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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who

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Speaker 1: talks back? What's up, y'all, it's your girl, a J.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a new episode that we talked back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: high energy, I see you, a J. I like that

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Speaker 1: about you today. Look, but my my iron kind of

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Speaker 1: lower though, manigy feel load to day. Damn what you

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Speaker 1: don't sound like it? You don't sound like how you

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Speaker 1: feeling on the inside. Hey, y'all, listen me tim bam.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. Welcome back. I'm glad to have you

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Speaker 1: here today. How was your weekend, a J. I did

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Speaker 1: nothing girl. Okay, first of all, let me tell you

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Speaker 1: how about the weekend went all right? So I ain't

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Speaker 1: a motherfucking t bitch. I was about to make up

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Speaker 1: some ship to appease y'all. Dren so sick as you say.

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Speaker 1: I ain't did nothing girl. I'm granny pussy. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Granny pussy, Granny, My granny go out working that Granny

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Speaker 1: p be in the house. Bit girl, just make up

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Speaker 1: some ship. We know. I see, y'all. I'm in her

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Speaker 1: close friends. I've seen her popping pussy on their hands

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Speaker 1: stand this weekend and her close friends. I'm sorry, girl,

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Speaker 1: I wish I might the last time I was on

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Speaker 1: my head like that, bitch, I might have been thirteen. Now.

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Speaker 1: I have a neck fucked up a couple of times

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Speaker 1: over the years, but this got bad and never grown.

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Speaker 1: Man and tm J like that that top that doge

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Speaker 1: piece off? That ain't it? Hell? Yeah? What the funk

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Speaker 1: you had going on? Girl? I had COVID again. Bitch. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I forgot I had alive today. Your asked was definitely dead.

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Speaker 1: Over the goodness, I was dead over the weekend. I

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Speaker 1: felt so bad that ship had my head on. Motherfucking

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Speaker 1: Throb couldn't have leave helping. I took a leave. I

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Speaker 1: spoke some crack, nothing worse. I took anything and everything

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Speaker 1: to try to knock their head egg out. Baby. I

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Speaker 1: was on the bathroom floor, on the black room floor. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But I feel so much better today. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: to still be here with y'all because that COVID ain't

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Speaker 1: no joke speaking of that, and he's still out here

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Speaker 1: speaking of that. Rest in peace to k slay Man

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Speaker 1: saw that, Yeah, you know he. I didn't realize he

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Speaker 1: wasn't still in the hospital. They said he'd been in

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Speaker 1: there for like four months. I wonder if he had

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Speaker 1: any um pre existing health issues. That's crazy as hell, man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's saying men. He was only five years old. Yeah, yep,

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Speaker 1: Nigga's dying who we never even died before? Every time,

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Speaker 1: every time it is wicked. She is real wicked. I'm

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Speaker 1: so grateful to still be here. Guy chose me to

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Speaker 1: stay another day. Thank you. You know, evil never dies?

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Speaker 1: Evil never die? Is that how you feeling about your looks?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on this be sound about ninety five,

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Speaker 1: rocking and rolling because evil is that? Why? Is that

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Speaker 1: why I embraced my light and dark side? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is what it is. I embraced my light in

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Speaker 1: darkness too. But I wouldn't consider myself evil. I could.

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Speaker 1: I can't be evil though, That's what I'm talking about. Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm happy as long as you don't funk with me.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness, what's going on? Man? What's going on? In

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Speaker 1: stupid internet news? So I saw that, uh there, there

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Speaker 1: was a survey survey that was conducted. So it says

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Speaker 1: that motherfucker's is tied to their face being on the

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Speaker 1: internet basically, So the survey was conducted by nord VPN.

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Speaker 1: A little more than one thousand people in the U

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Speaker 1: felt about the Internet, and according to PC mag more

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Speaker 1: percent said they don't trust the internet, in that they

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Speaker 1: wish the Internet never existed. In a percent said that

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Speaker 1: they don't use the Internet at all. How you feel

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Speaker 1: about it, you wanna work with? Yeah, I listen. I'm

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Speaker 1: on social media. Instagram is mainly what I'm on. Instagram

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Speaker 1: and clubhouse. I got a Facebook like twelve years ago. Um,

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Speaker 1: and you know they'd be fucking nosy, always asking why

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Speaker 1: I work at Why Like if I log on there

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Speaker 1: just asking all these questions. And it's like, for real,

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Speaker 1: Facebook is like the world Wide Web, and they just

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Speaker 1: Book not on Facebook, my Space like went away. I

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Speaker 1: tried to log into my Space to delete my pictures

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Speaker 1: if you know, once you put your image on these sites,

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Speaker 1: stay on it, right, and you agree to that when

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Speaker 1: you sign up exactly, and nobody ever reached the agreement.

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Speaker 1: I just want to funk with this, so I'm a

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Speaker 1: side everybody else doing it. Yeah, everybody's doing it now.

