WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Read My Lips

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<v Speaker 1>A you found the Second Date podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Finally, it's pretty easy, actually, thanks for being herese I

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<v Speaker 3>love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>And hey, just a reminder if you want to endure

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<v Speaker 3>or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got

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<v Speaker 3>a full show.

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<v Speaker 2>Who I dare you to try it at the Brook

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey Feed. But for now, we'll get into some

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<v Speaker 2>questionable relationship advice.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date up Date.

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<v Speaker 5>We all want to hit redo sometimes in life. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like Alexis wants to hit redo on her eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, I want her to.

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<v Speaker 1>Redo the stereot controls these.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I haven't told you that yet, have I?

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<v Speaker 2>Alexis, No jeff for doing that right now?

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<v Speaker 4>I have a plan, don't worry. We'll talk about that later.

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<v Speaker 6>Though.

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<v Speaker 5>What about when it comes to an awkward situation that

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<v Speaker 5>happens during a good date and you don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>redo the whole night, just redo that awkward moment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>that's why Scott emailed us for help. And Scott, I

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<v Speaker 5>know you and I have talked about Alexis's eyebrows, but

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<v Speaker 5>let's not focus on.

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<v Speaker 4>That right now. All right, We're just here to talk

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<v Speaker 4>about your date.

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<v Speaker 3>No idea, bro, talk was going like that these days.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's talk about your date, Scott. Who's the girl that

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<v Speaker 5>you went out with?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, her name is Erica?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, normal eyebrows?

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<v Speaker 6>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Exceptional.

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<v Speaker 4>I was hoping you had like crazy brows. So what

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<v Speaker 4>did you and Erica do for your date?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? We met online and we went to dinner. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>nice place. Everything's going great. I go to wash my

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<v Speaker 6>hands and I came out and I had like a

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<v Speaker 6>napkin slash paper towel in between my flying like it

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<v Speaker 6>was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Hanging Wait, wait in your pants.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I poking out the zipper.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, do guys wipe that?

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<v Speaker 5>No his lap because he's a gentleman at dinner, and

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<v Speaker 5>then it got caught in the zipper.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a super.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a nice restaurant, so they don't have like

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<v Speaker 6>paper towels. They have a nice linen type thing. So

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<v Speaker 6>after I washed my hands, I have it in my

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<v Speaker 6>hand and I noticed my fly was still down, so

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<v Speaker 6>I dipped it up and I just walked out.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was ducked in there.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay it was And I just walked out, didn't even

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<v Speaker 6>know it. And I'm about halfway and I see her

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<v Speaker 6>face look at me and then look down and then

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<v Speaker 6>look back at me.

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<v Speaker 4>He's about to show me the most inappropriate magic.

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<v Speaker 3>Either that or you're feeling real confident at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you could see it.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, I did that thing where you turn around because

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<v Speaker 6>obviously she's looking at something else. Yeah, And I was

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<v Speaker 6>like what And then I looked down. Oh, and I

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<v Speaker 6>see it, And what do you do? I should have

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<v Speaker 6>turned around, just pulled it out.

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<v Speaker 5>No, don't pull it, yeah, pull it out of the zipper,

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<v Speaker 5>like it can't be that hard.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 6>Here's what popped into my stupid brain. I thought, why

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<v Speaker 6>don't we pull it out like a magician? Just keep

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<v Speaker 6>being keeping and pulled it out like.

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<v Speaker 4>One of those never ending scarves up your sleeves.

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<v Speaker 6>I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Was she impressed?

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<v Speaker 6>She started laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you knew your audience, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think she thinks that I did the napkin thing

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<v Speaker 6>on purpose to be funny, But yeah, I did not,

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<v Speaker 6>but I totally went with it. And I'm like, all right,

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<v Speaker 6>let's go with that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, it's hilarious when it comes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you painted this like it was this horrible moment,

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<v Speaker 3>but actually it looked like it worked to your benefit

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<v Speaker 3>on the date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm not done yet.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh those are more embarrassing things.

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<v Speaker 6>So I invited her back to my place, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>and she says yes, I'm like sweet, I opened the

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<v Speaker 6>door and standing there is my dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh at your place?

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<v Speaker 6>At my place?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you liars?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is your dad inside your apartment?

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<v Speaker 6>He just came over. He didn't tell me. You just

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<v Speaker 6>wanted to come over, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Key, No, Obviously she's not gonna believe that it's your house.

