1 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: Podcast starts. Now, what's up everyone? You are listening to 2 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: Stradio Lab. We just had a beautiful lunch from Le. 3 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 2: So here's my question for you. Uh Prette amage and 4 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 2: which one is Danielle him? Which one is st? Him? 5 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: And which one is You are starting out guns blazing, 6 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm I'm full up on bread and mozzarella, and you're 7 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: saying which French fast casual restaurant is which Heim sister? 8 00:00:53,560 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: I'm well, Brett is, Danielle is st? I think it's Alana? Really? 9 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: What's the third one of bump Pan? Wait? 10 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: Fuck? 11 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 2: No, no, Prett Prett. 12 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: I think Alta is prep because like she's more of 13 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: the household name. 14 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 2: Oh you think so? Yeah? And then is st Yeah, 15 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 2: and pret is Wait no, Danielle pre bum Pan is 16 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 2: not one of them? 17 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: What it's prett? 18 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 3: Uh? 19 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 2: And is one of them? Yeah? Okay, go ahead, go ahead, 20 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: this is really good radio. 21 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: We are us fighting over which Yeah, Danielle okay, s Prett, Danielle, Alana, Alana? 22 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: Okay? That was that? Sorry I did that. 23 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: Well, it's okay. I think it's okay that you do that. 24 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: It's just that you were sort of wrong and aggressive 25 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: throughout you know, we said have the parameters, and then 26 00:01:58,800 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: I was trying to work with the parameters in you 27 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: that's not right. 28 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: It actually broke my brain so much. I kept I 29 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: kept thinking of them. Penna is not one of them, 30 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: and yet it was. It was the whole time. Isn't 31 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: there a different one? I mean, I'm sure. 32 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: There's a different one. Yeah, but that's the one we 33 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: were working That's. 34 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 2: The one we were working with. Yeah, okay, okay, Jo 35 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 2: Juice U Jomba Juice, Joe and the Juice, Joe and 36 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: the Juice, And what's the other one. I love this, 37 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: by the way, this is the best podcasting I've ever 38 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: done my life. No, we can't, we can't. I'm sorry. 39 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 2: I'm going to own up to this. Okay, which time, 40 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 2: sister is It is my game that I came up with, 41 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: and I'm officially calling it a flop. I think it 42 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 2: officially is not a good game. I will own up 43 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: to it in the same way that I owned up 44 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: to when I tried to get Fabulosa fury Road trending. 45 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: Well that was fun, Okay, So obviously it's when someone 46 00:02:55,760 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: looks fab you say you look Fabulosa Fury Road. I 47 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 2: it has not. I've not gotten a trending. I've not 48 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: gotten anyone else to say it except me, and I 49 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: have to just own up to the fact that that 50 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 2: is the same with the hind Game. And maybe it 51 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 2: can just be my private inside joke with myself or 52 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: with my friend Sam, but we have to we have 53 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 2: to accept when something isn't working. 54 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: I think Fabulosa Fury Road isn't It's not your fault. 55 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 2: It doesn't work, Okay. 56 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,239 Speaker 1: I think it's the fault of the filmmakers. Yeah, Furiosa 57 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: because it wasn't a big enough hit. I think it 58 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: doesn't have the cultural weight it needs to happen. 59 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 2: If Furiosa was a bigger hit Fabulosa fuor Road, every 60 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 2: announcer on E News when they're interviewing people on the 61 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: carpet would say, Okay, she looks fabulous to Fury Road, 62 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: let's look into the Fabulosa cam and let's get that 63 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: shot of you mama. Yeah. 64 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: But unfortunately it did not reach those hypes. Okay, I see, 65 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: And so that's not your fault. 66 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 2: Okay, time is my fault. 67 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm we need to unpack what it's not working 68 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: about him. For me, I think what's not working about 69 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: him is that like there's almost something about the game 70 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: that's just like too simple. Yeah, Like Heim is like, yeah, 71 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: it's like which one's the weird one, which one's the 72 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: the film one, and which one's the brains? 73 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, and. 74 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: So it's just sort of like too one to one, 75 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: there's not much wonder. 76 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, it's true. And also none of them 77 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: are really like an insult. Like if you're doing fuck 78 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: Mary kill when you get to kill, that's a shocker. 79 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: If I'm saying I'm killing Obumpan, that means I you know, 80 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 2: they're they're writing me a season desist letter. 81 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 82 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 2: But if I'm saying album pen is st him, They're like, okay, okay, weird, quirky. 83 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it's tough. I Also, this is 84 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: something I've been wondering and I wonder this almost every day, 85 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: which is is our worldview. We think it's so big 86 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 1: when actually it's small. Do people care about Heim in 87 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: the way that we do? 88 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 2: This is such a larger question. I mean, I do 89 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 2: think people care about him. As we've said, they are 90 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 2: the A twenty four music so I think the same. 91 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: I think people care about how in the way that 92 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: people care about an eight twenty four movie. Sure, so, 93 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 2: like just like people we know, we know? Yeah, yeah, okay, 94 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 2: But I also think do you think moms know about him? No? 95 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: I think moms know about Chapel. 96 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: Moms know about Chapel. I think music dads know about how. 97 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, music dads know about her. 98 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: Music dads know how. 99 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 2: And they love Billie Eilish. 100 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: They love to love Billy Iilay music dad's love to 101 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: love Billy Eilish. Yeah, I hmm, okay, if they're a 102 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: twenty four, I'm like, yeah, who's Neon? 103 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 2: Is Charlie xx Neon? Yes? Because I know her movie 104 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 2: is a twenty four. Well, it's not literal George of course, 105 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: of course, it's like how Chapel. Yes, well, and she's 106 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 2: a but you were gonna ask something, yeah, but then 107 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 2: I forgot Okay. 108 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: But she's the onn incense that she also like swept 109 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: the Oscars this year. Yeah, and you're expect every. 110 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 2: Year you're like twenty four, but it's always should we 111 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: bring our guests? 112 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 113 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: I feel like this intro is like one of our 114 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: more flop what Yeah, I'm gonna say it. And and 115 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: for that I apologize to our guests. 116 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: I just want to say I'm having the time of 117 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: my life and I'm embracing my flop era as Jamila 118 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 2: Jamila one said, welcome, John Marcosires. 119 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: Hello. 120 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 3: I know I just felt stupid. I felt culturally, uh 121 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 3: a destitute. I know I couldn't tell you I'm sister's song. 122 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 3: I've seen picture of them to our dating now. 123 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:39,119 Speaker 2: The sisters sisters, who's the boy genius are dating? 124 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: Oh? 125 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 3: You see, I don't, it's all a blur. 126 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: I'm actually so happy you're here. Actually I am happier here. 127 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 3: Thank you. 128 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: Actually, I'm so happier here because we were just talking 129 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: about how you're a touring comedian that is all around 130 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: this great country road. So you're the perfect person to 131 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: tell us how many people know how in your experience, 132 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: and I actually would love for you, Sorry to cut 133 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 2: you off, No, I would love for you for I 134 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: would say the next calendar year of your tour to 135 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: mention how I'm at every show of yours and start 136 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 2: collecting some data. 137 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 3: I think, in general, comedically, references don't work on the 138 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 3: road the way they used to because we're so fractured 139 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 3: as a country period. So you will sooner see comedians 140 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: reference Rainforest Cafe, yes before La Pen. You know, I 141 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 3: can't do that in Wilmington, North Carolina. They've never heard 142 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 3: of that. And like truly comedically, unless you build up 143 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 3: like a niche audience, you cannot have those. Even even 144 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 3: Sebastian Man of Scalco, Like, so that's the number one 145 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 3: most paid touring comedian in the country right now or 146 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: last year, you cannot use that as a reference. Seinfeld 147 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 3: you can. And so that's just that's so interesting, it is, 148 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 3: I mean, it just it limits the ability to reference 149 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 3: in a way that like you know, Twitter or something 150 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 3: else would allow you. 151 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: To in your experience. What year to culture stop? 152 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 3: God Like, right where I started getting into the arts, 153 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 3: I have the culture. 154 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: I feel the exact same way. We sort of are 155 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 2: like in the sinking ship of the Titanic and we're 156 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: trying to reference. 157 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: We're trying to reference time. We're trying to pretend that 158 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: we can talk about. But what you're saying is so 159 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: true and it's scary. 160 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know my big idea, well, this is 161 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: like my big my big joke is we need a 162 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 2: nationwide it needs to be a top down government mandated. 163 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 2: This is the new thing everyone's talking about, Like, isn't. 164 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 3: That what Obama's playlist was trying to be? Essentially? You 165 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: know what, though, it's not that I loved when he 166 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 3: didn't have he didn't have Beyonce's album and then he 167 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 3: like issued a correction like, oops, I forgot. 168 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 2: Okay, here's a question for you. The concept of Obama's 169 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: playlists is that something people would recognize around the country. Oh, 170 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 2: that's a great question. 171 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 3: I mean it depends where you're in the country. Some 172 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 3: people would boo that list, they avoid. 173 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 2: They would know it exists. 174 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 3: No, I don't think so. I don't think so. 175 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 2: First for me, Obama Obama's play is just such a 176 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: thing that like everyone makes fun of every year. Or 177 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 2: it's like if you're an artist or if you're like 178 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 2: a novelist, even it makes a huge difference to be 179 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 2: on his book list. 180 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 3: They would still the reference you would still use even 181 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: if it doesn't exist anymore. Is over the book club? 182 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 2: Yes, no, maybe, Okay. 183 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,959 Speaker 1: Trying to road friendly references is like one of the 184 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: darker things you've never done. 185 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so funny. 186 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 3: It's it's the same with with politics. It's like, yeah, 187 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 3: it's gotta be someone we've known since the night. 188 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, here's cute. 189 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 1: So if you're like doing a joke that has like 190 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: Timothy Chalamer's reference, does that work or do you have 191 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: to stay it? 192 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 2: Would? 193 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 3: It would probably work, but certain parts. First of all, 194 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 3: like I have enough of a fan base now that 195 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 3: I think, yes, okay, my particular fan base, but like 196 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 3: and well you're figuring out probably not wow, probably not. 197 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 3: You know, I'd love I I thought it would be 198 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 3: so fun. I have like a musical theatery playlist, and 199 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 3: I slipped in the penis of Vaginas song from Amelia Perez. Yes, 200 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 3: And I think most people are going, what the fuck 201 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:04,719 Speaker 3: is going on? 202 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 2: Jamarco. I can confirm that that's what's happening because I 203 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 2: have tried to make Amelia Perez happen for so long. 204 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: My favorite thing. I don't know if you've seen the film, 205 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 2: but I have. Her cat phrase is bingo, and I 206 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 2: am obsessed with trying to make that the new Fabulosa 207 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 2: fiy road. And specifically, when Zebesdonia recognized her at the 208 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 2: Big Dinner party, she's like edisto and then and then 209 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 2: Amelia goes Bingo and she like whispers it really she's 210 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 2: an amazing performer in a really really compelling way. And 211 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: I think it's so funny. And no one knows about 212 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 2: it because guess what, no one has seen to me 213 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: the press. And also no one even knows that Carlos 214 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 2: fiegoskn was canceled. That is something only we know because 215 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 2: we're on Twitter. 216 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 3: That's true too. Whenever someone gets in trouble son Is, 217 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 3: You're like, there's people who know, they have no idea there, 218 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 3: there are people seeing Crystalalia still going and they go, 219 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 3: what happened? I mean, that's truly, that's literally happening. I 220 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: think I wish Amelia Perez it really was. I mean 221 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 3: it was disastrous, but like it was a it was 222 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 3: a fascinating I mean the twists and turns. Oh yeah, 223 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 3: I would love that to be whatever Rocky Horror is 224 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: like like just a real like your or the Room totally. 