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Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 1: talk back.

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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? It's your girl, AJ. Welcome to our

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Speaker 2: new episode of We Talk Back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, high energy.

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Speaker 2: I see you, AJ.

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Speaker 1: What's up? I like that about you today.

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Speaker 3: Look, but my iron kind of low, though. My energy

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Speaker 3: feel low today.

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Speaker 1: Damn, well, you don't sound like it. You don't sound

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Speaker 1: like how you feel it on the inside. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: it's me, Tam Bam. I love y'all. Welcome back. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad to have you here today. How was your weekend, AJ?

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Speaker 2: I ain't did nothing. Girl, okay, first of all, let

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Speaker 2: me tell you how about my weekend went.

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Speaker 1: All right. So....

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Speaker 2: Ain't a motherfucking T, bitch. I was about to make

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Speaker 2: up some shit to appease y'all motherfuckers. Make it up, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sick of you saying I ain't did nothing.

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Speaker 2: Girl, I'm granny pussy, okay?

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Speaker 1: Okay, granny pussy. Granny, my granny go out more than that.

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Speaker 1: Granny P. I be in the house, bitch. Girl, just

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Speaker 1: make up some shit.

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Speaker 2: We know.

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Speaker 1: I see y'all. I'm in her close friends. I seen

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Speaker 1: her popping pussy on the handstand this weekend in her

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Speaker 1: close friends.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Girl, I wish I might.

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Speaker 2: The last time I was on my head like that, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I might have been 13. Now, I don't have my

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Speaker 2: neck fucked up a couple times over the years, but.

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Speaker 1: This bitch got a bad neck. And some grown men.

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Speaker 1: And TMJ, like, that dome piece all.

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Speaker 2: Fucked up, ain't it? Hell yeah. What the fuck you

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Speaker 2: had going on? Girl, I had COVID again, bitch. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I forgot. I had COVID again. Because you acting so

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Speaker 2: alive today. Your ass was definitely dead over the weekend. Oh, goodness.

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Speaker 1: I was dead over the weekend. I felt so bad.

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Speaker 1: That shit had my head on. Motherfucking throb. Couldn't a

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Speaker 1: leave help it? I took a leave.

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Speaker 2: I smoked some crack.

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Speaker 1: Nothing worked.

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Speaker 2: I took anything and everything to try to knock that

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Speaker 2: headache out, baby.

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Speaker 1: I was on the bathroom floor. On the black room floor, okay?

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Speaker 1: But I feel so much better today. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: to still be here with y'all. Because that COVID ain't

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Speaker 1: no joke. Speaking of that. And he's still out here.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of that, rest in peace to K-Slave, man. You

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Speaker 1: saw that?

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Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. You know, I didn't realize he was still

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Speaker 2: in the hospital. They said he'd been in there for

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Speaker 2: like four months.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if he had any pre-existing health issues. That's

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Speaker 2: crazy as hell, man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's sad, man. He was only, what, 55 years old?

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Speaker 2: Yep. Yep. Niggas dying who ain't never even died before, man.

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Speaker 1: Every time.

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Speaker 2: Every time. Shit is wicked.

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Speaker 1: Shit is real wicked. I'm so grateful to still be here.

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Speaker 1: God chose me to stay another day. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: You know evil never dies.

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Speaker 1: Evil never dies. Dang. Is that how.

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Speaker 2: You feel about your girl? Look, that's why I'm behind

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Speaker 2: this bitch talking about 95. Rocking and rolling.

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Speaker 1: Because you evil?

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Speaker 2: Is that why?

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Speaker 1: Is that why?

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: See, I don't claim that.

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Speaker 2: I embrace my light and dark side, okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It is what it is.

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Speaker 1: I embrace my light and darkness too, but I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: consider myself evil. I can be evil though.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. Like, I'm happy as long

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Speaker 2: as you don't fuck with me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, goodness.

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Speaker 2: What's going on, man? What's going on in stupid internet news?

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Speaker 1: So I saw that there was a survey that was conducted.

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Speaker 1: So it says that motherfuckers is tired of their face

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Speaker 1: being on the internet, basically. So the survey was conducted

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Speaker 1: by NordVPN.com. A little more than 1,000 people in the U.S.,

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Speaker 1: the Internet. And according to PCMag, more than half of

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Speaker 1: the Internet. And 18% said they wish the Internet never existed.

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Speaker 1: And 8% said they don't use the Internet at all.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about that? You want to, you

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Speaker 2: Listen, I'm on social media. Instagram is mainly what I'm on.

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Speaker 2: Instagram and Clubhouse. I got off Facebook like 12 years ago. And,

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Speaker 2: you know, they be fucking nosy. Always asking where I

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Speaker 2: something like that. They just asking all these questions. And

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Speaker 2: it's like, for real, Facebook is like the World Wide Web.

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Speaker 2: And they just got everybody... in this damn web. Right.

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Speaker 2: And I don't want to be in a web. Like,

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Speaker 2: I remember when Facebook, not Facebook, MySpace, like, went away.

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Speaker 2: I tried to log into MySpace to delete my pictures

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Speaker 2: you know, once you put your image on these sites,

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Speaker 2: they own it. Right.

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Speaker 1: And you agree to that when you sign up.

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Speaker 2: Exactly.

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Speaker 1: And nobody ever reads the agreement.

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Speaker 3: Everybody just scrolls and says, I just.

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Speaker 2: Want to fuck with this.

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Speaker 3: So I'm going to sign. Everybody else doing it.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's doing it.

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Speaker 2: Now, I try not to put my real name online.

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Speaker 2: So I'll use aliases all the time when I'm signing

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Speaker 2: up for shit. I got a junk play email that's

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Speaker 2: not connected to me in no type of way. That

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Speaker 2: shit is assigned to a fucking Google number. I'm not

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Speaker 2: fucking with it. I don't like it. I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be Google-able. But I guess at

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Speaker 2: this rate, we don't got no choice.

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Speaker 1: Much like how we said about ourselves, I take the

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Speaker 1: good and the bad that comes with the internet. Because,

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Speaker 1: the earth, too. Right?

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Speaker 2: Does it? Yeah. I feel like for black people in particular, like,

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Speaker 2: the internet was like the worst shit that could have

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Speaker 2: ever happened to us. Because white people actually get to

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Speaker 2: now see us and see how the fuck we are

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Speaker 2: and be in our business without actually seeing us. And

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Speaker 2: how to manipulate things based on the type of shit

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Speaker 2: we put online. So I don't know, man. I don't

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Speaker 2: like it. Girl. Girl, the powers that be. They be

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Speaker 2: watching your ass, girl.

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Speaker 1: The white man is infiltrating the black community with the

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Speaker 1: information that we posted on.

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Speaker 2: What y'all don't know is, look, what y'all don't know

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Speaker 2: is the white man is actually.

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Speaker 3: The black man. They just don't look like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: they look like us, but they ain't us.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck AJ talking about.

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Speaker 2: Girl! Wait till I really get this conspiracy segment going.

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Speaker 2: I'm about to put y'all on game.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like for me, I know like if

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Speaker 1: I ever became like for real famous, it's some shit

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Speaker 1: they gonna pull up that I done tweeted or some

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Speaker 1: shit I'm saying right now on this motherfucker.

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Speaker 2: That's definitely going to get me in some hot water.

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Speaker 2: I already know. And I'm going to be just like Nene.

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Speaker 2: I said what I said.

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Speaker 1: In 2022, you said that. Pick some crazy shit, and

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Speaker 1: they're going to break me over the coals about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't care, though.

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Speaker 3: Cancel culture only lasts for like two weeks.

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Speaker 2: You be all right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That shit lasts for two fucking weeks.

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Speaker 3: The best thing you can do is just not respond. Okay,

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Speaker 3: don't respond.

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Speaker 2: Let the shit blow over and then come back like

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Speaker 2: ain't shit happened. But it's always going to be that

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Speaker 2: one motherfucker in the comments like, bitch, we ain't forget.

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Speaker 1: Right, we ain't forgot about those allegations against you, bitch. Damn,

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Speaker 1: that was three weeks ago, hoe. Kanye done did some

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Speaker 1: shit else to pay attention to.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: Where the fuck is Kanye? I'm concerned about him.

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Speaker 1: Girl, I'm glad he's taking a seat because people was

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Speaker 1: getting mad at our content.

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Speaker 2: People was all in our reviews like, another Kanye day?

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Speaker 2: As if everybody wasn't reporting on Kanye.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but we was going ham on Kanye. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I hope he's okay. It was fun.

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Speaker 2: It was a lot going on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but the sad part is somebody's mental break was

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Speaker 2: I don't think Kanye was having a mental break. No,

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Speaker 2: I really don't. No, I don't think so. I don't

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Speaker 2: think he was having a mental break, but did you

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Speaker 2: see Shaquille O'Neal was on that podcast, The Pivot. And

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Speaker 2: you know, a couple of weeks, this damn Channing, what's

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Speaker 2: his name? Channing Crowder. Channing Crowder was the guy who

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Speaker 2: said that Russell Wilson was a square, right? So now

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Speaker 2: this week, They have Shaquille O'Neal on and he asked

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Speaker 2: Shaquille O'Neal about his divorce from Shawnee O'Neal. And to me,

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Speaker 2: it just sounded like he was trying to give Shaquille

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Speaker 2: O'Neal an out. You know what I'm saying? As if

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Speaker 2: this is the type of man who doesn't take accountability

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Speaker 2: for shit.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 2: He was basically like, well, it was two people in

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Speaker 2: a marriage, right? Like that wasn't all on you. And

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Speaker 2: Shaquille O'Neal corrected him and said, you know what? No,

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Speaker 2: it was on me because she was a good woman.

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Speaker 2: She took care of my kids, even handled the business

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Speaker 2: aspect of our lives. And I was fucking up, period.

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Speaker 2: He took accountability. And that's what, and I'm not saying

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Speaker 2: like women don't be coming with their bullshit because everybody

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Speaker 2: has their thing, right? But what he said was he

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Speaker 2: wasn't protecting her. He wasn't protecting her. He wasn't protecting

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Speaker 2: their vows. And I'm pretty sure protecting her, he means

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Speaker 2: like mental, mentally. Like you keep going through shit with

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Speaker 2: a man Why am I supposed to stay? At what

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Speaker 2: point do women leave right and he just was taking

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Speaker 2: accountability for it like we know.

