WEBVTT - Sue + Jed 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:06.120 Peter's grandmother once said to me, when you're dealing with 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:10.000 your children and you're dealing with your husband, you're yes 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:13.400 them to death, and you're about your police. And I 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.840 never forgot that that's a good one. He has him 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:20.319 to death. And and what do you do? Well? You 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.320 know that the say what makes a good marriage? Two words, 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:26.720 Yes dear. He has to know yes, dear. That's the 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:32.240 two words a husband should know. Absolutely. Can we talk about, say, 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:37.520 being on Indy Cone last night, fan happulo, very harpular. 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:42.440 You know, we did very little. We really did nothing. 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.000 You want to know something funny. They gave me a 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.080 glass of wine in the beginning, and I was a 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:52.360 little bit the word yeah whatever. The truth of it is, 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.760 wherever you went, they were giving your drinks. You came 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:58.040 into the first big room, there was a bar, what 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.880 to drink. You went into a little dressing room, there 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:02.960 was liquor. I had to bring a walker with me 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:08.000 last night. He likes to get his guests a little 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:14.000 bit for forskit when certain ones don't have a translation. 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:17.240 This word. I remember my father. You're not drunk, but 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:19.160 you're like a little bit out of it, if you 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:21.720 know what I mean, and that's what he likes to 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.160 do because he feels he gets better stuff out of 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:27.640 his guests than when they're straight sober. Not us though, 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:34.759 we're like drunk away. But you know what, so many 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.480 people picked up on that he put a straw in 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:41.760 all wine, just sipping away. There was very little that 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.759 we did other than apployed Melissa McCarthy. But then he 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:49.240 mentioned Barbra streisand at about three to and I went 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:52.360 to the same high school as Barbara streisand Rasmus while 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.200 high school she graduated from. So did we I'm on 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:57.800 the show embtus to her radio birthday party. What do 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:00.360 you think? Sure? And Neil Diamond will pick us up 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:08.160 in his car, right right, Rita Ellen, who are we 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:11.920 going to hear today? Today? We're gonna hear from Sue Poster. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:16.040 You remember who Sue was? Of course? I remember. I 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:20.000 loved that episode. She was actually the grandmother who inspired 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:24.359 the whole podcast. Her daughter Meryl Poster made the show. 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:28.639 Sue and her granddaughter Eva had a great episode. Let's listen. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:33.640 She is really funny. Everything she says is like there's 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.840 always a joke. She's very musical. She's been a very 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:40.079 very important part of my life. She's the best, and 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:45.160 nobody has given me the joy in my life that 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:49.440 Ava has given me. Oh that was fabulous. I loved 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:52.359 that one. And today she's going to be interviewed by 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:56.320 her grandson terrific. I can't wait to hear it. Absolutely, 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.160 let's listen. They should be a good pair. Sue and 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:06.040 Jed expand frame Okay, perfect better? Oh handsome? Why do 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.000 you look like Joan? Look a little bit like Joan 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:12.959 Crawford right now, Joan Crawford, it looks very handsome. It's 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.440 the hair and the shape face. But you lost a 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:18.880 lot of weight, Jed, I lost sixty five pounds. Oh 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:22.600 my god, that's another little person. I guess how Grammy. 0:03:22.680 --> 0:03:26.160 Let's give him a show. There's dope is just like show. 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:33.600 So this is soup poster my grandmother. Don't take grandmother's 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:37.120 like that's we call her Grammy. She's funny, one of 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:41.160 the kind, charismatic. Every one of my friends will remember her, 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:46.280 that's for sure. And she's Jed's very caring. He's a 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:51.760 very sensitive kid. She's like an Oprah if Oprah was Jewish. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:56.440 I think we're both very empathetic with both funny. Neither 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:58.160 of us know when to stop, so it's like we 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:59.800 getting on a roll and then it's to the point 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:01.920 of the explosion, and then you gotta rein it back in. 