1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Melloncamp and Cameridge Edge. 2 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas in 3 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Melloncamp and Alexia. 4 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 3: Hi. 5 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: Teddy, Hi, how's it going? 6 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 4: Good? 7 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 2: Good? 8 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 3: There? You good? 9 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm running around like a chicken with 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: my head cut off so much travel and work and 11 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: all the things. So it's definitely one of those days. 12 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: But I'm excited to get into this episode. I feel 13 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 2: like it took me on a whole like Merry Go 14 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 2: round of emotions like highs and. 15 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: Lows and like yo, well, I feel like you have 16 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 3: a lot to say no, especially that last scene in 17 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 3: the in the dinner. Oh god, all right, that was 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 3: hard to watch. 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: That was hard to watch. Before we even get into that, 20 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: there's a couple of headlines we need to get into. 21 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 2: Real Housewives is Orange County. Shannon Badour suffered setback and 22 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 2: court battle with ex John Janssen over leged facelift. Shannon 23 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 2: Badoor went to court and as a part of her 24 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: effort to settle with ex boyfriend John Jansen's lawsuit against her, 25 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 2: but according to court documents, an Orange County judge denied 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 2: Shannon's request to remove John's allegations of fraud from the case. 27 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 2: John accused Shannon of fraud and breach of contract. He 28 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: claimed that despite repeated requests, Shannon had refused to pay 29 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 2: back the money. He demanded the return of seventy five 30 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: thousand and punitive damages and attorney fees. In her recent motion, 31 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 2: Shannon argued John had failed to present enough evidence to 32 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: back up his allegation of promisory fraud. John opposed the 33 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: request and said his lawsuit had enough to press seed. 34 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: In addition, Shannon argued for John's requests for punitive damages 35 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: and attorney fees to be dismissed, but then the judge 36 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: denied her plea to prevent John from seeking punitive damages, 37 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: but did strike his request to have his attorney fees 38 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 2: paid for. The court noted John may be allowed to 39 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 2: re argue his case for fees at a later date. 40 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: So this isn't great, It's not really great. 41 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 3: No, And this is a lot to talk about. So 42 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,519 Speaker 3: this for sure, I mean, this is like all over 43 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: the storyline, This is all over the place. So there's 44 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 3: a lot to talk about with this. How do you 45 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 3: feel about it. How do you feel about judge making 46 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 3: that decision? Did you think it was fair? 47 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I think oftentimes when it comes to 48 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 2: court cases, a lot isn't fair. But I think that 49 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: this definitely isn't a win for Shannon because if the 50 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 2: judge thought that Shannon was completely free of this that 51 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 2: I think the case would have been dropped. 52 00:02:58,320 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 3: Well, I'm going to give you my honest opinion. I 53 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: think that the judges, you know, that are ruling all 54 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 3: these cases, you know, know about the Housewives, and he 55 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 3: may not particularly like you know, the housewives and reality 56 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 3: TV stars, and I think it's always a big risk 57 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 3: that you take, you know, being a public figure and 58 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: having this platform and being a reality TV star. I've 59 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 3: seen where that has really worked against our favor, and 60 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 3: I think this is a case of that. You know, 61 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 3: I feel like John doesn't have enough evidence. I mean 62 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 3: by what he's saying and by what Alexis showed this episode. 63 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 3: I mean a receipt. What's the receipt that he sent it. 64 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: I mean, Shannon's really not denying that he gave her 65 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 3: the money, so there's obvious proof that he did give 66 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 3: her the money, but there's no paper there's no contract. 67 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 3: There's no I mean, he could alled that it's a 68 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: verbal agreement, but they were dating and there were a couple. 69 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 3: I mean, who knows to say that he said, you 70 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 3: know what, I don't want to do this for you. 71 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 3: You know, maybe she said, you know, I'll pay you back, 72 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 3: But how is that like an agreement. 73 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 2: I have the feeling that there's going to be more 74 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 2: to come on this and it'll shed more light on stuff. 75 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: But I think it just goes back to always, whether 76 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: somebody is your boyfriend, your friend, whatever it may be, 77 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: loaning money or giving gifts at this high amount is 78 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: going to end in drama when relationships come to an end. 79 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 3: If you're with a housewife, if you're on a TV show, 80 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 3: if you're on a reality TV show, it's always going 81 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: to be that and it's always going to make the headlines. 82 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 3: I mean, it's happened to a lot of the girls 83 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 3: on these other franchises where you know, things have not 84 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 3: turned out well for them just because there were reality 85 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 3: TV stars. I mean that's how I feel. 86 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: But even if I'm not on a reality show right now, 87 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: but if I started dating somebody and they loaned me 88 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: or gave me seventy five thousand dollars. 89 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 3: And it's stipid. If it's a loone, why didn't he 90 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 3: get an agreement? Why didn't he make or sign a 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 3: paper that said I'm loaning you this money with the 92 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: condition that you came me back. There's no agreement, there's 93 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 3: no pay it's his word against first. 94 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 2: Well, and supposedly she said that she tried to pay 95 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: him back, allegedly something along those lines, but in order 96 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 2: for her to pay him back, he's no longer allowed 97 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 2: to stay disparaging comments about her. He refused to sign that, 98 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 2: which that that is the only part. I mean, all 99 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 2: this other shit. We can argue it back and forth, 100 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 2: it really is. You know, I don't love people money 101 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: for this reason. I think it always comes back to 102 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 2: bite you in the ass because money is ends up 103 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 2: killing relationship. But sure, I think I think it's it's 104 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: just tricky because why wouldn't he want to sign the 105 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: document that says, okay, pay me back, then we don't 106 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: have to go to court. Right. 107 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 3: No, And truthfully, they're going to spend all this money. 108 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: They're going to end up spending more than to so 109 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 3: many thousand dollars that he gave her, and it's just 110 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 3: a stupid move, you know, and he didn't want to 111 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 3: sign a or where he can continue to talk about her, 112 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 3: so it's kind of like he's sending a mixed message. 113 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 3: I don't want anything to do with this, but you know, 114 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,799 Speaker 3: I want to continue to be able to talk about 115 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 3: you and Alexis as well. 116 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 2: And well, what somebody has said is that it's because 117 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 2: in the agreement, and who knows if this is true 118 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: or not, but it didn't say that. It was only 119 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 2: about the disparaging comments being about what he was saying 120 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: about her. It was not mutually exclusive, so it means 121 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: that she could continue to talk about it. I don't 122 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 2: know if this is accurate. 123 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 3: It could be true because I get it. She's on 124 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 3: a show where she that's her job, so she needs 125 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 3: to say her story, and then she has all these 126 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 3: other women also saying the story for her, so it's 127 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 3: kind of like she had her hands side that she 128 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 3: needs to have, you know, that ability where she can 129 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 3: speak because it's her story and she's getting paid for that, 130 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: that's her job. 131 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: And especially alexis now coming on the show to talk 132 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 2: about it. Exact show receipts. 133 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, she can't keep her mouth. But he on the 134 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 3: other hand, if he really wanted nothing to do with this, 135 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 3: he could keep it his mouth shut and he could 136 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 3: have gone paid. If that was the case. 137 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, if he really wanted the seventy five thousand dollars 138 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: and it wasn't about just sticking it to her, right, 139 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: because I think he's probably still pissed about past things 140 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 2: that she said, like saying, oh, you know, I always 141 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 2: paid for him at the beginning this and the you know, 142 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 2: like I think. 