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Speaker 4: I don't joy, Yeah, joy, you don't to do that?

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Speaker 4: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out

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Speaker 2: Come on your.

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Speaker 7: Huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody you are listening

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Speaker 7: to the voice, Come on dig me now.

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Speaker 2: One and only.

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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey got a radio show. I say it every

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Speaker 7: day because God been good to me. God has done

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Speaker 7: some things in my life that's truly been just amazing.

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Speaker 7: It really amazing. Ain't even really the word. They don't

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Speaker 7: really have a word for what He's done for me.

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Speaker 7: I'm just out of superlatives. That's why I say it

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Speaker 7: every day. Steve Harvey got a radio show because God

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Speaker 7: is in a blessing business.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he is. God.

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Speaker 7: God can help you turn your life around. Did you

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Speaker 7: hear me? God can help you turn your life around.

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Speaker 7: Whatever you're going through. God has an answer for it.

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Speaker 6: See.

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Speaker 7: But it's to going through to get some store, ain't it?

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Speaker 7: Because I was having a moment yesterday and I set

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Speaker 7: my wife down. I said, Babe, I just need to

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Speaker 7: talk to you. Going through a little bit right now.

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Speaker 7: I just wanted to share which I'm a little down

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Speaker 7: right now. And my wife reminded me. She just reminded me, See,

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Speaker 7: this is what a man, this is what a good

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Speaker 7: mate does. A good mate reminds you just of things

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Speaker 7: that sometimes you forget when you get off track. Because

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Speaker 7: you know, I consider myself a motivational type person. I

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Speaker 7: try to listen to people and then give them something

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Speaker 7: I've learned along the way on this journey I've been on.

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Speaker 7: I try to give a person a takeaway. But even

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Speaker 7: being that person, sometimes I get off track myself. I

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Speaker 7: get a little low sometimes, you know, I get a

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Speaker 7: little down. Sometimes I sometimes I forget some of the stuff.

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Speaker 2: I say. It ain't that I forget it. I guess

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Speaker 2: I just get.

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Speaker 7: Caught up in the grind of doing it, and sometimes

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Speaker 7: I get I get a little off course and I

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Speaker 7: mate can be good.

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Speaker 2: For you to remind you. And she just says, Steve,

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Speaker 2: God got us.

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Speaker 7: She said, have you notice that every time you get

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Speaker 7: in a spot, and she say, and I know how

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Speaker 7: you must feel, because you're out here working and you keep.

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Speaker 2: Turning around and.

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Speaker 7: Old stuff keep popping up, and you get a call

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Speaker 7: from your account and hear this and went wrong and

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Speaker 7: that then when you study trying to fix it.

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Speaker 2: But you steady going, wold man, what is this? She say?

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Speaker 2: But you ever notice he.

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Speaker 7: Always always, no matter what, provide a way, and he

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Speaker 7: ain't ever too late.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you might be going. The deadline is approaching.

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Speaker 7: The deadline can come and pass, but then they have

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Speaker 7: a grace period for you.

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Speaker 2: And then sometimes man.

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Speaker 7: It's just you go down there after the grace period

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Speaker 7: and they take the payment anyway, and you're good anyway.

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Speaker 7: But see, ain't that God bringing you through it. It

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Speaker 7: may not be when you want it, but he right

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Speaker 7: on time. Jazz before you get put out, jazz, before

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Speaker 7: the weekend, get here. See, he always comes through for you.

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Speaker 7: And she had to remind me of that what you

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Speaker 7: going through is necessary. Look, circumstance and hardships and pitfalls

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Speaker 7: are always untimely.

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Speaker 2: If you keep the law of attraction in play.

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Speaker 7: If you keep believing that, that's that He gonna see

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Speaker 7: you through this, just like he do when you don't

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Speaker 7: believe it.

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Speaker 2: That's what the old part is though, ain't it.

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Speaker 7: Ain't God brought you through even when you didn't really

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Speaker 7: But because of grace and mercy he brought you through anyway.

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Speaker 7: But because you forgot to thank him, or you didn't

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Speaker 7: if you the same. It was so jacked up. Man,

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Speaker 7: I was so turned up. I ain't know what I

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Speaker 7: right there, and then I was it looked like I wan man.

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Speaker 7: And then and it seemed like every month I go

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Then somebody ought to just say did you pay it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I paid it? Did you get put out?

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Speaker 8: Now?

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Speaker 2: I'm cool?

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Speaker 7: See See, you need somebody on your shoulder to say

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Speaker 7: right behind him and go, man, ain't God good?

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Speaker 2: Really? Man? That's how this works.

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Speaker 7: See you keep getting in situations, but He keep getting

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Speaker 7: you out.

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Speaker 2: Now if you jump, look, listen to me, hold on,

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Speaker 7: Let's say you in a frying pad in the skillet

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Speaker 7: and you uncomfortable being fried God somehow. Or let's just

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Speaker 7: say you managed to get out of the hot grease

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Speaker 7: Then you go right back over there and stars.

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Speaker 2: Seeing even again. It's amazing how many times God get

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Speaker 2: Ain't it amazing?

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Speaker 9: Man?

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Speaker 7: I mean, really, man, see this how I break life

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Speaker 7: down for me so I don't get over here stuck on,

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Speaker 7: like blaming God when really, man, God has given us,

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Speaker 7: as human beings, the power of decision, and we all

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Speaker 2: How many times? Man? See? Sometimes it's a blessing in

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Speaker 7: You can ask a lot of cats I know, man

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Speaker 7: to tell you it was a blessing for me, man,

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Speaker 7: because I was just headed the wrong way, steady, but

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Speaker 7: me realize that my family was important.

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Speaker 2: Made me.

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Speaker 7: Man, really see this girl for what she was. When

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Speaker 7: I get out, Man, I'm on the straight and narrow.

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Speaker 7: Well then when you're get out though, See you can't

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Speaker 7: be talking about no oh man, I can't find no job.

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Speaker 7: Now I'm gonna go and do what I gotta do. No, no, no, no, no, partner,

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Speaker 7: you got to do now what you're supposed to do.

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Speaker 7: See that don't do what you gotta do got you

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Speaker 7: the hood got a lot of ignorant rules. We done

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Speaker 2: I gotta do what I gotta do. I gotta feed

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Speaker 2: to school like you Mama kept telling you.

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Speaker 7: Ah, Man, I was watching forty eight hours yesterday and

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Speaker 7: the dude named Nesto was on that and Nesto Latino

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Speaker 7: dude said, Man, my mother told me quit hanging with

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Speaker 2: They were gonna nothing but trouble. I should have listened

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Speaker 2: to her. He doing thirty years right now. You can't

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Speaker 2: blame God. That's why I talk to myself this way,

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Speaker 2: the wrong way when it's really on me. How many times.

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Speaker 7: Has God got you out of something and you walk

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Speaker 7: That'd be the best way to do it, don't you

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Speaker 7: think That's what I think? So I thank God my

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Speaker 7: God gonna pull you through anyway.

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Speaker 9: That.

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Speaker 2: Have you noticed, Steve, we ain't lost a beat.

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Speaker 10: Oh.

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Speaker 7: I know it's hard out here, but really you ain't

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Speaker 7: lost a beat. You still moving forward, You still dressing nice,

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Speaker 7: You still look good when you come into that job.

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Speaker 7: Everybody don't got to know you. Your house is in

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Speaker 7: bad shape, and all that God got you. Man, if

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Speaker 7: you just hold your head up, man, quit complaining all

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Speaker 7: the time bout what you ain't got, And as in

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Speaker 7: words of my daddy, Slick Harvey, stop talking about what

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Speaker 7: you ain't got and take a good look at what

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Speaker 7: you do.

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Speaker 2: God.

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Speaker 7: That's improper grammar, but that always stuck with me and

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Speaker 7: maybe it'll stick with you.

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Speaker 2: Quit talk about and looking at what you ain't God,

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Speaker 2: take a good look at what you do. God.

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Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, you know what as expected.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't know how to put this to you today,

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Speaker 7: that God Almighty, that it just ain't.

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Speaker 2: No words for it.

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Speaker 7: He just does it over and over and over again

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Speaker 7: to us, getting to the point where, see, you think

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Speaker 7: it's just regular, like it's normal. But I'm telling you

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Speaker 7: the fact that he raises that sun up every day,

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Speaker 7: and the weather. The fact that he gave you life again,

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Speaker 7: that you do not have control over every single breath

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Speaker 7: you take and how long you'll be breathing. The fact

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Speaker 7: that he's done it, done it again is nothing short

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Speaker 7: of miraculous. And this every day, a daily miracle occurs.

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Speaker 7: But because it occurs every day, we just set up

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Speaker 7: here a ticket for Granted, I'm not doing that. I'm

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Speaker 7: thanking him for today, for breathing, for air, for health,

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Speaker 7: for strength, for my position, for where I am, thank

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Speaker 7: God for I ain't where I was. Thank God even

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Speaker 7: kept me, strengthening me. All of that. That's called grantitude.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 2: We need to get with that. We tripping Steve.

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Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show, Charlie Strawberry, Color for Real, Mississippi, Monica Junior,

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Speaker 7: and the Legend of Nephew Tommy. The reason I don't

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Speaker 7: say the Legend of Steve Harvey is because it's not

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Speaker 7: for me to say. And after watching Eddie Murphy's Netflix documentary,

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna go somewhere and sit down. Ladies, give me

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Speaker 7: Juli's on your mind.

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Speaker 12: Let me ask you this man, that question. How do

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Speaker 12: you keep your walk with God vibrant in your life?

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm gonna be honest with you. You you you

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Speaker 7: don't have a real honest conversation.

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Speaker 13: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The way I keep my walk vibrant is I stay

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Speaker 7: The haters, the naysay, hey, man, you can be just

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Speaker 2: You're Finnah get out of my car with this food. Man.

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Speaker 2: Let him you have road.

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Speaker 7: Rage by hisself. I'm not getting out of my car

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Speaker 2: He don't even know. I'm back here.

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Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we

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Speaker 14: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Christmas is a time for joy, and joy is most

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Speaker 3: powerful when it's shared at the Salvation Army. Your twenty

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Speaker 1: Lift spirits, including your own.

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Speaker 11: It is time now for the nephew to run that

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Speaker 2: I got it for you, Shirley.

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Speaker 6: You know, people get turned away from a lot of places,

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Speaker 6: A lot of us wouldn't imagine getting turned away from

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Speaker 6: If they ain't worth nothing, put them out. You can't

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Speaker 6: Put them out?

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Speaker 7: What this?

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Speaker 1: How you know what they're worth?

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Speaker 6: How we don't need these these wasted heathens in here?

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Speaker 2: We need? We need?