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Speaker 1: That I'm sure Shani heard that and was like finally motherfucker.

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Speaker 2: They friends though you see what I'm saying like he

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Speaker 2: said that on several occasions like they good they friends

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Speaker 2: like half their kids grown people now you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying so what do they have to fret about

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Speaker 2: yeah But I'm.

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Speaker 1: Sure, well, he probably said it to her already. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure if he said it to the world, he's made

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Speaker 1: those words to her.

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Speaker 2: I like Shaq for that.

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Speaker 1: Me too. I respect it. But it's always in hindsight

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Speaker 1: that men see this kind of thing, you know? When

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: Shame.

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Speaker 1: I'm here for Shaq. Shout out to Shaq, man. Oh!

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Speaker 1: Why? You don't have to live by it. You just

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Speaker 2: Hey, look, I'm about to get deep again. The frequency

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Speaker 2: Hey, look, I definitely be a whole drug dealer thing.

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Speaker 1: Right, listening to music. You don't have to live it.

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Speaker 1: And that's the problem with young people. They don't know

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Speaker 2: It's just like TV.

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Speaker 1: You watch a movie. You see Denzel talking about Pelican

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Speaker 2: Coming through the speakers. Yeah. That shit going to change

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Speaker 1: It did. It really did that for me, but I

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Speaker 2: For real. Who the hell was she talking to in

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Speaker 2: that song? What grown mag you calling the bitch mag?

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Speaker 1: Who you think? I think it's still Tory Lanez. You

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Speaker 3: But she said she kept taking Plan B pills.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, let's not assume the song's about anybody, but

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Speaker 3: She had some shit to get off her damn chest.

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Speaker 1: Nah, she said, this song is very, and I quote,

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Speaker 2: You saw, oh boy.

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Speaker 1: First off, fuck your bitch in the clique. That's how

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Speaker 2: You saw Tory Lanez in the damn club with all

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Speaker 1: On purpose.

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Speaker 3: How y'all clicking up against a woman?

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: Is she bigger than all them?

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Speaker 2: Make her probably Donkey Kong them niggas. That's the problem.

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Speaker 2: Y'all got to team up to beat her. Shame. What

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Speaker 2: about this guy who.

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Speaker 1: On purpose. They did that.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't a coincidence. Hell yeah. They probably called each

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Speaker 1: Right. Photo op. Tori, make sure you spray the top

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Speaker 2: Let me stop.

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Speaker 1: Let me stop ball shaming him.

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Speaker 2: I like bald heads. Me too. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Tori,

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Speaker 3: You ain't with that?

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Speaker 2: Girl, what if you meet the man of your fucking

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Speaker 2: like all right i'm heading home now where you at

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Speaker 2: No that's my man that's my man.

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Speaker 1: And that's good but girl don't.

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Speaker 2: Leave i'm out i'd be like okay if you that

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Speaker 2: bitch that's gonna leave every time Yeah, I've never done that.

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Speaker 1: When you mad, don't call me about that nigga. Don't

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Speaker 3: What you doing?

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Speaker 1: I want to get out. No, bitch, fuck you.

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Speaker 2: Where's your man?

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Speaker 1: Stay your ass at home with him. Bitter tonight.

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Speaker 2: My man. You said that was pick-me behavior. I felt

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Speaker 1: She wouldn't, like, just not have an identity because you

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Speaker 2: Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to, you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You know, I ain't got no man. Maybe if I

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, we might not even see your ass, bitch.

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Speaker 2: You getting a super healthy relationship. Right.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody going to see that.

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Speaker 1: But anybody, like, honestly, when you're in a super healthy relationship,

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Speaker 2: Tell them what you're doing. I ain't having fun without you.

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Speaker 1: Nigga, well, turn on something on the TV. I'll be back.

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Speaker 3: I like to be on the couch with a man

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Speaker 3: me too I.

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Speaker 2: It's not a problem I do not want to make

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Speaker 1: Why you got to make love all the time? Let

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Speaker 1: get there. No. Wake him up when you get home.

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Speaker 1: Let him cater to you. When I come home late,

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Speaker 2: All right, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Let's pay some bills.

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Speaker 2: We'll be right back. Okay, we done talking about men

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Speaker 2: I thought you said you was done for 2022.

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Speaker 1: I said I was done having sex for 2022.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you getting all meals, though.

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Speaker 3: Calling all meals.

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Speaker 1: I need a break. Let's talk about something outside of

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Speaker 1: Some places, I don't even know kids that talk about

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hell yeah. Because we all here chasing dreams.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: Right now.

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Speaker 1: So the first thing is letting discouragement overwhelm you. Now,

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Speaker 1: Like I want to start this bread company, bitch. Everybody's

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Speaker 2: You know, not. They don't got this bread.

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Speaker 1: That's the attitude you have to have. But I have

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Speaker 1: Of course.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. You know, I've been writing a book literally for

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Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, little shit like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, is it not good?

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Speaker 1: Well, get in your head.

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Speaker 2: Yes. I'm like, damn, is it not good? Right. You

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Speaker 1: Like, what the fuck? But we got to stop doing

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Speaker 1: You'll be petrified. Remember, it's not going to be a

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Speaker 1: And that's okay.

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00:21:08,450 --> 00:21:09,540
Speaker 2: And that motivates me.

444
00:21:09,650 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 1: And that's okay, too. And that's great to have those kind.

445
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:12,300
Speaker 2: Of people in your face.

446
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,900
Speaker 3: Like, people think I'm a superhuman sometimes.

447
00:21:14,980 --> 00:21:17,140
Speaker 2: I be like, yeah, that's me. And then in real life,

448
00:21:17,220 --> 00:21:21,820
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, I'm fucking lazy. And hold on, I

449
00:21:21,859 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 2: missed a little piece. They said something about being consistent.

450
00:21:24,619 --> 00:21:26,740
Speaker 2: That's my problem. Consistency.

451
00:21:26,820 --> 00:21:30,179
Speaker 1: That's a lot. You're not alone. There's a lot of

452
00:21:30,260 --> 00:21:32,229
Speaker 1: us in that boat. It's definitely a level.

453
00:21:32,250 --> 00:21:34,690
Speaker 3: Look, I'm being honest with myself and y'all today, y'all.

454
00:21:34,770 --> 00:21:35,430
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too.

455
00:21:35,540 --> 00:21:35,929
Speaker 2: Fuck it.

456
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: Number two, denying your current situation. If your current situation

457
00:21:42,740 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: is not ideal, don't live in denial. If you do,

458
00:21:46,580 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 1: you won't be able to deal with the obstacles you're

459
00:21:48,700 --> 00:21:52,590
Speaker 1: currently facing. Doing nothing won't change your situation or bring

460
00:21:52,609 --> 00:21:55,530
Speaker 1: you any closer to your dreams. Before long, you will

461
00:21:55,570 --> 00:21:59,570
Speaker 1: hit the wall and crash and possibly fall into a depression. Ooh.

462
00:22:00,070 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 2: Boom. Girl, who the fuck they talking to? You.

463
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:10,460
Speaker 1: Me. Everybody listening. All right. Instead, accept the situation you're

464
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:14,260
Speaker 1: in and work towards changing it. You have more power

465
00:22:14,300 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 1: than you realize. Trust and believe in yourself. However small

466
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,290
Speaker 1: the change happens, be grateful.

467
00:22:22,310 --> 00:22:22,929
Speaker 2: Yes.

468
00:22:23,070 --> 00:22:26,350
Speaker 1: Gratitude. That's the number one thing.

469
00:22:26,369 --> 00:22:31,020
Speaker 2: Yep. Yeah, the work is the process. You know, people

470
00:22:31,100 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 2: always be waiting for the finishing product, but the finish

471
00:22:34,270 --> 00:22:37,290
Speaker 2: is actually the process while you're going through it.

472
00:22:37,369 --> 00:22:37,629
Speaker 1: Right.

473
00:22:38,170 --> 00:22:39,369
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? It's no ending.

474
00:22:39,630 --> 00:22:39,890
Speaker 1: Right.

475
00:22:40,510 --> 00:22:41,550
Speaker 2: The whole shit is a process.

476
00:22:41,570 --> 00:22:42,590
Speaker 1: It's the journey, yeah.

477
00:22:43,230 --> 00:22:43,570
Speaker 2: Yes.

478
00:22:44,330 --> 00:22:47,629
Speaker 1: So, three, dwelling on the past.

479
00:22:48,030 --> 00:22:48,810
Speaker 2: That's my problem.

480
00:22:49,090 --> 00:22:49,590
Speaker 1: I live there.

481
00:22:49,609 --> 00:22:51,150
Speaker 2: Me too. Listen to this.

482
00:22:51,670 --> 00:22:54,830
Speaker 1: Holding on to a painful past will fill you with

483
00:22:54,910 --> 00:22:58,670
Speaker 1: doubts when you're trying to pursue your dreams. You won't

484
00:22:58,710 --> 00:23:01,770
Speaker 1: be able to handle obstacles that arise, and you'll spend

485
00:23:01,790 --> 00:23:05,210
Speaker 1: your energy on worries and regret. You'll be afraid to

486
00:23:05,260 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: make decisions because of past experiences. You'll hold yourself back

487
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,379
Speaker 1: from claiming opportunities when they arise. So let the past

488
00:23:14,420 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 1: be gone, but cling to the good memories. And when

489
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,990
Speaker 1: things are rocky, look at the past and smile. Let

490
00:23:20,030 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 1: the bad be a learning experience. Let learning produce growth

491
00:23:23,619 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: and let growth bring you closer to your goal.

492
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,300
Speaker 2: So I am, and I can admit this, I am

493
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:37,409
Speaker 2: a bit pessimistic. I dwell on the past.

494
00:23:40,550 --> 00:23:41,570
Speaker 1: Bitch, I remember one.

495
00:23:41,470 --> 00:23:42,830
Speaker 3: Day I was on the phone with my friend and

496
00:23:42,850 --> 00:23:43,470
Speaker 3: she was like.

497
00:23:44,980 --> 00:23:47,530
Speaker 2: I'm like asking for feedback on the shit that I'm talking, right?

498
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 2: And she was like, you know, you've told me this

499
00:23:49,290 --> 00:23:52,750
Speaker 2: like a lot of times. Because in order to tell

500
00:23:52,770 --> 00:23:55,189
Speaker 2: you the current situation, I got to go back and

501
00:23:55,250 --> 00:23:57,890
Speaker 2: tell you all the shit, you know, in chronological order.