143 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 3: For him, it's not she's been pretty quiet between you 144 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 3: and I. But I think that I mean, obviously this 145 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 3: episode she does say that she has more things if 146 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 3: she really wanted to, than she could say, and he's 147 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 3: a real monster, and there's so much more that she 148 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 3: can say. But I mean, at this time, I think 149 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 3: she's just saying the truth, you know. And like all relationships, 150 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 3: you know, some guys pay some girl's pace. She makes 151 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 3: good money. He makes money too. You pay for a trip, 152 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 3: you buy him a gift. You know, it's not like 153 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 3: you're keeping count of how much money I spent and 154 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 3: how much money you spent. 155 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 2: But I originally for that you actually do I do 156 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: I know exactly what money and I spend I know, like, yeah, 157 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 2: well I got. 158 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 3: To do But you don't want to bring that up. 159 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 3: You know that that's just like something that you do 160 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: out of love because you know you want to do it, 161 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: but you're not kind of like. 162 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: But I think also so much was said last season, 163 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 2: whether it was off camera and then brought up on camera. 164 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 2: There was a while their relationship was coming unglued. There 165 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 2: was a lot of things said. So I think that 166 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: both parties, I think, have a lot of residual anger 167 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 2: towards one another, and it's coming out in the form 168 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: of this lawsuit, where really it should just be you know, 169 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 2: these two are toxic together, they should be done. Let's 170 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: pay each other out and move right along. But I 171 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: think the idea of now Alexis being on the show 172 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 2: is just going It's going to keep opening that scab, 173 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 2: It's going to keep opening up. Of course, this next one, 174 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: it's Ryan and Jen went on this podcast called Date 175 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 2: Your Wife, and an Instagram post, Ryan wrote, thank you Garrett, 176 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 2: Jay White, and Daniel White. Jen and I are truly 177 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 2: grateful for the opportunity to be on the amazing Date 178 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 2: Your Wife podcast. We loved the four of us kept 179 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 2: it real. In this episode, we dive into the story 180 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 2: of how Jennifer and Ryan met, as well as the 181 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 2: challenges they faced in their previous marriage. Ryan often portrayed 182 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 2: as Orange County's bad boy, and Jennifer, a mother of 183 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 2: five who had previously been married, to share their experiences 184 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 2: navigating love and life under the scrutiny of a reality show. 185 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 2: We all know how reality TV can twist narratives to 186 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: create the story they want. Is refreshing to hear directly 187 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 2: from Jennifer and Ryan and get to know them better. 188 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 2: They both seem genuinely connected and deeply in love. Our 189 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 2: conversation also covers the struggle and dealings of social media trolls, 190 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: media scrutiny, and public comments. I mean, I think, listen 191 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: to the podcast if you want, and just keep watching 192 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:03,479 Speaker 2: their relationship play out. Their relationship whether I think sometimes 193 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 2: Jen seems like she's ticking her head in the sand 194 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 2: a little bit. They do seem to get along relatively well. 195 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 3: I agree, I like them together. I think they're really 196 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 3: in love and happy together. Again. You know, we don't 197 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 3: live with them, so we don't know what really happens. Yeah, yeah, 198 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 3: of course, I mean they could say, you know anything, 199 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 3: but I feel like, you know, there could match. I 200 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: feel like for now, you know, I mean you don't know, 201 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 3: like we say, you know, it's a risk that you're taking. 202 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,839 Speaker 3: But they seem to like each other. Seems to treat 203 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 3: her nicely, and they seem to be like in it together, 204 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 3: you know, as a couple supporting each other. 205 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 2: So we'll see this. Next one is Taylor, who you 206 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 2: know was a friend of last season, but was also 207 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 2: on Beverly Hills Beverly Hills multiple seasons. She now has 208 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 2: her own podcast. It's called Naked Truth Podcast. She states 209 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 2: that one of my Oscy housewife friends was getting out 210 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 2: of the car behind me, and I haven't heard from 211 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 2: her and quite some time, and I actually have been 212 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 2: really hurt over it. So when I saw her, she said, 213 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 2: oh my god, how are you. She's acted so excited 214 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: to see me, And I said, actually, I am hurt, 215 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 2: and you hurt my feelings. She was going through a 216 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 2: really dark time in a roller coaster relationship. So I 217 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,439 Speaker 2: want to be supportive of my friends and everything they do, 218 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 2: but especially in a situation like that. So I was 219 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: her go to call morning, noon, night, in the middle 220 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 2: of the night, just as many times as I could 221 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: be there because I know there was a time when 222 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: I needed that. When her life changed all of a sudden, 223 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 2: everything was different for her and she didn't need me 224 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 2: any longer. Crickets. I haven't heard a single word from her, 225 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: and it was very hurtful to me. One of our 226 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 2: other oh see house so I friends has said to me, 227 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: you just wait and see. The minute that she doesn't 228 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 2: need you anymore, you won't hear from her. I thought 229 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: that's impossible, because we were on the phone three, four 230 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 2: or five hours a day listening to her cry and 231 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 2: support her. There's no way she's just going to drop me. 232 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 2: I feel as though she was taken aback. It's been 233 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 2: a long time and she just dropped me like a 234 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 2: hot potato. She said, oh, I'm sorry, and I said, well, 235 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 2: you know you hurt my feelings. So clearly this is 236 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 2: about Shannon, Shannon, Taylor and Taylor. I think the hard 237 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 2: part about this is and I think this happens on 238 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: a lot of shows. Like I was very lucky that 239 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: when I got fired, my core friends were still my 240 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 2: friends and still there for me. But I also can 241 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 2: say with one hundred percent certainty I don't require a 242 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 2: ton as a friend. 243 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 3: I'm not right. Yeah, some friends are more needy, Yeah, 244 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 3: and some friends just need that attention and you don't. 245 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 3: And you know, you know when you're a friend, and 246 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 3: that's what real friends are, you know, it's not the 247 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 3: one that you talk to three and four times a day. 248 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 3: It's just really like your real friendship. You can call 249 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 3: them at any time. You cannot talk for a whole week, 250 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 3: but then you get on the phone again and it's like, oh, 251 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 3: we shouldn't go by. It's like you just talk to her. 252 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:55,719 Speaker 2: But I think that's also what we see playing out 253 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 2: through this episode, is what Taylor is saying, is what 254 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 2: I think Tarmora had said past when Tamara got you know, 255 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 2: fired or demoted or whatever we're gonna call it, she 256 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 2: dropped her as well. And I think that when you 257 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 2: require a lot of somebody and you're on a reality 258 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: television show, like let's just imagine, you know, you and 259 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 2: Mary self probably require a good amount from one in 260 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 2: one another, like you guys confide, I don't know how much. 261 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 3: Right, No, I mean we're real friends, But I don't 262 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 3: know what you're trying to say. There's girls that only 263 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 3: become your friend for the show, and they're kind of 264 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 3: like show friends, right, and they use you, they need 265 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 3: you for their story that episode, I'm sorry, or that 266 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,959 Speaker 3: season as a matter of fact, and then things shift. 267 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 3: And that's where you know when your real friends are 268 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 3: when you're not filming, Are they still around? Are they 269 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 3: there for you? Do you keep in touch with them? 270 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 2: But I think that there's also a difference, Like I 271 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: have people that I would consider my real friends on 272 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 2: the show, but I wasn't calling them at all hours 273 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,359 Speaker 2: of the night, crying to them, telling them my problems. 