1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks so 2 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: much for joining us today, Susan, how are you on 3 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: this fine winter day and it's. 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 2: Still winter and the snow has not melted? I can 5 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 2: just tell you. But we hit thirty so that's a 6 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: good thing. And with that being said, we have a 7 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: very special guest returning to Golden Hour. I'm so excited. 8 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 2: Please welcome from season ten of Paradise. Prisa. Hi, Prisa, 9 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 2: welcome back, Hi, Thank. 10 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 3: You happy again. 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: I have to say, Parsa, you are as beautiful now 12 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: as you were on Paradise. Even though you don't have 13 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: a bikini on the beach cover up, You're still gorgeous. 14 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: You're just never changed. You are lovely. 15 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. I really appreciate that. 16 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: We've got so much we want to talk about. So 17 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: we're just going to jump in. Okay, pre say you 18 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: ready go Hi? Okay? All right, So you know I'm 19 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: all about dating and asking you all kinds of dating questions. 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: So last year you hard launched your relateship with your boyfriend, who, 21 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: by the way, I say, you have not introduced me 22 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: to yet. But how long have you guys been dating 23 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 1: and when and where did you guys meet So. 24 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 3: I know, I do. You have to meet him. He's 25 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 3: so wonderful. So we met last year. It was actually 26 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 3: just weird coincidence, but we happened to be on vacation 27 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 3: both at the same time in Miami, and that's where 28 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: our paths crossed. And then when I was just asking 29 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 3: him more about who he was, he was telling me 30 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 3: he's from Chicago. And at that time when I met him, 31 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 3: Chicago was a city that I was looking into move 32 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 3: to move to. I remember, yeah, and I was just like, 33 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 3: oh my gosh, Wow, from Chicago, Okay. And when I 34 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 3: also when I met him that next week, I also 35 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 3: had a girl's trip play and with Sarafina, Dina, and Latia. 36 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 3: We were going to go to Chicago and stay with Dina, 37 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, this is a weird timing. 38 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 3: So I'm just meeting him now in Miami and I'm like, 39 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 3: I'm going to be in your city next week, and 40 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 3: so it was easier. You know, when you first meet someone, 41 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 3: you just like it's kind of nerve wracking to plan 42 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 3: like the next time you see them. It was really 43 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 3: nice to have, like to be with my girls at 44 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: that time and just set it up of like, oh, 45 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: just meet us out, meet us out for drinks after 46 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: dinner and so yeah, I mean it was. 47 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 2: This is just is he from Chicago like originally? 48 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: Or yeah, So how is moving? How has it been 49 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: for you moving to Chicago? 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, so I moved and at the end of October, 51 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 3: like November, and it's been amazing. I love this city 52 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: so much. 53 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: And even the winter. 54 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: Yeah not that actually, God, you would think, cause I'm 55 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 3: from Michigan, you would think like, oh, it's the same. 56 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 3: It's not the same. It is so much older and 57 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 3: windier in the wind makes it much colder than it 58 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 3: actually is. 59 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, what is that been the hardest adjustment? 60 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just going to say, what's the biggest adjustment? 61 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: The weather? 62 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the wind making everything like you have 63 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: to wrap your face when you walk. I've never wrapped 64 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 3: my face before in the winter. 65 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: You better, you better, your lips will freeze. Yeah. 66 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's not the hardest part. 67 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: So what do you see yourself for long term living 68 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 2: in Chicago? Or you just wanted to try it out, or. 69 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I grew up coming here a lot, so I'm 70 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 3: really familiar. I've always loved the city, but yeah, I 71 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 3: definitely see myself here long term. 72 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: Wow. 73 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: So tell us about your first date in Chicago. 74 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 3: Oh, so the first date, I guess you would say, like, 75 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 3: so he had his guy friends and I had my girlfriends, 76 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: and I like that. I feel like that's a really 77 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 3: fun first date where it's just like there's no pressure 78 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 3: and you know, you get to know each other in 79 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: that group setting. And so again I get there's no 80 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 3: pressure for a conversation. You know, it's just like very natural. 81 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 3: And then after that we planned a more formal one 82 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 3: on one date after we both saw like okay, like 83 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: this is kind of nice, like we definitely are interested, well, yeah, 84 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 3: interested in each other. And so immediately after it was 85 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 3: that same night we planned like, oh when can we 86 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 3: see each other again? 