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Speaker 1: I'll use aliases all the time. When I'm signed off

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Speaker 1: for ship, I got a junk play email that's not

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Speaker 1: connected to me in no type of way. That ship

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Speaker 1: is asigned to Google Google um number. I'm not working

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Speaker 1: with it. I don't like it. I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be google Able, but I guess

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Speaker 1: at this rate, we don't got no choice. Much like

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Speaker 1: how we said about ourselves. I take the good in

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Speaker 1: the bed that comes with it, because I mean it

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Speaker 1: does provided a lot of goodness to the earth too, right,

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Speaker 1: could have happened to us, because white people actually get

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Speaker 1: to now see us and see how the funk we

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Speaker 1: are and be in our business without actually seeing us

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Speaker 1: and without actually being around us, so they know, like

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Speaker 1: now how to manipulate things based on the type of

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Speaker 1: ship we put online, So I don't know, man, I

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Speaker 1: don't like it. The girl where Girl of Powers that

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Speaker 1: be they'll be watching your ass, or the white man

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Speaker 1: is infiltrating the black community with the information that we posted.

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Speaker 1: What y'all don't know is look, what y'all don't know

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Speaker 1: is the band is not actually the black man. They

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Speaker 1: just don't look like they mean, they look like us,

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Speaker 1: but they ain't us. They're talking about Yeah, wait time,

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Speaker 1: wait till I really get this conspiracy segment. I'm about

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Speaker 1: to put you all on game. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: for real famous, it's some ship they're gonna pull up

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Speaker 1: that out of twit or some shing I'm saying right

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Speaker 1: now on this motherfucker, that's definitely gonna give me. It's

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Speaker 1: some hot water I already know, and I would be

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Speaker 1: just like Ninie, I said what I said two you

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Speaker 1: said that what pick some crazy ship and they're gonna

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Speaker 1: break me over the colds about it. I don't care though.

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Speaker 1: Cancel culture only last for like two weeks, you'd be, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I should last for two weeks. The best thing you

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Speaker 1: can do is just not respond Okay, don't respond. Let

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Speaker 1: ship happened. But it's always gonna be that one motherfucking

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Speaker 1: comments like, bitch, we don't forget right, we don't forgot

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Speaker 1: about those allegations against you, bitch. Damn that was three

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Speaker 1: weeks ago, hope to attention to No, where the fun

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Speaker 1: is Kanye? I'm concerned about him, girl, I'm glad he's

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Speaker 1: People's all in our reviews like another Kanye day, as

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Speaker 1: if everybody wasn't reporting on Kanye. But we were going Kanye.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I hope he's okay. It was fun. There

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Speaker 1: was a lot of going on. Yeah, but this this part,

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Speaker 1: the sad part, is a mental somebody's mental break was

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Speaker 1: for our show. I don't think Kanye was having a

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Speaker 1: mental break. No, I really don't know. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he was having a mental break. But

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Speaker 1: did you see um Shaquille O'Neil was on that podcast

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Speaker 1: The Pivot, and you know a couple of weeks this

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Speaker 1: damn Channing what's his name, Channing Child Crowder. Channing Crowder

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Speaker 1: was a guy who said that Russ Wilson was a square, right.

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Speaker 1: So now this week they have Shaquille O'Neil on and

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Speaker 1: he asked Shaquille O'Neil about his divorce from Shanny O'Neil

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Speaker 1: and to me, it just sounded like he was trying

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Speaker 1: to give Shaquille O'Neil and out. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: take accountability for ship. You know what I'm saying. He

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Speaker 1: was basically like, well, it was two people in the marriage, right,

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Speaker 1: like that wasn't all on you, And Shaquille O'Neal corrected

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Speaker 1: him and said, you know what, no, it was on

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Speaker 1: me because she was a good woman. She took care

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Speaker 1: and I was sucking up. Period. He took accountability and

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Speaker 1: that's what. And I'm not saying like women don't be

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Speaker 1: coming with they both ship, because everybody has their thing, right,

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Speaker 1: But what he said was he wasn't protecting her. He

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Speaker 1: pretty sure of protecting her he means like mental mentally,

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Speaker 1: like you keep going through ship with something with a man.

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Speaker 1: Why am I supposed to stay at what? At what point?

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Speaker 1: Don't do women leave? Right? And he just was taking

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Speaker 1: I was like, finally, motherfucker, they're friends though, you see

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like he said that on several occasions,

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Speaker 1: You know what? What do they have to fred about?

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Speaker 1: But I'm sure I'm sure when he probably said it

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Speaker 1: shock for that me too. I respect it. But it's

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Speaker 1: you know, it's always no longer got access to you,

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Speaker 1: our ways in hindsight, not in a moment. I don't

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Speaker 1: get your ship? You know, shame. I'm here for shout

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Speaker 1: out the man. Oh made the Stallion drop the new

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Speaker 1: song at Coachella. Um, it's called us a bit and

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Speaker 1: it samples Joe to See and Wu Tang's freaking you remix?

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Speaker 1: Did you hear that ship? Did you hear? I heard it?

