1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: My cousins had a disaster wedding, and now she's offering 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: to plan mine professional disaster place. 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: Oh, we can have a beautiful wedding. I hope he's 4 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 2: like Chris was so beautiful. 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: Well, last week I was on a zoom call with 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: several of my cousins and just catching up with things 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: and whatnot. At some point into the call, one of 8 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: my cousin's wives barged into the conversation and pretty much 9 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: took it over. She's not well liked at all in 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: our family, so the call ended soon after she invited 11 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: her tooks right by the way. 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 3: This comes from Pineapple Upside downt Gake on the r slash. Okay, 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 3: storytime separated. 14 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeh me. 15 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: So anyways, about thirty minutes after the call had ended, 16 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: cousin's wife, Flash crazy woman called my phone up and 17 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: before I could even stay hello, she started interrogating me 18 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 1: about my wedding, and when I said that we haven't 19 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 1: began planning it yet, she was. 20 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: Like, well, perfect hmmm. 21 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: She started licking her chops and saying, well, boy, do 22 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: I got something to do. 23 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 2: Bye, got the wedding of a century for you? 24 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: And by that I mean the disaster of a century 25 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: on the Richter scale, Denine, And that's bad, bad, exponentially 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: exponentially bad. That's literally exactly what Sam said. 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: You guys, I was there, he was it, I was 28 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: I was in the room at that point. 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 3: Were you producing? 30 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes, you guys hit an all time low. You just 31 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: got to take your glasses off of her. 32 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 4: No, no, because that's how the song goes, Lo lo lo, No. 33 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 3: Different song, apple Bottom. I'm just kidding, all right. 34 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: So she began gushing about how she would hold it 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: at the venue she held hers at, along with catering, DJ, 36 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: so on and so forth, even going as far to 37 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: donate us her playlist. No, sweetheart, you can't donate something 38 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: that ain't money. 39 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 5: It's like, sweet Caroline, don't stop believing why I am 40 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 5: Glee's greatest his. 41 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 2: As long as they have smooth criminal on. 42 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 3: There, it'll work like that one that's a small town girl. 43 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that one has gotta be on there. Uh, the white, 44 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: the white wedding starter packed ladies and gentlemen. 45 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 3: She said, it's true. 46 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 6: It's true. 47 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 3: It's true. 48 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: She said, she'll get right to it and she'll have 49 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: everything handled for us. 50 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 51 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 3: Man, at least she's the You know what, at least 52 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 3: she wants to help. Not many people are jumping at 53 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 3: the gyt to play in your wedding. Doesn't sound fun. 54 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: What's that? Was that? 55 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 4: That? 56 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: It was the package from one dumb millennial bake shadow again, 57 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: one do millennial. 58 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: So one of the millennials. I love coming. 59 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: Thank you now. If there was an award for the 60 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: worst wedding ever, it would be uh cousin's wife would 61 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: be in the Hall of Fame Bubber Okay, the Michael 62 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 1: Jordan of terrible weddings. First, the venue was a dump 63 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: in the middle of nowhere with no roads connected to 64 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: it from the highway. It was so bad many of 65 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: the guests weren't able to find it, so a lot 66 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: of them were extremely late. 67 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 3: Or ended up getting frustrated and just traveled back home. 68 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: WHOA, that's embarrassing. 69 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: That's instane. Grandma Kathy's trying to drive herway there. 70 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:24,679 Speaker 6: I kids, friend by venue, screw please kids and the 71 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 6: hidden warehouse wedden venues. 72 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 4: Just trying to kill me better taking me out to 73 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: the cornfields to try to kill me. 74 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: I will live forever and I won't come to this wedding. 75 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 3: This has become a murder mystery. 76 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: She didn't die though, Granny at the Granny's wedding. A 77 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: day shall never forget Coming to Theater near You written by. 78 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 3: Sophia Donner oo Oho. Furthermore, the venue was not handicapped friendly, so. 79 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't fun for the more elderly and wheelchair bound guests, 80 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: including cousin's wife's own brother. Also, the venue had no 81 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: restrooms available, and the only ones that were available were 82 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: located about a. 83 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 3: Thirty minute walk away. Wow, what an event, what a venue? 84 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm I was. 85 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 5: I was messaging someone who may or may not be 86 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 5: on the stream because I'm supposed to have a call 87 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 5: with them right now, but I'm here. 88 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 2: Who Sorry, sport tomorrow. 89 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 3: Talk to them down. Yeah, maybe they need to watch 90 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 3: a stream. Yeah, but where are you? 91 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 7: Yeah? 92 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna multit ask your commentary. We'll just be 93 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: responses to their questions, so we could do both at once. 94 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 2: I just I'm like, okay, super tomorrow. 95 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, that's crazy. 96 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: So the best types of stories you find, here's the 97 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: cue or do you want to start? 98 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 3: For stories? 99 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 6: You're gonna come in at the end. 100 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, and we're just gonna ask you a couple of questions. 