WEBVTT - Happily Ever After PART TWO 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.400 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.600 --> 0:00:09.719 Okay, we are back for part two of the wedding recap. 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:14.160 Let's get into it. Thursday obviously was a lot of fun, 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:17.959 and then Friday we had a what's that called again? 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:21.480 Highland Games and afore that we rode horses. We did 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:23.560 ride horses. I didn't see that coming. 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:25.280 That was beautiful. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:28.080 I loved that while the boys shot some guns and 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:30.200 that was that was lovely. And you know, Jolie was 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.199 feeling great for that, so that was great and she 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:33.440 enjoyed the horseback riding. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:35.960 And then we came ever ridden a horse? Ever? 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:36.479 No? 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:37.960 What no? 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.440 I mean like a little pony in a circle when 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:42.720 I was little. Probably I wasn't sure you were going 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:43.120 to do it. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:43.720 I wasn't either. 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:45.720 Well the tailb and I was like, really protecting myself, 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:46.880 I'm like, are we galloping? Yeah? 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:48.879 It does this look like? And I'm not experienced and 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:50.000 so that would freak me. 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:51.680 You know the fact how they were holding the thing, 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:53.239 because I was like, you can let go of the 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:56.320 like I've but they the guided part of that. 0:00:57.280 --> 0:00:59.040 Okay, I got on. 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:01.480 I rode a horse named Jack and he had bangs 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:05.720 and I left Jack so xact precious. But then we 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:08.240 did the Highland Games and that was so much fun, 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:11.520 so fun, way more professional and cool than I thought 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:12.920 it was going to be. Like in my brain, I 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:14.440 thought it's going to be like this, kind of like 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:16.400 I didn't care, but I thought, oh, what's it going 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:18.560 to be like? Right, you know, like a haystack and 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:21.320 a bio and whatever. So professional. 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.280 I liked, very untill I missed out on half of it. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:24.760 I know, I don't know. 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:26.560 I still don't know what it was because I was fine. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:29.480 The next day. It started with the horse riding. I 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.680 was like, oh my gosh, like I'm allergic to something 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.920 out here. Granted, millions of things are blooming. Obviously there 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:36.920 had been so much rain and then all this stuff 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:38.480 is blooming. So like while we're out there, I'm like, 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:40.640 I should take some allergy medicine. I'm really feeling this. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:44.360 We're Highland Games. I cannot stop sneezing. So then I'm like, 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.320 I got to go in. I gotta go take something else. 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:47.800 I'd already taken like three pills. 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:48.400 I was like. 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.280 So I was like, the only thing that's going to 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:52.080 work is a bit of drill and then I passed 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:53.480 out on the bed and fell asleep. 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:55.120 For it was only like thirty minutes to an hour. 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:59.920 Luckily, because like her nicket in a fire or something. 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:03.560 Men knows how I am when it comes to allergies, luckily, 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:05.400 so he wasn't worried about me. But I woke up 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:07.880 in a panic. So I was like, I missed because 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:09.560 you know, I love that stuff. I was like, that's 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:13.920 the rest of the games, and we won. But then 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:16.240 I was more worried about the next day. So I 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.880 was like, the wedding's outside, what if I'm literally snazing? 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:21.600 But I felt so much better the next day, So so. 0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:25.040 Let's talk about the next day. Well, the night of. 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:32.600 We were because people wanted to know if we spent uh, 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:36.560 go ahead, honey, if we spent the night together or not. Alan, 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:40.120 do you sometimes feel like you shared too much or 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.440 people ask too much. I see it come over you 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:43.600 and I wonder what you're thinking. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:53.400 This is quite funny because hilarious because we've come to 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:56.239 the conclusion of the session that we would just spend. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:58.640 Yeah, baby together the night before is. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:02:59.400 What we were talking about. 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:01.760 Spend spend the night together. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:02.320 Hilarious. 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:11.239 Eight o'clock at night or whatever time you've gone to bed. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:18.960 I knew beginning you announced that I'm going to go 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:21.200 to sleep in one of the rooms in the other 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:21.600 part of. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:23.560 The castle with a bag on her shoulder already. 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:25.679 Have I been looking for a room? 