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Speaker 4: I love it.
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Speaker 2: questionable relationship advice.
Speaker 4: Second Date up Date.
Speaker 5: We all want to hit redo sometimes in life. Oh yeah,
Speaker 5: like Alexis wants to hit redo on her eyebrows.
Speaker 4: Sorry, I want her to.
Speaker 1: Redo the stereot controls these.
Speaker 4: No, I haven't told you that yet, have I?
Speaker 2: Alexis, No jeff for doing that right now?
Speaker 4: I have a plan, don't worry. We'll talk about that later.
Speaker 6: Though.
Speaker 5: What about when it comes to an awkward situation that
Speaker 5: happens during a good date and you don't want to
Speaker 5: redo the whole night, just redo that awkward moment. Yeah,
Speaker 5: that's why Scott emailed us for help. And Scott, I
Speaker 5: know you and I have talked about Alexis's eyebrows, but
Speaker 5: let's not focus on.
Speaker 4: That right now. All right, We're just here to talk
Speaker 4: about your date.
Speaker 3: No idea, bro, talk was going like that these days.
Speaker 5: Let's talk about your date, Scott. Who's the girl that
Speaker 5: you went out with?
Speaker 6: Okay, her name is Erica?
Speaker 4: Okay, normal eyebrows?
Speaker 6: No, not at all.
Speaker 1: Exceptional.
Speaker 4: I was hoping you had like crazy brows. So what
Speaker 4: did you and Erica do for your date?
Speaker 6: Well? We met online and we went to dinner. Okay,
Speaker 6: nice place. Everything's going great. I go to wash my
Speaker 6: hands and I came out and I had like a
Speaker 6: napkin slash paper towel in between my flying like it
Speaker 6: was just.
Speaker 2: Hanging Wait, wait in your pants.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I poking out the zipper.
Speaker 2: Wait, do guys wipe that?
Speaker 5: No his lap because he's a gentleman at dinner, and
Speaker 5: then it got caught in the zipper.
Speaker 1: You're a super.
Speaker 6: It was a nice restaurant, so they don't have like
Speaker 6: paper towels. They have a nice linen type thing. So
Speaker 6: after I washed my hands, I have it in my
Speaker 6: hand and I noticed my fly was still down, so
Speaker 6: I dipped it up and I just walked out.
Speaker 4: And it was ducked in there.
Speaker 6: Okay it was And I just walked out, didn't even
Speaker 6: know it. And I'm about halfway and I see her
Speaker 6: face look at me and then look down and then
Speaker 6: look back at me.
Speaker 4: He's about to show me the most inappropriate magic.
Speaker 3: Either that or you're feeling real confident at that point.
Speaker 1: Oh you could see it.
Speaker 6: Wow, I did that thing where you turn around because
Speaker 6: obviously she's looking at something else. Yeah, And I was
Speaker 6: like what And then I looked down. Oh, and I
Speaker 6: see it, And what do you do? I should have
Speaker 6: turned around, just pulled it out.
Speaker 5: No, don't pull it, yeah, pull it out of the zipper,
Speaker 5: like it can't be that hard.
Speaker 1: What did you do?
Speaker 6: Here's what popped into my stupid brain. I thought, why
Speaker 6: don't we pull it out like a magician? Just keep
Speaker 6: being keeping and pulled it out like.
Speaker 4: One of those never ending scarves up your sleeves.
Speaker 6: I love.
Speaker 1: Huh, that's interesting.
Speaker 4: Was she impressed?
Speaker 6: She started laughing.
Speaker 1: Maybe you knew your audience, you know.
Speaker 6: I think she thinks that I did the napkin thing
Speaker 6: on purpose to be funny, But yeah, I did not,
Speaker 6: but I totally went with it. And I'm like, all right,
Speaker 6: let's go with that.
Speaker 4: Yes, it's hilarious when it comes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you painted this like it was this horrible moment,
Speaker 3: but actually it looked like it worked to your benefit
Speaker 3: on the date.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not done yet.
Speaker 5: Oh those are more embarrassing things.
Speaker 6: So I invited her back to my place, Okay, okay,
Speaker 6: and she says yes, I'm like sweet, I opened the
Speaker 6: door and standing there is my dad.
Speaker 4: Oh at your place?
Speaker 6: At my place?
Speaker 4: Do you liars?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Why is your dad inside your apartment?
Speaker 6: He just came over. He didn't tell me. You just
Speaker 6: wanted to come over, okay.
Speaker 3: Key, No, Obviously she's not gonna believe that it's your house.
Speaker 3: She's gonna think unless it's like a one bedroom apartment.