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Speaker 1: Like you know, I like that for the young girls. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I like that for me in the gym, when I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to do the squat gym in these squats, or

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Speaker 1: when I'm I like fucking nigga anthems, I do, but

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Speaker 1: then I'm old for that ship. Why you don't have

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Speaker 1: to like, you don't have to live by it. You

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Speaker 1: just have to enjoy it. While I was playing and look,

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Speaker 1: I'm about to get deep again. The for frequency of

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Speaker 1: that fucking music and have you sucked up out? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because yesterday my attitude was bad. I woke up and

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Speaker 1: I heard that song and I played it like three times,

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Speaker 1: like and you'se a bit like I was all in

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Speaker 1: a mirror, like pointing at the mirror ship like if

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Speaker 1: for her see yourself fake flexing and Mike fake flexing

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Speaker 1: really my frequency was low early in the day yesterday.

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Speaker 1: That's the trust and stay Yeah, I had a stay

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Speaker 1: but that song did have me Like I got my

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Speaker 1: squad on yesterday and I was like, I'm gonna kill

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Speaker 1: these holes just amer Well. I was squatting to that ship.

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Speaker 1: Hey look, I definitely be a whole drug dealer, fucking

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Speaker 1: you don't think so, yes, but probably not as far

420
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: as be too many punches, man mental health is concerned,

421
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 1: we probably could be better. But we also laugh at things.

422
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: So that's that's a little people trying to take laughter

423
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: away from you, Like you can't laugh, you're not allowed

424
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,959
Speaker 1: to laugh at anybody else's problems. But this should be

425
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: funny sometimes, Like if we can't, like, that's what make

426
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: I know I laugh at all? Ship? I all got

427
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: no business laughing at all the time. Yeah, I mean

428
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: that's the part, Like, I mean, you know, it's just

429
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: not funny when it's your goal. Right when they're be

430
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: talking like because I know, like right here on my temple,

431
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: my edges is kind of thing right here, and biggest

432
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,239
Speaker 1: make edges jokes, I'll be mad, motherfuck you, motherfucker, I

433
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: met your mama, ball headed to bitch Jesus all that,

434
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,959
Speaker 1: and then that ain't funny. No edge shaman, didn't no

435
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: edge shaming. Right. But when it's something else, when we

436
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: talk about like a bigger impotent and somebody cutting jokes

437
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: about that, I'll be in there, like you don't laugh

438
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: at hardness town, Yo, you're so stupid. Let me relax.

439
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: Number four. We can't take ship serious. Like, yeah, me neither.

440
00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: I'm childish, okay for life procrastin nyting number four, Let

441
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: me say that again, talking about me like that, procrastinating procrastinating, Yeah,

442
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: for y'all in the back. Look, I don't even do

443
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: the ship i'd be wanting to do. It's really bad.

444
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: When you don't do ship that you actually want to do.

445
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: You're not alone. It's a lot of us, all right.

446
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 1: So it says time wasted cannot be recovered. It's just

447
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: like a river. Once you touch the water flowing past you,

448
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 1: it will never flow back towards you again. Do what

449
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do when it's supposed to be done. Okay,

450
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: So at the beginning of this year, I was saying,

451
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: I am going to do what I say I'm gonna do, right,

452
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 1: because when somebody asked something of me, I always show

453
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: up for them, like, no matter what it is, Like

454
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: I mean, if I don't want to do some shot,

455
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 1: I don't have to know it's a completely statement. I'm

456
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: not gared to tell anybody no. But I usually show

457
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: up for other people before I show up for myself.

458
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: So what if you do that for yourself though, whatever

459
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: you say you're gonna do, do it. That's how you

460
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: get things done daily, even if you know maybe you

461
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: need to write it down, Like I feel like I

462
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 1: might need to start writing down things I need to do.

463
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: That's always gonna tell you. I'm gonna start updating our

464
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: calendar so we can have actual goals pitized exactly, Like

465
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: that's gonna that's how we're gonna get to our goals,

466
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: writing them down, seeing them, visualizing them. You know, even

467
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 1: if you got to do um, this is the first

468
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: year I ever did vision board. Yeah, well, You're always

469
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: finishing my damn senses because I know your head. Look,

470
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: this is the first year I ever did a vision board,

471
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: and I got it as a screen saver on my phone.

472
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: However unrealistic it may, it may be whatever you want

473
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: in life. Put that ship on what's unrealistic for you?

474
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: But you dog, let me tell you what the funk

475
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: on there? I do have some unrealistic Why do you

476
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: like it's unrealistic? What's the nigga from Lovecraft Country? The actor?

477
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: Oh that the one with the real wide knows that

478
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: nigga find his Hell, yes, he on your vision board?

479
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: Who says you can't have him? Bitch? Look I could

480
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: probably have him or someone that looks like him. Jonathan

481
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: Majors Jonathan Major's I want him. I think he's um.

482
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: He's in this movie with coming out with Um Michael

483
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan's both of them in a movie together. Yes, like, yeah,

484
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: he has out there with his shirt off, and I

485
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: don't know what was going on, but I knew that

486
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: I was gonna see that movie as soon as it

487
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: came out. Oh, he just looks so godly and like

488
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: he just looked like a protector mad manly I just

489
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: know God is real when I look at him. Why

490
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: Bell Pepper, Nicknos got it? Hell yeah, but I got

491
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: that grown man. Oh my god, damn VISI your board.