101 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 3: Right, sure, meaning will be in the episode love it? 102 00:04:59,640 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 7: Or so? 103 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 5: No, it's just not my boyfriendrid of you guys? 104 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, guys, we haven't hired. 105 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: We've hired almost everyone, but not Sophia's boyfriend, the last 106 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: few people standing that we haven't hired. But adding on 107 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 1: to this, when we got to the venue, we saw 108 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: that there was a lot of cats literally on the 109 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: guest tables, and some guests were horrified to find cat 110 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: poop in their designated seats and tables. 111 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 2: Where do these cats come from? 112 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: Dude, They're just like in the freaking woods with these 113 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: feral cats. 114 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 3: Weros, Oh my god, it's so crazy. Some of your 115 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 3: dream wedding doesn't have cats in it. Well, you can't 116 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 3: answer that. 117 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 2: I'm alertic, I. 118 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,119 Speaker 1: Know, Uh the staff trick. It's time to do something 119 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: about it. But so those guests left soon after. 120 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,679 Speaker 3: Uh. Next to food, The food itself was horrible. 121 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: The desserts were in a horrible shape and were nothing 122 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 1: but a crumbling crust and fruit paste that happened that 123 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: had to be scraped onto. 124 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 3: The paste so bad I started. 125 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 2: Hot token up who planned her wedding? 126 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 7: Her? 127 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 3: Her the cousin's wife, her budget a a dollar catpoop 128 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 3: that was a budget. 129 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: The cook's dishes what was to had plenty of by 130 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: the way, they were origin that the cook's dishes weren't 131 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: properly stored beforehand and it smelled spoiled, which later turned out. 132 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 3: To be true. Since people complaining about stomach yeah, they. 133 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: Got freaking cat poop on their plates. 134 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 3: Oh, so many health hazards. 135 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 1: Someone like call the health especut down down the wedding 136 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: as happening. Third, the wedding ceremony in the midst of 137 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: a summer at an outdoor venue was not a good idea, 138 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: not for the week. This was taking place in Israel, 139 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: So to imagine how hot it was. Cousin's wife's wedding 140 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: ceremony was incredibly long, about two hours, again in the 141 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: middle of the summer and an outdoor venue, so it 142 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 1: was hot. 143 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: What did they do during this ceremony? 144 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 5: Like, I understand a wedding that is longer than that, 145 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 5: but just the ceremony, I mean, you know what, I 146 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 5: don't know what goes into that. 147 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: Then too, there's paramony maybe you know. 148 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 3: Just why why why choose? 149 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: If you want to have it outdoor, like, probably best 150 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: not to have it in the desert. 151 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 5: Maybe maybe John, maybe. 152 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: Maybe at least a tenth at a bare minimum, and 153 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: a fan who could asked for more. Not only had 154 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: the staff closed the bar for two whole hours of 155 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: the ceremony, we weren't even able to get glasses water. 156 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: God dead, I'm literally dead at that wedding. 157 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 3: And come on, deal with the guys. Uh. 158 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: Fourth, the staff, train train the farreal pats to go 159 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: steal files of water for you, dude, this is the 160 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: firefest of wedding Like this is this is so hilariously bad. 161 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 3: We're still work. 162 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not even like O PA's wedding right now. 163 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 5: It's just you need on the backstory, just about the 164 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 5: cousin's wedding, dude. 165 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:58,239 Speaker 3: And fourth the staff. 166 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: They were highly unprofessional and while they did have fans 167 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: set up at the beginning around the tables and dance floor, 168 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: they were later picked up and the owner refused to 169 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: let them out even though people were starting to. 170 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 5: Frog like, you didn't pay for them, dude, Yeah right, 171 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 5: cousin only paid for ten minutes. 172 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah one, we need to pay for all over here. Finally, 173 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: the music flash DJ. The music was ridiculously loud, as 174 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: it was the maximum volume on Gerard four one speakers, 175 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: no free sponsors. Dang it and h and multiply it 176 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: by twenty loud. Well, of course, it's natural for people 177 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: to have different taste in music. 178 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 3: Let's just say the playlist. 179 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: That Cousin's wife had chosen did not fit the wedding 180 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: at all. It would be more suitable for a kids 181 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: for a hotel kids pool. Jim Bree like the Cocoon 182 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: Elaan soundtrack. 183 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 3: That's what I'm getting from that. Oh, I love this 184 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 3: friendship after all. 185 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 4: I love brushing my tea. I'm going to bed early, 186 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 4: brush brush. I like dancing till dawn. 187 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 3: I would be in trouble mommy. 188 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 6: So I didn't do it. 189 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 3: A great. 190 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: Needless to say, with the lack of any ventilation, the 191 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: extreme loud volume. Other than h Cousin's wife and a 192 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: few of her sisters and friends, the dance floor was 193 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: mostly deserted. 194 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 5: They were They were keeping that dance floor going by themselves. 195 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: Dude, really finds this Joe Roula has injured the chat 196 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: who is one of the guys who co organized firefest. 