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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us on.

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Speaker 3: Air with the Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: All right, it's good even let's check it.

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Speaker 2: Where do you stand on this holding a spot in

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Speaker 2: with people that.

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Speaker 1: I do this.

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Speaker 2: We have to go back and get one more thing right?

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Speaker 2: Is it rude or is it okay? And what's the

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Speaker 2: grace period? So here's the story. There's a there's a

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Speaker 2: guy at the grocery store with his parents and it

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Speaker 2: was very busy. The lines for the checkout were very long,

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Speaker 2: so his parents asked them to hold their spot in line. Well,

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Speaker 2: they grabbed the last few items, so, in other words,

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Speaker 2: they weren't finished yet and they wanted him to start

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Speaker 2: moving through the line. He gets to the front and

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Speaker 2: his parents are still not back yet, and another customer

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Speaker 2: spoke up, much like Sophia did with Skeletor in Primate

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Speaker 2: with the loud people in front of it at the

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Speaker 2: movie theater, but spoke up and said, hey, it's unfair

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Speaker 2: and disrespectful. You can only wait in line once you've

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Speaker 2: got your stuff. So where do you stand on that?

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Speaker 4: Sisiny depends on how much stuff you're coming back with.

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Speaker 4: If like you're already there with your shopping cart, then

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Speaker 4: you're holding your stuff. If you're there just your body,

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Speaker 4: and then all of a sudden here come as his

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Speaker 4: him is like, I wouldn't have gone in line behind.

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Speaker 1: You, So I think you run a risk.

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Speaker 2: If you can hold the spot, go you know whoever else,

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Speaker 2: go run and get all the things and get back

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Speaker 2: in time before your spot is up in line.

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Speaker 1: You ran the risk and you won.

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Speaker 2: But if you aren't back and your son or your

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Speaker 2: kid is up to the place at the check out

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Speaker 2: and you're not back yet, they cannot hold up the

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Speaker 2: customers behind you. You cannot do that, so you run

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Speaker 2: a risk of having to go to the back of

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Speaker 2: the line if you do this.

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Speaker 1: That's where I stay on this very clearly. I think

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Speaker 1: so too.

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Speaker 4: And also people do this at Disneyland and amusement parks,

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Speaker 4: and this is why people get in fights now.

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Speaker 1: We're seeing because they'll roll up.

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Speaker 4: With like four people.

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Speaker 1: Oh on, my mom's there.

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Speaker 2: To get remind yourself you're not supposed to fight at

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Speaker 2: Disneyland's the happiest place on earth. Remind yourselves all right?

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Speaker 2: Coming up next, I get your five hund bucks and

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Speaker 2: back to school cash. Let's get going this morning on

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Speaker 2: kiss FM it now, do you measure the amount of

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Speaker 2: time Do you calculate the amount of time it takes

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Speaker 2: somebody to respond to a text that you send out?

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Speaker 1: Do you do that? Are you that person or not? Sisney?

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Speaker 1: Is that person?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 2: If she texts us and we don't text her back

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Speaker 2: within a certain amount of time and she sees us

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Speaker 2: texting someone else for example, Oh, in a group chat

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Speaker 2: that Rially text me and I were to respond to

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Speaker 2: the group or respond to Tanya in the group before

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Speaker 2: siciny she I wouldn't say she'd ald a grudge.

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Speaker 5: But.

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Speaker 4: Not in I don't care about the order of you

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Speaker 4: responding in a group chat. I'm just saying if if

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Speaker 4: I text you separately, that.

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Speaker 1: I know that. That's what I said.

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Speaker 2: If you text me and I don't respond to you,

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Speaker 2: but I respond to the group.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like noted if that's a grudge.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Anyway, in case in point, there's a friend of

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Speaker 2: minor that's watching your IG stories but didn't text you

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Speaker 2: back and you're holding.

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Speaker 1: Across I know.

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Speaker 4: So I texted Tanya, I'm just kidding. It's notna, Tanya, I.

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Speaker 1: Have a friend that I just you know.

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Speaker 4: It was one of those things where I was like,

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Speaker 4: oh my gosh, she was told me about this restaurant

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Speaker 1: So I texted her like, hey, what was the name

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Speaker 1: of that? D D D D nothing?