492
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: I don't see I don't see the problem. I don't

493
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: see what's I'm realistic. He's just another human man. Thank you, fan. Alright,

494
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: so let's hit the next one. Neglecting your body. Don't

495
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: forever forget to take care of your body. Treat it

496
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: like a temple. If you don't, you will get sick

497
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: mentally and physically, and this will prevent you from working

498
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: towards your goal. However, har are you working? Take time

499
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: off to exercise, and don't forget to eat healthy foods.

500
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: Don't starve yourself. Don't don't forget to pray. It will

501
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: nourish your soul and give you inner peace. Take care

502
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: of your body's guys, you know exactly. So I mean,

503
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: I feel like all of these things kind of running again.

504
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: I know, were only on the fifth topic anyway, But

505
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: buy some nice gym clothes. If you trying to lose weight,

506
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: you wanna go to the gym, Buy some nice gym

507
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: clothes that kind of motivates you to go to the

508
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: gym when you're looking good in the gym too, Like

509
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: it's just you know, yeah, I don't be up that big,

510
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: stretched out white T shirt shirt. But you know what,

511
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: if that's all you got to wear a bit, go

512
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: in there and get in shape and whatever. That too,

513
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: but yeah that too. But if you can get you

514
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: some cute stuff, get you some cute stuff that do

515
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: make you feel better. But I definitely better playing fitness.

516
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: I got in the best shape of my life in

517
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: a big gass Planet Fitness T shirt. I made sure

518
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: I was covered up. I didn't even want to be

519
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: bothered by nobody. Girl, I'm at one time I was

520
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: so serious, Oh my goddamn health. I was wearing those

521
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: uh like the plastic like I can't stand right? Yes,

522
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: and get extra fine? And what happened after you get

523
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: extra fine? Get you stop stop doing all the things

524
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: that led you to get an extra because it has

525
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: to be a lifestyle change, and that's the hard part. Yep, yep.

526
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: So take care of your diet, make sure you're eating

527
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: the right foods. I know, listen and introduced that ship

528
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: to your kids early, man, so they grow up with

529
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: it already as a lifestyle. Because I wasn't raised in

530
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: a household where people was exercising. Yeah, so then now

531
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: when you get to be an adult, it's like a

532
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 1: real like yeah, you gotta reset and it's hard. What

533
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: was I about to say about the diet? So yeah,

534
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: I don't eat meat like that, right, So y'all see

535
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: chicken is like, well how much chicken? Like fifty dollars

536
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: a pack? Now, y'all niggas don't want to stop eating

537
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: meat yet? Lap cholds like sixty dollars? What else you'll

538
00:32:55,960 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: be in the ox tails? All right? Now, I was

539
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: like eight dollars, Well, box lock still mean Hamburg and

540
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: me all that stuff is expensive. I got an our

541
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: stale meal from this restaurant. It was twenty eight dollars

542
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: from the Jamaican spot. That was a live half a

543
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: box of rice, half the boxes full with mother fucking

544
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: bes a raise and three our sales on there for

545
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 1: twenty dollars. Like man, so I'm I'm I'm planning on

546
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: starting me a garden where boy, I just really like,

547
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all been paying attention to logistics

548
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: like the truckers and stuff like that. Uh, paying attention

549
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: was going on with Mexico and stuff. Have you noticed

550
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: that your fruits and vegetables be getting going bad real fast.

551
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: That's because they've probably been sitting on the highway in

552
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: a fucking truck for a week before it even got

553
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: to your local grocery store. So we're about to be

554
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: at the point where we need to be growing our

555
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: own food. So I've been looking for like a local

556
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: um somebody I could buy like um seedlings like it

557
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: was kind of already sprouted, because I mean, I've never

558
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: I can't make it grow. I'm gonna just be honest,

559
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: and I really be trying because I feel I feel

560
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 1: like it's on a real live my mama makes it grow,

561
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,240
Speaker 1: and I feel like it's her. Shut up, you're so there, stupid,

562
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: not in that way. Yes, I could definitely make it grow.

563
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: I can't grow hair ex definitely in that spot right here,

564
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 1: people here. But my playing, I bought me a money

565
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: playing that ship is dead. Whole Food's got him on

566
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: sale right now. That's what I'm gonna go buy another one.

567
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: That's where I got first. I want to get me

568
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: some seedlings, man, I want to get me some seedlings

569
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 1: and start a little garden. Take your vitamins. Get a

570
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: multi vita is good for your body. Chlorophylla, how do

571
00:34:53,600 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: you feel about I do chlorophy Yeah, I do, black

572
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: seed oil? Ye? What about colodo, colodial silver. I don't

573
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: know if I'm saying that right. Yeah, I haven't purchased

574
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: any of that. I do. I do use that, but

575
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 1: if y'all don't know a lot about it, someone told

576
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: me to start taking it, and I trust her, so

577
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: I did so last well not last week. Two weeks ago.

578
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: I did go get some botox are die sport whatever

579
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: in my forehead and it didn't take. But I did go. No,

580
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: it didn't like you can't see me for real, girl,

581
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: I just saw you the other day. Well it's right,

582
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: it's back regular now. So it didn't take. All I

583
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: got is two extra pimples on my dad in forehead.

584
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: But I bought. The last vitamin I bought was M S. M.

