Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for finding Brook and Jeffrey Second Date Update podcast.
Speaker 2: We're so glad you're here.
Speaker 1: Today features a brand new episode and we've got a
Speaker 1: date swap.
Speaker 2: Can we call it that? I mean swap ditch? I
Speaker 2: don't know. He didn't sign up for it, regardless, Yes, regrets.
Speaker 2: You're gonna hear what went down in just a minute.
Speaker 2: But first comments, what do you see Alexai?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jasmine Graham said, I listened to the show so much,
Speaker 3: I've started a dream of Second Date up.
Speaker 1: I think that means that you're fluent in second Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think that that's the first sign to fluency. So
Speaker 1: welcome to it. All right, dream about this one. It
Speaker 1: starts right now, Brook.
Speaker 2: And Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates Brooke.
Speaker 4: Back in your dating heyday, or as you sometimes call it,
Speaker 4: your revolving door years, safe to say you had some
Speaker 4: interesting dates and relationships that ended in like bizarre ways.
Speaker 5: Okay, but have you.
Speaker 4: Ever started a date with one person and then ended
Speaker 4: it with a completely different one?
Speaker 2: Oh, I would take talent I don't have.
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, unions do not count, by the way, No,
Speaker 4: I only asked because apparently that's what happened. To our listener, Ethan,
Speaker 4: who has reached out requesting our help today. Ethan, Welcome
Speaker 4: to the show man.
Speaker 5: Hey, how are you?
Speaker 4: Oh man?
Speaker 1: How do you go from one date to another in
Speaker 1: the same night? That is that's some gymnastics.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was probably one of the most confusing and
Speaker 5: strange dates I've been on.
Speaker 1: Can I ask, are you interested in getting a hold
Speaker 1: of date number one?
Speaker 2: For date number two?
Speaker 5: The original person that I was going on the date with,
Speaker 5: That's who I'm interested?
Speaker 2: Truest got it, so got to be who you ended
Speaker 2: the night with.
Speaker 4: Well, let's start at the beginning. Tell us what happened.
Speaker 5: Okay, So I matched with this girl named Brianna from
Speaker 5: the initial chat.
Speaker 4: She was very friendly, she has a great smile.
Speaker 5: And so we set up the first date just go
Speaker 5: to this little bar and grill. I got there first,
Speaker 5: so you know, I got the table. She showed up,
Speaker 5: she looks great. She compliments me too, like my outfit
Speaker 5: and like, you know, it's very rare for the woman
Speaker 5: to give the compliment first. Yeah, She's like, I love
Speaker 5: that shirt. I'm like, you know, thank you.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: Feel like all the women listening should give more compliments.
Speaker 2: Well I do.
Speaker 3: If the guy's actually stylish. Oh, I mean, you've got
Speaker 3: to work for it. I'll compliment a stylish guy just saying.
Speaker 4: Stylish. All right. So after the compliments, how did the
Speaker 4: dinner drinks? Like, what were we doing?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so, you know, we get a drink and we're
Speaker 5: chatting for a little bit, going really well, getting to
Speaker 5: know each other, you know, better than I would say
Speaker 5: most other dates from the get go.
Speaker 1: So okay, so you're feeling at this point, okay, this
Speaker 1: could be something.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So waitress comes back and we're pouring our food order
Speaker 5: in and that's kind of when things you know, start
Speaker 5: to change here. Oh how so she like looked at
Speaker 5: her phone and she's like, I.
Speaker 4: Hope you don't mind.
Speaker 5: My mom's gonna be stopping by.
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, I wanted to meet your mom
Speaker 2: on the first date.
Speaker 4: Hey, if she thinks that he's good enough to just
Speaker 4: have mom swing by and drop something off, I know,
Speaker 4: why why stopping by?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I thought she was joking at first, right,
Speaker 5: But a couple of minutes later mom shows up. Whoa No,
Speaker 5: she introduces herself. Her name is Deborah, and then she
Speaker 5: pulled a chair up.
Speaker 2: No, no, she sits down with you.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Like, and this is right when the waitress at
Speaker 5: the table and we're about to order her food. So
Speaker 5: the waitress, not knowing anything, she asked the mom what
Speaker 5: she wants to eat too?
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So the mom's like, oh, I'll just get something
Speaker 5: to go.
Speaker 2: That still means she's gonna sit there and tell that
Speaker 2: to go.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Ana means you're paying for that, which is fine.
Speaker 4: You take care of the mom.
Speaker 2: Is this normal to Brianna? Can you tell?
Speaker 5: I don't really know, Like she doesn't seem like it's
Speaker 5: off putting or anything. And like, how was the mom?
Speaker 4: Was she pleasant? Was she weird? Was like, jose wants
Speaker 4: to know if she's single? Is interesting?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: She was like super nice, very similar to Brianna, very talkative, approachable.
