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Speaker 1: My girlfriend and friend tried to pull a cheating prank,

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Speaker 1: but didn't expect me to break.

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Speaker 2: Up with her.

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Speaker 3: That's the real prank, the loss of your relationship gotcha.

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Speaker 1: Well, I, twenty six male, broke up with my girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: twenty five female of two years because of something that

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Speaker 1: happened recently. And now my friends are saying that I

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Speaker 1: massively overreacted. But this comes from a user a match

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Speaker 1: character thirty one seventy eight on the r slash Okay

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Speaker 1: story Time style about it. So, a few days ago,

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend in a close mutual friend decided to play

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Speaker 1: a prank.

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Speaker 4: On why the prank was that they filmed the scenario.

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Speaker 1: They filmed a scenario where I caught them in bed

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Speaker 1: together pretending they were hooking up.

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Speaker 2: Why.

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Speaker 1: They had set up a hidden camera in the bedroom,

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Speaker 1: and when I walked in, I saw him in just

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Speaker 1: boxers and my girlfriend in just a bra and panties

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Speaker 1: straddling him, acting like they were hook up.

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Speaker 3: But the thing is that it's not even a prank

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Speaker 3: at that point, they're they're unclothed straddling each other. That's

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Speaker 3: not there's no prank that they did that.

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Speaker 1: Well, to make it even more realistic. It gets worse,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. They even made some noises and tried

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Speaker 3: So they were incredibly intimate.

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Speaker 1: Basically like you said, there they are in very.

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Speaker 4: Little clothing, getting all up in each other's girls.

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Speaker 3: Right, they're blocking the scene.

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Speaker 1: Very bad, very bad. I was shocked, furious, and immediately

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Speaker 1: like an actual betrayal. And then I walked out of

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Speaker 3: Was just a brank, It was just a brank.

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Speaker 1: And then they showed me the video that they'd been recording.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I felt completely betrayed, not just by

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Speaker 1: the idea of the prank, but also because of how

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Speaker 1: they had gotten undressed to film it. Yeah, and even

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Speaker 1: more than that. I know it's meant to be funny

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Speaker 1: to some people, but for me, it felt disrespectful and

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Speaker 1: I was hurt. The whole thing felt like a violation

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Speaker 1: of trust, even though I knew they weren't actually cheating.

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Speaker 1: I told her I couldn't be in a relationship with

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Speaker 1: someone who would do something like that, and I ended

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Speaker 1: things right there.

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Speaker 3: I think that's fair.

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Speaker 2: She's devastated.

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Speaker 1: They have just broken up, and our friends have been

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Speaker 1: telling me that I overreacted. They think it was just

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Speaker 1: a harmless prank and I should have taken it better.

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Speaker 1: But I can't shake the feeling that it crossed the

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Speaker 1: line for me, especially with how intimate and uncomfortable it

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Speaker 1: felt to see them in that situation, even if it

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Speaker 1: right decision. I'm starting to doubt myself because everyone else

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Speaker 1: seems to think I blew it out of proportion. And

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Speaker 1: we have an edit edit. I did not expect this

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Speaker 1: many responses. Thank you guys. She posted here earlier and

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Speaker 1: sent me a link.

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Speaker 3: To her posts.

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Speaker 4: We've got some reddit on Reddit action action.

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Speaker 3: I wonder what she like, how she's gonna try and

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Speaker 3: spin it.

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Speaker 1: I pray this is one of those long stories where

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Speaker 1: we get the other p of I'm praying.

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Speaker 2: I'm praying.

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Speaker 1: She posted here earlier and sent me a link to

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Speaker 1: her post. I know she wants me to watch the

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Speaker 1: video to prove it was all set up and planned,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like she still doesn't get that I'm

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Speaker 1: upset about her disregard and disrespect for me and our relationship. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to sign off for the night, but the

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Speaker 1: relevant commenters haven't signed off because we got some.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: Ah ah, says the massive A holes. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: would know about A holes. You know, it uses the letters.

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Speaker 1: So many months is a long. So there are things

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Speaker 1: that it's okay to joke about or print someone with,

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Speaker 4: Sophia's signature.

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Speaker 1: Fear of spiders A rubber spider in a drawer is fine.

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Speaker 1: Afraid of snakes put a rubber snake on your driveway

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Speaker 1: while your at work is fine. Not as abatable. But

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Speaker 1: we're gonna keep going where you afraid of poop fake poop?

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Speaker 3: You know what, I don't think I understand the concept

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Speaker 4: Let's talk about it after this, so thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, most people just drive over it or hit the brakes,

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Speaker 1: but this is not But this is not something to

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Speaker 1: prank someone with. You and her had an intimate bond,

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Speaker 1: I assume, and she decided to pretend to have an

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Speaker 1: intimate bond with someone else for a prank in film it?

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Speaker 4: Why why film it to post it online?

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Speaker 1: If they post it online, it's probably to make you

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Speaker 1: look bad, like you're such a weak man that even

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Speaker 1: though you caught her cheating, you still want to be

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Speaker 1: with her. Not the a hole. She was either going

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Speaker 1: Ope responds. I asked her what she planned to do

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Speaker 1: with the recording, and she said she had hoped I'd

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Speaker 1: come to find it funny too and be on board

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Speaker 1: with her posting it on YouTube. Why the fu she

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Speaker 1: would think that I would be remotely interested in doing that.

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Speaker 2: I will never know.

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Speaker 1: Doctor Lucia. Uh, you made the right decision. Other people

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Speaker 1: don't get to decide what sort of prank goes past

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Speaker 1: your line for pranks. This is true. If your ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend really was devastated, maybe she'll learn that trying to

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Speaker 1: pull elaborate pranks can backfire on her and she won't

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Speaker 1: do it to other people in the future. Not the

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Speaker 1: ahle Opie responds, thank you. I was going crazy with

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Speaker 1: everyone around me, gaslighting me into thinking I am overreacting.

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Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory. I wasn't even gonna say.

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Speaker 3: That at the end of it. They're gonna be like,

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Speaker 3: we pranked you. We actually do think that was crazy

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Speaker 3: for her to do well.

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Speaker 1: On one step further, they planned this whole the girlfriend

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Speaker 1: and like everyone in Opie's life plan saying, hey, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do this prank where you know, I'm pretending to

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Speaker 1: like make out what rev and you guys all have

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Speaker 1: to gaslight him into thinking he's wrong and it's just

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Speaker 1: one big We know he's gonna try to break up

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Speaker 3: And then totally destroy his entire worldview.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that Wow, wow, I love how we accidentally

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Speaker 1: created this experiency together. This environment sixty six twenty seven says,

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Speaker 1: not the a hole and you were not comfortable with that,

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Speaker 1: And that's okay.

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Speaker 3: Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.

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Speaker 1: Classic reddit, classic reddit response, do what you feel is best.

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Speaker 1: Uh And on a side note, there is no reason

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Speaker 1: to strip down for a dumb prank like that, lull

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Speaker 2: That's just disrespectful.

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Speaker 4: That's the thing I should disrespectful.

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Speaker 3: That's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Opie responds, this was a whole other thing. I told

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Speaker 1: her they didn't need to do that.

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Speaker 4: She said that she.

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Speaker 1: Was trying to make it more believable. On to twenty five, says,

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Speaker 1: so two adults who were comfortable enough being in their

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Speaker 1: are overreacting, Opie, I can't make sense of it either,

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Speaker 1: this environment, responds back. No, that's crossing a line and

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Speaker 1: can be seen as cheating by some. To be honest,

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Speaker 1: what was the point of the prank just to hurt

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Speaker 1: you for kicks and giggles. The whole concept of cheating.

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Speaker 1: Pranks are so stupid. Opie responds to that pretty much.

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Speaker 1: That's how I see it too, and she says I

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Speaker 1: am insane for equating it with cheating. Ultimately, what led

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Speaker 1: to the breakup was her not realizing how effed up

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Speaker 1: she was, how effed up what she did was, Which

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Speaker 1: I think is such a good point. He's like, it's

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Speaker 1: not even necessarily the prank itself, although that was like

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Speaker 1: we are at two different places of understanding to be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she refused to apologize.

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Speaker 1: Right's tragic away. Understanding thirty four says, not the ahole

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: They were nearly naked doing a prank that was designed

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Speaker 1: to cause you pain. They are at best insensitive idiots,

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Speaker 1: and so are the friends calling it a harmless prank.

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Speaker 2: It's not harmless.

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Speaker 1: The situation is something that causes harm, especially with how

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Speaker 1: even if it was even if it wasn't real quote unquote,

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Speaker 1: but it was real in a way. They might not

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Speaker 1: have had a spicy sleep in that instance, but she

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Speaker 1: was in her bra and undergarments straddling him. Why was

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Speaker 3: Crazy, But at least it's not actually being in a position.

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Speaker 4: That's better.

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Speaker 1: That's like third degree not fore Yeah, yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: That would be actually a bad prank. But that would

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Speaker 1: This was just doing what they did was intimate. It's

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Speaker 2: Each other in that way.

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Speaker 1: I am not fully convinced that nothing has ever happened.

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Speaker 1: The competent says, she can be devastated all she wants,

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Speaker 1: but hopefully this serves as a lesson to her to

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Speaker 1: Opie response to that, I've never considered it might even

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Speaker 1: be real to some extent, but yeah, come to think

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Speaker 1: Darth pimpin sixty nine says, I'm curious whose idea it was.

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Speaker 1: If it was the ex girlfriend, then that's messed up.

