WEBVTT - Four Weddings & No Funeral

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<v Speaker 1>This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, guys, welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast. Ben is

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<v Speaker 2>not with me today, but we are catching up with

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<v Speaker 2>some of our favorite favorite married couples from Bachelor Nation,

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<v Speaker 2>and today we have Mari and Kenny.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>So last time we spoke, it was soon after your

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<v Speaker 2>first wedding, the one. Well wait, did you have three weddings?

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<v Speaker 2>One televised one in Puerto Rico, which is Mara's home,

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<v Speaker 2>family extended home, and then you also had another more

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<v Speaker 2>party in Chicago which did not have a ceremony. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just a party, That's right.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. So well, I guess if you want to count

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<v Speaker 5>the courthouse, there were technically four weddings.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that is awesome. So of all the weddings, do

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<v Speaker 2>you guys have a favorite in mind?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, well, obviously the one we did at

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<v Speaker 6>Paradise was it was like was special.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously we and we we came home and made.

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<v Speaker 6>That official at the courthouse because we couldn't make it

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<v Speaker 6>official in Mexico.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean for special for family and everything was

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<v Speaker 3>Puerto Rico.

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<v Speaker 6>Obviously that was where like most of our money was

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<v Speaker 6>spent on was that wedding. But I love the Paradise

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<v Speaker 6>One just because it's where we met all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>The Paradise One interesting. I didn't think you were going

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<v Speaker 2>to say that. So why is that that that holds

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<v Speaker 2>a special place?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it's I mean we met there for the first time,

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<v Speaker 6>we got engaged there, and I just thought it was

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<v Speaker 6>it was special to be able to go back and

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<v Speaker 6>do that, and not a lot of people get the

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<v Speaker 6>opportunity to do that to begin with. So it was

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<v Speaker 6>just I don't know, it's like out It's like our

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<v Speaker 6>kids can go back.

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<v Speaker 3>And watch that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, who well unless they delete it by them, But

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<v Speaker 6>isn't that.

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<v Speaker 2>What's kind of stressful is that like back of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>we had the tape on VHS, right, and now we

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<v Speaker 2>have I feel like Apple is probably the most reliant

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<v Speaker 2>place for us to go back and watch the seasons.

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<v Speaker 2>They're all on there, but like now, we don't do

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't think that The Bachelor would give us

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<v Speaker 2>the tape. We'd have to really go through lots of

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<v Speaker 2>hoops in order to get our footage.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think our season is also gone from Hulu too,

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<v Speaker 5>like season seven, isn't there anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, they switch it up.

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<v Speaker 5>It's crazy. Yeah, those are memories.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Mari. As far as dresses, which one was your favorite?

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<v Speaker 2>You had so many?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh gosh, yeah, you know, it's funny. People kind of

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<v Speaker 5>made fun of us for having so many weddings. They're like,

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<v Speaker 5>this is so unnecessary, Like no one does this quote

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<v Speaker 5>unquote in real life. And I'm like, I know plenty

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<v Speaker 5>of people who had several ceremonies or several parties or whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>But anyway, one of the reasons I'm very indecisive, like

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<v Speaker 5>I want to be able to wear all of the

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<v Speaker 5>different styles, and I feel like I pushed that, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>So in Puerto Rico, I had like the ball gown style,

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<v Speaker 5>and then for Chicago, I had like a Mermaid fitted style.

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<v Speaker 5>I will say I think the Mermaid for Chicago was

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<v Speaker 5>probably my favorite, just because it was like really sleek

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<v Speaker 5>and elegant. So yeah, I just it helps with my

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<v Speaker 5>indecision to be able to do all of the things.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand. I love my two wedding dresses, but man,

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<v Speaker 2>I think a third would have been great. That third

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<v Speaker 2>may have really completed it, you know, satisfied every fashion

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<v Speaker 2>sense that I have.

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<v Speaker 5>You can always do a vow renewal.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I believe in vow renewals, because

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<v Speaker 2>my mom has instilled in me She's like, if you

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<v Speaker 2>have to renew year vows, they must have been broken

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<v Speaker 2>at some point.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I guess I didn't think about it that way.

