1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, I just wanted to jump on here with 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: little Bow say hey bo okay um, and we just 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 1: wanted to let everyone know about upcoming live shows. We 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: have several coming up, but the first one is Queers Live, 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 1: Bow and tell them Babe. It's inspired from the very 6 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: inspired by, i should say, very first Diva's Live, starting 7 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: all your favorite divits, but we're just putting a little 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: queer spin on it. We're gonna have so many great people. 9 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: Larry Owen's called a Skull of Josh Sharp, Aaron Jackson 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: as Peter Smith, Peter Smith, and more to be announced. 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: More Queer to be announced. Musical directed by the one 12 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: and only Henry Koperski Son Monday, novembery at Joe's Pub, 13 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: The one and only. It's our very first, ever last 14 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: culture is to show at Joe's Pub. We love the 15 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: folks over there. We're gonna be, you know, recording a 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: little video promo for it in the coming weeks. You 17 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: might see it and you can get tickets at the 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: Joe's Pub website, so please head over and do that, 19 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: and then we have the gag. Of course, it's I 20 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: don't think so honey Live at the Bellhouse on No. Yes, 21 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: this is gonna be a pretty new batch of folks. 22 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: We are really gonna show you some new faces, Darling. 23 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: Our last one was like a Legends ball type gig. 24 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: But this is gonna be such a fun, fresh experience. 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: It's gonna be so great. I can't wait for it. Yeah, 26 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: you gotta get your tickets to our I Don't Think 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: So Honey Live at the Bellhouse on no And if 28 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: you're on the West Coast, Honey, I'm coming to you 29 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be doing I Don't Think So Honey 30 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: Live at the Region in downtown l A on December five. 31 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: The lineup will be announced shortly as well the Bellhouse lineup. 32 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: But this is gonna be so much fun. I loved 33 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: our show that we did fun. I can't believe I'm 34 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: missing this one. But you know what, it's for a 35 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: good reason, which is your wedding to yourself? Yes, just 36 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: kidding his work, um, so listen, I cannot wait. And 37 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: then selfishly, I want to just plug a little show 38 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: that I do here in New York City at the Duplex. 39 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: It's called have you heard of Christmas? Oh? I love 40 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: this show. Thank you baby. I'm really excited it's gonna 41 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: be on December eleven, December twenty two, so I'm gonna 42 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: do that show three times and I really want you 43 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: guys to come. You can get tickets, um, which are 44 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: on sale right now. Those are the shows, and that's 45 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: the Gauntlets and Special Best Special Guests and that's musical 46 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: directed by Henrykoperski as well. Yes, oh, I can't wait 47 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 1: for all of these shows. Um. I will be three 48 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: out of four of them for sure, So please get 49 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: those tickets and check them out. Yes, look, man, oh 50 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: I see you? Why why look over there? How is 51 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: that culture? Yes? Goodness, let's ding dong c what's the 52 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: halloween for recording this on? We've just had a conversation, 53 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: a quick cursory little conversation with our guests. You're angry 54 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: at me? No, I'm a little angry, but I'm just 55 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm angry at I. But I should be angry at 56 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: just the system. I think, thank you so much. I 57 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: always say, don't be angry at me, be angry at 58 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: the system. It's real culture about four team the system, 59 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: and it's the system. It's Halloween. New York is just 60 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: everyone feels you feel like you have to fall in 61 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: line with it is what what's it's the bad part 62 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: about the gay community blown up a hundred thousand times? Sure, 63 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: well you're choosing to magnify self conscious Um. Yes, I 64 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 1: I feel as though, like, here's the thing. I have 65 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: a couple of a few costumes I could wear. I 66 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 1: have one slutty costume. It's a little slutty sailer that 67 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: I got from my shoot with Logo. So by the way, um, 68 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: Dave Mazzoni and I are doing some videos for Logo 69 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: and you guys check them out, so they they actually 70 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: I I offhand mentioned that I kind of liked the 71 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: way I looked in the costume, and then I looked 72 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: over and it was on my things. At the end 73 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: of the day, someone some p a had been like, 74 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: wink wink, and I not to take this home. They 75 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: wanted to suck you perchance. Um, but whoever that person is, 76 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: I celebrate that idea, okay, And you don't have my 77 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: number from um And then I have gay Jackson, Maine, 78 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: which I said that, and our guests that wow, And 79 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: so now I don't want to do that. I put 80 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: and what aren't you so glad that that our guests 81 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: absolutely think we need more transparently handed response. Yes, I'm 82 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: grateful for and thankful for the guests. And then what 83 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: was your third? My third was the one we were 84 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: going to do together, which was killing you best friend's costume. 85 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: Of course you would be Sandra Oh, and I would 86 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,799 Speaker 1: be Villeneul. He would be um Jody Comber, Jody Comber 87 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: famously her name, famously, her name years old. Can you believe? 88 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: Are you fucking serious? That is so fucked up. She's 89 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: so good, she's so good. But here's the thing. I 90 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: feel like she doesn't have like an iconic look. I 91 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: would have to stay attached to your side at all times. 92 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: I know. It is one of those things where it's 93 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: like if if, if we're decoupled, I would sort of 94 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 1: make sense to Sandra, But like every are you, but 95 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: you could you could just be another Alley. You could 96 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: be allied. I guess, I mean, I guess. All right, Okay, 97 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: I heard the thing. Last year we had a really 98 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: good costume and it's gonna be hard to top we did. 99 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: I was I Patronada and I was early episodes in 100 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: Kidman still um racked with secrets and guilt. Sure, Um, 101 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: we'll figure it out. I'm so glad that we have 102 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: this conversation about the culture. And by the time this 103 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: comes out, and it will be well into November. And 104 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 1: here's the thing, also, I don't want anyone to worry 105 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: about me, because I know I will turn it out 106 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 1: before my first party of the evening absolute which there 107 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: are two, and we're going to see our guest at 108 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: the second. I see our guest at the second one, 109 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: and he has and he's just keeping it simple, streamlined. 110 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: I love it. He's not he's not falling for it. 111 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe we don't know. He's a very creative person. 112 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: I love. I love our guests so much, deeply deep. 113 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: For many years since Jeffrey colcast role with our other 114 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: Lovely Lovely the beloved. Um you know who was a 115 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: huge Jeffrey self fan, Henry Henry since you since young, 116 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: since young, yes, since since since like way back. I think, yeah, 117 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: Jeffrey and coldcast roll perfect. Um he is. And then 118 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: we were at the same party as Henry Koperski, my 119 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: my ex. And then we were at the same we 120 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: were at the duplex one night you came, I think 121 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 1: to see who was it? What's that? What? We I 122 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: think we went to like maybe it was like she 123 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 1: wants to talk, so let's just bring him in. I'm 124 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: just gonna say, Henry said, you have to introduce me 125 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: to Jeffrey, and I was like, okay, gonna happen. Okay. So, 126 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: so he's being so good about just the decorum of 127 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: all of that because he gets he gets it, he 128 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: gets the he gets these get it now say his 129 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: little credits and then we can go on. He's an actor, author, um, celebrated, comedian. Um. Okay, 130 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: So search party, search party, Mark on search Party, fantastic, 131 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 1: truly like the gays, the gay straight man in all 132 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: of it getting married, This isn't yes and Elliott. Elliott 133 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: is not the straight man at all. And Elliott is 134 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: just truly insane, goofy, well goofy, but also mentally real 135 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: John Early type, real John Early type. Um. And meanwhile, 136 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: Mark is a is a huge Jeffrey self type. But um, 137 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 1: anyway said his name already. You can read his books 138 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: dragteen um or A very very bad Thing and um, 139 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: oh god, Jeffrey Live I loved I oh yeah, um, 140 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: And I hope, I hope maybe there's a combat but 141 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: the live space is interesting, right, That was my first. Um, 142 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: that was my first the lives page just huge. Um, 143 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: but that was my first. Also introduction to then House 144 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: Twink now star of Heather's Oh my God, House Twink 145 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: fell in Love and um, oh my God, and uh 146 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: just iconic rowl in thirty rock one of Like the Love. 147 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: And I didn't even know this was Jefferent years later 148 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, who was that lemons cousin? Um Randall, 149 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: Randy Randall, Oh my god, broken it is Jeffrey. So 150 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure. I loved. I really respect the decorum 151 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: of podcast famously. Thank you for doing that. No one 152 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: doesn't Yeah, no, no, no, no, um they don't you 153 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: know these days, I'm so excited to be here. I'm 154 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: such a fan of you guys. Okay, talk about your 155 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: Halloween plan and so we're all going to see each 156 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: other at a party in in mirror hours. I don't know. 157 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: I was kind of excited because I had no Halloween 158 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: plans and I thought, okay, great, no one's going to 159 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: get their ship together. I'm not gonna have to do anything. 160 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: But then someone planned something, and now I feel like 161 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: I actually have to do something because I always show 162 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: up at Halloween parties not in the costume, and then 163 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: I feel even more uncomfortable. I think it. I think 164 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: it's worse to be the person who looks like they 165 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: don't care or be thought they were too cool. You 166 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: never want to be there and to be like, my 167 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: costume is me. I actually even, like right when I 168 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: said that I had something that I was going to 169 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: use for I don't think my I don't think so, honey. Later, 170 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: but I might actually do what I was just about 171 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: to say for that because I have a strong feeling 172 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: about it. But anyway, I find out Halloween very overwhelming. 173 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: I loved it as a kid. I thought it was great. 174 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 1: Mimi from the Drew Carey Show was among many wonderful 175 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: memorable costumes nowadays, Yeah, I agree, there's something. There's a 176 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 1: pressure within the gays especially. Yeah. I just I was 177 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: looking at Instagram stories last night and just piste off 178 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 1: at every click. Do you want to know what it is? 179 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: For me? It's like I actually end up sort of 180 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: and I say this and don't get upset. I end 181 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: up sort of nailing it every year, do you know? 182 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: I mean, it's someone who's followed you for a while. 183 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. BuzzFeed Gay BuzzFeed. Um, one time put 184 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: me on a list for best Halloween costumes. I was 185 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: just so fucking basic. Also, I was remembering, remember I 186 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: remember this was Harry Potter. I mean, sure, hasn't you 187 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 1: and like literally five thousand people, but thousands conserve it 188 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: out and he's only had sex to five thousand and three. Um, 189 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 1: but no, what did I mean? I had this? Henry 190 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: was Henry was Malfoy and it was a really hot 191 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: like Malfoy and Harry Potter, like go home and fancy 192 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: each other scenario. I'm not a Harry Potter person, really, 193 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: I don't really know the whole mythology. Well, Harry Potter 194 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: is a wizard, yeah, I know that much, and he 195 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: was famously straight. And then your spin on it was gay, 196 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: and actually that's my spin on, Jackson Main to Night 197 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: was gonna be Yeah, so let's go circle back to that. Yeah, 198 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: I mean because that where you gonna be Ali. No, 199 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: there was no plan for it to be friends. Why 200 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: note like there's gonna be a million allies. Katherine Cohen's 201 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 1: going to be Alley? What what Alley? Though we're talking? 202 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: That was a question that she had and I said, 203 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 1: That's why it's a really good dynamic costume, because you 204 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: could even have like a night of Alley's. You could 205 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 1: be the first time we see pop star Alley, which 206 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: is the red hair and the hideous little blue dress. 207 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: You could have um uh us this way Ali and 208 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: that white kind of iconic pants were into, like the 209 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: leather jacket, the long sort of natural dark hair felt 210 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: like yelling at the father, and the really forced Italian accent. Yeah. 211 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: Also there is of course I'll Never Love Again Ali, 212 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 1: which is a kind of iconic look. If you have 213 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:00,719 Speaker 1: the gown, if you have the and then there's that 214 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: that that orange wig that they revealed that wasn't in 215 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: the trailer but then it made a big appearance. There 216 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: are a lot of options. We're just walking through the costumes. 217 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: You know what I will do Andrew dice Clay if 218 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: you ah, if you do Ali, I'll be andrewdiced Clay. 219 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 1: And if you do um Blue Jasmine, I'll do Andrew 220 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 1: dice Clay when he accosts her on the street in 221 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 1: Blue Jazz. Oh my god, I think we should all 222 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: just do VM as Andrew dice Clay and be really homophobic. Yeah, 223 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: night and Clay is not very intriguing, very far. You 224 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 1: know who's going to nail it, whichever gay decides to 225 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: go as Gail, Like, Hi, Ali, I'm gayl like the 226 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: person who leads around onto the stage. Gail is the 227 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: woman who gets her out of the car at the show. 228 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: Gail is gay icon gl is and gay. I have 229 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 1: missed the Twitter boat on Gail. I guess Gail is 230 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: the is one of is one of three female characters 231 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: in that home the whole film. Oh my god, you 232 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 1: think about it because she doesn't count depress. Yeah, so 233 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: it's it's it's Gaga, It's it's Chappelle's wife, It's Gail, 234 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: and it's it's she's the clipboard lady who leads her 235 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: from the car. We know the actress's name, but she's 236 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: like really broken through in like a niche way. But 237 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: it's the thing. She's an icon. It's kind of it's 238 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: very I rall Sue from like Stranger Things. That's what 239 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: I was about to say, what's what's her? Yeah? Yeah, right, no, no, 240 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: bar So is she gonna end up in like a 241 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 1: Greg Berlante show within minutes? I think it's it's not 242 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 1: not huge for her career. And you know who I 243 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: found out audition for that part, Casey Wilson for GA. 244 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: She said that, she said on Bitch sh apparently like 245 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: that she had audition for that role. Unless that was 246 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: a joke, And I think that's a very funny joke. 247 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: It's either way. It's m Jeffrey. Are you Are you 248 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 1: like okay, you're firmly team like l A team l 249 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: A at l A campus. Well, so, I mean it's 250 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: very hard to discuss with people like you. Guys. Please 251 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 1: feel like you are such ambassadors for like gay New York. 252 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: But I don't think. Well, here's the thing. I actually 253 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: saw I saw you at in l A and I 254 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 1: was having a great time. Well no, I mean, I 255 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: mean it's not like we we don't have fun there. 