WEBVTT - Holiday Special! 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:23.680 Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk. 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:23.360 Hi. Everyone, Welcome to Mother Knows Death. I'm here with 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:27.520 Maria and we are doing a special holiday episode this week. 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:29.920 You guys ask us a lot of questions every week, 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:31.639 and we can't get to all of them, so we 0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:34.360 thought this would be a fun episode to answer a 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.600 bunch of them while we're taking a little break from 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:39.800 the news. So all right, let's kick it off with 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.440 a question I'm sure you'll love. What is one habit 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.000 each of you has that drives the other one crazy? 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:50.760 Yeah, well, I could tell you what mine is with 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:55.080 you is that you talk too loud. I constantly feel 0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:57.520 like I'm like, shut up, you're talking too loud. 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.440 I learned from the best, so I don't know what 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:01.120 to say. 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:04.080 I think I I think, I really think I have 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:07.280 like a noise, like an auditory noise thing that like 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:11.319 triggers anxiety in me. So but yeah, when we're if 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:14.760 we're like out at a restaurant or something, I just 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:16.880 feel like she talks like a hair too loud, and 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.200 I just like don't want people here in my business. 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:21.360 But it's really not that big of a deal. How 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:26.200 about me, please, it's too pitty to. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:33.480 Get I really can't even tell you off the top 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.440 of my head. If everybody doesn't know, we work together 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:40.760 like ten hours every single day, not even physically, like 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.840 we're texting the second we wake up. I'm there for 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:47.200 eight hours, and then we're texting afterwards. 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:50.480 Actually we're on the phone, and then like holiday get 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.720 togethers and of course, like we just have family dinners 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:57.960 and stuff every couple weeks, so it's like not even 0:01:58.000 --> 0:01:59.920 a break on the weekends most of the time. 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:03.200 I guess my number one thing you need that drives 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.920 me crazy is when I'm trying to get something done 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:08.959 that's time sensitive, that you're edging me on about that's 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.120 time sensitive, and then I'll ask you a question and 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.800 you won't get back to me for like an hour, 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:15.720 and I'm like, dude, I'm trying to do this. 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.760 It's because I'm thinking if I don't have that, I am. 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:22.840 I am really bad at Like if someone sends me 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:25.000 a text message and I don't know what to say 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:27.400 right away, I just don't write back and I'm like, oh, 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:29.480 I'll deal with this later, and then I don't. I'm 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:30.520 like really bad at that. 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:36.320 So sometimes if the little clips come on Instagram four 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.360 hours after the episode is up. Well, it's just because 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:42.880 I'm trying to think of something, that's all. All right, 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:46.880 our autopsis performed on holidays like Christmas or do they 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:48.400 have to wait until after. 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:53.279 So in the hospital, in the at least the pathologies 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:55.640 departments that I've ever worked at, they were closed on 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:59.480 Christmas Day, so we would add on the weekends actually too, 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:03.560 so we would only do them in extenuating circumstances on 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:08.440 the weekends or like after hours. But at the Medical 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:12.160 Examiner they're open every single day. They don't close. So yeah, 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:15.720 some autopsies are being done, just not at hospitals. 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:19.040 Oh that's interesting. I didn't realize that they were open 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:24.440 on Christmas. People die on Christmas, believe it or not. Okay, 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:28.120 is there anything to be concerned about botox filler being 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:29.960 injected into a body. 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:35.960 Like a dead body or into your body? Just yeah, 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.400 I mean I don't know. I get botox and filler, 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:43.240 so I try not to think about it because it's 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:47.600 one of the benefits out way. The risk kind of thing. 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:52.480 I don't I don't personally have not had any issues 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:56.520 with it, but I've read horror stories from medical journals 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:00.440 of issues. And the one thing I would say is 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.800 that I go to doctor Dimitri. I love him so 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:06.640 much in Morristown, New Jersey, which is what like fifteen 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:09.400 minutes outside of Philadelphia. Probably you could get there fast, 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.400 but I just love him so much because all he 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:19.240 does is that's all he does is fillers and botox, 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:23.400 and he's an expert at it. He goes to special 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:26.200 classes all the time. He's you really need to know 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:31.560 the anatomy of the face, because if you inject anywhere wrong, 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:35.000 you can give a person severe problems. And I think 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:39.040 that there's a risk with any procedure medical procedure, even 0:04:39.080 --> 0:04:41.279 if it's something as small as like a tiny injection. 