225 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 3: You could totally watch it with friends. I'm so happy 226 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 3: I watch it with my girlfriend. It was so fun. 227 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 2: It was fun. 228 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 1: No, I agree, it's so I do think it needs 229 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: to be reordered, though, I was pretty disappointed that the 230 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: penis Vagina song comes so early. I thought that was 231 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: gonna be like the climax song. Yeah, I really, I 232 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: at least needed it to come back. Maybe it's sort 233 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: of a reprise. I thought that would have been nice. 234 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 3: Know they there are some characters that you would think, oh, 235 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: this is a new main character, I guess, and no, 236 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 3: you will never hear from them again. 237 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 2: It's more of a sketch show. 238 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, this actually really scares me. When I 239 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 1: learned that people in other places don't know everything that 240 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: I know, it really freaks me out. 241 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 2: You know what. You know, what would be an incredibly 242 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 2: difficult job for that very reason is, for example, hosting 243 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 2: the Oscars because you are It used to be that 244 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 2: Billy Crystal would reference you know, Shakespeare in Love and 245 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 2: every single person would understand at least the basics of 246 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 2: what he's referencing. If you are who, if you're Conan 247 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 2: and you're referencing Amelia Perez or God Forbid, I'm not 248 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 2: I'm still here, the Brazilian film. Yeah no, there's no 249 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: who's going to get that. Not God Forbid, the Brazilian film. 250 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: I'm just like, but it's almost it almost becomes like 251 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,319 Speaker 1: a political conversation where you're like, Okay, do we go 252 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: to the center and reference stuff from five years ago 253 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: or do we push forward? 254 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 3: Because if you want to win or not exactly comic 255 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 3: or politics, do. 256 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: You then find yourself in the position of being like 257 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 2: I want to reference on the hurt. They don't know 258 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 2: what it is. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know, Like 259 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: they don't know what it is. I want to reference it. 260 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: So then you find yourself for ten minutes explaining what 261 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 2: it is for the sake of lift. 262 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 3: Like I remember, like I I had something about living 263 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 3: in Harlem, and like, you know, for some of the 264 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 3: harm jokes, you have to establish that this was like 265 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 3: a predominantly black neighborhood, and like you can't go to 266 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 3: the whole history, but you try to come up with 267 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 3: like one or two lines that captured, hopefully with a joke, 268 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 3: and then move on. So you have to like try 269 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 3: to you know, it's Sonny's References a TV show. I 270 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: have a bit where I talk about I'm really trying 271 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 3: to talk about how I'm not allowed to take off 272 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 3: my shirt and soul Cycle, and again it's like so 273 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 3: many things I have to establish. Not everyone knows what 274 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 3: spin is, now knows what soul cycle is now everyone 275 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 3: understands that in some workout spaces you can't take off 276 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 3: your shirt, and this one you sweat a lot, and 277 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 3: it's mostly women, and it's like there's all sorts of 278 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: contexts you have to set up. So I'm working on that. 279 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 2: It is the most coastal, like coastal sort of like 280 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 2: metrosexual man. Problem not to call you metrosexual, to be 281 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 2: like touring and be like I want to do a 282 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 2: joke about soul cycle, but no one knows what soul cycle. 283 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but I have to establish it for people 284 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 3: who don't understand any of it. 285 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's spin. 286 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 3: Where did metrosexual? The term felt like it this disappeared 287 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 3: to talk. 288 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: About something that you can reference because it was the 289 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 2: last dregs of monoculture. When people talk, we're talking about metrosexual. 290 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 3: But I don't know if I would where ASMI as 291 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 3: because metrosexual seem more like obsessed with appearance and looks. 292 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 2: I don't think you're a metrosexual. I was trying to 293 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 2: find like the right word for like whatever coastal sort 294 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 2: of like liberal man who takes care of himself, who 295 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 2: would go to sult I. 296 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 3: Wanted to like start referring to it myself as a fop, 297 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 3: like a fop like, oh oh, who's the playwright? He 298 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 3: Oscar while yeah, he would have a fop character and 299 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 3: it always was like the flamboyant character. But in his 300 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 3: plays it normally it wasn't necessarily the gay character. 301 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: It was it's like a dandy. 302 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, dandy. But still even that, like there's something 303 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 3: about like appearance that I don't fit. That's not one 304 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 3: of the things that is uh feminine about me? 305 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: What what would you say? 306 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 3: Is my my movement, my my mannerism's my. 307 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 2: A musical theater of musical theater of it all, the 308 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: wanting to be. 309 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 3: Like, uh, some show fabulous in a way, but it doesn't. 310 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 3: It doesn't translate to clothes. I've had to work hard 311 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 3: to like trust better, I've uh, it doesn't translate. I'm 312 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 3: not a huge like Camp. 313 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 2: Guy, You're like you like a sincerity I do. 314 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 3: I'm more I lean towards the musical theater of it all, 315 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 3: but like Camp, it's always like it's just too much 316 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 3: for me. I can admire it from Afar. 317 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: But I'm not obsessed with it. 318 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 3: But I love Liza Minelli and Cabaret like I get, 319 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, and I want to be you or 320 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 3: and admire you and every and also make love to 321 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 3: you too. It's the full spectrum of Wow. 322 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 2: I do sort of think straight men who are into 323 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 2: musical theater might save like if our actually I was 324 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 2: I was going to say the most shocking thing ever, 325 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: which is if we had a straight male president was 326 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 2: into musical theater, guess what we do that His biggest 327 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 2: dream was to be a musical theater producer, Like, is 328 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 2: that true? 329 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 3: It? He like loves musical theater. He loves cats, He 330 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 3: loves cats. He wants to bring cats to the Kennedy Center. 331 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, no idea, he loves But you saw like. 332 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 3: They made fun of him at the RNC came out 333 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 3: and it was light bulbs of Trump, and they compared 334 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 3: it to Roxy in Chicago. It's a showman. But there's 335 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 3: so much about anyone in politics. You know, they're all 336 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 3: wearing so much makeup. You know it might be different 337 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 3: makeup and highlighting different things, but his makeup sometimes you 338 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 3: see it and you go, it is crazy that we 339 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 3: move past this. Why is it ending so brutally at 340 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 3: the ears? 341 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 2: No, I do think that was talk about normalization. It's 342 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 2: like when the makeup was normalized while the policies come next. 343 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: Well, but also if we all, if we keep talking 344 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: about the makeup, then people are going to make fun 345 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: of us. We're talking about the makeup, yes, yes, yes, 346 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: here and be like, why would you care about the 347 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: makeup when all the stuff is. 348 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 3: Happening they want to There's just something where I go, like, 349 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 3: I think some people, if they have a way to 350 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 3: artistically express themselves, they become a little nicer. Or I 351 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 3: think I think there's like, you know, pent up sexual attention. 352 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 3: I think there's like pent up artistic expression, absolutely, and 353 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 3: it comes out and like. 354 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: We need to go back. Yeah. Well, you know people 355 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 2: have said that his version of like Hitler being a 356 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: failed artist is being a failed Broadway producer. Like it's 357 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 2: like if only they had let him, do you know 358 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 2: Trump the musical of course Trump with a t. 359 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 3: Look at George Bush. He did all the war crimes 360 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 3: and now he's a paint exactly. 361 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe that'll be his third act, you know, after 362 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 2: you know, the entire world is burned to bits, he'll 363 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 2: erect his own theater and put up cats. 364 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 3: I think that's what like, I think That's one of 365 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 3: the things with like AI at the AI art, which 366 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 3: is like, again talk about a conversation that like online 367 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 3: online everyone goes like this is terrible if you're making 368 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 3: an AI right now. It's really I keep seeing on 369 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 3: Instagram people make themselves an action figure or whatever, and 370 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 3: online on Twitter at least, it's like, this is vile. 371 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 3: If you do this, kill yourself. And then I go 372 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 3: and I look at normal people who go outside and 373 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,919 Speaker 3: read books, and they're all making an action figure themselves 374 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 3: because it's just cool little thing to do online. 375 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 2: That is the That's such a perfect example. 376 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 1: We've been we've been in countering this a lot. 377 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's literally such a tiny niche opinion that it's 378 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 2: quote unquote evil, which to be clear, I agree with. 379 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 1: But it is. 380 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 2: It is literally like it's the equivalent of I don't 381 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 2: even know, like debating who is gonna win some obscure 382 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 2: prize in literature, or like to think that chat GBT 383 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 2: is the average person just uses it to right emails. 384 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 3: But it's also the obsession with like thinking that art 385 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:31,239 Speaker 3: is always about the product, yes, and like you know, 386 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 3: we do it as a business, so it is involved 387 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 3: in the product because we're ultimately selling it, but for 388 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 3: so many people it's like, no, the art is the 389 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 3: process of doing it, and going to quote Sondheim, look 390 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 3: I made a hat where there never was a hat. 391 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 3: It's like it's like sometimes people come to shows and 392 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 3: they draw me while I'm on stage and they show 393 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 3: it and it's like that's just for them. Yeah, and 394 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 3: it's hard time. It's for me to think about it 395 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:53,400 Speaker 3: because every time I mix something I do a dude, 396 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, we gotta put this system. You gotta make 397 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 3: a TV shirt of this. Merch merch, merch. But like 398 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 3: that's that's the illusion of ais. They go like, well, 399 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 3: look we can make the product without the work, and 400 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 3: it's like, no, the work is the whole fucking thing 401 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 3: for a lot of people. 402 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, brother, the a I said is such a bummer 403 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: in a way that I'm like I don't even know 404 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: where to go from there. 405 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,360 Speaker 2: I find it like it'll die. 406 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 3: It'll like they'll make it so you can you can 407 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 3: make the Office but instead of Dwight's played by Gabriel Iglesias, 408 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,719 Speaker 3: and you can make it and you'll be like your 409 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 3: dad will be like I have made this, and you're 410 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 3: like I'm not gonna watch it. Everyone will make their 411 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 3: own thing and no one will care, and we'll realize 412 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 3: that so much of artists, that we're all collectively looking 413 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 3: at one thing. I hate everyone's talking about how the 414 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 3: pit is like they're enjoying it being it weekly. I 415 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 3: hate seasons that drop all at once. I lose it 416 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 3: and people always go, I actually like it, and I go, yeah, 417 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 3: you like eating cake for breakfast, and then you wonder 418 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 3: why life, why every meal is boring you? You don't 419 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,120 Speaker 3: know what you want. And it's the same thing with like, yeah, 420 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 3: you could make you can make a TV show where 421 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: the office animated to look like they're powerpuff Girls, but 422 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 3: it's like, who cares. It's about the cultural We all 423 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 3: agree to look at this one thing, and someone's curated 424 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 3: that one thing. So I do think it will destroy 425 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 3: itself to a degree. 426 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: You have to hope. I hope it takes on social 427 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: media with it, and I think it might. 428 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 3: Or all film and TV and we go back to theater, 429 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 3: and we all go back to theater. 430 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: That's true. 431 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 2: I mean, theater is the only answer. 432 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, kind of, I've actually been having so 433 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 1: much fun with stand up again and I don't know why, 434 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: but I've been like, oh, finally people are together. 435 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 2: I went to a play recently and shout out the 436 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 2: deep blue sound at the public and the final line 437 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 2: made me start crying, and then I couldn't stop crying. 438 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 2: And I was like, I think this is my pent up. 439 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 2: This is literally what being on Instagram all day. All 440 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:55,640 Speaker 2: my emotions are suppressed because all I'm doing is being 441 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 2: kind of angry at some random gay guy all day 442 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: every day. And then it's like one sentence that has 443 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 2: emotional resonance, which if I was just like a normal 444 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 2: person going to the theater all the time, it would 445 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 2: be like okay, well, moving on, like time for the area. 446 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 2: And I hear one sentence has emotional residence and I'm 447 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 2: like literally breaking down. 448 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: What was the sentence? I've gotta know I'm not gonna 449 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: ruin the fight. Oh, I guess that's true. 450 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 3: It was what I saw play with with my girlfriend recently, 451 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 3: and it was like there was a couple fighting and 452 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 3: the guy said to the woman like, I've. 453 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 2: Understood you, but you ever understand me? 454 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 3: And I was like wow. My girlfriend looked at me 455 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 3: like excuse me, and I didn't I wasn't doing it 456 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 3: on purpose, but I felt I was like, mm. 457 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: I mean, you just get a directness whatever. Live performances 458 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 2: is all we have, is basically sure. 459 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 3: But I did see a I saw a Broadway show 460 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 3: that I paid way too much for and I felt scammed, 461 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 3: and I feel I felt a new found no fuck 462 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 3: the theater actually. 