256 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 1: It's a fun place to listen. I lived here for 257 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: six years, but I moved here when I was like seventeen, 258 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 1: and so it felt like when I left, I was 259 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 1: like still broke and like came to l A and 260 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 1: realized you could be still broke in l A and 261 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 1: have a better life. And I've i've kind of like 262 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: remained with that. But also New York just stresses me out. 263 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: I feel like I stay out all night, I sleep 264 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 1: all day, like all the all the just the just 265 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: the boring you know things. Have you ever lived in 266 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: l A. I spent about a month there this summer 267 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: because we were out there for two weeks, two weeks, 268 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: and then I went back for two weeks, so I 269 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: was I was out there for a while. Long Island 270 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: and Colorado, Colorado, so it's a little more of the 271 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: same vibe. But sure, I mean yeah, I mean, look, 272 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 1: they're both great places. Everybody's back and forth, you know, 273 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: if you have there's places to avoid in both places. 274 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: You know, I don't you know, none of us are 275 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,679 Speaker 1: like hanging around the like you know, muscle queens of 276 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: Hell's Kitchen, really and none of us are really hanging 277 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: around the muscle queens of West Hollywood. I think I 278 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: might do January through March in l A. You know, 279 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't going to give it. I wasn't going to 280 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: just give piloteas in that whole chunk of the year, 281 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: but that go out to the coast, um I might, 282 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: And but so now I'm kind of like happy to 283 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: have had that time there in the summer to acclimate 284 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: to it, because it character firstly has made me very 285 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: stressed out. Yeah, I get that. Once you get past it, though, 286 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: I think it's becomes really groovy great and you have 287 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: roots planted there now anyway, like you're you're literally married 288 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: and literally married, I you know, like like having like 289 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: a boring, a grown up life there whereas I can't 290 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: figure out how to do that here and because I 291 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: think it's just too expensive. Yeah, I think like now 292 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: that you like have the husband and are actualized, I 293 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: think like that seems like l A is a very 294 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: good kind of zone. It made me kind of I 295 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: got my like fomo really roared out when I was 296 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: in l you know, because you felt like isolated and 297 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: you're wherever you were staying exactly, and I was like, 298 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: if I'm trying to get somewhere, it's take a long time. 299 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: That's why I like it, because I don't like leaving 300 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: the house. I'm very like, I'm such a like introvert body. 301 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: I'm such a nerd and I just it's such a 302 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: nerd about my couch and so I really like not 303 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 1: leaving the house. So it's good. It's very good to like. 304 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: And I live like far out in like Culver City 305 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: where no one else lives. So yeah, sure, and only 306 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: the best and it's really far. So it's like great 307 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: for no one ever drops by, no one ever, like 308 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: no one ever wants to come over, and then like 309 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: you can be you don't ever have to go to 310 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: other people's It's great, it's great, it's it's great. What 311 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: does what does husband do? Augustus august Is pru Um. 312 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: He is an actor. He is a fancy like real 313 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: person actor. Well he had um. Well he's as a child, 314 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: he was in About a Boy. He was Rachel is 315 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: that Rachel Weiss? Is that who's in that movie? I 316 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: always get hurt about boy. Yeah, he plays the other 317 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: little boy who's like, not not the boy. He's not 318 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: the boy that's Nick Holt and then the other and 319 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: then the other boy is Rachel Vice's son, and yet 320 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: he's like he gets like jealous of Hugh Grant dating 321 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: his mom's. It was a meaty role. So that was 322 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: his first thing and then he um, he's you know. 323 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: He had a show on CBS last year called Pure Genius. 324 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 1: It was a medical procedural that he was the lead of. Um. 325 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: It was not very good and it did and it 326 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: got canceled and then He was also on one of 327 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: the leads on the reboot of prison Break. Hell yeah 328 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: he was. He was cell mates with Wentworth Miller. How 329 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: hot is that? How did that go? They never had 330 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: sex ship? I know, I was very sorry and character 331 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 1: has never had sex real life. All of the above, 332 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: all the above. It never happened fictionally or nonfictional. Nor 333 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: did I ever get to have dinner with Wentworth Miller. 334 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: I was really greasing the whale for that. What a 335 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: wasted moment, wasted career. I don't wonder what who went 336 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: Worth Miller's gays are, what his little coterie of queers? 337 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: He found them late. I think he found him late, 338 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: and I don't think there's room for for a Jeffrey 339 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: Self type. I think that you're wrong about that. I 340 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 1: don't think there's always I think it could be. I 341 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: think it could be a little polarizing for him. I 342 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what Worth Miller's game is. 343 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 1: I think that his gayness is very like well, I 344 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: don't I don't want to pass judgment on him, but 345 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: he certainly was one was was one of those gays 346 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: that came out late and was really like all of 347 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: us trying could do the exactly trying to do the 348 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: actor thing, and like I he to me is like 349 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: I'm at Dallas, who is that Kylex Why? And he 350 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: has a hot husband and they have a kid and 351 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: hot husband a kid and now he's like happily gay 352 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 1: And I like met them rand and I didn't even 353 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: meet them. I like bumped into them at some sort 354 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: of party and like it was like so attracted to 355 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: them and then like tamed one of them when I 356 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: was like really stoned on Instagram, was like so great 357 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: with chatting last night, like we really got to get 358 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: together and like, you know, we want to have kids 359 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: one day, so I'd love to, like, you know, talk 360 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: to you about your family. We did not talk about 361 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: any of this, no, And I think he saw it, 362 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: you know, just he saw it and saw through it. 363 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 1: Do you guys do a lot of stone mnest with you? 364 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: I should probably do it more than I should, and 365 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: it always, Oh it's not good. I'm trying to get 366 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: better about it. I can't help myself when I have 367 00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: a crush on a guy. I'm talking to them in 368 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 1: the news. Here. The thing it's like it's like the 369 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: oppos are dead and d MS are the way, them 370 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: are the way, and we all know it, so it's transparent. 371 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: Amount was and I followed so many like and mostly 372 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: there are people I've never met and probably will never 373 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: meet because they're like models who live in other countries. 374 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: But like, isn't it fun to be like, Hi, Yeah, 375 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell you I met when we did we covered 376 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: Vulture Festival for Vulture, and yeah, it'd be weird if 377 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: you're coming unity. We never met anything anything, um, but 378 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: we um. We met my crush. Who is your crush? 379 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: Jonathan Jonathan graff Okay, walking me through it because I've 380 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 1: actually never met Jonathan groffin actually literally what happened. So 381 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: we're there and I'm nervous because it's Jonathan Graffin. I've 382 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: talked about my crush on Jonathan Grafin and you can't 383 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: d M him because he's not on social, not even 384 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: on social, he's one of those. So he's coming in 385 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: and he's like talking to his co stars because we're 386 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: interviewing him from Mine Hunter, which I couldn't give him 387 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 1: less about. Um. So I go to him, I'm like, hey, 388 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 1: so pretending to me and say hey, I'm met Okay, hey, 389 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm Matt Jonathan. Oh, that's a firm handshake. We're still 390 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: holding hands, by the way, and then my hand melted 391 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: in his Yeah, and I was like and I had 392 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: to pull it away and like come came out of 393 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: your fingers. It was it was very overwhelming. And then 394 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: I think we did like a D plus interview with them. 395 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 1: Yeah it was not and they didn't say goodbye to us. Yeah, 396 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 1: yeah it was. It was very It wasn't like a 397 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 1: winning interview. Was his vibe sexy though, he has a 398 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: confident vibe, he knows how hot he here's confidence, he's 399 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 1: a competent vibe. But also like this and this is 400 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 1: also equally just adds to the charm in a way. 401 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 1: But also to me, I was like, oh, you're just 402 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 1: like a dorky dude. He was talking about musical theater 403 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: with one of his co stars and it was like 404 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: it was like it feels like someone like would write 405 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 1: that in a script right exactly, And he's normal too, 406 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: but like it kind of I got the vibe from 407 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: him where it's like, Okay, he's he's seems far away 408 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 1: because he's Jonathan Groffin. I do think there probably is 409 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 1: like you know, not not an ego there because he 410 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: knows how charismatic and hottie is, but it's there. There 411 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: doesn't exist a world where we could not be friends, 412 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it was like that, Yeah, yeah, 413 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 1: that's your number, That is he your number one? Cry Um, 414 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: He's he is up there. But I don't know. It's 415 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: always top of mind for you, you always. I love him. 416 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: I have never ever once seen him in anything because 417 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: I'm so frustrated by how hot he is and his success. 418 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 1: So I'm too jealous to watch his work. Yeah he's 419 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: so talented. Yeah, I've never seen him do anything. Never 420 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: watched the episode of Looking Mind whatever that is. I 421 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: could not care less about Mine Hunter, but I did watch. 422 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: I slammed through Looking Um. It had its high points 423 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: and low points. Largely wasn't great, but he I think, 424 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm sure I might have been a great show. I 425 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: literally cannot watch things with him in it because I 426 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: get to uh, no, you really have avoided him. I 427 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: mean I've seen like the clips of Let It Go. Sure, 428 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm not a freaking monster, But I have a question 429 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: I'd like to pose, are we, as a gay culture 430 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: getting better about gay jealousy? I'm not. I don't think so. 431 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 1: I I think I am. I'm trying. I'm gonna say 432 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: that I'm I'm doing I'm doing great, you know. I mean, 433 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 1: we're all sitting here, no one's no one's hit each 434 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: other yet wants to kill each other. I mean it's 435 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 1: hard because I don't know we were I think we 436 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 1: deemed about this the other day because you talked to 437 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 1: you had a video thing about like people being mean 438 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: and comments and trying to pit you two against each other. Yes, 439 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 1: And because that drives me that that used to having 440 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: me in calling, like when we were doing this stuff 441 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: for logo and like and I would it just would 442 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: drive me crazy because it's just so and it's like, yeah, 443 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: it's coming from someone trying to think they're like funny 444 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: and they want to get our attention and they want 445 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: to get our attention to look, I can sass it 446 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 1: up to a bit. She's like no, no, thank you. Um. 447 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: But I think I think we're getting somewhat better at 448 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: gay jealousy. I'm still working on it then, Man, I 449 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 1: still can't I get so jealous of everybody, if of 450 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: things I don't even do, Like I was jealous of 451 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: Adam Rappon, you know what I mean, It's like I 452 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,199 Speaker 1: don't I don't skate. I'm never going to skate. Well, 453 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: here's what bothered me about the Ripon thing is that 454 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: then it seemed like he was like trying to transition 455 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: into a comedy and like, you don't get to do that. 456 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: I think that you are charismatic and good at interviews 457 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: and like once in a while, yes, yeah you can, 458 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: you can tweet a tweet, but um, that to me 459 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 1: was like the world in which I think the person 460 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 1: inside me that sees the entertainment industry and and feels 461 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: like there's only so many spots. It's like if one 462 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: of those spots were to be occupied by Adam Rippon 463 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 1: in a comedic manner, I would be bothering. Yes, that's true. 464 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: Like I got I got really jealous when he was 465 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: like I think recently on Will and Grace and I 466 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: was got right, but I'm sure he was like playing himself. 467 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 1: And again he's like probably ten years younger than I am. 468 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: He is a literal like a Olympian. Yeah, you know, 469 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: there's like there's very little like you know what I mean, 470 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,239 Speaker 1: Like there's so much room for that kind of thing, 471 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: especially because he's already famous, and but you know, I 472 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: think he'll probably settle into like a commentator career just 473 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: what he should be doing, like like you see what Johnny, 474 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: we're in. Tara Lepinski have been able to do what's fascinating, 475 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: and he hasn't, like, you know, beaten the ship out 476 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: of his husband, right that was allegedly I think Johnny. 477 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: I think there's some darkness with Johnny. There was like 478 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: a whole paparaz paparazzi, papa razzi tabling story of him 479 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 1: like beat. I think, like literally like he beat, there's something, 480 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: there's some darkness and I think they hadn't very uply divorced. 481 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: And I do know this because he was on that 482 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: Twinks Twink Medium we're going to call it Twink Medium 483 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: Tyler Henry Tyler Henry. He was on Twink Psychic And 484 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: what a great title. Why did they not title? Honestly, 485 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna write my I So basically like he 486 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,920 Speaker 1: was on that show and they talked about the divorce 487 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: and like the divorce was like somehow coming through, like 488 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: the other ghosts come through, and yeah, the divorces a ghost. 