1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: Good morning vat Nation. We are so excited to have 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: you listening in now we have so much ground to cover, 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: and later on we have Misty Andrew, who, as you 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: unfortunately saw, just went home, but she is on the 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: line giving us all of the details and the tea 6 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: living with all the girls, so we can't wait to 7 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: get started. Yes, we are so excited because last week 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: we gotta to be continued, which we know we hate, 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: but now we have the answers that we need. Kind 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: of right like kind of Becca, I still feel like 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: we're confused on a lot of situations. We're not getting 12 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 1: the truth. But shocker at the top of the episode, 13 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: Peterson's a laya home at the beginning of the cocktail party. Now, 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: were you expecting this? Okay, no, only because I don't 15 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: quite understand the thought process in Peter first sending her 16 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: home at last week's row ceremony, then having her comeback 17 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: giving her a rose when she's not even on a date, 18 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: she's not even part of the show at this point, 19 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: bringing her back in to live with the girls, only 20 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: to send her home prior to anything else happening. Yeah, yeah, 21 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: I just when I saw this, I was like Peter 22 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: This is so problematic. You know, last episode we were saying, 23 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: poor Peter, this episode, I'm titling it. I am not 24 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: here to make friends, and we'll get into that later. 25 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: But Peter's behavior for me, I can't excuse it much 26 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: longer because what was frustrating was we see these women 27 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: who call you out, who say they're confused by your actions, 28 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: and it's becoming clear that you don't really know what 29 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: you want, and you seem to be easily swayed by 30 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: others opinions. You listen too much to the women who 31 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: come and tattle to you when they have one on 32 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: one time. You're listening to the collective group of the 33 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: women say how they feel, rather than what your feelings are. 34 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I was screaming at the TV, what does 35 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: Peter think? Yeah? What does he want? And I have 36 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: to say that at this point in the season, it 37 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: seems like he doesn't know. I don't think anyone knows. 38 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: I don't think Peter knows. And my issue with this 39 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: situation is that had the girls, I mean, it was 40 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: a collective frustration with the group. They all questioned him, 41 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: they all called him out on bringing her back, and 42 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 1: of course rightly so they were angered by it, and 43 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: had they not all done that and not attacked him 44 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: in a way but brought that to his attention, I 45 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: don't think he would have sent her home at that moment. 46 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: I think I think it was overwhelming for him and 47 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: he kind of had this panic of like, oh crap, 48 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: I'm getting attacked now, just how do I appease this 49 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: and how do I stop this quickly? It's like, but 50 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 1: did you really want her back for a reason, because 51 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: that's what you made it seem like by your actions, 52 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: and so stand by that if that is what you want. No, 53 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: completely agree with you, and I feel like it's a 54 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: lead you should be a matter of fact, Yes, you 55 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: know you questioned some things. We've been there, Becca both 56 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 1: you do. You listen to what other people have to say, 57 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: but you have to at the end of the day, 58 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: trust your gut and be confident in whatever decision that 59 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: it is that you make. And Peter doesn't seem to 60 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: have that characteristic at this point as a lead. And 61 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: I've just never seen so much confusion clouding over a cast, 62 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 1: and I'm including Peter in that. And I think what 63 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: was also problematic is, Okay, you made the decision to 64 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: bring a Laya back. You wanted that you didn't feel 65 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: like you had the full story, and as we found out, 66 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: he certainly did not. But what he didn't have to 67 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: do was give her a rose. He could have just said, 68 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to bring you back. We've 69 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: seen that before. I want to give you some more 70 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: time to prove yourself. I want to get to know you. 71 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: Maybe there's some more that I need to figure out. 72 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: But Peter didn't do that. He gave her a rose, 73 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: and then you take it back and you're still telling 74 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: Victoria Pee how much you trust her. And I'm so 75 00:03:55,440 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: frustrated because to me, the lies are evident. I don't understand. 76 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: I just have come to the conclusion that we have 77 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: to be missing something because the other side of it 78 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: is that Peter is an idiot. I'm sorry, I don't 79 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: understand how you just don't get the Victoria Pe lied 80 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: to you, and you just seem to excuse this problematic behavior. 81 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm so frustrated with them as I'm watching the beginning 82 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 1: of this episode, and I think, and I don't want 83 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: to speak for him because he is not here. My 84 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: personal take is that at this moment, from everything that 85 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: we have seen, Peter is getting distracted by shiny things 86 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: and what he has attracted to, and he is following 87 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: other parts of his body and not necessarily his head 88 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: at this moment in time. Yeah, no, one hundred percent. Okay, 89 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: So moving on, we lose three more ladies. We lose Keiki, 90 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: we lose Deandra, and we lose Savannah. They don't get roses. 91 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: And that's short lived because now we're excited because we're 92 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 1: leaving the country and we're going on a journey to 93 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: Costa Rica, which I personally have a love for. That's 94 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: where I had my bachelorette party, so I was excited 95 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: to see the ladies that they get to go there. 96 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: It's really a fun and exciting place. But Okay, I 97 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: have to laugh about this because one thing I don't 98 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 1: think people know about me is that sometimes I'm really 99 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: gullible and who When Peter met the women and he 100 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 1: started telling them the story about the puma, I believed 101 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: him at first. He started it off. I mean, he 102 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: was committed to the story. I will say I probably 103 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 1: would have been like you or the other women have 104 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: been like shut up, no way this puma. But we yeah, 105 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: never find out that wasn't the case. I mean a 106 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 1: puma crossing this path. It was a golf cart, but 107 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: not even like, not even the fact that he fell 108 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: out of a golf cart. It's that he was just 109 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: going to sit on the back at the golf cart 110 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: and it hits his head and then quickly dives and 111 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 1: hits his head on the glass. Like I know. The 112 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: actual footage clip that they showed was very It wasn't 113 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 1: high quality. It was very brief, but I had to 114 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: rewatch it a couple of times to be like, is 115 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: how the heck does this happen? And I'm a very 116 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: clumsy person, so I get that you can get injured 117 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 1: in like the weirdest of ways. But what it was 118 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: definitely a freak accident twenty it was. The reenactment was amazing. 119 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: I'm always here for the re enactment. These keep them 120 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: coming throughout the season. I mean, it was worth It 121 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: wasn't even what I thought it was until I saw 122 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: the reenactment and I was like, Wow, that's how it 123 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: happened to Peter. Okay, still don't quite get it, but 124 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: that's why I'm calling it a freak accident. I do 125 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: have to say that when he was telling the story 126 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: about the puma, I thought it was going to be 127 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: a reference to a like a black cat, which I 128 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: guess the puma as a cat, but an actual black 129 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: cat walking across his path, across his path kind of 130 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: foreshadowing if you're superstitious that you know something is going 131 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: to happen, which I kind of think he cursed the 132 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: season by telling this story because it seems like a 133 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: black cat is running all over this season. Just En 134 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: circles around him. Yeah yeah, just around him in the house, 135 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: on the plane, wherever, on the golf cart, everywhere everything, 136 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: and it's in the suitcase. It it is following him. 137 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, So yes, And don't you feel like we're 138 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: getting a lot of one on ones? Is it just me? 139 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I just feel like more, you know, 140 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: normally sometimes you see two group dates and just one 141 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: one on one during the week. I feel like every 142 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: week we're getting multiple one on ones. But we are 143 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: great for the ladies. Great for the ladies. That means 144 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: they're getting more time with Peter. So Sydney gets a 145 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: one on one and she goes on a helicopter ride 146 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: over a waterfall and the beautiful rainforest forests that are 147 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: in Costa Rica, and we really see her personality come 148 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: out a bit because she's kind of she's like silent 149 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: but deadly, right. You see her quietly moving in the house, 150 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: but then when she does speak, it's always with the 151 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: dagger because we saw what happened to Alaia and we 152 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: kind of see that happen later on in the episode 153 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: as well. But yeah, what did you think about her 154 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: opening up with Peter. I think, well, Peter said it 155 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: best when he was talking to her. He called her mysterious, 156 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: which I agree with. There's always something It's like from 157 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: what we've seen up until this one on one, there 158 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: wasn't I didn't get much to her other than the 159 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: fact that she didn't like Alaia. There was always something 160 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: there that she was kind of reserved about. So yeah, 161 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 1: she opened up about her background, about being bullied and 162 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: her parents' relationship and how difficult that was for her. 163 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: I interact watching Peter and her interact, I think I 164 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: think he is very enamored with her, by her beauty. 165 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: I think that's very apparent. I just don't think other 166 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: than that, like I don't for me personally see that deep, 167 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: strong connection. It's like, yes, we know she's a good kisser. 168 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: They had a very very very steamy makeout session in 169 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: multiple positions, but other than that, I don't see much 170 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: more between them than than that passion. Now that's a 171 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: really good point. Yeah, you're right, they didn't seem to 172 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: connect below a surface level. In my notes, I have 173 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: one word written under Sydney and it's hot. That's it. 174 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: That's like all hot road, I have all these things 175 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 1: about everything else is like hot. She's hot, their data 176 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: is hot, their interactions are hot. I mean, how many 177 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: basses do you think they rounded when they were in 178 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: that hot tub? Six or seven? But they're only basis, 179 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: they're only four life. This is I thought you meant, 180 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: like how many different services did they make out? Okay, okay, 181 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: well you know what I was actually wondering watching them 182 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: make out. At one point they were making out, you know, 183 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: laying down, and then she was on top and he 184 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: was on top. But at one point they were under 185 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: the water and you just see the back and someone 186 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 1: sitting on someone and I'm like, I think, wow, there's 187 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: a little bit more touchy feely going on than the 188 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: camera is letting on. Right now, Well, we've seen, you know, 189 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 1: an extended preview the audience has at this point of 190 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: the season from beginning to the end, and one of 191 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: the clips is a girl saying Sydney had sex in 192 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: the hot tub with Peter. So I didn't see that. 193 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: So maybe there's another hot tub that comes. I don't 194 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: know what that means. You didn't see that? No clip? Yeah, 195 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: I've missed that. Yes, it's the only thing that and 196 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 1: and Barb saying don't let her go. The two clip 197 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: are the two things that I remember in nixt in 198 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: a clip. Yes, somebody says that. So I don't know 199 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 1: if it's a rumor, if something happens later, but it's 200 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: definitely something that I'm waiting to see play out as 201 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: the season progresses. Yes, but um, Sydney definitely was a 202 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: passionate date. I made sure that Brian fast forwarded during 203 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: that section of the date. Or how does it not 204 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: just kidding careless? How many bases do you think they covered? 