Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who
Speaker 1: talks back? What's up, y'all, it's your girl, a J.
Speaker 1: Welcome to a new episode that we talked back. Okay,
Speaker 1: high energy, I see you, a J. I like that
Speaker 1: about you today. Look, but my my iron kind of
Speaker 1: lower though, manigy feel load to day. Damn what you
Speaker 1: don't sound like it? You don't sound like how you
Speaker 1: feeling on the inside. Hey, y'all, listen me tim bam.
Speaker 1: I love y'all. Welcome back. I'm glad to have you
Speaker 1: here today. How was your weekend, a J. I did
Speaker 1: nothing girl. Okay, first of all, let me tell you
Speaker 1: how about the weekend went all right? So I ain't
Speaker 1: a motherfucking t bitch. I was about to make up
Speaker 1: some ship to appease y'all. Dren so sick as you say.
Speaker 1: I ain't did nothing girl. I'm granny pussy. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Granny pussy, Granny, My granny go out working that Granny
Speaker 1: p be in the house. Bit girl, just make up
Speaker 1: some ship. We know. I see, y'all. I'm in her
Speaker 1: close friends. I've seen her popping pussy on their hands
Speaker 1: stand this weekend and her close friends. I'm sorry, girl,
Speaker 1: I wish I might the last time I was on
Speaker 1: my head like that, bitch, I might have been thirteen. Now.
Speaker 1: I have a neck fucked up a couple of times
Speaker 1: over the years, but this got bad and never grown.
Speaker 1: Man and tm J like that that top that doge
Speaker 1: piece off? That ain't it? Hell? Yeah? What the funk
Speaker 1: you had going on? Girl? I had COVID again. Bitch. Oh,
Speaker 1: I forgot I had alive today. Your asked was definitely dead.
Speaker 1: Over the goodness, I was dead over the weekend. I
Speaker 1: felt so bad that ship had my head on. Motherfucking
Speaker 1: Throb couldn't have leave helping. I took a leave. I
Speaker 1: spoke some crack, nothing worse. I took anything and everything
Speaker 1: to try to knock their head egg out. Baby. I
Speaker 1: was on the bathroom floor, on the black room floor. Okay,
Speaker 1: But I feel so much better today. I'm so happy
Speaker 1: to still be here with y'all because that COVID ain't
Speaker 1: no joke speaking of that, and he's still out here
Speaker 1: speaking of that. Rest in peace to k slay Man
Speaker 1: saw that, Yeah, you know he. I didn't realize he
Speaker 1: wasn't still in the hospital. They said he'd been in
Speaker 1: there for like four months. I wonder if he had
Speaker 1: any um pre existing health issues. That's crazy as hell, man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's saying men. He was only five years old. Yeah, yep,
Speaker 1: Nigga's dying who we never even died before? Every time,
Speaker 1: every time it is wicked. She is real wicked. I'm
Speaker 1: so grateful to still be here. Guy chose me to
Speaker 1: stay another day. Thank you. You know, evil never dies?
Speaker 1: Evil never die? Is that how you feeling about your looks?
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on this be sound about ninety five,
Speaker 1: rocking and rolling because evil is that? Why? Is that
Speaker 1: why I embraced my light and dark side? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: it is what it is. I embraced my light in
Speaker 1: darkness too. But I wouldn't consider myself evil. I could.
Speaker 1: I can't be evil though, That's what I'm talking about. Like,
Speaker 1: I'm happy as long as you don't funk with me.
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, what's going on? Man? What's going on? In
Speaker 1: stupid internet news? So I saw that, uh there, there
Speaker 1: was a survey survey that was conducted. So it says
Speaker 1: that motherfucker's is tied to their face being on the
Speaker 1: internet basically, So the survey was conducted by nord VPN.
Speaker 1: A little more than one thousand people in the U
Speaker 1: s A T and older were asked about how they
Speaker 1: felt about the Internet, and according to PC mag more
Speaker 1: than half of the respondent said they would totally delete
Speaker 1: themselves off the Internet if they could. About forty seven
Speaker 1: percent said they don't trust the internet, in that they
Speaker 1: wish the Internet never existed. In a percent said that
Speaker 1: they don't use the Internet at all. How you feel
Speaker 1: about it, you wanna work with? Yeah, I listen. I'm
Speaker 1: on social media. Instagram is mainly what I'm on. Instagram
Speaker 1: and clubhouse. I got a Facebook like twelve years ago. Um,
Speaker 1: and you know they'd be fucking nosy, always asking why
Speaker 1: I work at Why Like if I log on there
Speaker 1: to go to Facebook market or something like that. They
Speaker 1: just asking all these questions. And it's like, for real,
Speaker 1: Facebook is like the world Wide Web, and they just
Speaker 1: got everybody in this damn web. And I don't want
Speaker 1: to be in a web. Like I remember when face
Speaker 1: Book not on Facebook, my Space like went away. I
Speaker 1: tried to log into my Space to delete my pictures
Speaker 1: off that ship and it wouldn't let me. Is as
Speaker 1: if you know, once you put your image on these sites,
Speaker 1: stay on it, right, and you agree to that when
Speaker 1: you sign up exactly, and nobody ever reached the agreement.
Speaker 1: I just want to funk with this, so I'm a
Speaker 1: side everybody else doing it. Yeah, everybody's doing it now.
Speaker 1: I try not to put my real name online, so
Speaker 1: I'll use aliases all the time. When I'm signed off
Speaker 1: for ship, I got a junk play email that's not
Speaker 1: connected to me in no type of way. That ship
Speaker 1: is asigned to Google Google um number. I'm not working
Speaker 1: with it. I don't like it. I don't like it.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be google Able, but I guess
Speaker 1: at this rate, we don't got no choice. Much like
Speaker 1: how we said about ourselves. I take the good in
Speaker 1: the bed that comes with it, because I mean it
Speaker 1: does provided a lot of goodness to the earth too, right,
Speaker 1: does it. Yeah? I feel like for black people in particular,
Speaker 1: like the Internet, it was like the worst ship that
Speaker 1: could have happened to us, because white people actually get
Speaker 1: to now see us and see how the funk we
Speaker 1: are and be in our business without actually seeing us
Speaker 1: and without actually being around us, so they know, like
Speaker 1: now how to manipulate things based on the type of
Speaker 1: ship we put online, So I don't know, man, I
Speaker 1: don't like it. The girl where Girl of Powers that
Speaker 1: be they'll be watching your ass, or the white man
Speaker 1: is infiltrating the black community with the information that we posted.
Speaker 1: What y'all don't know is look, what y'all don't know
Speaker 1: is the band is not actually the black man. They
Speaker 1: just don't look like they mean, they look like us,
Speaker 1: but they ain't us. They're talking about Yeah, wait time,
Speaker 1: wait till I really get this conspiracy segment. I'm about
Speaker 1: to put you all on game. I just feel like
Speaker 1: for me, I know, like if I ever became like
Speaker 1: for real famous, it's some ship they're gonna pull up
Speaker 1: that out of twit or some shing I'm saying right
Speaker 1: now on this motherfucker, that's definitely gonna give me. It's
Speaker 1: some hot water I already know, and I would be
Speaker 1: just like Ninie, I said what I said two you
Speaker 1: said that what pick some crazy ship and they're gonna
Speaker 1: break me over the colds about it. I don't care though.
