1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 2 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: Okay, we are back for part two of the wedding recap. 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. Thursday obviously was a lot of fun, 4 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 2: and then Friday we had a what's that called again? 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 2: Highland Games and afore that we rode horses. We did 6 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 2: ride horses. I didn't see that coming. 7 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 3: That was beautiful. 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: I loved that while the boys shot some guns and 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: that was that was lovely. And you know, Jolie was 10 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: feeling great for that, so that was great and she 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: enjoyed the horseback riding. 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 4: And then we came ever ridden a horse? Ever? 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 2: No? 14 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 4: What no? 15 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: I mean like a little pony in a circle when 16 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: I was little. Probably I wasn't sure you were going 17 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: to do it. 18 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 4: I wasn't either. 19 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: Well the tailb and I was like, really protecting myself, 20 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, are we galloping? Yeah? 21 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 4: It does this look like? And I'm not experienced and 22 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 4: so that would freak me. 23 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 2: You know the fact how they were holding the thing, 24 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 2: because I was like, you can let go of the 25 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: like I've but they the guided part of that. 26 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 3: Okay, I got on. 27 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 2: I rode a horse named Jack and he had bangs 28 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 2: and I left Jack so xact precious. But then we 29 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 2: did the Highland Games and that was so much fun, 30 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 2: so fun, way more professional and cool than I thought 31 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: it was going to be. Like in my brain, I 32 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 2: thought it's going to be like this, kind of like 33 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 2: I didn't care, but I thought, oh, what's it going 34 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 2: to be like? Right, you know, like a haystack and 35 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 2: a bio and whatever. So professional. 36 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 3: I liked, very untill I missed out on half of it. 37 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 3: I know, I don't know. 38 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: I still don't know what it was because I was fine. 39 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: The next day. It started with the horse riding. I 40 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, like I'm allergic to something 41 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: out here. Granted, millions of things are blooming. Obviously there 42 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: had been so much rain and then all this stuff 43 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: is blooming. So like while we're out there, I'm like, 44 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: I should take some allergy medicine. I'm really feeling this. 45 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: We're Highland Games. I cannot stop sneezing. So then I'm like, 46 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: I got to go in. I gotta go take something else. 47 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: I'd already taken like three pills. 48 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 3: I was like. 49 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: So I was like, the only thing that's going to 50 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: work is a bit of drill and then I passed 51 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: out on the bed and fell asleep. 52 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 3: For it was only like thirty minutes to an hour. 53 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: Luckily, because like her nicket in a fire or something. 54 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: Men knows how I am when it comes to allergies, luckily, 55 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: so he wasn't worried about me. But I woke up 56 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: in a panic. So I was like, I missed because 57 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: you know, I love that stuff. I was like, that's 58 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: the rest of the games, and we won. But then 59 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: I was more worried about the next day. So I 60 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: was like, the wedding's outside, what if I'm literally snazing? 61 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: But I felt so much better the next day, So so. 62 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 4: Let's talk about the next day. Well, the night of. 63 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: We were because people wanted to know if we spent uh, 64 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: go ahead, honey, if we spent the night together or not. Alan, 65 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: do you sometimes feel like you shared too much or 66 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: people ask too much. I see it come over you 67 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: and I wonder what you're thinking. 68 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 5: This is quite funny because hilarious because we've come to 69 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 5: the conclusion of the session that we would just spend. 70 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, baby together the night before is. 71 00:02:58,639 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 3: What we were talking about. 72 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 6: Spend spend the night together. 73 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 4: Hilarious. 74 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,239 Speaker 5: Eight o'clock at night or whatever time you've gone to bed. 75 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 5: I knew beginning you announced that I'm going to go 76 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 5: to sleep in one of the rooms in the other 77 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 5: part of. 78 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 4: The castle with a bag on her shoulder already. 79 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,679 Speaker 3: Have I been looking for a room? 80 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: Because listen, listen, let me just back this up, okay, 81 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 2: because I thank you because I. 82 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 6: Was so did you just click your fingers? 83 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 4: I went snapped, like. 84 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: Alan, A lot of people think you're quite perfect and 85 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: we need to air some dirty laundry that you are 86 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: a snorer. Thank you, I'll say it, because I was 87 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: so sensitive to sleep and the baby's coming in coughing 88 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: in the in the middle of the night, waking us up, 89 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: or our baby baby crying, and then also with you snoring, 90 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: I wake up not only with the anxiety, but I 91 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 2: will wake up to that. So I needed an opportunity 92 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: to have zero noise, zero interruptions, zero snoring. 93 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 3: Did that work for you, guys? 94 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 4: It was the cutest things. 95 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 2: She's like, you know, Janna' is like so itty bitty anyways, 96 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 2: and she's got this little bag over her shoulder, and 97 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 2: she's got her big Stanley cup and she's like, I 98 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 2: found a room I'm going to go get into good 99 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 2: night's rest somewhere else. And I was like, well, this 100 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: is exciting. Alan didn't believe it was gonna work. 101 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 5: So I went up to just make sure the room 102 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 5: was okay, I think, because I wanted to look at 103 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 5: the room, because I thought, okay, I'll. 104 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 6: Think, will she sleeping here on that? So seen the 105 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 6: room that thorty. 106 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 5: Okay, it's a nice enough room, it's dark enough, it's 107 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 5: in a quiet enough part of the castle. But there 108 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 5: was no part of me thought you were going to 109 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 5: stay in that room for the whole night. So you 110 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 5: went to bed there. 111 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 4: I went to bed at ten, I went to bed. 112 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 5: Of the time, I can remember I hear you come 113 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 5: in the fact that you text me then because my 114 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 5: brother came in the room. Oh did Yeah, my brother 115 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 5: came in and I sat with my brother. But this 116 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 5: was a little one thirty in the morning. So I 117 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 5: sat and had a chat with my brother like one 118 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 5: thirty one two maybe it was one till two. He 119 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 5: left it too, And then they got a text message 120 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 5: from you. 121 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 4: Saying I can't sleep. 