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Speaker 1: If it was the friend, it wasn't a prank. He

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Speaker 1: wanted to break you up. Yeah, yet a third conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 3: Lots of conspiracy theories.

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Speaker 1: Whoa Opie says, Apparently they came up with the idea

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Speaker 1: together a few days before they did it. Q Tatum

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Speaker 1: seventy four says, easy reality check. If you had done

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Speaker 1: that to her, what would her the action be? Ask

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Speaker 1: your friends the same thing, not the a hole, Opie responds.

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Speaker 1: She said she would have been shocked at first, of course,

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Speaker 1: but then found it funny, knowing how jealous she can get.

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Speaker 4: I don't believe it for a.

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Speaker 1: Minute, and she's yeah, I'm even more in the camp

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Speaker 1: of they cheated together and are trying to find some

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Speaker 1: elaborate ruse to like cover up if someone brings up

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Speaker 1: the past. I think so infinite Wish seventeen sixty three says,

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Speaker 1: not the a hole. How does your girlfriend of two

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Speaker 1: would find funny? Another great point, Even if you prank

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Speaker 1: each other all the time, she should know you and

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Speaker 1: what you would find actually funny. If you're not laughing,

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Speaker 1: it's not actually a prank. It's just them hurting you

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Speaker 4: How is he justifying your ex.

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Speaker 3: Someone else shook the bed Mormon style.

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Speaker 4: Bro, it's just a prank.

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Speaker 1: She says she's hurt by this accusation. Sassy Taquito says,

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Speaker 1: I told him off for partaking in this and cut

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Speaker 3: it would take for him to get back, Like, did

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Speaker 3: Because I'm just wondering if he like, let's say he

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Speaker 1: God, there are like ten conspiracy theories here. All of

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Speaker 4: The original post.

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Speaker 1: This is just hot off the press, So this is

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 4: And this is the post.

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Speaker 1: Yes, girlfriend, it's a Krushers miracle everyone. So uh, ex

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Speaker 4: Am I the a hole? So got him?

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Speaker 1: So my boyfriend posted here a few hours ago and

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Speaker 3: Just really add a couple of perspectives in here, maybe

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Speaker 1: I planned the cheating prank with our close mutual friend

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Speaker 4: This is not helping, This is not helping your case.

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Speaker 1: We went down the rabbit hole and ended up watching

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I just said, they both came up with it.

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Speaker 1: He said that he would do one with me, and

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Speaker 2: But me know, I digress.

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Speaker 1: We set up the camera and filmed ourselves talking about

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Speaker 3: It's even worse. They were unclothed on top of each other,

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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, because I was gonna say, is got into position?

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Speaker 1: Does that mean there are they literally just like just

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Speaker 1: That's a whole nother kind of soaking, you know. Late Uh.

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Speaker 1: To make it believable, I told him to take off

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Speaker 3: Oh, come on, this is classic. This is a classic line.

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Speaker 3: This is like when you're like, oh, it's so hot

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Speaker 3: in here. No, no, liar, I've never done that.

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Speaker 4: That seems like it would be top five in Riley's.

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Speaker 2: Book.

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Speaker 4: So then he thought it.

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Speaker 3: This is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: This was a terrible idea, but I agreed to it.

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Speaker 1: You know how the rest of the story went from

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Speaker 4: Okay, so to be clear from earlier.

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00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 1: So we have proof they didn't assume position until he

444
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 1: opened the door and then presumably ten seconds later or less.

445
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, walked in to them.

446
00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: Kirsten says, I've also seen like like fake cheating pranks

447
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: with mannequins. She wanted to be safe. If she want

448
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: to be safe, I'm sorry she could have used a mannequin.

449
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 3: I mean, if she wanted to be safe, she wouldn't

450
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 3: have taken off her clothes.

451
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 1: If she wanted to be Yeah, she wouldn't even entertain

452
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 1: the life let.

453
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 3: Alone, suggests Yeah.

454
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, like and and again like, yes, they didn't have

455
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 1: a conversation about it, but it's like one would hope

456
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 1: that after this long, you would know your partner well

457
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: enough to at least have some sort of inclination onto

458
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: whether or not they would like this. My girlfriend loves

459
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 1: prank videos, but some of them I've watched with her

460
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 1: and I'm like, these are insane, Like they are like

461
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: like worse than this.

462
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 3: Yea, I had to watch a lot of prank videos

463
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 3: back in my thumbnailar days and they were crazy.

464
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 4: That's true. That is true that.

465
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 3: I was like, these are insane, and you should know

466
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 3: what an actual prank is to study.

467
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 4: Well, they were bad, so I understand.

468
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 1: The next girlfriend continues, I understand that this prank was

469
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 1: extra and hurtful to him, and for that I am sorry.

470
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: But I am not cheating on him, and I did

471
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: not mean to disrespect our relationship. I think him breaking

472
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: up with me is a massive overreaction because other than

473
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 1: this incident, which I now massively regret, our relationship was great.

474
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 1: We shared two wonderful years together and moved in together

475
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: over the summer.

476
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 3: So there it is, there, it.

477
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 2: Is there, it is.

478
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 1: We don't want to go back to pay in full rent. Okay,

479
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: it's expensive out here. I plan on deleting the video

480
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 1: and won't be sharing it on social media, but I

481
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 1: will share it with him first for proof of my intentions.

482
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 4: And everyone voted that the girlfriend.

483
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: Was the a hole.

484
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 3: Shocking.

485
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: Now we have a response from op coming up. How

486
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: are we feeling of the girl right now?

487
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 2: Chat?

488
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 3: The same the same, not redeemed herselves?

489
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 2: She did.

490
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 1: She did apologize barely.

491
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like she apologized for Reddit. Yes, but

492
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 3: it doesn't seem like anywhere does she actually feel remorse

493
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 3: for her actions.

494
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 4: I I one hundred percent agree. The lawyer.

495
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: Princess says it takes just one bad day, responding to like, oh,

496
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: we've been together for two years, exactly absolutely you can.

497
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: You can you know, build up trus for years and

498
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 1: lose it in literally one second by doing something terrible.

499
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 3: Built in a day, and it was also destroyed, not

500
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:36,400
Speaker 3: in a day.

501
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: But Sophia Donner twenty twenty four, almost twenty twenty five, Uh, I.

502
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 3: Could do a lot in the day, is my point.

503
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 4: This is true.

504
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: Cherylde says, Uh, stripping down to your skivvies with a friend,

505
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: quote unquote is a holary for sure. Sophia Collen says, worse,

506
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 1: she isn't understanding where where he's coming from. I think

507
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: I think that is honestly the biggest like piece of

508
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: the puzzle here and and is correct because again it's like, Okay,

509
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 1: if she like doesn't fully understand where I'm coming from

510
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 1: and why I'm so hurt about this, what else is

511
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: going to transpire in our relationship that she's.

512
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: Just not gonna understand, that.

513
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: She's not gonna understand, and she's not only gonna hurt

514
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: me in those instants, but then have the same dismissive reaction,

515
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: not like uh acknowledging and uh appreciating my feelings exactly.

516
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, so true, so so true.

517
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 3: Bug says, why would you want to put your partner

518
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 3: through that shock? Anyways? Just gross? Again, Like I just

519
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 3: I feel like being in a relationship is like avoiding that. Yes,

520
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 3: that moment of like feeling like your partner betrayed you.

521
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: Absolutely, like the fact the fact that she was she

522
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: snitched on herself. She said that she was the one

523
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: that suggested the idea to him and that, and then

524
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: I think, like you were saying, like it kind of

525
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,479
Speaker 1: became a thing where it's like actual, like like cheating,

526
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, like, oh, why don't we take

527
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: a shirt of Oh why don't take our pants off?

528
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 4: Like ooh what if what if we get on top

529
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 4: of each other? Oh what if we?

530
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

531
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: I will say the only conspiracy theory that I think

532
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: that we thought of that is probably not true is

533
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: that they were filming a spicy video. I think they

534
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 1: did actually set up a prank, But I do believe

535
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 1: that even if they didn't consciously realize it, they were

536
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: like essentially yeah, lightly.

537
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 3: I mean, there's no way there was no butterflies going

538
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 3: on there? You know exactly what if we don't know

539
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 3: took off our pants. It's it's too much, it's too much.

540
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 3: But you know what's not too much? This story?

541
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 2: Opie's response, who the ex girlfriend?

542
00:26:58,720 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 3: Hat?

543
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: So we have we have some some comments where where

544
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 1: where Opie responds to it. So Scott saywe Scott sway

545
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: Hey says, get another friend to watch the video. Opie says,

546
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 1: all our friends watched it and said it was obviously

547
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 1: just a prank and I should not be breaking up

548
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: with her over it. Save Turtles eleven twenty six says

549
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: what does the video show that they did? And what

550
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: does he specifically have to say for himself? Man to

551
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: man about betraying a friends trust for a prank that

552
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: wasn't even remotely funny. Opie says, never saw the video,

553
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: so that confirms that, and I stopped answering his messages

554
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:43,399
Speaker 1: and calls. Academic respect twenty seven eight says, OPI, you

555
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: say you watch the video. In the edit, you say

556
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 1: you haven't watched the video, leaning towards this post being

557
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:51,959
Speaker 1: a prank.

558
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 2: Hmm, oh, they're.

559
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 3: Like you said that you haven't watched the video, but

560
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 3: like earlier, you said that you did watch the video,

561
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 3: so I don't trust this post.

562
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: Hmm. Interesting.

563
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 1: The guy girlfriend made a new Reddit account apparently, Opie

564
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 1: says in my original post, I said they showed me

565
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 1: the video as I was leaving the house.

