WEBVTT - Eclipses, Earthquakes, and an International Flight

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome everybody to Amy and TJ coming to you from

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<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles once again.

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<v Speaker 2>Whis in two weeks? How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>DJ?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like we're bi coastal. This podcast is now

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<v Speaker 3>bi coastal. This is the fast five podcast we've recorded,

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<v Speaker 3>including this one. Three out of the past five have

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<v Speaker 3>been recorded in Los Angeles. That feels by coastal.

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<v Speaker 1>It certainly does. And yet we've had a heck of

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<v Speaker 1>a few days in New York. Lots of this hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>happened in one hundred years. First actually in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>and it all began. I guess with the earthquake that

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<v Speaker 1>you felt and I didn't. And where were you when

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<v Speaker 1>it all hit?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? I was in on the twenty seventh floor of

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<v Speaker 3>my place. Felt a little sway, thought it was there's

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<v Speaker 3>some construction work going on, so I thought it was

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<v Speaker 3>those guys. But but no, Now, I never would have

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<v Speaker 3>crossed my mind that it was actually an earthquake. And

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<v Speaker 3>everybody was all the.

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<v Speaker 1>Course until you heard like everyone's phones went into massive

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<v Speaker 1>emergency alert mode, which is always jarring. I was on

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<v Speaker 1>the second floor of a building getting some well. I

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<v Speaker 1>was at my anesthetician's office, which is basically not quite

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<v Speaker 1>a dermatologist, but someone who helps you stay young. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting a procedure done called micro needling, So

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<v Speaker 1>I had needles going into my face when the earthquake hit,

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<v Speaker 1>and so thank goodness, I didn't feel a thing, because

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<v Speaker 1>I actually later on thought what would that have actually

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<v Speaker 1>been like had something shook or moved. I had radio frequents,

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<v Speaker 1>like they are these needles that go into your skin,

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<v Speaker 1>like fairly deeply, and they just put out radio frequency

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<v Speaker 1>vibes into your skin into supposed to like stimulate your

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<v Speaker 1>own collagen and keep you looking young. But anyway, can

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<v Speaker 1>you imagine I was getting that done when the earthquake hit.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank goodness, I didn't feel a thing. Thank goodness. Our

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<v Speaker 2>buildings are.

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<v Speaker 1>Well supposedly most of them earthquake proof. We'll see they

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been fully tested. But five point eight on the

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<v Speaker 1>Richter scale, and didn't feel a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a five point eight, Yes, oh, I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>realize it was that. That's a very serious earthquake.

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<v Speaker 2>So there wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's been eighteen eighty four, was the last one

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<v Speaker 1>that hit five point zero or above? And so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they always say you're due your dual. Anyway, we got that.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently there were some aftershocks felt none of those. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt nothing. I was a little disappointed. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to feel the swaying. But you didn't even realize

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<v Speaker 1>it was an earthquake.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean, you got could tell there was swaying.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a matter you don't think in New York.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been in two earthquakes in my life. That was

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<v Speaker 3>the second, but that was you don't The first thought

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<v Speaker 3>is never. I felt strong winds in New York before

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<v Speaker 3>on the in a high rise and you feel a

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<v Speaker 3>little swaying, but there's no way the first thing that

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<v Speaker 3>crosses your mind is an earthquake.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were all okay, got text from my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you get text from people checking in on you

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<v Speaker 1>making sure you were okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Not really actually all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, my mom definitely checked in on me to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure we were okay. And that all worked out. So

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<v Speaker 1>that was that started off a couple of days of

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<v Speaker 1>some madness. March madness actually continued this weekend and I

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<v Speaker 1>really got into the women's games. We had some fun

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<v Speaker 1>watching that, and I also had some fun watching the

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<v Speaker 1>men's games for another reason.

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<v Speaker 2>Which was, Well, let's just say this.

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<v Speaker 1>You've told me that you've never enjoyed watching basketball so

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<v Speaker 1>much because I point out all the things that are

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<v Speaker 1>not sports related.