463 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 2: But it was my fact that's Broadway though, like Broadway, 464 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 2: there's something the Broadway is literally Trumpian, like Broadway is 465 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 2: like for the literal zero point one percent, the people 466 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 2: making it are so completely out of touch. 467 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 3: I felt for it. I felt for him. But I 468 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 3: saw I paid a lot to see Augie McDonald and Gypsy, 469 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 3: and I I that was incredible. I really at the 470 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 3: when she's loosened and at the end, I mean she 471 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 3: was just bearing it all. And I it was a close. 472 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 3: I came to really sobbing in the theater, just like, wow. 473 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 2: You know those I just saw Burns at Peters in 474 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 2: the Sondheim review. 475 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 3: Oh how was it? 476 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 2: And I mean, listen, it's ultimately like cruise ship vibes, 477 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 2: but the but the but Bernadette is still Bernadette. Yeah, 478 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 2: it's like yes, it's like basically you know, people like 479 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 2: bringing out one like Barber's chair and doing a song 480 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 2: from Sweet Todd and then it leaves it and they 481 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 2: got like a top hat and do another like it's did. 482 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 3: She do not as Day goes by? 483 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 2: She did not go by? But she also did. 484 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: Sorry, I can't you're out gigging podcast. I can't contribute 485 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 1: at all, not at all, not even. 486 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 2: A little sam isn't. 487 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 3: William Finn died recently. That broke my heart. I cried 488 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 3: about that. 489 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 2: Never heard that name of This is my first time 490 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 2: hearing that. 491 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 3: I actually think we can talk about football after this, 492 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 3: but talk about musical theater references because I have to 493 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 3: do those on stage. 494 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So like what Bernadette like doing musical theater, I had. 495 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 2: I had a bit that. 496 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 3: Would reference Liza Minelli and like it would generally it 497 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 3: would yeah, they do, but like younger people go oh 498 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 3: from Arrested Development and you go no from Fossy and 499 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 3: then like I changed it to Liam Michelle for one thing, 500 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 3: and they all know that they know Liam Michelle from Glee. 501 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 3: They from Glee and like, but cats, I have a 502 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 3: joke that ended up using cats and people knew that 503 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 3: well enough, little shop they know, but you find out 504 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 3: pretty quick and a lot of musicals don't. Don't pierce that. 505 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 2: I mean, Hamilton, what would you say, as someone who's 506 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:49,439 Speaker 2: not a musical person, what musicals bring to mind? Like 507 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 2: distinct what musicals do I know? 508 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: Basically, Yeah, it's like West Side Story, basically ones of 509 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 1: their famous movies, West Side Story, Chicago. Sound of Music, Yeah, yeah, 510 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: that's pretty much. 511 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: Those are old. Yeah, Sound of Music is so old. 512 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 2: Damn. 513 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 514 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 2: I do wonder, you know, looking back fifty years from now, 515 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 2: what stuff from the twenty tens will have become canonized, 516 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, what will be the 517 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 2: sound of me? What will be something that someone can 518 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: confidently reference? 519 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: It's hard to tell, like right now, literally, I'm like 520 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: I can only think of like Goga and Katy Perry 521 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: as like, yeah. 522 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: For example, is the Sunken Place from get Out? Is 523 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: that going to be something that's interest as a concept, 524 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 2: Like people will still be saying that in the way 525 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 2: that we say, oh God, like some I don't know, 526 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 2: reference from a sixties movie like Singing in the Rain 527 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 2: or something, you know, like. 528 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, that one sounds like that's the but 529 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: I don't know. 530 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 3: I don't think if you ask my mom, what's the 531 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 3: sunken place from get out? 532 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, total, I don't think she knows. 533 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's on her way out of here. 534 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 2: It's the younger ones we're talking about. Okay. Our first 535 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 2: segment is called straight and in this segment, we test 536 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: your familiarity with and complicity in straight culture by asking 537 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 2: you a series of rapid fire questions where you have 538 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: to choose one thing or another thing. You have to 539 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: go with your gut, and the one rule is you 540 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 2: can't ask any follow up questions about how the game works. 541 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, wait, sorry, I uh oh Jesus, say what 542 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 3: you said again? 543 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 2: That's a followup question. 544 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:36,679 Speaker 1: It okay, okay, just go okay, Lona del Ray or 545 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: what you say? 546 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 3: What you say? 547 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 2: Singing in the rain or putting on the. 548 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: Reds singing in the rain, a Trump impression or a 549 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,880 Speaker 1: Rump inspection Trump. 550 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 2: Impression, insider trading or outsider. 551 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 3: Art insider trading, Honey, I'm home. 552 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: Or yummy a bone that's from the perspective of a dog. 553 00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 3: Yummy a bone. 554 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 2: It's not right, but it's okay. Or getting a full 555 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 2: bright because you are gay, Getting a full bright because 556 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 2: you were gay. 557 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:11,439 Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders at Coachella, or learning Spanish as a fella. 558 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 3: Bernie Sanders is at Coachella. 559 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 2: Being proficient in Excel or being carbon efficient take that shell. 560 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 3: Being proficient in excel. 561 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 1: Wow. So we rate our guests currently on a scale 562 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 1: of one to one thousand blades of grass. 563 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:34,119 Speaker 2: It's named after Lady Gaga song which is just called one. Okay. 564 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 2: I would say, okay, I think you gave an amazing performance. 565 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 2: I think the thinking, your performance of thinking was really 566 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 2: I would say theatrical. I would argue, as well, you 567 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 2: took did you take off your glasses during. 568 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 3: I think so. 569 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what we would call a reveal. Yes, 570 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 2: he said, this is a visual the visual medium, so 571 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 2: my cameras are on. I would definitely add a few 572 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 2: points for that. Yeah, I definitely think it is above 573 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 2: eight hundred. 574 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 1: I'm going to say nine hundred and one. 575 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 2: Who maulation, Thank you very question. 576 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 3: I told my girlfriend, I said, if I don't get 577 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 3: above nine hundred, I'm gonna walk right out. It used 578 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 3: to bekin of your teeth. Yeah, I want to see that. 579 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 3: I want to see Lady Gaga. I don't see a 580 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 3: lot of concerts. I'm not a concert guy, but but 581 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like, I have the means and the resources. 582 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 3: I want to see Lady Gaga no matter what on 583 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 3: this tour. 584 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 2: You know you're not going to be disappointed. 585 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: You're not disappointed. 586 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,479 Speaker 3: I need the dancing. I need some dancing. 587 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's sort of the only one still doing it. 588 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 3: No, I saw good concert when I was a kid, 589 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 3: Like that's when I saw I saw Spice Girls, I 590 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 3: saw Janet Jackson, I saw Pretty Spears early, like like 591 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 3: the school desks, school desks. No, I mean I do 592 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 3: have sisters, but that I was the one leading the charge. 593 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 2: Because I'm like, but this is your musical theater. 594 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 1: My question is more like socially, like, were you not 595 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 1: afraid of being made fun of for that? 596 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,199 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know, like people's interest. They were 597 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 3: all lame. It was just like a boring private school. 598 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 3: So there was no real bullying. I saw Spice Girls 599 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 3: in second grade, and I think there was just too young. 600 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 3: People weren't like bullying based on straight or gay quite yet. 601 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 3: But I went on a date in second grade with 602 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 3: there was a girl I had a crush on, Oh 603 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 3: my god, and her parents were like horrified. They didn't 604 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,919 Speaker 3: know because it wasn't yet like inappropriate because we were 605 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 3: second graders. But then they went with my dad who 606 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 3: was like dating someone which you know, was not part 607 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 3: of their worldview, and she the rule was she had 608 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 3: to leave by ten pm or we had to get 609 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 3: home by ten or something. We left as the Spice 610 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 3: Girls started the show because they were two hours late, 611 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 3: of course, and I bowled, I cried and I wept 612 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 3: because we left the concert as it started because we 613 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 3: had to get her home in time. 614 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: I'm shocked that you didn't have any shame, to be honest, like. 615 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 3: In second grade, I fully feel like. 616 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, my second grade, I was like, no, I agree. 617 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: I knew what boys liked and what girls liked, and 618 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: I knew I had to be on the boy side. 619 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 2: But this is actually think something I mean, I don't 620 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: know you that well, but I feel like this is 621 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: something that is very charming about you. Is like the 622 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 2: musical theater, Like you do just like have interests in 623 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,959 Speaker 2: performance and in theater and yeah or whatever, but it 624 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: does not like. 625 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 3: My dad didn't have super masculine views though, like he 626 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 3: doesn't like musical theater, but he was of the disco era, 627 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 3: and I definitely think like that was a real we're 628 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 3: just all touching it. I mean he was a hippie 629 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 3: and disco, so there was a lot okay, So I 630 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 3: I think he just never I was into wrestling, which 631 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,719 Speaker 3: felt very you know, just everyone's wearing nothing and you're 632 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 3: into other sports. No, I was terrible at sports. I 633 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 3: mean we watched football, but I never like was good 634 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,719 Speaker 3: at them or like them. I so I never had 635 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 3: the pressure from my father. And in second grade, some 636 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 3: guys liked sports, some guys like Star Wars, but it 637 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 3: wasn't it hadn't coalesced yet into being a weird to 638 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 3: a Potomac Maryland near Bethesda, okay and not far from 639 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 3: DC Okay. So I just must have looked out. I 640 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 3: imagine there's I just lucked out in terms of my grade, 641 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 3: not being particularly like dude. 642 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean sometimes sometimes you look out because I 643 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: would always mask anything I liked in my sister. 644 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 2: But but the thing is, like you you had something 645 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 2: to hide. 646 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 3: My sisters and I with Spice Girls. They sold like 647 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 3: little booklets at like Barnes and Nobles, and for one 648 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 3: for each Spice Girl, and like we all got one 649 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 3: and my favorite was baby, and my sister Victoria liked 650 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 3: Posh because they were similar to not just their name. 651 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 3: And then my other sister was sporty. And it was like, 652 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 3: maybe it's because I had sisters and they didn't give 653 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 3: me shit for it or you know, they were half 654 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 3: so I saw them half the time, so they didn't 655 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 3: have time to establish things. But I just kind of 656 00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 3: fit in with them. I watched that Spice movie. I 657 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 3: had the VHS and there's something I don't know, but 658 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 3: like the girl Power. I would be heicy Mota and 659 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 3: I'd kick and I do that. It was just just 660 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:09,959 Speaker 3: what it was. I don't know. 661 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that movie is the damn hit. 662 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's Alan Comming. Yeah, so early Allen Comming. 663 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: I mean there's alt bits in there that is an alt. 664 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 3: With the tour bus and it jumps over the bridge. 665 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 2: Come on, it's fun. 666 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 3: Does it hold up? Is it fun? 667 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 1: I watched it maybe three years ago. The bits are 668 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,719 Speaker 1: still funny, but it's longer than you expect. 669 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 3: And you're like, huh, the alien does the alien touch 670 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 3: her boob? 671 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 2: You see? 672 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 3: But that's like, to me, that's a heterosexual moment. That 673 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 3: they gave to me and I said, hey, I like 674 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 3: that part. 675 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 1: Okay, everybody gets a little early. Yeah, should we do 676 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: the topic? 