566
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 4: I should have clarified they were.

567
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,479
Speaker 1: Chasing me, waving the camera with the video recording, and

568
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: we're trying to show me the recording, but I left

569
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: the house without seeing it. I haven't seen the video

570
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:29,640
Speaker 1: as of yet. And now we get into the big update,

571
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: new updates. My ex girlfriend was really upset with all

572
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: the hate she received online and blamed me for painting

573
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: her in a bad rind.

574
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 3: You painted yourself girls a self portrait.

575
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 4: It wasn't a painting, it was a picture because it's

576
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 4: all reality.

577
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 3: Oh it was a video actually?

578
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: Ah? Yes, I told her I did no such thing.

579
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: She just didn't like that she got called out on

580
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 1: her behavior. The mutual friend, who is part of the

581
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: prank is now also pissed off at me, saying I

582
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: went way overboard. What's that saying about the pot and

583
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: the kettle? I told him I told them both to off,

584
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: and I have blocked their numbers. Our friends have since

585
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: started taking this more seriously after reading some of the

586
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,719
Speaker 1: comments on here, with a few taking my side and

587
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: saying what my girlfriend and the friend did was horrible.

588
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 3: Too little, too late, a little too late.

589
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: Honestly, others still think this was all unnecessary and I

590
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: just should have just laughed it off and moved on now,

591
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: Opie responds, before deleting his account.

592
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: This is such a drop the mic.

593
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 4: But we're only halfway through the story.

594
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 3: So this is isn't just more comments.

595
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: We're gonna find out Penelopie shots says that was one

596
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: heck of a crap test.

597
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 4: They were trying to pull on you. How much of

598
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 4: a simp.

599
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 2: Is match character? A little? Which is Opie?

600
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: If they could have convinced you to get over it?

601
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: They figured they could convince you every time she was

602
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: cheating with him or did something else to massively disrespect you. Uh,

603
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: you have a strong backbone and you're not afraid to

604
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: use it. Also, how often do they hang out alone

605
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: together for hours at a time. Looking at TikTok, clearly

606
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: he doesn't think she's a platonic friend and she knows it,

607
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: thus her suggesting this prank and suggesting that she take

608
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: her clothes off for it. So why are they hang

609
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: out alone, which is a.

610
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 4: Very good question. I'm also very curious about. Yeah, I'm

611
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 4: breaking up over the prank.

612
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: It's the TikTok thing, scrolling for hours watching TikTok prank, cheating.

613
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 3: Cheating, TikTok pranks. Pretty damn.

614
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,959
Speaker 1: It seems like they're trying to communicate without words, but

615
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: like every other without saying, hey, I want to hook

616
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,479
Speaker 1: up with you, but every other possible way, like well,

617
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: let's watch a bunch of cheating videos.

618
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 4: Oh, let's take off her shirts.

619
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 3: That's the thing. It just feels like, uh, like a line,

620
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 3: you know, Like it just feels like line that they're

621
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,719
Speaker 3: using to not outright say it.

622
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: But yes, they should be politicians because they could get

623
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: away with so much stuff, with all this crap. Opie says,

624
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I never thought he had malicious intent. He would sometimes

625
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: come over and hang out with her when I'm at

626
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: a friend's house or at the gym or busney working,

627
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: same with our other male friends. It's fed up that

628
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: she's so comfortably took off for clothes in front of him,

629
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: already blocked both, I do have to say real quick

630
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: shout out to op for his security because a lot

631
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: of people would not be like I've had many female

632
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: friends and all that stuff. Like a lot of people

633
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: and like everyone's temperament is different, which is fair. You know,

634
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: you you can come together and figure out the terms

635
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: of your relationship.

636
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 2: That's fine.

637
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of people would not

638
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 1: have been secure enough to not have a problem with that. Yeah,

639
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: not that it's bad to have a problem with that necessarily.

640
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: I like the zero BS tolerance that they had. That

641
00:31:59,240 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: was good.

642
00:31:59,680 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

643
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

644
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: And then and then when it crossed his line, He's like, Okay,

645
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: this is cross my line.

646
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 2: I'm out.

647
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm exactly a lot of self respect.

648
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 4: I kind of like Opie, kind of this is good.

649
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 4: This is a good I grab a few drinks with him,

650
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 4: watching him drink.

651
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: Would you pull any pranks with him? Uh? Well, Penelope

652
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: Shots responds back to that, do you hang out alone

653
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: with female friends while their significant others work. It's not

654
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: something guys do unless they are interested in women.

655
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 3: Not true, that's not true.

656
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, Penelope Shots say, stating in that's not true,

657
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: Miss Shots, brothers and sister.

658
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but also, but that's the thing, like, you you

659
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 3: can have a relationship.

660
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: And her allowing it made him think that she was interested,

661
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: and you allowing it made him think that you were

662
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 1: a sucker and he didn't respect.

663
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: This is the wrong lesson to take away.

664
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have any guy friends coming over to hang

665
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: out alone while my husband is at work.

666
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 4: It gives the experience of my impropriety because it ain't kosher.

667
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 3: How old is?

668
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Speaker 1: Penelope shoots old enough?

669
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Speaker 3: Oh bother, I can't have another man folk the parls

670
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 3: and see my ankles.

671
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: Well, Opie responds, no, I don't. I trusted her and

672
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: trusted her to respect our boundaries, but she clearly wasn't

673
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: worth the takeaway.

674
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 3: That's the takeaway.

675
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: She wasn't worth trusting it. Opie's like, sorry, I'm self secure. Yeah,

676
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: hey John, we don't trust you.

677
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 3: We still don't trust you.

678
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: We will never trust you.

679
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: Trespastors will response, OPI, you are right, you are right,

680
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: and how you reacted right to dump her and right

681
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: to cut off the friends. No sane person would think

682
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: this was anything other than hurtful. What blows my mind

683
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: that she wants you to watch the video so you

684
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: can see her true intentions.

685
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: But what were her true intentions?

686
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 1: She wanted it to be as real as possible, to

687
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: inflict the most amount of shock and pain on you.

688
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: How the heck does she think that that will somehow

689
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: exonerate her and make all of this okay. Her actual

690
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,280
Speaker 1: intention was to hurt you. That's the point of the prank,

691
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: To make someone feel extreme pain and then extreme relief

692
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: that the source of the pain isn't real. To treat

693
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: your pain so lightly, to treat your relationship so lightly,

694
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: to treat straddling him in undergarments so lightly, all premeditated,

695
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: not wasted, not thoughtlessly, spur of the moment, actual plotting

696
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 1: to think of how to make you feel as much

697
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 1: pain as she could. I think you probably dodged a

698
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: bullet in ending things with her. She feels like the

699
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: kind of girl who will be telling you that the

700
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: guys she kissed at the bar didn't mean anything, or

701
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: the things that she did with the spicy dancer on girls'

702
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: night was just girls having fun, just girls being girls.

703
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: I think she exposed a basic values gap between you

704
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: that would surely have come up again in another context

705
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: the longer you stayed with her, which, again, like we said,

706
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: at that is seem I would I would say, is

707
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: one of the most important pieces here is just this

708
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: giant gap that it's just a misalignment, It's just not

709
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense for the relationship. Opie says, Honestly, what

710
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: a waste of two years. I thought I knew her

711
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: and she knew me. I am not entertaining watching the

712
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: video of her straddling that guy and nothing but their undergarments.

713
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 1: Water Boy fifteen twenty three says how wasted were they

714
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: to come up with that scenario? Did anyone else know

715
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: about the prank? I mean, I guess since they recorded

716
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: it to catch your response, it would be a lame prank.

717
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 4: But it seems weird.

718
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: I've heard of more disturbing pranks between couples, but they

719
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: were really effed up and they're crazy. Kind of seemed

720
00:35:59,960 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: to match. Doesn't appear to be the case here with

721
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: both parties. OPI responds with two words, completely sober, stone cold,

722
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: stone cold, not stones. But that's the end, uh, Rightley,

723
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: we have another story, right we do? We got another story.

724
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, just to quickly sum it up,

725
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: I mean, did op do anything wrong?

726
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 3: No?

727
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 4: I think I think Opie.

728
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: You know again, I suggested in the beginning, like, hey,

729
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: maybe good to just take a beat and whatever else.

730
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: But I don't think he's like wrong in how he

731
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: approached it. That's just a alternative approach. But I think

732
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: Opie was very self secure.

733
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 2: He didn't.

734
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: I think he did that because he knew he might

735
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: cross a boundary, like like attacking the guy. And you

736
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: know what, he knew, he knew his lines. He was

737
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: self secure.

738
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 4: I'm not bad.

739
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it. I agree Conker, But.

740
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 1: You know what else, I like this next story, this

741
00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: next story. My fiance suddenly does want to marry me

742
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: anymore because of a disagreement we had a year ago.

743
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: What now, I don't know.

744
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 3: Why are you gonna hold on to it for a year.

745
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: By the way, it's male thirty two and female thirty two?

746
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: So hi everyone. I have been with my fiance, Lola

747
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: Ola for almost seven years, and we've been engaged for

748
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: two of those years. We have twins together, male and female.

749
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: Three cute, and I thought we were happy. But this

750
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: comes from a throwaway bad manners too on the ur

751
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: slash okay stort time super it. So about a year

752
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: ago we had a small fight slash disagreement about how

753
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: she was raising our kids. But after receiving some feedback

754
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: from Reddit, I was able to see that I was

755
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 1: in the wrong and I was being incredibly offensive towards

756
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: my wife. This was on a different account that I

757
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: lost the info for, but everyone is very helpful, so

758
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: thanks again. I apologized and she seemed to accept my apology,

759
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: and I thought things were back to normal after all

760
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: of that. She seemed to be her normal self again

761
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 1: and we didn't argue slach disagree about that topic anymore.