205 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 1: Since I botched that one? Three? Three? They definitely I 206 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 1: don't think they made it home, but they definitely rounded 207 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 1: third base. Dylan, when we had him on the show 208 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 1: last week said talked about having to watch episodes back. 209 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 1: I can't remember if it was Dylan or Hannah that 210 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: said it after watching Sydney's date. If he didn't pick Sydney, 211 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: my god, whoever he picked is really going to have 212 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: to dig deep within. If he picked somebody, we still 213 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: don't even know that, but it's going to have to 214 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: dig deep within to really move past that because there 215 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 1: is a lot of physical tenac. Yes, they either have 216 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: to have very thick skin and be confident in who 217 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: they are and in the relationship at this point, or 218 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: who knows if they even watched it, because if I 219 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,679 Speaker 1: was Peter, I'd be like, oh, maybe fast forward a 220 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, and at this point, Peter's kissed everyone. 221 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: He kiss thirteen the first night, so and he told 222 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: Sidney she was the best kisser. So if I'm the 223 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: girl he picked and I'm sitting at home, I'm gonna 224 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: be like, oh, okay, so really, so Sidney's got the 225 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: best lips, So what do you think about my lips? 226 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: I'd be like, Okay, what does she do? What do 227 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: I need to work on? Give me the pointers here? Yeah? Yeah, 228 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 1: that's that's That's a tough pill swallow. He seems to 229 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: gravitate girls that have more of a hard, difficult, tragic 230 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: past that he kind of wants to save, even though 231 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: he mentioned with us that he wants a strong, independent 232 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 1: woman that he might like to be the savior in 233 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: a relationship. Yeah, and I almost think that he can't 234 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: help it, because everybody, more than any other season I've watched, 235 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: these girls have a past and a story and have 236 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: really been through things. So it's almost inevitable because everybody 237 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: is like, I want to sit down and tell my story. 238 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,199 Speaker 1: I mean, even later in the episode we see McKenna 239 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: who's like, this was a big night for us. I 240 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: was going to open up to him and tell him 241 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: my story, and I was like, geez, everybody except for Kelly, 242 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: who will talk about later, really has a deep story 243 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: or is at least willing to open up with Peter 244 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: and share that with him. And maybe that's a credit 245 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: to Peter that they the girls just feel comfortable enough 246 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: to really express how they feel. And he is very empathetic, 247 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 1: and when his parents were in the studio weeks ago, 248 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: they did mention he is a people pleaser. He does 249 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: have that nurturing inside to him, which we're definitely seen 250 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: with him and these women yeah, no, no, no no, for sure. 251 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: So the next date, which I thought was interesting and 252 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: definitely a recipe for drama, as we see them having 253 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 1: this professional photo shoot on the waterfalls on the rocks, 254 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: which was beautiful, but then you see girls really step 255 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: it up out of their comfort zone and try to 256 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: stand out to I don't know if the prize was Peter, 257 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: just the prize of getting that cover of that magazine, 258 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: But what did you think about the girl's actions as 259 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: they were in the midst of that photo shoot. If 260 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: I was on this group date, I would be more defied. 261 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: What would you do with your hands? Exactly? Rachel to 262 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: my point, I am so awkward. I never really had 263 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: a proper photo shoot until after I came out of 264 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: the bachelorette Like, of course I had my senior photos 265 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: and that was it. So if had I been on 266 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: this date, I would have been like, can I stand underwater? 267 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: Please give me some of those water shoes. I'll hide 268 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: beneath the surface, like I'll smile at the camera. I 269 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 1: would have no idea what to do, which is where 270 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: we see the difference with some of these girls. Because, 271 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: of course you have Hannah Ann, who is the model 272 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: she killed it on the evolved day. These girls are 273 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: all gorgeous, and I will say like it came across 274 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: that all looked pretty comfortable with each other. They're posed 275 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: up with some of the other girls. The part that 276 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: kind of stuck out to me is Victoria f when 277 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: she goes in for that kiss with Peter. I think 278 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: her whole I'm not confident act is not necessarily true. Yeah, 279 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm torn on this one because I get it. You 280 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: there's no girl or guy that doesn't get insecure when 281 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: you're on this show and you're surrounding yourself with all 282 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: these beautiful people and it's hard to stand out in 283 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 1: a crowd. But yeah, that that definitely that insecurity. Seems 284 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: like that was I don't know, something that happened a 285 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: long time ago, because we're not seeing that now. We're 286 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: seeing her more vocal in the house and we're seeing 287 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: her more standing out and you know, being a presence 288 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: when it comes to Peter. How about Tammy. That was 289 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: hilarious when she did not no, that was you beckat 290 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: you are Tammy? Tammy? When they were kissing, I was 291 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: like McKenna looked like she was like reaching like grabbing 292 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: his neck, like hey, Hey, kiss me too, and Tammy 293 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: just screams and just stands there and looks terrified, like 294 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I'm just here that 295 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: Tammy is the ultimate, Like this moment sucks, but I'm 296 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: going to make the most of it. And her face 297 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: like when the when the camera snapped her face in 298 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: that moment, I was like, oh my god, I feel 299 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: I'm feeling Tammy right now. And yes, that's just it's 300 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: just uncomfortable, you know. And I get that it's the 301 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: name of the game, and you know when you sign 302 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: up for the show that you're going to have to 303 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: see other relationships unfold. But like, let's be honest, no 304 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: one wants to see him kissing another girl literally twelve 305 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: inches behind you. Yeah. How about when Victoria f on 306 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: the nighttime part of the date said quote, I'm twenty six. 307 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: It's depressing. Oh rache well, and then Peter goes, I'm 308 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: twenty eight, I'm grandpa, and I'm like, I'm thirty. What 309 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: are you saying about us? That's what I should have 310 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 1: named the theme of the show. I mean, like that 311 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 1: that right there, let's you know, the mindset. Then Kelly 312 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: gets a date which it's like, I remember Kelly's there, 313 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: but I forget because we don't see that much of 314 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: her unless they're talking about how it was so amazing 315 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 1: how they met before the season. So Kelly pops up again, 316 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, great, Like maybe we'll see more of 317 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: her personality. I like Kelly. Well, she even said she's 318 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 1: the one to kind of go hide in the corner. Yeah. So, 319 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: and I thought, Okay, well that's why we haven't seen you. Plus, 320 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 1: it's a lot of drama, and Kelly is just like, 321 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 1: I'm over this, this drama. I thought their date was interesting. 322 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: I actually would have liked it. I don't know how 323 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 1: they didn't just burst out laughing through the entire thing. 324 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: Oh I would have loved it. I no, no, And 325 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. I actually I probably would have 326 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: liked that date too. I think I just the way 327 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: that it's shown, it just seems so awkward between the 328 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 1: two of them that I would have just been cracking 329 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: jokes left and right to kind of make up for 330 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 1: some of that. It just I think it was hard 331 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: because had it been any other girl who he maybe 332 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: wasn't questioning their relationship with, it would have gone a 333 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 1: totally different way, I think it would have been much 334 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: more intimate, but because we know there's some tension and 335 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 1: they're both kind of questioning where they're at in their relationship, 336 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 1: but just you can feel that spilling through the TV. No, no, no, absolutely, 337 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 1: it was a little bit of a painful day to watch. 338 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 1: I kind of wanted Kelly to open up a little 339 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: bit more, but I do feel like we got where 340 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: she was coming from. And I really thought it was 341 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 1: interesting because as I was watching it, I thought, I 342 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 1: am Kelly, and Kelly is me. If I was in 343 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: that house with those women, I don't think that I 344 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: would survive. And it really made me reflect on my season, 345 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: what or not my season? But when I was on 346 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 1: nixt season, I thought that I wouldn't get along with 347 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: any of the women in the house, and I was 348 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: so beautifully surprised that I really developed strong friendships during 349 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: the show and even thereafter. And I realize how much 350 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 1: of a blessing that is, because it's one thing for 351 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: you to connect with the lead, but that's only the 352 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: time that you have when you're one on one. When 353 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: you go the majority of time of the time is 354 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: in the house, and if you don't have that support 355 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: system or girls that you trust or just that circle 356 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: of friends. It will eat at you and it will 357 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: really affect your journey on this season. And I thought, 358 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: Kelly doesn't have that, She doesn't have those girls. And 359 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: she said it. She even referenced Hannah Anne, which Peter 360 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: was like, wait, wait, wait, wait a minute, wait what 361 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: about Hannah Anne? And I thought, yeah, she's like, wait 362 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: a minute, I like her, but I realize we are 363 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: on different levels. And I was it's obvious she is. 364 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: They are on two different levels, they have two different mindsets, 365 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 1: they are in two different places in their lives. And 366 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 1: I just really felt bad for Kelly in that moment 367 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: because I thought, you know what, Kelly could be a 368 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: different person. She was with a different group of women. Yes, 369 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: and that just goes to show. I mean, I think 370 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: for both Nick and Aris season us collectively as the 371 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 1: group of women we were a little bit older, we 372 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 1: were you know, it was just a different different age group, 373 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: different mindsets. And not that Kelly got stuck in this one, 374 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: but yes, I think it could have been different had 375 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 1: it been a different season. And but what I appreciate 376 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: about Kelly is we've seen it on other seasons where 377 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,120 Speaker 1: the girls don't get along with anyone and don't care 378 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 1: to interact with the other women, and they say like, 379 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: I am not here to make friends. I don't care 380 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:39,719 Speaker 1: about anyone else. I think that's not Kelly's mindset. I 381 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 1: think she just feels a little bit off base. She 382 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 1: can't connect with them. And it's not that she's not 383 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 1: open or welcome to that. I just think it's not 384 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 1: fully there for her. And she's not shutting it down, 385 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 1: but she's just kind of removing herself in a more 386 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 1: mature way. But it is tough because in this scenario, 387 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: you don't have your phones, you don't have your normal 388 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: friends and family to lean on, and so it is 389 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: I can see why she would feel very isolated. Yeah, 390 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:10,479 Speaker 1: and I thought that. I was actually surprised that at 391 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,919 Speaker 1: the end of the day, because Peter seemed to question 392 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: her a lot. I thought it was so cute when 393 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: he was like, well, what about what the shaman said? 394 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 1: I was like, Peter, he was really into it. I 395 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: would have been into it. Yeah, And you know, I 396 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: really at first, I go, oh, my gosh, she's not 397 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: going to give her a rose. I really like Kelly. 