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Speaker 4: And then I went on with life and I forgot

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Speaker 4: a group chat that we're in, And I was like,

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Speaker 4: wait a minute, and so like, either she forgot about

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Speaker 4: then do I say something?

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Speaker 1: And now, how do you care? Why do you care?

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Speaker 1: Doesn't there a therapy session.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't clearly want to respond to whatever it was

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Speaker 2: you were talking about, whether she forgot about you, whether

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Speaker 2: she doesn't want to talk about the topic, but don't

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Speaker 2: let that navigate any of your emotion.

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Speaker 1: That's the problem.

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Speaker 4: Fine, and you're right, and I won't let that navigate

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Speaker 4: my emotions. But what it made me realize is that

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Speaker 4: I also do this, and so now I'm hyper aware

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Speaker 4: of when someone texts me and I haven't responded to them,

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Speaker 4: and then if I see their story, then that reminds me.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my gosh, I need to go respond

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Speaker 4: to the text before I.

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Speaker 1: Like their story. Yes, so you okay, So all this

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Speaker 1: stuff is a calculation. To you. What I do sometimes

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Speaker 2: I think it seems very Now when I actually get

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Speaker 2: it sent to me, it seems really harsh and rude.

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Speaker 2: But I'll just send boop question mark boop one line

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Speaker 1: But it's harsh. I didn't know it was so harsh.

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Speaker 1: I think you can do that's a little bit cuter.

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Speaker 4: Is the eyeballs like the two eyes just looking like?

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Speaker 6: So I use the microphone emoji and I say, is

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Speaker 6: this thing on much better?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: The question mark is harsh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, m Elsie, good morning, good mom, Thank you for calling.

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Speaker 1: How can we help you.

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Speaker 7: My brother and sister in law just recently had a baby,

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Speaker 7: which is awesome, and we're you know, all exce about it.

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Speaker 7: I totally get that they want to be, like you,

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Speaker 7: extremely careful, protective right now. But I just said out

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Speaker 7: and so our daughter she goes to daycare, you know,

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Speaker 7: But recently our daughter had already nose major nothing major

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Speaker 7: come home with us, nanny knows, not a big deal.

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Speaker 7: So we decided to you know, add a caution and

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Speaker 7: respect you know, withhold friend, you know, visiting the new

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Speaker 7: You know, totally understand, I'm a mom, But I thought

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Speaker 7: from my mom that my brother told my parents that

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Speaker 7: they shouldn't be around my daughter because they shouldn't be

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Speaker 7: visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter, and

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Speaker 7: they wanted them to.

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Speaker 3: Wait like a few days after just as like a period,

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Speaker 3: because my daughter goes to daycare, like she's some kind

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Speaker 2: Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs

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Speaker 2: that's where we are, right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Like, I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going

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Speaker 7: to have more cold than ready noses and everything.

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Speaker 3: How old is the baby it's a newborn, like like

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Speaker 3: a month.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's let's flip the rolls.

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Speaker 2: If you just had your daughter, would you feel the

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Speaker 2: same way about their kids?

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Speaker 1: There was it daycare?

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Speaker 7: I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are

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Speaker 7: trying to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to

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Speaker 7: because I understand, you know, but their daughter.

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Speaker 4: Right, Oh, so they don't even want your parents around.

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Speaker 4: It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because

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Speaker 2: Parents were around your right yes yeah, yes, okay, so

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Speaker 2: they're thinking, yeah.

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Speaker 1: If they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really care.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I don't think it's judgmental.

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Speaker 4: They're trying to protect their baby.

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Speaker 1: That's their prerogative. That's I think I would take it

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Speaker 4: A month is young, But if baby's like six months

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Speaker 4: old at this point they're still kind of doing this stuff,

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Speaker 4: then that's just annoying.

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Speaker 2: I think Sisney's got a good point. Let's see how

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Speaker 2: how long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment,

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Speaker 2: because they just have this new baby and let them

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Speaker 2: be overprotective. But let's ride this out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you respect it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 4: By the third kid, they're not going to care because

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Speaker 4: I was the same way with the twins. I mean

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Speaker 4: I was like, hands in his eyes, wash your hands,

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Speaker 4: but oh, do you put a.