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Speaker 13: We don't know that we had capacity?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: We Why is we just overloading this stuff with all

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Speaker 6: But but but whenever I do get up there, they

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Speaker 2: If I start working that ja whoa, whoa, Let you

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you're gonna be You're gonna be so far from

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Speaker 6: You gonna be all in the back. Jesus, you ain't

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Speaker 2: But you can I handle this for you? Do you know?

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Speaker 6: Trump is out here right now? What do you want

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Speaker 11: Want me to do.

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying here, let's go. You can't come back

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Speaker 6: to reach sister Sure Reeves Mayfield. Deacon bounds from the

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Speaker 6: Okay from from from here. Can you hear me?

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Speaker 5: Good?

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Speaker 2: This old phone on work? We're good?

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Speaker 15: Yeah, my phone?

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Speaker 6: The deacon ball didn't have a meeting as well as

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Speaker 2: That come to the understanding.

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Speaker 6: That, uh, they're gonna ask you to not come to

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Speaker 2: Bad look on the church.

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Speaker 10: My kids being in jail put a.

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Speaker 6: Well that's what that's what's what the that's what they

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Speaker 10: I don't understand whilst y'all have a meeting about my

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Speaker 6: Well, what we're trying to do is show a good

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Speaker 10: Okay, you can show a good example by me being there,

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Speaker 6: Well, that's another thing that's been brought down attention that

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Speaker 6: People not paying the tithe and where they fold.

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Speaker 10: I pay my task. I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 10: who told you that, Deacon Bards. I don't even know,

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Speaker 10: first of all, who you are. And I'm not trying

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Speaker 10: I paid my task, I paid my offering. Go on

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Speaker 10: your cook you at the church, call your secretary or whoever.

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Speaker 6: Let me let me let me ask you this me

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Speaker 6: if you do you pay your tie according to what

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Speaker 6: you make?

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Speaker 10: Yes, I do check the books.

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Speaker 6: Well, now what it is that we can't check the books,

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Speaker 6: that we don't know exactly what you make?

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Speaker 2: Is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 10: What I make is my business between me and Jesus.

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Speaker 10: I give him his ten percent and that's all marks

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Speaker 6: And I understand exactly where you're coming from but not

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Speaker 2: They don't want that to be to bleed over into

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Speaker 10: Wait a minute, Wait a minute. First of all, I

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Speaker 10: to pray for them, not put them at the.

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Speaker 8: Church or their mama.

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm I'm what I'm we're gonna we're gonna pray

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Speaker 2: Good with it.

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Speaker 10: Well, I'm gonna keep coming. Y'all can't stop me from

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Speaker 10: coming to the church. I'm gonna keep coming. So I

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Speaker 10: don't know who you talking to. And you tell a

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Speaker 10: come to hell, and you have nobody calling me telling

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Speaker 8: That is a free church.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get the pastor called up.

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Speaker 16: Why you get the pastor.

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Speaker 10: To call me? Because you have no business calling me

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Speaker 10: telling me that I can't come to God's house.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I don't want you to get in no roll

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Speaker 10: Now, I'm not getting I'm not getting angry with nobody.

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Speaker 8: I work.

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Speaker 10: I don't work eighteen sixteen hours today.

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Speaker 8: I don't have half nobody.

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Speaker 10: Calling me telling me that I can't come to a

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Speaker 10: that's that's due to God. But y'all really making me

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Speaker 2: If you where was you this past Sunday? You wasn't that.

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Speaker 10: I wasn't that church because I had over stepped And

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Speaker 10: why is that any of your business?

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Speaker 2: Now there you go being in uproad with me again.

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Speaker 10: I don't know who this is. How could you call

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Speaker 2: Mayville?

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Speaker 6: Hello, Yeah, one more thing this nephew till me from

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Speaker 6: the Steve Harvey morning Short.

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Speaker 16: I got you, y'all. I'm like, who is this about church?

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Speaker 8: Bis?

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Speaker 6: You know what I like about you? Though nobody keep

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Speaker 6: you out the lowest house You're gonna show up and

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Speaker 6: show out every Sunday Sunday.

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Speaker 17: I'm coming to.

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Speaker 10: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: Hey, baby, let me ask you something that's the baddest

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Speaker 6: radio show in the land.

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Speaker 10: Now do you even have to ask me that? To

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Speaker 10: Steve Hobby more on itself.

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Speaker 2: And there you have it. I'll be back an hour,

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Speaker 2: all right, nephew, thank you.

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Speaker 11: Coming up next it is ask the CELO or Chief

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Speaker 11: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,

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Speaker 11: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays,

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Speaker 11: In entertainment news, President Trump is now telling the Republicans

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Speaker 11: In entertainment News, Tom Cruise and Debbie Allen both won

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Speaker 11: We'll talk about these stories at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 11: but right now it is time to ask the CLO

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Speaker 11: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: This is from Diana in Wilmington.

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Speaker 11: Diana writes, my husband has a thirteen year old son

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Speaker 11: from his first marriage. He dropped his son off on

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Speaker 11: his ex's house?

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Speaker 8: Yeh?

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Speaker 1: Food?

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Speaker 2: I can't believe he said that.

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Speaker 11: I can't you should cook more often?

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Speaker 7: Because you might as well have said you should cook

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Speaker 7: more often because she cook all the time. You might

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Speaker 7: as well have said that because that's what she heard.

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Speaker 7: Should should he be eating in his excess house?

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Speaker 2: You got to speed that up, you know? Did you

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Speaker 2: hear yourself?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 11: You heard it too, God, you don't have to draw

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Speaker 11: attention to it.

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Speaker 1: I can't stand him.

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Speaker 7: Yeah no, but man, I mean you and him eating

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Speaker 7: bro I can't get into that one. I should he

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Speaker 7: still be eating at his excess house?

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Speaker 2: Uh? He brought his son over there was eating.

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Speaker 7: He got a plate. I don't you need to start cooking.

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Speaker 7: You need to start cooking other people's house eating. He

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Speaker 7: should ate that in the car. Yeah, yet, I'm gonna

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Speaker 7: let that one go. I can't help you home, lay, he's.

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Speaker 2: On his own.

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Speaker 1: You're the clo Well, no.

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Speaker 2: The lady wrote the letter.

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Speaker 7: She do need to start cooking, moto what whatever?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he should have put their food in his car.

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Speaker 6: She should their food in rocket Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I ate that on the way. I wouldn't have

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Speaker 2: bought that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, obviously she can cook though, all right? Moving

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Speaker 1: moving on to Lester and fort Wayne.

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Speaker 11: At Lester writes, my wife is eighteen years Lester, My

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Speaker 11: wife is eighteen years younger than I am. And at

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Speaker 11: first things were great, But five years later she still

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Speaker 11: thinks of ways to waste my money. She wants to

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Speaker 11: go skiing for the holidays. How do I convince her

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Speaker 11: to start creating holidays traditions at home?

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Speaker 2: See the five years later? Though you old, You're getting

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Speaker 2: older and older.

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Speaker 7: She want to create holiday traditions. She want to go skiing.

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Speaker 7: She married you because of your ability to allow her

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Speaker 7: to do things like that, where some of the younger

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Speaker 7: guys couldn't afford it.

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Speaker 2: Shit.

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Speaker 7: Now you want to start cutting back, But you use

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Speaker 7: that to get.

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Speaker 2: Her in the beginning. Let's be real, it was.

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Speaker 7: Y'all promoting that I can take care of you.

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Speaker 2: I'll give you what you need.

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Speaker 1: Security.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's how you you lure it in. Now she

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Speaker 7: want to go skiing for Christmas? You want her to

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Speaker 7: bake cookies at the house. Well, she's almost twenty years

497
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Speaker 7: younger than you. Let's say you fifty, she thirty. Let's

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Speaker 7: say you sixty, she forty. That gap, strong dog.

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Speaker 11: So you're saying he married for love. She married for

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Speaker 11: He married for lust. Oh, he married for lust.

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Speaker 7: And oh she's a young fine uh and she married

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Speaker 7: for mine.

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Speaker 2: He can't believe he got her. She married for security

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Speaker 2: and money.

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Speaker 7: She's not gonna be on no holiday traditions because she

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Speaker 7: don't think you're gonna be here that much.

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Speaker 11: That maybe twenty years from now she will.

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Speaker 2: And might have something to do it. Next question, she

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 11: Moving on to Rashida and Bradington, Rashida writes, I've gained

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Speaker 11: ten pounds and I'm self conscious. I asked my boyfriend

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Speaker 11: how I looked before I left the house and he said,

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Speaker 11: I had on a nice dress that covered up my belly.

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Speaker 11: He blurted it out like he's bothered about me gaining weight?

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Speaker 11: Was that a sign of.

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Speaker 2: Direct direct hit in missile?

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Speaker 11: Okay, say it like he was thinking it, but didn't

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Speaker 11: had sense enough not to say it like that.

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Speaker 1: What did he really mean by that?

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Speaker 2: The good thing? You covered up all that stomach?

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Speaker 1: So she just ten pounds of stomach fat?

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Speaker 2: Wow? So you just gonna sit. So you're just gonna

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Speaker 2: you just over there, You're just gonna keep on wea

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Speaker 2: so you don't quit trying.

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Speaker 7: I'm know it is though, but see, but a lot

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Speaker 7: of these men that's complaining by weight got weight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's very.

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Speaker 6: Out.

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Speaker 2: I'll be going like dog man, you're over here with

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Speaker 2: all this stomach.

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Speaker 1: But they're not. Men aren't judged by their looks. Women are.

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Speaker 1: You know, their.

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Speaker 18: Beauty, right, that's alway, that's that's that's well.

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Speaker 7: If you get judged quicker, women are judged. I don't

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Speaker 7: care money, no money, You get judged on how.

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Speaker 1: You look, right, exactly what.

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Speaker 7: Men based on income level can be overlooked?

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Speaker 2: True?

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Speaker 1: Good man?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, okay, so so when they told me what you're

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Speaker 12: doing over here.

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Speaker 13: That was about my looks.

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Speaker 2: It was directly about your look jr.

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Speaker 13: How old was you then about twenty two, twenty three?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't had no money.

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Speaker 13: No, no, no money.

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Speaker 1: But that's it.

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Speaker 2: But it didn't win. Yeah, but see that ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: last long because you.

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Speaker 3: Know, ain't nobody dating nobody for their Yeah you know

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Speaker 3: that again old.

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Speaker 2: For sure if you're broke. Yeah, he come over there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he ain't had no money, didn't he?

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Speaker 1: But he was cut?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that q go out the window though. When you

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Speaker 7: got to go down to the hospital though.

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Speaker 2: It comes a lot is wrong with him.

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Speaker 1: We have time, maybe what's wrong? Okay? You all right?

