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Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to another episode of the black Outs Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I am your host, Rod, joined us always by my

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Speaker 2: co hosts Kim, and we are here to do feedback.

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Speaker 2: You had something to say about the things we had

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Speaker 2: to say that nobody asked our opinion on. We just

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Speaker 2: told y'all, and now y'all just we asked for your opinion,

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Speaker 2: So you telling us your solicited opinions. You can leave

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Speaker 2: feedback by looking at the show notes. All the stuff

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Speaker 2: is there. Don't forget. Live show is coming up. We're

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Speaker 2: only like two weeks away.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, okay.

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Speaker 2: It's on a Saturday at three pm. It's at the

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Speaker 2: night Theater downtown Charlotte. It's gonna be a festival there.

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Speaker 2: There's gonna be a beer garden. There's gonna be just

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Speaker 2: a lot of fun. We're planning on doing something very special.

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Speaker 2: Justin's gonna be there. You don't want to miss it.

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Speaker 2: If you have to watch it in person or remote,

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Speaker 2: we have both options. So go to the show notes,

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Speaker 2: look at the link, click on it. Buy your tickets.

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Speaker 2: We love seeing the sales. It's a great way to support.

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Speaker 2: You know, we paid for a photographer, so the money's gone.

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Speaker 1: The money is gone, money is spit.

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Speaker 2: We need y'all to show up. Okay, the chexcept in

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Speaker 2: cash money has been We're already making expensive purchases. All right,

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Speaker 2: this is a bad idea, but now we need y'all

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Speaker 2: help buy the tickets. We want to see y'all. It's

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Speaker 2: gonna be a fun time. I'm getting excited about it.

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Speaker 1: So uh, you're getting decided. Yeah, I'm excited about it.

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Speaker 1: That's nobody me. Well, I have I have.

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Speaker 2: A secret thing I'm gonna do, you know, and so

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Speaker 2: you and Justin don't even know what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 2: But it's gonna be a good time, and I think

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Speaker 2: everybody should do that for them, all right.

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Speaker 1: The official weapon of the show is no, it's not.

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Speaker 2: It is the folding chair and the unofficial sport and

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Speaker 2: bullet ball extreme that's rightbody invention.

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Speaker 3: It a photy chair go stick. But I mean, come

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Speaker 3: on now, work with me, people, work with me.

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Speaker 1: I do say.

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Speaker 2: You know, I noticed that I wore my wander Vision

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Speaker 2: so I appreciate you. You know, matching my flavor. Yay?

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Speaker 1: Can he beat the Kanye to my Kim?

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Speaker 1: As my burier. I love his T shirt.

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Speaker 2: Anytime I step out, I'm popping flave, I'm dripping sauts.

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Speaker 2: They already know I'm coming through shutting it down.

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Speaker 1: I just want my man to be a reflection of that,

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Speaker 1: like when they see him. Can he beat the Kanye

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Speaker 1: to my Kim?

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Speaker 2: That's all I've been asking, and so I'll just appreciate

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Speaker 2: you stepping your game up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, come o, thro and I read it for season two.

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Speaker 5: Look, Bumble knows you're exhausted by dating, although must not

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Speaker 5: take yourself too seriously and six to one since stuff matters,

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Speaker 5: and what do I even say other than hey, Well,

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Speaker 5: that's why they're introducing an all new Bumble with exciting

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Speaker 5: features to make compatibility easier, starting the chat better, and

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Speaker 5: dating safer. They've changed so you don't have to download

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Speaker 5: the new Bubble now.

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Speaker 2: Man, happy attention.

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Speaker 1: We're now listening to Charlotte's own Rod and Karen.

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Speaker 5: We welcome the good folks who tied to the black

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Speaker 5: living tips.

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Speaker 1: That's right today, new day, new salaray. We got some

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Speaker 1: old money. Uh.

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Speaker 2: These are the people that gave us money on our website.

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Speaker 2: They don't expect anything.

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Speaker 1: But a shout out and some love.

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Speaker 2: Bomani Jones who it is his birthday today, Happy birthday,

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Speaker 2: for the money that jingles and foals.

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Speaker 1: We spend it everywhere, Yes we do.

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Speaker 2: I love that part all right. You know, we got

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Speaker 2: to talk about five star reviews. We got a couple

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna read them and we appreciate them. You

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Speaker 2: The Folding Chairs five stars by d Money three three one.

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Speaker 1: I love Themorrows of House Tips. The show is hilarious.

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Speaker 2: The opinions are spot on, even if you don't want

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Speaker 2: hundred percent agree with their opinions. I guarantee you will

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Speaker 2: Okay, listen, all my friends got podcasts, all right, this

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Speaker 2: is just a new blog. If anyone thinks people have

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Speaker 1: Something is wrong with them.

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Speaker 2: All my friends, Like, you know, I remember I was

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Speaker 2: was like, you know, I don't agree with everything. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I know, we met, not we talked all the time.

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Speaker 2: We never agree on everything. That's nope, that's crazy. You know,

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Speaker 1: And that's it.

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Speaker 2: Really, I can't, you know, I assume like minded people

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Speaker 2: Its human, you know. If anything, I hope people are

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Speaker 2: It feels like more than ever, we're at a time

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Speaker 1: It's just like, let that shit go, right.

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Speaker 3: And now there are some things that I won't be

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Speaker 3: And I don't mean coexisting as you doing harm or

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Speaker 3: passing law. No, I mean just a I say apples,

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Speaker 3: you say on just motherfuckers want to pull out their swords.

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Speaker 3: Now you're like, bitch, it ain't that important like this

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Speaker 2: They go on to say, if you're a new listener,

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Speaker 2: I highly recommend purchasing tickets to their live show. I

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Speaker 2: promise you won't regret it. Thanks you riding and care

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Speaker 2: for your hard work and dedication. I hope everyone that

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Speaker 2: of that good old Alabama Alabama phold and chair justice

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Speaker 2: always would love David. Yes, I always hit them with

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Speaker 1: Love them.

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Speaker 2: This is from Karen for Good says Karen's in the house,

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Speaker 2: The Karen Hunter Show. It's a lot of Karen's going

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Speaker 2: on right now. Comebo the Karen Hunter. I'll tell you

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Speaker 2: I'm big with black caarents.

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Speaker 1: Karen traffekto, I'm big in the black Karen community.

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Speaker 2: The Karen Hunter Show turned me onto the Black Tips

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Speaker 2: pod cast this year.

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Speaker 1: I love these two. I love their podcast.

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Speaker 2: Prepping for my recent five hour flight, I downloaded my

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Speaker 2: faves The Blackout Tips, This American Love Life, and Snap Judgment.

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Speaker 2: I never did figure out how to download an entire

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Speaker 2: episode The Frontline Shrug AnyWho. As you can see, I

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Speaker 1: Hip hop's Birthday of Mine.

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Speaker 2: Hey yo, black parents are flying always funky fresh.

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Speaker 1: Come on through fucking fresh, karens.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is interesting because, like I don't think anyone

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Speaker 1: Like they were never in it anyway, right, you know.

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Speaker 1: That's how that's how bad it is.

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Speaker 2: Like black parents is just not really even involved in

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Speaker 2: All right, the first episode of the week was twenty

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Speaker 1: It's definitely different in America. Did she get in trouble

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Speaker 2: No Flow says, one thing about that Eminem response is

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Speaker 2: not choosing two bad people. Donald Trump is a horrible

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying everybody has to be so gung ho

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Speaker 1: Let's see. But nice trick, ice cube, nice try. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know you listened. The poll was do you read

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Speaker 2: Okay, Karen says, yes. When's the last time you had

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Speaker 1: It's been a while, but I do. Okay, so you

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Speaker 1: just say of all time? Basically, yeah, do I read

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Speaker 1: comic book? Yes? Have I read them before? Yes? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Well, the poll results are the same on our site

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna start. How could I not shine?

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Speaker 2: Kisher says, I shine like the sun baby It's toy,

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Speaker 2: So bad that Sidney says, I consider myself culturally Christian

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Speaker 1: That's why you don't want to have kids. Okay, it's

438
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Speaker 1: like you don't shake them up, particularly after your feed them.

439
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,760
Speaker 1: But honestly, you know what worth it?

440
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Speaker 2: He probably was like, listen, there's a bunch of times

441
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,679
Speaker 2: I threw you around and you didn't throw up, and

442
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Speaker 2: those are fun. Episode twenty seven fifty seven selling fan babies.

443
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Speaker 2: So I guess you was commenting on this episode early

444
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 2: because that wasn't even the same episode, right, that's weird?

445
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 1: Uh seiling fan babies.

446
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 2: Brooklyn shoe Babe is the first one to comment, Damn,

447
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 2: I thought I bought wild wild things to the theater.

448
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 1: Lol. I bought in mini bottles of wine, personal.

449
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 2: Picky and pizza, hot pizzas, Popeye's fried chicken and biscuits, candy, soda, chips,

450
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 2: LLL shut out, shout out the big persons, napsacks, and

451
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Speaker 2: cargo pants.

452
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 1: Lol.

453
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Speaker 2: I passed these tricks down to my children, my mom

454
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Speaker 2: of the Year, Hey Mama the Year. Ronner Raphael says,

455
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Speaker 2: I almost did a voicemail, but I wasn't trying to

456
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 2: get too emotional for these streets still got tickets to

457
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Speaker 2: Avoca to sell. This tossing of This tossing of babies

458
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Speaker 2: took me back to an event that happened in nineteen

459
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Speaker 2: thirty nine, all the way in Kumasi, Ghana. A man

460
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Speaker 2: who came to greet and celebrate my grandfather on his

461
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Speaker 2: first child turning one, tossed the.

462
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Speaker 1: Baby up and missed the baby dropping it. Oh.

463
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Speaker 2: The story claims that the baby was silent for a

464
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Speaker 2: sec before bursting into screaming, and the kopa ran into

465
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Speaker 2: the bushes in the panic. Now, my grandfather was a

466
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Speaker 2: senior police officer back in the colonial days, which meant

467
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Speaker 2: you could be fucked by fucking up his first born,

468
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: same as now. But after they had claimed to call

469
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Speaker 2: to sue the kids, someone brought it up that it

470
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Speaker 2: might be a good idea to go find a guy

471
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Speaker 2: who ran into the butcheres so he doesn't attempt suicide.

472
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Speaker 2: So a search party goes to look for him at

473
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Speaker 2: the same time yelling we not trying to harm you

474
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Speaker 2: for real. He was found the next morning. Real he

475
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Speaker 2: was found the next morning, spent a night in the bushes.

476
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Speaker 2: My mom was in her mid fifties when she told

477
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Speaker 2: me the story of Nigeria and the man who had

478
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 2: dropped her as a baby was just living our I

479
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 2: guess living in our house. She was laughing and I was,

480
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, but now it's funny. It makes sense

481
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,479
Speaker 2: why I rarely throw babies up but have thrown at

482
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Speaker 2: least two four to six years old into a ceiling fan.

483
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Speaker 2: I broke the cycle. Wait, I rarely throw babies up,

484
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 2: but half.

485
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Speaker 1: Thrown at least two four to six year olds into

486
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Speaker 1: a ceiling fan.

487
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Speaker 2: Like, I guess he don't throw babies, but he tossed kids. Kids,

488
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Speaker 2: kids could get centing fan, can get centin fan.

489
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Speaker 1: And fucked up too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I count that was his babies, four to six's

491
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 2: baby still too damn. You didn't break the cycle. You

492
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Speaker 2: broke the fan or possibly broke the baby. You broke

493
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Speaker 2: the braids on the Baby's got to be reset.

494
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Speaker 1: Now.

495
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Speaker 2: I'm just yeah, I'm just I'm just like God did

496
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Speaker 2: them running into the woods looking for that dude, Like,

497
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Speaker 2: come on, now, we're not gonna jump you.

498
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Speaker 1: We privates.

499
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Speaker 2: Wan Gangi says I was born in the latch keik

500
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Speaker 2: era but before the backpack era. Which was a golden

501
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: age of contraband adult expected you to live out of

502
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 2: your backpack perse all day, So the trick was to

503
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Speaker 2: be able to pack things in such a way as

504
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 2: the pass inspection bonus for New York weather required out

505
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 2: of wear for a majority of the year to provide

506
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Speaker 2: extra smuggle locations. This food smuggling was also easily converted

507
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Speaker 2: to boosting capacity if one were so inclined, or if

508
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Speaker 2: one had a reading habit that you couldn't financially support

509
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Speaker 2: with teen resources. Jay Full says those Mississippi costs were

510
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Speaker 2: trying to get that little boy who owed uh I

511
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Speaker 2: guess who oh who peed outside into the system. I

512
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 2: bet even if the chargers are dropped, they're going to

513
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Speaker 2: keep his prints and shit on file.

514
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Speaker 1: I think so too us.

515
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Speaker 2: And now he's got a prior arrest which police can

516
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Speaker 2: try to use to justify fuck with him in the future.

517
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Speaker 1: Disgusting.

518
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how the prior arrest thing works.

519
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: Like once when you're a juvenile, Like if he doesn't

520
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 2: get in any trouble and then he turns like eighteen,

521
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Speaker 2: is that gonna fall away or is that going to

522
00:25:59,080 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: always beat out?

523
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Speaker 1: Because I just don't know, right, but the man that

524
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: shit be taken away, like come on.

525
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: But as an update to that story, I saw that

526
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: they did fire the police officer. Good, but that's to me,

527
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: that's not I don't give a fuck about that. Because

528
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 2: y'all put that first statement out, and that first statement

529
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 2: was justifying the police officer's actions, you just look weirdly

530
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,719
Speaker 2: hypocritical and like you're trying to cover your ass firing

531
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Speaker 2: that man days later, as if you never had his back.

532
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 2: You were explaining to us, why, hey, hey, this is

533
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Speaker 2: these are the good reasons to arrest a fucking ten

534
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Speaker 2: year old. Oh, by the way, we think he may

535
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Speaker 2: have aired in judgment, but you know, we think it

536
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Speaker 2: was a good idea to arrest the fucking kid for

537
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Speaker 2: peeing outside. Get the fuck out of my face. I've

538
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: just said selling fans are our common here. Good for babies.

539
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Speaker 2: I guess, well, y'all probably just throw them into something else.

540
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Speaker 3: All right, kids tossing to all types of shit. Human

541
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Speaker 3: beings are something else.

542
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Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all do over there.

543
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 2: Evie E says I wrote that I say knuck a

544
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 2: large piece into the theater. I used a large zip

545
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 2: lock bag and stacked the slices inside of it and

546
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 2: then put it in my bag. I used to follow

547
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Speaker 2: a TikToker who accused the target employee of racism. Oh

548
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: that Tiktoko, okay, because I like her music. But from

549
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 2: what I've seen in the video, they were blocking the aisles,

550
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: and I doubt she has permission. I've been in a

551
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 2: flash mob in a grocery store before and the coordinator

552
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 2: got permission first, but it was too cumbersome to do

553
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 2: it inside the store, so we had to do it

554
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 2: in the parking lot. I think the accuser was just

555
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: triggered because she has been the target of racist attacks

556
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: before because of her style of music. I just don't

557
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 2: think this was it for this particular time around.

558
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Speaker 1: I agree, agreed, Yeah, I agree.

559
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Speaker 3: Like I said, there are some things that are for

560
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 3: that racism then there sometimes now your race ain't got

561
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 3: nothing to do with it.

562
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 2: Comments on on YouTube heard emoji from the home I create.

563
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 2: She loves just throwing us a heart on there and

564
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Speaker 2: we appreciate it. Chocolate Lady cap two seven seven three says,

565
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Speaker 2: I believe over rum it proof.

566
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: Overproof from is like one hundred and fifty percent.

567
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think we found out on the show

568
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: because I looked it up. But yeah, and SFA says Rod,

569
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 2: I made a mistake.

570
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: Hey, players mess up me.

571
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: Finally he's about to correct one of the most egregious

572
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 2: errors he made in quite some time, Rod, I forgot

573
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 2: doing it for the ground me damn it, Maybe next time.

574
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Speaker 1: I don't even know what er you're talking about, Like,

575
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Speaker 1: I don't even know. I mean, it wasn't that egregious enough.

576
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: I love doing it for the ground. What a mistake.

577
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Speaker 1: I won't forget to day. By the way, I have

578
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Speaker 1: the tabs up.

579
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Speaker 2: The poll was, have you ever tossed a kid into

580
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 2: a ceiling fan? Mm hmm, yes, by accident, yes, on

581
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 2: purpose or not yet? Apparently mine is not yet. I

582
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: don't you never know, you might plan on tossing baby

583
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 2: or Karen, has anyone planned on tossing the baby into

584
00:28:58,960 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: the ceiling fan?

585
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

586
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: Well yeah, ten percent half ten percent, because six percent

587
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,959
Speaker 2: say yes by accident, ten percent say yes on purpose.

