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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on digging now, one and only Steve Harley got a

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Speaker 1: radio show. Here we go today. I think I have

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Speaker 1: something for a lot of people today, at least I

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Speaker 1: hope I do. And this is about on your journey,

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Speaker 1: And this is about something that happens to us all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what happens to all of us from time

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Speaker 1: all of us when we have that turn back moment.

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Speaker 1: What happens to all of us when it don't seem

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Speaker 1: understand something that everyone, every single living soul has those

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Speaker 1: you know, look, I've oftentimes been discouraged about things not

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Speaker 1: when discouragement comes is understand this. It is a part

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Speaker 1: a test of your faith. How bad you want it,

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Speaker 1: do you really believe? That's all faith is. It's simply

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Speaker 1: and I've said this how many times. Faith is to

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Speaker 1: At least it's been that way for me. Now other

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Speaker 1: I can only give it to you the way it

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Speaker 1: on man on man. Discouragement sometimes it's tough to deal

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Speaker 1: just that the end of you when Milly Milly, it

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Speaker 1: was a test, that's all it is. But the majority

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Speaker 1: it was because at a moment of discouragement that they

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Speaker 1: If it's God's will that you fail. If it's God's

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Speaker 1: That's God's will. That's not the God I know. That's

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Speaker 1: I just my mother always taught me something that he

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Speaker 1: But you can't blame that on God. Now, come on,

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Speaker 1: If you do that, that's how you pass the test.

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Speaker 1: And how do you do that? Steve? Now here we go.

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Speaker 1: What do you do when you become discouraged? Well, I

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Speaker 1: What are the limitless possibilities? What could God possibly have

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Speaker 1: If I pass this test of faith? If I just

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be another one. Life ain't nothing but a

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Speaker 1: Where can this all lead to? What? What can this

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Speaker 1: what's after that? What are the limitless and endless possibilities

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Speaker 1: you gotta talk yourself into hanging in there. You're listening show. Ladies,

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Speaker 1: a gentleman, it is time for the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: It has begun that Steve Harvey Morning Show live on

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Speaker 1: your radio, on your app, on your computer, in your house,

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Speaker 1: your wide work, on the way home, whatever it is

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Speaker 1: calling for real Mississippi Monica Junior, better than on this

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Speaker 1: kid spakes or kid spakes better than on this Junior,

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Speaker 1: and the legend that is Nephew talk, Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: let us begin, Junior, Yes, sir, what's you know? What? Man?

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Speaker 1: Let me just ask you this on because you know

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Speaker 1: like you like what type of people do you like

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Speaker 1: You don't like talking to them. Okay, if you got, yeah,

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Speaker 1: You don't like talking to them. You know, if you

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Speaker 1: if you you know, talking, you can't talk, right, I

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Speaker 1: I know your space inside, in your space and be

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Speaker 1: I am an eye and we know that, and just

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Speaker 1: gone and had a conversation. Don't be standing over that,

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Speaker 1: Assumed that this could be the day too, just if you.

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Speaker 1: If somebody ever said, hey man, you need some minutes,

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Speaker 1: Talk hearty, come home. If you wear glasses, put them

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Speaker 1: What is that your shirt? Say Nike, it's Saint niked man.

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Speaker 1: Where's your glasses? Nike? The damned shirt? Say Nike, show

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Speaker 1: j Hope. That answered your question, Junior. Thank you. Coming

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Speaker 1: up back at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: hear from the nephew as he runs that frank back

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening morning show, All right, it

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Speaker 1: it's time for the nephew to run that prank back.

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Speaker 1: What you got for us? Naw deb Cane and Deborah Cane.

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Speaker 1: This goes out to all the half stylists out there,

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Speaker 1: a matter fact, half stylist and beautitions beauticians. All right,

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Speaker 1: if you under twenty five, you might not know what

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Speaker 1: understand that's something different. Okay, that's a wash and set

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Speaker 1: or washing set. That's what you get at the beautician.

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Speaker 1: tell you something of you. My name is Wayne. You

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Speaker 1: did my aunties how yus today? And now I don't

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Speaker 1: glue you'd use with weaves or whatever. But my auntie

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Speaker 1: your auntie my aunt My auntie is Deborah, and I

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Speaker 1: you gonna introduced me? Yeah? Excuse me, ma'am, I was

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Speaker 1: I'm with him. What is your name, Tino? I'm Keisha? Hello?

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Speaker 1: He lucky you didn't do that? Right? Yeah? All right?

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Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Y'all? Was playing a drinking game.

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Speaker 1: Listen to me, a little girl. You probably need to

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Speaker 1: you who who? What the three people wore? Hello? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all this truth telling. Now she'd rode in on the

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Speaker 1: show and all this here. All you had to do

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Speaker 1: was lie. I've never been with three people, I never

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Speaker 1: tried any drugs. That all you had to do. Simple,

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Speaker 1: We right back to this happy five year relationship. You

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Speaker 1: are telling the damn truth with Joe dumb All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: thank you. See coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have some matter ham of news for you right

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Speaker 1: after this you're listening to. All right, We're gonna start

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Speaker 1: it off with Carla and music news coming in hot, Carlo.

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Speaker 1: What you got? All right? Thank you? Sherley Girl. The

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Speaker 1: notorious b I. G. Will be honored this weekend in

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Speaker 1: New York City on what would have been his fiftieth birthday.

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Speaker 1: The Empire State Building will turn red over the weekend

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Speaker 1: and have a digital crown spinning in its mast. You

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Speaker 1: know the long pole thing anyway. New York City, The

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Speaker 1: Landmark will also host a ceremony for Biggie's friends and

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Speaker 1: family and partnership with bad Boy Atlantic Records, and in

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Speaker 1: his home borough of Brooklyn, Brooklyn in the House. The

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Speaker 1: Barclays Center will show a Biggie video on loop above

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Speaker 1: the arena's entrance, and Amazon has partnered with Beautified Earth

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Speaker 1: to install Biggie. Uh, they're high merles all over the

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Speaker 1: five cities in the boroughs. So that's gonna be nice,

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Speaker 1: nice Biggie tribute this weekend. Yes, and what had been

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Speaker 1: Biggie's fifty birthday, Love me some Biggie. That's nice. And

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Speaker 1: that's music, dudes, big Apple Biggie, Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: That's a great tribute. Well, it is graduation season. And Tommy,

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Speaker 1: your beautiful daughter, you're smart, your genius daughter, Sydney is

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Speaker 1: graduating this weekend from high school. Congratulations. She's had a

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Speaker 1: Texas A and m right, that's right. Then that's your mother. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your your wife's Alma Mata. So how are you feeling

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Speaker 1: right now? Tell us about it? What's going on with you? Uh,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling a little bit. I mean I'm excited that

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Speaker 1: she's graduating. I mean, you know, you look bolded this

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Speaker 1: as a parent, But I think it's just a whole

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Speaker 1: leaving home and my it's my baby girl, my only daughter.

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Speaker 1: So I'm a little concerned. So I'm daddy gonna be

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Speaker 1: doing a little popping up at Texas and him that's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen for show. I'm just gonna pop my ass up.

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Speaker 1: Daddy won't. But why am I thinking bad boys right now?