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Speaker 11: So so you're saying that she needs to lose her

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Speaker 11: ten pounds, basically, is that a sh she.

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Speaker 2: Wants to ten pounds.

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Speaker 7: Look, it's always in your best interest. It's always in

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Speaker 7: your best interest to be your best self. I'm going

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Speaker 7: through that right now with me. I bought a tuxedo

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Speaker 7: last year, had it cut, uh huh, you know I

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Speaker 7: was down sixteen percent body fat.

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Speaker 2: See now I'm up to nineteen now.

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Speaker 7: Now that tucks that I had cut it don't need

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Speaker 7: cutting now I need it open.

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Speaker 11: See for three more body fats.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, three percent body fat, you know, especially if it's

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Speaker 7: in the stomach. Boom, I gotta get there. I cannot

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Speaker 7: now I'm in the process of getting that back off

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Speaker 7: because that took cost way too much.

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Speaker 1: One of Tommy spanks.

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Speaker 19: Okay, somebody jokes to wear spanks.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on the top of the hour.

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Speaker 11: It wasn't it wasn't a secret. I will have entertainment

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Speaker 11: news for you right after this.

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Speaker 14: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 11: All right, guys, So President Trump is now suddenly urging

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Speaker 11: Republicans in Congress to vote in favor of releasing the

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Speaker 11: so called Epstein files. President Trump made a surprising U

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Speaker 11: turn on Sunday night, posting that Republicans should vote in

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Speaker 11: favor of telling the Justice Department to release all of

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Speaker 11: the government files tied to the convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein.

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Speaker 11: Trump posted untruth truth, Social House Republicans should vote to

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Speaker 11: release the Epstein files because we have nothing to hide

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Speaker 11: and it's time to move on from this. Get this

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Speaker 11: democratic hoax perpetuated by radical left lunatics in order to

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Speaker 11: deflect from the great success of the Republican Party.

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Speaker 7: Trump's I can promise you this. If Trump is truly

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Speaker 7: saying this, that that boy, that boy cash for Tail,

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Speaker 7: who he didn't put in the FBI to scrub them files.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I say.

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Speaker 7: Hey, data went in that and took everything with Trump

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Speaker 7: name in it out.

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Speaker 1: That's why he's on board.

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Speaker 2: That's why he's saying you can have it.

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Speaker 6: You can.

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Speaker 1: We have nothing to hide.

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Speaker 7: Tell you something because a minute ago, and let me

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Speaker 7: tell you something. Man, he in them files because of

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Speaker 7: the emails. But I ain't saying he did nothing. I'm

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Speaker 7: just saying he in.

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Speaker 2: Now the files. All right, But if you in NAT

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Speaker 2: though you did something.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, Because it's a definite reversal from his earlier stance.

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Speaker 11: After Democrats began publishing selected documents that included references to Trump,

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Speaker 11: like you just said, Steve, he has consistently denied any

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Speaker 11: involvement in Epstein's crimes.

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Speaker 2: So there you go. Yeah. See, I don't trust this

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Speaker 2: new right, this whole process.

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Speaker 7: They've had these files too long, they've scowled them files

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Speaker 7: top to bottom.

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Speaker 2: I can promise you something is taken out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, yep.

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Speaker 2: Because this is not a democratic hoax.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not. This brought on by the radical left lunatics.

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Speaker 2: No, man, this is.

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Speaker 7: This is a foul full of rich, wealthy, influential white

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Speaker 7: men who have been to this man's island participating in

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Speaker 7: sexually deviate behavior with children. And that's really what it is.

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Speaker 7: These are children and that Meghan Kelly, Hey man, I

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Speaker 7: don't know what man is talking about. Which is Megan

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Speaker 7: Kelly statement, I won't call my boy and go yo man, all.

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Speaker 11: Right, don't say that stee and other news. Okay, After

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Speaker 11: more than forty years of unforgettable performances and daring stunt,

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Speaker 11: superstar Tom Cruise finally finally has an Oscar.

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Speaker 1: It's about time.

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Speaker 3: Love me, Yeah, bravo.

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Speaker 8: Yes.

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Speaker 11: Also receiving honorary Oscar status is the one and only

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Speaker 11: Debbie Allen. Take a over to this some of Tom's

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Speaker 11: viral speech as he honored the legendary Debbie Allen. You

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Speaker 11: opened the door for countless young artists to find their voice.

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Speaker 2: They're disciplined and fulfill their dreams.

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Speaker 19: And you have lifted generations through your exactly, your excellence,

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Speaker 19: and your heart. You are the very personification of the

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Speaker 19: words to your extraordinary mother. Viviannaiers wrote to be brave,

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Speaker 19: be beautiful.

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Speaker 11: As when he said that, yes, she was like, she

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Speaker 11: clutched her heart, she was like.

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Speaker 1: He called her a queen.

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Speaker 11: Queen hell yeah. And then there's yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Tom Cruise got some moves. You see that you can dance.

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Speaker 2: I don't see that. But Debbie Ellen, bad girl.

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Speaker 1: Man, yeah, legend.

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Speaker 7: She has been so much to the culture, to young people,

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Speaker 7: the development of talent, the inspiration of talent, the nurturing creativity.

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Speaker 2: And I can't you can't count the young people that.

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Speaker 7: Have a life and a career because of this woman's

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Speaker 7: working efforts and just who she is man.

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Speaker 1: That part you said, super talented.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, and she's a friend of the Steve Harby Morning

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Speaker 11: Show too.

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Speaker 6: Gives a Hugstonian baby.

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Speaker 1: Or is the third ward.

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Speaker 2: About it's Houston? Houston tell you what she ain't though

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Speaker 2: she ain't a member the Texans. So we talk about

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Speaker 2: the ones that won't talking about that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, later you're.

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Speaker 2: Talking about the one y'all said it was going to

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Speaker 2: Super Bowl, the very one.

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Speaker 11: Congratulations again to Debbie Allen and Tom Cruise for their

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Speaker 11: honorary oscars. Finally, in entertainment news, according to the Black

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Speaker 11: Information Network, the Family of Reverend Jesse Jackson is pushing

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Speaker 11: back on rumors that Reverend Jackson is on life support.

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Speaker 11: Sources initially claim that he was on life support level

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Speaker 11: medication to stabilize his blood pressure as he battles a

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Speaker 11: rare degenerative disorder, but hours later family members released a

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Speaker 11: statement clarifying he is stable, breathing on his own and

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Speaker 11: receiving routine care in Chicago. Loved ones are risky, are

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Speaker 11: asking for privacy as he continues to manage the condition.

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Speaker 11: Our proo, Yeah, all right, guys, coming up at twenty minutes,

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Speaker 11: Yes for sure, coming up a twenty minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 11: we'll find out how much the average American will spend

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Speaker 11: on Thanksgiving. Right after this, you're listening to the Stave

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Speaker 11: Hardy Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to find

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Speaker 11: the right gifts, but you know it's even harder getting

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Speaker 11: the right gift. But get this, Verizon's got the perfect

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Speaker 11: Or you could keep them all to yourself.

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Speaker 1: No one has to know. Stop by your local Verizon.

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Speaker 11: This Thanksgiving thing, guys, will cost the average American about

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Speaker 11: one thousand dollars. Close to one thousand dollars, that's according Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 11: that's according to new research. Yep, we're they're including food, drinks,

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Speaker 11: holiday decres and travel. It comes to roughly about nine

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Speaker 11: hundred and fifty two dollars, and we rounded up to

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Speaker 11: one thousand, of course. So here's the question. Are you

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Speaker 11: hosting Thanksgiving this year for how many people?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, so about a thousand dollars?

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Speaker 1: That is that murder about?

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Speaker 2: Correct? What thirty five people? I'm about thirty five?

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have thirty five people at your house?

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Speaker 13: Tommy thirty five?

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Speaker 2: Well, I got the ad junior because he said he

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Speaker 2: might come through that.

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Speaker 12: I have had to be over there, but I know

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Speaker 12: why I'm going to be over there. But we're not

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Speaker 12: doing thirty five No, no, no, And we don't spend

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Speaker 12: a thousand. Our Thanksgiving is about three city nobody.

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Speaker 1: Dollars.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, because you know, we cut people off. You started

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Speaker 12: by to people. We cut you off by necessity.

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Speaker 1: Who needs you know?

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Speaker 12: That's mostly the older people keep your kids at home

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Speaker 12: and you stay at home. Just the people over forty

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Speaker 12: and up.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: Oh so you don't have a kids table, none of that.

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Speaker 13: We were grown over here. We don't have kids table.

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Speaker 2: Everybody got kids table, Junior. Yeah, we have grown over here.

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Speaker 1: So Steef, you're you're hosting as well?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, a thousand dollars about accurate. We lowballing you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. We wavet of this conversation stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of money. Groceries are hot. You

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Speaker 1: see me scratching? Yes, are you?

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Speaker 2: It's your money?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, So Junior said about three hundred and fifty dollars.

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Speaker 1: Tommy's having thirty five people. So what's some workmen you're Tommy? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was said, what are you serving?

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Speaker 2: You got to have them turkeys about two three of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a beast aid those.

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Speaker 2: He can fry some turkey. You got to have that dress.

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Speaker 6: My mother makes seafood dress because you know, eat don't

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Speaker 6: eat me, my sister, don't eat me. So seafood dressing

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Speaker 6: is the bomb. Seafood dressing is coming Jackie Auntie. She

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Speaker 6: made the dressing. I think, yeah, I think she's past

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Speaker 6: making the dressing. Time.

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Speaker 2: I think I can't say that. Let me. I just

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Speaker 2: thank you. I know, I know thinking ain't your thing.

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Speaker 7: I know thinking, But just just just listen to me, ma'am.

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Speaker 7: Say nothing about Jackie aunt dressing. Man, eat your mama's

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Speaker 7: seafood dressing.

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Speaker 1: Just don't touch it.

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Speaker 2: But don't say nothing else Jackie.

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Speaker 7: Hey, Hey, when you walking around the buffet and you

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Speaker 7: see anybody touch your dish, that's a good sign.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 1: So everybody's your ain't moving.

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Speaker 6: If your dish ain't moving, everybody and they whispering about it.

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Speaker 2: Trust me.

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Speaker 7: I had an aunt that used to love. She thought

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Speaker 7: her yellow mold was the bomb. But she made it

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Speaker 7: like a white yellow and with little red chunks of

752
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Speaker 7: stuff in it. So it was her version of a fruitcake.

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Speaker 7: It was the worst.

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Speaker 11: Thirty four minutes after the hour, Eddie Murphy talked about

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Speaker 11: the cancel culture and he might go back to stand up.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about that right after this.

