1 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Welcome everybody to Amy and TJ coming to you from 2 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: Los Angeles once again. 3 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: Whis in two weeks? How are you feeling? 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: DJ? 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 3: I feel like we're bi coastal. This podcast is now 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 3: bi coastal. This is the fast five podcast we've recorded, 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 3: including this one. Three out of the past five have 8 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 3: been recorded in Los Angeles. That feels by coastal. 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: It certainly does. And yet we've had a heck of 10 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: a few days in New York. Lots of this hasn't 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: happened in one hundred years. First actually in New York, 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: and it all began. I guess with the earthquake that 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: you felt and I didn't. And where were you when 14 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: it all hit? 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 3: Oh? I was in on the twenty seventh floor of 16 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: my place. Felt a little sway, thought it was there's 17 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 3: some construction work going on, so I thought it was 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: those guys. But but no, Now, I never would have 19 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 3: crossed my mind that it was actually an earthquake. And 20 00:00:59,160 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: everybody was all the. 21 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: Course until you heard like everyone's phones went into massive 22 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: emergency alert mode, which is always jarring. I was on 23 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: the second floor of a building getting some well. I 24 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: was at my anesthetician's office, which is basically not quite 25 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 1: a dermatologist, but someone who helps you stay young. And 26 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: I was getting a procedure done called micro needling, So 27 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: I had needles going into my face when the earthquake hit, 28 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: and so thank goodness, I didn't feel a thing, because 29 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: I actually later on thought what would that have actually 30 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 1: been like had something shook or moved. I had radio frequents, 31 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: like they are these needles that go into your skin, 32 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: like fairly deeply, and they just put out radio frequency 33 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: vibes into your skin into supposed to like stimulate your 34 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: own collagen and keep you looking young. But anyway, can 35 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: you imagine I was getting that done when the earthquake hit. 36 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 2: Thank goodness, I didn't feel a thing. Thank goodness. Our 37 00:01:58,600 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 2: buildings are. 38 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: Well supposedly most of them earthquake proof. We'll see they 39 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: haven't been fully tested. But five point eight on the 40 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: Richter scale, and didn't feel a thing. 41 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: It was a five point eight, Yes, oh, I didn't 42 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 3: realize it was that. That's a very serious earthquake. 43 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 2: So there wasn't. 44 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been eighteen eighty four, was the last one 45 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: that hit five point zero or above? And so you know, 46 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: they always say you're due your dual. Anyway, we got that. 47 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: Apparently there were some aftershocks felt none of those. I 48 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: felt nothing. I was a little disappointed. I kind of 49 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: wanted to feel the swaying. But you didn't even realize 50 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: it was an earthquake. 51 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 3: No, I mean, you got could tell there was swaying. 52 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 3: It's just a matter you don't think in New York. 53 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 3: I've been in two earthquakes in my life. That was 54 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: the second, but that was you don't The first thought 55 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 3: is never. I felt strong winds in New York before 56 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 3: on the in a high rise and you feel a 57 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 3: little swaying, but there's no way the first thing that 58 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 3: crosses your mind is an earthquake. 59 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: So we were all okay, got text from my mom. 60 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: Do you get text from people checking in on you 61 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: making sure you were okay? 62 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 3: Not really actually all right? 63 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: Well, my mom definitely checked in on me to make 64 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: sure we were okay. And that all worked out. So 65 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: that was that started off a couple of days of 66 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: some madness. March madness actually continued this weekend and I 67 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: really got into the women's games. We had some fun 68 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: watching that, and I also had some fun watching the 69 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: men's games for another reason. 70 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: Which was, Well, let's just say this. 71 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: You've told me that you've never enjoyed watching basketball so 72 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: much because I point out all the things that are 73 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: not sports related. 