274 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 2: You know that that opens a whole nother level. I mean, yeah, yes, 275 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 2: you know what, Kyle. Sure, there's been moments where like 276 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 2: I am broken down and I need to talk to 277 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: someone and it is Kyle. But that being said, she's 278 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: still a friend regardless. But what we have to history 279 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 2: has just kind of repeated itself because Shannon not only 280 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 2: has done this to Tamara, Vicky, Heather, Meg Taylor, Like 281 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: this is a pattern. So I think if if. 282 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 3: Well, you know, shame on the women that already know 283 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 3: that and they go for it, Like if you know 284 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 3: she's that type of girl, she's that kind of a woman, 285 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 3: like then you shouldn't be interested in having a friend 286 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 3: like that either. It's kind of like sometimes they use 287 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 3: each other, you know, it's not only Shannon, maybe Taylor 288 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 3: or whoever else had some motive as well to become 289 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 3: her friend as well. So it's kind of like they're 290 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 3: using each other, like you think she's using you're using 291 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 3: her by the way she's using you. 292 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 2: But I also think, you know, it's very hard. I mean, 293 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 2: I'm watching back original seasons of Beverly Hills where Taylor 294 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 2: was in the same kind of situation where she would 295 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 2: call Camille or Kyle or whoever it was, when she 296 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 2: would get in these big fights with her ex that 297 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 2: ultimately ended up committing suicide. And it's very hard when 298 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 2: you're on the receiving end of these phone calls and 299 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 2: somebody is distressed and heartbroken and crying to you to 300 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 2: then be able to go you know what, No, I'm 301 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: not going to listen to her right now because she 302 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: may fuck me over in the future. I think that's 303 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: a very hard thing, a hard boundary to put up, 304 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 2: especially when you are filming a television show together. But 305 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 2: I think you have to go into every friendship thinking, 306 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 2: you know, what this friendship could end and if and 307 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: they could. 308 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 3: Use it against me, because this is what I'm seeing 309 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 3: like that, you know, Maris and I have such a 310 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 3: bond that no show would ever you know, destroyers or 311 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 3: divide us. I mean we can have a difference of opinions, 312 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 3: but you know we would never do some of the 313 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 3: stuff that we see on the other shows, like between friends, Right, 314 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 3: that's very special. I was a friend before the show. 315 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 3: So that's I think what makes the difference. She's been 316 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 3: in my life, like the most difficult times, like my 317 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 3: biggest stories and like my biggest star olds, So it's 318 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 3: different the guy. 319 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 2: Also, she got fired tomorrow, you would still be her friend. 320 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, She's always going to be in my life. Yes, 321 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 3: But that's what we're saying exactly. We're both agree that 322 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 3: a lot of these girls just do this, you know, 323 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 3: for the show and when they need you and then 324 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 3: they drop you. But then on the receiving end, you 325 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 3: want to be a good friend. You want to listen, 326 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 3: you're in distress, and you're going to pick up the phone. 327 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 3: You're going to talk to them for hours and then 328 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 3: they forget about what you did for them. 329 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and because I mean long story short, we can 330 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: all be very selfish at times, especially when we are struggling. 331 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 2: But I think then you know it. Also, what I've 332 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 2: noticed throughout the group of people on reality television is 333 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 2: you only live. There's a lot of housewives that I 334 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 2: think only live on reality television. There is no outside life. 335 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 3: Yes, that is so true. Yeah, there's a lot of 336 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 3: If you haven't like my life right exactly, I would say, 337 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: like the show revolves around my life, Like my life 338 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 3: doesn't revolve around the show, right, And you guys see 339 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 3: whatever you get whenever we're filming, and and then I 340 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 3: just block it out and I just go on with 341 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 3: my everyday life like I do. But you know, there 342 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,479 Speaker 3: are some women that are obsessed with this and like 343 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 3: their whole life is consumed by the show. 344 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so if that person isn't hired anymore, then they're 345 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 2: no longer a person that you're going to take the 346 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 2: time to talk to because it's not. 347 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 3: Your life anymore. You're done, exactly. 348 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 2: It starts where Gina and Jen go to Heather's at 349 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 2: Bablaha Bay Club. Heather questions why Gina would allow Katie 350 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 2: to make this accusation. Gina says she's still getting to 351 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 2: know Katie. Then, Gina says Katie told her that this 352 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 2: was before. This was a shock to me that this 353 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 2: was before Sutton's Christmas party. Heather questions why Gina didn't 354 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 2: tell her in December, and Gina says she fucked up. 355 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 2: First things First, why did they have to have on 356 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: those gold eye masks? And why was it they slid 357 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 2: down to their lower and tire sit. 358 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,239 Speaker 3: Up for one? Whiz weird too. Yeah, it's like, why 359 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 3: are you wearing a mask? It's like we're trying to 360 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 3: take off everybody's mask, Like, why are you trying to 361 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 3: put one on? 362 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh. My other question is this 363 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 2: started to make me feel a different way about Gina. 364 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 2: I think Gina's been getting a very good. 365 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 3: Entire It's not a metage. She's actually being great. I 366 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 3: mean she's just being you know, very fair, you know, 367 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 3: until this, until this. Yeah, apparently she knew about it 368 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 3: already before and she was hiding and well, she said 369 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 3: she didn't want to bring it on because she was 370 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 3: afraid what it was going to do to everyone when 371 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 3: they're you know, every all the girls were back. Katie 372 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 3: was trying to become friends with the girls. I mean, 373 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 3: I think that that's what she's trying to say. No, 374 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 3: that she didn't want to bring that because she didn't 375 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 3: want to make that a problem. But she should have 376 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 3: known it was going to be a problem if Katie 377 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 3: would say that. 378 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 2: Well, of course, But you think for one second that 379 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 2: Gina didn't have the intention of making sure that this 380 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 2: came up on camera. She saved it. That's what people do. 381 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 3: They save it, save it. That's true, you know the show. 382 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 3: That's how it is. 383 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think she can't. 384 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 3: Such a big mouth. I have to save it for yeah, 385 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 3: but make things. 386 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think she saved it and then she you. 387 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 3: Know then but she saved it for Katie. 388 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, she saved it. So then there would be drama 389 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 2: with Katie and Heather and it could all blow up. 390 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 2: But then she could look like the good guy, right, 391 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: And I like, but don't try don't try to produce 392 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 2: this into something that it's not. You saved this information, 393 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 2: you let it come out. Then you act appalled that 394 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 2: it came out. Just own it and be like, yeah, 395 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 2: let's free. 396 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 3: You shouldn't have backed it. She shouldn't have acted that 397 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 3: she was you know, surprised by it because she already 398 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 3: knew about it. That's like where it makes it like 399 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 3: fucked up that she knew about it and she's friends 400 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 3: with Heather. But think about it. Would you have told 401 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 3: Heather before if you would have given Heather that information, 402 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 3: that Heather would have brought it up to Katie, it 403 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 3: would have been the opposite. 404 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:11,360 Speaker 2: Well yeah, but then, but then I think it would 405 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 2: have been if Heather would have brought it up to Katie. 406 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 2: I think we'd probably already be done with this conversation now. 407 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: But what made this a bigger deal than it? Truthfully, 408 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 2: it is because I don't even actually care whether she 409 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 2: called the paparazzi or not. But it's that Katie. 410 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 3: I thought, by the way that Terry said he loved it. 411 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 3: I loved when Terry said, oh, I love the paparazzi, Like, 412 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 3: do you have his phone number? I would love to 413 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 3: call him because I love to have my pictures taken. 414 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 3: I thought he handled that so well. Yeah. 415 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 2: I mean, I think they they're well oiled machines. They 416 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 2: would have handled it differently. I think what Heather didn't 417 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: like is that she was called a liar behind her back. 418 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 2: Gina knew about it. Gina is now pretending like she is, 419 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 2: you know, mother Teresa in this whole thing, when really. 