122 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 6: I can't sleep right, okay. 123 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 5: Well my response was okay, well I'm here if you 124 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 5: need me, you need to come down if you need 125 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 5: me to come up. So I went to bed, and 126 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 5: then it's the clock. The door opens, comes in with 127 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 5: a little bag. 128 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 3: And back figure. And then these things are sold separate 129 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 3: in the morning you can go shout and get it tomorrow. 130 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 4: No wherever she goes, she's coming with her supplies. Imagine 131 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 4: that when we're telling the story. 132 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 3: Well the water, I hear put the bag. 133 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 5: Sneaks in, put some mask on, puts out of your plugs, 134 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 5: and goes to sleep. Must be an hour later that 135 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 5: your plugs are off, the masks off. She walks out 136 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 5: of the bag and jug. 137 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you took it every time? What is 138 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: in this bag that you're doing between sleeping? 139 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 6: She goes back to the room. 140 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 5: So I'm like, I've sheen her leave the room. Yeah, 141 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 5: so I must have just fallen asleep. I don't think 142 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 5: I text you at that point. And then six in 143 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 5: the morning, five in the morning comes. 144 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 4: Back in again, bag, bag and a jug. 145 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 5: It's probably a one hundred yard walk to whatever room. 146 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 4: This is a distance and up and down like a white. 147 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 3: Stairwell like my it's not just like right next door. 148 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 2: Amazing after the strip like the up and downstairs, and 149 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 2: the walking comes. 150 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 5: In at five, leaves again and then comes back in 151 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 5: and then you say, ethel. 152 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 6: When I got up, so a busy. 153 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 2: Night for our little bride to be, I just couldn't sleep. 154 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 2: And every time I was like, it was it was, 155 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 2: it was awful, and then I cried and then I 156 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 2: got like, so I got three hours before wedding day sleep. 157 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 6: My snoring is not the issue. Your plugs is just. 158 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 5: So. 159 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 3: But what's the excuse when you're in the other. 160 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:28,239 Speaker 1: Room does anxiety again? 161 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: I'm not, like, you know, comfortable. I love being next 162 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: to him. It's the thing like when he leaves, I 163 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: love being next to him. I just don't like the 164 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 2: noise sometimes comes out of fun. But I have a 165 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 2: story from the night before the wedding, okay, from of 166 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: Alan and the wedding planner. Go bounty paper towel. Alan 167 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: a bounty paper towel. So I come in. This matters 168 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: because it also is with the logistics of actual wedding day. 169 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 4: Okay, Okay. 170 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: So we have this sweet little England woman, this English 171 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 2: woman who is the wedding planner at the castle. She's 172 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 2: lovely and takes care of everything. 173 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 3: So the night before. 174 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 2: She's running everything, everything in this tiny, little one hundred 175 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: pound person, like she handled all of it. But she's 176 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: a little dismissive. So she referred to me. I started 177 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 2: to see that. I teared up a little bit, like 178 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 2: up going up on the ticker for her when she 179 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 2: realized I was a bridesmaid unless of a guest. That 180 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 2: there was only two maids of honor matrons of honor, 181 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: and I was one of them. So then it started 182 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 2: to be a little bit more polite. She loved Preston, 183 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: so they had this big moment. They were always, you know, 184 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: like they just led a real bond with each other. 185 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 4: She loves you. 186 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 3: So correct, So I'm just gonna go with men versus women. 187 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 4: It's fine. 188 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: And I honestly I was like, it's fine, and I 189 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 2: like culturally like I can deal with an. I just 190 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 2: she just caught me on a moment that day where 191 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I'm gonna need a second Okay, 192 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 2: so she starts referring to me as bridesmaid. Oh, by 193 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: the second end of second day, it's now bridesmaid, come here, bridesmaid. 194 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 4: I have a question. 195 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 3: No, we're never like, why did I hear that? 196 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 2: So I go to get Sarah Boyd, who is a 197 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 2: lovely human and works with you, and I actually really 198 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 2: enjoyed her company. 199 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 4: She's really fun. 200 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 2: She needed a tea the night before the wedding, so 201 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 2: I step into the kitchen to ask for a tea cup, 202 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 2: also honoring that the kitchen is like the sacred space 203 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 2: for the staff, and I can tell there's a little 204 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 2: working table and there it's quite big. 205 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 4: It's awesome. 206 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 2: So I walk in to get a tea cup and 207 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: I see Alan sitting at the round table with this 208 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 2: one hundred pound general and she has a bounty paper 209 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: towel and she goes, bridesmaid, bridesmaid, come here, come here, 210 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 2: come here, and I'm like, oh, boy, okay. So We're 211 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: sitting there and I can see on Alan's face like 212 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: I feel and in background, I did do weddings. I 213 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: do love events, and I madly, deeply love organization. So 214 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, we have a scene chart on a paper 215 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 2: towel at this point, and that feels a little unsettling, 216 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: but I'm here for it. Whatever we got to use. 217 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: And Alan's like, well, what do you think, Kristen? And 218 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: we're mapping out where parents are going to sit at 219 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 2: your ceremony, okay, And I, because I'm asked, give my 220 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 2: two cents. I didn't come in with a plan, just 221 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 2: coming for a teacup bribe me, brides me, what do 222 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 2: you think? No, And so I give my two cents, 223 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 2: and I say, I like a plan, and I think 224 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: a plan really matters. Alan concurs by saying a sentence 225 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: I will always make Allen's tagline no room for air 226 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: correct Alan, and I soulmates, let's do this. So he 227 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 2: says no room for air, and I say, I agree, Russell, 228 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 2: And so she then takes my idea and says, well, 229 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: I don't like it. 230 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 4: I don't like it. I don't like it. 231 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: She's she's cradling the most massive glass of some sort 232 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 2: of white wine so out in the window. 