74 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: I just say that to you. It's it's it's it's no, 75 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 3: I don't like watching basketball like that. You you point 76 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 3: out the color of the guy's shoes. You got me 77 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 3: focused on woman on the fourth row. I'm missing the 78 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 3: game because you're pointing out some oddities in the game. 79 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: You distract me from the game. So it's hilarious. Don't 80 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 3: get me wrong, but yeah, you focus on everything except basketball. 81 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: Well, I do like to watch the game, but when 82 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: it's a little slow or they're missing their shots, I 83 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: like to maybe just look at some of the local color. 84 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: I got really into the commentators this time. I actually 85 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: had a running list, because I don't know if anyone 86 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: else out there who I mean. 87 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 2: I've always watched sports. I love college football. 88 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: My dad and my brother were a big sports watchers, 89 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: so it's not some new foreign thing to me. But 90 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: I've never watched this much sports like this much basketball, 91 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: Like we don't miss a game, or you definitely don't 92 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,119 Speaker 1: miss a game, and I don't think I've missed many 93 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: But what I kind of started finding a little funny 94 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: was if anyone else just can listen to the commentators, 95 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 1: there are so many sexual innuendos that they make when 96 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: they're talking. I don't know if it goes for all 97 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: sports or if it's just basketball, but there were a 98 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: lot of phrases that were and you were noticing them 99 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 1: too correct. 100 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 3: Uh, no, you were pointing them out. But I've been 101 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 3: watching by bsketball my entire life. I've never heard some 102 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 3: of the things you pointed out. With the last few. 103 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: Days, there's a lot like pounded it in down below, 104 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 1: might as well ride him while he's on the floor. 105 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: They'll take it anyway they can get it, massages it 106 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: with his left hand. I mean, we were having some 107 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 1: fun with it. It was kind of like NonStop if you 108 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: really listen for it. Anyway, if anyone's bored and they're 109 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: watching a game, if you just listen for this, it 110 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: actually is quite funny because it never disappoints. 111 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 2: It hasn't yet. 112 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: Again, it's not if you're watching the basketball game. All 113 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 3: that stuff makes perfect thing, no sexual connotation at all. 114 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 3: He massages it in with his left hand. A guy 115 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: shot a hook shot with his left hand and it 116 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: barely just got over the front of the rim, so 117 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 3: it massage. He massaged it in. He eased it in 118 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 3: with his left hand. The other guy, he was hot 119 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 3: on the floor. I think he was in foul trouble. 120 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 3: So hey, you keep feeding them and you might as 121 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 3: well ride him while he's on the floor. That all 122 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: makes perfect sense if you're a sports fan. You're a 123 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 3: basketball fan, and that never in life did any of 124 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 3: those things have any sexual connotation until you started pointing 125 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 3: all this stuff out. 126 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: But then I just think it adds some levity and 127 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: some fun. You can still concentrate on the game, and 128 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 1: if you just keep your air out for that, it's 129 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: just an extra layer of fun. 130 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 3: Just I don't need it. 131 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 1: I get it. 132 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 3: I'll get what you're saying. You're not a man. I 133 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 3: know it's fine. You're not necessarily a basket you and 134 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: just watch a basket. You need other things to entertain you, 135 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 3: to keep you engaged. Same thing with Sabine. Sometimes watching 136 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 3: football with me, she'll point out some silly stuff on 137 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: a stat or something on the bottom of the screen. 138 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 3: I'm not paying attention to because she's not necessarily into 139 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 3: the game. What you're saying makes sense, makes a perfect sense, 140 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 3: and you got to kick out of it. But if 141 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 3: it keeps you on the couch watching the game and engaged, 142 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 3: I'm okay with it. 143 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 144 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: And it's like I think this all came out of 145 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: it's not just watching a game, it's watching lots and 146 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: lots and lots of games. So anyway, I found a 147 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: way to make it even extra fun for myself and 148 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: enjoyed this weekend a lot. 149 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 2: What did you think of the games? What did you 150 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 2: think of the comes? 