588
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: They threw his baby into a ceiling fan on purpose.

589
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: I hope they're just trying to be funny, right, damn

590
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: you evil?

591
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: And eighty four percent say not yet. On Spotify.

592
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: The people with the money, yes, by accident, five percent,

593
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 2: on purpose two percent, so less of them think it's

594
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: funny to say that. And and I made it the option,

595
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 2: so it's really on me. And ninety three percent say

596
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: not yet, so we'll see what happens.

597
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Speaker 3: You know, in the future, you don't know what you

598
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 3: You don't know what you're what the future may call

599
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 3: between you and Baby in the City fan.

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Speaker 2: And I apparently forgot to do a Q and A

601
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 2: on Spotify for this one. So it's hilarious, guys, all right,

602
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 2: it's cracking caring up, better than any joke I wrote

603
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 2: for Game.

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Speaker 1: Theory, best work of my life. It is error, all right.

605
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Speaker 1: So let's go to the next one. Twenty seven to

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Speaker 1: fifty eight.

607
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Speaker 2: Icing on the Cake is entitled with this one, we

608
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Speaker 2: had four comments. Mary says, I'm so glad you do

609
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 2: LGBTQ plus news. Just a comment on the rainbow socks

610
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 2: of letting people know what you're about. As someone in

611
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Speaker 2: recovery who attends twelve state step meetings on Zoom, it

612
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: was brought to our attention that at our meeting, a

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Speaker 2: largely head or normative space, there was an attendee who

614
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Speaker 2: didn't feel too comfortable in our meeting, no hostility, just

615
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: wasn't sure if it was okay.

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Speaker 1: To be there.

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Speaker 2: They usually had the camera off and didn't get caught

618
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Speaker 2: on the share. So at that point I started adding

619
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Speaker 2: that she heard of my screen name, just so they

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Speaker 2: knew there was someone there who was with them and

621
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Speaker 2: that it was okay to be there.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't much, but I wanted them to know.

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Speaker 2: I wanted the people at the meeting to know that

624
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Speaker 2: it was important that we would be welcoming to all

625
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Speaker 2: people with a drug alcohol problem.

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Speaker 1: My husband joined it.

627
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Speaker 2: At first he got ridiculed, but then those people came around.

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Speaker 2: I think just like if you see people being openly

629
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Speaker 2: gay and trans, it makes you think you can be.

630
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Speaker 1: Also maybe when people.

631
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Speaker 2: See other actors with others acting with capassion, that can

632
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 2: be catchy too.

633
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Speaker 1: All this to say, where those rainbow socks.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and then the attend the attending was Transit's what

635
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Speaker 2: she put in uh at the follow up. Yeah, like

636
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 2: I said, I never I think I never was questioning

637
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 2: if I was gonna wear them or not. I was

638
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 2: just more thinking, how I don't feel like it's entering

639
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 2: some sort of conflict to wear shit like that, you know,

640
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: Like to me is if anything is you know, I

641
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 2: in my experience like maybe somebody will throw a joke

642
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: my way or something, but I've never done it to

643
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: think to myself like I need people to know that

644
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: I'm ready to fucking like kill somebody or die for

645
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: this shit. But but that's just because I wasn't thinking

646
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: about it.

647
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: And it's polarized society.

648
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: It could be something that simple because everyone got guns

649
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: and motherfuckers are.

650
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: Just killing people for stupid shit.

651
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: And the motherfuckers with the guns are mostly these right

652
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: wing type, the ones that do this kind of thing

653
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,239
Speaker 2: like randomly shoot somebody in public over something like this

654
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: seems to be right wing people. Like, we don't really

655
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: have a lot of counter examples of like, oh somebody

656
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 2: saw somebody with a Confederate flag and shot them, But

657
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: we do have a lot of other examples of like, oh,

658
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 2: somebody saw someone doing something that they felt was inclusive

659
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: or too much diversity and shot up the fucking you know,

660
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 2: drag place or the gay club and shit.

661
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 3: So correct then, and this is one reason why when

662
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 3: you know, people be arguing and shit, I'm be like, hey,

663
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 3: when y'all talk about this devout and people normally aren't

664
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 3: on this side, they're normally'll on the other side.

665
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, So anyway, I just didn't think about I'm entering

666
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: into a conflict, but I guess I am. And yeah,

667
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna change. It's not like I'm scared of

668
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 2: the conflict. It'd be a dumb it be a like

669
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 2: fucked up reason to be injured or heard or whatever

670
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 2: the fuck happens.

671
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean bit chall like rainbows, Why I

672
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: got to give them up?

673
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 3: No?

674
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And and honestly, the only real inconvenience I've ever

675
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 2: experienced it. I wouldn't call it inconvenience, but it's other

676
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: people's homophobia trying to point it at me, like, oh

677
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 2: you so you gaze on them, you know that kind

678
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 2: of dumb shit, which you know, that's like a child.

679
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: It's like a fourth grader talking to me, you know

680
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, I can't respect anybody that will

681
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: say that anyway, all right, Tanya W forty two says

682
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 2: it's someone who has a turtle in their apartment. It's

683
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 2: my man's son's pet, which he didn't take when he

684
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 2: moved out. I can attest that they are filthy creatures.

685
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 2: Cleaning the turtle take will give you that impression.

686
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: Lol. I can't even imagine kissing a color and a turtle. Yuck.

687
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: I know, like I don't get honestly, dog, I don't

688
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: get any of.

689
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 2: The outside animal stuff that's not like cause like what

690
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 2: a pet like cat or fucking dog or something. There's

691
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 2: like a whole industry set up to make sure that

692
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,239
Speaker 2: motherfucker ain't gonna kill you.

693
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 3: You know, they get shots and all types of stuff

694
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 3: you have to eat, you know, give him chip like

695
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 3: like you said, it's the whole thing around them.

696
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: But like some people literally just bringing the outside animals

697
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 2: in the house like one like the animal want to

698
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,879
Speaker 2: be in there, right, But then too like they don't

699
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: got outside animal shit, you know, like they we wasn't

700
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: designed to be just like kissing up on raccoons and shit.

701
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 1: That's not what are you doing? Why are you playing

702
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: like that? Come on, I've your say.

703
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: As Pete Davison, I would at this point think that

704
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 2: his fans are mostly female, that they come to see

705
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 2: the shelf see if he lives up to the height.

706
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 2: Well he's not pulling out his dick, So I don't

707
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: think that's what's happening when we win. It felt like

708
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 2: a pretty mixed cloud, A lot of couples. Actually, it

709
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 2: was a lot of couple I'd say the average age

710
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: was like maybe thirty. But yeah, it definitely wasn't like

711
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 2: a like It wasn't a like like, oh my god,

712
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 2: let's see if Pete Davison's gonna do it for me situation,

713
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: at least from what I could tell with the audience.

714
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 3: And it wasn't a like super young crowd, like right

715
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: to say, everybody like you say, twenty six, you know,

716
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 3: thirty and up? Uh because and the biggest reason why

717
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 3: we know because they checked everybody.

718
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 2: I d's basically well, ever, that just means you're over

719
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 2: twenty one, okay. So we could have came in there

720
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 2: and it could have been like a frat house and

721
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: you're like, oh, everyone here is fucking drunk as hell

722
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: and twenty two years old. It wasn't like that at all.

723
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 2: It was like pretty reserve crowd, pretty like middle of

724
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 2: the road. The only thing I would say, I know

725
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 2: that for sure is not a lot of black people.

726
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 2: So I don't know, but I you know, when I

727
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 2: said this, a friend texts me to be like, I'm

728
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 2: one of his fans, so, you know, maybe he got

729
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: a lot of black fans.

730
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: I just don't really, they don't really be repping like

731
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: that or something. I don't know.

732
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 3: They're not down here like you may. You might go

733
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 3: to other partsitive country and it's a little different.

734
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so but uh, yeah, I don't.

735
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: I don't know what his fan base is exactly. But

736
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 2: maybe that's also how it works. That's how you get big.

737
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 1: You know, people don't know.

738
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: Uh.

739
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: Let's see comments on YouTube for Icing.

740
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: On the Cake, none for this episode on Spotify. Will

741
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 2: we have the polls? Of course, Jack Black seems like

742
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: a pretty cool guy. Right, ninety people say yes, seven

743
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 2: percent say nah, something's up, and on Spotify ninety and ten,

744
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 2: so most of us.

745
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 1: Think he seemed like a pretty cool guy.

746
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 2: Stop cuddling with turtles was the Q and A please

747
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 2: do ty Flogen says, I love turtles never, so I

748
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 2: guess I love turtles. I'll never stop cuddling with them,

749
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 2: or I would never I would never curdle with them.

750
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: I can't tell which one.

751
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 1: I think. I never cut it with them.

752
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 2: Kitscher says them turtles want to stay in their shells,

753
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 2: James says, you don't want to cuddle with those teenage

754
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 2: you ninja turtles. Lee says, nasty white folks. Jesus Alisia says,

755
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 2: they have a shell. The species develop a whole ass

756
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 2: barrier to prevent cuddling. Take the hint, damn.

757
00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 3: It right, and it depends on a turtle, you know,

758
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 3: snapping turtle.

759
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: Them tels a fuck you up.

760
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:06,919
Speaker 2: Believe them ammals alone, They literally have boundaries on their back, right,

761
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 2: and they will go into it. They'll like, respect my boundaries,

762
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 2: and the only humans will be like, no, I'm gonna

763
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: cut it with you, all right. The next episode is

764
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 2: the last one for the week, is episode twenty seven

765
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:27,399
Speaker 2: fifty nine, Fire Festival Too. Lotus Flower says, hi Rod

766
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 2: and Karen, I just now, this is one we got

767
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 2: long feedback for a couple of things, as we talked

768
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 2: a lot about the parents and the kids cutting each

769
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: other off and stuff. But anyway, hi Rod and Karen

770
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 2: just wanted to reach out regarding the article you covered

771
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 2: on preclamsia. Karen had asked if preclamsy of specific the pregnancy,

772
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 2: and the answer is yes, it's a pregnancy condition.

773
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Speaker 1: And unfortunately, at this.

774
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 2: Time the only care is to deliver the baby so

775
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: that it doesn't kill the mom and or the baby.

776
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: I'm currently pregnant with my second child, doing two weeks.

777
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 2: I had preclamsy with my first child. When I was

778
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: thirty weeks pregnant. I was diagnosed and I knew it

779
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 2: was serious when my nurse practitioner after her monitor to

780
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: listen to the baby's heartbeat. She took a big sigh

781
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 2: relief when she heard the heartbeat. At that point, she

782
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: had me come in a few times a week to monitor,

783
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Speaker 2: and at thirty two weeks, the doctors sent me to

784
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Speaker 2: the University of Hour where I was told they needed

785
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 2: to deliver the baby or it could possibly kill us

786
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Speaker 2: both kill both of us. University of I was one

787
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 2: of the top neo natal hospitals in the country, so

788
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 2: I'm glad my doctors offer sent me there. They were

789
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 2: able to get me to thirty four weeks safely, where

790
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 2: they delivered my first child six weeks early.

791
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Speaker 1: He's now four and doing great.

792
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Speaker 2: I'm currently being monitor for preclamcy and this pregnancy, but

793
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: luckily no sign.

794
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: Of it left for two weeks ago.

795
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: Oh cool, Yeah, and the thing talking to a and

796
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 3: being around pregnant people. I learned a lot of shit

797
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 3: you can only get doing pregnancy, Like you know, like

798
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 3: and it's wild though you're like, oh, you don't get this,

799
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 3: no at the time, they're like, you don't get this

800
00:38:55,000 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 3: no other time. This is specifically pregnancy. There's agnancy, there's

801
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 3: certain types of diabetes they only happen when you're pregnant,

802
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 3: a certain type of ginger vitis that only happen when

803
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 3: you're pregnant.

804
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,720
Speaker 1: You'll be like, well, god damn. So when people act.

805
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 2: Like pregnancy is this simple process, it's like, well, bitch

806
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 2: that you know, there's certain things that and the thing is.

807
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 3: You know, going through that process. Some people don't know

808
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:24,280
Speaker 3: until the doctor tells them, Like there's no instructions on pregnancy,

809
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 3: no matter what people tell you, you don't know until

810
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,879
Speaker 3: you know the doctor talks to you and things like that.

811
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 3: So it's one of those things where, uh, kudos to

812
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 3: the people that you know have children that continue to

813
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 3: have children, because that that shit is something else when

814
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 3: you realize, oh, I'm only getting.

815
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,800
Speaker 1: This quote unquote disease because I'm pregnant.

816
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 2: I'm also seeing a high risk ob because I know

817
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 2: the rates of eternal death when it comes to black

818
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 2: women with complications. I'm happy that they now have a

819
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: test they can catch it earlier, but they still have

820
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 2: no idea what causes preclams here or any other cures,

821
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 2: because just besides delivering the baby the whole time, and

822
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 2: more research, they're able to find more alternatives or a

823
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: way to prevent it from happening, especially with the gap

824
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: and care and diagnosis when it comes to black women.

825
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 2: After I posted this or saw how long this was, sorry,

826
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 2: I just wanted to share my experience and I points

827
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,800
Speaker 2: for black women to be aware during pregnancy. This time around,

828
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: I'm much more knowledgeable than before. Without no apology need it.

829
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's normally how it goes. And you know,

830
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 3: and particularly you know, being black and brown, you kind

831
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 3: of have to fight more, you know, because you hear

832
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 3: situations on how women go to the doctor and tell

833
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 3: them things they're not believed and it's.

834
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: A whole mess and and things like that.

835
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 3: We have a higher probability of us dying through the

836
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: you know, through the process and things like that. So yeah,

837
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 3: you have to be very vigilant and be on top

838
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 3: of those things. And you know, particularly you know, if

839
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 3: somebody going through the process for the first time, I

840
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 3: know that has got to be a scary and frightening experience.

841
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we're scared for a good reason.

842
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 2: And I think that any knowledge you can share, you know,

843
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 2: people are gonna want to know. You know. I think

844
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 2: you sharing your experiences is it might be somebody listening

845
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 2: that's like, okay, cool, I need to be aware of this.

846
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get tested for this, so I'm gonna make

847
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 2: sure to stay on top of this and all that stuff.

848
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 2: So thank you for writing now right black Sea, I'm.

849
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: Sorry howb I said writing.

850
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 3: It's also one of those things, like a lot of

851
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 3: things that happened, people have a tendency not to talk

852
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 3: and not to share the experience for various types of reasons.

853
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. But at the same time, like.

854
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 3: Roger said, your experience can literally help somebody else because

855
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 3: there's the things that I went through in life and

856
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 3: I wish somebody somewhere would have set down versus actly, Oh,

857
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 3: just have a baby and that's kind of the end

858
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 3: of it, and don't talk about all the other things

859
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 3: that come along with it. And truth be told, a

860
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 3: lot of people aren't truthful about pregnancy and parenting and

861
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 3: all this.

862
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: Types of stuff. You know, people are like, oh, just

863
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: having it, think about it later.

864
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: But sometimes it ain't that simple sometimes, you know, and

865
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 3: a lot of times for most people, not all for

866
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 3: most people. If most people really sit down and thought

867
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 3: about it, like actually analyze it, erased the feelings and

868
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 3: all that stuff that comes along with being intimated most

869
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 3: people sit down and thought about it, a lot less

870
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 3: people would have children, and a lot of them are

871
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 3: having it because financially they can't afford it anymore, and

872
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 3: things like that, you know, and people not like there's

873
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 3: something wrong with you for making that decision. But a

874
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 3: lot of times people are finding out the truth. They're asking,

875
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 3: they're digging, they're researching, they're finding out is this something

876
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 3: that I actually want to do and I to have

877
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 3: the right to do that?

878
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 2: Black Caesar says, what's good riding, Karen, I'm in the

879
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 2: twenty five percent of people who are strange from a parent.

880
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 2: I had the type of relationship with my mom where

881
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 2: I consider her my best friend.

882
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: She was also the.

883
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 2: Type of mom who loved being a grandmother to my kids.

884
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 2: We ended up having a falling out over an incident

885
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 2: involving my son, so she cut off tires with all

886
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 2: her grandkids to be spiteful. I wasn't upset. It was

887
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 2: well within her right, but why did the other kids

888
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 2: have to catchtrase? What she failed to realize was that

889
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 2: I was adult and fully capable of matching the same energy.

890
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: So I also cut ties with her and the rest

891
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:04,959
Speaker 2: of the family.

892
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: And my family.

893
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 2: If you have beef with the head matriarch, then you

894
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 2: beef with everyone to tell you apologize, even if you're

895
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: not at fault. I'm an adult with a support system

896
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 2: that reaches beyond family ties.

897
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: We haven't spoken in years.

