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Speaker 1: Story time. I remember we all took a trip to
Speaker 1: Puerto Rico. Now we all is me and a couple
Speaker 1: of other couples, because it was like a couple's trip.
Speaker 1: Don't ask me who I took because honestly, I don't remember,
Speaker 1: and this was just last year. I do remember my
Speaker 1: aunt and my uncle being one of the couples. Now
Speaker 1: I'm related to my aunt. She's my biological aunt, and
Speaker 1: my uncle is my uncle because he's married to her.
Speaker 1: My aunt is hm very snobby. She's the rich auntie
Speaker 1: that you know most families have. She's very straightforward, she's blunt.
Speaker 1: She's like me, but more disrespectful and her husband, on
Speaker 1: the other hand, he's very quiet, laid back, chill to himself.
Speaker 1: I love my uncle. He's cool. Obviously they were having
Speaker 1: a problem in their marriage. I don't know why the
Speaker 1: hell they would even come on a trip and try
Speaker 1: to mask their problem. But game night, right the night
Speaker 1: before we left, we were playing the game Guestris. That's
Speaker 1: when you gotta do charades or whatever, and it's a
Speaker 1: team game. I don't know why we didn't do men
Speaker 1: versus women. I do not know why, just to keep
Speaker 1: the confusion down and it would have been more fun.
Speaker 1: But we decided to do couples against couples. Now it
Speaker 1: was four couples. So it's eight people, two teams of
Speaker 1: two couples each. Right, Oh my gosh. They couldn't agree
Speaker 1: on anything, my aunt uncle, they couldn't agree. First of all,
Speaker 1: when he first got there, they were very distant. They
Speaker 1: were being caddy toward one another. The team was high.
Speaker 1: It was awkward as fun to be around them because
Speaker 1: you knew, you know, when two people are beating, you
Speaker 1: walk into a room to get quiet, or they already
Speaker 1: quiet when you enter the room. That ship is crazy, right,
Speaker 1: So we're playing a game. Round one, they couldn't agree
Speaker 1: on ship. Round two, couldn't agree on ship. They grew
Speaker 1: more heated and heated. By the end of the game,
Speaker 1: they were at each other's next yea like real ship.
Speaker 1: So my uncle says something like, man, I'm out of
Speaker 1: this motherfucker. I'm I'm out. This bitch went on the balcony.
Speaker 1: Want to go light up a blunt on his way out.
Speaker 1: She said, don't worry about it. Don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: He just mad because I make more money than his ass.
Speaker 1: All bets are off. Now he turns back around. He
Speaker 1: gets upset. He looks like, how the fund can you
Speaker 1: even say this ship? How can you even say this
Speaker 1: ship in front of people. I told you she had
Speaker 1: a few drinks, so did he. But women one thing
Speaker 1: about us. When we hit we hit below the fucking belt.
Speaker 1: And that ship is not healthy. Not in a fucking marriage,
Speaker 1: not in a friendship, not in any type of companionship
Speaker 1: you got going on. Never hit below the belt, especially
Speaker 1: against somebody you love, in front of a bunch of people.
Speaker 1: I remember nobody checking on him either. I remember that
Speaker 1: nobody would to go check on him, even the other guys.
Speaker 1: I mean I guess they just didn't want to insert
Speaker 1: themselves into the business of my aunt, my uncle and
Speaker 1: ship like that. But all of us was trying to
Speaker 1: calm her down. We all was checking on her. And
Speaker 1: you know, even my date, I remember him check. Oh,
Speaker 1: I remember who it is now, but y'all still ain't
Speaker 1: getting that information. He would to go check on her.
Speaker 1: Everybody was checking on her. Nobody went on the balcony
Speaker 1: with my uncle to check on him. He's smoking a blunt,
Speaker 1: he't chilling, he quiet anyway, So he's very unapproachable looking,
Speaker 1: So I guess that's why as well. I remember the
Speaker 1: next day when we all woke up to leave, because
Speaker 1: that was our our last day on the trip. Our
Speaker 1: flights were in the afternoon. We woke up, he was gone.
Speaker 1: He got up and he flew the funk out. He
Speaker 1: didn't say goodbye to anybody. Nothing like that. Now, with
Speaker 1: that story in mine, today's topic is a black man's vulnerability.
