WEBVTT - Episode 109: Feat. TK Kirkland and Saniy'yah Samaa 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:06.920 Alright, what's up. It's lip service. I'm Angela, yea, I'm 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:10.239 Stephanie Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire. It's the ladies and 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:13.080 we have two special guests with us to Nia and 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:16.239 you know her from basketball wife and we got T. K. 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:18.720 Kirkland and you know him just from everywhere, a little 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:22.439 bit of South comedian extraordinaire. Glad to be here. Now 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:26.360 you have met before, That's what I heard. I was, 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:28.560 I was being a gentleman. She she put it out there, 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:31.480 So how do we meet? I was actually in l 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:34.839 A filming, flying from l A X to Philadelphia. You 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:37.400 did you were doing a show on Philly Problems. How 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:40.159 long ago? A couple of months ago? Okay, okay, you 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:42.760 was trying to Mac and what did I say? I 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:46.480 wouldn't remembered, baby, I'll be looking up in the airport, okay, 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.879 and I still talking wire going or nothing. So when 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:51.400 I was making what did I say? I'm curious on 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:53.680 what I remember, but it was like, um, you're going 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:56.680 to Philly and we're clearly at the same gate. It 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:59.480 was like I gotta show. It's just let me and 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.840 I'm glad. A young lady put that there. Let me 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:05.040 spain to women what you gotta understand, if you gotta 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:08.160 really know. But nigger really trying to hollow, he's being 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:11.000 a gentleman. It's because it's two different things. And the 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:13.000 reason why I say, I tell my daughters that my 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.480 daughters when we hang out, they're only four taking fifteen. 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:19.360 But there I am talking. He's looking at me. I said, 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:22.160 if a motherfucker ain't saying nothing to you, or really 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.600 pursue that he was trying to get you. He was 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:26.720 just looking at So my point is you are a 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:31.360 beautiful woman. I wasn't trying to make you anything. If 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.080 I even if I asked for your number proper, was 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:34.839 trying to put you on the guest lets or something 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:37.320 for the show. Yeah, that's what I did. So I 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.679 wasn't trying to houmen. Let me spend to the kind 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:42.200 of man I am. I'm much older than a lot 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:45.000 of people. I come from everywhere. You have to be. 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:48.600 I believe in being an extreme gentleman. You can't say 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:51.360 hello to women no more and be a gentleman without 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:54.000 people thinking the wrong thing. So I wind up staying 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:58.440 quiet because it's perceived to be something totally different. You 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:01.320 understand you put hearts under her Instagram page or something 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.560 like that. Is that, you know what I think. I 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:05.880 think I might do that, but I think I do 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:08.359 it because you're gonna laugh. I like the colorists on 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.440 the ship. When I hit Sin, you know, it's like 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:14.160 it doesn't really like it's definitely an emoji person. If 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.920 you text him, he's definitely in every text back. Right, 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:19.560 it's gonna be sometimes of emoji. And that's something that 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:22.639 I started doing because when you don't text me back 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:25.720 with an emoji, I'm gonna feel the fucking connection. I 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:28.320 find it rude, like where the fun is my emoji? 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:34.760 Because sometimes guys and emojis are a weird thing. But 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.560 here's the thing I've come from. Error. I come from 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:43.480 a street error. To see nigga's taking pictures and being 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:47.320 outside with a group of niggas holding the camera, posing 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:51.040 and making sure that the angle was right. To this 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:55.519 day is the most funniest thing in the world. I laughed. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.160 I don't tell the guy's nothing to make him feel uncomfortable, 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.320 but it's the funniest thing in the world. Come on, 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:04.280 send us Ali exactly, you know, then they get decided 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:09.520 and to see that change because I used to talk 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:14.440 about um Twitter and Instagram where people will post where 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:16.720 they're going to be, and I was like, yo, street 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:20.160 Nick is about to start kidnapping. Motherfucker's no one told 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:22.280 where they were going to be. How does this get 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:25.360 broken into so this day and we came from ever Also, 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.560 you couldn't say where you was going with your parents. 