762
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: In fact, we hadn't even had a minor disagreement for

763
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: months after that.

764
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 4: I thought we were happy.

765
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 1: Well. We were originally planning to get married last year

766
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: October of twenty twenty three, but she ended up changing

767
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: her mind and saying she wanted to push back the

768
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: wedding a bit. I was a bit confused, and she

769
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: wouldn't really elaborate on why put ic you in the

770
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: comments if you see why with your ICU. She just

771
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: said it was stressful to plan a wedding with toddlers

772
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: and she needed some time, so I agreed. Well, she

773
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: just dropped a bomb on me out of nowhere a

774
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: few days ago when she randomly stated that she doesn't

775
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: think she wants to get married anymore. This was heartbreaking

776
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: to hear, of course, and I asked that we sit

777
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: and talk it out. She ended up telling me that

778
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 1: she doesn't think we are compatible after seven years question mark,

779
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: and that she thinks that we should go our own

780
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: ways and co parent. I am devastated. I pressed for

781
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: more information, like what made you realize this and why now?

782
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 1: And she basically says she felt like I didn't really

783
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: know her and that I didn't want to know her.

784
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: I thought this was ridiculous. I know everything about her.

785
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: I know her favorite color, movie and song, I know

786
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: her favorite food. I can read her body language extremely well.

787
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: Just to say when you're like she says, she doesn't

788
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: feel like I know her. I know everything, I know

789
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: her favorite color.

790
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 3: It's pretty pretty surface level.

791
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 4: That'll Hey, listen, people say your favorite color.

792
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: Is a key to their heart.

793
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 4: Ooh, it's what everyone says, Sofia's true. It's a quote

794
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 4: and effect.

795
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: It's a quote like why is it your favorite color?

796
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: That's important?

797
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 2: Now we're getting deep.

798
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 4: Now we're getting deep.

799
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 3: Where is your favorite color?

800
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: When your favor this is getting this is getting this

801
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 1: is too much, it's too much.

802
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 2: I'm getting uncomfortable.

803
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: So I do know her. We've been together for years.

804
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 1: She said a few more things, and apparently she's been

805
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: thinking over our relationship since that fight happened, since that

806
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 1: fight happened a year ago. She said it was eye

807
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: opening for her and that when I let her see

808
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: the post and she looked through all the comments, she

809
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: realized things about me that she had swept under the

810
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: rug for years and blown off as one time issues.

811
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: She went on a whole spiel about all these things

812
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: she had realized about me and how she didn't think

813
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: we should be together anymore. I don't even know what

814
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: she means. I think I zoned out for most of

815
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 1: her rant. Guys, he's so attentive, he's so.

816
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 3: I know everything about her. She was talking to me.

817
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 3: I don't know what she said.

818
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: But like like Tom Brady's record, I mean like he's

819
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: just like he's just so great, you know, and just

820
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: like thinking about that. And then she's like, so what

821
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 1: do you think? And I was like, uh, I think

822
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: you're the freaking best, babe. I know your favorite color.

823
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 2: Let's do this.

824
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 3: No, I've literally never zoned up.

825
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: So I zoned out for most of her rant because

826
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: I was blindsided and hurt by this, and I was

827
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: trying not to break down in tears, not because he

828
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 1: was thinking about Tom Brady's foot Archard, Okay.

829
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 4: I offered to.

830
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,959
Speaker 1: Go to couples counseling and individual counseling, but she said

831
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: it was too little, too late, and that I should

832
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,839
Speaker 1: have done that. Slash offered that a year ago when

833
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: this all blew up. I don't even know what to

834
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: do now, and I think it's a bit unfair for

835
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: her to put all of that on me, just because

836
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: I don't think of therapy after a minor disagreement a

837
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: year ago, all caps, I'm no longer someone she wants

838
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: to marry.

839
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 4: That's insane, Opie says. I don't know what to do.

840
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: How can I get her to give me another chance

841
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: to see that I still love her and we can

842
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: make things work. What can I say to make her

843
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: change her mind? I'm so lost and I don't know

844
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: what to do. We have an edit, but super quickly.

845
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: Oh Bro just doesn't get it.

846
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 3: But I know he doesn't get it. Yeah, No, Like

847
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 3: reading this, it really feels like he's like, I don't

848
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 3: understand why she's upset, Like she told me, but I

849
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 3: didn't listen.

850
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 1: Like, the only thing I could say here, and I

851
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: think that uh Opie's partner, basically from what she said,

852
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: was like, hey, it wasn't until like I really sat

853
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: down with myself and had had time to connect the doctor,

854
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, took off the rose tinted glasses essentially that

855
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: I fully realize like how I feel about you and

856
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: us in this relationship. And now that that's happened, I

857
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 1: kind of feel like I see the clear picture, and

858
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: that clear picture says to me that we are not

859
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: compatible and we shouldn't need a relationship.

860
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 3: But it feels like she was probably saying the.

861
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: One and only thing I think you could possibly critique

862
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: her on is like, well, keep me more in the

863
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: loop as you're doing that.

864
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 3: That's what I was gonna say, because I don't. I

865
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 3: do not like that she took a year, yeah, to

866
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 3: then tell him. I think that he's probably missed more

867
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 3: than a few cues. Yeah, But I do think that

868
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 3: waiting a year to tell someone, Hey, I'm still upset

869
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 3: over this thing, and I don't I think we're you know,

870
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 3: working when you're parenting together. I think maybe there should

871
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 3: have been more.

872
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, I feel some I feel some sympathy

873
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: for her because I you know, if this is how

874
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 1: like Opie reacts everything, I could see a world where

875
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: it's just like it's hard for her to bring up

876
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: these things because it's so non receptive. But at the

877
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: same token, it doesn't make for a healthy relationship dynamic

878
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: to withhold like just communicate everything like as quickly as possible,

879
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: because then you can actually like come to a consensus

880
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: and work on it.

881
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 2: And yeah, I.

882
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 3: Don't think I don't think a problem. If you've never

883
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 3: brought up a problem and then you bring it up

884
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 3: as a way to break up, I think it's I mean,

885
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 3: you can do whatever you want, but I think it's

886
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 3: it's maybe not the best practice.

887
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: I agree that they I think maybe an alternative route

888
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 1: that could have happened here is like, like, for instance,

889
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: he did suggest couple's therapy. I think she could say, like, hey,

890
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: this is where I'm at, where I'm feeling, but yeah,

891
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: let's go to a couple's therapy. Let's like have a

892
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: third party help us like walk through this process. Not

893
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: to say and hey, that doesn't even mean she has

894
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 1: to stay in the relationship just as a means of like, Okay,

895
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: let me like use this to now to at least

896
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: we're you know, the year is past, where we're here,

897
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: where we're at, where we're at, but let's have the

898
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: conversation like goods to therapy and talk about it. I

899
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 1: don't know, let us know what you think of the comments,

900
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: because I'm very curious. It's it's a very like nuanced

901
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: dissection of it. But I'm very curious to what you

902
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 1: all think.

903
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 3: But we're very nuanced here, very there's a lot of context.

904
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's also a lot of edits here and

905
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna freaking read it to your face. I think

906
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: it might be a good idea to link the original

907
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: post with the details of our disagreement, as some people

908
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: are asking for the details and accusing me of avoiding

909
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: the question. So the post can be found here, Riley,

910
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,479
Speaker 1: if we could click that, we're gonna check. We're gonna

911
00:44:56,520 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 1: check into that, uh, and then I'll read this. In

912
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 1: the meantime, I feel that you all have given me

913
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: a lot to think about and reflect on.

914
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 4: Thank you.

915
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 1: I will no longer be replying to the comments, So

916
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna we're gonna pause right here and we are

917
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: gonna see the original post. So we're gonna read the

918
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: original post real quick, and then we're gonna.

919
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 4: Get right into the update. Let's go.

920
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: So, am I the a hole for demanding my fiance

921
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: stop teaching our kids bad manners? I see you, Hi,

922
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: Everyone using a throwaway because I don't went this on

923
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: my man, but I would like an outside opinion. My fiance, Lola,

924
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: and I have been together for five years, engaged for

925
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: a little over a year, and we have twin boys,

926
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,959
Speaker 1: boy and girl two and a half. Also, just real quick,

927
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: Opie literally never mentioned her culture or anything in the

928
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: original part of the.

929
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 3: Post because he knew that he was in the wrong.

930
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: Yes, and to me, that proves he doesn't care. Just

931
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: saying our wedding is in two months. Lola usually takes

932
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: care of feeding the kids in the morning since I

933
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: work early, and so I never noticed this until recently.

934
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: I took a week vacation from work to just spend

935
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 1: time at home with my kids and Lola and started

936
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: to notice something that bothered me. Lola has been teaching

937
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: our kids bad table manners and sees.

938
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with it. I'm getting angry already.

939
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: I hadn't noticed this before, as they didn't eat this

940
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: type of food for lunch, dinner, snacks, or eat it

941
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: all the time. So I guess they just missed it

942
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: as I wasn't home or she fed them other things

943
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: on the weekends. This morning, I was helping Lola make

944
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: breakfast and then I got the kids ready while she

945
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: brought their food out for them. As as they were

946
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: getting ready to eat, I noticed that they didn't have

947
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 1: any fork slash spoons. So I told Lola I would

948
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: get them, and she said there was no need. I

949
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: watched instead, and she gave the kids tortillas and she

950
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 1: ripped it into pieces that they were using with their

951
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: bare hands to grab the food using pieces of the

952
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: torch off bro.