898
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 2: She occasionally passes messages to me through extended family and

899
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 2: mutual friends. But again, I'm an adult and I value

900
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 2: my peace of mind above being in a potentially traumatic

901
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: situation for myself and my kids. I just keep my

902
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: responses short and respectful and keep it pushing. I don't

903
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 2: hate my mom, but I have no intentions of mending

904
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 2: a relationship at this point, because God forbid me or

905
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 2: my other kids do something she disagrees with, and we're back.

906
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: At square one.

907
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: Plus, she's heavy in the church and to honor to

908
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 2: thy mother and father, even if they're shitty people with

909
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 2: a splash of homophobia. I'd just rather not have her

910
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 2: influence my kids, especially my queer teenage daughter.

911
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: Y'all be cool and thanks for all you do.

912
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 3: And the thing about it, a lot of times just

913
00:43:56,000 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 3: experiencing life and experiencing people, parents uh, and can be

914
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 3: narcissistic and have narcissistic traits, And it's very hard for

915
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 3: people to deal with it because it's your parents versus

916
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 3: a sibling versus you know, all these other things. You

917
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 3: could just automatically cut it off and and and you

918
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 3: don't feel the same thing. But when you're dealing with

919
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 3: like a parent or or a parent dealing with a

920
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 3: child's very difficult. And the thing is a lot of

921
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 3: times those people they will use anything that's collateral damage

922
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 3: to get to get to you. So that's why you know,

923
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 3: your mom didn't really care because the children were like, okay,

924
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 3: you know I it's less about them and more about you.

925
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 3: So if they have to suffer the consequences of me

926
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 3: not dealing with you, it is what it is to

927
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 3: that particular person. And it's very hard to explain that

928
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 3: and talk to people who've never actually dealt with somebody

929
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 3: like that, or been around people like that, or understand

930
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 3: their tactics and their reasonings. You know that it's like,

931
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,720
Speaker 3: but this is illogical weekend hours repair for some people,

932
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 3: you can't. For some people to the bridge is burned,

933
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 3: and the bridge just have to stay burnt.

934
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,919
Speaker 2: For me, personally, I don't know your full situation. I

935
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 2: don't know these people. I think people are writing in anecdotally,

936
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: and of course you're gonna give us your side of it.

937
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck happened, and I don't

938
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 2: really care to know. If these are your boundaries and

939
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: you find it to be healthy and affirming and good

940
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 2: for you, and I'll just leave it at that. But

941
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know what the fuck happened. I

942
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 2: don't know what your son did. I don't know. I

943
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 2: have no fucking idea. And you know, a lot of

944
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 2: people's family issues are very specific to a bunch of

945
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 2: history they have with each other. So I'm not gonna

946
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 2: come and say, you know, something wrong with your mom

947
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 2: or something wrong with you or whatever.

948
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: You know, I think everybody is hopefully.

949
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,720
Speaker 2: Doing the best they can to get by for themselves,

950
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 2: and I'll leave it at that. EVI says, I think

951
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 2: so many people are strange from their families these days

952
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 2: because it's because therapy isn't as a big a stigma

953
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 2: as it used to be, and people had the tools

954
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 2: to recognize and deal with childhood trauma. Sometimes that means

955
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,879
Speaker 2: cutting off your family. People are realizing that not all

956
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 2: family wants the best for you and doesn't always love

957
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 2: you the way a family is supposed to. That being said,

958
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 2: I do think a very small percentage people cut off

959
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 2: their families just grew up to be assholes and don't

960
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 2: deal with the family simply because they can't be bothered.

961
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: It happens, unfortunately.

962
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: But nine times out of ten people have valid reason

963
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 2: for cutting off family members. Yes see, I don't have

964
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 2: no idea. I think a lot of that is up

965
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 2: to your personal belief system and your personal history. Because

966
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 2: here's the reason I'll say this, Because we know other

967
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 2: people our age, and we know motherfuckers that we're like

968
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,919
Speaker 2: that person's an asshole and just wrong most of the time.

969
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 2: And if that person want to be like I cut

970
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: off my family, I wouldn't be like, well, clearly the

971
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:47,439
Speaker 2: family is the dick here.

972
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: Maybe they are.

973
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 2: Maybe that's the reason you grew up to be a dick,

974
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 2: or maybe you're the fucked up manipulative one.

975
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't really want to know.

976
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: I don't care.

977
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 2: I care about my family and my life, and if

978
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 2: you're that kind of asshole, I'm normally not kicking with

979
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 2: you anyway. And if you're not an asshole, it wouldn't

980
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 2: matter if I knew what the fuck happened with your

981
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: family or not. Only mind, like, I only care about

982
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 2: that shit with like my friends and shit like I

983
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 2: in general, I have not done and I don't know

984
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 2: how you would even do this research, because I'll give

985
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 2: you a good example. It's like this, if you've ever

986
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: talked to someone who's like breaking up in a relationship,

987
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 2: like it going through a divorce or something. It's your

988
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 2: friend or whatever. It's your person that you know, so

989
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 2: they give you their side of the shit. But like

990
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 2: if you sat down with the other person, nine times

991
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 2: out of ten, they're gonna have some shit that you're

992
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 2: gonna be like, well, yeah, they didn't tell me that. Well, yeah,

993
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 2: I can see how you would look at it that way.

994
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 2: I often I just try to stay out of that

995
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 2: kind of shit because for the most part people can

996
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 2: only see what is happening to them and not themselves

997
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 2: or how they contribute to things. A lot of people

998
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: have conflict resolution skill like issues and when it comes

999
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 2: to parents and children, where do you learn your conflict resolution?

1000
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,760
Speaker 1: Where do you get that first cycle?

1001
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 2: So a lot of times the apple don't fall far

1002
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 2: from the tree because the apple don't have a choice

1003
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 2: in being what tree is born too. So you know

1004
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: a lot of times it's the parents kind of reaping

1005
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 2: what they sow, you know, where it's like I don't.

1006
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: Deal well with conflict resolution.

1007
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 2: I have a child that don't deal well with conflict resolution,

1008
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 2: and so now we don't fuck with each other or whatever,

1009
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: And that could be it. It could be like shits

1010
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 2: every once in a while, somebody just has a fucking

1011
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 2: kid that's born in their narcissists, or they might have

1012
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 2: like borderline personalities.

1013
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: Like there's just a lot of shit we don't know.

1014
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 2: So I don't feel too comfortable in the broad sweeping

1015
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 2: things when we were having the discussion. I think that

1016
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,760
Speaker 2: was why we ended up kind of making a full

1017
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 2: circle with the discussion. Well, I'm like, okay, I can

1018
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 2: see hopefully it's the ladder and people are learning boundaries

1019
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 2: and stuff. But it could also I mean it's the

1020
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 2: former and people are learning boundaries, but it could also

1021
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 2: be that thing where people some people are manipulative, some

1022
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 2: people are learning manipulation from social media and exercising that

1023
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 2: shit into real life.

1024
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: I don't really fucking know. There's a lot of different

1025
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:10,479
Speaker 1: factors that makes sense.

1026
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 2: On a lighter note, there's another win for a big

1027
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 2: rby Subway is very lucky to be bought by them.

1028
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: Arby's has a meet. Now, see that's a toxic relationship.

1029
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: That's a toxic relationship. Your ass need to cut off. Okay,

1030
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 2: you need to learn how to have some boundaries. Like

1031
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: I don'm gonna believe the first thing you said about

1032
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 2: it's just people learning therapy, and then you're gonna say

1033
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 2: some shit like that at the end where I'm like, well,

1034
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:34,479
Speaker 2: clearly you the one that need the therapy. Appia says

1035
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: Tiffany Hattish has also teamed up with Arby's is in

1036
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 2: its ads.

1037
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: I hope she got paid right. I'm sure times are

1038
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: hard with the strike.

1039
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, if Tiffany Hadish did that, then I believe she

1040
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 2: actually did everything she was accused of. I'm just says,

1041
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 2: by the way, I don't uh, by the way, I

1042
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 2: met some new black people.

1043
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:55,439
Speaker 1: Okay, let's see where this is going.

1044
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 2: Uh, I met some new black people. We're on vacation

1045
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 2: the Netherlands, and the kids wanted to learn archery. It's

1046
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: a complex with houses and you can also do activities here.

1047
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 1: I thought we would learn it the right way. But

1048
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: it was a game where we had two teams with

1049
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: nine people each.

1050
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 2: We got helmets and rubber arrows, and we had to

1051
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,759
Speaker 2: shoot at a thing first and later at each other.

1052
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 2: Many people and the other team were black. We had,

1053
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 2: so you learned what you met black people in the

1054
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 2: first thing you did was shoot bows and arrows.

1055
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: At them because they won't.

1056
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: We had also black people in our team. But this

1057
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 2: is not the point. My point is my contact with

1058
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 2: black people was me shooting at black.

1059
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 1: People were arrows. Many of them were kids.

1060
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 2: So, Karen, I think you need owe me apology because

1061
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 2: you tried to explain it to me. And then she said,

1062
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: exactly what the fuck I said? So I don't know

1063
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 2: why he was trying to. I know you thought you

1064
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 2: had her back somehow, but she said what I said.

1065
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: Great. The upside it was very I was very bad

1066
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: at it, and the children.

1067
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: Also shot at me, and everyone seen to have fun,

1068
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 2: and the other team won and we all had perfect

1069
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 2: protection on so success, I guess.

1070
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: I mean, as long as the black people want, you know,

1071
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: that's really all lamented for. That's all that matters.

1072
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'm not even gonna hold you with that.

1073
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 2: You know, I personally don't. You know, don't root for

1074
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 2: white people in violence against blacks, even if it's for fun.

1075
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 1: You not won. Everybody had guns, so you continue my routine.

1076
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm just voting and rooting for all the black people.

1077
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: That's what I do.

1078
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 2: Let's see comments on YouTube for this episode fire Festival too.

1079
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 2: One comment heart emoji from the homie the home I create,

1080
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 2: thank you. We like hard emojis, we love the heart emojis.

1081
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: We love love all right. The poll, are you a

1082
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: strange from a parent?

1083
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: Thirty four percent of our audiences sixty five percent is

1084
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 2: sixty six percent is it? Uh? Thirty one on Spotify

1085
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 2: sixty nin persent, so almost the same. Basically one out

1086
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Speaker 2: of every three for our pro and I think the

1087
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 2: the the study it was one out every four, So

1088
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 2: one out every three, Like I said, man, I get it.

1089
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,879
Speaker 2: I think I think there's a lot of reasons for it,

1090
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 2: and I just, you know, I have no judgment to

1091
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 2: passing the way.

1092
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: I don't have any platitudes or like.

1093
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: I just hope, you know. I just think that if

1094
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 2: you talk, I don't know. I don't know y'all parents,

1095
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: I know, shitty adults of all ages, you sir, So

1096
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:38,839
Speaker 2: I don't be knowing. And I really really don't even

1097
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: want to know. Don't care, don't even cause it's a

1098
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 2: it's a thing that you care about because it's your

1099
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 2: life in a way that I never can truly match.

1100
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 2: I can be supportive, right, but I don't know what

1101
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 2: I'm really supporting. If I you know, I'll be like, yeah, man,

1102
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 2: don't talk to him. And then I found out the

1103
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 2: other side to be like, well you know he shot

1104
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 2: his mama, I'll be like, well, oh, okay, well damn

1105
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 2: no wonder she on one talk to the.

1106
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 1: Nigga, Like, now he didn't tell me that part. So

1107
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: I just good luck to everybody, big lect to you.

1108
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: The Q and A arways is a drug drug laundering business.

1109
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 2: A boy Mike from Where's on forty Acre says one

1110
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:19,399
Speaker 2: hundred percent that's a cartel operation. Jay says nine point

1111
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 2: six billion dollars. I want Merrit Garland to hire someone

1112
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 2: to investigate this drug, beef laundering crime, Arby's and subways.

1113
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: Math isn't adding up exactly. And what I worry is

1114
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 2: that they'll do something to Merrit Garland. Qui says. Queen

1115
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,720
Speaker 2: Taylor says, does a rooster crow? Hell yeah, they pushing

1116
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 2: that weight right push your tea is wrapping on the

1117
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 2: goddamn commercials. Aaron says they had the meats and the

1118
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 2: cocaine exactly. J Donmo says, says previously, how did the

1119
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 2: taser become the official weapon of the show.

1120
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 1: We know the story about Bulevard, not the taser. It

1121
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 1: was easy.

1122
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 2: We did so many articles about cops shooting black people

1123
00:53:56,360 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 2: that at some point we said, man, I'd rather than

1124
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 2: just taser me. Like, why what happened to the taser?

1125
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 2: Y'all have guns and y'all keep killing us.

1126
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 1: What don't you have a.

1127
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 2: Whole fucking taser that you could just be deploying that

1128
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 2: would the incapacitate a person enough for you to arrest them.

1129
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 2: And like, I don't understand where y'all go to the

1130
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 2: guns for us. We seen so many fucking videos of

1131
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 2: y'all shooting white people with tasers, and no matter how

1132
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 2: dangerous the white person is, y'all be trying to work

1133
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 2: it out.

1134
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 1: When y'all gonna work some shit out with.

1135
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 3: Us, Yes, if we rather you tase us than shoot us,

1136
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 3: that's how they official with became the taser.

1137
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was pretty simple. But now of course it's

1138
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: the photing chair. And hopefully I will remember, but I

1139
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 1: doubt it.

1140
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 2: Shun twenty one says, we all know this. I'll still

1141
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:45,359
Speaker 2: be going there for my seasoned curly fries. JB says

1142
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 2: that's strong army and the other fast food restaurants. And

1143
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 2: Rogers says, but do they have a weather machine? I'm

1144
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 2: not getting to that.

1145
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: Who is they?

1146
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not getting into that. I'm smarter than that.

1147
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 2: I know not to talk about that.

1148
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 1: No better. Okay, I've seen what y'all did to Jamie Fox.

1149
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 2: Y'all ain't getting me to get you. All right, Let's

1150
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 2: get to the next segment.

1151
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 4: The grandmother for a grand the grandmother for a grand

1152
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 4: the grandmother for a grand a grand a grand a

1153
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 4: grandmother for a grand the grandmother a gram the grandmother

1154
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 4: for a grand a grand for a grand.

1155
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 2: I know it, so's to keep playing the short version.

1156
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 2: I forgot to download it all right, let's get to

1157
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 2: doing it for the gram.

1158
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen that you put it in two spots

1159
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:46,439
Speaker 1: this time.

1160
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 2: I didn't mean to it, just did it. Ah, so

1161
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 2: you know, congratulations everybody. Uh but yeah, so doing it

1162
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: for the ground I put it Actually no, no, no,

1163
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I put it in three spots. Okay too,

1164
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 2: so I need to do two of them. One of

1165
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 2: them I put on Twitter, just on our Twitter account,

1166
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 2: and a couple people answer that. Then I put it

1167
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 2: on Instagram, and I guess because of my Instagram set

1168
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 2: up on my phone, it shared it to our Facebook page.

1169
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna read them all. But here is the

1170
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: Instagram one.

1171
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 2: It's a picture with us a new drawing that looks

1172
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 2: like the Outcast think on your cover. I'll try to

1173
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 2: get these on a T shirts or something soon. Yeah.

1174
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: I like that.

1175
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 2: What is the pettiest reason you stopped talking to someone?

1176
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 1: Is the Q and A or the doing it for

1177
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 1: the ground?

1178
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 2: Champagne bay XL says they didn't tell me happy birthday.

1179
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: That's pretty petty birthdays do.

1180
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 2: Be important to people though, But I'm not one of

1181
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 2: them people, So it's always interesting because me not doing

1182
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 2: it big for your birthday has.

1183
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 1: Nothing to do with you.

1184
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 2: Normally, it's just I don't do it big for my birthday.

1185
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 2: So it's the last thing that cross my mind is that,

1186
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,280
Speaker 2: you know, I like to be like normally, you almost

1187
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 2: have to miss a person like this, You almost have

1188
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 2: to miss their birthday and then they get mad about it.

1189
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 2: For you to be like, oh god, I have to

1190
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 2: celebrate this every year because it's then' gonna get mad chab.

1191
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 3: Boo is because for me, I'm like mm hm, because

1192
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 3: the thing is I and I said for the I

1193
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 3: give people most of the same energy that they give me.

1194
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 3: I'm not big and halftime, I don't remember nobody's birthday,

1195
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 3: so and I don't expect people to remember mine. So

1196
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 3: you know, I don't take it personally because not everybody,

1197
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 3: but a lot of these people that go hard on

1198
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 3: their birthday, y'all an't remember nobody else's birthday.

1199
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: Half at the time. You just gotta get in where

1200
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: you fit in.

