1
00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:05,760
Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the clo All right,

2
00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:10,840
Speaker 1: Jerome in Tampa writes that my wife is thinks it's

3
00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,960
Speaker 1: cute to let our five year old daughter take my

4
00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,760
Speaker 1: money and put it in her piggy bank. I empty

5
00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:17,800
Speaker 1: my pockets when I get home, and my dollars in

6
00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:20,400
Speaker 1: change are gone as soon as I walk away.

7
00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,840
Speaker 2: Is she teaching our daughter a bad habit?

8
00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:29,400
Speaker 3: No? Well, sure, come on, you got a wife and

9
00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,760
Speaker 3: a daughter. You ain't seen this happen before, But it's

10
00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:34,960
Speaker 3: I don't even know what you're dripping.

11
00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:40,400
Speaker 2: On, you know, just educating her daughter.

12
00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,320
Speaker 3: Why don't you do this, bro? Why don't you take it?

13
00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,960
Speaker 3: Make it a teaching lesson. You just bring your change

14
00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,040
Speaker 3: home and give it to your daughter and teach her

15
00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:54,080
Speaker 3: how to say stop acting like she's stealing. You know,

16
00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,680
Speaker 3: now you could look at it like that, but you know,

17
00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,800
Speaker 3: go in there and get your daddy's change and put

18
00:00:58,800 --> 00:00:59,640
Speaker 3: that in your purse.

19
00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:01,280
Speaker 4: You put that in your piggy bank.

20
00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,039
Speaker 3: You know your daughter's not really equating that to steal it,

21
00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:08,480
Speaker 3: because I'm pretty sure her mama tails had to go

22
00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:11,119
Speaker 3: in there and do it. So, you know, why don't

23
00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,400
Speaker 3: you get involved in Make it a learning teaching moment.

24
00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,199
Speaker 4: This what let's go to the next question. I don't

25
00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:24,039
Speaker 4: care your baby girl, just put money in her piggy bank.

26
00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,880
Speaker 4: That's your problem. Next question. Ship.

27
00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:31,840
Speaker 1: He's here, Brooklyn moving on vun In. Brooklyn says, my

28
00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,200
Speaker 1: husband had an old cup coffee cup in his car,

29
00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,160
Speaker 1: and he doesn't drink coffee. So I got his keys

30
00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,479
Speaker 1: and I examined the cup. It had greasy lip marks

31
00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,000
Speaker 1: on the rim of the cup, like clear lip closs.

32
00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,280
Speaker 1: He said it was his chapstick. Does this sound odd

33
00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,320
Speaker 1: to you?

34
00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:56,040
Speaker 4: No, probably chapstick. Yeah, we had to go with chapstick.

35
00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,480
Speaker 2: He doesn't even drink coffee. Get out of.

36
00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,720
Speaker 4: Here, tee.

37
00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:08,480
Speaker 3: Tea, milk, coffee, two different things. Coffee mug had more

38
00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:09,280
Speaker 3: than coffee in it.

39
00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,280
Speaker 1: And clear lip gloss and chapstick two different things, he.

40
00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,720
Speaker 4: Would but me and what we put on chapstick to

41
00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,880
Speaker 4: keep our lips all the time. I puttick on everything,

42
00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:26,120
Speaker 4: clear lip gloss, no thicker. Yeah, and it's thicker, welly

43
00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,120
Speaker 4: weather have you?

44
00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it ain't ticking in chapstick. I'm talking about the

45
00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:32,720
Speaker 3: brand chopstick.

46
00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:36,360
Speaker 2: And it's not shiny. Chapstick is not shiny.

47
00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,000
Speaker 4: After you leave it on that for a while.

48
00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,160
Speaker 2: That's not we're gonna do this with ya.

49
00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,080
Speaker 4: That's not what you're gonna do. It's probably bacon grease.

50
00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:48,040
Speaker 4: That may probably have breakfast. That's probably bacon gree.

51
00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:48,920
Speaker 2: She said lip gloss.

52
00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:49,520
Speaker 4: She's a woman.

53
00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:50,400
Speaker 2: She yeah, she.

54
00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,720
Speaker 3: Knows what chapstick though, I'm talking about the brand chapstick,

55
00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:54,600
Speaker 3: a little cheap thing.

56
00:02:54,720 --> 00:03:01,160
Speaker 1: Chapstick does abound odd to you.

57
00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:05,079
Speaker 4: No, not to me, well, to me, all right, and to.

58
00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,320
Speaker 1: Every other woman out there it does all right. Moving on,

59
00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,760
Speaker 1: since we won't get a straight answer, a truthful answer.

60
00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,280
Speaker 2: Some woman had her coffee cup in his car.

61
00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,799
Speaker 1: That's all all right, and he's stupid for not taking

62
00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:23,760
Speaker 1: it out, Sandra and Wilmington says.

63
00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:26,880
Speaker 2: Sandra and Wilmington says.

64
00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,119
Speaker 1: My husband and I went to see a marriage counselor

65
00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,600
Speaker 1: and he told the counselor that I'm a lazy lover

66
00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,840
Speaker 1: and he's tired of having sex with me. I feel

67
00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,560
Speaker 1: like I've overstayed my welcome in our marriage and I'm

68
00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,720
Speaker 1: done with counseling.

69
00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,160
Speaker 2: What do you think you're out there?

70
00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:45,000
Speaker 3: Because see that lazy love kind of messed up. You

71
00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:50,160
Speaker 3: know what that means? You just lay in there. That's

72
00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,600
Speaker 3: all that means you just laying there.

73
00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,240
Speaker 2: And she's not changing evidently.

74
00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's overstayed her what. Yeah, she

75
00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:03,160
Speaker 3: found out she was a lazy lover. It's reflective in

76
00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,040
Speaker 3: your love making. You just laying nothing.

