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Speaker 1: second dat Day. Everybody has their type when it comes
Speaker 1: to dating. There's some guys that like blonde girls, some
Speaker 1: guys that like brunett's, some guys that like women whose
Speaker 1: hair is graying and needs to be dyed to be
Speaker 1: blonde or brunette. Sort of like Henry, who's on the
Speaker 1: phone with us right now. Henry likes the old ladies.
Speaker 1: At least that's what his email said, Henry, how are
Speaker 1: you doing all right? How were you good? So your
Speaker 1: email said that you like elderly women. Huh not elderly women? Yeah?
Speaker 1: How old are we talking? Like? You know, fifteen twenty
Speaker 1: years older than me? WHOA, that's you're like the opposite.
Speaker 1: I like it in the other direction. I like fifteen
Speaker 1: to twenty years younger. But why do you like the
Speaker 1: older women? Henry? Just morse stuff to talk about, don't
Speaker 1: a lot to talk about? School and what you're gonna do?
Speaker 1: And yeah, and they can they pretty much like you know,
Speaker 1: mostly they've figured out what they're doing. Yeah, and they
Speaker 1: can educate you on things like the Great Depression they
Speaker 1: have lived through. How old are you, Henry twenty two? Wow,
Speaker 1: you are young? So you like to go out with
Speaker 1: women who are in their forties? Yes, okay, tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit about the girl who you want us
Speaker 1: to call it. Well, I shouldn't call her a girl.
Speaker 1: The woman who you want us to call the day.
Speaker 1: Her name is Jody. Okay. We met in a gardening
Speaker 1: expos like the Garden Expo for old ladies. Well, like,
Speaker 1: it's harder to meet women that are older than I am,
Speaker 1: and uh no, this is a place that I've found work.
Speaker 1: Did you go to the garden Expo to specifically find
Speaker 1: a woman or did you happen to be there hanging out? No? Like, no,
Speaker 1: I go there. I don't go there just a you know,
Speaker 1: troll for women. But I mean, you know, I look
Speaker 1: around and I try to meet people, Maybe strikes up
Speaker 1: the conversation, go out, maybe have a romantic time. So
Speaker 1: how does one hit on somebody at a gardening expo?
Speaker 1: Take me through that. Well, she was standing there looking
Speaker 1: at an exhibit. I saw her. I walked over and said, Hi,
Speaker 1: my name's Henry, and she introduced herself and we started chatting. Okay,
Speaker 1: and you asked her out right then and there, but
Speaker 1: immediately okay, we walked around and looked at some different stuff,
Speaker 1: and then I did ask if she wanted to go out?
Speaker 1: And what was her response? Because I just imagine, I mean,
Speaker 1: how old is she? Again? Just four? You probably looked
Speaker 1: twenty two? Right? It a beard? Okay, extra years? Yeah,
Speaker 1: But I think if if I'm forty four and a
Speaker 1: twenty two year old girl asked me out, I'd be
Speaker 1: excited about that. I think that women would probably feel
Speaker 1: the same way, like, oh, this little twenty two year
Speaker 1: old wants a piece of mama. What did she say?
Speaker 1: She looked flattered, and she gave me her number. Nice
Speaker 1: and I told her I'd call her. You got to
Speaker 1: call her, by the way, you can't text her. You
Speaker 1: actually to call and it's a landline at her house.
Speaker 1: That's funny. So what did you guys do when you
Speaker 1: actually went out? We had some Mexican food and we
Speaker 1: had a good time, had some margarins. Was how was
Speaker 1: the conversation between you two? It was good. We talked
Speaker 1: about you know, cooking and stuff and travel and film.
Speaker 1: Did the age gap ever, like become an issue? Um,
Speaker 1: not really. I mean I kind of am into older
Speaker 1: stuff anyway, and it just works out. Okay, we went
Speaker 1: out dancing after dinner, went to a club. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we got to the club and got some drinks and
Speaker 1: danced for a long time. It was fun with eighties night.
Speaker 1: So they're playing a lot of music from her youth.
Speaker 1: And was there chemistry between you guys? You know, it's
Speaker 1: funny because I thought she was she might be uncomfortable
Speaker 1: because there were so many people so much younger than
Speaker 1: her there, But she seemed super into it and like
Speaker 1: just kind of in her element. Yeah, that's what I
Speaker 1: was going to ask you if you took her to
Speaker 1: like a club where there was a bunch of twenty
Speaker 1: two year olds and then like she was one of
Speaker 1: the oldest people there, or it was a lot of
Speaker 1: young like a lot of people in my age, I guess, okay,
Speaker 1: And she seemed to enjoy herself. Oh yeah, she may
Speaker 1: have been having more fun than I was, all right,
Speaker 1: had have been like two decades since she's been out
Speaker 1: to a club. I mean, maybe she seemed to be
Speaker 1: having a blast and like super excited that this was happening.
