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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. If you want a

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Speaker 1: second date update, all you have to do is email

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Speaker 1: us Brook and Jewel and Moving nine two five dot com.

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Speaker 1: We will call the person that didn't call you back.

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Speaker 1: Amanda emailed us about a date she went on with

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Speaker 1: a dude name Rob Amanda. Your email said that you

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Speaker 1: laughed through the entire date. Is that right? Yes, we did.

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Speaker 1: We had a fantastic time. What did you do? Well?

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Speaker 1: We met at the work party and he asked me

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Speaker 1: out that night and we went down a ferry ride

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Speaker 1: out to Bainbridge Island and we had dinner at a

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Speaker 1: restaurant out there. It was just really lovely, like we

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Speaker 1: couldn't stop talking the entire way. What was the first

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Speaker 1: thing you thought or felt when you saw him at

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Speaker 1: the work party? Great, I've and very funny, this funny guy,

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Speaker 1: you know, really good connection on that level. Does he

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Speaker 1: work like with you or in the same industry or

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Speaker 1: something like, how'd you same industry? We're just like in

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Speaker 1: different divisions, so it was just kind of different parts

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Speaker 1: of our company were brought together and I heard about him,

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Speaker 1: but this is the first time we actually really met

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Speaker 1: and hung out. Have you tried to call him on

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Speaker 1: his company phone through the company directorate. So what happened

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Speaker 1: on the ferry ride back? You know, I feel like

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Speaker 1: we had an amazing dinner and we even kissed on

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Speaker 1: the ferry ride. It was a lot of sparks, A

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Speaker 1: lot of sparks. Okay, So you've got to have been

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Speaker 1: dwelling on this for a while. Why this guy isn't

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Speaker 1: calling you back? Can you think of any reason? Well,

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Speaker 1: there was only one awkward moment that I can think of,

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Speaker 1: and it was just, you know, maybe I'd had a

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Speaker 1: little too much wine. Then I was actually just like

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Speaker 1: kind of in a fit of laughter, and I ran

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Speaker 1: like you ran over somebody while you were walking, wasn't

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Speaker 1: paying attention, and I sort of tripped and then down

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Speaker 1: with me. That's funny. I don't see that being a

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Speaker 1: reason why I wouldn't call it back personally. Were you

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Speaker 1: able to laugh at off? I did? I just naturally

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Speaker 1: think those things are kind of funny, you know, not

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Speaker 1: to be taken too seriously. But I know everybody reacts differently,

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Speaker 1: so maybe he thought it was weird. How did he react?

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Speaker 1: Did he react the same? He kind of looked at

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Speaker 1: me a little funny, but he helped me up and

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Speaker 1: kind of brushed it off and just went on. I

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Speaker 1: didn't notice like a huge difference in his personality changing

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Speaker 1: or anything, but I mean he did kind of have

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Speaker 1: an awkward look on his face. May it embarrassed him

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Speaker 1: a little bit? Yeah, because it's awkward naturally. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: if we've learned anything from romantic comedies, I mean that

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Speaker 1: is actually at the start of love right there. Did

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Speaker 1: he leave you going, hey, I'll call you and we'll

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Speaker 1: tell you go out again. I enjoyed it everything else. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean it was definitely like we kissed good night

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Speaker 1: and it was kind of like one of those yeah

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Speaker 1: we'll talk soon kind of things, and then just didn't

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Speaker 1: hear back. Uh, the kind of bummed. You know, I

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Speaker 1: had such a good time and just we're going to

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Speaker 1: have that kind of connection with somebody. So do you

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Speaker 1: sound so fun and positive? Like I think that maybe

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Speaker 1: I hope. So right, are you ready to give him

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Speaker 1: a call? Yeah? Okay, well play a song, come right

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Speaker 1: back right after that, we'll call and get your second

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Speaker 1: day update. Okay, thank you, rooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: All right, if you're just tuning into the second date update,

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Speaker 1: Amanda's on the phone with us. She emailed us about

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Speaker 1: a dude she went out with named Rob. They had

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Speaker 1: a good time. They went out to Bainbridge for dinner.

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Speaker 1: The only weird thing that she can think of is

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Speaker 1: that she fell down during the date and kind of

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Speaker 1: ran over somebody. And that's the only awkward thing you

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Speaker 1: can think of, right, Yeah, it was just a silly moment.

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Speaker 1: You know, you'd hope somebody has a sense of humor,

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Speaker 1: but how he does, so who knows. Now, we've done

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Speaker 1: a lot of these second dates, and you sound like

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Speaker 1: a really positive person who hasn't been too jaded by

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Speaker 1: the dating scene yet. Thank you, Yeah, she said, yet,

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Speaker 1: don't say yet. Well, I just want you to prepare

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Speaker 1: what's the worst thing that you could hear from him?