1201
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 2: Like some of them do celebrate birthdays and stuff and

1202
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 2: make a big fuss over it. You know, but anyway,

1203
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 2: uh so on said Patriot fans. So they got rid

1204
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 2: of people because they root for the Patriots. That's petty

1205
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: mm hmm. They voted for Trump. Friendship done. I don't

1206
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 2: find out to be petty at all.

1207
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 1: MEI es very valid.

1208
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 2: Ch'alla says someone hired another violentist over me during COVID.

1209
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: Y Yeah, yeah, is that Patty? Y'llel. I don't think

1210
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: that's patty. Isn't that how you make your living, y'allo?

1211
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: Or is that that's valid? I could, I would stop

1212
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: talking to that person, I think.

1213
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 2: Intels A nineteen eighty four says I stopped talking to

1214
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 2: a former friend because they were anti LGBT and yet

1215
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 2: fetishized me. They also expected to have been invited to

1216
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 2: witness my whole ass wife and I get married something.

1217
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 2: They also didn't agree with Patty because I never gave

1218
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 2: a exclination. I just went ghosts.

1219
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was gonna say, because I didn't find anything.

1220
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 2: You said, Patty, I think if it's rooted in just

1221
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 2: how you are, how you show up in the world,

1222
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 2: ain't nothing more vital than I need you to support that?

1223
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 2: So you said, I don't fuck with you, you know,

1224
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: I hate gay I hate gay people, but damn I

1225
00:58:58,640 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 2: love you.

1226
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: You look great. You know that's some wild shit to me.

1227
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 2: Sharissa Sweet says he wouldn't take his shirt off.

1228
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: At the pool. That is pretty petty. Ah, that's petty.

1229
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: He could have been a never nude. You never know.

1230
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:14,959
Speaker 1: I am out of any or outing.

1231
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 2: You don't know, you don't know you You just threw

1232
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 2: that person in the trash.

1233
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 1: I am Tiffany.

1234
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 2: Shari says she got mad, I was losing weight without surgery.

1235
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 2: She stopped talking to me and didn't fight for the friendship.

1236
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 2: Oh and I didn't fight for the friendship.

1237
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, chah, Yeah, sometimes it ain't worth fighting.

1238
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 2: Listen, I will absolutely let you cut off the friendship

1239
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 2: and me be like okay, like if that, like ganma Libra,

1240
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 2: I will return the energy. You know, if you stop

1241
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 2: fucking with me, I really don't even really need a reason.

1242
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,280
Speaker 2: But if you stop fucking with me, I'm like, okay,

1243
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 2: I guess that time has passed.

1244
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 1: You know, everybody ain't meant to be in your life forever, okay.

1245
00:59:57,560 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 2: And if you're not willing to communicate exactly what's going

1246
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 2: all night, then I'm to me it's like, well, how

1247
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 2: good was the friendship anyway? Because if I had an

1248
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 2: issue with somebody, I tell them or literally I just

1249
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:12,040
Speaker 2: realized at that moment, Fuck, I guess we're not as

1250
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 2: close as I thought, because typically when I have an

1251
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 2: issue with.

1252
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: Somebody, I like to talk about it and resolve it,

1253
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: you know, right. And also and even with the Prince,

1254
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: with the birthday, it's one of those things where, oh, wow,

1255
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: you are stuck on this birthday. I am someone's triggering.

1256
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: I feel personally attacked. What is going on? I don't

1257
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's not me. I don't sell it.

1258
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 2: I don't really do it big for my birthday like that.

1259
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 2: So I don't know who it is that you're thinking about.

1260
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 2: But go ahead, you had more to ad.

1261
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: No, take us back to the birthday care you was

1262
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: gonna talk about I'm sorry I made a joke and

1263
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 1: you want to abandon it. But what were gonna say

1264
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: is your show too? No, but I was gonna say

1265
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: about the birthday.

1266
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 3: That also goes to communication because like I have family members,

1267
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 3: they actually take that shit like really really seriously, and

1268
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 3: it's one of those things where it's like, well, dig

1269
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 3: tell me and communicate with me about it.

1270
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 1: You know, just don't quote unquote cut me off or

1271
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:05,959
Speaker 1: get all of your.

1272
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 3: Feelings and then you have you know, not that this

1273
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 3: person did that, but you know you don't express it,

1274
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 3: and then you getting your feelings on a pout and

1275
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 3: huff and puff and complain to everybody when you didn't

1276
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 3: tell everybody how important this.

1277
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: Thing is to you. Okay, I just didn't want to.

1278
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 2: I don't even know if that's petty or not, but

1279
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 2: I like that energy. I don't think people should be

1280
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 2: in friendships that I want to be in anymore. Nope,

1281
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,919
Speaker 2: as I say, she asked me, if I really believe that? Wait,

1282
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 2: as I say, says she asked me if I really

1283
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 2: believe that the Earth is round? I told her it is,

1284
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 2: and it isn't a belief, it's signs. She sent me

1285
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 2: an hour long, our plus YouTube video about flat earth.

1286
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 2: Shit never spoke there again.

1287
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: Listen, that's not petty. Listen, okay, bullshit, reclaim your time.

1288
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 3: Yes, child, I don't be reading no links, I black child, boo.

1289
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 3: I got other things do.

1290
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. And the thing that made it extra disrespectful was

1291
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: the hour plus length.

1292
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 2: You think it's gonna take me? An hour plus to

1293
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 2: realize the world is flat. Just send me a picture

1294
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 2: of a flat earth, like, I know what a picture,

1295
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 2: I know what a pizza look like. Just send me

1296
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 2: a picture of a piece and be like this look

1297
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 2: just the earth. And I'll be like, thank you for

1298
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 2: saving time. Please stop talking to me, but now I

1299
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 2: gotta watch an hour of craziness.

1300
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: No, who has the time? I'm not doing that.

1301
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't even have time. I always listen to

1302
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 2: the voice notes my friend saying it's like, oh, this

1303
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:30,480
Speaker 2: is two minutes. I got to get back to this one.

1304
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 2: Alice says he liked to toss salad. Sorry I'm unable

1305
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 2: to kiss you, but to each that own, so no judgment. Yeah,

1306
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 2: oh okay. So he liked to eat ass, I guess,

1307
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 2: And you was like, how you gonna kiss me after

1308
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 2: eating ass?

1309
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:48,360
Speaker 1: And I hear you, I guess. The question would be

1310
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: how soon, Like is it a he's eating?

1311
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 2: Is it asked the mouth? Or is it like a

1312
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: he eat ass? But then like three days later, after

1313
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 2: he's brushed his teeth several times and he kissed you

1314
01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 2: on the mouth, You'll be like, oh, I can't forget

1315
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 2: that you ain't asked that one time, So I mean, listen,

1316
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 2: you gotta do what you gotta do. Okay, the real

1317
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 2: freaks will find each other. It will somebody snowballing somebody

1318
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 2: right now listening to this podcast, and they like it.

1319
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: I love it. Ms LDR says, or miss LDR says.

1320
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 2: I was headed off to college and one of my

1321
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 2: homeboys had my Rude Boys CD.

1322
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: And wouldn't give it back. I was hot. We made

1323
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 1: up later, though, Uh, rude boys, hold on, how old

1324
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: is this?

1325
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 2: Because I feel like you that I feel like yeah,

1326
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 2: written all over your face was motherfucking I said that

1327
01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 2: was nineteen ninety.

1328
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: God damn, I was about to say that sound old

1329
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: as shit. As soon as you said CD, I knew

1330
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 1: it was a long time ago. Rude Boys. That's a

1331
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: that's a time. That's I'd have took that person to too.

1332
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 1: That was a bop. Yeah.

1333
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 2: I remember I took somebody's House of Pain h tape

1334
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 2: on cassette tape on the last day of school and

1335
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 2: and I do it was so stupid. I don't know

1336
01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 2: why I took his tape. I never listened to the

1337
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 2: House Pain tape, not once.

1338
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why I took it. I don't know

1339
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 1: what the fuck was were on me. It's stupid in

1340
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 1: eighth grade, just stupid as fuck and mean, just mean.

1341
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: It was mean. It was wrong.

1342
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 2: If I find that kid, I owe him a house

1343
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 2: paid tape. Laylove says they keep yes present tense because

1344
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 2: they haven't gotten the message sending me done. Conspiracy theories

1345
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 2: videos for some of the iconic people you recognize during

1346
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 2: Black History Month and queer and trans antagin this stuff.

1347
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 2: When I called him out on that stuff, they assisted

1348
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:39,080
Speaker 2: they weren't homophobic because they don't fear or hate them.

1349
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's not pity, not petty, no drama, CC says.

1350
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 2: Old roommate said carry Hilson was better than beyond saying,

1351
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 2: ain't talk to us.

1352
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: It's twenty ten. That's valid. I want to say it's

1353
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: not petty. It is kind of petty. But also I.

1354
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 2: Agree with you and you don't need that in your life. Okay,

1355
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 2: you don't need them people in your life? What they

1356
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 2: What are those people bringing? What do the I hate

1357
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 2: Beyonce people think they bring to not even I hate,

1358
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 2: but what are the people that downplay beyond? What do

1359
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 2: they think they bring into life? You're not bringing nothing

1360
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 2: to life at the table. We don't want to be

1361
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: around y'all either. Great, so like, do everyone to favor

1362
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 2: and leave us alone, keep it to yourself. DJ Job says,

1363
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 2: this is a hard question to answer because most of

1364
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 2: the people I don't talk to anymore is because they

1365
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 2: did or said some ignorant races.

1366
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:26,920
Speaker 1: Or homophobus shit.

1367
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 2: The other people are family members who for my own

1368
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 2: mental health I had to stop talking to. So I

1369
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 2: don't think I've done it for a petty reason. But

1370
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 2: I'm sure the people I cut off think I was

1371
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 2: petty as hell.

1372
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 1: Ah, that is true. I've dealt with that before. They

1373
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 1: because of the way their moral.

1374
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 2: System is made up, they think my shit is petty

1375
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 2: because they thinking to themselves like, but I'm not he

1376
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 2: not gay, so why he man? I'm saying stuff like yeah,

1377
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: it probably do seem petty to you, But I don't

1378
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 2: want them people in my life. Brilliant six oh nine

1379
01:05:57,440 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 2: says he brought he bought us Mexican food. I got tacos.

1380
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 2: There was an extra taco and I took it.

1381
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:02,959
Speaker 1: We're eating.

1382
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 2: He finishes his food and while already grabbing my extra taco,

1383
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 2: he asked if he could have it and.

1384
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 1: Started eating it. Not kind of petty, but not really.

1385
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 2: That's a science sist okay, because if he was that

1386
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 2: type he was doing that, he was he was gonna

1387
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 2: be that way about all the stuff.

1388
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, sir Ms Barnes.

1389
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 2: Says, I saw a Facebook post that one of my

1390
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 2: co workers made about respecting people's rights to express their

1391
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 2: opinion and if a friendship is canceled over that, so

1392
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 2: be it. I go on a page to see that

1393
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 2: she posted a picture of her and her husband the

1394
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 2: day before the election twenty twenty.

1395
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 1: This dude had a.

1396
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 2: Huge tacky ass Trump hat and equally tacky Trump shirt.

1397
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 2: I was like, noted and unfriend of her ass quickly.

1398
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: I don't blame you, baby. Yeah.

1399
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 2: Trump not petty to me, not fucking with Trump. Wroters

1400
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 2: ain't petty. This nigga tried to overthrow the country, right.

1401
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 2: I had a friend quote unquote acquaintance. I played basketball

1402
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 2: with her and we became Facebook friends, and I remember

1403
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 2: one day Facebook algorithm was like, showed me something she posted,

1404
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 2: and I was like, I went down the rabbit hole

1405
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 2: of going her page because I was like, that's an

1406
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 2: odd thing that she posted, and she's a qan non person.

1407
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, unfriend, you got to go.

1408
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't need to know that bassess.

1409
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 2: Uh impressively splendid, says A friend and I were arguing

1410
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 2: over who the better rapper between Andre three thousand Big

1411
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 2: Boy is. It's not that I think that either was

1412
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:25,600
Speaker 2: better than the other. I just felt like she wasn't

1413
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 2: giving Big Boy his.

1414
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 1: Process a rapper. It got heated. We stopped talking for

1415
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 1: a while. Lol. So silly.

1416
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 2: It is silly, but it also I get it. I

1417
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 2: I love hip hop, and I also feel like, uh,

1418
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 2: the Big Boy slander got out of control at some point.

1419
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 2: It did like if they really act like he was

1420
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 2: just a nigga in the group, Like like what you mean?

1421
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 1: And he has like solo shit that that's dope.

1422
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:56,439
Speaker 2: I'll never forget that kryptonite, you know, Like, yeah, people

1423
01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 2: just be talking Black Widow when I want to says

1424
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 2: I stopped speaking to my grandma over a beating she

1425
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 2: gave me when I was five. She beat me pretty

1426
01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:05,919
Speaker 2: bad over a cup of yogurt. My uncle I could

1427
01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 2: have while she was watching me, said, I could have

1428
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 2: well watching me. She didn't reprimand him at all, but

1429
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 2: twitter far off my high.

1430
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 1: She passed.

1431
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 2: We never reconciled. I don't speak to the uncle either,

1432
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 2: and that was forty years ago. I guess you're saying

1433
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 2: it's petty because of the length, but I feel like,

1434
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, I could see how that would not

1435
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 2: be petty. You know.

1436
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:31,040
Speaker 1: I just think I was whatever that is.

1437
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 2: I don't have it like I got whoopings when I

1438
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 2: was a kid, and I you know, it was occasionally

1439
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: you might get a whooping whether the person was wrong

1440
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 2: or didn't apologize and shit. But I definitely did the

1441
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 2: thing that you're not supposed to do in the Twitter

1442
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 2: days of being like fuck it, Grandma made a mistake.

1443
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 1: And still love her, you know what. Trash. But I

1444
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:58,639
Speaker 1: can see how you would think it was petty because

1445
01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: it's been forty years. But I don't know. It don't

1446
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: seem that petty to me.

1447
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:05,000
Speaker 2: Phil Wander says twenty ten, I was on a date

1448
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:06,600
Speaker 2: with a woman. She was ten years older than me.

1449
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:08,679
Speaker 2: She was thirty two hours twenty two at the time.

1450
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 2: We were in Applebee's. I forgot what she ordered, but anyway,

1451
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 2: we were talking about things and seeing how deep I

1452
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:17,799
Speaker 2: guess how deep.

1453
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:20,480
Speaker 1: This goes, And along the way she mentioned med conversations.

1454
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 1: She's seeing someone. She even had an engaging ring on

1455
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 1: my heart might as well have follow out my chest.

1456
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: We leave.

1457
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 2: I said something about the relationship on Facebook, and she

1458
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 2: texted me if that post was about the night prior.

1459
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 1: I said it wasn't.

1460
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 2: Honestly it was, and she asked me if I loved her,

1461
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 2: which I was like, after what happened, I told her no.

1462
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 1: She asked why.

1463
01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 2: I was like, because at night and we really weren't

1464
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 2: close to anything, especially if you're already engaged with someone.

1465
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 2: So I stopped talking to her interestingly enough, she called

1466
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 2: me about five years ago. She said it was the

1467
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,559
Speaker 2: wrong number. If we did talk, I'd shut it down

1468
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 2: like Tom Brady, gay Winner. I regret nothing. Petty went

1469
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:58,600
Speaker 2: pretty woman. I don't think that's petty at all. She

1470
01:09:58,720 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 2: had a whole fucking relationship.

1471
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:02,600
Speaker 1: He was like, the fuck I'm doing here? Then I was.

1472
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe she had an open relationship and she

1473
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 2: didn't tell you, but it is something I feel like

1474
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:11,759
Speaker 2: you should tell people if you are engaged and still dating,

1475
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,599
Speaker 2: because I need to know that that person knows, because

1476
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 2: people like people that find shit out like that kill people.

1477
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 1: Yes they do, you know?

1478
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 3: So it'd been different. If you know, they'd have been like, yeah,

1479
01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah. Blood but you know, just telling

1480
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 3: me how the blue and that person may or may

1481
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 3: not know.

1482
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,200
Speaker 1: Went out for piza would do.

1483
01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 2: He ordered three slices, I reached for one, He slashed

1484
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 2: my head talking about they were off for him.

1485
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: I didn't speak to him the rest of the date

1486
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 1: orever after again.

1487
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:40,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, god damn right. You know what I would have did,

1488
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 3: ordered my own pizza and be like, the fuck am

1489
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 3: I doing here?

1490
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 2: First of all, slapping somebody's hand is out a first date.

1491
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 2: That's crazy to me. Don't touch me, don't know violence. Now,

1492
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:52,800
Speaker 2: if you don't want me to have your pizza.

1493
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 1: Let me put it this way.