87 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: Wow? 88 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 2: And what did you do then? Did you do dinner 89 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: or yes. 90 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 3: We did dinner at this really nice restaurant in the city. 91 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, by thing. It's called Trade Data and 92 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 3: it's just like all windows over in the city, very 93 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 3: dim lighting. 94 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: I got to back up, did you guys spend the 95 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: holidays together? I know I've followed you on Instagram. You 96 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: guys have been doing some fabulous trips. 97 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we've been traveling that. But we did not 98 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 3: spend the holidays together. We were both with our families 99 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 3: for the holidays. 100 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: They met each other. Have you met families? 101 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 3: I met his family because they live here, not he Oh, 102 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 3: actually he met my dad, and when my dad came 103 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 3: and helped me move, he met my dad. But the 104 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 3: rest of my family, since they don't live here, that is, 105 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 3: that's planned for later. 106 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to plan that exactly, exactly. Yeah, what 107 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 2: does he love the critters? Like you like the critters? 108 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:40,919 Speaker 1: You know? 109 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 3: So, I mean so we always we love to have 110 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 3: like when we have date nights, we love to like 111 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 3: be really like spend these date nights asking each other questions. 112 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 3: Like we're all about like awareness when it comes to 113 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 3: like like our own like personalwareness, and then our emotional 114 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 3: awareness and then like joint like as a couple. And 115 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 3: so we found these really fun accounts of grammar, like 116 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: you can ask your partner, like what's three things that 117 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 3: surprised you about myself? And like, so like we'll always 118 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 3: go through these questions. One of them was that with 119 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 3: me having my interest in you know, and critters, and 120 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 3: he said he's definitely never, definitely never thought he would 121 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 3: ever date someone who enjoy those kind of things, are 122 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 3: you know, like kind of like the camping type, like 123 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 3: you living in the wilderness, And he never thought about that, 124 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 3: and he's not really into critters himself. But he would 125 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 3: always tell me, you know, like the fact that I'm 126 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: so interested and this is something that makes me so 127 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,679 Speaker 3: happy that it's something that like he wants to learn 128 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 3: more about and like share. 129 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: Well, I want to have back favorite color. I'm sorry 130 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 2: I have. 131 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 3: Do you know I've never asked him. I was so 132 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 3: traumatized by that whole thing that I don't even care 133 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: to ask. I don't want to ask anything. 134 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: But I got to say I want to say to 135 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: you though. That is one thing when I met you 136 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: on Paradise, and you know, I think the world of you. 137 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: I think you are a lovely human being, and you 138 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: are a girl, a woman who likes to ask questions, 139 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: who wants to get deep. And I love the fact 140 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: it sounds like he's right there with you on that. 141 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's one thing it really stands out about him 142 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 3: and the initiation he takes with like asking these questions 143 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 3: to get to know me. But then but really like 144 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: to get to know me, like deep in here of 145 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 3: like yeah, how I how you think my thought process, 146 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 3: how I think of things, and like our communication styles 147 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 3: and all of that. So it's we definitely we have 148 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 3: really I don't like just our time together. It just 149 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 3: feels very like connected. 150 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: And I love that because that's something. Yeah, wait a second, 151 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: is this is there a future? Is this guy? Is 152 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: this the guy? Is he? Is he your guy? No 153 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: one's listening, so you can be. 154 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 3: It's just I just like I can't. I don't know why. 155 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, I'm very superstitious. I never want 156 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 3: to jinx anything, and I ever want to be the 157 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: type of like this is amazing, this you know, best 158 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 3: thing ever? This is it because you just never know, 159 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 3: You really never know. But I mean this definitely it 160 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 3: is so different and I feel like you everything happens 161 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 3: for a reason, like you have to go through so 162 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 3: much in order to learn about like what you want 163 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: in your life and what you don't want and like 164 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: what makes you happy in order for you to like 165 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 3: just know, like when you meet that person, it's like, 166 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 3: oh wow, like this is what I've been looking for. 167 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 3: And so yes, I definitely feel like we are there, 168 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 3: you know in category. 169 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 1: Would you move in? Would you move in with him? 170 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 3: We talked about that too, you have talked about it. Yeah, 171 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 3: like so like that would be like the next step. 172 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 2: Did you sign a year's lease? 