502
00:23:57,910 --> 00:23:59,390
Speaker 1: That's how I got to this place, right?

503
00:23:59,690 --> 00:24:01,810
Speaker 2: Yes, how I got to this place. But what you're

504
00:24:01,830 --> 00:24:05,510
Speaker 2: doing is, if it's trauma that you're experiencing during this conversation,

505
00:24:05,869 --> 00:24:09,990
Speaker 2: you're reliving it over and over again. So don't not

506
00:24:10,070 --> 00:24:12,590
Speaker 2: not talk about it. You got to talk about the things.

507
00:24:13,170 --> 00:24:15,609
Speaker 2: But You got to forgive yourself. If you got to

508
00:24:15,670 --> 00:24:19,169
Speaker 2: forgive somebody else, do that. My problem, I do hold grudges.

509
00:24:19,230 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: And I know that about myself. I be holding grudges.

510
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 2: But I feel like I'm working on it. I have

511
00:24:27,859 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 2: released a lot of anguish behind certain situations because I

512
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:35,090
Speaker 2: did feel like it was hindering me. And that's a

513
00:24:35,109 --> 00:24:36,109
Speaker 2: fucking process too.

514
00:24:36,150 --> 00:24:36,370
Speaker 1: Right.

515
00:24:36,410 --> 00:24:38,750
Speaker 2: Because, you know, maybe I wanted to smack a motherfucker

516
00:24:38,770 --> 00:24:40,770
Speaker 2: and I didn't get the opportunity to. Now I'm mad

517
00:24:40,810 --> 00:24:46,530
Speaker 2: about it still. Out of all the examples you could

518
00:24:46,550 --> 00:24:49,790
Speaker 2: have just used, that was the one you chose. I

519
00:24:49,850 --> 00:24:57,100
Speaker 2: regret not smacking that nigga. It wasn't about a man, okay? Look, wink, wink,

520
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:57,780
Speaker 2: what the fuck?

521
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:05,430
Speaker 1: So, I read something yesterday about letting... The past hurts

522
00:25:06,030 --> 00:25:09,330
Speaker 1: of your life. Just be like water between your fingers.

523
00:25:09,570 --> 00:25:12,070
Speaker 1: And once it rolls through, it's gone forever. You can't

524
00:25:12,109 --> 00:25:14,130
Speaker 1: bring it back. And just let it go.

525
00:25:14,150 --> 00:25:17,780
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think people, period, we need to be more

526
00:25:17,820 --> 00:25:21,900
Speaker 2: like water. Yeah. And just flow. And just move. And just,

527
00:25:22,420 --> 00:25:23,100
Speaker 2: you know, shit.

528
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: Shit gonna happen.

529
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,300
Speaker 2: Right. Roll with the punches. Like, literally.

530
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 1: I think we as black people roll with the punches

531
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: more than anybody, though. You don't think so?

532
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:31,380
Speaker 2: Yes.

533
00:25:31,500 --> 00:25:32,939
Speaker 1: But probably not as far as our mental.

534
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,380
Speaker 3: It'd be too many fucking punches, man.

535
00:25:34,420 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: Our mental health is concerned. We probably could do better.

536
00:25:37,790 --> 00:25:39,250
Speaker 3: But we also laugh at things.

537
00:25:39,430 --> 00:25:40,930
Speaker 2: Yeah. So that's a little stressful.

538
00:25:40,950 --> 00:25:43,170
Speaker 1: But people trying to take laughter away from you. Like,

539
00:25:44,310 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: you can't laugh. You are not allowed to laugh at

540
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: anybody else's problems. But the shit be funny sometimes. Like....

541
00:25:55,070 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 2: If we can't, like, that's what made... I know I

542
00:25:57,390 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: laugh at all shit. I don't got no business laughing

543
00:25:59,660 --> 00:26:00,659
Speaker 2: at all the time.

544
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a part of life. I mean, you know,

545
00:26:03,380 --> 00:26:07,060
Speaker 1: it's just not funny when it's your go, right? When

546
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 1: they be talking like... Because I know, like, right here

547
00:26:08,980 --> 00:26:11,230
Speaker 1: on my temple, my edges is kind of thin right here.

548
00:26:11,670 --> 00:26:14,649
Speaker 1: And when niggas make edges jokes, I be mad at them.

549
00:26:14,690 --> 00:26:20,609
Speaker 2: Well, fuck you, motherfucker. I bet your mama bald-headed too, bitch. Jesus.

550
00:26:20,630 --> 00:26:21,210
Speaker 2: All that.

551
00:26:23,470 --> 00:26:25,990
Speaker 1: And then that ain't funny. No Ed shaming. Then no

552
00:26:26,150 --> 00:26:29,699
Speaker 1: Ed shaming, right? But when it's something else, when we

553
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: talk about like a nigga is impotent and somebody cutting

554
00:26:33,060 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: jokes about that, I be in there like, that nigga

555
00:26:36,260 --> 00:26:46,970
Speaker 1: dick don't rise. You don't laugh as hard as hell. Yo,

556
00:26:46,990 --> 00:26:48,050
Speaker 1: you're so stupid.

557
00:26:48,130 --> 00:26:49,090
Speaker 2: Okay, let me relax.

558
00:26:50,590 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 1: Number four, we can't take shit serious.

559
00:26:52,930 --> 00:26:57,310
Speaker 2: Like, I don't want to. Yeah, me neither. I'm childish, okay?

560
00:26:57,369 --> 00:26:57,790
Speaker 1: For life.

561
00:26:59,230 --> 00:27:02,629
Speaker 2: Procrastinating, number four. Let me say that again for y'all. Girl,

562
00:27:02,650 --> 00:27:04,189
Speaker 2: why are they talking about me like that?

563
00:27:04,230 --> 00:27:07,450
Speaker 1: Procrastinating. Procrastinating.

564
00:27:07,470 --> 00:27:09,390
Speaker 2: Yeah.

565
00:27:10,190 --> 00:27:13,490
Speaker 1: For y'all in the back. Procrastinating.

566
00:27:13,510 --> 00:27:16,550
Speaker 3: I don't even do the shit I be wanting to do.

567
00:27:16,609 --> 00:27:16,850
Speaker 1: Right.

568
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,060
Speaker 2: It's really bad when you don't do shit that you

569
00:27:21,220 --> 00:27:22,220
Speaker 2: actually want to do.

570
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 1: You're not alone. It's a lot of us.

571
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:25,139
Speaker 2: All right.

572
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,730
Speaker 1: So it says time wasted cannot be recovered. It's just

573
00:27:28,790 --> 00:27:32,290
Speaker 1: like a river. Once you touch the water flowing past you,

574
00:27:32,730 --> 00:27:35,910
Speaker 1: it will never flow back towards you again. Do what

575
00:27:35,930 --> 00:27:38,540
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do when it's supposed to be done.

576
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:45,100
Speaker 2: Okay. So at the beginning of this year, I was saying,

577
00:27:47,070 --> 00:27:51,410
Speaker 2: I'm going to do what I say I'm going to do, right?

578
00:27:51,430 --> 00:27:53,670
Speaker 2: Because when somebody asks something of me, I always show

579
00:27:53,710 --> 00:27:55,850
Speaker 2: up for them. Like, no matter what it is, like,

580
00:27:56,070 --> 00:27:57,290
Speaker 2: I mean, if I don't want to do some shit,

581
00:27:57,330 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 2: I don't have, no is a complete statement. I'm not

582
00:27:59,980 --> 00:28:02,020
Speaker 2: scared to tell anybody no. But I usually show up

583
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 2: for other people before I show up for myself. So

584
00:28:04,420 --> 00:28:07,590
Speaker 2: what if you do that for yourself, though? Whatever you

585
00:28:07,650 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 2: say you're going to do, do it.

586
00:28:09,430 --> 00:28:09,650
Speaker 1: Right.

587
00:28:09,670 --> 00:28:11,350
Speaker 2: That's how you get things done daily.

588
00:28:11,490 --> 00:28:11,670
Speaker 1: Right.

589
00:28:12,070 --> 00:28:14,449
Speaker 2: Even if, you know, maybe you need to write it down. Like,

590
00:28:14,510 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 2: I feel like I might need to start writing down

591
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 2: things I need to do. That's what I was going

592
00:28:18,180 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: to tell you. I'm going to start updating our calendar

593
00:28:20,540 --> 00:28:23,060
Speaker 2: so we can have actual goals.

594
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:24,260
Speaker 1: And prioritize it.

595
00:28:24,460 --> 00:28:27,940
Speaker 2: Yeah. Exactly. Like, that's how we're going to get to

596
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 2: our goals. Writing them down. Seeing them.

597
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 3: Visualizing them. You know, even if you got to do a.

598
00:28:34,790 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 2: This is the first year I ever did a vision board.

599
00:28:37,900 --> 00:28:40,100
Speaker 2: Why are you always finishing my damn sentences?

600
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,540
Speaker 1: Because I'm in your head.

601
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,140
Speaker 2: This is the first year I ever did a vision board,

602
00:28:46,180 --> 00:28:48,710
Speaker 2: and I got it as a screensaver on my phone.

603
00:28:49,230 --> 00:28:53,430
Speaker 2: However unrealistic it may be, whatever you want in life,

604
00:28:53,530 --> 00:28:54,850
Speaker 2: put that shit on the goddamn board.

605
00:28:54,870 --> 00:28:57,230
Speaker 1: Who decides what's unrealistic for you but you?

606
00:28:59,450 --> 00:29:01,290
Speaker 2: Dog let me tell you what the fuck on there.

607
00:29:04,780 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: I do have some unrealistic shit on my damn why

608
00:29:07,660 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: do you feel like it's unrealistic you what's the nigga

609
00:29:10,980 --> 00:29:16,070
Speaker 1: from Lovecraft country the actor oh that the one with

610
00:29:16,090 --> 00:29:19,770
Speaker 1: the real wide nose that nigga fine as hell yes

611
00:29:20,230 --> 00:29:23,430
Speaker 1: he on your vision board who says you can't have

612
00:29:23,470 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: him bitch Look, I.

613
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,900
Speaker 2: Could probably have him or someone that looks like him.

614
00:29:27,940 --> 00:29:31,790
Speaker 2: Jonathan Majors. Yes, Jonathan Majors. I want him.