Speaker 1: We're talking about her like she's an eighty year old
Speaker 1: she was gonna break a hip on the dance floor
Speaker 1: or something like that. I mean, yeah, all right, So anyway,
Speaker 1: it seems like I had a good time, and you
Speaker 1: can't understand why she's not calling you back. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: it's just hard to meet quality women like this, so
Speaker 1: I appreciate the help. All Right, Well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: hang up brooking Cuban in the morning. Second updates if
Speaker 1: you're just joining us for today's second date update. Henry
Speaker 1: is on the phone. Henry has very specific taste in ladies.
Speaker 1: He likes them aged like a fine wine. He likes
Speaker 1: the old ones. He likes him to be about twenty
Speaker 1: years older than he is. He's twenty two, and he
Speaker 1: wants us to call a girl to day who is
Speaker 1: forty four. They ended up meeting at a gardening expo
Speaker 1: because that's where he goes to meet his women. They
Speaker 1: ended up going to dinner out to a club. Says
Speaker 1: that they had a great time and can't figure out
Speaker 1: why she's not calling him back, and Henry, I never
Speaker 1: asked you this when I talk to you just a
Speaker 1: second ago. But I'm curious because I have a buddy
Speaker 1: who actually does this. He loves to date women that
Speaker 1: are in their forties even fifties, because he says that
Speaker 1: they're easy. Is that why you do this? No, not
Speaker 1: at all. No, you didn't even he didn't even make
Speaker 1: a move on or did you? Like you guys didn't
Speaker 1: even kiss at the end of the night. No, we didn't,
Speaker 1: just other than dancing very close. And then my friend
Speaker 1: says that basically a kiss at the end of the
Speaker 1: night is like going all the way with these ladies
Speaker 1: like that. For them, that's a kiss. So I'm surprised
Speaker 1: that you didn't get any, you know, because their time's
Speaker 1: running out. They gotta get it in while they can. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just really enjoyed the conversation. All right, Okay, I
Speaker 1: know you guys are like laughing and joking about this,
Speaker 1: But I like older women because they're very attractive to me,
Speaker 1: and they're just more mature and they have more to
Speaker 1: talk about them. I guess what's the latest Kardashian episode. See,
Speaker 1: I'm the opposite. I like younger women because they are
Speaker 1: less mature and they haven't been completely ruined yet by another.
Speaker 1: So I like to be the guy that just ruins
Speaker 1: their life. Do you sound like you're horrible to day?
Speaker 1: I am about right? Actually am? So that's cool? All right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the phone of her right now. So's
Speaker 1: gonna get on the phone. You're ready? Yeah? Okay? Hello?
Speaker 1: Can I speak to Jodie please? This is she? Hi, Jody?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who Jebil from Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning, the radio show. Oh okay, Hi, Hi, how
Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? What can I do for you? Well?
Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because one of our listeners recently
Speaker 1: send us an email about you. They did, yep, they did.
Speaker 1: His name is Henry, and you guys recently went on
Speaker 1: a date. Okay, yes, I remember Henry. Okay, Well, Henry
Speaker 1: really enjoyed your time together, and he emailed us because
Speaker 1: apparently you're not calling him back and he would love
Speaker 1: to see you again. So he asked us if we
Speaker 1: could get you on the phone and find out why. Okay,
Speaker 1: I think that was good. I don't really understand this.
Speaker 1: So it's a segment that we do on our show
Speaker 1: called the second Date Update. Basically, if a listener goes
Speaker 1: out with someone and then gets blown off, they email
Speaker 1: us to see if we can get that person on
Speaker 1: the phone and ask why so Henry. Henry thinks that
Speaker 1: you've blown him off and don't want to see him again,
Speaker 1: but he's curious to find out if he did something
Speaker 1: wrong on the date or if you just don't like him. Oh,
Speaker 1: do you mind talking to us for a couple of
Speaker 1: minutes and just telling us a little bit about your
Speaker 1: date with Henry? Sure? I guess I can. Okay, So
Speaker 1: first of all, I guess tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about Henry. Did you like him? Oh? He was very
Speaker 1: nice and sweet and I enjoyed his company. Okay, were
Speaker 1: shocked when he first he asked you out on a date?
Speaker 1: A little? A little, but you know, he was very
Speaker 1: nice and we seem to have some things to talk about.
Speaker 1: So I went, were you shocked because of his age difference?
Speaker 1: He did tell us that he's quite a bit younger
Speaker 1: than you. Yes, he is, And I was a little
Speaker 1: comfortable telling him my age at first, because I didn't
Speaker 1: know if he thought I was younger than I am. Okay,
Speaker 1: so when he first started hitting on you were like, uh,
Speaker 1: this kid doesn't know that I'm a lot older than he.
