1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: Hey guys, I'm Kaylie Shore and this is too much 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: to say it out you, Okay, you can always tell 3 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: when I had a good weekend because my voice is 4 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: even like raspier than usual. And hello. So the last 5 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: weekend was my birthday on the eleventh, and I turned 6 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: and so seven eleven is my um lucky number because 7 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: I was born on seven eleven. I weighed seven eleven 8 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: at one oh seven, next door to a seven eleven, 9 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 1: and um, I obviously just feel like I was born 10 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: with those lucky numbers. I see them all the time. Um, 11 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: but my dad's my dad and my sister's lucky numbers 12 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: twenty seven because like the address of almost every house 13 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:00,319 Speaker 1: we've ever lived at had that in it. My all 14 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: of their birthdays around then, it just pops up everywhere. 15 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: And my dad told me he was He told everybody 16 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: was til about his like mid sixties, and I believed 17 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: him until like way too old because I just like 18 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: and then I started to be big. You turned twenties 19 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: seven last year, and like my dad had me in 20 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: his mid forties, so like my math was really off. 21 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: But so it feels like a double lucky you know, day, 22 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: I had so much fun Um, but I realized something, 23 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: and it's that not everybody plans their own birthday and 24 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: I love planning my own birthday party. And I don't 25 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: know why I didn't realize this, and I texted my 26 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: friend Laura and I was like, Hey, do you know 27 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: that we're like the only two people I know that 28 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: like plan their own birthdays. It's just like what And 29 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, other people don't do that. And I 30 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: throw my friends parties all the time and always have 31 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: a really good time doing it, and nobody ever tries 32 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: to throw me one. And it's not because they don't care, 33 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: it's because they know better and they know how much 34 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: joy I get out of planning a birthday party. And 35 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: so last year, Sam, my boyfriend, planned one for me, 36 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: and it's like really dead set on doing it, and 37 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: his mom was like, you should be really careful what 38 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: we's like. And it's not that I would have thrown 39 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: a fit if everything wasn't perfect. It's just like I 40 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: enjoy the process of making everything perfect. And um, but 41 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: he did a great job last year and it was 42 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: really fun and we had it outside in my um 43 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: backyard because of COVID. But this year I got to 44 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: have like a bull on themed ranger like I normally have. 45 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: The last big birthday party I had was Sex in 46 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: the City themed, so like everybody went as like Carrie 47 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: Bradshaw or Samantha or whatever and dressed like you know, 48 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: I wore like these like look they were not Manoma blonics, 49 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: but they looked like it like a poofy skirt and 50 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: had so much fun. I made a cake, um, which 51 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: I'll get into later, but I'm like very big on 52 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: making cakes, and like I made a Sex in the 53 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: City themed cake and it was really fun. But so 54 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: like last year, I didn't get to have it like that, 55 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: and then this year I was like, I'm gonna go 56 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 1: all out back on my bullshit. And Sam was like, yeah, 57 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 1: that was probably the one birthday party I planned for 58 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: you and it was really fun and I'm just gonna 59 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: get back to your your thing. I'm like, thank you 60 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: so much. But I love planning my own birthday party 61 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: and like throwing it because it's not um, It's it's 62 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: not so much that I like need everything to be 63 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: perfect or I need attention or I like need everybody 64 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: like it's my birthday. It's like it's my opportunity. To 65 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: throw a party and be able to have everything exactly 66 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: the way I wanted. I don't have to ask anybody 67 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: else's opinion. It can be kind of fucking stupid or 68 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: extra and no one can say anything because it's my 69 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: birthday and I always forget that presents are part of it. 70 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: Some people show up with things. I'm like, what's that, 71 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, yeah, it's my birthday 72 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: because I just think about it like it's it's my party. 73 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: And so this year I wanted to do a theme, 74 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: so I did two thousands, and I kind of wanted 75 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: to give my friends an existential crisis because you know, 76 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: dineties parties are super popular. Everybody always did that, and like, 77 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff I remember from the nineties, 78 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: but I wasn't, like, you know, outgoing. I was a child, 79 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: you know, And so having a two thousands theme party 80 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: it was weird because it's like we were a dressing 81 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: as ourselves like ten fifteen years ago, and that was 82 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: really true. V But um, it was really fun. I 83 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: went as Para Sulton on her twenty first birthday. It's 84 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: a very particular look. Um highly recommend googling it. Incredible 85 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: dress but her hair. I bought like