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:30.560 Because listen, listen, let me just back this up, okay, 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:34.640 because I thank you because I. 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.800 Was so did you just click your fingers? 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:38.640 I went snapped, like. 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:44.240 Alan, A lot of people think you're quite perfect and 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.120 we need to air some dirty laundry that you are 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:51.000 a snorer. Thank you, I'll say it, because I was 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:54.280 so sensitive to sleep and the baby's coming in coughing 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.800 in the in the middle of the night, waking us up, 0:03:57.040 --> 0:04:02.400 or our baby baby crying, and then also with you snoring, 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.520 I wake up not only with the anxiety, but I 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:08.120 will wake up to that. So I needed an opportunity 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.640 to have zero noise, zero interruptions, zero snoring. 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:15.640 Did that work for you, guys? 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:16.880 It was the cutest things. 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:19.679 She's like, you know, Janna' is like so itty bitty anyways, 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:21.800 and she's got this little bag over her shoulder, and 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:23.919 she's got her big Stanley cup and she's like, I 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:26.520 found a room I'm going to go get into good 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:28.719 night's rest somewhere else. And I was like, well, this 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:32.080 is exciting. Alan didn't believe it was gonna work. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:33.880 So I went up to just make sure the room 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:35.640 was okay, I think, because I wanted to look at 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:40.960 the room, because I thought, okay, I'll. 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.760 Think, will she sleeping here on that? So seen the 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:42.400 room that thorty. 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:46.000 Okay, it's a nice enough room, it's dark enough, it's 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:49.400 in a quiet enough part of the castle. But there 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:50.880 was no part of me thought you were going to 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:53.719 stay in that room for the whole night. So you 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:54.719 went to bed there. 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:59.480 I went to bed at ten, I went to bed. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:06.240 Of the time, I can remember I hear you come 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:11.040 in the fact that you text me then because my 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:13.480 brother came in the room. Oh did Yeah, my brother 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:15.360 came in and I sat with my brother. But this 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:18.960 was a little one thirty in the morning. So I 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.720 sat and had a chat with my brother like one 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:25.279 thirty one two maybe it was one till two. He 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.880 left it too, And then they got a text message 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:28.280 from you. 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:30.840 Saying I can't sleep. 0:05:30.960 --> 0:05:32.640 I can't sleep right, okay. 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.719 Well my response was okay, well I'm here if you 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.840 need me, you need to come down if you need 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:40.599 me to come up. So I went to bed, and 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:44.080 then it's the clock. The door opens, comes in with 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:44.920 a little bag. 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:49.920 And back figure. And then these things are sold separate 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:53.560 in the morning you can go shout and get it tomorrow. 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:57.480 No wherever she goes, she's coming with her supplies. Imagine 0:05:57.520 --> 0:05:59.240 that when we're telling the story. 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:02.160 Well the water, I hear put the bag. 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:05.840 Sneaks in, put some mask on, puts out of your plugs, 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:09.560 and goes to sleep. Must be an hour later that 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:11.640 your plugs are off, the masks off. She walks out 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:13.160 of the bag and jug. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:16.880 Oh my god, you took it every time? What is 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.200 in this bag that you're doing between sleeping? 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:20.520 She goes back to the room. 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:27.400 So I'm like, I've sheen her leave the room. Yeah, 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:29.240 so I must have just fallen asleep. I don't think 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:32.800 I text you at that point. And then six in 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:35.240 the morning, five in the morning comes. 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:37.440 Back in again, bag, bag and a jug. 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:41.320 It's probably a one hundred yard walk to whatever room. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.680 This is a distance and up and down like a white. 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:49.440 Stairwell like my it's not just like right next door. 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:53.400 Amazing after the strip like the up and downstairs, and 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:55.040 the walking comes. 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:58.560 In at five, leaves again and then comes back in 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:00.520 and then you say, ethel. 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:04.719 When I got up, so a busy. 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:07.840 Night for our little bride to be, I just couldn't sleep. 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:11.440 And every time I was like, it was it was, 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.520 it was awful, and then I cried and then I 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:17.760 got like, so I got three hours before wedding day sleep. 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:20.600 My snoring is not the issue. Your plugs is just. 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:23.040 So. 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.040 But what's the excuse when you're in the other. 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:28.239 Room does anxiety again? 