677 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 3: Let's do it. 678 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: Please tell us what the straight topic is today and 679 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: what is straight about it? 680 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 2: Uh? 681 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 3: Weightlifting? We're talk about weightlifting. It's something I've I've dabbled 682 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 3: in and it definitely feels like a mix. What are 683 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 3: those territories where it's like, it's it straight, but it's 684 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 3: but it's but it's gay. It feels like a real 685 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 3: but it feels like a lot of guys go into weightlifting, 686 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 3: Like this is a straight space, absolutely, but I think 687 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 3: a lot of times straight men are looking for like 688 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 3: a way that they can be physical with each other 689 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 3: that feels safe from being in weightlifting. Is that spotting? 690 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: Please? Yeah? 691 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 3: Please? 692 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: Well, I agree, I think it is a very straight space. 693 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: And honestly, spotting is where I'm I'm I'm out. Like 694 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: when someone's like, can you spot me, I'm. 695 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 3: Like no, no, no, no, no, no no no no, no, 696 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 3: oh my god, the bars falling out, no no no 697 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 3: no no. 698 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: When they asked me to stand there, I'm like, you 699 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: don't understand, Like I'm faking, but I don't. 700 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 2: This is the difference between the straight lifting and gay lift. Like, 701 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 2: I do think there's something very individualistic about the way 702 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 2: gay guys do it, which is like, tell me, this 703 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 2: is my time to make myself hotter so that I 704 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 2: can go to Fire Island. Yes, And then for straight guys, 705 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 2: they're all like having such a good time and are 706 00:32:55,920 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 2: there together and are like, you know, sharing tips online, yeah, podcasts. 707 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 3: I went to Fire Island for a day. Jay Jorden 708 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 3: brought me around. 709 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 2: He was like, look the gym. 710 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 3: Upon arrival was the funniest thing I've ever seen in 711 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 3: my life. Just the idea of like some last minute 712 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 3: cramming before you go to the parties, and like it's 713 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 3: not it doesn't smell great, it's and it's like a 714 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 3: rough if you're going on that treadmill, just go back 715 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 3: to Manhattan, Like you're not solving it on that treadmill 716 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 3: for thirty minutes, and it just it was just awful 717 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 3: conditions to work out. I would have to be so 718 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 3: so desperate. 719 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 1: Well, when you're there for a week, sometimes you gotta 720 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 1: pop in for a minute. 721 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 3: You've done that, You've popped in. 722 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 1: Last year, I popped in for the first time because honestly, 723 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:45,719 Speaker 1: it started to feel like, okay, well I'm the only 724 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: one not popping in, so everyone else is like gets 725 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 1: a little pump in for the day, and meanwhile I'm like, 726 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 1: I'm on vacation. And then they're all like, where's his pump? 727 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 3: Huh? 728 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 2: So I said, you know what, you can't beat him 729 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 2: joining up? 730 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,719 Speaker 3: Did you do a do you do a hard workout? 731 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 1: Just get a light little sweater, a light sweat you sure, sure, 732 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 1: just make sure it's all engaged. 733 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: I okay. So in terms of weightlifting being straight, because 734 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 2: I do think this is such a like rich topic. 735 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 2: At the most basic level, you are trying to make 736 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 2: yourself larger, which is of course like taking up space. 737 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 2: So that's like just thinking very like basic. Okay, you're 738 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 2: trying to make yourself larger, and you're trying to make 739 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 2: yourself look more like a statue of a man, like 740 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 2: you are trying to be more man, and you are 741 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,439 Speaker 2: trying to be large. Okay, So that's one thing. Something 742 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 2: that's complicated about it is like if sports are straight, 743 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 2: there's something about lifting that's almost like skipping the middleman 744 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,719 Speaker 2: of doing anything that's useful. Like in the olden days 745 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 2: you would get buff by like doing manual labor and 746 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 2: or playing sports, so you would be doing something that 747 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 2: had some sort of other value, whether you're adding value 748 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 2: to society or you're adding or you have like camaraderie 749 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,320 Speaker 2: and the athletics ya, And to do lifting is very shortcut, 750 00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 2: and in that sense it's also straight because it is like, 751 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,800 Speaker 2: you know, it's like insider trading, Like it's like skipping, 752 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,879 Speaker 2: skipping the step of doing more complex work to get 753 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:12,359 Speaker 2: to the direct result that you want. Yeah, but it's 754 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 2: also gay to not play sports and want to get up, 755 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 756 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,399 Speaker 1: Well, buff for gay guys is like a reaction. It's 757 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,880 Speaker 1: like it's a it's a way to sort of like 758 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 1: reclaim being made fun of as a child. Yeah, Whereas 759 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: like for straight guys, there's not like a it's not 760 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: necessarily reaction as much as it's just. 761 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,879 Speaker 2: Like, well, I do want to be bigger. For gay guys, 762 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 2: it is so tied up with like issues around masculinity 763 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 2: and reacting to being called effeminate or being called girlish 764 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 2: and being like, well, I'll show you I'll become even 765 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 2: bigger than the man. 766 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 1: There's something about a gym feeling like a straight space 767 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: where you're like whenever I walk into a gym for 768 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 1: the first time, I'm like, Okay, everyone here is straight, 769 00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 1: and then if you're good there for like a few months, 770 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, actually only those two guys are yeah, yeah, yeah, 771 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: because everyone's kind of pretending in a really weird way. 772 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 3: I just think, I mean, at least going to like that. 773 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,359 Speaker 3: There's one party at Fire Island where I was like, oh, 774 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 3: it feels it was like everyone was the exact same 775 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,879 Speaker 3: body type, and I thought, man, I don't I can't 776 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 3: imagine the social dynamics with this, just dealing with that 777 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,239 Speaker 3: on top of everything else. It's like when you see 778 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 3: a picture and it's like twenty guys on Fire Island 779 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 3: and they all have a six pack. I'm like, if 780 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 3: one of you goes through depression, do they make you 781 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 3: take the picture? Like where where? Where are you? Like? 782 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 3: Or is there a different party? It was and I 783 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 3: and I was I was in a good place when 784 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 3: I went to this party. I was, I felt, I 785 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 3: felt I belonged. It was very I noticed at this 786 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 3: party there was someone who was like by all means 787 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 3: in good shape, but slightly uh, not as cut as 788 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,560 Speaker 3: everyone else At the party and he was like the 789 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 3: kind of silly one there. 790 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 2: And he was like, welcome to our life. 791 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,240 Speaker 3: But there's somebody because I was like, you're in fantastic shape, 792 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 3: it says everyone else is as is here Cody from 793 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 3: the uh A Peloton is here, Like. 794 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's pastcast on this podcast. 795 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 3: Yeah he said hi, And all I said was a 796 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 3: big fan And it just felt like the light left design. Ah, 797 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 3: I should have And I was like, oh, you love 798 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,400 Speaker 3: my spin material. Yeah, he I wouldn't have to explain 799 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:23,800 Speaker 3: it to you. 800 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 1: Also, you're right, they do make you take the picture. 801 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. And what you're describing about being the silly one, 802 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 2: it's I mean, it is the you know, it is 803 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 2: the gig equivalent of like the very sexist trope of 804 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 2: like the there's like a group of girls and there 805 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 2: was like the one ugly one and and but the 806 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:40,880 Speaker 2: thing was like. 807 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 3: This ugly one was like truly, of course, if he 808 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 3: was straight, he'd be the fucking every guy be like, fuck, 809 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 3: he's so with shape? 810 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, what is what is okay? 811 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:52,320 Speaker 2: Weightlifting? 812 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 1: I agree with this idea. The weightlifting is straight, but 813 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 1: it is an interesting difference where it's not having having 814 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 1: a perfect body isn't straight, Like the goal to have 815 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: a perfect body is not the same in straight culture 816 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: whereas like but. 817 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 3: But it's a different kind of perfect body. It's like 818 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,359 Speaker 3: I feel like with straight guys. I mean, I don't 819 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 3: know if like professional weightlifting. I saw like the Arnold 820 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:17,440 Speaker 3: Swarzenegger documentary, and you see like those dudes, and I'm 821 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,880 Speaker 3: sure some of them are gay, but like Arnold seems 822 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 3: pretty straight. But there's still is this like he likes 823 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 3: the male body. I'm sure he went to guys and 824 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 3: they go leves flex flex, let me feel, and I'm 825 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 3: sure if they could lick they would too. But like 826 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 3: some there's something I don't know. 827 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 2: It's just it's you. 828 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 3: You you like the male body. Like sometimes I think 829 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 3: you can like like in my male body, but because 830 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 3: you like you, like I want that body. I want 831 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 3: to be that body. And that isn't necessarily sexual in 832 00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,440 Speaker 3: the same way wanting to have sex with someone, but 833 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 3: it is sexual. 834 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 1: Well, this is that classic thing where like it goes 835 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 1: back to even straight guys can jerk off with each 836 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 1: other and it's just male bonding, but they never invite 837 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: gay guys to jerk off with them. 838 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,480 Speaker 3: So I actually First of all, I've never jerked off 839 00:38:58,520 --> 00:38:59,439 Speaker 3: with another guy. 840 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,760 Speaker 2: You are too bays to go in that Spice Girls concert. 841 00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:03,880 Speaker 3: Are a lot of straight guys saying this. 842 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 2: That's the high school, middle school thing of like straight 843 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 2: guys all drinking off together. Yeah, okay, so so you 844 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,800 Speaker 2: went to a different kind of non apotomac Okay. So 845 00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 2: I do think much like the there's something about something 846 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 2: being so gay that it's just straight. And I think 847 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 2: bodybuilding is one of those things. Like bodybuilding, if you 848 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 2: think about it, it's literally men getting oiled up and posing. 849 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 2: That's like something out of a gay guy's imagination. And 850 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,400 Speaker 2: yet because it's so far in that direction, it like 851 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,640 Speaker 2: transcends sexuality and becomes a completely straight thing or something, 852 00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 853 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 3: Isn't kind of like when when when a gay guy 854 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 3: is getting in shape or buff. I mean, it's per 855 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,320 Speaker 3: the fire Island point, like is in part of it like, 856 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 3: oh this is really going to change my sexual life. 857 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 3: There's a lot more people who are going to want 858 00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 3: to hook up, and and for some there's more open relationships. Sure, 859 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 3: certainly with like a guy. It doesn't always feel like 860 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,800 Speaker 3: the weightlifting is necessarily too attract the opposite gender. I 861 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,320 Speaker 3: mean a lot of times they're in a relationship, it 862 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,399 Speaker 3: really is about them. Sex isn't as much a part 863 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 3: of wanting to do it. I've always thought of I 864 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,839 Speaker 3: was like a gay guy, especially open relationship, like I'd 865 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 3: be motivated to like work even because it would it 866 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 3: would kind of it would change the whole dynamic. It's 867 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,959 Speaker 3: shape has no effect on my interpersonal life. 868 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,719 Speaker 2: It's a more feminine impulse. For It's like putting on 869 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,480 Speaker 2: makeup for gamment, yes, whereas for straight men it is. Uh, 870 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,360 Speaker 2: it's like health, health oriented. 871 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,960 Speaker 3: Health oriented and for the for other other guys, but 872 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 3: in a different way, not for sex, but just like. 873 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 2: It's competition, competition, sexual competition. 874 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 3: In bonding, something to like relate about and and again 875 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 3: to like be able to engage physically. I think there's 876 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,240 Speaker 3: just like the desire to engage physically but still feel 877 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 3: like you're you're straight or it doesn't. It feels like 878 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 3: structured so you're allowed to do that. I just I 879 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,439 Speaker 3: don't know. It goes back to sports too. I feel 880 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 3: like I had have friend he played soccer, and I 881 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,320 Speaker 3: remember once I hung out with him after college. He 882 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 3: played soccer at Stanford and we were going out one 883 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 3: night to like a club nightmare night for me. We 884 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,799 Speaker 3: went to like one of their houses. They all were 885 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 3: on the soccer team together, and this guy took a 886 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,399 Speaker 3: shower all in his room and he like came out 887 00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 3: and he was naked. And these are all these are 888 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 3: straight guys. I am gay there and this guy is naked, 889 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 3: and you know, these are the guys just went locker 890 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 3: in the locker room for this whole time. And this 891 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,400 Speaker 3: guy's naked and he's just standing there kind of like 892 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,799 Speaker 3: talking and just we were in his room, but he's 893 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,160 Speaker 3: naked for a massively long amount of time. And I 894 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 3: thought in that moment, I was like, I've been to 895 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 3: six musical theater sleep boy camps, I've had I've had 896 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 3: gay friends, I've had gay roommates. What we are doing 897 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 3: right now is the most erotic thing I have ever 898 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 3: been a part of in my entire life. And these 899 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 3: guys would never would never think of themselves think of 900 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 3: it as homosexual at all. 901 00:41:58,760 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 2: Were they addressing it? 902 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 3: No, he was just he was just he was And 903 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,880 Speaker 3: he wasn't like standing like I'd be sitting like he 904 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,080 Speaker 3: was standing kind of like a statue. I always think 905 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 3: like when guys get so worked up about a gay 906 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,719 Speaker 3: a gay person in the locker room, like with with 907 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,239 Speaker 3: football or whatever. I think it's because it acknowledges that 908 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 3: what they're doing is kind of erotic showering together, and 909 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 3: so if someone there who wants to fuck to go, 910 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 3: he just wants to fuck us, it's like, well, you're there, 911 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,760 Speaker 3: you're slapping each other's asses. But it's it's the threat. 