Speaker 4: So at what point, you know, when does mom leave?
Speaker 4: That's the thing.
Speaker 5: So fifty minutes later, food comes out, Brihanna's eating and
Speaker 5: like she looked at her phone and she's like, oh,
Speaker 5: I gotta go.
Speaker 4: What who Brianna or the mom? Brianna?
Speaker 5: No, wait, well, She's like, I gotta go. She asked
Speaker 5: her mom to box the food up. She gives me
Speaker 5: a huggobuyer and she says like, oh, we'll talk later.
Speaker 2: No apology, no explanation.
Speaker 5: She said sorry, but she was just kind of like
Speaker 5: rushing out of there, like the emergency or she had
Speaker 5: to give to something.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Okay, So now at this point Brianna
Speaker 4: has left the table and it's just you and Brianna's
Speaker 4: mom having dinner together.
Speaker 3: Yes, a test with like what how her mom is
Speaker 3: reading you after she leaves.
Speaker 2: Something like like let the mom figure that out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that must have been so awkward for you.
Speaker 5: It was a little bit. What kind of saved me
Speaker 5: is the mom's to go food arrived, and so that
Speaker 5: kind of like signaled the end of I get the
Speaker 5: date if you will.
Speaker 4: How did the date the kids?
Speaker 3: Like me and my mom went out?
Speaker 2: Like all right, who gets who's a better fit for?
Speaker 4: Actually, that would be a crazy way to set somebody.
Speaker 4: How did you and Brianna's mom leave things?
Speaker 5: So like we walked out together, the mom gives me
Speaker 5: a hug, not just kind of like what just happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it sounds like you already passed the paternal
Speaker 4: interview portion of the dating process. So that's good news.
Speaker 2: Wait, Brianna hasn't reached out to you after this.
Speaker 5: We've been texting here and there since that night.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, but not as much as I like.
Speaker 2: Okay, I see it feels different.
Speaker 5: You're saying, yeah, But the issue is her mom is
Speaker 5: texting me more than Brianna.
Speaker 2: Wait, her mom has your phone number. How did that happened?
Speaker 5: I guess Brianna gave it to her. She was just like, hey,
Speaker 5: great to meet you the other night, and then she
Speaker 5: asked me how my days going.
Speaker 2: That sounds like a post date text.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And if the mom was going to text you,
Speaker 1: it would be on a group chat, right like it
Speaker 1: would be with Brianna.
Speaker 4: Appropriate for Brook. Sounds like Shardy knows exactly how things
Speaker 4: are going to go when her kids start to get
Speaker 4: that chat going. Any boy, your daughter text you're in
Speaker 4: that group.
Speaker 1: I'm just going to be in the disguise secretly from
Speaker 1: another table watching that.
Speaker 2: That crosses That's normal.
Speaker 4: Let's try to bring your dating life back to normal.
Speaker 4: When we call Brianna here, w wait for this and
Speaker 4: we'll ask her what's going on between the two of you.
Speaker 4: When we do your second date update right after this, hold.
Speaker 2: On Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 4: If you missed it. Ethan just told us about one
Speaker 4: of the stranger first dates that we've ever covered on
Speaker 4: this show.
Speaker 1: I honestly can't believe he wants to see this woman again.
Speaker 4: It's honestly it's out there where he went out with
Speaker 4: a woman named Brianna and in the middle of it,
Speaker 4: Brianna's mom showed up to the restaurant. Okay, which, honestly,
Speaker 4: that part isn't even that mind blowing. We've heard of
Speaker 4: it happening before. H I know, We're like, that's cool.
Speaker 2: We thought she was just going to get it to
Speaker 2: go order and go.
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, The head scratching part was where Brianna got
Speaker 4: a text mid dinner and she suddenly had to go,
Speaker 4: leaving Ethan to finish the rest of his date alone
Speaker 4: with Brianna's mom.
Speaker 2: And Brianna's mom is the one that's been texted and more.
Speaker 4: Yeah. So the good news is the rest of the
Speaker 4: date went great. He even got a mom hug at
Speaker 4: the end of it. So that's gotta feel good, right
Speaker 4: Ethan that mom already approves of you dating her daughter.
Speaker 5: Aw yeah, that's one way to look at it.
Speaker 4: Oh, trying to be optimistic. Here, can I.
Speaker 1: Ask how many texts a day do you think you're
Speaker 1: getting from Brianna's mom?
Speaker 5: Probably like four or five, like kind of you know,
Speaker 5: throughout the day, you know.
Speaker 2: And how many are you getting from Brianna.
Speaker 5: Like one every like three or four days.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, maybe we should just call the mom.