233 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 4: She doesn't care. 234 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 2: She's like, I don't actually, I'm like, did you just 235 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 2: do this so that you could dismiss me? 236 00:10:58,440 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 4: Like? Is this a mean girl? 237 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 2: Woman? I couldn't figure it out, And I was like, okay, 238 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 2: will you let me know and I'll help you in 239 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 2: the morning. Like, and I just kind of couldn't figure 240 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 2: out where I fit with her. So I leave the 241 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: Bounty Paper towel, which was our official seating chart for 242 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 2: the wedding. For the ceremony, So I'm going to fast 243 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 2: forward for just a second, and i won't take any 244 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: parts of your ceremony piece away. 245 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 3: But once I'm. 246 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 2: Up the aisle and I adjusted the veil and I 247 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 2: am ready to take my seat, I looked to the 248 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 2: front row, which is supposed to be where I'm sitting, 249 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 2: and Sarah Boyd is in a black dress in the 250 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 2: front row with a whole wedding party, and I'm the 251 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: only one in the second row with Sarah Boy's husband. 252 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 4: Sarah. What Kyle says to me, I think you're supposed 253 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 4: to be up there. You should switch with Sarah, And 254 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 4: I said, no one talked, just watch the wedding. 255 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 2: Because I'm like, it's fine, I'll go. But I'm talked 256 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 2: now inside the second row, so I didn't even know 257 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 2: that I'm good well behind you. You couldn't know before we 258 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: went up. Look up and I go, okay, first of all, 259 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 2: before we went up, we have a couple of. 260 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 3: Stories to finish this. 261 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: When I look up and I go, I don't think 262 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: Sarah's supposed to be there. She wasn't even with her husband. 263 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this is a really ballsy move 264 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: by Sarah, Like she doesn't care. 265 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 3: Sarah just sat there. 266 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: And by the way, the wedding party, like we're in 267 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: these like blue dresses. Everyone else is blue. Like it's 268 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 2: very obviously so Sarah black. And I saw her in 269 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 2: the second row. 270 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 3: Oh well, well we did switch, which. 271 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 4: I just didn't. But her name was the general did this. 272 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 3: The General doesn't know. 273 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 2: I think they got their names. The General doesn't know 274 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 2: if I'm Sarah. So Sarah's name was actually on that chair. 275 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: She sat where she was supposed to say. It was 276 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 2: not her fault, but she kept looking at me like 277 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 2: she was like, I think I'm so student back there 278 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 2: and I didn't know this, and I go and Kyle's like, 279 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 2: I really think that's her husband. He's like, I really 280 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 2: think you should be in the front room. And I said, 281 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 2: I really kindly don't care. And I kept saying to 282 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 2: the General the night before, I said, truthfully, you could 283 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: put Cat and I in a second row with this. Yeah, 284 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: are not the girls that are like, but that's our spot, 285 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 2: like we are the easiest, like put us wherever, prioritize 286 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 2: the parents and the kids and We'll just go wherever. 287 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you ended up So I ended switching. 288 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, because then I thought, oh, like, this is going 289 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 4: to look weird and. 290 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 3: Photos well, and Sarah I probably wanted to sit by 291 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 3: her husband. 292 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 6: Well. 293 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 2: Also, Sarah felt very awkward when she kept training me. 294 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 2: I just didn't want to make a scene where we're 295 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: like switching and you guys are exchanging these like meaningful 296 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 2: vows and I'm like, but then I also didn't want 297 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 2: the pictures to come back and I'm sitting this second 298 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 2: looks weird and people love it. 299 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 6: So did you change it? 300 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? They did move. Yeah, when it made a little break. 301 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was like, I feel better back there, and 302 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, this is where, and she goes 303 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 2: my name was on the chair, and I said, yeah, 304 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 2: the general doesn't care what my name is. 305 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 4: She knew who Preston was. 306 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 2: By the way, our husbands not set anywhere near us, 307 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 2: she said, our husband's over on opposite. 308 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't expect to be there. Then I don't care. 309 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 2: So then Roman is sitting set the sweetest man behind 310 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 2: us with. 311 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 3: A babysitter, Which can I pause that for a second. 312 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: Remember on one of our last episodes when I said, 313 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: who's going to be holding the baby? And some people 314 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: you too, made fun of me and said, oh, like 315 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: he's going to be sitting with. 316 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 2: The boy was a family member. I mean, I thought, surely, okay. 317 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 2: So then Roman is sitting at the babysitter in the 318 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: second row. Great, Well, he starts to you know, he's 319 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 2: not fussy, but he's like he's talking. He's a baby, 320 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 2: he's eight months and he's like, he's a change of scenery, 321 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 2: you could tell. And the sweet little babysitter is just 322 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 2: like in all that she's at this wedding and she's 323 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 2: like yeah. So we ended up being like, we need 324 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 2: some help, you know. So after that Thursday were like 325 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 2: we had someone at the uh, the general knew someone 326 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: that could help, and she was General always knows. 327 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 6: Everybody an advance months in advance, right. 328 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: Well, and that's what we're saying when you were out. 329 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: How funny it was because we talked about this a 330 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: couple episodes ago. 331 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: I was like, who's going to be holding Roman? 332 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: And you're like, well, not y'all, or one of y'all 333 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: was like, not the babysitter, And then I turn around, 334 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: I was like, the babysitters hold and grow. 335 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 4: I know, I was like, why it wasn't like a 336 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 4: grandparent holding the baby. 337 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 2: Well, that wasn't on the bounty paper towel, and so 338 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:28,479 Speaker 2: that's why I didn't get executed. 339 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 4: No room for air. 340 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:31,239 Speaker 3: So so Roman. 341 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: Starts to make a little noise, and this really lovely 342 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: uncle takes the baby to the back row. But mind you, 343 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 2: this is a very intimate setting. So there's only three 344 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 2: rows of chairs, so the back row is only but 345 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 2: like four feet from the writing, right, okay, like we're 346 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 2: not taking like back row like all the way exiting 347 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 2: the grounds or something. And this sweet man finds way. 348 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 2: He is living for this moment with Roman, and so 349 00:15:58,520 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: much so that I think he forgot he was a 350 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 2: tending a wedding, and all of a sudden, I'm here. 351 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 3: Should we should sweet during the wedding year. 352 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 2: The wedding, And I'm like, and we're all starting to 353 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 2: go like, okay, well that is cute, and he's like, 354 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 2: he's the most jolly. 