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<v Speaker 3>She's gonna think unless it's like a one bedroom apartment.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I've got her two bedrooms. So I was like, dad,

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<v Speaker 6>what are you doing here? And he's I just wanted

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<v Speaker 6>to come vivid Ooh she's pretty. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 5>Hope?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not ruined in your game?

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<v Speaker 6>Son.

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<v Speaker 4>What was Erica's reaction?

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<v Speaker 6>Could you read that she was a little uncomfortable, like

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<v Speaker 6>hot high?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she'd be shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean she could obviously sense how shocked you were, though.

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<v Speaker 6>Too, right, Yeah, I hope.

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<v Speaker 4>So.

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<v Speaker 6>And at one point I decided, all right, let me

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<v Speaker 6>get some drinks. Maybe I can eat the pain. And

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<v Speaker 6>here he's going to leave soon. So I left them

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<v Speaker 6>alone for I don't know five minutes. They were talking okay,

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<v Speaker 6>And I came back and her vibe was completely different.

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<v Speaker 4>She's already meeting the parents.

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<v Speaker 6>So much.

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<v Speaker 3>It's your dad one of those dads that is like

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<v Speaker 3>super embarrassing, likes to tell horrible stories about you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, he's the quintessential dad joke. Dad, Now we know

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<v Speaker 6>where you got.

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<v Speaker 4>The napkin trick.

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<v Speaker 2>Idea apple and tree there?

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<v Speaker 4>How did you and Erica and your dad leave things?

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm trying to give him a right, Dad, good

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<v Speaker 6>to see you, Good to see you. He just plops

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<v Speaker 6>down on the couch. It's like, all right, let's watch

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<v Speaker 6>a movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you see I made two drinks dad.

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<v Speaker 6>Erica just like you know what I've got an early morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to take off.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you can't blame her.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure you wanted to leave too.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh I did? And so I start walking around and

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<v Speaker 6>he goes, no, we're about to watch Harry Potter come back.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, that would have worked on me, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, did you get a chance to apologize?

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<v Speaker 6>But I have not heard from her since?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's hard, dad, hill to climb up.

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<v Speaker 5>Up now, I see why you would want to redo

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<v Speaker 5>a few of those moments from the night, and we

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<v Speaker 5>can't really redo them, but we can at least try

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<v Speaker 5>and get you a redo on a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>So we're gonna play a song. We'll come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Will you kind to call his dad?

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<v Speaker 3>Two?

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<v Speaker 1>Three waymen.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we've dealt with enough embarrassing moments, all right,

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<v Speaker 5>let's just try and focus on some positives.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll call Erica and try and get your second date.

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<v Speaker 4>Updates after this second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>The surprise, Dad, that's not just the name of my

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<v Speaker 5>go to move for my bingo dates, it's what actually

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<v Speaker 5>happened to one of our listeners, Scott recently during his

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<v Speaker 5>first date with Erica. Yeah, because they went back to

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<v Speaker 5>his place at the end of the night, and who

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<v Speaker 5>was waiting there inside the door but his old pop

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<v Speaker 5>ready to crack a Bruski and watch some Harry Potter

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<v Speaker 5>with his boy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So obviously that.

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<v Speaker 5>Situation put a damper on the romance, and ever since,

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<v Speaker 5>Erica is not responding when Scott reaches out hoping to

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<v Speaker 5>get another date. So we're going to step in kind

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<v Speaker 5>of like his dad did, try and get that second

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<v Speaker 5>date for him.

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<v Speaker 4>Scott feeling ready for this?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that was a painful recap. Scott, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm I'm hopeful.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's good, but.

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<v Speaker 6>A little nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, all of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Was out of your control. I think anyone would be

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<v Speaker 3>empathetic of that. You know, we all have cringe worthy parents.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, and before we call her, Scott, you said

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<v Speaker 5>that you noticed Erica was talking to your dad for

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<v Speaker 5>a few minutes while you were in the other room.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you ever ask your dad what he said to her?

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<v Speaker 6>I did. I was like, Hey, what what happened to you?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, we just made some small Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>And you just took that advice value?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, there's no way that your dad would ever

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<v Speaker 5>swoop in on your dates.

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<v Speaker 3>No. I thought he was just gonna tell like a

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<v Speaker 3>terrible story about like how he got stood up on

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<v Speaker 3>prom or.