912 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,920 Speaker 3: It's all just a thought experiment that they've established that 913 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,400 Speaker 3: this is not gay, and it's like, maybe it's not gay, 914 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 3: but it's erotic. It is erotic almost. 915 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 2: So what you're afraid of is not that the gay 916 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 2: guy in the locker room is going to hit on you. 917 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 2: What you're afraid of is that you're gonna be attracted 918 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 2: to him. Sure, it's like if you're holding a baby, 919 00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: you're not afraid of dropping it. You're afraid you're gonna 920 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:55,399 Speaker 2: accidentally like throw it. Like it's like you're confronting part 921 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 2: a part of yourself that you have suppressed. 922 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but so yeah, I think I think that's what 923 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,319 Speaker 3: weightlifting is just another form of like and some guys 924 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,759 Speaker 3: love it. Good for them, God bless. 925 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 1: What about grunting? M grunting while lifting. 926 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,760 Speaker 3: If you really push yourself straight. 927 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: I've never felt the need to grunt. 928 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,799 Speaker 2: I sometimes sometimes it happens by accident, and I feel 929 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 2: so humiliated. 930 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 3: I know, but that's how you know you're working hard. Yes, 931 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:27,240 Speaker 3: I there's overdoing it. There's there's performative grunting. 932 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,799 Speaker 2: No, but I do think, like sometimes it comes out? 933 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 2: Does it never come out for you? Not once? 934 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,240 Speaker 1: Really I'm silent. 935 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I have to like focus in order to be silent, 936 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,120 Speaker 2: because by default I will be like, like. 937 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 3: I curse I like really, I love to curse. I 938 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,440 Speaker 3: When I was doing why did you Zoom? Workouts during COVID, 939 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 3: there was one time that my roommate was like, you 940 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 3: gotta chill it out because I'd be like fuck yeah, fuck, 941 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 3: and he was like you can't. You can't do that. 942 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 3: And I had to learn. I had to learn. 943 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 2: Wow was it hard to learn? 944 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,480 Speaker 3: It was hard to learn. I'm I'm a night between 945 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 3: the singing practice and the grunting and the I'm a noisy. 946 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 2: Tough, tough room tough. I mean, I do think occurred 947 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,840 Speaker 2: just naturally a performer, the grunting comes out more not 948 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 2: to say that you're not perform. It's interesting. I think 949 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 2: another straight thing about lifting is also the like self 950 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 2: optimization element of it, Like you are, it's very Silicon 951 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,479 Speaker 2: valley like, well, it has been. 952 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: Co opted by this type right now and sort of 953 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 1: this like techie even manospheri ish type, which I don't 954 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,840 Speaker 1: know how. This is the other thing of sort of 955 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 1: talking about time. You know, this is that manosphere tech 956 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 1: guy stuff is sort of some guy's heime and I 957 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 1: can never tell. 958 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:43,840 Speaker 2: How it is. 959 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,320 Speaker 3: I mean, it was enough to win an election, you 960 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 3: know what I mean. But like, but like I as 961 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 3: soon as I see videos for these man camps, like it. 962 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,359 Speaker 2: Keeps up where it's like a guy being yelled at. 963 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 1: I've seen this stuff. 964 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 3: They're being yelled at, but they're also journaling and they're 965 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 3: also I'm like, I'm like, this is I don't judge 966 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 3: it because I go I went to acting camp. These 967 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 3: guys did not get this. They never got to do 968 00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 3: the artist's way. And if we can rebrand the Artist's 969 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 3: way for straight guys and just change the cover and 970 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 3: be like the real Roseway. Yeah, the dudes, the dudes 971 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 3: Dude's journey, like they there's something where it's almost like 972 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:29,880 Speaker 3: a horseshoe theory in terms of like sexuality or femininity. 973 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,879 Speaker 3: It's like they're going so far here that suddenly they're 974 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 3: in groups together journaling and talking about their feelings. And 975 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 3: You're like, if we can bring it all the way, 976 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,799 Speaker 3: you'll understand that that you just have not been given 977 00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 3: a space in society to express yourself. And those those camps, 978 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,720 Speaker 3: I look at them and I'm like, this is theater 979 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 3: camp for men in their fifties. 980 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. My fear is that they think the reason they 981 00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,400 Speaker 2: haven't been given space to journal is because of feminism, 982 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,399 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Sure, Like because I it's 983 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,239 Speaker 2: almost like everyone of all political stripes can agree on 984 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 2: the problem that there's a christ some vaguely defined crisis 985 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 2: of masculinity. Then it's like either you look at that 986 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 2: in the right wing way or where you're like, well, 987 00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 2: the reason is because women are you know, taking have 988 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,440 Speaker 2: taken them down and don't allow them to flourish, or 989 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,799 Speaker 2: you look at it from like the opposite perspective, which 990 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,359 Speaker 2: is like patriarchy also affects men. 991 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 3: And we'll look at Jordan Peterson. Jordan Peterson, He's like 992 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,440 Speaker 3: he's like crying all the time, and I look at him. 993 00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 3: I'm like, how are you part of the manisphere? 994 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,520 Speaker 2: You were the most plain, bullyant suits totally. 995 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 3: You're sobbing And I go like, they're the key is 996 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:40,279 Speaker 3: in there somewhere, And unfortunately it's's hard because you know, 997 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 3: those guys will see on Twitter someone go, men are 998 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 3: trash and and they're so emotionally vulnerable they could fuck you. 999 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,040 Speaker 3: I'm going to man camp. 1000 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 2: I know it's tough. 1001 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:53,799 Speaker 1: Well, I mean when you do it like that, I'm 1002 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 1: almost like, well, actually, now, I like I like the 1003 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: man camps, then everyone should go. 1004 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,920 Speaker 3: But maybe that's what happens. It's like at the end 1005 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,800 Speaker 3: of the man camp, the council goes. Just so you know, 1006 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 3: this was actually gay camp. Yeah. 1007 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 2: I was liberal the whole time. 1008 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 3: Liberal the whole time. 1009 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:11,879 Speaker 2: That peoples off the mask and it's a mask, get 1010 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,480 Speaker 2: them at their most vulnerable and then screen moonstruck. 1011 00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:15,759 Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean. 1012 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, that says something as simple as that. 1013 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 1: I actually think the idea that everyone just needs to 1014 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 1: go to acting camp and like embarrassing to shame and 1015 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,799 Speaker 1: bring them down, Like absolutely that's true. 1016 00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:28,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's basically what. 1017 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 3: We all need. 1018 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, because we get a little scab on us. 1019 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 2: When we don't do that. 1020 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's something Sometimes I look back in it and 1021 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,920 Speaker 3: I go, like I should have learned skills, and then 1022 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 3: I go, but then then I'd be longing for that thing. 1023 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,839 Speaker 3: Now it's like I got it. I needed that when 1024 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 3: I was at that age. 1025 00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 2: No, I completely agree. I wish I had gotten to 1026 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 2: acting camp. Do you know what's interesting about lifting is 1027 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 2: via the manisphere of via Silicon Valley whatever. Now it's 1028 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,840 Speaker 2: like Mark Zuckerberg and Jeff Bezos are rip Yeah, that 1029 00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 2: is a big shift that has happened in this generation. 1030 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 2: Like Steve Jobs and Bill Gates were not ripped. I 1031 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 2: will say being ripped is starting to be meaningless. 1032 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, in a weird way. It's because you can just 1033 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 1: do it, like you can just buy. 1034 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,360 Speaker 3: But it has it has cultural cachet. I mean like 1035 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 3: it does whenever people whenever RFK comes out with something crazy, 1036 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 3: they go, but look at him, that's looks pretty fit 1037 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 3: at seventy whatever, and so like that's that's why I 1038 00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 3: think they get into it. I think you're right, Yeah, 1039 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,279 Speaker 3: it's it's a new it's I think it's just a 1040 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 3: little bit new and yeah, and and that's why it's 1041 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,359 Speaker 3: it's a straight I mean, you know, Jeff Bezis, that's 1042 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 3: that's a straight that's a straight guy for sure. Yeah, 1043 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:43,719 Speaker 3: that's a straight man. 1044 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 2: Same with Mark, Yeah, yeah, Mark, Mark. I wonder if 1045 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:56,680 Speaker 2: it's also almost a reaction to people privileging intellect too much. 1046 00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,520 Speaker 2: It's almost like lifting work on your is like the 1047 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,720 Speaker 2: people's reading. Like for so long we we gave attention 1048 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,960 Speaker 2: to people that were smart and to people who had 1049 00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 2: like done who had like done intellectual work. Well then 1050 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 2: it was money, then it was money, and now but 1051 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 2: there was something. I guess what I'm trying to say 1052 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 2: is that there's something like populist about lifting because like 1053 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 2: anyone can do it, whereas not everyone can like go 1054 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 2: to Harvard. 1055 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 1: It is, but at the same time that's a that's 1056 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,000 Speaker 1: a myth too. 1057 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:33,359 Speaker 2: Yeah of course the money, the trainers and god, the food, 1058 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 2: the okay, sure, yeah, it just is a new sign 1059 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 2: of wealth. Yeah, I guess it's in your sign of wealth, 1060 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,439 Speaker 2: but it's in your sign of both. With the when 1061 00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 2: the goal is to look like what the stereotype of 1062 00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 2: like a non rich manual laborer would have looked like 1063 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,280 Speaker 2: like a different era. Like it's just very confusing. 1064 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it can be like passionless, like or just 1065 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,520 Speaker 3: like it's like for your point of like, it's it's 1066 00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 3: kind of skipping the usefulness of the camaraderie. It's just 1067 00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 3: like you go into a factory and they'll eventually be 1068 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 3: able to, you know, just pump you with fake stuff. 1069 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:12,720 Speaker 3: And people getting Brazilian butt lifts but biceps totally totally 1070 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 3: dudes getting bicep lifts. 1071 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 2: Well, I mean too, I do wonder what shortcuts are 1072 00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 2: happening that we don't know about. 1073 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 3: Well talk to me. I mean the steroids is one 1074 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 3: where I'm like, I would I would never unless the 1075 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 3: only time I could see And again this is this 1076 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:31,360 Speaker 3: is a I feel like seeing the movie Bros. Is 1077 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,200 Speaker 3: why I kind of was like, was like, oh, yeah, 1078 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 3: that's how that's how all these guys are looking like this. 1079 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 2: Of course I respected that that was part of that 1080 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,479 Speaker 2: was part of that movie. 1081 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,799 Speaker 1: I respected it. I did feel like in the movie 1082 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,239 Speaker 1: I was confused because it was introduced and sort of like, well, 1083 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 1: how do you think I got this body? And then 1084 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:46,680 Speaker 1: it was like never talked about it. 1085 00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 3: Yes, I just like that line what are you training 1086 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:52,880 Speaker 3: for the war? And there's something about that Yeah, it is. 1087 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,440 Speaker 2: It is this weird, sort of dark part of it 1088 00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,480 Speaker 2: all that everyone agrees not to talk about. 1089 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but even even like Arnold Schwarzenegger, like he on 1090 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,879 Speaker 3: the documentary was saying like, yeah, we did steroids. Yeah, 1091 00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,279 Speaker 3: So it's just it is something people need to be 1092 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 3: more honest about. That guy. There was some guy. He 1093 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,360 Speaker 3: eats like raw meat. He's a he's another personality but 1094 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 3: part of sort of manosphere Jason, and it was it 1095 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 3: was exposed that he was using a lot of steroids 1096 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:18,960 Speaker 3: and he kind of got I haven't seen him in 1097 00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 3: a while. I think he really was hurt from him. 1098 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 3: But he was wealthy as fuck. But I would I 1099 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:23,919 Speaker 3: don't think I would. 1100 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:24,640 Speaker 2: I would do it. 1101 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 3: I don't think I would. 1102 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 1: No, I whatever happened to average folks? 1103 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:31,560 Speaker 2: When someone looks normal. 1104 00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,279 Speaker 3: Whatever it happened to average? That's the book. 1105 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 2: Sam fetishizes average Average. 