355 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 6: It was. 356 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 4: The most jolly moment like living. 357 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 3: And then we all. 358 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 2: Start to feel that like I didn't hear it good, 359 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 2: it was perfect. Sarah and Kat and I start to 360 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 2: look at each other like oh key, Dopey, I mean, 361 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 2: Roman loved it. 362 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 3: I mean it was I mean I thought it was. 363 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: Sweet because it was so intimate that it wasn't so 364 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: like a serious of a wedding, which was kind of nice. 365 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 6: You know. 366 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 3: So I think that, you know, that's probably we could 367 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 3: put on. 368 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 4: Disney World for just a second. 369 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 6: Though. 370 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 4: Well I couldn't feel your like, yeah, it was coming 371 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: over me. 372 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, Dopey, alrighty just want to take 373 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 2: the magic carpet. So let's just start really fast. The 374 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: morning of the wedding. Let's go back a little bit. 375 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 2: Morning of the wedding, we go for a jog, which 376 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 2: was lovely and beautiful. 377 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 4: Caught you on tape. You were the papaazzi. You look 378 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 4: like a little royal couple jogging. 379 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 2: It was so cute, it was beautiful. It was it 380 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 2: was it was we stopped on the swing? Why did 381 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 2: we stop on the swing? 382 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,120 Speaker 6: Listen to you? An amazing little song. 383 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 4: I wrote him a song and he got to hear 384 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 4: it for the first time. Good morning. 385 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 2: It's only for him and whoever wants, whoever wants to 386 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 2: buy it in a couple of months for him years 387 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 2: to kens temporarily yours. It was written for you and 388 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 2: only for you, and then if people would like to 389 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 2: purchase it. 390 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 4: They can in a couple of months. But did you 391 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 4: like it? 392 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 5: It was incredible, Like you nailed it. It was so 393 00:17:55,280 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 5: romantic and kin, yeah, it was. I brought a teeth 394 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 5: to my. 395 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 4: So only sheds one time. 396 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask that one because so after that, we 397 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:20,479 Speaker 2: got ready and we separated. At that point pretty much, 398 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 2: you're like, all right, we're gonna shower. We've kind of 399 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 2: divided and conquered. We had had a talk with the 400 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 2: grandparents the night before. I'd be like, all right, and 401 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 2: we need you know, bring like I need help with 402 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 2: you know, Jolie here, Jase there, Roman and I feel 403 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 2: like everyone really they were very helpful. 404 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 4: It's so incredibly helpful. 405 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: And you guys started to get ready. 406 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 4: Your hair and makeup team was quite literally my favorite. 407 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 2: They I'm obsessed with them, like they're just wonderful people. 408 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 2: Because I was starting to feel a little nervous and 409 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 2: you just don't know right like I didn't I saw 410 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 2: their stuff online, but you just never know how it's 411 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 2: going to translate. You guys looked beautiful. I was up 412 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 2: with my hair and makeup like. 413 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 3: They did a great job. 414 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 4: I love that not over like. 415 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 2: I felt like all of us just looked very beautiful 416 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: and no one was overdone. It's hard for me when 417 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 2: the makeup gets so like glam glam that it's cakey 418 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 2: and crazy. And they just did a beautiful job. Yeah, 419 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 2: they did incredible. They were also really fun. They were 420 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 2: so fun and they also want to take on American girls. 421 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 3: That is just awesome. 422 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 4: They were like, you guys are just so much like. 423 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 3: We love it. 424 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: And I like, by the minute she came in and 425 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 2: I was like, your skin is radiant. Tell me everything, 426 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 2: and she was like and so then later in the 427 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 2: conversation they started telling like their take on American girls 428 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 2: because I was asking them and she was like, you kind. 429 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 4: Of already did it like you do. 430 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 2: You're lovey and you're huggy, and we're kind of like, eh, 431 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 2: you know, like they're a little standoffish. 432 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 4: It's so great. Yeah, but they were. 433 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 2: They were so sweet, and I think I was definitely 434 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 2: more emotional. I was a more emotional, like leading up 435 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 2: to the wedding, you know, just like you guys, the 436 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 2: sweet you know, note and the present and I actually 437 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 2: got a very sweet text message from my ax, which 438 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 2: was a beautiful like I didn't know how I'd feel 439 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 2: about that. I looked at it, I was like, oh, 440 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 2: I just saw his name on there, and then I 441 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 2: clicked on it and it was actually like a really 442 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 2: beautiful message, and so that was the kind of it 443 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,120 Speaker 2: just was everything was like, wow, it's kind of all 444 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 2: did he mention he was gonna be your boat captain? 445 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 4: And okay? Left that oup got it? 446 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 2: No, But it was just like again, it was another 447 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 2: moment I said, I was just I said this earlier 448 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 2: in the podcast where I was like I was just 449 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 2: so thankful and that during this time is like that 450 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 2: was a moment too where I was just like I'm 451 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 2: just so thankful, like that we're able to even have 452 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 2: like a moment of just thankfulness of where I'm at 453 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 2: now and with this beautiful man and you know, he 454 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 2: said some beautiful things about Alan and you know, just 455 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 2: it was it was really lovely. So that was really sweet. 456 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 2: And then the energy was so peaceful and just easy. 457 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: I felt like like Kat and I got like we 458 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: were like we have a timeline, like we were forgetting 459 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 2: it was I don't know, it was just like so 460 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 2: cozy that we were like, we're good right, It was 461 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 2: like good, yeah, it was great. And then we get 462 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 2: on the We get in the car to go to 463 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 2: the horse and carriage ride and I give Jase's pillow 464 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 2: and I said, all right, buddy, how'd you get the pillow? 465 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 3: Actually, that's not how that happened, y'all get it. 466 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 2: We get in the car and I was like, we 467 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: need his pillow and she's like, well, where's the pillow? 468 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 3: And I don't know. Yeah, different ways. 469 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 4: We don't have a wedding planner. This was all the route. 470 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 4: Where was the general? 