151 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 3: I was very disappointed in the National Championship because you 152 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 3: wait all year, I watched basketball all year. You're waiting 153 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: for the championship game. You'd like for it to be 154 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 3: a little more competitive. Yukon is unreal. So they just 155 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 3: they made the game not a game. There's that good. 156 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 3: So the run they've been on back to back championships, 157 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 3: congrats to Yukon for what they pulled off is really 158 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 3: really impressive. But as a basketball fan who didn't have 159 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: a dog in the fight that was Arkansas playing, sure 160 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: I want them to blow somebody out, but anybody else playing, 161 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 3: I would like to see a competitive game. But they 162 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 3: were impressive and on the women's side. That was the 163 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 3: marquee Final four, Yukon women against Iowa and Kaitlyn Clark. 164 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 3: Paige Becker's from Yukon against Kaitlyn Clark. Just what the 165 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 3: women have done with the game now, they are the 166 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 3: they are the highlights. They are the one that was 167 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 3: a more interesting final four. You know my schedule. I 168 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 3: scheduled my day completely around watching women's basketball and canceled 169 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 3: plans with some people because of women's college basketball. It's 170 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 3: just what they've done is unreal. And if you're not 171 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: paying attention, I hope you continue. It's not just about 172 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 3: Caitlin Clark. Yes, she got people involved, but man, I 173 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 3: hope that this brings more and more eyeballs to women's 174 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 3: college basketball and women's basketball in general. But this is 175 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 3: just an unbelievable run. And I applaud South Carolina. Congratulations 176 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 3: Dawn Staley what they've done. But it's just the women's 177 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 3: game is unreal right now. 178 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 1: And you have said this, you prefer watching the women 179 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: play to the men. I really got into it. It 180 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: was so fun to be We actually went out for 181 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: that game and to see this bar packed in Manhattan, men, women, old, young, 182 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: you know, all everyone coming together to cheer on women's basketball. 183 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: That wouldn't have happened five years ago, would it have 184 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: ten years ago? I mean, this is a fairly new 185 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: phenomenon and to what do you attribute that? 186 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: And does it have legs? 187 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 3: No, it's a matter of I mean, they're hardcore basketball 188 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 3: fans who have followed the women's game. Now it's just 189 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 3: brought more people in to watch a college women's college 190 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 3: game in January versus just watching March Madness. Right, Kaitlyn 191 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 3: clark Is, she's completely responded on stay leave South Carolina. 192 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 3: But you go back to pat Summit and Tennessee, you 193 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 3: go back to what Gino Arama has done at Yukon. 194 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 3: I mean there's been eyes on women's college basketball, but 195 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 3: nothing like this before. So yeah, Caitlyn is just I mean, 196 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 3: you know the nil stuff. Kids are being being able 197 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 3: to be in commercials now. I think that's been the issue. 198 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 3: I think you always you need to invest in the 199 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 3: players and making them the highlight reel. So I've always 200 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:56,479 Speaker 3: I've preferred to watch women's college basketball over NBA basketball 201 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 3: during the regular season NBA playoffs than mere love that 202 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 3: high intensity. But during the year, the beauty of the 203 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 3: college game and the women's game. It's been there for 204 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 3: a long time, just some people are starting to pay 205 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 3: more attention. 206 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: Well, it was fun going out with you and seeing 207 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: that and just honestly seeing I was noticing tables full 208 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: of girls. You know, they weren't on dates, they weren't 209 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: with their boyfriends. These girls got out together to come 210 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: cheer on the women. It was just it was really fun. 211 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: It was really cool to watch. And you mentioned, you know, 212 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: you schedule your day around We've scheduled our weeks, our 213 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 1: weekends around these games. 214 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: And there was a little opening. 215 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: Was it on Sunday and we got to see something 216 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: that we were both very excited about. It was the 217 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: first OMEN, so we got to mix a little sports 218 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 1: and a little horror movie and it did not disappoint. 219 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: I've always said my favorite horror movie of all time 220 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: goes back to Gregory Peck The OMEN, the original, and 221 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: we actually rewatched it again just to get ready for it, 222 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: and then you know, you just think it's not going 223 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: to be as good, it's going to disappoint, and it 224 00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 1: was awesome. 