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:45.120 But to decrease your risk, you have to go to 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:49.160 somebody like obviously everyone doesn't live in Philadelphia, because then 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:52.120 everybody could just go to doctor Dimitri. But you have 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:55.039 to make sure that you go to someone that isn't 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:57.080 just like your family doctor that learned how to start 0:04:57.080 --> 0:05:00.960 doing botox. It's like someone that is it's their passion 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:03.240 and their life, and they are well versed in anatomy 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.440 and all of the different products, and they know what 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:09.000 they're doing. That's all I could recommend. I do know 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.760 that some of them carry side effects, but you just 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.440 have to read the pamphlet and make sure you're not 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:17.600 on certain medications or have underlying health conditions. 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:23.279 Okay, our suicide's more common during the holidays. 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:26.599 I I don't know. I don't work at the Medical 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:29.680 Examiner's office, so and when I did my internship there, 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:33.040 I wasn't there during the holiday time. I've heard that 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:38.440 that's not necessarily true. You know how they say there's 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:43.279 the most domestic abuse calls on Super Bowl Sunday. There's 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:46.480 like all these little things people say. I just I 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:49.640 heard It's not true. There's I mean, unfortunately, there's lots 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.280 of suicides every day. That's that's all I could say. 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:57.800 Do we dream about death? If so, how frequent and 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:03.600 realistic or not? I would say almost never. 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:08.920 I had. I've had a couple bad dreams really about 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:12.239 like Gabe at work. Honestly, that's happened a couple of times. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.280 But and I don't know. I don't even think that 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:19.640 that's triggered by anything that we either talk about on 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.359 the podcast or just like what I've seen in real life. 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:26.680 More just like real life unfortunately real life situations where 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:31.360 people that we either know or we know through friends 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:35.080 that have firefighters that have died in the line of duty. 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:37.479 It is always something on the back of my mind. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:40.000 It's not frequent though, it's just like a couple of times. 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:45.800 But other than that, No, I don't, I don't do you. 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:50.160 No. I have really crazy dreams all the time, but 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:53.200 never really about dying. I'll have ones that people get 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:55.560 hurt in my life where I get hurt, but nothing 0:06:56.880 --> 0:07:02.240 like they's so there's so like fantasy base fantasy, I 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:05.360 mean like fictional base that like they're so outlandish that 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.840 they couldn't be real. So when I wake up, I'm 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.320 able to like get out of it pretty quick, even 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:11.320 if it's really disturbing. 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:13.640 Momm probably my mom, So let me tell you about 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:16.920 my mom. She like she's so annoying with her dreams. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:20.440 She'll just call and say, I have the craziest dream 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:24.080 and then she goes on this like one hour story 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.480 about all this shit that would just never happen, And 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.560 I'm like, what is the point of you telling me 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.200 this right now? Like it's all the time that I 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:32.880 was like, Mom, I don't want to hear about your 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:34.720 dreams anymore, like write them down and make a book 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.600 or something like nobody cares. 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:41.160 It's one of those topics that I think, like, I 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:44.680 personally hate hearing about people's horoscopes. I don't care. I 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:47.160 don't care what the moon the lines like. I'm sorry, 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:50.440 I can't get into it. I know everybody thinks I'm 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:52.040 into it. I don't want to hear about it. I 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:53.680 don't care what time I was born and with the 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:57.320 sun whatever it's dreams are I feel in that category 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:59.720 two of just like things people when you start telling 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:01.560 somebody else about a dream you had, they're like. 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:05.760 Oh, yeah, exactly. Now when the kids tell me their dreams. 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:07.760 I love when the kids tell me their dreams because 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.880 I could I do like disacting like a dream and 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:14.520 and hearing like when the kids just say all this, 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.360 like really outrageous stuff, I'm like, oh, well, you can 0:08:17.400 --> 0:08:19.800 attribute that to when we talked about this the other 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.200 day and this when we talked about this the other day. 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.400 Because I feel like, if you do have bad dreams, 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.400 it almost kind of freaks you out that you had 0:08:27.440 --> 0:08:29.720 such like sick thoughts while you were sleeping, but you 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:33.079 always I feel like you could always look back and say, 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.640 like that little piece came from that, and that little 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:38.680 piece came from that. Like usually these things don't come 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:41.600 out up out of the blue. They're just like very scattered. 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:44.240 So I do like it with the children because I 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.800 do like explaining it to them. I think it helps 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:48.079 them like not be as scared. 