Speaker 6: No, I've got her two bedrooms. So I was like, dad,
Speaker 6: what are you doing here? And he's I just wanted
Speaker 6: to come vivid Ooh she's pretty. Who's this?
Speaker 5: Hope?
Speaker 4: I'm not ruined in your game?
Speaker 6: Son.
Speaker 4: What was Erica's reaction?
Speaker 6: Could you read that she was a little uncomfortable, like
Speaker 6: hot high?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, she'd be shocked.
Speaker 3: I mean she could obviously sense how shocked you were, though.
Speaker 6: Too, right, Yeah, I hope.
Speaker 4: So.
Speaker 6: And at one point I decided, all right, let me
Speaker 6: get some drinks. Maybe I can eat the pain. And
Speaker 6: here he's going to leave soon. So I left them
Speaker 6: alone for I don't know five minutes. They were talking okay,
Speaker 6: And I came back and her vibe was completely different.
Speaker 4: She's already meeting the parents.
Speaker 6: So much.
Speaker 3: It's your dad one of those dads that is like
Speaker 3: super embarrassing, likes to tell horrible stories about you.
Speaker 6: Yes, he's the quintessential dad joke. Dad, Now we know
Speaker 6: where you got.
Speaker 4: The napkin trick.
Speaker 2: Idea apple and tree there?
Speaker 4: How did you and Erica and your dad leave things?
Speaker 6: So I'm trying to give him a right, Dad, good
Speaker 6: to see you, Good to see you. He just plops
Speaker 6: down on the couch. It's like, all right, let's watch
Speaker 6: a movie.
Speaker 2: Do you see I made two drinks dad.
Speaker 6: Erica just like you know what I've got an early morning. Yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm going to take off.
Speaker 1: I mean, you can't blame her.
Speaker 4: I'm sure you wanted to leave too.
Speaker 6: Oh I did? And so I start walking around and
Speaker 6: he goes, no, we're about to watch Harry Potter come back.
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, that would have worked on me, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get a chance to apologize?
Speaker 6: But I have not heard from her since?
Speaker 1: Okay, that's hard, dad, hill to climb up.
Speaker 5: Up now, I see why you would want to redo
Speaker 5: a few of those moments from the night, and we
Speaker 5: can't really redo them, but we can at least try
Speaker 5: and get you a redo on a second date.
Speaker 4: So we're gonna play a song. We'll come back.
Speaker 1: Will you kind to call his dad?
Speaker 3: Two?
Speaker 1: Three waymen.
Speaker 5: I think we've dealt with enough embarrassing moments, all right,
Speaker 5: let's just try and focus on some positives.
Speaker 4: We'll call Erica and try and get your second date.
Speaker 4: Updates after this second date update.
Speaker 5: The surprise, Dad, that's not just the name of my
Speaker 5: go to move for my bingo dates, it's what actually
Speaker 5: happened to one of our listeners, Scott recently during his
Speaker 5: first date with Erica. Yeah, because they went back to
Speaker 5: his place at the end of the night, and who
Speaker 5: was waiting there inside the door but his old pop
Speaker 5: ready to crack a Bruski and watch some Harry Potter
Speaker 5: with his boy.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So obviously that.
Speaker 5: Situation put a damper on the romance, and ever since,
Speaker 5: Erica is not responding when Scott reaches out hoping to
Speaker 5: get another date. So we're going to step in kind
Speaker 5: of like his dad did, try and get that second
Speaker 5: date for him.
Speaker 4: Scott feeling ready for this?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was a painful recap. Scott, how are
Speaker 1: you feeling.
Speaker 6: I'm I'm hopeful.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, but.
Speaker 6: A little nervous.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, all of this.
Speaker 3: Was out of your control. I think anyone would be
Speaker 3: empathetic of that. You know, we all have cringe worthy parents.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, and before we call her, Scott, you said
Speaker 5: that you noticed Erica was talking to your dad for
Speaker 5: a few minutes while you were in the other room.
Speaker 4: Did you ever ask your dad what he said to her?
Speaker 6: I did. I was like, Hey, what what happened to you?
Speaker 6: I don't know, we just made some small Oh.
Speaker 1: And you just took that advice value?
Speaker 4: Oh god.
Speaker 5: I mean, there's no way that your dad would ever
Speaker 5: swoop in on your dates.
Speaker 3: No. I thought he was just gonna tell like a
Speaker 3: terrible story about like how he got stood up on
Speaker 3: prom or.