1106 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,560 Speaker 3: But do you do you accept average into your life 1107 00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 3: as well? 1108 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 2: I think I do. 1109 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,080 Speaker 1: I mean I work out enough, but I don't like 1110 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,239 Speaker 1: hone in and like really get specific with it. 1111 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,759 Speaker 3: There's there. I do think you can you get to 1112 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:53,440 Speaker 3: an age where you're like when you see people who 1113 00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 3: are you know, extremely fit or extremely this unless they 1114 00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,399 Speaker 3: were genetically blessed. That usually means they're a nightmare human being. 1115 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 3: It's any any like good thing about me. It's like 1116 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 3: it is an indicator that I I my whole every day. 1117 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,120 Speaker 3: Every day, I'm fucking obsessed with this thing. 1118 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 1: I have something that it's it's just pivot slightly and 1119 00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if it's a good pivot or not, 1120 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 1: but I want to try it. The gender at the 1121 00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 1: in the weight room, I feel like there is a 1122 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 1: war happening of like like part of the manisphere of 1123 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,240 Speaker 1: stuff in a weight room is like being mad at women, 1124 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 1: like being either like dressing too suggestively or like I 1125 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,240 Speaker 1: feel like I see like there's like all these videos 1126 00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:39,000 Speaker 1: of like proper etiquette or like this girl was mad 1127 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: at this guy for looking at her while lifting weights, 1128 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,480 Speaker 1: but actually that guy is mad at that girl. And 1129 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,960 Speaker 1: it's like there's like this thing happening where there's like 1130 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:46,799 Speaker 1: this culture clash in a weight room. 1131 00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 3: There's just a regressiveness in the country right now, and 1132 00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,719 Speaker 3: you feel it as like we're reintroducing conversations of like 1133 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,840 Speaker 3: like does a woman's body count matter? And you're like, god, damn, 1134 00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,719 Speaker 3: I guess I guess. I guess things don't just arc 1135 00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 3: to ord's being more. It goes back. Things go backwards, 1136 00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:04,319 Speaker 3: way back. 1137 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,120 Speaker 2: This has been one of my biggest My biggest This 1138 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 2: has been one of one of my biggest realizations that 1139 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,440 Speaker 2: I've had over the last few years. Is like, this 1140 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 2: is both bad and comforting. Is just like realizing how 1141 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,720 Speaker 2: things come in waves, like just realizing like the conversations 1142 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:21,560 Speaker 2: about quote unquote wokeism and DEI are the same exact 1143 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,839 Speaker 2: conversations that were happening about political correctness and affirmative action 1144 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 2: in the nineties, just with different terms. And obviously it 1145 00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 2: doesn't make it any better because people are still being 1146 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:35,720 Speaker 2: hurt by the consequences of you know, legislation, et cetera. 1147 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 2: But it almost having the context almost gives you some 1148 00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,879 Speaker 2: sort of peace of mind that it will eventually swing 1149 00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 2: back in the other direction or something. 1150 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 3: Sure, you hope, you hope, unless unless you know, technology 1151 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,080 Speaker 3: is able to solidify move but probably not. I think 1152 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:55,920 Speaker 3: things do shift, but it's it's alarming. I think it 1153 00:53:56,000 --> 00:54:01,719 Speaker 3: says shocking to witness. Sometimes people pretend and I don't know, 1154 00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1155 00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:04,560 Speaker 1: It's not good, you know what both me out on 1156 00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,280 Speaker 1: the most about it is that because it comes in waves, 1157 00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 1: that means like twenty fourteen is like the peak, Like 1158 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 1: twenty fourteen is literally like nineteen seventy five, like everything 1159 00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:18,080 Speaker 1: was crazy, nothing made sense, and like that's like what 1160 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,600 Speaker 1: we the dream will be that we returned to twenty fourteen. 1161 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, but I wasn't content there, No, I 1162 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 1: wanted more. 1163 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,360 Speaker 3: Sure, But don't you think like, like there also is 1164 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,720 Speaker 3: a weird fraction though, where I feel like the media 1165 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 3: of Hollywood entertainment it's still pretty gay and progressive, even 1166 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,320 Speaker 3: if the country's going backwards. And that's why I don't like, 1167 00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 3: how is this happening that that like how is Lil 1168 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,160 Speaker 3: nas X like still so popular? But then parts of 1169 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,600 Speaker 3: the country are like fully pivoting back to you know, 1170 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,920 Speaker 3: let's let's revisit a conversion therapy. 1171 00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,640 Speaker 2: I don't think is as popular now as when it 1172 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,000 Speaker 2: first came out. Well this, I really do. I really 1173 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,560 Speaker 2: do think that's true lilas X when Old Town Road 1174 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,759 Speaker 2: came out, Like I don't know if that effect could 1175 00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,000 Speaker 2: happen now. There's something that's like, yeah, the way that 1176 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:06,200 Speaker 2: people were able to be like. 1177 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:06,919 Speaker 1: Oh, how fun. 1178 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,719 Speaker 2: I understand that they were also detractors at the time, 1179 00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,319 Speaker 2: but like generally speaking, people were embraced it. I don't 1180 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:12,359 Speaker 2: know if that would happen right now. 1181 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 3: It was interesting, who who's the who's the guy? Yeah, Coachella, 1182 00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 3: he's saying Queen, He's singing Boheman Rhapsody. 1183 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:19,560 Speaker 1: Is this Benson Boone? 1184 00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 3: Benson Boone? Yeah, And it's just like you look at 1185 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,600 Speaker 3: it and you go especially when he's singing Queen, where 1186 00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:32,959 Speaker 3: you're like, Freddy Mercury was was was as was gay 1187 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,680 Speaker 3: And it's kind of like every time they play that song, 1188 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 3: every time a straight guy sings Boheman rhaps City at 1189 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,080 Speaker 3: a karaoke bar, I want them to put up that 1190 00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 3: picture of Freddie Mercury lying down with like nine guys 1191 00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:45,960 Speaker 3: that look just like him with the exact same mustache, 1192 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 3: Like that should have to play. You read the lyrics 1193 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 3: over that picture, just to confront, just to confront, Oh 1194 00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:53,880 Speaker 3: this this, I'm connected to this. 1195 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 2: There is something so incredible about Benson Boone because it 1196 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 2: is just like complete contextless reference. Like it's just like 1197 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 2: I don't know jumpsuit, I don't know mustache. 1198 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 1: It's also my least, my least favorite thing. We're just like, 1199 00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:08,840 Speaker 1: look how good I can sing, and it's like. 1200 00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:14,440 Speaker 3: I really can sing so good it's incredible. But but 1201 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:18,239 Speaker 3: I just it's more just like I wish I wish 1202 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:20,520 Speaker 3: you could. It's I wish people could see or had 1203 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,320 Speaker 3: to be confronted with the fact that like this is 1204 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 3: or this came from gay culture because somebody straight people 1205 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:31,359 Speaker 3: enjoy this stuff in a way. That's that's that's I mean, 1206 00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,759 Speaker 3: maybe behaven rhaps that you should have added one lyric 1207 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,200 Speaker 3: about sucking cock just to make people like have to 1208 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:38,200 Speaker 3: go like, oh yeah, well, I mean, not to. 1209 00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,919 Speaker 1: Be the most obvious point about this, but the full 1210 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,640 Speaker 1: y mc A song being Trump's and of course it's 1211 00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 1: it's like the craziest thing and he like it's about 1212 00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 1: like jerking off guys. That's the fucking why it like 1213 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: is crazy. 1214 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 3: I don't know how. 1215 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:53,000 Speaker 2: I don't know how. 1216 00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,799 Speaker 3: I don't know how, But that's why that's the thing 1217 00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:58,520 Speaker 3: where like for your point of like, it can never 1218 00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,480 Speaker 3: go that far one way because I'm at the end 1219 00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,239 Speaker 3: of the day, this is this is baked in, whether 1220 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,359 Speaker 3: you talk about it or not, it's baked in. Yeah, 1221 00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 3: it's just whether people are allowed to be public with 1222 00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:13,320 Speaker 3: what they are or not, but they're always there. 1223 00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,360 Speaker 2: No, I see what you're saying. It's more like the 1224 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 2: public narratives are coming waves, but the reality stays the same. Yeah, 1225 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,920 Speaker 2: Like the things that are more socially accepted versus not 1226 00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 2: socially accepted come in waves, and the overton window is 1227 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:31,160 Speaker 2: like getting bigger and smaller, and like the things you 1228 00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 2: are allowed to quote unquote sound TV change, it's the 1229 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,480 Speaker 2: same way where they go, like more people are by 1230 00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,640 Speaker 2: and they go, oh, it's it's so too theater camp. 1231 00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 3: Go to theater camp. I'm telling you, go to theater camp. 1232 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,560 Speaker 1: You know, you literally can have like a business like 1233 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,320 Speaker 1: getting straight guys in touch with their feminine say. 1234 00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 3: But I think that we have to do is it's gradual, 1235 00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 3: like you advertise it like man camp, and at the end, 1236 00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 3: by the end, suddenly they realize they're like they're in 1237 00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,080 Speaker 3: catsuit singing and they're like, oh my god, I like this. 1238 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:02,600 Speaker 2: Not to put you on the spot, but don't you 1239 00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,160 Speaker 2: think that, like you are a man. That is an 1240 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:10,480 Speaker 2: alternative to toxic male comedians. 1241 00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,920 Speaker 3: To a degree, But I don't. I don't want to 1242 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,560 Speaker 3: like be on any kind of high and I should 1243 00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 3: about that. But I'm in an awkward position. No, no, no, 1244 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,160 Speaker 3: I certainly think like I have a fan base that 1245 00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:24,040 Speaker 3: is like, you know, it's it's it's gay, and it's 1246 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 3: trans and it's not binary and it's and it's guys 1247 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:27,480 Speaker 3: like me who just. 1248 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 2: Like are sure, but it's also women who are like, oh, 1249 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,160 Speaker 2: look a good man, like for sure. 1250 00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 3: I think it's certainly in the sense of like, uh, 1251 00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:42,120 Speaker 3: whether it be sexual orientation or gender expression. I'm I'm 1252 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 3: a friendly voice in a in a comedic world that 1253 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 3: is like uses that as an easy punching bag joke, 1254 00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:51,600 Speaker 3: but it can also be tough because as you talk 1255 00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:55,560 Speaker 3: about comedy, like I have jokes that are like I 1256 00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 3: have a joke about how you know women be shopping 1257 00:58:58,320 --> 00:58:59,800 Speaker 3: was like an old thing, but sometimes I'm out with 1258 00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,840 Speaker 3: my girlfriend shopping and I'm like, they really do be, 1259 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:03,840 Speaker 3: and it's like it's sometimes it's like how do you 1260 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:06,520 Speaker 3: the needle I try to thread is like how do 1261 00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:09,640 Speaker 3: I express that? Sometimes I do recognize this as some 1262 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 3: kind of stereotype being true versus not and and also 1263 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,880 Speaker 3: like I like mean comedy and I'm sure that will 1264 00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 3: get me in trouble to someday, but like, sometimes you know, 1265 00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 3: I'll be talking to it'll be like a crowd work 1266 00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,360 Speaker 3: and it's a nineteen year old and they tell me 1267 00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:27,400 Speaker 3: they just came out as non binary, and it's like, 1268 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:30,520 Speaker 3: how can I joke with them in a way that 1269 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:34,800 Speaker 3: is not babying. I don't want to be like everyone, 1270 00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 3: let's all cheer down and forget the comedy and feel good. 1271 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,440 Speaker 3: And it's navigating that. And I'm sure the reason I 1272 00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:41,920 Speaker 3: never want to get a high horse is because I 1273 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:46,480 Speaker 3: know eventually I'll do something where someone will go, oh, 1274 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:47,880 Speaker 3: that was mean or that joke. 1275 00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:48,320 Speaker 2: You know. 1276 00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,800 Speaker 3: I was at a college and it was like doing 1277 00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:53,680 Speaker 3: crowd work with someone and they were talking about the 1278 00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,960 Speaker 3: roommates were hooking up, and at first I thought the 1279 00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:57,600 Speaker 3: roommates were gay and they didn't want to be in 1280 00:59:57,640 --> 00:59:58,920 Speaker 3: the room with them, and they said the roommate was 1281 00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,200 Speaker 3: non binary. I think the joke, you know, speed of 1282 01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:02,960 Speaker 3: the moment. It's like instead of sixty nine, ing, do 1283 01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:06,080 Speaker 3: they zero? And it's like I can see a world 1284 01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:10,280 Speaker 3: where someone goes, fuck you, non binary people can sixty nine, 1285 01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:12,880 Speaker 3: and I'll be like, yes, of course they can. It's 1286 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,880 Speaker 3: it's just it's a playoff the word non and uh. 1287 01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 3: But I also think like that's I think that is 1288 01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:24,800 Speaker 3: important in terms of like, I think a lot of 1289 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:30,040 Speaker 3: a lot of leftist momentum, progressive momentum got stymied by 1290 01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 3: by a lack of sense of humor. And it's hard 1291 01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:38,440 Speaker 3: because if you let people make jokes, a lot of 1292 01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:41,760 Speaker 3: guys in a toxic siety and women to go back 1293 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:46,360 Speaker 3: to the most baseline homophobic jokes. But if you police 1294 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:49,160 Speaker 3: people in an annoying way, they just write you off 1295 01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:51,840 Speaker 3: and they get annoyed. And so I do think there 1296 01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 3: has to be a way forward with mean humor, which 1297 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 3: people do long for and like you have. In order 1298 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 3: for aggressive things to go for, you have to show 1299 01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:04,280 Speaker 3: people you can play ball, you can be a fucking ass, 1300 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 3: So you can make a dark joke. But it's tough 1301 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 3: with the balance, you know, it's but I think that's 1302 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:14,040 Speaker 3: an interesting comedic space to navigate, and I want to 1303 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,960 Speaker 3: be you know, people use the term funny is funny 1304 01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,120 Speaker 3: to like justify shitty behavior, But I do believe that 1305 01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,000 Speaker 3: if you keep funny as your guiding light and you 1306 01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 3: are of an open heart, you will ultimately make good 1307 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:35,280 Speaker 3: work that isn't hateful, but it does it can be mean. Yeah, 1308 01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,480 Speaker 3: and some people won't like it, and the Internet will 1309 01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:39,680 Speaker 3: allow it to be collectivised in a way that feels. 