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Speaker 2: If you want to win the Jubil Shows trip to

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Speaker 2: the Caribbean, you got to listen at eight and ten.

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Speaker 2: Josh is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named

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Speaker 2: Meredith that he recently went on a date with. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna call her pretty soon and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him. But first, Josh, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Meredith.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's been about a week.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's usually a sign. So how did you

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Speaker 4: meet Meredith? Can you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we met at a club. She was

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Speaker 3: with her friends and I saw her coming off the

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Speaker 3: dance floor and I just knew I wanted to talk

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Speaker 3: to her. You know. Yeah, she was just you know,

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Speaker 3: she was absolutely gorgeous, and you know, she was with

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Speaker 3: some of her friends. I was with some of my

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Speaker 3: friends and we ended up just sitting at the bar

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Speaker 3: and talking all night. It was great.

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Speaker 6: Oh that's cool. Okay, So was that the date?

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Speaker 3: And no, I mean we actually, you know, we we

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Speaker 3: and she said she lived close by, so you know,

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Speaker 3: I actually I went home with her and we had

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Speaker 3: a super great night.

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Speaker 4: Oh so that was the date. So did you guys

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Speaker 4: like hook up what? I don't know what base did

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Speaker 3: It's funny, Yeah, I mean we you know, we we did.

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Speaker 3: We were we were kissing and and it just it

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Speaker 3: just happened and it was just a great night.

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Speaker 2: Obviously you don't want to spill too many of the deeds,

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Speaker 2: which is respectable.

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Speaker 6: But could that have been all she was looking for,

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Speaker 6: just like a quick hookup?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I hope not. You know, I thought

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Speaker 3: we had a really good connection, you know. I mean

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Speaker 3: she was, you know, obviously gorgeous, like model hot, and

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Speaker 3: I just thought we had a great conversation, and you know,

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Speaker 3: she was one of those people that kind of knows

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Speaker 3: everything about everything, and that just, you know, kind of

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Speaker 3: turned me on even more.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So yeah, all right, So why why do you

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Speaker 6: think she might be ghosting it?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 3: You know, honestly, I think it might be because we

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Speaker 3: slept together so quickly, you know, and maybe she did

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Speaker 3: just want a one night stand and that was it.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've had a few of those and they

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Speaker 3: are what they are, but she was just more than

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Speaker 3: that to me. So I don't like that I'm getting ghosted.

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Speaker 4: Did you feel like she was into it too? Like,

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Speaker 4: was there ever a moment where you started to feel

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think so. I thought we had

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Speaker 3: a great night, you know, And I think the fact

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Speaker 2: Well, and maybe she thought you were only interested in

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Speaker 2: one I said, maybe it just wasn't good.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: First time you're always offward to the eagle, so it's

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Speaker 4: not it's not a testament to your usually not that good, right.

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Speaker 3: I'm obviously hoping it's not that. Yeah, you know, could

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Speaker 2: That's why I know, how ter, how long i'm with someone,

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Speaker 2: I always like, let's pretend like it's our first time,

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Speaker 2: so that if it's bad, I can be like it

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Speaker 2: was our first time. Yeah, what any time when we

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Speaker 2: were preticting to me as our first time. That's why.

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Speaker 2: All right, Josh, we'll see if we can figure out

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Speaker 2: for you. Plus I'll come back.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first day follow up

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Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Josh is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Meredith. We're about to

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Josh,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Meredith.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was a great day. I met

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Speaker 3: and you know, we actually ended up hooking up, and

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Speaker 3: It is because we hooked up so quickly. But I

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Speaker 6: Ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 6: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak to Meredith please.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's me.

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Speaker 6: Hey, Meredith, how are you. My name is Jubel. I'm

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Speaker 6: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show

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Speaker 6: him Meredith, the whole show is here.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 6: My name's Nina. No Way, Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I know you guys.

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Speaker 2: Sweet, we did get an email about you from a

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Speaker 2: guy named Josh.

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so you know, we.

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Speaker 2: Do the first day follow up where if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with someone and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 2: that person can have us get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why A you're ghosting? Josh says, he's been

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Speaker 6: Back to him. Yeah, do you mind telling us why?