471 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 3: We couldn't find the general. No, wait, her general was 472 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 3: in the car with. 473 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 4: Her, yeah, waiting. So no one knew where the rings were. 474 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: So it this is why we were a little late 475 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 2: getting in the carriage, is because no one knew where 476 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 2: the rings were. 477 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 4: Simon's like, yeah, the pillow, but. 478 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 3: He was like, I got them. 479 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 1: R We got the rings from Simon, but then we 480 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 1: had a track down the pillow, so then we do 481 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: run those back to y'all. 482 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 2: However, however, so we get so we get the pillow, right, 483 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 2: and so I said, all right, Jay's buddy, we're in 484 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 2: the car. So all he needs to do is just 485 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 2: hold on to the pillow from the car into the carriage, 486 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 2: and so you know, I was like, don't let go 487 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 2: of this pillow. And I was like, can you good 488 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 2: with that, buddy? He's like, yeah, this car ride is 489 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 2: about one hundred feet yeah. No, it was like a 490 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 2: little we had to wait to go around. It was 491 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 2: about like a four minute car ride to go like around, 492 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 2: but still not like an hour where he's like no yeah. 493 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:21,199 Speaker 2: So I'm then sitting in We get out of the 494 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,439 Speaker 2: car and we get into the horse and carriage and 495 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 2: I looked to Jason and I was like, where's. 496 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 4: Your pillow, buddy. 497 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,439 Speaker 2: He's like, oh, I forgot it in the car. And 498 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 2: at this point, the General had already gone back to 499 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,880 Speaker 2: the house because she's gonna handle the ceremony at the house, right, 500 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 2: But also in that moment, I'm like, I don't have 501 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 2: my bouquet. 502 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 4: Where is my bokeut? 503 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 2: I don't even have flowers, Like shouldn't I be walking 504 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 2: down the aisle with flowers? So as I'm taking this 505 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 2: beautiful carriage ride, I'm like trying to reflect but also 506 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 2: mouthing to my hair girl, Pam, I don't have the 507 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 2: ring bear like pillow and no flowers, and she was 508 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 2: like trying to under the hair, so she didn't know 509 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 2: Catherine and I, oh boy. So then I'm like, well, 510 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 2: screw it. I guess we're just not gonna have a 511 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 2: pill and I won't have flowers. It's fine. I need 512 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 2: to like take in the last few minutes of this 513 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 2: horse and carriage ride. So I'm like, all right, just 514 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 2: it's out out of my mind. It's it's all good. 515 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 2: And then once we get back to the end where 516 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 2: I was supposed to start walking, I did say to 517 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 2: the girl that was helping, I said, Hi, we don't 518 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 2: have flowers or Jase forgot the ring bear like thing, 519 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 2: and she's like one second and she sprints. So Catherine 520 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 2: and I are frantically. After we've delivered the pillow and 521 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 2: we've delivered the rings to the vehicle that's then taken 522 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 2: you to the horse and carriage, Catherine and I are going, 523 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 2: has anyone seen our flowers? 524 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 4: We had? 525 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 2: We asked any available a human being with a pulse between. 526 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 3: Do we have flowers? 527 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 6: Flowers? 528 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 4: Were like maybe there is no flowers, and that's okay. 529 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 2: My flower budget was one thousand dollars that's all. Then 530 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 2: we've spent on the flowers. So maybe we don't and 531 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 2: we didn't care, but we were certainly not going to 532 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,159 Speaker 2: be out of the look at us like we are 533 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 2: not going to be the ones that don't come with 534 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: our best foot forward. 535 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 4: The Maids of Honor are the only frital party. 536 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 2: So we're like frantically asking everyone and no one has it. 537 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 2: So finally Catherine and I just look at each other 538 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,439 Speaker 2: and make a business plan that we are going to. 539 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 3: Go to the altar. 540 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 2: We're gonna go, You're gonna go pick up some more 541 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 2: and that's the way it's supposed to be. 542 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 4: Confidence. 543 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 3: We did. We went out there with confidence. 544 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,679 Speaker 2: We did, and we waited and then this itty bitty 545 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 2: assistant General comes to the bottom of the steps. 546 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 3: Where we're used to know. 547 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,880 Speaker 1: She's been standing next to us for a good five 548 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 1: to ten minutes. We've been standing the time, maybe not five, 549 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: it felt like forever. We've been standing there for a while. 550 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 2: And she says, she looks over, where are your flowers? 551 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 2: And we say, fun questions. 552 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 3: We've asked, so we do flowers. So now she is 553 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 3: looking what what do you think? What do you think? 554 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 2: Like the stairs to the ceremonies. God is like, like 555 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 2: thirty forty yards, let's say forty yards. 556 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 4: Okay. 557 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: She is now mouthing probably why your girl? While you're 558 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 1: mouthing to I mean, this is all probably can I 559 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 1: get an ear piece? 560 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 2: For the love of Jesus above us? So I say, 561 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 2: how do we get She's like. 562 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 3: So she's waving big arms, waving down to. 563 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 2: Her associate, not the general, another assistant general who is 564 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 2: just living in the moment, and I'm like, I'm like, hey, hey, hey, 565 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: and we're like trying to. 566 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 3: Make bird calls. 567 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 4: We're like and not make a scene. So the guests 568 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 4: are turning around and. 569 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 3: She's like, flower and you have. 570 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 4: Ye clueless Cyles said, the altar is just sweet, and 571 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 4: she was like what you need? What a tissue? And 572 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 4: we're like, flowers we need and everyone's starting to look 573 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 4: and we're like everything is great. 574 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 3: She goes I'm like, wait does Jana flow? 575 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 2: And she goes, well, I gave them to Jana and 576 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 2: I go, yeah, gave the flowers to the bride and 577 00:25:58,840 --> 00:25:59,959 Speaker 2: expected her to remember. 578 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 3: Are like what? 579 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 2: So she finally yells to the woman at the altar run. 580 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 2: So she's sprinting into the house and cat, and they 581 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 2: are just standing in smiling. Everyone's looking at us, and 582 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 2: the girl's now gone back into her smiling, talking through 583 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 2: her teeth motor. 