1310 01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:42,280 Speaker 3: But you can't become obsessed because for all the points 1311 01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 3: we said earlier, it's a small contingency. 1312 01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:46,360 Speaker 2: That's the thing. And I think that's like the biggest 1313 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:50,960 Speaker 2: thing I'm realizing. There was a brief period where canceling 1314 01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 2: became mainstream, and that was basically a year and a half, 1315 01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:55,680 Speaker 2: and then since then and we were all on the 1316 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:59,680 Speaker 2: internet cover times, and but since then, people have maintained 1317 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:01,760 Speaker 2: the fear of cancelation. 1318 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,680 Speaker 3: I say that all the time that right now, SOI 1319 01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 3: comedians that literally still exists in that space and they're like, 1320 01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:08,000 Speaker 3: can you cut this on the podcast. 1321 01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:09,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's really more chill. 1322 01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,000 Speaker 3: We're not doing that anymore. Yeah, no, we're not. 1323 01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:13,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, well, of course you do. Wonder if 1324 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 2: that also comes in waves in like suddenly in seven years, it'll. 1325 01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 3: Be like sure. But I think like the mistake people 1326 01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,320 Speaker 3: made with that is like because we were all in COVID, 1327 01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:25,480 Speaker 3: and COVID is a unique thing. Whenever someone got canceled 1328 01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:28,560 Speaker 3: on the Internet or whatever, we thought like they're dead. 1329 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 3: Like I say, like we had cancel culture. Back in 1330 01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,400 Speaker 3: ancient Rome, it's just when you got canceled, they killed you. 1331 01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,360 Speaker 3: And I think it's because they knew if they didn't 1332 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,080 Speaker 3: kill you, they'd have to hear you whine about cancel 1333 01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:39,440 Speaker 3: culture for the next fifew years. But like with COVID, 1334 01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:41,720 Speaker 3: we thought people left the Internet, they stopped existing. And 1335 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,120 Speaker 3: then this is part of the Trump era, this is 1336 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,280 Speaker 3: part of everything. We're like, oh, Kevin Space, he's still 1337 01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 3: gonna go make movies. Yeah, and you have to contend 1338 01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:52,960 Speaker 3: with that. I'm not saying you have to go forgive 1339 01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:55,280 Speaker 3: Kevin Space because of that, but it's like, yeah, he's 1340 01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,440 Speaker 3: gonna make movies, and maybe if he's not making them, 1341 01:02:57,440 --> 01:03:00,320 Speaker 3: America's gonna make them in Israel. It's just like people 1342 01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:04,120 Speaker 3: still exist. People still exist in the world, and you 1343 01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:07,600 Speaker 3: have to confront that in terms of how you deal 1344 01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:08,320 Speaker 3: with punishments. 1345 01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,440 Speaker 1: I think the mean humor thing, I think is a 1346 01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,480 Speaker 1: good point and sort of in conversation because I do 1347 01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:16,880 Speaker 1: feel like in the twenty tens it was very popular 1348 01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:21,040 Speaker 1: to be like like a nice comedian, Like it was 1349 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,160 Speaker 1: cool to be like nice and like get sort of 1350 01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:29,440 Speaker 1: a clappter thing everywhere, and so then cancel culture. Then 1351 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 1: we're sort of in this weird space where it's like, Okay, 1352 01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,400 Speaker 1: we want to be mean, we know that, but we 1353 01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:34,800 Speaker 1: don't want to be an asshole either. 1354 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,280 Speaker 3: And I think, listen, I think the bottom line is 1355 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 3: speaking from talk about a straight thing where it's like, 1356 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:45,120 Speaker 3: I think some guys felt like, I'm not safe here. 1357 01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 3: There's not a safety to be mean. People get so 1358 01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 3: mad at me so quickly, they take me in the 1359 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:54,520 Speaker 3: worst possible faith. And you're watching a queer comedians get 1360 01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:57,800 Speaker 3: away with murders sometimes and you're like, okay, and that 1361 01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:00,840 Speaker 3: that Bill. You can't let that resent. The problem is 1362 01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 3: for some guys it let the resentment fucking destroy them. 1363 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:05,880 Speaker 3: Or there are some people stop liking their comedy and 1364 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,960 Speaker 3: they shifted so far totally, and there was a lot 1365 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:13,440 Speaker 3: of bad liberalish comedy totally, but right now there is 1366 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:17,320 Speaker 3: some awful right wing comedy mixed in with someone who 1367 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,640 Speaker 3: like but something like a lot of this kill Tony. 1368 01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,280 Speaker 3: You're like, this is not funny. 1369 01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:24,840 Speaker 2: It's so that gives me hope, honestly, because you are 1370 01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:30,280 Speaker 2: absolutely correct that during the Hannahgatsby era, like the the presidency, 1371 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,800 Speaker 2: the quote yeah, like the quote unquote like more left 1372 01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:38,000 Speaker 2: leaning queer comedy often was terrible and it made you, 1373 01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:41,920 Speaker 2: I you know, it made us as fellow queer comedians, 1374 01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,040 Speaker 2: feel like, oh god, like, is this what people think 1375 01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 2: I do? I honestly remember, like even just like booking 1376 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 2: people for this podcast and have and being like it's 1377 01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,400 Speaker 2: a podcast where we talk about straight culture, I'm like, 1378 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:54,600 Speaker 2: oh god, they probably think this thing, like since they 1379 01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:56,600 Speaker 2: think this is like some sincere thing where we're like 1380 01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 2: talking about like how oppressed we are or something, and 1381 01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:03,080 Speaker 2: oh god, like I don't want people think that's sure, 1382 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,480 Speaker 2: and it is. There's something that actually feels almost nice 1383 01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 2: about that switching. And you're seeing as you're saying, the 1384 01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:15,280 Speaker 2: right wing people do horrible pandering material to essentially clapter 1385 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:19,680 Speaker 2: about shople that are like anti DEI, and let's hope 1386 01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:21,280 Speaker 2: that that means that the people on the left are 1387 01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,240 Speaker 2: like going to become more creative and like make that sure. 1388 01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,520 Speaker 3: And also like, first of all, I liked I thought 1389 01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,560 Speaker 3: what was Hanna against? What is it called nttette Net 1390 01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:31,240 Speaker 3: was like a good piece of theater, and it was 1391 01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 3: ultimately it was a build as it was built as 1392 01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:35,480 Speaker 3: a stand up comedy special for advertising purposes. Yes, and 1393 01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:38,080 Speaker 3: then everyone acted like this is going to invade our spaces? 1394 01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,960 Speaker 3: Is that the comedy seller changed in some way? But 1395 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,920 Speaker 3: I also saw, like you know, if you watch Andrew 1396 01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:47,320 Speaker 3: Schultz's new special, it ends with a video montage of 1397 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:51,120 Speaker 3: his wife getting pregnant having a baby, and people like 1398 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,560 Speaker 3: crying and moved, and I go like, don't you see 1399 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:59,120 Speaker 3: people just sometimes want to cry, and like you're crying 1400 01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:00,640 Speaker 3: at the end of the Neette, You're crying at the 1401 01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,600 Speaker 3: end of this. Don't you understand you have more in common. 1402 01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,280 Speaker 3: Comedians get to a place where sometimes they want to 1403 01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,080 Speaker 3: do more than make you laugh, and that doesn't mean 1404 01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:10,120 Speaker 3: that laughter is coming to an end. But I see 1405 01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,200 Speaker 3: people going like, wow, I cried at the end of this, 1406 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,720 Speaker 3: and I go, that's what everyone was so mad about 1407 01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:17,360 Speaker 3: with Hannah gat for so long. 1408 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:20,840 Speaker 2: It's like how Chappelle, Like the stereotype of Chappelle's later 1409 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 2: work is like he's saying something and then he gets 1410 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,560 Speaker 2: really serious, and he's like they crucified him for that. 1411 01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 2: Like it's like it's like you know what I mean, Like, yeah, 1412 01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 2: he is the king of suddenly becoming more serious. Oh 1413 01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:38,480 Speaker 2: my god, it's it's it's anyway, yeah, wow, Well Jean 1414 01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:40,120 Speaker 2: Marco any final thoughts on weightlifting. 1415 01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:46,160 Speaker 3: Oh, I think I think my trainer, I don't know. 1416 01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:49,320 Speaker 3: He's he hasn't been, he hasn't gone back recently, so interesting. 1417 01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 3: But he's gay. Huh huge, And it definitely is like 1418 01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,000 Speaker 3: that is one of those that is one of those 1419 01:06:56,080 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 3: things where I go, I want to have my trainer 1420 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:03,160 Speaker 3: be a gay man, And I don't know if I 1421 01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,080 Speaker 3: don't care if it's bad. I mean, that's that's the truth. 1422 01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:07,600 Speaker 3: It's like, and I don't know why. I don't know 1423 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,640 Speaker 3: if I can fully articulate, like what it what it is, 1424 01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 3: but I feel like. 1425 01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:15,080 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1426 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:16,880 Speaker 3: I don't know who I work out for. If it's 1427 01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:19,680 Speaker 3: for myself, if it's for my business, if it's all 1428 01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,080 Speaker 3: over the thing. It's just liking to feel a certain way, 1429 01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 3: if it's to make up for not feeling athletic as 1430 01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:27,200 Speaker 3: a kid. But I'm like the way that I want 1431 01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 3: to talk about when I when I was worried about 1432 01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 3: if I was in shape or not, I asked a 1433 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:36,880 Speaker 3: friend of mine from college, a gay guy, and I 1434 01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:39,680 Speaker 3: said to him, I like, I'm I have prants around 1435 01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:41,440 Speaker 3: in my underwear. In general, I'm just an underwear guy, 1436 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 3: I'm a newdist if I'm alone. And I said to him, like, 1437 01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:47,760 Speaker 3: I'm in good shape, right, And he didn't say anything. 1438 01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,720 Speaker 3: And I went to my room and I cried, and 1439 01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:54,000 Speaker 3: then we like he talked and he was like, and 1440 01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:55,880 Speaker 3: this is like a friend. This is a friend who 1441 01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:58,120 Speaker 3: can be a hard friend, but he's an honest friend. 1442 01:07:58,560 --> 01:07:59,960 Speaker 3: It's notimes you need an honest friends. And he was 1443 01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:02,320 Speaker 3: saying I was not in shape. But what I was 1444 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,120 Speaker 3: saying that I thought I was. He was like, he 1445 01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:06,080 Speaker 3: was like, you're in fine shape. But if you think 1446 01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:11,040 Speaker 3: that you're like in excellent shape, you're that's not That's 1447 01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 3: essentially now listen. I understand some people would. 1448 01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:15,600 Speaker 1: Hear that and go, we're really giving him a lot 1449 01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:16,200 Speaker 1: of grace. 1450 01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 3: I listen, listen, No, but you're you have to understand 1451 01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:21,160 Speaker 3: the energy that I brought to it. It's like if 1452 01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:22,639 Speaker 3: I came to you. If it's like if someone comes 1453 01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:25,760 Speaker 3: to you and goes, I'm I'm an amazing singer, right sure, 1454 01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:28,200 Speaker 3: and they're not an amazing singer. Are you the friend 1455 01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:29,880 Speaker 3: that lets them go in American Idol and make a 1456 01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:32,320 Speaker 3: fool of themselves or are you the friend who says 1457 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:34,800 Speaker 3: you maybe if you if you want to be an 1458 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:37,759 Speaker 3: amazing singer, you might want to take some voice lessons. 1459 01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:40,920 Speaker 2: But I would say you're like in better shape than 1460 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:42,439 Speaker 2: like ninety five percent of the peo. 1461 01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:42,760 Speaker 1: This is. 1462 01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:44,960 Speaker 3: This was a long time ago. This is because oh 1463 01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:48,599 Speaker 3: that's why, well this is not recently. Okay, i'd say 1464 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:54,200 Speaker 3: fuck you, excellent shape. But there's just like, in terms 1465 01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:59,400 Speaker 3: of talking about my own body, there's something where I'm like, 1466 01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,200 Speaker 3: I want to talk to a gay man because I 1467 01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:06,040 Speaker 3: want to talk to another man, and I trust a 1468 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,760 Speaker 3: gay man's ability like talk about what looks good over 1469 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:11,120 Speaker 3: a straight man, and. 1470 01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:13,280 Speaker 2: I know they're not about you because they're not trying 1471 01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 2: to fuck. 1472 01:09:13,600 --> 01:09:16,200 Speaker 3: They possess the lack of empathy only a man could 1473 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:17,120 Speaker 3: put on a. 1474 01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:21,599 Speaker 1: Well, I've been feeling this way with clothing shopping recently, 1475 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,200 Speaker 1: where I've been trying on a lot of suits and 1476 01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 1: you know, you've been having like thank you you like 1477 01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:31,439 Speaker 1: like sometimes I feel very sexualized where they're like, oh, 1478 01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:33,760 Speaker 1: try this, you try this, and I'm like, actually, it 1479 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:35,519 Speaker 1: actually makes you feel so much better to know that 1480 01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:38,679 Speaker 1: you're sexualizing me. Like I'm like, you're actually paying attention. Yes, 1481 01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,479 Speaker 1: you have fake in this game, like you want me 1482 01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:43,280 Speaker 1: to be you want to turn yourself on? 1483 01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:43,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1484 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:44,000 Speaker 1: Me. 1485 01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:48,200 Speaker 3: So my little sister she works at Selene in Los Angeles, 1486 01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 3: and she like helps pick out fits sometimes, and I 1487 01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:53,280 Speaker 3: do some nice think like there is a thing where 1488 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:56,519 Speaker 3: I say to her, like, I need to look sexy 1489 01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:01,280 Speaker 3: and you are you able, as my sister to do that? 1490 01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:04,400 Speaker 3: Are you able to look and like go, that's sexy, 1491 01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,040 Speaker 3: or are you ultimately like gonna make me look good 1492 01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:11,320 Speaker 3: but in an asexual way? Are you going like, oh, 1493 01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:13,559 Speaker 3: make sure you get some chest hair in there, because 1494 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:14,280 Speaker 3: that's turning the. 1495 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,599 Speaker 2: Ladies I had experienced recently, I went to this new 1496 01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,559 Speaker 2: men's restore in Brooklyn. I wish I could shut outcause 1497 01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:21,720 Speaker 2: it's a great story, but I'm about to say a 1498 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:25,880 Speaker 2: negative story about them, so I won't. I the owner 1499 01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:30,320 Speaker 2: of the store was there really like hot, attractive fashion guy, 1500 01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:34,439 Speaker 2: you know, perfectly quaff beer whatever. I was trying to 1501 01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:38,680 Speaker 2: buy a nice shirt for something, and he was being 1502 01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:41,719 Speaker 2: very much like, oh that, I mean, the collar perfectly 1503 01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:43,639 Speaker 2: frames your face, blah blah. And then I find out 1504 01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:46,920 Speaker 2: after the fact that he is in fact straight, not gay, 1505 01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:49,960 Speaker 2: and just like because he works in fashion and like 1506 01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,720 Speaker 2: speaks like that, and says like, you know the color 1507 01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:56,640 Speaker 2: of yeah, and the way that I then put the 1508 01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:58,519 Speaker 2: shirt back on, looked at myself in the mirror and 1509 01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:02,519 Speaker 2: I was like, I look bad, like the sheen of 1510 01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:05,599 Speaker 2: his praise was gone. And I'm I have it actually here, 1511 01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:08,639 Speaker 2: I'm returning it today. I literally have the bag next 1512 01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:08,880 Speaker 2: to me. 1513 01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:11,280 Speaker 1: This is one of the scariest stories. 