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:04.440 I guess we can be loud, Grammy, we're a little bit, 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:08.480 you know much. Jed's a little way out. Sometimes you 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:12.240 never know what's to expect from him. She's definitely a performer. 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:14.800 That's where it has to come from. The entire family 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:18.800 were all extroverted, and it's all derivative of her. It 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:28.279 has to be. That's very nice. Who is Ava? The 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:32.080 question that's defined my life. Ava is my older sister. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:36.280 Love her. She's a great, big sister. I would say 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.800 she's probably a little more work driven and I'm smarter. 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:44.200 Wouldn't you agree with that, Grammy? Yes, you're also very humble. Right, 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:49.120 She's always been Grammy's proverbial favorite. Stop saying that, Jed, 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:53.080 that's unnecessary. It's not unnecessary. If you said she brings 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.520 me the most joy in life. She started the episode 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.200 by saying, Avo is the person that brings me most 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:01.440 joy in life. Right, Never that quote, Grammy, Yes, yeah, 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:05.160 that was nice. That doesn't the gate the fact how 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:07.760 much I love you. I know, I know the cousins 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.560 have a group chat and we already have acknowledged that 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:12.920 Eva was the favorite, but that really, you know, you 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.520 really leaned into it. I feel like I'm like Monica 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.000 and Friends when it comes to Grammy. But it's all good. 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:20.440 But you know what they took out by mistake is 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:22.599 when I did Avis, I was saying how you really 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:25.800 were my favorite, and they didn't get into Yeah, I'm 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.000 sure they took that out. Yeah, I meant to tell 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:30.919 you that just to clarify in this moment, who's your 0:05:30.960 --> 0:05:36.520 favorite grandchild? Well, in one Eva was, but now it's two, 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:41.280 so you wore got it? And why why am I 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.840 the favorite grandchild? Now? What have I done? It? Pay 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:46.080 a lot of attention to me. You care about me, 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:51.039 how I feel. You're very empathetic to my health issues. 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.359 And I'm the most successful and you called me the 0:05:54.440 --> 0:06:02.800 most Yeah. Oh I love him. I just love him. 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:06.719 I'm telling you the minute it opens, this big personality. 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:09.400 They both have a sense of human and I wonder 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.719 who's going to be her favorite in twenty three? What 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.359 do you think It reminds me when I say Rachel 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:18.880 is my favorite granddaughter? But she's the only granddaughter, so 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:22.719 that's not a problem. But I have twin grandsons. One 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.240 calls me once in a while and one is just 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:28.200 like Jent. He calls me every week. And if they 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:31.640 keep calling, they become the favorite. In Finean's Rainbow, there's 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.320 a song when I'm not near the boy I love, 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.720 I love the boy I'm near, And that's how I 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:40.240 feel about my grandchildren. The one nuts with me is 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.800 my favorite at the moment, and that's true. But he's 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:46.280 not insulted. He knows his grammy loves him, but he's 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:48.960 always trying to put her on the spot, and she's 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:51.880 got to figure out a way to get out of it. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.599 It's like I kept a mass relationship. He says one 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.240 thing and she kind of comes back another way. It's 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:00.800 very cute. What we're hearing, though, is this reparte that 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.520 they have, that they're both on the same way. They 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:08.360 get each other. Absolutely. Okay, Rita, the producers have handed 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:12.680 me the park titles, and here's the first one, Part one. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:18.320 W w E. I wonder what that could I I 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:23.640 couldn't imagine w w E. World War Women's where, women's 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:28.040 where early I don't know. I can't imagine. All right, 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.119 I think we're gonna have to listen to it because 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:38.280 we're getting silly. What about Beauty School Dropout, No graduation, 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:45.560 Beauty School Dropout. That movie Greece is on every other week. 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:48.760 I must have seen the Ted Times in Florida this winter. Wow. 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:54.600 Jed's had many interests in his life. He loved w 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:57.320 w E. I think we went to Zack Shuman's house 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:02.000 Grammy and he had Power Rangers, which I loved Power Rangers, 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.760 and then pro wrestling figures. Oh yes, I think I 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:07.760 took come home. We watched YouTube videos with the wrestlers. 