953
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 3: That is a utensil.

954
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: No, you know what they should have known the should

955
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: have harder pieces of tortillas. Some call them chips and

956
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: then use that to eat it with.

957
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 2: Literally, this is crazy.

958
00:46:56,680 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 3: Literally this is oh my god, that off Oh my god.

959
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: But I bet you if he was if they were

960
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 1: using chips, there would be no problem. And could we

961
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: say even if h this even if it was like

962
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: my mom all the time, she's like, oh, John used

963
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: to like take spaghetti with his hands and just like

964
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: shove it all over his face because he's a fat

965
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: little baby.

966
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 3: It's cute.

967
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: They're three, they're two, like my.

968
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:31,919
Speaker 1: God, Like maybe again in the spaghetti scenario, maybe be like, hey,

969
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: you know.

970
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 2: Should be like eventually teach them.

971
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 3: You know, like but not like what pisses me on

972
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 3: talk to me because right before this, Opie says I

973
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 3: didn't notice because she had been feeding them different food,

974
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 3: which implies that they are using utensils for different food.

975
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 3: So it's literally just specific to different foods. And I'm like,

976
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 3: the thing that pisses me off here is that clearly

977
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 3: they do know how to use work and knife they like,

978
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 3: they clearly already know because he hasn't noticed it before,

979
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 3: and so it's literally just dependent on what food they're eating.

980
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, and again, it's a tortilla. It's a tortilla.

981
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 3: It's meant to use that, like it's like using I

982
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: mean like it's like using a tortilla.

983
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 4: They're doing what they're supposed to.

984
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:14,720
Speaker 3: It's a taco.

985
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 4: Hello, tacos with your head?

986
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 3: Are you are you cutting up the taco?

987
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: Because tacos are bigger and that's like proper eating And

988
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:28,400
Speaker 1: God gave us forks to eat. I'm I hope it is.

989
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,720
Speaker 1: I mean this so we're gonna keep going as painful

990
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,919
Speaker 1: as it is. I asked her what she was doing, uh,

991
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: and that she should be giving them utensils, But she

992
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: seems shocked that I was concerned, and said that's how

993
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: they always eat it. I told her that she was

994
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 1: teaching them bad manners and making them think that it

995
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: was okay to just grab food with their hands. She

996
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: told me they do that anyways when they have chips

997
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:50,799
Speaker 1: or grapes or tacos and pizza, and listed a bunch

998
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: of other snacks and fast food you eat without utensils.

999
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 1: But I pointed out that those things are usually made

1000
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: to be eaten quickly or on the road like fast food,

1001
00:48:58,320 --> 00:48:59,319
Speaker 1: and utensils aren't needed.

1002
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 4: What do you think the tortilla is for?

1003
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:03,240
Speaker 1: My brother?

1004
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 4: She said.

1005
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: I was being offensive by calling her way of eating

1006
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: gross and saying that it was having bad manners. But

1007
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: I do think it's gross to see someone grabbing at

1008
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: food with their bare hands like that.

1009
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 3: Well maybe you should freaking wash your hands, you dirty.

1010
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: A.

1011
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: Can you wash your brain? Can you like scrub out

1012
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: all of them?

1013
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 3: He makes me so angry. This man has never had

1014
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 3: Indian food. This man has never well, he's clearly had

1015
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:29,919
Speaker 3: never had any cultural food.

1016
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 4: Dude, the dipping, the nod and not in any sauce.

1017
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, the knot. You grab the rice and the curry,

1018
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 3: you eat it up, numb.

1019
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: I'm getting hungry, Stop hungry, Stop it.

1020
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,280
Speaker 3: It was small though.

1021
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 4: Oh, Sophia, sweet, sweet Sofia.

1022
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 1: She said she grew up eating like that and would

1023
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: always use tortillas to eat things like egg like eggs

1024
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: or meat, rice, beans, et cetera, and that it wasn't

1025
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: gross because she's always made the kids wash their hands

1026
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 1: before they ate. I grew up having my kids forks,

1027
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: having forks for them to eat, which they didn't want

1028
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 1: to use, which made me even more frustrated with her

1029
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: because now they're used to this. Lola has been really

1030
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 1: annoyed the rest of the day and wouldn't let me

1031
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: help her with lunch, and earlier she was walking around

1032
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: the house speaking to someone, probably her sister, in Spanish

1033
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 1: about me, and I'm starting to feel a bit annoyed.

1034
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 3: He probably also never even try to learn Spanish.

1035
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 2: Zero percent? Am I the a hole?

1036
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 3: Yes? I hate you, brother, Yes, you're the a hole

1037
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 3: and I hate you.

1038
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: So update, Hi everyone. We're still in the contact post here.

1039
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,919
Speaker 1: So hi everyone. This will likely be the last post

1040
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: I make on the situation, as everything seemed to be

1041
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: final about how oh it is not. This one is

1042
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: made with my excess permission, and she will read it

1043
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: over beforehand, as she thinks I am an unreliable narrator. Yes,

1044
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: first of all, we have broken up good. She gave

1045
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: me back the ring. Even though she said she didn't

1046
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: have to and she could pawn it and keep the money.

1047
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: She didn't want to do that and give it and

1048
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: gave it back to me. I think I will put

1049
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: it myself and give her the money. Since she has

1050
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: moved out of the house. She moved in with her

1051
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: brother and his partner, who is actually able to get

1052
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: her a job where he works, and she is apparently

1053
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: starting next week. Even that is like oh her brother, surprise, surprise,

1054
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: Like her brother just subtle.

1055
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 2: Microaggressions. I believe we.

1056
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 1: Will split our time with the kids since she said

1057
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: she was able to get shifts that align with my schedule.

1058
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 1: I have a pretty flexible schedule, but I prefer to

1059
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: work the same day slash times every week, so we

1060
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: will trade off the kids when each of us is

1061
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: at work, and we are going to split the weekends.

1062
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: We are going to get a custody agreement, but we

1063
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: talked about it and agreed to a fifty to fifty

1064
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: split and are going and we are both going to

1065
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: be cooperative, as I don't want to stress her out

1066
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: and I do want to see my kids. I will

1067
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: also be brushing up on Mexican culture. The one thing

1068
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 1: he's like, yam.

1069
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get the dust off of my one book.

1070
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's one page.

1071
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 3: It's his Spanish seventh trade a textbook.

1072
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 4: Oh my god, como se dce.

1073
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: I will be also brushing up on Mexican culture so

1074
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: that way I am able to participate in things with

1075
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,840
Speaker 1: my children, and I am looking to take some Spanish

1076
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 1: classes as well so.

1077
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 4: I can communicate with them in both languages.

1078
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: I showed my wife the post the day after I

1079
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: made it, and she read it over and read all

1080
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: my comments and a lot of other comments.

1081
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 4: She took like two days to do this.

1082
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: Afterwards, she said she wanted to talk and asked me

1083
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: if I was serious when I claimed that I thought

1084
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,439
Speaker 1: she wanted to break up because of the one fight

1085
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: about the food I said yes, because I was serious

1086
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: and did think that, and she said she couldn't believe me.

1087
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,359
Speaker 1: I asked her to elaborate, and she got very mad

1088
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: and asked me if I was really oblivious to my

1089
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 1: own actions. I realized that I probably had been oblivious

1090
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: to my own actions and that I've been selfish, and

1091
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: she kind of blew up and said something and asked

1092
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: me if I need an effing.

1093
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 4: List so I could see all of the crap I've

1094
00:52:58,320 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 4: been doing.

1095
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: I told her I would appreciate it if she could

1096
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 1: communicate some of the issues and there was no need

1097
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: for a list, and she said that a list would

1098
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 1: probably lessen the chances of me losing focus while she

1099
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: went on a ranch.

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Speaker 4: On a rant ouch but deserved.

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00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: We ended up having a long talk about it, and

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00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: she wanted me to include this in the post, so

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00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: out it below. Note these are just the things that

1104
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: happened since the fight about the foods, so that's.

1105
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:23,720
Speaker 2: Just going to contain things.

1106
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,240
Speaker 1: When one of her nieces had a kinsinera, I kept

1107
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 1: calling it a sweet sixteen is.

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00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 3: Not even a sixteen, just fifteen.

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00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 1: She has since explained to me multiple different times that

1110
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: they were different, had different meetings, different cultural significance, and

1111
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: different practices. Which fifteen and she's fifteen, not sixteen exactly,

1112
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 1: Sophia said.

1113
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 3: Dumb, idiot.

1114
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 1: She said, I still called it a sweet sixteen when

1115
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: I would talk to people about it or mention it.

1116
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: She said, I also embarrassed her at the party because

1117
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: she felt that I was making fun of how.

1118
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 2: Her relatives were dancing.

1119
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 1: I believe that I to this day sometimes call her

1120
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 1: her Spanish instead of his spanis Latina or Mexican.

1121
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

1122
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,720
Speaker 1: She said that there's a big difference and me slipping

1123
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: up and forgetting is bs because.

1124
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:07,720
Speaker 3: She's not from Spain.

1125
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: Literally, idiot, this is something that like again five or

1126
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 1: six years and he just don't know. When she was

1127
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: pregnant with the twins, I told her she could give

1128
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: them names that are miss that are pronounced in Spanish

1129
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:22,720
Speaker 1: so that her non English speaking family could say them easily,

1130
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: and also since they are half Mexican.