197 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: I didn't stay long much either. I left right after 198 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: the fiance began after my about stubbing means, which later 199 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: turned out. 200 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 3: To be food poison. 201 00:09:58,080 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm sorry. 202 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 5: If I to this wedding and I saw a cats 203 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 5: pooping on the and the plates smelled weird, I don't think. 204 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 2: I would eat anything. 205 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 5: Oh my god, I think I would be like, I'm 206 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 5: so sorry, I've I've gotta go. 207 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 3: You have to like, what's another level? 208 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 2: Like I pass outarian? 209 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: But like, what's like I'm a fibertarian. 210 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 3: I only eat your strands of. 211 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 2: Fiber So sorry, yeah, I can't actually eat. 212 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 6: Any of this. 213 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 5: Sorry, guy, it's my it's my diet. 214 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: So so we spent the night at the yard. No, 215 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: that bad, that's wild. 216 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 6: What was on these plates? 217 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 8: Man, they got diagnosed with a chroduct case of fun 218 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 8: Oh guy, they really were serving infections? 219 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:58,439 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 220 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: But dude, the comedy of this terrible wedding is funny, 221 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: is pretty great. Oh my god, we're done. We're time 222 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: with the long, elaborate backstory. 223 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 6: So now we have the whole wedding. 224 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 5: Paul, do we think the cousin should you know, help 225 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 5: out with the plan the next wedding. 226 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: Help the wedding, help with wedding or not, wedding or not. 227 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: But back to the present. Peasant's wife kept running my 228 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: ear off about how amazing hers was and how ours 229 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: would be just as amazing if we just stick to 230 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: her plan. 231 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: I wonder if she really thinks that her wedding was amazing. 232 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she's like a critical thinker. I think it's 233 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 3: like a denial thing where she's like, it happened again 234 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 3: to prove. 235 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I could play the wedding. 236 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 3: I could do. 237 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 6: It was gonna be really beautiful. 238 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 5: We're gonna bring the rings up, and they were going 239 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 5: to me how kind of in a chorus. 240 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 6: It was gonna be beautiful. 241 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 3: The cats were gonna eat the rings, and then there 242 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 3: they were gonna poop. 243 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 6: We're gonna poop them out. That's where the poop was there. 244 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 6: It was kind of like an Easter egg hunt. Everyone 245 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 6: was going to look through the poop to find their rings, 246 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 6: and no one wanted to do that. 247 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 3: And the reason why it was so hot outside was 248 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 3: because like the poop would dry up faster, so we. 249 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 6: Still I didn't want to just smell. 250 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,839 Speaker 3: The reason we didn't have water because cats are afraid 251 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 3: of water. Yeah, everyone they didn't want anyone to get free. 252 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 3: We got, we got the fans. Just scare the cats. 253 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: They were too long, guys. This is the cat's wedding, 254 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: not yours. 255 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,199 Speaker 3: And the cats don't like food that's like made right 256 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 3: out of the oven, so they need some stinky like 257 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 3: you know, like well the food was made of cat food. 258 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:49,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, like salmon with salmon sauce, you know, oh god, gravy. 259 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: So once she noticed I was silent, she was about 260 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 1: to pitch her idea to be again, but I quickly 261 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: shut it down. I reminded her how a good chunk 262 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: of her guests ended up with food poisoning Field Say included, 263 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: as well as several of the guests later said later. 264 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 3: On sue the venue. 265 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 266 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: I informed her that me and my fiance have already 267 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: decided on which venue we'd like our wedding to be at, 268 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: and basically informed her that while we appreciated her willingness 269 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: to help out, our taste did not match and we 270 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: would prefer to consult people who are more familiar with 271 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: my fiance and myself. I was pissed and wanted to 272 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: rage on about how her wedding sucked and our grandfather, 273 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: mine and our husband's grandfather nearly ended up dehydrated, but 274 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: I held it in and simply ended the I knew 275 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: she was upset because this was a woman who has 276 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: rarely heard the word no throughout her life, heard the 277 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: word no throughout her life. So I was mentally preparing 278 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: for whatever hostile fire was coming my way. And sure 279 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: enough cousin hits up my phone and demands to know 280 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: what I said to his wife, because she hasn't stopped. 281 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 3: Crying since we ended our conversation. On you, buddy, that's 282 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 3: not that's on her. On her, dude, dungeons cat cats 283 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 3: on leashes. 284 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe they could get cute, you know, like textedos 285 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: and like decorative leashes. 286 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 3: You know. 287 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 288 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 5: Well so so there's some thing, uh in the during 289 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 5: I want to say, the Cold War where uh America, 290 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 5: like the CIA, developed these cat spy cameras where they 291 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 5: would put cameras on splash kind of in cats, uh, 292 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 5: and then the cats would like go and basically record. 