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<v Speaker 3>I just say that to you. It's it's it's it's no,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like watching basketball like that. You you point

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<v Speaker 3>out the color of the guy's shoes. You got me

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<v Speaker 3>focused on woman on the fourth row. I'm missing the

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<v Speaker 3>game because you're pointing out some oddities in the game.

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<v Speaker 3>You distract me from the game. So it's hilarious. Don't

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<v Speaker 3>get me wrong, but yeah, you focus on everything except basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I do like to watch the game, but when

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little slow or they're missing their shots, I

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<v Speaker 1>like to maybe just look at some of the local color.

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<v Speaker 1>I got really into the commentators this time. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>had a running list, because I don't know if anyone

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<v Speaker 1>else out there who I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I've always watched sports. I love college football.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad and my brother were a big sports watchers,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not some new foreign thing to me. But

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<v Speaker 1>I've never watched this much sports like this much basketball,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we don't miss a game, or you definitely don't

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<v Speaker 1>miss a game, and I don't think I've missed many

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<v Speaker 1>But what I kind of started finding a little funny

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<v Speaker 1>was if anyone else just can listen to the commentators,

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<v Speaker 1>there are so many sexual innuendos that they make when

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<v Speaker 1>they're talking. I don't know if it goes for all

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<v Speaker 1>sports or if it's just basketball, but there were a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of phrases that were and you were noticing them

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<v Speaker 1>too correct.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, no, you were pointing them out. But I've been

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<v Speaker 3>watching by bsketball my entire life. I've never heard some

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<v Speaker 3>of the things you pointed out. With the last few.

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<v Speaker 1>Days, there's a lot like pounded it in down below,

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<v Speaker 1>might as well ride him while he's on the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll take it anyway they can get it, massages it

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<v Speaker 1>with his left hand. I mean, we were having some

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<v Speaker 1>fun with it. It was kind of like NonStop if you

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<v Speaker 1>really listen for it. Anyway, if anyone's bored and they're

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<v Speaker 1>watching a game, if you just listen for this, it

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<v Speaker 1>actually is quite funny because it never disappoints.

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<v Speaker 2>It hasn't yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, it's not if you're watching the basketball game. All

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<v Speaker 3>that stuff makes perfect thing, no sexual connotation at all.

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<v Speaker 3>He massages it in with his left hand. A guy

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<v Speaker 3>shot a hook shot with his left hand and it

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<v Speaker 3>barely just got over the front of the rim, so

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<v Speaker 3>it massage. He massaged it in. He eased it in

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<v Speaker 3>with his left hand. The other guy, he was hot

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<v Speaker 3>on the floor. I think he was in foul trouble.

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<v Speaker 3>So hey, you keep feeding them and you might as

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<v Speaker 3>well ride him while he's on the floor. That all

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<v Speaker 3>makes perfect sense if you're a sports fan. You're a

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<v Speaker 3>basketball fan, and that never in life did any of

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<v Speaker 3>those things have any sexual connotation until you started pointing

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<v Speaker 3>all this stuff out.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I just think it adds some levity and

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<v Speaker 1>some fun. You can still concentrate on the game, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you just keep your air out for that, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just an extra layer of fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Just I don't need it.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll get what you're saying. You're not a man. I

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<v Speaker 3>know it's fine. You're not necessarily a basket you and

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<v Speaker 3>just watch a basket. You need other things to entertain you,

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<v Speaker 3>to keep you engaged. Same thing with Sabine. Sometimes watching

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<v Speaker 3>football with me, she'll point out some silly stuff on

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<v Speaker 3>a stat or something on the bottom of the screen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not paying attention to because she's not necessarily into

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<v Speaker 3>the game. What you're saying makes sense, makes a perfect sense,

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<v Speaker 3>and you got to kick out of it. But if

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<v Speaker 3>it keeps you on the couch watching the game and engaged,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm okay with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like I think this all came out of

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just watching a game, it's watching lots and

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<v Speaker 1>lots and lots of games. So anyway, I found a

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<v Speaker 1>way to make it even extra fun for myself and

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed this weekend a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you think of the games? What did you

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<v Speaker 2>think of the comes?