173 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 174 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I signed it one. 175 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: Year lease, wait till fall? 176 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, that's okay because it's just like I like that. 177 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 3: I like not rushing anything, and like when the timing 178 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 3: aligns then like kind of checking in and like okay, 179 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 3: like is this said? Is this you know? 180 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: Oh it sounds very measured. I like this. It's you 181 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: seem like you have a great connect with him, but 182 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: you guys talk, it's measured. You're you feel comfortable, cared 183 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: for all the things that you want to hear in 184 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: the relationship. 185 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's great. Actually, I'll share one thing that 186 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 3: I've been loving that we do. We do shared notes 187 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 3: on the notes app, and we'll have like because we 188 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 3: just we hold each other accountable when it comes to 189 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 3: like our personal life and professional life. And one thing 190 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 3: that I love doing with him is we share our 191 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 3: like New Year's resolutions with each other. So like I 192 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 3: have my New Year's resolution and our shared list. 193 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: Oh there's a list there, there's a list and. 194 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 3: Like we just like we keep each other like in 195 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 3: the loop of these things and then we have the 196 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 3: bold ten list under it of like things that we 197 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 3: need to do it this year to put us like 198 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 3: outside of our comfort zone and like ah yeah, like 199 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 3: so we just have that there and then I just 200 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 3: I like these kind of things, like just when it 201 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 3: comes to like things that we want to or just 202 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 3: goals we want to reach in our in our lives, 203 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 3: and like I feel like your partner is and your 204 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 3: your partner should be like your number one supporter in 205 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 3: your life and you're cheerleader, and it's just I feel 206 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,959 Speaker 3: like it's so good to have them involved in all 207 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 3: of that. 208 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: What does he do, Parisa? I'm curious because he sounds 209 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: very like he has a very high EQ like you do. 210 00:10:59,280 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: What does he do? 211 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 3: He owns his own his own real estate here in Chicago. 212 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 2: Ah yeah, thing buying a house, He'll know what to do. 213 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 3: He's really yeah, he helped me find my place here. 214 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 3: So if anyone in Chicago needs a real estate, are. 215 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: You in the city local I mean proper city. 216 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I'm in like the Wesloop are in Chicago. 217 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: So has he met any of your Bachelor Nation friends girls. 218 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, he dates. It was so funny too. So 219 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 3: we had that that night out. Then all of us 220 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 3: girls we go to this really nice cafe for brunch. 221 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 3: The next morning, he's at the same cafe with his mom. 222 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 3: Oh it was it was so I'm like, I look 223 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 3: over my guys, no one look, but that's he is. 224 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 3: At first too, we saw the back of the woman. 225 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 3: I thought it was he was on a date, a 226 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 3: brunch date. 227 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 228 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 3: Oh, and then we saw what I'm like, no, I 229 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 3: think that is his mom. That must be his mom. 230 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 3: And everyone looks and then yeah, he then he saw 231 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 3: us and he walked over. It was just it was weird. 232 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 3: It was a weird coincidence that we were all at 233 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: the same place. 234 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: But it sounds magical to me. 235 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 2: What about Brian Doude, tell are your friends? Do you 236 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: communicate it all or is it cut ties? 237 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,319 Speaker 3: And no, Yeah, that's it. 238 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 239 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. I had a lot of moments when we were 240 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 3: there in Paradise where you know, like you get those 241 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 3: gut moments and like, as a woman, you never want 242 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 3: to listen to your gut, but then you always know 243 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 3: the man you should have listened to it and it's 244 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 3: just always like you have in those times you're just like, no, 245 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,559 Speaker 3: this is different, this is different. It was it wasn't different. 246 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 2: Because you want it to work. I think our intuition 247 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:10,079 Speaker 2: is on point always. Yeah, yeah, we fight it sometimes, but. 248 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: I could, I honestly can say. Look, being with you 249 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: in Paradise, you look so calm. Your whole demeanor is 250 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: like you you look confident and comfortable. So I love 251 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: seeing that. But speaking about to work Paradise, who are 252 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: you still really good friends with from Vachtorination? Who are 253 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: your besties? 