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Speaker 1: Rag over your shoulder. Don't let it touch your actual clothes.

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Speaker 1: And then by Sevilla was just like, hey, you want

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Speaker 1: to hold her. So it's just time, Elsie, good luck,

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Speaker 1: thank you for calling.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Don't like it under your skin. It's not worth letting

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Speaker 2: it be personal. I think they're just being over protected.

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Speaker 1: His FM.

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Speaker 2: When you go to the doctor's office, they always give

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Speaker 2: me a clipboard and they say fill all the stuff out,

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Speaker 2: and I you know, have filled out right, yeah, check

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Speaker 2: check chuck check check sign. So the dirtiest place in

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Speaker 2: the doctor's office is that clipboard. It's the clip yeah,

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Speaker 2: id it has more than forty six thousand times more

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Speaker 2: germs than a toilet seat.

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Speaker 1: Questionnaire in the clip pad. That's crazy. I never have

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Speaker 1: to about that. Tell your friends that that's crazy. Today's quote, what.

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Speaker 2: Is not started today is never finished by tomorrow. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you get a jump on it, So Tanya, doctor next week?

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Speaker 1: No, no clipboard please? Yeah, your own gloves.

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I'm gonna look so instant And they got him.

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Speaker 1: There, use their gloves morning.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you point seven Kiss FM is on Los

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Speaker 2: Angeles Hights. Why don't you point seven KISSFM? All right, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: Four year old Skeletor walk you back to your car

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Speaker 8: Well, he actually picked me up, so it's more of.

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Speaker 8: No, he got out, he was waiting for me. He

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Speaker 2: When he stood there on guard for your arrival, put

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Speaker 2: Guys, this is what you do if you if you

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Speaker 1: It's nice, isn't it. Okay, Well, let me talk to Megan. Megan.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Megan, I'm good. So the guy I didn't

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Speaker 5: Right, Yes, we went on our first date and it

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Speaker 1: No? No, it's rude.

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Speaker 2: First of all, he should be mindful of getting you

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Speaker 2: It's it's just a polite thing to do, right, He

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree, No, definitely.

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Speaker 4: That's why I was thinking it's a safety thing too.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, whatever, this guy is not deserving

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Speaker 1: He's just not going to be considerate as we go on.

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Speaker 2: So this is what's always fascinating about these second date

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't get it exactly.

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Speaker 1: No? Yeah, lots of good fun happens to Alex. Yeah

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Speaker 9: You know I saw her at the party, like from

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Speaker 1: I understand, I understand. I understand. Matthew McConaughey. By the way,

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Speaker 1: there's somebody who sounds like and I can't play it.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like Matthew McConaughey. It's like I'm on

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Speaker 2: Click click, whoa.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was I get older and the nobody was charming.

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Speaker 1: I think it's charming. Hold on, what is it? A

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Speaker 1: I mean it might be twenty. You say a dozen ish,

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Speaker 2: Definitely have a different generation if you say a dozen ish? Okay,

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Speaker 4: He said, it went back to my place.

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Speaker 1: At that one problem too.

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Speaker 2: We got a few situations where someone goes back to

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Speaker 4: But he said, my my apartment is immaculate and it's nice.

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Speaker 1: He did. Right, that's like me saying I'm six too. Well,

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Speaker 1: we don't know that.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying it could be that he should be,

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Speaker 2: I said, can you say anything, bro go deep with me,

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Speaker 2: He said, a dozen ish or more? A dozen ish,

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Speaker 2: It could be twenty years when you say something like that.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm thinking. All right, So Alex, hold on, Alex.

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Speaker 2: We got her to come on the line. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: Us this morning.

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Speaker 2: You're on erics writing seacrest TONI in siciny. How you

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Speaker 2: doing I'm all right, we're great. So we're calling you

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Speaker 2: about this guy named Alex. Remember going out with Alex Alix?

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Speaker 10: Oh okay, yeah, really?

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Speaker 2: How is Alex? How was Alex? What'd you think of Alex?