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Speaker 1: Who is hu? Name? Whats your baby? I'm not. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to embarrass it, but I'm I'm you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm a real part of man. Ain't nothing happened

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Speaker 1: to my little girl, not if I can hold it,

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Speaker 1: not if I can do something about it. So but

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Speaker 1: I gotta trust her, you know, I gotta trust her

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Speaker 1: that that we've instealed everything in it, that she needs

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Speaker 1: to go off and be a lady. So I gotta.

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Speaker 1: I gotta do that. But I'm trusting it. But I'm

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Speaker 1: still popping the hell up to hell. I'm sorry, I'm

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Speaker 1: doing both. Trust I don't trust everybody else. Put it

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Speaker 1: that way. I trust you. I don't up there everybody else. Sidney,

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Speaker 1: your daddy here. What is that? Congratulations Sydney and other

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Speaker 1: graduation news. The graduating class of Clark Atlanta University got

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Speaker 1: more than their diplomas. They got brand new businesses. Commissment

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Speaker 1: speaker Alicia Pinky Cole. We know Alicia Pinky Cole. She

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Speaker 1: is the founder of Atlanta's super famous restaurant Sloody Vegan,

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Speaker 1: and she announced that she's partnered with Vary Bank to

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Speaker 1: provide every single graduate in that audience with a brand

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Speaker 1: new LLLC and a path to entrepreneurship. Every single graduate

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Speaker 1: in this audience will leave this stadium as a business owner.

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Speaker 1: Now that's giving right there, That is giving back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is big. What a graduation gift I know to

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Speaker 1: every student night. Wow, Now you gotta do something about it.

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Speaker 1: You know you get to gift is blessing. You gotta

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Speaker 1: do something about it. I try to tell college students

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Speaker 1: what I meet with them. You've made a major accomplishment.

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Speaker 1: It's a huge thing to get a college degree. I

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Speaker 1: for one, I don't know how you do it. So congratulations,

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Speaker 1: you've accomplished something that's a major milestone in your life.

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Speaker 1: Now that you've done that, what you now have as

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Speaker 1: a piece of paper that will hang on your wall

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Speaker 1: as decoration unless you do something about it. And that's

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Speaker 1: what you got to get the business on. Now. I

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Speaker 1: hate to tell you this, but you've accomplished the easy part.

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Speaker 1: As hard as college was. That's the easy part. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god. What's in front of you

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Speaker 1: is daunting. Get ready? All right? Thank you for that,

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Speaker 1: Steve Well. This next story is an awful story for

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Speaker 1: single women. A woman on TikTok shared a video of

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Speaker 1: her date telling her to either walk home or go

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Speaker 1: back to his place. In the viral video, the female

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Speaker 1: is sitting at the table on a first date with

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Speaker 1: this guy, and after she rejected his invitation to go

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Speaker 1: back to his apartment, he suggested that she started walking home.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen, So you're just gonna sell your phone? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you going to get up and start? Welcome? Why

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Speaker 1: do I have to walk? Like? I mean? But you're

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00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 1: joking here, so I don't get why I'm walking the

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Speaker 1: whole I don't get. That doesn't make me. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to come back to my

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Speaker 1: Place's no point of waste together. So I mean, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I don't want to go to her place

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Speaker 1: because I don't know you well enough. And it's just

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Speaker 1: like our first stop meetings, Like does that not maxis

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Speaker 1: to you? I don't get it. I mean we spend

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Speaker 1: the whole day together. I'm obviously a check to you know.

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Speaker 1: I see the police who is punk? Wow? Man, That's

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Speaker 1: why I'm going up at an right there. It's just

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Speaker 1: the way a lot of these young men are raised

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Speaker 1: and bought up. And uh, I mean the young lady handler,

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Speaker 1: I wish she had just got out the car. Yeah,

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00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 1: and we're right back in that restaurant and called yourself

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Speaker 1: at uber or call somebody you know, sat down and

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00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: just got yourself. You ain't gotta go back and forth

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Speaker 1: with this dude right here. I just feel like I

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Speaker 1: spent a whole day with you, and obviously I'm attracted

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Speaker 1: to you. This is awful. Man. She also gave him

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Speaker 1: money for gas. She paid for both of their bails.

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Speaker 1: Man hugs. Yeah, yeah, all right, Uh listen, coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour, we're gonna switch gears,

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Speaker 1: and our special guests will be the most notable civil

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Speaker 1: rights attorney of our time, Benjamin Crump. Right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, Hey, you all asked, promise we've got our

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Speaker 1: special guests. He is the trial lawyer of our time.

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Speaker 1: He's been on the front lines of some of the

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00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: most notable cases of civil rights and justices. He's joining

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Speaker 1: us today to discuss the racially motivated mass murder that

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Speaker 1: occurred in Buffalo, New York. Please welcome to the show, everybody,

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Speaker 1: our brother Attorney Benjamin Crump. Welcome, Welcome, sir, Good morning,

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Speaker 1: Steve and everybody. It's such an honor to be here

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Speaker 1: with you all to talk about this just incredibly important matter.

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Speaker 1: Attorney Crump, let's do that. What is this exactly? Man?

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Speaker 1: What do we label? Is this as? How do you

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Speaker 1: see it? You know, it is not even beautiful in

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Speaker 1: my mind. This is domestic terrorism. And anybody else who

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Speaker 1: tries to call it anything else has been disingenuous. You know.

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Speaker 1: They called the Oklahoma City Obama's domestic terrorism. They called

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Speaker 1: the Parkland shooting domestic terrorism. And so when this black

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Speaker 1: people who are targeted by young, depray, sick, racist eight

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Speaker 1: yo white supremists in a grocery store that he says

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Speaker 1: in his manifesto, my objective is to kill as many

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Speaker 1: black people as I can. That fits the very definition

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Speaker 1: of domestic carrynism and I quote these domestic terrorism a

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Speaker 1: homegrown terrorism is a form of terrorism in which victims

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Speaker 1: was in a country or targeted by a perpetrator with

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Speaker 1: the same citizenship as the victims. Domestic terrorism is violent

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Speaker 1: criminal at submitted by individuals and our groups to further

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Speaker 1: ideological goals stemming from domestic influences. Attorney Crumpy seems to

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Speaker 1: me as though in this country we have more documented

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Speaker 1: acts of domestic terrorism than we do terrorism from outside

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Speaker 1: the country. Lines Absolutely, the director of the FBI, the

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Speaker 1: greatest threat to American society right now is white supremacy.

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Speaker 1: And so we have to deal with not just the

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Speaker 1: sick individual who did this hate for act, but Steve,

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Speaker 1: but we also have to deal with the root of

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Speaker 1: the hate, and that is these individuals who are inspiring

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Speaker 1: these young, insecure white boys to go out and commit

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Speaker 1: sense let's acts of violence by coming up with these

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Speaker 1: crazy notions like race replacement theory that you should feel

571
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Speaker 1: fear because you're being replacing you gotta do something about it,

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Speaker 1: and it's irresponsible and it's dangerous. Yeah, hey, at tourney, Croma,

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Speaker 1: hold on right there, because when we come back, we

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Speaker 1: want to talk about those two things right there. We'll

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Speaker 1: be back with more Attorney Benjamin Crump right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, everybody, We're back in our special

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Speaker 1: Guests this morning as Attorney Benjamin Crump, and we're dealing

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Speaker 1: with we're talking about this act of domestic terrorism that

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Speaker 1: was perpetrated by this eighteen year old white supremacy in Buffalo,

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Speaker 1: New York. I wanted to ask you a couple of

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Speaker 1: things that we want to talk about. The family Ruthwood

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Speaker 1: feel in a minute, which you're representing, we were talking

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Speaker 1: about race replacement. I want to ask you a question.