Speaker 1: Cancel culture only last for like two weeks, you'd be, yeah,
Speaker 1: I should last for two weeks. The best thing you
Speaker 1: can do is just not respond Okay, don't respond. Let
Speaker 1: the ship blow over and then come back like any
Speaker 1: ship happened. But it's always gonna be that one motherfucking
Speaker 1: comments like, bitch, we don't forget right, we don't forgot
Speaker 1: about those allegations against you, bitch. Damn that was three
Speaker 1: weeks ago, hope to attention to No, where the fun
Speaker 1: is Kanye? I'm concerned about him, girl, I'm glad he's
Speaker 1: taking a seat because people is getting mad at our continent.
Speaker 1: People's all in our reviews like another Kanye day, as
Speaker 1: if everybody wasn't reporting on Kanye. But we were going Kanye.
Speaker 1: I mean, I hope he's okay. It was fun. There
Speaker 1: was a lot of going on. Yeah, but this this part,
Speaker 1: the sad part, is a mental somebody's mental break was
Speaker 1: for our show. I don't think Kanye was having a
Speaker 1: mental break. No, I really don't know. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I don't think he was having a mental break. But
Speaker 1: did you see um Shaquille O'Neil was on that podcast
Speaker 1: The Pivot, and you know a couple of weeks this
Speaker 1: damn Channing what's his name, Channing Child Crowder. Channing Crowder
Speaker 1: was a guy who said that Russ Wilson was a square, right.
Speaker 1: So now this week they have Shaquille O'Neil on and
Speaker 1: he asked Shaquille O'Neil about his divorce from Shanny O'Neil
Speaker 1: and to me, it just sounded like he was trying
Speaker 1: to give Shaquille O'Neil and out. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: as if this is the type of man who doesn't
Speaker 1: take accountability for ship. You know what I'm saying. He
Speaker 1: was basically like, well, it was two people in the marriage, right,
Speaker 1: like that wasn't all on you, And Shaquille O'Neal corrected
Speaker 1: him and said, you know what, no, it was on
Speaker 1: me because she was a good woman. She took care
Speaker 1: of my kids, even handled a business aspect of our lives,
Speaker 1: and I was sucking up. Period. He took accountability and
Speaker 1: that's what. And I'm not saying like women don't be
Speaker 1: coming with they both ship, because everybody has their thing, right,
Speaker 1: But what he said was he wasn't protecting her. He
Speaker 1: wasn't protecting her, he wasn't protecting their vows. And I'm
Speaker 1: pretty sure of protecting her he means like mental mentally,
Speaker 1: like you keep going through ship with something with a man.
Speaker 1: Why am I supposed to stay at what? At what point?
Speaker 1: Don't do women leave? Right? And he just was taking
Speaker 1: accountability for it like that. I'm sure Seanie heard that.
Speaker 1: I was like, finally, motherfucker, they're friends though, you see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like he said that on several occasions,
Speaker 1: like they're good, they're friends, Like have their kids grown people? Now?
Speaker 1: You know what? What do they have to fred about?
Speaker 1: But I'm sure I'm sure when he probably said it
Speaker 1: to her already. I'm sure if he said it to
Speaker 1: the world, he's made those words to her. I like
Speaker 1: shock for that me too. I respect it. But it's
Speaker 1: always in hindsight that men see this kind of thing,
Speaker 1: you know, it's always no longer got access to you,
Speaker 1: not just man people. We always see the air of
Speaker 1: our ways in hindsight, not in a moment. I don't
Speaker 1: want to just put that on me because I know
Speaker 1: I would look back and I don't. I could look
Speaker 1: back and be like, damn, you did that. You girl
Speaker 1: get your ship? You know, shame. I'm here for shout
Speaker 1: out the man. Oh made the Stallion drop the new
Speaker 1: song at Coachella. Um, it's called us a bit and
Speaker 1: it samples Joe to See and Wu Tang's freaking you remix?
Speaker 1: Did you hear that ship? Did you hear? I heard it?
Speaker 1: Like you know, I like that for the young girls. Okay,
Speaker 1: I like that for me in the gym, when I'm
Speaker 1: trying to do the squat gym in these squats, or
Speaker 1: when I'm I like fucking nigga anthems, I do, but
Speaker 1: then I'm old for that ship. Why you don't have
Speaker 1: to like, you don't have to live by it. You
Speaker 1: just have to enjoy it. While I was playing and look,
Speaker 1: I'm about to get deep again. The for frequency of
Speaker 1: that fucking music and have you sucked up out? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because yesterday my attitude was bad. I woke up and
Speaker 1: I heard that song and I played it like three times,
Speaker 1: like and you'se a bit like I was all in
Speaker 1: a mirror, like pointing at the mirror ship like if
Speaker 1: for her see yourself fake flexing and Mike fake flexing
Speaker 1: on the nigga in the mirror, and my energy was
Speaker 1: really my frequency was low early in the day yesterday.
Speaker 1: That's the trust and stay Yeah, I had a stay
Speaker 1: as attitude. He was like, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: like that. That's how it was. I ain't gonna lie,
Speaker 1: but that song did have me Like I got my
Speaker 1: squad on yesterday and I was like, I'm gonna kill
Speaker 1: these holes just amer Well. I was squatting to that ship.
Speaker 1: Hey look, I definitely be a whole drug dealer, fucking
Speaker 1: drive by type nigg and when I'm in a gym,
Speaker 1: us like, you don't have to live it. And that's
Speaker 1: the problem with young people. They don't know how to
Speaker 1: separate the music from their reality. It's just like TV.
Speaker 1: You watch a movie, you don't you see uh Dizell
Speaker 1: talking about looking back and God, shoot on me. You
Speaker 1: don't want to go outside and shoot up a neighborhood
Speaker 1: because you see that, right, So why do we let
Speaker 1: the music influences so much? I don't know, because it's
Speaker 1: the it's the frequency of the music, that's just what
Speaker 1: it is, like and like it's just the actual fucking frequency,
Speaker 1: the medium from the meeting, the speakers. Yeah, she's going
Speaker 1: to change your damn mood. It did. It really did
Speaker 1: that for me. But I enjoyed every minute of it.
Speaker 1: But I did last night I had to like put
Speaker 1: on in the ire and Ericabo, dude, to like elevate
Speaker 1: my vibration for real? Who the hell was she talking
Speaker 1: to in that song? Like, what grown man you're calling
Speaker 1: the bitch mag um? Who you think? I think it's
Speaker 1: still talking about him. But she said she kept taking
Speaker 1: playing b pills. Well, okay, let's not assume the songs
Speaker 1: be by anybody, but she was saying that ship with
Speaker 1: a lot of forest. Yeah, I like some ship to
Speaker 1: get off her damn chest. No, she said, this song
Speaker 1: is very in our quote, this song is very motherfucking
Speaker 1: personal to me, and it's to whom it made the
Speaker 1: fun concern. And I really feel like my ladies will
Speaker 1: will funk with me on this one. So drop that ship.