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.639 You lived your parents, and you told somebody that she 0:03:30.760 --> 0:03:32.519 was going to Disneyland or going out of town, you 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.639 wouldn't go your parents. We ain't gonna know. Motherfucker were 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.160 down because you got to bear telling people where you 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.600 go was it was just forbidden. My parents just went 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.000 on a cruise recently, right, they're back now. But my 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.760 dad was like that, don't tell anyone. Yeah, you think 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:48.760 I'm gonna go on the radio in the world. I 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:54.960 love him already. I love him already and that's true. Alright, parents, 0:03:56.520 --> 0:04:00.200 she's sweet. I already know parents are good parents. Yell. Now, 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:01.800 we usually start with the tip of the day. So 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.960 since Cinni and t K had that interaction in the airport, 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.760 today's tip of the day is, how do you mac 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:10.120 to try to get the attention of a young lady 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:13.040 or a young man because women are aggressive now to it, 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:15.480 that's true, that's true for it. Also, what are some 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.520 things that you can do to mac on somebody in 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:23.840 the airport? M That is really interesting? Good because t K, 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:26.719 you're just being a jail But it's funny because he 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:30.680 was really polite. I really don't know how to take 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.839 it now because it could have been right just what 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.880 he's doing and I'm just real. But the funniest part 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.760 was like, you're going to Philadelphia work clearly in the 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.000 same gate, right, but you could have a layover, you 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:43.839 could have over. It was like the last thing about 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.479 a man. Yeah, but the thing about a man is 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:49.159 that you can't assume. Yeah, you have to actually put 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.560 the question out there so that you don't look crazy, 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:53.600 because you like, are you going to feel No, I'm 0:04:53.600 --> 0:04:56.000 gonna lay over and I'm going somewhere up now you 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:57.600 look like a damn fool. Or you could have been 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.279 waiting for somebody, because it's been times I've not a 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:03.200 woman she's attracted. I'm just holding a conversation and then 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.960 all of a sudden, something big dude coming out of nowhere, 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:08.560 and I'm like, hey, what's going on? She was just 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:11.479 telling me about no women tell me like, I'm here 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:14.000 with my boyfriend, but i still hold a conversation because 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:16.760 I'm not trying to holler. I'm just a gentleman. I 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:19.360 enjoy people. But the thing with the ladies in this room, 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.919 I'll say is that everybody here is very attractive. Everybody's 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.120 attracted that they're used to guys. When a guy just 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:26.680 comes up and starts making conversation with you, you're like, oh, 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:30.200 here it goes because it is that's true, that is true, 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.279 and I feel sorry for somebody like you go up 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:35.679 to women that aren't attractive and start conversation everybody. I'm 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:39.840 polite to everybody, I really am, and I'm like that. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.560 But it's a it's a gift and a curse to 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.960 because even the ones that's really not attractive as well, 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.400 assume that you're trying to holler, and then you like 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.760 ten years later like, oh you trying to have like bitch, 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.960 I saw you and I just said, hello, what are 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.760 you talking about it? It wasn't even like that, you know, 0:05:55.839 --> 0:06:01.920 when I'm trying to pursue you, because I do it strategically. Strategically. 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:04.560 You get a woman's number and you talk to him 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.480 on the phone as many times as possible to find 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.080 out if you really like a person, see the problem. 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:11.320 And I've been trying to tell on my show, and 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.200 I try to teach young man stop trying to get 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:16.440 into a woman's pants and in the first twenty four hour, 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:20.000 because this is how damn everybody gets damaged immediately because 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:23.880 you're chasing, um, the coucie. The woman is attractive, but 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:26.240 then once you hook up and you find out the 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.080 person might live in a bad area. Um, he don't 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.320 really have any money. The girl is bringing a lot 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:34.880 of drama to the table. And once you figure I 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:36.800 was like, oh man, the fuss was I think it? 