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Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on

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Speaker 1: iHeart Radio and welcome back to Coast to Coast Hollister

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Speaker 1: ran back with us. An internationally renowned medium, author and speaker.

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Speaker 1: She provides specific messages from loved ones and spirit and

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Speaker 1: feeling heart and grace. She'll be doing that for you

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Speaker 1: next hour when we take calls, if you so call wanted.

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Speaker 1: Hollister can see and hear spirits as well as get

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Speaker 1: a sense of their personalities and emotions. During the last

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Speaker 1: twenty five plus years, her unique abilities have provided comfort

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Speaker 1: in healing to tens of thousands of people worldwide. Hollister,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. I can't think of a better time to

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Speaker 1: have you well. Thank you And who knew that releasing

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Speaker 1: a book about the afterlife in the middle of a

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Speaker 1: pandemic would be helpful to so many people? Oh, it

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Speaker 1: really is. To be sure, how long have you been

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Speaker 1: doing this? I mean, was this a little girl thing

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Speaker 1: that started for you? Yeah? It was. I saw spirits

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Speaker 1: in my room at night, spirits I recognized, and then

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Speaker 1: also began to see spirits I didn't recognize. So there

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Speaker 1: was kind of a stranger danger thing. And then did

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Speaker 1: my best to shut it down for a number of years.

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Speaker 1: So when I finally woke up again and began to

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Speaker 1: invite spirits into my life in a helpful way, then

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Speaker 1: everything changed. A lot of people, of course, have had

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Speaker 1: loved ones die and they are not there for whatever reason.

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Speaker 1: They live out of town or something happens. That happened

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Speaker 1: with me when my father passed several years ago. He

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Speaker 1: had taken a fall and went pretty quickly, and by

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Speaker 1: the time I was able to regroup, he was gone.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean if you're not able to say

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Speaker 1: goodbye to a loved one. Well, the good news is

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Speaker 1: that it doesn't mean often what we think it does.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that the person chose to go, like

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Speaker 1: didn't hang on till you could get there. It also

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean the person died alone, that there wasn't anyone else.

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Speaker 1: There's a great fear we have, especially now with covid A,

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Speaker 1: many people are passing without their loved ones with them

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Speaker 1: by their bedside. But those in spirit, loved ones in

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Speaker 1: spirit who have gone before are with those people. So

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Speaker 1: just so you know, they're well taken care of. And

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Speaker 1: then it's my job as a medium to put people

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Speaker 1: like you in touch with their loved ones. Interesting, now,

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Speaker 1: since this has been happening for you, was there that

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Speaker 1: one episode Hollister that changed your whole life? I would

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Speaker 1: say it was a series of things, not necessarily one thing,

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Speaker 1: so evidence after evidence after evidence. But what I would

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Speaker 1: say is what has affected me personally are the deaths

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Speaker 1: of those I love. And the one that probably is

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Speaker 1: the most important to me personally is my cousin Tommy

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Speaker 1: killing himself when he was nineteen years old. That I

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Speaker 1: think really changed my life. And then I had another friend.

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Speaker 1: I had a friend who died of AIDS related illness

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Speaker 1: alone in his apartment, and I thought to myself, I

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Speaker 1: have to be there for the spirits, and I have

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Speaker 1: to be there for people left behind. Oh that's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: And you have helped so many people? Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: how many would you say? By now? Well? I wrote

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Speaker 1: in my book something like, well, you know, I've spoken

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Speaker 1: to millions of spirits. And the editor came back and said,

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Speaker 1: are you sure that that could possibly be accurate? And

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Speaker 1: I started sitting in my head sort of Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: I've done this many events last year and I spoke

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Speaker 1: to this many, you know, And I started adding up.

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Speaker 1: I really do think it's you know, millions, George, at

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Speaker 1: this point, millions of spirits, not necessarily people here. That's

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Speaker 1: still a lot of spirits, a lot of spirits. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because everybody I see comes with an entourage. You know,

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Speaker 1: none of us is alone. And when people meet me

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Speaker 1: and you come to an event, or speak with me

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Speaker 1: with a network of their spirits, their ancestors, those they

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Speaker 1: know and those they don't. The afterlife, of course, has

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Speaker 1: been something that has puzzled all of us. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people ask me, George, do you believe in an afterlife?

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Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, I do. Well, what's it like?