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:33.480 I'm not, like, you know, comfortable. I love being next 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:35.880 to him. It's the thing like when he leaves, I 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:37.400 love being next to him. I just don't like the 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:43.080 noise sometimes comes out of fun. But I have a 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:46.480 story from the night before the wedding, okay, from of 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:51.920 Alan and the wedding planner. Go bounty paper towel. Alan 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:58.440 a bounty paper towel. So I come in. This matters 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:02.320 because it also is with the logistics of actual wedding day. 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.440 Okay, Okay. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:08.440 So we have this sweet little England woman, this English 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:11.320 woman who is the wedding planner at the castle. She's 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:13.640 lovely and takes care of everything. 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:14.840 So the night before. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:19.320 She's running everything, everything in this tiny, little one hundred 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:22.000 pound person, like she handled all of it. But she's 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:25.520 a little dismissive. So she referred to me. I started 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.320 to see that. I teared up a little bit, like 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.880 up going up on the ticker for her when she 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:32.720 realized I was a bridesmaid unless of a guest. That 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.559 there was only two maids of honor matrons of honor, 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:37.440 and I was one of them. So then it started 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:41.560 to be a little bit more polite. She loved Preston, 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:44.880 so they had this big moment. They were always, you know, 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:47.040 like they just led a real bond with each other. 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:48.920 She loves you. 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:55.120 So correct, So I'm just gonna go with men versus women. 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:56.200 It's fine. 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:58.400 And I honestly I was like, it's fine, and I 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:00.680 like culturally like I can deal with an. I just 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:02.320 she just caught me on a moment that day where 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.319 I was like, okay, I'm gonna need a second Okay, 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:08.440 so she starts referring to me as bridesmaid. Oh, by 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:11.960 the second end of second day, it's now bridesmaid, come here, bridesmaid. 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:12.600 I have a question. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:14.559 No, we're never like, why did I hear that? 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:19.160 So I go to get Sarah Boyd, who is a 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:21.480 lovely human and works with you, and I actually really 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:22.360 enjoyed her company. 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:23.160 She's really fun. 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.840 She needed a tea the night before the wedding, so 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:29.679 I step into the kitchen to ask for a tea cup, 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.079 also honoring that the kitchen is like the sacred space 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:34.280 for the staff, and I can tell there's a little 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:35.560 working table and there it's quite big. 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:36.199 It's awesome. 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:39.040 So I walk in to get a tea cup and 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:42.520 I see Alan sitting at the round table with this 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:46.040 one hundred pound general and she has a bounty paper 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:49.040 towel and she goes, bridesmaid, bridesmaid, come here, come here, 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:51.160 come here, and I'm like, oh, boy, okay. So We're 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:53.240 sitting there and I can see on Alan's face like 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:56.720 I feel and in background, I did do weddings. I 0:09:56.720 --> 0:10:00.240 do love events, and I madly, deeply love organization. So 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:02.760 I'm like, we have a scene chart on a paper 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.360 towel at this point, and that feels a little unsettling, 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.120 but I'm here for it. Whatever we got to use. 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:10.880 And Alan's like, well, what do you think, Kristen? And 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:12.800 we're mapping out where parents are going to sit at 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:17.040 your ceremony, okay, And I, because I'm asked, give my 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:19.480 two cents. I didn't come in with a plan, just 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:24.360 coming for a teacup bribe me, brides me, what do 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:26.320 you think? No, And so I give my two cents, 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:28.760 and I say, I like a plan, and I think 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:32.240 a plan really matters. Alan concurs by saying a sentence 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:35.240 I will always make Allen's tagline no room for air 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:38.600 correct Alan, and I soulmates, let's do this. So he 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:40.840 says no room for air, and I say, I agree, Russell, 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:44.320 And so she then takes my idea and says, well, 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:44.880 I don't like it. 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:46.319 I don't like it. I don't like it. 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:50.520 She's she's cradling the most massive glass of some sort 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.840 of white wine so out in the window. 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:54.880 She doesn't care. 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.960 She's like, I don't actually, I'm like, did you just 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:58.320 do this so that you could dismiss me? 0:10:58.440 --> 0:10:59.200 Like? Is this a mean girl? 