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Speaker 10: He was, he was really nice, But it was just

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Speaker 2: But then why go out with him a few tures?

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Speaker 10: Well, he was, he was really nice. I was having

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Speaker 10: But like I've been out with divorced guys before, I've

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Speaker 6: Talk to us about dating older guys who never been

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Speaker 1: What are those what are those flags?

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Speaker 5: Well, just like.

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Speaker 10: Are they older? Are they still like in college? That's

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Speaker 10: But then but then some divorced guys are too are

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Speaker 2: So why older guys? Then sounds like the older guy's

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Speaker 10: I don't know. I'm just open to whoever is like

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Speaker 2: So just trying to wrap my head around for our

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Speaker 10: Okay, well there weren't even that many times that he

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Speaker 10: So like, I go back to his house and it's

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Speaker 10: He would be like, oh, what do you what do

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Speaker 9: Would look good. Like it was weird.

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Speaker 10: I was like auditioning to become his wife or something.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 10: He was like asking me about like my you know,

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Speaker 10: And that's just like I'm not trying to do that.

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Speaker 10: I'm twenty four. Like I'm just trying to have fun.

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Speaker 10: I'm not trying to take on the role of someone's wife.

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Speaker 10: But I mean, yeah, I'm just like not up for

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Speaker 9: That's all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we have Alex on the phone and I

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 9: A whole ouch number one? I mean is that really?

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Speaker 9: Oh how I come off? It's a bummer.

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Speaker 10: Okay, I did not know you on the line.

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Speaker 2: But that's good because we may not have gotten the truth.

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Speaker 2: And I think everybody's happy.

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Speaker 1: Alex. This is very constructive, Christian.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the most constructive you have done, crystal

448
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Speaker 4: clear position on this, So this is actually really good.

449
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Speaker 10: Yeah, Like I just like being more interested in me

450
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Speaker 10: as opposed to like how I would help benefit, your life,

451
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Speaker 10: your apartment, your your look, whatever it might be. But anyway,

452
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Speaker 10: you're really nice.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but this is the best kind of it

454
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Speaker 2: didn't work out scenario. Everybody gets everybody, and everybody's a

455
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Speaker 2: nice person. It's just that it's not for me. And

456
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Speaker 2: I like you, and you're a good person. You're a

457
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Speaker 2: good guy, and you're a good wiz.

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Speaker 1: You know. So Look, that's what we knew. We learned.

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Speaker 9: I didn't know. I can't. I didn't know. I can't

460
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Speaker 9: even off that way, you know. I guess I appreciate

461
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Speaker 9: hearing it. I am divorced, and I thought maybe I'm

462
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Speaker 9: less over that than I thought. But you know, it's

463
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Speaker 9: good to hear it. Good here and she rocks and

464
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Speaker 9: I'm sorry, you know whatever. I think she's really cool

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Speaker 9: and thank you you good good, good to hear, good

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Speaker 9: and bad to hear at the same times.

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Speaker 1: What's your age gap between the two of you.

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Speaker 10: Well, I'm twenty four.

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Speaker 1: And he got the legs.

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Speaker 9: I'm thirty seven.

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Speaker 4: I can't about thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was right, he was not wrong.

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Speaker 9: All right.

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Speaker 2: Well, hey, guys, thank you, We appreciate both of you,

475
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Speaker 2: and good luck on your search for the right person.

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Speaker 9: All right, thanks guys, thank you.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 2: All right, this is Kiss FM. Now some of the

480
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Speaker 2: things that social media can be good, some of them

481
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Speaker 2: not so good. This is actually deductive. This one here

482
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Speaker 2: a productive trend on social media. It's called the admin night.

483
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Speaker 2: Admin is something that is a word. Admin is a

484
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Speaker 2: word that makes I get afraid of admin. Yeah, it

485
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Speaker 2: makes me nervous, it gives me anxiety. But admin night

486
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Speaker 2: is something where you make social and admin project right exactly.