Speaker 1: Kind of yes, you know, I you know, like I said,
Speaker 1: he was a very nice He was very nice man.
Speaker 1: Did you guys went out and seemed to enjoy yourself right,
Speaker 1: I mean, was there something weird that happened in the
Speaker 1: evening to make you not want to go out with
Speaker 1: him again? Well, we were, we were having you know,
Speaker 1: we were fine, but then he started it with in
Speaker 1: the It was in them on the ride out there
Speaker 1: in the car, and it creaked me out a little bit.
Speaker 1: He was being very very He was complimenting me a lot,
Speaker 1: like on the way to the restaurant or when you
Speaker 1: guys were leaving the club when we were well, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: when we were on the way to the restaurant, he
Speaker 1: said something about me having very soft hands like his mom's. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he did. I could see how that would be a
Speaker 1: little weird. So was it right there where you're like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to hang out with
Speaker 1: this guy. Well, I mean I thought maybe he was
Speaker 1: nervous and he was just trying to be nice, so
Speaker 1: I let it go. Then he said that I had
Speaker 1: a really sweet, very calm sort of voice. And then
Speaker 1: he also said like his mom's Oh he gave you
Speaker 1: a couple of compliments and then just said that you
Speaker 1: remind him of his mom. Yeah, did you did you?
Speaker 1: Did you approach that at all? Like, hey, do you
Speaker 1: have moms? I mean, I don't know if you No, No,
Speaker 1: I mean I thought he was nervous. Then we had
Speaker 1: dinner and we had a nice time, and we were drinking.
Speaker 1: We were at the club and we were on the
Speaker 1: dance floor and we were grinding and he was like,
Speaker 1: my mom doesn't do this. No why Maybe he thought
Speaker 1: it was a joke, but you know, and he was
Speaker 1: laughing and I laughed, but no, Um, do you feel
Speaker 1: like he has some sort of weird is she thing
Speaker 1: going on? I hate to just then I did. Then, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was very surprised. I mean, I've you know, I'm
Speaker 1: pretty open, but I don't know about the mom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a little much. I can see why. So that's
Speaker 1: why you're not calling him back and don't want to
Speaker 1: go out with him again. I've been called a cougar,
Speaker 1: but not mom. Creeped me out enough that I think
Speaker 1: this was a one time thing. All right, that is understandable, Jody.
Speaker 1: I should also let you know that Henry is actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening to this conversation. Oh oh, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: do you have anything to say to Jody? Henry? H um,
Speaker 1: oh my god. Well let's say it then, Henry. Uh wow,
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm trying to think about the nights do
Speaker 1: you have telling her that everything she does reminds you
Speaker 1: of your mommy? I don't think I said mommy. Is
Speaker 1: that why you're dating older women, Henry? Because you have
Speaker 1: some weird mom thing happening? No, I was just trying
Speaker 1: to compliment her, And sure it sounds weird now, but
Speaker 1: I didn't then. No, it did sound a little strange.
Speaker 1: It sounded weird. Boy. Uh, I don't know. I I
Speaker 1: just really thought you were cute and liked you. And
Speaker 1: I sorry I brought up my mom too much or
Speaker 1: at all? No, no, thank you, but yeah you did,
Speaker 1: and it's uncomfortable. I mean, I'm I'm pretty open to
Speaker 1: the things, but you know, you brought yourm off and
Speaker 1: I'm a dance floor. That was a lot. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: grinding with your mom a lot, Henry. No, she she
Speaker 1: my mom. I don't think grimes. That's good to know. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't need to know that. Yeah, I mean when
Speaker 1: I said my mom didn't do this on the chance
Speaker 1: we were drinking. It was a joke. It's like a
Speaker 1: fun joke. Okay, it's a joke. If you hadn't already
Speaker 1: brought up your mom and compared her to her two
Speaker 1: other times prior in that, No, you just don't get it.
Speaker 1: It was funny, you know, It's one was like you
Speaker 1: had to be there jokes, Henry. It wasn't funny the
Speaker 1: first time, the second time, and definitely not the third time. Yeah, Henry,
Speaker 1: if you're if you're into dating older women like Jody,
Speaker 1: I don't compare him to your mom. Should be pretty obvious.
Speaker 1: It should be obvious. I mean, just you guys just
Speaker 1: don't understand. I didn't. It was a joke, all right. Well, Jody,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Henry again? You'd
Speaker 1: love to take you out on the second date. We
Speaker 1: will pay for it. No, maybe you should go out
Speaker 1: with his mom. Say that is so something his mom
Speaker 1: would have said. I'm sorry, Henry, you didn't get a
Speaker 1: second date. That's all right. There are plenty more places
Speaker 1: to meet women I'm interested in. Yeah, like at your
Speaker 1: mom's house, your parents house. See that was funny. Yeah,
Speaker 1: broken jupil in the morning,