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.160 Woman? I couldn't figure it out, And I was like, okay, 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:04.760 will you let me know and I'll help you in 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:06.480 the morning. Like, and I just kind of couldn't figure 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.440 out where I fit with her. So I leave the 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:13.400 Bounty Paper towel, which was our official seating chart for 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:18.720 the wedding. For the ceremony, So I'm going to fast 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:20.800 forward for just a second, and i won't take any 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:22.400 parts of your ceremony piece away. 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:24.200 But once I'm. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:28.520 Up the aisle and I adjusted the veil and I 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.520 am ready to take my seat, I looked to the 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:35.280 front row, which is supposed to be where I'm sitting, 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:37.640 and Sarah Boyd is in a black dress in the 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:39.439 front row with a whole wedding party, and I'm the 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:41.600 only one in the second row with Sarah Boy's husband. 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:47.920 Sarah. What Kyle says to me, I think you're supposed 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:49.240 to be up there. You should switch with Sarah, And 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.400 I said, no one talked, just watch the wedding. 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:53.480 Because I'm like, it's fine, I'll go. But I'm talked 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:55.760 now inside the second row, so I didn't even know 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:59.280 that I'm good well behind you. You couldn't know before we 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.760 went up. Look up and I go, okay, first of all, 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:03.000 before we went up, we have a couple of. 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:07.760 Stories to finish this. 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.160 When I look up and I go, I don't think 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.679 Sarah's supposed to be there. She wasn't even with her husband. 0:12:11.800 --> 0:12:14.040 I was like, wow, this is a really ballsy move 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:15.520 by Sarah, Like she doesn't care. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:16.920 Sarah just sat there. 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:19.800 And by the way, the wedding party, like we're in 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.880 these like blue dresses. Everyone else is blue. Like it's 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:26.520 very obviously so Sarah black. And I saw her in 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:27.079 the second row. 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:30.360 Oh well, well we did switch, which. 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:36.440 I just didn't. But her name was the general did this. 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:37.520 The General doesn't know. 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:40.120 I think they got their names. The General doesn't know 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:44.000 if I'm Sarah. So Sarah's name was actually on that chair. 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.080 She sat where she was supposed to say. It was 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:47.880 not her fault, but she kept looking at me like 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:52.000 she was like, I think I'm so student back there 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:57.679 and I didn't know this, and I go and Kyle's like, 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.640 I really think that's her husband. He's like, I really 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:01.160 think you should be in the front room. And I said, 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.680 I really kindly don't care. And I kept saying to 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.160 the General the night before, I said, truthfully, you could 0:13:06.200 --> 0:13:08.280 put Cat and I in a second row with this. Yeah, 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.120 are not the girls that are like, but that's our spot, 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.840 like we are the easiest, like put us wherever, prioritize 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:17.680 the parents and the kids and We'll just go wherever. 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:21.319 Yeah, so you ended up So I ended switching. 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:23.360 Yeah, because then I thought, oh, like, this is going 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:24.079 to look weird and. 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:26.320 Photos well, and Sarah I probably wanted to sit by 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:26.800 her husband. 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:27.000 Well. 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.880 Also, Sarah felt very awkward when she kept training me. 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:31.439 I just didn't want to make a scene where we're 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:33.960 like switching and you guys are exchanging these like meaningful 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.360 vows and I'm like, but then I also didn't want 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:38.680 the pictures to come back and I'm sitting this second 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.040 looks weird and people love it. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:43.880 So did you change it? 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:46.680 Yeah? They did move. Yeah, when it made a little break. 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.840 Yeah, she was like, I feel better back there, and 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:50.000 I was like, yeah, this is where, and she goes 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:51.560 my name was on the chair, and I said, yeah, 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.160 the general doesn't care what my name is. 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:54.600 She knew who Preston was. 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:57.240 By the way, our husbands not set anywhere near us, 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:00.320 she said, our husband's over on opposite. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.080 Yeah, it doesn't expect to be there. Then I don't care. 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:20.080 So then Roman is sitting set the sweetest man behind 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:21.200 us with. 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:25.760 A babysitter, Which can I pause that for a second. 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:28.640 Remember on one of our last episodes when I said, 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:32.360 who's going to be holding the baby? And some people 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.560 you too, made fun of me and said, oh, like 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:36.880 he's going to be sitting with. 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:41.000 The boy was a family member. I mean, I thought, surely, okay. 