420 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 3: She knew about it and she could have gone the information. Yeah. 421 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, then we're getting some new comprofessional looks. These are 422 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 2: a little These are a little tough, these confessional looks. 423 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,400 Speaker 3: I agree, Why are they? Especially the hair, I mean 424 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 3: it's not even so much a clothing. I think that 425 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 3: just like the whole glam as far as the hair 426 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 3: and makeup goes, it's it's not doing them. Well yeah, 427 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like the girls for the 428 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 3: confessional looks, they want to try so hard and be 429 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 3: like over the top that they look ridiculous. 430 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 2: Well, I think that's the problem that people like Dread 431 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,360 Speaker 2: and Erica who that's like their natural sell right, that's 432 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 2: their character, that's that's the reality, that's who they are. 433 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,199 Speaker 2: But I like Marasol on my show, Oh maybe Gerdy 434 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 2: mar Chanelle I on, there are certain women that that's 435 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 2: just who they are. They always are going to be 436 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 2: over the top. But then when it's when it's somebody 437 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 2: like me, if I try to come to the top, 438 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 2: I look like an asshole me too, And. 439 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 3: I kind of ridiculous, you know that was That's my 440 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 3: hardest thing. I hate the confessionals already, like having to 441 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 3: sit there in the hot seat and being questioned and whatnot, 442 00:21:58,240 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 3: so that for me already is un comfortable. Then you 443 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 3: put on top which you're gonna wear, and like the 444 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 3: hair and just like the whole thing, the whole look. 445 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 3: It just stresses me out. I just paid everything about it. 446 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you're not dressed as who you are, 447 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 2: like in some capacity, it doesn't feel like unauthentic confessional, 448 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 2: like you can tell you you're uncomfortable in your own skin, 449 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 2: giving it, like I remember, you got to own it, 450 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 2: you got to own it. Yeah, because Gina and Shannon 451 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 2: both looked uncomfortable in their confessional looks. 452 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 3: I don't even recognize Gina. Like I had to put 453 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 3: on my glasses when I was watching because I was like, 454 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 3: is that Gina a completely different look? 455 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 2: I Like, I think Gina is a beautiful girl, but 456 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: like I think she's beautiful to it. 457 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 3: I love her style. I mean I've seen her and 458 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 3: I always think she's very stylish, very pretty. But it 459 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 3: was just like that look, like whoever got did it 460 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 3: for her? Like it's not working. 461 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, but who knows. Maybe because they filmed it so 462 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 2: many times, maybe this was just an off one and 463 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 2: the next time we see her in the same look, 464 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 2: maybe it'll be toned down. 465 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, hopefully Tamos look like Tamra's like how she is, 466 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. She has a hair like 467 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,959 Speaker 3: she wears it, her makeup, you know, her pretty dress, 468 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 3: like how she would. You know, I feel like you 469 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 3: need to be that person like you. I like to 470 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 3: be who I am on camera, just like how I 471 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 3: would dress like I'm not gonna look ridiculous because I 472 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 3: would never dress like that in my real life. Yeah. 473 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: And I think Heather always kind of looks like herself. 474 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 2: I think it does. I think Katie is really awesome. Yeah, Emily, 475 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 2: I think that it just whenever you try to be 476 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 2: a little too much, it comes off as a little 477 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 2: too much. Then Shannon goes to Katie's house. Shannon tells 478 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: Katie she admired her for standing up to Heather, and 479 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 2: Katie shows Shannon the text proof about the paparazzi. Katie 480 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 2: thinks Gina is terrified of disappointing Heather. Katie gets a 481 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 2: point and loses a point in this one because she 482 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 2: gets a point for calling out Gina for being scared 483 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,719 Speaker 2: of Heather, but then she loses a point for continuing 484 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 2: to show the screenshot of that terrible proof. 485 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 3: Text, which says, now it's who's gonna say that? Who's 486 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 3: gonna actually tell her? Like put it away, Like it 487 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 3: doesn't mean anything if you're not proving your point. 488 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 2: Like all you wrote back was yes, Like all the 489 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 2: person wrote back with yes. You could have texted that 490 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 2: to anyone in their mother and they could respond to yes, 491 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: Like she could have texted that to me and I 492 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 2: could have given my opinion. This proves fucking nothing. 493 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 3: I agree, But do you like Shannon and Katie together? 494 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: Does that seem like natural to you? Like? Did you 495 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 3: like that? Like their friendship and you found friendship? 496 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 2: I think that this I thought was a very good 497 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 2: episode for Katie. 498 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 3: I thought so too. 499 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 2: I appreciated Katie and Jen at the end kind of 500 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 2: just gossiping and talking like they're whispering back and forth 501 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 2: during the drama. I liked Katie with her daughter when 502 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: she was trying on different clothes and the daughter saying like, yeah, 503 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: if you want to go to impress wear the blah. 504 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 3: Blah, Botega. Yes, yeah, No, I like it too. You know, 505 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 3: I always liked her since the beginning. I thought she 506 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 3: was a good addition. But we have to give the time, 507 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 3: which is like what we said, you really just can't 508 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 3: judge by one episode, and I feel like the audience 509 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 3: always does that, And that's why I hate about social media, 510 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 3: that the audience just like watches one episode and there 511 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 3: they are on Instagram, you know, making the comments and 512 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 3: attacking and it's usually negative. And yeah, and you just 513 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 3: have to give people a chance. And I thought it 514 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 3: was a good episode for her too. And I did 515 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 3: love seeing Katie and channing together. I thought it was 516 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 3: like real, genuine and I think they're getting. 517 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 2: To know each other and I appreciated it. I liked it. 518 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 2: But then Tamra and Emily going a walk. Tamer says 519 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 2: Jin can't sit at home and look at her empty 520 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 2: bank account. Then Tamor says it's self induced like Shannon situation, 521 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: and then Tamar thinks Gina is done with Katie. This 522 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 2: is where we kind of get We're starting to get 523 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 2: more storyline about what's happening here, and I think it's 524 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,439 Speaker 2: it's foreshadowing what's going to happen at this dinner. 525 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,159 Speaker 3: I agree, because then the dinner happens. 526 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 2: And all hell breaks loose. Then we get Emily and 527 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 2: Shane celebrating their anniversary. Shane has made the talking about 528 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 2: Shane has made zero effort to improve his health. Then 529 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 2: they the two ask each other fifteen year questions, if 530 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 2: you could go back, would you still marry me? Shane 531 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: says yes. Emily said she'd marry Charlie Hunnam. You know what, 532 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 2: he's hot. Then Emily asked what nice things he says 533 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 2: about her. Shane says he always tells the kids that 534 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:38,479 Speaker 2: she's the best mom. Shane upgraded Emily's engagement ring, and 535 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,400 Speaker 2: then Emily gives Shane the boudoir for it. But this 536 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 2: is what we need to talk about about the gifting 537 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 2: of the photo. I think the photo is beautiful. I 538 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 2: think it's great, but I almost died when I saw 539 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,199 Speaker 2: it was in children's wrapping paper. 540 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 3: I didn't even see that, no way, But that's probably 541 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 3: all she found, right. She probably thought he would have noticed. 542 00:26:58,160 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 3: He was going to be so eager to open it. 543 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's funny. 544 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,199 Speaker 2: But I was like, is this from your six year 545 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 2: old's birthday party? Like, what's going on? 546 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 3: Left over wrapping paper? She that's so funny. 547 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 2: But also her reaction was a little bit small when 548 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 2: it came to getting her ring, and I was like, 549 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,959 Speaker 2: did she know this was coming? 550 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 3: Well? I mean sometimes you know, because you know he's like, 551 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 3: you know, calling the jeweler, or you know there's some 552 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 3: kind of activity going on at home, or that they 553 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 3: talk about it or whatnot. But yeah, the ring was beautiful. 554 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 3: I think they're so cute together. 555 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: I think because I think that Shane has had a 556 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 2: real come up on this show. I think everyone has 557 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:38,719 Speaker 2: learned to appreciate that his like dry personality is actually humor. 