WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mother's Dayte

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's your brand new second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>And Brock and Jeffrey because yeah, one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>brought a surprise guest, we'll say on the date, and

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<v Speaker 2>who he brought is a little shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're gonna hear it. You're gonna hear it coming up.

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<v Speaker 3>I know people are gonna have some strong reactions to

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<v Speaker 3>this one, but yeah, let's go over some comments. Alexis, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Turkey said, my only problem is Brook and Alexis sound

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<v Speaker 3>the same.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, Yeah, so that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alexis, this is bro.

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<v Speaker 3>Your company's moving, Nobody can see her, see her.

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<v Speaker 5>I can help, this is you tell The difference is

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke is the.

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<v Speaker 6>One who snorts when she laughs. Alexis just has like

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<v Speaker 6>a honk like an when she laughs.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you goat.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been told that in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>All Right, we'll keep you guessing.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we'll keep you guys in your brand new

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<v Speaker 3>second Date start right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Right now, Second Date Updated. We get a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>people on this segment who tell us I've heard you

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<v Speaker 5>do these before. I never thought I'd actually be calling

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<v Speaker 5>in for a second Date update myself.

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<v Speaker 1>It probably does feel like some sort of out of

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<v Speaker 1>body experience.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but they'll admit. They'll say like, I'm a huge

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<v Speaker 5>fan and I've heard all the previous calls, and Jeff

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<v Speaker 5>are even more handsome than you sound on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't get that comment.

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<v Speaker 5>Get a lot of that stuff, but not today. Today's

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<v Speaker 5>caller was very honest in his email, admitting he's not

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<v Speaker 5>a fan, in fact, never really listened to our show before.

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<v Speaker 5>Other people in his social circle, though, encouraged him to

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<v Speaker 5>reach out for help with his dating life, so he

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<v Speaker 5>thought he'd give it a try. Okay, his name is Chris. Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if you realize what you're getting yourself

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<v Speaker 5>off into.

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<v Speaker 3>Here, man, But I was just thinking, Jeff his friends

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<v Speaker 3>must be idiots, yeah, or setting them up as a

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<v Speaker 3>big inside joke.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, do you have idiot friends, Chris?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, don't listen to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it's fun. Since you haven't heard how we do these,

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<v Speaker 5>we'll just start off by asking what's the name of

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<v Speaker 5>the lucky lady that you're wanting us to call today? Bella?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay beautiful, Yeah, Italian beautiful. So how did you meet

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<v Speaker 5>Bella online?

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<v Speaker 7>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>Set?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you interested in Bella's like right now, and maybe

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<v Speaker 3>it's just because you're nervous, like you've never heard the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Emotions are real low.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh no, she's she's really nice and pretty.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, yeah, Brooks. Sometimes guys are more of like internal

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<v Speaker 5>joy feelers rather than like showing all of their emotions

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<v Speaker 5>on the outside and crying at every opportunity like some

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<v Speaker 5>of us do.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's why I asked the question.

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<v Speaker 5>That's good to ask. So tell us what did you

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<v Speaker 5>and Bella do for a date?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, we went to this Mexican restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And what was the moment like when you first sorry

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<v Speaker 3>each other in person?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on, nothing, okay, hold on? What do we air

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<v Speaker 5>this part?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there, Chris?

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<v Speaker 5>It was very sweet. It was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we interrupting something right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>No, you have my full attention.

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<v Speaker 5>You did ask us to just wait for a second

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<v Speaker 5>while you did something. Let's keep going. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 5>how dinner went.

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<v Speaker 1>At the Mexican parks, like the connection or if that's.

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<v Speaker 5>What you did, Like, we just want to learn more

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<v Speaker 5>about your date.

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<v Speaker 7>Man, what do you mean that's what I did?

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<v Speaker 5>Did you?

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<v Speaker 3>We just pretend like you're talking to your friends and

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<v Speaker 3>they're wanting to recap of your night, right, Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 3>did you tell him over the highlights?

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<v Speaker 5>Tacos?

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<v Speaker 7>We kissed, We went on a walk like I had

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<v Speaker 7>a cheese kissed dia.

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<v Speaker 5>No, okay, did you order for the kids?

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<v Speaker 8>No?

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<v Speaker 7>It was it was a full sized one.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, good, it's nice. What did you two talk about?

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<v Speaker 7>We talked about you know, like pop culture and like

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<v Speaker 7>news and like our interests and.

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<v Speaker 1>Her interest Okay, so you're big into pop culture.

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<v Speaker 5>No, but the topic did come up and I had

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<v Speaker 5>to suffer through that for a little bit. So did

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<v Speaker 5>you feel like it was a natural flow of convo?

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on again, I don't think so. Okay, Chris, who

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<v Speaker 5>are you talking?