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<v Speaker 2>No, right, all right, guys, So it's been a almost

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<v Speaker 2>it's been a year since you've been official. What has

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<v Speaker 2>there been any sort of change in your relationship? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you feel different now that you have a piece of paper?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, actually no, Obviously. Now when I see people, they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>how's married life? All that nonsense, and I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 6>it's the same as it was because we lived together

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<v Speaker 6>for like a year prior and literally, I mean I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't feel like anything really changed after just all the

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<v Speaker 6>money we spent on the wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, pretty much.

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<v Speaker 3>But like day to day life is I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like it's the same.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. We've been in the same apartment since we got together,

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<v Speaker 5>like before getting married, So yeah, I mean, although I

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<v Speaker 5>do change up the dickcor in here all the time

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<v Speaker 5>and it might feel like a different apartment, it's the same.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel like it was the same with us. However,

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<v Speaker 2>when you have kids, that's when it changes. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't live together beforehand, of course that's when it

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<v Speaker 2>changes as well.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Yeah, I mean we're we've got our dog kits

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<v Speaker 5>for now, but I'm sure once like a human child

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<v Speaker 5>or two come along, then yeah, that would definitely probably

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<v Speaker 5>change things up.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you want? To human children?

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<v Speaker 5>Two?

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<v Speaker 2>Human children?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? I go back and forth. I will say,

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<v Speaker 5>like I've changed my mind over the years. When I

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<v Speaker 5>first met Kenny, like on the beach, this was one

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<v Speaker 5>of my first questions to him. I was like, do

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<v Speaker 5>you want kids? And I told him at the time,

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<v Speaker 5>I think I told you I wanted like four something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>But as time goes on and you know, you have

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<v Speaker 5>to like worry about, you know, how you're going to

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<v Speaker 5>pay for four children, especially when you live downtown in

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<v Speaker 5>the middle of a city, it's like, yeah, maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 5>we're thinking one or two?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right? Do you plan on living in the

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<v Speaker 2>city for quite some time?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there a different here?

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<v Speaker 3>We're for sure.

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<v Speaker 6>I think we're going to switch apartments in uh next

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<v Speaker 6>year and then do one more year in the city,

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<v Speaker 6>probably for sure, and then I'm not sure after that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if you ask us like our biggest point of

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<v Speaker 5>contention in our marriage, this is probably it. I would

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<v Speaker 5>love to buy a house with like a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>space and land for the dogs. I want to get

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<v Speaker 5>like three or four chickens, like that's my goal. And Kenny,

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<v Speaker 5>if you let him, he would stay in downtown high

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<v Speaker 5>rise apartment for the rest of his life.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it'd still be in the Chicago area.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, probably.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we'll definitely stay in Chicago for now until we

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<v Speaker 6>can leave. It's more work connection that I would have

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<v Speaker 6>to stay in Chicago for now.

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<v Speaker 2>But Ma, you're okay, you've assimilated into the Chicago life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think so. I mean, I still don't love

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<v Speaker 5>the winter. I don't think that's going to change to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even imagine, because I hate the winter. When

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know, thirty degrees and there gets what wind

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<v Speaker 2>chill like five.

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<v Speaker 5>Degrees, it's so bad. I will say this year has

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<v Speaker 5>been amazing. It was just like fifty degrees a couple

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<v Speaker 5>of days ago, which is kind of unheard of here,

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<v Speaker 5>so I can't complain too much. But yeah, it's not

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<v Speaker 5>it hasn't been terrible. But yeah, that's the only thing

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<v Speaker 5>I really don't love about Chicago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I understand that. What do you guys do on

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<v Speaker 2>a typical weekend or a day off together?

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<v Speaker 6>It's it revolves around what food we're going to eat

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<v Speaker 6>and what movie we're going to pick on Netflix or whatnot.

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<v Speaker 6>Most of it, I'd say that's like ninety five percent

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<v Speaker 6>of the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Other than that, I would say, well, football season is,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, happening right now. So it also revolves around

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<v Speaker 5>like what day the Bears are playing for me, like

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<v Speaker 5>when the Ravens are playing, and then we'll choose like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>this is what we're going to have like during the game,

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<v Speaker 5>and then this is what I'm making for dinner or whatever. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we don't get out unless there's like an event

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<v Speaker 6>that we're going to go to, uh, you know, for

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<v Speaker 6>for something.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we're a pretty homebody couple.

