WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Valentine's Day Fork

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it takes a bold move to make a first

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<v Speaker 2>date really stand out. Oh okay, what that means going

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<v Speaker 2>in for the kiss right when you meet your parents

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<v Speaker 2>along with you, or giving them your car at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little thank you gift for meeting up.

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<v Speaker 3>He signed the title over to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a great day.

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<v Speaker 2>Another bold move is to have your first date during

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<v Speaker 2>the most romantic holiday of the year, Valentines. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>happened for one of our listeners, Melissa, who now needs

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<v Speaker 2>our help on Valentine's Day. So, Melissa, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, I'm so curious. Who would ask you out on

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<v Speaker 3>a first date around this time?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Well, it was this guy that online.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, all right, it's gonna sound silly. Did he in

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<v Speaker 1>any way say I don't like you like that?

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<v Speaker 4>See?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like he probably just forgot that it was

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<v Speaker 3>the holiday. I mean, he's a that's a classic guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to do a lot of like complicated question. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>start with an easy one. Does he have a name?

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<v Speaker 4>There is, Yes, his name is John.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell Us about tell Us about easy John.

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<v Speaker 4>John. He's really nice, He's so cute. Okay, I just

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<v Speaker 4>thought he was like a perfect gentleman.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, what did he do that was so gentlemanly?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, he definitely knew that it was Valentine's weekend

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<v Speaker 4>and he went above and beyond. Oh, booked this really

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<v Speaker 4>nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>So he didn't shy away from it.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, I want to take you on a

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<v Speaker 2>Valentine's date on Valentine's weekend, proper totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So how did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, So we get to the restaurant, really nice, but

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<v Speaker 4>it is so busy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh did he have reservations?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, he made a reservation.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, wow, man, nice restaurant like reservations on Valentine's weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very romantic, but it could put a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>pressure on both of them going into that day. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you feel that pressure energy at all?

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<v Speaker 4>I felt pressure going into it, but then once I

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<v Speaker 4>got there, he made me so comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh we did.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How was it?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a good time with him?

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<v Speaker 4>I had a good time, like I no, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 4>really liked Tips. It was just that the atmosphere was

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<v Speaker 4>so insane and hectic, like we get seen at our table,

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<v Speaker 4>we get our orders in our food comes out, and

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<v Speaker 4>we noticed there's only one fork, Like the waiter's so busy,

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<v Speaker 4>never bring in another fork, Like, okay, I guess we

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<v Speaker 4>share it?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you? Did you share it for?

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<v Speaker 4>We tried to share the fork, but that just like

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<v Speaker 4>took too long because then each person was waiting for

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<v Speaker 4>the other person's take.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, take a bite from the fork, and then you'd

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<v Speaker 2>pass the fork over to John and then he would

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<v Speaker 2>take a bite from his meal.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you can't make it like wait for one to finish.

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<v Speaker 1>The other person's gonna get cald.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a real gentleman. He'd wait for her. Gentleman, he'd

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<v Speaker 3>just go in the back like I do and steal

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<v Speaker 3>a fork.

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<v Speaker 1>Station about this, I mean all the joking aside.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that like a weird way to go about your

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<v Speaker 2>first date sharing utensils?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, but it was like sort of.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a laugh about it. I switched over to

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<v Speaker 4>a spoon. It kind of makes it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>It made it low stakes because we were like, this

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<v Speaker 4>is crazy, right.

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<v Speaker 3>So he cut up your meat for you and then

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<v Speaker 3>you spooned it into your mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's get past the fork sharing. What what

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<v Speaker 2>other highlights happened during your restaurant date.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So this is where it got.

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<v Speaker 3>A little bit weird, a weirder.

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<v Speaker 4>We're finishing up our main course and then the host

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<v Speaker 4>of the restaurant comes over and ask if he could

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<v Speaker 4>speak to John, like away from the table's. John goes over,

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<v Speaker 4>has this long conversation. I could see them talking. It

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<v Speaker 4>looks like a little bit heated.

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<v Speaker 6>I couldn't hear what.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a little animated.

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<v Speaker 4>It lasted like five minutes. It's kind of long for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the host a male or a female?

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<v Speaker 4>A guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>I was wondering if it maybe was an ex or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, not an ex.