254 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 3: So Alex comes a lot to Chicago because Andrew lives here. 255 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 3: Andrew actually lives around the corner from my boyfriends, which 256 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 3: it's so like we definitely we've been hanging out a 257 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 3: lot when she's here, and it's been fun. We just 258 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 3: had Andrew's birthday a few weeks ago, and so then 259 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 3: that was a good time just all us celebrating together. 260 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 3: And then Alicia as well. Alicia is going to come 261 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 3: here for Saint Patrick's Day. It'll be it's my first 262 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 3: time in Chicago for Saint Patrick's Dade. So I like 263 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 3: a really fun weekend with the Green River and. 264 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, fun, yeah, but so the question for you, would 265 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 2: you ever go back to reality TV? 266 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 3: If asked, I was, I always think about that. I 267 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 3: think I would now if it was a new show 268 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: around what I do as like for my career, So 269 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 3: something like if there was a show similar to like 270 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 3: love on the spectrum dating, like individuals on the spectrum dating, 271 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 3: because that's with my field. I'm a behavior therapist, and 272 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 3: I would love to join my fields with just dating 273 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 3: and like communication and dating coping skills and like emotional 274 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 3: regulation associated with dating. I feel like that would be 275 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 3: a lot of fun. 276 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: Have you got anything planned for twenty twenty six? What 277 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: are you working on? I am assuming when you moved 278 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: to Chicago you took your job with you, right, Yes. 279 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm actually so a couple of things. But to 280 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 3: bounce off that, I actually am finishing writing a book 281 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 3: right now about mixing so my world with like applied 282 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 3: behavior analysis, the science of human behavior. I am colliding 283 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 3: that world with dating and this I'm actually almost done. 284 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 3: And that's kind of been. I started this actually after 285 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 3: my season on The Bachelor with Grant season, and it 286 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 3: just it kept like evolving as I just as I 287 00:15:55,040 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 3: continued experiencing new things with dating and testing the theories 288 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 3: in my field on dating and like reinforcing the behaviors 289 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 3: that I want to see in my relationships. So all 290 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 3: of that kind of came from my experience and as 291 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 3: well as like my friends too, Like I'm kind of 292 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 3: like getting interviewing them and getting their take on their 293 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 3: experiences with dating. But but yeah, like that's my big 294 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 3: thing right now for this year. 295 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: Do you have an editor? I mean, it's this going forward? 296 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: Are you? 297 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, yeah, right now I'm on the part with 298 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 3: just like adding in my friends and their experiences and 299 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 3: tying it in with each chapter. But basically, it's it's 300 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 3: going to explain why so many women, including myself, get 301 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 3: stuff chasing avoidant men, or why mixed signals start to 302 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 3: feel very addictive in relationships and then like anxious attachment, 303 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 3: how that can get reinforced over time without us even 304 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 3: realizing it. So like the main point of the book 305 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 3: is just going to teach the readers how to stop 306 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 3: reinforcing what you don't want in a relationship and to 307 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 3: start reinforcing secure and healthy behaviors instead. 308 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: Wow, I want to read it. I want I want 309 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: to copy when it comes out. 310 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 3: Y God, I actually like I wanted to touch on 311 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 3: one thing that you were saying. You always told me. 312 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 3: This always stuck with me when you told me, you know, 313 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 3: because I feel like a lot of us women have 314 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 3: always experienced a guy telling us that we too much, 315 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 3: and that had that stuck with me because you know, 316 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 3: you can't help but feel so shot down when someone's 317 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 3: just like you need to stop, You're you're too much, 318 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 3: you're being too much, like you can't help, but like 319 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:52,199 Speaker 3: crumble inside, but I'll never forget and you're like, no, honey, 320 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 3: I'm not too much, You're just not enough. 321 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad you remembered that, because you know what, honestly, 322 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: as you know, I'm I'm pretty gregarious and outgoing and 323 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: all that, and I get that from men, and so 324 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 1: never forget that. I have to tell myself that, you know, no, 325 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 1: I'm not too much, You're just not enough for me. 326 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: And so I'm glad you remember that, because that's a 327 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: good that's a good axiom to to live by. 328 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 3: Absolutely, yeah, And it's I wanted to tithe all that in. 329 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 3: It's just like that, we don't want to reinforce that, and. 330 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 1: Really, ques Well feel free to dedicate the book to me, Presa, 331 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: I can't tell. I cannot say. Though, it seems like 332 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 1: your life now is it's it's calm, it's you seem 333 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: very interested in this guy. He's taking you on some 334 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: amazing trips. When I talked to you, I can't remember 335 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: where he took you. Was it Canada, bam for something, whistler? Whistler? 