489 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,439 Speaker 1: It's not just ghost, it's not just goes. He can 490 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: also he's also like empathic, so he basically was like, 491 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 1: I'm sensing like a lot of darkness, like you went 492 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 1: through a divorce and and he was like, yeah, you've 493 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: you've you've read picture. Allegedly he's never read anything about 494 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: any celebrity, which is a jump that I I love 495 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: it when he has like the celebrities that like you 496 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,880 Speaker 1: yourself as the audience member, like who then is yeah, 497 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 1: that's all that's really fun. But also then sometimes he'll 498 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 1: have something that show books some huge celebrities like like yeah, 499 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:49,400 Speaker 1: it's it'll go from like a huge celebrity to Brittany Kim. Yeah, yeah, 500 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: that would be did he had Little Kim and he 501 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 1: talked about he was one of the few people that 502 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: flat out he recognized right away. He knew Little Kim, 503 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: even Biggie. I'm not going to say they they didn't 504 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: say why Biggie died or who killed Biggie, but they 505 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 1: kept saying in the in the previews. It was like 506 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 1: the end of the episode obviously, So he was like, 507 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 1: do you have any questions And she was like, I mean, 508 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: I think everyone would want to know who shot him. 509 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 1: And that was like when they were teasing it. And 510 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 1: then he I think at the end of the episode, 511 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: And I could be wrong about this because I don't 512 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: fully remember, but he did say, I don't it's not 513 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: coming through who. But I will say that there was 514 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 1: like hints leading up to the in the days before 515 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: who it could be like, you guys probably could figure 516 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 1: this out if you really think about what happened in 517 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: the days before. And then she said something like, yes, 518 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: it was really weird, Like he called us all into 519 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 1: the recording studio and made us all sit in the 520 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 1: same room and told us all to be careful like 521 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 1: and then she kind of like said all this ship 522 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: about how it was in the air that something was 523 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: going to happen, but it was very bizarre. That is 524 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: very bizarre. And also, wouldn't it be crazy if Tyler 525 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 1: Henry is the person who figured out? I was like, 526 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: would be crazy if Tyler who was the president who's 527 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: shop let's write it, you know which. One One of 528 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: the hardest ones to watch was actually Gus Kenworthy because 529 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: he was on and he described how he actually was 530 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: witnessed to one of his friends dying when he was 531 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: a teen, and um, it was like his best friend 532 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: and like he got him to open up about it. 533 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: I'm telling you this teller, Henry Twink, He's got me 534 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: twink psychic is good. The power of the twink, Babe, 535 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 1: the twink, they say last year, Oh yeah, you're right 536 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 1: right good. Perfume Genus said that now that he's no 537 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: longer a twink, no one is that the age of 538 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: the twink is over. But it was like it was 539 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: like a funny tweet, but like he was like, no, 540 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: but it's it was very solipsistic. It was very like, 541 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: now that I'm no longer a twink, no one can 542 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: be in. But he is a twink still. He absolutely 543 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: is a twin. He's so cute. How do you identify 544 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: not I used to identify as a twin. I think 545 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 1: I'm an age dead twink. There has to be a 546 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: name for it. There. I hate twunk. I don't like. 547 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: I almost felt myself say it, and I was like, 548 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: it's just kind of like Wolf. Well, I think that's 549 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: a whole other situation. Um not Fox get Away, Yeah, 550 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: because we can't be saying Fox memories of Megan Kelly's. Yeah. Also, 551 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: I picture more like silver Fox, Silver Fox. How do 552 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: you identify. I don't a gauge in but there's no 553 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 1: like specificity, right, But that's the that's the disgusting community 554 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: doing that too totally. We're looking at we're doing it 555 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: to ourselves. Absolutely, we are the community. We are the community. 556 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: But I truly I think we're at a place where 557 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: we can break. We can culturally help not not us 558 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: as like a podcast, but no, I think the three 559 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: of us right now, us, right now, I can help 560 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: fix this thing of gay jealousy. And then look, it's 561 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: all I do too, I think, and I think it's 562 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: something that's like a really good, like overall thing to 563 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: try to like be mindful of because it is. I 564 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: mean even I have friends who are like, I'm not jealous, 565 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: but clearly they're every I think, yeah, there, there, it's 566 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: a it's a big thing. And I think it's it's 567 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: why you know, there's so much like you know, in 568 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: fighting within. We're not gonna sit here and ignore the 569 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: fact that there was a large chunk of time I 570 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 1: think probably in the I think in US earlier coming 571 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: up like where it didn't feel like there were too 572 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: many spots. And so sometimes I will book something and 573 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: they'll flat out say to me like you know John 574 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 1: couldn't do this, or like like you know this person 575 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: couldn't do this, and we love you, but but they 576 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: make it sort of clear that I was like the 577 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 1: sixth runner up. Yeah, I've experienced that. So it's like 578 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: it's and I don't think they're meaning to say, like 579 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: I think what they're trying to do is be like, 580 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 1: we know all your friends. But but but as a 581 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: roundabout way of in doing that, they're kind of like saying, 582 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,080 Speaker 1: you know, there was a gay role on here, and 583 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: we thought of the most famous quote unquote person for it. 584 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: But but I definitely think that that's not any of 585 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: our fault. Have you been jealous of the Queer Eye guys, Yes, 586 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: because they're so worldfull, but not even jealous, but also 587 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: just confounded in this way that it's like, oh, Anthony's 588 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: doing a set, is hosting a show it in New York? 589 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 1: What the hell is that He's going to be the 590 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: foil to Jonathan? Sure, but like that doesn't mean he 591 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: knows how to be on a stage in front of people. 592 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: I think he probably does know how to. He was 593 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: he an actor. I think he was an actor. He 594 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 1: did us the classes. Now, I'm sure he's sure, he's great, Anthony, 595 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: Anthony's perfect. You don't have to do that. But um, 596 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: you guys do a show though as them or something, Well, 597 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: do this, it's not as them. It's basically it's called 598 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: Queer Eye Live where we basically all pick one of 599 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 1: the things and person someone up on stage and we 600 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: kind of give them do it live it. Zach Zimmerman's 601 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 1: a fret child, lovely guy. He pulled asend. Do you 602 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: guys do live shows? Like every night? I feel like 603 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 1: your Instagram is always like I'm here, I'm here, I'm 604 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: doing this. Oftentimes feels like it happens to get booked 605 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: all on the same time. Like last week we happened 606 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 1: to have three shows. I happen to have three shows 607 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: right in a row, and I was like, god, I 608 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 1: feel insufferable on Instagram right now. But it's not like 609 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: every no no, And it's not I'm not saying the 610 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: promotions and sufferable. Um, I would, I would pull you aside, 611 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 1: don't worry, but but but it's just I'm impressed you're 612 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: so busy. Um, I think it's like one of those 613 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: it's it's it's the thing where you don't post your failures. 614 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: That's a bit. Yeah, that's true. That's a big New 615 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 1: York versus l A difference. I think it's like I 616 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 1: feel like, well, I guess there are people in LA 617 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: who are doing shows every night. I'm just New York 618 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: feels like busier. It does. Yeah, I think for better 619 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: or for worse, because in l A you're just like, 620 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 1: oh cool, I'm just gonna be chilling at home with 621 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: my friends. I mean, I guess I could go to 622 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: a show at the Virgil every night, but I'm not 623 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: doing that. I feel like New York it's like the 624 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: New York pace of life. It's like I'm doing this. Look, 625 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm doing this. What is the l A pace of 626 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: like is like I'm gonna do that? Yeah, okay, and 627 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: what's I'm sorry, I don't I don't really like it's 628 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: like like I think, I think it's more more chill 629 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: and focus. It's like, oh, yeah, I'm gonna do that. 630 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: And then in New York it's like I'm doing this 631 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: and this and this, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Energy thing? 632 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: Are you basically just pooped out every day in New York? 633 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: Like after like you're just like well, I don't mean 634 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: on the search party is so great because like I 635 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: come for like like a long periods of time and 636 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: then I only like shoot like one day a week, 637 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: and it's great. But then you can like you're here 638 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 1: and you can avoid people about by saying like, oh, 639 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: I'm shooting the whole time. Reality, I'm just at the 640 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: apartment and watching TV. But but it's that that's nice. Yeah, 641 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: it does, but it does it stresses me the funk 642 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: out here. It's that is the dream. So I mean, 643 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: I think my dream in life is to do as 644 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 1: little as possible. Yeah, that's like maximum amount of money. 645 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah yeah. The reason why I want to 646 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: be successful is so I can be on vacation all 647 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,040 Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, Like I would be totally fine of 648 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: my husband like just fully supported me. Yeah, I would 649 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: love to be. I tried desperately to be a kept 650 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: boy for most of my early twenties in New York, 651 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 1: and it never kept boy kept boy. Um I think, 652 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: but like theoretically you would just find someone whould be like, yes, 653 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 1: you you're staying with me, um you, But but you're 654 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 1: saying aspirationally in your twenties, that was that was the 655 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: thing I mean, but I also actually wanted to accomplish 656 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: up Now I feel like I'm like, okay, I would 657 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: like happily like if my husband were to be like 658 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: like in my dream scenario, like my husband becomes like 659 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: Tom Holland, which would require like a time machine for 660 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: him to go backwards. But but but it could happen, 661 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: and so he would be an expiderment and he even 662 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 1: had like just just tons and tons of money, and 663 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: I would just travel the world with him. I know 664 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: that sounds really just sad and um, just basic, but 665 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm into especially because you said Tom Holland, and I've 666 00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: been like short stircuting in my brain. I think he's 667 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: so fun, so hot, and he's so good just a 668 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: cute face, he's in a cute little tight little body, 669 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: and also such a good spider Man spider Man like 670 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: they really figured it out with it. And he's and 671 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: he does not strain for the American accent. He yeah, 672 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: he just does that. And you're like, yeah, he's a 673 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: boy from Queen's I love that, loves actually a boy 674 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: from Queen. Queen Marissa Tomey is my fucking hot aunt. 675 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 1: So I actually have have not seen a single one 676 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 1: of those movies again because he's so hot. I don't 677 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: want to watch it. He's gonna I hear you on that. 678 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: Spider Man Homecoming is a great movie. It's really good, 679 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 1: and that's all about a homecoming dance. It truly, I 680 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 1: mean it leads up to homecoming dance, but really it does. 681 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 1: But it's real good. The twists, baby, are very good. 682 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,240 Speaker 1: There are twist s galore, okay, and it also really 683 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: it works as like a weird high school movie and 684 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 1: also a superhero movie. Yeah, it pulls it off in 685 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: a really good way. I think we're the only three 686 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: gay men sitting around the table discussing Spider Man. I 687 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: think that there actually is a whisper network of gay 688 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 1: nerds who I've seen the movie. It will tap about it, 689 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,720 Speaker 1: but I bet. I mean, Joe Kim Booster is literally 690 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 1: jacking off right now. I think at home listening to 691 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 1: this big comic. We went to go see he and 692 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: I went to go see Justice League together. I don't 693 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 1: know what any of that means. It's the it's the 694 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: Marvel Avengers, but with Batman in those games, go away. 695 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 1: I don't want that. You actually don't think you want it. 696 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 1: I mean, the movie was like a perfect five out 697 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: of ten. But I'll tell you who was also good 698 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 1: in that. Speaking of cute twins, Speaking of by twinks, 699 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: I know he's real sexy again someone I get I 700 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 1: get very jealous of. But again, like again, no crossover whatsoever. 701 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 1: But I just I think ultimately the jealousy also comes from, 702 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: like I want to like have sex with this person. 703 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: That is okay. Maybe this is the yes, we've gone 704 00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: to the by thank you, Jeffrey, We've gotten to the 705 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:03,280 Speaker 1: bottom of this is conflating feelings of jealousy with feelings 706 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: of a trap, yeah, wanting to funk what you want 707 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: to be? Yes. Yeah. And that's why social media. That's 708 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: why social media makes it all so much worse, right 709 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,760 Speaker 1: have you guys social media these days and the devices 710 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: and the devices Oh my god? Unfortunately, ya, how do 711 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: you navigate? How do you do it? How do you 712 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,319 Speaker 1: do it? I I truly I wish I had to answer, babe. 713 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: I'm a slave to the to the stuff. Are you 714 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,439 Speaker 1: I'm off of Twitter? Now? I really well, I don't. 715 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 1: I don't like I didn't get rid of my profile, um, 716 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 1: but I don't. I got off, got off my phone, 717 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 1: I got it off my computer. I got fully deleted 718 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: all Facebook, like I forget that. That was in like 719 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 1: a manic moment and I was just like, I'm getting 720 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:42,320 Speaker 1: rid of it. It was like, don't you want to 721 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: download these like twelve years of history you have on here? 722 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, fully downloaded it. Now I'm like, 723 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 1: why didn't I download that stuff? That would have taken 724 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: five minutes, But well, when you can activate it again. 725 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: And then again in a manic episode, I deleted my 726 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,280 Speaker 1: Twitter profile but then again the next day was like, okay, 727 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 1: well that was crazy, so reactivated but deleted the app. Um, 728 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,879 Speaker 1: and it's great. I love not being on Twitter. It's 729 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: so fucking nice. And I'm on Instagram, but I take 730 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,480 Speaker 1: I try to like go three weeks and then I 731 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: deleted off my phone for two weeks and then I 732 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 1: redownload it. That I do Twitter and Instagram, not Facebook. 733 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 1: But then for for you to for you to have 734 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,879 Speaker 1: gone like gone through this clean break and I don't 735 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: think it's necessarily like I'm sure like you were in 736 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: a manic episode, but yeah, but honey, but I I 737 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: feel like there was just this collective culture sure, like okay, 738 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 1: enough enough yeah, I mean I don't really I realized, 739 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 1: like I don't really know what I do on Twitter anymore. 740 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: I was like, what am I doing to this conversation 741 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,440 Speaker 1: and what am I adding? I try to just make 742 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,760 Speaker 1: sure that it's always stays light and like a funny 743 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 1: little comments about whatever stories happening. I do like it 744 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 1: as like a little joke machine. And I guess, but um, 745 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 1: I certainly don't want to get earnest on it. And 746 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 1: how often are you on Instagram? Instagram is my drug 747 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 1: of choice? Like every like, how how many times a 748 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: day do you think, I mean we see each other 749 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,759 Speaker 1: on there? I mean like it seems like you're a 750 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,839 Speaker 1: drug of choice too. Oh yeah, well, I mean there's 751 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 1: a lot of drugs of choice, right, yeah, but the 752 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: Instagram is one of them. Sure we can find out 753 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,399 Speaker 1: on the on iPhones. Now you can do screen time 754 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 1: where it just really I'm so scared of this. Let 755 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,480 Speaker 1: me just let me just see, let me just Instagram 756 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,399 Speaker 1: is the one. And I actually like because I enjoy 757 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 1: putting the stories together. I like posting the little I 758 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 1: like posting pictures. I like how it's love the Q 759 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 1: and A. I hate to say, you know what, I 760 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: like the Q and I have shame about it every 761 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: time I do it. I'm like, this is so self indulgent, 762 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 1: so stupid, but it's so fun and it's not that 763 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 1: self indulgent because they have just democratized this for everyone 764 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 1: to be able to do. That's true, and so it's 765 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,919 Speaker 1: just it's for everyone. So they're every so often someone 766 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: you follow does it and you're like, well, you know 767 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: what it is. It's like when someone does fifty in 768 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,800 Speaker 1: a row, and especially when they set the thing of like, 769 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,320 Speaker 1: asked me about this thing, and this thing is not 770 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 1: something you're interested in. That's like, well I don't care 771 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 1: about this now. Okay. So my daily average over the 772 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 1: last seven days on Instagram an hour and five minutes. 