1131
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 3: Wait, so okay, my interpretation of that is he's like,

1132
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,240
Speaker 3: you can call her Maria and then just be like Maria.

1133
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so that way.

1134
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, He's basically saying, like, give them, you can

1135
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 1: givens that are pronounced in Spanish, but non English speaking

1136
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: family could say easily yeah, okay, that's yeah, basically like, hey,

1137
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to like, uh, we can give them

1138
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 1: a Hispanic name, but don't make it.

1139
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 4: Too don't go too much.

1140
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 1: We agreed that she could so long as I could

1141
00:54:58,560 --> 00:54:59,879
Speaker 1: choose which name was.

1142
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 3: So as long as I can pronounce them.

1143
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm the final say Anyways, she said that

1144
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 1: I have not held up my end of the deal,

1145
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: and that uh we uh, and that when we were

1146
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 1: at Christmas with her family in December, I obsessively corrected

1147
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: her family members when they pronounced our daughter's name Elena

1148
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: and kept saying.

1149
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 4: It's Lena, Lena.

1150
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 2: I think so.

1151
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: According to her, I did this more than six times

1152
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: that night and she stopped keeping count. I don't know,

1153
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 1: is he is he correcting the people for the correct

1154
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 1: Spanish pronunciation or the English pronunciation.

1155
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 3: They are trying to pronounce it in a more like

1156
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 3: the spin the true correct way, and he's like, no,

1157
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 3: it's Alena. Yeah, And they're like.

1158
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: Like he's he's he's he's going too hard on it

1159
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: right on this.

1160
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 3: He's trying to make it more americanized.

1161
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 4: Oh I see gotcha. Okay, that's what I'm trying to

1162
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 4: clear up.

1163
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 1: So I didn't let her feed the kids Mexican stew

1164
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: she made because it looked spicy. I genuinely thought it

1165
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 1: was bro is just telling on himself so hard as

1166
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: crazy spicy.

1167
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:15,439
Speaker 4: It's vanilla babes up. It's just spicy, she said.

1168
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: She told me that she hadn't used spicy peppers, but

1169
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: that night I fed them something else before the soup

1170
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 1: was done, and she said I disrespected her and her

1171
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: parenting skills. She feels like she is not allowed to

1172
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: listen to her music or any Spanish music because I

1173
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: will complain or change a song. She said that she

1174
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: can only listen to your music when I am not home,

1175
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: otherwise I will change it within a few seconds. She

1176
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 1: said that there were other smaller examples there, but these

1177
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: are the bigger ones that she had already mentioned brought

1178
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 1: up before, and nothing had changed when I asked her

1179
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 1: why she stayed.

1180
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 4: With me for so long, and she didn't mention any

1181
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 4: of these things.

1182
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: More. She said that she'd always had low self esteem

1183
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 1: and she thought I was a good person slash partner

1184
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: other than these things. So she talked herself out, so

1185
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: she always talked herself out of taking a break, but

1186
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 1: she was just over it.

1187
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: Now.

1188
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: The thing is that she listened off really opened my

1189
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,879
Speaker 1: eyes and made me realize how selfish and unaware I've been,

1190
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: and I know that I.

1191
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 2: Needed to change.

1192
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: I apologize to her. I know it won't change her mind,

1193
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: but that's okay. I just wanted her to know that

1194
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: I do not regret my actions. I am not going

1195
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 1: to ignore her or gray rock her like some people

1196
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: were suggesting.

1197
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't even know what that is, like stonewalling. Okay,

1198
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 2: thank you.

1199
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 1: As I want to remain amicable for our children, I

1200
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: want us to have a good communication, and as I

1201
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: don't want our kids to grow up with parents who

1202
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 1: hate each other and can't have a simple conversation. Thank

1203
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 1: you to everyone who left comments, especially the ones who

1204
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: are harsh. I always want to correct a typo on

1205
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: my last post where I said we were going to

1206
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: get married in October instead of twenty twenty three. In

1207
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: October twenty twenty three, it should have read October of

1208
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: twenty twenty two.

1209
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 4: Correct me if I'm wrong, Riley. This was like the

1210
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 4: year ago, so it went.

1211
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 1: It went. First post we read and then we went

1212
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 1: back a year, and then this one is present time,

1213
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: if that makes sense. So okay, okay, so we've now

1214
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: we're now fully caught up. Yeah, we're fully caught up.

1215
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 1: In this new post that we just read, Schmid says,

1216
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: how can you be racist and get with a Hispanic woman?

1217
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't get this guy. There are many people that

1218
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: lots of people do it like and and many times,

1219
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: like op they don't even realize it. And maybe, if

1220
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 1: we're gonna really really give them the benefit of doubt,

1221
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: their ignorance could be like they're not even trying to

1222
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: do it. Possibly, but there are many scenarios where someone

1223
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: gets with someone of another culture and they are like

1224
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: Opie listened out, like he snitched on himself. He did

1225
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: this so many times where he was doing these microaggressions too,

1226
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: like he won't let her play her music, he won't

1227
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 1: let her have the kids eat, like how the culture

1228
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: spicer food probably.

1229
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 3: Much more like able to handle that he is.

1230
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and again it's like not even necessarily always two

1231
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,959
Speaker 1: spice or whatever. It's the disrespect that he shows. She's like, no, yeah,

1232
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:04,439
Speaker 1: drado force. They are trying to whitewash their partner op

1233
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: is like, this is totally outside my cultural norms.

1234
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 4: I'm I'm so yeah. All in all, like.

1235
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 1: Sophia divorce or not divorce, I.

1236
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 3: Think, is that like they could have maybe come around

1237
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 3: had Opee not jump to breaking up. Well, I mean

1238
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,439
Speaker 3: they not even divorce, just break up, yeah, because they're

1239
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 3: not married. But Opie just kind of assumed that the

1240
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 3: relationship was over. Yeah, and his partner was like, what

1241
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 3: are you talking about? I just wanted to hold off

1242
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 3: of marrying you. Yeah, and then he continued with the breakup.

1243
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1244
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 3: So not only did he like completely disrespect her culture

1245
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 3: and her and her parenting, he just broke up with her.

1246
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: He just like doesn't get it on every single level,

1247
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 1: like every single level. And like, now, were there moments

1248
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: where he was like like, Okay, I wanted to do

1249
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty split, I want to sell the ring

1250
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: and give for the money. Yes, but he he has

1251
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 1: to realize and acknowledge the whole laundry list of other things.

1252
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 2: MJ.

1253
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: Grow says, I know, we made too many WASP males

1254
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 1: that marry non white females and try to erase our

1255
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: identity and culture.

1256
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 2: Like it happens. It happens.

1257
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 3: So mean misogynists merry women all the time.

1258
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 1: Man, go so but so divorce, divorce, divorce, and we

1259
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: are going to divorce this episode because it's over.

1260
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 3: Sorry dang, but if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

1261
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 3: We Love you and Cinema.

1262
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

1263
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: Time for okop rewam. This is also insane because they

1264
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: want to fire me for someone cheaper. Fine, all follow

1265
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: the rules and burn this place to the ground. Here's

1266
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 1: how my job was design and write software for big

1267
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: high value customers NERD. And if these high value clients

1268
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 1: liked our work, they would go to a big engineering

1269
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: team who would build.

1270
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 2: Out the rest of the products.

1271
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: Occasionally, I would run a prototype for a few months

1272
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: while the customer was thinking about if they want.

1273
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 2: To go all in, I'll go all in.

1274
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: But Sam, yes, tell me, these projects require a lot

1275
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: of data. Okay, I'm talking even when it's compressed over

1276
01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 1: a terabyte of data.

1277
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 2: That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot. Are

1278
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 2: we talking like like like video data? Are we talking

1279
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 2: just like text? Code data?

1280
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 4: Text?

1281
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 2: Terabytes of text? Terabytes of text is insane. Especially I

1282
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 2: have a fun fact for you, John Oh, if you

1283
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 2: were to guess all of Wikipedia, Yeah, how many gigabytes

1284
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 2: if you just have the text version of text? Yeah?

1285
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 2: And then how many gigabytes for the images?

1286
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 4: I'm gonna guess kind of lower.

1287
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: Five hundred gigabytes eighty eighty gigabytes eighty all of Wikipedia.

1288
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 2: Wikipedia. That a sane six or six or twenty five

1289
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 2: million articles. That's insane. Wow.

1290
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: I would have guessed more articles. Honestly, they have a

1291
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: ton and it's maybe it might be sixteen million or yeah,

1292
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: I would have guess one hundred honestly, undred million. I mean,

1293
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: I'm I'm wrong, probably, but well, many things out all

1294
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: we're talking in just English, Okay, okay, gotcha. Now, having

1295
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 1: done all this work over the years, I've accumulated a

1296
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: small farm of hard drives from past projects. Oh yeah, which,

1297
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: as you can imagine, could be very useful if a

1298
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 1: customer needs old data. Like a customer comes back and like,

1299
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 1: hey do we have do we have the data?

1300
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 2: Like I got it in my my hoarding storage of

1301
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 2: my small army. Yeah, my my graveyard of freaking hard drives.

1302
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 2: I'm just imagining.

1303
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 1: I uh, have you seen the episode of SpongeBob where

1304
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 1: he gets really buff and has like pink arms, like

1305
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 1: buff arms. I'm imagining there's a bunch of hard drives

1306
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: with tiny buff pink arms that are just like freaking

1307
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 1: soldiers just like guarding that data.