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<v Speaker 3>We both work all day.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, usually by time that's done, you know, and

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<v Speaker 6>it's cold out, nobody wants to go outside or anything. Yeah, dinner,

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<v Speaker 6>order food, and we've seen everything on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. Well, you know, keep sucking in the

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<v Speaker 2>Netflix because when you do have kids, you will never

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<v Speaker 2>be able to watch TV together again. I'm sorry, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's just because we have our kids on a pretty

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<v Speaker 2>weird schedule because I'm the one who likes to sleep

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<v Speaker 2>late and go to bed late. But guys, you you

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<v Speaker 2>Kenny are still working in you know, the band scene

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<v Speaker 2>night life, Mari, how does how does how is that?

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<v Speaker 2>How many nights a week is he?

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<v Speaker 1>Owt?

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<v Speaker 2>And do you like care?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, actually, he doesn't go out. He doesn't go to

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of the shows. Okay, I would have won

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<v Speaker 5>most of the time. I'll go with so it's fine.

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<v Speaker 5>But even if he was like, understandably, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 5>his job and he's been doing that for twenty plus years,

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<v Speaker 5>so it's like, you know, you got to do what

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<v Speaker 5>you got to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I'm very behind the scenes with that.

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<v Speaker 6>So I actually work during the day from home, like

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I set up the kitchen table as my

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<v Speaker 6>desk and it's more of a nine to five actually

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<v Speaker 6>type of situation.

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<v Speaker 2>That's nice, that's really nice. And mar are you working

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<v Speaker 2>mostly on influencer stuff?

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<v Speaker 5>No, So I actually do have a full time so

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<v Speaker 5>I have my own like social media consulting agency, So

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<v Speaker 5>I have a good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a few different clients that I run their

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<v Speaker 5>business social media pages. My biggest is a METS in

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<v Speaker 5>Chicago right now. They have like several locations and it's huge.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's actually where most of my time goes. And

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<v Speaker 5>that influencing is more kind of like a side gig.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I like it that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you guys run into Pascal at all from the

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<v Speaker 2>Golden Bachelorette, considering that he runs some medspas in the area. No,

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<v Speaker 2>we haven't, but.

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<v Speaker 5>We were invited to a couple of watch parties with

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of the other because they had a few

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<v Speaker 5>Chicago guys.

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<v Speaker 2>On that site.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, uh, what's now? I came drown a blank.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, you know how sometimes when you like or

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<v Speaker 2>like I got to think of somebody's name, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it escapes you because you're stressed out about the key

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<v Speaker 2>mumpy name.

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<v Speaker 6>So when they filmed in Chicago for Jordan's hometown, I

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<v Speaker 6>popped in because they were like a block away, and

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<v Speaker 6>so I met Joan and Jordan for the first time.

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<v Speaker 6>But then once the show it aired, I I stay

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<v Speaker 6>in touch with Jordan.

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<v Speaker 3>We text talking in PA and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 6>And I feel bad because even before their season started,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, hey, you know, if you guys want to

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<v Speaker 6>get together and watch the show one day whatever, And

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<v Speaker 6>then like the whole season went by, and every week

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<v Speaker 6>we would talk and he'd be like, Hey, we're going

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<v Speaker 6>to Pascals to watch the show if you guys want

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<v Speaker 6>to come by, and like we always had some bullshit

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<v Speaker 6>going on. So I was like, so then I figured

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<v Speaker 6>at some point we would get together, and then that

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<v Speaker 6>the whole season went by and we never we never went,

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<v Speaker 6>we never made it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a short season, and I need to know how

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan is in real life because he just seems so youthful,

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<v Speaker 2>Like he does not seem like a Golden contestant to me.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he yeah, he was. He's like I would hang

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<v Speaker 3>out with him.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean he's he's what twenty years older than me,

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<v Speaker 6>probably maybe more, but yeah, he had like you know,

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<v Speaker 6>the tight jeans on and the whole deal. On the date,

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<v Speaker 6>he was nervous because you know how it is that

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<v Speaker 6>they're on a hometown date. I'm like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like trying to talk to these guys, but in

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<v Speaker 6>his mind he's still thinking about like he's.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this date with her.