558 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 2: And I think they're I really think they're a good couple. 559 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 3: And I think I really enjoy watching them. They have great, 560 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 3: you know, dynamics to take the way. They're friendly. They're friendly, 561 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 3: they're sweet to each other, they laugh. 562 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 2: They're also so different, but I think they compliment each other. 563 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 2: I like them together, but that also just goes to 564 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: show what can happen after a couple of seasons on 565 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 2: a household, as you see completely different sides of you. 566 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, if the men make it that far, yes. 567 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, most of them don't. The real unmarried wives of 568 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 2: Yes Any franchise. Right then, Gina and Katie get lunch. 569 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 2: Katie says she felt abandoned by Gina taking Heather side. 570 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 2: Gina says she had her back by telling her not 571 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,479 Speaker 2: to bring it up. I mean she told her not 572 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,880 Speaker 2: to bring it up on camera. So Gina says Heather 573 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 2: is mad at both of them and she should have 574 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 2: had Heather's back. More, Katie gets emotional, saying how she 575 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,120 Speaker 2: values Gina. Katie is worried everything she told Gina will 576 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 2: be held against her. It's not Gina's best episode. But 577 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 2: also when Katie starts. 578 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 3: To you don't think this is a good scene though, 579 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 3: like between them, like you know, at this point, I 580 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 3: feel like Gina's realizing that shed up with Heather, and 581 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 3: she's trying to tell her, Listen, you know, I'm not 582 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 3: going to have your back now because what I did 583 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 3: was wrong and I should. You know, I should have 584 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 3: been a better friend to Heather, and I told you 585 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 3: enough to say it. I think, what did she kind 586 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 3: of redeems herself. 587 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. I thought she was kind of coming 588 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: in pretty hard on Katie, knowing good and well. This 589 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: is Katie's first season she could have advised her not 590 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 2: to bring up such a thing, you know, like, but 591 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 2: instead kind of made it more of a drama and 592 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 2: then wanted to be the hero in this aspect. But 593 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 2: then it isn't until Katie starts crying that Gene is like, 594 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: oh shit, I may have pushed this too far. 595 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can see that Katie was really hurt. 596 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm sure, I mean, we all live this. 597 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 2: I'm sure Katie was like, oh, shoot, this is what 598 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 2: I thought I was sing, you know, like whatever she's new. 599 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 2: What'd you think about the Shannon and her dad Jeane 600 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 2: getting lunch together? 601 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I like, first of all, I was 602 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 3: happy to see that. He's all I remember and watch 603 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 3: these shows, and I don't have my parents, so when 604 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 3: I saw her with her dad, it brought me a 605 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 3: lot of joy. I don't know what kind of relationship 606 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 3: she has with her father and how much involved you know, 607 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 3: how much she wouldn't bother your father, you know, since 608 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 3: he's you know, an older person. You know, I don't 609 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 3: know his health. But so I was kind of like, wow, 610 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 3: they have a good relationship, you know, at least you know, 611 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 3: you know, he knows what's going on. I don't know 612 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 3: whether that's good or bad, you know, when you're an 613 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 3: older person. But I was happy to see that she 614 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 3: did have, you know, her father, she'd have this conversation 615 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 3: with her father. I wasn't surprised by her father's reaction 616 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 3: as far as like, you got to fight this guy 617 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 3: because he's being a dad, he's protecting his daughter. And 618 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 3: no matter you know, how old Shannon is, it's always 619 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 3: going to be like his baby girl whatever. So you know, 620 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 3: I don't know, I like the scene, I really do, 621 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 3: you know. I think when we're in hard in hard times, 622 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 3: you know, we turn to our parents, and she's very 623 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 3: lucky that she has her dad. 624 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 2: Well, she also in this scene she shares that she 625 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 2: has to get a breathalyzer for her car, and then 626 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,959 Speaker 2: they talk about the drinking and she says she's going 627 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 2: to be limiting herself to to drinks. She says that 628 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 2: when she was with drawn, they drank constantly and she 629 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 2: was miserable. 630 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 3: And by the way, her dad was drinking too, like 631 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 3: a big glass of wine. 632 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 2: Well that her confessional actually did make me laugh when 633 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, I mean in the eighties, there 634 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 2: was just a big bottle of Chabie on the right. 635 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 3: I remember that bottle. I think it was like in 636 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 3: every household. 637 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 2: I mean the same way that like our parents would 638 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 2: smoke sins. 639 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 3: They way to drop this off at school? Yes, like 640 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 3: absolutely carpool right, Like. 641 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 2: That's just how it was. But I do think that, 642 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 2: you know, a big point is when drinking becomes a 643 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 2: mode of coping. 644 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 3: But but is she really an alcoholic? I still don't 645 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 3: know that. I mean, just because you get a DUI 646 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 3: doesn't mean you're an alcoholic. I am very aware of 647 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 3: the dui that was dumb, irresponsible. But sometimes you know, 648 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 3: people will have two or three drinks only and unfortunately 649 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 3: they get behind the wheel and they do kill somebody 650 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 3: or kill themselves or get her or whatnot and go 651 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 3: to jail. I get that. But just because do you 652 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 3: have you get a DUI, does that make you an alcoholic? 653 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 3: Like That's what I'm not understanding here. 654 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 2: I think the I have two thoughts on this. I 655 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 2: think I'm never going to say somebody's an alcoholic or 656 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 2: not an alcoholic. I can't make that judgment call, but 657 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 2: I can give facts. It has been brought up since 658 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 2: her very first season by her kids, her friends, her 659 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 2: ex husband, And I think also another point we need 660 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: to make is Shannon seems to blame John for her drinking, 661 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 2: and Alexis is insinuating that John drank because of Shannon, 662 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 2: And it just seems like nobody wants to accept account 663 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 2: of doing right. And I think that is a problem, 664 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 2: Like you can't blame like, if I'm going to drink 665 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 2: too much tomorrow, there's no one else to blame but me, 666 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 2: of course not. 667 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 3: We're like grown outs adults and we have their choice, 668 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 3: so that there's no you can't blame anybody. I mean, 669 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 3: it is true that you're be influenced in a way 670 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 3: if you know, obviously, if you love to drink and 671 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 3: then your partner doesn't like to drink, then you're going 672 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 3: to drink probably a little less just because you like 673 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,239 Speaker 3: to drink with somebody else, and in their case, they 674 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 3: both like to drink. But I think it's really immature 675 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 3: and stupid to blame each other when you're grown ass 676 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 3: adults and you have the choice, you know, of doing 677 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 3: it or not. Well, but I just want to know 678 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 3: issue or not. I mean, I'm just like all confused. 679 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, she likes to drink, but guess what, 680 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 3: so does everybody else, because everybody else drinks. 681 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 2: I think that is that is where some of the 682 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 2: women have reached their threshold, because they've been on the 683 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 2: show with her for many many seasons and had the 684 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 2: late night drunk calls and had all of that got it. 685 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 2: I think that's where it stems from. Do I think 686 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 2: that all the women on the show have probably drank 687 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 2: too much at one point or another and then's dumb shit? Sure? 688 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 2: But I think where some of them are like, listen, 689 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 2: this is a repeated thing that's happened over and over 690 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 2: and over again. 691 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,719 Speaker 3: And unfortunately it never really got so much attention until 692 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 3: her UI. Then it becomes you know, more concerning. It 693 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 3: also becomes like a legal problem, and it just you know, 694 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 3: maybe she you have to hit like rock bottom so 695 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,280 Speaker 3: she can like finally take control of the situation. 