585
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: Y'all can go research this. It's real good for your joints,

586
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 1: your hair, your skin. It helps with the like elasticity

587
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: um in your skin. Like. It's a good a good

588
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 1: vitamin to add to you um, you know, your regiment.

589
00:35:53,840 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: Just to put that out there and M S. And Mama, Sierra, Mama, Okay,

590
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,320
Speaker 1: check that out. Thank you for all right. Back to

591
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: our list. Number six waiting for help to chase you.

592
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: M knock all like asking for help. Most people don't,

593
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: so knock on doors. Will doors be shut on you? Sure?

594
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 1: More than you can count. Sometimes we ask for help

595
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: anticipating get in our way. Sorry, it doesn't work that way.

596
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: If doors closed, go in through the window. If that

597
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: means changing the course of your plan, please do so.

598
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: Change will not mean losing your dream. So y'all, don't

599
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: be afraid to need help because you never know who

600
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: might want to support your ship and get help you

601
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: get to the next level. Yep. Number seven, taking it

602
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: personally when people judge you. That one is huge for me.

603
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: I don't be giving up, not not just random people,

604
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: like when we have Yeah, yeah, it's the people I

605
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: care about or their opinions I feel like I care about.

606
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: That's when I'll be feeling away, Like when it's just

607
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: even though I love all y'all listening to the show

608
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: and one of your motherfucker's in the comments like Tam

609
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: Bam is fucking stupid and I hate what she has

610
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: to say, I'd be like you don't care. I don't

611
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: care how you know, but but it is someone that

612
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: I admire, our love, and they passed judgment on me.

613
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: I do take it very personally. So it says here

614
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 1: they will judge you by how you look, what you eat,

615
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: how you live. When people judge, it has more to

616
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 1: do with their own fears and insecurities than you. Turn

617
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: a deaf ear to these judgments. Feel proud of the

618
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: journey you're taking. Okay, I got a quick story. So

619
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, my ex UH sent me

620
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: a text message and he said, I saw an old

621
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 1: picture of you today. Man, I'm sorry. Like what. It's

622
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: a whole long ass message, but essentially what he was

623
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: saying was to me, how I interpret it. You saw

624
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: an old picture of me made at that point I

625
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: had been chunky a J, skinny a J. Whatever. You

626
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,240
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So basically, you're using that image

627
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 1: to justify how I responded in the past to you

628
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: being nasty to me, as if I had the problem

629
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: when somebody says crazy ship to you, and it definitely

630
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: has more to do with them than you. He said,

631
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: I saw a picture of you. I'm sorry. Yeah, Like

632
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: he said, I'm sorry, man, like as if he didn't

633
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: understand why I would trip about certain things. It was

634
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: because of his fucking at picture. You know how many

635
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 1: skinny pictures I got, how many fat pictures I got? Like,

636
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: what are we talking about? I was soused by and

637
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: look but listen. But you know, I'm always on the diet.

638
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm always like trying to be as conscious as I

639
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: can about my health. That's saying, like me, not that

640
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: same day, A couple of days later, you drove down

641
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 1: here and dropped chocolate on my on my porch. Why

642
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: are you trying to sabotage me? Like you dropped all

643
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: the chocolate shit, I like chocolate cupped almonds, Uh, those

644
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: little um little chocolates with the gold sht around it. Like,

645
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: why the funk would you bring that after telling me

646
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: that you saw a fucking fat picture in me somewhere, gir,

647
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't eat nothing that that nigga tearing them almonds up.

648
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: So that's the thing. You always say you on a diet.

649
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: You ain't always on a diet. And that's what I'm saying, Like,

650
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: I feel like he was trying to sabotage me because

651
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: the flesh is weak and in my myrob. I love sweets,

652
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 1: I love love love fresh Big Goods and J J B.

653
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: This dessert, I don't know, it's not American. I don't

654
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: know where the fun she gets this world. But it

655
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: looked like a fucking football with a line of icing

656
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: down the middle. Right, what the fund is that? Like?

657
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 1: Where is that? Friend? That it's from the Asian market

658
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: in Charlotte, from Super g Mart. They got like an

659
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: Asian bakery in there, girl, Like you know all the

660
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: motherfucker's sets. It's all a good faction. I love it.

661
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: I love that. I listen, I love bread man. That's

662
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: a problem. Like I feel like I started eating more

663
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 1: bread when I stopped eating me. That's very common though,

664
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: ause you know, like a lot of people who are

665
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 1: vegans or vegetarians, they are on the thicker side because

666
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:55,240
Speaker 1: they eat more cars to substitute for what they're probably

667
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:59,399
Speaker 1: missing with meat. Yeah, so I took that text very personally. Child,

668
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: if a whole weekend up, don't let that nigga your

669
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: weekend up. My whole weekend, girl, Like I'm just I

670
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: woke up feeling like I'm that bitch and then I

671
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 1: get like a damn long ass fucking text message. Yeah,

672
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: but I feel like what you're doing right now is

673
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: number eight and that's what I'm about to cut you

674
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: off so you can hear it. Number eight. Dwelling on

675
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: the negative. It is impossible to only focus on the positive,

676
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: But dwelling on the negative all the time is like

677
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: a bomb waiting to explode. Your thoughts will hold you

678
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: hostage from making progress, progress, and your mind will be

679
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 1: filled with doubt. Allow yourself to feel the negative prior

680
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: you have to, but don't let it take over you.