Speaker 1: It's important to talk about that type ship these days
Speaker 1: because it's a very feminist time in life right now.
Speaker 1: Women we get the spotlight a lot more now, and
Speaker 1: that's great. You know, the black woman is strong, the
Speaker 1: black woman is this the black woman is that. Yes,
Speaker 1: we are where everything alpha and omega and everything in between.
Speaker 1: You take us away, you ain't got ship. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, we still have another another piece of
Speaker 1: humanity that we tend to just forget. That's the man.
Speaker 1: You can't spell humanity without man, and we we tend
Speaker 1: not to give a funk about a man's failings. Now,
Speaker 1: usually the next segment is just fix my mess. However,
Speaker 1: I knew, I just knew there would be no men
Speaker 1: who would willingly address their vulnerabilities and insecurities or whatever.
Speaker 1: We have that, but that's the problem with our men
Speaker 1: these days. We have to get them to talk more.
Speaker 1: And I know the tradition is, you know, men don't cry.
Speaker 1: Men are not supposed to cry. Men don't be weak.
Speaker 1: You can't open up about ship. You have to keep
Speaker 1: it all inside because you're a man. You gotta be strong,
Speaker 1: you gotta be barbarian like. But that's bullshit, because men
Speaker 1: still have hearts, they still have feelings their women without pussies.
Speaker 1: That's it, Like a woman is a man without a dick.
Speaker 1: We are the same, We're all people. We just have
Speaker 1: different ships between our legs. That's the only difference between us.
Speaker 1: There are lots of insecurities that men struggle with, and
Speaker 1: it's a lot of ship that men deal with that
Speaker 1: women deal with as well, but it's overlooked when it's
Speaker 1: a man like men get cheated on, they get raped
Speaker 1: as children. You know, men go through all types of ship.
Speaker 1: They go through money problems, they go through losing friends,
Speaker 1: they have confidence issues. You got men getting surgery nowadays.
Speaker 1: If you don't like the way you look, change it.
Speaker 1: That's not only meant for a woman, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. There are a lot of things that men
Speaker 1: deal with, but then you have the falsehood of ego.
Speaker 1: That's the mask that they put on so they won't
Speaker 1: have to face themselves or face their problems, and also
Speaker 1: so no one around them will know what they're really
Speaker 1: going through. That's why it's very important to have barbershop talk.
Speaker 1: Like you know, how we go and get our hair
Speaker 1: done and we talked to our styles about everything. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, these days, these stylers are so fucking messy.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't talk to my styler is
Speaker 1: about a motherfucking thing. But you know it's easy, you know,
Speaker 1: as women, we go and we talk about ship, talk
Speaker 1: about these men. We're sitting these shares and let these
Speaker 1: women do our hand. We start sparking up conversations about
Speaker 1: how niggason did us wrong, and and then how we're
Speaker 1: doing a nigga's wrong. You never know what's gonna come
Speaker 1: out of your mouth. And a fucking hand saloon because
Speaker 1: you're comfortable, you're amongst other women who are having some
Speaker 1: of the same problems. Now put the same thing in
Speaker 1: the barbershop. The barbershop setting. These men have these conversations,
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you a lot of times because I
Speaker 1: used to work at a barbershop. Yes, they have the
Speaker 1: same conversations we have. But men still front. Men front
Speaker 1: for other men. No man wants another man to know
Speaker 1: his struggles. Whether he's the man's best friend or not.
Speaker 1: He does not want anyone to know his struggles. You're
Speaker 1: always supposed to be the perfect strong man and anything
Speaker 1: your friendships. If you've got a group of friends, you
Speaker 1: want to be you want to appear as the richest friend,
Speaker 1: the friend that got it all together, and you don't. Now,
Speaker 1: men have a lot of issues that they struggle with.
Speaker 1: That's why they can't properly assess kids and women. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm not making up excuses because
Speaker 1: this is not every man's problem, but majority you'd be surprised.
Speaker 1: And I was having a discussion with one of my
Speaker 1: buddies and he calls it the trickle down theory. A
Speaker 1: lot of these men's issues are deep rooted, goes back
Speaker 1: to their childhood, goes back to generations and generations before them,
Speaker 1: great great grandfathers. They didn't know how to love properly
Speaker 1: because their father didn't do that. Their father didn't show them.