696 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 2: Even though I have definitely seen scenes of Shannon looking 697 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 2: completely out of control while filming and you know, in 698 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,800 Speaker 2: past seasons, I can say that so far this season, 699 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 2: Shannon is coming across the best that she has on 700 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 2: a drinking front. Does that mean that I think she's 701 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 2: an alcoholic or not an alcoholic? I do not know. 702 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,200 Speaker 2: I do not know that answer. I do know that 703 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: if I was on a television show and I had 704 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 2: just gotten a DUI and all this shit was going down, 705 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 2: I write, take a break from drinking, And if I 706 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:50,760 Speaker 2: couldn't take a break, I would probably start thinking about 707 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 2: why I couldn't take a small break from drinking. But 708 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 2: then Tama goes to Alexis's house. Tamra says, the Alexis 709 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,239 Speaker 2: knows today is not the same as she has ten 710 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 2: years ago. Alexis then questions why she wasn't invited to Katie's. 711 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 2: Tamra says, Katie thought it would be disrespectful to Shannon. 712 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 2: Tamra says Shannon's life has been upside down for ten 713 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:18,320 Speaker 2: years and says it's traumatizing for her and that Shannon 714 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 2: needs rehab. Alexis says Johnny barely drinks since they've been together. 715 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 3: Well, I don't believe that, and you know, I mean 716 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 3: the whole thing. You know, I'd like Alexis, but I 717 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 3: don't know why every word that comes out of her 718 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 3: mouth is john And now Johnny like, why, like, don't 719 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 3: you have anything else to say besides talk about him? 720 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 3: This is nobody cares. I mean honestly, this is I 721 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 3: just have a problem with that. 722 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 2: Honestly, I really, I really think that Alexis thought she 723 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 2: was coming on and doing something here by the way 724 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 2: she's talking. But to me, it's just giving me the eck. 725 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 2: If your relationship and your life is so good with Johnny, 726 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 2: then quilp telling us all about it all the time, 727 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 2: like exactly, I get it. But a part of this 728 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 2: that really made me. I took my sadness about the 729 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 2: whole situation away. But when Tarama says, when you break 730 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 2: off an engagement, you usually give the ring back, But 731 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 2: how the fuck are you gonna give a face back? 732 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,839 Speaker 3: Right? I gagged. That's why it was a better deal. 733 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 3: It's better than a ring for sure. Oh my god, 734 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:35,959 Speaker 3: that was so funny. That was so good. 735 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 2: It's like, oh my gosh, like we all know, just Tarma, 736 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 2: she did him good. 737 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 3: She did him good. 738 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 2: That was a good one. But then somebody is also 739 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 2: going to have to tell me who the how Alexi is, 740 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 2: because why is Alexis keep referring to see that way exactly? 741 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 3: So now it's Alexi and Johnny, right. 742 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:59,720 Speaker 2: But like I really I'm trying, I'm really really trying 743 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 2: to go in one. I don't like when people talk 744 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,240 Speaker 2: about themselves and the third person, even with a nickname 745 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 2: or without a nickname. But when I'm talking about myself, 746 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 2: I just say myself. I'm not like and then Teddy 747 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,799 Speaker 2: was all or TJ or Teddy Joe or It's just like, 748 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 2: stop right, you're bugging me. I want to give you 749 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 2: the benefit of the doubt, Lexi. Lex Alexis right, but 750 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 2: you're bugging. You are bugging, and tamra Is says a 751 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:34,320 Speaker 2: funny comment, but then Lexi's right back to just drilling 752 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,879 Speaker 2: in her points. We're like, maybe take yourself a little 753 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 2: as serious and have a little fun with it. But 754 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 2: she's not. 755 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 3: No, she's not. She gets the dinner and she has 756 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 3: the same kind of behavior, so. 757 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, she doubles down. Then all the women, including Vicki 758 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:55,800 Speaker 2: and Alexis, meet for Gina's dinner party. Alexis asks Katie 759 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 2: why she wasn't invited, Like, you already know why you 760 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 2: weren't invited, told you the attention, please. Katie says she 761 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 2: didn't want Shannon to feel underwater. Then Alexis says to Vicki, 762 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 2: look who's in my world now? I mean, I guess 763 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 2: Alexas I don't know. I guess that some people may 764 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,800 Speaker 2: have chuckled at that line. I didn't. 765 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 3: Well, I feel like Alexis has been watching these shows 766 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 3: and kind of like recording everything in her mind, and 767 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,360 Speaker 3: she's like throwing all these lines and things like that happened, like, 768 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 3: you know, in previous seasons when she was on, because 769 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 3: they flashed back to that moment where Vicky how to 770 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 3: use that line, so then she's kind of like using 771 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 3: it against her. 772 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, either Alexis has been watching these 773 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,400 Speaker 2: shows and is like trying to come in with the 774 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,240 Speaker 2: funny one liners but that are coming off not so funny, 775 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 2: or she's like has like a funny publicist that she 776 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,400 Speaker 2: like is helping her come up with like the right liners. 777 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 2: Like you always know when there's the hell life that 778 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 2: has those like quippy little things to say, but then 779 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 2: they can't deliver it properly, so you're like. 780 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 3: Uh huh, but yeah, how did you feel about VICKI 781 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 3: showing up? Did you think that that was going to happen? 782 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 3: You know, sometimes it's kind of like you feel it 783 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,360 Speaker 3: or you know something's coming, but I really didn't, you know, 784 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 3: expect her to be there, But Tamra did make a 785 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 3: point that Shannon brought her, you know, to feel comfortable, 786 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 3: but comfortable, right, you know, she felt, you know, and 787 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,439 Speaker 3: not a blame her. I mean, she had to walk 788 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,760 Speaker 3: into like a shark tank, so she was like, Okay, 789 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 3: you can come with me. And maybe Vicky also wanted 790 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 3: to be part of it and have something to say 791 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,959 Speaker 3: to Tamra as well, and just she wanted to be there. Yeah, 792 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,359 Speaker 3: I mean I thought it was a good move by 793 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 3: the way. 794 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 2: I thought it was smart to bring Vicky. I mean, 795 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 2: even though Vicky can drive me crazy, like she's definitely 796 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 2: entertaining television, she is, she's entertaining. Tamra says, Shannon brought 797 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 2: Vicky to do her dirty work, so she can. You know, 798 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 2: I think it's I think it was a combination. I 799 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,760 Speaker 2: think that Shannon knew she wasn't going to be able 800 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,840 Speaker 2: to take this conversation, and she knew that Vicky wouldn't 801 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 2: be able to help herself. 802 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,080 Speaker 3: So that's exactly what happened. 803 00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and also clearly the trace Amiga split had just happened, 804 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 2: So I'm sure that. 805 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 3: It was perfect that it was uh huh, Yeah, I 806 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:24,279 Speaker 3: felt that too. 807 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 2: But then This is where I feel like Vicky shouldn't 808 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 2: have done this. I don't think Vicky did Shannon en 809 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 2: of service here when Vicky says to Shannon, you have 810 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 2: permission to drink, like, just let it be. If she 811 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 2: wants to order a drink, she'll order a drink. But like, 812 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:43,040 Speaker 2: now you're making a thing of it. Yeah, And then 813 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 2: Tamra says, oh, yeah, an alcoholics should drink. But I 814 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:53,400 Speaker 2: think we get a peek at you know, one you 815 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 2: can see that Tamra's upset and all of this triggers 816 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 2: her because of the years and years in the past. 817 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 2: But I think we get to see a peace hypocritical 818 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,280 Speaker 2: Vicky because first she gives Shannon permission to have a drink, 819 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 2: and then when someone corrects her, she agrees and said 820 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 2: Shannon doesn't need permission, Like, which is it, Vicky? 821 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,240 Speaker 3: Like, I mean, I just thought it was a stupid 822 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 3: common part of me because she set herself up to 823 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,319 Speaker 3: obviously this happening. You know, somebody crossed them, will who 824 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,400 Speaker 3: are you to give her permission? So like just the 825 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 3: comment was not necessary, could have been avoided, and and 826 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,760 Speaker 3: then it made a thing of the drinking the drink 827 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 3: to bring that up obviously, Yeah, and. 828 00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 2: I think that Vicky. I don't think Vicky's a dumb 829 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,279 Speaker 2: dumb I think that she knew that she would she 830 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,479 Speaker 2: should could say that and one of the girls would 831 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:42,840 Speaker 2: dig in on her. She didn't know who it was 832 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 2: going to be, but somebody was going to get right then. 833 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 3: The girls were really uncomfortable though, when all that was 834 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 3: going on. You can see their faces like they were 835 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 3: very uncomfortable. 