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Speaker 14: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 11: During an interview with Extra and the Hollywood Reporter, Eddie

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Speaker 11: Murphy talked about cancel culture. He says, I can't think

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Speaker 11: of a comedian that said a joke that made them

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Speaker 11: get canceled. I feel like that whole canceled thing was

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Speaker 11: just a moment in time where people were like, comics

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Speaker 11: have to be careful what they say. Eddie also said

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Speaker 11: that he might return to stand up. I'll take a listen.

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Speaker 9: I've seen a couple of comedians I've seen got a

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Speaker 9: funny dah. I saw him up, he was doing stand

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Speaker 9: up and he fell out on the stage. So comics

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Speaker 9: was falling out. I was like, but that's all past now,

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Speaker 9: and now I'm open to it again. And if it

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Speaker 9: ever struck me that I could have some fun doing.

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Speaker 2: It, I get up there and do it again. That's

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Speaker 2: just have to.

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Speaker 1: One day wake up and be like this.

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Speaker 2: It seems like a fun thing to do.

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Speaker 11: Okay, all right, So Tommy and Junior, you guys are

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Speaker 11: out almost every week. What do you think I would

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Speaker 11: love to cancel cancel culture and things.

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Speaker 2: Are we past that?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean you're still doing stand up.

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Speaker 6: We're still walking that line. Were still walking that the

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Speaker 6: in line with this whole cancel thing. We still we

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Speaker 6: still we're still not touching on certain subjects. So let's

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Speaker 6: trust me. There's still some subjects out there we are

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Speaker 6: you are censoring Oh yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 2: I can't mess up nothing. I can't. I got TV show.

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Speaker 2: I ain't messing up nothing.

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Speaker 13: I'm not since myself. I'm just not talking about that.

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Speaker 13: Everything else. I'm live. I'm going live on my life.

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Speaker 7: I think counsel culture is still real. Me personally, I think, well, no,

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Speaker 7: it's not that I disagree with Eddie. I understand where

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Speaker 7: he coming from from from hisself. But because Eddie's not

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Speaker 7: tied to anything that you can counsel what you're gonna

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Speaker 7: counsel Eddie doing.

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Speaker 2: Look, so he has a different perspective.

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Speaker 7: Now, if there's a comedian today who is on TV,

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Speaker 7: on radio doing movies that says any of the stuff

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Speaker 7: that Dave Chapelle said in his two Netflix specials.

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Speaker 2: You're gone, You're Gone.

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Speaker 7: So, but I agree with what Eddie's saying is I

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Speaker 7: ain't heard the comedian say nothing that he should be

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Speaker 7: counseled for. I ain't heard nothing that you should be

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Speaker 7: counseled for.

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Speaker 1: So do you think so you're saying that? Isn't it?

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Speaker 8: Though?

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Speaker 3: With cancel culture, you can be ansel regardless of if

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Speaker 3: you have a sponsored deal.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're on teav Yes, absolutely so you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, you can get canceled altogether. And people,

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Speaker 1: if you.

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Speaker 7: Have right, if you have anything that's sponsorship driven, you

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Speaker 7: are in the lane of the councel culture.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you're not sponsorship.

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Speaker 1: Driven that what he said.

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Speaker 2: If you're not, Tommy can go out here and say

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Speaker 2: what he wants to exactly right.

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Speaker 1: And so do you. So my question is, so.

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Speaker 3: With you forget sometimes we have to remind you every minute,

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Speaker 3: but Tommy remind him every now. But is there What

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Speaker 3: I'm saying is if you don't have that, you could

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Speaker 3: be a big time comedian star and not have these

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Speaker 3: network deals. You could still be canceled. Correct.

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Speaker 7: James Chappelle can't be canceled. Bill Burr can't be canceled.

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Speaker 7: That great stand ups. Yeah, but they can stay. They

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Speaker 7: say whatever they want to say. They can't be canceled

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Speaker 7: because they're subscription based, not sponsorship based.

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Speaker 1: Can cancel you.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying is people, not what I'm saying is people,

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Speaker 3: your audience can cancel you.

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Speaker 2: I understand what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm right.

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Speaker 7: But but but but but who has had that happen?

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Speaker 7: Everybody everybody has had everybody has had and a particular

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Speaker 7: audience that has been mad as something you said. I

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Speaker 7: got in trouble before with little people I got. I

836
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Speaker 7: got in trouble with that studio, with Asian people before.

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Speaker 7: I've been in trouble with everybody.

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Speaker 6: He got interpret with Builder Bell's sponsor.

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Speaker 3: Everybody. It's everybody, Tommy, don't we get to check out.

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Speaker 2: Eddie mur Shut up?

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Speaker 11: Netflix special? Coming up next, it is the Nephew Frank

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Speaker 11: phone call for today. Right after this, you're listening to

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Speaker 11: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 11: Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for

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Speaker 11: today and the subject is am I marrying a man

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Speaker 11: or a child?

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Speaker 1: No? Which is the more?

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Speaker 2: Let me just get in here.

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Speaker 7: Probably don't need to marry No shore, We'll get in.

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Speaker 1: Yes, do what it's all about? Coming up?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, but right now the nephew is here standing by. Well,

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Speaker 11: you're here now with today's Frank phone called what you

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Speaker 11: got for his?

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Speaker 2: Neph got it for you?

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Speaker 6: This right here is uh, you ain't married. You are

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Speaker 6: not married now. You think you got married so many

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Speaker 6: years ago. You think you got married, But that particular

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Speaker 6: pastor was not a past, he did not have all

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Speaker 6: the credential.

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Speaker 2: Let's go get doll.

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Speaker 17: Hello, I'm trying to reach Brian. Yeah, how you doing, Brian?

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Speaker 17: My name is Daniel. Wanted to give you a call today.

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Speaker 17: You got a minute? Yeah, okay, listen. You're you're Brian,

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Speaker 17: Brian right, you're married to h to Althea. Yeah. Hello, hello, yeah,

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Speaker 17: I mean yeah.

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Speaker 8: That's that's me.

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Speaker 15: That's my wife.

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Speaker 17: Yeah, okay, got a question for you. How long have

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Speaker 17: you guys been married?

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Speaker 8: Going on nine years now, we've been married? Now, who

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Speaker 8: is it?

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Speaker 17: My name is Daniel. Were you were you guys married

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Speaker 17: a Greater New Missionary Baptist Church in the Sea.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, yep, yep, that's the name of that church. Yeah,

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Speaker 15: great by Yeah that's right. Why what's going on? What's

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Speaker 15: asked me on these questions?

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Speaker 17: Fus? Okay, do you remember the minister that officiated your

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Speaker 17: actual wedding ceremony?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 17: Right, yeah, okay, I got the right person. I wanted

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Speaker 17: to make sure I had the right person, Brian. So

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Speaker 17: I'm I'm sorry if it seemed a little weird to you. Here.

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Speaker 17: Here's what's going on. We've just come up with a

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Speaker 17: new discovery A lot of information that reverend none of

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Speaker 17: his credentials are true. Everything is false. He's not a

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Speaker 17: minister at all, he never was a minister, and every

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Speaker 17: single wedding ceremony that he officiated is basically null and void. So,

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Speaker 17: and I hate to be the bearer of bad news,

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Speaker 17: but you and al Thea, even though you think you've

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Speaker 17: been married for nine years, you guys are not married

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Speaker 17: at all.

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Speaker 15: No, no, no, no, that that you gotta have the

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Speaker 15: wrong person, because me and that we had got married

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Speaker 15: by nine years ago.

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Speaker 17: And what I'm telling you is he never was ordained.

897
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 17: He's never been an ordained minister. He's not a minister

898
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 17: at all. So when he performed this ceremony, your a

899
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 17: wedding ceremony, he had no right to be doing that.

900
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 17: You guys are not are not married. You know, you

901
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 17: guys have been living in sin for nine years.

902
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 15: Hold on, hold on that.

903
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 8: Let me tell you something. I ain't been living in offense.

904
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 8: Me and my wife we have been married for nine years.

905
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 8: And dead man he's a preacher. I'm telling you he's

906
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 8: a preacher.

907
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 15: Last Funday, Sir.

908
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 17: As of today, he has no right to be in

909
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 17: anybody's pull pit. He has no right to be officiating,

910
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 17: whether it's weddings or funerals, no matter what it is,

911
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 17: christenings for children. He's not allowed to do that. And

912
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 17: we have officially stopped him from doing anything serving under

913
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 17: as being a pastor or a minister. We have stopped

914
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 17: at But what I want you to know is that

915
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 17: you have been being in sin and you don't. We

916
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,399
Speaker 17: want to try and get you guys married as soon

917
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 17: as possible, so you're not living in sin.

918
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 8: Oh no, dog, I have been living in those sin.

919
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,399
Speaker 8: I have been married for nine years. This woman shit

920
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 8: have been taking care of me and my kids for

921
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 8: the past nine Wait, wait a minute minute.

922
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,839
Speaker 17: You guys have children.

923
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, we got two kids, two beautiful kids.

924
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,439
Speaker 17: Okay, then those kids are bastards.

925
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 15: Hold on, hold on, let me tell you something. My

926
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 15: kids ain't no baskets. What about your kids?

927
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,760
Speaker 8: Your kids ambassors, No.

928
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 17: Sir, my kids were born in wedlock. Your kids have

929
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 17: been born out.

930
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 8: I'm telling you that man did my service and he

931
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 8: is a preacher. He's a man after God's own heart himself.

932
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 8: He hasn't done everything that he could have for me

933
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 8: and my family.

934
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 17: He is a preacher, Sir. I know it's hard for

935
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 17: you to to swallow the truth, but I want you

936
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 17: to know, and I need you to be able to

937
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 17: tell our theater you guys are not married and not

938
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:57,439
Speaker 17: as of right now.

939
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:03,240
Speaker 8: No, no, okay, so on now, back in the older days,

940
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 8: but before all these all these colleges and stuff came

941
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 8: came about, you telling me that their men baking old days,

942
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 8: that they wasn't no preachers, that they wasn't men after

943
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 8: the colu Is that what you're saying to me?

944
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 17: What are you? What are you? What are you? What

945
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 17: are you getting at? Sir?

946
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 15: What I'm trying to say is back in the older day,

947
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,399
Speaker 15: baking the twenties and thirties, they didn't have all these

948
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 15: colleges and all these degrees and stuff like these new

949
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 15: preachers got these days, that man now he was from

950
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 15: back then, and God called them and that's what they

951
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 15: went on too. And all them people that they married

952
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 15: back then, they did the same thing today. You don't

953
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 15: need no degree to say that you're a preacher. You

954
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 15: don't need no life to say you're a preacher. Me

955
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 15: and my wife we've been married for nine years.

956
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 8: My kids have been born any wedlock. We were married

957
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 8: we were married by reverend, My friends and family day

958
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 8: was all.