Speaker 1: Their father didn't put him on his back and you know,
Speaker 1: run around the house with him or wrestle them or
Speaker 1: you know, or wrap them in his arms and telling
Speaker 1: me loves them. None of that. I remember a picture
Speaker 1: that was going around with whis Khalifa kissing his son
Speaker 1: Sebastian and his mouth. Now, a lot of men they
Speaker 1: had something to say about that. A lot of women
Speaker 1: has something to say about that. But that's why we
Speaker 1: feel like we that's I said, we like I'm a man,
Speaker 1: and sometimes I swear I am, you know, But that's
Speaker 1: why men feel like they got to be so hard
Speaker 1: up because they're scared to show affection even to women
Speaker 1: scared to show affection. That's why a lot of gay
Speaker 1: men are scared of coming out. It's just a man
Speaker 1: is a man. At the end of the day. They
Speaker 1: have hearts, they have feelings. With Khalifa teaching that little
Speaker 1: boy love, he's teaching him love. There's nothing wrong with
Speaker 1: him kissing his son in them off, that's his fucking son.
Speaker 1: Mind your fucking business. Then, on the other hand, you
Speaker 1: got a man who never kisses his son, whether it
Speaker 1: be on a forehead, cheek, whatever mouth. You got men
Speaker 1: that never kiss their fucking sons never. Now, imagine those
Speaker 1: young men that's gonna grow up who don't know how
Speaker 1: to show affection to a woman. No, no, no, no no no.
Speaker 1: They they might think kissing his mushy. They don't want
Speaker 1: that ship. Oh no, no, no, hell no. My father
Speaker 1: never did death. No no, no no. Even if you
Speaker 1: did have a mother, that's affectionate to you, telling you
Speaker 1: your father plants the seed. Every household needs a dad,
Speaker 1: Every child needs a dad, and every child needs a
Speaker 1: mother's love, but also the love and affection from a father.
Speaker 1: That's why I praise Russell Willson. He shows love to
Speaker 1: baby future, he shows him love he's not hard up
Speaker 1: with the dude with the little boy. He's not that
Speaker 1: one on one they get. Sierra is not always around
Speaker 1: when baby Future is in the care of Russell. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, He wants that one on one
Speaker 1: showing him love and affection, not saying his father doesn't.
Speaker 1: But I only know what we see, and we see
Speaker 1: Russell giving him that affection. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back again.
Speaker 1: General curses that has to be broken. Maybe someone's father
Speaker 1: beat their mother growing up in abusive household. A lot
Speaker 1: of guys seen there. Their mothers get beaten by their father.
Speaker 1: Seeing their fathers even you know, beat on them. That's
Speaker 1: also a generational curse. That's also how man feels like
Speaker 1: he has to be so tough. Or my father beat
Speaker 1: my mother. My father never hugged and kissed on my mother.
Speaker 1: I never saw that, So that's what I am. My
Speaker 1: own brother can't stand his father, but in hindsight, he
Speaker 1: acts just like his dad. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That ship sticks with your kids, and that's why generational
Speaker 1: curses have to be broken. That's exactly why, or it'll
Speaker 1: be hard for you to be a parent. It'll be
Speaker 1: hard for you to be a husband, It'll be hard
Speaker 1: for you to be a brother. It'll be hard. You
Speaker 1: have to break it. Manyy therapy, just like us women
Speaker 1: many love a lot of times. There is no framework meaning.
Speaker 1: Nobody taught this man structure. Nobody taught him how to
Speaker 1: be honest with himself about his struggles. Nobody's taught him
Speaker 1: how to open up about them, you know, whether it
Speaker 1: be to other friends. That's why men are so scared
Speaker 1: of therapy. I'm not about to go lay on the
Speaker 1: couch and and tell no woman how I fail. She
Speaker 1: can't help me. I'm I'm I'm a man, I'm tough
Speaker 1: and no, but I don't want nobody in my business.
Speaker 1: That's where manipulation comes into play. Most mass manipulating men
Speaker 1: have these issues deep deep, deep down inside. Manipulation can't
Speaker 1: just come from nowhere. My son's father is very manipulative,
Speaker 1: and now so is my son. My son hasn't even
Speaker 1: lived his life fully. He's eight and he is a
Speaker 1: little manipulator for real. He gets it from his dad.