773 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 1: Two hours on Instagram a day a day. That's not 774 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:14,839 Speaker 1: as bad as I thought you were going to say, 775 00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: um a day, um a day. And on Tuesday, this Tuesday, 776 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 1: I was on it for three hours. What happened on Tuesday? 777 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,839 Speaker 1: I'm not sure the DMV, honey, how do you find 778 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: this out? You needed to have the newest, Oh good thing. 779 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: I'm poor, It's it's free. I just want people to 780 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,880 Speaker 1: know that it's fine. I don't I don't find that. 781 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I'm a producer, Emma, and 782 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: she kind of raised her eyebrows producer on my bragedr eyebrows. 783 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,879 Speaker 1: Do you think it's a lot? Well, I think two 784 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,880 Speaker 1: hours out of the twenty four of the day, honey, 785 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 1: that's one twelve your day was spent looking at an app. 786 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 1: And honey, that's not a bad fraction, fraction because that's 787 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: like it's added together, right, yours is more. I can 788 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:04,279 Speaker 1: find this death. I feel you post more almost. I 789 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,239 Speaker 1: have been moved to post because thing so Jeffrey as 790 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: someone who was very much like mired in the social 791 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,399 Speaker 1: media thing where you were just like, oh, I will 792 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,839 Speaker 1: have a show that lives on social media face yeah, 793 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 1: the Facebook thing, yeah yeah, Well I mean that was 794 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,359 Speaker 1: ultimately just because like I had literally nothing, El's going 795 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,360 Speaker 1: to a lot of um and was you know, Facebook 796 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,439 Speaker 1: Live was a new love. I thought it was so fun. 797 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 1: It was so fun. We I love doing it with 798 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 1: the Brendan Scannell, who we all love. But it was, 799 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: you know, it was just like a lot of work 800 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,760 Speaker 1: and like you know again, you're like I'm just screaming 801 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 1: into the ether and is anyone hearing this. You had 802 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: such good guests too, Yeah, we had really good we 803 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:51,800 Speaker 1: had some A Blair, who plays Brendan Scannell's mom on 804 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 1: the Heather's reboots. I'm planning. I'm planning to binge it 805 00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,799 Speaker 1: all at once, and by the time this episode comes out, 806 00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,960 Speaker 1: I will have watched it. It's so so so good 807 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,320 Speaker 1: Night three right now. And then the boy who plays 808 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 1: the lead, like the hot jock boys, so cute, James Scully. 809 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:10,399 Speaker 1: He's a friend of mine, as I need that. He's 810 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 1: very I don't know how he identifies. Now now I'm 811 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:19,359 Speaker 1: as jealous of anybody he's got on the show. Yeah, 812 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,800 Speaker 1: it's really, really good. I can't wait. I was excited 813 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: about it when it was a first announcement. It was 814 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 1: crushed when I heard that it wasn't going to be 815 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 1: coming out, and I'm very excited, but the whole thing 816 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: is done because it's like, first of all, what did 817 00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,800 Speaker 1: you think you were getting when you ordered Heathers. Heathers 818 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: is about what it's about, and if you didn't want that, 819 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 1: then don't order that. And also, I'm sorry, but it 820 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 1: wasn't like there hadn't been school show. I mean, I meanwhile, 821 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 1: like USA is literally making a TV show of the Purge. 822 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 1: You know. I also think it's a complete misunderstanding of 823 00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:53,280 Speaker 1: the tone of the original film is deeply black, comedy 824 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,759 Speaker 1: and sterial, and I think it's like that's what this 825 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 1: was going to be in very stylized, very stylized, and 826 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: it's like you can't just and this is a thing 827 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,359 Speaker 1: I think that we all have to kind of come 828 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 1: around to or like start talking about more. Is It's like, 829 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 1: you know, when it comes to art, it's like think 830 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,280 Speaker 1: about it. It's like it might actually have a comment 831 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,880 Speaker 1: on this thing right when you let it, if you 832 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 1: actually let him do that. Yeah, I love just talking 833 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: about art with you. It's been the it's been the 834 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 1: highlight of my art. On the Paramount Network is my 835 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 1: favorite are on the Paramount Network? What else is there? 836 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 1: So much? We love the Paramount Network. Waiting anything you 837 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: can before we get into like more central questions of 838 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,560 Speaker 1: the show, show anything you can tell us about such 839 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 1: party this season or no, we all know about that. 840 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:41,759 Speaker 1: We all know there's going to be a way. I 841 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 1: think everybody knows it's going to be a very very 842 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 1: very big wedding, like a big wedding with with two 843 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 1: iconic wedding planners, Drew d and Sam Pancake photos. And 844 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:58,200 Speaker 1: there are some other really really iconic gay people and 845 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: I you're allowed to know. Yeah, you know that Cole 846 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:07,320 Speaker 1: skola Is is in is in the wedding nucle I 847 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 1: think perhaps pretend Jill and Booster. I believe he is. Uh, 848 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,920 Speaker 1: it's Sabrina Jolie wrote the wedding episode. She wrote that 849 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:20,759 Speaker 1: it's gonna be in it. Yes, everyone's face was writing 850 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 1: for Search Party. Yes, she wrote on it this season. Yeah. Yeah, 851 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:25,960 Speaker 1: it's very fun and it's a very yes. So it's 852 00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 1: a really really big wedding episode and uh yeah, I 853 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 1: don't know how much more I'm allowed to say. Okay, 854 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,240 Speaker 1: but that's that's going. But they are a big Louie 855 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: Anderson's in Louis season. Yes, I met him the other day. 856 00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 1: He was the lawyer. He's Drew's lawyer. Yeah. Um, and MICHAELA. 857 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 1: Watkins is on it. Yeah, I did see that they're 858 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: posting that MICHAELA. Watkins was Yes, Yeah, she's amazing. What 859 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 1: a good and you're an episode for you said, I 860 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: have a tiny little part in episode four and we'll 861 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,359 Speaker 1: take this out if they end up cutting it because 862 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,359 Speaker 1: it's one of those things that could get cut. Well, 863 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 1: I don't think it'll get cut. No, After some of 864 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 1: the things you were saying off Mike about the show 865 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,800 Speaker 1: and how the process was, I think that I think that, 866 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 1: well I can just report back and report back that 867 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 1: my relationship with Charles Rogerson j D plast director was 868 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 1: really positive. And what did j plas director? He's so sexy, 869 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 1: He's so fucking hot and I have to tell you 870 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 1: um him. But it was weird because like it's weird 871 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:30,479 Speaker 1: because I've always thought he was so sexy, so seeing 872 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 1: him in person, it's such a weirdo. When I saw 873 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,919 Speaker 1: him in person, I was like, this, holds up this, Yeah, 874 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:43,359 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, what did you don't erase name one 875 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 1: person here? You think it's really hot and then you 876 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 1: see them in person and they weren't like a celebrity Yeah, 877 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: because like many incarnations. Yeah, he's just he's just he's 878 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 1: he's he's unassumingly sexy. That's what I mean. You know 879 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 1: who's fun out in person, who's also so hot on screen? 880 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: Justin Thorow. I saw him in Central Park or not 881 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: Central Park, watching a square park the other day, walking 882 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,840 Speaker 1: his dog. So he's in his eyes when he's a 883 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,440 Speaker 1: genuinely like nice person, and his eyes when when he smiles, 884 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,799 Speaker 1: his eyes twinkled. Yeah, but you guys are just describing 885 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 1: hot people. Why don't you just why don't you just 886 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 1: happen to be in person? Is not? What did you say? 887 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 1: He was unassumingly hot in person? He was unassumingly a 888 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 1: pop star and transparent like he's Okay, you guys are 889 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 1: so stupid. We are really. I'm just saying, are you 890 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: both single? I? Yes, I'm very single. Are you both dating? Yeah? 891 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 1: And oh my god, you want to know something. I 892 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 1: got dumped for something that wasn't that serious, but it 893 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,759 Speaker 1: just was drawn out for six years. But then I realized, uh, 894 00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:00,400 Speaker 1: longest relationship just in terms of length alone, wasn't like 895 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:03,400 Speaker 1: the deepest one. Yeah, it wasn't like it just it 896 00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 1: was because it was it was. It remained kind of casually. Yeah, exactly, 897 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 1: and you know how study Okay, so we just listeners know. 898 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 1: We tripped on acid up state recently, the first time, 899 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 1: Semond time, first time? Did you love? I had a 900 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,560 Speaker 1: really good time. I wrote down a lot of lessons. Yes, um, 901 00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 1: have you've done you've done it. I do. I love 902 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:28,920 Speaker 1: the most recently Jordan's Firstman and myself and Brian Sofie 903 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 1: were that sounds like a good crew l ST at 904 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:36,280 Speaker 1: the San Diego Zoo. Oh. That must have been amazing memorial. 905 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,880 Speaker 1: But that seems almost dangerous because it's amazing because with 906 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 1: with LST, it's like in this sort of group mind 907 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: you set and like all it takes us for one 908 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 1: person to be like, let's climb over the let's go 909 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 1: stay high to that tiger yeah, and everyone else be like, yeah, 910 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 1: let's do it, you know, Like but I mean we 911 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 1: were the three of us were all standing on the 912 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,279 Speaker 1: on like our deck, and we were like, the thing is, 913 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 1: we're all here and we all know that we all 914 00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 1: want to jump off this deck, but we also know 915 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,359 Speaker 1: we shouldn't. We were micro do saying first of all, 916 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 1: and um second of all. We just we were in 917 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,919 Speaker 1: a very it was a very positive like loving more yeah, 918 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:11,680 Speaker 1: and I think we were all very hyper aware of 919 00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: the fact that we write a very crowded zeus surrounded 920 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: both children, so we weren't we didn't get too out 921 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,240 Speaker 1: of control. But I so you had a lovely LSD 922 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 1: upstate experience close friends, and it was it was good 923 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 1: and it was healing and it was healing. But then 924 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 1: Study said something where she was like, you know, like 925 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: it's all behind us now, our first, our first jobs, 926 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 1: our first loves, our first And I was like, oh 927 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: not not for some people. And I was like yeah, 928 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: And then I talked about this in therapy unpacked it. 929 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,840 Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, like that like me breaking 930 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: up with this dude was like sort of like not 931 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 1: the most meaningful but the longest. And that's like kind 932 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:46,800 Speaker 1: of sad. Did you break up with the dudes you 933 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,359 Speaker 1: break up with me? Yeah? Whatever, it's not sad, that's 934 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,560 Speaker 1: that's not sad. No, because it's it's the reason you 935 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 1: say it's sad is because you're trying to compare it 936 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 1: to like what society says should have happened. How old 937 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:03,240 Speaker 1: are you? Yeah, I mean, for fox sake that don't 938 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: do this. I know we're going to do this because 939 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: you're the one being ridiculous. I mean, I will say also, 940 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,479 Speaker 1: when I lived in New York City, I never dated really. 941 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: I mean like I had obviously like a lot of 942 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 1: like random anonymous sex or like or whatever, but I 943 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,520 Speaker 1: never had I never had a boyfriend in the entire 944 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,560 Speaker 1: time I lived here, and then the minute I moved 945 00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 1: to l A, I was like, boyfriend crazy, how did you? 946 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 1: I met Augustus at a brunch and we hooked up 947 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,239 Speaker 1: in the bathroom. That it's very I feel like it's 948 00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:31,040 Speaker 1: from something. Well that that to me, the fact that 949 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 1: the attraction like superseded the fact that there was a 950 00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: brunch happening and it was the day and society don't know, 951 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,480 Speaker 1: this shouldn't happen. That's real attraction. The night before had 952 00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 1: been at the same party. We were both at eight 953 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 1: Fourth of July party at Roland Emmerick's house, like a 954 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,960 Speaker 1: big We didn't meet there and we both looked up 955 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 1: with other people at that and then we were all 956 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,360 Speaker 1: like a little hangover brunch the next day, Jordan's firstman 957 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:58,439 Speaker 1: and I went and uh we uh staring was super 958 00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:02,600 Speaker 1: cute and we we hooked up. And I think, I 959 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 1: think I'm allowed to say this, but that Jordan was 960 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:08,120 Speaker 1: also involved in the hook up. That ye, and so 961 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,920 Speaker 1: Jordan's what and I both were like, he's super cute 962 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,800 Speaker 1: and Jordan's won't admit this, but he did say he 963 00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: was like a game on Oh no, no, no, no. 964 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,920 Speaker 1: This was that I'm going to reveal something right now 965 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 1: because I'm feeling frisky as well. The first that I 966 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,719 Speaker 1: ever found we we found out that Henry Skoperski had 967 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 1: broken up with his boyfriend. And I turned to Joel 968 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,840 Speaker 1: and Joel said to me, if you don't go for it, 969 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:40,759 Speaker 1: I will. He's Henry Is who plays piano, right, Yes, yes, yes, um? 970 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 1: And did you did go for it? And it was 971 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,600 Speaker 1: at night on? And how long were you guys together? To? 972 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,799 Speaker 1: Two years plus? And are you still close? Yes? Um, 973 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 1: we are, we are. We're doing fine. I would say 974 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: they're working together. We're working together on stuff, and we 975 00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: worked together and we've been closer than we are right now. 976 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 1: But I think it's just because our relationship kind of 977 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,279 Speaker 1: ended and then like sort of continued in a way 978 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,560 Speaker 1: where it's like we're not really we're in the like 979 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 1: letting go place right now. So we're a little bit 980 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: more a stranger than we have ever been. One of 981 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: you had a boyfriend since he is Um, I don't 982 00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,160 Speaker 1: know what he wants me to say, but I know 983 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: what I will say, which is that he is dating 984 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,759 Speaker 1: someone else and I didn't know the person very well. 985 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,839 Speaker 1: And so it's tough, and I think that's understandably hard 986 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,880 Speaker 1: for everyone. But and that's that sort of complicates the 987 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 1: whole thing. And was that your first real breakup? It 988 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,279 Speaker 1: was my first relationship, first breakup, and I think that 989 00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 1: it was his third. So it was like hard for 990 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:45,239 Speaker 1: me in a way that maybe wasn't not to say 991 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 1: that it wasn't hard for him, but it was just like, 992 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: you know, that complicated things because my first time understanding 993 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,279 Speaker 1: what it's like because whenever my friends had broken up 994 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:54,600 Speaker 1: with someone, I had always been like, oh my god, 995 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,920 Speaker 1: get over it, like bounce back. And now it's like 996 00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 1: realizing it's like a grief period. I had to her 997 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,120 Speaker 1: my first breakup was really epic and awful. And I 998 00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 1: don't know if you followed me then, but I like, 999 00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 1: like live tweeted the whole thing and was very public 1000 00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 1: about it. This was what the ex boyfriend who was 1001 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:14,120 Speaker 1: on the reality show about Fire Island I remember and 1002 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,320 Speaker 1: then and the Jeffrey is also a Vulture recapper, and 1003 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,960 Speaker 1: then he would gorgeous the Fire Island show. Yeah, it was, 1004 00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: it was so amazing. It was, Yeah, it was in 1005 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 1: retrostered like when I had the breakup this would have 1006 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:30,640 Speaker 1: been like too, who knows, like ten maybe I love 1007 00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:37,600 Speaker 1: talking about art with you. The breakup online was like 1008 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 1: so humiliating. I think it's taken me like five years 1009 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:47,160 Speaker 1: to like like recover my brand. This was six I 1010 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 1: think six years ago. Yeah, but then I had the 1011 00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 1: boyfriend after him. I was dating when I met Augustus. 