293 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 4: You know. 294 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 2: The whole thing was they could record spy conversations. 295 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 6: Uh. 296 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 5: They ended up mixing the idea because the cats kept 297 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 5: getting run over. But this wedding, you attached cameras to 298 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 5: all the cats and then you know they can record 299 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 5: the wedding. 300 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 3: Cat videos do go crazy on uh TikTok. Yeah, the 301 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 3: ones where they're like, like why you. 302 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 5: Can see from their pob Yeah, and that's the whole wedding. 303 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 5: You're just getting people's fits from from the shittens down. 304 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: Their wedding video is a best of complation of all 305 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: the cats are running around. 306 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: That sounds pretty great. 307 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 3: Like I would watch that video. 308 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 5: I would watch that video like, maybe not the best 309 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 5: video for a wedding, but like great for TikTok. 310 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: Great content. Great content will help you start the channel. 311 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: They're saying, our line is open anyway. So I told 312 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: him she decided upon herself to take it upon herself 313 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: to plan our wedding, but I just refused. He was 314 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: a bit hysterical at first, but calm down a bit 315 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: after I explained myself. He knows I wouldn't make stuff up. 316 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: His wife, on the other hand, staid I called her 317 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: a bee then that my fiance hates her. 318 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 3: Uh, she does, but I've never said anything. 319 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 7: Lol. 320 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 2: It's like, you think my wife is a bee. You 321 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: think I know your wife hates her. 322 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 5: I know that you guys think that she's really bad 323 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 5: at planning weddings, and that she stinks and that she's 324 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 5: kind of ugly, and I. 325 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 2: Know that you think she's really stupid and I hate her. 326 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 2: I mean, you waiter, and that's this whole thing. 327 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: Guys, So Fiina is improv Did you know that it 328 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: was poetry was fast tracked into the intermediate? 329 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: I was fast tracked. I went through it past the. 330 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 1: First time, fast tracked. Yeah, you were fast track. Show 331 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: that's being called fast tracked. And because of the man's talents. Yeah, 332 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, people have to take it multiple times. 333 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: She didn't have to take it any twice once. 334 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 3: That's all it took. Yeah, take the compliment, you fool. 335 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 6: Okay, come on, thank. 336 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 3: You get your skills. It's a skill issue for you. Sorry. 337 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: Anyways, that we are uh and that, and she said 338 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: that we're going to sue her and that my family 339 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: can't wait until my cousin divorces her again. 340 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 3: True, but no one ever said anything, so I. 341 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 2: Think he's projecting. I think they started his thoughts. 342 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 7: Yep. 343 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: I chuckled a bit and told cousin exactly what I said, 344 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: and even offered to send him a recording of the call. 345 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: All my cars, all my calls are recorded. Frest issues 346 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: drug He said he doesn't. He said he'd like to 347 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: listen to it. So I later sent him the recording, 348 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,439 Speaker 1: and now the cousin is going to catch wife in 349 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: all the lives. 350 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 3: The plot thickens, the plot stickens. 351 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 2: Put a little corn starch in that plot. 352 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 3: Oh snap. 353 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: Cousin later called again and said that they had a 354 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: big argument and that the cousin's wife went to spend 355 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 1: the night at a friend's house EXO. Later that night, 356 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: it was brought up to my attention that great cousin's 357 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:35,360 Speaker 1: wife flash crazy wife went on social media to say 358 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 1: how I'm a horrible person who hates her and it 359 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: is the sole reason of why her marriage is crumbling. 360 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 5: Yeay yay yai definitely probably like those little desserts you 361 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 5: had at your. 362 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: Wending Ooh got him relevant joke for your face. 363 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,360 Speaker 3: However, she was soon However, she soon removed the post 364 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 3: when people who know better came to defend me, and 365 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 3: I even made a reply that I can share the 366 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 3: recording with who's ever interested. 367 00:17:58,040 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 2: Oh you know what I am interested in? 368 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 3: Then what You're. 369 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 2: Joining us live every weekday at three pm pst died, do. 370 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 3: It so my cousin. 371 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: My cousin has since divorced that crazy woman, while me 372 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: and my superwoman have been married for two years and 373 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: are the proud parents of. 374 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 3: A nine month old baby boy. 375 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 5: The question is, oh wait, we might be about to 376 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 5: get an answer. 377 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: And yes, we did marry in a venue of our choice. 378 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: Where are the bathrooms? We're on location, proper air conditioning, 379 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: no kiddy pool music, and reasonable volume. 380 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 3: With the cherry on the cake. 381 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:36,360 Speaker 1: No cat debatable, cherry debatable. Some people would like cats, 382 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: some people wouldn't. But you know what, we'll give it to. 383 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,679 Speaker 2: You're not getting very good footage without those cats. 384 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 3: Look, is it gonna go viral on TikTok? 385 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 6: Now? 386 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 3: Almost certainly? 387 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? 388 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 3: Okay, amateur hour over here. 389 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 2: Literally one like, I guess it's your wedding. 