Speaker 1: But you know, Jerome has a lot of issues. Jerome
Speaker 1: is my son's father's name is a lot of issues
Speaker 1: that he hasn't come to grips with. He hasn't put
Speaker 1: out those fires in those roots yet. And he even
Speaker 1: told me, I mean, sometimes I think about going to therapy,
Speaker 1: but then I mean, what is that ship gonna do
Speaker 1: for me? That's that ego I was talking about. That
Speaker 1: goes back to the falsehood of ego. What do you
Speaker 1: mean You're trying to be so tough, You're trying to
Speaker 1: appear as something that you've trained yourself to be so
Speaker 1: you don't have to deal with the issues, you don't
Speaker 1: have to face them. But in all reality, you will
Speaker 1: never be happy, You will never find love, You will
Speaker 1: never ever ever stop going from woman to woman looking
Speaker 1: for what you're missing if you don't get to the
Speaker 1: root of your problem your own self. This is what
Speaker 1: I've told him tom after time, even examples and movies
Speaker 1: that they put in front of our faces on why
Speaker 1: did I get married Angela and Marcus? She constantly put
Speaker 1: the man down. That's what my aunt did, put the
Speaker 1: man down about making less than she did. But then
Speaker 1: why did I get married? Marcus was pro football player.
Speaker 1: They started with his money. He got hurt, he got injured,
Speaker 1: and then the burden fell on the wife. Nevertheless, she
Speaker 1: picked it up, but she threw it in his face.
Speaker 1: This is my money, Marcus. You ain't going nowhere. You
Speaker 1: ain't gonna leave me because this is my money. That
Speaker 1: forced that man to cheat. He did not want to
Speaker 1: leave his wife. But dealing with a woman seven, that's
Speaker 1: throwing something in your face, that fox with a man's dignity,
Speaker 1: that fox with a man's pride. So he cheated. He
Speaker 1: cheated with someone who ain't gonna do that ship that
Speaker 1: ain't constantly talking about he broke and reminding him of
Speaker 1: his past and oh, yeah, you you did make money
Speaker 1: until you hurt yourself. Now you ain't got nothing come
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. She constantly reminded Marcus that
Speaker 1: he had to work for her in her Salon the
Speaker 1: episode of Martin where Martin was so upset that Gina
Speaker 1: made more than him. He didn't even know that ship
Speaker 1: and it came out that she made more than him.
Speaker 1: He was pissed the whole episode. Now, these are real
Speaker 1: situations that they put on TV. Yes, it was a
Speaker 1: fictional sitcom, but it's real life. Ship Men deal with
Speaker 1: all types of ship men deal with financial struggles. Men
Speaker 1: deal with abust from their women. Men deal with a lot.
Speaker 1: These black men, man, they go through a lot. We're
Speaker 1: gonna take it back even further to color purple. Remember
Speaker 1: Silly and Mr. He beat that woman and she still
Speaker 1: want to go get up and cook for the family
Speaker 1: through the baby's hair. All of that that was regular
Speaker 1: back then. That was fucking regular. And then he had
Speaker 1: a fucking mistress who was sucked up in the head
Speaker 1: as well. She was being mentally abused, she was being prostituted.
Speaker 1: But Mr. Was dealing with struggles far beyond the abuse.
Speaker 1: Maybe he was abused when he was younger and ship
Speaker 1: like that. He couldn't love Silly, He couldn't love Sutter,
Speaker 1: He couldn't love anybody, probably because he didn't address his
Speaker 1: own issues. He would beat the shut out of Silly
Speaker 1: and she would get the funk up and go cook
Speaker 1: dinner for the family like it was regular. That should happen.
Speaker 1: Even back in slavery, the black man has always had
Speaker 1: to bore the physical part of slavery. You gotta think
Speaker 1: about it. When the black man is born, they were
Speaker 1: trained by white men. They would take the biggest black man.
Speaker 1: This is the one I got to do all the work.