1494
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 2: Let's say I ordered three slices for myself on this date,

1495
01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:01,120
Speaker 2: and you lied and said I just want the salad

1496
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:03,439
Speaker 2: to some bullshit, and then you took one of my

1497
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 2: slices of pizza. If I was mad about it, that's

1498
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 2: an internal madness I go to my grave with cause

1499
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 2: I don't need you to know that I'm cheap and

1500
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:14,400
Speaker 2: patty and mad and greedy.

1501
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't need you know. That's a lot to learn

1502
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 1: on the first date.

1503
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 2: Ain't it though, So I would just be like, oh,

1504
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 2: maybe I make a joke. Oh so you did want

1505
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 2: some pizza, and I order another slice if I have to.

1506
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:27,719
Speaker 2: But I'm definitely not slapping your hand. What the fuck

1507
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 2: like I'm a child child whatever you're gonna slap and

1508
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 2: then probably want to have sex after, that's crazy, But

1509
01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 2: you're gonna smack my hand up with some pizza missus.

1510
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 2: Spann says, don't know if it's petty, but I stopped

1511
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 2: fucking with one of my boys when I saw they

1512
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 2: allowed someone to talk shit about me and gave no

1513
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:45,680
Speaker 2: real pushback, Like, damn, homie, you letting that slide. Let

1514
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:48,599
Speaker 2: me move around. Then yeah, I don't think that's patty.

1515
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 2: You know, I don't think that's patty.

1516
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: I think also, like.

1517
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 2: As a person that's been in a situation where like

1518
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:58,160
Speaker 2: two people didn't like each other and maybe they would

1519
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 2: shit on each other, it is it's a complicated thing

1520
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 2: because like you don't want to deny their experience to

1521
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 2: the point of being like, hey man, this person is

1522
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 2: a good person and everything you saying is some bullshit,

1523
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,960
Speaker 2: But you also don't want to to me if I'm

1524
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 2: friends with that other person, I'm not gonna sit up

1525
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:20,479
Speaker 2: there and just completely be like yeah, uh oh, well

1526
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:21,839
Speaker 2: you know, I'm normally.

1527
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:23,400
Speaker 1: Gonna be like, well, that's not my experience.

1528
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 2: But also if that's your experience, I understand, but hopefully

1529
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:29,639
Speaker 2: it's a misunderstanding or something like, you know, like I'll

1530
01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 2: try to throw a little something. But yeah, but also

1531
01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:34,640
Speaker 2: it could be you find out y'all not really that

1532
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:37,720
Speaker 2: close and that person just was like, yeah, fux fan too.

1533
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, you never know, uh no, drama Cec says,

1534
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 1: his name was Elmer. That's pretty patty, Like I'm a food.

1535
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: It don't matter.

1536
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 2: It's petty because you don't pick your name. I know,

1537
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 2: so you his parents picked his name. It's like saying

1538
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm not friends because this motherfucker spelled Jeff with a G.

1539
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:57,560
Speaker 2: Jeff didn't do that.

1540
01:12:57,960 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 1: His parents did that, right. Bootleg and Boosy says, because

1541
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 1: I was too far along in the friend zone.

1542
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,519
Speaker 2: I did shoot my shot, though, but with declined like

1543
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 2: a black person applying for a new business loan.

1544
01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:11,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, well, at least you shot the shot.

1545
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:14,479
Speaker 2: I always think the friend zone thing is interesting because

1546
01:13:14,479 --> 01:13:17,439
Speaker 2: it's just about being scared of rejection and if you

1547
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 2: just get it over with and say listen, I'm not

1548
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 2: here to be your friend.

1549
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 1: I really like you and I would like to romantically

1550
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:24,600
Speaker 1: be with you.

1551
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 2: And then the person goes, I don't want that, you know, Okay, well,

1552
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 2: we can stop pretending that I like doing things with

1553
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 2: you that aren't us dating. And I'm not talking about

1554
01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 2: just fucking. I just mean romantically. It's not gonna happen,

1555
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 2: so right.

1556
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: Peace, Chief Steve says.

1557
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 2: I one day at the bar, a regular of mine

1558
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 2: who was super cool and tip big walked in wearing

1559
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 2: a real Madrid Spanish soccer team jersey, and I honestly

1560
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:52,719
Speaker 2: acted like I never met him after that, Viva barka, all.

1561
01:13:52,640 --> 01:13:55,759
Speaker 1: Right, sound like some soccer shit. I speak that sports

1562
01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 1: beef heavyweight, says he, and that is petty. That is

1563
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 1: petty heavyweight, says they used to be.

1564
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:04,640
Speaker 2: They used too many of those acronym abbreviations hr U

1565
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:07,679
Speaker 2: wb U hbu shad.

1566
01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:10,679
Speaker 1: I feel you on that one, bitch. I'm not twelve talk.

1567
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:12,479
Speaker 1: The acronyms don't even fit.

1568
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 2: I agree, I don't. I don't get the millennial acronyms.

1569
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 2: I don't even know if it's millennial gen z whoever's

1570
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:22,639
Speaker 2: doing the new acronyms. It just made me feel old

1571
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 2: because I don't know they like they be like, uh,

1572
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, HBU, and I'm like, what.

1573
01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 1: The fuck HBU?

1574
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:33,679
Speaker 2: I went to an HBCU when you're trying to spell

1575
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 2: HBCU and they're like, no, I mean how about you.

1576
01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, those aren't the right letters for that child.

1577
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,600
Speaker 1: I remember the first time somebody said br B, I

1578
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 1: was like, what that mean?

1579
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 2: That was like, that's no, that's not but saying br

1580
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 2: B means be right back. Yes, but I mean the

1581
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 2: letters correspond B right back. I'm not saying this. The

1582
01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 2: acronym is a confusing No, you can't be mad, right,

1583
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying trying to put you onto something. There's new acronyms.

1584
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 2: They don't even correspond with the letters.

1585
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 1: Oh, they don't correspond with the frame. That's right.

1586
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 2: So you can't figure you can't. It's not a you

1587
01:15:12,200 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 2: can figure it out like the way they use them now.

1588
01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 2: It's they don't all even you can't even extrapolate what

1589
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 2: they mean. The abbreviations are different, these new.

1590
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 1: Niggas Chad, it's nash 's your whole words.

1591
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'm not saying you can't be upset about BRB.

1592
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 2: I'm saying it's beyond BRB. Now right, you said you

1593
01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 2: said the whole phrase and you skipping letters and words.

1594
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:37,599
Speaker 1: How the fun I was supposed to that out.

1595
01:15:37,640 --> 01:15:39,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, you made this a longer process because it

1596
01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:41,600
Speaker 2: took me longer to try to figure out what the

1597
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:42,719
Speaker 2: fuck you're talking about.

1598
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 1: When you could you made this long.

1599
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 2: It was the point of an abbreviation of make it short,

1600
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:54,120
Speaker 2: like be right back, O m w H on my

1601
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 2: way home or something like that. I can get what

1602
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 2: those I see the purpose of those. But if you're saying,

1603
01:15:59,280 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 2: like you know, I don't know Q m C, I'm like,

1604
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 2: I've never heard this in my life. And then when

1605
01:16:05,240 --> 01:16:08,280
Speaker 2: I do ask you about it, and it's like, uh,

1606
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 2: I don't know, I quick uh quit uh emanuel, uh

1607
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:23,760
Speaker 2: heart heart hardcock or something. I don't like, what does

1608
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:26,599
Speaker 2: this mean? These are these they don't even match the letters,

1609
01:16:26,720 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 2: like like this just said that, yes, this right here

1610
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 2: don't make no sense. And like I said, there are

1611
01:16:30,920 --> 01:16:35,080
Speaker 2: some things where they're like, you know how I evolve

1612
01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 2: and I change and adapt, But there's some things I'm

1613
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:41,040
Speaker 2: just old, Like when people talking about sending text send

1614
01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 2: me a big ass block.

1615
01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't want forty five individual ban ban ban no

1616
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:46,720
Speaker 1: type type, use sentences.

1617
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 3: Use punctuations, and ship like that. You know, like I

1618
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 3: use a period. I'm yelling at you, bitch.

1619
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 1: That don't make no sense.

1620
01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I can get it that. I mean it

1621
01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 2: is a petty reason, but I get it. Uh for

1622
01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:01,439
Speaker 2: lying about eating my sandwich. Not petty because they prove

1623
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 2: theirself they lie just because it's a sandwich.

1624
01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:06,000
Speaker 1: Don't make it petty. But you can't trust that person again,

1625
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 1: what if it was some money?

1626
01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 2: Elbows are on the table, says A former friend made

1627
01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 2: an anti immigrant statement, so I responded by making an

1628
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 2: anti Hemp statement and never spoke to them again.

1629
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: Yep, and doc Hemp statement once again. Not petty?

1630
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 2: Uh. He sang Whitney's Houston's I want to dance with

1631
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:23,679
Speaker 2: somebody to me while we were on a date, said

1632
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 2: slang of ages pressing.

1633
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,560
Speaker 1: That is kind of petty, but I need to know

1634
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:29,719
Speaker 1: the quality of the singing.

1635
01:17:29,800 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, because it could be cute, like I could

1636
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:35,679
Speaker 2: see somebody feeling like it's cute, But it could also

1637
01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:37,960
Speaker 2: be embarrassing because now you're a focus or something or

1638
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 2: they making a lot of attention making the sing. Also

1639
01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 2: can they sing? I mean picking Whitney Houston is a

1640
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:46,560
Speaker 2: high fucking bar, ain't it? Though? They farted in my

1641
01:17:46,680 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 2: dog's face on purpose. They told me that sneaking food

1642
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:52,240
Speaker 2: to the theater was ghetto. That's just from the same

1643
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 2: person Eve who eats Harvey saw. I mean, uh, he

1644
01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:06,560
Speaker 2: didn't cut his fingernails. Sendor sevens sendors seven says she

1645
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 2: took my Bobby Brown Don't be Cruel tape and never

1646
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 2: gave it back.

1647
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:12,639
Speaker 1: He was the damn king of r and b Whe's.

1648
01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 2: She at I might still be mad, not that, don't

1649
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 2: be growl just being that dude with house of pain. Uh.

1650
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:21,439
Speaker 2: Doctor Plantania says this girl I used to be cool

1651
01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 2: with refuse to admit that she's eating McDonald's. I mean,

1652
01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:25,800
Speaker 2: who on earth hasn't at least had a fry?

1653
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:27,400
Speaker 1: Yeah? What was she trying to do?

1654
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 2: So On says I loaned someone some money and they

1655
01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 2: didn't pay me back. It wasn't a lot of money,

1656
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:35,160
Speaker 2: which is why I think it's petty. It was more

1657
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:38,320
Speaker 2: about the principal. Well, ain't no such thing as petty cash. Okay,

1658
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 2: let's you a business. D GRT says, we went on

1659
01:18:45,040 --> 01:18:47,519
Speaker 2: a date and she smelled like cigarettes and cat pis.

1660
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:49,240
Speaker 1: I barely survived. That's not petty.

1661
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 2: That I mean someone not smelling well and you being

1662
01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:57,320
Speaker 2: around them, especially on a date where you're supposed to

1663
01:18:57,320 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 2: try to impress somebody.

1664
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 1: I don't think that's petty. He sent a weird ass

1665
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:02,759
Speaker 1: video of two rams.

1666
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,160
Speaker 2: One had his horn stuck in the other's last parts

1667
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 2: and the girl was screaming and running. I immediately blocked

1668
01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 2: him because his shares are getting progressively weirder leading up

1669
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 2: to this. Oh lady parts not last part stupid out

1670
01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 2: of correct. Yes it impelled her v yo.

1671
01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1672
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 2: I hate when I find out that somebody is one

1673
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:24,320
Speaker 2: of those type of people that sends me bullshit that

1674
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 2: I would never want to see, right, And yes, I

1675
01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 2: will unfriend.

1676
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:31,640
Speaker 1: You, childlike noll the fuck out of that bullshit. Well.

1677
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 2: I remember being on Facebook and somebody sent a picture

1678
01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:36,400
Speaker 2: of somebody that had shitted themselves or something.

1679
01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I was like, why did you

1680
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 1: post this?

1681
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 2: What's wrong with you as a person, Like something's off

1682
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:45,840
Speaker 2: with you that you think anyone would want to see this?

1683
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:49,600
Speaker 2: And and it was like supposed to be funny, like

1684
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:51,759
Speaker 2: this girl passed out and shit herself at the party.

1685
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 2: Ha ha. I was like, this is gross and I

1686
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,519
Speaker 2: don't even think it's Facebook supposed to allow this, so

1687
01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 2: stayed the funk away from me. Yes, the Friday Fairy says,

1688
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 2: a dude I was dating sent me a black and

1689
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 2: white pick of a naked white family lying horizonly stacked

1690
01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:07,400
Speaker 2: on each other.

1691
01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 1: I was home with the fluid. He offered to cheer

1692
01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:12,360
Speaker 1: me up, then set that pick. That was enough for me? Yeah?

1693
01:20:12,400 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 1: What what is that? Child porn or some shit?

1694
01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 2: What is that?

1695
01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:18,599
Speaker 1: What's funny about it? Right? She says? Oh?

1696
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 2: Someone said I know what pic you're talking about. Hello disturbing,

1697
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:22,680
Speaker 2: But the fact he thought it would cheer you up

1698
01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:23,479
Speaker 2: hat got me doned.

1699
01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:24,559
Speaker 1: I saw these men slow.

1700
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 2: It's Allison Burch says. My cousin borrowed fifty dollars from me.

1701
01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:32,200
Speaker 2: On the day she said she was going to pay

1702
01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:35,120
Speaker 2: it back. She called me to tell me she was

1703
01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:36,840
Speaker 2: on her way to my mama's house to drop it

1704
01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 2: off to her.

1705
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 1: This was twenty ten. She still ain't made away to

1706
01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:44,320
Speaker 1: my mama's house and I away and I have.

1707
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:46,639
Speaker 2: Nothing else to say since the end of the fat

1708
01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:48,599
Speaker 2: phone called best fifty dollars I've spent.

1709
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:49,840
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm with you.

1710
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:53,840
Speaker 2: I don't think that was petty either, And then on Facebook,

1711
01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 2: Appia says I have nothing to offer. I'm not petty,

1712
01:20:57,280 --> 01:21:01,600
Speaker 2: but I can be annoying other ways. Dontur says she

1713
01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 2: texts every word that ends with a ck with a

1714
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 2: CC instead, Brina said.

1715
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 1: Brina responded, she a crypt I can see that.

1716
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do you know that stuff like thick or

1717
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:19,800
Speaker 2: you spell it with two seas instead of kk uh.

1718
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 2: Cornelia says our former friend of mine was trying to

1719
01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 2: get someone fired for something they themselves would do.

1720
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 1: I can't trust them anymore.

1721
01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1722
01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:32,080
Speaker 1: Erica says he couldn't spell to use grammar properly.

1723
01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:35,760
Speaker 2: He used the word won't w n apostrhy t when

1724
01:21:35,840 --> 01:21:39,479
Speaker 2: he meant want w a n t, and also said

1725
01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 2: he had been single for two years but had a

1726
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 2: six month old baby. I mean, I mean it could

1727
01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 2: be true to be single for two years but still

1728
01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:53,840
Speaker 2: have a baby. It only takes one night. H stop

1729
01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:57,040
Speaker 2: talking to a friend because he was judgmental but entertaining

1730
01:21:57,320 --> 01:22:00,479
Speaker 2: a bum dude. Oh, she was judgmental but entertaining a

1731
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:03,240
Speaker 2: bum dude. Well, yeah, that's that's life right there, for sure.

1732
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 1: A lot of people do that one.

1733
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:09,400
Speaker 2: As they do uh, Derek says, my homeboy brother used

1734
01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:10,879
Speaker 2: to text me the word.

1735
01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:14,479
Speaker 1: Come and see you in instead of come. Oh no,

1736
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: I hated it every time. That is a lot how

1737
01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:19,920
Speaker 1: you don't know?

1738
01:22:21,120 --> 01:22:23,320
Speaker 2: It's auto correctness he got he just so freaking his

1739
01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:25,040
Speaker 2: auto correct book the opposite of ours.

1740
01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: He ain't got a bunch of dick picts with them,

1741
01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 1: And Apple is like, you know what, I know what

1742
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:33,200
Speaker 1: you mean? Got you? And Mom says they wouldn't listen

1743
01:22:33,240 --> 01:22:33,799
Speaker 1: to my advice.

1744
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 2: Last I was wanting to get pregnant by their boyfriend

1745
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:38,479
Speaker 2: to try and make him stay.

1746
01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 1: Jesus, I don't think that's patty. You avoided some problem.

1747
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:45,360
Speaker 1: Yeah you like m mmm mmmmm chat. I feel you

1748
01:22:45,439 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 1: on that one.