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:55.360 Yeah, all right, what's our favorite episode of The Nanny? Oh? 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:59.360 God, this is so this is so hard for me 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:03.480 to pick too, because I just love like every episode. 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.200 I actually like need to start watching that again. It's 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:06.880 just so good. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.880 I love when the episode when she's on Jeopardy. I 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:13.480 love the episode where she meets Barbara Streisan because that's 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.920 how I imagine I would feel if I met her. H Well, 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:19.560 she doesn't even really formally meet her because she's supposed 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:22.080 to go to the concert, but then she sends Cecie 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.079 with her dad to go to the concert, but then 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:27.280 Barbara calls her on the phone. Who would you. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:29.640 Say your favorite character on The Nanny is? 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:36.280 I mean Fran but side character Niles the Butler. Definitely, 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:37.559 he's so hilarious. 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:40.000 I know I was actually gonna say Niles too. I 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:43.120 think that he's he's so funny and on point with 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:46.599 the insults, and it's just it's such a kind of 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:47.720 such a well written show. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:52.120 I kind of hate the kids, honestly, foot I don't 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:53.240 I hate them. 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.040 I just don't. I don't really like. No, I don't. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.400 I don't mind them as much some some shows I 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.719 really like can't stand the kids. And you know who 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:03.720 I like. The kid that I don't like is the 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:07.000 kid in the Elf movie. I just think he and 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.480 I don't not like him as a person. I just 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:13.480 think that he wasn't it was. It's the only role 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.480 in the whole movie that I'm kind of like, Eh, 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:18.960 I don't know if I'm feeling it, but I think 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:20.600 I think it's good because they're supposed to be like 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:23.840 spoiled rich kids, right like and and well, let's not 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:26.520 forget the best character, which is Grandma. Yea, yeah, Grandma. 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:29.760 Yet it is is like she really is the best, 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:31.920 Like the whole the whole thing is just is just 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:37.000 really and and the mom her mom, what's her aim? 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:39.720 I kid? Why can't I even think of Sylvia? Yeah? Like, 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:43.200 it's just it's just such a well written show. 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:45.720 I love it so fun. Fact, a couple of years 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:49.440 ago I saw this comedy special that Fran Dresher was 0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:51.959 part of in New York that got taped, called Women 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.880 of a Certain Age, And I didn't even know it 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:56.680 was getting taped. I just saw she was coming and 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.040 it was affordable, so I was like, I'm going to 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.840 New York for the day see her. And I was 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:05.560 sitting right behind Renee Taylor, who plays Sylvia Fine, and 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.520 she is even more fabulous in person, So that was 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:09.880 a really cool moment for me. 0:11:10.160 --> 0:11:14.200 Yeah, she They're just so great. All right, what's next? 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:17.560 Where can I send pics of pathology to submit for 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:18.280 your page? 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:20.440 What's what's the email? 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:24.120 Nicole at her email that she doesn't know is Nicole 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:25.839 at the Coal at the door? Modern? 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:30.080 Sorry? It well, it goes right to my phone and 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.760 I don't I don't use it like that, So it 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:36.280 goes to my phone and said she's the tech guy, 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:39.520 but yeah, send send me stuff there. It goes right 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:43.360 to my phone. I could see it and if it's 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:45.920 something that we could use, we'll definitely use that. I 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.360 use users submitted things all the time, So please and 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:54.040 send us news stories too if if you're interested, if 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.720 you see something that happens during the week. My mom 0:11:56.800 --> 0:12:01.360 sends me. She mo, Mom sent three stories this week, 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:04.559 and I'm like, I got it already, Mom, She's so many. 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.200 She loves when we like don't have something, and I'm like, 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:08.120 we're on. 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:10.559 She did come through with the monkey story. The monkey 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:18.360 story was good. What's your favorite Christmas song song? Well, 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:20.640 you think my favorites? We need a Little Christmas by 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:24.360 Johnny Mathis. I feel like it's sounds like during that 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:26.839 time in like the fifties and sixties when they were 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:29.520 all the crazy pills and like I just imagine them 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:34.120 like being like no that yeah, dancing around like all 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:37.000 amped up on whatever pills they were giving everybody back then, 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.240 and he just sounds like so crazy. And I just 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:41.640 think of the behind the scenes of making that song, 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:44.920 and for some reason, it makes me really think it's fun. 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:47.440 I can't even I'm not accusing him of being on pills. 