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<v Speaker 8>It was pretty good?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry? Man, who are you talking to in between the Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>My mom's here with me?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi mom? Why why are you talking to your mom

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<v Speaker 5>in the middle of this?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh? She is a big fan of the showy Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>she sent the email for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh okay, she did it for you.

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<v Speaker 5>What a nice Kay?

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<v Speaker 4>I like, mom does my stuff for me too.

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<v Speaker 5>That's good my appointment. Okay, I'm not forgotten what we

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<v Speaker 5>were asking. Well, can we get to like how it ended?

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<v Speaker 1>Was?

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<v Speaker 5>There any romance like a cancer, a hug, just any

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<v Speaker 5>any big moment that stood out to you. There you go.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, when I went to the bathroom and came back,

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<v Speaker 7>they were chatting it.

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<v Speaker 8>Out like crazy.

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<v Speaker 7>They really they really hit it off to Wait.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's they Chris and my mom?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, my mom was on the day with list.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh did you tell Bella before you showed up to

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<v Speaker 3>the restaurant that your mom was coming along? Oh, Chris, problem, So, Chris,

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<v Speaker 3>this is absolutely the reason that Bella isn't calling you back?

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<v Speaker 3>Think so, yes, yes, No one wants to date somebody's mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Chris. What's the reason that you brought your mom along

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<v Speaker 5>with you on the date?

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<v Speaker 7>To keep me safe from any bad women women anife

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<v Speaker 7>on you?

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<v Speaker 5>Mom's right there, that's true. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 5>taken advantage of either on a day by woman.

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<v Speaker 6>But can you paint that picture like what what is

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<v Speaker 6>she gonna do in the middle of the ag Just

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<v Speaker 6>be like I don't like her?

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<v Speaker 7>My mom does like Bella good. She says that she

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<v Speaker 7>doesn't dress sleazily.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's good. Wow, sounds like it's a rare thing

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<v Speaker 5>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell your mom. She shouldn't comment on women's clothes.

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<v Speaker 5>She thinks. She says he's dressed really nicely. That's all

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<v Speaker 5>she said. He could have interpreted it differently. Let's give

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<v Speaker 5>him a little bit of grace here. His mom is

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<v Speaker 5>standing over his shoulder while he's talking to a nationally

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<v Speaker 5>syndicated show. So a lot of nerves here, a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of pressure.

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<v Speaker 4>Does your mom come along with everything for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Like if if someone is to date you, is it

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<v Speaker 3>always a package deal?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean yeah, unless she says otherwise?

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<v Speaker 4>Unless who says otherwise?

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<v Speaker 7>Mom?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, the show. I think we know you're an adult, right,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm two thirty two.

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<v Speaker 4>This is going to be a little complicated.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe let's just fast forward to Colin Bella here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be so surprised on her answer of

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<v Speaker 3>why she's not calling.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think we will. Mom is probably gonna be

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<v Speaker 5>the most surprised, if anything. So make sure you put

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<v Speaker 5>it on speaker when we dial up Bella and try

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<v Speaker 5>and get you your very first radio experience on Brooke

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<v Speaker 5>and Jeffrey in the morning. This is a big deal, dude.

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<v Speaker 7>My mom's like super pumped.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so are we We're gonna do it right after

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<v Speaker 5>this hold on second date update. If you're just joining us,

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<v Speaker 5>this is pretty exciting because in a way we're doing

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<v Speaker 5>our very first three way second date update. The three

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<v Speaker 5>people being our caller Chris to his date Bella, and

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<v Speaker 5>the third is Chris's mom. Oh no, you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Say Chris mom was sexy music in the background.

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<v Speaker 5>Z reading this is sexy music. Okay, that's your own

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<v Speaker 5>brain interpreted. But Chris mom not only tagged along on

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<v Speaker 5>their dinner day, but it's actually with Chris right now

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<v Speaker 5>next to him, quietly listening and sometimes answering questions for

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<v Speaker 5>him when Chris can't remember. But it is nice. It's

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<v Speaker 5>nice to have a wing woman there, able to do

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<v Speaker 5>ride or die with you, be your support system.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her reaction? We never asked when she got

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<v Speaker 1>to the table and your mom's sitting there.

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<v Speaker 8>I think she was fine with it for the same question.

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<v Speaker 5>Clearly, Chris and his mother don't believe that's the reason why.

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<v Speaker 5>So Chris, what's your mom's guess for why Bella is

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<v Speaker 5>acting a fool right now?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh on? Hold on?

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<v Speaker 5>Is he like sitting on her lap?

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, guys, she's writing something.

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<v Speaker 5>She's writing the answers you tell her to write a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit faster because we are on a time limit

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<v Speaker 5>for the sudden. Just give her a minute.

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<v Speaker 7>So we are cat people, and she might be more

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<v Speaker 7>of a dog person.