336 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was. 337 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: You were like, because you always said you'd like to 338 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: travel every weekend, remember, Yeah. 339 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 3: Especially in the summertime, just having always and even something 340 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,399 Speaker 3: that's like you know, local or close you know to 341 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 3: your like your city. But yeah, that trip was so 342 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 3: incredible that he planned and then even plans like this 343 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 3: huge hike, knowing that this trail would take us through 344 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 3: like all these different terrains and all of the critters 345 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 3: I would be exposed to. It was just, yeah, it 346 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 3: was amazing. 347 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 1: Do you plan dates? Does he plan them? Who does 348 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 1: most of the date planning? 349 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 3: We both do. We definitely, yeah, we both do. And 350 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 3: then we also know we both love surprises, so we're 351 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 3: always like sneaking in surprises here and there. It's like, 352 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 3: it's nice to like have that like same love language. 353 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: Yeah it is. I was just going to say, do 354 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 2: you know your love language, what would yours be? And 355 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 2: what is his? 356 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 3: I So for me, I just like I definitely like 357 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 3: we were talking about this too, like we hit all 358 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 3: of the love language, all the love languages. But for me, 359 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 3: it's definitely quality time and physical touch. That's me. 360 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say, I would say you gift giving 361 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 1: from you? 362 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 3: Oh, gift giving too, for sure definitely feels so I 363 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 3: sometimes I can't even hold in the surprise. 364 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 365 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 2: But your love language is what you how you feel loved. 366 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: What she likes to do is not her love language. 367 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: In other words, it's what you feel loved. 368 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 369 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 3: Also from his side to. 370 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:41,199 Speaker 1: Because wait a minute, miss week, I get confused on 371 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,959 Speaker 1: this every time when I asked, when you ask them 372 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: what their love language is, is it what they receive 373 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: for gifts? Susan, which is. 374 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 2: What they feel loved what they receive? 375 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: Okay, So when I said to you, uh, I'm sorry, 376 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: I screwed up that. I because I always think of 377 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: what my love which is to give, but your sentence 378 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: to receive. 379 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 2: It's what you feel, how you feel loved when somebody does. Okay, yeah, 380 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 2: whatever how about him? 381 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: Does he? 382 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah? His? I think his are the same. He 383 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 3: loves the quality time we're both and we both are. 384 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 3: We talked about like words of affirmation, like of course 385 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,440 Speaker 3: we both love, like. 386 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: We always saying beautiful things, yeah, and. 387 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 3: Acknowledge all of that. But we're really big on like 388 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 3: we always say, like love is. We like to look 389 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,639 Speaker 3: at like love as a verb. And so it's like 390 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 3: all like the actions. So it is of course, it's like, 391 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:44,679 Speaker 3: you know, always important to speak that language and like 392 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 3: compliment and but the actions always need to be there too, 393 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,160 Speaker 3: or those words just kind of you know, they'll feel 394 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 3: empty over time. 395 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 2: How long has it been? How long have you been dating? 396 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: Since November? 397 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 3: You said, right, yeah, that's when we really became We 398 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 3: became like official after the summer, ok. 399 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, and because you met him right after Paradise. 400 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 3: I actually I met him before Paradis. 401 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, that's right, Yes, you did. 402 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 3: And I met him before. And at that time too, 403 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 3: it was I knew I was leaving and he knew too, 404 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 3: like me and like the girls that we were all 405 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 3: talking about that with him, and it was one of 406 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,919 Speaker 3: those things like I left, it was yeah, like a 407 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 3: month later, so I never I only saw him like twice. 408 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: Did you call him when you got back from Paradise. 409 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: I can't remember what you said. 410 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 3: I I texted him when I was back, and I 411 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 3: kind of like just left it how it was, because 412 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 3: it was just so sticky with everything, yeah, going back 413 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 3: from Paradise, and like he knew that too, he knew 414 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 3: he's familiar with the show, and he knew everything, like 415 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 3: you know what to expect, and I just thought, you 416 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 3: know what, like if anything happened, I'm not the type. 417 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 3: I'm not going to wait for him to message me 418 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 3: or to make a move. Like the ball was always 419 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 3: going to be in my court because I was the 420 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 3: one who left and I had just all of that 421 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 3: going on, so like that was going to be my 422 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 3: thing of like telling him later on, like if something 423 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 3: worked or didn't work, or if I wanted to see 424 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 3: him again. 