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:11.960 I was really drawn to the sort of dramatization of it. 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.760 It's kind of like drag queens in our way. Wrestlers, 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:17.400 you know, they're just all over the place. And I 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:20.840 was really obsessed. I would have hundreds of action figures, 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:24.920 you know. I mean, I was really into it. So 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:28.200 we went to w w E and the dregs of 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:31.880 society are there. You never saw us so many disgusting 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:36.480 looking people dressed with vests with their tattoos all over 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:41.439 their bodies and jeweled hats. It was just a scene, 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:44.200 it really was. That was what like nine years old, 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:46.360 you know, And I knew more than half of them. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.400 Do you remember that Graham? And he was just a 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.520 pain in the ass that night. He was running here 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:53.520 and running. They didn't know what to do, so excited, 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:56.120 they didn't know which way to turn, and the place 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:58.280 was packed and I was only afraid I'd lose them. 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:00.880 And you got these big guys all out, and he 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:05.480 was little jed trying to find wrestler that he saw 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:08.720 already wanted to talk to him. Quite a scene that night. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.880 At one point, we're watching this wrestling match and Grammy goes, 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:14.480 we're going now. I'm done, We're going now, And I'm like, no, 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.440 and she goes, we're going now. We got in the 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:21.360 car and I'm so upset. I think. I was like, 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.480 I can't believe comely, and she goes, you know what, 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:26.800 I took you to the Wrestling Mania event. Shut up. 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:30.480 And I have a picture of me in the back 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.319 of the car being on moody. I'm in the back 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:34.200 of the car taking pictures of myself because I feel 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:36.720 like it's my moody moment because I was so upset. 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:38.600 Here you are driving in the front of the car. 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:43.480 We speaking of the entire car. Right, Grammy, do you 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:47.200 know any pro wrestlers? Could you name any, Grammy? Nope, 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:50.360 you couldn't name one. The one that had that show 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.839 on television, that used to wear the band data how 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:57.560 covid Right, the porn star. You know he's a porn star. Now, No, 0:09:57.679 --> 0:09:59.160 I don't know that he had like a whole sex 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:02.800 tape that gobb interested ever didn't think you were. How's 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:06.000 your dating life going, Grammy? What's up with that? Nothing? 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:08.600 I don't need a man of eighty five years old 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:10.720 with a walker. That's not what you said last time 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:13.640 you were going out with that guy in Florida. You 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:16.440 know what I'm talking about, right, you said we're gonna 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:18.800 see him again. I'm not saying him again. He might 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:24.800 have died. You're so nonchalant about that. You're so nonchalant 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:34.360 about that that he may have died. Okay, it's hysterical, 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:38.480 that's that's so. She is hot stuck. She says she's 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:42.320 eighty five in a wheelchair. I mean, oh my god, 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:48.319 got a throwaway that is so terrific. Maybe he's dead, well, 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:51.480 that's true, would be hard to get a day. Oh 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:54.719 my god, I gotta say one thing I give her 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:59.240 the biggest props for going to a wrestling thing, because 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:02.560 as much I love my grandchildren, and believe me, I 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:06.720 love my grandchildren, there is no way on god screener 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:10.320 that you would ever get me to a wrestling thing, 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.240 I tell you the truth. W w E. I still 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:15.320 don't know what the hell that with me? Is that 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:20.280 the name of a wrestling world? Wrestling something around? Did 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:24.080 you see them? Did you know? Did you never watched that? 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:28.160 Are you crazy? There is no isn't that something? And 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:32.800 she was a good grandmother, She took um, she's the best. Okay, 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:36.000 the producers have handed me the next part, so let's go. 