615
00:29:31,790 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: I think he's in a movie with, um he's in

616
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:40,180
Speaker 1: this movie with coming out with um Michael Michael B.

617
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:44,500
Speaker 1: Jordan bitch both of them in a movie together I

618
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,740
Speaker 1: yes I like him better than Michael yeah he was

619
00:29:47,820 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: out there with his shirt off and I don't know

620
00:29:49,510 --> 00:29:51,110
Speaker 1: what was going on but I knew that I was

621
00:29:51,150 --> 00:29:52,430
Speaker 1: gonna see that movie as soon.

622
00:29:52,270 --> 00:29:55,310
Speaker 2: As it came out oh he just looks so godly

623
00:29:55,670 --> 00:29:59,650
Speaker 2: and like He just looked like so manly. Yes, he

624
00:29:59,670 --> 00:30:03,350
Speaker 2: looked so masculine and manly. I just know God is

625
00:30:03,490 --> 00:30:08,330
Speaker 2: real when I look at him. He got on that.

626
00:30:08,110 --> 00:30:10,210
Speaker 1: Big old white bell pepper nigga nose.

627
00:30:10,590 --> 00:30:11,550
Speaker 2: Ooh, I love it!

628
00:30:12,130 --> 00:30:14,270
Speaker 1: I'm proud as hell.

629
00:30:16,290 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I got that grown man on my goddamn

630
00:30:19,910 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 2: vision board.

631
00:30:22,140 --> 00:30:24,340
Speaker 1: I don't see the problem. I don't see what's unrealistic.

632
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,820
Speaker 1: He's just another human being.

633
00:30:26,690 --> 00:30:27,410
Speaker 2: Thank you, Fran.

634
00:30:28,210 --> 00:30:32,370
Speaker 1: All right. So let's hit the next one. Neglecting your body.

635
00:30:33,850 --> 00:30:37,550
Speaker 1: Don't forever forget to take care of your body. Treat

636
00:30:37,590 --> 00:30:40,050
Speaker 1: it like a temple. If you don't, you will get

637
00:30:40,170 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 1: sick mentally and physically. And this will prevent you from

638
00:30:43,980 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: working towards your goal. However hard you work and take

639
00:30:47,380 --> 00:30:51,060
Speaker 1: time off to exercise. And don't forget to eat healthy foods.

640
00:30:51,380 --> 00:30:55,940
Speaker 1: Don't starve yourself. Don't forget to pray. It'll nourish your

641
00:30:56,040 --> 00:31:00,030
Speaker 1: soul and give you inner peace. Take care of your bodies, guys,

642
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:00,460
Speaker 1: you know?

643
00:31:00,930 --> 00:31:03,910
Speaker 2: Exactly. So, I mean, I feel like all of these

644
00:31:03,970 --> 00:31:05,530
Speaker 2: things kind of run together. I know we're only on

645
00:31:05,550 --> 00:31:10,050
Speaker 2: the fifth topic anyway. But buy some nice gym clothes.

646
00:31:10,790 --> 00:31:12,110
Speaker 2: If you're trying to lose weight and you want to

647
00:31:12,130 --> 00:31:15,210
Speaker 2: go to the gym, buy some nice gym clothes. That

648
00:31:15,230 --> 00:31:16,810
Speaker 2: kind of motivates you to go to the gym when

649
00:31:16,830 --> 00:31:20,190
Speaker 2: you're looking good in the gym too. Like, it's just,

650
00:31:20,390 --> 00:31:20,650
Speaker 2: you know.

651
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:21,620
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

652
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 2: Don't be up in there with that big stretched out

653
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: white t-shirt.

654
00:31:23,820 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: Old t-shirt on.

655
00:31:25,540 --> 00:31:25,740
Speaker 2: Yeah.

656
00:31:25,780 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: But you know what? If that's all you got to wear, bitch,

657
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: go in there and get in shape and whatever you

658
00:31:29,900 --> 00:31:31,330
Speaker 1: got to. Oh, that too.

659
00:31:31,340 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that too.

660
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,500
Speaker 1: But if you can get you some cute stuff, get

661
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,790
Speaker 1: you some cute stuff. That do make you feel better.

662
00:31:39,130 --> 00:31:41,690
Speaker 1: But I definitely done been in Planet Fitness. I got

663
00:31:41,710 --> 00:31:43,310
Speaker 1: in the best shape of my life in a big

664
00:31:43,430 --> 00:31:46,410
Speaker 1: ass Planet Fitness t-shirt. I made sure I was covered up.

665
00:31:46,470 --> 00:31:48,270
Speaker 1: I didn't even want to be bothered by nobody.

666
00:31:49,700 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: Girl, I remember one time I was so serious about

667
00:31:51,420 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 2: my goddamn health. I was wearing those, like the plastic.

668
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: I can't stand the rain.

669
00:31:57,550 --> 00:32:01,450
Speaker 2: Yes. Bitch, I was in there sweating. Getting extra fine.

670
00:32:01,510 --> 00:32:04,270
Speaker 2: And what happened after you get extra fine? You fucking

671
00:32:04,290 --> 00:32:07,070
Speaker 2: stopped doing all the shit. Fat again. You stopped doing

672
00:32:07,370 --> 00:32:10,610
Speaker 2: all the things that led you to getting extra fine.

673
00:32:10,630 --> 00:32:12,450
Speaker 1: Because it has to be a lifestyle change and that's

674
00:32:12,470 --> 00:32:14,730
Speaker 1: the hard part. Yep.

675
00:32:16,130 --> 00:32:18,940
Speaker 2: Yep. So take care of your diet. Make sure you're

676
00:32:19,180 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 2: eating the right foods. I know. Listen.

677
00:32:21,020 --> 00:32:24,540
Speaker 1: And introduce that shit to your kids early, man. So

678
00:32:24,580 --> 00:32:27,420
Speaker 1: they grow up with it already as a lifestyle because

679
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: I wasn't raised in no household where people was exercising.

680
00:32:32,180 --> 00:32:33,980
Speaker 2: Yeah. So then now when you get to be an adult,

681
00:32:34,070 --> 00:32:36,230
Speaker 2: it's like a real like reset thing.

682
00:32:36,270 --> 00:32:37,270
Speaker 1: Yeah. You got to reset.

683
00:32:37,290 --> 00:32:38,550
Speaker 2: And it's hard.

684
00:32:39,890 --> 00:32:42,330
Speaker 3: What was I about to say about the diet?

685
00:32:42,490 --> 00:32:43,830
Speaker 2: So, yeah, I don't eat meat like that.

686
00:32:43,890 --> 00:32:44,030
Speaker 1: Right.

687
00:32:44,540 --> 00:32:47,060
Speaker 2: So y'all see chicken is like, what? How much chicken?

688
00:32:47,100 --> 00:32:49,100
Speaker 2: Like $ 50 a pack now? Y'all niggas don't want to

689
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:49,900
Speaker 2: stop eating meat yet?

690
00:32:50,220 --> 00:32:50,500
Speaker 1: Nope.

691
00:32:53,260 --> 00:32:54,180
Speaker 2: Lamb chops, like $ 60.

692
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,340
Speaker 3: What else y'all be eating?

693
00:32:56,620 --> 00:32:58,220
Speaker 2: Them oxtails, all that bullshit.

694
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:02,820
Speaker 1: Oxtails high as fuck right now, too. I was like,

695
00:33:02,820 --> 00:33:05,180
Speaker 1: $ 28 for a box of oxtails, bitch?

696
00:33:06,450 --> 00:33:09,250
Speaker 2: Hamburger meat. All that stuff is expensive, man.

697
00:33:09,270 --> 00:33:11,469
Speaker 1: I got an oxtail meal from this restaurant. It was

698
00:33:11,470 --> 00:33:16,530
Speaker 1: $ 28 from the Jamaican spot. That was a lot. Half

699
00:33:16,590 --> 00:33:19,130
Speaker 1: a box of rice? Half the box is full of

700
00:33:19,230 --> 00:33:22,990
Speaker 1: motherfucking beans and rice. And three art sales on there

701
00:33:23,010 --> 00:33:25,540
Speaker 1: for $ 28. I'm like, man, y'all tripping.

702
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,820
Speaker 2: I'm planning on starting me a garden soon.

703
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:29,540
Speaker 1: Oh, that'd be nice.

704
00:33:29,700 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: Where are you, Jodi, mama, from, baby boy? I don't

705
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,459
Speaker 2: know if y'all have been paying attention to logistics, like

706
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,300
Speaker 2: the truckers and stuff like that. paying attention to what's

707
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,260
Speaker 2: going on with Mexico and stuff. Have you noticed that

708
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,340
Speaker 2: your fruits and vegetables be going bad real fast? That's

709
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,380
Speaker 2: because they probably been sitting on a highway in a

710
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 2: fucking truck for a week before it even got to

711
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,810
Speaker 2: your local grocery store. So we about to be at

712
00:33:52,850 --> 00:33:55,030
Speaker 2: the point where we need to be growing our own food.

713
00:33:55,070 --> 00:34:00,530
Speaker 2: So I've been looking for like a local, like somebody

714
00:34:00,590 --> 00:34:05,219
Speaker 2: I could buy like seedlings, like was kind of already sprouted.

715
00:34:06,310 --> 00:34:09,330
Speaker 3: Because I mean, I've never, I can't make shit grow.

716
00:34:09,350 --> 00:34:10,190
Speaker 2: I'm going to just be honest.

717
00:34:10,210 --> 00:34:13,330
Speaker 3: And I really be trying because I feel like it's.

718
00:34:12,830 --> 00:34:16,210
Speaker 2: On a real live. My mama makes shit grow. You

719
00:34:16,250 --> 00:34:18,310
Speaker 2: make shit grow. And I feel like it's her. Shut up.

720
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: You so damn stupid.

721
00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:22,739
Speaker 3: Not in that way.

722
00:34:22,780 --> 00:34:24,140
Speaker 2: Yes, I could definitely make it grow.

723
00:34:25,340 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: I can grow hair. Except for in that spot right there.

724
00:34:28,020 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: I can grow other people hair. But my plant, I

725
00:34:32,940 --> 00:34:33,779
Speaker 1: bought me a money plant.

726
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 2: That shit is dead.

727
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,219
Speaker 3: Whole Foods got them on sale right now.