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:51.800 I'm just saying, no, it is like it It really is, 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:56.560 like it's really grand. Yes, I don't know, like I 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.160 have this right now. I have this whole station setup 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:02.160 that plays like all the older songs, which I prefer 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:06.040 anything by, Like I love Andy Williams so much, so 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.839 all of his songs and then I am kind of 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:11.960 a sucker for like the old religious songs. I really 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:14.560 like them, like Noel and stuff like that. 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.880 Oh, I like like I love Noel and. 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:21.720 Like obviously I think and the new the newest song 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:24.520 that I like is like the Mariah Carey song, which 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.440 isn't even new. I think it came out when like 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:27.520 right when you were born. 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.320 I came out like twenty years ago. 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:31.960 Yeah, but that I don't like. My kids were trying 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.559 to get me to listen to did you hear that song? 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:37.440 They were like obsessed with about a snowman or something 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:41.559 or snowball, and and they kept saying that we listen 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.239 to it. They want to listen to Tayler. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:47.480 Swift, and I'm like, you need to influence their musical 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:50.440 taste more and put on Harry Connick Junior's Christmas album 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.079 because that was the pinnacle day. 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.800 They're just not They want to listen to Taylor Swift 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:56.800 like all the time, and I'm just kind of like, 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:01.520 and I don't. I don't like hate her or her music. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.760 I just like I'm not I'm not into it. Like 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:05.640 I just I like what I like. And I'm an 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:08.320 old lady and I like the old stuff and that 0:14:08.400 --> 0:14:10.400 King cold too, don't forget about it. 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:13.960 And that King yeah is great. Who's your favorite historical 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:18.640 figure that's died. I guess that we've covered, Oh for 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:21.760 like a celebrity death to section, well, not a celebrity 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:24.240 like I would blanket it as like for me, I 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:27.040 would say Marie Antoinette because I think her story is 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:29.880 really interesting behind it with the revolution and the beheading 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.560 and then get into the wax Museum and all of that. 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.200 Yeah, that was a really cool one. Marie Currey was 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:36.080 a really good one. 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:38.680 God, oh yeah, that one was really cool. 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:40.720 Yeah, we do so many of them that you're that 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.120 and I love of course, I love the Marie Currey 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:46.960 woe because she was just like a pioneer scientist when 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:50.040 women weren't doing that kind of stuff. So I love that. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:53.200 And I love that about Marie Antoinette when we were 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:57.400 learning about Madame Tusseau and her whole story was super 0:14:57.400 --> 0:15:01.480 cool too. It's just cool to I think, like in 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.880 a time where women were usually not doing anything that 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.480 they were doing this like really huge stuff. I just 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:08.840 like love stories like that. 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:12.400 No, Marie Currey was cool, and at that time we 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:14.920 were reading the Radium Girls for the Gross Room Book 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:18.480 Club and that that really opened my eyes to toxic 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:22.680 chemicals and everything. So that was definitely really interesting to see. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:26.360 And not to mention, she's just total badass lady, super cool. 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:29.920 Oh yeah, and What the Radio Girls was such a 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:31.640 good book. You guys have to read that if you 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:33.600 haven't read it. It's so interesting. 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:38.000 Yeah, it's long, but it's worth every second. I did 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:39.880 the audiobook and it was so good. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.200 Yeah, it was so so good. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:41.760 I did too. 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:44.840 I was gardening out back all summer and listening to 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:47.440 the book. It was great. And then then after you 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.200 listen to that book, then you want to read our 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:54.360 High Profile or Celebrity Death dissection on Marie Currie and 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.280 it just kind of all goes together and it's just 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.160 so good. 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:01.080 Okay, tips for a shadow a pathologist. 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:08.320 So things are weird now because of hip strong hippa 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:13.120 on top of COVID. Hospitals have changed a lot, and 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.840 I don't really know exactly how things are, but it's 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:18.480 just like things that I'm hearing how hard it is 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:23.320 now to shadow. My only suggestion to you would be 0:16:23.440 --> 0:16:28.840 to call a pathology department at a hospital near you. 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:30.720 Maybe you want to try, like a smaller one that 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:34.040 doesn't have as much going on, because you might be 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:39.040 more likely to be allowed to go and see if 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:40.840 there's a way that you can go in there and 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:45.480 shadow a pathologist for the day. You'll usually get a 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:49.040 hold of like a secretary and just say, Hey, I'm 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:52.920 in school for pathology or I'm in doing my prerequisites 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:56.240 for pathology, and I really wanted to know if I 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:59.320 could come in and look at the watch the pathologists 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:04.560 work for a couple hours the whole like I want 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:07.000 to go see an autopsy. Thing is just something that 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:10.119 you just have to have, like be happy if you 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:14.920 stumble across it, because like a lot of people would say, oh, 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.040 I want to come schedule a day to come see 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:19.240 an autopsy, and I would say, well, like I can't. 