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<v Speaker 3>So what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, okay, so when John comes back from the conversation,

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<v Speaker 4>he was like really upset and he was like, screw this,

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<v Speaker 4>We're leaving. The host chases after and is like you

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<v Speaker 4>still have to pay? Like I'm in the middle of it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm confuseding, like, what's happening.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're dashing, Well, it sounds like they're being kicked

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<v Speaker 2>out of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Not dashing.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, you have to pay, but hey, you're kicking

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<v Speaker 2>me out of a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not paying either. Yeah, what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, John told me to go out and like wait

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<v Speaker 4>in the car and that he would deal with it,

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<v Speaker 4>and he pays, he settles up. Okay, So when we're

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<v Speaker 4>on the car ride home, I'm asking, like.

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<v Speaker 6>What just happened? Crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently the host told John that we were taking too

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<v Speaker 4>long for our meal and there was an hour limit.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sometimes, ye didn't John say? It only took so

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<v Speaker 2>long because we had to share one fork passing it

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<v Speaker 2>back and forth.

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<v Speaker 3>That was probably, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean, and I was supportive. John was like really upset

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<v Speaker 4>about and I was like, honest, but too, that's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>Time on your day. Well that sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>That puts like definitely a sour taste at the very

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day. Were you able to end it

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<v Speaker 2>on a happy note?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I mean he took me home again. He was

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<v Speaker 4>a perfect gentleman, walk me to the door, that he

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<v Speaker 4>would call we should do it again? Really, so he

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<v Speaker 4>apologized for the restaurant thing, even though I could tell

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<v Speaker 4>he was still sort of heated by it and it

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't his fault.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean, so you haven't heard anything from him

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<v Speaker 7>since this weekend?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Does that feel like I don't know. Maybe he's busy.

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<v Speaker 7>It's weird to do a whole Valentine's DA date and

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<v Speaker 7>then not text on Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, all that build up and nothing super embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 2>Or maybe he only has one cell phone that he

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<v Speaker 2>shares with his roommate back and forth, and so his

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<v Speaker 2>roommate has the.

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<v Speaker 1>Cell phone this week. Yeah, so I don't know. There

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<v Speaker 1>must be an explanation.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna call the number that you gave us, hopefully

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<v Speaker 2>it's John, and we'll try and get to your second

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<v Speaker 2>date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, all right, all right, hold on second date

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<v Speaker 5>update two meals one spoon should be the title of

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<v Speaker 5>our second date today.

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<v Speaker 3>You still shouldn't look that up on the internet.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because our listener Melissa went on a Valentine's date

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<v Speaker 2>on the busiest weekend of the year, with couples packed

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<v Speaker 2>into nice restaurants.

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<v Speaker 1>Their waiter was too busy to give.

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<v Speaker 2>Them another fork. Sorry, so I said fork before, But

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<v Speaker 2>so they just shared one, which it's a little awkward

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<v Speaker 2>to do on a first.

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<v Speaker 3>Date and for a long meal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it does.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound like it helped break the tension of having a

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<v Speaker 2>pressure filled first date.

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<v Speaker 1>On a holiday light totally.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually got to taste each other's food. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The weird part though, was when the host came over

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<v Speaker 2>to the table during dinner, pulled her date John aside,

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<v Speaker 2>and they got into a heated conversation which Melissa couldn't hear.

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<v Speaker 2>All of it led to John saying, though, screw it,

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna leave.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude. They basically got kicked out of the restaurant. It's

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<v Speaker 3>super often.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a lot of questions about that, but apparently they

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<v Speaker 2>were there for too long and the restaurant was trying

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<v Speaker 2>to turn as many tables as they could that night.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, so rude.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, almost ended in disaster. I mean it did, Melissa.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe John's just embarrassed that that situation happened on

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<v Speaker 2>the first date.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I was also trying to think of anything else

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<v Speaker 4>weird happened. And I do remember that he wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>get to the restaurant early and I was like a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit late getting ready and.

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<v Speaker 3>He put you up right like you guys were in

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<v Speaker 3>the same car.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he picked me up Okay, too late.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so you're part of the reason that may be

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<v Speaker 2>the reservation yep.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, got shifted.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah okay, but.