681
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: Releasing your negative feelings will leave you at peace, and

682
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,720
Speaker 1: you will be able to focus on the positive even

683
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 1: in tough times. A positive attitude will help you decide

684
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: the best strategy for achieving your goals. So let the

685
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 1: nigga roll like the water two in your fingers. Fuck

686
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: him and everything he had to say about you and

687
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: your old pictures, fuck them all pictures. However you look,

688
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: you look like how you look right now. You find

689
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 1: this healthfor period period. So my mom said, stop saying period.

690
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: So right, she said, stop saying that period. But meditation,

691
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 1: that's what I got out of that. Meditation will help

692
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: you not dwell on negative things because your mind just

693
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: be so clear, and you know when the negative thing

694
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: does come, I guess it's like really like you have

695
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: to really practice, you have to really practice dodging negative ship,

696
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like me, may it just

697
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: be like, okay, out of out of a day, right,

698
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: you got two negative things. If you just discard and

699
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:55,439
Speaker 1: ignored one of them, you did good. Okay, you did good.

700
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,800
Speaker 1: But if you if you find a way to focus

701
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,320
Speaker 1: on all the positive things that happened. I don't know

702
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: how we let the negative ship be more important than

703
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: the positive ship that happens to I think it's because

704
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: I think it's just this realm that we're on. This

705
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: world is negative. The world we're living, we're living in

706
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: is negative. So I think when you have negative thoughts

707
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: they manifest quicker because we're in a negative fucking universe.

708
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: Like shit is negative in this world. See that. I

709
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 1: don't feel that way. I don't. I mean, I feel

710
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of negative in this world, but

711
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 1: I feel like equally there is goodness in this world,

712
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: and that's what I focus on. I don't focus on that.

713
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 1: I don't get you know, there's a lot of good

714
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: people are like you are a great person. Do you

715
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: know that? Sometimes, like more more times than not, you're

716
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: a great person. Thank you for YouTube. No, I've I've

717
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: been meditating, and I really feel like i'd be opening

718
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: up my third eye, y'all. Now, I wasn't gonna tell

719
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: you all this because I ain't what y'all know. Y'all

720
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 1: be like, bit you ain't got by two eyes. But

721
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: I really do be like i'd be feeling like like this.

722
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it made me, Yeah, it makes me cry.

723
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: I'll be in there and I'll have, you know, my

724
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: eyes closed and I'll just be sitting and I don't

725
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: even have like the sounds from outside, just whatever is,

726
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: maybe not so much music, but just whatever is around

727
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: me can just be whatever it is. And I'd really

728
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: be feeling like I have like this white light that

729
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: starts shining really really brightly over me. No, lie, y'all,

730
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 1: I'd be feeling it, and it'll just feel like even

731
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: if there's a light in the room. Maybe I don't

732
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: know because my eyes are closed, but it feels like

733
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 1: it just got so much brighter for whatever reason, and

734
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: you start seeing without dark, you wouldn't know what light is.

735
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: And that's what you're seeing what do you mean, without

736
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: the darkness, you wouldn't even know what light is, right,

737
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: So what your eyes closed like that and you're seeing

738
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: that white light like that's the healing. And I can

739
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: see it and it just gets so bright and overwhelming.

740
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: And then like everything that I hear is like it

741
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: exists in it don't exist at the same time, like

742
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't even know how to describe it. But it's

743
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: just so yourphoric and I and I'll be like so

744
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: overwhelmed with gratitude and just so overcome with gratefulness and

745
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: I just start crying and ship. She is magical. So

746
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: if y'all don't meditate, y'all should start. It's hard for

747
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,280
Speaker 1: people to meditate. It's hard to get out your thoughts

748
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: with your eyes closed. Just do five minutes a day.

749
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: Start with one minute and literally you don't even have

750
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: to close your eyes sometimes, Like sometimes I don't even

751
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: close my eyes to meditated. My I be wide open,

752
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: right and just like but my brain is focused. I

753
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: typically have my eyes closed every time. I don't think

754
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,359
Speaker 1: I've ever had that that exact feeling that I'm talking about.

755
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,479
Speaker 1: I've only felt it three times in my life and

756
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: every time I felt it, my eyes were definitely closed.

757
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: But I know, like, wait, monks they definitely meditate where

758
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: their eyes open too, yep, and they do chance. Have

759
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: you ever tried doing chance and stuff like that? You

760
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: can download them on like on. The only chance I

761
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: ever do is when I'm mad at the nigga, I'd

762
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: be like, Nambyo holdering yo. But you think that's gonna

763
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: curse episode, I don't know. That's just our seen team

764
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: to do it. I'd be like, I'm about to get start,

765
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: but that's not what. That's numb your whole right, niggas alright,

766
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: never die. Comparing yourself to others This is another huge one.