Speaker 3: Honestly, she is the one that's gonna want to go
Speaker 3: out with you.
Speaker 4: The mom's trying to feel you out.
Speaker 5: I don't want to talk to the mom. I want
Speaker 5: to talk to Brianna.
Speaker 4: No, moms love getting phone calls from people all they do.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 1: This is a family that has wild boundaries or no boundaries.
Speaker 4: I'm really eager to talk to either one of them.
Speaker 4: So let's call it Brianna first. We'll see if she answers.
Speaker 4: Here we go, Hello, Hey is this Brianna? Yeah, Hey, Brianna.
Speaker 2: We are so excited to talk.
Speaker 4: That's an understatement because you're on a radio show right now.
Speaker 4: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: I know it might be a little unusual for you,
Speaker 4: but we do this segment it's called a second Date Update,
Speaker 4: and we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 4: that you went to dinner with recently. Okay, it's a
Speaker 4: guy named Ethan.
Speaker 6: What's the problem. I don't understand why you all reaching
Speaker 6: out about him.
Speaker 4: Well, there's no problem. It's just Ethan's a little bit
Speaker 4: confused about what's going on between the two of you
Speaker 4: right now, because he told us that he felt a
Speaker 4: really strong connection with you.
Speaker 1: He was so excited about you, like, you're cute, you
Speaker 1: have a great smile, wonderful personality.
Speaker 6: He's so sweet. He was really nice too, he was
Speaker 6: very nice.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he mentioned that you brought that up, and
Speaker 4: he said that he had a great time not just
Speaker 4: on the app but on the date with you. And
Speaker 4: then he said your mom showed up.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was really nice. She happened to be in
Speaker 6: the area and she could stop by and order some
Speaker 6: food with us.
Speaker 4: Okay, she happened to be That wasn't like planned that
Speaker 4: she would swing by.
Speaker 6: Not necessarily planned. My mom, she just went through divorce
Speaker 6: and actually just moved to be closer to me and
Speaker 6: so just go out get to know the town and
Speaker 6: things like that. And when she was out in texting,
Speaker 6: I let her know where I was at the gate
Speaker 6: with Ethan and thought it would be nice to stop by.
Speaker 6: So that's what happened.
Speaker 2: That was so nice of Ethan to buy her mom dinner.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what a good guy. We're trying to read between
Speaker 4: the lines here, and maybe you just need to tell us,
Speaker 4: like you weren't trying to set your mom up with Ethan, right, Okay,
Speaker 4: all right, we didn't think so, but we just had
Speaker 4: to get that out there.
Speaker 2: I definitely thought, so, why did you.
Speaker 3: For yourself?
Speaker 2: Why did you Why did you have to leave in
Speaker 2: the middle of dinner?
Speaker 6: Oh, I'll tell he told you that. Okay, Well she
Speaker 6: was left with your mom.
Speaker 2: That's probably a pretty big plot point in the date night.
Speaker 6: Yeah. So when my mom got there, it just seemed
Speaker 6: like they were kind of having a fun conversation and
Speaker 6: he seemed like a nice guy for her to be
Speaker 6: friends with. And I thought, you know, just let's the
Speaker 6: conversation continue with them and I could find something else
Speaker 6: to do so I wouldn't feel like I was interruption.
Speaker 4: What wait? What?
Speaker 6: So?
Speaker 2: Wait? You left so that your mom could hang out
Speaker 2: with Ethan.
Speaker 4: You're trying to get your mom a friend in that case,
Speaker 4: you know, if she's friends and has more of.
Speaker 6: A social life. Then I could have more of a
Speaker 6: social life and get out and start dating.
Speaker 4: Moore, you're pounding your mom off onto a new person
Speaker 4: so that she can hang outence.
Speaker 6: Not any person, Ethan.
Speaker 5: He's super nice, finish like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, last nice guys finished first with moms.
Speaker 4: I guess we'll see how nice he's still feeling when
Speaker 4: we get him on the phone, because he's actually on
Speaker 4: the other line right now wanting to talk to you, Brianna.
Speaker 5: Oh so he heard.
Speaker 6: That all of that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, everything, So Ethan, are you there? Hello?
Speaker 5: Hey Brianna awkward?
Speaker 6: Hi, Yeah, what happened? Then? It wasn't intentional in any way,
Speaker 6: but it just kind of was on my part to leave.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like the day was going well, we were
Speaker 5: vibing on our date there. You know, we've both had
Speaker 5: a great conversation, So why would you do that?
Speaker 6: I know we were. It's just it was really nice
Speaker 6: to watch it blossom, this friendship bloshomy with my mom
Speaker 6: and you.
Speaker 2: There's no twenty something year old man that wants to
Speaker 2: be friends with somebody's mom.