the short blonde 86 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 1: wig to have the same hair that she did, and 87 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: I was like, I kinda hated it. And then I 88 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, just because Parasulton had bad hair in 89 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: two thousand two doesn't mean I also have to. So 90 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: I ended up buying a different wig that was like 91 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: long and blond, and it was a lot more like 92 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: what her hair looked like during the Stars Are Blind era. Um, Also, 93 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: can we just talk about Parasulton for a second. She 94 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: is fucking incredible. Her humanitarian work is amazing. She has 95 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: advocated so much for these kids that are victims of 96 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: these like horrible like disciplinary camps. Um, she went to 97 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: one and was like severely abused and saw so much 98 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: horrible stuff and she's been like this, you know, um 99 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: megaphone for these kids stories who don't have the platform 100 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: she doesn't. So she shared that she's advocated for Brittany. 101 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: She helped Brittany through a really hard time and um, 102 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: she's a DJ. Also that album that she made, it's 103 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 1: really good. It is really good. Stars Are Blind is 104 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 1: like a reggae smash and it's such a vibe and 105 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: like the lyrics like I'm sorry even though the gods 106 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: are crazy, even though the stars are blind, what it's okay, 107 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: Shakespeare Like, I don't know. I just really love parents 108 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: holds it So I digress. I went as her for 109 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: my birthday and had the big blonde hair and like 110 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: this wig and it was really fun. I had a blast. 111 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: But my best friend Candy went as uh Daria from 112 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: the MTV cartoon. And then my friend Cora we've heard 113 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: on the podcast, she went as j Low. It was 114 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: so funny because my boyfriend thought she was Aaron Carter 115 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 1: because she had like on like the Bandanna had band 116 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: and like all white, and she just lied and was like, yeah, yeah, 117 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm Aaron Carter and so he like was talking about 118 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: it somebody else and they're like, what the funk are 119 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: you talking about? She's dresses j Low like, so that 120 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: was really funny. And she even found like a like 121 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: a Razor flip phone at the dollar store like recently, 122 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: like up a dad's old flip phone, and it was 123 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: really funny. So it was a really fun theme. And 124 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: like a lot of people want his Emo kids, I 125 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: kind of just want to have like a fall On 126 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: Emo party at some point. I feel like that would 127 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: be really fun. But yeah, it was a really great 128 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: It was a really great theme. I had like a 129 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: playlist of like all two thousands music, my personal It 130 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: kicked off with him he Loves You Not by Dream 131 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: total smash love that song incredibly underrated Carl group from 132 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,799 Speaker 1: the two thousands. UM, there was lots of Lindsay Lohan's 133 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: UM again, another great album like the one. The first 134 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: one was okay, the one that had rumors on it. 135 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 1: I think it's called Speak, but the second one was 136 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: called a Little More Personal Raw. And there's a song 137 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: on there called I Live for the Day and I 138 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: love it so much and I highly recommend you check 139 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: it out. I know that my producer produced something on 140 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: that UM album, but I don't think it was that song. 141 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: Let's see which one did he produce. And then there's 142 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: Confessions of a Broken Heart Daughter to Father. It's so like, oh, 143 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: it's about a relationship with her dad, which is really bad, 144 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: super super emotional. Okay, let's see he produced the I 145 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: Want You to Want Me cover? That's what he did. Okay, anyways, 146 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: go check that out. UM. There's so much from that 147 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: era that he did, and so much music that I 148 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: listened to with the kid that I just love and um. 149 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: He also produced the new Wallflowers album, um, which just 150 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: came out and it's like really good to go check 151 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: that out. Um Yeah, but I love Lindsey Lan and 152 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: her shortly short lived music career. I saw that she 153 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: put out a song like last year and I just 154 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: saw this like when I was making the play list, 155 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: So I need to go listen to that TVD for 156 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: my review of her single. But so anyways, the cake, 157 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: the cake is the reason I throw the party, and 158 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: I have made several different cakes. I think the first 159 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: big one I made was Oh god, I made one 160 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: for my manager and it was a key Lime pie cake, 161 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: which is like, I love key Line Pie. I'm actually 162 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: more of a key Line Pie fan than I am 163 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: cake and I had that like every year growing up, 164 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: and he loves it too. So it was like this 165 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: layered cake and it had it had like the key 166 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: Line Pie filling, but it was just like a little 167 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: bit thicker so it wouldn't like run over the sides 168 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: as the center. And it was three layers and then um, 169 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: I put a layer of the filling around it and 170 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: then I dusted it with um Graham cracker crumbs, and 171 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: then I wrapped it in a lime green fondent and 172 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: then did um a little circle on top of the filling, 173 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: and then like some Graham Cracker sprinkles and then just 174 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: some like you know, random little like drizzles of of 175 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: lime green icing, and it was so fucking good and 176 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: I was like, holy shi it. I love making cakes. 