728
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,299
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm going to go buy another one. That's where

729
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,140
Speaker 2: I got the first one from. Yeah, but I want

730
00:34:42,180 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 2: to get me some seedlings, man. I want to get

731
00:34:44,140 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 2: me some seedlings and start a little garden. That's nice.

732
00:34:47,890 --> 00:34:48,969
Speaker 2: Take your vitamins.

733
00:34:49,110 --> 00:34:49,989
Speaker 1: Yeah, take your vitamins.

734
00:34:50,010 --> 00:34:50,890
Speaker 3: Get a multivitamin.

735
00:34:50,910 --> 00:34:52,510
Speaker 1: Sea moss is good for your body.

736
00:34:52,930 --> 00:34:53,410
Speaker 2: Chlorophyll.

737
00:34:53,430 --> 00:34:56,110
Speaker 1: How do you feel about... I do chlorophyll.

738
00:34:56,130 --> 00:34:56,430
Speaker 2: Me too.

739
00:34:57,190 --> 00:34:58,460
Speaker 1: I do chlorophyll. Black seed oil.

740
00:34:59,170 --> 00:35:00,910
Speaker 2: Yeah. I do black seed oil. Yep.

741
00:35:01,130 --> 00:35:04,669
Speaker 1: What about collodio silver? I don't know if I'm saying

742
00:35:04,690 --> 00:35:05,009
Speaker 1: that right.

743
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't purchased any of that.

744
00:35:07,940 --> 00:35:10,740
Speaker 1: I do. I do use that, but it's iffy.

745
00:35:10,820 --> 00:35:11,980
Speaker 2: I don't know a lot about it.

746
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: Someone told me to start taking it and I trust her.

747
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,180
Speaker 2: So I did. So last, well, not last week, two

748
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:22,660
Speaker 2: weeks ago, I did go get some Botox or Dysport, whatever,

749
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,129
Speaker 2: in my forehead and it didn't fucking take. It did.

750
00:35:25,150 --> 00:35:25,790
Speaker 1: But I did go.

751
00:35:26,510 --> 00:35:27,070
Speaker 2: No, it didn't.

752
00:35:27,090 --> 00:35:28,189
Speaker 3: Like, you can't see me for.

753
00:35:28,090 --> 00:35:30,250
Speaker 1: Real, girl. I just saw you the other day.

754
00:35:31,410 --> 00:35:34,069
Speaker 2: Well, it's back regular now, so it didn't take. All

755
00:35:34,110 --> 00:35:36,110
Speaker 2: I got is two extra pimples on my damn forehead.

756
00:35:36,150 --> 00:35:39,190
Speaker 2: But the last vitamin I bought was MSM. Y'all can

757
00:35:39,210 --> 00:35:42,330
Speaker 2: go research this. It's real good for your joints, your hair,

758
00:35:42,450 --> 00:35:47,910
Speaker 2: your skin. It helps with the elasticity in your skin.

759
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:53,340
Speaker 2: It's a good vitamin to add to your regimen.

760
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:54,980
Speaker 3: Just to put that out there.

761
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,379
Speaker 1: MSM. MSM. Mama, Sierra, Mama.

762
00:36:01,489 --> 00:36:01,569
Speaker 2: Okay.

763
00:36:01,590 --> 00:36:03,549
Speaker 1: Got it. I'm going to check that one out. Thank

764
00:36:03,570 --> 00:36:06,750
Speaker 1: you for that tidbit. All right, back to our list.

765
00:36:07,270 --> 00:36:10,089
Speaker 1: Number six, waiting for help to chase you.

766
00:36:10,110 --> 00:36:15,870
Speaker 2: I don't like asking for help. No, no.

767
00:36:15,910 --> 00:36:19,259
Speaker 1: Most people don't. So knock on doors. Will doors be

768
00:36:19,300 --> 00:36:22,620
Speaker 1: shut on you? Sure. More than you can count. Sometimes

769
00:36:22,660 --> 00:36:25,980
Speaker 1: we ask for help anticipating getting in our way. Sorry,

770
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: it doesn't work that way. If doors close, go in

771
00:36:29,739 --> 00:36:32,650
Speaker 1: through the window. If that means changing the course of

772
00:36:32,710 --> 00:36:36,430
Speaker 1: your plan, please do so. Change will not mean losing

773
00:36:36,469 --> 00:36:42,049
Speaker 1: your dream. So, y'all, don't be afraid to need help.

774
00:36:42,550 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: Because you never know who might want to support your

775
00:36:45,219 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: shit and help you get to the next level.

776
00:36:48,660 --> 00:36:48,899
Speaker 2: Yep.

777
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:56,779
Speaker 1: Number seven. Taking it personally when people judge you. That

778
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: one is huge for me.

779
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,380
Speaker 2: I don't be giving a fuck.

780
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:05,020
Speaker 1: Not just random people. People you love. Yeah. It's the

781
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: people I care about or their opinions I feel like

782
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: I care about. That's when I be feeling the way.

783
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: Even though I love all y'all listening to the show.

784
00:37:14,290 --> 00:37:17,009
Speaker 1: If one of y'all motherfuckers in the comments like, Tam

785
00:37:17,030 --> 00:37:19,969
Speaker 1: Bam is fucking stupid and I hate what she has

786
00:37:20,010 --> 00:37:26,300
Speaker 1: to say, I'd be like, Bitch, I don't care.

787
00:37:26,820 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 2: I don't care, hoe.

788
00:37:30,500 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: But it is someone that I admire, I love, and

789
00:37:34,219 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: they pass judgment on me.

790
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,020
Speaker 2: I do take it very personally.

791
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,460
Speaker 1: So it says here, They will judge you by how

792
00:37:41,500 --> 00:37:46,140
Speaker 1: you look, what you eat, how you live. When people judge,

793
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: it has more to do with their own fears and

794
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: insecurities than you. Turn a deaf ear to these judgments.

795
00:37:52,739 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: Feel proud of the journey you're taking.

796
00:37:56,090 --> 00:38:00,310
Speaker 2: Okay, I got a quick story. So a couple weeks ago,

797
00:38:01,010 --> 00:38:05,650
Speaker 2: my ex sent me a text message and he said,

798
00:38:05,670 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: I saw an old picture of you today. Man, I'm sorry. Like, what?

799
00:38:14,620 --> 00:38:17,570
Speaker 2: It's a whole long ass message. But essentially what he

800
00:38:17,610 --> 00:38:21,089
Speaker 2: was saying was to me, how I interpret it. You

801
00:38:21,130 --> 00:38:23,969
Speaker 2: saw an old picture of me. At that point, I

802
00:38:24,010 --> 00:38:29,250
Speaker 2: had been chunky AJ, skinny AJ, whatever.

803
00:38:29,430 --> 00:38:30,210
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?

804
00:38:30,250 --> 00:38:36,310
Speaker 2: So basically, you're using that image to justify how I

805
00:38:36,370 --> 00:38:39,430
Speaker 2: responded in the past to you being nasty to me?

806
00:38:40,570 --> 00:38:43,529
Speaker 2: As if I had the problem? When somebody says crazy

807
00:38:43,570 --> 00:38:46,020
Speaker 2: shit to you, it definitely has more to do with

808
00:38:46,060 --> 00:38:47,339
Speaker 2: them than you.

809
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: All the time. He said, I saw a picture of you.

810
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:55,819
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Yeah. He said, I'm sorry, man. As if

811
00:38:55,860 --> 00:38:58,610
Speaker 2: he didn't understand why I would trip about certain things,

812
00:38:58,790 --> 00:39:00,530
Speaker 2: it was because of this fucking fat picture?

813
00:39:01,969 --> 00:39:03,469
Speaker 3: You know how many skinny pictures I got?

814
00:39:03,489 --> 00:39:05,950
Speaker 2: How many fat pictures I got? What are we talking about?

815
00:39:07,010 --> 00:39:10,410
Speaker 2: I was so confused by it. And look, but listen,

816
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 2: but you know, I'm always on a diet. I'm always

817
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,219
Speaker 2: like trying to be as conscious as I can about

818
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 2: my health.

819
00:39:18,500 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 3: That same, like maybe not that same day.

820
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: A couple of days later, you drove down here and

821
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,470
Speaker 2: drop chocolate on my, on my porch.

822
00:39:25,710 --> 00:39:27,230
Speaker 1: Why are you trying to sabotage me?

823
00:39:27,350 --> 00:39:30,009
Speaker 2: Like you dropped all the chocolate shit I like. Chocolate

824
00:39:30,050 --> 00:39:36,060
Speaker 2: covered almonds. Those little chocolates with the gold shit around it. Like,

825
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,540
Speaker 2: why the fuck would you bring that after telling me

826
00:39:38,580 --> 00:39:40,860
Speaker 2: that you saw a fucking fat picture of me somewhere?

827
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: Girl, I wouldn't eat nothing from that nigga.

828
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 3: Girl, I've been fucking tearing them almonds up, bitch.

829
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:51,260
Speaker 1: So that's the thing.

830
00:39:51,300 --> 00:39:53,720
Speaker 2: You always say you on a diet. You ain't always

831
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:54,380
Speaker 2: on a diet.

832
00:39:55,739 --> 00:39:56,620
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm saying.

833
00:39:56,660 --> 00:39:58,739
Speaker 2: Like, I feel like he was trying to sabotage me

834
00:39:58,780 --> 00:40:04,589
Speaker 2: because the flesh is weak. And in my part, I

835
00:40:04,620 --> 00:40:08,350
Speaker 2: love sweets. I love, love, love fresh baked goods and chocolate.

836
00:40:08,469 --> 00:40:11,290
Speaker 1: AJ be eating his dessert. I don't know. It's not American.

837
00:40:11,310 --> 00:40:13,370
Speaker 2: I don't know where the fuck she gets this from.

838
00:40:13,730 --> 00:40:17,730
Speaker 1: But it looked like a fucking football with a line

839
00:40:17,790 --> 00:40:19,330
Speaker 1: of icing down the middle, right?

840
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,340
Speaker 2: What the fuck is that? Where is that from? It's

841
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 2: from the Asian market in Charlotte, from Super G Mart.

842
00:40:26,580 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 2: They got an Asian bakery in there. Girl, that stuff

843
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 2: is so good.

844
00:40:29,580 --> 00:40:31,860
Speaker 1: Girl, you know all the motherfucking facts.

845
00:40:32,050 --> 00:40:38,549
Speaker 2: All the good fat shit. I love it.