Speaker 1: M hmm. You saw, first off, your bitch in the click.
Speaker 1: That's how she came in there. You saw Tory Lanes
Speaker 1: in the damn club with all her damn enemies. Basically
Speaker 1: just whack how y'all clicking up against a woman? Right?
Speaker 1: Is she bigger than all of mega? Probably? Donkey kongdom niggas.
Speaker 1: That's the problem. Y'all got the team up to beat her? Shame? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what about this guy who on purpose? They did that?
Speaker 1: That wasn't a coincidence? Hell, yeah, they probably called each other. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: And then when we get there, we're gonna take a photo.
Speaker 1: Who like where you fucking right? Photo? Op right photo
Speaker 1: to make sure you spray the top of your head
Speaker 1: in because we're gonna get the whole things like, let
Speaker 1: me stop, let me stop shaming him. I like ball ahead,
Speaker 1: me too. I'm sorry, I'm sorry to worry about the ball.
Speaker 1: How about Leskan Keisha? Keisha said, she is leaving your
Speaker 1: bitches if she's in the club mid turn up in
Speaker 1: her man call you're in with that girl. What if
Speaker 1: you meet the man of your fucking dreams and he
Speaker 1: just working late one night or you know, out late,
Speaker 1: like he may not be out right, but all night
Speaker 1: in the club like you want to get back to him,
Speaker 1: and he hit you up and be like all right,
Speaker 1: I'm heading home now where you at? So okay on
Speaker 1: a case by case basis, But she said, any time,
Speaker 1: if that nigga call her, she leaving, that's my man,
Speaker 1: that's my man, and that's good. But girl, don't leave.
Speaker 1: I'm out, Okay, if you're that bitch that's gonna leave
Speaker 1: every time, I've never mad, don't call me about that nigga,
Speaker 1: don't call me because you're mad at the nicktime what
Speaker 1: you're doing. I want to get out, no bitch, fuck
Speaker 1: you men say your hord with him a bitter tonight
Speaker 1: my name. You said that was picked me behavior. I
Speaker 1: felt like it was it was given pick me. But
Speaker 1: she already picked though, and she wouldn't be with her
Speaker 1: man who picked her. She want to like just not
Speaker 1: have an identity because you got a man, You don't
Speaker 1: have an identity outside of your man, Like you can't
Speaker 1: be with your friends and solidify that relations That relationship
Speaker 1: is important. Just I feel like my friendships are just
Speaker 1: as important as my relationship with my man. So absolutely so,
Speaker 1: I don't wanna, you know, I don't know. You know,
Speaker 1: I ain't got no man. Maybe if I get a
Speaker 1: big guy might change my mind. Bit I don't know.
Speaker 1: We might not even see your ass that you're getting
Speaker 1: a super healthy relationship. Ain't nobody gonna see that, but
Speaker 1: anybody like a Honestly, when you're in a super healthy,
Speaker 1: healthy relationship, you spend a lot of time with that
Speaker 1: person anyway outside of your friends. So once you do
Speaker 1: come with your friends, I'm not gonna just up and
Speaker 1: lead because you call to on what you're doing. I
Speaker 1: ain't having fun without you, nigga. Well turn on something
Speaker 1: on the TV. I'll be back. Yeah. I like to
Speaker 1: be on the couch with a man too. I love that.
Speaker 1: But if I choose to be with my friends, and
Speaker 1: that's where I'm mad till it's done, because they're important
Speaker 1: in my life too. And she told about all right,
Speaker 1: if you're in the club, TI, I think, just don't
Speaker 1: come with no dick, though I can't actually already told
Speaker 1: you it's a problem. I do not want to make
Speaker 1: love in the club with a bit. Whyever, why you
Speaker 1: gotta make love on time? Let that man go to sleep.
Speaker 1: You'll be there when you get there. No wake him
Speaker 1: up when you get home. Let him cater to you
Speaker 1: like uh, when I come home, they take you on
Speaker 1: your shoulder, you roll over. Let that nigga do that.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, let's pay some bills. We'll be right back. Okay,
Speaker 1: We're done talking about men for the day, y'all. I'm
Speaker 1: done talking about I thought you said he was done.
Speaker 1: I said I was done having sex with two. But
Speaker 1: you're getting all meals, dope calling all meals now you know,
Speaker 1: I'm just chilling for real, I don't wanna. I mean,
Speaker 1: I feel like I have to talk about that as
Speaker 1: against since I got this show, but I ain't got
Speaker 1: the funk with him period. That's it. That's it, you
Speaker 1: need to break. Let's talk about something outside of these niggas,
Speaker 1: and let's talk about chasing your dream. We all got
Speaker 1: a dream, especially, I feel like as Americans were afforded
Speaker 1: a life where we get to dream some places they
Speaker 1: don't even I don't even know kids talk about having
Speaker 1: dreams or go you know, ship like that. So I
Speaker 1: found this list of ten mistakes to avoid when chasing
Speaker 1: your dream. Think this is something good to be to
Speaker 1: share with our listeners, right yeah, hell yeah, because we
Speaker 1: all had chasing dreams right right right now. So the
Speaker 1: first thing is letting discouragement overwhelmed you. Now, I know
Speaker 1: I've done that where I feel like somebody are like
Speaker 1: try to play whatever I'm talking about or what I
Speaker 1: think about, or like say somebody already doing that, Like
Speaker 1: I want to start this bread company, bitch, everybody's selling bread,
Speaker 1: you know, not down got this bread you have to have?
Speaker 1: But I have had, like been discouraged by some something simple.
Speaker 1: Is that something to somebody said, or there inability to
Speaker 1: think big? Have you? Um? Of course? Yeah, you know
Speaker 1: I've been writing a book literally for a decade, and
Speaker 1: and you know I have intro, I got a couple
Speaker 1: of chapters writ and any time, like I have sent
Speaker 1: something to somebody, if they don't respond in a certain way,
Speaker 1: I get discouraged. Yeah is it not good? We'll get
Speaker 1: in your head. Yes, Like I'm like, damn it is
Speaker 1: it not good? Or what you ain't read? What I read?
Speaker 1: I thought it was fired. But we gotta stop doing that. Ship.
Speaker 1: Don't let discouragement overwhelm you. It's a part of the process.
Speaker 1: So it says, take the risks. Are you going to
Speaker 1: be scared? Yes, you'll be petrified. Remember it's going to
Speaker 1: It's not going to be a straight path. Take many
Speaker 1: steps and be consistent with your work. Even if you
Speaker 1: don't reach the goal you said, you'll learn, grow and
Speaker 1: perhaps even find new opportunities through the process of stretching yourself,
Speaker 1: believing yourself and the possibility of your dreams coming true.