177 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: And so then I made one for my birthday, um, 178 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: for the Sex in the City theme party, and it 179 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: was three tiers and it was hot pink, had a 180 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: big at the top, and then I did a cutout 181 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: in black fondant of the New York City skyline and 182 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: like wrapped it around the cake and it was like 183 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: so fucking extrom. And then I made a cake for 184 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: um my boyfriend's sister's birthday, and it was like a 185 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: free to callow cake, so it had it was like white, 186 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: it was round, and it had just the like silhouette 187 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: like of the eyebrows of the because you know, free 188 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: to call. It had like the big eyebrowm and then 189 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: it had a flower crown, so I like put these 190 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: flowers into the cake. And then for um Sam's birthday 191 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: last year, he loves Jack Daniels. He used to work 192 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: as a tour guide there and he was turning and 193 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: so it's like old number seven. So me and his 194 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: sister made this cake and it was a bottle of 195 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: Jack Daniels and I wrote like Sam Varga old number seven. 196 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 1: And it was really fun, and I like free handed 197 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: the letters because I was going to make them with 198 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: fonding and then it was just going really poorly, and 199 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: it actually looked really good free handing it. So but 200 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: for this year, um, it was two thousands seemed, and 201 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: so I was like looking at all the different things 202 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: I could do, like I could do MTV or I 203 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: could make a CD or something like that. Um, and 204 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: then I was like, okay, Lisa Frank and Candy for 205 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: my birthday. Two birthdays ago had gotten me this Lisa 206 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 1: Frank Tarot deck and the last card in the major 207 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: icon is called the World and it had like the 208 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: Lisa Frank logo on it and like all these different things, 209 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: and so I was like, okay, I'm gonna make a 210 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: Lisa Frank Tarot card cake. And it was whiskey flavored. 211 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: So it's just me as a fucking cake. And it 212 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: took me a long time because I'm by no means 213 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: fast at this but I do think it came out 214 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 1: really good. It's on my Instagram. I really proud of it, 215 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: And um, I think that that's like a really good 216 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: part of why I throw parties because I really like 217 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: making cakes. So um, they're they're not easy and they're 218 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: not cheap and like, honestly might be more cost effective 219 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: just pay somebody else to do it. But like, where's 220 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: the fucking fun in that? You know? So I think 221 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: there is a perfect birthday formula for throwing a party, 222 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: and um, I'm going to share it with you. So 223 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: house parties are fun. You you save money, people can 224 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: bring presents, you don't have to carry stuff around. Right, 225 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 1: You're like, you know, not spending on every single cocktail 226 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: you have, and um, you can you know, just kind 227 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 1: of relax and you don't have to worry about other 228 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: people and like you can hear people talk and you know, 229 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: it's really nice. But the bad thing about house parties 230 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 1: is like when they go too late and you're tired 231 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: and you want to go home and go to bed, 232 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: and you're at home, but you can't go to bed 233 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 1: because people are still there, and it's like you can't 234 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: really tell them to leave, and sometimes people get really 235 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 1: drunk and then things start to get broken, and like 236 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 1: it just gets way messier as people as the night 237 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: goes on. Um, and then they like start breaking into 238 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: your other alcohol that wasn't designated for the party, and 239 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: it could be like a really nice stuff and then 240 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, ship, that was not supposed to happen. 241 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: And so to avoid all of them, this is what 242 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: I do. I sat like an invitation time of like 243 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: eight p m. Anticipating people get there between like around nine, 244 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: and like my good friends usually will come a little 245 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: bit earlier and like we're still setting up and you know, 246 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:43,959 Speaker 1: it gives me time because I can be making the 247 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: cheese blake a plate as people walk in and then um, 248 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: so people are usually there by nine. Then you have 249 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: a plan to go out somewhere afterwards. So basically everyone's 250 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: hanging out, you do the cake and you take a shot, 251 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: and then that's like the signal that like it's done 252 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: and everybody's into the next place. So that usually happens 253 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 1: about ten thirty. So it's like the party is a pregame. 