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<v Speaker 3>I was very disappointed in the National Championship because you

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<v Speaker 3>wait all year, I watched basketball all year. You're waiting

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<v Speaker 3>for the championship game. You'd like for it to be

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<v Speaker 3>a little more competitive. Yukon is unreal. So they just

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<v Speaker 3>they made the game not a game. There's that good.

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<v Speaker 3>So the run they've been on back to back championships,

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<v Speaker 3>congrats to Yukon for what they pulled off is really

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<v Speaker 3>really impressive. But as a basketball fan who didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>a dog in the fight that was Arkansas playing, sure

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<v Speaker 3>I want them to blow somebody out, but anybody else playing,

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<v Speaker 3>I would like to see a competitive game. But they

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<v Speaker 3>were impressive and on the women's side. That was the

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<v Speaker 3>marquee Final four, Yukon women against Iowa and Kaitlyn Clark.

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<v Speaker 3>Paige Becker's from Yukon against Kaitlyn Clark. Just what the

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<v Speaker 3>women have done with the game now, they are the

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<v Speaker 3>they are the highlights. They are the one that was

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<v Speaker 3>a more interesting final four. You know my schedule. I

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<v Speaker 3>scheduled my day completely around watching women's basketball and canceled

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<v Speaker 3>plans with some people because of women's college basketball. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just what they've done is unreal. And if you're not

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<v Speaker 3>paying attention, I hope you continue. It's not just about

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<v Speaker 3>Caitlin Clark. Yes, she got people involved, but man, I

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<v Speaker 3>hope that this brings more and more eyeballs to women's

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<v Speaker 3>college basketball and women's basketball in general. But this is

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<v Speaker 3>just an unbelievable run. And I applaud South Carolina. Congratulations

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<v Speaker 3>Dawn Staley what they've done. But it's just the women's

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<v Speaker 3>game is unreal right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have said this, you prefer watching the women

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<v Speaker 1>play to the men. I really got into it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was so fun to be We actually went out for

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<v Speaker 1>that game and to see this bar packed in Manhattan, men, women, old, young,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all everyone coming together to cheer on women's basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>That wouldn't have happened five years ago, would it have

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<v Speaker 1>ten years ago? I mean, this is a fairly new

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<v Speaker 1>phenomenon and to what do you attribute that?

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<v Speaker 2>And does it have legs?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's a matter of I mean, they're hardcore basketball

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<v Speaker 3>fans who have followed the women's game. Now it's just

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<v Speaker 3>brought more people in to watch a college women's college

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<v Speaker 3>game in January versus just watching March Madness. Right, Kaitlyn

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<v Speaker 3>clark Is, she's completely responded on stay leave South Carolina.

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<v Speaker 3>But you go back to pat Summit and Tennessee, you

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<v Speaker 3>go back to what Gino Arama has done at Yukon.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean there's been eyes on women's college basketball, but

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<v Speaker 3>nothing like this before. So yeah, Caitlyn is just I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you know the nil stuff. Kids are being being able

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<v Speaker 3>to be in commercials now. I think that's been the issue.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you always you need to invest in the

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<v Speaker 3>players and making them the highlight reel. So I've always

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<v Speaker 3>I've preferred to watch women's college basketball over NBA basketball

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<v Speaker 3>during the regular season NBA playoffs than mere love that

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<v Speaker 3>high intensity. But during the year, the beauty of the

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<v Speaker 3>college game and the women's game. It's been there for

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<v Speaker 3>a long time, just some people are starting to pay

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<v Speaker 3>more attention.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it was fun going out with you and seeing

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<v Speaker 1>that and just honestly seeing I was noticing tables full

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<v Speaker 1>of girls. You know, they weren't on dates, they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>with their boyfriends. These girls got out together to come

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<v Speaker 1>cheer on the women. It was just it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really cool to watch. And you mentioned, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you schedule your day around We've scheduled our weeks, our

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<v Speaker 1>weekends around these games.