390 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 3: I'll going I'll give it to you. 391 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: But I'm glad that they figured that out. 392 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: You know, all's well, that ends well ultimately indeed, honestly, 393 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: kind of a a move that she was able to. 394 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: This is not often the case where we actually get 395 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: evidence to expose the person lying and yeah, manipulating everyone, 396 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: and we got it. 397 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: Kind of a win. 398 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: Just you just Land where we landed. Op had a 399 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 1: great weddings, has the baby. If you love us, make 400 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: sure to subscribe We Love you and see tomorrow for 401 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: Realist time. 402 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 7: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives Time 403 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 7: for okop Relash. My boyfriend is getting a little too 404 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 7: close to his old army buddy and I can't believe 405 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,640 Speaker 7: what I found on his phone. Hey, what's so weird 406 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 7: about two army buddies getting close and cozy? You know 407 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 7: you got your you got your drills? What are they? Drilling? 408 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 7: Drills are important to be drills. Frail each other, that's right, 409 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 7: that's part of army. 410 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 3: Drilling each other is quintessentially. 411 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know you're you're wearing like cute matching uniforms. 412 00:19:59,040 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 3: Adorable. 413 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 7: That's freaking amazing. Yeah, you're climbing through the mud together, 414 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 7: You're grunting right next to each other. You're singing songs 415 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 7: served raw left shot in my pants on top of 416 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 7: my balls, or swinging from you know you got all these? 417 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: Wow, I haven't heard of that. Apparently I'm not familiar 418 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: with the military. 419 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 3: One for me did song? 420 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 7: I female thirty. I have a boyfriend of three years. 421 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 7: We will call him Sam. Oh my male thirty three. 422 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 7: In the beginning, he lost his friend group because of 423 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 7: a fight and he was pretty alone, but that wasn't 424 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 7: really a problem as we were pretty happy together. 425 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 3: Okay. 426 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 7: Anyway, he was in the military years ago, and sometimes 427 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 7: we talked about his time there and his buddy that 428 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,640 Speaker 7: we'll call Leo, male thirty I sometimes made jokes about 429 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 7: their gayness for each other as they were pretty close. 430 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 3: Why why foreshadow? 431 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 7: A few months back, I wanted to surprise him and 432 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 7: find Leo's contact, as I thought it would be nice 433 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 7: if they could talk again as they lost contact over 434 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 7: the last ten years. What a nice thing to do, 435 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 7: super nice. I thought him on Facebook and gave him 436 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,719 Speaker 7: Sam's email, and he was excited and thanked me and 437 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 7: told me he would write him. 438 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 3: He was excited, so excited. 439 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 7: Sam was super happy to hear from him, and he 440 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 7: was excited to meet up with him. He asked me 441 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 7: if I wanted to come with him, but I told 442 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 7: him I could meet his buddy another time. They should 443 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 7: use the time to talk and get to know each 444 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 7: other after all those years. Okay, Everything seemed cool and 445 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 7: they sometimes went for beers watch hockey games and they 446 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 7: got really close again. I was so happy because he 447 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 7: seemed to be less depressed and actually went out again. 448 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 7: I actually met Leo once and we had breakfast together, 449 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 7: and he was a really nice guy. A month ago 450 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 7: I noticed they met up more often, and as happy 451 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 7: as I was, I was also a bit bummed because 452 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 7: he had less time for me, but it felt selfish 453 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 7: to tell himself. Then I noticed we were doing it less. 454 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 7: You know, we had been doing it three times a 455 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,959 Speaker 7: day sometimes and we didn't do anything for almost two weeks. 456 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 7: With two full time jobs and my health problems, it 457 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 7: was always weird to schedule, but I just noticed it 458 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 7: happened less and less. 459 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,439 Speaker 3: Dang, they were getting three times a day with. 460 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 7: The jobs at the missed remote work, Honey, I have 461 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 7: a lunch break. Usually he would initiate it more often, 462 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 7: but then I had a feeling it was always me 463 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 7: who asked or tried to feel him up. Again, I 464 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 7: didn't talk to him like I probably should have, and 465 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,199 Speaker 7: thought he was just working more hours and was probably 466 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 7: tired or you know, depression is to deal with. Fast 467 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 7: forward to yesterday. I wanted to take a cute picture 468 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 7: of our cat, who was sleeping in a super weird 469 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 7: slash funny position, and I couldn't find my phone. Oh, 470 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 7: so I used his. You know, we're super open about 471 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 7: our phones we have you know, we know our past 472 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 7: codes everything. I saw a text pop up with kiss emojis, 473 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 7: and curiosity got the best of me. I opened it 474 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 7: and it was Leo, who told Sam that he missed 475 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 7: him and was excited about the weekend where they would 476 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 7: meet again, and told him he had a naughty surprise. 477 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 3: Oh. 478 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 7: I was shook. Leo no, and scrolled up further and 479 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 7: my fear was confirmed as apparently they have been sleeping 480 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 7: with each other behind my back for at least a month. 