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<v Speaker 5>That could be a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>The good news is were about to find out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well hopefully, because that's if she picks up the phone,

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<v Speaker 5>because we're going to dial her number right now. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>praying that Bella has really good news for us. This

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<v Speaker 5>is all a misunderstanding and she cannot wait to hang

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<v Speaker 5>out with you and your mom again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Chris, Chris what.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to dial it right now. Let's see if

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<v Speaker 5>she picks up.

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<v Speaker 8>Hello.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey is this Bella?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, she's speaking.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, you're speaking to a whole morning show called Brook

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<v Speaker 5>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Bella, good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>You're on the radio right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Ah beautiful, I always say, because it's your name, get it, Bella.

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<v Speaker 5>So the reason that we're reaching out to you, Bella

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<v Speaker 5>is we're doing a segment it's called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if you're familiar with that.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh no, oh, dear no.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't be afraid. It's a good thing. Because a guy

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<v Speaker 5>named Chris has reached out to our show asking us

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<v Speaker 5>if we could get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, oh, of course he did.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean because he's getting help.

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<v Speaker 8>It just makes a lot of sense.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean it definitely. When we heard from Chris,

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<v Speaker 5>it sounded like you two went on a very unique date.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh. Yes, that's a nice way to put it. The record,

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<v Speaker 8>both him and his mom have been texting me.

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<v Speaker 5>We did hear that the mom was there.

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to hear your description of showing up

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<v Speaker 3>to the Vaxican restaurant.

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<v Speaker 8>So it started off with just me and him at

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<v Speaker 8>a table.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it did start with just you and him. His

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<v Speaker 1>mom wasn't there immediately.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, she kept coming up to the table. I thought

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<v Speaker 8>she was like a server or like a buzzer or someone,

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<v Speaker 8>because she kept coming up and like checking in on us,

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<v Speaker 8>and then like the third time, she just sat down

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<v Speaker 8>with us.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so strange.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I just I don't know. I just thought that

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<v Speaker 3>he was more upfront with the whole thing. I know

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't tell you before the.

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<v Speaker 8>Date, but my read on it is that he was

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<v Speaker 8>a little bit awkward, somewhat nervous, and just genuinely wasn't

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<v Speaker 8>sure how to introduce her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, maybe he's a person who needs help

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<v Speaker 3>in social situations.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like that, And it's nice of you to give

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<v Speaker 5>him grace in that scenario. So once you found out

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<v Speaker 5>that it was his mom and she was going to

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<v Speaker 5>be joining you for the date, how did the rest

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<v Speaker 5>of it go?

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<v Speaker 8>He was pretty quiet the whole time, and his mom

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<v Speaker 8>filled in the spaces and answered for him when I

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<v Speaker 8>would ask questions. And wow, don't get me wrong, she's

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<v Speaker 8>a lovely, lovely woman truly, but maybe a little overprotective.

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<v Speaker 3>So do you think, I mean, do you think it

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<v Speaker 3>would have been better if she would have just stayed

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<v Speaker 3>pretending to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be a server and let him and let him just date.

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<v Speaker 8>He just she should have been there in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 8>You know, he's thirty two, and I think it's time

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<v Speaker 8>that he sits through a date by himself. And I

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<v Speaker 8>think he's nice. But it was just too awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>I could see what you're saying there. But have you

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<v Speaker 5>ever considered that maybe Chris is such an amazing guy

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<v Speaker 5>that his mom is being protective because she wants the

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<v Speaker 5>best possible match for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff is saying this because he has a mom a

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<v Speaker 1>lot like Chris's. Mad.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, some of our mothers love us. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 5>that's used as something that people hold against j.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff's mom would love to go on dates with him.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm not talking about Jeff's mom. I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 5>Chris's mom and actually Chris himself, who is on the

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<v Speaker 5>other line right now listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, oh my god, Hi, why are you doing this?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh it was my mom's idea.

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<v Speaker 5>No, she does listen to our show.

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<v Speaker 7>So I didn't realize you are uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry, none more uncomfortable than right now.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, if it makes you feel better. My mom is

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<v Speaker 7>very picky and she approves of you.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's not gonna help.

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<v Speaker 5>It's kind of a nice compliment to give to you.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, thank you for that, But I would really prefer

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<v Speaker 8>to know what you think about what your mom thinks

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<v Speaker 8>so well said.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, are you hearing her on that, Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a good opportunity, Chris to speak from the heart.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>I agree with my mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, oh okay, they're on the same page. They both

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<v Speaker 5>think that you're a really cool person, Bella.

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<v Speaker 8>Chris, can I just ask you what was up with

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<v Speaker 8>the whole server bit with your mom.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, well we do that every time. We don't

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<v Speaker 7>want to, like we wanted to be like a surprise.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you do this a lot with your mom.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh like not a lot, but the few dates that

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<v Speaker 7>I do get.