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<v Speaker 2>He probably He's like, this is fun for you, but

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<v Speaker 2>this is very dark rocking for me. Were you on tape?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, it was they were like on the

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<v Speaker 6>river walk and we're like two blocks down. So I

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<v Speaker 6>walked over hung out with Bradford and some of them

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<v Speaker 6>for a little nice Yeah. I was there for like

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<v Speaker 6>fifteen minutes.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I figured it may have been just like a producer

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<v Speaker 2>pop in say heck, yeah, guys. You are kind of

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<v Speaker 2>known to me on social media as the starters of

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<v Speaker 2>the whole watch me rate my outfit for my soule.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys created that and then Jared stole it a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of weeks ago for a Macy Dad. So thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for the idea.

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<v Speaker 5>You welcome, Mari.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like order dresses for the content or are

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<v Speaker 2>you just like you're ordering dresses and like, hey, babe,

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<v Speaker 2>come and rate what you want me to wear on

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<v Speaker 2>next date night or next next event night.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's a mix of both. I don't even remember

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<v Speaker 5>like why I started it. I think I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I had just like stocked up on a

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<v Speaker 5>bunch of new like dresses or something because it was

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<v Speaker 5>like summertime and I was like, let me order some

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<v Speaker 5>new dresses, and I was like, hmm, instead of because

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<v Speaker 5>normally I would just post it like me trying them

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<v Speaker 5>on and then I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, like, guys, which one do you like the most?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>And then I had the idea, like, you know, it

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<v Speaker 5>would be like cool if Kenny did it and it

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<v Speaker 5>had like an actual scorecard and everything. So that's how

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<v Speaker 5>it started. And so now I try not to, like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, be wasteful, So like if it's something that

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<v Speaker 5>I'm already purchasing, like a few pairs of jeans, then

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<v Speaker 5>you know that fits in. Or I'll even do it

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<v Speaker 5>with like clothes that I've owned for years, like I

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<v Speaker 5>had to go body suit in like different colors. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll do it with that. And then I actually we

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<v Speaker 5>just did it for the first time as an ad also,

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<v Speaker 5>so that was cool, you know, getting an AD for

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<v Speaker 5>something that I would have already done on my own.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, Yeah, I love it. We love it. So I

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<v Speaker 2>want to ask you guys some fun questions first, just

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<v Speaker 2>like kind of you know, I wouldn't say rapid fire,

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<v Speaker 2>but sort of like that. Who's the better cook.

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<v Speaker 3>Mari?

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<v Speaker 2>What's she the best at cooking.

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<v Speaker 3>Any food? Any food I could cook. I cook eggs,

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<v Speaker 3>I got you know what, I cooked steak better than

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<v Speaker 3>she does. I think that's about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, meat is more, in my opinion, a guy's territory,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm not really down for that either. It's very hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I also don't choose to make chicken. That scares me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know when it's going to be right, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It could be pank, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be no thanks? What is well? Who is

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<v Speaker 2>the one to most likely resolve a say sorry first?

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<v Speaker 3>Probably Mari.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she also starts most of them as well.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't Besides, where you're gonna live, what kind

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<v Speaker 2>of sparks a fight?

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<v Speaker 3>Usually I have a lot of stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, there's a lot of stuff in a lot of places,

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<v Speaker 5>And when you have a lot of stuff in a

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<v Speaker 5>small apartment, there's not like necessarily a place for all

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<v Speaker 5>the stuff to go. So he doesn't like that, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes there's like, well, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like a minimalist.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't have anything like but it's just there's like

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<v Speaker 6>piles of clothes everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I don't mind when things are out, like if

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<v Speaker 2>I have laundry them and put away like that. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>like is something that I want to get to. But

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<v Speaker 2>for me, what annoys me the most is is Jared's

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<v Speaker 2>little tendency of like leaving something that he has to

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<v Speaker 2>get to on the counter. And why is it different

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<v Speaker 2>to me? It's because like if he has like miscellaneous

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<v Speaker 2>parts of something on the counter, like this doesn't have

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<v Speaker 2>a home in our house spot. See, if I knew

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<v Speaker 2>it had a spot, then I could just go put

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<v Speaker 2>it there. And if I put his stuff away, then

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<v Speaker 2>he gets to know. But I'm like, okay, But but

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<v Speaker 2>it'll sit there on the counter for like a week,

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<v Speaker 2>and it annoyed the crap out of me. So I

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<v Speaker 2>really just need to make a home for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't understand what it's about either, but I'm

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<v Speaker 5>the exact same way, like I would much rather like

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<v Speaker 5>the room or like my side of the room be

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<v Speaker 5>a mess than like have stuff on the counter or

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<v Speaker 5>like in the living room area like.