398 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: Kelly needs to stay. She's one of the level headed 399 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: ones in the house. And then he gave it to her, 400 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: and he explained his reasoning, and I thought, you know what, 401 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 1: good for you, Peter, You're right, my god, if you're 402 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: going to let Aleiah come back, please give Kelly another chance, 403 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 1: because she's expressed to you what she struggles with, what 404 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 1: her fear is, and now she's told you that she's 405 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: ready to open up. So I know that he's going 406 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: to be Yeah, I know he's going to be waiting 407 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 1: for her to do that, but he really didn't have 408 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: to wait long because she opened up in that hot 409 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: tub right right. I will say I'm glad that she 410 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: I did not expect her to get throws, just from 411 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: the way things were going earlier in the day. But 412 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: I am glad that he gave it to her, because, 413 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: like you said, he brought a La back for a 414 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 1: reason who was wrapped up in that drama, and Kelly 415 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: got to that point that he needed her to get 416 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: to in that one on one date. And so I'm 417 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: glad that she's sticking around, absolutely, And you know what, 418 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 1: the reason I feel like I'm clinging on to Kelly 419 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 1: even though I so relate to her, I'm clinging on 420 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,719 Speaker 1: to Kelly because the girls that I feel like I 421 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,479 Speaker 1: relate to or dropping like flies, and that brings me 422 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 1: to Tammy. Tammy was one of my favorites mine too, 423 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 1: but Tammy showed out this episode. I mean Tammy. Tammy 424 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: epitomizes the girl who I guess when you know that 425 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 1: you're not the one, and you know he's not going 426 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 1: to pick you, you just start acting out and tattling 427 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 1: to whatever is going to keep you week to week. 428 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: Because if Tammy had not acted the way that she did, 429 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: she would not be with us this week or at 430 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 1: the end of this week, she wouldn't be going on 431 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: to next week. Okay, what do you think about what 432 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: Tammy said? Tammy saying about the pills and the drinking, 433 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 1: I don't think that was her place to get involved in. 434 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: I think that that is a much deeper, heavier issue 435 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: that if it is, and I'm not saying that it 436 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: is even a problem, I don't know, but if it was, 437 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: that is not Tammy's place to be saying it to 438 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: Peter or to anybody else. That's a very Turkey territory 439 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: to cross, and I think she should have stayed out 440 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: of it. I want to start by saying, you know 441 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: the thing, everyone's like, we were rooting for you, like 442 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,719 Speaker 1: I was rooting for you. We were all rooting for you. 443 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: That's what I wanted with Tammy. I loved Tammy up. 444 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: I mean, and I will say this, I still like Tammy. 445 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: I think this week she of course, like should not 446 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: have gotten involved in certain things. She should have not 447 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 1: reacted in the way that she did in certain things. 448 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,439 Speaker 1: And that's just my opinion. Yeah, you know, Becca, it 449 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 1: really seems that tam exacerated the situation. Did you did 450 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: you catch that? I catch I catch that, Yes, Rachel, 451 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 1: I caught that. And every week I feel like we're 452 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: going to have a new word that we've talked about 453 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 1: to add to that, miss vocabulary? Is that? Is that 454 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 1: even a word? Miss vocabulary? I might to this to 455 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 1: this vocabulary bank, because um, every week it seems like 456 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: there's one that one word that it's little off and 457 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: God bless these girls for trying, but exacerate is not 458 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:38,199 Speaker 1: the correct one. No, it's not. It's exacerbate. And and 459 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: please please, it's not okay, Becca, it's not okay. And 460 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: we're at an all time high here. These are basic words, Okay, 461 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: we should be able to use them. It wasn't Tammy 462 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: Hughes that I was just using it in a sentence. 463 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 1: It was Victoria Pe was the victim this week who 464 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: mispronounced the word. She said exacerate. That is not correct, 465 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,199 Speaker 1: and I don't want people to be repeating this. I 466 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 1: don't want this to be a thing. Okay, people to 467 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: know how to correctly say it. So I guess next 468 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: week there'll be another but calling out someone as being 469 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: an alcoholic and popping pills, those are lines that you 470 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: don't cross if you're not in someone's inner circle and 471 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: not close with them, and I don't think that that 472 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,440 Speaker 1: should have been brought up to anyone in this scenario. 473 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 1: I was actually shocked that Tammy didn't have the wherewithal 474 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 1: to not do that. I just really was like, gosh, 475 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: she's really desperate. And I know what this situation is 476 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: like and how you feel levels of desperation when you 477 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: feel like you're about to go home. But this was 478 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: not the answer. This was not the way to go. Now, 479 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: what did you think about Kelsey being able to go 480 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: and talk to Peter. I have such a problem with this. 481 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: I think it is an absolute unfair advantage. This has 482 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,479 Speaker 1: got to stop. Now this is starting to pick up lately. 483 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 1: It didn't really happen on my season. I can't remember 484 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: Becca if it happened on yours. But thereafter people keep 485 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: getting to talk to the lead and it is not fair. 486 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 1: It is like it would infuriate me. It happened when 487 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 1: on Nick season with Karn, but it wasn't the same 488 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,199 Speaker 1: as this. It wasn't because she went to him for drama. 489 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: She just went to have some alone time. Yeah, and 490 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 1: I just I just was so upset when I saw this. 491 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 1: What was How did you feel? I think I agree. 492 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: I think that there are certain things set up to 493 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: make the show work. The cocktail parties, the group date 494 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: after parties, that is when the girls have their time 495 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: with Peter, and it's and it should be fair and even. 496 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 1: And in this case, when everyone just wants to go 497 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: Willie Nilly and show up and talk to him whenever 498 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: they want, like, people are clearly going to pick up 499 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: on that and started doing it whenever they want. So 500 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: I do think it does give her definitely an unfair advantage. 501 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: Now my take on this is it's not like Kelsey 502 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 1: just got up and left the villa. And went walking 503 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: down the road to go and try and tell Peter. 504 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 1: You know, there are things set up. There is a 505 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 1: team of producers that had to have made that happen 506 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: because Kelsey has no idea where she's going. Let's be honest, 507 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: she's walking through Costa Rica without a phone. You're not 508 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 1: just going to find Peter randomly. So there definitely was 509 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 1: help and assistance in that case. So it wasn't just 510 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 1: Kelsey being like, oh, I'm gonna do this on my own. 511 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,919 Speaker 1: That being said, I think that the time allotted for 512 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: these girls and Peter, and even Peter like he needs 513 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 1: some alone time. Let's be honest, this entire process is 514 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 1: very draining and exhausting at times, and sometimes you just 515 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: need to be alone to sift through things and to 516 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: process things and like have that moment for yourself. And 517 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 1: so if everyone's just dropping in on him, that's not 518 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,960 Speaker 1: going to be healthy for anyone's mindset. Totally totally agree 519 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: with you. I mean, seriously, I know it's good TV, 520 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: but it's just so unfair, especially in this situation. I mean, 521 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,879 Speaker 1: I might have been McKenna crying when he canceled that 522 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: cocktail party for the women. It's just and then I 523 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: guess Peter saying, well, hell no, let me rewind see, 524 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: Peter has really been frustrating me. Peter saying I have 525 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: the clarity that I need just by talking to Kelsey 526 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: when and I get it, he's not privy to seeing 527 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 1: her be a basket case that she has been this episode. 528 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: He is left with the impression that he had from 529 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 1: their one on one day and she was very calm 530 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 1: when she went and talked to him. But Peter giving 531 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: her a rose, just like he did with Eliah. Stop 532 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: giving out roses prior to the rose ceremony. Make them wait, 533 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: say I heard you. You don't need to give her 534 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: the reassurance right now, just say I heard you. I'm 535 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: going to take that into consideration and I'll see you tonight. 536 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 1: That was it for her to have that rose and 537 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 1: go back and then say, hey, ladies, by the way, 538 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: this is what I said. I mean, I would just 539 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: be buming and I am not taking up for Tammy. 