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<v Speaker 2>And there was a little opening.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it on Sunday and we got to see something

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<v Speaker 1>that we were both very excited about. It was the

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<v Speaker 1>first OMEN, so we got to mix a little sports

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<v Speaker 1>and a little horror movie and it did not disappoint.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always said my favorite horror movie of all time

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<v Speaker 1>goes back to Gregory Peck The OMEN, the original, and

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<v Speaker 1>we actually rewatched it again just to get ready for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, you just think it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be as good, it's going to disappoint, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Highly recommend if you're a horror movie fan. It was

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<v Speaker 1>It was so good.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you think, Oh, the first time it's I

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<v Speaker 3>was disappointed, not in the movie going into it. How

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<v Speaker 3>people were putting Immaculate against the first omen uh none

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<v Speaker 3>what they call it, none exploitation what they call it.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's pitting them against each other, just saying, well,

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<v Speaker 3>they're kind of the same concept. And if you see

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<v Speaker 3>this when you're probably not going to see that one.

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<v Speaker 3>But the movie, don't know. The movie did not disappoint

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<v Speaker 3>in the least bit. It is I mean, wow, we

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<v Speaker 3>we we saw a disappointing horror movie not too long ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah we did.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to not We were looking forward to

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<v Speaker 3>it for so long and it was a dud. This

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<v Speaker 3>was not one of them. This one delivered, so job

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<v Speaker 3>well done. I don't want to not do what the

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<v Speaker 3>movie was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say what it was because it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of funny that we had high hopes for

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<v Speaker 1>it in the first place, if you think about the concept,

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<v Speaker 1>but I get it, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but no, no, But for the first OMEN highly recommended.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't have the greatest weekend opening weekend at the

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<v Speaker 3>box office, but we are here endorsing and pushing and

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<v Speaker 3>plugging and by all means, go see that movie, the

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<v Speaker 3>first Omen, especially if you liked the first the original

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<v Speaker 3>excuse me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because they even paid homage to Gregory Peck. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean they weave in the story so well so that

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<v Speaker 1>it literally ends, because it's a prequel obviously the first Omen,

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<v Speaker 1>it ends going straight into the original OMEN in such

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect way. They did such a good job. We

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<v Speaker 1>liked it so much we went home and then watched

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<v Speaker 1>the OMEN two just to kind of continue the fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, it really got us back into that groove

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<v Speaker 1>and that series of horror movies that I absolutely love.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I was just I love it when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get disappointed when you're looking forward to a movie

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's maybe even better than you thought. It was,

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<v Speaker 1>So hats off to everyone involved in the first moment

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<v Speaker 1>because I can't wait to actually watch it again when

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<v Speaker 1>it's streaming.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's how good it was.

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<v Speaker 1>And then, oh my goodness, we had a total solar eclipse.

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<v Speaker 2>It was ninety percent in New York City.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it was well, I mean that was I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what to call that. It was eclipse mania to

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<v Speaker 3>a certain degree. For a little while. All the we

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<v Speaker 3>were part of that for so long, the mania in

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<v Speaker 3>building something out being a part of the media networks,

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<v Speaker 3>and I mean they had countdowns going for a week.