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Speaker 1: You think I guess that he thought it was disgusting

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Speaker 1: or something. Okay, Well he did kiss you, yea, so

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Speaker 1: he probably doesn't think you're disgusting or maybe like the

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Speaker 1: worst kiss or ever. We have had a second day

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Speaker 1: update that's ended that way, not to scare you before

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Speaker 1: we call him. Just preparing her, not scaring her. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna call him right now, okay, okay, Hello, Hey is

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Speaker 1: Rob there? Yeah, this is him Rob. This is Jewel

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm moving ninety

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Speaker 1: two point five. How are you a radio station? Why

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Speaker 1: are you calling? What is this? We do a morning

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Speaker 1: show here in Seattle. Are you familiar with us? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't listen to the radio. Okay, those Well, we

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Speaker 1: are the world's most popular morning show, and we've decided

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Speaker 1: to call you today because we do a segment on

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Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. Okay. That's where

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Speaker 1: say you take a girl out on a date and

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Speaker 1: then don't call her back after she emails us to

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Speaker 1: call you and ask why. So you went out on

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Speaker 1: a date with somebody, blew them off, and now we

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Speaker 1: want to ask you what the problem was. And this

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Speaker 1: is a further radio This is live on the radio. Yep, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I mean who is it? Her name's Amanda, Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: who you're thinking. Yeah, yeah, I figured so a man

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Speaker 1: has tried to get ahold of you since you, guys

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Speaker 1: would out on your date. She said she had a

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Speaker 1: great time, and it seemed like you did too. Why

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Speaker 1: have you been blown her off? She's just she's very sweet.

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Speaker 1: She's a very nice girl. All right, That's what people

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Speaker 1: usually say when there's some sort of an issue. Come on, Rob,

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Speaker 1: don't do that, Rob. It was a nice date. I

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Speaker 1: just don't think we're compatible. I just that's not my type.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think it would work, really, Rob, if

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Speaker 1: you trying to be a gentleman, I totally get that.

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Speaker 1: But I understand that she emailed us. She wants to

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Speaker 1: know the reason. I mean, look, she's very nice. I

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Speaker 1: want to make sure that's clar Amanda is a fantastic girl.

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Speaker 1: But it's just she, um, she's probably the clumsiest person

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Speaker 1: she was going. It kind of ran over to somebody

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Speaker 1: and fell down on him. Is that what turned you off? Well,

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Speaker 1: we were just walking to the restaurant and she was

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Speaker 1: bumping into people on the sidewalk, you know, like fumbling

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Speaker 1: It's just she's just so completely unaware of her body.

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Speaker 1: It's you know, I must I don't know she's gonna

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Speaker 1: have to step a lot of time in the hospital

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Speaker 1: taking care of Rob. Be honest, you're imagining what your

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Speaker 1: bedroom life would be like and you're worried. Yeah, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: her to the hospital. You're lucky she didn't follow up

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Speaker 1: the boat man. Yeah, exactly. She was gonna bump me

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Speaker 1: I should probably tell you that Amanda's on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us right now listening. Hey Rob, Hi, Hey, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, this is so embarrassing. Amanda. Do you have

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Speaker 1: an explanation for Rob, Like maybe you're not always that clumsy,

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Speaker 1: or you were just nervous, or could be completely honest,

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Speaker 1: I think I forced it a little bit. I thought

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Speaker 1: maybe guys kind of think that's cute. So you're like

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Speaker 1: through more and you know, so you know, you really

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Speaker 1: to be clumsy so he thinks I'm cute. Is that

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Speaker 1: something the thought that actually went through your head? Amanda.

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Speaker 1: I can understand the want to play the damsel into

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Speaker 1: stress role so that the man comes and saves a Rob.

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Speaker 1: Now that you know that she was overplaying being clumsy,

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Speaker 1: does that make you think any different of her? I

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Speaker 1: mean that seems like a little too much to be

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Speaker 1: faking it. It was like an undiagnosed like syndrome of

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Speaker 1: too far with it, Amanda. All right, Rob, we'll send

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Speaker 1: you guys out on a second date. We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to go out with her again? See

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Speaker 1: if she's not as clutsy as she says. I did

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Speaker 1: have a good time, it's just the clumsiness really threw

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Speaker 1: to change, then I'm totally up forgiving in another shot.

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Speaker 1: Let me to say, I learned a lesson, But life's

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Speaker 1: all about I learned a lesson, and I do apologize

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Speaker 1: in that. Yeah, I would, okay, And don't play up

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Speaker 1: the Cletzi thing anymore. I won't. It's gone. There's only

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Speaker 1: one place I want you to fake it on this date,

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Speaker 1: and that takes place somewhere else. Broken jubil in the morning,