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Speaker 1: I'm really I've been watching Fox News and I can

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Speaker 1: honestly say at this point that I actually miss Bill

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Speaker 1: O'Reilly because Bill O'Reilly and Ben Glack Glenn Beck actually

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Speaker 1: had some line that they drew in the sign. You know,

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Speaker 1: every now and then, you know Bill Riley would call

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Speaker 1: out Roun on the right side. This guy, I mean Hannity,

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Speaker 1: but Tucker Carlson is at a level that I've never

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Speaker 1: seen on a TV anchor person in my life. His

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Speaker 1: comments about this eighteen year old white supremacis have been

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Speaker 1: just I mean, this this guy is ridiculous. Man. Do

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Speaker 1: you have any thoughts on the views that they take, Well,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, you know it's thought provoking, mindboggling. It used

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Speaker 1: to be these crazy theories who are just on the

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Speaker 1: fringe of the far right, but now they are making

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Speaker 1: it acceptable in mainstream society to say those things that

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Speaker 1: inspire these young people. And you have it from the

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Speaker 1: cable news provocateurs. You have it from these conservative politicians

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Speaker 1: who are trying to help build and expand their base

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Speaker 1: and are doing it at the expense of knowing that

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Speaker 1: real people are gonna get killed and mass shootings are

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Speaker 1: gonna happen based on what they're saying. We must remember

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Speaker 1: that the Jewish temples in New York, that young white

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Speaker 1: supremac said very similar things to what this young white

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Speaker 1: supremac said about Buffalo, New York shoot and when he

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Speaker 1: talked about in that manifesto that if white people don't

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Speaker 1: do something now, they're gonna take over our country as

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Speaker 1: if we are not Americans. And that is what they

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Speaker 1: push on Fox, that there are some people who are

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Speaker 1: more fit to be American citizens than ore and see

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Speaker 1: I just you know they're saying that you and I

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Speaker 1: and our children. We are not as appropriate to be

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Speaker 1: an American citizens when you think about everything black people

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Speaker 1: has done for America. We built this joint for free,

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Speaker 1: and they still try to say they are more appropriate

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Speaker 1: to be recognized as American citizens than us. That's what

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Speaker 1: we have to call out. That is the root of

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Speaker 1: the hate plan on this spirit insecurity. And if we

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Speaker 1: don't address that, it's not enough just to hold accountable

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Speaker 1: this little racist white board. We have to deal with

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Speaker 1: those journalists who got audience of millions that they are

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Speaker 1: radicalizing every day. I mean they're radicalizing them Steves, just

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00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: like being radicalized young people in their native land to

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Speaker 1: go through crazy sense of sacts of violence. Well, that's

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Speaker 1: what they're doing here with these young white boys, and

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Speaker 1: we have to call it out. We can't call what

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Speaker 1: they do either. And this here is that's evil. No,

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Speaker 1: when you go into a church in South Carolina and

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Speaker 1: you kill none of the most innocent people, you come

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Speaker 1: to Buffalo, you kill tens of the most innocent people were.

633
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: How is that any different what they're doing and they

634
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 1: accused being a loting on them. That's all we're saying.

635
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: We got to call hate, hate and domestic terrorism domestic terrorism.

636
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: And when they try to say, well, we just call

637
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: crime crime when it's Buffalo, but then in Parkland it's

638
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: domestic terrorism. It's the worst thing we've ever seen where

639
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: it's the worst thing that black people ever seen too.

640
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: When you kill us and we keep seeing it over

641
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 1: and over and over. They hang on one more time

642
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: for the Attorney Clump. I want to ask you a

643
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: couple of more questions when we come back. You're listening.

644
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 1: We're back, everybody. We've got our special guests, Attorney Benjamin

645
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: Crump on the phone, and he's on here talking about

646
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: the tragedy that occurred in Buffalo. I wanted to ask

647
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: you something because you're representing the family of Ruth Whitfield,

648
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: the eighty six year old woman who was amongst those

649
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: killed in the two minute attack. How did this come about,

650
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: Attorney Crump? Yeah, you know, Steve, oftentimes when things happen

651
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: to people, especially marginalized people of color, they don't know

652
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: what to do. It is utterly shocking, and so they

653
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: reach out to us because they trust my law firm

654
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: to fight for them, and they understand that, you know,

655
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,879
Speaker 1: they're no guarantees, but they want somebody to at least

656
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: fight for them. And you know, Steve, the reason I

657
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 1: love you so much, brother, You say what you mean,

658
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: and you mean what you say, and I try to

659
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: emulate that. So I'm honest with Ruth Field's family that

660
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 1: we're gonna sue these good manufacturers, We're gonna sue these

661
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: good distributors. We're gonna try to whole accountable anybody who

662
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 1: might have had anything to do with this young eighteen

663
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 1: ye white supremise killing their mother, even his parents who

664
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: bought them guns. The person who sold this eighteen year

665
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: old boy a R fifteen that can shoot seventy rounds

666
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 1: in less than twenty seconds. What do you sell an

667
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: eighteen year old a gun like that for? What do

668
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: you think they're going to do with it? So we're

669
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: dealing with all these issues, Steve, because Ruth Whitfield was

670
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: an angel. I mean everybody in the family, everybody in

671
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: the community. Her son was the first black fire commissioner

672
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: for the city of Buffalo, New York. And he talks

673
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 1: about how his mother every day went to the nursing

674
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 1: home to be able to just take care of her

675
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: the love of her life, who she had been married to.

676
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 1: Get this, Steve harb and she had been merit to

677
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: him for sixty eight years. And they don't even know

678
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: how they're gonna tell their father, Garden the or Whitfield

679
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 1: Senior that the love of his life was killed by

680
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: six individual of our committing the act of hate. And

681
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:25,959
Speaker 1: so when we think about this great testament of love

682
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: for sixty eight years, who blessed this earth, we won't

683
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 1: let her legacy be defined by this hate or act.

684
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: But as her children and grandchildren and great great grandchildren say,

685
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: they're going to make sure that there's some positive change

686
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: out of this tragedy, and that would be the legacy

687
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: befitting such an angel as Ruth Whitfield. Well, Attorney Crump,

688
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: I tell you what we're going to be watching this closely.

689
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: You know you have our support here on the radio

690
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: show for anything messaging we need to get out. I

691
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: wish you well with this case. I wish that is

692
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: truly a way, even though like you say that I

693
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: know guarantees that we can hold people accountable all the

694
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 1: way back to his parents who bought them, to people

695
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: who sold it to him. That that's gonna be a

696
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: heck of a dog fight, But you demand for it, man,

697
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 1: and we appreciate all you do in terms of civil

698
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: rights in this country. If it weren't for you, man,

699
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't know who we'd have stepping up in the

700
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: forefront and making a stand for us on these very,

701
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: very still important issues that just keep playing in our community, man.

702
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: And we're sick of it. We're exactly sick of it.

703
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: And so hey, man, let's get together with our forces

704
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: and see what we can do about some of these

705
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: people who are taking our airwaves and spewing this type

706
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: of hatred to perpetrate and build up and lift up

707
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: people like this. So Attorney Crump, as always, brother, thank

708
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: you for coming on. You're always welcome. Our prayers go

709
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 1: out to all the companies in Buffalo, New York. We're

710
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 1: on up there, man. We think about y'all daily and

711
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,760
Speaker 1: we are with you and you have our undying support.