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<v Speaker 2>If they only have you blocked out for like an

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<v Speaker 2>hour of eating, and you arrived twenty minutes after your hour,

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<v Speaker 2>like they might run.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever dated a woman like? Are we ever

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<v Speaker 3>on time?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, come on, oh, you should pat it into

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<v Speaker 7>the reservation.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how I'm apologizing for this, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Before you even get a kay, I would put myself

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<v Speaker 2>in choes. I don't think I would want to call

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<v Speaker 2>her back to really so embarrassed. You have all these expectations,

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<v Speaker 2>and now you're never gonna You're always gonna remember the

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<v Speaker 2>first day yelling, storming out of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna save this vale.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I can see if.

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<v Speaker 2>He is we're gonna save it, or we're gonna blame

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<v Speaker 2>John for not understanding what women are really there there

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<v Speaker 2>is here will make him say I'm sorry right when

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<v Speaker 2>he gets on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>It felt good when you said, do you feel good

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<v Speaker 3>about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just want to answer.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's get those dials number right now here

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<v Speaker 2>we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for John. This is

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<v Speaker 2>John and John Maya. My name is Jeff from a

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<v Speaker 2>radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, John, sorry for how seductively my host tried to

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<v Speaker 1>say that to you. But John, it is Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 1>after all, Dear John.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, John, it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>A yeah, we're kind of a wacky fun show and

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<v Speaker 2>we do this wacky segment called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, and we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to help one of our listeners get back in

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<v Speaker 2>touch with you after you went on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>her named Melissa.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we heard.

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<v Speaker 3>We heard.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought bold move on your part for going on

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<v Speaker 7>a first date on Valentine's Day weekend and like leaning

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<v Speaker 7>into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a big deal, dude.

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<v Speaker 6>Melissa you Yeah, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Emailed us and we reached out to her to find

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<v Speaker 2>out about how you two met and what you guys

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<v Speaker 2>did on your date.

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<v Speaker 1>So we have a few of the details.

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<v Speaker 2>The information we're looking to get from you, though, is

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<v Speaker 2>why you're not reaching out to her after the date.

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<v Speaker 2>She says, it's been a few days and got nothing.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh Man, because this is very embarrassing. You know, I

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<v Speaker 6>want to call her, and I know I know I

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<v Speaker 6>need to call her, but I've just been putting it

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<v Speaker 6>off because it's such an uncomfortable conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't physically attracted to her?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, you.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't.

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<v Speaker 2>People, it was a bad guess. Sorry, I get three

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<v Speaker 2>bad guesses. We all get three bad guesses. That's my

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<v Speaker 2>first strike. What were you embarrassed about?

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<v Speaker 6>So I was really nervous about the date, and so

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<v Speaker 6>I really wanted it to be a good experience for her.

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<v Speaker 6>But I waited too long to get dinner reservations, and

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<v Speaker 6>there was no restaurant open, you know that had anything

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<v Speaker 6>open for me.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait, she said that you had reservations and that you

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<v Speaker 7>guys went to this fancy restaurant. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well I might have done something a little weird

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<v Speaker 6>what I don't know if she told you. But so

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<v Speaker 6>at the restaurant, the way put me aside. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 6>had like a he had like a little conversation with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was mentioning that it got kind of heated

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<v Speaker 2>between you and the host, but she couldn't hear what

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<v Speaker 2>was happening.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So basically what happened was the host he pulled

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<v Speaker 6>me aside and he was like, are you John, And

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<v Speaker 6>you know I told him that I was okay. But

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<v Speaker 6>so what happened was the actual John showed up.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait wait, wait what you took someone else's reservation that

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<v Speaker 7>was also named John?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I did.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know there was another John there?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you just go a table for two for John?

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<v Speaker 1>What about Tom? What about Sarah?

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<v Speaker 3>I bet Kurt?

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<v Speaker 1>How did this happen?

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<v Speaker 6>So the day before, me and my friend went to

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<v Speaker 6>the restaurant and I told him to distract the host,

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<v Speaker 6>and I went up to the reservation book and I

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<v Speaker 6>looked for another reservation with Nick John.

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<v Speaker 1>That's brilliant.

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<v Speaker 3>And like it's such a generic name.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, I can't tell if I'm flattered that you

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<v Speaker 7>put you you put energy to making sure you had

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<v Speaker 7>a table.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, it makes sense because Melissa was saying you wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to get there early and she was running late.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought I could sneak it in there, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, hold on the server and me has to ask

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<v Speaker 2>was John the table for one? Which is why there

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<v Speaker 2>was only one set of silverware on the table?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's right, figured it out, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>John, Well you should have just asked John to join you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man, And you've been waiting to tell Melissa this.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I guess that's just too embarrassed to let her know.