254 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: But then you know you get to leave the presence there. 255 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: You can like change your shoes or whatever, like because 256 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: we went out dancing. Um I didn't because I was 257 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: like Paris wouldn't have done it, so I didn't. But um, 258 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: then you have somewhere else to go. And so I 259 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,719 Speaker 1: came back to my house and I really wasn't that messy, 260 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: and my friends wanted to stay out a little bit later, 261 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: but I just got really tired because I think I 262 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: forgot to get drunk on my birthday. Um, because I 263 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 1: was just like hosting, but it was really fun, like 264 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: it was. It was totally chill and honestly like way 265 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: better that way. But I was just like kind of sleepy. 266 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: And so I came home at like one I think, 267 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: I'm like I was going to sleepy. It's like one am. Yeah, okay, 268 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: Um of course I was. And it wasn't that messy, 269 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: and like all my stuff was there and then I 270 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: opened my presence just with me and Sam and had 271 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 1: a lovely night, watched Brooklyn nine nine and played solitaire, 272 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: went to bed. It was great, and that the way 273 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: to do it. You just you just have to have 274 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 1: somewhere else to go, and you will spare yourself so 275 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: much like trouble because the house parties really are fun 276 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: and I only I don't even think I paid for it, 277 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: but like I only had like two drinks purchased for me, 278 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: so like there were only two drinks bought because everything 279 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: else back at the house and it's just so cost effective. Also, 280 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: I get the B I O B thing, but like, 281 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: if it's your birthday, have like a signature cocktail. I 282 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: made this like blueberry vodka lemonade thing, and then I 283 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: had like some sam was making old fashions and that's 284 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: all we dipped into. And like I don't know, we 285 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 1: probably spent like forty or fifty dollars on alcohol and 286 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: like snacks and stuff. Maybe more on snacks. Yeah, probably 287 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: fifty dollars in alcohol and like fifty dollars on snacks 288 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: and stuff. But like everybody bought brought a bottle of 289 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: something and like as a gift or like something else, 290 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: and I'm like, the least I can do is make 291 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 1: you this like BlackBerry lemonade punch thing whenever it was 292 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: really good. Um, Like I feel like B Y O 293 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: B is like a little bit cheap when everybody's bringing 294 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: you presents. And I know that's a hot take, but like, 295 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: go buy some fucking white cloth by the cheapest vodka 296 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: you can go buy sneering Off and like make a 297 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: just drink and it just doesn't matter because people will 298 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: drink it because it's free and they'll be very happy. 299 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: And also, yeah, it's just I'm I'm a big fan 300 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: of that. So you don't have to have like a 301 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: massive bar with like a bunch of different things and 302 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: let people like break into all your good stuff, but 303 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: just like have a bottle of Tito's out and be 304 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: like here and then like a couple of different sodas. That's, um, 305 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: that's a strong opinion I have, and I am, Yeah, 306 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: I feel very strong about that. So another thing about 307 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: my birthday, aside from parties and cakes and like all 308 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: that fun stuff that I really care about, is like 309 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: setting intentions so that the party was on Saturday. My 310 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 1: actual birthday was on Sunday. So I woke up early 311 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: and um did some meditating and like talked about you know, 312 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: the night before and like how I was feeling going 313 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 1: into this year. And I think a revelation I had 314 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: about birthdays is like I don't I kind of hate 315 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: when people make their birthdays like the end of the 316 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: fucking world and it's like every like you have to 317 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: do like this big thing and they'll be really disappointed 318 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: if you can't make it and you have something else 319 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: going on or whatever. Like I understand that there a 320 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: day that people feel special, but it's also like every 321 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: fucking person has a birthday and they have on every 322 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: fucking year. And like I had this friend get really 323 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: mad one time because she had invited like ten people 324 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: to go on this um to do this like weekend 325 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: in like cabin weekend with her, and like I couldn't 326 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 1: take off, Like I couldn't take that much time off 327 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: from from working and I had shows that weekend and 328 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: I needed the money from the shows, and the cabin 329 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: was going to cost like it was gonna cost so 330 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: much money. It was like I think, um, for me 331 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 1: and Sam was going to be like six dollars and 332 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: then you have to buy a present. Like the plan 333 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:04,959 Speaker 1: ended up falling apart because nobody could fucking afford that. 334 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: And this was like Pete Covid, Like we'd all like 335 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 1: had the antibodies and stuff, so it's going to be like, 336 