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:39.120 But if you take your time, I call it get 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:43.440 to know who you're fucking. Okay, well to take thirty days, 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:46.280 get to know who you're sucking. It's like every people 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.440 here walking around with babies that never knew the man. 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.120 You know what they're saying that Kylie Jenner actually got 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:59.320 pregnant a month after she started dating. Oh she's far right, Yeah, 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:02.720 she's like five months so somebody else's baby. No, No, 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:08.479 they were only together. Yeah, he sucked the hell yeah 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:10.280 he And just what I'm saying even though he has 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:13.960 a few dollars. Ladies, I swear I'm on you guys 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.800 side out here in the world. But I try to 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:20.640 protect women as much as possible because I want men 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:23.600 to have their lives together before they even say hello 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.480 to y'all, Like, you gotta have your life together, at 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:30.560 least a decent job, a great education, and some accomplishments. 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:32.960 Did you get a degree? Are you going to school? 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.520 So that way you don't damage these women's lives because 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:38.640 you ladies are fragile and once a man either hurt 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:42.400 you or cheats on you, whatever, some of y'all fucked 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.480 up for life. And then you meet a nice guy. 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:46.560 Now instead of him being a good person, he gotta 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:49.760 be a psychological therapist. He got to be a motivational speaker. 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:52.520 He gotta make sure you get up already more from 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.120 passive relationships, not all. I'm just asking the women in here, 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.400 do you think you guys are sucked up? I learned 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:00.240 from every relationship. I've absolutely learned the lesson from my 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:02.440 relationships everything. But do you feel like you're kind of 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:06.080 like sucked up for future relationships? I wouldn't say sucked up, 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:09.240 but I can't say that I s a lot just 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:12.440 because of the experiences, and I do believe that there 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:17.000 is a high number of men who cheat, just because 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:20.000 God now to say that all men cheat, but I 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:23.240 think mostly all of them, and they should stay single 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.640 until they had their lives together. That way, you can 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:27.680 funk whoever you want, right and then when you get 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.720 ready stuff down with one of your beautiful ladies. You 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.840 have something to offer and you have something to contribute. 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:34.839 And that's what I want men to see. If you 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:38.120 think you're sucked up from past relationships, I just know 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:42.199 I feel like, um, I feel like it's impossible to 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:45.160 break my spirit, you know, like I feel like, um, 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:49.400 the issues that I've had from my past relationships, I 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:51.719 don't I don't ever bring them in some of my 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:55.199 new ones. I feel like, um, I give everybody a 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.640 fair chance. And I'm not gonna say that smart because 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:01.360 I go through the same heartbreak over over again. Know 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:05.760 what I'm saying. But I'm even heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak. 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.880 I still will love forever. That's beautiful thing. I canna 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.880 stop loving. I'm not gonna stop trusting. You know, I 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:14.480 feel like everybody deserves a fair chance. So what do 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.840 you think that you're doing this wrong. I don't think 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.360 I'm doing anything wrong. I'm actually really happy. No, no, 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:21.959 so what do you think? What do you think the 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:23.719 men are doing in this wrong? And that meets you 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:25.839 because I'm looking at you. Why I keep getting my 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:29.040 heart broken? That's what you means. I'm sorry, Um, I 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.439 just feel like you know, like I said, I give 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:33.959 everybody a fair chance. So you know that leaves you 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:37.839 very open and vulnerable to getting your heartbroken. You know 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:41.400 what I mean? I feel like even um, I feel 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:43.599 like my kind of heart. I expect the person that 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:45.319 I'm with to have the same heart that I have. 