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:39.199 Let's hear it. I can't wait to hear it. To 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:48.600 the pain in the s Meryl and Grammy fight like 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.640 cats and dogs. I mean, it's really something else where, 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:53.960 this Jewish family who goes so intense at it. So 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.040 one moment they'll be going out at left and right, 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:58.760 and the next moment they'll be talking the most normal 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.199 conversation you've ever seen in your entire life. I mean, 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:04.320 it's really some dynamic. It's who we are, I guess 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:07.040 as a family, you know, you never know what you 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:11.679 gotta get with jed, but he was younger. He really did. 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.000 He was very complex. I really did know which way 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:16.960 he was going to churn, and he weren't as close 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:20.000 back then, you know, it was difficult. What time I 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:22.880 took him to videat your golf and I picked him 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:26.480 up at his father's house and he said to me, 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.880 I'm not going to talk to you the whole time 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:31.720 in the car. I said, I'm not going to talk 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:33.400 to you the whole time in the car. That's right, 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:37.160 that's a little dickie. Continue, well, that's true. And we 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.080 played Beniche golf and then I just didn't know what 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:42.600 to do to play Cadam, so I said, you want 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:44.920 to go to the special ice cream store. So he 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:47.199 went to the ice cream store and he he loved 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.640 whatever he had bought, and he said to me, now, 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.000 I'm not going to talk to you the rest of 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:57.400 the way home, so you know, no, I mean no. 0:12:57.559 --> 0:12:59.520 I remember the times where it's like when I was 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.880 bad at Amy because she loves to talk, that's the thing. 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.880 And only was she talked. She would ask about everything 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:07.800 and anything. I'd be like, I stepped out of the 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:11.360 house this morning. She'd be like, on what foot I 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.320 feel bad. I get that from her now too. And 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.240 someone's telling me a story at each another time, what 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:18.080 they were eating, how they were feeling. Sometimes it's a 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:21.560 little much, but I mean she's definitely cares, you know, 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:23.600 But I don't know why I would retaliate it. Goods 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.640 to you. That was your personality. Sometimes it was yes 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:28.360 and sometimes it was no. You never know what you 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:32.679 got when you whipped it. One day they had grandparents 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:36.920 day in the nurse three school. He was delicious that 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:40.840 whole time, and you made pictures and we left. We 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.680 were taking him home and he just would not cross 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:49.000 the street. It's like he weighed like three hundred pounds. 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:51.240 He's stuck so far up to the ground. He just 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:54.880 we could move them. Oh my god, it was just impossible. 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:58.360 He just stood for why. Do you know why? No, 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:00.600 I don't know why. Till this day, you know why. 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:02.599 I was probably in my own world. I think it 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:04.480 all probably just caught up with me in that moment. 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.880 I think I probably thought you were abducting Cecy would 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.840 take me everywhere. No, we spent the warting with you. 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:11.680 We had a lovely time. It's like, know what I 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.720 was painting? He asked, I think we all know that. 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.360 But I think my goal growing up was just because 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:22.000 Eva would get all the attention always, she was always 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:27.160 number one. I think I had to be remembered for something. Well, 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:36.520 that's very vivid. Yeah, you certainly were remembered. That is 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:40.280 so funny. He accomplished what he wanted to accomplish. He 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.360 wanted to set his own mark. And she never forgot 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:46.600 that incident, never, and that was exactly what he wanted. 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.800 You know, little boys are different than the different thing girls. Yeah, 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.080 you can't ask them a lot of questions. Every time 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.560 I asked my grandson's when they do something and they 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:58.800 go someplace, I wasn't good. That's it, right, one word, 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:01.640 And from the girls she get chapter and verse. Yeah, 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.000 you get what they were wearing, who looked nice, who 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:07.640 didn't look nice? Late? Right? And and a boy, did 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:11.160 you have a good time? Yeah? Yeah, But this child 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:15.240 knew how to make his mark. He just stood literally 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:18.640 stood his ground. And that's what killed Sue. When he 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:22.240 says I'm not talking because she's a talker. That must 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.720 kill her if anything, just talk to me. But what 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:29.200 you also are hearing is how close they were really 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:31.840 that she went to this and she went to that. 