959
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 17: There, sir. The bottom line is that you have been

960
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 17: living in sin because you have not been married with

961
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 17: your wife for the last nine years. And your kids,

962
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 17: I hate to say it, your he's a bastards now

963
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 17: an't on now?

964
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 8: I've bene told you.

965
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 15: Don't say nothing else about my kids saying I ain't

966
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 15: no custom.

967
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 8: But don't push me. My kids ain't no bassard. You

968
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 8: understand me. You won't get me up, sir.

969
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 17: I'm trying to give you the truth and try to

970
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 17: get you in here and get you married so you

971
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 17: will not be living in sin any more than what

972
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 17: you are.

973
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 8: I'm living in those sins. Look now, you gonna make

974
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,439
Speaker 8: me whoop your ass. You understand me and my wife

975
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 8: we have been married for nine years. Don't sit up

976
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 8: here in came me talking about that. We ain't mad

977
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,760
Speaker 8: that man ain't no fature. You understand.

978
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,240
Speaker 17: I get off my phone.

979
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 8: But you that's my wife. Those are my kids. They

980
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 8: have been born in wedlocks. You understand sir.

981
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 17: Sir. I just wanted to call and give you the

982
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 17: information so that you could probably stop living in sin.

983
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 17: That's all I wanted to do.

984
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 8: I ain't living in those sins. That's what I just

985
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 8: told you. You ain't hear me. I ain't living in those

986
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 8: sin Nigga. You the one that's living up in some sin. Now,

987
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 8: you ain't got nothing necessary to me. That man that

988
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,839
Speaker 8: married us nine years ago. They get your ass off

989
00:52:57,880 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 8: my phone.

990
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 17: One more thing, one more thing I'd like to say.

991
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 8: You ain't got nothing else to say to me. You

992
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 8: ain't get your ass off my am phone. Now do

993
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 8: you understand me? I ain't got time for this policy, sir.

994
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 17: Can I say one more thing?

995
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 8: What you gotta say to me?

996
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 16: Now?

997
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 17: I just wanted to let you know that this is

998
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 17: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your wife

999
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 17: al THEA got me to prank Pahon call you.

1000
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 8: Oh man, oh lord it dot yeah uh dot Yeah.

1001
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 8: I almost went in on you.

1002
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 15: Don you A wouldn't make me go there.

1003
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 17: Yeah, I'm gona good.

1004
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 8: That put you up to this.

1005
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 17: Tha got me to prank you man, wow man, oh man,

1006
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 17: hey man? You alright with me? Brother? I got to

1007
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 17: ask you something, man, what is the baddest and I

1008
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 17: mean the baddest radio show in the lands.

1009
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 15: The Steve Harby morning show man.

1010
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 6: You ain't man, I don't know if I could be

1011
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 6: here and stupid. But I'm gonna try again tomorrow. You

1012
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 6: know what I mean. I'm gonna come back tomorrow in morning.

1013
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 6: I come in here, try to be as stupid as

1014
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 6: I can be. That's all I try to do for y'all.

1015
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 2: And you think you get it done. I really think

1016
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 2: you get it every.

1017
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 1: Day you're well success, well winning. Yes, take your dub ever,

1018
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 1: let us give you your flowers. Now, I know you

1019
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:21,280
Speaker 1: successful timing.

1020
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 12: Every time I'm in public, they say, boy that Timmy show,

1021
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 12: we a stupid I know you when they come up

1022
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 12: and tell me, so see it's working.

1023
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 2: It's working, thank y'all.

1024
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: Making every day as.

1025
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 6: Long as my stupid work. That's all he hasd me

1026
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 6: to do. Come to work and be stupid. That's all

1027
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 6: I'm trying. That's all I'm sposed to do.

1028
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: He probably said, just come to me.

1029
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 2: Well s, I was asking him to do other things.

1030
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 3: Uh huh.

1031
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 2: You know when he first got started, I wanted him.

1032
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 1: To be you know what did you want him to do?

1033
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 6: Let me tell you when he got mad at me,

1034
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 6: So I did this, y'all. Tell me if this right

1035
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 6: or wrong. When I made a decent amount of money,

1036
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 6: I bought a nice pot.

1037
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 2: There's this something wrong with that, A nice one hot pot.

1038
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: I bought a like that you cook in.

1039
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 6: No, just a regular pot, because you know, people always

1040
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 6: say I ain't got a pot thing.

1041
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 2: I wanted to have a pot. You know what I'm saying.

1042
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 2: I just did.

1043
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 6: I wanted to have because you know we.

1044
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 1: Exhausted.

1045
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: Do y'all have a pot?

1046
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 6: I always say they ain't got a pot to pee

1047
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 6: in or win at the thought, I wanted to give

1048
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:32,760
Speaker 6: me a pot.

1049
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 2: All right, thank you? I pee in my pot.

1050
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 11: A lot coming up my strawberry letter. The subject is

1051
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 11: am I marrying a man or a child? I'm the

1052
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Speaker 11: only one around the holidays. It's hard to find the

1053
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Speaker 11: right gifts, but you know what's even harder getting the

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Speaker 11: right gift. But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve

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Speaker 11: and a brand new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed.

1058
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1059
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Speaker 11: has to know stop by your local Verizon. You're listening

1061
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Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's

1062
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 11: Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,

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1065
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Speaker 1: We could be reading.

1066
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 11: Your letter live on the air, just like we're going

1067
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 11: to read this one right here, right now, and you

1068
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Speaker 6: It could be yours. Buggle up and hold on tight.

1070
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Speaker 6: We got it for you here it is strawberry.

1071
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Speaker 1: Let up all right, nephew, thank you. Subject.

1072
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 11: Am I marrying a man or a child? Dear Stephen Shirley.

1073
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 11: I'm getting married in eight months, and I can't help

1074
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 11: but think that I'm marrying a little boy instead of

1075
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 11: a man. We are both twenty six years old, and

1076
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 11: although he handles business well in public, at home, he

1077
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 11: doesn't help me do anything. I grew up in a

1078
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 11: home with both of my parents, and they were partners

1079
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 11: that helped each other do everything. My dad cooked clean,

1080
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 11: went to all of my activities at school, and worked

1081
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 11: a part time job so I could go to college.

1082
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 11: My fiance was raised by his mom and his grandmom.

1083
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 11: He was catered to his entire life. His mom even

1084
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,919
Speaker 11: bought most of his clothes until he and I got

1085
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 11: engaged and I told her I could help him pick

1086
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 11: out his clothes. Now, luckily his mother. His mom has

1087
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 11: great style and he was always dressed nicely. His grandma

1088
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 11: did all of the cooking, so he can barely make

1089
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 11: his own sandwich. His mom even joked that if I

1090
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 11: didn't start spoiling him, they would come over and do

1091
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 11: it for me. I told his mom that I didn't

1092
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 11: find that funny at all. My fiance moved in with

1093
00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 11: me a few weeks ago, and that's when I noticed

1094
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 11: how needy he is. He doesn't want to learn how

1095
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 11: to cook, and when I asked him to sort his

1096
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 11: clothes for the laundry, he didn't know that whites don't

1097
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 11: go on the washer with darks. He often talks about

1098
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 11: us having children, but I can't imagine having to take

1099
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 11: care of children while I'm raising a grown man. I

1100
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 11: overheard him telling his mom that I put pressure on

1101
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 11: him to clean, cook and do this and do that.

1102
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 11: I don't want him to think I'm nagging him, but

1103
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 11: he needs a crash course on being the man of

1104
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 11: the house real fast. I never thought it would be

1105
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 11: this big of a problem. Is it best to postpone

1106
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 11: the wedding until he grows up? Yes, yes it is, Yes,

1107
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 11: most definitely. You cannot marry this man. You can't If

1108
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 11: you do. These same problems that you've written Steve and

1109
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 11: I about today will be going on in the marriage.

1110
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 11: You're talking about a man who can't even pick his

1111
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 11: own clothes. You said that. I really don't see what,

1112
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 11: if anything, you guys have in common.

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00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: You were raised differently.

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00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 11: You had both parents who set a good example for

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00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 11: you and him. He was raised by his mom and

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00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 11: by his grandmother. He didn't have a father to teach

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00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 11: him how to be a man or a husband. And

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00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 11: please don't think you can change him, because that's not

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00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 11: going to happen.

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Speaker 1: He is who he is.

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00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 11: He doesn't see a need to change. He's already complaining

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00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 11: to his mom about you wanting him to cook and clean,

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00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 11: and that's not going to stop because you got papers.

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00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 11: It's only going to get worse. So yes, postponing or

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00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 11: calling this wedding off is an excellent idea, because I

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00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 11: don't think you guys are a good match at all, Steve.

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00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 2: Let's go to the bottom of this letter.

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Speaker 7: The bottom of the letter says, is it best to

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00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 7: postpone the wedding till he grows up? Here's another part

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00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 7: of the letter at the bottom. I don't want him

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00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 7: to think I'm nagging, but he needs a crash course

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00:59:56,040 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 7: on being the man of the house real fast. I

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01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 7: never thought it would be this big of a problem.

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01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 7: Is it best to postpone the wedding till he grows up? Well,

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01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 7: let me ask you a basic question right here, right now,

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01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 7: what are you marrying him for?

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01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 2: What is the purpose of this union?

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01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 6: Now?

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01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 7: Look, I don't tell people how to live their life

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01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 7: because I've done everything crazy. I don't tell people wait

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01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 7: till they get married because I do have moved into

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01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 7: I'm done, tried it all.

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01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 2: But when you move in.

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01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 7: And it don't go right, I will refer you to

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01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 7: something a man told me in a premarital counseling course.

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01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 7: He said, son, the only thing that changes in people

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01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 7: after they are married is the appearance of their left

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01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 7: hand third finger. Everything you saw before you gonna see

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01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 7: f Everything they did before they will do after. So

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01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 7: my question to you, young lady, is what are you

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01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 7: marrying him for I think they said they're both twenty six. Yeah,

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01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 7: you're mature, he's not. You're marrying somebody. What t traits

1153
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 7: did you want in a man that he's exhibiting to you?

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01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 7: I don't see it nowhere in the thing. He handles

1155
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 7: business well in public, What do that mean?

1156
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 2: At home? He doesn't help me do anything.

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01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 7: Then you talk about how you grew up in a

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01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 7: home with both your parents and they both split up

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01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 7: the chores and cleaned and washed, and your dad was

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01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 7: at all your school activities.

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01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 2: He cooked.

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01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 7: You know, my fiance was raised by his mom and

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01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 7: his grandmom. He was catered to his entire life.

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01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 2: Now, this is the part I don't understand.

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01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 7: His mama bought most of his clothes until he and

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01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 7: I got engaged. Okay, now y'all twenty six and got engaged.