1012 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,920 Speaker 1: Oh interesting, but it was a long distance thing. That 1013 00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 1: was with Australian comedian Joel Creasy. I don't know if 1014 00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:00,680 Speaker 1: you guys know him. Um, he might have been jfl 1015 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:06,160 Speaker 1: jfl um. But I met him in Australia when Cole 1016 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,359 Speaker 1: and I were there doing a gig years before, years ago, 1017 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 1: and UH came back and was like, for some reason 1018 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 1: decided because I'm so codependent and had like a good 1019 00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 1: date with this person and it was like, oh, we're 1020 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,319 Speaker 1: going to be boyfriend's long distance from Australia to Los Angeles. Um. 1021 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,480 Speaker 1: And managed to do it for a year, but then 1022 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:25,840 Speaker 1: he was coming to visit and I met Augustus like 1023 00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 1: two weeks before, and then I tried to keep it 1024 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,359 Speaker 1: going and I didn't want to break up with him 1025 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,239 Speaker 1: and always like too embarrassed and too nervous, so I 1026 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 1: had him still fly to l A. And then in 1027 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:41,359 Speaker 1: my sleep Um started talking about Augustus and he woke 1028 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,799 Speaker 1: up the next morning that was like, what, who's Augustus? 1029 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,279 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I know, I don't mean to like, I 1030 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,800 Speaker 1: don't mean to romanticize this. It was kind of magical. 1031 00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:53,120 Speaker 1: It feels like a fucking sex in the city store. 1032 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,640 Speaker 1: Yes it does. And then get this ship so crazy. 1033 00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: So then Aggie and I we you know, we get married, 1034 00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,680 Speaker 1: and then we're on our honeymoon in Mexico this summer 1035 00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:03,880 Speaker 1: and we're on a beach in Salilida, which is a 1036 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 1: beautiful little place. It's also um, we went there because 1037 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,600 Speaker 1: Serbriena Jolie suggested it's where they met the donor sperm 1038 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: donor of their adorable baby Wolfee. I don't know if 1039 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 1: you follow his adorable nous. Um anyway, so we went there, 1040 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 1: amazing place you highly recommended. Um. We're sitting on this 1041 00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,520 Speaker 1: little beach that we found that we like hiked over to. 1042 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 1: We've met these two groovy Australians. Um, we're all sharing 1043 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,799 Speaker 1: a joint and then it's like, okay, we're all gonna 1044 00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:32,640 Speaker 1: read and then she pulls out my ex boyfriends newly 1045 00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 1: released memoir with a chapter about me dumping him for 1046 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:44,760 Speaker 1: Augustus ship. So like on this tiny, tiny beach in Mexico, 1047 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:48,160 Speaker 1: someone has come from a from Australia with an Australian 1048 00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 1: published book with eight full like six pages that I 1049 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,960 Speaker 1: I read before to make sure like he was very 1050 00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:58,800 Speaker 1: nice and um yeah yeah sure um and I was 1051 00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,360 Speaker 1: also I was supposed to help sucking ghost write the book, 1052 00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,719 Speaker 1: um before we broke up. So everything about it was 1053 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:08,360 Speaker 1: so crazy and so then he, uh, she's she's reading 1054 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 1: the she she's reading the book, and I was like, 1055 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 1: you know that you're about to get to a chapter 1056 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,440 Speaker 1: about how I'm a horrible person. But in the end 1057 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,400 Speaker 1: you'll see how we meet my husband and I and 1058 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:22,399 Speaker 1: it was a beautiful thing. Isn't that bizarre saying it's 1059 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 1: so funked up? How like everything the world is too small? 1060 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:31,000 Speaker 1: Too small, too small? I mean, but I mean, but 1061 00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,800 Speaker 1: aren't we sort of like didn't we sort of ask 1062 00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:36,839 Speaker 1: for this in a way where it's like we've we've 1063 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,799 Speaker 1: we've wanted to make ourselves visible, and so when when 1064 00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:42,680 Speaker 1: we do have these moments where our personal lives are 1065 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:44,640 Speaker 1: sort of like thrown back at us, like from It 1066 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: is interesting because it's like, I mean, I'm not someone 1067 00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,480 Speaker 1: who's ever wanted attention. I've never done anything to try 1068 00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 1: to seek attention by any by any means know, but like, yeah, 1069 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 1: it's like when you're like trying to like make it 1070 00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,000 Speaker 1: and make it, you know, make yourself like a famous 1071 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:04,160 Speaker 1: person and doing what you do. You then when you 1072 00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, like actually someone actually gives a 1073 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:09,080 Speaker 1: ship about your personal life, you get really weird about 1074 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 1: you're I mean, so imagine being like super duper famous, 1075 00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 1: like imagine being like Jennifer Aniston or something. I mean, 1076 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about that at least I don't. 1077 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 1: I mean you never, I'll never never. You don't know 1078 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 1: that though, I don't know that. But the thing is 1079 00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,040 Speaker 1: like you like like you and a remake of In 1080 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 1: Her Shoes? I think you're going to be my day 1081 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,239 Speaker 1: A little came. I think, actually, if we should do 1082 00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:39,480 Speaker 1: a remake of is in Her Shoes? Is even Annison 1083 00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: in that rumor has it is a crazy movie. I 1084 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,520 Speaker 1: don't know how did it get me? Every literally I'm 1085 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:49,919 Speaker 1: sure that's been on. How did it get me? Jordan 1086 00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,440 Speaker 1: and I watched it once and every other line was 1087 00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 1: somehow something about how amazing Pasadena is. Literally it would 1088 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,359 Speaker 1: be like blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. There's 1089 00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:03,879 Speaker 1: nothing like passaging like every other line in the whole 1090 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,360 Speaker 1: time long of you and Jordan been friends? Are you 1091 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 1: guys best friends forever? Um? We are, really I would 1092 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 1: consider one of my best fees. Um. He and I 1093 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 1: became friends probably only like four or five years ago. 1094 00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:15,799 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that it feels like a decade and a half. 1095 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:19,839 Speaker 1: Ye know. Now we like Matt and clicks really quickly. Yeah, 1096 00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,759 Speaker 1: so brilliantly. Um, we're going over to go He's coming 1097 00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 1: with Uggy and I in Charles to the UK for 1098 00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: the holidays. Were in good content aggies from London. Uh, 1099 00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:33,680 Speaker 1: And we're gonna go to London for a few days. 1100 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 1: But his parents recently retired and moved to the countryside. 1101 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:41,160 Speaker 1: Oh I love that wilk show. I have to say, 1102 00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,080 Speaker 1: I think that that sounds like a very good vibe 1103 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,600 Speaker 1: you Jordan and Brian are doing as together. I don't 1104 00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:47,560 Speaker 1: know Brian, well, I've met Brian once, but I feel 1105 00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:52,279 Speaker 1: like and I like him though. He's one of the 1106 00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:55,239 Speaker 1: great guys. Everything I've heard about from him about people 1107 00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:58,160 Speaker 1: that work with him, and like he's a genuinely like 1108 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 1: good person, doesn't have like a like bitchy, mean spirited 1109 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,359 Speaker 1: side like I do, or like so many people I'm 1110 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,480 Speaker 1: friends with you. He has a warm energy. He has 1111 00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:12,680 Speaker 1: a very very warm energy. We were nervous to and he, 1112 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 1: Aaron and us. We were all in the same dressing 1113 00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 1: room and it was like this moment of like two 1114 00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:19,600 Speaker 1: and a half minutes bent by where no one said 1115 00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 1: anything and we were like the same time. But it 1116 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,600 Speaker 1: was so nice. Did you read Aaron's book? I want 1117 00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,800 Speaker 1: you so bad? I have not read it just came out. Yeah, 1118 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,120 Speaker 1: it came out about a month ago. That covers amazing. 1119 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 1: I listened to the audio book and I cannot recommend 1120 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 1: it enough. I'm going to do the audio because I 1121 00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:38,640 Speaker 1: want to hear her read it. It's She's great. And 1122 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,240 Speaker 1: also Guy Brandam's audio book was amazing if you listen 1123 00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: to it. Read the audio book was I mean the 1124 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 1: book as well, it's so good. I think that there's 1125 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 1: something to that. And also maybe they're just they feel 1126 00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:53,040 Speaker 1: like totally different experiences. Like I remember, like um reading 1127 00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,480 Speaker 1: Bossy Pants like obsessively when it first came out, and 1128 00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 1: then like hearing her perform the book, it was just like, oh, 1129 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 1: this is I love an audio book. Wait, but speaking 1130 00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,040 Speaker 1: of which, okay, so so you just being on the 1131 00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:05,919 Speaker 1: speech and finding out that this whole chapter is about 1132 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: you is so tripping insane. Does this go in your book? 1133 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,160 Speaker 1: You have to write as I want to write, like 1134 00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 1: an essays book, but like it's harder to do that, 1135 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,320 Speaker 1: Like the y books were easy, like more easy to 1136 00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,919 Speaker 1: sell for some to sell, but to right to write. 1137 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I could, but I'm so lazy that again, 1138 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,480 Speaker 1: it's lazy. You've published two books, but only because I 1139 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,120 Speaker 1: got paid to do it without getting I have a 1140 00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,840 Speaker 1: hard time writing things on spec Okay, but I mean 1141 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,439 Speaker 1: I hear you. It's a memoir. Is a memoir of Yeah, 1142 00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 1: I guess you can see you know what I mean. 1143 00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:37,960 Speaker 1: But I mean, you're a proven quantity as a as 1144 00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,320 Speaker 1: a writer because you've been you're published author. That's true. Yeah, 1145 00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,280 Speaker 1: I think I will do that at some point. Please um. 1146 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 1: I would definitely like to um. But but yeah, it's 1147 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,040 Speaker 1: hard to like actually motivate yourself to do it when 1148 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,200 Speaker 1: you're like, well I even sell this though, but you 1149 00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 1: but they're just has to has to be a chapter 1150 00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,280 Speaker 1: on that. Yes, absolutely crazy, so crazy. It was the 1151 00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 1: strangest straight just thing. Oh my god. Yeah, that sounds 1152 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 1: that sounds like a real moment. It's like I wouldn't 1153 00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,160 Speaker 1: know how to explain it in my head. As she 1154 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:10,479 Speaker 1: pulled the book out of it back, Oh my god. 1155 00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,440 Speaker 1: Then and then the couple and my husband well fucked 1156 00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:20,400 Speaker 1: right on the beach. Wait literally was like like cool, 1157 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 1: It was like amazing, how beautiful. That's art. That's art. 1158 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,280 Speaker 1: I love talking about art with you, guys. Love talking 1159 00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 1: about art. Speaking art. Back to art Chat. Art Chat 1160 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:34,360 Speaker 1: is the title of Yes but speaking of art. Go 1161 00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:36,360 Speaker 1: ahead and ask the ques Jeffrey. Okay, we asked this 1162 00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:39,480 Speaker 1: question all our guests. What is the culture growing up 1163 00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:41,960 Speaker 1: that made you say culture is for me? Matt, can 1164 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:43,800 Speaker 1: you explain the question? So this is like a piece 1165 00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:47,720 Speaker 1: of pop culture, whether it be a film, uh, musical artists, 1166 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,480 Speaker 1: something that you experienced in the pop culture lexicon that 1167 00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 1: like you feel when you look back, you're like, yeah, 1168 00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:54,280 Speaker 1: that set me on a course or defined me in 1169 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,640 Speaker 1: a way. Okay, I would probably say can I say 1170 00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 1: two things? You can you can say three, you can 1171 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,400 Speaker 1: say four. There's no fucking rules. Number one, death becomes 1172 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 1: her very like I think like the death becomes her 1173 01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:12,760 Speaker 1: like a dark comedy. Um, you know, incredible female strong performances. Um. 1174 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 1: Just the entire aesthetic of like the l A of 1175 01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 1: it all, the Hollywood of it all, the New York 1176 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,800 Speaker 1: musical theater of it all, elements of competition. I think 1177 01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:25,800 Speaker 1: it's competitive. Yes, I mean we all have our own 1178 01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:30,080 Speaker 1: Madeline Ashton. Uh, that was very very intro. That's the 1179 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,880 Speaker 1: culture for me. And then the Rosie o'donald Show. Absolutely, yeah, 1180 01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,080 Speaker 1: Rosie o'donald Show was bigger for all of us than 1181 01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,640 Speaker 1: we can even realize because that actually introduced us to 1182 01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 1: so much that just flew over. It was so it 1183 01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:48,880 Speaker 1: was so inherently gay without being gay. It really was. 1184 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,680 Speaker 1: It captured like the city I wanted to move to 1185 01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 1: in the world I wanted to be in without even 1186 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 1: really knowing it. Rosie o'donald for me is like I 1187 01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,520 Speaker 1: don't know if we've ever talked about this, I'm I'm 1188 01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:03,240 Speaker 1: obsession with nothing more than that. Like roseo donald is 1189 01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:06,560 Speaker 1: my number one obsession. Rosie is anything else. If if 1190 01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:09,640 Speaker 1: her name, if no matter what it is, if she's involved, 1191 01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 1: if it's an article, a movie, an episode, whatever. I 1192 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 1: will I have both Christmas albums. I will do anything. 1193 01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,440 Speaker 1: My favorite show is The View. Sure I've heard of it, 1194 01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,080 Speaker 1: And when Rosie peeks into the View, like because every 1195 01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:26,040 Speaker 1: ten years she's like a, yeah, it's never better than woman. Never. 1196 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 1: Oh don't understand even the negative aspects of the View. 1197 01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,360 Speaker 1: You need that. Oh, yes, Rosie on the View is 1198 01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:39,040 Speaker 1: unprecedented television unprecedented. You know. She she uh co filled 1199 01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 1: in or whatever for Julie chen the other day on 1200 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:45,800 Speaker 1: you to that period when like I think it was 1201 01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,000 Speaker 1: right after Julie Chennett like officially left the Talk and 1202 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,040 Speaker 1: they were bringing in all the different co host or whatever, 1203 01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:55,840 Speaker 1: but it was the day of the Kavanaugh hearing and 1204 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:59,800 Speaker 1: so beautiful. Yeah, and no one got to see it, 1205 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 1: which I think says a lot that Yeah, that certainly 1206 01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:08,960 Speaker 1: didn't air. She's always been right about everything, and she's 1207 01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:12,920 Speaker 1: always yes, I agree, and she's always always always just 1208 01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:19,240 Speaker 1: like been like unapologetically uh flawed and like broken and 1209 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,920 Speaker 1: I love that. Um. But the thing about the Rosia 1210 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:24,960 Speaker 1: Donald Show being this very queer thing that a lot 1211 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,960 Speaker 1: of people don't give it credit for. It is huge 1212 01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:31,920 Speaker 1: because think about like fucking even having Sutton Foster on 1213 01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:36,440 Speaker 1: doing all the time she had John Cameron Mitchell on 1214 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,240 Speaker 1: promoting head vag and Ingry and off Broadway and like explain. 1215 01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,560 Speaker 1: You can find the clip on YouTube. It's fascinating. And 1216 01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:44,840 Speaker 1: she's trying. She's like explaining the show and she's not 1217 01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,640 Speaker 1: even out at this point. She's explaining the show to 1218 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 1: this you know, very very mainstream America audience and they're 1219 01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,960 Speaker 1: like laughing. They like laugh at some point about like 1220 01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,560 Speaker 1: the description of the show, and she like stops and 1221 01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:00,400 Speaker 1: it's like open your minds for God's sake, is like 1222 01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 1: a piece of art art, but it's it's so interesting 1223 01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,600 Speaker 1: to watch. There's so many moments like that, like she 1224 01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,720 Speaker 1: with Sandra Bernhard sheet with all of her like this was, 1225 01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 1: you know, for life to begin an iconic She would 1226 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 1: have people on also like that we're like doing shows 1227 01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,720 Speaker 1: at the Duplex no joke and be like, Okay, this 1228 01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:24,600 Speaker 1: woman is doing like a ethel Merman tribute show at 1229 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,720 Speaker 1: the Duplex tonight, go see And then like on the 1230 01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:31,680 Speaker 1: most that was the biggest show on daytime. Crazy and yeah, 1231 01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 1: sucking Sandra even was she doing like ours Nova Ship 1232 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,760 Speaker 1: at the time. It was like post at Sandra being like, 1233 01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,680 Speaker 1: you know, the big letterman guest and it was like 1234 01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:42,560 Speaker 1: her career like dip down a bit and like, but 1235 01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,040 Speaker 1: it was all those kind of people that were that 1236 01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: she'd have on that. We're the first time I ever 1237 01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:49,680 Speaker 1: experienced any of those people. And also Rosie. What I 1238 01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:55,040 Speaker 1: love about Rosie is she loved the stuff. She loved, 1239 01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:57,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, No one loves anything more 1240 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:01,520 Speaker 1: than she. Unapologetic she when she when she discovered Harry Potter. 