584 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 4: She's like, she's gonna get them. 585 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 3: She'll be quick. She's quick, I know she And we 586 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 3: were like, does Janna have hers? 587 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 2: And she goes, I don't know, And I was like, 588 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 2: I said, well, she's a bride and that's important. Can 589 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 2: we pause her? Is there a way do you believe 590 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 2: in any technology to communicate? We were gonna ye under 591 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 2: a pingeon a pigeon, like, how do I get a 592 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 2: word to the bride? I mean we probably received those flowers. 593 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: You're already halfway down like you are, you're about to 594 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: make the turn. I'm shocked you did not see us 595 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: being handed are flowers before you walked down. 596 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 2: I didn't, but I also didn't know. I kept going 597 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 2: when do I walk? Do I walk? Now? 598 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 3: I don't think none of us knew all dial important note. 599 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 2: All the while, the bagpiper has been piping Keith for 600 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 2: he had been piping this poor man has piped his 601 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 2: way through a carriage ride through an emergency ring bears. 602 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 3: We've got the flower she's. 603 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 4: Walking for where's your bouquets? I don't know, we don't 604 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 4: have run and. 605 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: Janna's taking her walk and I'm like, this guy's gonna 606 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 2: run out of breath. 607 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 4: Do we have flowers? 608 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: And then finally we just decided for you were like, okay, 609 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: just start walking and we just kind of you were 610 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: almost there and I was like, I don't think we're 611 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: supposed to be here when she gets down here. 612 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 3: We didn't know and we ended up. 613 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 6: Well. 614 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:31,680 Speaker 2: The thing because I'm like, that's the one thing we 615 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 2: didn't figure out in the reversal the day before, is 616 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 2: when do we. 617 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 4: Actually saw it? In the rehearsal, Catherine's like, are you okay? 618 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: And I'm like I'm not, well, I need a plan, 619 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 2: and everyone's like we'll figure it out tomorrow. There was 620 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 2: a lot of that we'll figure it out tomorrow. So 621 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 2: that's the piece where yeah, I was like, because I 622 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 2: just didn't know when to walk and I saw you 623 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 2: guys still there, I'm like, well, that's cool. Then they 624 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,479 Speaker 2: can just help with the I just we were like, oh, 625 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 2: skirt thing, but. 626 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, we just made it up as bad. Oh, and 627 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 3: then I tripped over Kristen. I was trying to help 628 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 3: with the dress and I stripped. 629 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 4: I think I got a okay to that, but that 630 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 4: was all behind you. 631 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 3: No one knew it was just and we kept rocking. 632 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 5: You know this, No, we were completely oblivious. Thank god, 633 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 5: Scott was doing a really good job of blocking me 634 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 5: from being able to see you. 635 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: We panicked on that too, because we thought the carriage 636 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: was a closed carriage. 637 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 3: When we started doing that, like, oh my god, you 638 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 3: can see her. 639 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,679 Speaker 5: Then I was talking to my best man and I 640 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 5: was trying to look at Troy and Lea'll make sure 641 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 5: they were okay, and look at Roman. So I was 642 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 5: completely oblivious to oh that's. 643 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 6: Crazy, Oh my god. 644 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 3: It just made it like such a great story though, 645 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 3: you know. 646 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 2: And then when we finally when I walked down to you, 647 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 2: did you shed your one single tear? Is what people 648 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 2: wanted to know. We looked closely, we examined the specimen 649 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 2: waiting for THEE said you didn't. It was in the eye, 650 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 2: for sure. I did see it in the eye. 651 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 6: It never dropped. 652 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 3: It didn't drop the drop, but didn't he drop the 653 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 3: one tier earlier? Though? With the song. 654 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 6: I dropped the tear with the song and then just one. 655 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 4: And then during during the vows. You got choked, Yeah. 656 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 6: I did, because it can neither be one tier. 657 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 5: It's just a stream. So I was trying to kind 658 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 5: of protect the Yeah, when you were walking down, I 659 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 5: could feel emotion, emotion and starting to okay, my body 660 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 5: wants to cry here, but I kept it together like. 661 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 4: A true scotsman. We don't do that. 662 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: And the vows were we read our vows from our 663 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,959 Speaker 2: vowel book and that was your vows were beautiful man, 664 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 2: as we use and. 665 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 6: I started to again get emotional during the vows. 666 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 2: I also felt like they were very even. We were 667 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 2: worried about oh yeah before and I also felt like 668 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 2: they were very heartfelt. And I love the vowe book. 669 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 2: I had never seen that before. Yeah, so you don't 670 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 2: have to worry about paper. 671 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:14,719 Speaker 4: No, you both had. 672 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 2: There was a book they both wrote their bows in 673 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 2: and the guests were able to sign after and so 674 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: they have this like keepsake and a moment. Yeah, and 675 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 2: then after that, I mean, it was it was truly 676 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 2: the most perfect day everything, I mean from we had 677 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 2: the most stunning sunset, we had a rainbow, I mean, fireworks, 678 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 2: the fireworks, I mean the dancing, It was fireworks. 679 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 3: Geez beautiful, amazing. 680 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 2: I mean it was just I mean, to me, it 681 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 2: was the it was the most incredible moment, incredible day. 682 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 6: The frustration of me trying to dance an. 683 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 3: Achille, Oh my god, that. 684 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 5: Was It was collage, pure and utter collage, fun, fun, fun. 685 00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I still have a bruise on my foot 686 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: because I took my shoes at Arnie. We got helicoptered 687 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: around and then your uncle was dancing with me and 688 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:08,760 Speaker 1: I couldn't keep up with him. 689 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 2: Like it was so your aunt has to be one 690 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 2: of the most fun aggressive people I've ever met. You're 691 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 2: coming with me and all of a sudden, I'm just 692 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 2: being whipped around, and I'm like, this is I was 693 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 2: laughing so hard. 694 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 4: I still like it makes me smile. It was so fun. 695 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 4: What was your favorite memory of the wedding day. 696 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 5: I can't there's not one. Obviously, the most emotional was 697 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 5: you walking towards, which is if it's the most emotional, 698 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 5: then from a positive point of view, it was that 699 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 5: was my favorite moment. That's what everything had been planned around, 700 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 5: and everything that'd be done for months and months and months, 701 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 5: schedule and everything for that moment for you walking towards 702 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 5: me now and it was perfect, absolutely perfect. So there 703 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 5: wasn't apart from that moment, which is it's not a 704 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 5: cliche moment as the most important moment as you walk 705 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 5: towards me. But I loved reading the vous to you 706 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 5: because we tell each other we love each other, and 707 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 5: we see nice things to each other and to support 708 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 5: each other. But to actually get to read the words 709 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 5: that had written for you and you had written for 710 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 5: me was a. 711 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 6: Really really special moment. Really special. 