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Speaker 7: So that night that we met, it was pretty good.

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Speaker 5: You know, he seemed really nice and he actually listened

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Speaker 5: instead of just like waiting to talk, you know, next thing,

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Speaker 5: you know, and and he's really hot, and so you know,

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Speaker 5: I kind of just decided that I wanted to take

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Speaker 7: I I don't do that a whole lot, but it

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Speaker 5: Like we just we clicked really well. And when we

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Speaker 7: Wanted to get him home, you know what I mean? Okay,

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Speaker 7: it was it was hot, and you.

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Speaker 5: you know, I was like, I want to take a

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Speaker 5: I felt, you know, gross, so I just, you know,

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Speaker 5: He said that didn't matter and suggested I didn't shower

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Speaker 5: because it's hotter, but you.

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Speaker 7: Know, I wasn't comfortable with that. Okay, I went and showered,

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Speaker 5: Got out, you know, we got to it and it

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Speaker 5: was great. Every second of it was great. But then,

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Speaker 5: you know they should have been there because I it

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Speaker 6: He smelled them.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you know in the moment was it was hot.

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Speaker 7: But you know, I don't ever want to King, shame anyone.

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Speaker 7: That's not the problem. The problem is that I.

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Speaker 5: Know he took them and he didn't ask me. That

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Speaker 6: But had he.

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Speaker 4: Asked you, would you have been okay with it?

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Speaker 7: Honestly, I probably would have.

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Speaker 5: You know, I may have been open to the idea,

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Speaker 5: that's something that I feel like i'd have to go

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Speaker 7: But that doesn't really matter because he didn't ask.

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Speaker 2: So Okay, Well, thank you for being honest, Meredith. I

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Speaker 2: appreciate that. But also Josh is on the phone listening

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I forgot about that part.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Josh's still there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey, Meredith. Hi, Well, I didn't take them, and

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Speaker 3: I definitely don't remember being that creepy and smelling you.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know why you're saying that.

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Speaker 7: I don't believe you, and it's kind of messed up

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Speaker 5: Your thing, Like you took my underwear without asking for permission,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you because I did

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Speaker 3: not take your underwear, and I'm really sorry. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I want a second date, but I didn't take them.

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Speaker 3: I promise that you can trust me, and you know,

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Speaker 3: if I ever wanted to do that, I would ask you.

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Speaker 5: It's it's just a little weird to me that he

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Speaker 3: Well, they've they've got to be somewhere in your house.

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Speaker 3: I promised I didn't take them. I mean, they've got

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Speaker 5: I mean I've looked everywhere I can imagine, and I

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Speaker 3: Is there anyone at your house that could have taken them?

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Speaker 3: Or did anyone come over? I mean, I'm not accusing

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Speaker 7: Them in the last week.

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Speaker 5: No, I haven't had anyone else come over that would

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Speaker 6: Do you have a pet?

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Speaker 5: I don't. I don't have any pets. I grew up

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Speaker 5: I don't have any pets right now.

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Speaker 6: Josh, you promised you did not take her underwear.

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Speaker 3: I promise I did not take her underwear.

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Speaker 4: So if we sent the underwear police to your house,

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Speaker 4: they wouldn't find anything.

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Speaker 6: We have their number.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think the underwear police would find anything. Meredith.

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Speaker 3: You can come over to my place right now. You

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Speaker 3: can check the underwear I'm wearing. You can check every drawer,

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Speaker 3: every cabinet. I promise you I do not have them.

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Speaker 3: I just want a second date, Meredith.

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Speaker 6: Would you like to go with Josh again on another date?

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Speaker 6: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 7: I really want to, Josh. I just don't know how

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Speaker 7: you would prove to me that you didn't take them.

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Speaker 3: Well, can I just buy you some new ones?

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Speaker 6: Yes, you get free panties, we'll pay for it, and

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Speaker 5: And just you know, don't take any of the other

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Speaker 5: don't take any of my other underwears.

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Speaker 6: Josh underwear for the wind. Do you agree to keep

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Speaker 6: your greedy mits off of her underwear?

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