540 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: Tammy is totally wrong in what she said. And I 541 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: get else wanting to defend herself, but do it at 542 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: the cocktail party. Yeah, definitely. And Peter didn't know. Peter 543 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 1: didn't even know that Tammy was saying that. What I 544 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 1: really want to say is um my point of view, 545 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to I'm not trying to say 546 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: that people's emotions and feelings aren't warranted because I think 547 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 1: it's it's okay to cry. I'm not saying that it's not. 548 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 1: I think from what I'm seeing is Kelsey does have 549 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: her emotions are a little bit too much at times, 550 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: and I think that she when she gets very overwhelmed, 551 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: her reaction is to, you know, to tear up and 552 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: to cry. And that's especially in this scenario, in the 553 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: situation of being a contestant on the Bachelor, like, you 554 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: definitely have to have some thick skin. So for me 555 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: to watch sometimes I'm like, Kelsey, buck up, like you. 556 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 1: He has told you multiple times he is into you. 557 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: He likes you, Like, don't get so wrapped up in 558 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: the emotions and being uncertain. But for Tammy to say, 559 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: what were her exact words were, Did she say emotionally 560 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: unstable or having a mental breakdown? Yeah? Sure, the mental 561 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: breakdown part. It's um. Again, I think that, especially in 562 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: this day and age, you have to use certain words 563 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,479 Speaker 1: and phrases, and sometimes there are tricker words like bullying, 564 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: and we've talked about that in the past that I 565 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: think a mental breakdown gives it the extreme. And yes, 566 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 1: maybe Kelsey was in that moment crying and upset, and 567 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: we've seen her cry a lot thrown it, but I 568 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: think Tammy should have expressed that in a different way. 569 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 1: She shouldn't have said, hey, you know, Kelsey is emotionally 570 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 1: unstable and she's having a mental breakdown. She's just she. 571 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 1: If Tammy wanted to confront Peter about this and say anything, 572 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 1: it should have just been like, yeah, like she her 573 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 1: emotions aren't always like what do I want to say, 574 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: like even keeled and level, and they don't always match up, 575 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 1: and she does, like she does seem to be crying 576 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 1: by herself, and just maybe touch based on that. If 577 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: if that were the conversation that she wanted to get across, 578 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:10,479 Speaker 1: it did not appear that way. Yeah it was. It 579 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: was a no for me, Tammy this week. It was 580 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 1: a serious no. And I'm I don't see it turning 581 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: around for her at this point. You could really see 582 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: the girls turn on her. I mean, the way she 583 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: went off on Sydney, it's I mean, I guess I 584 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: do kind of get a little bit of a mean 585 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: girl vibe from Sydney. I can see it, but I 586 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: don't know if that's really how she is or just 587 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: the fact that she's so unbothered, and so it's more 588 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 1: misunderstood because she does seem to be unbothered. But she 589 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: and Tammy went at it at the end of the episode, 590 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: so Peter cancels the rose ceremony, which I was a 591 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 1: little shocked by, but it sends the girls into a 592 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: complete tizzy. And that's when we see Tammy lashing out 593 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: at Sydney and back and forth, and then McKenna's crying, 594 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: and I think we saw Natasha even cry this week, 595 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: and Janne was that sheeah because she goes on with 596 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: theano she Anne is crying as well, and it's like, 597 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: I get it. This is a probably the only moment 598 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: so far that I felt sorry for the ladies in 599 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 1: the house, because more than ever, we are seeing the 600 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: lead not spending time with the girls in the house, 601 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: and it really is circulated between the ones that have 602 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 1: the drama, and it's not fair. It really isn't. And 603 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: I think Kelsey was the icing on the cake, her 604 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: getting that alone time, her taking. It did seem that 605 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: she took away from the cocktail party because Chris Harrison 606 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 1: being a little messy stern the pots said, well, he 607 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 1: has the clarity he needs, and he didn't. No one 608 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: knew that he had that until Kelsey had ventured over 609 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 1: to meet Peter. Obviously, or at least that's the way 610 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: it looks. McKenna and Tammy saying, excuse me, Peter cannot 611 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: talk to you before he dishes out the roses. May 612 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 1: or may not have affected his decision, but they definitely 613 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: got roses. At the end of the rose ceremony and 614 00:32:55,120 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 1: we say goodbye to Lexie and she Anne. Can I 615 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 1: just say I really like Lexei. I'm mad we didn't 616 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 1: get to see more of her. I'm always fond of redheads. 617 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: I think she's so pretty, you know what. I really 618 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: liked Alexei too, and so that I thought Lexie was 619 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: the mysterious one. I know that Peter kept saying that 620 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 1: Sidney was, but I think Lexi is like that sultry, sexy, 621 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 1: mysterious vixen. If yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no no, 622 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 1: totally see that, and she seems really level headed. She probably, 623 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 1: like Deandra, didn't open up and was going to use 624 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: this time because it's kind of mid season where you're like, Oh, 625 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 1: if I haven't opened up already, I really really need 626 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: to because I'm losing an opportunity. Are losing out an 627 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: opportunity for him to really get to know me. So 628 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: I was sad to see both of them go, And 629 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 1: I know she Anne felt like poor she Anne. She 630 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: every single time she tried to talk to him, somebody 631 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 1: interrupted her. But I was shocked when she Anne gave 632 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: him a warning and she said, quote, I know you're 633 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: trying to follow your heart. I want you to be 634 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: aware of some of the people in this house. Some 635 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: of the girls that are here. What you're seeing is 636 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:07,240 Speaker 1: not who they are in quote Barry Katie Morton esque. 637 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: Remember when she gave Holton that warning. Yeah, And I 638 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: think it's something that Peter has questioned for a while 639 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: and now to have she Anne a girl who you know, 640 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 1: and she doesn't owe him anything because I don't think 641 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: she really got to know him though. I don't think 642 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: he allowed her to get to know either of them 643 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: on a deeper level, so she could have just hugged 644 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,479 Speaker 1: him goodbye and walked away. I think that that kind 645 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 1: of hit home for him because now he's questioning, Okay, 646 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: you know I've said this before, and now she's also 647 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: bringing it up during her goodbye like what am I 648 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 1: missing here? Yeah? Like poor Peter again, he can't catch 649 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: a break. I know that's going to send him in 650 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 1: a tizzy because he thought he had clarity, right, Chris 651 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 1: Harrison's like, he has a clarity he needs and then 652 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: she Anne says what she does, and it's like, well, actually, 653 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 1: maybe I don't now. And let's be honest, Becca, as 654 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 1: you never have all the clarity that you want. You 655 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: just have to be confident in the decisions that you're making, 656 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 1: and that's all that you can really do. So I 657 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: can't wait to find out who she is talking about. 658 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: And I got some guesses. I got some guys I want. 659 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 1: I wish we had Shan in studio today because I 660 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: really want to know. You know, I have a feeling 661 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 1: that some few girls, but we'll see name one. Well, 662 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,319 Speaker 1: I think, you know, if I have to say, I 663 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: think she's talking about Kelsey and I think she let 664 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 1: me get my handy dammy sheet up here. I was 665 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: gonna say Kelsey too. I was gonna say Kelsey and 666 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: and also I would maybe say Sydney just because when 667 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: they were going at it, I felt like when Sydney 668 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: and Tammy started fighting like that part kind of came 669 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: out of left field as well. And so, um, I 670 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:54,240 Speaker 1: think there's more more that wasn't always shown that we're well, 671 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 1: I'll say Victoria he and the reason I'll say that 672 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: because I think her name was Savannah, but she was 673 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: the one who kept saying as if I've talked to them, 674 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 1: or I've talked to Victoria Pee and she's what she's 675 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 1: telling him, isn't what she told me? Remember, she kept 676 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 1: saying that there was that one girl, Savannah who's gone 677 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,800 Speaker 1: home now, so we'll never know. But she did plant 678 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 1: those seeds. She said it more than once, and I thought, Okay, 679 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 1: I see what she did there, and I'm paying attention, 680 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 1: so I'm gonna go ahead and name her. All right, Well, 681 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 1: more to come, And by that more to come, I 682 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,879 Speaker 1: mean we got DeAndre coming up next. So can't wait 683 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: to pick that apart and see what she's gonna say. 684 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: All right, bat Her Nation, we cannot wait to get 685 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: started today. We have a new guest who Rachel and 686 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 1: I have never formerly met, just on the phone calling 687 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 1: in from Texas is Deandra. Yes, ma'am. Hey, guys, we're 688 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 1: excited to have you. You are our first guest from 689 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: this season. That special. I know I'm special, I guess thanks, 690 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: guys are very special. Well, we can't wait to dive 691 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 1: right in. Obviously we have a lot to cover, um, 692 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 1: but we're just excited to get your take because, like 693 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: Rage said, you were the first girl from the season. 694 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: So we want the jews, we want the good details. 695 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,399 Speaker 1: We want you to spill the tea, all of the things. Yeah, 696 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 1: don't hold back, don't hold back. Will We will poke 697 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 1: you until you just can't help it anymore and you 698 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: have to tell us. Literally can't wait for that, could 699 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,799 Speaker 1: not wait. Okay, So, how has it been watching the 700 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 1: show from the outside perspective? Because I imagine like when 701 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,320 Speaker 1: you're in it, you're in it. You're in this bubble. 702 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: We get it, and we've been there before. Now you 703 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: got to watch it now people know who you are. 704 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 1: So what has that been like to just watch it now? Um, 705 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 1: to watch from the outside, I actually feel like I'm 706 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: gathering more information and stuff is making more sense than 707 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 1: it was in the house, Like seeing everything set on 708 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 1: the dates that I wasn't involved in, and then like 709 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 1: the difference between like being in the house versus like 710 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 1: seeing everything from the outside. It's definitely good and it's 711 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 1: all starting to come together essentially. I feel like I'm 712 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 1: watching with everyone else as well. I'm about to poke 713 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 1: you already, just like off the top, like here we go. 714 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 1: What do you mean that you're getting more clarity and 715 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 1: understanding certain situations, Like which situation aren't you talking about? 716 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: And which people I mean? So I mean most recently 717 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: or I mean not most recently, but like with the 718 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: whole Alliance Sydney drama, So I wasn't on that date, 719 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 1: so I didn't really get the full picture of my hair. 720 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: Everything went down and you know what was exactly said, 721 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,360 Speaker 1: So like now watching it, I was in the house obviously, 722 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 1: so coming back by my my own business, like if 723 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: someone doesn't want to tell me something, I'm like fine. 724 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: So now seeing how it went down, I'm like, oh, okay, 725 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: that's you know, that's how one. Okay, So I want 726 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 1: to backtrack a little bit because I want to know 727 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,799 Speaker 1: what girls you were pretty close within the house who 728 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 1: you kind of stayed away from, um, you know, I know, 729 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: living with twenty plus women. It's always difficult all these 730 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 1: different energies. So give us a little inside scoop of 731 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 1: the women that you were close with and who you 732 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,959 Speaker 1: kind of steered clear of. I mean I was close 733 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 1: with a lot of girls in the house. I mean 734 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:14,839 Speaker 1: definitely Kiera, Alexa, Kelly Madison. I was even a little 735 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,480 Speaker 1: close to Hannah An because we were roommates, and like Alan, 736 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,439 Speaker 1: you know all of them, Tammy, But you know, there's 737 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: just a couple of girls that Obviously everyone has different personalities. 