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<v Speaker 2>That it's the common space area, even though like for

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, it's all common it's all common space, I suppose.

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<v Speaker 2>But the bedroom is more of like I guess it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a dressing room to me. And yeah, but like

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<v Speaker 2>if the kitchen counter on the coffee table.

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<v Speaker 5>You get.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, who is more likely to like plan a vacation,

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<v Speaker 2>do something spontaneous.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. We kind of both do that now.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well we because we did our We did our

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<v Speaker 6>first like europe trip to Ireland last year, this year,

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<v Speaker 6>this year, and then we kind of got like addicted

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<v Speaker 6>to trying to go to Europe all the time now

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<v Speaker 6>instead of like besides Europe, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I get that it's really the only place I would

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<v Speaker 2>care to go to.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well yeah, and then like it's almost like it

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<v Speaker 6>was more affordable. We went to Denmark and it was

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<v Speaker 6>like more affordable to fly into like La and and

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<v Speaker 6>and it was like all across the board, hotel, airfare,

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<v Speaker 6>everything was like half the price of go in LA.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, Wow, that's why so many people went over there

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<v Speaker 2>for Taylor Swift concerts.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah right, he's much more like so, for example, Christmas

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<v Speaker 5>is coming up, and like instead of doing gifts, he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>let's just plan a trip instead. So like in that aspect,

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<v Speaker 5>I would say it's him when it comes to actually

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<v Speaker 5>planning it though, and like looking for the flights that

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<v Speaker 5>I do that.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, actually leads me to a question for

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<v Speaker 2>married couples and Christmas gifts, Like I would rather Jared

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<v Speaker 2>and I just like plan something an experienced thing, or

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<v Speaker 2>I'd rather honestly just be like, hey, like what charity

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to give to?

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<v Speaker 5>Because like we don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Need any more stuff, and we want to give stuff

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<v Speaker 2>to the kids. You know, that's once you have kids,

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<v Speaker 2>You're just like, oh, we want to shop for them.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fun, but like we do not need anything anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you guys, what do you typically do?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you doing like vacations and experiences? And if that

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<v Speaker 2>is what you know? You just kind of mentioned do

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<v Speaker 2>you still get little things to unwrap on Christmas? You

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<v Speaker 2>just need to get a couple of little things? Right?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, that was found out yesterday that she bought something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. See I have like two three things for him

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<v Speaker 2>to unwrap, and I'm like, is that enough? Is he

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<v Speaker 2>going to get me more than three things to unwrap?

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly? We still need something under the tree, like the

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<v Speaker 5>experience when wrapping it. It's like something small. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>got to be anything huge, but like just just a

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<v Speaker 5>little something and then we also do the experience.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>It's tricky when it's like, omel, it's my money too,

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<v Speaker 2>So like, let's have a don't mind me anything. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really stuff like that. Okay, let's do a little

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<v Speaker 2>flip situation, Kenny, what do you think Mari's favorite memory

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<v Speaker 2>from Bachelor and Paradise.

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<v Speaker 3>Was probably throwing my birthday cake in the fire?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, that's exactly what came to mind. Really, the bad

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<v Speaker 2>memory has turned into a good memory.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's funny now to look back on it.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know, it's funny because I was getting my

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<v Speaker 5>makeup done the other day. This is in aside here,

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<v Speaker 5>but they were asking me about that moment and they

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<v Speaker 5>were like, oh, you know, we didn't. You know, you're

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<v Speaker 5>so nice, like you're so sweet and kind, like I

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<v Speaker 5>never would have thought like you would do something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, hmm, this leads me to believe

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<v Speaker 5>that there are a fraction of people out there who

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<v Speaker 5>believe that I am like that in like actual real life,

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<v Speaker 5>which is far from the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm obsessed that you said this.