1749
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 3: It's like, you know, it's one of those things where

1750
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 3: by word and put like this, ask somebody who is

1751
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:56,280
Speaker 3: a talker that can fucking talk paint till it dries.

1752
01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 1: I love the talk, bitch. My words are still precious

1753
01:22:59,880 --> 01:23:00,160
Speaker 1: to me.

1754
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:04,640
Speaker 3: So when people ask me for advice and shit like that,

1755
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 3: you know, depend on the relationship.

1756
01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:08,680
Speaker 1: I don't give it because.

1757
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,280
Speaker 3: A lot of times your mind is already made up

1758
01:23:10,320 --> 01:23:12,479
Speaker 3: and you're not in gold for me. And if you're

1759
01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 3: the type of person like me, I don't want to

1760
01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 3: care more about your problems than you and bitch, if

1761
01:23:18,080 --> 01:23:19,560
Speaker 3: you don't care the fuck I care about it for

1762
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 3: do and I go by my life and let you.

1763
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 1: Have it, so I don't blame you. T who you know?

1764
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 1: Remember Will the he's come on to show his wife.

1765
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,160
Speaker 2: T says, Will tried to teach me German and I

1766
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:37,200
Speaker 2: almost used it in a meeting. Our trust was broken.

1767
01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:41,839
Speaker 2: I still haven't recovered. He knows what I'm referencing. He responded,

1768
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:45,439
Speaker 2: My German was impeccable, and she shaking my head. So

1769
01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:47,719
Speaker 2: I don't know what he told her to say in German,

1770
01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 2: but must have been bad.

1771
01:23:49,120 --> 01:23:49,960
Speaker 1: Must have been bad.

1772
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:53,439
Speaker 2: Terry says a god called me boogie because I cut

1773
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 2: my meat with a knife and a fork instead of

1774
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:58,040
Speaker 2: stabbing it like a damn caveman.

1775
01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:03,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. I wouldn't talk to him either, either. Let's be civilized.

1776
01:24:03,200 --> 01:24:06,000
Speaker 2: Honestly, I almost don't talk to people over well done steak.

1777
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 2: I'm not that petty, but I don't shake of the

1778
01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 2: table it's closed. If you start talking with too much

1779
01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 2: tharty on steak and you like your shit cooked to

1780
01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:17,200
Speaker 2: a fucking tire, to a tire, Yeah, I don't.

1781
01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:20,080
Speaker 1: I'll be feeling the petty in me fifteen minutes. You

1782
01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:22,400
Speaker 1: steal over there now and get out of here. John said,

1783
01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: they listened to Kevin Gates. That's hilarious.

1784
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:27,439
Speaker 2: The question is listen to his music or listen to

1785
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:29,600
Speaker 2: Kevin Gates. Because this nigga was used to think he

1786
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 2: was a philosopher, he might still think that. Kevin says,

1787
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:34,519
Speaker 2: I got a few. I used to be known as

1788
01:24:34,520 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 2: the King of petty. But the one that stands out

1789
01:24:36,200 --> 01:24:37,920
Speaker 2: the most would be the blind date that I was

1790
01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 2: set up on.

1791
01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:41,400
Speaker 1: I showed up. She had a goiter on the side

1792
01:24:41,439 --> 01:24:41,840
Speaker 1: of her neck.

1793
01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:45,080
Speaker 2: She didn't appreciate it when I called it Gary Coleman,

1794
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 2: but it was just sitting there looking at me.

1795
01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 1: Well, that just makes you sound fucked up and kind

1796
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:52,560
Speaker 1: of able. I wouldn't have shared that.

1797
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 2: What is that?

1798
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:59,360
Speaker 1: It's like a bump or something, so uh Kurt says.

1799
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:01,519
Speaker 1: They kept bringing up I mean it is petty.

1800
01:25:01,560 --> 01:25:03,840
Speaker 2: Though it is petty, and technically we did ask, so

1801
01:25:04,640 --> 01:25:07,760
Speaker 2: uh Kurt says, they kept bringing up horoscopes.

1802
01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:14,680
Speaker 3: That ain't that with the signs? Yes, yes, it's one

1803
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 3: of those things. As somebody who didn't grow up in that,

1804
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:20,880
Speaker 3: like I poke, poking and get into a chat. I

1805
01:25:20,880 --> 01:25:22,560
Speaker 3: didn't know my sign until I was a growningman. I

1806
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:24,080
Speaker 3: didn't grow up like that. So a lot of people

1807
01:25:24,160 --> 01:25:24,960
Speaker 3: be like, what's wrong with you?

1808
01:25:26,200 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 5: Child?

1809
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:29,440
Speaker 1: Child? Get out of here with that foolishness.

1810
01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 2: Charmaine says, I got a text that says on board

1811
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:35,800
Speaker 2: b O A R D instead of on board b

1812
01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:39,040
Speaker 2: O R E D or really, I'm an adult that

1813
01:25:39,160 --> 01:25:42,080
Speaker 2: can't keep myself occupied, so I'm relying on you to entertainment.

1814
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I can definitely, Yeah, I definitely am not

1815
01:25:46,560 --> 01:25:50,040
Speaker 2: a fan of the on board text, Like, nigga, get

1816
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 2: a hobby?

1817
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:52,320
Speaker 1: What do you call? I'm not a wind up toy?

1818
01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Play a video game? What are you

1819
01:25:56,240 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 1: texting me? You're bored? That's so weird, Sinnya said entertainment.

1820
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:04,439
Speaker 2: Sinning says he was forty three years old living with

1821
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:08,200
Speaker 2: a roommate that is petty, and these times, this economy,

1822
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:10,760
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a lot more people rooming up

1823
01:26:10,840 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 2: than it used to be.

1824
01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:15,120
Speaker 1: It ain't it though, and for longer. So yeah, but

1825
01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:16,080
Speaker 1: that's petty.

1826
01:26:16,200 --> 01:26:19,559
Speaker 2: That's a good one. Kensher says, they don't like my mama.

1827
01:26:19,680 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 2: That ain't petty at all. Rina says, first one, her

1828
01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:23,120
Speaker 2: voice was grating.

1829
01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:25,519
Speaker 1: Sound like a thing for me. Sound is a thing

1830
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: for me.

1831
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pretty petty because people can't control their voice.

1832
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,600
Speaker 2: Second one, our first phone carvo was while she was

1833
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 2: running errands. I need our time, especially in the beginning,

1834
01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:35,879
Speaker 2: to be focused.

1835
01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:39,080
Speaker 1: Hughes turn off. Uh yeah.

1836
01:26:39,200 --> 01:26:41,240
Speaker 2: Those both are pretty petty to me and I can't.

1837
01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:43,360
Speaker 2: But I can understand the second one more than the first.

1838
01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:43,880
Speaker 1: Same.

1839
01:26:45,400 --> 01:26:52,000
Speaker 2: Lex says they regularly said conversate, not conversate. William says

1840
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:55,240
Speaker 2: they would read books with their lips moving sounding words out.

1841
01:26:55,320 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 1: Another would smack loud as hell on cell phone. Damn.

1842
01:26:59,320 --> 01:27:00,280
Speaker 1: I mean people, y'all.

1843
01:27:00,720 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 2: A lot of these are a coming indictments on the

1844
01:27:02,560 --> 01:27:05,040
Speaker 2: American education system, and I don't think people see it

1845
01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:07,920
Speaker 2: that way. They don't. Yes, I'm like when y'all talking

1846
01:27:07,920 --> 01:27:11,120
Speaker 2: about typos and people not being able to read at

1847
01:27:11,160 --> 01:27:12,600
Speaker 2: a high level and stuff, A lot of this is

1848
01:27:12,720 --> 01:27:13,640
Speaker 2: just America.

1849
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:15,320
Speaker 1: Tunisia says.

1850
01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:17,879
Speaker 2: One we were really close and they subbed me on Facebook.

1851
01:27:17,960 --> 01:27:22,160
Speaker 2: Instantly died in my head. Yeah, subbing on Facebook is

1852
01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:25,679
Speaker 2: like a pretty pretty egregious violation for a lot of folks,

1853
01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:29,560
Speaker 2: subliminately talking about them. So like say me and you

1854
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:33,800
Speaker 2: got in a fight about eating the cereal or something,

1855
01:27:34,160 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 2: and then I went on Facebook and was like, people

1856
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:40,559
Speaker 2: that eat the cereal need to be slapped upside the head.

1857
01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:43,080
Speaker 2: You would know that's about you, but other people might

1858
01:27:43,160 --> 01:27:46,720
Speaker 2: not know who that's about, so it's subliminal. Two ask

1859
01:27:46,800 --> 01:27:49,680
Speaker 2: for me for my change after a casual hookup so

1860
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:50,840
Speaker 2: that he could buy a burger.

1861
01:27:50,960 --> 01:27:53,560
Speaker 1: Instantly died in my head. Yeah, I could see that.

1862
01:27:55,240 --> 01:27:56,760
Speaker 1: Three and X I was cool with.

1863
01:27:56,960 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 2: Bragged about bragging bagging a woman with two adults daughters

1864
01:28:00,479 --> 01:28:03,800
Speaker 2: because his friend she was seeing kept bragging about how

1865
01:28:03,840 --> 01:28:06,320
Speaker 2: he cuffed her. Not only did my ex bag her

1866
01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:09,600
Speaker 2: upstairs at the party they were all at, but bragged.

1867
01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 1: About doing one of the adult daughters at the party

1868
01:28:12,000 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 1: the same night. I always felt like he was a hater.

1869
01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:17,720
Speaker 1: Instantly died in my head. That was nothing seemed that

1870
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 1: don't seen that petty to me? Soon Like you found

1871
01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 1: out something, yes you did about that person. Kind of

1872
01:28:23,320 --> 01:28:25,000
Speaker 1: person they are, but it wasn't X so you maybe

1873
01:28:25,040 --> 01:28:27,800
Speaker 1: already knew. Four, A new associate asked why me and

1874
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:31,759
Speaker 1: someone else were friends. It gave we're eight year old children,

1875
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 1: asking why I share my candy with so and so.

1876
01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:37,760
Speaker 2: I instantly died in my head. Yeah, I am not

1877
01:28:37,840 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 2: a fan of the like you need to I just

1878
01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:42,240
Speaker 2: met you. You need to pick me over this other

1879
01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:42,840
Speaker 2: person thing.

1880
01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:43,840
Speaker 1: Not a fan of that.

1881
01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 2: And last one, I was invited to my birthday part

1882
01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:50,120
Speaker 2: to the my birth I was invited to my birthday party,

1883
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 2: did a no show with our RSVPN and didn't wish

1884
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 2: me happy birthday. I didn't kill them off, but I

1885
01:28:55,439 --> 01:28:57,960
Speaker 2: was sick of people's shit, so I took someone else

1886
01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 2: with me to the Janet Jackson, I said, without reminding

1887
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:03,000
Speaker 2: them we were supposed to go together.

1888
01:29:03,800 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 1: That's pretty petty. Come home. They're looking at you, were like,

1889
01:29:07,320 --> 01:29:11,120
Speaker 1: what have you done for me? Later? You got that

1890
01:29:11,280 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 1: party with Jenny and shit?

1891
01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:17,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, And SB Carter says, they laugh too loud in public,

1892
01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:22,240
Speaker 2: like they like head back, mouth open foreth throw their laugh.

1893
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 1: Well, I guess was it Karen? Is this a sub

1894
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 1: subim about Karen? Just the next time? Damnit? Uh?

1895
01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:35,040
Speaker 2: And then someone just looked at the art and said,

1896
01:29:35,160 --> 01:29:37,360
Speaker 2: now I want to hear Rod and Karen do outcast

1897
01:29:37,439 --> 01:29:38,080
Speaker 2: cover music.

1898
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:41,080
Speaker 1: Chad know you're not me. I would be terrible. Yeah,

1899
01:29:41,080 --> 01:29:43,519
Speaker 1: I don't think you really want to see that. That

1900
01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:47,000
Speaker 1: would be horrible. And the last one is Joy says

1901
01:29:48,160 --> 01:29:56,400
Speaker 1: they pronounced the L in salmon, pretty paleman. That's pretty

1902
01:29:56,640 --> 01:29:59,479
Speaker 1: pretty petty. But also I hear you, I hear you

1903
01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:01,600
Speaker 1: on that one. All right? That was that was it

1904
01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 1: for doing it for the grand.

1905
01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:13,760
Speaker 4: For the grandmother for the grand the grandmother, the grandmother

1906
01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:22,760
Speaker 4: for the grand the grandma for the grand the grandmother

1907
01:30:23,000 --> 01:30:23,679
Speaker 4: for them.

1908
01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:29,320
Speaker 2: All right, let's get into these emails. And that's the

1909
01:30:29,400 --> 01:30:33,000
Speaker 2: last thing. No voicemails this week didn't get any uh.

1910
01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:37,240
Speaker 2: Leader is either Quana or Keana, who says, I'm not

1911
01:30:37,360 --> 01:30:38,439
Speaker 2: playing with y'all niggas.

1912
01:30:38,560 --> 01:30:40,720
Speaker 1: Roderick not you.

1913
01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:44,040
Speaker 2: About to cost me my goddamn job for screaming listening

1914
01:30:44,080 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 2: to you play Gustave on drape the Maniacs. Bruh, it

1915
01:30:48,200 --> 01:30:51,200
Speaker 2: was good it, Bruh. Have tears running down my cheeks.

1916
01:30:51,240 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 2: These white people about to get me involuntarily committed. This

1917
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:57,439
Speaker 2: DMX impression is spot on, Nigga, I'm done thank you.

1918
01:30:58,000 --> 01:31:01,160
Speaker 3: It was and the thing about it, please go listen

1919
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 3: to it, y'all because it'll catch you off God, because

1920
01:31:03,520 --> 01:31:05,120
Speaker 3: it literally just comes out of nowhere.

1921
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 1: You'll be like, what is evident here? Yes?

1922
01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 2: And then our girl too, fish Right saying, Hey, damn it,

1923
01:31:12,760 --> 01:31:14,640
Speaker 2: what's going on? She says, just a quick note to

1924
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:18,320
Speaker 2: say this cover art with y'all is outcast. Cover is dope. Yeah,

1925
01:31:18,320 --> 01:31:19,599
Speaker 2: we're gonna put it on T shirts.

1926
01:31:19,640 --> 01:31:20,080
Speaker 1: I got ya.

1927
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:21,840
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all want to buy it or not,

1928
01:31:21,960 --> 01:31:24,920
Speaker 2: but putting it to be out there. Aaron Right saying, Hello,

1929
01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:28,000
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. I'm a gay man currently in therapy

1930
01:31:28,080 --> 01:31:29,960
Speaker 2: working on issues with my parents. I would say we're

1931
01:31:29,960 --> 01:31:31,720
Speaker 2: a bit of strangers. I this is myself from them.

1932
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:34,280
Speaker 2: Once I went to college ten years ago. My parents

1933
01:31:34,360 --> 01:31:39,040
Speaker 2: do not my parents. I this is myself, Okay, once

1934
01:31:39,080 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 2: I went to college ten years ago, my parents do

1935
01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:41,680
Speaker 2: not like.

1936
01:31:41,760 --> 01:31:42,439
Speaker 1: Me being gay.

1937
01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:45,080
Speaker 2: And with therapy, I'm trying to have a better relationship

1938
01:31:45,120 --> 01:31:46,559
Speaker 2: with them and had the courage to speak my mind

1939
01:31:46,560 --> 01:31:49,479
Speaker 2: and established boundaries of them, especially with topics on education,

1940
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:51,120
Speaker 2: LGBT rights, abortion, etc.

1941
01:31:51,720 --> 01:31:53,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I have completely different views from them

1942
01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:55,120
Speaker 1: and don't agree on the same issues.

1943
01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:57,400
Speaker 2: I know the current trend on social media is to

1944
01:31:57,439 --> 01:31:59,120
Speaker 2: cut your off your family, and a lot of my

1945
01:31:59,280 --> 01:32:02,400
Speaker 2: friends don't have good relationships with their parents and they

1946
01:32:02,520 --> 01:32:05,800
Speaker 2: kind of flex it. But I know, mean, along with others,

1947
01:32:05,920 --> 01:32:08,600
Speaker 2: do not want to mend relationships with our parents and

1948
01:32:09,000 --> 01:32:12,560
Speaker 2: have a better relationship. And so I replied back to

1949
01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:14,360
Speaker 2: this person, I said, first of all, we're sorry you're

1950
01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:17,200
Speaker 2: going through this. As we talked more during the episode,

1951
01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:19,080
Speaker 2: we realize it's not all just one way or the other.