846
00:40:38,750 --> 00:40:40,149
Speaker 3: Listen, I love bread, man.

847
00:40:40,170 --> 00:40:42,390
Speaker 2: That's a problem. I feel like I started eating more bread.

848
00:40:42,830 --> 00:40:45,830
Speaker 2: When I stop eating meat. That's very common, though. Because

849
00:40:45,850 --> 00:40:48,610
Speaker 2: you know, like, a lot of people who are vegans

850
00:40:48,730 --> 00:40:51,910
Speaker 2: or vegetarians, they are on the thicker side because they

851
00:40:51,950 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 2: eat more carbs to substitute for what they're probably missing

852
00:40:55,580 --> 00:40:59,540
Speaker 2: with meat. Yeah, so I took that text very personally, child.

853
00:40:59,660 --> 00:41:01,939
Speaker 2: It fucked my whole weekend up. Don't let that nigga

854
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: fuck your weekend up. My whole weekend, girl. Like, I'm just,

855
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,250
Speaker 2: I woke up feeling like I'm that bitch. And then

856
00:41:09,290 --> 00:41:13,350
Speaker 2: I get, like, a damn long-ass fucking text message. Yeah.

857
00:41:13,610 --> 00:41:16,500
Speaker 1: But I feel like what you're doing right now is

858
00:41:16,660 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: number eight. And that's what I'm about to cut you

859
00:41:19,300 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: off so you can hear it. Number eight, dwelling on

860
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: the negative. It is impossible to only focus on the positive,

861
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,930
Speaker 1: but dwelling on the negative all the time is like

862
00:41:30,969 --> 00:41:34,190
Speaker 1: a bomb waiting to explode. Your thoughts will hold you

863
00:41:34,250 --> 00:41:37,970
Speaker 1: hostage from making progress and your mind will be filled

864
00:41:37,989 --> 00:41:42,020
Speaker 1: with doubt. Allow yourself to feel the negative. Cry if

865
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: you have to, but don't let it take over you.

866
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 1: Releasing your negative feelings will leave you at peace and

867
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,739
Speaker 1: you will be able to focus on the positive, even

868
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,340
Speaker 1: in tough times. A positive attitude will help you decide

869
00:41:54,380 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: the best strategy for achieving your goals. So let that

870
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,629
Speaker 1: nigga roll like the water between your fingers. Fuck him

871
00:42:01,650 --> 00:42:03,710
Speaker 1: and everything he had to say about you and your

872
00:42:03,770 --> 00:42:07,549
Speaker 1: old pictures. Fuck them old pictures, however you look. You

873
00:42:07,570 --> 00:42:09,410
Speaker 1: look like how you look right now. You find this

874
00:42:09,430 --> 00:42:10,470
Speaker 1: hell friend. Period.

875
00:42:11,890 --> 00:42:13,609
Speaker 2: Period.

876
00:42:14,390 --> 00:42:16,140
Speaker 1: My mama said stop saying period.

877
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:17,300
Speaker 2: Why?

878
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: She said stop saying that.

879
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:28,860
Speaker 2: Period. But meditation. That's what I got out of that.

880
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 2: Meditation will help you not dwell on negative things. Because

881
00:42:32,500 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 2: your mind just be so clear. And you know when

882
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,070
Speaker 2: a negative thing does come. I guess it's like really,

883
00:42:39,130 --> 00:42:41,270
Speaker 2: like you have to really practice. You have to really

884
00:42:41,350 --> 00:42:43,669
Speaker 2: practice dodging negative shit.

885
00:42:43,710 --> 00:42:43,970
Speaker 1: Right.

886
00:42:44,250 --> 00:42:47,620
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Like, may it just be like, okay,

887
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,739
Speaker 2: out of a day, right, you got two negative things.

888
00:42:49,820 --> 00:42:52,700
Speaker 2: If you just discarded and ignored one of them, you

889
00:42:52,739 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 2: did good.

890
00:42:53,260 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: Right.

891
00:42:54,550 --> 00:42:55,470
Speaker 2: Okay, you did good.

892
00:42:55,510 --> 00:42:58,190
Speaker 1: But if you find a way to focus on all

893
00:42:58,230 --> 00:43:00,670
Speaker 1: the positive things that happen, I don't know how we

894
00:43:00,690 --> 00:43:03,850
Speaker 1: let the negative shit be more important than the positive

895
00:43:03,870 --> 00:43:04,900
Speaker 1: shit that happens to us.

896
00:43:04,969 --> 00:43:07,710
Speaker 2: I think it's because, I think it's just this realm

897
00:43:07,969 --> 00:43:10,509
Speaker 2: that we're on. This world is negative. The world we're

898
00:43:10,530 --> 00:43:12,970
Speaker 2: living in is negative. So I think when you have

899
00:43:13,030 --> 00:43:16,370
Speaker 2: negative thoughts, they manifest quicker because we're in a negative

900
00:43:17,130 --> 00:43:19,649
Speaker 2: fucking universe. Like shit is negative in this world.

901
00:43:19,670 --> 00:43:20,750
Speaker 1: See, I don't feel that way.

902
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:22,100
Speaker 2: I don't, I mean, I do.

903
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of negative in this world,

904
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,220
Speaker 1: but I feel like equally there is goodness in this world.

905
00:43:27,300 --> 00:43:29,620
Speaker 1: And that's what I focus on. I don't focus on that.

906
00:43:30,180 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: I don't get, you know, there's a lot of good people.

907
00:43:33,260 --> 00:43:36,990
Speaker 1: I like, you are a great person. Do you know that?

908
00:43:38,390 --> 00:43:39,029
Speaker 2: Sometimes.

909
00:43:39,410 --> 00:43:42,010
Speaker 1: More times than not, you're a great person.

910
00:43:42,910 --> 00:43:43,910
Speaker 2: Thank you, friend. You too.

911
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: No, I've been meditating and I really feel like I

912
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,390
Speaker 1: be opening up my third eye, y'all. Now, I wasn't

913
00:43:50,410 --> 00:43:52,009
Speaker 1: going to tell y'all this because I ain't want y'all,

914
00:43:52,110 --> 00:43:54,310
Speaker 1: y'all know y'all be like, bitch, you ain't got but

915
00:43:54,350 --> 00:43:57,029
Speaker 1: two eyes. But I really do be like, I be

916
00:43:57,130 --> 00:44:01,029
Speaker 1: feeling like, like this. Oh, I be, it make me.

917
00:44:01,050 --> 00:44:01,470
Speaker 2: Euphoria?

918
00:44:01,690 --> 00:44:04,190
Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes me cry. I'll be in there and

919
00:44:04,270 --> 00:44:06,959
Speaker 1: I'll have, you know, my eyes closed and I'll just

920
00:44:07,580 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: be sitting and I'll even have like the sounds from outside.

921
00:44:10,980 --> 00:44:14,529
Speaker 1: Just whatever. It's maybe not so much music, but. Just

922
00:44:14,590 --> 00:44:17,230
Speaker 1: whatever is around me can just be whatever it is.

923
00:44:17,730 --> 00:44:20,570
Speaker 1: And I really be feeling like I have this white

924
00:44:20,770 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: light that starts shining really, really brightly over me. No lie, y'all.

925
00:44:25,780 --> 00:44:28,919
Speaker 1: I be feeling it. And it'll just feel like, even

926
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,460
Speaker 1: if there's a light in the room, maybe, I don't

927
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: know because my eyes are closed, but it feel like

928
00:44:32,100 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: it just got so much brighter for whatever reason. Yeah.

929
00:44:34,860 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 2: And you start seeing, without dark, you wouldn't know what

930
00:44:38,500 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: light is. And that's what you're seeing.

931
00:44:39,980 --> 00:44:40,980
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

932
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,219
Speaker 3: Without the darkness, you wouldn't even know what light is.

933
00:44:45,380 --> 00:44:47,620
Speaker 2: Right. So with your eyes closed like that and you

934
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,720
Speaker 2: seeing that white light, like that's the healing.

935
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,029
Speaker 1: And I can see it and it just gets so

936
00:44:53,110 --> 00:44:56,090
Speaker 1: bright and overwhelming. And then like everything that I hear

937
00:44:56,570 --> 00:45:00,810
Speaker 1: is like it exists and it don't exist at the

938
00:45:00,850 --> 00:45:03,020
Speaker 1: same time. Like I don't even know how to describe it,

939
00:45:03,050 --> 00:45:06,780
Speaker 1: but it's just so euphoric. And I'll be like so

940
00:45:06,930 --> 00:45:11,540
Speaker 1: overwhelmed with gratitude and just so overcome with gratefulness. And

941
00:45:11,580 --> 00:45:16,950
Speaker 1: I just start crying and shit. Shit is magical. So

942
00:45:16,969 --> 00:45:18,770
Speaker 1: if y'all don't meditate, y'all should start.

943
00:45:19,989 --> 00:45:22,230
Speaker 2: For real. It's hard for people to meditate. It's hard

944
00:45:22,250 --> 00:45:24,350
Speaker 2: to get out your thoughts with your eyes closed. Just

945
00:45:24,390 --> 00:45:27,310
Speaker 2: do five minutes a day. Start with one minute. And literally,

946
00:45:27,330 --> 00:45:29,090
Speaker 2: you don't even have to close your eyes sometimes.

947
00:45:29,110 --> 00:45:31,210
Speaker 3: Like sometimes I don't even close my eyes to meditate.

948
00:45:31,370 --> 00:45:32,530
Speaker 2: My eyes be wide open.

949
00:45:32,780 --> 00:45:33,050
Speaker 1: Right.

950
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,940
Speaker 3: And just like, but my brain is focused.

951
00:45:37,460 --> 00:45:39,900
Speaker 1: I typically have my eyes closed every time. I don't

952
00:45:39,940 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: think I've ever had that. That exact feeling that I'm

953
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,109
Speaker 1: talking about, I've only felt it three times in my life.

954
00:45:45,410 --> 00:45:48,810
Speaker 1: And every time I felt it, my eyes were definitely closed.

955
00:45:50,290 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: But I know like, wait, monks, they definitely meditate with

956
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,299
Speaker 1: their eyes open too. Yep.

957
00:45:56,380 --> 00:46:00,050
Speaker 2: And they do chants. Have you ever tried doing chants

958
00:46:00,140 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 2: and stuff like that? You can download them on Apple

959
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:01,980
Speaker 2: Music and stuff.