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: you know, it's smallish group, but um, nobody had money, 337 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: you know, and it just sucked. And like I would 338 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 1: so much rather spend that on a present than like 339 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: paying just for myself to go to the cabin, because 340 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: then that doesn't really count as a present. But you 341 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: spent like six dollars and you're like, what the fuck? 342 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:32,719 Speaker 1: So and and she was really really really upset, and 343 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 1: it sucked because it made all of us feel really guilty, 344 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 1: but like what the fuck, you know, like you can't 345 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: expect people to do that. And I was just kind 346 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: of like at my weds end about it because I 347 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, like you're gonna have another one, and 348 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: everybody has one, and I just like it just sucked, 349 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: And so I try to not do that to people, 350 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: um because truthfully, like birthdays, the only people who are 351 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: supposed to like drop everything and like focus on it 352 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: are like your parents and like your boyfriend girlfriend or 353 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 1: like your best friends. Like it's it's the people closest 354 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: to you, because it's a really great opportunity for them 355 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 1: to tell you how much they love you and to 356 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: make you feel special. But outside of that, like you 357 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: don't need the earth to stop turning because I'm turning 358 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: twenty seven, you know what I mean, Like I don't 359 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 1: care that much about it. But that being said, you know, 360 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: my close friends made me feel really special. But having 361 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 1: a bigger birthday, it was so nice to see how 362 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 1: many people like in my extended friend group shut up 363 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: for me and like had a good time and like 364 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: got me really sweet presents or just like stayed out 365 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: the whole time. Like and that's also like a really 366 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: nice gesture too. It's like signing up for the fucking 367 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: birthday Parday night and staying the whole time. Because I 368 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: don't expect anybody to do any of those things except 369 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 1: like Sam and candy, and um, it just makes it 370 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 1: that much more special. But like I'd never expect that 371 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: of people. It's just a really nice surprise. So I 372 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: hate like birthday princesses. Even though I take my birthday 373 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: like very seriously, I don't care, like if somebody can't 374 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: come because I have something else going on, Okay, cool, Um, 375 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have one in sixty five days, so see 376 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,360 Speaker 1: you then. Um. So that was kind of my big 377 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: thought when I was meditating the morning after my birthday, 378 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 1: and I was just like, this is really nice, and um. 379 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 1: I also wrote down some things that I wanted to 380 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:23,120 Speaker 1: keep in mind for this year, and they're kind of 381 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: I was gonna set some goals, but I feel like 382 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: I'm just setting goals all the time, and like I 383 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 1: have the things I want to do in the next year, 384 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: like I really want to, um open up a tour 385 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: and maybe do my own headlining one. Um, I really 386 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: want to play SNL. That's like, I mean, I talked 387 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: about that all the time. It's like the number one 388 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: thing I want to do. I want to walk around 389 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: carpet again. And those will you know as and I 390 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: was a little bit lofty, but like all those other 391 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: ones will happen, you know. Um. So I was like, 392 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to focus on making myself a better person 393 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: and set the career goals and at another time, because 394 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like those aren't going anywhere. 395 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 1: But like the better, the more better of a person, 396 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: I am, Okay, cool, let's work on grammar too, But 397 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,959 Speaker 1: like the more I grow as a person, the more 398 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to grow as an artist, the more I'm 399 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: going to grow as a friend, etcetera, etcetera. So I 400 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 1: was like, let's start at the root and then let 401 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 1: everything else fall into place. So this is what I 402 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 1: wrote down. Um, I said this year, I will choose 403 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: to be happy versus right, focus on my career, have 404 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 1: good time management, stay organized, have gratitude, make time for 405 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: yoga and meditation, have better posture, make the people around 406 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: me feel loved and adapt inconveniences. Oops. And um yeah, 407 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm kind of I'm kind of really working on my 408 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: last one. Um. And then I said, I won't get 409 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: angry about the past, expect immediate justice for shitty people. 