153
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: try to do that ship to us. No offense at

1154
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is men be acting like we're fucking nuts,

1155
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, when really we'll be thinking

1156
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: about what we'll be saying. But these niggas just be like, no,

1157
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 1: this bitch is pregnant and crazy, So sit your pregnant,

1158
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 1: crazy ass down. Big, I'm just playing. I'm not. I'm

1159
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 1: not trying to call you crazy, but seriously, put that

1160
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: energy into some other ship. Man, be happy, grateful for

1161
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: this quarantine in time, especially if you've got a whole ass, nigga,

1162
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: because now you can reconnect with him, reconnect with the wholeness.

1163
01:03:57,120 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 1: You know, all these niggas as hosed. So y'all, we

1164
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: just need to up they hold ass ways and just

1165
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: decide we love them as individuals. Because this is why

1166
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 1: sexuality is not a choice. Because I promise you y'all,

1167
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: niggas get on my nerves so motherfucking much. I wouldn't

1168
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: suck you, but I can't help it. I want the dick,

1169
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 1: have the dick. But I'm absentent right now, y'all, so

1170
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 1: I'm not. But no, that's how you know. We can't

1171
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 1: choose who we sexually to try to do. Okay, So

1172
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: just no, We're born this way. Goddamn it. I was

1173
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: born wanting some goddamn did and it ain't changing anyways,

1174
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: this motherfucker out. Um, before we leave here, Adien and Carmen,

1175
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 1: you guys are so freaking amazing. I feel like i've Yeah,

1176
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I've met you guys in person. I also

1177
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 1: have listened to your pod by the way, guys, dope quality.

1178
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: The audio is great. You guys have dope guests. You

1179
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: guys said you just had kinks with Kiki. Guys, she

1180
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 1: came on our podcast as well. Um, and also just

1181
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 1: for you guys to be a couple in the lifestyle,

1182
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: I feel like we need to add like a whole

1183
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 1: you like fucking drop to that. But because you guys

1184
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: are just so open, you guys have been together for

1185
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: so long, I think that a lot of our listeners

1186
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 1: eight years and now engaged. So I think that a

1187
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: lot of our um audience can relate to you guys.

1188
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: And even if they can't relate in the sense of

1189
01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 1: being in a relationship, I'm sure they can learn a

1190
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 1: lot about how to introduce just new things to their selves.

1191
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: The bedrooms, their lovers, casual, dick non casual? Look which

1192
01:05:53,240 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 1: one are you? Which one fine? In the years I'm

1193
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 1: gonna see her? You think that I got more fine

1194
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 1: looking at the picture. I was looking at the pictures.

1195
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie you was Adien, You look kind

1196
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: of like a little boy a long time. He has

1197
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 1: a beard that the hair is a cheat code. I'm

1198
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: done with these niggas with beards, Yo, they look like

1199
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,919
Speaker 1: whole different niggas without the hair on their face. I'm over.

1200
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 1: But the beard is a good looking. Talked about trimming

1201
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: his beard the other day. I all he said was

1202
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: trim and I heard remove. I said no. He was like, yo,

1203
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: but it's coming over my lips and my teeth. I

1204
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 1: was like, leave it. I ain't even go ahold you

1205
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: ship changing during this quarantine. The niggas that I'm liking

1206
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 1: right now, y'all, they got salt and pepper. Talk about

1207
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: how old they are. But the niggas got salt and pepper,

1208
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 1: and that beard look like that is doing something and

1209
01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:00,080
Speaker 1: little see it a little. I ain't gonna lie that

1210
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 1: little see I have it. I have a tingly sensation

1211
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 1: for a salt and pepper right now, and I'm just like, oh, oh,

1212
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 1: tell me about the world literally end for this bitch

1213
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 1: to want to go over. Ain't that crazy? Crazy too?

1214
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 1: Whats the is going on? Mandy, bitch cut her hair,

1215
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 1: got a cat at even a bitch been talking. I've

1216
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 1: been looking up indoor plants. I'm gonna be old like

1217
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 1: your who as plants. Yeah, bitch, that's that's the next

1218
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:38,920
Speaker 1: phase is getting. I'm gonna be a plant mama plarent

1219
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: And all it does is that energy and oxygen. That

1220
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 1: is some That is some unt ship. Okay. The fact

1221
01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: that I'm on the phone with my home girls and

1222
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 1: we're talking about indoor plants and knife sets, I am

1223
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 1: officially fucking old Okay, it used to be about sucking dick.