767
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: Let me say it again. Comparing yourself to others. Comparison

768
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: leads to jealousy and envy. It can kill friendships if

769
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: it's not tamed. Celebrate the success of others instead of

770
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: being jealous. Let them know you admired them. Turn the

771
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: focus on what you have instead of what you don't have,

772
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: and be grateful for. So with social media culture and

773
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: all that stuff, like, it's really easy for people to

774
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,959
Speaker 1: slip into the comparison mo. Right, you know what I'm saying,

775
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: Like you comparing your life to somebody else's um but right,

776
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: but not even I don't go ahead, I get motivated.

777
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: I guess when you see somebody doing well, either you're

778
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: gonna hate on it or you're gonna appreciate it and

779
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 1: being and be inspired. I'm going to be the latter.

780
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm always inspired when I see somebody else doing better

781
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: than me or doing doing something like I'm inspiring to do.

782
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: Like I'm motivated by that, you know, at all time,

783
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: I'm I'm motivated when I see people doing better than me.

784
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:40,280
Speaker 1: But instead of feeling jealousy or envy, sometimes I feel

785
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: like I'm not doing enough or I'm not enough, you know,

786
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: That's what I feel. I don't necessarily feel like, uh,

787
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 1: why does she have that instid of me? Like I

788
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: don't feel that ship I'll just you know, I'll just

789
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: feel like I have this bad feeling about myself, like

790
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: why ain't not enough? I felt. I don't feel like

791
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: that now, but I felt that way. Like when I

792
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: see somebody having something that I want that I don't

793
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: have yet, I don't never feel like fuck her with her? Na. Man,

794
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: When I see somebody, it's always confirmation for me that

795
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: I can do that. Too. That's just that's just all

796
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: it is. It's confirmation for me that it can be

797
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: done right now. But when I was younger and all

798
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: I would I would doubt the doubt with that, would

799
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 1: that that's what would happen when I compared myself to others,

800
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: it would be self doubt instead of jealousy and yvy

801
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,399
Speaker 1: not so much no more. Yeah, stop comparing yourself to people,

802
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: especially Instagram people. You'll don't know what the hell least

803
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: people because a lot of that, Yeah, they're living in debt,

804
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. They living off credit cards.

805
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. Ship. I don't want to

806
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: put nothing in my personal name either, but they're not

807
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 1: they're not living what y'all see. A lot of them

808
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: are on the Graham keeping up with the Jones is

809
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: address up for y'all, ass and they're the Graham. Life

810
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: is more important than the real actual existence. And that's

811
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: not cool. I listen. I'm definitely and it. Y'all bitches

812
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: done did this before too. Y'all have been out with

813
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: someone and y'all just sitting there is boring. And when

814
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 1: they pull out their phone and start recording, you're like, yeah,

815
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: like you're having a good time, but you really ain't.

816
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: As soon as the camera go away, y'all go back

817
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: to not doing ship. As soon as my man call

818
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 1: my man, my man. That's so is my nigga call

819
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: him out? So, yes, don't do that. That's like, that's comparison.

820
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: Is a dream killer, yes, and it's really detrimental to

821
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 1: your mental health. You are enough, Your dreams are good enough.

822
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,399
Speaker 1: What you wanna be is good enough. If you want

823
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: to funk with that nigga, Major's the Major's nigga. You

824
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: can funk with him if you want. Like these are,

825
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: you can have everything you want. No, I'm not saying

826
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: I can't funk with that nigga. I know it's attainable,

827
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: But will I ever run into this nigger manifest? It

828
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: he on the board look a lot along with this

829
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 1: ocean front mansion, right, and you can have that too.

830
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: And Barbados because that's where I'm going and you can

831
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 1: have that too. Yeah, anybody listening, you can have the

832
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: things you want to. Just go get it. I believe

833
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: in you, alright. Number ten trying to get approval for

834
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 1: your dream. Your dream is a vehicle and you're the driver.

835
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: Don't let the passengers map the road for you. Stop

836
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 1: trying to win over the people who don't believe and

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Speaker 1: you and criticize you. Only seek help from those who

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Speaker 1: support your mission and encourage you because they will cheer

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Speaker 1: you along the way. That's period. Oh let me finish this.

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Speaker 1: Hold fast here, dream, Get up to fight the storms,

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Speaker 1: keep the banners shining, never give up, and never get in.

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00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: Stand up and face that fear. Baby, your dream is

843
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: counting on you. Do you believe you can pursue it?

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Speaker 1: And all as long as you can believe it, you

845
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Speaker 1: can't have it. Y'all. This is written by a black

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Speaker 1: woman and Davis this tiny Buddha dot com. Right, thank

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Speaker 1: you and Davis. This was a dobe little article for

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Speaker 1: us to share with our lists. I'm gonna reread it

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Speaker 1: later because you can't read neither. I bet sure I

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Speaker 1: read that good, did y'all understand? Y'all? Listen? Hit us

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Speaker 1: up if y'all think I read that good, because she'd

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Speaker 1: be getting on my ass. I listen, I can admit

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Speaker 1: that I can't read. Girl will steal me a three, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I gotta dream no more, no aj to read this.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you. But if I sit down and

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Speaker 1: write some shing, baby, you're gonna think. You're gonna think

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Speaker 1: I don't know whoever wrote that ship. You're gonna thank

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Speaker 1: somebody for real wrote this job. I got time to concentrate. Well,

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Speaker 1: if y'all couldn't understand what the funk I said, then

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Speaker 1: y'all could go read it yourself. A tiny boodha dot

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Speaker 1: com um uh in the article is ten mistakes to

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Speaker 1: avoid when chasing your dream by and Davis'll check it out.