1241 01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:07,160 Speaker 1: Basically she was fucking in like the survivor Survivor. The 1242 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:10,480 Speaker 1: episode when J. K. Rowling came on Rosie's that was 1243 01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:15,080 Speaker 1: huge and I'll never forget when she started weeping. But 1244 01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 1: even before Barbara, I just want to say that curtain, 1245 01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:25,280 Speaker 1: it's like my own mother. It's the most beautiful thing. 1246 01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:27,640 Speaker 1: All those clips are online. You should watch the whole thing. 1247 01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 1: Why don't they I don't know why they don't just 1248 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,080 Speaker 1: put the whole thing like out that you could buy 1249 01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:33,840 Speaker 1: the same with Oprah, like on iTunes. It's a it 1250 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,520 Speaker 1: should be available to cry in shame. There's a great 1251 01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:39,320 Speaker 1: DVD though, of the Rosie o Donald Show Season one, 1252 01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 1: Rosie Looking Back, and it's they basically all the best 1253 01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:44,720 Speaker 1: clips of season one, and it's like Rosie and like 1254 01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:49,200 Speaker 1: sweats and like barefoot, sitting in like an armchair, cross legs, 1255 01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:52,760 Speaker 1: um like watching the clips and like giving you like 1256 01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:57,200 Speaker 1: backstage behind the scenes kind of like uh, descriptions of 1257 01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,560 Speaker 1: what happened in stories, and she's taking it really seriously 1258 01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 1: and she's really or an estant. It's great. It's so crazy. 1259 01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,920 Speaker 1: I think the I think it's actually pretty similar to 1260 01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,920 Speaker 1: Hillary honestly, the way the public feels about Rosie I 1261 01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:12,680 Speaker 1: because she's been so tainted by the I mean, my mother, 1262 01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,560 Speaker 1: my own mother even said, like before before we all 1263 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 1: kind of woke up like that six or seven years ago, 1264 01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:21,360 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. My mom said, like, I love Rosie, 1265 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,080 Speaker 1: but I don't know. She seems really opinionated lately, and 1266 01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: it's the thing that seeps into the public consciousness that 1267 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:29,360 Speaker 1: women aren't supposed to to speak out, aren't supposed to 1268 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:31,520 Speaker 1: have strong opinions, and when she had a strong, like 1269 01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,160 Speaker 1: liberal opinion, it turned people off, especially someone who was 1270 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 1: beloved by mainstream media. And not only that, but like 1271 01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 1: I think news organizations and like uh you know, like networks, 1272 01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:47,760 Speaker 1: they get angry at you when you are divisive or opinionated, 1273 01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:51,320 Speaker 1: because your don't appeal to everyone in their reading ratings 1274 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,360 Speaker 1: get bad. And so she was totally thrown under the 1275 01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:56,360 Speaker 1: bush and she and she turned down like an insane 1276 01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:58,160 Speaker 1: amount of money, and I think it really pissed because 1277 01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:00,280 Speaker 1: they wanted her to keep doing that show. She really 1278 01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:02,720 Speaker 1: did like four or five seasons, and then they offered her, 1279 01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:04,760 Speaker 1: I think, like a hundred million dollars to do two 1280 01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:07,040 Speaker 1: more seasons, and she was like, I don't need, like, 1281 01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:08,760 Speaker 1: I already have so much money. I've just made so 1282 01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,640 Speaker 1: much money. I'm not doing it. And I think like 1283 01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:13,600 Speaker 1: within that world of like the corporate old men who 1284 01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:17,160 Speaker 1: run everything like they were really, I think that like 1285 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,560 Speaker 1: was such a slap in the face to everything that 1286 01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 1: they think matters. Uh. She Yeah, She's fascinating. If you've 1287 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:26,360 Speaker 1: never read either of her books Find Me or Celebrity 1288 01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 1: d Talks. Find Me is this amazing book that was 1289 01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:33,160 Speaker 1: during the Rosio Donald Show where this woman basically contacted 1290 01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: her adoption nonprofit a like company h and I was 1291 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,560 Speaker 1: saying she was a pregnant teen and needed help and 1292 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,320 Speaker 1: Dad dada, and then basically Rosie got very involved in 1293 01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:47,080 Speaker 1: trying to help this kid and it realizes this isn't 1294 01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:48,960 Speaker 1: a spoiler. This is with the books about that the 1295 01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:53,040 Speaker 1: person has is multiple personalities and its contacting her as 1296 01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,400 Speaker 1: like five She's like five different people she's talking to. 1297 01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 1: Are this the same person? Yeah? And like she got 1298 01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:01,880 Speaker 1: so involved she like this person to New York. I'm 1299 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:04,800 Speaker 1: assuming they're probably still in touch. It's a beautiful story. 1300 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:07,520 Speaker 1: And then the Celebrity Detox book is about when she 1301 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:12,200 Speaker 1: left The View and it's about like deciding to there's 1302 01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:15,600 Speaker 1: no I mean the fight between Rosie and Elizabeth on 1303 01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:22,640 Speaker 1: the View. That's a moment forever and you can see Rosie, Yes, 1304 01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:26,040 Speaker 1: that's foot screen and you it's just this moment of 1305 01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 1: like it's real path those it's it's and and Elizabeth. 1306 01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:33,280 Speaker 1: You can see the moment Elizabeth deciding to be who 1307 01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: yes and and they? She had even said Rosie said, like, 1308 01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:40,240 Speaker 1: you know, I took Elizabeth to her first Broadway show. 1309 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:43,880 Speaker 1: I really tried with her. And in that moment, Elizabeth 1310 01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,439 Speaker 1: really threw her under the bus. And when Rosie said 1311 01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,400 Speaker 1: she was cowardly, like that came from her soul, Like 1312 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 1: and that's you only get that on our show. Like 1313 01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 1: that view the views, but is it it's the best, 1314 01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:58,920 Speaker 1: but it's not great anymore. Well, I actually think it's 1315 01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:03,920 Speaker 1: having a little bit of anis. However, I think the 1316 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,040 Speaker 1: fact that things are going so well right now at 1317 01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:10,120 Speaker 1: the show is not necessarily what we need from the show. 1318 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,880 Speaker 1: We need conflict and we need someone. I think they 1319 01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,200 Speaker 1: thought so that Megan McCain was going to shake it 1320 01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,880 Speaker 1: up more than than she has. But the fact of 1321 01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:22,639 Speaker 1: the matter is Megan McCain, while she's conservative, she's also 1322 01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:30,000 Speaker 1: reasonable and she's a friend to many liberals. They am No, 1323 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,160 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I'm saying that something. And Abby 1324 01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 1: Huntsman actually is pretty moderate. I actually don't. I mean, 1325 01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:38,880 Speaker 1: I hate Tommy Lauren and I you know, it's such 1326 01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:42,120 Speaker 1: a conflict conflicted thing to think like it should you 1327 01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:45,120 Speaker 1: give her that platform? But there is something about like 1328 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,240 Speaker 1: getting to see Whoopie Goldberg explain how the funk the 1329 01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:51,240 Speaker 1: world actually works on a daily basis, And I think 1330 01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:54,320 Speaker 1: what happens is I think they the conservative on the show, 1331 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:56,639 Speaker 1: and this is just kind of true. They've always been. 1332 01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:00,960 Speaker 1: They've always been kind of an idiot like Hastleback. She 1333 01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:04,240 Speaker 1: always needed her fucking copious pieces of papers printed out 1334 01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:09,080 Speaker 1: of Megan McCain is just very smart and like educated 1335 01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:11,160 Speaker 1: about the kind of things that she is educated about. 1336 01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:12,880 Speaker 1: I think some of her opinions are a little fun, 1337 01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:15,599 Speaker 1: but she's also an idiot about the things that she's 1338 01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:19,479 Speaker 1: not I would agree with like Michelle, a friend of 1339 01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:21,519 Speaker 1: the show, Michelle Collins will tell you that, yes that 1340 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:27,080 Speaker 1: Michelle Collins, one of the truest icons of arist icons, 1341 01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 1: was robbed and also this was robbed. This campaign of 1342 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:33,920 Speaker 1: her taking Megan Kelly's slot is well, there's no bigger 1343 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:36,880 Speaker 1: idiot than Megan Kelly, because the thing about Megan Kelly 1344 01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:39,000 Speaker 1: is she's not even smart enough to be aware of 1345 01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:42,360 Speaker 1: that she is a racist. So it's like, you are 1346 01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:44,800 Speaker 1: a racist. You know what, Queen, you are a RACI 1347 01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:49,599 Speaker 1: you happened. She is very good history of all. She's 1348 01:09:49,640 --> 01:09:55,680 Speaker 1: a very good Fox News interrogative prosecutorial reporter. She was 1349 01:09:56,080 --> 01:10:00,400 Speaker 1: very good at remaining com while stirring the hot on 1350 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:02,720 Speaker 1: her guests and getting them upset and being like, well, 1351 01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,880 Speaker 1: you look ridiculous by She's very good at Fox News 1352 01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:09,720 Speaker 1: type journalism. But she is the opposite of warm. The 1353 01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,800 Speaker 1: idea that she was ever going to succeed on as 1354 01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:17,160 Speaker 1: in a morning show capacity is ridiculous. And didn't they 1355 01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:20,240 Speaker 1: Did they shorten Kathy Leonhoda for her? Or was that 1356 01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:23,960 Speaker 1: a different slot? Um, it was a different slot. They 1357 01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:26,320 Speaker 1: just but I can't believe that the Today's Show would 1358 01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:29,080 Speaker 1: be so dumb as to give an entire hour to her. 1359 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:32,240 Speaker 1: I think NBC News is someone needs to be fired 1360 01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:36,519 Speaker 1: over that. But she's officially out right, it's officially canceled, 1361 01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:40,360 Speaker 1: and she will have a different She's being brought out 1362 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:45,000 Speaker 1: all unconfirmed. Well we should say this is gonna come 1363 01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:47,799 Speaker 1: out later. As of this moment in time, it's unconfirmed 1364 01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:50,839 Speaker 1: what's going to happen to her. The latest um report 1365 01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:53,280 Speaker 1: from NBC News is that she's still currently an employee 1366 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:55,960 Speaker 1: of NBC News, But there are obviously lots of leaks 1367 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,040 Speaker 1: and discussions about how she's being brought out of this 1368 01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:02,519 Speaker 1: seventy million dollar Her deal is so fu it was huge, 1369 01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:05,120 Speaker 1: and I'm like, what Rosie Rosy turned out a hundred? 1370 01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:08,120 Speaker 1: Rosy turned down a hundred, y'all. It's just like, I 1371 01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,800 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know, guys. I stopped trusting Megan 1372 01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:14,360 Speaker 1: Kelly when she said Jesus was white and Santa was 1373 01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:18,080 Speaker 1: white it's like, what did you think you were getting? 1374 01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:21,400 Speaker 1: The delivery of the Santa one especially, it's just so funny. 1375 01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:26,120 Speaker 1: She's so like but kids Santa just is It's like 1376 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:34,080 Speaker 1: what kids are watching your show? What kids are kids? 1377 01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,280 Speaker 1: It's just so Megan. Megan is the entire Rosie truly, 1378 01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:40,000 Speaker 1: more than more so than Elizabeth. Yeah. I mean, it's 1379 01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 1: just such a shame we don't have, like I want 1380 01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:46,240 Speaker 1: a Rosie like MSNBC Late, like a nighttime show right now. 1381 01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:48,120 Speaker 1: There was I think I read somewhere that there had 1382 01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,160 Speaker 1: been talk of that at one point, but like, well, 1383 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,840 Speaker 1: her health isn't good. Well, I think she's because she 1384 01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:54,640 Speaker 1: had that heart attack. She I think, is like I 1385 01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:58,120 Speaker 1: can't bring myself to get so stressed out. That's why 1386 01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:01,240 Speaker 1: she left. She sent to you and she did one 1387 01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:03,640 Speaker 1: year and she was like I actually have realized that 1388 01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:06,360 Speaker 1: this is a stressful show for her, and it wasn't 1389 01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 1: a full year. I think she left. She was she 1390 01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:10,840 Speaker 1: left by Christmas, and you know what, we can't ask 1391 01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:14,360 Speaker 1: that much of her. But she's engaged. Good, she's getting 1392 01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:19,439 Speaker 1: married again to some like really I think fourth Mary, No, third, 1393 01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:22,879 Speaker 1: you're right. Third, Yes, there was Kelly and then Michelle 1394 01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:31,439 Speaker 1: who Kelly and Michelle where she is her Beyonce, her 1395 01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:34,960 Speaker 1: new wife is like a really gorgeous police officer in Boston. 1396 01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:38,400 Speaker 1: They've all been beautiful a Boston. I also think people 1397 01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:40,840 Speaker 1: get weirded out by Rosie because she's a woman with 1398 01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:46,080 Speaker 1: masculine like like energy, and I think like that that 1399 01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:49,080 Speaker 1: I think is what really pisses Donald Trump off about her, 1400 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 1: is that like he sees parts of like she's an 1401 01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:56,759 Speaker 1: unapologizal but he wants that kind of strength and power 1402 01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:01,160 Speaker 1: and he can't have a Rosie has that. I hate 1403 01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:03,760 Speaker 1: that because he's president and has done this thing in 1404 01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 1: America that there's like of this nation that fucking hates her. 1405 01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:10,439 Speaker 1: So what that must be like to be her right 1406 01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:13,160 Speaker 1: now and be like my bully, my biggest bully in 1407 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:17,880 Speaker 1: the world. President is the president. It's something I think 1408 01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:21,760 Speaker 1: he is obviously very offended by powerful women who he's 1409 01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:25,280 Speaker 1: never going to Yes, well, that's the thing is there's yeah, 1410 01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:28,720 Speaker 1: he has no use for her because you know, I 1411 01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:32,200 Speaker 1: I believe that if well this would never happen. But 1412 01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:36,719 Speaker 1: I would be nothing more than if Rosie and Donald Trump, 1413 01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:39,360 Speaker 1: I mean that debate would be I thought you said, 1414 01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:41,040 Speaker 1: thought you want to say that they have had sex, 1415 01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:50,240 Speaker 1: I would not. Whatever happened. I was thinking about the 1416 01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:51,880 Speaker 1: other day, and I was just like, God, what do 1417 01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,200 Speaker 1: we have? And then I was thinking, like, of course, 1418 01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:56,320 Speaker 1: like what the natural thing would be to like want 1419 01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:58,200 Speaker 1: to put a woman up there to like show him 1420 01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:00,679 Speaker 1: what the funk is? Really? What a way that Hillary 1421 01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:03,720 Speaker 1: never could just because there was so much public decisions 1422 01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:06,720 Speaker 1: already being made about Hillary and she could never get 1423 01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 1: out from under that. But I was also like, you know, 1424 01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:11,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. Part of me feels like we do 1425 01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:13,920 Speaker 1: need to put someone on his level up there. And 1426 01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:18,280 Speaker 1: that's why I was entertained by the Oprah thing, is 1427 01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:22,320 Speaker 1: that's officially not happening, right, we don't know. She has 1428 01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:24,600 Speaker 1: said no, and you have to believe when she says no. 1429 01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,960 Speaker 1: I do believe Oprah means no. She's starting the book 1430 01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:30,200 Speaker 1: club again. That's all I'm gonna say. Really, Yeah, she 1431 01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:32,080 Speaker 1: said she was she I think she's she alluded to that. 1432 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,000 Speaker 1: She was like, Oh, if Reese Witherspoon's doing it, I 1433 01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:38,479 Speaker 1: better started. And I love that John is taking race 1434 01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,880 Speaker 1: to task on this voting stuff that Rees has not 1435 01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:43,880 Speaker 1: has only done like a bass to get out the 1436 01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 1: vote thing and not has not fully um done the 1437 01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:49,599 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift thing, and like John Early, I just been 1438 01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:53,120 Speaker 1: been being like, hey, can you actually like speak out 1439 01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,519 Speaker 1: against Marsha Blackburn and can you actually endorse the Democratic 1440 01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:58,879 Speaker 1: Cannona and Tennessee instead of just doing like fucking milktoast 1441 01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:01,200 Speaker 1: get out the vote chick. Oh, I haven't seen that again, 1442 01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,719 Speaker 1: no Twitter, But I'm i'm I'm, I'm, I'm a stranger 1443 01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 1: to all of your opinions. But there you go. I mean, 1444 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:10,080 Speaker 1: I think, um, what if you came on the show 1445 01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:13,080 Speaker 1: and it was like a conservative podcast. Honestly, I would 1446 01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:16,080 Speaker 1: be very excited. It would it would be real. It 1447 01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:17,880 Speaker 1: would just be really interesting. It would just be so 1448 01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:22,000 Speaker 1: it would make you guys like even more interesting, Like 1449 01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:24,720 Speaker 1: it would just be like, I need to be what 1450 01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:28,240 Speaker 1: are these guys all about? What are you guys after God? 1451 01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:30,960 Speaker 1: Somewhere out there like that we don't know about. There's 1452 01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:33,680 Speaker 1: a gay or there's a gay version of also us, 1453 01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:35,599 Speaker 1: but their conservatives. I would love to watch. I would 1454 01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:38,640 Speaker 1: watch a scripted show about you guys playing like a 1455 01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:42,760 Speaker 1: conservative like podcast. Write it someone someone right for us. 1456 01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:45,240 Speaker 1: We're not somebody out there. I'm not writing anything on 1457 01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:48,400 Speaker 1: spec I've established that. And as we said, and look 1458 01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:50,040 Speaker 1: and and if and if you hired Jeffrey to a 1459 01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:53,200 Speaker 1: ghost write something for you, then you'll then you'll dat 1460 01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:56,840 Speaker 1: and break up. I'm so sorry. Oh my god, that 1461 01:15:57,080 --> 01:16:00,080 Speaker 1: isn't that just great? I mean, it is like a 1462 01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:03,519 Speaker 1: great it's a great like story. It's such a good story. 