Speaker 6: Please don't judge Ethan that way. Okay, he can decide,
Speaker 6: and they have been texting a lot, he told me.
Speaker 6: You guys have been talking like a couple of times
Speaker 6: throughout the day.
Speaker 4: Oh you think that is a good point. You are
Speaker 4: answering all of her mom's text messages.
Speaker 2: Mom or new bff? What do you want to call?
Speaker 4: What's her name? And your phone? Mom?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I mean we do you want to be
Speaker 1: friends with?
Speaker 4: What do you want?
Speaker 5: More?
Speaker 4: Friendship with Brihanna's mom or a romance with Brianna?
Speaker 2: Can't you have both? Or both? Not on the table?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna say no for me because I just
Speaker 6: can't see myself dating one of my mom's friends.
Speaker 4: You set them up, and that is wild. This is
Speaker 4: wild to.
Speaker 2: Me, dude, you got friend zone to the mom.
Speaker 4: Honey.
Speaker 5: You were so nice and kind and different than all
Speaker 5: the other girls I've gone on dates with.
Speaker 6: And you know who's nicer than me, my mom? Where
Speaker 6: do you think I got it from? Pa? Do some
Speaker 6: nice little day dates and things like that?
Speaker 2: You called it a date.
Speaker 6: You guys know what I mean. It wasn't like a
Speaker 6: date like that.
Speaker 4: No, we understand this is very very sweet in a
Speaker 4: strange way.
Speaker 6: I want to be very clear with you, my mom
Speaker 6: is not attracted to you in any way.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's a little harsh and unnecessary that.
Speaker 1: It's anything that's been said, don't try anything.
Speaker 5: So I called this radio station to try and set
Speaker 5: us up on the second date, and out of this,
Speaker 5: I'm just getting that your mom doesn't even think I'm
Speaker 5: good looking.
Speaker 4: Well, everybody in their friend group they need to have
Speaker 4: that ugly friend.
Speaker 2: You're hot and handsome. I'm sure Brook has never seen.
Speaker 4: I'm also a mom. Yeah, maybe wants to be friends
Speaker 4: with you.
Speaker 6: I'm good, dresses really well, wow compliments and mom points.
Speaker 2: So we what is the question, Jeff?
Speaker 4: I mean, normally the question would be would you and
Speaker 4: Brianna like to go out again? But it sounds like
Speaker 4: that's already gonna be a no. So instead I'm gonna
Speaker 4: ask Ethan, would you like to go out on a
Speaker 4: friend date with to putt putt golf with Brianna's mom?
Speaker 4: And I guess we would fund that'd be so cute.
Speaker 6: Well, I'm going to answer with my mom.
Speaker 5: I'm going to say yes.
Speaker 4: Okay, now, Ethan, it's all up to you. Oh boy,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: Your mom is nice, but it's going to be a
Speaker 5: no for me.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I didn't see.
Speaker 4: That friendship doesn't last.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we gonna tell the mom's going.
Speaker 6: To be you're an adult, not the breakup tags.
Speaker 4: What have you gotten yourself into?
Speaker 5: What are you doing to mean?
Speaker 4: Rihanna and Jeffrey in the morning? Man, I feel like
Speaker 4: a failure.
Speaker 1: Why because he got just mom zoned on top of
Speaker 1: being friend zoned by the ground.
Speaker 4: No, not even that. That's the first time I've asked
Speaker 4: for a date with someone's mom and they said no.
Speaker 4: I always get yes yes. Is it mean did I
Speaker 4: do something wrong? I feel like I could have done better. Remember,
Speaker 4: this wasn't a day they wanted friends for mom could
Speaker 4: could have sold it more like what if he was
Speaker 4: able to do laundry at her mom's house and she
Speaker 4: showed him how to use those downy scented beads in
Speaker 4: his load.
Speaker 2: So somebody Jose wants to go.
Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody wants to be right now. Yeah, it didn't
Speaker 4: work out.
Speaker 2: That was wild.
Speaker 4: No, that was maybe one of the craziest ones we've
Speaker 4: ever done.
Speaker 1: Her mom must be so obnoxious that she'll pawn him
Speaker 1: off on anybody.
Speaker 3: I don't want to be like yeah, she's just like, yeah,
Speaker 3: just take the date.
Speaker 1: I don't even care.
Speaker 2: Get my mom out of here.
Speaker 4: Seriously, the next time we ask somebody if they want
Speaker 4: to hang out with somebody else's mom, we better get
Speaker 4: a yes.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Okay, So if you're thinking about calling in yes, remember
Speaker 4: that you can always email us if you want help
Speaker 4: with your dating life, whether it involves your mother or not.
Speaker 4: Reach out to the show. We'll call that person who's
Speaker 4: not calling you back.