Speaker 1: Then the workout in the fields and ship. They would
Speaker 1: get them real strong and buff like animals. They treated
Speaker 1: the black man like animals. That's what the black man
Speaker 1: was used for. The black man was seen as a machine,
Speaker 1: a strong ass animal, beaten when they didn't move, beaten
Speaker 1: for not doing something right, beaten no matter what it
Speaker 1: was for. Nevertheless, they were fucking beaten. Which takes me
Speaker 1: back to Mr. And Silly. When she didn't do something right,
Speaker 1: he beat her. Sometimes she wouldn't even do ship. He
Speaker 1: would just beat her. His ass was beat you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's the trickle down effect that my
Speaker 1: homeboy was talking about. It's also the devalue of a
Speaker 1: black man. Even fast forward to the Welfare Reformation, when
Speaker 1: blacks started finally getting government assistance. The rules were a
Speaker 1: black man couldn't even be in the fucking house. For
Speaker 1: a woman to receive any type of benefits, the black
Speaker 1: man couldn't even be in the fucking house. So the
Speaker 1: black man had the hide. Of course it was for nest,
Speaker 1: but when he would come around for the visits and
Speaker 1: shipped to still keep up the benefits or whatever, and
Speaker 1: all that type of ship. The evaluations, the man had
Speaker 1: to get all of his clothes out of there, and
Speaker 1: and no man could even be in the house, No
Speaker 1: fucking black man could even be in his own house
Speaker 1: for the family to receive benefits, to receive help. And
Speaker 1: in my opinion, welfare reformation is what started the I
Speaker 1: don't need a man mindset for black women. Black women
Speaker 1: have had more training on how to defend themselves from
Speaker 1: a black man than to how to love a black
Speaker 1: and I'm telling you it started right there. In my opinion,
Speaker 1: you're gonna always see a black woman even today. I
Speaker 1: don't need no man, I don't need no nigga. I
Speaker 1: do this ship by myself, like bitches love saying that ship. Listen,
Speaker 1: you do you do just like the man needs us.
Speaker 1: Black women need black men, and black men need black women.
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk how you feel, what you say.
Speaker 1: If you turn this podcast it off right now, I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. Yes we do. We need our
Speaker 1: men and they need us. And that's also why black
Speaker 1: men are so aggressive. Not all of them, but a
Speaker 1: lot of the majority of these men are so aggressive
Speaker 1: because we've been taught to defend ourselves against them. So
Speaker 1: of course, like even when when you first meet a man,
Speaker 1: we can see a nigga walking down the street, if
Speaker 1: it's pants a lot too tight or depending on you know,
Speaker 1: the sway in his walking or whatever what he got on.
Speaker 1: Oh bitch ga, oh bitch she said, drugs, Like we're
Speaker 1: judging him at the fucking door. You haven't done that.
Speaker 1: We judge these men and then we get upset when
Speaker 1: they're with white women, but we often have that. We
Speaker 1: don't need your mentality. So actually, we throw these niggas away.
Speaker 1: That's what we do. We're throwing them away. And we
Speaker 1: can be very spiteful. Hold up, hold up, I know
Speaker 1: the ship getting good, But listen to just a couple
Speaker 1: of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 1: As black women, yes, we can be very spiteful because,
Speaker 1: like I said, we have been trained to defend ourselves.
Speaker 1: So when a man do finally open up, Let's say
Speaker 1: he opened up and tell you about his past or
Speaker 1: he has an insecurity. He tells you about one of
Speaker 1: his vulnerabilities, You take it, you love him, he falls
Speaker 1: for you, y'all get angry, and you throw that ship
Speaker 1: in his face. You bring that ship up and you
Speaker 1: throw that ship out there at him. Well, you was
Speaker 1: telling me whatever the problem, whatever the issue is. Then
Speaker 1: they shut back down and don't tell you, ask nothing else.
Speaker 1: We have to protect our black men just like we
Speaker 1: expect them to protect us. We have to get them
Speaker 1: to talk more. We have to get them to talk more.
Speaker 1: A lot of men grew up in foster homes and
Speaker 1: being passed around from group home the group home. I remember,
Speaker 1: I had a man that worked for me that told
Speaker 1: me that man, there's some real ship sys growing up
Speaker 1: being passed around from group home the group almost like jail.
Speaker 1: I feel like he was trying to tell me something.