712
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: Attorney Crupp, we love you, bro, Love you to Stephen. Also,

713
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 1: we represent Andre McNeil's family and Geraldine Talent family. Want

714
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: to lift them up as well. Okay, good good, I'm

715
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: glad you said that. Thank you, brother, be well. Hey,

716
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 1: love you frad all right, boy. Wow. See that's that's

717
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: the part man, that we've you know, when he said

718
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: go after all these people, that's the key. But we

719
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: gotta get it past you know, some of these judges

720
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,479
Speaker 1: and stuff. We gotta get it past them. And that's

721
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: the dog fight that we gotta make because we're not

722
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,720
Speaker 1: going to get them to change the Second Amendment. That's

723
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: not gonna happen. And we're not gonna stop the nr

724
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: A from donating more money than anybody to the Conservative

725
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: Republican Movement who's support watch the Second Amendment. So we

726
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: got to find another way. If we could just get

727
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 1: one judge, one judge somewhere to say, hey, you know what,

728
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: the parents never should have but this written Howard cased it.

729
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,399
Speaker 1: His mama drove him up. The hi hi as saying

730
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: in jail is beyond me. But but we gotta He's

731
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: not you know that that that that right there, And

732
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: Tucker Carson put the money behind his defense. That's what

733
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:34,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. That's dangerous, man. When you use a

734
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: platform like we have to support murder crime, acts of violence,

735
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: and racism. When you use this platform to support that

736
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 1: domestic terrorism, that's an all time load. When you're using

737
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: your brats, Yeah, yeah, exactly. And and like you know,

738
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: Attorney Crump said, the FBI says that the number one

739
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: problem facing America today is white supremacist. That's the FBI.

740
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 1: That ain't a black organization, that ain't Black Lives Matter,

741
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: that's f b I. And we're targeting away most of

742
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: it's always us. And there's always some white group that

743
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: don't like the other group. Where people gonna understand where

744
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: white supremacs really is. It's always a white somewhere that

745
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: don't like somebody else because they ain't white. What damn

746
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 1: what we got to do? Man? Why why we got

747
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 1: to keep? Man? See, all of our lives, all of

748
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: our parents lives, all of our grandparents, it's the same thing.

749
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: It's just I mean, when when is it going to end?

750
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: Is the question? And like Attorney Crump said, we built

751
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: this nation for free. We built this nation. Man, this hours,

752
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: this sint Charles. But we're not Americans. We're not considered Americans. Man,

753
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: who's more American than nash We built it, We built America.

754
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 1: We're grieving all over again. Here, yeah, here we are again.

755
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: We can't go a quarter without something happening. It's almost like,

756
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: oh wait, oh man, are they starting to be okay,

757
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:34,399
Speaker 1: oh no, oh no, they're six weeks. Man. We gotta

758
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 1: do something. They must think to stay country. Who down there?

759
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: Ain't we got a white board somewhere. Don't like them?

760
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 1: And and and then and and then here it comes,

761
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: and we're just dealing with this. Man. I'm exhaust sixty

762
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: five years old, I'm exhausted. I've never known nothing else

763
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,879
Speaker 1: but this my entire life. I've never in sixty five

764
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 1: years been able to take a deep ass breath. And

765
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: it started since I was a kid. And when the

766
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 1: teacher made us watch in elementary school mar Luther King's

767
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:08,280
Speaker 1: funeral on TV. I'm sitting there, going and my father

768
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,359
Speaker 1: said it. Man, that's when I knew something was wrong.

769
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 1: My father said, when he was watching the funeral, he

770
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 1: was crying. My daddy said, white folks don't want us

771
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: to have nothing. We can't even have marl Luther King.

772
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: How do we shut down these hate sites? Though? What's

773
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: the beginning of that? How do you get to where

774
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 1: we can shut these people down? No? No, no, no,

775
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 1: oh no, no no no no, Tommy, that's freedom of speech. See,

776
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 1: these people they got this. This country set up the

777
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 1: freedom of speak. See, you can get a permit to

778
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: walk down the street that I live on and pay

779
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: taxes on for you to walk down that street and

780
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: tell you how much you hate me. All right, Uh,

781
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: there's still more work to be done. That's all we

782
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: can say. We're gonna switch gears here and get into

783
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter that's coming up next. The subject is

784
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm in sense versus Church Sense. We'll get into it

785
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:09,399
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to. All right, guys, time

786
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797
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Speaker 1: when you get that case. Maybe that case you was

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Speaker 1: it for you. Strawberry Letter. Clear your throat, let me

810
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Subject common sense versus Church sense. Dear Stephen, Shirley,

811
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,839
Speaker 1: I'm close friends with a coworker that is being misled

812
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 1: by religion. She's thirty two years old and single, but

813
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: she acts like a sixteen year old dizzy girl. All

814
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: of a sudden, she has to check in with one

815
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: of her three spiritual visors when she gets to the

816
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: office and when she's heading home. She usually talks to

817
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: one of them on the phone while she's eating her

818
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: lunch too. In the past seven months, she's lost weight,

819
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: let her hair grow out, and she stopped polishing her fingernails.

820
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: She told me that nails are an attention grabber, and

821
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 1: her church preaches that women should be more in the background.

822
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 1: She has a churchy excuse for doing the craziest things.

823
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: She pays her bills and car note and then gives

824
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: whatever she's got, whatever she's got left to the church,

825
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: and they take her grocery shopping. If she needs to shop,

826
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 1: they give her a church credit card with a small

827
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,240
Speaker 1: spending limit. I told her that she's in a cult

828
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: and she's slowly but surely getting brainwashed, and she said

829
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: it's all kingdom business that she's tending to. She said

830
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: that her spiritual advisors call her body a temple and

831
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: they love tapping into her energy to give them strength

832
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 1: for the week. If it was with all three, and

833
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: she said it was the first time, but now it's

834
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: one on one, so the connection can be greater. I

835
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:12,919
Speaker 1: used to burst out laughing, thinking she was joking at first,

836
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 1: but now it's just crazy. She's happier than I've ever

837
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: seen her, so it must be beneficial to let the

838
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: kingdom run through her weekly. But what I don't want

839
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: to happen is for her to lose her job over

840
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 1: this church mess she's stuck in. I can't get through

841
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: to her, so should I try talking to her spiritual advisers?

842
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 1: She has no common sense? Yeah, it sounds like she

843
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: has no common sense. And I have to give you

844
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: a compliment here. You are a very good friend. You're patient,

845
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: you're caring. She needs someone like you in her life

846
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: right now because this so called religion she's in that

847
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: has no name or anything, it sounds like it has

848
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 1: no foundation and God is nowhere to be found in this.

849
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: And I say that because there's just too many ungodly

850
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:04,399
Speaker 1: things going on. For instance, you asked her about having sex,

851
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: and she says, first she had it with the three men,

852
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: and then sex one on one with them. What does

853
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 1: she say to tap into her energy so they could

854
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: tap into her energy and have strength for the week.

855
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: What religion is this really? You know? Then she gives

856
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: all her money to them after her bills and rent

857
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: are paid. If she needs to go shopping, she can

858
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: do that with the church credit card. And she doesn't

859
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 1: know the difference between someone pimping her and using her

860
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: and a real church. Obviously, I agree wholeheartedly with you

861
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: one hundred percent that she's definitely brainwatched. She needs to

862
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: be rescued and be programmed asap. This is a cult.