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<v Speaker 3>I swear to God about it coming, and but it's

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<v Speaker 3>just I can't get away from it. It's just so

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<v Speaker 3>rare that we in this country, or even in town

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<v Speaker 3>states wherever you are, that we have such a communal

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<v Speaker 3>event like that, to where everybody is on board and

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<v Speaker 3>excited about something and not us versus them, and we're

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<v Speaker 3>not on different sides or something. And I likened it

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<v Speaker 3>in New York to the to the New York City Marathon.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's rare that we just have the community, the

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<v Speaker 3>whole city come together for something like that, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was fun to see.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>And the cool thing is, yes, this is the first

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<v Speaker 1>time where we got to actually just participate. We got

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<v Speaker 1>to just be spectators. We weren't covering it like we'd

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<v Speaker 1>always done before. You were actually where were you the

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<v Speaker 1>last there was an eclipse? A few years back? You

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<v Speaker 1>actually went to one of the epicenters now in Indiana, Illinois, Illinois, Illinois,

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<v Speaker 1>So you were working, we were all working. The last

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a total solar eclipse. I don't believe it

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<v Speaker 1>was a partial one, correct this one though, this one

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<v Speaker 1>was the total.

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<v Speaker 2>But so was.

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<v Speaker 1>This hadn't happened in New York City again in nearly

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred years, I believe. So this was a big,

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<v Speaker 1>big deal and I had so much fun. We you

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<v Speaker 1>and I went to lunch. We kind of planned a

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<v Speaker 1>whole day around the eclipse. We walked over to the

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<v Speaker 1>West Side Highway. We staked out a little spot on

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<v Speaker 1>one of the piers, and the cool thing was watching

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<v Speaker 1>everybody come out whatever they were doing. And I liked

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<v Speaker 1>watching people watching the eclipse.

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<v Speaker 2>That was like super fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We had to share us a of glasses because we

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<v Speaker 1>only had one pair that Simene gave us.

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<v Speaker 2>So while you were looking around.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking we were able to kind of look

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<v Speaker 1>around and watch people just be in awe of mother nature.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it sounds a little sappy, but when you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking up at something like that, you are forced to

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<v Speaker 1>recognize that we're a little ball floating around in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of the sky in space, and just how small

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<v Speaker 1>we all are, but how a part of this larger

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<v Speaker 1>universe we are. So it kind of gives you this

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy perspective when you're looking at this unbelievable event happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, I just felt it felt like

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<v Speaker 1>a moment where you felt connected not just to everyone

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<v Speaker 1>around you all watching it, but to the universe and beyond.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel any of that?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't feel, okay, a single bit. I got a

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<v Speaker 3>little cold when the moon covered the sun. The temperature

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<v Speaker 3>dropped pretty severely. But yeah, I didn't. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>the out of body experience you seem to.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it wasn't an out of body it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was actually feeling connected. And funny enough, Yes, I too

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<v Speaker 1>forgot that the sun warms the Earth because it got

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<v Speaker 1>really cool. It didn't get dark, it got a little shaded,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't get as dark, but it got cold, very cold,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we hurried home after the event to get

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<v Speaker 1>back so we could get some sweaters on because it

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<v Speaker 1>was not the warmest event. And I didn't even put

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<v Speaker 1>two and two together that the Sun being blocked by

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<v Speaker 1>the moon would make the temperature drop, but it did.

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<v Speaker 2>Indeed.

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<v Speaker 3>No, But I don't. I mean, I'm not taking away

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<v Speaker 3>from you or anybody else who had that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>having a moment with something like that, and people got people.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw people on TV getting men in teers getting

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<v Speaker 3>very emotional and worked up about people proposed at the

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<v Speaker 3>moment that the eclipse was happening. So no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>taking away from you and find it silly that you

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<v Speaker 3>were thinking that I just didn't. I just didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>that experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I wasn't crying or anything like that, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>okay if you did. I think, Oh, I do think

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<v Speaker 2>it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I think anytime you recognize just that you're a part

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<v Speaker 1>of something bigger than yourself, I can see where emotion

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<v Speaker 1>comes into play.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what it's like for you watching basketball?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? I always know you say that, I'm always that moment.