1308
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 2: If you guarding the data, ready to go to war

1309
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 2: to protect your data?

1310
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 4: Now that cybersecurity bro.

1311
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 2: But also this guy is sitting on a treasure trove

1312
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 2: of like fucking overpower literally.

1313
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 1: Like probably millions worth of projects oh data.

1314
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you could I mean you could do anything

1315
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 2: with that data. You could could sell it online, You

1316
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 2: could do anything to that data. Just they can do

1317
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 2: anything to these cheeks. Oh, but here's the thing, Sam,

1318
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 2: what is the thing? The kicker? Oh, kick me, daddy,

1319
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 2: I will.

1320
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: The company refused to ever buy hard drives for this,

1321
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: so I own all of the hard drives with the

1322
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 1: customer data. That's like kind of shitty because a terabyte

1323
01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: hard drive is like sometime I like one hundred to

1324
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 1: three hundred bucks.

1325
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 2: Like nothing for what this is.

1326
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's a lot for individual, it's a lot,

1327
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: But it's like for a company, it's like why would

1328
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: you not? Yeah, like you shirk that that's potential, like

1329
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: probably a million dollars of potential value for like one

1330
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks exactly insane. But OP owns all

1331
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: of it, okay, and it saved me a lot of

1332
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 1: time just buying them myself. I ended up buying like

1333
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 1: one or two a year until I accumulated ten terabytes

1334
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: of hard drives.

1335
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 2: So man has ten hard drives. I guess he was

1336
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 2: explaining like, oh, so many. I was expecting like like

1337
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 2: hundreds of hundreds, just to give you a uh, to

1338
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 2: give you an audience, an idea. In my hand, I'm

1339
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 2: holding three terabytes, this is this is two, this is one.

1340
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 4: Well wait, wait to minimize the big reveal.

1341
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: But he spent he spent one thousand dollars on all

1342
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: the drives over the years.

1343
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I mean that's it's it's a decent nothing.

1344
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 2: It's not nothing. It's not nothing.

1345
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: But then unexpectedly the entire management changed, and the new

1346
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: management thinks that they can replace the new management thinks

1347
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: they can replace the old software guy with the cheap,

1348
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: stupid new software grad.

1349
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 2: Fuck the new software grad. So guess what're your engineering

1350
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 2: degree from? Cal State Wichita?

1351
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:30,840
Speaker 4: Fuck?

1352
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, cal state bumfuck can get you anywhere in this industry? CSBF,

1353
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 2: do you think I've been I've been coding since since

1354
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:47,240
Speaker 2: you were, since you were learning your first I was

1355
01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 2: learning my first programming language when you were never learning

1356
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 2: your first English language.

1357
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 1: A little bitch, you know, learn some damn respects. Yeah,

1358
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: for your elders. And it gets sweeter, Sam. So they

1359
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: gave me two weeks to train the new guy before

1360
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm laid off.

1361
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 2: That's so shitty, dude, just so.

1362
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 1: Humiliating, so humiliate, Like, you're fired in two weeks, but

1363
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 1: before you go, you're training the guy just.

1364
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:18,439
Speaker 2: Like everything that you've learned. Can you just like tell

1365
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 2: that that new guy so we could we really want

1366
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 2: to fire you, you're too expensive, just like give all

1367
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 2: of your expertise to the new guy. That's that's a

1368
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 2: pretty shitty business practice.

1369
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: Super super slimy move, super slimy move. And Opie says, yes,

1370
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 1: it's blatant age discrimination, but impossible to fight. So I

1371
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: just went for a graceful transition to the next job.

1372
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So he said he did train, He did train,

1373
01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 2: not knows new engineer, then knows Brad is learning.

1374
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: Except except I have one thousand dollars of personal disk

1375
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 1: drives with old customer data that I own okay, and

1376
01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: the company insists that ex employees have to take any

1377
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 1: company data off of drives that they own. So they

1378
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 1: like the company owns, but he owns the drive. He

1379
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 1: owns the drive, so he has to delete all of

1380
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 1: the customer data.

1381
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 2: Hhmm, okay, yes, or he has a transfer it to

1382
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 2: another He has to he has to to get rid

1383
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 2: of it.

1384
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 1: Okay, he will, he will choose his method wisely. Okay,

1385
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 1: let's hear now. I don't want to leave the drives

1386
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 1: at the company, but they insist I delete all data

1387
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 1: before taking them home.

1388
01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 2: So I give them two generous offers.

1389
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: They can buy them from me or I will eventually

1390
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: use them for something else, but I can leave the

1391
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: data on them in case anybody needs it. But nope,

1392
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 1: they refused my options. The new manager insists I delete

1393
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 1: all data and all backups before I remove the drives.

1394
01:07:55,800 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is very short sighted. I have a feeling

1395
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:02,000
Speaker 2: Karba is gonna.

1396
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 3: Circle around pretty quick.

1397
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 1: So I said, okay, and that's what I did. I

1398
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 1: deleted all the data everything. Six months later, I got

1399
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: a flurry, a rush of desperate phone calls. Turns out

1400
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 1: new software grad has been unable to build any new

1401
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 1: prototypes whatsoever.

1402
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 2: All of the old all of the old high.

1403
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: Ticket customers are calling to get their old prototypes updated,

1404
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: and the new software grad has no idea how to

1405
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 1: do that. It went all the way up to the

1406
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 1: executive VP, who is now calling me and begging me

1407
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:42,560
Speaker 1: what would it take to bring me back to do

1408
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 1: my old job.

1409
01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 2: My response, crawling back from the back. Please, I need

1410
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 2: your hair. Please, I beg of you.

1411
01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 3: Way in the tunnels is the lightest fading.

1412
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 2: The clients are leaving. We're dying.

1413
01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 5: Resuscitate us, read that life and do a desperate lungs.

1414
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 5: We plead for just another hour, another hour of existence.

1415
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:15,679
Speaker 2: But you know Op's response, dam what, Sorry, I got

1416
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 2: a new job. Yikes, Yo, I'm busy, bro. Maybe you

1417
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 2: could freelance, though I just charge a ridiculous amount.

1418
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:26,120
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe, But I think I think OP is going

1419
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: for the sweet delicious revenge angle. It's revenge that you

1420
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 1: can't put a price on the sweetest rivenge.

1421
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Good revenge worth its weight

1422
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 2: in gold.

1423
01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 1: And then I told them, even if I did, I

1424
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: can't modify the old prototypes because you made.

1425
01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:47,799
Speaker 2: Me delete all of them. Fucking idiots, idiots, idiots.

1426
01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:50,840
Speaker 1: If I did want to modify it, I would literally

1427
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:55,320
Speaker 1: have to recreate everything from scratch. They do still have

1428
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 1: the code, but all of the data is gone, so

1429
01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:03,719
Speaker 1: basically everything they have is useless. Sorry, you screwed yourselves

1430
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: exactly like I told you what happened. Hope whatever you

1431
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 1: saved by hiring the cheap new grad to replace an

1432
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:13,640
Speaker 1: experienced programmer was worth it.

1433
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 2: I feel so bad for the cheap new grad. Yes,

1434
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 2: he did nothing wrong. Like imagine that you just did

1435
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 2: his college and like, oh man, I can't wait for

1436
01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 2: my first job. Yeah, and they put you into something

1437
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 2: that like you are totally unqualified for and then you're

1438
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 2: just like desperately trying to keep above water, but you're drowning.

1439
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 2: And then you're like, your fuck because no one's going

1440
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:42,680
Speaker 2: to hire you after that if it was such a

1441
01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 2: catastrophic failure.

1442
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 1: And you're and the employees is never going to be like, Okay,

1443
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: you know, we're we're ditching this old guy, you know,

1444
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 1: you know for you, like he's probably he's probably coming

1445
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: into oh I'm just going to join the company, and

1446
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,760
Speaker 1: then he's like everything falls on him. It's true, he

1447
01:10:56,960 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 1: was the innocent mindstander Yeah, yeah, I feel I feel.

1448
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:08,240
Speaker 2: Worse, worst, worst, I feel worst for for mister newcra Hey.

1449
01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:14,439
Speaker 2: Hopefully find another great job. Denny's Subway.

1450
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:17,720
Speaker 4: You know they're they're hot burger king. You know they're

1451
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 4: they're the king.

1452
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:22,680
Speaker 2: So you know, maybe you program that cash register. There

1453
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 2: we go talk. You know, there's still gonna be work

1454
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 2: for you, just maybe not in this field exactly. Sorry, sal.

1455
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 1: If you like this story, check out this one where

1456
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 1: they overwork OP. So they decide to destroy the company

1457
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 1: about deleting the.

1458
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 2: Files, burn it to the ground. Huh okay op.

1459
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 1: These are the scariest stories on Reddit. Countdown to Halloween.

1460
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 1: The neighbors invited me for dinner. All of my survival

1461
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:55,759
Speaker 1: instincts told me, I'm in danger.

1462
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 2: Not a dinner party you want to go to?

1463
01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:00,559
Speaker 1: No, not not, not, not very inviting. My next door

1464
01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 1: neighbors are an odd bunch. Sure, they have a bunch

1465
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: of top of the line furniture vehicles, and everything was

1466
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 1: honestly quite outdated. It looks like everything was old but

1467
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 1: in between aged and antique, so they honestly kind of

1468
01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:16,879
Speaker 1: just looked ugly. But like I said, everything looked really pricey,

1469
01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:20,320
Speaker 1: like expensive. Paying me down space. I say next door neighbors,

1470
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:23,680
Speaker 1: but they're really a couple miles to my right. We

1471
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 1: all live in an expansive closed community, all with really

1472
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:30,360
Speaker 1: nice houses and acres of wilderness separating us. It's honestly

1473
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:32,600
Speaker 1: quite beautiful, and if anyone has the money to be

1474
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 1: able to live in one of these areas, I would

1475
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 1: highly recommend it.