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<v Speaker 8>Chris, you're saying that you've done this with other ladies before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>they do they stay for the date or have they left? What?

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<v Speaker 8>What has happened in the past.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, one of them wanted to get married, but she

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<v Speaker 7>was way too overbearing, so we had to let her go.

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<v Speaker 4>We you had a proposal.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, yeah, she didn't live in this country, and a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of it was on video.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, she was really eager to get over here and

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<v Speaker 5>tied the not.

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<v Speaker 1>With you, Chris and Chris's mom, don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Fall for that.

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<v Speaker 5>Sounds like a romantic story.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, Okay, that's good. That's good.

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<v Speaker 5>So now he's moved on. He's put all those other

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<v Speaker 5>women that want him aside, because right now or in

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<v Speaker 5>the spotlight, should be kind of flattering.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I'm flattered in a little. I feel very awkward. Yes,

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<v Speaker 8>I feel like I'm dating you and your mom and

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<v Speaker 8>not just you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, on a date? Is anyone here subtraction? Yes? But

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<v Speaker 5>Bella is trying to suggest. It sounds like Chris is

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<v Speaker 5>maybe the two of you go on a one on

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<v Speaker 5>one date and you leave your mom at home.

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<v Speaker 8>For this one what that is definitely not what I'm suggesting.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, then I misread it. I'm not sure what

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<v Speaker 5>you're suggesting.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm suggesting that for Chris you should do more of those.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, Chris, if you don't feel safe on a date,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's valid. Maybe your mom can wait in

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<v Speaker 3>the car in the parking lot, like, just not come

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<v Speaker 3>inside the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, that's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's kind of nice security shirt. You can buy

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<v Speaker 5>them on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 7>My mom laughed at tell that's where.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So this may be completely fruitless, but I do

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<v Speaker 5>have to ask Bella, would you be willing to go

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<v Speaker 5>out on another date with just Chris and we would

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<v Speaker 5>pay for it, maybe just even as friends get to

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<v Speaker 5>know each other a little more like the real Chris.

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<v Speaker 8>No, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I keep in mind his mom is listening to this

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<v Speaker 5>entire conversation. So what you say his mom is.

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<v Speaker 4>Hearing, she's well aware.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I'll say to both of them that, since we

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<v Speaker 8>both have history with each other, I just think that

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<v Speaker 8>that was cloud this next interaction.

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<v Speaker 7>My mom is in a fan response.

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<v Speaker 5>You got on Chris' mom's bad side, now not good.

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<v Speaker 5>You better expect some angry texts from her later on

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<v Speaker 5>after this is over.

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<v Speaker 8>I'll be ready for them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to suggest maybe blocking that number.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah all right.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, man, I appreciate you taking a chance reaching out

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<v Speaker 5>to our show, even if you're mom did it for

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<v Speaker 5>you and being on with us giving it a shot.

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<v Speaker 5>That was really brave. It was a big first step

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<v Speaker 5>for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe next step is you have dinner with a woman

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<v Speaker 3>without your mom there.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you can bring brook along with you on the

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<v Speaker 5>date and showing for.

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<v Speaker 7>You you want to come.

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<v Speaker 5>His mom would not like brook Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>You know it's funny. A lot of us are laughing

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<v Speaker 5>or even cringing at the idea of having your mom

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<v Speaker 5>join you on a first date. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I could definitely see Brooks sitting down with her son

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<v Speaker 5>Alder on his very first and then immediately admonish the

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<v Speaker 5>girl for not dressing sleasily enough. My son deserves to

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<v Speaker 5>see skin, Missy look at him in his sad little eyes.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't see any cleavage. I'm not seeing enough cleavage.

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<v Speaker 5>They're they're sweetie. Let me hug you tightly into mine.

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<v Speaker 3>There is a running joe at my house that if

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<v Speaker 3>I have to keep cutting their steak and stuff up

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<v Speaker 3>for them, then I'm going to have to accompany.

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<v Speaker 5>Them on a date.

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<v Speaker 4>So they better figure it out soon.

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<v Speaker 6>So you're going to be teaching his date how to

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<v Speaker 6>cook steak for him.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll cut it up, yeah, yeah, for him.

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<v Speaker 5>So look out, Brooke, judge not lest you be judged.

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<v Speaker 5>Six to seven? No, how long? How old?

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<v Speaker 1>A long time?

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<v Speaker 5>A long time. Yeah. I bet it's going to be

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<v Speaker 5>an early blue forty years. We'll see health. That's a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of time for people to go online and check

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<v Speaker 5>out all of our second date updates where you get

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<v Speaker 5>your podcasts. They're up at Brooke and Jeffrey