Speaker 1: Without letting discouragement rob you of the faith you have
Speaker 1: in yourself. Boom So number two, denying your currents that
Speaker 1: wuation hold on. Let us go back to one, because
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes people be having more faith in me
Speaker 1: than I actually having myself and that motivates me and
Speaker 1: that's okay too, and that's great to have those kind
Speaker 1: of people. Like people think I'm a super superhuman. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, that's me, and then in real
Speaker 1: life I'm like, man, I'm fucking lazy, and well, hold on,
Speaker 1: I miss a little piece. They said something about being consistent.
Speaker 1: That's my problem. Consistency. That's a lot. You're not alone.
Speaker 1: The world is a lot of us in that boat.
Speaker 1: It's definitely like I'm being honest with myself and y'all today, y'all.
Speaker 1: Number two, denying your current situation. If your current situation
Speaker 1: is not not ideal, don't live in the now. If
Speaker 1: you do, you won't be able to deal with the
Speaker 1: obstacles you're currently facing. Doing nothing won't change your situation
Speaker 1: or bring you any closer to your dreams. Before long,
Speaker 1: you will hit the wall and crash and possibly fall
Speaker 1: into a depression boom. Instead, they're talking to you, me,
Speaker 1: everybody listening, all right. Instead, accept the situation you're in
Speaker 1: and the word toward change and work towards changing it.
Speaker 1: You have more power than you realize. Trust and believe
Speaker 1: in yourself, however small the change happens. Be grateful, Yes,
Speaker 1: gratitude M that's the number one thing. Yep. Yeah. The
Speaker 1: work is the process. You know people always be waiting
Speaker 1: for like the finishing product, But the finishing like it's
Speaker 1: actually the process while you're going through it. Right, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's no ending, right that the
Speaker 1: whole ship. It's a journey. Yeah. Yes. So three Dwelling
Speaker 1: on the past, that's my problem. I love there me too.
Speaker 1: Listen to this. Holding onto a painful past will fill
Speaker 1: you with doubts when you're trying to pursue your dreams.
Speaker 1: You won't be able to handle obstacles that arise, and
Speaker 1: you'll spend your energy on worries and regret. You'll be
Speaker 1: afraid to make decisions because of the past, because of
Speaker 1: past experiences, you'll hold yourself back from claiming opportunities when
Speaker 1: they arise. So let the past be gone, but cling
Speaker 1: to the good memories, and when things are rocky, look
Speaker 1: at the past and smile. Let the bad be a
Speaker 1: learning experience. Let learning produce growth, and let growth bring
Speaker 1: you closer to your goal. MM. Hmm. So I am,
Speaker 1: and I can admit this. I am a bit pessimistic.
Speaker 1: I dwell match. I remember one day I was on
Speaker 1: the phone with my friend and she was like, I'm
Speaker 1: like asking for feedback on the ship that I'm talking right,
Speaker 1: And she was like, you know, you've told me this
Speaker 1: like a lot of times, because in order to tell
Speaker 1: you the current situation, I got to go back and
Speaker 1: tell you all the ship. You know, a chronicle, right, Yes,
Speaker 1: how I got to this place. But what you're doing is,
Speaker 1: if it's trauma that you experienced in during this conversation,
Speaker 1: you reliving it over and over again. So not don't
Speaker 1: not not talk about it. You gotta talk about the things,
Speaker 1: but you gotta forgive yourself if you got to forgive
Speaker 1: somebody else. Do that my problem. I do hold grudges,
Speaker 1: and I know that about myself, i'd be holding grudges,
Speaker 1: but I feel like, um, I'm working on it. I
Speaker 1: I have released a lot of anguish behind certain situations
Speaker 1: because I did feel like it was hindering me. And
Speaker 1: that's the process too, because you know, maybe I wanted
Speaker 1: to smack the motherfuckering and I didn't get the opportunity to.
Speaker 1: Now I'm mad about it still, all the examples you
Speaker 1: could that was the way you regret not smacking that nigger.
Speaker 1: It wasn't about a man. Okay, look waiting So I
Speaker 1: read something yesterday about letting the past hurts of your
Speaker 1: life just be like water between your fingers and once
Speaker 1: it rolls through, it's gone forever. You can't bring it back.
Speaker 1: And just let it go. Yeah, I think people, period,
Speaker 1: we need to be more like water and just float
Speaker 1: and just move and just you know, ship, ship gonna happen, right.
Speaker 1: Roll with the punches, like literally, I think we as
Speaker 1: black people roll with the punches more than anybody, though
Speaker 1: you don't think so, yes, but probably not as far
Speaker 1: as be too many punches, man mental health is concerned,
Speaker 1: we probably could be better. But we also laugh at things.
Speaker 1: So that's that's a little people trying to take laughter
Speaker 1: away from you, Like you can't laugh, you're not allowed
Speaker 1: to laugh at anybody else's problems. But this should be
Speaker 1: funny sometimes, Like if we can't, like, that's what make
Speaker 1: I know I laugh at all? Ship? I all got
Speaker 1: no business laughing at all the time. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: that's the part, Like, I mean, you know, it's just
Speaker 1: not funny when it's your goal. Right when they're be
Speaker 1: talking like because I know, like right here on my temple,
Speaker 1: my edges is kind of thing right here, and biggest
Speaker 1: make edges jokes, I'll be mad, motherfuck you, motherfucker, I
Speaker 1: met your mama, ball headed to bitch Jesus all that,
Speaker 1: and then that ain't funny. No edge shaman, didn't no
Speaker 1: edge shaming. Right. But when it's something else, when we
Speaker 1: talk about like a bigger impotent and somebody cutting jokes
Speaker 1: about that, I'll be in there, like you don't laugh
Speaker 1: at hardness town, Yo, you're so stupid. Let me relax.
Speaker 1: Number four. We can't take ship serious. Like, yeah, me neither.
Speaker 1: I'm childish, okay for life procrastin nyting number four, Let
Speaker 1: me say that again, talking about me like that, procrastinating procrastinating, Yeah,
Speaker 1: for y'all in the back. Look, I don't even do
Speaker 1: the ship i'd be wanting to do. It's really bad.
Speaker 1: When you don't do ship that you actually want to do.
Speaker 1: You're not alone. It's a lot of us, all right.
Speaker 1: So it says time wasted cannot be recovered. It's just
Speaker 1: like a river. Once you touch the water flowing past you,
Speaker 1: it will never flow back towards you again. Do what
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do when it's supposed to be done. Okay,
Speaker 1: So at the beginning of this year, I was saying,
Speaker 1: I am going to do what I say I'm gonna do, right,
Speaker 1: because when somebody asked something of me, I always show
Speaker 1: up for them, like, no matter what it is, Like
Speaker 1: I mean, if I don't want to do some shot,
Speaker 1: I don't have to know it's a completely statement. I'm
Speaker 1: not gared to tell anybody no. But I usually show
Speaker 1: up for other people before I show up for myself.
Speaker 1: So what if you do that for yourself though, whatever
Speaker 1: you say you're gonna do, do it. That's how you
Speaker 1: get things done daily, even if you know maybe you
Speaker 1: need to write it down, Like I feel like I
Speaker 1: might need to start writing down things I need to do.