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:22.000 I can't predict when someone's going to die, so I 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:25.240 don't know like we would have sometimes we wouldn't have 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:28.400 an autopsy for a whole entire week at the hospital, 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:30.280 and then other times we had two a day the 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:33.119 whole week. Like it's just you couldn't predict it or 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:37.280 schedule it. So if you do go follow there's always 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:39.639 surgical pathology every day. You could always look at them 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:42.960 dissecting something and then maybe there'll be an autopsy too 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.960 that you could so happen to get in on. 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:50.760 So do you have to be in school to be 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:54.280 access to be granted access for that or could it 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:56.920 like a regular person interested in pursuing the field that's 0:17:56.920 --> 0:17:58.040 not yet, we'll do it. 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:03.800 I feel like I would say no. I feel like 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:06.320 like back in the day when I first started, it 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:08.800 would even be sketchy to just let someone come in 0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:11.560 and see an autopsy just because they wanted to, Because 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:14.520 you have to think, like that person's a patient at 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:18.040 the hospital and there's like charts that we have laying 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:21.199 around and they're they're names written on the specimen containers 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:22.479 and the toe tags and stuff. 0:18:22.480 --> 0:18:23.040 So it's like. 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:29.240 There's hippo concerns. I know at some hospitals. I hear 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:31.560 they don't even let nurses that work at that hospital 0:18:31.560 --> 0:18:33.879 look at an autopsy, which is insane to me. 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:37.200 But it's like, yeah, that doesn't seem like it should 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.880 be right. It doesn't, but they're doing their education. They 0:18:39.960 --> 0:18:44.600 just their hospitals get scared so and you know what 0:18:44.600 --> 0:18:46.600 I mean, So they just they're just trying to cover 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:50.440 their ass. So I feel like a smaller community hospital 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:52.480 might be a little bit of a better bet because 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:55.000 they might not be so they might be a little 0:18:55.000 --> 0:19:01.000 bit more lenient. Okay, next, did I teach myself to embroider? 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:05.480 And the answer is yes. I started crocheting first because 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:09.920 I went through a summer of I took the kid's 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:12.960 Nintendo switch because they weren't using it, and then I 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:16.040 was playing Animal Crossing all summer, and my headaches were 0:19:16.080 --> 0:19:18.760 really bad because I was going from staring at my 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:20.879 phone in the morning to working on a computer all 0:19:20.960 --> 0:19:23.320 day to then staring at a Nintendo switch all night 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:26.800 long and was becoming a vegetable. So I was like, 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:31.240 I need a hobby that's not with working on a 0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:33.640 screen and I could just kind of sit there mindlessly 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.440 do it. So at first I started to teaching myself 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:37.800 to crochet, but my brain just really doesn't work that 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:40.720 way and I could barely get like an oven. 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:44.040 Which is funny because so we just did our my 0:19:44.160 --> 0:19:48.159 dad's side of the family Christmas party last weekend and 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:50.320 we do like a Pollyanna between all of us. It's 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:54.240 really fun. And Maria got a crocheted blanket that my 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:58.760 aunt Harry Made who's almost eighty years old, right or 0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:02.399 she is eighty years old. She turned yeah, and she 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:05.639 made like she's like whips out blankets like it's nothing 0:20:05.720 --> 0:20:08.080 like and she she I'm talking to her about it 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:10.440 in the bathroom and she's like, I only do one 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:12.920 or two stitches, and I was like, dude, You've made 0:20:12.960 --> 0:20:16.439 a whole blanket like really fast. I was trying to 0:20:16.440 --> 0:20:18.520 teach the kids how to do like one little line, 0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:21.520 and it's it's just like not easy to do if 0:20:21.560 --> 0:20:22.760 you're green in mind. 0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:26.359 Can't do you know? Yeah, I just I couldn't do it. 0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:28.640 I tried a bunch of different things, and my friend 0:20:28.720 --> 0:20:31.960 Julia is really amazing at it, and she also will 0:20:32.000 --> 0:20:33.919 sit there and just whip something out while with her 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:36.360 and her husband or driving or something or just when 0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:39.160 they're watching TV. I just can't do it. So then 0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:43.960 I I thought to do well. Julia actually suggested that 0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:48.800 I do the embroidery needle point. So I started off 0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:51.399 by getting a couple of kits off of Amazon that 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:53.480 were really easy, and then I like worked my way 0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:57.480 up and since Christmas is coming up and I've been 0:20:57.480 --> 0:21:01.560 making everybody presence, I've been going off and like doing 0:21:01.640 --> 0:21:05.160 my I actually just finished my first really big design, 0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:08.879 So after Christmas is over, which will be when this 0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:11.119 episode is out, I will be posting all of the 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:13.280 embroiders have been working on for the last three months, 0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:15.760