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Speaker 1: I said, well, first of all, when you die, you'll

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Speaker 1: of questions in the book. The first question in the

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Speaker 1: book is is there really an afterlife? And that was

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Speaker 1: And I say, it depends to whom you're speaking. Each

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Speaker 1: spirit will give me a different slavor of the afterlife. Now,

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Speaker 1: there are some things that remain the same. It's a

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Speaker 1: place of instantaneous creation with thought. There's tremendous life. There

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Speaker 1: are different frequencies. We can be with those that we love.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to worry about missing our loved ones.

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Speaker 1: So there are a lot of similarities, but the flavors

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Speaker 1: meeting up with lost loves so and with their pets.

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Speaker 1: By the way, So you know, it depends with whom

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Speaker 1: you're speaking. Knowledgeer does now is there a hell? Well?

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Speaker 1: I would say that if you gather up everybody who

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Speaker 1: and you put them all in a space and hung

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Speaker 1: a sign which said hello, writ well, maybe that's hell.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it is. Then does that mean the may or

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Speaker 1: may not be a devil? That? I don't know for sure,

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Speaker 1: but I used to be very involved with Christianity, and

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Speaker 1: I was a Christian singer, and I came in contact

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Speaker 1: with a lot of darker forces. So I didn't see

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Speaker 1: certainly saw a lot of evil. What's I'd like to

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Speaker 1: be a Christian singer? What kind of songs did you sing? Well?

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Speaker 1: One of the last songs that because I used to

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Speaker 1: write the music as well, And one of the last

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Speaker 1: songs the chorus was this, you are the God of

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Speaker 1: the unexpected, the daily miracle kind, forgive me for trying

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Speaker 1: to contain you within the confines of my mind. And

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Speaker 1: I think that was one of the last Christian songs

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Speaker 1: as I wrote primarily because I was understanding that God

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Speaker 1: is much bigger than we can really imagine. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: you know there's a link between creativity and music and spirits,

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Speaker 1: and I discovered that. So here I am a Christian

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Speaker 1: musing a musician, singing in a church with a band

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Speaker 1: called Evidence Ministries, and I look out and I start

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Speaker 1: seeing people's spirits next to them. Whoa yeah, So that

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Speaker 1: they dancing with the next next to them? Or what

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Speaker 1: And she looked at me and she said, how do

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Speaker 1: And I realized, oh, wait a minute, maybe not everybody

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Speaker 1: soon thereafter that I packed my bags and moved to California.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't wrong, by the way. How do you communicate

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Speaker 1: Do you go to them? I mean, who who opens

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Speaker 1: up the door first? Well, it's a cooperative thing. We

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Speaker 1: both opened the door and I've set very clear boundaries

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Speaker 1: around the work. I am very present in my body

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Speaker 1: when I do the work. That's how the spirits find me.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't fly around trying to meet them somewhere.

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Speaker 1: They know where to find me, and the only reason

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Speaker 1: with their loved ones who have contacted me. You know,

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Speaker 1: this doesn't happen because I want it to. In fact,

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Speaker 1: make the connection. So it is important for them to

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Speaker 1: let those they love well and to correct the record.

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Speaker 1: In some cases, we will often believe something in error

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Speaker 1: around someone's life or death, especially in cases of suicide,

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Speaker 1: sometimes take over your body to communicate with people. Well,

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Speaker 1: that indeed has happened, but under very very controlled circumstances.

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Speaker 1: I like to drive my own car, you know, I

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Speaker 1: If the truth be known, no, not you What's And

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Speaker 1: a matter of fact, with some English mediums who were

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Speaker 1: very well schooled, you know, knew how to do all

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Speaker 1: do you think it is? I think it is. And

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Speaker 1: middle of a metaphysical group of people, I thought, boy,

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Speaker 1: wanted to hear what did they say about an afterlife?

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Speaker 1: Is there really an afterlife? And the answer they gave

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Speaker 1: me was simply this. There isn't an afterlife. There is

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Speaker 1: only life. So what I would say is what is

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Speaker 1: the afterlife? It is life. It's an extension of life.

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Speaker 1: It is a way of being and living and connecting

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Speaker 1: without a physical body. But our essence is the same.

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Speaker 1: We remember who we love and we remember who we are.

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Speaker 1: Good point. Do the spirits have emotion? Yes, but it's

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Speaker 1: not quite what we think. Now. This is where I'd

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Speaker 1: like to differentiate between ghosts and spirits. I make that differentiation.

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Speaker 1: ghosts as spirits with a bad attitude. And so when

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Speaker 1: they often had an axe to grind. We're irritated, angry,

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Speaker 1: there was an injustice. There was there was They just

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Speaker 1: yes it is. And it also helps the neighbors not

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Speaker 1: So people can come with expectations that would be difficult

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