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<v Speaker 3>You always feel like there's something you're part of, something bigger.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to you. I guess over the past couple

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<v Speaker 3>of years, it's I don't know, you know, with all

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<v Speaker 3>the stuff I've been reading and studying and trying to

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<v Speaker 3>do better about and I don't want to call it

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<v Speaker 3>a did aj McClain just set a journey of self

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<v Speaker 3>discovery that sounds so lame, but the idea essentially being

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<v Speaker 3>you start to figure things out as you get older

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<v Speaker 3>and you start to reflect, and that's something I've been

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<v Speaker 3>for a while now realizing just how small we are,

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<v Speaker 3>just how insignificant we are, and we think all of

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<v Speaker 3>our problems are the biggest thing in the world and

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<v Speaker 3>they ain't nothing to nobody. Yeah and so so yeah

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<v Speaker 3>to your point, sometimes something like an eclipse could put

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<v Speaker 3>you back in that moment. But but yeah, it's always

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<v Speaker 3>a good reminder.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think sometimes for me, when I'm feeling overwhelmed

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<v Speaker 1>or getting caught up on something small that's bothering me,

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<v Speaker 1>if I just go out and look at the stars.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that easy to do in New York City.

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<v Speaker 1>Very often, but it's the same kind of a thing

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<v Speaker 1>where you just get this perspective of where we are

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<v Speaker 1>in the world and what we're focused on isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>At all what matters. So I love those moments. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a really cool moment to be a part of.

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<v Speaker 1>I was excited to be able to just be in

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<v Speaker 1>New York City for that and be around so many people,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone looking up to this guy for some greater meeting,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe just excited that they got a little time

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<v Speaker 1>off of work in the middle of the day. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, whatever it was, it was a really special

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<v Speaker 1>day and I'm just really happy to share it with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's very sweet. No, it was funny. It was funny,

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<v Speaker 3>something that rare. Oh, it's a treat to do something

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<v Speaker 3>like that in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we're about to be a part for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time in a long time for a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody needs a break, right, everybody needs a break.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we don't even realize we need a break.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness. All right, Well, wow, I wasn't expecting

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<v Speaker 2>that as a response.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I said maybe. I didn't say I would like.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't say I want, or I didn't say we need.

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<v Speaker 3>I say maybe. I mean. I don't have a hand

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<v Speaker 3>in us being a part.

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<v Speaker 2>I am heading out to see my oldest.

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<v Speaker 1>Daughter in Germany, So I'm going to go out just

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<v Speaker 1>for I think I'm gone for four days.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a quick trip. But what are you going to do.

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<v Speaker 3>While you're gone? Yeah, I will probably, I'm guessing fetal

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<v Speaker 3>position for several days. Uh, that's just a guess. I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't planned it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, you don't know what you're going to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm gonna do no hang out with the

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<v Speaker 3>mean Probably we'll kick it like crazy. Got the weekend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>champion cuaase tournaments over. Yeah, they had no friends in town.

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<v Speaker 3>My boys gonna be here. No, I'm gonna wait.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you said you were going out the first

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<v Speaker 1>night I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't know. I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you forgot, you forgot.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't forget. I just I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing. I haven't offered to go out, and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know if I'm going out that night or not.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if i'll be up for it. After

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna be gone, I'll be worried about your traveling.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, you're a warrior.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a warrior.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I've said you plenty of times. I get I'm I

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<v Speaker 3>get what's not pissed. I get really frustrated when we

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<v Speaker 3>are not a part but actually a part in traveling apart.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been through so much together and it always is

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<v Speaker 3>some I get an anxiety. I get fear that we're

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<v Speaker 3>not together. I'm not there with you, frankly.

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<v Speaker 1>To.

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<v Speaker 3>Protect you, to help you if anything goes on, and

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't like me apart from you in a way.

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<v Speaker 3>When somebody's traveling on the other side of the planet.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, I do get an anxiety about that, that

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<v Speaker 3>that while something's going to happen and all we've gone

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<v Speaker 3>through is in some way I do. I forgot about.