1224
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: Now we're talking about ordering that you'll be badly over you.

1225
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 1: You'll snap right back into it and they stay like.

1226
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 1: As a woman get older, they're more um, they're sexual

1227
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: libidos higher. So, bro, you have you met Mandy's mom.

1228
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:18,280
Speaker 1: I didn't even go your mama at the first party

1229
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm at the first live show was like, go to trapeze.

1230
01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 1: The fact that my mom embarrassed me in Orlando, by

1231
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: the way, and I had to be like, if you don't.

1232
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 1: She was ready to book a session with King Nawar

1233
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 1: and Jasmine. She's like, oh, Tampa, that's close. I'll be

1234
01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:38,719
Speaker 1: seeing you soon. And with bets over getting flogged during

1235
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 1: our fucking meet and greet, I said, I told my cousin,

1236
01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 1: I said, go get my mama and just wait for

1237
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: the motherfucking meet and green. You know what my mom

1238
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: was doing, crying in the corner with if we are

1239
01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 1: not our mother and children. This girl she comes over

1240
01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: says my real name in front of everybody, come here,

1241
01:08:58,040 --> 01:08:59,600
Speaker 1: and my mom, mind you, the girl don't have a

1242
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 1: meeting things. So I'm trying to be respectful to people

1243
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: who paid for the fucking me and greet. She has

1244
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 1: been listening to you for five years. We've had the

1245
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 1: show for three. She's known you on the Instagram for five. Okay,

1246
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:16,759
Speaker 1: take a picture with her please. One of my favorite

1247
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: distinctions of how our mothers are really us um pe

1248
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: Muna asked when a man comes, and this was at

1249
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:26,760
Speaker 1: our first live show. You guys were there. They said,

1250
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 1: this is to the mama's he said, And he said,

1251
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:31,680
Speaker 1: where where do you want him to come? And here

1252
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 1: goes my mom's in her host self. Oh and she

1253
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: has pearls on. I guess I'll take it in my mouth.

1254
01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 1: Mandy's mom. I got three orifices and I'm gonna use

1255
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 1: all of you. Remember that when I tell you, I

1256
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: mean like mom, why, same thing i'd be acting. I

1257
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: am even earths. At the Orlando Live show, they get

1258
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 1: up and do the fucking porn. My mom wins, but

1259
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:12,439
Speaker 1: her first category was BBC. I said, no, Mom, you

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Speaker 1: funk up, standing, don't say you can't say BBC EP

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Speaker 1: And you keep on that, shut away, why my mom?

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Speaker 1: And then here goes we these mom. He goes, Mom,

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Speaker 1: she's supposed to pick categories and We's mom is just

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Speaker 1: saying in my mouth, in my my hits, we're like

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Speaker 1: ms Jeule is supposed to be category and she's like

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Speaker 1: on my arm. My mom's together. Many's mom was like Asian.

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Speaker 1: My mom was like in my face, what's going on? You?

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Speaker 1: I know, have y'all thought about bringing your your mom

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Speaker 1: on the we say all the time, but like they

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Speaker 1: know they listen to your podcast. I think they know.

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Speaker 1: Like so for example, when um, we interviewed Sammy from

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Speaker 1: the Circle earlier this year and we have to drive

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Speaker 1: to Philadelphia, y'all try to fund I mean, no, we

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Speaker 1: did not know. We did not no, no, she got

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Speaker 1: a man. So, um, we're respectful. We're respectful. We're respectful.

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Speaker 1: We try to be. We have had people with Mendo

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Speaker 1: try to come up and then we're like we find

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Speaker 1: out afterwards and that's drama we don't want to be

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Speaker 1: a part of. But that's right. But yes, So I

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Speaker 1: told my mom we're going to Philadelphia. She's like, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: before I said oh to do a podcast interview, she

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Speaker 1: just changed the subject Like we're texting, she just completely

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Speaker 1: ignored it, just changed the subject. I'm like, all right, cool, whatever,

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Speaker 1: that's more than my mom asked where she went wrong?

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Speaker 1: Because my sister is by, I'm by. My mom was like,

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Speaker 1: where did I all wrong? And my dad thinks that

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Speaker 1: our podcast is about fitness. He wants a link to listen.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know how to really like use a phone. Um,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to explain how to find a

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Speaker 1: podcast to him because now he'll start listening to absolutely

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Speaker 1: not Yeah, I do that. When I meet a guy,

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, Nope, don't listen to the podcast. Ask

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Speaker 1: me what the funk you want to know? I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you, but don't go and listen. Don't go and listen.