836 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:58,799 Speaker 2: Well, I think that what if you were Shannon in 837 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,320 Speaker 2: that situation, would you order to drink. 838 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,239 Speaker 3: If I knew I wasn't an alcoholic, Yes, because if 839 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,399 Speaker 3: you know, you should usually alcoholics. I mean, I don't 840 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 3: know about that, but what I've heard is that they 841 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 3: just can't have one drink because then want more drinking, 842 00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 3: more drinking. So I don't have that problem. So if 843 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,359 Speaker 3: I knew that I wasn't an alcoholic, I know how 844 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 3: to have just one drink. But again, I don't know 845 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 3: what her condition is, So I don't know that she's 846 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 3: just can't touch a drink because I'm not sure it'll 847 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 3: make her want to have more drinking and then it 848 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 3: becomes a problem or she's not doing it in front 849 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 3: of the girls because obviously she doesn't want them to know, 850 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 3: and she's like drinking, you know, secretly at our house. 851 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 3: I don't have those details, so I don't know. I 852 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 3: disagree with you. They shouldn't have made it a thing. 853 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:44,360 Speaker 2: They shouldn't have made it. 854 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 3: I made that comment, But I also. 855 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,799 Speaker 2: Think if Shannon were to go into this differently and 856 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 2: be like, listen, guys, do I realize that the past 857 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 2: ten years, I've had extreme highs and extreme loves, I 858 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 2: have drank too much. I've made mistakes. DUI was a 859 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:04,240 Speaker 2: complete wake up call. And now my goal and please 860 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,400 Speaker 2: tell me if I cross it is. I want to 861 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,400 Speaker 2: be able to see if I can socially drink and 862 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:09,040 Speaker 2: not try to. 863 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 3: That's a good one. Maybe she'll do that one next episode. 864 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, just take ownership. Don't 865 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 2: blame your exxes, don't blame Johnny, don't blame this, don't 866 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 2: blame so and so, don't be mad at like, just know. 867 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,960 Speaker 3: But I feel really uncomfortable when these things are like 868 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 3: on these shows, because you know, in other cities as well, 869 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,680 Speaker 3: drinking has been a problem for some cast members, and 870 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,319 Speaker 3: then they've made it that and then in your real life, 871 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,240 Speaker 3: if you really have a friend that's going through something 872 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 3: like this, You're not going to talk to them like 873 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,719 Speaker 3: that and attack them that way. You're really going to 874 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 3: want them to get help and you and you're can 875 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 3: put your differences aside. You know, there's sometimes in life 876 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 3: that even if you've had backstory, you know a lot 877 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 3: of like mess ups up and you really want to 878 00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 3: help the person. You're not going to get a result 879 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 3: by like insulting somebody and calling them an alcoholic if 880 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,920 Speaker 3: they really are an alcoholic. You know, you're going to 881 00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,960 Speaker 3: hurt them and they're going to get defensive and they're 882 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 3: they're gonna not own it or fight you on. It's 883 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,200 Speaker 3: just like it's just like hard to watch. For me, 884 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 3: it was like hard to watch, especially because I knew 885 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,360 Speaker 3: there were friends before, so it just I don't know, 886 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 3: it makes me kind of sad and I'm surprised every 887 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,239 Speaker 3: time they meet it's going to be the same thing. 888 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 3: So it starts getting like uncomfortable. So either Shannon owns it, 889 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,840 Speaker 3: like you said, so, either Shannon owns it and says, listen, 890 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 3: you know, she comes clean. You know, maybe she'll do that. 891 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,800 Speaker 2: I think, And but I think what ends up fucking 892 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 2: over the situation is during the five Months off where 893 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:35,000 Speaker 2: Shannon continued like to call Tamra a drunk. So then 894 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 2: now you've got not only a friend that has been 895 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 2: pushed to their their end, now all of a sudden, 896 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,840 Speaker 2: instead of taking accountability for your own actions, you're pointing 897 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 2: fingers yet another person that. 898 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,000 Speaker 3: You said, right, yeah, she's projecting it onto her. Well 899 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 3: that's what a lot of people do, like when they're 900 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 3: at fault, you know, they're projected onto the other person. 901 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,319 Speaker 3: Well what about you, Like, you know, you're a drunk too, 902 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 3: and that way you take off the attention offer yourself. 903 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 3: That happens a lot, like you know on our shows. Yeah, 904 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,240 Speaker 3: you know obviously, because that's how you defend yourself. Which 905 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 3: I agree. I'm like, you know, we're very like open 906 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 3: and we would rather just be open about it and say, listen, 907 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,879 Speaker 3: this is what it is and that's it. She would 908 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,839 Speaker 3: put it to rest. But by not admitting to it 909 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,040 Speaker 3: or taking it a responsibility, you're going to keep coming 910 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 3: after her. Yeah. 911 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 2: And I think as a friend, and if you have 912 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 2: seen a friend drinking for years and years and years 913 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 2: and it's created lots of turmoil in their life, I 914 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,799 Speaker 2: think you do have a right to put boundaries up. 915 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,240 Speaker 2: Do I think the delivery was not ideal? 916 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,880 Speaker 3: Yes, clearly it wasn't ideal. 917 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 2: It was not ideal. But I do think that's you know, 918 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 2: different personality types. And I think when you get hit 919 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 2: like your at your wits end and you feel like 920 00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,799 Speaker 2: you've ben push push push, that is some people's way 921 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,919 Speaker 2: of handling is like, you know what, fuck this, I'm 922 00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:52,280 Speaker 2: going to throw it all out there because I'm done. 923 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,600 Speaker 2: But then Jen and Katie acting like two little muppet 924 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,360 Speaker 2: men in the theater during the whole dinner was like 925 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 2: the perfect balance for me during all of this. 926 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 3: I was so cute. Yeah, they were cute. 927 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 2: But then this is another hypocritical Vicky moment. Vicky stands 928 00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 2: up and says she's sick of the fighting, and Emily 929 00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,759 Speaker 2: brings up Vicky posting about Tamra being a trader, and 930 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 2: Tamra says she didn't feel comfortable doing a show after 931 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 2: Shannon crashed her car into a house drunk. Tamra says, 932 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 2: I'm not a trader, I'm a faithful I just voted 933 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,239 Speaker 2: you two out of my life. And then Vicky says 934 00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 2: Shannon went to rehab and Tamra says it was therapy. 935 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 2: Shannon says she couldn't drink in her program. Tamra says, 936 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 2: that's a lie. I think I love Emily's ability to 937 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 2: call people on their shit, whether they're friends or not. 938 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 2: She goes from disagreeing with Tamar on Shannon's habits to 939 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 2: defending Tamra against Vicky No more Gomblson Like. Then Vicky 940 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 2: goes up and does this whole speech about Jesus Christ 941 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 2: and follower and the blah, well, I'm. 942 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,879 Speaker 3: Saying faith and we have to you know, support each 943 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 3: other and we have to be here for the women. 944 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,920 Speaker 3: And yeah, it's kind of like against like a lot 945 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 3: of her behavior in the past. But you know, maybe 946 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,280 Speaker 3: she did have like that Kumbaya moment, like at that moment, 947 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 3: you know, sometimes you have to be like for us, 948 00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,080 Speaker 3: you know, like that to that point that you're like, 949 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,959 Speaker 3: you know, what, what are we doing? But it was fake. 950 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,040 Speaker 3: I thought that it was kind of real. I mean, 951 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 3: I don't think it. It didn't seem fake to me. 952 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 2: Vicky. If you no longer want any drama in your life, 953 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 2: if you want to lure you there, then why the 954 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 2: hell are you there? And if you're there solely to 955 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 2: be a good friend to Shannon. We already fucked that 956 00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 2: up by bringing up the drink in front of the table, 957 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:40,040 Speaker 2: So I'm. 958 00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 3: Right your case, that is true. 959 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, But then Tamra questions why Shannon had to pay 960 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,719 Speaker 2: for everything, but John took seventy five k from him? 961 00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 2: Then this is all. This is fine now, But then 962 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:57,719 Speaker 2: Alexis the receipts, yes, part for the facelip, part for 963 00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 2: the loan, you know, I mean. 964 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,479 Speaker 3: John has been to me like Lenny on our show. 965 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 3: I can't. I can't with this young man anymore. I mean, 966 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 3: it's it's really like the whole story is like about him, 967 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:07,760 Speaker 3: Like it's crazy. 