481 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 3: Oh no. 482 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 7: He came back downstairs, so I put his phone back 483 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 7: where it was and didn't say a thing. I was shocked. 484 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 7: I went to bed early, instaid I had a migraine, 485 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,160 Speaker 7: and he knows that I need darkness and no noise, 486 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 7: so he went into the living room to watch a 487 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 7: movie with headphones. I cried and cried and cried. I 488 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 7: felt so much anger. I brought this person, Leo back 489 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 7: into his life and basically presented him on a silver platter. 490 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 7: But on the other hand, if it weren't Leo, maybe 491 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 7: you know Sam would sleep with someone else? Did he 492 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 7: do it before? Was our entire relationship, Alie. I never 493 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 7: got the impression that he wasn't happy with us When 494 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 7: we did it was amazing. I wanted to marry this 495 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 7: man and have his babies. And now I just feel 496 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,199 Speaker 7: sick to my stomach. How do I even start a 497 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 7: conversation about this? How do I compete with a man 498 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 7: someone he has known for so long. 499 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 3: Someone whose cheeks are cleansed? Military? Great? 500 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 7: Military? Great? Yeah? Did they sleep together when they were 501 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 7: in the army? I'm confused. I don't know what to do. 502 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 7: What should I do? 503 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 3: Man? 504 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 7: So John, there's more, but quick intermission? What do you think? 505 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 1: I'm sad, That's what I think. It's so it's so 506 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: tragic that it's like also that Op introduced them. It 507 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: just kind of like makes it so much worse. 508 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 3: For some reason. 509 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's kind of rough. 510 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: It's kind of rough, Like you like you could sit 511 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 1: back and think, like if I mean again, like like 512 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: Op said, probably he might have done it eventually anyways, 513 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 1: But you're like, if I literally hadn't have made this introduction, 514 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 1: maybe it wouldn't have happened. 515 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. 516 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:37,120 Speaker 7: That's that's that's tough pill to swallow. Yeah, super tough. 517 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: And there's something else that's tougher to swallow that oh 518 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 1: going to be That's what I'm. 519 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 7: Saying, Like, I feel like you got to confront you know. Yeah, yeah, 520 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,199 Speaker 7: I have to say it. I know I haven't been 521 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 7: in a situation this but like bad, but I have been. 522 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 7: I've been in a a situation. Oh, I've been in 523 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 7: like two situations. One that was like five like like 524 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 7: I didn't really care about one that I did. 525 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 3: Is this a Sam's chronicle? 526 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 7: This is this is a this is a Sam's love 527 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 7: chronicles from another era. Okay, yeah, the prequel. I'll tell 528 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 7: you one, like a little sad story really quick. I'll 529 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 7: call get back to the story. My first girlfriend. We 530 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 7: dated in high school. She was two years older than me. 531 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 7: She went to Georgetown, so she was in college when 532 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 7: I was in high school. Yeah yeah, And I was 533 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 7: absolutely madly in love with this girl. And then I 534 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 7: go to college. She is continuing college. He's like a 535 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 7: junior in college when I'm a freshman. And I remember 536 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 7: she would come back from like she would come visit me, 537 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 7: and I would notice these things on her neck and I'm like, 538 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 7: what are those? And she's like, oh, spider bites, and I, oh, 539 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 7: I guess the spiders up in Georgetown must like. 540 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 3: They're going they got an infestation. 541 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,719 Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, I would learn later she was like getting 542 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:54,719 Speaker 7: railed by the sailing team and uh yeah no, and 543 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 7: those were achys and not spider bites. Oh yeah, Sam, 544 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 7: I'm so sorry. It was It was rough. It was rough. 545 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 7: It was rough, but I found out and we ended 546 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 7: things and then I became a better man for it. Ay, 547 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 7: but I'm dying on the inside still. 548 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 3: The star of okop, that's right. 549 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 7: But I have another one that's kind of funnier that 550 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 7: I'll tell it The Edge. Oh okay, okay, so there 551 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 7: is an edit. Okay, all right. So he came to 552 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 7: my mom's house and wanted to talk, and he told 553 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 7: me everything. How he and Leo were experimenting while in 554 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 7: the army, but it never really involved feelings, but when 555 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 7: they met again, they were just buddies. But then on 556 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,479 Speaker 7: a drunken night, they started to fool around again and 557 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 7: they started doing it. He said, he's probably by and 558 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 7: then he feels super crappy about how he broke my 559 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 7: trust like this, He promised me Leo is the only 560 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 7: man he's ever slept with, and there weren't any women either. 561 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 7: He also promised me they were always using protection. He 562 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 7: begged me to stay together with him, to work on us. 563 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 7: He told me he would cut contact with Leo, that 564 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 7: we would go to counseling, we would do anything. I 565 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 7: told him I still love him, but I could never 566 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,639 Speaker 7: see him again. He isn't the person I fell in 567 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 7: love with. I also told him that the foundation of 568 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 7: our relationship is broken. 569 00:26:59,160 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 570 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 7: Can I be together with a person where I constantly 571 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 7: have to worry? Is he sleeping with a mailman or 572 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 7: my cousin, the new neighbor or whoever? 573 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 3: I love that assortment of characters. 