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<v Speaker 1>That, and so I know you've explained this to me,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's it's less about missing me and more about

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<v Speaker 1>something's going to happen to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh yeah, it is less about I mean, you put

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<v Speaker 3>it that way. It makes it sound bad. It's about No,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not a matter of missing you. I'm missing you

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<v Speaker 3>when you go to the bathroom. It's just uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that is a real thing I've talked to you about

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<v Speaker 3>for a while. I hate, hate, hate when we travel,

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<v Speaker 3>apart from extended periods and certainly long distances.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well we should book some travel together.

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<v Speaker 3>We do, we have.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to travel, you know this, right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>like to have at least I don't know, one trip

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<v Speaker 1>in the books, like I like to look up my apps,

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<v Speaker 1>like my flying apps, and see that I at least

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<v Speaker 1>have one thing bucked.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you that way? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I that don't. I don't want to. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't if I got a trip coming up in six weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I just hate it's almost like wait, looking looking forward

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<v Speaker 3>to the weekend, like if you're only living for the weekend,

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<v Speaker 3>you are not living well. So it's one of those

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<v Speaker 3>things like, oh, yeah, I just got to get through

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<v Speaker 3>these next six weeks so I can get to this

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<v Speaker 3>trip or oh, I'm just I know what you're saying

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<v Speaker 3>about looking forward to. But that's why I it doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>get in my head too, like I got today, trip

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<v Speaker 3>is coming, that's fine, but I just that's my mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I hear you, and I I'm with that too.

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<v Speaker 1>I love. I don't know who to attribute this to,

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<v Speaker 1>but I love. I read somewhere what brings you joy?

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<v Speaker 2>Or what? What? What's happiness? And it was you need

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<v Speaker 2>three things.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one you need something to do, Number two you

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<v Speaker 1>need someone to love, and number three you need something

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<v Speaker 1>to look forward to.

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<v Speaker 3>Your thoughts on that saying yeah, well, I've heard you

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<v Speaker 3>say it a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, so you've had time to think about what

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<v Speaker 2>you think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's clever, it's cute, it's fine, it's I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't what was the first one?

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<v Speaker 1>Again?

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<v Speaker 3>Something to do, something to do, somebody to love, and

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<v Speaker 3>something to look forward to. So what if I don't right,

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<v Speaker 3>or if I don't have somebody to love? What if

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have something to look forward to? What was

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<v Speaker 3>the first one?

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<v Speaker 1>You can love yourself and you can look forward to

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<v Speaker 1>waking up, something to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Something to do. I don't know. So what if I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Then where you are right now?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, but does that mean I am not living a

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<v Speaker 3>life that's full?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a kind of a subscription of prescription

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<v Speaker 1>for happiness.

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<v Speaker 2>It was what you know, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I need for happiness. If I don't have that,

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just according to one person, and it's something that

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<v Speaker 1>I actually agree with. But I told you, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who it was. It just read it somewhere and

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<v Speaker 1>it's stuck like bel crow.

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<v Speaker 3>It was on a bathroom stall.

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<v Speaker 2>You probably you never know. You never know. Uh, Now,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your prescription for happiness?

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<v Speaker 3>Selfishness? I think you have to take care of yourself first.

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<v Speaker 3>If you make sure you're healthy, you make sure you're

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<v Speaker 3>in a good place mentally and physically, you can then

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<v Speaker 3>actually be at peace and be of service to everything

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<v Speaker 3>and everybody around you. So I think that that sounds stup.

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<v Speaker 3>But nobody no prescription everybody is you selfish or usually

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<v Speaker 3>that's an insult. But I think I've learned, certainly the

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<v Speaker 3>past couple of years, that you have to have to

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<v Speaker 3>have to You are no good to anything, anybody anywhere

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<v Speaker 3>if you have not taken care of yourself first and foremost.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think that's where it starts. And you need

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<v Speaker 3>to be selfish about your time. You need to be

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<v Speaker 3>selfish about your health, you need to be selfish about

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<v Speaker 3>your mind. You need to be selfish about all of

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<v Speaker 3>those things. And I think you can get to a

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<v Speaker 3>peaceful place. And I think we say we look it

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<v Speaker 3>for happiness, but I think it's just peace.