1952
01:32:19,200 --> 01:32:21,439
Speaker 2: That's why we say it's two different conversations happen at

1953
01:32:21,439 --> 01:32:23,920
Speaker 2: the same time. Have you finished the episode yet, don't

1954
01:32:23,920 --> 01:32:24,760
Speaker 2: want to spoil it for you.

1955
01:32:25,240 --> 01:32:25,760
Speaker 1: And he said.

1956
01:32:25,840 --> 01:32:29,400
Speaker 2: He replied back, Hey, Rod, yes, I just got through

1957
01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:31,400
Speaker 2: that segment, and thanks for understanding. I do agree that

1958
01:32:31,479 --> 01:32:33,799
Speaker 2: the situation is more nuanced at both sides, that conversation

1959
01:32:33,920 --> 01:32:36,519
Speaker 2: have valid reasons. And I said, we appreciate you for listening.

1960
01:32:36,800 --> 01:32:39,479
Speaker 2: You know a heart emoji, And that's basically what I

1961
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:42,919
Speaker 2: was saying earlier, was like, as we talked, I realized

1962
01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:47,000
Speaker 2: like it's just two things happening at once, very valid

1963
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:52,280
Speaker 2: issues on both sides, and that there is a push

1964
01:32:52,600 --> 01:32:55,640
Speaker 2: culturally to be like, cut off everyone who does not

1965
01:32:56,760 --> 01:32:59,880
Speaker 2: support any and everything you say and do all the time.

1966
01:33:00,479 --> 01:33:02,519
Speaker 2: And I always feel like that's a little bit scary

1967
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:04,720
Speaker 2: and kind of a sham because the Internet people that

1968
01:33:04,840 --> 01:33:07,519
Speaker 2: say that don't actually support people all the time. They

1969
01:33:07,800 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 2: turn on people sometimes, they support you into horrible decisions

1970
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:14,800
Speaker 2: stuff like that. So I don't want to get so

1971
01:33:15,080 --> 01:33:17,799
Speaker 2: reliant on them. And that's kind of a cult religious

1972
01:33:17,840 --> 01:33:21,200
Speaker 2: mentality of we need to isolate you from all the

1973
01:33:21,240 --> 01:33:25,040
Speaker 2: people in real life that might see your behavior and

1974
01:33:25,200 --> 01:33:27,720
Speaker 2: have an actual context for that behavior because they've known

1975
01:33:27,760 --> 01:33:31,240
Speaker 2: you your whole life and be like, hey, are you okay?

1976
01:33:31,479 --> 01:33:33,680
Speaker 1: There's some things you're doing right now that aren't what

1977
01:33:33,840 --> 01:33:35,840
Speaker 1: you used to do. I just want to check in.

1978
01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:40,080
Speaker 2: So people are promoting you to be isolated from those folks.

1979
01:33:40,439 --> 01:33:42,760
Speaker 2: But then there's the other, very valid the conversation of

1980
01:33:43,479 --> 01:33:47,240
Speaker 2: some folks are learning what abuse is, they're learning what

1981
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:52,120
Speaker 2: boundaries are, they're learning what toxicity is, and because they

1982
01:33:52,600 --> 01:33:55,160
Speaker 2: didn't have those things before, they used to think, I

1983
01:33:55,240 --> 01:33:58,080
Speaker 2: guess I just had to deal with a parent who

1984
01:33:58,240 --> 01:34:01,320
Speaker 2: was just fucked up, and that's just how it's supposed

1985
01:34:01,320 --> 01:34:04,760
Speaker 2: to be. And they're learning you don't and so those

1986
01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:05,760
Speaker 2: are two different things to me.

1987
01:34:06,479 --> 01:34:08,800
Speaker 3: Agreed, agreed, And like you said that that's what the

1988
01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:12,639
Speaker 3: nuance of the conversation, you know, kind of came in because,

1989
01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 3: like you said, we were both coming from like two

1990
01:34:14,200 --> 01:34:17,160
Speaker 3: different perspective, but they both actually play a really important

1991
01:34:17,280 --> 01:34:21,040
Speaker 3: role into excuse me, why people do.

1992
01:34:21,160 --> 01:34:27,759
Speaker 1: What they do on quote unquote both sides. Right, let's

1993
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:30,839
Speaker 1: get back to the next one. Sorry, I got an alert.

1994
01:34:31,720 --> 01:34:32,400
Speaker 1: Some good news.

1995
01:34:32,479 --> 01:34:36,680
Speaker 2: Karen Okay restricted free agent PJ Washington has agreed to

1996
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:39,240
Speaker 2: a new three year deal forty eight million dollar contract

1997
01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:40,599
Speaker 2: with the Charlotte Hornets.

1998
01:34:40,640 --> 01:34:43,800
Speaker 1: He's coming back, BABYJ.

1999
01:34:44,280 --> 01:34:49,400
Speaker 2: We did it, We did it, oh man, finally all right, Sorry, y'all,

2000
01:34:49,439 --> 01:34:51,400
Speaker 2: it's just been stressing our marriage for years and.

2001
01:34:52,880 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 1: Months. We didn't know what's gonna do about PJ Washington.

2002
01:34:55,520 --> 01:34:57,960
Speaker 1: We did not know out of control, all right. I

2003
01:34:58,080 --> 01:34:59,920
Speaker 1: mean the season was about to start. I was like,

2004
01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:03,360
Speaker 1: come on, PJ. I need, we need PJ Okay.

2005
01:35:03,439 --> 01:35:06,240
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody else playing defending centers like at that power

2006
01:35:06,320 --> 01:35:09,240
Speaker 2: forward like that. M he knows, y'all not hitting threes

2007
01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:09,560
Speaker 2: like that?

2008
01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:12,120
Speaker 1: All right? Seiling fans.

2009
01:35:12,200 --> 01:35:14,160
Speaker 2: This is from Brian who says riding Karen, I just

2010
01:35:14,160 --> 01:35:16,720
Speaker 2: started listening to you guys about two months now and

2011
01:35:17,040 --> 01:35:19,400
Speaker 2: was waiting to have something relevant to comment on. Earlier

2012
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:21,240
Speaker 2: this week, you report on the increase in the number

2013
01:35:21,240 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 2: of small children me and tossed it to the air and.

2014
01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:23,960
Speaker 1: Its seiling fans.

2015
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:27,000
Speaker 2: That's a valuable tidbit of knowledge as as we know,

2016
01:35:27,680 --> 01:35:29,960
Speaker 2: knowing this half the battle. I think this trend is

2017
01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:33,000
Speaker 2: not due to increase stupidity of adults around tossable kids,

2018
01:35:33,040 --> 01:35:34,000
Speaker 2: but climate change.

2019
01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:37,960
Speaker 1: Think of it. Think of it. Those fans wouldn't be

2020
01:35:38,120 --> 01:35:41,679
Speaker 1: on if it weren't so damn hot. Right, great point.

2021
01:35:41,960 --> 01:35:44,040
Speaker 1: I'm a middle aged white man. Appreciate your thoughts.

2022
01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:46,400
Speaker 2: My favorite moment or any time Rod says something that

2023
01:35:46,439 --> 01:35:52,080
Speaker 2: makes Karen say, oh no. I started appropriating that myself,

2024
01:35:52,120 --> 01:35:55,200
Speaker 2: and I think I'm seeming more empathetic. Thanks for all

2025
01:35:55,240 --> 01:35:57,240
Speaker 2: you do with the three to four podcasts a week.

2026
01:35:57,600 --> 01:36:00,760
Speaker 1: I do love your guests. Thank you y'all. New guests

2027
01:36:00,800 --> 01:36:02,400
Speaker 1: coming up this Wednesday.

2028
01:36:02,720 --> 01:36:06,439
Speaker 2: Yay, I'm gonna have a fantastic Frankyon, who I've been

2029
01:36:06,520 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 2: on for our Nerves with and uh yeah, I can't

2030
01:36:09,400 --> 01:36:10,000
Speaker 2: wait to talk to her.

2031
01:36:10,240 --> 01:36:14,559
Speaker 1: She's awesome. Uh Keana says back like I never left. Hey, y'all.

2032
01:36:14,600 --> 01:36:15,840
Speaker 2: First of all, I want to say that your girl

2033
01:36:15,920 --> 01:36:17,760
Speaker 2: bought a ticket to strain the live show. If I

2034
01:36:17,800 --> 01:36:19,639
Speaker 2: could figure out a way to get my ass to Charlotte,

2035
01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:21,280
Speaker 2: I will be there for the live show. But I

2036
01:36:21,320 --> 01:36:23,320
Speaker 2: could not let another show happen and not support it.

2037
01:36:23,360 --> 01:36:24,599
Speaker 2: I'm so happy and proud of y'all.

2038
01:36:24,640 --> 01:36:27,519
Speaker 1: Thank you. Heg we love to hear that. We loved

2039
01:36:27,600 --> 01:36:30,840
Speaker 1: to hear it. Sex in it virtual, We don't care.

2040
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:33,719
Speaker 2: Thank you. Secondly, y'all were spot on in the conversation

2041
01:36:33,840 --> 01:36:35,320
Speaker 2: about being a strange for your parents.

2042
01:36:35,680 --> 01:36:36,960
Speaker 1: I was born in the early eighties.

2043
01:36:36,960 --> 01:36:39,519
Speaker 2: Shout out to the old geriatric ass millennials like me,

2044
01:36:40,120 --> 01:36:42,240
Speaker 2: and like so many other people, my parents got caught

2045
01:36:42,320 --> 01:36:44,760
Speaker 2: up in drugs. It's hard to present, be present and

2046
01:36:44,880 --> 01:36:47,439
Speaker 2: clear minded. Parent one addiction is whooping your ass. So

2047
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:49,800
Speaker 2: me and my brother were raised for nine years by

2048
01:36:49,840 --> 01:36:52,519
Speaker 2: my aunt because my parents didn't really parent me. The

2049
01:36:52,600 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 2: boundaries and roles didn't always look the way they needed to.

2050
01:36:55,040 --> 01:36:57,680
Speaker 2: I always loved them, but once I got grown, I

2051
01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:00,080
Speaker 2: didn't need mothering that My mom, who was more so

2052
01:37:00,360 --> 01:37:03,200
Speaker 2: at the time, didn't understand that. She would constantly knock

2053
01:37:03,240 --> 01:37:05,040
Speaker 2: down boundaries I tried to set up, and at one

2054
01:37:05,040 --> 01:37:06,640
Speaker 2: point I told her that she couldn't just show up

2055
01:37:06,680 --> 01:37:08,720
Speaker 2: in my life any old kind of way because she

2056
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:09,360
Speaker 2: was my mother.

2057
01:37:09,800 --> 01:37:11,360
Speaker 1: We didn't speak for a little over a year.

2058
01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:13,439
Speaker 2: My dad had been kind of hit or miss my

2059
01:37:13,520 --> 01:37:16,680
Speaker 2: whole life, in my life, so at that time we

2060
01:37:16,800 --> 01:37:18,600
Speaker 2: were cool, but weren't really close. So I'm happy to

2061
01:37:18,640 --> 01:37:21,120
Speaker 2: say that we mended defense. My parents moved in with

2062
01:37:21,240 --> 01:37:23,200
Speaker 2: me five years ago, and I got two years with

2063
01:37:23,320 --> 01:37:25,519
Speaker 2: both of them before my pots passed away in twenty twenty.

2064
01:37:26,080 --> 01:37:28,840
Speaker 2: During that time, they got to really know me, and

2065
01:37:29,080 --> 01:37:31,920
Speaker 2: we were able to have some tough conversations. They both

2066
01:37:31,960 --> 01:37:34,120
Speaker 2: asked for forgiveness for not being there, and I accept it.

2067
01:37:34,280 --> 01:37:36,880
Speaker 2: I recognized how fortunate I am to have been able

2068
01:37:36,920 --> 01:37:39,800
Speaker 2: to reconcile with them. I also recognized how important those

2069
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:42,840
Speaker 2: apologies were to my healing, and how so many will

2070
01:37:42,920 --> 01:37:45,439
Speaker 2: never be fortunate enough to receive apologies in a word

2071
01:37:46,200 --> 01:37:48,120
Speaker 2: or deed from the people in their.

2072
01:37:48,040 --> 01:37:49,120
Speaker 1: Lives who have hurt them.

2073
01:37:49,320 --> 01:37:52,599
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, that's super deep and souper, and I love

2074
01:37:52,680 --> 01:37:56,000
Speaker 2: how you like appreciate that, but also like it reminds

2075
01:37:56,080 --> 01:37:59,680
Speaker 2: me of how many people I know who they know

2076
01:37:59,800 --> 01:38:02,280
Speaker 2: that those apologies are never coming or they don't whatever,

2077
01:38:02,680 --> 01:38:05,120
Speaker 2: and so they have to move on because life moves on.

2078
01:38:05,240 --> 01:38:05,800
Speaker 1: Time moves on.

2079
01:38:06,240 --> 01:38:08,880
Speaker 2: But you'll see people that have that kind of mentality

2080
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:11,559
Speaker 2: of like, I don't need forgiveness and I don't need

2081
01:38:11,960 --> 01:38:13,840
Speaker 2: to apologize, and I don't it ain't gonna help me

2082
01:38:13,920 --> 01:38:14,200
Speaker 2: at all.

2083
01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:17,599
Speaker 1: And I always wonder how much of that is because

2084
01:38:17,640 --> 01:38:18,799
Speaker 1: you know, it's just not coming.

2085
01:38:18,960 --> 01:38:21,640
Speaker 2: It's like, if you knew you were gonna get that apology,

2086
01:38:22,640 --> 01:38:24,960
Speaker 2: or if you got that apology, if it would make

2087
01:38:25,040 --> 01:38:30,360
Speaker 2: you feel differently, because I think, you know, healing, forgiveness, apologizing,

2088
01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:31,840
Speaker 2: all that stuff is.

2089
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:34,160
Speaker 1: It has it.

2090
01:38:34,240 --> 01:38:37,160
Speaker 2: There's a reason that it happens. It's because there is

2091
01:38:37,320 --> 01:38:40,360
Speaker 2: something to that. But at the same time, it's not

2092
01:38:40,479 --> 01:38:42,800
Speaker 2: the be all end dollar everything. And I understand when

2093
01:38:42,840 --> 01:38:45,360
Speaker 2: people say I don't need those things in order to

2094
01:38:45,400 --> 01:38:48,680
Speaker 2: heal and move on, or I'm just not capable of

2095
01:38:48,760 --> 01:38:51,360
Speaker 2: being able to forgive this person even if they do apologize,

2096
01:38:51,880 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 2: So what would be the value of their apology? But

2097
01:38:54,680 --> 01:38:57,720
Speaker 2: like I said, it's an interesting concept to me. Yeah,

2098
01:38:57,920 --> 01:39:01,400
Speaker 2: And a lot of it varies fun from person to person.

2099
01:39:01,520 --> 01:39:05,600
Speaker 2: And like you say, people have varying types of relationships

2100
01:39:05,760 --> 01:39:10,839
Speaker 2: with it. And I'm one big thing I said last Saturday,

2101
01:39:10,840 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 2: I was gonna say this again.

2102
01:39:12,720 --> 01:39:17,400
Speaker 3: Parents need to see children as an adult, and children

2103
01:39:17,479 --> 01:39:20,040
Speaker 3: need to see parents as people. And once you get

2104
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:23,320
Speaker 3: down to that fundamental thing, a lot of this blurriness

2105
01:39:23,400 --> 01:39:28,160
Speaker 3: and fuzziness will change. But it's really hard for both

2106
01:39:28,280 --> 01:39:31,280
Speaker 3: sides to see each other as equal, particularly once everybody

2107
01:39:31,320 --> 01:39:34,720
Speaker 3: gets into a certain age range. Everybody is adults, so

2108
01:39:34,840 --> 01:39:38,880
Speaker 3: everybody's accountable and responsible for their actions and what they've done,

2109
01:39:39,160 --> 01:39:42,080
Speaker 3: didn't do, and things like that. And you know, and also,

2110
01:39:43,200 --> 01:39:47,080
Speaker 3: like Roger said, and this is because of the Internet,

2111
01:39:48,479 --> 01:39:52,200
Speaker 3: shout out to Donald Glover. For a lot of people,

2112
01:39:53,400 --> 01:39:59,160
Speaker 3: they have this mentality of if I have us screwed up,

2113
01:39:59,520 --> 01:40:01,639
Speaker 3: not everybody, but a percentage. If I have a screwed

2114
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:04,960
Speaker 3: up and fucked up relationship with my family, you shouldn't

2115
01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:06,840
Speaker 3: have one either. And so a lot of people, I

2116
01:40:06,880 --> 01:40:08,519
Speaker 3: feel like a lot of people have a big campaign

2117
01:40:08,520 --> 01:40:09,719
Speaker 3: where they just go online.

2118
01:40:10,320 --> 01:40:11,360
Speaker 1: Wait can you say that again?

