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Speaker 1: Hey, it's your brand new second Date update.

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Speaker 2: And Brock and Jeffrey because yeah, one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: brought a surprise guest, we'll say on the date, and

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Speaker 2: who he brought is a little shocking.

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna hear it. You're gonna hear it coming up.

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Speaker 3: I know people are gonna have some strong reactions to

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Speaker 3: this one, but yeah, let's go over some comments. Alexis, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Turkey said, my only problem is Brook and Alexis sound

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Speaker 3: the same.

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Speaker 4: Really, Yeah, so that's okay.

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Speaker 1: This is Alexis, this is bro.

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Speaker 3: Your company's moving, Nobody can see her, see her.

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Speaker 5: I can help, this is you tell The difference is

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Speaker 5: Brooke is the.

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Speaker 6: One who snorts when she laughs. Alexis just has like

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Speaker 6: a honk like an when she laughs.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you goat.

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Speaker 1: I've never been told that in my life.

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Speaker 4: All Right, we'll keep you guessing.

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Speaker 3: All right, we'll keep you guys in your brand new

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Speaker 3: second Date start right now.

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Speaker 5: Right now, Second Date Updated. We get a lot of

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Speaker 5: people on this segment who tell us I've heard you

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Speaker 5: do these before. I never thought I'd actually be calling

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Speaker 5: in for a second Date update myself.

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Speaker 1: It probably does feel like some sort of out of

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Speaker 1: body experience.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but they'll admit. They'll say like, I'm a huge

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Speaker 5: fan and I've heard all the previous calls, and Jeff

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Speaker 5: are even more handsome than you sound on the radio.

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Speaker 1: We don't get that comment.

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Speaker 5: Get a lot of that stuff, but not today. Today's

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Speaker 5: caller was very honest in his email, admitting he's not

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Speaker 5: a fan, in fact, never really listened to our show before.

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Speaker 5: Other people in his social circle, though, encouraged him to

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Speaker 5: reach out for help with his dating life, so he

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Speaker 5: thought he'd give it a try. Okay, his name is Chris. Chris.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you realize what you're getting yourself

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Speaker 3: Here, man, But I was just thinking, Jeff his friends

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Speaker 3: must be idiots, yeah, or setting them up as a

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Speaker 3: big inside joke.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, do you have idiot friends, Chris?

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Speaker 7: I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: Okay, don't listen to the show.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it's fun. Since you haven't heard how we do these,

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Speaker 5: we'll just start off by asking what's the name of

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Speaker 5: the lucky lady that you're wanting us to call today? Bella?

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Speaker 5: Okay beautiful, Yeah, Italian beautiful. So how did you meet

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Speaker 5: Bella online?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 5: Set?

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Speaker 3: Are you interested in Bella's like right now, and maybe

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Speaker 3: it's just because you're nervous, like you've never heard the show.

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Speaker 1: Emotions are real low.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, she's she's really nice and pretty.

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Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, Brooks. Sometimes guys are more of like internal

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Speaker 5: joy feelers rather than like showing all of their emotions

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Speaker 5: on the outside and crying at every opportunity like some

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Speaker 4: So it's why I asked the question.

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Speaker 5: That's good to ask. So tell us what did you

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Speaker 5: and Bella do for a date?

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Speaker 7: Well, we went to this Mexican restaurant.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay?

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Speaker 3: And what was the moment like when you first sorry

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Hold on, nothing, okay, hold on? What do we air

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Speaker 5: this part?

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Speaker 1: Are you there, Chris?

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Speaker 5: It was very sweet. It was very sweet.

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Speaker 1: Are we interrupting something right now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: No, you have my full attention.

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Speaker 5: You did ask us to just wait for a second

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Speaker 5: while you did something. Let's keep going. Tell us about

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Speaker 5: how dinner went.

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Speaker 1: At the Mexican parks, like the connection or if that's.

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Speaker 5: What you did, Like, we just want to learn more

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Speaker 5: about your date.

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Speaker 7: Man, what do you mean that's what I did?

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Speaker 5: Did you?

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Speaker 3: We just pretend like you're talking to your friends and

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Speaker 3: they're wanting to recap of your night, right, Yeah, what

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Speaker 5: Tacos?

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Speaker 7: We kissed, We went on a walk like I had

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Speaker 7: a cheese kissed dia.

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Speaker 5: No, okay, did you order for the kids?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 7: It was it was a full sized one.

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Speaker 5: Okay, good, it's nice. What did you two talk about?

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Speaker 7: We talked about you know, like pop culture and like

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Speaker 7: news and like our interests and.