1463 01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:06,799 Speaker 1: I can't believe that it's It's just it's the perfect 1464 01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:11,120 Speaker 1: kind of narrator. And especially after I was so horrifying 1465 01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:14,360 Speaker 1: and humiliating to my ex boyfriend when we when we 1466 01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:18,200 Speaker 1: broke up, like when I was like, it's the it's 1467 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 1: just the perfect payback. It's just you think you think. 1468 01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:24,720 Speaker 1: I think there's there was definitely some karma to it, 1469 01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:27,560 Speaker 1: for sure, but because I mean, like when I was 1470 01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:30,880 Speaker 1: broke up with my first ex boyfriend, I was so 1471 01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:36,400 Speaker 1: like on hinge on the internet to him and to 1472 01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:39,400 Speaker 1: his guy he started dating right after me. I was 1473 01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:42,120 Speaker 1: so horrible. I think I still can't view his Instagram. 1474 01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:44,640 Speaker 1: I think he somehow blocked like my I P from 1475 01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:47,720 Speaker 1: my phone. I can't. I can't like to look. That's 1476 01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:49,719 Speaker 1: Chris Salvatore. Do you know who he is? I don't 1477 01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:52,320 Speaker 1: want to see the thing is, well, when do you 1478 01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:54,280 Speaker 1: were sort of narrating all this. I did not care 1479 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,280 Speaker 1: for him, Yeah, no, no, no, no. This this was 1480 01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:59,639 Speaker 1: like a time where basically it was like my first 1481 01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,200 Speaker 1: boyfrien and it was like the the ex boyfriend who 1482 01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,160 Speaker 1: it was like the first time, like a hot like 1483 01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:07,720 Speaker 1: guy who looked like from like a shun Cody video 1484 01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:10,280 Speaker 1: ever paid attention to me, and I was like so 1485 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:15,920 Speaker 1: excited by that that like, you know, Dawson from the 1486 01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:21,720 Speaker 1: old Shandy video, remember him, Corban Fisher, Dawson Dawson and 1487 01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:25,640 Speaker 1: Lucas I don't know, one of the greatest. Remember they 1488 01:17:25,640 --> 01:17:27,840 Speaker 1: didn't they did a whole fucking Czechoslovakia trip. They did, 1489 01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:29,760 Speaker 1: they did a whole Europe trip, and they did it 1490 01:17:29,800 --> 01:17:31,800 Speaker 1: sucked in different hoods, yes, And it felt like one 1491 01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:33,680 Speaker 1: of them had decided to date me, and so I 1492 01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:35,680 Speaker 1: had a very meldoc. And then when we broke up, 1493 01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:37,880 Speaker 1: he dated someone that who was also you know again 1494 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,960 Speaker 1: like a very hot like Corbin fishery looking person, and 1495 01:17:41,040 --> 01:17:43,080 Speaker 1: then I just couldn't handle it because all my greatest 1496 01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:46,639 Speaker 1: fears were personified. And so then year old lost his mind. 1497 01:17:46,680 --> 01:17:50,679 Speaker 1: So I think the karma of that lost his mind 1498 01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:54,000 Speaker 1: that's the title of But I think the karma of 1499 01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:57,800 Speaker 1: that led to me me having a chapter written about 1500 01:17:57,880 --> 01:17:59,439 Speaker 1: me in Joel's book. There you Go. I mean you 1501 01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:02,400 Speaker 1: survived all of it. I've survived, and isn't it's so 1502 01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:04,880 Speaker 1: funny that, like you were again fully mired in the 1503 01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:09,599 Speaker 1: socialist performative. Yes on displayformative, social media. Yeah, and now 1504 01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,080 Speaker 1: it's like we are sort of in this weird post 1505 01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,559 Speaker 1: state that I never thought we would get to. Ever. Yeah, 1506 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:16,599 Speaker 1: this is here to stay were this is how we're 1507 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:18,599 Speaker 1: gonna be. Doesn't feel like it is here to stay, 1508 01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:20,519 Speaker 1: does it. It feels like it's sort of starting to 1509 01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:22,479 Speaker 1: break down a little. I mean, there's an element to 1510 01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 1: it that will always be here, but like that like 1511 01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 1: really performative like two thousand seven, Yeah, this is just 1512 01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:34,120 Speaker 1: like this would have been two thousand twelve. Yeah, but 1513 01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:35,840 Speaker 1: that it wasn't the peak of yet. Yeah, like that. 1514 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:37,640 Speaker 1: I feel like that kind of thing is kind of 1515 01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:42,400 Speaker 1: dying down. I love it. Just I welcome that me too. Yes, 1516 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,400 Speaker 1: I have to be honest with you. Since we've been 1517 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:47,920 Speaker 1: talking about porn, I've been thinking about my porner that 1518 01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:51,080 Speaker 1: I've been watching lately, which is do you guys know Carter, 1519 01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:54,639 Speaker 1: Dane and Alex Meekum, yes, yea. The video, the first 1520 01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:57,200 Speaker 1: video of them, um like they're they're they're dating and 1521 01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:59,000 Speaker 1: really there and they're in love and real life and 1522 01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 1: the love that important. The video, the video that they 1523 01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:05,639 Speaker 1: did together, you can literally see them fall in love 1524 01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:08,360 Speaker 1: and I actually kind of love it. It's like it's 1525 01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:10,280 Speaker 1: like Rosie and Elizabeth. And then you see the moment 1526 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,519 Speaker 1: where they decide what they're going to be. Who is 1527 01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:14,519 Speaker 1: your number? Who are your porn staries right now? Who care? 1528 01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:16,679 Speaker 1: Dane is I think the hottest person in the world, 1529 01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:21,080 Speaker 1: although I do think a big Ricky roman is. I 1530 01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:24,280 Speaker 1: like Ricky Roman. I'm a big Levi Carter fan. Levi 1531 01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:27,880 Speaker 1: Carter is a little small for me. I like that. Um, 1532 01:19:28,120 --> 01:19:32,400 Speaker 1: I like uh, I like this dude. Um Robert Axel 1533 01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:33,840 Speaker 1: but he's sort of fallen off. But he would do 1534 01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:36,080 Speaker 1: a lot of massage porn stuff that was like a 1535 01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:40,799 Speaker 1: fun little like my only little sort of vertically kinky niche. 1536 01:19:41,320 --> 01:19:44,760 Speaker 1: But then a massages just massage. It's like, oh cool, 1537 01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:47,560 Speaker 1: this is kind're not not kicking it all right, like 1538 01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:53,280 Speaker 1: totally erotic massage that you've never done it. Well, one 1539 01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:54,960 Speaker 1: time it was going in that direction, and I think 1540 01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,760 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. I didn't say no, 1541 01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:00,800 Speaker 1: but like I think I treat yourself guys. I think 1542 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,040 Speaker 1: had I looked over and made I contact once, I 1543 01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:05,840 Speaker 1: think it would have someone hire someone. It's so sex 1544 01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,720 Speaker 1: positive screen sewer fighter dot com. It's my favorite. We 1545 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:12,040 Speaker 1: went to the strip club. Like I ended up giving 1546 01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:14,640 Speaker 1: a hundred and forty dollars to these strippers and one 1547 01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:16,880 Speaker 1: of them, I like, really went too far with strip 1548 01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 1: in New York. Joe and I have compared notes afterwards, 1549 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,519 Speaker 1: and we both were bad boys. You were both very bad. 1550 01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:27,519 Speaker 1: They both got swindled from these from these I couldn't 1551 01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:30,080 Speaker 1: believe how much money I didn't have that I gave them. Yeah, 1552 01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:35,439 Speaker 1: but I'm I'm a big Darius Ferdinand guy. And he 1553 01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:40,120 Speaker 1: has he had boyfriends with is he boyfriends with Ricky Roman? Wow? 1554 01:20:40,320 --> 01:20:42,920 Speaker 1: That one of the hottest things ever. Also, to be honest, 1555 01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,200 Speaker 1: I got I gotta say, what's his name? Who takes 1556 01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:49,560 Speaker 1: pictures at the gay events that we go hands. I 1557 01:20:49,800 --> 01:20:51,519 Speaker 1: one time I thought I was going to get talk 1558 01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:55,439 Speaker 1: up with Tight Hanson because I he deemed me on Twitter, 1559 01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:00,200 Speaker 1: and I actually because what happened was a friend of 1560 01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:01,720 Speaker 1: mine w had hooked up with him, and I was like, oh, 1561 01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:03,559 Speaker 1: it's not that hard to hook up with Tate handsome, 1562 01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:06,400 Speaker 1: and so I started following him on Twitter and you know, 1563 01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:08,120 Speaker 1: did the thing where I like faved a bunch of ships. 1564 01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:12,200 Speaker 1: He slid into the d m um and we made 1565 01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:14,360 Speaker 1: plans to have I was here shooting I think difficult 1566 01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:17,280 Speaker 1: people and he made we made plans to like hook 1567 01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:19,080 Speaker 1: up that or meet up that night for a drink, 1568 01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:21,240 Speaker 1: and we were like texting back and forth, and I 1569 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:23,040 Speaker 1: was going to meet him at Barracuda because he was 1570 01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:27,320 Speaker 1: judging some sort of like sinking content. And we finally 1571 01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:30,519 Speaker 1: meet up when and we're texting and he's like, okay, 1572 01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:32,400 Speaker 1: I forget what he said. But I was like, okay, 1573 01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:36,320 Speaker 1: shut up, bitch something in text, and he wrote back 1574 01:21:36,400 --> 01:21:38,720 Speaker 1: this long thing that was like, please don't refer to 1575 01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:40,639 Speaker 1: me as a bitch. That is really hurtful. I won't 1576 01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:44,200 Speaker 1: take I won't take verbal abuse. But then we still 1577 01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,559 Speaker 1: we Like then I still went to Barracuda to meet him, 1578 01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:50,080 Speaker 1: and then he like sat in front of the stage 1579 01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 1: to judge the lip sinking or drag or whatever it was, 1580 01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:56,880 Speaker 1: and I like sat behind him. It was so strange, 1581 01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,280 Speaker 1: and he didn't speak to me the whole time. I 1582 01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:02,240 Speaker 1: was so it was right. That sounds like he was 1583 01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,320 Speaker 1: either going through a tough moment or it is fully crazy. 1584 01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:07,240 Speaker 1: I think I was going through a tough moment. It 1585 01:22:07,400 --> 01:22:09,640 Speaker 1: was dark. It was dark. Wait, what's the name of 1586 01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:11,680 Speaker 1: the guy who has like a huge ass and a 1587 01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:16,120 Speaker 1: huge dick? Every single person I would know him. You 1588 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:18,719 Speaker 1: wouldn't know him. You wouldn't know him anyway. I feel 1589 01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:21,040 Speaker 1: like his name is like Hector or something. Okay, okay, 1590 01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:23,559 Speaker 1: anyway we we He like hit me up on grinder 1591 01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:24,960 Speaker 1: one time. He was like, come to my hotel him 1592 01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:27,120 Speaker 1: and I've literally I chickened out just because I knew 1593 01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:30,880 Speaker 1: the sexual experience would be harrowing. Harrowing. You didn't do it? Yeah, 1594 01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:33,040 Speaker 1: I got it. I love talking about art with you, guys. 1595 01:22:33,320 --> 01:22:35,639 Speaker 1: I love talking about art with speaking of art, let's 1596 01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:40,040 Speaker 1: move on to I don't think so. This is our Wow, 1597 01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:42,559 Speaker 1: it's our classic segment that we have on the podcast. 1598 01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:45,240 Speaker 1: It's really I mean it's a classic. Are you going 1599 01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:48,400 Speaker 1: to be in l A and in early December? Uh? Yeah, 1600 01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:50,200 Speaker 1: I'm in l A for two weeks in December and 1601 01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:52,479 Speaker 1: then I go to the UK if it's well, I 1602 01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:54,040 Speaker 1: really want you. Joel and I are going to be 1603 01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:55,479 Speaker 1: doing I Don't Think So Honey Live out there, and 1604 01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:57,200 Speaker 1: I want you to be on it where you working. 1605 01:22:57,240 --> 01:22:59,720 Speaker 1: He's working, so Joel Kim Booster is gonna host me. 1606 01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:01,240 Speaker 1: I guess this is a good time to tell you guys, 1607 01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:03,840 Speaker 1: get your tickets to I Don't Think So Honey Live 1608 01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,400 Speaker 1: at the Bettlehouse on November as well as I Don't 1609 01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:08,880 Speaker 1: Think So Honey Live on December fifth of the region 1610 01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:11,240 Speaker 1: and downtown Los Angeles. And we're also going to be 1611 01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:16,519 Speaker 1: doing Um Queers Live at Joe's Pub November. You'll be 1612 01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:19,680 Speaker 1: here at Joe's Pub Monday night. We're gonna be recreating 1613 01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:21,639 Speaker 1: a diva's live, but it's not gonna be like we're 1614 01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:23,519 Speaker 1: gonna do their songs. We're gonna do our own songs. 1615 01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:25,920 Speaker 1: That has me bone Yang Joel can no, Joel's not 1616 01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:33,080 Speaker 1: doing it, Josh, Aaron Cole, Larry Peter, a Line, We're 1617 01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:35,080 Speaker 1: gonna be having a fun time and more to be 1618 01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:38,679 Speaker 1: announced and presenters as well, presenters as well, non musical 1619 01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:42,519 Speaker 1: presenter just like Jennifer and just presented presenting you guys 1620 01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:45,280 Speaker 1: like you come out into a little bit present us. 1621 01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:48,760 Speaker 1: I like, it's so self indulgent, and it will be 1622 01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:51,360 Speaker 1: to a charity that we have yet to be decided 1623 01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:54,080 Speaker 1: that we have yet is the epitome of self indulgent. 1624 01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:59,120 Speaker 1: It's truly a question. Feature on Instagram. I like, but um, so, 1625 01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:00,600 Speaker 1: I guess it's time for I think so mony, I 1626 01:24:00,680 --> 01:24:03,160 Speaker 1: do have one. This is Matt Rodgers. I don't think 1627 01:24:03,200 --> 01:24:05,320 Speaker 1: so many's time starts now. I don't think so honey. 1628 01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:08,920 Speaker 1: This Bohemian Rhapsody movie, I have not seen it. I 1629 01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:10,960 Speaker 1: have seen some of the reviews. Apparently it's terrible. I 1630 01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:13,320 Speaker 1: could have told you that from the fucking god awful trailer. 1631 01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:17,120 Speaker 1: I do not think so honey. This Brian Singer garbage 1632 01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:19,680 Speaker 1: bullshit because I'm sorry, but why did we give him 1633 01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:23,000 Speaker 1: this movie? Why if you? And also I don't think 1634 01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:25,439 Speaker 1: so honey, all these awards people being like it could 1635 01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:27,280 Speaker 1: give you know I'm in for an Oscar. No it's not. 1636 01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:31,200 Speaker 1: Here's a reason directed by Brian Singer. No thank you. Also, 1637 01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't think so honey. Again, not that this really 1638 01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:36,040 Speaker 1: matters at this point, because it's just gonna keep happening. 1639 01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:39,840 Speaker 1: But Robby Malick is playing Freddie Mercury, a famously queer person, 1640 01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:42,400 Speaker 1: like we couldn't find any queer actor to do this. 1641 01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:44,640 Speaker 1: Not that I super really care about this, because I 1642 01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:47,800 Speaker 1: do always think an actor acts, but the thing is, like, guys, 1643 01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:51,400 Speaker 1: it's Freddie Mercury. Fu. I have to also say, I 1644 01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:52,960 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. The c g I and the 1645 01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:55,960 Speaker 1: trailer that pans out to the crowd, which it sounds 1646 01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,240 Speaker 1: like it looks like a million people just copy and pasted, 1647 01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 1: like if you're gonna have a crowd shot, get a 1648 01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:02,599 Speaker 1: crowd or just cut the crowd shot. I don't think so, honey. 1649 01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:04,920 Speaker 1: This movie it looks bad. It probably is bad. I'm 1650 01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:08,679 Speaker 1: not going to see able him around, Yeah, I agree, 1651 01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm not not no thank you, I'm just a note 1652 01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:13,640 Speaker 1: thank you all around. Because it's like and also I 1653 01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:15,519 Speaker 1: didn't even mention this, and this is actually was my 1654 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:19,760 Speaker 1: biggest problem with it. But the trailer tries to insinuate 1655 01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:22,439 Speaker 1: that there's going to be like a heterosexual romance in 1656 01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:26,800 Speaker 1: the movie, which is like really inappropriate. It also like 1657 01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:29,400 Speaker 1: I felt like that they have him wearing like fake 1658 01:25:29,479 --> 01:25:33,439 Speaker 1: bad teeth. Yeah, and it's they're almost comically it's such 1659 01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:37,720 Speaker 1: a strange detail to like really like dry even worse 1660 01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:41,920 Speaker 1: than nose in the hours. Yeah, it's it's weird because 1661 01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:44,640 Speaker 1: it's like we didn't know what Virginia Wolfs nose looked like, 1662 01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:47,200 Speaker 1: so we don't need this. And also, like, if you're 1663 01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:51,080 Speaker 1: gonna fucking highlight something about Freddie Mercury, maybe the fact 1664 01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:53,479 Speaker 1: that he was queer, I don't know, maybe not his teeth. 1665 01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:55,759 Speaker 1: Maybe the fact that he was queer makes him more dynamic. 1666 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,280 Speaker 1: Did you see the little clip of him in an 1667 01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:00,400 Speaker 1: area where someone I think it was someone him into 1668 01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:06,320 Speaker 1: um the the the grungeery magazine, um Uh asked him 1669 01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:09,960 Speaker 1: would you call a simple question like not even would 1670 01:26:10,000 --> 01:26:13,680 Speaker 1: you Ray or Roy? Would you call Freddie Mercury a 1671 01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:16,240 Speaker 1: gay icon? Would you consider him to be a gay icony, 1672 01:26:16,439 --> 01:26:19,599 Speaker 1: a gay figure? And then Ramy just tried to dance 1673 01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:22,599 Speaker 1: around it and said, you know, I wouldn't qualify him 1674 01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:26,639 Speaker 1: as anything, and I'm sorry, but you're playing Freddie Mercury. 1675 01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:30,200 Speaker 1: That means you've stepped into the gay space regardless of 1676 01:26:30,880 --> 01:26:34,040 Speaker 1: what you think totally, And it's yeah, it's like, what 1677 01:26:34,360 --> 01:26:36,920 Speaker 1: I mean, are you doing some risk assessment here with 1678 01:26:37,240 --> 01:26:39,439 Speaker 1: saying like, oh, I can't say, calling a gay icon. 1679 01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:44,160 Speaker 1: Otherwise people think I'm gay? Who is? And we joke 1680 01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:46,439 Speaker 1: about that a lot on the show, But that's eraser. 