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Speaker 1: How are you doing good? So tell us about the

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Speaker 1: whacky Nicole. I mean, like the best part about that

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Speaker 1: I've never used chopsticks before whatever, Like ever, really I

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Speaker 1: He wants to call a girl named Nicole. They met

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Speaker 1: If this has burned me so many times, they're like,

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Speaker 1: of her right now? Okay? Sure, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Nicole. Um. This is Nicole. Hey, Nicole,

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Speaker 1: He has no idea what we're so wrong? Well, he

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