225 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 2: It was so good. 226 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: Highly recommend if you're a horror movie fan. It was 227 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: It was so good. 228 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 3: What did you think, Oh, the first time it's I 229 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 3: was disappointed, not in the movie going into it. How 230 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 3: people were putting Immaculate against the first omen uh none 231 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 3: what they call it, none exploitation what they call it. 232 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 3: But it's pitting them against each other, just saying, well, 233 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 3: they're kind of the same concept. And if you see 234 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 3: this when you're probably not going to see that one. 235 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 3: But the movie, don't know. The movie did not disappoint 236 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 3: in the least bit. It is I mean, wow, we 237 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 3: we we saw a disappointing horror movie not too long ago. 238 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: Yeah we did. 239 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 3: I don't want to not We were looking forward to 240 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 3: it for so long and it was a dud. This 241 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 3: was not one of them. This one delivered, so job 242 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 3: well done. I don't want to not do what the 243 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 3: movie was. 244 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say what it was because it 245 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 1: was kind of funny that we had high hopes for 246 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: it in the first place, if you think about the concept, 247 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: but I get it, I get it. 248 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, no, But for the first OMEN highly recommended. 249 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,599 Speaker 3: It didn't have the greatest weekend opening weekend at the 250 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 3: box office, but we are here endorsing and pushing and 251 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 3: plugging and by all means, go see that movie, the 252 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 3: first Omen, especially if you liked the first the original 253 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 3: excuse me. 254 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, because they even paid homage to Gregory Peck. I 255 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: mean they weave in the story so well so that 256 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: it literally ends, because it's a prequel obviously the first Omen, 257 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: it ends going straight into the original OMEN in such 258 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: a perfect way. They did such a good job. We 259 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 1: liked it so much we went home and then watched 260 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: the OMEN two just to kind of continue the fun. 261 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 1: So anyway, it really got us back into that groove 262 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: and that series of horror movies that I absolutely love. 263 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: And so I was just I love it when you 264 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: don't get disappointed when you're looking forward to a movie 265 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: and then it's maybe even better than you thought. It was, 266 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: So hats off to everyone involved in the first moment 267 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: because I can't wait to actually watch it again when 268 00:12:58,760 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: it's streaming. 269 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 2: So that's how good it was. 270 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: And then, oh my goodness, we had a total solar eclipse. 271 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 2: It was ninety percent in New York City. 272 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 3: No, it was well, I mean that was I don't 273 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 3: know what to call that. It was eclipse mania to 274 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 3: a certain degree. For a little while. All the we 275 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 3: were part of that for so long, the mania in 276 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 3: building something out being a part of the media networks, 277 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 3: and I mean they had countdowns going for a week. 278 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 3: I swear to God about it coming, and but it's 279 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 3: just I can't get away from it. It's just so 280 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: rare that we in this country, or even in town 281 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 3: states wherever you are, that we have such a communal 282 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 3: event like that, to where everybody is on board and 283 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 3: excited about something and not us versus them, and we're 284 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 3: not on different sides or something. And I likened it 285 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 3: in New York to the to the New York City Marathon. 286 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 3: It's it's rare that we just have the community, the 287 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 3: whole city come together for something like that, and it 288 00:13:59,040 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 3: was fun to see. 289 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 2: I agree. 290 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: And the cool thing is, yes, this is the first 291 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: time where we got to actually just participate. We got 292 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: to just be spectators. We weren't covering it like we'd 293 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 1: always done before. You were actually where were you the 294 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: last there was an eclipse? A few years back? You 295 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: actually went to one of the epicenters now in Indiana, Illinois, Illinois, Illinois, 296 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: So you were working, we were all working. The last 297 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't a total solar eclipse. I don't believe it 298 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: was a partial one, correct this one though, this one 299 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: was the total. 