960
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: The only chant I ever do is when I'm mad

961
00:46:05,060 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: at a nigga, I'll be like, Nam-myoho-renge-kyo.

962
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 2: Nam-myoho-renge-kyo.

963
00:46:08,860 --> 00:46:10,379
Speaker 3: But you think that's going to curse him or something?

964
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,340
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just how I've seen Tina do it.

965
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,779
Speaker 1: I'll be like, girl, you're fucking, I'm about to get

966
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 1: struggled up to punch you in your shit in just

967
00:46:17,100 --> 00:46:17,339
Speaker 1: a minute.

968
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:18,580
Speaker 2: But that's not what that's for.

969
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: No, I'm joking.

970
00:46:19,100 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 2: You're so damn stupid. Numb your whole radio and kill

971
00:46:24,739 --> 00:46:32,489
Speaker 2: all you niggas. Dummy.

972
00:46:33,810 --> 00:46:38,810
Speaker 1: All right, number nine. Comparing yourself to others. This is

973
00:46:38,890 --> 00:46:40,629
Speaker 1: another huge one. Let me say it again.

974
00:46:40,670 --> 00:46:42,250
Speaker 2: That's social media right there, boy.

975
00:46:42,430 --> 00:46:47,620
Speaker 1: Comparing yourself to others. Comparison leads to jealousy and envy.

976
00:46:48,140 --> 00:46:51,610
Speaker 1: It can kill friendships if it's not tame. Celebrate the

977
00:46:51,630 --> 00:46:54,850
Speaker 1: success of others instead of being jealous. Let them know

978
00:46:54,870 --> 00:46:58,490
Speaker 1: you admire them. Turn the focus on what you have

979
00:46:58,570 --> 00:47:01,250
Speaker 1: instead of what you don't have and be grateful for it.

980
00:47:01,390 --> 00:47:04,110
Speaker 2: So with social media culture and all that stuff, it's

981
00:47:04,170 --> 00:47:07,810
Speaker 2: really easy for people to slip into the comparison mode.

982
00:47:07,870 --> 00:47:08,150
Speaker 1: Right.

983
00:47:08,230 --> 00:47:10,250
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? Like you comparing your life

984
00:47:10,290 --> 00:47:11,270
Speaker 3: to somebody else's.

985
00:47:12,870 --> 00:47:15,830
Speaker 1: Right. But not even... Go ahead.

986
00:47:15,890 --> 00:47:19,069
Speaker 2: I get motivated. I guess... When you see somebody doing well,

987
00:47:19,170 --> 00:47:21,370
Speaker 2: either you're going to hate on it or you're going

988
00:47:21,390 --> 00:47:24,469
Speaker 2: to appreciate it and be inspired. I'm going to be

989
00:47:24,510 --> 00:47:27,489
Speaker 2: the latter. I'm always inspired when I see somebody else

990
00:47:27,510 --> 00:47:30,509
Speaker 2: doing better than me or doing something like I'm aspiring

991
00:47:30,570 --> 00:47:33,739
Speaker 2: to do. I'm motivated by that all the time.

992
00:47:34,110 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 1: I'm motivated when I see people doing better than me,

993
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:40,219
Speaker 1: but instead of feeling jealousy or envy, sometimes I feel

994
00:47:40,260 --> 00:47:43,959
Speaker 1: like I'm not doing enough or I'm not enough. That's

995
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:48,129
Speaker 1: what I feel. I don't necessarily feel like... why does

996
00:47:48,170 --> 00:47:50,730
Speaker 1: she have that instead of me? Like, I don't feel

997
00:47:50,750 --> 00:47:54,189
Speaker 1: that shit. I'll just, you know, I'll just feel like,

998
00:47:55,730 --> 00:47:59,969
Speaker 1: have this bad feeling about myself, like, hmm, why am

999
00:48:00,050 --> 00:48:03,010
Speaker 1: I not enough? I felt, I don't feel like that now,

1000
00:48:03,050 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: but I felt that way, like, when I see somebody

1001
00:48:05,420 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: having something that I want that I don't have yet.

1002
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: I don't never feel like, fuck her with her.

1003
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,219
Speaker 2: Nah, man, when I see somebody, it's always confirmation for

1004
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,310
Speaker 2: me that I can do that too. That's just all

1005
00:48:19,350 --> 00:48:21,770
Speaker 2: it is. It's confirmation for me that it can be done.

1006
00:48:22,030 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 1: Right. Now, but when I was younger, I would doubt.

1007
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 1: That's what would happen when I compared myself to others.

1008
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:34,219
Speaker 1: It would be self-doubt instead of jealousy and envy. Not

1009
00:48:34,260 --> 00:48:34,939
Speaker 1: so much no more.

1010
00:48:35,980 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, stop comparing yourself to people, especially Instagram people. Y'all

1011
00:48:38,739 --> 00:48:40,660
Speaker 2: don't know what the hell these people, these celebrities got

1012
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: going in real life. Because a lot of that shit

1013
00:48:41,700 --> 00:48:44,620
Speaker 2: only can be real. Yeah, they living in debt. You

1014
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,060
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? They're living off credit cards. There's

1015
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with that shit. I don't want to put

1016
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:51,450
Speaker 2: nothing in my personal name either. But they're not living

1017
00:48:51,489 --> 00:48:54,230
Speaker 2: what y'all see. A lot of them are on the gram,

1018
00:48:55,450 --> 00:48:57,469
Speaker 2: keeping up with the Joneses to dress up for y'all ass.

1019
00:48:57,550 --> 00:49:00,450
Speaker 1: And the gram life is more important than their real

1020
00:49:00,610 --> 00:49:04,530
Speaker 1: actual existence. Yeah. And that's not cool. Listen, I've definitely,

1021
00:49:04,650 --> 00:49:07,940
Speaker 1: and y'all bitches done did this before too. Y'all have

1022
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: been out with someone. And y'all just sitting there, it's boring.

1023
00:49:11,739 --> 00:49:14,280
Speaker 1: And when they pull out their phone and start recording,

1024
00:49:14,300 --> 00:49:18,290
Speaker 1: you like, hey, yeah. Like you having a good time,

1025
00:49:18,310 --> 00:49:20,780
Speaker 1: but you really ain't. As soon as the camera go away,

1026
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,299
Speaker 1: y'all go back to not doing shit.

1027
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:26,180
Speaker 3: As soon as my man call. My man, my man.

1028
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:28,819
Speaker 3: As soon as my nigga call him out.

1029
00:49:31,300 --> 00:49:38,690
Speaker 2: Like Keisha. Yes, don't do that. Comparison is a dream killer. Yes.

1030
00:49:39,050 --> 00:49:41,090
Speaker 3: And it's really detrimental to your mental health.

1031
00:49:41,110 --> 00:49:45,859
Speaker 1: Right. You are enough. Your dreams are good enough. What

1032
00:49:45,900 --> 00:49:48,439
Speaker 1: you want to be is good enough. If you want

1033
00:49:48,500 --> 00:49:52,240
Speaker 1: to fuck with that nigga Majors, the Majors nigga, you

1034
00:49:52,260 --> 00:49:55,589
Speaker 1: can fuck with him if you want. You can have

1035
00:49:55,670 --> 00:49:56,490
Speaker 1: everything you want.

1036
00:49:57,210 --> 00:49:58,930
Speaker 3: No, I'm not saying I can't fuck with that nigga.

1037
00:49:59,130 --> 00:50:01,089
Speaker 3: I know it's attainable, but will I ever run.

1038
00:50:01,050 --> 00:50:01,669
Speaker 2: Into this nigga?

1039
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:03,190
Speaker 1: Manifest it.

1040
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 2: He on the board. And like along with this fucking

1041
00:50:09,540 --> 00:50:10,420
Speaker 2: oceanfront mansion.

1042
00:50:10,500 --> 00:50:12,379
Speaker 1: Right. And you can have that too.

1043
00:50:13,020 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 3: And Barbados because that's where I'm going.

1044
00:50:16,020 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 2: And you can have that too. Yeah, I'm going to

1045
00:50:18,380 --> 00:50:19,219
Speaker 2: have that.

1046
00:50:19,260 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: And anybody listening, you can have the things you want too.

1047
00:50:22,660 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 1: Just go get it. I believe in you. All right,

1048
00:50:25,739 --> 00:50:30,660
Speaker 1: number 10. Trying to get approval for your dream. Your

1049
00:50:30,700 --> 00:50:33,770
Speaker 1: dream is a vehicle and you're the driver. Don't let

1050
00:50:33,810 --> 00:50:37,310
Speaker 1: the passengers map the road for you. Stop trying to

1051
00:50:37,350 --> 00:50:39,870
Speaker 1: win over the people who don't believe in you and

1052
00:50:39,910 --> 00:50:43,330
Speaker 1: criticize you. Only seek help from those who support your

1053
00:50:43,350 --> 00:50:46,470
Speaker 1: mission and encourage you because they will cheer you along

1054
00:50:46,489 --> 00:50:46,810
Speaker 1: the way.

1055
00:50:48,550 --> 00:50:49,270
Speaker 2: That's period.

1056
00:50:50,010 --> 00:50:52,730
Speaker 1: Oh, let me finish this. Hold fast to your dream.

1057
00:50:53,270 --> 00:50:56,590
Speaker 1: Gear up to fight the storms. Keep the banner shining.

1058
00:50:57,140 --> 00:51:00,150
Speaker 1: Never give up and never get in. Stand up and

1059
00:51:00,250 --> 00:51:03,149
Speaker 1: face that fear, baby. Your dream is counting on you.

1060
00:51:03,710 --> 00:51:07,020
Speaker 1: Do you believe you can pursue it? And as long

1061
00:51:07,060 --> 00:51:08,870
Speaker 1: as you can believe it, you can have it.

1062
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 2: Y'all, this is written by a black woman, Ann Davis

1063
00:51:12,620 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 2: from tinybuddha.com.

1064
00:51:14,300 --> 00:51:17,660
Speaker 1: Right. Thank you, Ann Davis. This was a dope little

1065
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:19,510
Speaker 1: article for us to share with our listeners.

1066
00:51:19,530 --> 00:51:21,129
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to reread it later because you can't

1067
00:51:21,170 --> 00:51:21,629
Speaker 3: read neither.

1068
00:51:23,210 --> 00:51:27,030
Speaker 1: I bet y'all read that good. Did y'all understand? Y'all listen.