Speaker 1: That's always gonna tell you. I'm gonna start updating our
Speaker 1: calendar so we can have actual goals pitized exactly, Like
Speaker 1: that's gonna that's how we're gonna get to our goals,
Speaker 1: writing them down, seeing them, visualizing them. You know, even
Speaker 1: if you got to do um, this is the first
Speaker 1: year I ever did vision board. Yeah, well, You're always
Speaker 1: finishing my damn senses because I know your head. Look,
Speaker 1: this is the first year I ever did a vision board,
Speaker 1: and I got it as a screen saver on my phone.
Speaker 1: However unrealistic it may, it may be whatever you want
Speaker 1: in life. Put that ship on what's unrealistic for you?
Speaker 1: But you dog, let me tell you what the funk
Speaker 1: on there? I do have some unrealistic Why do you
Speaker 1: like it's unrealistic? What's the nigga from Lovecraft Country? The actor?
Speaker 1: Oh that the one with the real wide knows that
Speaker 1: nigga find his Hell, yes, he on your vision board?
Speaker 1: Who says you can't have him? Bitch? Look I could
Speaker 1: probably have him or someone that looks like him. Jonathan
Speaker 1: Majors Jonathan Major's I want him. I think he's um.
Speaker 1: He's in this movie with coming out with Um Michael
Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan's both of them in a movie together. Yes, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he has out there with his shirt off, and I
Speaker 1: don't know what was going on, but I knew that
Speaker 1: I was gonna see that movie as soon as it
Speaker 1: came out. Oh, he just looks so godly and like
Speaker 1: he just looked like a protector mad manly I just
Speaker 1: know God is real when I look at him. Why
Speaker 1: Bell Pepper, Nicknos got it? Hell yeah, but I got
Speaker 1: that grown man. Oh my god, damn VISI your board.
Speaker 1: I don't see I don't see the problem. I don't
Speaker 1: see what's I'm realistic. He's just another human man. Thank you, fan. Alright,
Speaker 1: so let's hit the next one. Neglecting your body. Don't
Speaker 1: forever forget to take care of your body. Treat it
Speaker 1: like a temple. If you don't, you will get sick
Speaker 1: mentally and physically, and this will prevent you from working
Speaker 1: towards your goal. However, har are you working? Take time
Speaker 1: off to exercise, and don't forget to eat healthy foods.
Speaker 1: Don't starve yourself. Don't don't forget to pray. It will
Speaker 1: nourish your soul and give you inner peace. Take care
Speaker 1: of your body's guys, you know exactly. So I mean,
Speaker 1: I feel like all of these things kind of running again.
Speaker 1: I know, were only on the fifth topic anyway, But
Speaker 1: buy some nice gym clothes. If you trying to lose weight,
Speaker 1: you wanna go to the gym, Buy some nice gym
Speaker 1: clothes that kind of motivates you to go to the
Speaker 1: gym when you're looking good in the gym too, Like
Speaker 1: it's just you know, yeah, I don't be up that big,
Speaker 1: stretched out white T shirt shirt. But you know what,
Speaker 1: if that's all you got to wear a bit, go
Speaker 1: in there and get in shape and whatever. That too,
Speaker 1: but yeah that too. But if you can get you
Speaker 1: some cute stuff, get you some cute stuff that do
Speaker 1: make you feel better. But I definitely better playing fitness.
Speaker 1: I got in the best shape of my life in
Speaker 1: a big gass Planet Fitness T shirt. I made sure
Speaker 1: I was covered up. I didn't even want to be
Speaker 1: bothered by nobody. Girl, I'm at one time I was
Speaker 1: so serious, Oh my goddamn health. I was wearing those
Speaker 1: uh like the plastic like I can't stand right? Yes,
Speaker 1: and get extra fine? And what happened after you get
Speaker 1: extra fine? Get you stop stop doing all the things
Speaker 1: that led you to get an extra because it has
Speaker 1: to be a lifestyle change, and that's the hard part. Yep, yep.
Speaker 1: So take care of your diet, make sure you're eating
Speaker 1: the right foods. I know, listen and introduced that ship
Speaker 1: to your kids early, man, so they grow up with
Speaker 1: it already as a lifestyle. Because I wasn't raised in
Speaker 1: a household where people was exercising. Yeah, so then now
Speaker 1: when you get to be an adult, it's like a
Speaker 1: real like yeah, you gotta reset and it's hard. What
Speaker 1: was I about to say about the diet? So yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't eat meat like that, right, So y'all see
Speaker 1: chicken is like, well how much chicken? Like fifty dollars
Speaker 1: a pack? Now, y'all niggas don't want to stop eating
Speaker 1: meat yet? Lap cholds like sixty dollars? What else you'll
Speaker 1: be in the ox tails? All right? Now, I was
Speaker 1: like eight dollars, Well, box lock still mean Hamburg and
Speaker 1: me all that stuff is expensive. I got an our
Speaker 1: stale meal from this restaurant. It was twenty eight dollars
Speaker 1: from the Jamaican spot. That was a live half a
Speaker 1: box of rice, half the boxes full with mother fucking
Speaker 1: bes a raise and three our sales on there for
Speaker 1: twenty dollars. Like man, so I'm I'm I'm planning on
Speaker 1: starting me a garden where boy, I just really like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all been paying attention to logistics
Speaker 1: like the truckers and stuff like that. Uh, paying attention
Speaker 1: was going on with Mexico and stuff. Have you noticed
Speaker 1: that your fruits and vegetables be getting going bad real fast.
Speaker 1: That's because they've probably been sitting on the highway in
Speaker 1: a fucking truck for a week before it even got
Speaker 1: to your local grocery store. So we're about to be
Speaker 1: at the point where we need to be growing our
Speaker 1: own food. So I've been looking for like a local
Speaker 1: um somebody I could buy like um seedlings like it
Speaker 1: was kind of already sprouted, because I mean, I've never
Speaker 1: I can't make it grow. I'm gonna just be honest,
Speaker 1: and I really be trying because I feel I feel
Speaker 1: like it's on a real live my mama makes it grow,
Speaker 1: and I feel like it's her. Shut up, you're so there, stupid,
Speaker 1: not in that way. Yes, I could definitely make it grow.
Speaker 1: I can't grow hair ex definitely in that spot right here,
Speaker 1: people here. But my playing, I bought me a money
Speaker 1: playing that ship is dead. Whole Food's got him on
Speaker 1: sale right now. That's what I'm gonna go buy another one.
Speaker 1: That's where I got first. I want to get me
Speaker 1: some seedlings, man, I want to get me some seedlings
Speaker 1: and start a little garden. Take your vitamins. Get a
Speaker 1: multi vita is good for your body. Chlorophylla, how do
Speaker 1: you feel about I do chlorophy Yeah, I do, black
Speaker 1: seed oil? Ye? What about colodo, colodial silver. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I'm saying that right. Yeah, I haven't purchased
Speaker 1: any of that. I do. I do use that, but
Speaker 1: if y'all don't know a lot about it, someone told
Speaker 1: me to start taking it, and I trust her, so
Speaker 1: I did so last well not last week. Two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: I did go get some botox are die sport whatever
Speaker 1: in my forehead and it didn't take. But I did go. No,
Speaker 1: it didn't like you can't see me for real, girl,
Speaker 1: I just saw you the other day. Well it's right,
Speaker 1: it's back regular now. So it didn't take. All I
Speaker 1: got is two extra pimples on my dad in forehead.