300 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 2: But so was. 301 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 1: This hadn't happened in New York City again in nearly 302 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: one hundred years, I believe. So this was a big, 303 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: big deal and I had so much fun. We you 304 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: and I went to lunch. We kind of planned a 305 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: whole day around the eclipse. We walked over to the 306 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: West Side Highway. We staked out a little spot on 307 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: one of the piers, and the cool thing was watching 308 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: everybody come out whatever they were doing. And I liked 309 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: watching people watching the eclipse. 310 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 2: That was like super fun. 311 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: We had to share us a of glasses because we 312 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: only had one pair that Simene gave us. 313 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: So while you were looking around. 314 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: I was looking we were able to kind of look 315 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: around and watch people just be in awe of mother nature. 316 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: I think it sounds a little sappy, but when you're 317 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: looking up at something like that, you are forced to 318 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: recognize that we're a little ball floating around in the 319 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: middle of the sky in space, and just how small 320 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: we all are, but how a part of this larger 321 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: universe we are. So it kind of gives you this 322 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: like crazy perspective when you're looking at this unbelievable event happened, 323 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: and I don't know, I just felt it felt like 324 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 1: a moment where you felt connected not just to everyone 325 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: around you all watching it, but to the universe and beyond. 326 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 2: Did you feel any of that? 327 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 3: I didn't feel, okay, a single bit. I got a 328 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 3: little cold when the moon covered the sun. The temperature 329 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 3: dropped pretty severely. But yeah, I didn't. I didn't have 330 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 3: the out of body experience you seem to. 331 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: No, it wasn't an out of body it was it 332 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: was actually feeling connected. And funny enough, Yes, I too 333 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: forgot that the sun warms the Earth because it got 334 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: really cool. It didn't get dark, it got a little shaded, 335 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: it didn't get as dark, but it got cold, very cold, 336 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: and so we hurried home after the event to get 337 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 1: back so we could get some sweaters on because it 338 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: was not the warmest event. And I didn't even put 339 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: two and two together that the Sun being blocked by 340 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: the moon would make the temperature drop, but it did. 341 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 2: Indeed. 342 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 3: No, But I don't. I mean, I'm not taking away 343 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 3: from you or anybody else who had that, you know, 344 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 3: having a moment with something like that, and people got people. 345 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 3: I saw people on TV getting men in teers getting 346 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 3: very emotional and worked up about people proposed at the 347 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: moment that the eclipse was happening. So no, I'm not 348 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 3: taking away from you and find it silly that you 349 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 3: were thinking that I just didn't. I just didn't have 350 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 3: that experience. 351 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 2: Well I wasn't crying or anything like that, but it's 352 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 2: okay if you did. I think, Oh, I do think 353 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 2: it's cool. 354 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: I think anytime you recognize just that you're a part 355 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: of something bigger than yourself, I can see where emotion 356 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: comes into play. 357 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 2: Is that what it's like for you watching basketball? 358 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 3: Uh? I always know you say that, I'm always that moment. 359 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 3: You always feel like there's something you're part of, something bigger. 360 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 3: I have to you. I guess over the past couple 361 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 3: of years, it's I don't know, you know, with all 362 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 3: the stuff I've been reading and studying and trying to 363 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 3: do better about and I don't want to call it 364 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 3: a did aj McClain just set a journey of self 365 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 3: discovery that sounds so lame, but the idea essentially being 366 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 3: you start to figure things out as you get older 367 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: and you start to reflect, and that's something I've been 368 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 3: for a while now realizing just how small we are, 369 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 3: just how insignificant we are, and we think all of 370 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 3: our problems are the biggest thing in the world and 371 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 3: they ain't nothing to nobody. Yeah and so so yeah 372 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 3: to your point, sometimes something like an eclipse could put 373 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 3: you back in that moment. But but yeah, it's always 374 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: a good reminder. 