1069
00:51:27,489 --> 00:51:29,450
Speaker 2: Hit us up if y'all think Tam read that good

1070
00:51:29,469 --> 00:51:31,739
Speaker 2: because she be getting on my ass. Listen, I can

1071
00:51:31,780 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 2: admit that I can't fucking read.

1072
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,390
Speaker 1: Girl, we still be on three right now.

1073
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 2: Wake up your motherfucking ass.

1074
00:51:39,100 --> 00:51:41,259
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I got a dream no

1075
00:51:41,300 --> 00:51:42,940
Speaker 1: more waiting on AJ to read this shit.

1076
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,049
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, but if I sit down and

1077
00:51:45,070 --> 00:51:48,130
Speaker 2: write some shit, baby, you're going to think, you're going

1078
00:51:48,150 --> 00:51:50,370
Speaker 2: to think, I don't know, whoever wrote that shit, you're

1079
00:51:50,390 --> 00:51:52,489
Speaker 2: going to think somebody for real wrote this job. I

1080
00:51:52,510 --> 00:51:53,670
Speaker 2: got time to concentrate.

1081
00:51:53,750 --> 00:51:56,270
Speaker 1: Well, if y'all couldn't understand what the fuck I said,

1082
00:51:56,350 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: then y'all could go read it y'allself at tinybooter.com. And

1083
00:52:01,180 --> 00:52:04,060
Speaker 1: the article is 10 Mistakes to Avoid When Chasing Your

1084
00:52:04,100 --> 00:52:06,740
Speaker 1: Dream by Ann Davis. Y'all check it out.

1085
00:52:07,370 --> 00:52:09,910
Speaker 2: Or y'all can go look back at it when you

1086
00:52:09,930 --> 00:52:12,729
Speaker 2: feeling discouraged. Yeah.

1087
00:52:12,850 --> 00:52:16,450
Speaker 3: I mean, we all can, to see this put into words.

1088
00:52:17,570 --> 00:52:17,969
Speaker 2: Is dope.

1089
00:52:18,150 --> 00:52:18,830
Speaker 1: Right. Right.

1090
00:52:18,870 --> 00:52:22,150
Speaker 2: Because these are all the, all the things, the, the

1091
00:52:22,210 --> 00:52:25,569
Speaker 2: mental language, the different procrastinating, all these different things we

1092
00:52:25,590 --> 00:52:27,489
Speaker 2: go through, but you don't really put a label on

1093
00:52:27,510 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 2: it when we're doing it.

1094
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:29,090
Speaker 1: Right.

1095
00:52:29,570 --> 00:52:34,339
Speaker 2: But this makes you, each time you read something, I

1096
00:52:34,380 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 2: just thought about what the hell I'm doing.

1097
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 1: Right. And your own life that aligns with that. Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely.

1098
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Speaker 2: A lot of changes. A lot of changes can be made.

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00:52:44,140 --> 00:52:44,390
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I know I'm full of shit.

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00:52:46,310 --> 00:52:47,070
Speaker 2: I've been working on it.

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00:52:47,070 --> 00:52:47,969
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all are.

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00:52:49,870 --> 00:52:54,430
Speaker 2: We all full of shit. And look, the first step

1104
00:52:54,450 --> 00:52:57,250
Speaker 2: to recovery is admitting that shit. Okay. That's why I

1105
00:52:57,290 --> 00:52:58,330
Speaker 2: can definitely be full of shit.

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Speaker 1: Dang, I wanted to say Future said that he's not toxic.

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00:53:02,510 --> 00:53:06,330
Speaker 1: It's the women that he was dating. You seen that?

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00:53:06,370 --> 00:53:08,710
Speaker 3: Yeah, he said they were all toxic towards him.

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00:53:11,770 --> 00:53:15,049
Speaker 1: And that's what I thought about the first step. Admitting

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00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: the problem. It ain't everybody else now. They might have

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00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: a hand in it.

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Speaker 3: Seven other women?

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00:53:21,420 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: They might have a hand in it, but God damn it.

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00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:27,339
Speaker 2: Where is the accountability? If y'all don't know what we're

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00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,140
Speaker 2: talking about, just right quick, this is so off topic

1116
00:53:30,180 --> 00:53:32,140
Speaker 2: from all this great shit we just shared.

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00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 3: And here we go, ending the great shit and talking.

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00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:36,439
Speaker 1: About a nigga right quick. Yeah, let's not even talk.

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00:53:36,500 --> 00:53:37,960
Speaker 2: About that nigga. No, I want to talk about it

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00:53:37,980 --> 00:53:39,180
Speaker 2: right quick. Fuck that.

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00:53:39,219 --> 00:53:41,100
Speaker 1: No, I want to talk about that nigga next week.

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00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,700
Speaker 2: Because, you know, I love to hate future ass. But

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00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 2: the one word that stuck out, so he did an

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00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,570
Speaker 2: interview with Julia Fox, right? The one word that stuck

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00:53:51,670 --> 00:53:54,910
Speaker 2: out was girl. She asked him if he wanted more kids.

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00:53:55,930 --> 00:53:58,390
Speaker 2: And he said, yeah, if I get married, I want

1127
00:53:58,430 --> 00:54:01,930
Speaker 2: like three more because I've never had more than one

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00:54:01,989 --> 00:54:08,260
Speaker 2: child with the same girl. The same, he's childish. He's

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00:54:08,300 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 2: just childish. The same girl. I mean, that may not

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00:54:12,180 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 2: be a big thing, but it's a woman. These are

1131
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,780
Speaker 2: grown women lives you playing with. The kids are girls.

1132
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,860
Speaker 2: These are grown adult women. You're a grown adult man.

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00:54:23,510 --> 00:54:26,370
Speaker 2: Making these fucking childish ass mistakes over and over again.

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00:54:27,150 --> 00:54:29,210
Speaker 1: Maybe he thinking he a boy. Maybe he thinking he's

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00:54:29,310 --> 00:54:32,910
Speaker 1: only speaking in terms of gender and not. But there's

1136
00:54:32,930 --> 00:54:36,390
Speaker 1: probably like some underlying shit to that.

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00:54:36,739 --> 00:54:38,660
Speaker 2: And that's what I'm picking up on. Are you picking

1138
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,820
Speaker 2: up what I'm dropping? Because that's exactly what I'm saying.

1139
00:54:42,020 --> 00:54:44,739
Speaker 2: Like he needs to grow up. That's just it. There's

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00:54:44,780 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 2: no way y'all think we want a future of a

1141
00:54:48,820 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: Russell Wilson type man. No way.

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00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,069
Speaker 1: But there are women who might. But I don't think

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00:54:55,110 --> 00:54:56,330
Speaker 1: in a serious way, right?

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00:54:57,030 --> 00:54:59,850
Speaker 2: How old is that young girl he was dating? She's

1145
00:54:59,870 --> 00:55:04,130
Speaker 2: a young girl. Yes. She's in her early 20s. You

1146
00:55:04,170 --> 00:55:04,650
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying?

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00:55:04,670 --> 00:55:08,529
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of her for not getting pregnant by him.

1148
00:55:08,790 --> 00:55:11,790
Speaker 1: And who else? The one before that. The one that's

1149
00:55:11,810 --> 00:55:12,950
Speaker 1: with Michael B. Jordan now.

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00:55:13,989 --> 00:55:15,630
Speaker 2: Yeah, like these are young women.

1151
00:55:15,650 --> 00:55:16,709
Speaker 1: They getting smarter though.

1152
00:55:17,550 --> 00:55:22,620
Speaker 2: These are young women. You know, grow up. Stand up.

1153
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:29,129
Speaker 2: You weak in the knees. Stand up. So now just

1154
00:55:29,150 --> 00:55:33,029
Speaker 2: to get back on topic, y'all. I think everybody should

1155
00:55:33,050 --> 00:55:36,290
Speaker 2: check out this article. Me and Tam, we just wanted

1156
00:55:36,310 --> 00:55:38,469
Speaker 2: to do something a little bit different aside from talk

1157
00:55:38,489 --> 00:55:40,430
Speaker 2: about these niggas. We still ended up talking about these niggas.

1158
00:55:40,450 --> 00:55:40,969
Speaker 2: But it's cool.

1159
00:55:40,989 --> 00:55:41,790
Speaker 3: I got a lot of these men.

1160
00:55:44,570 --> 00:55:46,130
Speaker 2: But we got a lot of goals we're trying to

1161
00:55:46,170 --> 00:55:48,650
Speaker 2: share for the show, for our personal lives.

1162
00:55:49,630 --> 00:55:51,410
Speaker 3: And I feel like for us, this article.

1163
00:55:52,510 --> 00:55:54,549
Speaker 2: It helps us with business and it helps us in

1164
00:55:54,590 --> 00:55:55,529
Speaker 2: our personal life as well.

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00:55:55,610 --> 00:55:57,390
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely hit home. And I hope it hit home

1166
00:55:57,430 --> 00:55:59,810
Speaker 1: for some of y'all too. And I hope it helps

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00:55:59,850 --> 00:56:04,530
Speaker 1: you to be motivated and encouraged to go reach these goals,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen.

1169
00:56:06,410 --> 00:56:10,300
Speaker 2: Yes. Check your diet. Check your mental health. Check your thoughts.

1170
00:56:11,140 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 2: Get them thoughts together, man.

1171
00:56:13,460 --> 00:56:14,820
Speaker 1: Meditate. Pray.

1172
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 2: Eat clean. You are what you thinketh. Mm-hmm. And you

1173
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:23,820
Speaker 2: are what you eat. And you are who you beat.

1174
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,140
Speaker 2: So watch the penis that you're consuming too.

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00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:29,700
Speaker 1: All of that. Yes, Sadie.

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Speaker 2: So listen, if you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune

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00:56:32,420 --> 00:56:35,140
Speaker 2: in every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app or wherever the

1178
00:56:35,180 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 2: fuck you get your podcasts at. This is your co-host,

1179
00:56:37,580 --> 00:56:40,360
Speaker 2: AJ Holiday 2.0. Holla.

1180
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Speaker 1: And it's me, OfficialTayMam on Instagram. Y'all follow me, please.

1181
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 1: I love y'all. See y'all next time.

1182
00:56:46,540 --> 00:56:47,900
Speaker 2: God willing. Deuces.

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Speaker 1: Bye.