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Speaker 1: Ye go look back at it when you're feeling discouraged. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean we all can to see this put into words,

865
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Speaker 1: it's dope right right, because these are all the all

866
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: the things, the mental language, the different procrastinating, all these

867
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Speaker 1: different things we go through. But you don't really put

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Speaker 1: a label on it when we're doing it right. But

869
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Speaker 1: this makes you um each time you read something, I

870
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Speaker 1: just thought about what the hell I'm doing right in

871
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 1: your own life? That aligns within him? Yeah, absolutely, as

872
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: a lot of changes, a lot of changes can be made. Yeah,

873
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Speaker 1: I know, I'm full of ship. I've been working on it. Yeah,

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00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 1: we all learned, we all full and and look the

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00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 1: first step to recovery is admitting that ship. Okay, that's

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00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 1: why I can definite. Then I wanted to say the

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Speaker 1: Future said that he's not toxic. It's the women that

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00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: he was dating. You've seen that. He said, yeah, he

879
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 1: said they're all toxic towards him. And that's what I

880
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: thought about, the first step admitting the problem. And it

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Speaker 1: ain't everybody else. Now they might have a hand having

882
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Speaker 1: seven other women, they might have a hand in it,

883
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: but god damn it, where is the accountability If y'all

884
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: know we're talking about just right quick, this is so

885
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: off topic from dollars great ship we just shared and

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00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,439
Speaker 1: here we go ending the great ship and not even

887
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Speaker 1: talk about that. I want talk about it right quick now.

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00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: I will talk about that next week, because you know

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Speaker 1: I love to hate future ass But this is the

890
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: one word that stuck out. So he did an interview

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Speaker 1: with Julia Fox right. The one world word that stuck

892
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: out was girl. She'd asked him if he if he

893
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: wanted more kids, and he said, yeah, if I get married,

894
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: I want like three more because because I've never had

895
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 1: more than one child with the same girl, the same you.

896
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Speaker 1: He's childish. He's just childish, the same girl I mean,

897
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Speaker 1: that may not be a big thing, but it's a woman.

898
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Speaker 1: These are grown women lives you're playing with. The kids

899
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Speaker 1: are girls, these are grown adult women. You're a grown

900
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Speaker 1: adult man making these fucking childish ass and steaks over

901
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: and over again. Maybe he's thinking a boy, Maybe he

902
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: thinking he's only speaking in terms of gender and not,

903
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: but there's probably like some underlying That's what I'm and

904
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Speaker 1: that's what I'm picking up on. Are you picking up

905
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: what I'm dropping, because that's exactly what I'm saying. Like

906
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 1: he needs to grow up. That's just it. There's no

907
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: way y'all think we want um a Russell future over

908
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 1: Russell Wilson type man. No way, but there are. But

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Speaker 1: now I don't think in a serious way. Right, How

910
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: old is that young girl he was dating? Girl? Yes,

911
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: she's in her early twenties. You know what I'm saying.

912
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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of her for not getting pregnant by him,

913
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Speaker 1: and and um and who else the one before that, Um,

914
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Speaker 1: the one that's with Michael B. Jordan. Now, young women,

915
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Speaker 1: they're getting smart. These are young women, you know, grow up,

916
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Speaker 1: stand up, stand So So now, just to get back

917
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Speaker 1: on topic, y'all, I think everybody should check out this article. UM,

918
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Speaker 1: me and Tam, we just wanted to do something a

919
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Speaker 1: little bit different aside from talking about these niggas. We

920
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: still ended up talking about these niggas, but it's cool, Like,

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Speaker 1: I love these men, but we got a lot of

922
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Speaker 1: goals we're trying to share for this, for the show,

923
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: for our personal lives. Um and I feel like for

924
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: us this article and it helps us with business and

925
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Speaker 1: it helps us in our personal life as well. Yeah,

926
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Speaker 1: definitely hit home and I hope it hit home for

927
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Speaker 1: some of y'all too, And I hope it helps you

928
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Speaker 1: to be motivated and encouraged to go receise goals, ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Yes, check your diet, checking mental health, check

930
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Speaker 1: your thoughts, get them thoughts together, man, meditate, pray, eat clean.

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Speaker 1: You are what you think is and you are what

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Speaker 1: you eat, and you are who you beat. So watch

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Speaker 1: the penis that you're consuming to all of that, Yes, Saddy,

934
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Speaker 1: so listen. If you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune

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Speaker 1: in every Thursday on the I Heart radio app boy

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Speaker 1: Ever to fun. You get your podcast at. This is

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Speaker 1: your co host aj Holiday two point oh holla, and

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Speaker 1: it's me official tam ma'am on Instagram. Y'all follow me please.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. See y'all next time. God Willing deuces

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Speaker 1: Fye