Speaker 5: Something like that, or maybe he asked her like if
Speaker 5: she was in gryffindor Slytherine. I mean, let's just call
Speaker 5: Erica and find out what happened. We're going to dial
Speaker 5: the number right now and see what she has to say.
Speaker 4: Let's do this. You ready, Scott.
Speaker 6: All right, let's do this for better or for worse.
Speaker 4: All Right, here we go. He Hey, is this Erica?
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is jeff from the radio show Brook and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the Morning. We're looking for the biggest Harry
Speaker 5: Potter fans in the area.
Speaker 4: You a potterhead?
Speaker 7: Oh God, I like it, But I'm not like a
Speaker 7: crazy Wait what is this about?
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, It's not about that.
Speaker 4: That's just a side question.
Speaker 5: The real question that we want to ask about is
Speaker 5: your date the other night with a guy named Scott.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean that's okay.
Speaker 2: It's probably a hard date to forget.
Speaker 4: We're doing something called a second date update.
Speaker 5: We're trying to help Scott figure out what went wrong
Speaker 5: when you two hung out together.
Speaker 3: And to be fair, Scott definitely has some ideas of
Speaker 3: what it.
Speaker 5: Or maybe nothing went wrong and it's something totally unrelated
Speaker 5: to that night.
Speaker 4: We can focus on what went right. I heard he
Speaker 4: made you laugh.
Speaker 7: I'm not understanding the second date thing, like he was
Speaker 7: just wanting to know my story.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because Scott told us his version of the story
Speaker 5: and he knows that afterwards you haven't been responding to him,
Speaker 5: and he's just trying to figure out the reason why.
Speaker 7: I don't know how much he told you.
Speaker 4: He told us about a little napkin trick that he
Speaker 4: showed you.
Speaker 1: And that you thought was funny.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was pretty risky, Like I don't know how
Speaker 7: if he knew that, I would laugh, Like you know,
Speaker 7: he came out in the bathroom with like a tissue
Speaker 7: and a zipper.
Speaker 2: But the risk paid off, right, great reward.
Speaker 7: I thought it was hilarious and like, I really really
Speaker 7: like funny guys.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'm going to fast forward from dinner to
Speaker 5: Scott's house. What was your reaction when you saw his
Speaker 5: dad was waking, Yeah, this is what.
Speaker 1: I want to go because we heard that you can
Speaker 1: be honest.
Speaker 7: Well, so originally when I said I go back to
Speaker 7: his place, like I actually was totally open to hook
Speaker 7: up with him.
Speaker 1: But that's gonna hurt even more.
Speaker 7: When he opened the door and his dad was there,
Speaker 7: Oh my god, I can't tell you how awkward that was.
Speaker 6: I bet. Yeah.
Speaker 7: The worst part is I knew his dad.
Speaker 1: Wait, what his dad?
Speaker 4: You're his daughter from another secret family.
Speaker 5: When we tell Scott that his dad has another family,
Speaker 5: let her talk?
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: He knows you knew his dad.
Speaker 7: He's my gynecologist, is your special doctor. So he clearly
Speaker 7: recognized me, and like, I you can't, like I had
Speaker 7: just got in like a couple of months ago.
Speaker 3: Good news, he recognized your face and not. But he's
Speaker 3: a professional. I mean, like, come on, this guy's a doctor.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: It's like the super awkward thing you like, all casual,
Speaker 7: just like good to see you.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be worse if you have to go in
Speaker 2: for an STD after.
Speaker 7: Oh my god. No, I'm trying my best. And at
Speaker 7: one point, like I just asked Scott to get me
Speaker 7: a drink, and like I talked to the dad and
Speaker 7: he's like, don't worry, it's patient confidentiality. And I just
Speaker 7: asked him, like if he could help me get out
Speaker 7: of the situation, if you can just say, like, hey, Scott,
Speaker 7: let's watch a movie so I can just leave. Way
Speaker 7: too awkward.
Speaker 5: I guess dad wasn't as clueless as we thought he was.
Speaker 4: He was actually trying to help her out.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so hard.
Speaker 5: I guess the really clueless person is probably Scott, who
Speaker 5: we should let you know where Erica is on the
Speaker 5: other line listening right now and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7: Wait wait, wait what Scott's there?
Speaker 4: Thank Scott, what you're going on right now?
Speaker 7: Oh my god?
Speaker 2: Why couldn't your dad have been a Dennis?
Speaker 6: Oh god, Oh my god. Like I'm mortified. But honestly, Erica,
Speaker 6: I'm kind of I'm very mortified for you. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: One of the chances, it was really really weird because
Speaker 3: like I said, i'd been there a couple of months ago,
Speaker 3: and like he's been my gynecologist for a while now,
Speaker 3: so like he.