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:35.600 She tried, she really tried. He gets a kick out 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.240 of all the things. He doesn't even remember the things 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:41.440 he did. Know. I think we tend to remember things 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:46.080 more than, oh, absolutely, than they do absolutely. I remember 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:49.520 when my grandson went to a Quaker nursery school and 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:53.520 a lady came around with cookies, and he never lifted 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:56.120 his head, and the woman kept on saying, Logan, would 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:59.800 you like a cookie? And finally he looked up. He 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:03.040 must have been three, and he says, no, thank you. 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:06.640 I'll wait for the bagels to come around. That tell 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:13.000 me from a Jewish kid in quite a nursery school. Okay, rita, 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:16.520 time for the next part. Okay, let's here in Allen 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:25.400 Part three. A nice rich father. That's nice. Start spreading 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:32.360 the news. I'm leaving today. I want to be a 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:37.160 part of it. New York, New York. I want to 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:42.320 wake up in the city that doesn't sleep. Grammy, do 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:44.800 you have any wine at your house or something? I'm 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:48.120 on antibiotics. I'm not drinking right now. I have gubby bears. 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.680 We um. I don't know if we can say that 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:53.680 on camera. What we smoke? We together A drink? I 0:16:53.720 --> 0:17:02.720 mean that's that was gonna say. I mean, that's consisted 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.200 of a lot of our activities recently. Well, I was 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:10.480 his father brought me down some gummy bears, right, what 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:12.160 do you call them? Is that what it is? Jed 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:14.880 special gummy bears. I guess he brought them for me 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.760 as a medicine for the back. I have a very 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:20.879 bad back, and Jed was in the house and I 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:24.159 had a bad attack, and he kept throwing them in 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:29.920 my mouth, one after the other, and after a while 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:31.919 I was getting moopy. And then I look over and 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:34.800 you're out. You're out like a light. I'd have to 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:40.959 go to rehab. Wait. I want to ask, so, Grammy, 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:42.760 I'm in college right now. Do you have any fun 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:46.359 memories of partying or any of that sort in college? No. 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:50.040 I went to an old girls city college, and I 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.399 came home at three o'clock or five o'clock whenever my 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:54.760 class was over, and you didn't go out. You can 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:56.760 go to the clubs. You didn't do anything at the time. 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:59.600 We never went to clubs. You know, as a group, 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:01.800 you had a date with a boy and then you 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:04.600 went out for dinner or something. Well, speaking of dates, 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.360 you dated Poppy at a very young age. I mean 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:12.280 you were nineteen, he was what? Right? Were you usually 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:16.199 always attracted to older guys? Was that your thing? No? No, 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.280 I dated other guys while I was going with him 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:21.120 because I just didn't think that he was marriage material. 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:23.120 I mean, are you're supposed to keep your virginity until 0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:26.680 after you're married in Jewish culture? No? Well, that Jewish 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:29.119 culture and every culture. I'm not gonna ask if you 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:34.960 abide it by that. That's a little personal, but but 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:39.239 I assume not. Um, Grammy, who do you think the 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:42.399 ideal type of guy for me to be dating is? 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:46.480 George Clooney? Yeah? I feel like you would like it 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:48.879 if I was with someone who had talent. Can I 0:18:48.880 --> 0:18:51.160 just say? She wasn't very close with my ex boyfriend? 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:52.800 I mean it was really nice. It was like a 0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:54.760 whole concerned every she put out. At the point where 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:56.000 I was like, I think I'm gonna break up with him, 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:58.240 she was like, no, well I felt it was too 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:00.199 You know, one minute you were in love and the 0:19:00.240 --> 0:19:01.920 next moviute you were breaking up. I wanted you to 0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:04.000 be a little more sure of yourself, right, right, right, 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:08.560 right right. I was going through this whole tumultuous situation. 