863
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: This is the has you know, all the signs of

864
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: a cult, but she can't see that. And this is terrible.

865
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: This is really terrible. Please stay her friend, see if

866
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 1: you can get some other people I don't know involved

867
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: to maybe talk to her and get her out of this,

868
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: because she is definitely heading down the wrong path. Steve,

869
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: this is clearly this is some type of cult message.

870
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: This is not you know, and once again, this is

871
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 1: not This is not what God is about. These are

872
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 1: none of the requirements. And he ain't gotten a requirement

873
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: for you to have sex with three men so they

874
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 1: can tap into your energy. They're tapping into something. It

875
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 1: ain't your energy though, you know this whole letter man.

876
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,919
Speaker 1: It's just it's a sad letter man, because I hate

877
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: to see people who are lost get caught up because

878
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: they don't know the way. And you know, when you

879
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 1: don't know the way, man, you can be misguided, misled easily,

880
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: especially if you're looking for something and somebody comes along

881
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: at that moment where you're looking for something and anything

882
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: sounds right to some people. And that's what happened in

883
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: this case. She's thirty two years old. She acts like

884
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: a sixteen year old dizzy girl. All of a sudden,

885
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 1: she got to check in with one her three spiritual

886
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: advice when she gets to the office and when she

887
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: going home, and she usually talked to one of them

888
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: on the phone while she eating her lunch. It's been

889
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: seven months, not a girl in lost weight. She to

890
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: let her hair grow out, she can stop polishing her

891
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: finger nails, and then she said the nails are an

892
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: attention grabb her and her church preaches that women should

893
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: be more in the background. Him already, what were talking

894
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: about here? When this church gets started, the women should

895
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 1: be more in the background. Man, come on, man, I

896
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: mean anyway, I got a few more things to say

897
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: to you, but you know, I don't know if it's

898
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: gonna help because the girl I'd rather talk to the

899
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 1: thirty two year old, But I got some news for

900
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 1: her friends, though it's well. Coming up. At twenty three

901
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have part two of Steve's

902
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 1: response Today's Strawberry letter, subject common Sense versus church sense.

903
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening,

904
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's very sad

905
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: strawberry letters, common sense versus church sense. See, this is

906
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,760
Speaker 1: a letter about a person who's lost. It's looking for something,

907
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: and somebody saw her looking for something and field in

908
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: the blanks with some mess. Because that's all this is

909
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 1: this mess. And I feel sorry for this little sister

910
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 1: right here that's got these three spiritual advisors that she

911
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: talks to when she gets to the office, when she's

912
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 1: heading home, when she eating her lunch. They didn't have

913
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: told her to. She didn't lost weight, she's letting her

914
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 1: hair grow out. She didn't stopped polishing her fingernails because

915
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: she's saying nails are an intention grab and her church

916
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 1: preachers that women should be mowing the background. She's got

917
01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: these churchy excuses for doing the craziest thing. So here's

918
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 1: what's happening. The girl pays her bills as her car

919
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: note and then gills whatever she's got left to the church.

920
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: They take her grocery shopping. If she needs to shop,

921
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 1: they give her a church credit card with a small

922
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:07,439
Speaker 1: spending limit. Now a girl told her that's a cault.

923
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is, and she's getting brainwashed. But

924
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: she said, it's all kingdom business. Now. I don't want

925
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: to say what I've heard that religion is, but I'll

926
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: just leave that alone. She said, it's all kingdom business

927
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: that she's tending to. And she said her spiritual advisor

928
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: called her body a temple and they love tapping into

929
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: her energy to give them strength for the week. Now,

930
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: a girl asked her girlfriend, is that for sex, and

931
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 1: she said, it's a lot greater than sex. See. They

932
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 1: temple tapping, see, so that makes it greater than it sex.

933
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: Were temple tapping? Were tapping into your temple? Were not

934
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 1: just having sex? And then she asked it was it

935
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 1: with all three and she said it was the first time,

936
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: but Nile's one on one, so the connection can be greater. Now.

937
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:08,959
Speaker 1: The girl says she used to bust out laughing, thinking

938
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 1: she was joking at first, but now it's just crazy.

939
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 1: She's happier than I've ever seen her, so it must

940
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: be beneficial to let the kingdom run through her weekly.

941
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 1: But what I don't want to happen is for her

942
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 1: to lose her job over this church mess she's stuck in.

943
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: This is not the most important concern her losing her job.

944
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 1: The bigger problem is she losing her soul. Damn your job.

945
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 1: You can get another job. You got one soul. So

946
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 1: she's been deceived by this trickery. Got the nerve to

947
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: call it the church, but it is really a cult.

948
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: I can't get through to her soul. Should I try

949
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 1: talking to her spiritual advisors? Wow, little girl, what are

950
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: you gonna say to them? They they won't start at

951
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: this mess. They're the one that is perpetrating the mess.

952
01:02:57,400 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: That the one that's pulling off the mess. They the

953
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: one is involved in the mess. What you're gonna say

954
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 1: to them? She has no common sense. What I would

955
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: do if I were you is I would report this institution.

956
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: I really would. Now people have the freedom of religion

957
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 1: and all like that, but I would put them on notice.

958
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 1: I mean, there are some things you could do to

959
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: unravel this stuff, because this like really is borderline really

960
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,439
Speaker 1: some dangerous stuff. When you're turning over your entire check

961
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 1: to a group and they're giving you a small church

962
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: credit card with a limit on it, and once you

963
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: start passing our church credit cards for them to buy

964
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 1: stuff with collections, getting into some tax situation. I would

965
01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 1: report them. I would go down to somebody that's some

966
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: people that go and save and rescue people from groups

967
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: like this, and I would get some help with it,

968
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 1: because something's wrong here. When they get through using and

969
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 1: abusing this girl, they're gonna throw her out. She gonna

970
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 1: either run out of money or she gonna run out

971
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 1: of attention, one or the two. So how does this

972
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: religion explain to her having a family? How does this

973
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: cult group explain to her about having a husband children?

974
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 1: Or she just group property? Now? Who are these men?

975
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 1: They get to decide who sleeps with this girl and

976
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: how often they get to tap into her energy. This

977
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: is the happiest she's ever been because she's been lost

978
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: for so long. Now she thinks she found. But if

979
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 1: this is your idea of being found, this is ridiculous.

980
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: Right here, I would report it. I would find a group.

981
01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. I have no idea,

982
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 1: but there are some help groups out there for anybody.

983
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 1: But they got you know, you can look into this

984
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: right here, man, This don't have to be I would

985
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 1: try to help my friend that way, get some attention

986
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: some eyeballs on this organization here, so they don't just

987
01:04:55,360 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: exist and you know, to other people. Yeah, a lot

988
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: of eyeballs got put on this Christian Scientology organization cause

989
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that Ronne or Hubbard biss. It's

990
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 1: a lot of eyeballs got put on a lot of

991
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,919
Speaker 1: other groups. And I'm not saying that's a cult or nothing.

992
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:18,720
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm just saying a lot of eyeballs got

993
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 1: put on this group and a lot of changes came about,

994
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: and it's continued to come about. I would look into

995
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 1: that myself if I were you. This is hate. I

996
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 1: don't like this letter because I feel sorry for this

997
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: thirty two year old girl. She's my daughter, somebody I know.