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:48.559 And that's a mistake. And know what I'm not. I'm 0:09:48.559 --> 0:09:50.719 not gonna lie. Keep doing it over right, And that's 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:55.640 what I'm trying to interest. No matter open, went free, 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:59.199 no matter how poor, no matter how rich, even with men, 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:04.480 everybody gets hurt. Everybody has that problem. And I've studied 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:07.560 people my whole life, from the Magic Johnson to Luke. 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:10.559 Now I me and Luke used to roll together and 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:18.000 Uncle lucas one of my dearest friends, chasing his fiance 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:22.040 down the street like that bit stole something from him. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:25.319 And when I saw that, he was just a real 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:28.559 dude to me because some people I thought that had 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:32.719 such discipline and strength that a woman can get you 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:36.000 out of character and just take a whole another lane. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:40.679 And when I saw that with him, to meet anything 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:44.719 can happen. Anything is possible. Anything, I think, especially like 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.480 bringing that up with somebody like him that's known for 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:51.160 just sleeping with anybody wants and for that one person 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:54.360 to have you. And I think every man, every man 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:57.319 has that woman that can do that to them. You know, 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:03.480 it depends on how you act afterwards. You have to 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.600 use it as a lesson. Like I got caught up 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.480 in situation after moment, I had a tragedy of my family. 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:11.040 My mom, my brothers all died. So I met this 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.360 young lady who had my daughter. But it was the 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:17.720 worst relationship with my damn life. So for five years 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.280 I dealt with it because I was really at the 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.800 weakest moment of my life. But the greatest thing about it, 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:26.960 any time I meet a woman that reminds me of her, 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:36.800 I don't run. I heally away. And that's what lessons. 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:40.240 See the thing about like you were talking about, and 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.160 see when you meet guys whoever reminds you of that 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:46.520 last guy. That's the person you stay away from. You don't. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:49.559 You don't go down that path the opposite person when 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.920 you get out of a really bad relationship with somebody 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.520 you like, I want someone completely different. And that's why 0:11:54.559 --> 0:11:59.920 I attract the same type of men that I'm the same, 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.719 and I can't. I don't have a I don't have 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:05.520 like a my certain type of like dream guy. I 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:07.679 just like who I like. But I always seem to 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:12.439 attract like that. It was one of two either like 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:17.719 athlete rapper situation or like a street guy. Right, So 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:20.600 you don't get attorney, you don't get a doctor never never, 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.439 So that means you're environed. Had one guy that was U. 0:12:24.679 --> 0:12:27.840 He was into like tech whatever. Right, But because those 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:31.160 the guys y'all shooing me, because they truly appreciate you. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:33.560 I like nerds. Yeah you got like ner I'm trying. 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.600 It's not like it's not like that's just what I choose. 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:42.760 That's who approaches me, right, I don't get a lot 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.280 of those guys who know you from basketball wise now too, 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.280 but nobody and I never knew who she was. I'm 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:50.719 gonna watch TV. I just thought she was just a track. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:52.880 You were very explosive on there when you came on. 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:55.680 Let me tell you something. I was so looking forward 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.880 to thing. When I found out that she was, I 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.679 was like, when I tell you she was spelling it off. 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:05.200 I was like, she gonna name names? But contractually, are 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.679 you not allowed to do that? It's not it's not 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:10.520 with the contract. It's just more of a respect thing 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.680 because the person that I was dealing with is married. Okay, 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.880 So I wouldn't want to speak on because it was 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:17.959 so long ago, you know, saying I wouldn't want to 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:19.560 bring that back. And was you a cat woman? Did 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:21.760 he take care of you? I'm always gonna be taking 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:24.600 care of that. I have my own as well. Is good, 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:27.199 But I was young, like like on the show, it 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.360 seemed like it was something current, which was it was 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.360 years ago. Did his wife No, I don't know, but 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:35.200 she wasn't. It wasn't his wife at the time. Yeah, 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:41.920 his wife never got married. Yeah, the night before okay, 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:43.880 so he had to get him one more time. I 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.280 mean that's fine, But that's how I felt out about it. 