487
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Speaker 4: So think about all the admin stuff that we have

488
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Speaker 4: to do sometimes maybe it's our to do list. I mean,

489
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Speaker 4: it's like those emails that you need to respond to,

490
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Speaker 4: dentist appointments, all the stuff that you're just like, I'll

491
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Speaker 4: get to it eventually. Well, they're saying, have like an

492
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Speaker 4: admin night party with your friends. So everyone comes over

493
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Speaker 4: and everyone kind of kind of like handles that to

494
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Speaker 4: do list together. But you're like drinking, eating, having fun.

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Speaker 2: No, it doesn't work, You're not going to get it done.

496
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Speaker 2: The admin is you want to get all those tasks

497
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Speaker 2: like cleaning up my closet, cleaning up the clutter my

498
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Speaker 2: glove compartment, cleaning up my desk, Stroyers. You want to

499
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Speaker 2: get all of that done as fast and as efficiently

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Speaker 2: as possible by having people over, It's only going to

501
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Speaker 2: distract me. I'm a not going to do a good job.

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Speaker 2: I'm be not going to get through it. And see,

503
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Speaker 2: I'm not going to be focused. So I think it's

504
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Speaker 2: actually a terrible idea.

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Speaker 4: No, it is not a terrible idea at all. Think

506
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Speaker 4: about like all the random emails that you want to

507
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Speaker 4: unsubscribe to.

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Speaker 1: It's just I need to focus.

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Speaker 2: I can't do that and also listen to you talk

510
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Speaker 2: about whatever you're talking about. It's not I can't do that,

511
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Speaker 2: And I don't want to mix the two, like admin

512
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Speaker 2: needs to be torture and social needs to be pleasure.

513
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Speaker 1: Like otherwise I wouldn't know what's pleasure what's torture.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you have so much stuff on your to do

515
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Speaker 4: list that you don't get to have the social fund.

516
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Speaker 1: So why not just on a Sunday, Git.

517
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Speaker 2: Get up early on a Saturday, get this stuff done

518
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Speaker 2: in the morning with coffee.

519
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Speaker 1: It's the best way to do it.

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Speaker 4: Well, this is taking over for twenty twenty six. You'll

521
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Speaker 4: see you're going to be invited to my admin night

522
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Speaker 4: and you better come.

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Speaker 1: No kiss FM Sophia.

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Speaker 2: Here, the situation is you're you're kind of seeing the

525
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Speaker 2: sky skeletor I don't kind of, but you haven't made

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Speaker 2: it official yet.

527
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Speaker 1: So but you've been seeing him.

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Speaker 2: Regularly skeletor wow three years your senior the scout or

529
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Speaker 2: an older guy. Yes, and your friend has asked you

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Speaker 2: to wing with her and you don't know if you can.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so she wants to go out and actually, like

532
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Speaker 8: run a two man. And when you run a two man,

533
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Speaker 8: it's basically that you and your best friend you go

534
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Speaker 8: after two best friends. So you go, fine, two like

535
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Speaker 8: guys who are together as friends, and your friend takes

536
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Speaker 8: one and you take the other one.

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Speaker 2: Well, hold, hold, hold, but who takes one for the

538
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Speaker 2: team if you're not into one? Do you have to

539
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Speaker 2: take one for the team? Or they have vice versa?

540
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Speaker 2: Like what if the guys aren't equally as attractive? Like

541
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Speaker 2: do you go into the two men saying, okay, whoever

542
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Speaker 2: gets a cute one gets a cute one, and the

543
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Speaker 2: other one's got to take one for the two man team?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: You just sometimes you got to suck it up. But thankfully,

546
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Speaker 8: my best friend and I have opposite tastes, so usually

547
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Speaker 8: it works out in our favor.

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Speaker 2: Well, my opinion is, you can't run a two man

549
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Speaker 2: and go out with another man of the two men. Why,

550
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Speaker 2: you've got a boyfriend a boyfriend, but she wants it

551
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Speaker 2: to be and if you do this, it's gonna for

552
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Speaker 2: sure screwed up if he finds out.

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Speaker 8: That's what I'm thinking, Like, I feel like it's so disrespectful.

554
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Speaker 8: But then my friend she's like, well, you guys aren't

555
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Speaker 8: in a relationship and you're not official, and he hasn't

556
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Speaker 8: asked you, and this and that.

