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Speaker 1: A you found the Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Finally, it's pretty easy, actually, thanks for being herese I

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Speaker 3: love it.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 3: And hey, just a reminder if you want to endure

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Speaker 3: or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got

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Speaker 3: a full show.

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Speaker 2: Who I dare you to try it at the Brook

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Speaker 2: and Jeffrey Feed. But for now, we'll get into some

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Speaker 2: questionable relationship advice.

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Speaker 4: Second Date up Date.

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Speaker 5: We all want to hit redo sometimes in life. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: like Alexis wants to hit redo on her eyebrows.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I want her to.

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Speaker 1: Redo the stereot controls these.

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Speaker 4: No, I haven't told you that yet, have I?

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Speaker 2: Alexis, No jeff for doing that right now?

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Speaker 4: I have a plan, don't worry. We'll talk about that later.

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Speaker 6: Though.

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Speaker 5: What about when it comes to an awkward situation that

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Speaker 5: happens during a good date and you don't want to

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Speaker 5: redo the whole night, just redo that awkward moment. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that's why Scott emailed us for help. And Scott, I

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Speaker 5: know you and I have talked about Alexis's eyebrows, but

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Speaker 5: let's not focus on.

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Speaker 4: That right now. All right, We're just here to talk

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Speaker 4: about your date.

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Speaker 3: No idea, bro, talk was going like that these days.

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Speaker 5: Let's talk about your date, Scott. Who's the girl that

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Speaker 5: you went out with?

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Speaker 6: Okay, her name is Erica?

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Speaker 4: Okay, normal eyebrows?

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Speaker 6: No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: Exceptional.

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Speaker 4: I was hoping you had like crazy brows. So what

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Speaker 4: did you and Erica do for your date?

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Speaker 6: Well? We met online and we went to dinner. Okay,

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Speaker 6: nice place. Everything's going great. I go to wash my

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Speaker 6: hands and I came out and I had like a

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Speaker 6: napkin slash paper towel in between my flying like it

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Speaker 6: was just.

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Speaker 2: Hanging Wait, wait in your pants.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I poking out the zipper.

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Speaker 2: Wait, do guys wipe that?

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Speaker 5: No his lap because he's a gentleman at dinner, and

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Speaker 5: then it got caught in the zipper.

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Speaker 1: You're a super.

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Speaker 6: It was a nice restaurant, so they don't have like

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Speaker 6: paper towels. They have a nice linen type thing. So

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Speaker 6: after I washed my hands, I have it in my

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Speaker 6: hand and I noticed my fly was still down, so

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Speaker 6: I dipped it up and I just walked out.

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Speaker 4: And it was ducked in there.

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Speaker 6: Okay it was And I just walked out, didn't even

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Speaker 6: know it. And I'm about halfway and I see her

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Speaker 4: He's about to show me the most inappropriate magic.

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Speaker 3: Either that or you're feeling real confident at that point.

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Speaker 1: Oh you could see it.

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Speaker 6: Wow, I did that thing where you turn around because

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Speaker 6: obviously she's looking at something else. Yeah, And I was

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Speaker 6: like what And then I looked down. Oh, and I

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Speaker 6: see it, And what do you do? I should have

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Speaker 6: turned around, just pulled it out.

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Speaker 5: No, don't pull it, yeah, pull it out of the zipper,

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Speaker 5: like it can't be that hard.

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Speaker 1: What did you do?

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Speaker 6: Here's what popped into my stupid brain. I thought, why

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Speaker 6: don't we pull it out like a magician? Just keep

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Speaker 4: One of those never ending scarves up your sleeves.

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Speaker 6: I love.

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Speaker 1: Huh, that's interesting.

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Speaker 4: Was she impressed?

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Speaker 6: She started laughing.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you knew your audience, you know.

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Speaker 6: I think she thinks that I did the napkin thing

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Speaker 6: on purpose to be funny, But yeah, I did not,

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Speaker 6: but I totally went with it. And I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's hilarious when it comes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you painted this like it was this horrible moment,

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Speaker 3: but actually it looked like it worked to your benefit

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not done yet.

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Speaker 5: Oh those are more embarrassing things.

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Speaker 6: So I invited her back to my place, Okay, okay,

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Speaker 6: and she says yes, I'm like sweet, I opened the

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Speaker 4: Oh at your place?

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Speaker 6: At my place?

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Speaker 4: Do you liars?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Why is your dad inside your apartment?

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Speaker 6: He just came over. He didn't tell me. You just

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Speaker 3: Key, No, Obviously she's not gonna believe that it's your house.

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Speaker 3: She's gonna think unless it's like a one bedroom apartment.

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Speaker 6: No, I've got her two bedrooms. So I was like, dad,

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Speaker 6: what are you doing here? And he's I just wanted

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Speaker 6: to come vivid Ooh she's pretty. Who's this?