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<v Speaker 1>Piece is definitely underrated. And I think when you've gone

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<v Speaker 1>through some TUMULTI you recognize it pretty quickly that that's

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing actually that you do have control over.

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<v Speaker 1>You can control that. Do you think this is interesting?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you come to that place? No one teaches

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<v Speaker 1>you that, or no one taught me that. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>selfish has a negative connotation. And then I wondered, have

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<v Speaker 1>I given that to my daughters? Have I taught them that?

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you get that belief from?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it's I mean, maybe it's again it's out of context.

0:25:45.920 --> 0:25:49.280
<v Speaker 3>It sounds awful to be selfish, but you've learned it

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<v Speaker 3>over time and experience that I was a bad dad,

0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:58.199
<v Speaker 3>I was a bad mate. I was a bad coworker

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<v Speaker 3>because I was too busy trying to be a good

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<v Speaker 3>dad and a good mate and a good coworker by

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<v Speaker 3>doing everything everybody around me wanted or expected, or grinding

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<v Speaker 3>myself to the ground, trying to accomplish something to make

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<v Speaker 3>everybody around me satisfied, to make everybody around me happy.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's you know, yeah, talked about it here, and

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<v Speaker 3>we'll talk about it down the road. But yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>get to a point where you almost you almost hit

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<v Speaker 3>rock bottom. And then I finally just started decided to

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<v Speaker 3>start taking care of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>And well, look at you now, are you happy?

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<v Speaker 3>I am at peace?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you're at peace.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to do you strive to be happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you strive to be joyful? Or is peaceful? Good enough? Good?

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<v Speaker 3>And peaceful?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it?

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's everything, the happiness. I don't need anything or

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<v Speaker 3>anybody to make me happy. I am. I have to

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<v Speaker 3>be comfortable in at peace where I am, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>at peace, and happiness just comes. It's a byproduct. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not even I don't need I'm looking at you in

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<v Speaker 3>the eye right now, I don't And I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>you want me to say that I don't need you

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<v Speaker 3>to make me happy. Right That's not enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I can make you happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah you could, you could give it a shot, though.

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<v Speaker 2>I do every day.

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<v Speaker 3>No, But the point being, if I am looking to

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<v Speaker 3>you to make me happy, we are doomed.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. I agree, one hundred percent dooms.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I have been a I've said this for

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<v Speaker 3>a while now, I'm the happiest and healthiest I have

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<v Speaker 3>been in my adult life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I know you said you don't. You like

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<v Speaker 1>to live in the moment and you don't like to

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily have something you have to look forward to. But

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<v Speaker 1>come on, the NBA is about to start up, just

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<v Speaker 1>as the college hoops are over.

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<v Speaker 2>You got another sporting event to be excited about.

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<v Speaker 3>Series, But no, that this is worse than I mean

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<v Speaker 3>for you, I mean than March madness. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>but that was two weekends of a lot of the

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<v Speaker 3>first weekend is back to back to back to back.

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<v Speaker 3>The game's nonsense up. When the NBA playoffs start, like

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<v Speaker 3>every night there's games boom boom, but like four or

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<v Speaker 3>five games every night the first week, a couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 3>that's gonna be rough.

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<v Speaker 2>When does that start?

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<v Speaker 3>How many games left in regular season? Probably only a

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<v Speaker 3>week left in regular season?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow?

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, yeah, a couple weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna be a couple weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, it's gonna be full steament.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get my whole list going. I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my new fun passed on to listen to the commentators.

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<v Speaker 3>You see, I have no idea about the NBA because

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<v Speaker 3>I've never listened to it with you to where I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what they say. It might be gross.

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<v Speaker 2>Buckle up, I can't wait. Yeah, I'm gonna make it

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<v Speaker 2>even more entertaining than it already is.