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Speaker 1: Her interest Okay, so you're big into pop culture.

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Speaker 5: No, but the topic did come up and I had

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Speaker 5: to suffer through that for a little bit. So did

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Speaker 5: you feel like it was a natural flow of convo?

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Speaker 5: Hold on again, I don't think so. Okay, Chris, who

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Speaker 8: It was pretty good?

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Speaker 5: Sorry? Man, who are you talking to in between the Oh?

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Speaker 7: My mom's here with me?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Hi mom? Why why are you talking to your mom

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Speaker 7: Oh? She is a big fan of the showy Yeah,

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Speaker 7: she sent the email for me.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, she did it for you.

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Speaker 5: What a nice Kay?

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Speaker 4: I like, mom does my stuff for me too.

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Speaker 5: That's good my appointment. Okay, I'm not forgotten what we

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Speaker 5: were asking. Well, can we get to like how it ended?

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Speaker 1: Was?

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Speaker 5: There any romance like a cancer, a hug, just any

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Speaker 5: any big moment that stood out to you. There you go.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, when I went to the bathroom and came back,

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Speaker 7: They really they really hit it off to Wait.

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Speaker 3: Who's they Chris and my mom?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, my mom was on the day with list.

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Speaker 3: Oh did you tell Bella before you showed up to

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Speaker 3: the restaurant that your mom was coming along? Oh, Chris, problem, So, Chris,

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Speaker 3: this is absolutely the reason that Bella isn't calling you back?

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Speaker 3: Think so, yes, yes, No one wants to date somebody's mom.

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Speaker 5: Chris. What's the reason that you brought your mom along

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Speaker 7: To keep me safe from any bad women women anife

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Speaker 7: on you?

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Speaker 5: Mom's right there, that's true. I don't want to be

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Speaker 6: But can you paint that picture like what what is

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Speaker 7: My mom does like Bella good. She says that she

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Speaker 5: Oh that's good. Wow, sounds like it's a rare thing

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Speaker 1: Tell your mom. She shouldn't comment on women's clothes.

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Speaker 5: She thinks. She says he's dressed really nicely. That's all

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Speaker 5: she said. He could have interpreted it differently. Let's give

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Speaker 5: him a little bit of grace here. His mom is

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Speaker 5: standing over his shoulder while he's talking to a nationally

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Speaker 4: Does your mom come along with everything for you?

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Speaker 3: Like if if someone is to date you, is it

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Speaker 7: I mean yeah, unless she says otherwise?

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Speaker 4: Unless who says otherwise?

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Speaker 7: Mom?

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Speaker 5: I'm two thirty two.

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Speaker 4: This is going to be a little complicated.

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Speaker 5: Maybe let's just fast forward to Colin Bella here.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be so surprised on her answer of

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think we will. Mom is probably gonna be

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Speaker 5: the most surprised, if anything. So make sure you put

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Speaker 5: it on speaker when we dial up Bella and try

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Speaker 5: and get you your very first radio experience on Brooke

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Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning. This is a big deal, dude.

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Speaker 7: My mom's like super pumped.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so are we We're gonna do it right after

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Speaker 5: this hold on second date update. If you're just joining us,

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Speaker 5: this is pretty exciting because in a way we're doing

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Speaker 5: our very first three way second date update. The three

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Speaker 5: people being our caller Chris to his date Bella, and

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Speaker 5: the third is Chris's mom. Oh no, you can.

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Speaker 1: Say Chris mom was sexy music in the background.

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Speaker 5: Z reading this is sexy music. Okay, that's your own

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Speaker 5: brain interpreted. But Chris mom not only tagged along on

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Speaker 5: their dinner day, but it's actually with Chris right now

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Speaker 5: next to him, quietly listening and sometimes answering questions for

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Speaker 5: nice to have a wing woman there, able to do

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Speaker 5: ride or die with you, be your support system.

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Speaker 1: What was her reaction? We never asked when she got

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Speaker 8: I think she was fine with it for the same question.

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Speaker 5: Clearly, Chris and his mother don't believe that's the reason why.

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Speaker 5: So Chris, what's your mom's guess for why Bella is

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Speaker 8: Oh on? Hold on?

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Speaker 5: Is he like sitting on her lap?

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Speaker 4: Hold on, guys, she's writing something.

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Speaker 5: She's writing the answers you tell her to write a

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Speaker 7: So we are cat people, and she might be more

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Speaker 5: That could be a thing.