425 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: We've got a couple of questions because you are so wise, Parisa, 426 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 1: So we have a few quick advice questions for you. 427 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: What advice do you have to any woman that is 428 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 1: single right now? What advice would you give? And I'm 429 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: one of them. 430 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 3: My advice, I feel like you just you can't have 431 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 3: any expectations or plans. You really have to let go 432 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 3: and just go with it and see where things just 433 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 3: see how things develop with someone with going on dates. 434 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 3: One thing that really helped me, I go in on 435 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:04,199 Speaker 3: the date viewing it as like, at least, let's make 436 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 3: a friendship out of this and just take off take 437 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 3: out all the expectations and all the pressure. And I 438 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 3: feel like if you live in the moment and you're 439 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 3: having fun, your true self will show and like that 440 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 3: person will really get to know you for who you 441 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 3: are and not that pressured version. And yeah, like I 442 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 3: just I feel like you'll make dating feel a little 443 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 3: bit easier on yourself if you just take that approach. 444 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 2: And not judge a book by its cover or by 445 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,640 Speaker 2: a picture. 446 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 1: Or that stop looking at me when you said those things. 447 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: So it's difficult. 448 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, what would you tell someone who's going on the 449 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 2: Bachelor for the very first time? Welcome to our world? 450 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 2: What advice would you give them? 451 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 3: My advice very almost like similar of just trying to 452 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 3: be yourself, living in the moment, and you cannot think 453 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 3: ahead and plan the next like assuming how the next 454 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 3: conversation is going to go or prepare for that conversation, 455 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 3: Like you really can't, like you have to just go 456 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 3: with it. And it's almost like you know, like you 457 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: know who you are, you know your values, you know 458 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 3: your interests, so like, let's go in the moment, let 459 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 3: like that muscle memory just take over. 460 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 2: You know, once to be authentic. 461 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it when it starts to feel forced and 462 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 3: like scripted, then it's just like that's not your true self. 463 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 1: I just have to say, though everybody, Susan, do you 464 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: agree every person? We asked this question a lot about 465 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: what you know, what advice do you have for people 466 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: going to the bachelork I think pretty much everyone correct 467 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 1: me if I'm wrong, Susan. Everyone says be yourself, and 468 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: Susan and I of course are always ourselves. But it 469 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: doesn't you know, I'm not sure that in the in 470 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: the world of the Bachelor, I'm not sure being yourself 471 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: in that little bubble in that short period of time, 472 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 1: someone really gets to know the real. 473 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 2: You, even though you are being yourself because at the 474 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 2: time together, Yeah. 475 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 3: I know, that's when it's tough. That's when I kind 476 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,400 Speaker 3: of it gets hard because you don't have that much time, 477 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 3: so you have to make the best of it, right. 478 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 3: But I've from what I've seen though, like it's always 479 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 3: those little moments that are like off camera where that 480 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 3: like you both get to see who that person is. 481 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, either that or to throw it off. 482 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I know it's it's hard for sure. Is 483 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 3: because I think a lot of us too, we always 484 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 3: look back and we're like, I should have been more 485 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 3: myself during that and I should have Yeah, I'm like 486 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 3: thinking back to my conversations with me and like my friends, 487 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 3: like it's you just you do get caught up and 488 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,679 Speaker 3: it's hard. So I feel like that's always our advice 489 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,159 Speaker 3: is just like take it from us, try like to 490 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 3: just stay in the moment and focus and like just 491 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 3: be yourself like as hard as it is as hard, yeah, Yeah. 492 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 2: Do you have any regrets of anything that you said 493 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 2: or did on the show? 494 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 3: No, I never no regrets, if any If I ever 495 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 3: have a regret, it's I wish I did this, Like. 496 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 2: I wish I said something. 497 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:25,199 Speaker 3: Or I wish I said something. But you know, I 498 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 3: feel like in the end, it's you. I don't know. 499 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 3: I feel like in the end it's for me. I 500 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 3: don't want to have regrets because it always leads to 501 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,199 Speaker 3: something else and there's always a reason for what. 502 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 1: I and I will say pretty said no one's pen 503 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: say this. You were, You're a lovely human being today. 