738 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:24,879 Speaker 1: You're not going to be best friends with everyone. There's 739 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 1: thirty girls. I mean I wasn't super close with Sydney 740 00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 1: or Natasha or you know, I wasn't super close with 741 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 1: Kelsey either. So I mean there's just a couple of girls. 742 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: Not that I steered necessarily clear of them, but I 743 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 1: could just tell, you know, we probably don't need to 744 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 1: force anything as far as like trying to connect right well, 745 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 1: was it, Tammy? Yeah? Tammy said something in this episode 746 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:52,920 Speaker 1: where she referenced that Sydney is a diva and Sydney 747 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,759 Speaker 1: has her posse and her click with her. Is that 748 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,360 Speaker 1: what you witnessed too, Because you said you weren't that 749 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:02,320 Speaker 1: close with Sydney. I mean I think that when you're yeah, 750 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,399 Speaker 1: I mean posse and click, I guess it could feel 751 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: that way a little bit. But yeah, I kind of 752 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 1: got that vibe too. And again, like I'm my my 753 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 1: own business. I'm not going to push anything, but I 754 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 1: mean I can agree with Anny, like I kind of 755 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 1: got that vibe. Was there anyone that you really were 756 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,919 Speaker 1: like this girl's not for me. She just is rubbing 757 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: me the wrong way. I mean again, it's hard for 758 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 1: me because I'm so unbothered, like no one can rub 759 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,319 Speaker 1: me the wrong way. But I just didn't get good vibes. Yeah, 760 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 1: from the whole Sydney situation, especially everything that happened with 761 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 1: a Laya, I just wasn't getting good vibes. You're right, Okay, 762 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 1: So when you say you're not getting good vibes, is 763 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 1: it that you didn't agree? Because now you've you've gone 764 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 1: back and you've watched it, so you've heard one thing. 765 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,360 Speaker 1: When you were there, I know you weren't pressing on 766 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: the date, but you get back to the house and 767 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: we all know how it goes. You were all chit 768 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 1: chatting talking about it, like, girl, what happened? What she did? What. Yeah, 769 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 1: I would stay up all night just to hear those conversations. 770 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: But you now have seen a laya versus Sydney and 771 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 1: how the whole thing played out. Whose side are you 772 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:02,840 Speaker 1: on or what can you give us as far as 773 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,120 Speaker 1: some of the information we didn't see when it comes 774 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 1: to Sydney basically calling Alia out, and then you kind 775 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 1: of saw the trickle down effect of all the girls 776 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:16,360 Speaker 1: basically saying yeah, this is how la is. I personally 777 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: liked Leia. I never got fake vibes from Alia, So 778 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: when that whole situation happened, I was a little confused, 779 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,640 Speaker 1: like where was coming from? Like what made you feel like, 780 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,879 Speaker 1: what actual facts do you have that Leia is fake? 781 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,880 Speaker 1: So like watching it back and like seeing how Sydney 782 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: approached it on the date, kind of it seemed like 783 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:37,920 Speaker 1: a little manipulative, like because I feel like Alia was 784 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 1: really taken off guard because the whole d work thing 785 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,280 Speaker 1: that came out of left field for me. And yeah, 786 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,600 Speaker 1: you know the fact that someone didn't stand up and say, 787 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,399 Speaker 1: what does it have to do with anything? First off, 788 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,399 Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with your love for Peter 789 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 1: or your relationship with Peter. He's not looking for a 790 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 1: sugar mama, doesn't matter what you do for work. That's 791 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 1: just personally like that rubbed me the wrong way. I 792 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: think that she should have gone directly to la first 793 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,520 Speaker 1: and just been like, hey, I think you're fake. This 794 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,239 Speaker 1: is why I think you're fake, Dada. Let's hash it 795 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,319 Speaker 1: out right here and then bring it up to Peter 796 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: once it was resolved, or you know, whatever they decided 797 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: to do, right, I like to go direct to the source. Yeah, 798 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 1: same girl. I appreciate that. So in terms of then 799 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 1: Alaia and Victoria Pee, we saw it play out a 800 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,799 Speaker 1: little bit where, you know, Victoria Pee mentioned that they 801 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 1: weren't really friends, that they didn't know each other. Alia 802 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: had said that they were, but they wanted to keep 803 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,879 Speaker 1: it under wraps in the house though, did they Did 804 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 1: they come across as friends like they had known each 805 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: other pretty well or what was that? Like? I didn't 806 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: actually see them interact a whole lot, so I would 807 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: have never assumed or excuse me, I would have never 808 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 1: assumed anything. But I wasn't also paying attention to it 809 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: because the whole Victoria Pe thing. For me, again, I 810 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 1: wasn't really a part of that. Like I didn't get 811 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 1: to see her conversations with Peter and everything happening. So 812 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: but I mean, if she felt some type of way 813 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,279 Speaker 1: or something happened previously that was facts, then I have 814 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 1: to respect that and be like, Okay, so maybe there 815 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: was a situation that happened, but me and my take 816 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,279 Speaker 1: on it, I never thought Aliah was fake. So you 817 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 1: were friendly with Leia? Did Alia ever mentioned to you 818 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 1: that she was in the same paget with Victoria Pee, 819 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 1: that they had traveled to Vegas together, that they were friendly. 820 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:19,840 Speaker 1: Were those conversations Ever had, especially when she got back before. 821 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean she mentioned that they'd done pageants 822 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,839 Speaker 1: like obviously Miss Texas, Miss Louisiana, so you know they 823 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 1: knew each other through that. But as far as like 824 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:32,760 Speaker 1: a Vegas trip or anything that, I never would have known. Okay, okay, 825 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 1: from the outside watching in Danne, it is a shit 826 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:43,320 Speaker 1: show and it's it is exhausted, and it's Becca and 827 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 1: I were saying this, it's we have to detox. Becca 828 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: has to take steps away, she has to break up 829 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:54,800 Speaker 1: watching the episode and we are only getting two hours 830 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 1: of what is a week's worth of filming? Is this real? 831 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 1: Is this? Was this your reality? When you were in 832 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,480 Speaker 1: it because we can only imagine. Please speak on what 833 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 1: the atmosphere in the house was like. Please. I mean, 834 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,359 Speaker 1: if you guys are tired, I think I aged six 835 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 1: years from this drama. I actually think I have gray 836 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 1: hair now. I just ear yeah, I mean I'm getting 837 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 1: gray hairs watching this exactly. I mean. The thing is, 838 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,399 Speaker 1: I just don't understand why we spent so much time, 839 00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 1: Like I don't know why Peter spend so much time 840 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 1: trying to figure out what was going on here. I'm like, 841 00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,799 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you decide whether or 842 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,719 Speaker 1: not you believe whoever speaking, and then take action based 843 00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 1: on that. I don't think we need to go ask 844 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 1: everyone in the house their opinion, Peter. This is about 845 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,359 Speaker 1: you and a Layah. If you feel like she's fake 846 00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 1: or you feel like what she's saying is not true, 847 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 1: you decide how you want to, you know, take care 848 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:46,000 Speaker 1: of this well. That you bring a good point up 849 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 1: that I kind of want to lay her on top 850 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,880 Speaker 1: of that, because you know, I'm sure a lot of 851 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,800 Speaker 1: that drama took away from your individual time with Poper 852 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 1: and your conversations, and so when you didn't hear your 853 00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,680 Speaker 1: name and get that Rose what was going through your mind? 854 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: How are you feeling in that moment? Were you more 855 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 1: angry if like I, all of this time was just 856 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:08,359 Speaker 1: wasted on these girls bickering when it could have been 857 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 1: like him actually getting to know me. Oh, I was furious. 858 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 1: I mean it was more like confusion, like, Hey, you 859 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 1: are on this journey to find you know, the woman 860 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: who's for you. Why are we spending so much of 861 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 1: this time on the same six girls trying to figure 862 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: out about one girl's drama or like two girls drama 863 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: instead of you have so many beautiful, smart, ambitious women here. 864 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,840 Speaker 1: Let's say screw the drama for a second. Let me 865 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,600 Speaker 1: get to know these other girls. It was like almost 866 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,640 Speaker 1: like he was rewarding the drama, Like I should have 867 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 1: jumped in that drama. I should have been like, you 868 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 1: know what, I know one of these girls from before 869 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 1: just made something up so that he'd maybe pay attention 870 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 1: to me. I don't know being for you right now, 871 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: I think you said it perfectly. I agree with your sentiment, 872 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,359 Speaker 1: and I would probably be feeling the exact same way 873 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 1: if I were you. You know, there are, as you said, 874 00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 1: so many beautiful, educated, sort girls, and that's not coming 875 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,320 Speaker 1: through half the time because it's just revolving around this 876 00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 1: craziness with these women. Did you this is I'm very 877 00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,920 Speaker 1: interested to know. So did you Living in the house, 878 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,200 Speaker 1: of course, you can only see so much of Peter's 879 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,320 Speaker 1: interaction and time with these girls. There's a lot, you know, 880 00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,279 Speaker 1: especially when he's on the one on ones and in 881 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: the alone conversations that he has that you miss out on. 882 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 1: But were there girls at the forefront that you knew 883 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,719 Speaker 1: living with everyone? Like Okay, he's like these girls are 884 00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,560 Speaker 1: going to the top, They're going to hometowns. Like he's 885 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 1: definitely into a handful of them. Did you feel that ever? 886 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 1: I did? I mean based on what I could see 887 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,839 Speaker 1: from chemistry like going on dates and stuff like that 888 00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: with a lot of the girls, Like of course you 889 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 1: can see Hannah AND's chemistry. Of course, you can see 890 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 1: that Kelly and him had the history, they have the chemistry, 891 00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 1: you know, Victorian pe like, they obviously have some kind 892 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 1: of chemistry Madison right off the jump, like I could 893 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,359 Speaker 1: just tell that they had, you know, a connection. So 894 00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,640 Speaker 1: it's like yeah, you know, like at the other day, 895 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 1: like there's a couple of the girls that he feels 896 00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: more strongly attached to, but I never thought that it 897 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 1: would take away from him still wanting to get to 898 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,880 Speaker 1: know the other girls, right, yeah, I mean watching back, 899 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,040 Speaker 1: I know how you felt about Peter when you were 900 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:12,080 Speaker 1: actually there, because you know we did. We mentioned this 901 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 1: on the last podcast, but kudos to you and Natasha 902 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,440 Speaker 1: for stepping up and saying exactly how you feel. And 903 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,799 Speaker 1: then they scan the room of women and nobody else 904 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,719 Speaker 1: said anything. So I was like, good for them for speaking. 905 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,480 Speaker 1: What is the sentiment in the house at this point 906 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,399 Speaker 1: with all the drama, But so you felt about Peter 907 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 1: one way. Now you're watching it, do you have the 908 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:37,200 Speaker 1: same feelings towards him? Do you empathize with him at all? 909 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 1: Are you frustrated by his actions? I mean, it's his 910 00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 1: love story, so I want to empathize with him because 911 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:45,800 Speaker 1: if he really wants to get down to the bottom 912 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 1: of it and you know, with whatever he's going through, great, 913 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 1: But it's frustrating from my end because you know, why 914 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: was I there? If you know you're not really that 915 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 1: interested in I mean, looking at the other connections, I'm like, 916 00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: now I understand why I went home. You know, isn't 917 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 1: on a table with my ankles up I wasn't, you know, 918 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 1: doing all this. I wasn't forehead touching and all that stuff. 