410 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: Oh well, Um, given to bad moods, be lazy, not 411 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: believe in myself. I feel uninspired and like given to it, 412 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: like feeling uninspired and then just being apathetic about it, 413 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: being like, oh I'm uninspired. I could make guard or 414 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 1: I can't make content or whatever. So um yeah, and 415 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 1: I feel pretty good about those things. I think I 416 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: can do them. Um. I had my therapist tell me 417 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: the choosing to be happy versus right thing, and that's 418 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: really helped, because I think the immediate justice thing is 419 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: also something I really need to focus on. Is like 420 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: when somebody does something hurtful, not even necessarily to me, 421 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 1: but when I see them do it to other people 422 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: or like do something shitty, I'm like want them to 423 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: like not even pay for it, because it's not so 424 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: much of a revenge thing, but just like see that 425 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: they fucked up and like have to pay some like 426 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: see some sort of consequence, because that's so frustrating when 427 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,199 Speaker 1: somebody does something awful to somebody and then like they 428 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: get to just go on living their lives while the 429 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: other person is screwed. And you see that all the time. Um, 430 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: but it's just not my job to teach people lessons. 431 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 1: And the truth is, being shitty will always catch up 432 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: with you. Um. On the occasions that I've been shutty, 433 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: it's absolutely caught up with me, and um, it'll all 434 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 1: sort itself out. But you have to have patience with that. 435 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 1: And it's the same thing with like people you know, 436 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 1: leaving your life and coming back like they usually will 437 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 1: like in my experience, um, even and it's kind of 438 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 1: too late sometimes. Like there's the story that Taylor Swift 439 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 1: shares about Drew from Teardops on my guitar and how 440 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: he came back like years later and she was like 441 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: he was like in her driveway at her parents house 442 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 1: and Hendersonville, Tennessee. And I think this was like around 443 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: like Fearless era. So she was like the biggest thing 444 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,360 Speaker 1: in the world and he was like I want you back, 445 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 1: and she was like this would have been so cute 446 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: like three years ago, but like I don't think this 447 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 1: is it now. And it's also like he came back 448 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: after she's favorite, like Drew, come on, you know, um, 449 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: but it's kind of like I've also seen that, but 450 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,880 Speaker 1: that still is kind of the filling in a way. 451 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: Like I had this guy from high school that like 452 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: broke my heart, like come back and be like, you 453 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: know you were the last time I felt anything, and 454 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: like I felt like we always had this connection and 455 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: like you always brought out this really creative side of me. 456 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, but like that was like 457 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: ten years ago, so like maybe not, but thank you 458 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: because inside of me, like fifteen year old Kaylee is 459 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: really really happy that this is how it worked out. Um, 460 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: and there was a great lesson and the fact that 461 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 1: like you might get that it'll probably be too late, 462 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 1: but it's it's a nice um it's a nice little 463 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: ribbon to tie up a whole situation. And so I 464 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: was just like, go home, you're drunk, Thank you so much, Um, 465 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: good night. So anyways, I'm really excited, um to walk 466 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,959 Speaker 1: into this year. I think that you know, you're trips 467 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: around the sun are an important marker and where we're going, 468 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: And um, I definitely get really into the astrology stuff 469 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: this time of year. Um, cancer season just doesn't have 470 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: the same ring as Pisces or aquaries, Like, oh my god, 471 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: it's Leo season, like cancer seats. Oh god. You know, 472 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: it's just like not it's the one shitty name for 473 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: an astrological sign, Like there's nothing problematic about any of 474 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 1: the other ones, like Capricorn, it's fine. Cancer, what the funk? 475 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: And what what does a crab have to do with 476 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:20,919 Speaker 1: Like how did the word come to mean two different things? 477 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: Because you know, I'm always fascinated with the language and 478 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: like prefixes and suffixes, and you know, when you see 479 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 1: a word, it usually has like a family of words 480 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: that means similar things. And so I'm just like, how 481 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: did cancer become that? Like, what does it have to do? 482 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: What does the disease have to do with crabs? You know? Anyways, 483 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: nobody too much to say. This is why I'm gonna 484 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: cut this episode off because I feel like I could 485 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: talk about random ship all day. Um, but you guys 486 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,159 Speaker 1: are so amazing, Thank you so much for tuning in. 487 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for the love on love Child. Holy shit, Um, 488 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: you guys are great. I feel so happy about that song. 489 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: And um, I got to play song suffer Jets this 490 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: week and like see people and like play it and 491 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: like have a captive audience and I just fucking missed that. Um. 492 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: But stay tuned because I'm going to be announcing a 493 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 1: bunch of shows around the Natural area to promote the 494 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 1: EP which is coming out. It's called I Got Here 495 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: by Accident because I did. And yeah, I'll do a 496 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 1: whole episode about that. But thank you guys so much 497 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 1: for tuning in. You guys are amazing. Thank you for 498 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 1: all the happy birthday wishes. I'm Kaylie Shot And this 499 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: is too much to say, asking questions so much out 500 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 1: turn it out to you.