1167
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 7: His mama bought his clothes up till then. Then you

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01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 7: fixed it up a little bit and said, well, his

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01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 7: mama got great taste.

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01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 2: I told her I can take care of it.

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01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 7: Now what His mama bought his clothes till he was

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01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 7: twenty six. Then his grandmama did all the cooking, So

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01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 7: he can't even he can't even make a sandwich. His

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01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 7: mama joked that if you don't start spoiling him, they

1175
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 7: gonna come over there and do it for you.

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01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 2: Told her that wasn't funny to you.

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01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 7: Why are you marrying this boy?

1178
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 2: Because I ain't hurt nothing? Manly?

1179
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 7: He do you know what I think it is?

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01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what I think.

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01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 11: We'll be come back all right, All right, Steve, We'll

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01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 11: have part two of your response coming up at twenty

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01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 11: three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letter subject? Am

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01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 11: I marrying a man or a child. We'll get back

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01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 11: into it right after this.

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01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:20,040
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Speaker 11: website and Amazon. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap

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01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 11: today's strawberry letter. The subject is am I marrying a

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01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 11: man or a child?

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01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 7: And if you got to ask that question and then

1202
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 7: write in a letter, then you already know the answer,

1203
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 7: because if you was marrying a man, you wouldn't be

1204
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 7: typing this letter. Just why are you marrying this dude?

1205
01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 7: You know what this letter is, y'all. This letter is.

1206
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 2: A woman who wants a husband.

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01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 7: And a man who needs a mother and a grandmother

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01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:36,760
Speaker 7: and is hoping to find it in his wife. Because

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01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 7: this dude right here, man, his mama picked out his

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01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 7: clothes till he was twenty six. I've never heard that before,

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01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 7: and I've heard a lot of stuff, but I've never

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01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 7: heard a mama by her son's clothes till he twenty six.

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01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 7: Then you say, well, good things, She had good taste

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01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 7: because he's always well dressed. Then you say he take

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01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 7: care of bez out in public, but then private is

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01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 7: something wrong with him? Well, I'll tell you what's wrong

1217
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 7: with him. He don't do anything. You came from a

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01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 7: two parent home where your parents split all the responsibilities.

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01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 7: Your dad helped cook, clean, he was at all your

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01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 7: school activities. Your fiance was raised by his mom, and

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01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 7: his grandmama. They did everything, and his grandmama cooked all

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01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 7: his meals to the point where you say, your man

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01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 7: can't even make a sandwich.

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01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 2: He was catered to his entire life.

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01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 7: And Dniel Mama told you, if you don't start spoiling him,

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01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 7: they gonna come over there and do it for you.

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01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:36,240
Speaker 7: You said, I don't think that's funny at all. They

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01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 7: were serious. And so then here's the part. He don't

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01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 7: want to learn how to cook. And when I ask

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01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 7: him sawtage clothes for the launch because they don't. Oh,

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01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 7: by the way, they've been living together for three weeks.

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01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 7: That's what produced this letter. He moved in with her

1233
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 7: three weeks ago. He didn't know that whites don't go

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01:05:58,520 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 7: in to wash it with dogs.

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01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 2: That's easy.

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01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 7: Let him do it one time and that'll fix that.

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01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 7: That's right, Because when all your drawers is gray and

1238
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 7: green and they was white, that's you. When your socks

1239
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 7: don't fit no more, when your blue jeans is not

1240
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 7: coolos yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you can fix that

1241
01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 7: right there. When your T shirts and all your T

1242
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 7: shirts that you put them on and they show your navel,

1243
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 7: that that's when you love it. Card of wash After that,

1244
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 7: he often talks about having children. But I can't imagine

1245
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 7: taking care of children while I'm raising a grown man. Really,

1246
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:49,080
Speaker 7: so why are you even considering marrying him?

1247
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 2: If you're trying to raise a grown man?

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01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 7: And then you overheard telling his mama that you put

1249
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 7: pressure on him to clean and cook and do this

1250
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,680
Speaker 7: and that. Now, I don't want him to think got nagging,

1251
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 7: But he needs a crash course on being man of

1252
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 7: the house.

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01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 2: Okay? And who and who finn to give it to it?

1254
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 6: Who?

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01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,920
Speaker 7: Who, young lady at gonna give him this crash course?

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01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 7: He done got the crash course he gonna get from

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01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 7: his mama and his grandmama. How you gonna give him

1258
01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 7: a crash course when you ain't never been a man? Now,

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01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 7: you done had a good example of it in your father,

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01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 7: But you can't make a man be a man. I

1261
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 7: can tell you that right now. You can take that

1262
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:33,479
Speaker 7: off your plate of and of things to do. If

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01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 7: you may meet a man, young ladies, and he's not

1264
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 7: a man, walk away because there is nothing you can

1265
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 7: do to get him to be one. A woman cannot

1266
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 7: make a man be a man. A woman can help

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01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 7: a man be a better man. Okay, okay, that's what

1268
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 7: you can do. But you got to start with a man.

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01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 7: Your husband's you. Man married you because it hopes that

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01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 7: you can help him become a better man. But you

1271
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 7: married your husband because he was already a man. Now

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01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,959
Speaker 7: you get in there as a support system and try

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01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 7: to make him a better man. Same thing with a woman.

1274
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 7: You marry a woman to make her a better woman.

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01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 2: That's man.

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01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 7: Y'all got to compliment each other, and they got nothing

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01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 7: going on right here. I don't even see why you're

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01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 7: married his dude. They don't have nothing in comment. He

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01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 7: don't do nothing. He ain't got nothing in common with

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01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 7: your daddy, your brother. I never thought it would be

1281
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 7: this big of a problem. Is it best to postpone

1282
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 7: the wedding till he grows up? He's not going to

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01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 7: grow up. Do you know how far behind he is

1284
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 7: right now? His mama been buying his clothes to he

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01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 7: twenty six. I'm just telling you right now, I've never

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01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 7: heard that before. I don't know no man who mama

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01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 7: bought their clothes till he was twenty six.

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01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 2: Now. I know some men that lived at their mama.

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01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 7: House till they were thirty something, But they was never

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01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 7: in a real relationship. Ain't no woman signing up for that.

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01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:20,600
Speaker 7: I don't know why you was signed up for this.

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01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:23,599
Speaker 7: You know what I think you should do. I think

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01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 7: you should ask him to leave your house until he

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01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 7: grows up. And then while he over there growing up,

1295
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 7: you need to go find somebody that's already grown. That's

1296
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 7: my strong suggestion to you, because you finna waste your life.

1297
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 7: You're going to spend years of misery with this boy.

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01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 7: This boy right here, he don't have it. He just

1299
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 7: don't have it. And I know it's one. I don't

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01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 7: have a word from him. I don't know what he's

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01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 7: thinking of doing. But you everything you put in the

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01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 7: let he ain't doing. He ain't doing nothing.

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Speaker 11: I leave him why you We post your comments on

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01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 2: Picked it.

1326
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 12: The Dolphins over the command of sixteen to thirteen.

1327
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 2: Picked it.

1328
01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 12: The Stealers beat the Brakes off the Bengals thirty four

1329
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:13,839
Speaker 12: to twelve.

1330
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 2: Picked it.

1331
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:16,639
Speaker 13: Oh, man, here we go.

1332
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:20,439
Speaker 12: The Jaguars man beat the Chargers thirty five to six.

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01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 12: I don't think if you want to say nothing on that.

1334
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 12: Here we go the Bill. The Bills showed out man.

1335
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 12: They beat the Buccaneers forty four to thirty two.

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01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:35,760
Speaker 13: Ok Yes, you did man.

1337
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:38,959
Speaker 12: Here go to the Chicago Bears beating the Vikings nineteen

1338
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 12: to seventeen.

1339
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 1: Picked it the Texans, the.

1340
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:46,639
Speaker 12: Houston Texas over the Titans, my team, man, sixteen to thirteen.

1341
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 2: I picked it, Yes, you did.

1342
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 13: Here we go to Panthers.

1343
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:55,160
Speaker 12: The Panthers beat the Falcons thirty to twenty seven.

1344
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:56,360
Speaker 2: Picked it.

1345
01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 12: The Packers over the Jet Giens twenty seven to twenty.

1346
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 2: Uh, picked it?

1347
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:06,799
Speaker 1: Oh you tired?

1348
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:07,200
Speaker 8: All right?

1349
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 12: Here we go the Ranger after Seahawks to twenty one

1350
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 12: to nineteen.

1351
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 2: Picked it. Here we call.

1352
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 12: The forty nine Ers beat the Cardinals forty one to

1353
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 12: twenty two.

1354
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 2: Uh that one, junior, No, un, you didn't get that,

1355
01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:28,120
Speaker 2: you said, here we go?

1356
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 7: That did?

1357
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:30,120
Speaker 2: That didn't feel right to me?

1358
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:34,600
Speaker 13: Yeah, I didn't feel right, all right. The Ravens.

1359
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 12: The Ravens beat the Browns twenty three to sixteen.

1360
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 2: Did you pick yeah?

1361
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,679
Speaker 13: No, no, no, you picked the Ravens.

1362
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 2: I know he didn't pick the Ravens. Yeah. I'm not

1363
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 2: stupid though, so he picked it. Hey, I know you

1364
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 2: got in the game.

1365
01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:54,719
Speaker 13: Yes, he did get in the game, man.

1366
01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:56,599
Speaker 2: Thank you man, and we had home.

1367
01:12:57,880 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 13: He did.

1368
01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 7: He looked way more like a quarterback than that little

1369
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 7: boy Dylan whatever his name is did he get a

1370
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 7: concursion dog he had? He had he could have had that.

1371
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 7: He been throwing like that. Oh he had the concussion.

1372
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

1373
01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 12: He would go up the Eagles over the Lions sixteen

1374
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:19,759
Speaker 12: to nine.

1375
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, and you picked the Eagles with you?

1376
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,599
Speaker 13: Would you went with the Detroit Yeah?

1377
01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:32,280
Speaker 12: Man, but man, shout out your Sanders. Man, it's gonna

1378
01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 12: be all right.

1379
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 6: Man.

1380
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 7: He got in there and the shout out to pimping

1381
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 7: because the picks was on fire this week on the

1382
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 7: roll right now.

1383
01:13:41,200 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 13: Man, it's a great week.

1384
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 2: Man. Well, he's gonna be hard to deal with this week.

1385
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:50,720
Speaker 11: All right, Junior, thank you, congratulations Steve. Coming up at

1386
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 11: the top of the hour, woman needs some advice of

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01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 11: social media. She said, I overheard the stepmom's real plans.

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01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 11: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 11: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1390
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 2: All right.