Speaker 6: Knows me, he knows you. I know, I know he
Speaker 6: really knows you. I know.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, Scott, this is a random question, but I
Speaker 5: think I might also know your dad.
Speaker 4: Does he go by doctor Butterball? Is that not him?
Speaker 1: You are not?
Speaker 5: Okay if you're looking for somebody new, Butterball is your guy.
Speaker 3: So honestly, like I went and saw a gynecologist once
Speaker 3: who during the exam was like, so I listened to
Speaker 3: your radio show all the time.
Speaker 2: And he was trying to, like, you know, make small talk.
Speaker 2: But it's just I.
Speaker 3: Need step lives there, and I assume you need separate
Speaker 3: lives when it comes to dating and your you guy,
Speaker 3: I know absolutely.
Speaker 5: Maybe it's only fair Scott if you visit her father's proctologist,
Speaker 5: and then you could be.
Speaker 6: Okay. I know you guys are laughing about this, but
Speaker 6: I'm in shock at how coincidental this is.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like, Erica, maybe you should have at
Speaker 5: least hinted to Scott like something was up, told him something.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put this on her.
Speaker 7: I mean, like, what was I going to say, like,
Speaker 7: your dad's seen my ancles and stirrups.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's what every woman has to do.
Speaker 7: But if it's any consolation, he said he'd give you
Speaker 7: the green lights. You mean, I don't know what that means, Like,
Speaker 7: you have to ask your dad, Scott.
Speaker 1: Whoa that just got creepy. You need to switch your
Speaker 1: guind of college? Was weird?
Speaker 5: See it as a good thing? Yeah, Dad gives the
Speaker 5: thumbs up approval.
Speaker 6: No, I.
Speaker 4: Don't do any whatever whatever finger he approves.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying it sounds like maybe there's a chance here,
Speaker 5: And the only way to know is to ask Eric
Speaker 5: would you like, let's see, Erica, would you like to
Speaker 5: go out one more time with Scott?
Speaker 4: We'd pay for it, said, We've never said.
Speaker 7: This I mean, I did really like him, but dude,
Speaker 7: go out with him.
Speaker 2: Dump the doctor, get your doctor.
Speaker 7: I could get a new doctor, and like the green
Speaker 7: point thing. Maybe it just means I don't have any
Speaker 7: SuDS or anything.
Speaker 2: No, girl, No, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 7: I really want to, but I don't think it's the
Speaker 7: best idea.
Speaker 4: Scott, I mean, how do you how do you feel
Speaker 4: about that? Hearing that?
Speaker 6: I gona be honest, this is the one time in
Speaker 6: my life that I am one hundred percent so happy
Speaker 6: that she said no, Well it worked.
Speaker 5: I know you saw you saw Erica and your dad whispering.
Speaker 5: Were you able to read her lips?
Speaker 4: Is that not good?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna hang up. Is that okay?
Speaker 5: Hold on before you go, doctor Butterball is on the
Speaker 5: other line, and.
Speaker 7: But like, yeah, I was talking to you.
Speaker 6: I guess.
Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: I definitely think the most interesting part of that entire
Speaker 5: call was learning that the dad was actually trying to
Speaker 5: help her get out of the situation.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Thoughts being.
Speaker 5: Super clueless didn't know what was going on, he knew
Speaker 5: everything and was just trying to get out of the situation.
Speaker 1: But you stop saying he knew everything, seen it all. Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: For me, it's like, if he was a real professional,
Speaker 3: he would have just been upfront about the situation instead
Speaker 3: of trying to sneak her out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that sounds like that would have been more awkward.
Speaker 2: It's a really awkward como. But that's your business man.
Speaker 3: Like, I don't think that it's awkward to you if
Speaker 3: you're a gynecologist.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I think he's a good guy. I'm curious, like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I think she still needs to not go on the
Speaker 2: date and also switch her down.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to go with both on that one.
Speaker 5: I'm curious if your dad was a gynecologist, is that
Speaker 5: something that you would be comfortable with.
Speaker 1: My husband's grandfather was a gynecologist.
Speaker 3: You go to your husband's grandfathers were saying, but if
Speaker 3: he wanted to, you know, it doesn't bother me that
Speaker 3: that's his profession.
Speaker 1: No, see my own father gross.
Speaker 4: Whatever.
Speaker 5: Fine, Okay, I'm not going to go into it, but
Speaker 5: this is but let's talk about dating again. If you
Speaker 5: have a day that you went on that didn't go
Speaker 5: the way you planned, you can always email the show.
Speaker 5: We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,