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Speaker 1: They're well, then maybe he's not meant for me. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm just like just playing. I don't be here about

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Speaker 1: the boot hole herede. I'm gonna I'm gonna throw tomatoes

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Speaker 1: in there. I'm gonna you enjoyed this episode. Check wait wait,

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Speaker 1: wait about the description they're gonna leave it. Oh I

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Speaker 1: was gonna say make sure. I was gonna say, make

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Speaker 1: sure you guys drop once again your handles your podcast

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Speaker 1: where they can listen to you before we do our

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Speaker 1: little patron drop. How can the people listen to you.

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Speaker 1: So we're everywhere that you can find. Podcasts. We drop

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Speaker 1: every Tuesday, So check out Horrible Decisions on Monday and

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Speaker 1: then listen to us on Tuesday. Um, and you can

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Speaker 1: find us, so the name of the podcast, and then

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Speaker 1: we're on Instagram, Twitter, and I think that's it. Instagram

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Speaker 1: and Twitter is like the most used. We have a

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Speaker 1: Facebook pitt where we don't use it. Yeah, okay, we're

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Speaker 1: going to drop their links so that you guys can

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Speaker 1: communicate with them in those in the I mean if

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Speaker 1: you want to suck them there. Cute. I'm sure this

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Speaker 1: YouTube is out. Um. Oh, another podcast that drops on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: For fact Stake podcast. This week, Eddie and I are

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Speaker 1: going to dive into weird ways that people die, don't ask.

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Speaker 1: Last week we did scienceology. Do you all know what

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Speaker 1: the fuck? Nigga? No, that starts with it starts with science,

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Speaker 1: so no, not even science. It's like it's about like

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Speaker 1: aliens in your body and when you die, they leave

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Speaker 1: your body, nigga Will Smith in the ship bits, Maybe

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Speaker 1: that what I Maybe? I like Scientology Now I never

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Speaker 1: Google because for any episode of anything I've ever done

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Speaker 1: in my fucking life, I got in such a rabbit hole.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't even I was talking about horrible decisions and Scientology.

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Speaker 1: I was this ship was crazy, bro, they legit you

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Speaker 1: have to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars to like

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Speaker 1: get deeper into the religion, right and the deep Oh no,

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Speaker 1: sounds like a scam. It sounds like Tom Cruise is

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Speaker 1: at the top of the chain. Right. But every single

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Speaker 1: person does scientology. Okay, they got they believed that an

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Speaker 1: alien landed in their body and that when they die,

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Speaker 1: the alien goes back to Venus and then he redonect

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Speaker 1: rex itself to another body. So scientology was that thing

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Speaker 1: all the celebrities in the Luminati. That's what scientology is.

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Speaker 1: The Luminati crazy Scientology is. Do y' all know who

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Speaker 1: Charles Manson is, Yeah, bitch. He opened in Scientology and

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01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 1: said it was too crazy. Oh hell, that's how you child, psycho.

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Speaker 1: That might be some ship I'm not interested in. Actually,

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01:15:02,840 --> 01:15:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in none of this ship. You know, anything,

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01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:06,680
Speaker 1: you might die. He's like, they will come get us.

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01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:11,680
Speaker 1: I was like, I am just interested in Dickson, vaginas

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01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,920
Speaker 1: um and taxes. At one point that was a part

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01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:18,640
Speaker 1: of my life. Anyways. Uh again, before we get out

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Speaker 1: of here. I want to shout out to all of

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Speaker 1: our patrons and you hose that watch us on YouTube

1348
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:26,920
Speaker 1: because y'all kept asking, Hey, are y'all posting on YouTube still?

1349
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 1: Because we went shy for like a fucking month. So

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01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 1: now you guys get to see us in our fucking

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Speaker 1: rooms and kitchen. Yeah. I don't know why this is

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01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 1: so exciting, you guys want to And Benson, who's in here,

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01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:39,880
Speaker 1: was like, oh, turning room, we can't have you faced

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Speaker 1: the window. Nick, it's blackout tide. You girl always saw

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Speaker 1: is windows and it made your partner, which it made

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Speaker 1: you look like a scientology. Okay, but no shout out

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Speaker 1: to our patrons again, guys. If y'all are all caught

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Speaker 1: up with our episodes and want more, there are almost

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Speaker 1: seventy bonus episodes over on Patreon. You can start all

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Speaker 1: the way from the beginning. Some of them are a

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Speaker 1: whole bunch of fucking raggedy mess, but you get to

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Speaker 1: hear our growth over the goddamn years. Um, it's super dope.