919 00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 1: So I mean I was a little frustrated looking back 920 00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 1: on it, like, Okay, I mean you missed out on 921 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:16,359 Speaker 1: some really great people, and you know, missed out on me. 922 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,279 Speaker 1: I feel like you never really saw me. Um. But 923 00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm really happy that Natasha and I 924 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,359 Speaker 1: finally got to say our piece. But obviously he wasn't 925 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 1: too impressed because he sent me home right after a wait, wait, 926 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: who was on a table with their ankles up? I'm 927 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 1: sorry I missed that. I can't let that go. I 928 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:38,279 Speaker 1: can't let that go. Did we miss something? No, you 929 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 1: already thought. I mean, I'm just kidding, but it's McKenna, 930 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 1: you know, like when he picked up and put on 931 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: the desk and ever in front of her because their 932 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:48,719 Speaker 1: ankles are like straight up. Oh, I'm sorry. That's hilarious though, 933 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 1: that's hilarious. So Deandra, you know, like you just touched on. 934 00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: We didn't see all that much of you. We didn't 935 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 1: hear your side of things. So this is why we're 936 00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,600 Speaker 1: so happy to have you here today and get your take. 937 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 1: Just through expression expressing this frustration is there anything that 938 00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 1: you wish when you were on the show that you 939 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:12,319 Speaker 1: would have done differently or changed. I think I wish 940 00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 1: I would have been more aggressive. I felt like my 941 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,759 Speaker 1: whole motto was if Peter has a connection with me, 942 00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:19,800 Speaker 1: he has a natural connection with me. And I don't, 943 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,239 Speaker 1: you know, want to push anything. I want it to 944 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 1: be as naturally forming as possible. But I guess I 945 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,879 Speaker 1: wish I would have been more aggressive because I see 946 00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 1: the other girls who were aggressive, and I guess he 947 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:33,720 Speaker 1: like really appreciated that, like, you know, showing affection, more affection, 948 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,480 Speaker 1: Like I kind of took a step back and was like, hey, 949 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,719 Speaker 1: you know, like if he feels something with me, he's gonna, 950 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,920 Speaker 1: like it's gonna be mutual. We're gonna, you know, meet 951 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,799 Speaker 1: each other halfway. But when they're thirty girls, you can't 952 00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,879 Speaker 1: meet halfway. You're gonna have to take the extra step. 953 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: So I feel like I wish I would have been 954 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 1: more aggressive. But at the end of the day, like 955 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,440 Speaker 1: the regrets, it as what it is. You know, we 956 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 1: weren't made for each other, I guess, and that's just 957 00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 1: our story. Looking back now, does Pete feel like your type? 958 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,279 Speaker 1: Like outside of the show, if you were to meet 959 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,600 Speaker 1: him in a bar. Is he's somebody that you would 960 00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:07,239 Speaker 1: gravitate towards and go for. I would say yes and no. 961 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: He was very comforting and like we had good conversations. 962 00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:12,799 Speaker 1: But now, looking back on the conversations that he's happen 963 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,319 Speaker 1: with other girls, I don't necessarily think that we had 964 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,440 Speaker 1: all that much in common. And he once told me 965 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 1: his favorite comfort food was Kraft mac and cheese. And 966 00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 1: then once he said that, I just knew we weren't 967 00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:24,879 Speaker 1: made for each other because I was like, homemade mac 968 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,320 Speaker 1: and cheese over Kraft mac and cheese. Sweetie, come on, 969 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,959 Speaker 1: what are we doing? Hilarious love that, you know, coming 970 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 1: to somebody who loves all every single type of mac 971 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 1: and cheese imaginable. You know, I see both sides to 972 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 1: that way. Oh wow, Becca, you're like dander and I clearly, 973 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,439 Speaker 1: apparently according to her, won't work out. Unfortunately, I'm saying, 974 00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,879 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I don't even like cheese. So I'm 975 00:50:52,920 --> 00:51:01,200 Speaker 1: completely taken out between us. We all so you. I 976 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 1: was shocked Deandrew to actually see you go home. I 977 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 1: know we didn't see a lot of you, but you're 978 00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 1: gorgeous and I really appreciated you, like I said, stepping 979 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 1: up and really expressing how you feel. And as you mentioned, 980 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,800 Speaker 1: Peter does like a confident woman who says what's on 981 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:21,440 Speaker 1: her mind. And so I felt like, you know, we 982 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:23,680 Speaker 1: I don't. You know, there's so much we don't see. 983 00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 1: So I don't know if Peter got to see you. 984 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,240 Speaker 1: But oh, and then you killed it on the football field. 985 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:32,600 Speaker 1: I mean, thank god, come on, you were killing it. 986 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,239 Speaker 1: As a football fan, I was very very proud of you. 987 00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,600 Speaker 1: So I was shocked. So how did you feel when 988 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:42,120 Speaker 1: your name wasn't called for a Rows? I was hurt, 989 00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:46,320 Speaker 1: really hurt. The conversation that Peter and I had before 990 00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 1: I got sent home was not a I'm gonna send 991 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: you home conversation. It was like, dander, I see you. 992 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:52,719 Speaker 1: You know, I see that you put an effort on 993 00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:55,719 Speaker 1: the football field, because listen, I've never played tackle football before. 994 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 1: But what I tell you, I gave it my all 995 00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 1: because I was like, maybe Peter will appreciate this, this 996 00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 1: is me putting forth effort. I just was shocked. I 997 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:06,759 Speaker 1: was like, okay, I mean if you don't see me 998 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 1: after I led our team to meet halfway and you know, 999 00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, I just was frustrated with the whole situation. 1000 00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,880 Speaker 1: I spoke my mind and I wanted him to hear me, 1001 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: and it didn't resonate well with him, I guess, and 1002 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,799 Speaker 1: I just have to say it is what it is. Well, 1003 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 1: I think what's frustrating, and so please correct me if 1004 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,399 Speaker 1: I'm wrong, because I have to try to remind people. Yes, 1005 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,359 Speaker 1: Becca and I have been on the Bachelor and then 1006 00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,359 Speaker 1: we've been Bachelorettes, but a lot of times people want 1007 00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: us to assume what is done behind the scenes, and 1008 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,600 Speaker 1: Becca and I are like, we can't do that if 1009 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 1: we weren't a part of that season. So we watch 1010 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:47,319 Speaker 1: it as viewers and we critique the season in that way. 1011 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 1: So watching as a viewer, it is it was frustrating 1012 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 1: for us because it seems like there were so many 1013 00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:57,440 Speaker 1: of you who truly didn't get time with Peter. Is 1014 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,319 Speaker 1: that really the was that really the case was really 1015 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:04,200 Speaker 1: focused on just those certain you know, six seven girls 1016 00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,719 Speaker 1: that were with the drama? Or where are there things 1017 00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,440 Speaker 1: we just didn't get to see? I mean a lot 1018 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 1: of the conversations that you saw, like for instance, at 1019 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,759 Speaker 1: the pool party, the conversations that he had that was 1020 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 1: really all he had, he didn't have time for the 1021 00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:17,560 Speaker 1: rest of us. I think they were like seven or 1022 00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:19,719 Speaker 1: eight girls that didn't get time, so it really was 1023 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 1: focused on a lot of the same girls. But and 1024 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,480 Speaker 1: then again at the cocktail party when a layer returns, 1025 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,440 Speaker 1: half of us didn't get time. So I mean, what 1026 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 1: you're seeing is kind of what you're getting, but at 1027 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 1: the same time, you're not seeing a couple of the 1028 00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 1: conversations that are had at like dates and stuff where 1029 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,279 Speaker 1: we really did get to connect with Peter, and so 1030 00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:39,920 Speaker 1: you don't get to see the rest of us develop 1031 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 1: those relationships that really were there, which is why we 1032 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 1: feel strongler why you see girls crying, they're not just 1033 00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,840 Speaker 1: crying because they're crying. They're crying because they have some 1034 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: sort of connection with Peter, and then when they don't 1035 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:53,439 Speaker 1: get their time, they're frustrated in it. I will say 1036 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 1: I thought at one point, because because as you guys 1037 00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:59,200 Speaker 1: have touched on, there is so much that we just 1038 00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 1: don't see that can't make it into the episodes. So 1039 00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,440 Speaker 1: of course, like some relationships are evolving even though we 1040 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,839 Speaker 1: don't necessarily see it because the drama takes it away. 1041 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 1: There was one point where I thought Natasha was just 1042 00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,440 Speaker 1: going to be like, screw this, I'm leaving, I'm going home. 1043 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 1: I'm over it. I would have bet money that she 1044 00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: was just done and she would have just she was 1045 00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:19,320 Speaker 1: just ready to throw in the towel and be like 1046 00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 1: this isn't worth it, Like I'm not progressing my relationship. 1047 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 1: He's only fed up in this drama. So you know, 1048 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 1: there I had the moment where I was like, oh, 1049 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:31,040 Speaker 1: this girl's leaving, She's sending herself home. Yeah. I mean 1050 00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,719 Speaker 1: Natasha actually had a really good relationship with Peter. She 1051 00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,680 Speaker 1: was one of the girls that was continuously getting times, 1052 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:39,960 Speaker 1: so I think that's why she was also really frustrated. 1053 00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 1: She was frustrated for the rest of us that didn't 1054 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,359 Speaker 1: get time and how right, you know, Ala came back 1055 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,800 Speaker 1: and like the dramas continued, So she was right in 1056 00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:50,480 Speaker 1: her frustrations. But she really did have a connection with Peter. 1057 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,840 Speaker 1: So I mean, as much as she was frustrated, I 1058 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:54,560 Speaker 1: don't think she would ever want to send herself home. 1059 00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:59,120 Speaker 1: There's so many different feuds to ask you about. I 1060 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,080 Speaker 1: think we've covered heard most of them, but I gotta 1061 00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:05,279 Speaker 1: ask you, what do you think about Victoria f And 1062 00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 1: that's you know, I was never close with Victoria F 1063 00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:11,160 Speaker 1: and the house. So again, like there was a couple 1064 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,480 Speaker 1: of girls that I just wasn't close to just because naturally, 1065 00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:15,960 Speaker 1: like we timed out with different people or we were 1066 00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 1: never on the same dates. To me, Victoria F was 1067 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 1: really quiet. She was more of like the reserved girl. 1068 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:24,799 Speaker 1: And then when I was on the Revolve date with her, 1069 00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:28,319 Speaker 1: which I somehow didn't make it into that date at all. Yeah, 1070 00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,880 Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know how that happens. You know, 1071 00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:33,880 Speaker 1: I got to see her open up a little bit, 1072 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:35,680 Speaker 1: you know, she tried to put herself out there by 1073 00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,719 Speaker 1: wearing the lingerie and everything like that. But I mean 1074 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: mainly I saw Victoria F as like the quiet girl, 1075 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 1: reserved and then a moment she would like snap. But 1076 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 1: that's like the most I got out of it because 1077 00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,480 Speaker 1: I never really interacted with her all that much. Did 1078 00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,400 Speaker 1: Alaia tell everybody in the house about what happened on 1079 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 1: Victoria F's date or how did that circulate throughout the house, 1080 00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:01,680 Speaker 1: So it never really did circulate me, Like, so I 1081 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,200 Speaker 1: remember the exact moment that Victoria F found out, but 1082 00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 1: I never heard directly from a LA about the chase. 