557
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Speaker 2: So, but your friend has the motive to want to

558
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Speaker 2: get you to do this because she wants to meet

559
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Speaker 2: the other man of the two man, so she's got

560
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Speaker 2: an agenda here.

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Speaker 1: This could really screw up your situation.

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Speaker 2: And your intention is probably to go out and kind

563
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Speaker 2: of pretend to be after this OA, but not really.

564
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Speaker 1: So I think it's a bad idea.

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Speaker 4: No, I say, keep your options open. This guy is

566
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Speaker 4: not making an official with you, and you know what,

567
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Speaker 4: it's fair game.

568
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Speaker 2: And to you, skeletor if you're listening, she's being offered

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Speaker 2: to go out and have a run.

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Speaker 1: A two man, so get on it. Bro get on.

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Speaker 1: It sounds intense.

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Speaker 8: He is listening, Thank you, Ryan.

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Speaker 1: Clock is ticking turned twenty one too. Things are going

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Speaker 1: to change.

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Speaker 2: Skeletor m sweating during this show. I actually perspire now,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's kiss FM. Yeah. I have those moments

577
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Speaker 2: where you have they call egg on your face. You

578
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: don't like get egg on your face. It's a moment

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Speaker 2: where you you ask somebody something and they don't answer

580
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Speaker 2: you back, or it's a form of rejection in a way. Actually,

581
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Speaker 2: I went to extend my hand to shake my hand

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Speaker 2: to somebody just yesterday, and they didn't see it, and

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Speaker 2: so I tried to slowly, casually bring it back down

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Speaker 2: to my hip pocket as if I didn't extend it.

585
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Speaker 2: But third party people saw me extend it knew that

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Speaker 2: I was blown off. Now, they didn't bring it up

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Speaker 2: and make it awkward. I didn't bring it up and

588
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Speaker 2: make it awkward, but we all knew it happened. Bekayla,

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Speaker 2: This is what you can relate to, right, this just

590
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Speaker 2: happened to you. What was the moment you had egg?

591
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Speaker 2: The expression egg on your face?

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 11: So I was at a friend's birthday party, and so

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Speaker 11: we had a lot of mutual friends there and he

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Speaker 11: waved at me, or so I thought, and I waved back,

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Speaker 11: and he was waving at the person that was next

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Speaker 11: to me, and I was so embarrassed because he walked

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Speaker 11: over and he walked over to the other person.

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Speaker 1: No matter what it.

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Speaker 2: Says about you, is your polite person waving to strangers.

601
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Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, you're a good person.

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Speaker 2: How about you at the restaurant and they say, enjoy

603
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Speaker 2: your meal before they can finish, you go you two?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I say, have a nice day, you too. Anyway, it's

606
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: egg on our face. We've all had it happen. But

607
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Speaker 2: it says you're a good person. You're polite, you're courteous.

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Speaker 2: You know what. You went out of your way not

609
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Speaker 2: to have that person feel bad. You didn't know who

610
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Speaker 2: they were waving to you, that's true, but out of

611
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Speaker 2: being kind and generous, you waved back and they didn't care.

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Speaker 1: Way I look at it.

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Speaker 10: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: One on two point seven kiss FM. I was gonna

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Speaker 2: do it for us this morning. One more thing before

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Speaker 2: we go. What's your favorite piece of equipment at the playground, Tanya?

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Speaker 1: I like a swing, me too. Because I pumped my legs. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to pump. What about you?

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Speaker 2: Isn't he the slide? You guys have a favorite playground

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Speaker 2: piece of equipment. Mikayla in the back.

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Speaker 1: Room, being too, How about Druby. I like the teeter totter,

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Speaker 1: of course you do. My kids always get hurt on

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Speaker 1: that thing. Be careful of the teeter totter.

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Speaker 6: But you can't do teeter totter alone.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was called a seesaw.

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Speaker 2: Is it not.

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Speaker 1: We're out of time this teater it's a sea saw

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Speaker 1: the same thing? Is it the same thing?

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Speaker 2: With me?

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Speaker 1: We'll come back tomorrow. I always called it a teeter totter.

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Speaker 1: But stay too, you guys confused, she said y