712 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 713 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 6: So probably you walking towards me and then those. 714 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say. 715 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 2: Definitely the ceremony piece, because I've just I feel like 716 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 2: I've just dreamt of that day leading up to it, 717 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 2: and but what I loved was seeing how this is 718 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 2: what I wanted this day to be like for everybody's 719 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 2: It is because we all came together on that Thursday, 720 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 2: by wedding day, everyone was friends and family and community 721 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: and like that. It was where when I was kind 722 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 2: of reflecting on it, that to me was the most 723 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 2: beautiful piece was because we were all I thought had 724 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: it having the best time together as a whole, and 725 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 2: everybody enjoyed everything. You know, there were so many beautiful 726 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 2: moments I think, you know, I think our parents had 727 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 2: a great time. Our friends had fun, and to me, 728 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 2: when people have fun, that makes me happy. And knowing 729 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 2: that people had a great time made me happy, and 730 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 2: then just having I mean like truly yes. So we 731 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 2: talked about some things that went wrong and the kids 732 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 2: were sick. It was the most magical week ever end 733 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 2: day and to your credit, Wrestles, it was so intentionally done. 734 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,959 Speaker 2: Like I don't think kat, I don't know what you 735 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 2: I had not really much expectation coming in at all, 736 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 2: to us moving in together. 737 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 4: It was so intentional. All of it was intentional. 738 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 2: It was never We felt loved on and nourished and 739 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 2: they were feeding us a lot of meat. 740 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 4: There's a lot of meat in Scotland. Well, and I'll 741 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 4: just say too with the general Allan was like are 742 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 4: you okay? 743 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't know. I think I did 744 00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 2: disneed a cucumber? Is there one? Well, and I'll just 745 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: say this before because you're like a lot of things. 746 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 2: I have eyes and a heartbeat. 747 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 3: I can't do. 748 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 2: You were like you okay, BF, and I was like yeah, yeah, 749 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 2: because I never I'm never the girl that's like. I 750 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,800 Speaker 2: felt terrible though, because I was like oh, I forgot no, 751 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 2: but you were. It was by the second day. 752 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 4: You were like, can we get a little extra salad over? Yeah? 753 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 2: But I just do want to say too, like the 754 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 2: general and you know, because she was she was lovely 755 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 2: and she really was like though maybe personalities were not 756 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,439 Speaker 2: synced up, like the staff and who she has in there, 757 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 2: and like how she just managed everything. I do, like, 758 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 2: I'm very thankful for incredible just how they all were 759 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 2: because they were like the staff was lovely. 760 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 4: They also live. 761 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 2: There and then they turned their home over this estate 762 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,319 Speaker 2: and imagine that how that would be. But they loved 763 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,479 Speaker 2: us so well. I mean, there was never a time 764 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 2: we were lacking anything. It was like I'd be like, oh, 765 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna have something you want cama meal 766 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,280 Speaker 2: tea Like she was amazing. 767 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: We were just treated so well, Like when do we 768 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: ever get weighted on like that? 769 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 3: When do we ever I mean get to. 770 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 1: Meet everyone for breakfast and lunch and like it was amazing. 771 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 2: They anticipated we might need a snack in five minutes 772 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 2: and it was already there. 773 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,879 Speaker 1: Tea time every afternoon, like I need that hang. I'm 774 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: a huge fan of tea time in the afternoon. Like 775 00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: we need that you just did. 776 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 2: Such an intentional job of the people, Like I felt 777 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,399 Speaker 2: homesick for Allan's parents, Like it makes me emotional. It 778 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 2: was so neat to bond with these people. And then 779 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 2: I got sad that like they live across the ocean, 780 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 2: like Scott and and everyone was just so lovely that 781 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 2: I was like, this is crazy. Like I wrote to 782 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,800 Speaker 2: Sarah Boyd on Instagram and I was like, hey, just 783 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,360 Speaker 2: checking in on you, you know, like it's it was 784 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 2: so beautiful. 785 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: When we were leaving, we were like, there was a 786 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: couple of us still there leaving a little bit later, 787 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 1: and it was like, wait, we have to have a 788 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 1: family reunion, Like we have to all get back together. 789 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, we over bacon rolls. O bacon roll I don't, 790 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 2: but I was a man. 791 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 1: So I guess General's boyfriend husband who also lives there, 792 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 1: who was amazing. 793 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 3: I loved him. That morning, he was like, oh, before 794 00:35:59,920 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 3: you leave, do you want a bacon roll? And I 795 00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 3: was like, absolutely, I'll take a bacon roll. He brought 796 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 3: me a huge bacon roll for the I mean. 797 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: It's just I know their personalities. I'm just gonna say so, 798 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,240 Speaker 1: I know their personalities are a little but like also 799 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,160 Speaker 1: so warm at the same time credible, you know what 800 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 1: I mean. It's like hard to explain, Like I know 801 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: the General was a little rough, but also it's just 802 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, but still so I felt so so much. 803 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 3: Warmth from everyone, Like that's what everyone was amazing. 804 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,319 Speaker 2: I felt like it was like the New York of UK, 805 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 2: Like I didn't take offense to it. Yeah, they're assertive 806 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,359 Speaker 2: communicators and when they love you, they will love you hard. 807 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I felt like that. 808 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,359 Speaker 2: I mean, even even though she'll never know my name, 809 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,240 Speaker 2: this bride'smaid really loves the General. 810 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 4: And we hugged at the end, and she sent. 811 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 2: Us a lovely text message and it was like great, yeah, 812 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 2: you just the planning that went into it was not 813 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 2: lost on any of us. 814 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 4: It was beautiful. Great. 