375 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: And I think sometimes for me, when I'm feeling overwhelmed 376 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 1: or getting caught up on something small that's bothering me, 377 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 1: if I just go out and look at the stars. 378 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 2: It's not that easy to do in New York City. 379 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:21,719 Speaker 1: Very often, but it's the same kind of a thing 380 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: where you just get this perspective of where we are 381 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 1: in the world and what we're focused on isn't. 382 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 2: At all what matters. So I love those moments. It 383 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:33,439 Speaker 2: was a really cool moment to be a part of. 384 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 1: I was excited to be able to just be in 385 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 1: New York City for that and be around so many people, 386 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: everyone looking up to this guy for some greater meeting, 387 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: or maybe just excited that they got a little time 388 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: off of work in the middle of the day. I 389 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 1: don't know, whatever it was, it was a really special 390 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: day and I'm just really happy to share it with you. 391 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 3: Oh that's very sweet. No, it was funny. It was funny, 392 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 3: something that rare. Oh, it's a treat to do something 393 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 3: like that in New York. 394 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're about to be a part for the 395 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: first time in a long time for a couple of days. 396 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 3: Everybody needs a break, right, everybody needs a break. 397 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 2: Right. Oh my goodness. 398 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 3: Maybe we don't even realize we need a break. 399 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. All right, Well, wow, I wasn't expecting 400 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: that as a response. 401 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,679 Speaker 3: No, I said maybe. I didn't say I would like. 402 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 3: I didn't say I want, or I didn't say we need. 403 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 3: I say maybe. I mean. I don't have a hand 404 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 3: in us being a part. 405 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 2: I am heading out to see my oldest. 406 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: Daughter in Germany, So I'm going to go out just 407 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 1: for I think I'm gone for four days. 408 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 2: It's a quick trip. But what are you going to do. 409 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 3: While you're gone? Yeah, I will probably, I'm guessing fetal 410 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 3: position for several days. Uh, that's just a guess. I 411 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 3: haven't planned it out. 412 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 2: Really, you don't know what you're going to do. 413 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 3: I know I'm gonna do no hang out with the 414 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: mean Probably we'll kick it like crazy. Got the weekend. Yeah, 415 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 3: champion cuaase tournaments over. Yeah, they had no friends in town. 416 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 3: My boys gonna be here. No, I'm gonna wait. 417 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: I thought you said you were going out the first 418 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 1: night I'm leaving. 419 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I haven't. 420 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 2: Oh, you forgot, you forgot. 421 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,199 Speaker 3: No, I didn't forget. I just I don't know what 422 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 3: I'm doing. I haven't offered to go out, and I 423 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 3: don't know if I'm going out that night or not. 424 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 3: I don't know if i'll be up for it. After 425 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 3: you're gonna be gone, I'll be worried about your traveling. 426 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 2: Really, you're a warrior. 427 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 3: I'm not a warrior. 428 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 2: I know. 429 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 3: I've said you plenty of times. I get I'm I 430 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 3: get what's not pissed. I get really frustrated when we 431 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 3: are not a part but actually a part in traveling apart. 432 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 3: We've been through so much together and it always is 433 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 3: some I get an anxiety. I get fear that we're 434 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 3: not together. I'm not there with you, frankly. 435 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 1: To. 436 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 3: Protect you, to help you if anything goes on, and 437 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 3: I just don't like me apart from you in a way. 438 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 3: When somebody's traveling on the other side of the planet. 439 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 3: And yeah, I do get an anxiety about that, that 440 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 3: that while something's going to happen and all we've gone 441 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 3: through is in some way I do. I forgot about. 442 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: That, and so I know you've explained this to me, 443 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: but it's it's less about missing me and more about 444 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 1: something's going to happen to me. 445 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 3: Uh yeah, it is less about I mean, you put 446 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 3: it that way. It makes it sound bad. It's about No, 447 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 3: it's not a matter of missing you. I'm missing you 448 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 3: when you go to the bathroom. It's just uh yeah, 449 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 3: that is a real thing I've talked to you about 450 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 3: for a while. I hate, hate, hate when we travel, 451 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 3: apart from extended periods and certainly long distances. 