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<v Speaker 6>I had a great time on the day with her,

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<v Speaker 6>but I just was so ashamed of myself.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess I think it's kind of fun I think

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<v Speaker 7>that she's gonna think it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>All the women think that it's great that you took

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<v Speaker 2>someone else's reservation and stole it from another honest man.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's okay. I wonder sure, I wonder how Melissa

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<v Speaker 1>would feel about that, though.

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<v Speaker 2>Who actually is on the other line listening to this conversation, dude?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious you Yeah? She I think she's still there, Melissa,

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<v Speaker 1>you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, curious that's what happened.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, Hey Melissa, why.

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<v Speaker 4>Wouldn't you just tell it? Why did you have to

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<v Speaker 4>make it make a thing like you made a reservation?

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<v Speaker 4>We could have gone anywhere.

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<v Speaker 6>I know, we just we clicked so and I just

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<v Speaker 6>wanted to make it special. And you know, I just

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<v Speaker 6>I guess I like you a lot, And.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're starting to vibe with someone online, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to lose that momentum and let it go like

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<v Speaker 2>two three weeks till the actual date exactly. You got

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<v Speaker 2>to get face to face as soon as possible to

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<v Speaker 2>sound so understanding.

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<v Speaker 3>You sound good, right, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean, I guess I do see how much he likes

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<v Speaker 4>me to go through all that trouble. That is kind

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<v Speaker 4>of sleep yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>But also kind of sketch. That he wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 7>pay the restaurant bills they were leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember that I.

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<v Speaker 6>Was going to pay it, but I just didn't want

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<v Speaker 6>to get busted in front of her, so I just

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<v Speaker 6>had to get out of.

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<v Speaker 3>It, had to get her out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>If he commits crimes or makes mistakes, he won't involve

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<v Speaker 2>you in them.

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<v Speaker 3>That's chivalry. You say it's dead.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not just I have to promise every man

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<v Speaker 2>should make so because of that, I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>The vibees going on here.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd like to send you guys out on another date, Melissa,

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<v Speaker 2>that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 3>We can't get reservations for tonight though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I promised two forks at the table. You're

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<v Speaker 2>at your own utensils. What do you think, Melissa?

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<v Speaker 4>You know that is weird that that was happening, and

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<v Speaker 4>I had no idea, but I do think that it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's actually kind of really nice that you were like

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<v Speaker 4>freaking out so much about it and put all that

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<v Speaker 4>effort in. So, yes, I would like to go on

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<v Speaker 4>another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Love is real.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at that.

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<v Speaker 2>If you are a little bit dishonest on a first

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<v Speaker 2>date and then admit to your dishonesty later on.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's all in the name of love, Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it's fine as long as you say that.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to actually believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>Just say that it's for love and we can get

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<v Speaker 2>you a successful relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations, guys, Thanks.

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<v Speaker 3>Valid, time's day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning brooking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's official.

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<v Speaker 2>The hot new first date move is stealing someone else's

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<v Speaker 2>reservation and claiming it for yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>It's romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>Still the effort is I mean, Brook, if you found

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<v Speaker 2>out that your husband Michael did that for your Valentine

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<v Speaker 2>State and stole some other couple's table, would you would

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<v Speaker 2>your reaction be on Michael, You're so conniving and manipulative.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet, I love you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I would be impressed. I am not even lying.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, an effort.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, we got into a fight over how he hadn't

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<v Speaker 7>planned anything and so he did finally play on something right, well, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I just find someone with a generic name like Michael

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<v Speaker 2>at a reservation somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Could be I had a great date on Saturday night.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like five man Michael Fox.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the lesson that we're learning is it's okay to

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<v Speaker 2>be dishonest on a first date as long as it's

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<v Speaker 2>for a good reason or to possibly get some.

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<v Speaker 4>Action benefits from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, as long.

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<v Speaker 7>As the girls on top of everybody wave, I'm so

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<v Speaker 7>excited for them, excited for a couple in a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad for the original John guy whose reservation

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<v Speaker 2>got stolen, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel bad that he was eaten by himself on Valentine's

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<v Speaker 3>Day weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, yeah, on anyway he shows up. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>someone already has team. We promise not to pile on

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<v Speaker 1>to you, though.

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<v Speaker 2>If you need some help with your dating life, email

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