998
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: I go up in there with all advisers asked, let's

999
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 1: start right there. Yeah, we really talking tapping into and

1000
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 1: all this shit. Man, get out of here. I'm I'm

1001
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: tapping to everybody when I get that. Yeah, yeah, but

1002
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: it'll be a different kind of tapping. Your turn, brother,

1003
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: Steve we Prober. Yeah, all right, um. Leave us your

1004
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey Fm,

1005
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Now

1006
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we'll

1007
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 1: have some sports talk with Junior right after this. You're listening,

1008
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 1: all right, it is that time. It is time for

1009
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 1: junior and sports talk. Hey, Junior, what you got? Thank you, Shirley. Listen, Um,

1010
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 1: Tommy Man, you know, we just had crump on and Um,

1011
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 1: I just got to thinking about it. You was there?

1012
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 1: What role could an athlete played today? What's going on

1013
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: with situations like in Buffalo? Because I know when y'all

1014
01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 1: was coming up, man, in the sixties, you had Jim Brown,

1015
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: you had Muhammad Ali, Kareem Abdul Jabbar, you had people

1016
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 1: like that who are prominent athletes who stepped up for

1017
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: situations such as these, what social injustice? But we're happening, like,

1018
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: what role could they do today with everything that's going on,

1019
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 1: like like in both I mean in actuality, man, they're

1020
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 1: doing a really good job of it. I think I

1021
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 1: think there's a lot of athletes out there, man that

1022
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:08,920
Speaker 1: use their voice, man for voting and all like this

1023
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: right here. So I'm like, I've been very, very pleased

1024
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: with the way these young men and young women have

1025
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: behaved on a lot of social issues and So I

1026
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: just think, man, that that's not our problem. I think

1027
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 1: there's enough athletes who have stepped up for different causes.

1028
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: You know, even Colin Kaepernick with the kneel. And you

1029
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 1: know these young cats, man, when they get socially active, man,

1030
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 1: they're They're a bad group of young dudes. Man. So

1031
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 1: I know I'm I'm an old person, older person on

1032
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 1: the show, but I just gotta tell you, man, I

1033
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,919
Speaker 1: think that this generation is getting it right in terms

1034
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 1: of using their voice because they want to shut them down.

1035
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 1: But these young cats is out here, man, using their

1036
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,440
Speaker 1: voice to bring about change. A lot of rap artists

1037
01:07:56,440 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: are doing it, especially when it came to voting. That

1038
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 1: kid Yellowtail that came out with that whole thing about

1039
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 1: voting and everything. I thought that was slick. You know,

1040
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 1: a lot of people are using their voice. So I

1041
01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: don't think that's a problem today. I really don't. Now.

1042
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,800
Speaker 1: Back in the day, it was more prevalent. Prevalent because

1043
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: we were in the height of civil rights. I mean,

1044
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 1: we was just trying to be able to drink out

1045
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: of day and water, found to go to bathroom and

1046
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 1: quit getting our asked for for sitting at lunch counters.

1047
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:28,839
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. So it was it was bigger,

1048
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: you know, back then, and more and it was and

1049
01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:35,880
Speaker 1: it was a lot more dangerous to speak out then.

1050
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 1: But I do want to say that I think that

1051
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: they are on point. I think these young people today

1052
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 1: are on point. And I don't think that's our problem.

1053
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:50,520
Speaker 1: Our problem is much greater. Our problem is the conservative platform.

1054
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: Our problem is quite supremacy. Our problem is the freedom

1055
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 1: to do and say what you want to say. You

1056
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 1: can get a permit to walk down the black person

1057
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:03,240
Speaker 1: street to tell him you hate him. So that's a

1058
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 1: lot of stuff. We got the wrong judges in place

1059
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:08,519
Speaker 1: because we're not getting the right ones in place, and

1060
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:12,840
Speaker 1: so right, that's it. But we have to vote on

1061
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 1: all the elections, not just president, and as a big

1062
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: one coming up tuesday, thank you. Coming up at the

1063
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: top of the hour, here's a question, Wow, um, would

1064
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:30,680
Speaker 1: you live on an old slave plantation? We'll talk about that.

1065
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 1: Answer that question right after this. You're listening to show.

1066
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: All right, guys, picture this all right. Imagine you just

1067
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: bought a house and you find out that it used

1068
01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:50,839
Speaker 1: to be a slave plantation. All right. Air Force veteran

1069
01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 1: Fred Miller bought a large country home in southern Virginia

1070
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:57,160
Speaker 1: and found out recently that his ten and a half

1071
01:09:57,240 --> 01:10:00,200
Speaker 1: acres of land was once part of a third teen

1072
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 1: hundred acre plantation. Miller worked with a local genealogy researcher

1073
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 1: to learn about his family history and connection to what

1074
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: was once the Miller plantation. He was featured on sixty

1075
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: Minutes with Leslie Stall and he worked around the abandoned

1076
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:19,640
Speaker 1: slave cemetery on the park. He walked around the abandoned

1077
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: slave cemetery on the property and counted eight tombstones there

1078
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 1: and pointed out a lot more. He has plans to

1079
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 1: restore the quarters now where enslaved people lived on the

1080
01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 1: property to educate others on the history of slavery. He

1081
01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 1: remarked that he hopes his great great grandmother is somehow

1082
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 1: looking down from heaven and finally cracking a beautiful smile. Interesting, huh.

1083
01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 1: So he bought the plantation that his family, you know,

1084
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: once worped on, and I mean has plans to restore

1085
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: it and teach people about slavery. I mean, I think

1086
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:03,360
Speaker 1: it's Powell move myself. I commend him. You know, here's

1087
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 1: where you enslave my people. Now I'm buying it. How

1088
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 1: about that? Nah, I'm not gonna let anybody forget what

1089
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:12,600
Speaker 1: you did to him. So I'm gonna restore it so

1090
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 1: I could teach the message. That's that's that's that's that's

1091
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: power to me. I get it. I appreciate what the

1092
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 1: would you would you live there though? Ye? I mean

1093
01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 1: I understand and restoring it, But what you live there

1094
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 1: on that property? Well? I um, I think I live

1095
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: down the street from it. Dog, I don't think I'm

1096
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:36,840
Speaker 1: gonna really be on the plantation. I'm I'm gonna I'm

1097
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 1: I can own it and restore it and have it,

1098
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:42,160
Speaker 1: you know, built up like museum. You can come see

1099
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 1: it and all that. But I'm gonna be a little

1100
01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 1: further down the way. Though you live on Smith Street,

1101
01:11:48,240 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: You're not gonna yea plantation all plantation Helloa when you

1102
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 1: think about it, man, Yeah, I mean, but just imagine

1103
01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 1: him walking around, you know, the property and imagining what

1104
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: went before him, what happened you know, his great great grandmother,

1105
01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:21,600
Speaker 1: he said in heaven, Now she was there. You know,

1106
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 1: just all that history, all that history and stuff. A

1107
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:29,479
Speaker 1: really interesting story. Yeah. I like about Air Force veteran

1108
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 1: Fred Miller. Yeah, I think it's a great idea. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1109
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 1: some heavy times we live in here. Yeah, I mean

1110
01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:45,720
Speaker 1: something this week has been really heavy for us. Man, Yeah,

1111
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:49,799
Speaker 1: it really really has. And and so far no resolve

1112
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 1: as far as what's going on in Brooklyn. Um, I

1113
01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 1: don't know how that's going to turn out. And I

1114
01:12:57,320 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 1: said Brooklyn, I met Buffalo, New York. Yeah, something happened

1115
01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn too. What happened in Brooklyn? You were thinking

1116
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 1: New York and Buffalo. Yeah, I'm in Buffalo. Yeah, nothing

1117
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 1: happened in Brooklyn. Man. But yeah, m it's just so sad. Yeah.