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<v Speaker 5>Something like that, or maybe he asked her like if

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<v Speaker 5>she was in gryffindor Slytherine. I mean, let's just call

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<v Speaker 5>Erica and find out what happened. We're going to dial

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<v Speaker 5>the number right now and see what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's do this. You ready, Scott.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, let's do this for better or for worse.

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<v Speaker 4>All Right, here we go. He Hey, is this Erica?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is jeff from the radio show Brook and

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the Morning. We're looking for the biggest Harry

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<v Speaker 5>Potter fans in the area.

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<v Speaker 4>You a potterhead?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh God, I like it, But I'm not like a

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<v Speaker 7>crazy Wait what is this about?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, It's not about that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just a side question.

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<v Speaker 5>The real question that we want to ask about is

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<v Speaker 5>your date the other night with a guy named Scott.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I mean that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably a hard date to forget.

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<v Speaker 4>We're doing something called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>We're trying to help Scott figure out what went wrong

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<v Speaker 5>when you two hung out together.

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<v Speaker 3>And to be fair, Scott definitely has some ideas of

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<v Speaker 3>what it.

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<v Speaker 5>Or maybe nothing went wrong and it's something totally unrelated

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<v Speaker 5>to that night.

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<v Speaker 4>We can focus on what went right. I heard he

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<v Speaker 4>made you laugh.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not understanding the second date thing, like he was

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<v Speaker 7>just wanting to know my story.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because Scott told us his version of the story

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<v Speaker 5>and he knows that afterwards you haven't been responding to him,

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<v Speaker 5>and he's just trying to figure out the reason why.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know how much he told you.

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<v Speaker 4>He told us about a little napkin trick that he

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<v Speaker 4>showed you.

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<v Speaker 1>And that you thought was funny.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was pretty risky, Like I don't know how

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<v Speaker 7>if he knew that, I would laugh, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 7>he came out in the bathroom with like a tissue

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<v Speaker 7>and a zipper.

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<v Speaker 2>But the risk paid off, right, great reward.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought it was hilarious and like, I really really

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<v Speaker 7>like funny guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I'm going to fast forward from dinner to

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<v Speaker 5>Scott's house. What was your reaction when you saw his

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<v Speaker 5>dad was waking, Yeah, this is what.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go because we heard that you can

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<v Speaker 1>be honest.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, so originally when I said I go back to

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<v Speaker 7>his place, like I actually was totally open to hook

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<v Speaker 7>up with him.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's gonna hurt even more.

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<v Speaker 7>When he opened the door and his dad was there,

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, I can't tell you how awkward that was.

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<v Speaker 6>I bet. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>The worst part is I knew his dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, what his dad?

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<v Speaker 4>You're his daughter from another secret family.

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<v Speaker 5>When we tell Scott that his dad has another family,

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<v Speaker 5>let her talk?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>He knows you knew his dad.

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<v Speaker 7>He's my gynecologist, is your special doctor. So he clearly

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<v Speaker 7>recognized me, and like, I you can't, like I had

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<v Speaker 7>just got in like a couple of months ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Good news, he recognized your face and not. But he's

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<v Speaker 3>a professional. I mean, like, come on, this guy's a doctor.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>It's like the super awkward thing you like, all casual,

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<v Speaker 7>just like good to see you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be worse if you have to go in

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<v Speaker 2>for an STD after.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god. No, I'm trying my best. And at

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<v Speaker 7>one point, like I just asked Scott to get me

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<v Speaker 7>a drink, and like I talked to the dad and

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<v Speaker 7>he's like, don't worry, it's patient confidentiality. And I just

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<v Speaker 7>asked him, like if he could help me get out

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<v Speaker 7>of the situation, if you can just say, like, hey, Scott,

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<v Speaker 7>let's watch a movie so I can just leave. Way

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<v Speaker 7>too awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess dad wasn't as clueless as we thought he was.

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<v Speaker 4>He was actually trying to help her out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that is so hard.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess the really clueless person is probably Scott, who

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<v Speaker 5>we should let you know where Erica is on the

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<v Speaker 5>other line listening right now and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait wait, wait what Scott's there?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank Scott, what you're going on right now?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 2>Why couldn't your dad have been a Dennis?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh god, Oh my god. Like I'm mortified. But honestly, Erica,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm kind of I'm very mortified for you. I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the chances, it was really really weird because

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<v Speaker 3>like I said, i'd been there a couple of months ago,

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<v Speaker 3>and like he's been my gynecologist for a while now,

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<v Speaker 3>so like he.