1083 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: Rice situation, So I don't know who exactly she told 1084 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,279 Speaker 1: it directly too, that it trickled on or trickled out. 1085 00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,200 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I'm like, I don't really 1086 00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,640 Speaker 1: understand why it was such a big deal, because at 1087 00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:21,719 Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know, everyone was going 1088 00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,000 Speaker 1: to find out eventually, or you know, the outside world 1089 00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 1: probably already knew. But you know, maybe Victoria f had 1090 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 1: told her not to say anything, or maybe someone had 1091 00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:30,920 Speaker 1: mentioned to La, don't say anything, but I don't. I 1092 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,439 Speaker 1: didn't really understand why that was taken to a different level, 1093 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 1: the moment that Champagne was taken to a different level. 1094 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:42,560 Speaker 1: Everything in that house is exaggerated, all right, right, every 1095 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 1: level object is going to be blown out of proportion 1096 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:50,200 Speaker 1: in future episodes and seasons. I'm just calling it. Love it. 1097 00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:52,239 Speaker 1: So it's going to steal from the pen and we're 1098 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: going to have the sense one home over it penate 1099 00:56:54,719 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: pen in every penates. It sounds like that you escape. Really, 1100 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if I should call it a bad 1101 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,920 Speaker 1: thing because it sounds like you got away. And as 1102 00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:10,320 Speaker 1: we know, there are other opportunities that come about in 1103 00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,400 Speaker 1: this Bachelor franchise. I mean, dare we say it, Becca, 1104 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:20,360 Speaker 1: But there's paradise, paradise, how would you feel about that? 1105 00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I would definitely be open to paradise. And 1106 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 1: I think that having multiple people that you can potentially 1107 00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,160 Speaker 1: be interested in and you know, get to know, it's 1108 00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:31,680 Speaker 1: a lot better than just having one, since everyone has 1109 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:35,520 Speaker 1: such different personalities, right, And at least with paradise, it's 1110 00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:39,000 Speaker 1: not just one person that everyone's vying for, is you said? 1111 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 1: But both the men and the women can take take 1112 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,840 Speaker 1: the power in their hands, if you will, and they 1113 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:47,920 Speaker 1: both have the opportunity to hand out roses. And so 1114 00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:49,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying that right now. I'd love 1115 00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 1: to see you on that beach. Oh I would love 1116 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,160 Speaker 1: to see me on that beach too, Honey. Are there 1117 00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: any guys that you would like to see on the beach? 1118 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I just keep a really open mind, Like 1119 00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,440 Speaker 1: there's no one that I mean that I'm like super 1120 00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 1: dead set on. But I mean obviously like Tyler C's 1121 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:11,840 Speaker 1: really cute. Okay, anybody else? Anybody else, but go ahead 1122 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,560 Speaker 1: and name of they might be listening. So let's just 1123 00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:17,960 Speaker 1: shoot you shot now? Who else? Yeah, there's too much, 1124 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,640 Speaker 1: let's start. I can't let's start planning seeds. Let's start 1125 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 1: planning some seeds. I mean, there are a whole new 1126 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:26,680 Speaker 1: crop of guys that will see come from the Bachelorette season, 1127 00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 1: so those will be are those, they will be in 1128 00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 1: Paradise as well, but anybody else, I mean, I think 1129 00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 1: I'd have to wait for the fresh batch of guys 1130 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 1: because I feel, like, you know, Bachelation, I've one kind 1131 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:41,800 Speaker 1: of recycles within. I'm like, I don't know stage coach 1132 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:43,320 Speaker 1: was going to be such an issue. I'm like, Wow, 1133 00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,400 Speaker 1: Deander wants the fresh meat that has not been teaching. 1134 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 1: I do, I do. Are you a fan of country music. 1135 00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:56,240 Speaker 1: I'm actually not the biggest fan of country respect I 1136 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,920 Speaker 1: respect it, but I'm not like by hard huge fan. Deanne, 1137 00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,400 Speaker 1: that's fantastic. You're already going to be a leg up 1138 00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 1: ahead of many of the coast will be there. Let 1139 00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: me just please just don't. We sat on Paradise last year, 1140 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 1: so many alliances were formed and people like budding up 1141 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:20,040 Speaker 1: and what am I saying? Buddying, button butting and betting 1142 00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,640 Speaker 1: up is correct? Actually we thought all happened prior to 1143 00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,440 Speaker 1: actual Paradise, which I think made it a little bit 1144 00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,600 Speaker 1: tainted for us viewers, So please, as you said, just 1145 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,240 Speaker 1: keep an open mind because I would love to see 1146 00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:38,080 Speaker 1: like a true authentic connection unfold. That's just myself. No, 1147 00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:39,560 Speaker 1: I respect that, and I kind of like that. I 1148 00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,400 Speaker 1: don't like the tainted this before because I'm like, if 1149 00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,400 Speaker 1: we all have history, why are we here. Hey, we 1150 00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:46,040 Speaker 1: might be a beat outside of paradise. And as two 1151 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,680 Speaker 1: big sisters who've been through, we have been a paradise, 1152 00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,800 Speaker 1: but we've been through our our own season. Say we've 1153 00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,800 Speaker 1: been on the Bachelor. There will be plenty of guys 1154 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:57,920 Speaker 1: from past seasons and for this upcoming season that will 1155 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:01,440 Speaker 1: slide into your DMS, so you know, just be prepared. 1156 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Just slightly pushed them away and said, I say, I'll 1157 01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:09,440 Speaker 1: see you on the beach. On the beach, can't wait. 1158 01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:11,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that advice. I will take that advice 1159 01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:15,440 Speaker 1: to heart. Before we let you go, what like kind 1160 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 1: of catch our listeners up as to what you've been 1161 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 1: up to, what you've been doing since the show has ended. 1162 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,120 Speaker 1: I mean since the show has ended, I mean life 1163 01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,720 Speaker 1: kind of resumed as normal. Right now. I'm in the 1164 01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,160 Speaker 1: transition stage of like moving on from what I was 1165 01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:31,640 Speaker 1: doing before to hopefully going into a new career path 1166 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,600 Speaker 1: because I was a care coordinator before and I just 1167 01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,960 Speaker 1: kind of want to transition into like a different industry, 1168 01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:39,560 Speaker 1: maybe sales or something like that. So I've just been 1169 01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:42,080 Speaker 1: working on, you know, my career and focusing on myself 1170 01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 1: definitely not dating. That's why I keep it, keep the 1171 01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 1: beach right. I'm just I just like, I'm not going 1172 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 1: to force anything. I'm not gonna put myself out there. 1173 01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't, 1174 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,480 Speaker 1: I'll see on the beach. If not, um, Yeah, but 1175 01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,440 Speaker 1: I've been like taking time to focus on myself and 1176 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:01,400 Speaker 1: work on being a better person being and you know, 1177 01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:07,480 Speaker 1: I M Dondra. Do you still talk to some of 1178 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:11,960 Speaker 1: the girls from this oh chat? Oh? Yeah, I know 1179 01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,280 Speaker 1: y'all have that group chat. That group chat is popping, 1180 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,480 Speaker 1: don't lie. Do we have a group chat? I never 1181 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:21,040 Speaker 1: confirmed or denied that we. Okay, well, you know what 1182 01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:22,880 Speaker 1: I was gonna say. I was actually gonna say something 1183 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,000 Speaker 1: really messy. I was gonna say, you know what, y'all 1184 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:27,960 Speaker 1: probably don't because the theme, and this is what I'm 1185 01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,560 Speaker 1: going to name episode five is I am not here 1186 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:34,000 Speaker 1: to make friends, and that it aems to be the 1187 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,600 Speaker 1: theme of this episode and your entire season. So I 1188 01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 1: actually would be shocked if y'all did have one. Y'all 1189 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,920 Speaker 1: probably have about five or six. There's so much trauma 1190 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:49,360 Speaker 1: between so many girls that I can't imagine all twenty 1191 01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,280 Speaker 1: eight or thirty, however many getting into one. That just 1192 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 1: seems chaotic. Before we let you go, we have to 1193 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:57,400 Speaker 1: play a game with you, as we like to do 1194 01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:59,680 Speaker 1: with our guest. So we're gonna play a really quick 1195 01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:02,160 Speaker 1: game where we're going to read a sentence and then 1196 01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:06,280 Speaker 1: you fill in the blank when we read the sentence. Okay, 1197 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:08,760 Speaker 1: don't hold back, say the first thing that comes to 1198 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:14,240 Speaker 1: your mind. Are you ready, Deandra, Yes, ma'am. Okay. First one, 1199 01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:19,160 Speaker 1: after the show, the first thing I did was came home, 1200 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:24,000 Speaker 1: hugged my family, and traveled too. I went to Maine 1201 01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:27,280 Speaker 1: to see my mom. Maine. I've always wanted to go. Okay, 1202 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:32,800 Speaker 1: we'll talk about that off air. Okay. Next up, who 1203 01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:37,280 Speaker 1: I missed the most from home was my big sister, Danika. 1204 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,480 Speaker 1: She's my best friend. Oh, I feel that. I like that. 1205 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,360 Speaker 1: I think I missed my sister the most too. Yes, 1206 01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:49,160 Speaker 1: whoever is listening, she's a winner. You are a winner. Okay, yea. 1207 01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:51,560 Speaker 1: Since we didn't get to see these conversations on air, 1208 01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,640 Speaker 1: we're having them right now. Okay. One thing I regret 1209 01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:58,440 Speaker 1: while while being on the show was I'm not showing 1210 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:01,600 Speaker 1: more of my personality or being more agressive. H hey, 1211 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,240 Speaker 1: well again, Paradise get all. You can be as aggressive 1212 01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 1: on that beach as you want. Girls exactly, all right? Next, 1213 01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 1: where are we? Uh? Watching the show back has been 1214 01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:19,880 Speaker 1: interesting and makes a lot of sense now mmmm, well said, 1215 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 1: all right, these girls are my blank these girls are 1216 01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:35,520 Speaker 1: my I mean all of them, Yeah, just the girls 1217 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:39,800 Speaker 1: as a whole. These girls are my I feel like 1218 01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,920 Speaker 1: it's like sister wives. Okay. I was going to say 1219 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:46,000 Speaker 1: the cause of gray hairs, but that's true. I was 1220 01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:50,840 Speaker 1: gonna say phreenemies. But you know, given you know them 1221 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:55,160 Speaker 1: better than we do all Rachel with the jade. Well, 1222 01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:57,240 Speaker 1: I was gonna say something else and then I that 1223 01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:03,240 Speaker 1: was it. That was the nice. Next one, next one, 1224 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 1: my last, oh my last rose ceremony was disappointing. M Yeah, 1225 01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:15,080 Speaker 1: I feel that all right. Something I learned about myself 1226 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:19,400 Speaker 1: on the show is that I need alone time to 1227 01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:22,560 Speaker 1: be able to connect with my thoughts. Yes, that was 1228 01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:24,640 Speaker 1: the one thing. How hard was that for you to 1229 01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:27,640 Speaker 1: always constantly be having to be with the girls and 1230 01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:31,560 Speaker 1: the producers and in the interviews everything. For me, I 1231 01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,720 Speaker 1: grew up with eleven siblings, so like I was just 1232 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,160 Speaker 1: used to naturally being around a lot of people. Um, 1233 01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:38,880 Speaker 1: but like having that alone time with like you know 1234 01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:41,400 Speaker 1: where you're secluded and you know, take time to yourself, 1235 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:46,400 Speaker 1: it was really beneficial to like recharge. Yes, oh one, Um, 1236 01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:56,760 Speaker 1: I hope Peter picks I love a side. I'm like, yeah, 1237 01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:58,959 Speaker 1: at this point, I hope he picked Hannah Be because 1238 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:01,200 Speaker 1: the amount of times that she would showing up, Like, 1239 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 1: I hope that you guys, you were on the date 1240 01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:08,120 Speaker 1: when Hannah Be came. No, I wasn't on the date. Okay, 1241 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:12,400 Speaker 1: when you found out that she showed up, what were 1242 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:16,320 Speaker 1: your thoughts? What was the feeling in the house and 1243 01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:21,240 Speaker 1: start there. So when she showed up the first time 1244 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:22,959 Speaker 1: to give him back his wings, I was like, great, 1245 01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:25,640 Speaker 1: this is really beneficial for him helping move on. When 1246 01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,520 Speaker 1: she showed up the second time, I was still like Okay, fine, 1247 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,120 Speaker 1: but I just can't respect the conversation that they had. 1248 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:34,480 Speaker 1: Seeing it after they