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<v Speaker 5>Like that was a very specific like we're on camera

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<v Speaker 5>right now, like I'm angry, we're gonna play this up

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<v Speaker 5>like I would not ever actually throw food or any

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<v Speaker 5>object at anybody in like a normal real life situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was talking about this on my other podcast

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<v Speaker 2>called I Don't Get It, and we were my my

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<v Speaker 2>friend nass Like Ashley, you like are not confrontational and

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<v Speaker 2>you always say that you won't speak up in this

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<v Speaker 2>situation or that, But you are the girl who literally

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<v Speaker 2>had one of like the most memorable experiences on two

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<v Speaker 2>on one. How can you say that? And I go,

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's something called like camera courage, Like just

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<v Speaker 2>the environment of being on a TV show, even though

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<v Speaker 2>like it is so much our real lives what we're experiencing,

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<v Speaker 2>it does make you do slightly sassier things than you

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<v Speaker 2>would do in the quote real world.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Absolutely, And like for me personally, it definitely flashed

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<v Speaker 5>my head. I'm like, Okay, this is gonna be good TV.

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<v Speaker 5>Like people are going to talk about this like I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep. Okay. So then, Mari, what do you think is

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<v Speaker 2>Kenny's most memorable or favorite moment for Paradise.

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<v Speaker 5>M probably something to do with being naked, like the

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<v Speaker 5>taco date.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys were naked all the time, or I guess

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<v Speaker 2>like Kenny was more so naked. Why do I have

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<v Speaker 2>more like memories of Kenny, have you had like a

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<v Speaker 2>leaf when you walk down.

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<v Speaker 5>That I wasn't you.

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<v Speaker 3>Was Jacob blackbox? Now? Okay here two years ago?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you get black boxed?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>They I actually so initially I was gonna calm down naked, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>and then we switched to like a very small speedo

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<v Speaker 6>basically okay, and that's what I came down, and then

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<v Speaker 6>they black box that.

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<v Speaker 5>To make it look like he was actually naked.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So I knew I had a memory of

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<v Speaker 2>you not having.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, they talked about it doing doing it legitimately naked,

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<v Speaker 6>which I said, f I, I don't care, and then they

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<v Speaker 6>got like they're like, oh okay, we better.

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<v Speaker 3>Not do that. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I don't even know where that all came from.

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<v Speaker 6>I think, I mean, there was some stuff on my

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<v Speaker 6>season with Claire that we were like naked stuff Dodgebable

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<v Speaker 6>and all that stuff, so I think they were just

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<v Speaker 6>it was kind of just a playoff of like where

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<v Speaker 6>I had come from before Paradise, and then it just

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<v Speaker 6>turned into a thing. Basically every date I went on

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<v Speaker 6>in Paradise, there was it was new to be involved.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a little bit of a t M. I

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<v Speaker 2>rated our question, and I'm sorry if I'm being too personal,

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<v Speaker 2>but when you guys had that date where you basically

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<v Speaker 2>were like naked and like putting like food on your back,

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<v Speaker 2>was it the sushi tacos tacos? Okay, sorry thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>sex and the city taco ingredients taco ingredients? Was that

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<v Speaker 2>the first time you guys saw each other naked? And

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<v Speaker 2>did you even see each other naked on that day

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<v Speaker 2>or were they trying for they being a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>more coy.

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<v Speaker 5>So we were covered. They put like fake leaves on

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<v Speaker 5>us for that, so we didn't see each other like

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<v Speaker 5>fully naked at that point. I don't remember if we

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<v Speaker 5>already had gone to the boom boomer.

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<v Speaker 3>Before No, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, My last fun question is just what

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<v Speaker 2>has been your favorite memory as a married couple besides

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<v Speaker 2>the weddings?

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<v Speaker 3>Hmmm?

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<v Speaker 5>For each of you, I would say probably our trip

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<v Speaker 5>to Ireland.

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<v Speaker 3>I was actually gonna say that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because it was our first like big international trip.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we've gone to like other countries in North America.