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Speaker 1: The good news is were about to find out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well hopefully, because that's if she picks up the phone,

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Speaker 5: because we're going to dial her number right now. I'm

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Speaker 5: praying that Bella has really good news for us. This

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Chris, Chris what.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to dial it right now. Let's see if

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Speaker 8: Hello.

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Speaker 5: Hey is this Bella?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, she's speaking.

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Speaker 5: Hey, you're speaking to a whole morning show called Brook

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Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Bella, good morning.

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Speaker 5: You're on the radio right now.

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Speaker 6: Ah beautiful, I always say, because it's your name, get it, Bella.

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Speaker 5: So the reason that we're reaching out to you, Bella

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Speaker 5: is we're doing a segment it's called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you're familiar with that.

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Speaker 8: Oh no, oh, dear no.

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Speaker 5: Don't be afraid. It's a good thing. Because a guy

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Speaker 5: named Chris has reached out to our show asking us

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Speaker 8: Oh, oh, of course he did.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: Do you mean because he's getting help.

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Speaker 8: It just makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it definitely. When we heard from Chris,

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Speaker 5: it sounded like you two went on a very unique date.

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Speaker 8: Uh. Yes, that's a nice way to put it. The record,

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Speaker 8: both him and his mom have been texting me.

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Speaker 5: We did hear that the mom was there.

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Speaker 3: Like, I just I don't know. I just thought that

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like that, And it's nice of you to give

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Speaker 8: He was pretty quiet the whole time, and his mom

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Speaker 1: Be a server and let him and let him just date.

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Speaker 8: He just she should have been there in my opinion.

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Speaker 5: I could see what you're saying there. But have you

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Speaker 5: Yes, some of our mothers love us. I can't believe

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Speaker 8: Oh, oh my god, Hi, why are you doing this?

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Speaker 7: Oh it was my mom's idea.

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Speaker 5: No, she does listen to our show.

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Speaker 7: So I didn't realize you are uncomfortable.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, none more uncomfortable than right now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if it makes you feel better. My mom is

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Speaker 5: It's kind of a nice compliment to give to you.

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Speaker 8: Well, thank you for that, But I would really prefer

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you hearing her on that, Chris.

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Speaker 5: It's a good opportunity, Chris to speak from the heart.

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Speaker 8: I agree with my mom.

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Speaker 8: Chris, can I just ask you what was up with

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, well we do that every time. We don't

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Speaker 8: Chris, you're saying that you've done this with other ladies before. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: Well, one of them wanted to get married, but she

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Speaker 4: We you had a proposal.

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Speaker 1: With you, Chris and Chris's mom, don't.

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Speaker 4: Fall for that.

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Speaker 5: So now he's moved on. He's put all those other

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Speaker 5: Okay, on a date? Is anyone here subtraction? Yes? But

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Speaker 5: Bella is trying to suggest. It sounds like Chris is

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Speaker 8: I'm suggesting that for Chris you should do more of those.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's kind of nice security shirt. You can buy

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Speaker 7: My mom laughed at tell that's where.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So this may be completely fruitless, but I do

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Speaker 8: No, thank you.

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Speaker 5: I keep in mind his mom is listening to this

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Speaker 8: Well, I'll say to both of them that, since we

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Speaker 7: My mom is in a fan response.

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Speaker 5: You got on Chris' mom's bad side, now not good.

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Speaker 8: I'll be ready for them.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to suggest maybe blocking that number.

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Speaker 4: Yeah all right.

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Speaker 5: Well, man, I appreciate you taking a chance reaching out

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Speaker 5: That was really brave. It was a big first step

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Speaker 3: Maybe next step is you have dinner with a woman

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Speaker 5: Maybe you can bring brook along with you on the

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Speaker 7: You you want to come.

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Speaker 5: His mom would not like brook Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: You know it's funny. A lot of us are laughing

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Speaker 5: I could definitely see Brooks sitting down with her son

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Speaker 5: I don't see any cleavage. I'm not seeing enough cleavage.

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Speaker 5: They're they're sweetie. Let me hug you tightly into mine.

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Speaker 3: There is a running joe at my house that if

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Speaker 5: Them on a date.

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Speaker 4: So they better figure it out soon.

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Speaker 6: So you're going to be teaching his date how to

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Speaker 1: They'll cut it up, yeah, yeah, for him.

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Speaker 5: So look out, Brooke, judge not lest you be judged.

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Speaker 5: Six to seven? No, how long? How old?

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Speaker 5: an early blue forty years. We'll see health. That's a

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Speaker 5: lot of time for people to go online and check

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Speaker 5: out all of our second date updates where you get

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Speaker 5: your podcasts. They're up at Brooke and Jeffrey