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Speaker 5: Hope?

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Speaker 4: I'm not ruined in your game?

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Speaker 6: Son.

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Speaker 4: What was Erica's reaction?

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Speaker 6: Could you read that she was a little uncomfortable, like

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she'd be shocked.

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Speaker 3: I mean she could obviously sense how shocked you were, though.

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Speaker 6: Too, right, Yeah, I hope.

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Speaker 4: So.

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Speaker 6: And at one point I decided, all right, let me

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Speaker 6: get some drinks. Maybe I can eat the pain. And

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Speaker 6: here he's going to leave soon. So I left them

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Speaker 6: alone for I don't know five minutes. They were talking okay,

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Speaker 6: And I came back and her vibe was completely different.

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Speaker 4: She's already meeting the parents.

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Speaker 6: So much.

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Speaker 3: It's your dad one of those dads that is like

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Speaker 6: Yes, he's the quintessential dad joke. Dad, Now we know

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Speaker 6: where you got.

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Speaker 4: The napkin trick.

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Speaker 2: Idea apple and tree there?

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Speaker 4: How did you and Erica and your dad leave things?

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Speaker 6: So I'm trying to give him a right, Dad, good

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Speaker 6: to see you, Good to see you. He just plops

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Speaker 2: Do you see I made two drinks dad.

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Speaker 6: Erica just like you know what I've got an early morning. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'm going to take off.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can't blame her.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure you wanted to leave too.

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Speaker 6: Oh I did? And so I start walking around and

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Speaker 6: he goes, no, we're about to watch Harry Potter come back.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, that would have worked on me, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get a chance to apologize?

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Speaker 6: But I have not heard from her since?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's hard, dad, hill to climb up.

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Speaker 5: Up now, I see why you would want to redo

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Speaker 5: a few of those moments from the night, and we

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Speaker 5: can't really redo them, but we can at least try

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Speaker 5: and get you a redo on a second date.

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Speaker 4: So we're gonna play a song. We'll come back.

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Speaker 1: Will you kind to call his dad?

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Speaker 3: Two?

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Speaker 1: Three waymen.

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Speaker 5: I think we've dealt with enough embarrassing moments, all right,

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Speaker 5: let's just try and focus on some positives.

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Speaker 4: We'll call Erica and try and get your second date.

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Speaker 4: Updates after this second date update.

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Speaker 5: The surprise, Dad, that's not just the name of my

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Speaker 5: go to move for my bingo dates, it's what actually

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Speaker 5: happened to one of our listeners, Scott recently during his

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Speaker 5: first date with Erica. Yeah, because they went back to

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Speaker 5: his place at the end of the night, and who

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So obviously that.

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Speaker 5: Situation put a damper on the romance, and ever since,

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Speaker 5: Erica is not responding when Scott reaches out hoping to

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Speaker 5: get another date. So we're going to step in kind

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Speaker 4: Scott feeling ready for this?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was a painful recap. Scott, how are

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Speaker 6: I'm I'm hopeful.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, but.

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Speaker 6: A little nervous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, all of this.

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Speaker 3: Was out of your control. I think anyone would be

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Speaker 3: empathetic of that. You know, we all have cringe worthy parents.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, and before we call her, Scott, you said

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Speaker 4: Did you ever ask your dad what he said to her?

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Speaker 6: I did. I was like, Hey, what what happened to you?

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Speaker 6: I don't know, we just made some small Oh.

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Speaker 1: And you just took that advice value?

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Speaker 4: Oh god.

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Speaker 5: I mean, there's no way that your dad would ever

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Speaker 3: No. I thought he was just gonna tell like a

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Speaker 5: Something like that, or maybe he asked her like if

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Speaker 5: she was in gryffindor Slytherine. I mean, let's just call

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Speaker 5: Erica and find out what happened. We're going to dial

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Speaker 5: the number right now and see what she has to say.

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Speaker 4: Let's do this. You ready, Scott.

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Speaker 6: All right, let's do this for better or for worse.

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Speaker 4: All Right, here we go. He Hey, is this Erica?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is jeff from the radio show Brook and

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Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the Morning. We're looking for the biggest Harry

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Speaker 5: Potter fans in the area.

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Speaker 4: You a potterhead?

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Speaker 7: Oh God, I like it, But I'm not like a

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Speaker 7: crazy Wait what is this about?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, It's not about that.

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Speaker 4: That's just a side question.

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Speaker 5: The real question that we want to ask about is

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Speaker 5: your date the other night with a guy named Scott.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean that's okay.

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Speaker 2: It's probably a hard date to forget.

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Speaker 4: We're doing something called a second date update.

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Speaker 5: We're trying to help Scott figure out what went wrong

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Speaker 5: when you two hung out together.