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:43.280 So then Roman is sitting at the babysitter in the 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:47.600 second row. Great, Well, he starts to you know, he's 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.280 not fussy, but he's like he's talking. He's a baby, 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.360 he's eight months and he's like, he's a change of scenery, 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.320 you could tell. And the sweet little babysitter is just 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:55.920 like in all that she's at this wedding and she's 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.080 like yeah. So we ended up being like, we need 0:14:58.080 --> 0:15:00.320 some help, you know. So after that Thursday were like 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:04.120 we had someone at the uh, the general knew someone 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.040 that could help, and she was General always knows. 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:10.240 Everybody an advance months in advance, right. 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:11.480 Well, and that's what we're saying when you were out. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.360 How funny it was because we talked about this a 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:14.160 couple episodes ago. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:15.720 I was like, who's going to be holding Roman? 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.440 And you're like, well, not y'all, or one of y'all 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.520 was like, not the babysitter, And then I turn around, 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.200 I was like, the babysitters hold and grow. 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.160 I know, I was like, why it wasn't like a 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:24.560 grandparent holding the baby. 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:26.960 Well, that wasn't on the bounty paper towel, and so 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:28.479 that's why I didn't get executed. 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:29.160 No room for air. 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:31.239 So so Roman. 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:33.600 Starts to make a little noise, and this really lovely 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:37.840 uncle takes the baby to the back row. But mind you, 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.320 this is a very intimate setting. So there's only three 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.200 rows of chairs, so the back row is only but 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:47.320 like four feet from the writing, right, okay, like we're 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:49.800 not taking like back row like all the way exiting 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:55.360 the grounds or something. And this sweet man finds way. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:58.400 He is living for this moment with Roman, and so 0:15:58.520 --> 0:15:59.920 much so that I think he forgot he was a 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:01.400 tending a wedding, and all of a sudden, I'm here. 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:04.720 Should we should sweet during the wedding year. 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:07.080 The wedding, And I'm like, and we're all starting to 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:09.280 go like, okay, well that is cute, and he's like, 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:11.920 he's the most jolly. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:12.680 It was. 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.600 The most jolly moment like living. 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:17.640 And then we all. 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:19.840 Start to feel that like I didn't hear it good, 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:23.800 it was perfect. Sarah and Kat and I start to 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:26.040 look at each other like oh key, Dopey, I mean, 0:16:26.120 --> 0:16:27.920 Roman loved it. 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:32.680 I mean it was I mean I thought it was. 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:35.200 Sweet because it was so intimate that it wasn't so 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:38.080 like a serious of a wedding, which was kind of nice. 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:38.440 You know. 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.600 So I think that, you know, that's probably we could 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:42.040 put on. 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:43.080 Disney World for just a second. 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:43.240 Though. 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:46.440 Well I couldn't feel your like, yeah, it was coming 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:46.800 over me. 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:50.360 I was like, okay, Dopey, alrighty just want to take 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:54.280 the magic carpet. So let's just start really fast. The 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:57.200 morning of the wedding. Let's go back a little bit. 0:16:57.880 --> 0:17:00.840 Morning of the wedding, we go for a jog, which 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:02.960 was lovely and beautiful. 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:08.040 Caught you on tape. You were the papaazzi. You look 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:09.640 like a little royal couple jogging. 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:12.520 It was so cute, it was beautiful. It was it 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:15.919 was it was we stopped on the swing? Why did 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:16.760 we stop on the swing? 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:19.120 Listen to you? An amazing little song. 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:21.960 I wrote him a song and he got to hear 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:23.480 it for the first time. Good morning. 0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:29.119 It's only for him and whoever wants, whoever wants to 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:35.359 buy it in a couple of months for him years 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:40.280 to kens temporarily yours. It was written for you and 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:43.320 only for you, and then if people would like to 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:48.240 purchase it. 0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:48.480 They can in a couple of months. But did you 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:49.120 like it? 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:55.119 It was incredible, Like you nailed it. It was so 0:17:55.280 --> 0:18:01.480 romantic and kin, yeah, it was. I brought a teeth 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:01.800 to my. 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:07.240 So only sheds one time. 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:15.800 I'm gonna ask that one because so after that, we 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:20.479 got ready and we separated. At that point pretty much, 0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:23.040 you're like, all right, we're gonna shower. We've kind of 0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:24.680 divided and conquered. We had had a talk with the 0:18:24.720 --> 0:18:26.359 grandparents the night before. I'd be like, all right, and 0:18:26.400 --> 0:18:29.480