aired, I'm like, don't come back 1249 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:36,640 Speaker 1: and you know, say, did I make a mistake and 1250 01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 1: have Peter question his ability to look at us as potential, 1251 01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:43,280 Speaker 1: you know, fiances or relationships that he wants to have. 1252 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 1: So once it crossed that line of like what are 1253 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:47,240 Speaker 1: we doing? Did I make a mistake? That's where I 1254 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:49,439 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, Hannah, you don't need to be Yeah, 1255 01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:52,520 Speaker 1: but did you blame Hannah or Peter? Because and I'm sorry, 1256 01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:55,640 Speaker 1: like we're so digging deep that you are the first 1257 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:57,400 Speaker 1: guests that we've had or the first girl that we've 1258 01:05:57,440 --> 01:06:00,400 Speaker 1: had from the season, and I do really want to 1259 01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,480 Speaker 1: know your perspective of what it was like to know 1260 01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,400 Speaker 1: that you put your life on hold to come be 1261 01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:08,440 Speaker 1: on Peters season. And then Hannah shows up and then 1262 01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:11,240 Speaker 1: you see she only heard about it before. Now you've 1263 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:15,840 Speaker 1: seen their intimate conversation. Really, what were your thoughts and 1264 01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:22,520 Speaker 1: what is the group chat saying? What group chat? I 1265 01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:25,120 Speaker 1: at first when she's coming back, I respect it because 1266 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:26,440 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like if you can look at 1267 01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: your ex and still want to move on and find happiness, 1268 01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,960 Speaker 1: that shows true growth. So like that's fine with me. 1269 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:33,880 Speaker 1: If she wanted to hang around, that's fine, But just 1270 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 1: knowing that I put my life on the line, and 1271 01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,560 Speaker 1: then seeing the conversation that they're having about you know, 1272 01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,960 Speaker 1: both her and Peter, like did we make mistakes? I 1273 01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,360 Speaker 1: can't respect that because there's thirty girls out here who 1274 01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:47,920 Speaker 1: literally stopped their lives to come out here and try 1275 01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: to find a connection with you, Peter. But did you 1276 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,360 Speaker 1: and so in that instance, did you question Peter and 1277 01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:56,400 Speaker 1: like if he was truly ready to me oh, yeah, okay, yeah, 1278 01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's definitely both like I mean, Hannah be 1279 01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,080 Speaker 1: coming back, but then Peter also like taking her in 1280 01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:04,280 Speaker 1: and saying, well, like let's even allowing that conversation. I 1281 01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:05,960 Speaker 1: did look at Peter like do you know what you want? 1282 01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:07,840 Speaker 1: And I think that's you know, that's one of the 1283 01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 1: things I did ask him when we had our last 1284 01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,520 Speaker 1: conversation before I got sent home. It's like, you know, 1285 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:14,800 Speaker 1: you know, you're here for a reason, Like what do 1286 01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,800 Speaker 1: you want? Like do you want a girl who's going 1287 01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 1: to be in the drama? Do you want you know, 1288 01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:24,160 Speaker 1: pass relationships? What do you want? Right? What? Peter? Yeah? 1289 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,320 Speaker 1: Who do you feel? Okay, last question? Who do you feel? 1290 01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:28,680 Speaker 1: Was more to blame with that conversation, Hannah or Peter? 1291 01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:35,680 Speaker 1: I think Hannah because I think she knows the control 1292 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,400 Speaker 1: that she has a repeater. I think that you know, 1293 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:41,160 Speaker 1: a girl knows when a guy has feelings for her still, 1294 01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:42,960 Speaker 1: and you know, she saw the way that he acted 1295 01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:45,880 Speaker 1: the first night and how he meant so much for 1296 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:47,960 Speaker 1: her to come back and give the wings, and then 1297 01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 1: seeing him that day, I mean you can tell, you 1298 01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:52,960 Speaker 1: can tell that he's torn. So I feel like I 1299 01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:56,480 Speaker 1: blayed Hannah mainly for bringing up those feelings again for him, 1300 01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,960 Speaker 1: because he's obviously trying to move on and she's just 1301 01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:04,120 Speaker 1: like bringing back those feelings. Okay, No, you sound like No, 1302 01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:06,320 Speaker 1: you sound like you you have an opinion. I want 1303 01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:08,360 Speaker 1: to hear. Oh, I've already given my opinion on it. 1304 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,320 Speaker 1: I mean I thought it was selfish for her to 1305 01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,920 Speaker 1: come back. So thank you for giving us the inside 1306 01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,759 Speaker 1: scoop and your opinion. We will now resume the game again. 1307 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 1: So the next question is nice question. I hope on 1308 01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 1: women tell all blank, everyone tells each other exactly how 1309 01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:33,280 Speaker 1: they feel with them getting their feelings hurt. That is 1310 01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:37,360 Speaker 1: so good team. Maybe maybe I hope happens. I don't know. 1311 01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:39,840 Speaker 1: If THEA I think people will definitely get their feeling hurt. 1312 01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,639 Speaker 1: That is going to be one long women tell all 1313 01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:49,160 Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh, I'll be there, but can I please 1314 01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:54,200 Speaker 1: be in the audience, Becky'll tour, damn it, I'll represent 1315 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:57,720 Speaker 1: for both of us. I will be there sip and tea. 1316 01:08:57,880 --> 01:08:59,760 Speaker 1: Actually no, I'm gonna be some a little stronger than that, 1317 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:10,960 Speaker 1: but I'm wine. You need to be texting me, all right, Okay, 1318 01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:13,320 Speaker 1: next one, we got two more laught for you. Cheers 1319 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:20,439 Speaker 1: to blank, cheers to finding love and finding not love. Okay, yes, 1320 01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:26,000 Speaker 1: all right, and last one up next for me is blank. 1321 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:31,880 Speaker 1: Up next for me is everything. Um. I feel like 1322 01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:34,960 Speaker 1: the future is just so undecided for me right now. 1323 01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:37,599 Speaker 1: So that's what's up for next is like figuring out 1324 01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:40,680 Speaker 1: what my next step is in relationships and life and 1325 01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 1: work and everything. Insert Paradise theme song here. I love that. 1326 01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,800 Speaker 1: Um Okay, Well, de Andrew, thank you so much for 1327 01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:54,960 Speaker 1: joining us on the podcast. Thank you for being open 1328 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,800 Speaker 1: and honest. You know, we like to create a safe 1329 01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:00,880 Speaker 1: space where people can feel free just talk, you know, 1330 01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:03,840 Speaker 1: say things that you haven't had the opportunity to say before, 1331 01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:07,720 Speaker 1: and we thank you for doing that. We definitely are 1332 01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:10,000 Speaker 1: excited for everything that's to come for you. This guy 1333 01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:12,720 Speaker 1: is the limit. We can't wait to watch you on 1334 01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:16,840 Speaker 1: the beaches of Paradise. Hopefully, hopefully you're in the first 1335 01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:20,920 Speaker 1: or second group that comes, because that's like the suit 1336 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,080 Speaker 1: spot to be in. We'll just go ahead and put 1337 01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:25,880 Speaker 1: that out there. Hopefully the producers are listening. But yes, 1338 01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:29,000 Speaker 1: thank you so much for being here. No, thank you 1339 01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,760 Speaker 1: guys so much for hotting we. I don't want to leave. 1340 01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:32,439 Speaker 1: I wish we could just stay on the phone. But 1341 01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:34,920 Speaker 1: thank you so much for being so understanding and listening 1342 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:37,400 Speaker 1: to me and hearing me. I love it. Of course, Well, 1343 01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:39,120 Speaker 1: thank you. We can't wait to see what is ahead 1344 01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:42,160 Speaker 1: for you because I feel like it's amazing, amazing things. 1345 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:47,640 Speaker 1: Let's hope. Thanks Andra, of course. By guys, all right, 1346 01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:49,760 Speaker 1: so you know what time it is, Becca, It is 1347 01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:53,760 Speaker 1: time where the cats and rats of the week. There 1348 01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:57,160 Speaker 1: are some cats and some rats. M I'll kick this 1349 01:10:57,320 --> 01:11:00,400 Speaker 1: one off. So for the cat, I'm given it to 1350 01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:03,240 Speaker 1: my girl, Kelly. She's clearly my favorite at this point, 1351 01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:05,519 Speaker 1: I guess because I just feel like I relate to 1352 01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,160 Speaker 1: her on so many levels just watching her on the 1353 01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:11,040 Speaker 1: season or the lack of seeing her on the season. 1354 01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,400 Speaker 1: She just stays away from the drama. So yes, giving 1355 01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:15,400 Speaker 1: it to Kelly. I like that we were able to 1356 01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,880 Speaker 1: see a little bit more of what she's going through 1357 01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:21,160 Speaker 1: and what she's thinking. Happy, she had a rose. Happy, 1358 01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,920 Speaker 1: we will see her again next week. I'm going to 1359 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:28,120 Speaker 1: give my rat the kelsey. That was a rat move 1360 01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:33,000 Speaker 1: for her to sneak off and go see Peter. Didn't 1361 01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,840 Speaker 1: tell anybody what she was doing, to tell Peter what 1362 01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,760 Speaker 1: was being said in the house when that information had 1363 01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,320 Speaker 1: not been relayed to Peter, and who knows if it 1364 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:44,880 Speaker 1: ever would have gotten to Peter. We don't know. So 1365 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:46,720 Speaker 1: the fact that she used that, whenever you do that, 1366 01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:49,360 Speaker 1: it's very manipulative. And she knew what she was doing, 1367 01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:51,720 Speaker 1: and she was trying to put a dagger in Tammy's back, 1368 01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,040 Speaker 1: and she kind of did. I mean, Tammy got a rose, 1369 01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:59,759 Speaker 1: but she kind of did. M Okay, Well, I'm gonna 1370 01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,160 Speaker 1: gonna give two different girls. I'm gonna disagree a little 1371 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:05,000 Speaker 1: bit here. I want to start first with my rat 1372 01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:06,479 Speaker 1: of the week because I want to end on a 1373 01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:09,639 Speaker 1: high note with the cat. So my rat this week, 1374 01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:12,120 Speaker 1: as much as I was rooting for her, is going 1375 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:16,200 Speaker 1: to go to Tammy because of I think the way 1376 01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:20,040 Speaker 1: she vocalized her issues to Peter and the rest, but 1377 01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,760 Speaker 1: mainly to the way she didn't vocalize because in the 1378 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:28,400 Speaker 1: scenario where Kelsey's asking who said this? Who said these things? 1379 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:31,080 Speaker 1: Don't Tammy just kind of sat back, and in that moment, 1380 01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:34,800 Speaker 1: I wish she would have taken initiative because we're all 1381 01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:36,560 Speaker 1: going to see it. It's all on camera, and I 1382 01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:38,360 Speaker 1: wish she would have just said it was me. And 1383 01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:41,360 Speaker 1: I said that because of x y Z. There was 1384 01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,559 Speaker 1: a lack of initiative there and I wanted to see more. 1385 01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:45,400 Speaker 1: And I just also don't think it was her place 1386 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:49,800 Speaker 1: to throw around drinking problems and pill problems. So I 1387 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:53,639 Speaker 1: will leave it at that. But my cat is going 1388 01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:57,759 Speaker 1: to somebody who people might not think because she unfortunately 1389 01:12:57,840 --> 01:12:59,639 Speaker 1: went home. But I'm going to give it to Sanne 1390 01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:04,680 Speaker 1: because the entire season she tried to play fair. She 1391 01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 1: just wanted that time with Peter and always unfortunately fell short. 1392 01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:12,160 Speaker 1: There was always something in her way. But from everything 1393 01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:14,400 Speaker 1: that I saw, she seemed like a sweetheart. Her heart 1394 01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,719 Speaker 1: seemed to be in the right place. But I also 1395 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:22,200 Speaker 1: appreciate that she left Peter with just keep an eye out, 1396 01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:24,120 Speaker 1: just like follow your heart, listening to yourself, but just 1397 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,920 Speaker 1: know that like you deserve love and I know that 1398 01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:29,080 Speaker 1: you're trying to follow your heart, but just be aware 1399 01:13:29,240 --> 01:13:31,680 Speaker 1: of something's happening. And so I'm going to give it 1400 01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:34,839 Speaker 1: to Shanne this week. That was really good. I cannot 1401 01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 1: disagree with you on those very good Well, thank you Rachel. 1402 01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:42,360 Speaker 1: All right, well that is all for us this week. 1403 01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:44,400 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for tuning in. This has 1404 01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:48,000 Speaker 1: been a crazy season, but it's also been fun to watch. 1405 01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:51,920 Speaker 1: It's been frustrating, but I don't know, it's also been 1406 01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:55,400 Speaker 1: entertaining at the same time. So make sure you come 1407 01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:57,720 Speaker 1: back to hear what we have to say, to hear 1408 01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:00,479 Speaker 1: what's surprised guest. We may have on at the hour, 1409 01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:03,200 Speaker 1: So we thank you guys for listening. We thank you 1410 01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 1: guys for being here with us.