Speaker 1: But I bought. The last vitamin I bought was M S. M.
Speaker 1: Y'all can go research this. It's real good for your joints,
Speaker 1: your hair, your skin. It helps with the like elasticity
Speaker 1: um in your skin. Like. It's a good a good
Speaker 1: vitamin to add to you um, you know, your regiment.
Speaker 1: Just to put that out there and M S. And Mama, Sierra, Mama, Okay,
Speaker 1: check that out. Thank you for all right. Back to
Speaker 1: our list. Number six waiting for help to chase you.
Speaker 1: M knock all like asking for help. Most people don't,
Speaker 1: so knock on doors. Will doors be shut on you? Sure?
Speaker 1: More than you can count. Sometimes we ask for help
Speaker 1: anticipating get in our way. Sorry, it doesn't work that way.
Speaker 1: If doors closed, go in through the window. If that
Speaker 1: means changing the course of your plan, please do so.
Speaker 1: Change will not mean losing your dream. So y'all, don't
Speaker 1: be afraid to need help because you never know who
Speaker 1: might want to support your ship and get help you
Speaker 1: get to the next level. Yep. Number seven, taking it
Speaker 1: personally when people judge you. That one is huge for me.
Speaker 1: I don't be giving up, not not just random people,
Speaker 1: like when we have Yeah, yeah, it's the people I
Speaker 1: care about or their opinions I feel like I care about.
Speaker 1: That's when I'll be feeling away, Like when it's just
Speaker 1: even though I love all y'all listening to the show
Speaker 1: and one of your motherfucker's in the comments like Tam
Speaker 1: Bam is fucking stupid and I hate what she has
Speaker 1: to say, I'd be like you don't care. I don't
Speaker 1: care how you know, but but it is someone that
Speaker 1: I admire, our love, and they passed judgment on me.
Speaker 1: I do take it very personally. So it says here
Speaker 1: they will judge you by how you look, what you eat,
Speaker 1: how you live. When people judge, it has more to
Speaker 1: do with their own fears and insecurities than you. Turn
Speaker 1: a deaf ear to these judgments. Feel proud of the
Speaker 1: journey you're taking. Okay, I got a quick story. So
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, my ex UH sent me
Speaker 1: a text message and he said, I saw an old
Speaker 1: picture of you today. Man, I'm sorry. Like what. It's
Speaker 1: a whole long ass message, but essentially what he was
Speaker 1: saying was to me, how I interpret it. You saw
Speaker 1: an old picture of me made at that point I
Speaker 1: had been chunky a J, skinny a J. Whatever. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So basically, you're using that image
Speaker 1: to justify how I responded in the past to you
Speaker 1: being nasty to me, as if I had the problem
Speaker 1: when somebody says crazy ship to you, and it definitely
Speaker 1: has more to do with them than you. He said,
Speaker 1: I saw a picture of you. I'm sorry. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: he said, I'm sorry, man, like as if he didn't
Speaker 1: understand why I would trip about certain things. It was
Speaker 1: because of his fucking at picture. You know how many
Speaker 1: skinny pictures I got, how many fat pictures I got? Like,
Speaker 1: what are we talking about? I was soused by and
Speaker 1: look but listen. But you know, I'm always on the diet.
Speaker 1: I'm always like trying to be as conscious as I
Speaker 1: can about my health. That's saying, like me, not that
Speaker 1: same day, A couple of days later, you drove down
Speaker 1: here and dropped chocolate on my on my porch. Why
Speaker 1: are you trying to sabotage me? Like you dropped all
Speaker 1: the chocolate shit, I like chocolate cupped almonds, Uh, those
Speaker 1: little um little chocolates with the gold sht around it. Like,
Speaker 1: why the funk would you bring that after telling me
Speaker 1: that you saw a fucking fat picture in me somewhere, gir,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't eat nothing that that nigga tearing them almonds up.
Speaker 1: So that's the thing. You always say you on a diet.
Speaker 1: You ain't always on a diet. And that's what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I feel like he was trying to sabotage me because
Speaker 1: the flesh is weak and in my myrob. I love sweets,
Speaker 1: I love love love fresh Big Goods and J J B.
Speaker 1: This dessert, I don't know, it's not American. I don't
Speaker 1: know where the fun she gets this world. But it
Speaker 1: looked like a fucking football with a line of icing
Speaker 1: down the middle. Right, what the fund is that? Like?
Speaker 1: Where is that? Friend? That it's from the Asian market
Speaker 1: in Charlotte, from Super g Mart. They got like an
Speaker 1: Asian bakery in there, girl, Like you know all the
Speaker 1: motherfucker's sets. It's all a good faction. I love it.
Speaker 1: I love that. I listen, I love bread man. That's
Speaker 1: a problem. Like I feel like I started eating more
Speaker 1: bread when I stopped eating me. That's very common though,
Speaker 1: ause you know, like a lot of people who are
Speaker 1: vegans or vegetarians, they are on the thicker side because
Speaker 1: they eat more cars to substitute for what they're probably
Speaker 1: missing with meat. Yeah, so I took that text very personally. Child,
Speaker 1: if a whole weekend up, don't let that nigga your
Speaker 1: weekend up. My whole weekend, girl, Like I'm just I
Speaker 1: woke up feeling like I'm that bitch and then I
Speaker 1: get like a damn long ass fucking text message. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I feel like what you're doing right now is
Speaker 1: number eight and that's what I'm about to cut you
Speaker 1: off so you can hear it. Number eight. Dwelling on
Speaker 1: the negative. It is impossible to only focus on the positive,
Speaker 1: But dwelling on the negative all the time is like
Speaker 1: a bomb waiting to explode. Your thoughts will hold you
Speaker 1: hostage from making progress, progress, and your mind will be
Speaker 1: filled with doubt. Allow yourself to feel the negative prior
Speaker 1: you have to, but don't let it take over you.
Speaker 1: Releasing your negative feelings will leave you at peace, and
Speaker 1: you will be able to focus on the positive even
Speaker 1: in tough times. A positive attitude will help you decide
Speaker 1: the best strategy for achieving your goals. So let the
Speaker 1: nigga roll like the water two in your fingers. Fuck
Speaker 1: him and everything he had to say about you and
Speaker 1: your old pictures, fuck them all pictures. However you look,
Speaker 1: you look like how you look right now. You find
Speaker 1: this healthfor period period. So my mom said, stop saying period.
Speaker 1: So right, she said, stop saying that period. But meditation,
Speaker 1: that's what I got out of that. Meditation will help
Speaker 1: you not dwell on negative things because your mind just
Speaker 1: be so clear, and you know when the negative thing
Speaker 1: does come, I guess it's like really like you have
Speaker 1: to really practice, you have to really practice dodging negative ship,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like me, may it just
Speaker 1: be like, okay, out of out of a day, right,
Speaker 1: you got two negative things. If you just discard and
Speaker 1: ignored one of them, you did good. Okay, you did good.