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.240 I found out about it. You didn't find out too. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:52.800 He kept it from you. I kind of like men 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:56.080 who keep things top secret and don't want the fact 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.360 that they're about to give me. You're sitting there like, 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.839 but you wasn't But wasn't a serious relationship. I mean 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:04.959 I was young, so for me, it was just like 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:10.720 try therefore I'm telling you what it was. It looks 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:13.280 like I glorified it, but I was young and impressionable 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:15.760 and in love with this person and found out they 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:19.720 were married. I think all that is good signs, you know. 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:22.920 I like everything that you're going through it. We died 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:24.960 like no disrespect. He's a great guy. But it's just 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:26.720 like people want to talk about it, and I don't 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:30.000 mind sharing to a certain extent, but to respect the marriage, 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.160 I don't really like to. Did you really friends with 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:34.680 him after that? Um for a little while, but no, 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:38.000 And if he called you tomorrow, where you Okay? We 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:41.480 tried sincetand but now, okay, I've tried to I'm just curious, 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.120 all right. So we didn't get to how you guys 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.000 mack in the airport? What are some things that you 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:49.600 can do to attract somebody's attention? Just some tips and 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:51.680 what would work on you? I have something that would 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.720 work on me. I'm not saying it would be something 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:56.960 to get me to date you at the airport. But 0:14:57.440 --> 0:15:01.000 if you are an employee at the air or you 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.160 there's a big chance. If you want to be friends, 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:09.080 we can be friends, saying no, but you know I 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:10.840 could get it in benefits too. It is that comes 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:13.800 to my whole seeing I could. I couldn't do something 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:18.000 to Angelie. You know what I mean. What you mean 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.040 at the airport. I'm curious if you work, if you 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:24.400 are an airport employee, you can get me cheap airport 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:29.200 airline don't They can work at Pope at the airport. 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:32.560 You don't want that. But even if that workout, Popeyes 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:36.880 in the airport get deals on flights. Every single person 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:40.760 who works in the airport gets deal. The maintenance people, 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:44.200 the maintenance people who clean the garbage, they get deals. 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:46.200 You have an airline. They're working. And this is how 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:48.560 she gets some feelings hurt because her mind set it 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.280 is wrong. I'm gonna put you a game you can 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:53.240 get you listen to me. I'll tell you this. If 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:56.240 you approaching me at the airport to date me is 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:59.960 never a good time. Because I'm rushing here. I probably 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:02.440 you don't have my hair brush, right, Yeah, I got 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:05.000 on sunglasses. I don't even see you, do you know 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.600 that's when the best. I just took off my shoes, 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:10.280 which has me frustrating. That's the best. So it's like 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:15.640 it's the worst time. That's when I get the most attention. 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:21.600 I'm trying to say, men see potential, and that's what 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:22.880 it is. But what I was gonna tell you know, 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:29.200 if you book your tickets one days in the vanshead 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.880 almost every other day, so much money. Listen to me, 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:35.320 and it's just like, I'm not even having a city 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:38.360 I'm supposed to leave. I'm going to listen to me. 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:40.360 I'm gonna put your love on games here. Here is 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.520 his thing. When you book a ticket, you make sure 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.360 you book a two one days in advance. Whether it's 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.880 American adult now, that's just the lip service fans and 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.920 US fans. Now, if you're an American, you need to 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.680 change your ticket the last minute. You can act like 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:58.160 you work in the service and called und numbers. Say listen, 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:01.360 I got papers, I have to change my flight. What 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.080 can you do? They're going to charge you. They won't 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.640 charge you the two dollar way fate, They're gonna charge 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:08.200 you the tax they're gonna ask you for a person's name. 