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01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 11: This is from Anonymous on Steve Harvey FM. Anonymous says,

1392
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 11: about six months ago, my sixty year old dad got

1393
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 11: remarried to a twenty eight year old woman. I was

1394
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 11: visiting my Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was visiting my dad

1395
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,280
Speaker 11: for the weekend, and I overheard a phone call this.

1396
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 1: Wife was having while dad was out.

1397
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 11: She was laughing about how it's not that pathetic and

1398
01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 11: she only has to stick it out for a couple

1399
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:35,559
Speaker 11: of years and she can cash out in the divorce.

1400
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:39,679
Speaker 11: She also said some downright rude and disrespectful things about

1401
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 11: my dad. I want to pull my dad to the

1402
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:44,160
Speaker 11: side and talk to him about it, but I also

1403
01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 11: know it would break him to know what was being

1404
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 11: said behind his back. And there's also a chance that

1405
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 11: he might not even believe me, since it was clear

1406
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 11: that I wasn't a big fan of my mom and

1407
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 11: him getting divorced back in the day in the first place.

1408
01:14:57,840 --> 01:14:59,479
Speaker 1: What should I do?

1409
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 7: Well, what you should have did? But it's too late.

1410
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 7: You should have busted hubside.

1411
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 18: You say that that's what you should have did.

1412
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 2: Should have just rolled up on it and walked them.

1413
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 11: Too late for that, huh yeah, uh.

1414
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 7: Oh, it would have been really smart if you could

1415
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 7: have recorded it.

1416
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah.

1417
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 2: But you're probably old and didn't think of that in time,

1418
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:32,679
Speaker 2: because these kids got it quick.

1419
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 7: Oh man, Yeah, yeah, it probably is.

1420
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:42,519
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1421
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 11: So she shouldn't tell her dad though, Is that what

1422
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:48,280
Speaker 11: you're saying? She shouldn't say anything to her dad about

1423
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 11: what she overheard.

1424
01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 2: You might not.

1425
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 7: Believe that, but I just don't hate dad.

1426
01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 2: Listen to me. Be careful because I overheard her having

1427
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:58,000
Speaker 2: a conversation.

1428
01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:00,519
Speaker 7: I know you're not gonna believe it if I told

1429
01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 7: you what I heard, But Daddy, please be careful.

1430
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 2: Because she ain't right.

1431
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:09,280
Speaker 3: She's got to work to your father.

1432
01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah. But is he going to believe it though?

1433
01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 17: Is he?

1434
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 11: You know?

1435
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: Is he gonna? I mean, but she told him because

1436
01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:20,200
Speaker 1: once he finds out, she goes.

1437
01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:23,839
Speaker 6: I tried to tell you, Daddy, right now, he's enjoying life.

1438
01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 6: His eyes are rolled in the back of his head.

1439
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:29,200
Speaker 6: Every other night, he's he's going through some amazing things.

1440
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:32,000
Speaker 2: Right. No, no, not every other night. She's sick. You

1441
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:35,479
Speaker 2: don't think so, not every other night?

1442
01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 1: He said, how many times, Steve? You think twice?

1443
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? A few times a month? You know? Okay? All right,

1444
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 2: that's okay.

1445
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:49,719
Speaker 11: But she's got it all planned out a couple of years.

1446
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 11: A divorce should cash out in the divorce in a

1447
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:54,360
Speaker 11: couple of years.

1448
01:16:55,240 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 7: Wow, Yeah, you got this playing the old digger play.

1449
01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 2: That's why you know? You got to make sure somebody

1450
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 2: marry you for you?

1451
01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:09,240
Speaker 1: And how do you do that.

1452
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 20: Says the rich a lot of tish, got a lot

1453
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 20: say nothing known, but you got to put a lot

1454
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 20: of tests in the beginning.

1455
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:32,240
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, in the beginning, Okay, all right, we know

1456
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 11: we have time for another one. This is from Rob

1457
01:17:35,880 --> 01:17:39,479
Speaker 11: on Steve HARVEFM. Rob says, my wife recently got a

1458
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 11: new job, and she really seems to be enjoying it,

1459
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 11: particularly because her coworkers are so cool. Yesterday she came

1460
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 11: home talking about some new girl that she met there

1461
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 11: by the name of Lolita. After a brief description of Lolita,

1462
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 11: I knew, without a shadow of a doubt that this

1463
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:58,599
Speaker 11: was the same Loalita I kicked it with a couple

1464
01:17:58,600 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 11: of months before I met my wife. It was never

1465
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 11: anything serious, but we were really into each other. My

1466
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 11: wife is going to suggest meeting up with some of

1467
01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:11,080
Speaker 11: her work friends, including Lolita, and it could get a

1468
01:18:11,080 --> 01:18:13,800
Speaker 11: bit awkward. So do I wait it out and hope

1469
01:18:13,800 --> 01:18:15,760
Speaker 11: for the best. Or do I let the situation be

1470
01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:17,200
Speaker 11: known and hope for the best.

1471
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 2: Boy, not open your mouth.

1472
01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: He can't say anything.

1473
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:30,439
Speaker 7: Do not do not open your mouth. Just off a

1474
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,640
Speaker 7: description you know that Lolita or.

1475
01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:41,280
Speaker 2: By the hut your mouth? All right? All right?

1476
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 11: You heard it from CLO. All right, coming up, we'll

1477
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:47,839
Speaker 11: have more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1478
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 1: Right after this.

1479
01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 2: I ain't going to lunch with him.

1480
01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:52,920
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1481
01:18:57,120 --> 01:18:59,840
Speaker 11: Having a six figure salary doesn't mean what it used

1482
01:18:59,880 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 11: to mean, as a third of those earners now say

1483
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:07,640
Speaker 11: they're financially distressed, according to a new Harris poll. Surprisingly,

1484
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:09,679
Speaker 11: a lot of those making at least one hundred thousand

1485
01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 11: dollars are living paycheck to paycheck. Is three quarters of

1486
01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 11: them admit to using a credit card recently because they

1487
01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 11: ran out of cash before they got paid. So here's

1488
01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:26,200
Speaker 11: a question for you, guys, is well, Steve not you necessarily, Yeah,

1489
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:31,799
Speaker 11: question is yeah, just for gicks, Is a six figure

1490
01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:33,720
Speaker 11: income a sign of wealth to you?

1491
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 1: That's question A. That's that's number one. Is that a sign?

1492
01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 2: I mean you know, that's that's a good living man.

1493
01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, that puts you in.

1494
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:46,720
Speaker 7: That puts you in the upper echelon people in the

1495
01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:50,800
Speaker 7: United States. Really, Yeah, one hundred thousand dollars a year,

1496
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 7: that puts you in the upper echelon.

1497
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 10: Man.

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01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 11: Well, the people that are making that are saying they're

1499
01:19:57,280 --> 01:20:01,160
Speaker 11: living paycheck to paycheck and they're financially distressed right now.

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01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 7: So well, the reason is, no matter how much you make,

1501
01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 7: you can live above your means.

1502
01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:09,679
Speaker 1: True, true, very true.

1503
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:13,720
Speaker 7: One hundred thousand dollars, take care of all your needs.

1504
01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:16,799
Speaker 7: What gets you into trouble is your.

1505
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 18: Won'ts Hello okay, well said, well, yeah, that's that's where

1506
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 18: your trouble get in at. Yeah, I been knees, ain't nothing.

1507
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 18: One hundred thousand dollars.

1508
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:28,599
Speaker 2: You good man. All you got to do is quick,

1509
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,920
Speaker 2: won't stuff won't? I won't?

1510
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you do that?

1511
01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 9: Right?

1512
01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:35,840
Speaker 2: That won't last?

1513
01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 5: Thank you?

1514
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 1: Guys, coming up, we'll play around it, would you rather?

1515
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're.

1516
01:20:41,080 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 11: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays,

1517
01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:51,720
Speaker 11: it's hard to find the right gifts, but you know

1518
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 11: what's even harder getting the right gift. But get this,

1519
01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:59,600
Speaker 11: Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. They have in

1520
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:03,559
Speaker 11: edible gift bundles. You get the latest phone with a

1521
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:06,760
Speaker 11: new line on my plan, and a brand new smartwatch

1522
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 11: and tablet, no trade in needed. You can give a

1523
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 11: couple away and get yourself one too, or you can

1524
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:15,960
Speaker 11: keep them all to yourself. No one has to know,

1525
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:19,880
Speaker 11: stop by your local Verizon and it's time now for

1526
01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:22,799
Speaker 11: a round it would you rather? Would you rather spend

1527
01:21:22,800 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 11: the day on a farm or go to three Broadway

1528
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 11: plays back to back.

1529
01:21:27,960 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 2: A day on the phone?

1530
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:35,160
Speaker 6: Fall for real, three play, I'm gonna be back to

1531
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 6: back Broadway.

1532
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:37,000
Speaker 1: That's what.

1533
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 2: Time square if we go?

1534
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:43,599
Speaker 1: And what are you going to be doing on the farm?

1535
01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 2: Yo? Them too right there every ding?

1536
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:50,120
Speaker 1: What are you going to be doing this?

1537
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:50,599
Speaker 5: Dog?

1538
01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 2: I can plow, I can.

1539
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:58,200
Speaker 7: Man, I can move, I got I got, I got

1540
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:00,559
Speaker 7: stuff to do on my red t out. They get

1541
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:04,519
Speaker 7: some crops, I can harvest some vegetables. I can man.

1542
01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 7: I can go out.

1543
01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 2: There, get my hedgehog out.

1544
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 7: I can cut a feel, I can go fishing. Yeah,

1545
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 7: I can a Broadway plate and they start singing and.

1546
01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:19,759
Speaker 2: Heal myself.

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Speaker 12: Tell me, I mean, I don't understand Broadbay like that.

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Speaker 12: But I can't see myself saying hey man, I'll be

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Speaker 12: right back. I'm going to catch cats.

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Speaker 2: I can't see you milking no cow on that floor.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather.

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Speaker 11: Not be able to watch the entire NFL season, including

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01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:45,200
Speaker 11: the playoffs and the Super Bowl, or not eat chicken

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01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:47,440
Speaker 11: or fish for the next six months?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:52,920
Speaker 2: Not eat chicken a fish. Oh no, we're gonna watch fish.

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01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:58,200
Speaker 2: It's no way. Wow, steak in football. That's pretty good.

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01:22:58,280 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 2: I'm good with that. Yeah, hot dogs, amberger Lamb, we

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Speaker 2: do that all right.

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Speaker 11: Would you rather have a thirty minute conversation with your

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01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 11: past or a thirty minute conversation with your future self?

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01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:11,720
Speaker 2: Oh? Both of them?

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01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: Supoth you got that right? That's all I see.

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01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 2: You're about the last week or next week? Whoever? Were

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01:23:20,439 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 2: talking to this? Talk the future? Yeah?