Speaker 1: But if you if you find a way to focus
Speaker 1: on all the positive things that happened. I don't know
Speaker 1: how we let the negative ship be more important than
Speaker 1: the positive ship that happens to I think it's because
Speaker 1: I think it's just this realm that we're on. This
Speaker 1: world is negative. The world we're living, we're living in
Speaker 1: is negative. So I think when you have negative thoughts
Speaker 1: they manifest quicker because we're in a negative fucking universe.
Speaker 1: Like shit is negative in this world. See that. I
Speaker 1: don't feel that way. I don't. I mean, I feel
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of negative in this world, but
Speaker 1: I feel like equally there is goodness in this world,
Speaker 1: and that's what I focus on. I don't focus on that.
Speaker 1: I don't get you know, there's a lot of good
Speaker 1: people are like you are a great person. Do you
Speaker 1: know that? Sometimes, like more more times than not, you're
Speaker 1: a great person. Thank you for YouTube. No, I've I've
Speaker 1: been meditating, and I really feel like i'd be opening
Speaker 1: up my third eye, y'all. Now, I wasn't gonna tell
Speaker 1: you all this because I ain't what y'all know. Y'all
Speaker 1: be like, bit you ain't got by two eyes. But
Speaker 1: I really do be like i'd be feeling like like this.
Speaker 1: I mean, it made me, Yeah, it makes me cry.
Speaker 1: I'll be in there and I'll have, you know, my
Speaker 1: eyes closed and I'll just be sitting and I don't
Speaker 1: even have like the sounds from outside, just whatever is,
Speaker 1: maybe not so much music, but just whatever is around
Speaker 1: me can just be whatever it is. And I'd really
Speaker 1: be feeling like I have like this white light that
Speaker 1: starts shining really really brightly over me. No, lie, y'all,
Speaker 1: I'd be feeling it, and it'll just feel like even
Speaker 1: if there's a light in the room. Maybe I don't
Speaker 1: know because my eyes are closed, but it feels like
Speaker 1: it just got so much brighter for whatever reason, and
Speaker 1: you start seeing without dark, you wouldn't know what light is.
Speaker 1: And that's what you're seeing what do you mean, without
Speaker 1: the darkness, you wouldn't even know what light is, right,
Speaker 1: So what your eyes closed like that and you're seeing
Speaker 1: that white light like that's the healing. And I can
Speaker 1: see it and it just gets so bright and overwhelming.
Speaker 1: And then like everything that I hear is like it
Speaker 1: exists in it don't exist at the same time, like
Speaker 1: I don't even know how to describe it. But it's
Speaker 1: just so yourphoric and I and I'll be like so
Speaker 1: overwhelmed with gratitude and just so overcome with gratefulness and
Speaker 1: I just start crying and ship. She is magical. So
Speaker 1: if y'all don't meditate, y'all should start. It's hard for
Speaker 1: people to meditate. It's hard to get out your thoughts
Speaker 1: with your eyes closed. Just do five minutes a day.
Speaker 1: Start with one minute and literally you don't even have
Speaker 1: to close your eyes sometimes, Like sometimes I don't even
Speaker 1: close my eyes to meditated. My I be wide open,
Speaker 1: right and just like but my brain is focused. I
Speaker 1: typically have my eyes closed every time. I don't think
Speaker 1: I've ever had that that exact feeling that I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: I've only felt it three times in my life and
Speaker 1: every time I felt it, my eyes were definitely closed.
Speaker 1: But I know, like, wait, monks they definitely meditate where
Speaker 1: their eyes open too, yep, and they do chance. Have
Speaker 1: you ever tried doing chance and stuff like that? You
Speaker 1: can download them on like on. The only chance I
Speaker 1: ever do is when I'm mad at the nigga, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, Nambyo holdering yo. But you think that's gonna
Speaker 1: curse episode, I don't know. That's just our seen team
Speaker 1: to do it. I'd be like, I'm about to get start,
Speaker 1: but that's not what. That's numb your whole right, niggas alright,
Speaker 1: never die. Comparing yourself to others This is another huge one.
Speaker 1: Let me say it again. Comparing yourself to others. Comparison
Speaker 1: leads to jealousy and envy. It can kill friendships if
Speaker 1: it's not tamed. Celebrate the success of others instead of
Speaker 1: being jealous. Let them know you admired them. Turn the
Speaker 1: focus on what you have instead of what you don't have,
Speaker 1: and be grateful for. So with social media culture and
Speaker 1: all that stuff, like, it's really easy for people to
Speaker 1: slip into the comparison mo. Right, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like you comparing your life to somebody else's um but right,
Speaker 1: but not even I don't go ahead, I get motivated.
Speaker 1: I guess when you see somebody doing well, either you're
Speaker 1: gonna hate on it or you're gonna appreciate it and
Speaker 1: being and be inspired. I'm going to be the latter.
Speaker 1: I'm always inspired when I see somebody else doing better
Speaker 1: than me or doing doing something like I'm inspiring to do.
Speaker 1: Like I'm motivated by that, you know, at all time,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm motivated when I see people doing better than me.
Speaker 1: But instead of feeling jealousy or envy, sometimes I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm not doing enough or I'm not enough, you know,
Speaker 1: That's what I feel. I don't necessarily feel like, uh,
Speaker 1: why does she have that instid of me? Like I
Speaker 1: don't feel that ship I'll just you know, I'll just
Speaker 1: feel like I have this bad feeling about myself, like
Speaker 1: why ain't not enough? I felt. I don't feel like
Speaker 1: that now, but I felt that way. Like when I
Speaker 1: see somebody having something that I want that I don't
Speaker 1: have yet, I don't never feel like fuck her with her? Na. Man,
Speaker 1: When I see somebody, it's always confirmation for me that
Speaker 1: I can do that. Too. That's just that's just all
Speaker 1: it is. It's confirmation for me that it can be
Speaker 1: done right now. But when I was younger and all
Speaker 1: I would I would doubt the doubt with that, would
Speaker 1: that that's what would happen when I compared myself to others,
Speaker 1: it would be self doubt instead of jealousy and yvy
Speaker 1: not so much no more. Yeah, stop comparing yourself to people,
Speaker 1: especially Instagram people. You'll don't know what the hell least
Speaker 1: people because a lot of that, Yeah, they're living in debt,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. They living off credit cards.
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. Ship. I don't want to
Speaker 1: put nothing in my personal name either, but they're not
Speaker 1: they're not living what y'all see. A lot of them
Speaker 1: are on the Graham keeping up with the Jones is
Speaker 1: address up for y'all, ass and they're the Graham. Life
Speaker 1: is more important than the real actual existence. And that's
Speaker 1: not cool. I listen. I'm definitely and it. Y'all bitches
Speaker 1: done did this before too. Y'all have been out with
Speaker 1: someone and y'all just sitting there is boring. And when
Speaker 1: they pull out their phone and start recording, you're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like you're having a good time, but you really ain't.