968 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 2: But at least if it was Lenny, Lenny could have 969 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 2: done the facelift. 970 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: Right. 971 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 3: Do you think he's gonna want all of Lida stuff back? 972 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's crazy. But yeah, but you know 973 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 3: what I mean, it's like the same John thing, the 974 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,080 Speaker 3: same John, because that's all comes out of Alexis's mouth. 975 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:26,879 Speaker 3: And what are the receipts? The fact that he gave 976 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,840 Speaker 3: her a check or wire to her account, we already 977 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 3: know denying that exactly, She's saying, yes, he gave me 978 00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 3: the money. Yeah, it's not saying but you know what's 979 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,719 Speaker 3: a gift? Yeah, and I've given him a lot of 980 00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,800 Speaker 3: things too, So you know what we're done. We're equal. 981 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 3: That's it. 982 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 2: Then Shannon leaves the right. 983 00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 3: I really don't want Shannon to give him back the money. 984 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 3: I really don't. I'm telling you the truth. 985 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 2: Why I think the courts are going to make those 986 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:48,960 Speaker 2: decisions not because. 987 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:52,120 Speaker 3: She's a housewife I love. Because she's a housewife and 988 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 3: all the judges and legal people hate reality TV stars 989 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,760 Speaker 3: and believe me, mark my words, because there's no agreement there. 990 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,879 Speaker 3: They're not even It's not like I said verbally, because 991 00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,840 Speaker 3: you know, verbal contracts can have you know, some sort 992 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,719 Speaker 3: of could be binded legally, but that's not the case. 993 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,359 Speaker 2: And this is this is a PSA at all houseld I. 994 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,239 Speaker 3: Hear say, she'd say, I mean, who cares? I mean, 995 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,320 Speaker 3: you don't know, you weren't there, You're. 996 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 2: If you've been on Housewives multiple years, you can get 997 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 2: free facelifts from good surgeons by just posting. So I'm never. 998 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:24,400 Speaker 3: Gonna say you can go to jail. 999 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 2: Like did you you know do a trade like I 1000 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,319 Speaker 2: have my neckflip. I posted about it. 1001 00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 3: We're good, I'll know money they we need to talk. 1002 00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, But then Alexis tells Vicky there's more than what 1003 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:44,320 Speaker 2: Shannon has told her. Either way, that was money well spent. 1004 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 2: But then some of the women are like, we didn't 1005 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 2: even know she had a facelift, which goes back to 1006 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 2: like Shannon giving that's a compliment. 1007 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,480 Speaker 3: No, but that's a compliment. Well, they didn't know she 1008 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,360 Speaker 3: had a facelift because it looks so natural and it 1009 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,799 Speaker 3: looks so good. Yeah, you don't have a facelift and 1010 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 3: look like somebody else, a look like the formed person. 1011 00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,360 Speaker 3: So she looks so good, she looks so natural. So 1012 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,920 Speaker 3: they didn't know she had to face it. So to me, 1013 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,279 Speaker 3: that's a compliment not knowing that you got to face it. 1014 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:08,960 Speaker 3: You should want to look natural. 1015 00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:12,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. Then Sannon says she could release something 1016 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,640 Speaker 2: worse about John, proving he's a monster. Shannon says she 1017 00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,000 Speaker 2: can't say anything since he file a lawsuit. Tamer tells 1018 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 2: Vicky she wasn't the reason she backed out of Trace 1019 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 2: Amiga's it was Shannon. Vicky says Tamar needs to support her. 1020 00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,799 Speaker 2: Tammer says Vicki is enabling her and she needs help 1021 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:34,279 Speaker 2: with her drinking. And then Alexi Alexis says, lie, her 1022 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:38,879 Speaker 2: face needs to stop talking. Emily thinks Alexis is doing 1023 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:42,760 Speaker 2: herself a disservice by being John's defender. And then Vicky 1024 00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 2: tells the women this is disgusting and they not all 1025 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 2: need to be kind to one another as women of faith, 1026 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,920 Speaker 2: and then Heather and Emily agree that's hypocritical. So do 1027 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,160 Speaker 2: the editors because then they show all this, but also 1028 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,239 Speaker 2: and one last point and then you can you go. 1029 00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 2: But if Vicky really didn't want to be about the 1030 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,720 Speaker 2: drama when she saw Shannon walk away from that table upset, 1031 00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 2: I would have. 1032 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:04,719 Speaker 3: Walked with her. 1033 00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:06,320 Speaker 2: I would have waked her. 1034 00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I did that with Marisol. I had a 1035 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,480 Speaker 3: similar situation like that, and I was I wanted to 1036 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,440 Speaker 3: stay because I was not afraid, and I was like, 1037 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,479 Speaker 3: I can stay here. But I left after Marisol because 1038 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,279 Speaker 3: Marisola wanted to leave and she felt uncomfortable, and I 1039 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,279 Speaker 3: went with my friend and I want my friend. And 1040 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 3: that's what Biggie should have done. She stayed there just 1041 00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,560 Speaker 3: because she wanted to be part of the trouble and 1042 00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,279 Speaker 3: kind of like have a moment. And then just after 1043 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 3: she said everything just walked out and encouraged them all 1044 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 3: to be friends and loving and kind and have faith. 1045 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 3: I was like, what it is. 1046 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,839 Speaker 2: Bullshit, Like you stayed here because you wanted to get 1047 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 2: a reaction out of Alexis and Tarmera and whoever else. 1048 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,320 Speaker 3: I did like that you saw, you know, the little 1049 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:51,000 Speaker 3: conversation between Tamra and VICI you know where Tamra explained. 1050 00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:52,600 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know that it made it any better, 1051 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,919 Speaker 3: but you know, I thought that was I think they. 1052 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 2: Just all have such a long history and they know 1053 00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 2: so much about each other, and they know, you know, 1054 00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 2: the good, the bad, and the ugly. And I think 1055 00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:07,400 Speaker 2: that's why we've loved watching these this friendship throughout the years. Yes, 1056 00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,160 Speaker 2: but I think now is you know, it really is 1057 00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,720 Speaker 2: hard when you see people heading their breaking point. 1058 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I mean I feel maybe Vicky and Tamrock 1059 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,840 Speaker 3: can come together and if they really do love and 1060 00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,240 Speaker 3: care for Shannon and she does have a problem with drinking, 1061 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:23,279 Speaker 3: that they could help her. 1062 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:26,239 Speaker 2: But I think it's really hardy gone the other way. 1063 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 2: Vicky is now doubling down on tam Like it's just 1064 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:31,719 Speaker 2: I don't want to be so biased, but it's like 1065 00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 2: I think at this point the trace of megas is 1066 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,759 Speaker 2: a toxic three so done. 1067 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,480 Speaker 3: Oh, I agree, we don't want that. We don't want 1068 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,680 Speaker 3: a three someme to be toxic. 1069 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,839 Speaker 2: So no, yeah, no, I mean only only good threesomething, right, 1070 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:53,240 Speaker 2: But I am yeah. I think I think the biggest 1071 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 2: issue in closing is Vicky thinks Shannon can drink and 1072 00:52:56,160 --> 00:53:00,319 Speaker 2: Tarmor doesn't. So I think they're not going to agree 1073 00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,680 Speaker 2: on that point. But I also it. 1074 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 4: Also, by the way, if I were Shannon, I would 1075 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,360 Speaker 4: leave those scenes and I would just like drink a 1076 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,359 Speaker 4: whole bottle of tequila because honestly, like you know what 1077 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,880 Speaker 4: that is to be like, not seeing with those women 1078 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,960 Speaker 4: and they're attacking you and telling you things. 1079 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I think these women are driving Shannon to drink. 1080 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,520 Speaker 3: I mean, it's a lot, a lot. 1081 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,759 Speaker 2: But I think also Shannon can just say what she 1082 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 2: wants to do on her own to the group and 1083 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,000 Speaker 2: say where she is and what she's doing, and then 1084 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,879 Speaker 2: they don't have the option to comment on it. If 1085 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 2: you comment on yourself and you make a declaration on 1086 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:39,200 Speaker 2: where you are and say to your friends, guys, I know, 1087 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:40,320 Speaker 2: I know I've. 1088 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 3: Done one hundred you have to own it, but I'm 1089 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:43,920 Speaker 3: not ready. 1090 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,719 Speaker 2: I mean, we'll see. I think it's definitely heating up. 1091 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 2: It is definitely heating up. 1092 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 3: It is I'm having fun watching now, my. 1093 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:57,280 Speaker 2: Gosh, I know we're hooked. We're hooked. I'm taking notes, 1094 00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,399 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. All right, thanks you guys for tuning 1095 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 2: in to another episode of The Tatoo Cheese, and thanks 1096 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:04,920 Speaker 2: for all your hot takes 1097 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:10,400 Speaker 1: Mhm