574 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 7: We both cried, and I told him I need time. 575 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,919 Speaker 7: I will be at my mom's house for a while 576 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 7: and while I get this all sorted rough. I think 577 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 7: OP made the right decision. I mean, I want to 578 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,479 Speaker 7: know what everyone else thinks. Put it in the comments. 579 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 7: What do you think OH should have done? Who's the 580 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,120 Speaker 7: a hole? Who's the angel? Give us the whole gamut? 581 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 7: By John? What do you think I. 582 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 3: Feel terrible for Op? What was the partner's name? 583 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 4: Again? 584 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 7: Do we know uh, we know Leo Sam Sam, if 585 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 7: Sam that had just been honest from the beginning and 586 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 7: said like, hey, look, this is like we fooled around 587 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 7: an army. 588 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 3: We totally came in. 589 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: I totally came in with intentions and like starting to 590 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: catch feelings and wanted to be upfront and honest with 591 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 1: you just like this is just or or Leo made 592 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: a move on me and I, you. 593 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:57,959 Speaker 7: Know, I don't know how I feel about it. 594 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just wanted to come tell you like even 595 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: that you know, potentially maybe not reconcilable totally up top, 596 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: but that at least would have been like all right, 597 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 1: like you were like as soon as something kind of 598 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 1: actually happened or went down or you recognize your strong feelings, 599 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,360 Speaker 1: you go and you're honest about it. 600 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,879 Speaker 7: Well, it preserves the integrity of the relationship, right, and 601 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 7: it's like you can you can maybe salvage something or 602 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 7: look back at it, Yeah, look back at the person better, right, 603 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 7: and like like just think like, oh, like you know, 604 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 7: it just didn't work out. But like speaking from experience, 605 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 7: like if that breach of trust is broken, you're gonna 606 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 7: have a really hard time just thinking that person is 607 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 7: like a good person. Or just worthy person and then 608 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 7: it like makes it hard to just have a relationship 609 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 7: with them ever. Yeah, And like I think, like, uh yeah, 610 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 7: just you should like that that happens, right, Like, you 611 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 7: meet someone and you you could fall in love with them, 612 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 7: right that, Like that stuff can happen. But if that 613 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 7: ever happens to you, like just try to be the 614 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 7: best person you can be and be upfront before something 615 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 7: happens and give context to your partner too. 616 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, at a minimum, like when it started going down, 617 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 1: you could have even been like I'm literally like I 618 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on, yeah, and I don't know 619 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 1: where I want to go, and like like but I 620 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: but I wanted to be upfront with you as soon 621 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: as possible that you at least preserve the honesty. 622 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, but dude, that's freaking rough. 623 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 3: It's rough. 624 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, as rough as Leo dishes. I have been in 625 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 7: a situation where I was like the last guy that 626 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 7: a girl dated before she decided that she wasn't intimate 627 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 7: any nice. 628 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 3: I got a small one too, but the floor is yours. Okay. 629 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 7: So I just broken up with my with an ex 630 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 7: girlfriend and I was just like not in a position 631 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 7: to date at all, but like I was like like 632 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 7: hooking up with some some people, and I remember, like 633 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 7: I would, I was in this space where I was 634 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 7: just like I wanted to be just candidly honest with 635 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 7: people and not really just like as honest as possible, 636 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 7: and honesty was the only metric that I was going 637 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 7: off of. And I remember this girl came over and 638 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 7: we were like watching we were watching Watchmen when that 639 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 7: came out, the show, the TV show, and she said 640 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 7: she wanted to be a screenwriter. And I remember like, oh, 641 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 7: that's cool, Like what are you like, you know, doing 642 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,959 Speaker 7: to go towards that goal? And she's like, ah, like 643 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 7: you know, like I think I'm just going to like 644 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 7: wait and you know and figure it out and just 645 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 7: like like just know it'll come, like yeah. And I'm 646 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 7: like I kind of challenge her on that. I'm like, oh, 647 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 7: I don't think. I don't think it will come if 648 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 7: you actually don't like put put effort into like you 649 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 7: really need to like really want it. And basically we 650 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 7: went into this whole long conversation where she ended up crying, 651 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 7: saying she doesn't think she has what it takes to 652 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 7: like commit to be a screenwriter. She doesn't feel like 653 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 7: she really wants to. And it was like a super 654 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 7: like emotional at least, Like I didn't think I was 655 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 7: being mean, but we were just having like a very 656 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 7: candid conversation about something she wanted to do. Anyway, she 657 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 7: ended it crying and uh, we didn't hook up and 658 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 7: then uh and then she left and I didn't talk 659 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 7: to her again, and then I ran into her and 660 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 7: weiho and she just like went up to She's like, 661 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 7: what the thank you? After our date, I realized I 662 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 7: was just really into girls. Still not a screenwriter though. 