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Speaker 1: Weezy and I are doing like once a month now

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Speaker 1: where we allow our patrons to join us for a

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01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 1: live podcast kind of thing. So we allow them to

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Speaker 1: ask us questions, join in on vanilla ship, join in

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Speaker 1: on sharing their stories, and we also get very very

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Speaker 1: drunk while doing it. So, um, Weezy, do you have

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Speaker 1: any more jobs for them? Oh? By the way, guys,

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Speaker 1: Weezy and I are working because clearly we can't go

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Speaker 1: on tour and we keep posting all of our dope

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Speaker 1: Patreon stuff. So Weezy and I are working on designs.

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Speaker 1: If you're a graphic designer and want to help us,

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Speaker 1: we are looking to get March out to you guys.

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Speaker 1: So we're working on the site and getting you guys

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Speaker 1: to be able to purchase horrible Decisions March three years later.

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Speaker 1: We're late as fun, but we're getting there. Okay, we're

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Speaker 1: fucking um. Regards to Patreon, I mean it's five bucks

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Speaker 1: a months. You know, there's sixty plus bonus episodes with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of ship. We tell most of our personal

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Speaker 1: ship on there. Not like we don't open our assholes

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Speaker 1: and our hearts up anyway on here. But the Zoom

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Speaker 1: is super fun. I got so drunk last night on

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Speaker 1: our Zoom that I could barely take my bike home.

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Speaker 1: This nig ahead to get behind me on his bike

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Speaker 1: because you know, we're only ten minutes away from each other. Now.

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Speaker 1: He was like, yo, just get a uber. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm first of all, I'm an independent woman. Crazy bitch

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Speaker 1: was bad, So let's just get drunk together again next month. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so guys join us. That is patreon dot com backslash

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. Um again, you do have to type that

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Speaker 1: all in. That's Patreon dot com back slash horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: We are going to leave you with a five minute

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Speaker 1: bonus clip and once again, Adien Carmen, all you motherfucker

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Speaker 1: puss the assholes in quarantine, thank you all for joining

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Speaker 1: us for yet another episode of horrible decision Bye say bye.

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Speaker 1: All right, mack, let us talk about Yeah. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really even like to call myself

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Speaker 1: queers sometimes because I don't feel like I have suffered

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Speaker 1: any real like stigma from that or like the negative

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01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:16,479
Speaker 1: effects of that, because I'm generally passing in any way,

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01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: and I am, for the most part like straight. But

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Speaker 1: but I do feel like, I, you know, I believe

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Speaker 1: in that, Like I don't really believe in uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: gender as as a thing that you should aspire to,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't think that man should aspire to be manly,

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01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:32,639
Speaker 1: and I guess that kind of moves us into our

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Speaker 1: some of our vanilla ship. I think we're going to

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Speaker 1: talk about that was that was notes by the way,

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Speaker 1: I just learned how to see right the other day.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was spelled like the scooter. That's what

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01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 1: doesn't even actually having no ship, So I funked it up.

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Speaker 1: But it was just back to the main topic we

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Speaker 1: were going to talk about was the patriarchy and the

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Speaker 1: perils of toxic masculinity. Had three bets all what it

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Speaker 1: would be in toxicculsic. Toxic masculine was one of them

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Speaker 1: because we were supposed to have that episode with James exactly.

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Speaker 1: That's what we what we wanted to talk about. When

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Speaker 1: I was maybe made a good point like I wanted

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Speaker 1: to bring you back to talk about that, and she

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Speaker 1: was like, well, I want someone that's like overly toxic,

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Speaker 1: and I want us to then break it down and

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Speaker 1: talk about it together. But I do feel like we're

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Speaker 1: not a couple of people on your show from well,

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Speaker 1: we don't really have much beyond that because we're doing

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Speaker 1: your homeworkers hard. But I mean, I think we can

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Speaker 1: we can talk on that. No, let's do it for

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Speaker 1: a while. But um, I mean, you know, kind of

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Speaker 1: just talking about I think what what you were saying

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Speaker 1: about me being queer or whatever. Just I I do