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<v Speaker 6>Knows me, he knows you. I know, I know he

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<v Speaker 6>really knows you. I know.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, Scott, this is a random question, but I

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<v Speaker 5>think I might also know your dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Does he go by doctor Butterball? Is that not him?

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<v Speaker 1>You are not?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay if you're looking for somebody new, Butterball is your guy.

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<v Speaker 3>So honestly, like I went and saw a gynecologist once

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<v Speaker 3>who during the exam was like, so I listened to

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<v Speaker 3>your radio show all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was trying to, like, you know, make small talk.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's just I.

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<v Speaker 3>Need step lives there, and I assume you need separate

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<v Speaker 3>lives when it comes to dating and your you guy,

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<v Speaker 3>I know absolutely.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe it's only fair Scott if you visit her father's proctologist,

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<v Speaker 5>and then you could be.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay. I know you guys are laughing about this, but

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<v Speaker 6>I'm in shock at how coincidental this is.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I feel like, Erica, maybe you should have at

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<v Speaker 5>least hinted to Scott like something was up, told him something.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't put this on her.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, like, what was I going to say, like,

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<v Speaker 7>your dad's seen my ancles and stirrups.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, it's what every woman has to do.

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<v Speaker 7>But if it's any consolation, he said he'd give you

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<v Speaker 7>the green lights. You mean, I don't know what that means, Like,

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<v Speaker 7>you have to ask your dad, Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa that just got creepy. You need to switch your

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<v Speaker 1>guind of college? Was weird?

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<v Speaker 5>See it as a good thing? Yeah, Dad gives the

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<v Speaker 5>thumbs up approval.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't do any whatever whatever finger he approves.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying it sounds like maybe there's a chance here,

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<v Speaker 5>And the only way to know is to ask Eric

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<v Speaker 5>would you like, let's see, Erica, would you like to

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<v Speaker 5>go out one more time with Scott?

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<v Speaker 4>We'd pay for it, said, We've never said.

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<v Speaker 7>This I mean, I did really like him, but dude,

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<v Speaker 7>go out with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Dump the doctor, get your doctor.

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<v Speaker 7>I could get a new doctor, and like the green

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<v Speaker 7>point thing. Maybe it just means I don't have any

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<v Speaker 7>SuDS or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>No, girl, No, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 7>I really want to, but I don't think it's the

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<v Speaker 7>best idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Scott, I mean, how do you how do you feel

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<v Speaker 4>about that? Hearing that?

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<v Speaker 6>I gona be honest, this is the one time in

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<v Speaker 6>my life that I am one hundred percent so happy

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<v Speaker 6>that she said no, Well it worked.

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<v Speaker 5>I know you saw you saw Erica and your dad whispering.

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<v Speaker 5>Were you able to read her lips?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that not good?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I'm gonna hang up. Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on before you go, doctor Butterball is on the

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<v Speaker 5>other line, and.

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<v Speaker 7>But like, yeah, I was talking to you.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I definitely think the most interesting part of that entire

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<v Speaker 5>call was learning that the dad was actually trying to

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<v Speaker 5>help her get out of the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Thoughts being.

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<v Speaker 5>Super clueless didn't know what was going on, he knew

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<v Speaker 5>everything and was just trying to get out of the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>But you stop saying he knew everything, seen it all. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, it's like, if he was a real professional,

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<v Speaker 3>he would have just been upfront about the situation instead

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<v Speaker 3>of trying to sneak her out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that sounds like that would have been more awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a really awkward como. But that's your business man.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I don't think that it's awkward to you if

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<v Speaker 3>you're a gynecologist.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I think he's a good guy. I'm curious, like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she still needs to not go on the

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<v Speaker 2>date and also switch her down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm going to go with both on that one.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm curious if your dad was a gynecologist, is that

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<v Speaker 5>something that you would be comfortable with.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband's grandfather was a gynecologist.

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<v Speaker 3>You go to your husband's grandfathers were saying, but if

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<v Speaker 3>he wanted to, you know, it doesn't bother me that

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<v Speaker 3>that's his profession.

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<v Speaker 1>No, see my own father gross.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>Fine, Okay, I'm not going to go into it, but

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<v Speaker 5>this is but let's talk about dating again. If you

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<v Speaker 5>have a day that you went on that didn't go

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<v Speaker 5>the way you planned, you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 5>We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,