452 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, well we should book some travel together. 453 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,920 Speaker 3: We do, we have. 454 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: I love to travel, you know this, right, And I 455 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,959 Speaker 1: like to have at least I don't know, one trip 456 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 1: in the books, like I like to look up my apps, 457 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 1: like my flying apps, and see that I at least 458 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: have one thing bucked. 459 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 3: Are you that way? No? 460 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 2: I didn't think so. 461 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 3: No, No, I that don't. I don't want to. I 462 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 3: don't if I got a trip coming up in six weeks. 463 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 3: I just hate it's almost like wait, looking looking forward 464 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 3: to the weekend, like if you're only living for the weekend, 465 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,400 Speaker 3: you are not living well. So it's one of those 466 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 3: things like, oh, yeah, I just got to get through 467 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 3: these next six weeks so I can get to this 468 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 3: trip or oh, I'm just I know what you're saying 469 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 3: about looking forward to. But that's why I it doesn't 470 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 3: get in my head too, like I got today, trip 471 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 3: is coming, that's fine, but I just that's my mindset. 472 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 1: No, I hear you, and I I'm with that too. 473 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 1: I love. I don't know who to attribute this to, 474 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: but I love. I read somewhere what brings you joy? 475 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 2: Or what? What? What's happiness? And it was you need 476 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: three things. 477 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 1: Number one you need something to do, Number two you 478 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 1: need someone to love, and number three you need something 479 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 1: to look forward to. 480 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 3: Your thoughts on that saying yeah, well, I've heard you 481 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 3: say it a lot. 482 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 2: I know, so you've had time to think about what 483 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 2: you think about it. 484 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 3: No, it's clever, it's cute, it's fine, it's I mean, 485 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 3: I don't what was the first one? 486 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: Again? 487 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 3: Something to do, something to do, somebody to love, and 488 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 3: something to look forward to. So what if I don't right, 489 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 3: or if I don't have somebody to love? What if 490 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 3: I don't have something to look forward to? What was 491 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 3: the first one? 492 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: You can love yourself and you can look forward to 493 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 1: waking up, something to do. 494 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 3: Something to do. I don't know. So what if I don't. 495 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 2: Then where you are right now? 496 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:42,959 Speaker 1: No? 497 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 3: Mean, but does that mean I am not living a 498 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 3: life that's full? 499 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 2: No? 500 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 1: It was just a kind of a subscription of prescription 501 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: for happiness. 502 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 2: It was what you know, that's. 503 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 3: That's what I need for happiness. If I don't have that, 504 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 3: I know. 505 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: That's just according to one person, and it's something that 506 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,640 Speaker 1: I actually agree with. But I told you, I don't 507 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,159 Speaker 1: know who it was. It just read it somewhere and 508 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: it's stuck like bel crow. 509 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 3: It was on a bathroom stall. 510 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 2: You probably you never know. You never know. Uh, Now, 511 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: what's your prescription for happiness? 512 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 3: Selfishness? I think you have to take care of yourself first. 513 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 3: If you make sure you're healthy, you make sure you're 514 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 3: in a good place mentally and physically, you can then 515 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 3: actually be at peace and be of service to everything 516 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 3: and everybody around you. So I think that that sounds stup. 517 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 3: But nobody no prescription everybody is you selfish or usually 518 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 3: that's an insult. But I think I've learned, certainly the 519 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 3: past couple of years, that you have to have to 520 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 3: have to You are no good to anything, anybody anywhere 521 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 3: if you have not taken care of yourself first and foremost. 522 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 3: So I think that's where it starts. And you need 523 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 3: to be selfish about your time. You need to be 524 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 3: selfish about your health, you need to be selfish about 525 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 3: your mind. You need to be selfish about all of 526 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 3: those things. And I think you can get to a 527 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 3: peaceful place. And I think we say we look it 528 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 3: for happiness, but I think it's just peace. 