815 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: What was my favorite part? Honestly for me, it was 816 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,879 Speaker 1: just being with everyone the whole time. I couldn't pick out, 817 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,360 Speaker 1: Like I loved going to Edinburgh and that was fun, 818 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: and I loved being a glass you know, London was 819 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 1: a lot of fun for Nick and I, but like 820 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: for me, actually it's crazy to say because I like 821 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: my space, but we were in this big house, but 822 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: we had space if I needed to like go to 823 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 1: my room for a minute or whatever. 824 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:15,880 Speaker 3: But we were just all. 825 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: Together and everyone was just so lovely. So I just 826 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 1: loved being with everyone the whole time. 827 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 4: I love that. 828 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,800 Speaker 3: It's very unique and very cool that you all did it. 829 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,279 Speaker 2: Like on wedding days, everyone's like dote they don't know people. 830 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,399 Speaker 2: I don't want that, like I want everyone to be like. 831 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,759 Speaker 1: If I'm being honest, I don't like weddings usually, I 832 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 1: truly don't, because you walk in, it's usually you know nobody. 833 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 1: They rarely know anyone. If you're not in the wedding, Yeah, 834 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: it's uncomfortable and you sit there. But we knew everyone 835 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 1: when we were sitting, so it didn't even feel like 836 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:43,879 Speaker 1: we were just all kind of hanging out. 837 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 3: It's like, all right, let's sit down. Like it was 838 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 3: just it was great. I loved it. 839 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the best experience for sure for a wedding. 840 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,839 Speaker 1: What about you KB just the laughs. I don't think 841 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: that I've ever like not known a schedule. 842 00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 3: Like. 843 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 2: It was such a weird feeling for me because I'm 844 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 2: always so like like I gotta do this, I gotta 845 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,359 Speaker 2: do that, And it was like, oh, like I don't know. 846 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 2: I just laughed and had fun and it was like, 847 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 2: what are we doing next? Like it just was so great. 848 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 2: I truly way more relaxing and than I thought it 849 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: was gonna be. Hm, like we had things to do, 850 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 2: but it was just like Preston was like you okay, 851 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm like living my best life, like 852 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 2: I'm throwing hay barrels over a high bar like I 853 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 2: don't know, I'm I don't even know. 854 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,919 Speaker 4: I just was like, not afraid to try things. 855 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 2: Let's go do it. Rode a horse with things fun. 856 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 2: You wear sunscreen too? That just matters to me. The 857 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,879 Speaker 2: horse wear sunscreen, precious Jack. 858 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 3: But you guys just really. 859 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 6: Succeeded achieved everything. 860 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 4: I missed your family. 861 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 2: I love you guys, like it was so in your friends, 862 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 2: so fun, funny, great people. Uh, Catherine, you're gonna hate this, Okay. 863 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 2: So I want to change my name. 864 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 3: Oh, I mean I need you would, even though you 865 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 3: promised me. But it's fine, but. 866 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 4: No, I want to change it professionally too. Huh. Part 867 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,880 Speaker 4: three of the podcast What Okay? 868 00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:14,040 Speaker 3: We'll talk about this later. 869 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 4: Off, You guys need a spare paper towel to roll 870 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:17,280 Speaker 4: this project. 871 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:17,680 Speaker 2: Out there. 872 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 3: I was not expecting me not to come out of 873 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 3: your mouth right. 874 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:25,240 Speaker 2: Now, I'd like to hyphen professionally, it's not field change. 875 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 4: Catherine's like, you don't. 876 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 2: Know what even involves a hyphen and the the things 877 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 2: that that. 878 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, really it professionally, it doesn't involve anything. 879 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 3: You just do it. I have to. 880 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 1: I mean my bag name, Well yeah, I mean you're 881 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 1: gonna your business manager is going to be a lot 882 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 1: more angry than I'm going to be because these going 883 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: to change all of that. 884 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 3: What are you on Instagram? All the business? 885 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 2: Well, I can't change to Russell girl, we cannot still 886 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 2: cream the tag then still chreme gral, but that you 887 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 2: just change it on it. 888 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,439 Speaker 4: I don't let me. I've already tried. 889 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 3: Oh god bless. 890 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, well so that's I've just never done it before. 891 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:12,799 Speaker 4: But I want to. 892 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 3: Well yeah, we'll just go through this logistically later. 893 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 2: Got any last memories or last stories? 894 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 5: One morning getting dressed was completely different from yo, guys, 895 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,160 Speaker 5: because we had to be out of our room to 896 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,479 Speaker 5: let you in, and then I had to get jas 897 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 5: ready to shotted, and then trying to put a colt 898 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 5: on a thirty pound meat ball. 899 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:38,759 Speaker 4: How he dress a beach ball. 900 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 5: Fifteen minutes before the ceremony started. I literally had to 901 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,399 Speaker 5: get I should have had another shower. I was so 902 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 5: I was sweating so much trying to get a colt 903 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 5: and get your shot on him. 904 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 6: You shot, sure, sure. 905 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 5: I like the little the little baby sitting that nanny 906 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,879 Speaker 5: was mean. She's so yeah, she was so. 907 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: Nice, happy to be Yeah, she was great, and she's 908 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: trying to hold them up. 909 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 6: I'm trying to get a super arms. 910 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,120 Speaker 5: On him and then get his jacket on him, and 911 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,959 Speaker 5: his jackets up here on his waist. Let's just lose 912 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 5: the way. And then she was trying to get his 913 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 5: shoes on. So that was hilarious. And those pictures that 914 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 5: I think you posted one a few days ago of 915 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 5: Roman and the kilt, but he's Leslie sitting there with 916 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 5: his arm on the sofa like he's totally chilled out. 917 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 5: Well that was ninety seconds before everyone sweating trying to 918 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 5: get he's killed. 919 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 2: On his picture of y'all with the kids that you posted, 920 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 2: he served a look. It was the most you could 921 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,479 Speaker 2: tell he was in half his homeland. It was such 922 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 2: a just stern amazing. Yeah, well done, Russells well. 923 00:41:58,520 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 3: We're married. 924 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 4: Stuck with me now, that's why I'm ig yay sweet. 925 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 4: All right, Well, love you guys and. 926 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,399 Speaker 2: Maybe we can do another reunion vow renewal in ten 927 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 2: years in Scotland. 928 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 4: You have the same to everyone. 929 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 2: He's so great. I'll bring carrots, all right, see you 930 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 2: next week. Back to your regularly scheduled program. 931 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 3: Bye hyphen Russell. Bye,