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<v Speaker 5>We did Guatemala, but it was our first time going

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<v Speaker 5>like overseas together, and I think traveling with a partner

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<v Speaker 5>is always like a good indicator of like how your

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<v Speaker 5>relationship is going to work out, which for us, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>it was fine, but it really sparked that, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>let's do more of this together, you know. So it's

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like it was the set up the foundation

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<v Speaker 5>for us to continue doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I love it. I think, God, Okay, I well,

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<v Speaker 4>it's kind of like extended.

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<v Speaker 6>But like so we when she moved to Chicago, like

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<v Speaker 6>me and my dad drove in a moving truck from Chicago,

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<v Speaker 6>like what is it thirteen hours straight and then my

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<v Speaker 6>it was me, her and my dad and then like

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<v Speaker 6>we slept, my dad like slept on the floor because

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<v Speaker 6>all our stuff was and then we drove back home

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<v Speaker 6>the next day.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like thirteen.

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<v Speaker 6>Hours to Maryland to Maryland, we slept, woke up, packed

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<v Speaker 6>the moving truck, and then drove back straight like thirteen

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<v Speaker 6>hours straight.

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<v Speaker 2>Holy most.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, so it was like.

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<v Speaker 6>Which I don't think like some people like on the show,

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<v Speaker 6>don't get like if there's not that kind of effort

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<v Speaker 6>post show, it's it's really not probably gonna work out.

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<v Speaker 6>But like for me, it was like it was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>we're this is a legit thing. Like my family was involved,

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<v Speaker 6>Like we're driving out there, packing her shit, bringing her back,

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<v Speaker 6>all the whole thing. So like that whole thing, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I always that always kind of you know, comes up

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<v Speaker 6>in my mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's so sweet. That really is It was the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like the real life beginning of it all.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well all this has to do with travel really,

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<v Speaker 2>And that makes me think that if you guys were

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<v Speaker 2>to do any reality show that wasn't The Bachelor, what

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<v Speaker 2>would it be together as a couple. I the audience

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna be tired of me saying this, but I've

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<v Speaker 2>been saying it for time, and maybe The Bachelor will

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<v Speaker 2>catch on one time. But I think that there should

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<v Speaker 2>be an amazing race or survivor like show where the

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<v Speaker 2>married couples from the franchise go and compete against each other. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody is always like I want to see the married

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<v Speaker 2>couples again because they get to see the singles be

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<v Speaker 2>in paradise and you know married couples you know that

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<v Speaker 2>you follow on social media and.

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<v Speaker 1>We love it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it would just be really really fun

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<v Speaker 2>to have a new spin off show. So you guys

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<v Speaker 2>had to do if we if you were if we

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<v Speaker 2>were to create something like that, what format would you

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<v Speaker 2>want it to be in.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I would say, like, I think more of Amazing

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<v Speaker 6>Race over Survivor type.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing, but not naked and afraid. Kenny, No, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 6>No, Yeah, it was crazy though they were like in

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<v Speaker 6>the they're like in the jungle, like literally nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm tough. I don't think I could do that. I agree,

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<v Speaker 5>I think Amazing Race style would be really good. And

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<v Speaker 5>I love the idea of bringing back like former couples

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<v Speaker 5>or like you know, still couples but from former seasons

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<v Speaker 5>of the show. That would be so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Any kind of competition, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm socially in a high stress situation, like to

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<v Speaker 2>see how the dynamic is when it's not a romantic setting.

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<v Speaker 5>Such a good idea, and I'm like such a competitive

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<v Speaker 5>person I would yeah, I'd do whatever it takes to

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<v Speaker 5>win whatever the prize is.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, guys, thank you so much for joining us.

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<v Speaker 2>This was really fun and we love catching up with you.

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<v Speaker 2>So come back next time you have anything to promote

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<v Speaker 2>or you just want to catch Upvoting your second year

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<v Speaker 2>of marriage sounds good.

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<v Speaker 5>Thanks for having it, to see.

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<v Speaker 2>Good to see you too. Bye. Well that is Mari

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<v Speaker 2>and Kenny and they are so cute, So glad to

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<v Speaker 2>call them a bachelor in Paradise fellow couple success story.

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<v Speaker 2>Until next time, hope you guys have a very merry Christmas,

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