1476
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 2: Some real estate advice.

1477
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that, as long as the neighbors aren't

1478
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 1: quite like these ones. I get it, they're rich, they're eccentric.

1479
01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 1: Those often go hand in hand. But these people in

1480
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 1: general have just always put me at unease. When my

1481
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: wife and I were invited to go to their place

1482
01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 1: for dinner, I was an'n ecstatic about it, but my

1483
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:58,639
Speaker 1: wife convinced us to go and just check the place out.

1484
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 1: Maybe they were simply miss up understood the invitation was

1485
01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:08,480
Speaker 1: a literal invitation. When I say outdated, I mean really outdated.

1486
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 1: We had a letter hand delivered to our residents by

1487
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 1: their butler, who.

1488
01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:15,639
Speaker 2: Also gave me the creeps by their butler.

1489
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 1: By the butler like this makes me think of like

1490
01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 1: Scooby Doo weird butler coming from the manor to like

1491
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: deliver this key mysterious invitation.

1492
01:13:23,960 --> 01:13:27,479
Speaker 2: I'm almost imagining like a red wax seal. Yeah, yeah,

1493
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 2: you have to break the seal, and it's coated in blood.

1494
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:33,200
Speaker 1: I could definitely see that. We opened it to find

1495
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:38,280
Speaker 1: the invitation beautifully handwritten inside with amazing calligraphy. The letter,

1496
01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:42,720
Speaker 1: word for word went like this, Welcome mister and missus redacted.

1497
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:46,600
Speaker 1: Sorry for such a late welcoming letter. We seldom have

1498
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: the time for such formalities, but found some time for tomorrow.

1499
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 1: We would be most grateful to have you both for

1500
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:58,160
Speaker 1: dinner over at our manor and would love to share

1501
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 1: our rich, familiar culture with.

1502
01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 2: You and your wife.

1503
01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 4: Hope to see you soon, Sincerely, the redacted.

1504
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 2: If someone calls their home a manner, run.

1505
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 1: Literally the same run exact. I thought the same exact thing.

1506
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 1: Something about the letter felt wrong, but when my wife

1507
01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 1: shrugged it off, so did I. The day came to

1508
01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: go over to their manner, but of course she came

1509
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 1: down with a stomach bug and couldn't make so now

1510
01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 1: I had to go alone.

1511
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 2: Oh, don't go into a strange person's home alone.

1512
01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 1: I would not have done split up. Come on, say

1513
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 1: you have hockey practice or something. I rived there on

1514
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: what I supposed was on time, since no time was labeled.

1515
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:49,040
Speaker 1: I got there around four pm and was greeted with

1516
01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:52,719
Speaker 1: an extremely attractive young man and woman. They were already

1517
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 1: outside of the front door when I showed up, and

1518
01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 1: something told me they were waiting there for a while,

1519
01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:02,600
Speaker 1: like you just got the feeling they were just standing.

1520
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:05,599
Speaker 2: There, standing there, watching, waiting, very so creepy.

1521
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 1: Everything about these people was flawless but dated. Perfect skin,

1522
01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:15,160
Speaker 1: perfect clothes, perfect teeth, perfect hair. It felt like I

1523
01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 1: took a step backward in time. The only thing that

1524
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 1: truly looked old were their eyes. I worked at a

1525
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 1: nursing home as an adult, and I could recognize old

1526
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,679
Speaker 1: eyes anywhere. Walking into their house was truly a blast

1527
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:31,639
Speaker 1: of the past. It felt like I really time traveled,

1528
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 1: except everything was covered in dust from lack of use,

1529
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 1: except for the kitchen and dining room, which was already

1530
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 1: set up magnificently. We had small talk in the dusty

1531
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: lounge area for a couple of hours before we began

1532
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:48,519
Speaker 1: to eat. Nothing really stemmed from the conversations, but while

1533
01:15:48,520 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 1: I felt awkward from it, they kept on smiling, but

1534
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: not really with me. They smiled at me.

1535
01:15:57,560 --> 01:15:58,240
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

1536
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm just imagining a smile. It's just like the transfixed look,

1537
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 1: and you're just smiling, like where it goes from warm

1538
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 1: to creepy.

1539
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:06,559
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1540
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 1: When we finally went over to the dining area, we

1541
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: passed by a door that was halfway open and faint

1542
01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 1: noises could be heard from downstairs. I guess my body

1543
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: language showed an interest because the woman announced there was

1544
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:21,840
Speaker 1: nothing to be seen down there, twirled her fingers, and

1545
01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 1: the door magically slam shut. I thought I must have

1546
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:28,519
Speaker 1: been seeing something, but they kept heading on, so I followed.

1547
01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:31,599
Speaker 1: Every survival instinct inside of me told me to leave

1548
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: right away, but I wouldn't be telling the story if

1549
01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:37,639
Speaker 1: I did. We sat down to eat and started off

1550
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 1: with some wine. As soon as the first ship hit

1551
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:44,439
Speaker 1: my lips, I felt an instant craving to eat. They

1552
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 1: must have noticed, because they sent out butlers with food

1553
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 1: to me, well really only meat. I began to devour uncontrollably,

1554
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:54,320
Speaker 1: failing to notice at the time what I was eating.

1555
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 1: They just sat there was eating watching. Yeah, so they

1556
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 1: bring out literally just meat, no other sides, vegetables, fruits, salad, nothing.

1557
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 1: I ate about three times what I normally could stomach.

1558
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: In about half the amount of time it would normally

1559
01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:13,719
Speaker 1: take me for a regular meal. After that, I felt

1560
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: extremely bloated and sick, as one normally would after going

1561
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: through such an endeavor of eating. Then they brought a

1562
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 1: glass of liquor for me to drink, saying it's an

1563
01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 1: old family remedy that will make me feel better. I'm

1564
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 1: not the biggest fan of liquor, but in order to

1565
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:30,839
Speaker 1: not offend them, I pretended to drink it anyways. Besides,

1566
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 1: every cell in my body told me not to drink that,

1567
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:39,800
Speaker 1: and something was wrong. Even the whiff of vapor from

1568
01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 1: the drink made me feel unnaturally tired. Deciding that I

1569
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:46,799
Speaker 1: needed to purge what I ate immediately, despite it tasting

1570
01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:49,600
Speaker 1: so good, I feigned stomach issues and ask where the

1571
01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 1: nearest restroom is. They told me through the kitchen and

1572
01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 1: to the left. I get up and walk to the kitchen.

1573
01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:57,160
Speaker 1: After I was out of sight, I walked a little faster,

1574
01:17:57,400 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 1: almost breaking into a light jog. I noticed absolutely no

1575
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,839
Speaker 1: one was in the kitchen right now, and found it finished.

1576
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 1: Looking around, I noticed mine and my wife's photo laying

1577
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:11,639
Speaker 1: on one of the counter their photo, their photo.

1578
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 2: They had something planned. Why was it there.

1579
01:18:15,120 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 4: Curiosity got the best of me, so I took a

1580
01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 4: detour to take a look.

1581
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,599
Speaker 1: I probably should have left by now, but I needed

1582
01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:25,240
Speaker 1: to find out why that photo was there before I

1583
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:28,720
Speaker 1: headed over. Something in the invitation came to mind after

1584
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 1: seeing a cookbook next to the picture. Next to the

1585
01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:36,640
Speaker 1: photo was an old, tattered, handwritten cookbook already opened to

1586
01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 1: a page. I didn't pay much attention until I saw

1587
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:43,560
Speaker 1: a very detailed drawing of the human anatomy. There was

1588
01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:46,280
Speaker 1: no title on the page, but it was the last

1589
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:50,040
Speaker 1: words on the page that shook good. Flesh is most

1590
01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 1: potent when victim consumes its own kind. And then my

1591
01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:56,919
Speaker 1: stomach gurgled.

1592
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 2: He was eating human flesh.

1593
01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:01,880
Speaker 1: She was eating human flesh. And potentially my theory, it's

1594
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 1: a picture of him and the wife. The wife had

1595
01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 1: some sort of stomach issue and said she couldn't make it.

1596
01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:09,080
Speaker 1: Was it potentially the wife that they took for the

1597
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 1: hours while they were talking, They they took the wife.

1598
01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: They took the wife. He was chatting with them for

1599
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 1: hours before they ever went to dinner. She had a

1600
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 1: stomach bug. Eating their own kind could be interpreted as

1601
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 1: just eating another human.

1602
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:25,519
Speaker 2: Or he ate his wife or he ate his wife.

1603
01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 4: Oh god, and the drink that they gave him was

1604
01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:29,840
Speaker 4: his wife's blood.

1605
01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 1: Maybe not his wife's blood, but basically it was some

1606
01:19:34,360 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 1: sort of chloroform like substance that would have knocked him out,

1607
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 1: so that way, like the quote says, after he consumed

1608
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:46,200
Speaker 1: the flesh of someone else, his flesh would be better

1609
01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:46,799
Speaker 1: for consumption.

1610
01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, cannibals are fricking insane. Yeah, all right,

1611
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 2: I'm not going to sleep tonight. Yep.

1612
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 4: Yeahsh no sleep. You have successfully done the job.

1613
01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:00,439
Speaker 2: Geez animals.

1614
01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:02,479
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1615
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