1514 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:14,439 Speaker 2: And I'm telling you it doesn't look good on me. 1515 01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 2: Like I now can objectively see it. It fits me weirdly. 1516 01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,560 Speaker 3: It is I love in fashion. They have to be like, 1517 01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:21,760 Speaker 3: no one can know that I'm straight. No one can 1518 01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 3: know that I'm straight? 1519 01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:23,000 Speaker 2: Wow? 1520 01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:23,559 Speaker 3: Secret? 1521 01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:27,840 Speaker 1: That is crazy. And for you to go through the 1522 01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:30,040 Speaker 1: trouble of returning something, I mean, can you have the 1523 01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:33,520 Speaker 1: weirdness of it and still continuously expensive? 1524 01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:37,040 Speaker 2: Wow? I guess what I can only get for our credit? 1525 01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:38,000 Speaker 1: Woh wow. 1526 01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:40,200 Speaker 2: Well, I can't wait to see what you come up with. Same? 1527 01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:43,360 Speaker 2: Should we do our final segment? 1528 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,439 Speaker 1: Our final segment is called shout Outs, and in this 1529 01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,680 Speaker 1: segment we pay omash is the grand straight tradition of 1530 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:55,120 Speaker 1: the radio shout out shouting out to anything, people, places, things, 1531 01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:58,240 Speaker 1: ideas that we are enjoying. We make them up on 1532 01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:03,400 Speaker 1: the spot. We are unprepared. Her usual George, do you 1533 01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:04,639 Speaker 1: happen to have one? 1534 01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:11,439 Speaker 2: Yeah? Hit us with it? Okay, what's up, cinophiles. I 1535 01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:13,400 Speaker 2: want to give a shout out to the movie Drop, 1536 01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:17,519 Speaker 2: which I just watched two days ago. Now, as everyone knows, 1537 01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:20,200 Speaker 2: this movie is about a woman on a first date 1538 01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:22,000 Speaker 2: and she starts getting drops on her phone. You know 1539 01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:24,280 Speaker 2: about this dram marker. I don't, Okay, So she's on 1540 01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:26,200 Speaker 2: a first date. It's Megan pay from White Load to 1541 01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,600 Speaker 2: Season two. She's on a first date. She gets to 1542 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:31,360 Speaker 2: drop on her phone, like an air drop, and it's 1543 01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,680 Speaker 2: like hey, and it turns out it's a guy that 1544 01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:36,760 Speaker 2: is sending her messages and they're like, you have to 1545 01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:40,519 Speaker 2: kill your date, otherwise your son will die. And she 1546 01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:43,439 Speaker 2: figures out that there's someone she can see on the 1547 01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 2: cam Mara's on her phone, that there's someone at her 1548 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,640 Speaker 2: place where her son is being babysad, and so then 1549 01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:51,599 Speaker 2: she has to do all these things that this man 1550 01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:54,400 Speaker 2: keeps telling her otherwise her son will die. And I 1551 01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:56,200 Speaker 2: guess I just want to give a generalized shout out 1552 01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:59,080 Speaker 2: to movies with a very simple premise that managed to 1553 01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,479 Speaker 2: stick the landing because it is actually very rare. You know, 1554 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:03,679 Speaker 2: anyone can come up with the premise than what People 1555 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,160 Speaker 2: don't realize that it has to have a second and 1556 01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:06,760 Speaker 2: a third act and then it has to have a 1557 01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:09,720 Speaker 2: satisfying conclusion. And I would say this film pulled that 1558 01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:13,880 Speaker 2: off much like the movie Red Eye famous Wes Craven. 1559 01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:17,040 Speaker 2: I want to say, Red Eye don't remember anyway? Yeah, 1560 01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,760 Speaker 2: so you know what? Keep them common folks. 1561 01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:27,960 Speaker 1: Who okay, what's up? Freaks, lusism perverts around the globe. 1562 01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:31,120 Speaker 1: I want to give out to the broken screen. On 1563 01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:35,240 Speaker 1: my flight over here, I had a broken screen and 1564 01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:38,720 Speaker 1: could not watch movies or TV even and it gave 1565 01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 1: me a sense of superiority that I actually missed. I 1566 01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,400 Speaker 1: have been feeling sort of man of the people vibes, 1567 01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:49,639 Speaker 1: maybe even anti intellectual, and not this flight. This flight, 1568 01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:52,640 Speaker 1: I read my damn book the whole four hours and 1569 01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:53,439 Speaker 1: thirty minutes. 1570 01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 3: Damn. 1571 01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:57,200 Speaker 1: You better believe I'm much further than I ever thought 1572 01:13:57,240 --> 01:14:00,599 Speaker 1: I would be read the book for our episode on Thursday. 1573 01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:05,160 Speaker 1: Oh I'm gonna be fucking prepped. And I felt like 1574 01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:07,360 Speaker 1: I could feel people looking at me saying. 1575 01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,040 Speaker 2: Is he reading this whole time? Oh my god, he's 1576 01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 2: still reading And. 1577 01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:11,880 Speaker 1: He's not even napping, not even for a little bit. 1578 01:14:12,200 --> 01:14:12,639 Speaker 2: That's right. 1579 01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:15,919 Speaker 1: I was a hero on the plane. Everyone was gagged 1580 01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:19,600 Speaker 1: at my intellectualism. And sometimes it's forced upon you, but. 1581 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:22,720 Speaker 2: You have to take the call. Oh my god, First 1582 01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,559 Speaker 2: of all, you are so ahead of me in terms 1583 01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:26,800 Speaker 2: of buzzy books. It's crazy. You've lapped me twice. 1584 01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm lapping you. I'm lapping your ass. 1585 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:29,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 1586 01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:30,639 Speaker 1: Role reversal over here. 1587 01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:37,360 Speaker 2: Literally, and now your body's tight, John Marco, whenever you're. 1588 01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 3: Ready, h what's up? It's the next sexy boys and 1589 01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:46,759 Speaker 3: girls around the universe. I stayed at a Hilton hotel 1590 01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:50,519 Speaker 3: in Wilmington, North Carolina. The hotels in this country are 1591 01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:53,600 Speaker 3: are falling apart of the seams. It is a fucking disaster. 1592 01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:56,080 Speaker 3: And no one should live a life on the road 1593 01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:58,400 Speaker 3: because you really experienced just the worst of life. But 1594 01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:03,200 Speaker 3: you see where America is going. My room, Saturday morning, 1595 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:07,639 Speaker 3: six am, one of the alarms in the hotel clock 1596 01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:09,720 Speaker 3: went off, and then it went off a second time 1597 01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:12,519 Speaker 3: after that. My ac thing was broken, so it was 1598 01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:16,040 Speaker 3: fifty nine degrees in my room the entire time. And 1599 01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:21,800 Speaker 3: I complained, of course, and they gave me two things. One, 1600 01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:24,760 Speaker 3: they gave me fifty dollars off at the restaurant in 1601 01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:27,600 Speaker 3: the hotel. Again, am I happy about the hotel being shitty, No, 1602 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:32,840 Speaker 3: but they gave. They gave. I complained and they said 1603 01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:36,200 Speaker 3: we will make this. Write I fifty nine degrees. There 1604 01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:38,560 Speaker 3: was no rooms. Then they found one room for me 1605 01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:42,880 Speaker 3: to switch that night. Society is collapsing. I understand the 1606 01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:46,560 Speaker 3: people who are hired in the middle part, they're not 1607 01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:50,000 Speaker 3: to blame, but unfortunately, this is the job that they've taken. 1608 01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:52,360 Speaker 3: And if you're there and it's your home for the night, 1609 01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:55,040 Speaker 3: they they're the ones that need to lead the revolution. 1610 01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 3: Give enough of those fifty dollars cards that the hotel 1611 01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:00,240 Speaker 3: goes we're going bankrupt, and maybe it closes and maybe 1612 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:02,040 Speaker 3: that's a good thing and you sacrifice your job, or 1613 01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:03,760 Speaker 3: maybe they go, this is a disaster, and you go, 1614 01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:05,080 Speaker 3: why what am I going to do? Tell the guy 1615 01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:09,000 Speaker 3: to fuck off? And unfortunately you've taken on the burden 1616 01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:11,120 Speaker 3: of we can't just let it happen. We can't just 1617 01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:14,800 Speaker 3: let it slide. I can't, I can't, I can't just 1618 01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:18,120 Speaker 3: not sleep. And I shout out to it to all 1619 01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:20,840 Speaker 3: those people who are are have been put in shitty 1620 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:24,120 Speaker 3: positions those people in the lost baggage claim area at 1621 01:16:24,160 --> 01:16:27,360 Speaker 3: the airports that it's not your fault that the bag 1622 01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:30,040 Speaker 3: is lost. But you're the one who's saying, like, here's 1623 01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:33,160 Speaker 3: the four hundred dollars coupon for the flight. You gotta 1624 01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:35,000 Speaker 3: tear You got to tear up these companies from the 1625 01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:38,320 Speaker 3: inside and make them fix or die, because there's no 1626 01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:41,120 Speaker 3: way this is sustainable. There's no way it's sustainable. 1627 01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:42,559 Speaker 1: Wowow. 1628 01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:44,600 Speaker 2: I just want to say, I want to give a 1629 01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:46,320 Speaker 2: shout out to the phrase the people that are hired 1630 01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:49,320 Speaker 2: in the middle part, because it's so like, that's a 1631 01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:52,719 Speaker 2: that's literally the that's a Jordan Peel movie, the middle 1632 01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:56,760 Speaker 2: part in the middle part. Yeah, no, it's so true. 1633 01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:58,880 Speaker 2: I mean I have to say, if I complain about 1634 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:00,840 Speaker 2: something which is very rare, and I get even like 1635 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:03,599 Speaker 2: one dollar, I'm immediately like, I'm writing you into my will. Yeah. 1636 01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:05,559 Speaker 2: I'm like thak, yes, yeah, this was really amazing. 1637 01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:07,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you just gotta Oh. If I worked up 1638 01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:09,200 Speaker 3: the play they fireman, I give twenty five bucks each 1639 01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:10,360 Speaker 3: time they came in. I was saying, hey, this is 1640 01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:11,960 Speaker 3: a piece of shit right off the gate, here's twenty 1641 01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:12,439 Speaker 3: five dolls. 1642 01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:16,040 Speaker 2: I actually toid more when something is bad because I 1643 01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:16,599 Speaker 2: feel bad. 1644 01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:18,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but it was nice. It was like he 1645 01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:20,720 Speaker 3: came and it was fifty he walked in the room, 1646 01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:22,840 Speaker 3: and I like that he did this. He went, oh 1647 01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:25,760 Speaker 3: my god, like acknowledge, it is very cold. 1648 01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:26,280 Speaker 1: That's nice. 1649 01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:28,760 Speaker 3: Fifty nine degrees is very cold. I'm not being a 1650 01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:31,960 Speaker 3: baby here. And the blankets are this thin. We all 1651 01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:35,120 Speaker 3: know what we're doing here, covered in com don't yeah, yeah, yeah. 1652 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:35,439 Speaker 2: Don't lie. 1653 01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:37,960 Speaker 3: Don't lie that it's not that bad or the worst. 1654 01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:40,320 Speaker 3: Like this one baggage. The bag was ripped open, it 1655 01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:42,760 Speaker 3: was soaking wet. They ruined everything. And she said, she said, 1656 01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:45,120 Speaker 3: it happens more often than you'd think, and I was like, 1657 01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:48,320 Speaker 3: that's not for me. That doesn't make me feel better, 1658 01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:52,120 Speaker 3: that's don't don't even offer that. Yeah, then you should 1659 01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:53,560 Speaker 3: have a better answer, But it happens more often. You 1660 01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:54,920 Speaker 3: have a better answer than whatever the fuck? 1661 01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 2: This is actually the opposite of what you want to 1662 01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:58,920 Speaker 2: hear because you want to be the protagonist of that story. 1663 01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:01,640 Speaker 2: It's like, yes, how could this possibly happen to me? 1664 01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:06,000 Speaker 1: Wow? Well, this has been a delight. 1665 01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:12,479 Speaker 2: Incredible. I'm Jean Marco where can people find you, where 1666 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,920 Speaker 2: people see you, and how can people you know, maybe 1667 01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:18,080 Speaker 2: even physically find you and visit physically. 1668 01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:20,640 Speaker 3: I announce my location pretty much every night if you 1669 01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:24,000 Speaker 3: want to find me to do whatever at Jo Marcus 1670 01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:27,200 Speaker 3: Arasi all social media platforms. My podcast is called the 1671 01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:30,040 Speaker 3: Downside with Tree Marcus Arasi and I'm just on tour 1672 01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:31,880 Speaker 3: all the time. I post a lot of videos online 1673 01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:33,840 Speaker 3: and I'll have a special coming out later this year, 1674 01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:36,040 Speaker 3: probably on YouTube, so just stay tuned. 1675 01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:38,920 Speaker 1: Whoo whoo, Okay, thanks for doing the polo, Thank you 1676 01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:40,920 Speaker 1: bye podcast. 1677 01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:42,160 Speaker 3: And now want more? 1678 01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:45,719 Speaker 2: Subscribe to our Patreon for two extra episodes a month, 1679 01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:49,519 Speaker 2: discord access and more by heading to patreon dot com. 1680 01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:51,519 Speaker 2: Slash Stradio Lab and for. 1681 01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:54,400 Speaker 1: All our visual earners, free full length video episodes are 1682 01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:55,080 Speaker 1: available on. 1683 01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:56,960 Speaker 2: Our YouTube now Get back to Work. 1684 01:18:57,280 --> 01:18:59,599 Speaker 1: Stradia Lab is a production by Will Ferrell's Big Money 1685 01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:01,360 Speaker 1: Players Work and iHeart Podcasts. 1686 01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 2: Created and hosted by George Severis and Sam Taggart. 1687 01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:08,000 Speaker 1: Executive produced by Will Ferrell, Han Soni and Olivia Aguilar. 1688 01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:11,640 Speaker 1: Co produced by Bai Wang, edited and engineered by Adam Avalos. 1689 01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:14,880 Speaker 1: Artwork by Michael Fails and Matt grubg theme music by 1690 01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:15,400 Speaker 1: Ben Kling,