663 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so that to me, I'm a little bit like 664 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: she was like, you got me on the screen writing, 665 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: now I'm gonna get you. 666 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 667 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 7: I don't even like that you realize you I was done? Yeah, Yeah, 668 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 7: I wasn't. Honestly like it was like, I feel like 669 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 7: the advice that I was giving her was actually solid, 670 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 7: but the way that I was like giving it was 671 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 7: I don't think very empathetic. 672 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 3: YEA candor is a two way street. 673 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 7: It is, Yeah, I mean you have to be like 674 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 7: one relationship one when you're when you're when you're giving 675 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 7: advice or you're giving candid advice. It needs to come 676 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 7: from a place of love, and so you don't know 677 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 7: the person that it, like it's like it doesn't really 678 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 7: do anything. And then you just have to make sure 679 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 7: that you were actually like like like is your advice 680 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 7: is gonna help you know? And there's only certain people 681 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 7: that are like ready to hear it. 682 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Honestly, recently I've been I used to try to, like, 683 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: you know, if I felt like, Okay, you know what 684 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: this really this might challenge someone, but like I do 685 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: want to like give it, still giving it now I'm 686 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: currently more in a place where I'm like, I feel 687 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: like if someone is just not even like a bit 688 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: like there's levels to it, if they're not even leaning 689 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 1: in at all towards anything, I'm. 690 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 3: Like, what's the point. 691 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think, like I think, like I guess, 692 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 7: like my my thought is like I want Yeah. 693 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 3: You would want that in that scenario, right. 694 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 7: Well, I guess like for me, I would want my 695 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 7: friends to give me advice. Yeah, if they ever thought 696 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 7: that I wasn't doing something right or could do something better, 697 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 7: or like it missed an opportunity or there was an 698 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 7: opportunity or whatever. Right, But then you know, you just 699 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 7: also have to be in the place where you're ready 700 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 7: to receive it. And so in a friend of as 701 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 7: asked advice, then I'll give them that advice, but also 702 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 7: like assess Like I was giving a friend like he 703 00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 7: was like getting who's getting into design right? And he 704 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 7: asked me some thoughts on his initial designs, and like 705 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 7: he wasn't in a space where he needed criticism, he 706 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 7: needed like support, show like it was really cool that 707 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 7: he was like, oh shit, you're working on some sick shap. 708 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 709 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, and like like you kind of need to applaud, 710 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 7: Like there's certain stages where you just need like applaud action. Yeah, 711 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 7: and then once enough action has been made over a 712 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 7: series of time, then you can be like this is 713 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 7: how you like, this is how I think you can improve. 714 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 7: That is huge, but I think it's like a lot 715 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 7: of times you need to you need to reward action 716 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 7: and that's the thing that you should like really dive 717 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 7: into rather than you know, the criticism. Getting to the 718 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 7: next step is ten times more important than like, yeah 719 00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 7: they might someone might not be able to do the 720 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 7: twenty things that. 721 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 3: Could optimize that anyway. 722 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 7: So but what's your what's your your story? 723 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 1: Well, a little a little bit less intense, but uh, 724 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: like I literally I would like, you know, have girlfriends 725 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 1: or date, but bro, I was terrified of like I 726 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 1: was terrified of kissing really oh like just like stomach 727 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,720 Speaker 1: was just melting out of my butthole so like literally 728 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: like seventh grade, eighth grade, ninth grade, even up until 729 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 1: the end of a tenth grade. I would literally just 730 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,879 Speaker 1: like kiss my girlfriend on the chee could run away. 731 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,719 Speaker 1: I was so terrified, That's so funny. I was so terrified. 732 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 7: Why you don't remember what your skilled? 733 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:26,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I was. 734 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 1: Just like insecure and just like, oh man, am I 735 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: gonna like do it? 736 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,879 Speaker 3: Like kiss right and that kind of thing. 737 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,720 Speaker 1: I just like just the nerves. I don't know general nerves. 738 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,360 Speaker 1: But my first like girlfriend that I did anything like 739 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: holding hands and like stuff like that. 740 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:41,959 Speaker 3: It was an eighth grade and. 741 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 7: Then so much earlier than I did, but I didn't 742 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 7: really do any like so I I kissed her on 743 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 7: the cheek. Literally, I think I had my first kiss 744 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 7: and like really like software yere high school. 745 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, mine was freshman year, but it was yeah, it 746 00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 1: was barely kind of barely a kiss, was the case. 747 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: I'll give it to myself. But yeah, so you know 748 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: we would, I would give. 749 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 7: Your past self up. 750 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. But I was kindling up on her. 751 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: We were holding hands and then I can't even remember 752 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: what happened. I think she said, you want to be friends, 753 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,840 Speaker 1: and then eventually I found out she was batting for 754 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,359 Speaker 1: the team. 755 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 7: Wow, hey, you know at least at least you know 756 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:26,920 Speaker 7: it wasn't you. Yeah, Horse is bigger than you at play. 757 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 3: This is true. 758 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 7: This is true.