2119
01:40:11,720 --> 01:40:14,000
Speaker 2: If I have a screwed up relationship with my family,

2120
01:40:14,160 --> 01:40:15,360
Speaker 2: you shouldn't have one either.

2121
01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:15,840
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

2122
01:40:16,240 --> 01:40:18,559
Speaker 3: What I mean is if I've cut off my family

2123
01:40:18,680 --> 01:40:20,680
Speaker 3: for whatever reasons, good, bad, and different than me.

2124
01:40:20,760 --> 01:40:23,799
Speaker 1: If I've cut them off, there's a content.

2125
01:40:24,240 --> 01:40:25,680
Speaker 3: Maybe it's just me in the way I'm looking as

2126
01:40:25,720 --> 01:40:29,040
Speaker 3: a contingent of people who feel like you could just

2127
01:40:29,120 --> 01:40:31,040
Speaker 3: be going through something and it might not be did

2128
01:40:31,040 --> 01:40:32,720
Speaker 3: the upoint of quote unquote cutting it off, But they're

2129
01:40:32,760 --> 01:40:34,360
Speaker 3: real quick to jump in and just tell you to

2130
01:40:34,520 --> 01:40:35,360
Speaker 3: trash everybody.

2131
01:40:35,640 --> 01:40:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I just I wasn't challenging y'all, just I

2132
01:40:38,800 --> 01:40:40,640
Speaker 2: wanted to understand what you mean. No problem because I

2133
01:40:41,960 --> 01:40:42,559
Speaker 2: say what you mean.

2134
01:40:42,640 --> 01:40:44,360
Speaker 1: Now, yeah it didn't and that didn't come out right,

2135
01:40:44,400 --> 01:40:46,040
Speaker 1: but but that's what I mean. Keep yet.

2136
01:40:47,320 --> 01:40:49,200
Speaker 3: So you have to be aware on the inner when

2137
01:40:49,240 --> 01:40:53,160
Speaker 3: you're online of people that have a lot of anger,

2138
01:40:53,400 --> 01:40:56,000
Speaker 3: a lot of unforgiveness, and these things that they're dealing with,

2139
01:40:57,640 --> 01:41:00,960
Speaker 3: and they try to take whatever their solution is and

2140
01:41:01,120 --> 01:41:03,680
Speaker 3: push that solution on to you, which man may not

2141
01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:07,040
Speaker 3: work for you, because there are some people that really

2142
01:41:07,320 --> 01:41:09,240
Speaker 3: want to forgive, they want to work it out, they

2143
01:41:09,320 --> 01:41:11,840
Speaker 3: want to go through the process. They don't want to

2144
01:41:11,960 --> 01:41:15,160
Speaker 3: just cut their family off. And a lot of those

2145
01:41:15,240 --> 01:41:19,080
Speaker 3: people that are on that side feel that they feel

2146
01:41:19,200 --> 01:41:24,719
Speaker 3: like you are judging them or you or you feel

2147
01:41:24,760 --> 01:41:27,519
Speaker 3: a certain way because maybe they have made that different

2148
01:41:27,560 --> 01:41:31,600
Speaker 3: decision when it might not be that, because everybody's relationships

2149
01:41:31,760 --> 01:41:34,680
Speaker 3: might not come to a neat closed conclusion.

2150
01:41:35,080 --> 01:41:38,160
Speaker 1: Everybody sometimes, like you said, you might not hear the words.

2151
01:41:38,200 --> 01:41:40,360
Speaker 3: Sometimes guess what you have to make the decision that

2152
01:41:40,400 --> 01:41:42,720
Speaker 3: I'm gonna shut this door, lock the key, and I've

2153
01:41:42,800 --> 01:41:45,760
Speaker 3: got to move on, and that right there might be

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Speaker 3: a healing process for somebody else. Well some people they

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Speaker 3: might not heal from that, and so it varies for person.

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Speaker 3: And so I've realized, and I'm aware of at when

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Speaker 3: i'm align when you share certain things, how people respond

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Speaker 3: to you and how they affect your mental capacity and

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01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:03,160
Speaker 3: how you perceive and receive people when they come at

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Speaker 3: you from this campaign of I don't forgive if I'm bitter,

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Speaker 3: I'm petty, blah blah blah, and some people that just

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Speaker 3: stuck there and they.

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01:42:09,920 --> 01:42:12,760
Speaker 1: Will never grow past that point. And so you have

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Speaker 1: to be kind of aware and alert.

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Speaker 3: And I've just realized it's been a lot aware an

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Speaker 3: alert because a lot of things online on negativity and

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01:42:20,160 --> 01:42:22,600
Speaker 3: a lot of these things online do not function in

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Speaker 3: real life. Some of these same people I'm talking about

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Speaker 3: if these people was to come and apologize, they will

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Speaker 3: forgive them and move on. But online it's fuck everybody,

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Speaker 3: fuck your family, fuck my family, fuck you know, fuck

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01:42:33,120 --> 01:42:35,320
Speaker 3: it don't matter. But and that's not always true. There's

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Speaker 3: some people that actually are seeking and actually want want

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Speaker 3: to get to a place of wholeness. Be it, be

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Speaker 3: it I cut everybody off, and I'm fine, be it

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Speaker 3: I forgive everybody.

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Speaker 1: I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with either solution. But I think a

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Speaker 2: lot of times a lot of people feel judged, and

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01:42:50,280 --> 01:42:53,120
Speaker 2: they feel ashamed, and they feel like it's something wrong

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01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:55,320
Speaker 2: with them, and they feel but these are personal issues

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01:42:55,360 --> 01:42:57,320
Speaker 2: and personal things that they need to work out that

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01:42:57,439 --> 01:42:59,400
Speaker 2: they push on a lot of other people online and

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Speaker 2: on social media.

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Speaker 1: That this is something I've realized.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, iheartily agree. I think, you know, one of my reasons,

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Speaker 2: one of the ways I just approach life is appreciating

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01:43:11,400 --> 01:43:15,960
Speaker 2: and respecting people's individuality in that way and just understanding

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Speaker 2: that a lot of stuff is not about me, and

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01:43:18,840 --> 01:43:21,320
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff is from the experiences they have

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Speaker 2: and so they've arrived to different conclusions.

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Speaker 1: And I think, you know, once you look.

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Speaker 2: At people like that, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gonna

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01:43:29,880 --> 01:43:33,439
Speaker 2: be friends with everybody, or you're gonna support everybody's decisions

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Speaker 2: and shit.

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Speaker 1: But it just gives you like a perspective of like, hey, if.

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Speaker 2: Someone's parents did something to them that is horrible, they

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Speaker 2: may have a completely different relationship with the idea of

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Speaker 2: parenting and family than I do, and I respect and

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Speaker 2: leave that alone.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna start telling them shit that works for me.

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01:43:51,479 --> 01:43:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't have the experiences as far as the bs

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01:43:54,760 --> 01:43:56,759
Speaker 2: that the State of Arkansas is doing with the school curriculum.

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01:43:56,840 --> 01:43:58,840
Speaker 2: Roy you asked why they will want to not teach

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Speaker 2: the white students about black history. It's because they don't

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01:44:01,520 --> 01:44:04,680
Speaker 2: want Oh no, no, I know why, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 2: I just thought it was funny because the black schools

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01:44:09,040 --> 01:44:11,400
Speaker 2: are the ones that are fighting to keep the curriculum

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Speaker 2: in it seems, and they're the ones gone pushing back.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying the white schools I was rhetorically asking to

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Speaker 2: make to make the point you're probably about to make,

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Speaker 2: which is, well, how come none of the white schools

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Speaker 2: ain't on this list of schools that are boy bucketing

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01:44:26,720 --> 01:44:28,840
Speaker 2: the system and boycotting and decide they gonna teach the

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01:44:28,920 --> 01:44:31,479
Speaker 2: kids anyway. It's because they don't want white kids to

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01:44:31,520 --> 01:44:33,680
Speaker 2: feel shame, and it's comfort. They've always been okay with

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Speaker 2: placing on black students. They have never cared about how

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Speaker 2: the lack of teaching or of American history or the

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Speaker 2: misleading of the history makes black kids feel, or latinos

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01:44:41,320 --> 01:44:44,000
Speaker 2: or Indigenous kids or any kids except white kids. But

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01:44:44,120 --> 01:44:46,840
Speaker 2: those kids can't be gay, trans, non binary because they

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01:44:46,880 --> 01:44:50,160
Speaker 2: don't deserve all the shame, because then they deserve all

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01:44:50,200 --> 01:44:53,960
Speaker 2: the shame. Yeah, if those white kids are LGBTQ all

2224
01:44:54,000 --> 01:44:56,400
Speaker 2: of a sudden, they gonna catch it now, right, And

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01:44:56,520 --> 01:44:59,040
Speaker 2: they can't be poor not to be able to afford

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01:44:59,080 --> 01:45:01,439
Speaker 2: school lunches, because then they deserve all the shame too.

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Speaker 2: White people need to understand that white supurpacy must constantly

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Speaker 2: be fed, and once it is gorgeousself on us, it

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01:45:06,520 --> 01:45:09,360
Speaker 2: will eat and consume them. Yes, it breaks my heart

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01:45:09,400 --> 01:45:11,280
Speaker 2: that the Little Rock nine is having to come out

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01:45:11,280 --> 01:45:14,000
Speaker 2: of retirement and speak out about what is happening, Sarah

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01:45:14,040 --> 01:45:16,640
Speaker 2: Huckerby saying it needs to be voted out asap, the

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Speaker 2: school board and the people on the county levels that

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01:45:19,200 --> 01:45:22,920
Speaker 2: supported this too. Lastly, have you heard about the assault

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01:45:23,040 --> 01:45:26,679
Speaker 2: ascot of anti negro. Oh, I'm sorry ascot an anti

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01:45:26,840 --> 01:45:30,160
Speaker 2: hero ass hack. Cornell West man owes four hundred and

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01:45:30,200 --> 01:45:33,640
Speaker 2: sixty six K and federal tax taxes at forty nine k.

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01:45:34,200 --> 01:45:38,920
Speaker 2: It's child support, oh man, I didn't hear that. I

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01:45:39,000 --> 01:45:40,920
Speaker 2: knew y olded some back taxes. I didn't know about

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Speaker 2: the child support. That's super wild.

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Speaker 1: You know who didn't owe half a million dollars in debt? Obama? True?

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01:45:48,840 --> 01:45:51,439
Speaker 2: I needed that Hillary, she paid for all her kids.

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01:45:52,160 --> 01:45:54,280
Speaker 2: People act like he's the savior. We need to get

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01:45:54,360 --> 01:45:56,479
Speaker 2: student loan debt paid off. And this nigga wasn't he

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01:45:56,600 --> 01:45:57,400
Speaker 2: paying child support?

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Speaker 1: The fuck? Cornell? Any love y'all? Bye, Well, here's the

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01:46:01,840 --> 01:46:03,479
Speaker 1: only thing. I only push back. I got to what

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01:46:03,560 --> 01:46:04,439
Speaker 1: you just said is this.

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Speaker 2: I do feel like that is the person who would

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Speaker 2: have the most compelling reason to get rid of all

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01:46:13,560 --> 01:46:17,320
Speaker 2: the debt would be if Cornell West was president, He'd

2252
01:46:17,320 --> 01:46:19,800
Speaker 2: be like, listen, we need to get rid of child'sport debt,

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01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:24,120
Speaker 2: student loan debt, medical debt, pretty much any debt, federal

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01:46:24,240 --> 01:46:27,040
Speaker 2: tax debt. Nobody should pay no debt, all of the debt.

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Speaker 2: I'm forgiven everything I know, y'all, can't forgive y'all parents. Well,

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Speaker 2: I apologize on behalf of the United States. I forgive

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Speaker 2: all the debt. Everyone's forgiven. Let's just call the whole

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01:46:37,320 --> 01:46:39,080
Speaker 2: thing off. Please stop blowing.

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01:46:38,880 --> 01:46:39,519
Speaker 1: Up my phone.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're gonna be the first one during the debate

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01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:44,840
Speaker 2: that had to answer his phone to be like, hold

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01:46:44,880 --> 01:46:45,639
Speaker 2: on the city bank.

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01:46:46,000 --> 01:46:50,160
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm a live to bate. Can I call y'all back? No,

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01:46:50,360 --> 01:46:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't have the money right now. Well listen, brother,

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01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:57,720
Speaker 1: brother city bank, Brother city, brother city bank. Come on now,

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01:46:58,360 --> 01:46:59,800
Speaker 1: brother city bank. Brother.

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Speaker 2: This is very proliferous and prodigenous that you would even

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01:47:04,760 --> 01:47:06,160
Speaker 2: hit me with these platitudes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I will reign firing ones to and hundreds upon

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Speaker 1: down on you. All right. Sorry.

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Speaker 2: Last one is from Aaron, who says, hey, riding Karen,

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Speaker 2: thanks so much for reading my email on the feedback show.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to respond quickly about one thing, which

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Speaker 2: is tourism. Even though ideally Hawaii would not be illegally

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01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:30,400
Speaker 2: occupied by the US at this point, they unfortunately rely

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01:47:30,520 --> 01:47:33,160
Speaker 2: heavily on tourism to keep their economy working. I've seen

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01:47:33,200 --> 01:47:35,759
Speaker 2: many people on MAYI posting memes like the two attached

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01:47:36,080 --> 01:47:40,479
Speaker 2: where they are asking people to come visit because they need.

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Speaker 1: Money coming in. Thanks again for being amazing, best eron.

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01:47:44,840 --> 01:47:46,640
Speaker 1: And it's these memes that.

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Speaker 2: With the exception of Lahina Town, Maloi is open bcon

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01:47:49,400 --> 01:47:54,040
Speaker 2: be considered spread aloha and another one says Maui needs

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01:47:54,040 --> 01:47:56,479
Speaker 2: you to visit. Our people in business needs South Maloi

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01:47:57,120 --> 01:47:59,240
Speaker 2: needs you. South Malai's one hundred percent open, keep the

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Speaker 2: keep the reservations in Maui uh in twenty twenty three September, October,

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Speaker 2: November December.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I could see a lot of people once

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01:48:07,560 --> 01:48:10,040
Speaker 3: this happened, just started canceling this stuff like living.

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01:48:10,120 --> 01:48:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. And also there's a lot of social media pressure

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01:48:12,080 --> 01:48:16,840
Speaker 2: that's saying like don't fucking come here, and if you come,

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01:48:17,000 --> 01:48:19,360
Speaker 2: like people were taking people's pictures from their vacations and

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01:48:19,400 --> 01:48:21,040
Speaker 2: stuff on Instagram being like, look at this.

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Speaker 1: They went to Hawaii.

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01:48:22,520 --> 01:48:27,799
Speaker 2: This is the So I've just decided, like I I'm scared.

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01:48:28,040 --> 01:48:30,439
Speaker 2: I don't want to get roasted on the internet for

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01:48:30,560 --> 01:48:33,000
Speaker 2: going and then find out that I was part of

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01:48:33,080 --> 01:48:35,360
Speaker 2: the problem and some shit. But I just figured if

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01:48:35,439 --> 01:48:38,240
Speaker 2: I go, I just won't fucking post it online, or

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01:48:38,800 --> 01:48:40,560
Speaker 2: if I do, I'll just have to deal with.

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01:48:40,960 --> 01:48:43,080
Speaker 1: I'll post these memes like they wanted us to come.

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01:48:43,200 --> 01:48:46,759
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think also it's that you know social

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01:48:46,800 --> 01:48:49,280
Speaker 2: media religion thing where it's kind of like we need

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01:48:49,400 --> 01:48:52,040
Speaker 2: somebody to send to hell the people that went them MAUI,

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01:48:52,240 --> 01:48:54,800
Speaker 2: y'all go to hell, right, people don't like people like

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01:48:54,880 --> 01:48:57,320
Speaker 2: I saved up and booked this three years ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, y'all, we out of here at Thanks

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01:49:00,200 --> 01:49:01,439
Speaker 1: for listening. We'll talk to you later.

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Speaker 2: Until next time. Don't forget to get the live show tickets.

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01:49:05,000 --> 01:49:08,800
Speaker 2: They're in the They're right there in the show notes.

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01:49:08,960 --> 01:49:10,800
Speaker 2: Go ahead and get them, y'all. I'm gonna make a

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Speaker 2: post to day on our website about them, just and

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01:49:13,160 --> 01:49:14,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick it to the front. So you go

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01:49:14,720 --> 01:49:16,960
Speaker 2: to the blackout tips, the first thing you're gonna see

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01:49:17,000 --> 01:49:18,000
Speaker 2: is come to our live show.

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Speaker 1: So make sure y'all do that. Until next time. I

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Speaker 1: love you, I love you too.

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Speaker 4: Why