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:10.920 You could just make up a person's name to say, 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:14.080 give a fake number, you give your credit card, boom, 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:16.399 you're on the next flight. Yours added here. I've been 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:20.000 doing it over twenty years. Well now they know now 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.680 it's talking to you never know who it is because 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.080 you get if they call, you still could prove it, 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:27.720 but they never call. I'm doing this a hundred years, 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:30.200 so I know. And the best fly Southwest anyway. I 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:34.000 always fly on Delta and I'm Patnum member and so 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:36.840 that they don't charge me to change me. And that's 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:39.320 it's really important to sign up for those programs. That's 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:41.560 so truly, even with your rent a car, you rent 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:46.720 a car, all that program like that, all my upgrades, 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:51.680 I'm so cheap. No, you're smart, but yeah you're smart. 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.439 Money on bullshit, but yeah you're smart. All right. Now, 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:56.560 since we're talking about money, is it easier to forgive 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:59.360 somebody who's rich when they cheat? Now the reason we're 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:02.800 talking about is is everybody, of course has been following 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:07.639 Kevin hard story and he cheated allegedly, and you know, 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:10.400 everybody's like his wife isn't going anywhere anyway, she's pregnant, 0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:13.919 he's worth hundreds of millions of dollars. If you were her, 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:17.640 what would you do? Well? Um, if I was her, 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:23.680 I'm married, right, Um, Well, here's the thing, Like, Um, 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:27.560 I feel like whether a man is rich or poor, 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:31.639 cheating is just one problem in a relationship. You know 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:35.159 what I mean. If you guys are a family and 0:18:35.280 --> 0:18:38.080 a unit, you know you can work on it, whether 0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:41.560 it tastes counseling or whatever. You know what I mean. 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:45.200 You know, so I don't I don't think we're talking 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:48.400 about Kevin Hart, right. I don't think Um, I don't 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:50.639 think it would have been a good idea. For I 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:52.960 didn't think even for a second that she would leave him. 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.680 But even if she did, I don't think that would 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.000 be a good idea. It's your husband, you mean to 0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:00.840 something one bit? You call him what a bit? And 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:03.080 that's gonna that's gonna make you work up with him. 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:06.600 From you can work on that, you know, maybe you're 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:11.320 gonna have to set stronger rules attention, you know what 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:14.040 I mean, Maybe you gotta pay a little more attention. 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:18.360 See what's the problem, try to fix it. Although being pregnant, 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:23.440 that's a kind of difficult time to exactly no, no, 0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:26.880 not to kid. No, obviously she shouldn't inhosticated him. It's 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:29.639 time for him to do something, you know what I mean. 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:35.000 Like remember when Kobe Bryant, remember the purple dying, Like 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:39.280 you know, it's time for purple you know. Not I'm 0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:46.760 not saying I'm sorry, Huh, I'm not. I'm not saying that, um, 0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:50.280 you know, doing something for her and you know, maybe 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:53.119 buying her something nice or whatever he's gonna do to 0:19:53.200 --> 0:19:57.200 make it better. I'm going on the radio so you 0:19:57.240 --> 0:19:59.440 guys can't see what I'm doing with my hands. But 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:03.919 quote unquote right, you know, I'm not saying that that's okay. 0:20:04.000 --> 0:20:07.080 But I'm just saying there's there's bigger things than a 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:09.239 man cheating on you for you to just give up 0:20:09.320 --> 0:20:14.600 your your whole uni you got married, I um see 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:17.800 my I look at But if you're just dating and 0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:19.760 you know you you call your man, you called it 0:20:19.800 --> 0:20:22.639 nigga with some white guys, bids from the club or something. 0:20:22.760 --> 0:20:24.639 You know, keep it moving, whether you're has money or not. 0:20:27.000 --> 0:20:30.119 Like the way I view relationships is a bit different 0:20:30.200 --> 0:20:34.520 because you have some people that don't see cheating is 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:36.440 like the end of the world. My thing is more 0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:40.560 so respect and don't ever try to embarrass me. Let 0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:42.800 somebody feel like they got one up on me. You 0:20:42.880 --> 0:20:45.760 know what I'm saying, Like I like to have fun, 0:20:46.000 --> 0:20:49.520 so I would I would be more upset if he 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:51.880 didn't bring her to me instead of like going behind 0:20:51.960 --> 0:20:54.639 my back and doing whatever. I mean, we may have 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:57.160 could have had some fun or you know what I'm saying, 0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:59.719 like if you having an issue or want to her 0:20:59.800 --> 0:21:02.960