529 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: Piece is definitely underrated. And I think when you've gone 530 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: through some TUMULTI you recognize it pretty quickly that that's 531 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: the one thing actually that you do have control over. 532 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: You can control that. Do you think this is interesting? 533 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: How did you come to that place? No one teaches 534 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 1: you that, or no one taught me that. In fact, 535 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 1: selfish has a negative connotation. And then I wondered, have 536 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: I given that to my daughters? Have I taught them that? 537 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: Where did you get that belief from? 538 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 3: Maybe it's I mean, maybe it's again it's out of context. 539 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 3: It sounds awful to be selfish, but you've learned it 540 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 3: over time and experience that I was a bad dad, 541 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,199 Speaker 3: I was a bad mate. I was a bad coworker 542 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 3: because I was too busy trying to be a good 543 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 3: dad and a good mate and a good coworker by 544 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 3: doing everything everybody around me wanted or expected, or grinding 545 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 3: myself to the ground, trying to accomplish something to make 546 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 3: everybody around me satisfied, to make everybody around me happy. 547 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 3: And it's you know, yeah, talked about it here, and 548 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 3: we'll talk about it down the road. But yeah, you 549 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 3: get to a point where you almost you almost hit 550 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 3: rock bottom. And then I finally just started decided to 551 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 3: start taking care of myself. 552 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: And well, look at you now, are you happy? 553 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 3: I am at peace? 554 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 2: Yes, you're at peace. 555 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: Do you want to do you strive to be happy? 556 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 1: Do you strive to be joyful? Or is peaceful? Good enough? Good? 557 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 3: And peaceful? 558 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 1: Is it? 559 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 3: That's that's everything, the happiness. I don't need anything or 560 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 3: anybody to make me happy. I am. I have to 561 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 3: be comfortable in at peace where I am, and I'm 562 00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,400 Speaker 3: at peace, and happiness just comes. It's a byproduct. It's 563 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,399 Speaker 3: not even I don't need I'm looking at you in 564 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,239 Speaker 3: the eye right now, I don't And I don't think 565 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 3: you want me to say that I don't need you 566 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 3: to make me happy. Right That's not enough. 567 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 2: I don't think I can make you happy. 568 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 3: Yeah you could, you could give it a shot, though. 569 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 2: I do every day. 570 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 3: No, But the point being, if I am looking to 571 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 3: you to make me happy, we are doomed. 572 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 2: I agree. I agree, one hundred percent dooms. 573 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 3: So yeah, I have been a I've said this for 574 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 3: a while now, I'm the happiest and healthiest I have 575 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 3: been in my adult life. 576 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: You know, I know you said you don't. You like 577 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 1: to live in the moment and you don't like to 578 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 1: necessarily have something you have to look forward to. But 579 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: come on, the NBA is about to start up, just 580 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 1: as the college hoops are over. 581 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 2: You got another sporting event to be excited about. 582 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,920 Speaker 3: Series, But no, that this is worse than I mean 583 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 3: for you, I mean than March madness. I don't know, 584 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 3: but that was two weekends of a lot of the 585 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 3: first weekend is back to back to back to back. 586 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 3: The game's nonsense up. When the NBA playoffs start, like 587 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 3: every night there's games boom boom, but like four or 588 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 3: five games every night the first week, a couple of weeks, 589 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 3: that's gonna be rough. 590 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 2: When does that start? 591 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 3: How many games left in regular season? Probably only a 592 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 3: week left in regular season? 593 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 2: Oh wow? 594 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, a couple weeks. 595 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 2: Gonna be a couple weeks. 596 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's gonna be full steament. 597 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my whole list going. I can't wait. 598 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: It's my new fun passed on to listen to the commentators. 599 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 3: You see, I have no idea about the NBA because 600 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 3: I've never listened to it with you to where I 601 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,640 Speaker 3: don't know what they say. It might be gross. 602 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 2: Buckle up, I can't wait. Yeah, I'm gonna make it 603 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 2: even more entertaining than it already is.