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01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:25,519
Speaker 1: The future junior?

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01:23:25,880 --> 01:23:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 13: Is we still sick? Have we found yet?

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Speaker 6: No?

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01:23:34,439 --> 01:23:35,680
Speaker 13: All right, I see what I get to.

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01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:40,000
Speaker 11: I like it, Steve, where are you?

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01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:43,719
Speaker 1: I need to know your past or your future? Thirty minutes?

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01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 17: Now?

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01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 2: I know my past.

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01:23:45,120 --> 01:23:47,760
Speaker 7: I love to talk to my future, even though that's impossible,

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01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:50,479
Speaker 7: but I love them. Let him know I'm coming, and

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01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:53,519
Speaker 7: you know, uh huh what I like to have him

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01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 7: have prepared when I get there.

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Speaker 1: A billion dollars status.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what.

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01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:01,720
Speaker 7: I don't need to say nothing to my past. Matter

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01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 7: of fact, my past need to stay right where it isn't.

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01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:08,880
Speaker 2: Don't need make no appearances, no, no, none of that.

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01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 2: He don't need to make no appeance. He's retired.

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01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:15,800
Speaker 1: Would you rather fight?

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01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:16,320
Speaker 9: Uh?

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01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:18,280
Speaker 11: Oh, I think we're out of time, but I was

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01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:20,519
Speaker 11: gonna ask you guys, if you'd rather fight a gorilla

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01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 11: or a rhino?

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01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:25,400
Speaker 1: And you're dead?

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01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going this gorilla though.

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01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:33,519
Speaker 1: That's today's rounded. Would you rather Coming up next?

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Speaker 11: It is our last break of the day, and we'll

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Speaker 11: have some closing remarks from the one and only Steve

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Speaker 11: Harvey right after this.

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Speaker 11: last break of the day. It's a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening. As always, I appreciate you. Yeah. See,

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01:25:26,320 --> 01:25:28,040
Speaker 1: if you have some words of wisdom for us to

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01:25:28,080 --> 01:25:29,120
Speaker 1: take us out of here.

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01:25:29,360 --> 01:25:30,120
Speaker 2: Well you know.

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01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:33,519
Speaker 7: Junia asked me something at the beginning of the day.

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01:25:34,840 --> 01:25:36,960
Speaker 7: Junior asked me, He said, how do you keep your

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01:25:37,040 --> 01:25:44,200
Speaker 7: walk with God vibrant? Well, I think because I'm human.

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01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:50,280
Speaker 7: I think life has caused me to keep it intact.

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01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:54,120
Speaker 7: And oh, I've gotten the more intact it is. I

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01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:58,840
Speaker 7: don't the word vibrant. Sometimes I'm not the person I

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01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:01,800
Speaker 7: need to be in my relationship with God, so I

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01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:05,120
Speaker 7: guess it's not as vibrant in those moments. Sometimes I'm

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01:26:05,120 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 7: not as connected to God as I need to be

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01:26:08,240 --> 01:26:12,960
Speaker 7: for whatever the reason, I'm allowing the world to occupy

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01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 7: my mind. Or sometimes I think about my problems more

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01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:24,280
Speaker 7: than I think about God, when clearly I know that

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01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:27,840
Speaker 7: I have no problems bigger than my God. And I

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01:26:27,960 --> 01:26:31,760
Speaker 7: know this, but sometimes, as a human, I sit there

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01:26:31,760 --> 01:26:35,719
Speaker 7: and allow the problems to evade into my mental space

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01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:39,759
Speaker 7: and allow me sometimes to become a little bit sadden

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01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 7: or worrisome or doubtful, or feel pressure when I know.

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01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:51,120
Speaker 2: I don't have to. What keeps mind.

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01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:57,280
Speaker 7: Relationship vibrant is just life, man, It's just life just

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01:26:57,360 --> 01:27:01,519
Speaker 7: keeps on coming at me. And I don't have time

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01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:05,559
Speaker 7: to not have God close to me because it's just

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01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 7: too much. And I don't know, and that's for everybody.

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01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 7: I don't care who you are. It's all relative. You

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01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:15,599
Speaker 7: don't have to have my life to think it can

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01:27:15,680 --> 01:27:19,640
Speaker 7: be a bit much. Sometimes your life right where it

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01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:22,880
Speaker 7: is can be a bit much. Trust and believe you

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01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,120
Speaker 7: ain't got to be me to have a life that's

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01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:28,559
Speaker 7: a bit much. All of us, at one point in

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01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 7: time feels that our life is a bit much. Can

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01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:32,400
Speaker 7: I get an amen?

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01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:33,760
Speaker 2: Amen?

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01:27:34,120 --> 01:27:34,559
Speaker 9: Amen?

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01:27:34,640 --> 01:27:34,960
Speaker 1: Again?

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01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:38,880
Speaker 7: I don't know anybody who don't from time to time

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01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:42,240
Speaker 7: think that life is a bit much. But the one

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01:27:42,320 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 7: thing that the constant that I always know is is

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01:27:47,520 --> 01:27:51,519
Speaker 7: that when it becomes a bit much, it don't have

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01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:57,200
Speaker 7: to stay that way because I can actually turn it

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01:27:57,240 --> 01:28:00,960
Speaker 7: over to God. I can actually take it to God,

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01:28:01,080 --> 01:28:03,760
Speaker 7: let him have it and give him permission to handle it.

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01:28:03,880 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 7: But you have a choice in the matter. Now, that's

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01:28:05,880 --> 01:28:08,240
Speaker 7: the thing, and you got to make the decision to

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01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:12,040
Speaker 7: use that option. You know, old people say, if you're

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01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:14,080
Speaker 7: gonna pray about it, don't worry about it. If you're

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01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:16,680
Speaker 7: gonna worry about it, then don't pray about it.

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Speaker 2: But that's a human being.

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Speaker 7: You get caught in that middle sometimes where you worried

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01:28:21,240 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 7: about it for a longer period than you need to.

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Speaker 7: But when I like, it's been something that's been pressing

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01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 7: on me the last couple of days. Finally, last night

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01:28:31,520 --> 01:28:34,280
Speaker 7: me and my wife was praying about it, and all

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01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:36,599
Speaker 7: of a sudden, today I feel a whole lot better

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01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:39,680
Speaker 7: about it because I gave it to God. Because you

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01:28:39,720 --> 01:28:42,719
Speaker 7: ever had something happen and you just ain't got no answer?

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01:28:44,200 --> 01:28:46,640
Speaker 7: Have you ever had something happen to you and it

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01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:49,160
Speaker 7: left you in a state of going like, Man, what

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01:28:49,280 --> 01:28:50,479
Speaker 7: am I gonna do?

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01:28:51,720 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 2: Have you ever hello? Hello?

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01:28:57,200 --> 01:28:59,960
Speaker 7: Don't sit out there and act like I just just steve.

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01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:06,240
Speaker 7: I'm talking to everybody right now. You remember, just recently,

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01:29:06,520 --> 01:29:10,519
Speaker 7: while you was questioning everything, You remember not having an

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01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:15,599
Speaker 7: answer to nothing. When you get that way, remember God

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01:29:15,720 --> 01:29:19,920
Speaker 7: is available twenty four seven, and God has an answer,

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01:29:20,120 --> 01:29:24,880
Speaker 7: He has a response God. It ain't confusing to God.

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01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:30,280
Speaker 7: God don't need clarity. God got answer for everything. God

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01:29:30,320 --> 01:29:33,840
Speaker 7: got to fix for it. You just got to be

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01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:37,360
Speaker 7: smart enough to trust an't even go to it. But

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Speaker 7: then ain't that the problem?

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01:29:38,680 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 2: Though?

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01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 7: Ain't that the problem? Too many times we allow our

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01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:49,080
Speaker 7: problems to be bigger than our God. When you have

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01:29:49,240 --> 01:29:53,240
Speaker 7: no problem bigger than God. You just don't. And once

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01:29:53,280 --> 01:29:56,439
Speaker 7: you come to that understanding, you realize that you have

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01:29:56,479 --> 01:30:04,599
Speaker 7: a very present help, very present help. So to say,

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Speaker 7: how do I keep my relationship vibrant? What I just

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01:30:08,040 --> 01:30:10,080
Speaker 7: try to do, Junior, to be honest with you, is

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01:30:10,120 --> 01:30:15,400
Speaker 7: to keep it consistent. I try to pray every day.

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01:30:16,120 --> 01:30:20,200
Speaker 7: I try to confide in Him all the time. Man,

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01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:22,320
Speaker 7: I have learned as I've gotten over, I go to

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01:30:22,360 --> 01:30:28,160
Speaker 7: God with everything what to do next. One of my

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01:30:28,280 --> 01:30:32,800
Speaker 7: biggest prayers is, Lord, order my steps, Just take me

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01:30:32,840 --> 01:30:35,320
Speaker 7: in the direction you want me to go, and then

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01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:39,600
Speaker 7: help me make the right decision. Just last night, me

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01:30:39,640 --> 01:30:42,880
Speaker 7: and my wife was praying that God removes the people

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01:30:42,960 --> 01:30:46,200
Speaker 7: from our life and our path that we don't need

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01:30:46,280 --> 01:30:48,519
Speaker 7: in our way because they ain't nothing but the hinders.

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01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:53,000
Speaker 7: We just had that prayer last night to remove people

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01:30:53,040 --> 01:30:56,880
Speaker 7: from our life who could be a hindrance and get

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01:30:56,920 --> 01:31:01,040
Speaker 7: in the way of what God got for us. Belly,

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Speaker 7: That's really the best way I'll keep my faith life.

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Speaker 2: Vibrant.

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Speaker 7: Prayer Man, Prayer works, y'all. Prayer works. Don't you let

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01:31:13,600 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 7: nobody tell you it?

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Speaker 2: Don't.

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01:31:15,640 --> 01:31:19,240
Speaker 7: Don't you let nobody tell you God ain't listening. God

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01:31:19,280 --> 01:31:23,320
Speaker 7: hear everything. But are you talking to him though? Are

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01:31:23,320 --> 01:31:25,240
Speaker 7: you really earnestly talking to him?

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Speaker 2: Y'all?

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01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:33,800
Speaker 7: Prayer works, it does. Prayer really works. Go sit down

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01:31:33,840 --> 01:31:35,599
Speaker 7: and talk to some people at the New Lord for

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01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 7: a while. Prayer works. Man, better get you some. Don't

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01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:45,320
Speaker 7: forget to pray, y'all, all right, don't forget because prayer

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01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:49,280
Speaker 7: changes things. Prayer change people too. Y'all, have a great

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01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:52,439
Speaker 7: day today. Talk to God. He would love to hear

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01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:55,439
Speaker 7: from me, and he got an answer for you too.

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