1118
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:22,559
Speaker 1: But anyway, Yeah, I don't know. Tommy talking about living

1119
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 1: on the plantation that that is an interesting question. Could

1120
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: you do that? And would you do that? You know

1121
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 1: by finding the Miles plantation. I'm not living on it. I'mderstanding.

1122
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:36,280
Speaker 1: I'm not living You're just gonna restore it and make

1123
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 1: it historical and teach it to all that you want

1124
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 1: to live on the Harvey plantation. I'm gonna let him

1125
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:44,920
Speaker 1: do that. You're going on Tractor Virginia, stay on the

1126
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:47,920
Speaker 1: Harvey plantation. I'm not doing it. He didn't say he

1127
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: would what Steve? What are what what Harvey plantation your

1128
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 1: ass talking about because you didn't know about it. I

1129
01:13:58,000 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 1: buy all of that. I tell you what, if I

1130
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 1: found it, I'll bide and bawled it out, turn it

1131
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 1: into a big basketball court, a song, and I gonna

1132
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 1: be no house if you it would be something the kids.

1133
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 1: I like that though. All right, all right, we're moving on. Guys.

1134
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

1135
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.

1136
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 1: You're listening to show well. A two year old toddler

1137
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:31,280
Speaker 1: had an extreme case of the muncheese and ordered thirty

1138
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 1: one cheeseburgers from McDonald's. Did you guys hear that? Two

1139
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 1: years old ordering thirty with cheeseburgers McDonald's cheeseburgers from door

1140
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 1: dash Okay, from the door dash app These kids are

1141
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: geniuses and had them delivered to his home. Kelsey Burkhalter

1142
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:56,160
Speaker 1: Golden was stunned when she received an unexpected delivery with

1143
01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 1: the guy holding a big bag of burgers. She jokingly

1144
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,880
Speaker 1: described I've did on Facebook, saying, apparently my two year

1145
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:06,519
Speaker 1: old knows how to order from DoorDash. Uh. She also

1146
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:08,759
Speaker 1: shared a picture of her two year old son sitting

1147
01:15:08,800 --> 01:15:11,559
Speaker 1: on the table eating a cheeseburger next to a mound

1148
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 1: of thirty remaining McDonald's cheeseburgers. The total amount was ninety

1149
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: one seventy and the kid was nice enough. He was

1150
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 1: so sweet, it was nice enough to include a sixteen

1151
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 1: dollar tip for the door Dash driver. The two year

1152
01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 1: old kid, he's gonna be big. Don't he eat Aldenburgers?

1153
01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 1: Now he can't eat Aldenburger delicious. I'm talking about the

1154
01:15:36,880 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 1: whoop and argued for order sixteen dollars tip. Right, I'd

1155
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 1: be vegan after that. After I'll be vegan. Yeah. Just

1156
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 1: the genius of this two year old to do that,

1157
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:58,200
Speaker 1: I mean the order from door Dash, leave a tip

1158
01:15:58,360 --> 01:16:02,320
Speaker 1: all of that. Yeah, pretty genius. All right, We'll have

1159
01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

1160
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:06,639
Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play a round

1161
01:16:06,680 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this. You're listening to

1162
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for a round

1163
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather have a goal

1164
01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:19,600
Speaker 1: too in the front of your mouth or would you

1165
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 1: rather have a missing tooth in the front which one

1166
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,000
Speaker 1: gold or just blind? You had to go and give

1167
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:28,559
Speaker 1: it that goal I can't. I can't have a hole

1168
01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 1: in my head. Open open face too. Yeah, I had

1169
01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:36,560
Speaker 1: a gold too. I can explain the goal too. We

1170
01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: can get some jokes going that hole in your head, don't. Yeah,

1171
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:45,200
Speaker 1: go for the goal, Go for the Every time you talk,

1172
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: you whistle. You got a little spot understand. So what

1173
01:16:53,680 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 1: you so? What you're thinking? At what? It's rough? It's rough?

1174
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather take a vow of silence

1175
01:17:06,080 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 1: or a vow of celibacy? I think we know the

1176
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:14,639
Speaker 1: answer to silence? Wait a minute, for how long? I guess,

1177
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:19,639
Speaker 1: just for however long? Just period? We just quiet, say

1178
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,720
Speaker 1: a year. We'll say a year. How about that? Take

1179
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:24,759
Speaker 1: about silence for a year? Come out some much notebook

1180
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 1: paper and a pin. I'm gonna be write down so

1181
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:29,639
Speaker 1: much stuff. I'm gonna do a lot of texting. I'm

1182
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:33,679
Speaker 1: gonna text your answer. Man, I'm gonna be I'm gonna

1183
01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:37,120
Speaker 1: be celibate for a year. Yeah, okay, what ye I'm

1184
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:39,680
Speaker 1: gonna do? Yes, sir read, Yes, sir read. I got

1185
01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:45,120
Speaker 1: way too much I got to talk about. Damn. You

1186
01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: can't well your show life. You can't do dog, it's

1187
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 1: nowhere in here. I'm gonna be quiet for a year,

1188
01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 1: not a mess up your money on these checks on

1189
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 1: the table to trying to so we have some sex, man, quiet,

1190
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,840
Speaker 1: cut these movies on getting the room, cut that light out.

1191
01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 1: I'll be fun. I'll be talking again for a year,

1192
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:14,240
Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather have a partner that just

1193
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:19,360
Speaker 1: knows everything? Or would you rather have an unintelligent partner?

1194
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:26,679
Speaker 1: Which one? Oh? What d Yeah? Yeah, yeah he wants

1195
01:18:26,720 --> 01:18:30,600
Speaker 1: somebody with low self can bill up. Yeah, I'm just

1196
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:32,960
Speaker 1: had to explain her everywhere we go, shirty, I'm just

1197
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 1: gonna have to explain her. Well, I'm just gonna say

1198
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:38,639
Speaker 1: it on behalf of myself and Tommy and every other

1199
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:41,880
Speaker 1: married man. If you have a wife you already married

1200
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:46,200
Speaker 1: to somebody think they know everything? Notice we notice we

1201
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 1: didn't answer. Notice we didn't answer. Did already live with

1202
01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 1: a woman that thinks she knows every damn thing? Got

1203
01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:59,599
Speaker 1: the answer for everything? But what did I say? Though?

1204
01:18:59,680 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 1: I heard you say you was wrong about that too. Oh,

1205
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 1: but we gonna do it though, jazz for peace? Your

1206
01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: piece is important. That's right, all right, guys, that's today's

1207
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:18,240
Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Thank you? Thank you? Thank you?

1208
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 1: Coming up? It is our last break of the day

1209
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 1: of the week as a matter of fact, and we'll

1210
01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:24,679
Speaker 1: have some closing remarks from the one and only Steve

1211
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:30,639
Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. You're listening to show. Here we are, guys,

1212
01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Friday. It's

1213
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:37,200
Speaker 1: been a week, but we got through it, thank the

1214
01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:40,720
Speaker 1: good Lord. A long week. Yeah, it's been a week.