Speaker 1: Maybe he was touched, maybe he was raped. That's why
Speaker 1: he's so fucking mean. That's why he beat niggas the
Speaker 1: way he do. That's why he's had encounters with women
Speaker 1: and fucking children. That's why he's not scared to take
Speaker 1: a life. The ship that he had to go through
Speaker 1: growing up. Now he has a lot of children, a
Speaker 1: lot of them got both nine ten children, and all
Speaker 1: of them are mixed. None of them are fully African American.
Speaker 1: He also explained to me why none of them are
Speaker 1: fully African American. He loves mixed women. He loves Hispanic women.
Speaker 1: They're more submissive. He doesn't have to worry about them
Speaker 1: going through his phone, he doesn't have to worry about
Speaker 1: them calling him out of his name, poisoning him when
Speaker 1: he's sleep or anything. I'm like, Nigga, what the hell
Speaker 1: have you been through with black women? What the fuck?
Speaker 1: That's why you said he's scared the day to another one.
Speaker 1: He told me this, I ain't suing no black women.
Speaker 1: Scared the day to fucking black women. Man. Black women
Speaker 1: think their men, is what he said. I can relate
Speaker 1: to that because sometimes I feel like I am you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like we're tough, we're very very tough,
Speaker 1: we don't take no ship, but sometimes it's okay to
Speaker 1: be soft. Sometimes it is. You also, notice how black
Speaker 1: men don't marry black women, even going way back to
Speaker 1: your grandmother. Now, listen, black people will stay together for
Speaker 1: years and years and years, but never married because we've
Speaker 1: had no examples to look up to. Now, I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear nothing but no Beyonce and jay Z
Speaker 1: and grand Hero and to Mia and and Russell and Sierra. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about way back, not not celebrities don't throw
Speaker 1: no celebrities in my face. Let's go way back old.
Speaker 1: People will stay together for fucking ever and still still
Speaker 1: don't marry each other. I don't know what it is
Speaker 1: about it, but it's hard to marry. We had no
Speaker 1: good examples. Even these days, it seems like people can
Speaker 1: be in love when they have babies, they break up.
Speaker 1: The divorce rate and Black marriages is way fucking higher
Speaker 1: than any other race because people get married without getting
Speaker 1: to know each other. People get married with hidden factors,
Speaker 1: like men. Men don't like to talk about ship that
Speaker 1: they've been through. You have to really, really really get
Speaker 1: to know yourself and really get to the bottom of
Speaker 1: who you are before you marry someone. And a lot
Speaker 1: of times, because these men do have these masked egos
Speaker 1: and this type of ship, they go in a relationship
Speaker 1: being someone that they've trained themselves to be, being someone
Speaker 1: that they're really really not, and then when you're married,
Speaker 1: you're stuck with this person and you realize, damn, I
Speaker 1: did this too soon. But no, you're gonna keep making
Speaker 1: the same mistake if you don't get to know yourself,
Speaker 1: if you don't get to talk more. We have to
Speaker 1: get black men to talk more. If you are a
Speaker 1: black man listening to this episode of Carefully Reckless Today,
Speaker 1: the topic was a black man's vulnerability. Hit the email.
Speaker 1: I'll give you advice. We'll get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: Ship open up, open up to me. That's what the
Speaker 1: hell I'm here for. I am a black man sometimes,
Speaker 1: so I got you brother, look at me as your brother,
Speaker 1: but not real ship man. A black man's vulnerability is
Speaker 1: so important, and we need to get our black men
Speaker 1: to talk more, get them to open up. So black
Speaker 1: women hugging, kiss your black man, black man hugging, kiss
Speaker 1: your boys, your baby boys, your children, your son's black man.
Speaker 1: Call your father and tell them you miss him, you
Speaker 1: love him, even if you know him and you ain't
Speaker 1: got a relationship with him. Before you leave this earth,
Speaker 1: make it your business to at least look your father
Speaker 1: in the eye, tell him you love him, give him
Speaker 1: a hug, palm his head, all of that. Because love
Speaker 1: is love, whether you're a woman or a man. Remember
Speaker 1: I said, the only difference between a man and a
Speaker 1: woman is what's between the legs. And I'm gonna leave
Speaker 1: it right there. Thank you for listening to another episode
Speaker 1: of Carefully Rightless We'll be back next Wednesday, hump Day
Speaker 1: and my deepest pan voice peace be like just you
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