Speaker 1: As soon as the camera go away, y'all go back
Speaker 1: to not doing ship. As soon as my man call
Speaker 1: my man, my man. That's so is my nigga call
Speaker 1: him out? So, yes, don't do that. That's like, that's comparison.
Speaker 1: Is a dream killer, yes, and it's really detrimental to
Speaker 1: your mental health. You are enough, Your dreams are good enough.
Speaker 1: What you wanna be is good enough. If you want
Speaker 1: to funk with that nigga, Major's the Major's nigga. You
Speaker 1: can funk with him if you want. Like these are,
Speaker 1: you can have everything you want. No, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I can't funk with that nigga. I know it's attainable,
Speaker 1: But will I ever run into this nigger manifest? It
Speaker 1: he on the board look a lot along with this
Speaker 1: ocean front mansion, right, and you can have that too.
Speaker 1: And Barbados because that's where I'm going and you can
Speaker 1: have that too. Yeah, anybody listening, you can have the
Speaker 1: things you want to. Just go get it. I believe
Speaker 1: in you, alright. Number ten trying to get approval for
Speaker 1: your dream. Your dream is a vehicle and you're the driver.
Speaker 1: Don't let the passengers map the road for you. Stop
Speaker 1: trying to win over the people who don't believe and
Speaker 1: you and criticize you. Only seek help from those who
Speaker 1: support your mission and encourage you because they will cheer
Speaker 1: you along the way. That's period. Oh let me finish this.
Speaker 1: Hold fast here, dream, Get up to fight the storms,
Speaker 1: keep the banners shining, never give up, and never get in.
Speaker 1: Stand up and face that fear. Baby, your dream is
Speaker 1: counting on you. Do you believe you can pursue it?
Speaker 1: And all as long as you can believe it, you
Speaker 1: can't have it. Y'all. This is written by a black
Speaker 1: woman and Davis this tiny Buddha dot com. Right, thank
Speaker 1: you and Davis. This was a dobe little article for
Speaker 1: us to share with our lists. I'm gonna reread it
Speaker 1: later because you can't read neither. I bet sure I
Speaker 1: read that good, did y'all understand? Y'all? Listen? Hit us
Speaker 1: up if y'all think I read that good, because she'd
Speaker 1: be getting on my ass. I listen, I can admit
Speaker 1: that I can't read. Girl will steal me a three, y'all.
Speaker 1: I gotta dream no more, no aj to read this.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you. But if I sit down and
Speaker 1: write some shing, baby, you're gonna think. You're gonna think
Speaker 1: I don't know whoever wrote that ship. You're gonna thank
Speaker 1: somebody for real wrote this job. I got time to concentrate. Well,
Speaker 1: if y'all couldn't understand what the funk I said, then
Speaker 1: y'all could go read it yourself. A tiny boodha dot
Speaker 1: com um uh in the article is ten mistakes to
Speaker 1: avoid when chasing your dream by and Davis'll check it out.
Speaker 1: Ye go look back at it when you're feeling discouraged. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we all can to see this put into words,
Speaker 1: it's dope right right, because these are all the all
Speaker 1: the things, the mental language, the different procrastinating, all these
Speaker 1: different things we go through. But you don't really put
Speaker 1: a label on it when we're doing it right. But
Speaker 1: this makes you um each time you read something, I
Speaker 1: just thought about what the hell I'm doing right in
Speaker 1: your own life? That aligns within him? Yeah, absolutely, as
Speaker 1: a lot of changes, a lot of changes can be made. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I'm full of ship. I've been working on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we all learned, we all full and and look the
Speaker 1: first step to recovery is admitting that ship. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: why I can definite. Then I wanted to say the
Speaker 1: Future said that he's not toxic. It's the women that
Speaker 1: he was dating. You've seen that. He said, yeah, he
Speaker 1: said they're all toxic towards him. And that's what I
Speaker 1: thought about, the first step admitting the problem. And it
Speaker 1: ain't everybody else. Now they might have a hand having
Speaker 1: seven other women, they might have a hand in it,
Speaker 1: but god damn it, where is the accountability If y'all
Speaker 1: know we're talking about just right quick, this is so
Speaker 1: off topic from dollars great ship we just shared and
Speaker 1: here we go ending the great ship and not even
Speaker 1: talk about that. I want talk about it right quick now.
Speaker 1: I will talk about that next week, because you know
Speaker 1: I love to hate future ass But this is the
Speaker 1: one word that stuck out. So he did an interview
Speaker 1: with Julia Fox right. The one world word that stuck
Speaker 1: out was girl. She'd asked him if he if he
Speaker 1: wanted more kids, and he said, yeah, if I get married,
Speaker 1: I want like three more because because I've never had
Speaker 1: more than one child with the same girl, the same you.
Speaker 1: He's childish. He's just childish, the same girl I mean,
Speaker 1: that may not be a big thing, but it's a woman.
Speaker 1: These are grown women lives you're playing with. The kids
Speaker 1: are girls, these are grown adult women. You're a grown
Speaker 1: adult man making these fucking childish ass and steaks over
Speaker 1: and over again. Maybe he's thinking a boy, Maybe he
Speaker 1: thinking he's only speaking in terms of gender and not,
Speaker 1: but there's probably like some underlying That's what I'm and
Speaker 1: that's what I'm picking up on. Are you picking up
Speaker 1: what I'm dropping, because that's exactly what I'm saying. Like
Speaker 1: he needs to grow up. That's just it. There's no
Speaker 1: way y'all think we want um a Russell future over
Speaker 1: Russell Wilson type man. No way, but there are. But
Speaker 1: now I don't think in a serious way. Right, How
Speaker 1: old is that young girl he was dating? Girl? Yes,
Speaker 1: she's in her early twenties. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of her for not getting pregnant by him,
Speaker 1: and and um and who else the one before that, Um,
Speaker 1: the one that's with Michael B. Jordan. Now, young women,
Speaker 1: they're getting smart. These are young women, you know, grow up,
Speaker 1: stand up, stand So So now, just to get back
Speaker 1: on topic, y'all, I think everybody should check out this article. UM,
Speaker 1: me and Tam, we just wanted to do something a
Speaker 1: little bit different aside from talking about these niggas. We
Speaker 1: still ended up talking about these niggas, but it's cool, Like,
Speaker 1: I love these men, but we got a lot of
Speaker 1: goals we're trying to share for this, for the show,
Speaker 1: for our personal lives. Um and I feel like for
Speaker 1: us this article and it helps us with business and
Speaker 1: it helps us in our personal life as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: definitely hit home and I hope it hit home for
Speaker 1: some of y'all too, And I hope it helps you
Speaker 1: to be motivated and encouraged to go receise goals, ladies
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Yes, check your diet, checking mental health, check
Speaker 1: your thoughts, get them thoughts together, man, meditate, pray, eat clean.
Speaker 1: You are what you think is and you are what
Speaker 1: you eat, and you are who you beat. So watch
Speaker 1: the penis that you're consuming to all of that, Yes, Saddy,
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