1215
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:44,720
Speaker 1: It has it really has a lot that's been going on.

1216
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 1: But birthday, boy, it was your birthday this week. It's

1217
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:56,120
Speaker 1: really gonna know. And he celebrated tank tops trim this

1218
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 1: room with his shoulders out. That means a little bit.

1219
01:20:03,040 --> 01:20:05,519
Speaker 1: The ladies are all covered up and yeah, we all

1220
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 1: he got his shoulders out, little strap showing it stuff.

1221
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 1: That's just that's just the first strait you grabbed. That's all.

1222
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:23,639
Speaker 1: That's put some on and go to work. When when

1223
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:25,920
Speaker 1: you come to zoom work, you just grab whatever over

1224
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 1: the Hey, this is me zoom work, all right, guys.

1225
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:36,439
Speaker 1: Any questions on the way out to Steve, I was thinking, um,

1226
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:39,559
Speaker 1: you have any advice, you know, based on our clo

1227
01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:45,040
Speaker 1: questions earlier. Uh, these young women, um, some of them,

1228
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 1: especially the single ones, they're kind of struggling, you know,

1229
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 1: meeting good men good guys. Any advice to single women,

1230
01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 1: young single women about where to meet how to meet

1231
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:59,360
Speaker 1: young single men, And there is no advice about that

1232
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: because you don't know where. There's no place you can

1233
01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 1: go and meet guys your soul mating all like this.

1234
01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:09,759
Speaker 1: Here's the problem today that I found discussing with women.

1235
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 1: The problem is women keep telling me the same thing, Steve,

1236
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 1: you don't understand. This is how men are today. All

1237
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:25,640
Speaker 1: these young men talk this way, act this way, and

1238
01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 1: treat us this way. Okay, cool, all right, let's accept

1239
01:21:30,360 --> 01:21:34,479
Speaker 1: that that's the statement. Let's accept that that's the truth.

1240
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:40,759
Speaker 1: What's the counter to that. The counter to that, young ladies,

1241
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:44,559
Speaker 1: is you don't have to accept any of that behavior,

1242
01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: and you should not accept or reward bad behavior to yourself.

1243
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 1: If a guy like like you know, I mean, you know,

1244
01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 1: like earlier when you played that thing where that guy

1245
01:21:57,040 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: had took that girl out to dinner I mean lunch

1246
01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:02,200
Speaker 1: or whatever and then wanted to take her home and

1247
01:22:02,320 --> 01:22:04,360
Speaker 1: then she said she wasn't going home, and he said,

1248
01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:06,640
Speaker 1: well you can walk home, and she said, are you

1249
01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: kidding me? And he said, well, I'll spent the whole

1250
01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 1: day with you. And obviously I'm attracted to you, and

1251
01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 1: if you don't want to go home, and you can

1252
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 1: go home, I ain't burning no gas taking you home.

1253
01:22:16,840 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 1: That's what's out there today. But the counter to that

1254
01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 1: is you don't have to accept that because a man

1255
01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:30,680
Speaker 1: will treat you as you demand. If you demand to

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Speaker 1: be treated the right way, a man will do that.

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01:22:34,360 --> 01:22:40,400
Speaker 1: If he refuses to do that, move on. So stop right,

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01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 1: stop the feeling that this is how men are. So what?

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Speaker 1: But you know what, don't you think there's a certain

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Speaker 1: amount of pressure on single women to have a man,

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01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 1: to get married, you know, And that's to me what

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01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:58,720
Speaker 1: causes them sometimes to act desperate, you know, and all

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01:22:58,760 --> 01:23:02,799
Speaker 1: of that, because yeah, you know they right, they settle

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01:23:02,960 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 1: for guys you know that are beneath them or or

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01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:07,840
Speaker 1: and they know they could do much better, guys that

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01:23:07,920 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 1: they don't deserve that don't treat them. Well. Okay, then

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Speaker 1: if that's the case, let me ask you something. So

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Speaker 1: you want to sign up for a lifetime with this

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01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:21,959
Speaker 1: behavior in your act of desperation and wanting so desperately

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Speaker 1: to be in a relationship, to have a family, to

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01:23:24,520 --> 01:23:28,400
Speaker 1: be married, You're going to accept what this man puts

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Speaker 1: down and offers to you and you want to make

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Speaker 1: a lifetime commitment to that. I don't think so. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. You who signs up for misery

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Speaker 1: knowing it's going to be miserable if you're in a

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01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 1: relationship that's not good or healthy for you right now?

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01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:49,160
Speaker 1: Getting married ain't gonna change that right right? But you know,

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01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 1: some some some women have a thing. You know, I'll

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01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:54,599
Speaker 1: get mister right now. He might not be mister Wright,

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01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 1: but he's mister right now, and you know and all

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01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:02,799
Speaker 1: of that, I mean, you know it's problem. The problem

1282
01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 1: with mister right now is Tomorrow's coming. So now what

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01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 1: he gonna be then? Because tomorrow comes, So he might

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01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 1: be mister right now, but tomorrow when he get here,

1285
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:21,320
Speaker 1: what what he fitting to be? You know? I mean

1286
01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:24,479
Speaker 1: I hate to just sound so matter of fact. Or

1287
01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:27,840
Speaker 1: you sixty five years of wisdom and common sense, but

1288
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 1: you don't get it unless somebody gives it to you.

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01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:33,759
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry it's not the way you think because

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01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 1: you're thirty and you don't have the years or experience

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01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:39,240
Speaker 1: that I have. But unless someone tells you the truth,

1292
01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:41,760
Speaker 1: how do you know the truth? Now? The only other

1293
01:24:41,840 --> 01:24:45,479
Speaker 1: way is to go through the experiences yourself and discover

1294
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:49,000
Speaker 1: the truth. But if somebody could tell you instead of

1295
01:24:49,080 --> 01:24:51,760
Speaker 1: you having to experience it, don't that make better sense

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Speaker 1: to you? Don't touch that Carolin I, and it's hot, Okay,

1297
01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:57,639
Speaker 1: So you don't want to do that, so you want

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01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:02,280
Speaker 1: to grab the Carolin I. Now guess why. Now you

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01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 1: know it's hot. So what I just try to do

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01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:10,240
Speaker 1: is offered to women, and hopefully you accept it. Now

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Speaker 1: listen to me. It's difficult explaining these ways that men

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01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:19,800
Speaker 1: are to women. So sometimes you got to hit your

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01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:24,080
Speaker 1: head up against the wall. Yeah, now I'll tell it

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01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:26,080
Speaker 1: to you. You ain't gotta believe me, But I do

1305
01:25:26,240 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 1: know men, and you can go about it another way.

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01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 1: And I really feel for women like that. But my

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01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:36,120
Speaker 1: suggestion in closing for women is up your standards, do

1308
01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:40,640
Speaker 1: not lower your standards. Do not accept and reward bad behavior.

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01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 1: You deserve better. You can get better. And I got

1310
01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 1: news for you that is better period to hell with

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01:25:49,439 --> 01:25:53,240
Speaker 1: hell right, yes, And that mistreatment of you as a

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01:25:53,360 --> 01:25:56,000
Speaker 1: human being, you ain't got to do that. I'd rather

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01:25:56,080 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 1: be by myself unhappy than with somebody else in miserable.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks today. Talk to God today, y'all.

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Speaker 1: He'd love to hear from you. You feel me. See

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