0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:11.040 I mean, my grandma was the one who really was 0:19:11.080 --> 0:19:12.760 the whole game changer in the way I was thinking 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:16.040 about things. She gave me the lesson of if someone 0:19:16.080 --> 0:19:18.520 really cares about you, and that's what really matters the most, 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:20.760 and showing that they care about you. But I told 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:21.800 her at one point, I was like, I don't know 0:19:21.880 --> 0:19:23.480 if I trust him, and she goes, well, that's a 0:19:23.520 --> 0:19:26.480 big thing. You have to trust someone, that's the biggest thing. 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:29.520 And if you don't trust someone, then you have nothing. 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:32.959 Remember saying that, Grammy, absolutely, But what would be your 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:37.800 ideal man for me? George Clooney? Somebody that had a 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:42.520 very nice, rich father. I agree with that. That was single. 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:46.080 Oh who's also single? Do I date people who are 0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:50.800 not single? My home wrecker? The father is singing, Oh, 0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:53.479 then the father. So I could take two at once, right, 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:57.080 live in life to the fullest. That's a great No 0:19:57.240 --> 0:20:01.360 the father for me? Oh, I thought you were telling 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:03.800 me to take advantage of all of life's opportunities. I mean, 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:05.880 that's something you would do. No, no, no, no, no, 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:07.520 that's something you would do. You would date the father 0:20:07.560 --> 0:20:11.520 and the son. I think that's a very supposter move please, no, no, 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.480 don't fool yourself here, don't. Let's not get too posh. 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:16.680 You would do it if you had the opportunity. I 0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:19.120 can't even walk. You can do things other than walk. 0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:31.800 Oh my god, that conversation is priceless. First, feeding this 0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:38.399 poor woman these cannabis, COMMI ball till she was looped. Listen, 0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:41.960 you've got a bad back, you try anything. And then 0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:46.440 she's suggesting a grandson should find a nice young man 0:20:46.760 --> 0:20:49.800 with a rich father. So I'm thinking, yeah, everybody should 0:20:49.840 --> 0:20:53.840 marry somebody has a rich father. No, not fun. I 0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:59.560 think that this whole segment tells the story of their closeness, 0:20:59.600 --> 0:21:03.440 of their humor being so into each other. I just 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:06.560 think that this is wonderful. She's a riot and he 0:21:06.840 --> 0:21:10.000 plays right into it. I'm telling you that would be 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:14.640 the funniest sitcom on TV. You can imagine every once 0:21:14.680 --> 0:21:16.399 in a while, don't you feel like you'd like some 0:21:16.480 --> 0:21:20.639 of those gutty bass riata. Oh I don't know. I'm fine. 0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:23.359 I'd sleep well. If I have a pain, I'd taken 0:21:23.359 --> 0:21:26.639 a leave. It's cheaper than a gunny bear. You know, reader, 0:21:26.760 --> 0:21:30.679 that's because you're from one generation before me. That's true. 0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:33.000 And you know what's so funny, And he didn't want 0:21:33.040 --> 0:21:35.960 to hear the answer. He wanted to know if his 0:21:36.119 --> 0:21:38.880 grandmother got married as a virgin. You know, my kids, 0:21:38.920 --> 0:21:41.359 I'd tell right out sure, And I said, you know, 0:21:41.480 --> 0:21:43.560 I was a virgin, and you were a virgin only 0:21:43.600 --> 0:21:47.000 because you didn't have abortions in those days. And if 0:21:47.040 --> 0:21:49.520 you got pregnant, you really had a problem. You know, 0:21:49.720 --> 0:21:53.879 next subject, next subject. But you're another decade after me, 0:21:54.000 --> 0:22:01.679 So moving on, we're not going to ask you. Okay, 0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:04.800 that's that time again. What time? What time are you 0:22:04.840 --> 0:22:08.320 talking about? Tea time? Tea time? You know, when we 0:22:08.400 --> 0:22:11.680 have our break and we have our tea time. It's 0:22:11.720 --> 0:22:14.720 nothing like tea time in London. No, there really isn't. 0:22:14.800 --> 0:22:18.040 You can go in the city. It's not like London. Now. Well, 0:22:18.080 --> 0:22:20.040 my bring is hot water in a bag that you 0:22:20.160 --> 0:22:24.560 keep donking in and out. And now that's what they 0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:36.560 called tea time in the United States. Okay, tea time 0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:38.679 is over. Back to work all and so we can 0:22:38.720 --> 0:22:42.040 afford another trip. You know what we do. Maybe we 0:22:42.080 --> 0:22:45.199 should try to meditate. And that's when I do a 0:22:45.280 --> 0:22:50.360 whole day. I clear my mind and I hoped to myself, 0:22:50.880 --> 0:22:55.800 and I talked to my that's my meditating. I have 0:22:55.920 --> 0:23:01.920 a chicken in the refrigerator. Chicken is defrosted. Listen it 0:23:02.040 --> 0:23:09.520 all right, We're glad we could think the day eftday. Okay, reader, 0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:13.720 time for the next part. Okay, let's go part four, 0:23:14.400 --> 0:23:20.320 the prank call. Okay. So I have no idea how 0:23:20.359 --> 0:23:23.000 this came up, but I saw a TikTok and that 0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:26.439 was like this girl used Google Translate to create this 0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:30.000 robotic voice, like an automatic voice. I'm like, you know what, 0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:31.720 I should do it to Grammy because I think it 0:23:31.720 --> 0:23:36.080 would be a good reaction. So in the morning it 0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:37.920 was I guess it was up one thirty in the morning. 0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:41.280