1681 01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:49,600 Speaker 1: That really is a raiser. And you can't deny what 1682 01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:52,600 Speaker 1: brought Freddie Mercury into this world his talent like and 1683 01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:54,640 Speaker 1: and also what took him out of this world? And 1684 01:26:54,720 --> 01:26:56,960 Speaker 1: it's bow yanks. I don't think so any time. Um 1685 01:26:57,640 --> 01:27:00,559 Speaker 1: wait a minute, and as time starts, now think so, honey, 1686 01:27:00,640 --> 01:27:03,599 Speaker 1: this banger less era we're in with our pop stars 1687 01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:06,280 Speaker 1: who all just want to deliver you a vibe and 1688 01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:09,599 Speaker 1: not actual hooks bitch speak. I love the New Robin, 1689 01:27:09,800 --> 01:27:13,920 Speaker 1: It's amazing. But also like this conscious direction that all 1690 01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:16,040 Speaker 1: of all of our pop songstresses are going in where 1691 01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:18,679 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, we're giving you We're giving you a mood, 1692 01:27:18,800 --> 01:27:21,000 Speaker 1: we're giving you a vibe. It's not gonna be anything memorable. 1693 01:27:21,040 --> 01:27:22,519 Speaker 1: You can't really bop to it. We're not going to 1694 01:27:22,600 --> 01:27:26,320 Speaker 1: give you bops is truly crazy, Like it decentralizes this 1695 01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:29,720 Speaker 1: whole thing in music where it's like okay, now, now, now, 1696 01:27:29,880 --> 01:27:31,960 Speaker 1: now we have to rely on these like we have 1697 01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:34,600 Speaker 1: to discover a bop through a kimpetress, like we have 1698 01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:37,479 Speaker 1: to like search for that through other people. Like that 1699 01:27:37,640 --> 01:27:39,840 Speaker 1: is more work on our part and like we don't 1700 01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:41,600 Speaker 1: have I don't have the emotional labor to do that, 1701 01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:43,160 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And also this is not 1702 01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:46,240 Speaker 1: to like dictate theirs in any way, and like their 1703 01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:50,400 Speaker 1: artistic vision is their vision. But I want, like god, 1704 01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:53,799 Speaker 1: I want like a solid like teenage dream type album, 1705 01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:56,400 Speaker 1: like dangerous Woman album where it's like we haven't had 1706 01:27:56,439 --> 01:27:58,600 Speaker 1: that in a long time, and who will deliver us 1707 01:27:58,640 --> 01:28:00,600 Speaker 1: back into that zone and just that space I'm so 1708 01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:02,479 Speaker 1: curious to see. And that's that's one man, and that's 1709 01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:05,280 Speaker 1: one minute. I have to say. It's like, you know, 1710 01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:08,000 Speaker 1: they're all deciding at the same time to do this 1711 01:28:08,160 --> 01:28:13,599 Speaker 1: sort of like banger lists, like sparse, minimalist thing where 1712 01:28:13,680 --> 01:28:15,840 Speaker 1: the funk is the hook. Did you like the Kim 1713 01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:20,000 Speaker 1: Petris Halloween album? We loved it and wen Kim Petris 1714 01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:22,040 Speaker 1: popping so much right now because she's the only ones 1715 01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:27,000 Speaker 1: making efforts to give you hooks. Yes, I'm very I'm 1716 01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:30,120 Speaker 1: I did. I had not. I was not aware of 1717 01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:33,960 Speaker 1: Kim Petri's until everybody was posting that album, but then 1718 01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:35,880 Speaker 1: when I heard she did a duet with Elvira. I 1719 01:28:36,040 --> 01:28:38,920 Speaker 1: was very sold and I was I'm very into that album. 1720 01:28:39,080 --> 01:28:42,639 Speaker 1: I got my sister and her friends into Kim Petri's. 1721 01:28:42,680 --> 01:28:44,519 Speaker 1: I was I just like, did this experiment, Like it 1722 01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:46,200 Speaker 1: was like two months ago, was like the late summer, 1723 01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:48,920 Speaker 1: and like I was put them and I was. We 1724 01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:50,360 Speaker 1: were driving out too. We were going to go to 1725 01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:52,960 Speaker 1: the Montop Lighthouse and I was like, you know, the 1726 01:28:53,040 --> 01:28:54,920 Speaker 1: fire own lighthouse. And we were driving and I was like, 1727 01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,000 Speaker 1: a lot of life has something, such a real culture 1728 01:28:58,080 --> 01:29:01,320 Speaker 1: number forty, A lot of life has on island, and um, 1729 01:29:01,560 --> 01:29:02,960 Speaker 1: we were driving out there and I was like, let 1730 01:29:03,040 --> 01:29:06,200 Speaker 1: me just slide on Heart to Break and I put 1731 01:29:06,280 --> 01:29:08,240 Speaker 1: it on and they kind of like eight out of 1732 01:29:08,280 --> 01:29:10,560 Speaker 1: ten responded. Then I put on I don't want it 1733 01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:14,720 Speaker 1: at all. They were like, what is this? And now 1734 01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:19,200 Speaker 1: they're obsessed with her amazing, But she's the old She's 1735 01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:22,080 Speaker 1: she's in a very um sparse field. And that's why 1736 01:29:22,400 --> 01:29:26,240 Speaker 1: power position position, power position, um god blast um. Okay. 1737 01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:29,000 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Seuth, Jeffrey Sells, I don't think so, honey, and 1738 01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:33,000 Speaker 1: his time starts now, Okay, I don't think so honey. Snakes. 1739 01:29:35,800 --> 01:29:43,120 Speaker 1: I am so against snakes. I hate fucking hate snakes. 1740 01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:46,160 Speaker 1: I think that like if if, like you could like 1741 01:29:46,240 --> 01:29:48,280 Speaker 1: push like a button or do something the chemical in 1742 01:29:48,320 --> 01:29:51,320 Speaker 1: the air that killed all snakes before. I hate people 1743 01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:55,120 Speaker 1: who have pets pet snakes. I guess they're disgusting, they're weirdos. 1744 01:29:55,160 --> 01:29:58,080 Speaker 1: I don't trust to their people. But what really I 1745 01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:01,720 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey, More than any thing else is 1746 01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,080 Speaker 1: those fucking people who stand on the street with a 1747 01:30:05,160 --> 01:30:07,640 Speaker 1: giant snake with like a twinkle in their eye and 1748 01:30:07,720 --> 01:30:10,120 Speaker 1: you can pay them to take pictures with like we're 1749 01:30:10,120 --> 01:30:12,920 Speaker 1: holding the snake. I don't think so the snake doesn't 1750 01:30:12,960 --> 01:30:15,040 Speaker 1: want it. I don't want it the people passing, but 1751 01:30:15,120 --> 01:30:19,200 Speaker 1: I don't want it that you are a selfish creep. 1752 01:30:20,960 --> 01:30:22,920 Speaker 1: I saw this happen in Times Square the other day. 1753 01:30:23,000 --> 01:30:27,280 Speaker 1: It was cold. I thought, I don't think no, thank 1754 01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:32,960 Speaker 1: you snakes, and that that was really good. And you 1755 01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:35,840 Speaker 1: know what, I don't think, so honey, snakes. I fucking 1756 01:30:35,920 --> 01:30:37,920 Speaker 1: hate them. And it's just like, you know, it's like 1757 01:30:38,040 --> 01:30:41,000 Speaker 1: the one animal that I truly think, you know, why 1758 01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:44,080 Speaker 1: are you here? There are no I don't Anybody who's 1759 01:30:44,640 --> 01:30:47,559 Speaker 1: coming to defend a snake is not someone I want 1760 01:30:47,560 --> 01:30:50,479 Speaker 1: to have in my space them. We don't need them. 1761 01:30:50,680 --> 01:30:54,280 Speaker 1: We do not need them. If someone must do something, 1762 01:30:55,800 --> 01:30:58,240 Speaker 1: I'll tell you something if if you you know, snakes 1763 01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:02,479 Speaker 1: means more rodents, If I I honestly fine, okay, but 1764 01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:04,559 Speaker 1: then okay, and then you're you're a fan of snakes 1765 01:31:04,600 --> 01:31:07,000 Speaker 1: on this whole trend now thanks to Taylor is the 1766 01:31:07,040 --> 01:31:10,120 Speaker 1: snakes on jewelry thing. I mean I don't care about that, 1767 01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:12,920 Speaker 1: but like, for example, I was like out of friends 1768 01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:15,240 Speaker 1: the other day and like they like they had a 1769 01:31:15,280 --> 01:31:19,400 Speaker 1: snake casually brought out a snake no, and I was like, 1770 01:31:19,520 --> 01:31:22,080 Speaker 1: this is this isn't okay? And I made him put 1771 01:31:22,080 --> 01:31:25,400 Speaker 1: it away. Are they in the industry, Yeah, that's not acceptable. 1772 01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:27,000 Speaker 1: If you're in the industry and you have a snake 1773 01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:31,719 Speaker 1: and then something you're hiding something. It's just it represents something, 1774 01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:33,160 Speaker 1: you know, the way that you can like when you 1775 01:31:33,200 --> 01:31:35,040 Speaker 1: meet someone who has a pet bird, like you're like, oh, 1776 01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:37,560 Speaker 1: I know everything I need to know about it. No, 1777 01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:40,800 Speaker 1: thank you, But like a pet bird at least is 1778 01:31:40,880 --> 01:31:43,320 Speaker 1: like pretty and everybody's like, oh that's nice. But like 1779 01:31:45,200 --> 01:31:47,519 Speaker 1: wants that zoos need to get rid of their snakes. 1780 01:31:48,320 --> 01:31:50,479 Speaker 1: You never know when you're gonna turn a corner and 1781 01:31:50,520 --> 01:31:52,679 Speaker 1: there's gonna be one. When we were in on acid 1782 01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:54,960 Speaker 1: at the San Diego Zoo, you know, we're looking at 1783 01:31:55,000 --> 01:31:57,639 Speaker 1: the some sort of thing that's swimming in the water 1784 01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:00,280 Speaker 1: and it was a crocodile outgate or some ship. And 1785 01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:02,160 Speaker 1: then you turn and then in this aquarium was this 1786 01:32:02,360 --> 01:32:06,560 Speaker 1: just giant, hideous garbage pile of a snake. And the 1787 01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:10,280 Speaker 1: way they reflect lights and they're just they pointless, They 1788 01:32:10,360 --> 01:32:14,600 Speaker 1: offer absolutely nothing. The way they metabolize the things that 1789 01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:18,040 Speaker 1: they eat is absolutely frightening. And if you ever gotten 1790 01:32:18,080 --> 01:32:20,840 Speaker 1: eaten by a snake, I'm so sorry. You know that 1791 01:32:20,960 --> 01:32:23,599 Speaker 1: thing where like the hot fucking I couldn't stop looking 1792 01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:26,400 Speaker 1: at it. That that article about the guy who like 1793 01:32:26,479 --> 01:32:28,720 Speaker 1: fell asleep on the street in India and like was 1794 01:32:28,800 --> 01:32:31,840 Speaker 1: swallowed whole by like a cobra and like he was 1795 01:32:31,960 --> 01:32:36,240 Speaker 1: killed obviously, just no, So we're so sorry for that. Also, 1796 01:32:36,360 --> 01:32:41,400 Speaker 1: bolt constrictors and literally constrict you until you suffocate and 1797 01:32:41,439 --> 01:32:45,720 Speaker 1: then they break your bones. I don't think disgusting, thank you, 1798 01:32:46,840 --> 01:32:49,760 Speaker 1: So fuck snake. Any animal that has an instinct to 1799 01:32:49,880 --> 01:32:53,120 Speaker 1: kill you painfully, I don't think so. Yeah, But again, 1800 01:32:53,240 --> 01:32:56,040 Speaker 1: like I don't mind an alligator crocodile, I do mind, 1801 01:32:56,120 --> 01:32:57,559 Speaker 1: I mean I don't want to hang out with one, 1802 01:32:57,720 --> 01:33:00,400 Speaker 1: or I would never no, God no, like I had 1803 01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:02,000 Speaker 1: a dinner party of twelve. No, there would not be 1804 01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:07,160 Speaker 1: on that list. But I do not think they I wouldn't. 1805 01:33:07,160 --> 01:33:09,480 Speaker 1: I'm not like, let's get rid of all the crocodiles, alligators, 1806 01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:13,280 Speaker 1: but snakes, I genuinely am let's start a movement, let's 1807 01:33:13,320 --> 01:33:15,000 Speaker 1: get rid of them. Really so they're on the top 1808 01:33:15,040 --> 01:33:16,519 Speaker 1: of your list. And if you could get rid of 1809 01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:18,960 Speaker 1: every shark in the world, you'd be like, No, I don't. 1810 01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:20,960 Speaker 1: I mean you don't. Again, I don't like sharks, but 1811 01:33:21,080 --> 01:33:24,400 Speaker 1: like I like like reading about sharks, and not all 1812 01:33:24,439 --> 01:33:27,559 Speaker 1: sharks are harmful sharks, sharks get a bad rap. They're 1813 01:33:27,560 --> 01:33:30,040 Speaker 1: at least interesting, as I think snakes are probably stupid. 1814 01:33:30,560 --> 01:33:33,400 Speaker 1: You know, sharks are really smart. Snakes there's there's there's 1815 01:33:33,400 --> 01:33:36,320 Speaker 1: really nothing redeemable. Not maybe more rodents. I get your 1816 01:33:36,360 --> 01:33:38,120 Speaker 1: what you're saying, there would be more rodents. But I 1817 01:33:38,160 --> 01:33:40,439 Speaker 1: would rather be like in a bathtub of mice than 1818 01:33:40,560 --> 01:33:42,320 Speaker 1: like have to like look at a snake on because 1819 01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:44,400 Speaker 1: at least mice are also mammals and therefore you can 1820 01:33:44,520 --> 01:33:47,400 Speaker 1: get on their level. Yes, get on their level. That's 1821 01:33:47,520 --> 01:33:51,439 Speaker 1: huge for any animal, you have to get on their level. Culture, 1822 01:33:52,680 --> 01:33:55,439 Speaker 1: for any animal, you have to get on their level. Um, 1823 01:33:56,240 --> 01:33:57,720 Speaker 1: that was a very that was that was That was 1824 01:33:57,760 --> 01:33:59,880 Speaker 1: a c felt like a classic clean I don't think so. 1825 01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:02,360 Speaker 1: It was really good and I've never thought about It's 1826 01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:03,760 Speaker 1: one of those I don't think so honeys where it's 1827 01:34:03,760 --> 01:34:05,479 Speaker 1: like you haven't thought about it, but you're like, oh 1828 01:34:05,560 --> 01:34:08,120 Speaker 1: my god, I've known this all my life. I've known 1829 01:34:08,240 --> 01:34:10,560 Speaker 1: since I was little. I don't think so honey, snakes, No, 1830 01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:14,479 Speaker 1: get them out of here, and we're I think we 1831 01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:16,840 Speaker 1: are entering a time of snake shaming. If you have 1832 01:34:16,960 --> 01:34:21,360 Speaker 1: a snake, who are you be? Evaluate honestly reevaluated because 1833 01:34:21,400 --> 01:34:23,760 Speaker 1: of Taylor, she is making the snakes popular. Well, then 1834 01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:28,200 Speaker 1: this week everybody was like, because Brittany years whatever, they 1835 01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:33,680 Speaker 1: were showing the I don't know what spirit was being 1836 01:34:33,720 --> 01:34:35,519 Speaker 1: talked about this week, and I'm like, I don't know. 1837 01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:40,760 Speaker 1: They're literally bombs going off being said, but she they were. 1838 01:34:40,840 --> 01:34:42,760 Speaker 1: Then they were talking about that that snake and there 1839 01:34:42,800 --> 01:34:45,120 Speaker 1: were pictures of that snake. Again, for some reason, that 1840 01:34:45,200 --> 01:34:47,240 Speaker 1: snake doesn't bother me as much because the color is 1841 01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:49,720 Speaker 1: kind of pretty, but it doesn't look like it's like 1842 01:34:49,880 --> 01:34:52,400 Speaker 1: the color makes it look not like snakes. But no, 1843 01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:55,000 Speaker 1: I still think that snakes should be killed, but I 1844 01:34:55,120 --> 01:34:57,360 Speaker 1: just that one doesn't piss me off as much. But 1845 01:34:57,439 --> 01:34:59,280 Speaker 1: I just I don't want like I hate when I'm 1846 01:34:59,280 --> 01:35:02,040 Speaker 1: scrolling through my feet eat and there's a snake just 1847 01:35:02,160 --> 01:35:04,720 Speaker 1: of any kind? How long does snakes live? Too long? 1848 01:35:05,520 --> 01:35:08,000 Speaker 1: I feel like they probably. I'm wondering if that Britney 1849 01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:10,920 Speaker 1: spears obviously for you snake snake is still alive. You're 1850 01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:12,960 Speaker 1: looking it up. I'm looking at up right now. But 1851 01:35:13,000 --> 01:35:14,240 Speaker 1: then there's gonna be a picture of a snake on 1852 01:35:14,320 --> 01:35:16,599 Speaker 1: your phone and you're gonna have that. Okay. He doesn't 1853 01:35:16,640 --> 01:35:18,360 Speaker 1: feel as bothered by snakes as you do, so I 1854 01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:22,000 Speaker 1: think he'll be okay. How long do they live? Uh, 1855 01:35:22,360 --> 01:35:26,360 Speaker 1: BoA's usually live for twenty five shows fifty years, get 1856 01:35:26,520 --> 01:35:29,000 Speaker 1: a live. Many holly breads have a life spin off 1857 01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:32,040 Speaker 1: between fifteen and twenty five years, and smaller species live 1858 01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:34,639 Speaker 1: for five to ten. So the slave for you era 1859 01:35:34,800 --> 01:35:37,200 Speaker 1: was two thousand, three thousand four, So I guess we 1860 01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:44,639 Speaker 1: can sit two do one? Are we sure? Because ninety 1861 01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:49,559 Speaker 1: nine was was? I want to say, so we can 1862 01:35:49,760 --> 01:35:53,439 Speaker 1: safely assume that the snake maybe alive. It depends on 1863 01:35:53,479 --> 01:35:56,640 Speaker 1: how old it was that a Boa constrictor. I think 1864 01:35:56,680 --> 01:36:00,040 Speaker 1: it wouldn't have been safe python a python, Yeah, that 1865 01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:03,560 Speaker 1: it wouldn't have been safe on her, like go away, no, 1866 01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:06,160 Speaker 1: don't bring that into a building. There was an interview 1867 01:36:06,240 --> 01:36:07,439 Speaker 1: with her and they were like, would you ever do 1868 01:36:07,520 --> 01:36:09,800 Speaker 1: that again? She was like, oh my god, no. Yeah. 1869 01:36:10,120 --> 01:36:11,880 Speaker 1: She was like it was really bad when I did it, 1870 01:36:12,000 --> 01:36:16,080 Speaker 1: and I didn't bad too. There's no no reason. There's 1871 01:36:16,120 --> 01:36:18,000 Speaker 1: no reason we had. I had like a little kid's 1872 01:36:18,040 --> 01:36:20,519 Speaker 1: birthday party, and like they brought out a snake one time, 1873 01:36:20,560 --> 01:36:21,960 Speaker 1: and it was like, why didn't you have a little 1874 01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:24,080 Speaker 1: kid's birthday party? It was like when I was a 1875 01:36:24,120 --> 01:36:25,920 Speaker 1: little kid, Oh, I think that you were hosting a 1876 01:36:25,960 --> 01:36:28,200 Speaker 1: children's birthday party. I was like, come on, kids, I'm 1877 01:36:28,240 --> 01:36:32,720 Speaker 1: having a birthday party for you. Don't admit that on air. Yes, no, 1878 01:36:32,840 --> 01:36:34,519 Speaker 1: But when I was little someone one of my friends 1879 01:36:34,560 --> 01:36:36,479 Speaker 1: had a birthday party and we couldn't get pictures taken 1880 01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:38,439 Speaker 1: with like the big yellow snakes. Was like sitting on 1881 01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:41,800 Speaker 1: our shoulders. That's discussing and I think it's wrong too. 1882 01:36:41,880 --> 01:36:44,240 Speaker 1: For to the snake. I mean, I hate snakes, but 1883 01:36:44,280 --> 01:36:46,880 Speaker 1: I still think they should be forced to do that. Yeah, 1884 01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:49,680 Speaker 1: it's like they should be alive with their dignity or 1885 01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:52,479 Speaker 1: murder with their Just put them all on an island. 1886 01:36:52,840 --> 01:36:55,839 Speaker 1: Like literally, Australia is like a Jurassic Park. Yes, exactly, 1887 01:36:55,920 --> 01:36:58,599 Speaker 1: that's exactly what I was thinking. Oh, Australia is actually 1888 01:36:58,680 --> 01:37:00,680 Speaker 1: perfect for snakes. Well there's still uns of them there, 1889 01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:03,720 Speaker 1: but because there's tons of the kangaroo populations get out 1890 01:37:03,760 --> 01:37:07,200 Speaker 1: of control unfortunately, maybe the snakes can bite the kangaroos 1891 01:37:07,920 --> 01:37:11,559 Speaker 1: rather more kangaroos than more snakes. But apparently kangaroos are 1892 01:37:11,640 --> 01:37:15,160 Speaker 1: like not so nice, their nightmare and they're they're basically 1893 01:37:15,320 --> 01:37:18,360 Speaker 1: Australian people consider them to be like rodents. Yeah, either 1894 01:37:18,520 --> 01:37:20,240 Speaker 1: like the deers when you go to Long when you 1895 01:37:20,280 --> 01:37:22,519 Speaker 1: go to Fire Island and there's like so many fucking deer. 1896 01:37:22,720 --> 01:37:25,840 Speaker 1: But but they like literally they can punch you. They're 1897 01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:28,760 Speaker 1: like really aggressive, whereas a deer it just run away 1898 01:37:28,760 --> 01:37:30,200 Speaker 1: from you. Oh my god. I just remember that a 1899 01:37:30,280 --> 01:37:32,559 Speaker 1: kangaroo is a marsupial and therefore it's not a mammal 1900 01:37:32,640 --> 01:37:36,080 Speaker 1: and you can't get on its level it's so important. 1901 01:37:36,240 --> 01:37:38,639 Speaker 1: I had a kangaroo as a publicist for a couple 1902 01:37:38,680 --> 01:37:42,040 Speaker 1: of years and she just she didn't understand. Just no, 1903 01:37:42,600 --> 01:37:44,720 Speaker 1: she just we could never communicate. She didn't get it. 1904 01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:48,880 Speaker 1: She didn't quote unquote get it. That kangaroo did not 1905 01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:51,880 Speaker 1: get ahead of the chapter in the book. She did not. 1906 01:37:52,120 --> 01:37:55,240 Speaker 1: She did not. Before we spin off into a whole 1907 01:37:55,280 --> 01:37:59,719 Speaker 1: other podcast about marsupials and reptiles and the animal kingdom, 1908 01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:01,720 Speaker 1: we should probably wrap up. We should wrap up a 1909 01:38:02,240 --> 01:38:05,040 Speaker 1: talk talking about these animals. Really, it makes me want 1910 01:38:05,080 --> 01:38:07,639 Speaker 1: to trip on acid someday. With Jeffrey out of zoo, 1911 01:38:07,840 --> 01:38:09,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I would love to literally the two 1912 01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:12,040 Speaker 1: of us should fly out there and you can recreate. 1913 01:38:14,520 --> 01:38:20,519 Speaker 1: But t is very good. Un't go anywhere else, but 1914 01:38:20,720 --> 01:38:23,320 Speaker 1: there's going to an aquarium. Although see, animals scare me 1915 01:38:23,400 --> 01:38:26,599 Speaker 1: more surely, yes, because they're unpredictable, the way they move, 1916 01:38:26,680 --> 01:38:29,000 Speaker 1: the way they move. Jeffrey, we love you so much. 1917 01:38:29,080 --> 01:38:30,320 Speaker 1: I love you so much, Thank you so much for 1918 01:38:30,400 --> 01:38:32,400 Speaker 1: having me. I just I'm such a fan. We've been 1919 01:38:32,479 --> 01:38:34,720 Speaker 1: trying to get you at well because you're here and 1920 01:38:34,800 --> 01:38:36,760 Speaker 1: I'm you know, you know what I was going to 1921 01:38:36,840 --> 01:38:38,479 Speaker 1: try to do the live one in l A. But 1922 01:38:38,560 --> 01:38:41,559 Speaker 1: it didn't work out. I was hopefully December. Okay, let's 1923 01:38:41,560 --> 01:38:43,280 Speaker 1: make that happen. Let's make it happen. Um, we love 1924 01:38:43,320 --> 01:38:46,439 Speaker 1: you so much, Jeffrey, Thank you so much. Please check 1925 01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:51,120 Speaker 1: Jeffrey out on on every great gay show, Truly Difficult People, 1926 01:38:51,160 --> 01:38:54,200 Speaker 1: thirty Rock, Search, Party that You're Out, classically a gay show, 1927 01:38:54,320 --> 01:38:57,160 Speaker 1: classically a GI I mean actually yes, there's there's there's 1928 01:38:57,160 --> 01:38:59,479 Speaker 1: a queer aspect to it. Yeah, some good gig characters. 1929 01:38:59,560 --> 01:39:01,840 Speaker 1: I love that. Um uh well, and we have to 1930 01:39:01,880 --> 01:39:12,800 Speaker 1: close out with this song as always some laball we 1931 01:39:12,880 --> 01:39:21,599 Speaker 1: can't do this, we can't do this by This has 1932 01:39:21,680 --> 01:39:25,360 Speaker 1: been a Forever Dog production executive produced by Brett Baham, 1933 01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:30,479 Speaker 1: Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. 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