504 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: You are incredible on Paradise. Your kindness, your big heart 505 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 1: was evident from the very beginning. So I hope you 506 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: have no regrets about the least Paris. 507 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 2: And her beauty. I mean, if you look so relaxed, 508 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. She does true to yourself, and I 509 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 2: love that for you. I'm very happy for you. 510 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: I want to meet the guy though, Yeah, of course. 511 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 2: Wait catch you? You didn't You didn't ask her yet? 512 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 2: Does he have a father and uncle? 513 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, that's always my question. Does he have a 514 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: father and an uncle? 515 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:14,879 Speaker 3: For me? 516 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 1: Could you? Could you get working on it? I'll move 517 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: to Chicago. I'm good. 518 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 3: They're married. 519 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 1: They're always married. They're always married. 520 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 3: But you know, I'll ask her around. You know, they 521 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 3: know a lot of people there. 522 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 2: You go, we can be Do you have any questions 523 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 2: for Kathy Ry? 524 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 3: How's yeah? How wait? So are you guys both doing 525 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 3: the cruise? Is that next year? 526 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: November? So this is November? 527 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 3: Wow? Oh? Wait? 528 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 2: So this this year? 529 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: This coming? Yeah, it's twenty twenty six. Oh, that's November 530 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: for all those people listening November sixteenth through the twentieth 531 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: of November. Come join Punta ConA cruising to Puntakna. 532 00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 2: We don't know, have some fun. 533 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 3: So does that mean do you think there'll be some 534 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 3: singles on the cruise? Two for you guys. 535 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 2: I mean it's a lot of bachelor Nation, so probably 536 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 2: a lot of single women. I know people write me 537 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 2: and they're bringing their spouse and. 538 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm not going to break up a marriage. No, you 539 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: know what, maybe the captain of the ship will be single. 540 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 2: High High Kathy's going ahead the parties. I'm telling it. 541 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: Wow, Well, I don't know, it's I just I just 542 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: want to say this. It really is fabulous, Senior Pariceon 543 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: and I definitely want to meet Gay because I think 544 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,719 Speaker 1: you are a very special person. 545 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 3: You are so much You guys should both come to Chicago. 546 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: I'm waiting for the summer in Chicago part of the time, 547 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: not in the winters. 548 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 2: My ex used to play for the Cubs way back 549 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 2: when when they didn't have lights. It was all day games, 550 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 2: so it was the most normal baseball life. Yeah, do 551 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 2: you have you been to Wrigley Field or you go 552 00:29:59,440 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 2: to the other end? 553 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 3: Not yet, that's on my list for this summer. 554 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 2: That's fun. 555 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 3: It's yeah, that's funny. You guys should both come when 556 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 3: it warms up. Susan, are you still dating that guy? 557 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 2: Yes? 558 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 3: Oh, oh my gosh. Okay, we'll see it. Well, okay, 559 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 3: so then we're only going to be looking for singles 560 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 3: and for Kathy. 561 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 2: Damn right, it's all about Kathy. Well, Kathy and I 562 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 2: are heading out to California soon, so we're going to 563 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 2: spend a week up in the desert. Maybe we'll find 564 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 2: somebody there. 565 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 3: Oh fun, Oh my gosh. Okay. Yeah, well I want 566 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 3: to know too whenever you guys like, because I go 567 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 3: to California a lot, as well as Alicia's in California too. 568 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 2: The last time in Chicago was when the Dancing with 569 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 2: the Stars group, actually it was Valve, it was his 570 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 2: own thing and they did a performance there and I 571 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 2: flew in. If they're doing that this year. 572 00:30:56,600 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: Wow, we're gonna we are definitely pre said, definitely want 573 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 1: to see you, but unfortunately that's going to do it. 574 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: For today's episode, it is thank you Prisa for joining us, 575 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: Thank you to everyone listening. We just it's been a 576 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 1: fabulous having conversation with you for since again, so happy 577 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 1: to see you, so happy. 578 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having you on I Know, 579 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 2: and make sure to keep us in the loop now 580 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 2: if any move in or rings happen or anything like that, 581 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 2: we want to be. 582 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 1: The first to know. 583 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for having me with so 584 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 3: nice talking to you both. 585 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: Absolutely, be sure everyone to keep sending us your questions. 586 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 2: Just go to bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour and 587 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 2: keep them coming, Keep them coming. 588 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: Listen about to our Happy Hours Golden Hour on the 589 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to your podcast. 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