77
00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:07,920
Speaker 1: All.

78
00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,040
Speaker 4: You just in there, just laying there. He ready for

79
00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:11,480
Speaker 4: you to go.

80
00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, Steve, what he.

81
00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,719
Speaker 3: Giving it his all? He just in the shrine everything.

82
00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:23,080
Speaker 3: He lifted your leg up. You ain't helping him. He

83
00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,080
Speaker 3: got dead weight.

84
00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,200
Speaker 4: He tried to pick the leg up, He just lay

85
00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:30,919
Speaker 4: the limple just god, this hard, holy leg up.

86
00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:35,719
Speaker 3: You ain't participating, Come on back, because he said stuff

87
00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,359
Speaker 3: like baby, ba ba baby, because you bend your knee,

88
00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:39,440
Speaker 3: just being.

89
00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,640
Speaker 4: Your knee, then't no more work too much.

90
00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,400
Speaker 3: Wrap wrap your legs round up. Let He trying to

91
00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,200
Speaker 3: wrap the leg round his back with his hand. He

92
00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:53,280
Speaker 3: ain't getting note help. He in here trying to make

93
00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,040
Speaker 3: the bed move all by his.

94
00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,719
Speaker 2: Self, making all the noises.

95
00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, he trying to pull the sheets up hisself on

96
00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,159
Speaker 3: the corner. He trying to tag a corner to finish

97
00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,360
Speaker 3: sheet off the bed. His stealth, trying to make it

98
00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:13,480
Speaker 3: look like there was some action going on in Yeah,

99
00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:17,200
Speaker 3: he's exhausted, lifting your hip up every.

100
00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,719
Speaker 2: Size, talking about yeah.

101
00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,359
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, but it is heavy. If you

102
00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,919
Speaker 3: did wait, if you yeah, that's true.

103
00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:33,000
Speaker 4: Told the counselor. That's when you when you tell the counselor.

104
00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,920
Speaker 3: Hey baby, hey baby, hey baby, hey baby, tonight, sit

105
00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,360
Speaker 3: up on the seat, put me up on the shot.

106
00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:46,599
Speaker 4: She's like, you put me on the seat, okay, baby?

107
00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:50,719
Speaker 4: On three? When I say three jumps, he said, come on, baby,

108
00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,360
Speaker 4: one three jump, just jump.

109
00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,680
Speaker 3: You ain't gonna jump a little bit? No, put me

110
00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:03,240
Speaker 3: on the seat. Oh man, this ain't no good right here.

111
00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,080
Speaker 2: She said, she's overstayed her welcome.

112
00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:08,680
Speaker 4: All right.

113
00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,080
Speaker 2: Last one Steve Dana and Charleston.

114
00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,360
Speaker 1: Dana and Charleston says, I'm in a dance competition and

115
00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,520
Speaker 1: my partner and I slipped up and had sex.

116
00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:21,960
Speaker 2: So now he thinks that I like him and we

117
00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:22,960
Speaker 2: can hang out more.

118
00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't want him in any way, So is it

119
00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,239
Speaker 1: best to tell him that I made a big mistake

120
00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,640
Speaker 1: and that I'm not interested in him? That the best

121
00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:32,640
Speaker 1: way to handle this.

122
00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:34,719
Speaker 4: How did you slip up.

123
00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:36,880
Speaker 2: During the tango?

124
00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,040
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to figure out how you slip up?

125
00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,600
Speaker 3: You don't want him in any way, how did you

126
00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,520
Speaker 3: slip up? See, that's just a lot too much got

127
00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,480
Speaker 3: to happen before you slip up. First of all, you

128
00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,640
Speaker 3: got to go somewhere. That's a slip up here. You

129
00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,800
Speaker 3: got to sit on the edge of the bed. That's

130
00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,159
Speaker 3: a slip up here. You gotta take your clothes off.

131
00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,719
Speaker 3: That's a slip off on our way to it. Then

132
00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,279
Speaker 3: you got it. Then you gotta do something that ain't lazy.

133
00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,599
Speaker 3: You already in here. Dance Now you got your leg

134
00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:08,760
Speaker 3: up that slipped up.

135
00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:10,720
Speaker 4: Shot.

136
00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,160
Speaker 3: Now y'all in there just doing the tango. But the

137
00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:18,120
Speaker 3: tangle that got tangled entangled, it's over with it a

138
00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:19,480
Speaker 3: slip up lady, miss me.

139
00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,200
Speaker 2: All right, thank you, Sela.

140
00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,520
Speaker 4: It's Steve Robin martinshaw Man.

141
00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:30,440
Speaker 3: Everything you're going through is God preparing you for something

142
00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,600
Speaker 3: you ask for. But He gotta get you right. You

143
00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,720
Speaker 3: got lessons you got to learn. You got strength you

144
00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,560
Speaker 3: have to build. It's character you have to mold, and

145
00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,040
Speaker 3: you got to go through things to have strength. You

146
00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,920
Speaker 3: got to go through things to build character. You gotta

147
00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,600
Speaker 3: go through things to get experienced. Because what you're asking

148
00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,400
Speaker 3: God for, he already knows what you need in order

149
00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,240
Speaker 3: to sustain when you get there. So you gotta you

150
00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,600
Speaker 3: gotta learn all the lessons and every time you fail,

151
00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:00,480
Speaker 3: quit looking at it as a fall you.

152
00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,320
Speaker 4: That's just another learned lesson. That's all.

153
00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,440
Speaker 3: In order to get to it, You got to go

154
00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:12,600
Speaker 3: through it. Once you understand that, it simplifies. It doesn't

155
00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,160
Speaker 3: make it easy. It simplifies.

156
00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,320
Speaker 4: Steve Harby Morris Show coming up right after that,