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Speaker 1: believe that like gender is bullshit in a way, and

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Speaker 1: and I've kind of felt like that innately, just like

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Speaker 1: for a long time, but just learning more and we

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Speaker 1: can specify it a little bit more like not we're

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Speaker 1: not talking specifically about like sex at birth or even

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Speaker 1: like just think I like to call it gender performance

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Speaker 1: or the way that you move through through the world

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Speaker 1: and like present yourself to people. For example, we're both

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Speaker 1: we're all wearing a beautiful dark nail color today. I

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Speaker 1: really enjoy doing these like acts of queerness to or

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Speaker 1: other nests or strangeness to either like bring uh femininity

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Speaker 1: to masculinity or masculinity to like femininity in presentation or performance.

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Speaker 1: Can I say you, Actually, the more I get to know,

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Speaker 1: the longer I've known you, like you started wearing eyeliner

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Speaker 1: and mascara. I think only I can only remember you

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01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 1: doing this about maybe a year and a half two

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Speaker 1: years ago. But when I first met you, I didn't

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Speaker 1: remember this, and I wanted to ask you. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's too personal, but I mean, whatever,

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Speaker 1: do you think you've been more comfortable with your sexuality

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Speaker 1: and being gay as time goes on? Absolutely? Yes, since

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01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:56,640
Speaker 1: I've known you. I mean yes, absolutely before I met you.

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Speaker 1: Just before I met you, I went through the dramatic

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Speaker 1: experience of both coming out to myself like around my

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Speaker 1: mid teens and then coming out to a growing circle

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Speaker 1: of my family and friends. And that was a lot.

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Speaker 1: And then like a couple of years after that, I

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Speaker 1: met you, and that's when I first started feeling comfortable

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Speaker 1: like going out to bars, like to be myself and

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Speaker 1: to meet people, or to be on the apps or

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Speaker 1: to even like just introduce myself as a gay person.

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Speaker 1: Um so, and even since then, since I've met you,

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Speaker 1: and since uh you moved from Orlando to to New York,

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Speaker 1: I I feel like the closer I get to thirty,

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Speaker 1: which my birthday is coming up in two months, the

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Speaker 1: closer I gets to thirty, I've like realized that I

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01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 1: don't give a ship about what other people um think

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01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 1: about me any more. Or it's not like a sudden

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01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:58,080
Speaker 1: drop off has just been a study decline of realizing

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01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 1: that finding the things that make me happy and the

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01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 1: things that make me feel filled, and the things that

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01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 1: made me feel like a productive member of my community.

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01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:11,120
Speaker 1: Um Like, finding those things are and doing those things

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01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:17,479
Speaker 1: are way more important than making my community or parents

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01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:21,000
Speaker 1: or family happy with me. Do you think that has

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01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:23,559
Speaker 1: to do with your surround Like, well, for example, I remember,

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01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:25,320
Speaker 1: we don't have to get into your coming out story.

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Speaker 1: Actually I wanted to talk about it, but I don't

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01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:29,320
Speaker 1: know if you know, maybe to be to lengthy. And

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01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:32,200
Speaker 1: I want to get to James too. But you told

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01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:39,080
Speaker 1: me that when you told your mom, she started praying, Um. Yes.

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01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: During the during the my coming out experience with my parents,

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01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:48,439
Speaker 1: they were visiting me in my apartment that I you know,

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01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 1: was a young professional like just graduated a year before

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01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:54,680
Speaker 1: got hired. They came to visit me after I just

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01:22:54,760 --> 01:22:57,240
Speaker 1: moved to Orlando, and I was like, this is the

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01:22:57,280 --> 01:22:58,680
Speaker 1: time that I need to come out. Like it's not

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01:22:58,760 --> 01:23:01,120
Speaker 1: around a birthday or major holiday or anything. This is

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01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: seriously to them, just in my space, like I have

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01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 1: to do this now. And I told a good friend

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01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 1: of mine, like, if I don't do it this weekend,

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01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 1: you have to hold it to me, Like I have

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01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:13,719
Speaker 1: to actually hold me to it. I have to actually

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01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 1: do it. And finally, the last night that they were there,

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01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 1: I UM worked up the nerve to ask them to

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01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 1: put their iPads down to what I had to say,

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01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:28,799
Speaker 1: and uh, Almost immediately, my dad, who was a pastor,

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01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:34,680
Speaker 1: UM started to pray the demon of homosexuality out of

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Speaker 1: me