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Speaker 3: And to be fair, Scott definitely has some ideas of

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Speaker 3: what it.

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Speaker 5: Or maybe nothing went wrong and it's something totally unrelated

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Speaker 5: to that night.

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Speaker 4: We can focus on what went right. I heard he

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Speaker 4: made you laugh.

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Speaker 7: I'm not understanding the second date thing, like he was

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Speaker 7: just wanting to know my story.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because Scott told us his version of the story

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Speaker 5: and he knows that afterwards you haven't been responding to him,

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Speaker 5: and he's just trying to figure out the reason why.

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Speaker 7: I don't know how much he told you.

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Speaker 4: He told us about a little napkin trick that he

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Speaker 4: showed you.

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Speaker 1: And that you thought was funny.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was pretty risky, Like I don't know how

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Speaker 2: But the risk paid off, right, great reward.

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Speaker 7: I thought it was hilarious and like, I really really

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'm going to fast forward from dinner to

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Speaker 1: I want to go because we heard that you can

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Speaker 7: Well, so originally when I said I go back to

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Speaker 1: But that's gonna hurt even more.

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Speaker 7: When he opened the door and his dad was there,

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I can't tell you how awkward that was.

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Speaker 6: I bet. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: The worst part is I knew his dad.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what his dad?

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Speaker 4: You're his daughter from another secret family.

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Speaker 5: When we tell Scott that his dad has another family,

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: He knows you knew his dad.

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Speaker 7: He's my gynecologist, is your special doctor. So he clearly

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Speaker 3: Good news, he recognized your face and not. But he's

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: It's like the super awkward thing you like, all casual,

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be worse if you have to go in

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Speaker 7: Oh my god. No, I'm trying my best. And at

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Speaker 7: let's watch a movie so I can just leave. Way

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Speaker 5: I guess dad wasn't as clueless as we thought he was.

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Speaker 4: He was actually trying to help her out.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so hard.

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Speaker 5: I guess the really clueless person is probably Scott, who

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Speaker 7: Wait wait, wait what Scott's there?

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Speaker 4: Thank Scott, what you're going on right now?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Why couldn't your dad have been a Dennis?

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Speaker 6: Oh god, Oh my god. Like I'm mortified. But honestly, Erica,

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Speaker 3: One of the chances, it was really really weird because

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Speaker 3: and like he's been my gynecologist for a while now,

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Speaker 3: so like he.

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Speaker 6: Knows me, he knows you. I know, I know he

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, Scott, this is a random question, but I

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Speaker 4: Does he go by doctor Butterball? Is that not him?

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Speaker 1: You are not?

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Speaker 5: Okay if you're looking for somebody new, Butterball is your guy.

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Speaker 3: So honestly, like I went and saw a gynecologist once

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Speaker 2: And he was trying to, like, you know, make small talk.

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Speaker 2: But it's just I.

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Speaker 3: Need step lives there, and I assume you need separate

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Speaker 3: I know absolutely.

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Speaker 5: Maybe it's only fair Scott if you visit her father's proctologist,

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Speaker 6: Okay. I know you guys are laughing about this, but

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Speaker 6: I'm in shock at how coincidental this is.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like, Erica, maybe you should have at

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't put this on her.

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Speaker 7: I mean, like, what was I going to say, like,

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Speaker 7: your dad's seen my ancles and stirrups.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's what every woman has to do.

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Speaker 7: But if it's any consolation, he said he'd give you

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Speaker 1: Whoa that just got creepy. You need to switch your

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Speaker 5: See it as a good thing? Yeah, Dad gives the

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Speaker 6: No, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't do any whatever whatever finger he approves.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying it sounds like maybe there's a chance here,

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Speaker 4: We'd pay for it, said, We've never said.

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Speaker 7: This I mean, I did really like him, but dude,

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Speaker 2: Dump the doctor, get your doctor.

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Speaker 7: I could get a new doctor, and like the green

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Speaker 7: point thing. Maybe it just means I don't have any

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Speaker 2: No, girl, No, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 7: I really want to, but I don't think it's the

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Speaker 4: Scott, I mean, how do you how do you feel

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Speaker 6: I gona be honest, this is the one time in

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Speaker 6: that she said no, Well it worked.

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Speaker 5: I know you saw you saw Erica and your dad whispering.

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Speaker 4: Is that not good?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna hang up. Is that okay?

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Speaker 5: Hold on before you go, doctor Butterball is on the

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Speaker 7: But like, yeah, I was talking to you.

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Speaker 6: I guess.

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Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: I definitely think the most interesting part of that entire

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Thoughts being.

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Speaker 5: Super clueless didn't know what was going on, he knew

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Speaker 1: But you stop saying he knew everything, seen it all. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: For me, it's like, if he was a real professional,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that sounds like that would have been more awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's a really awkward como. But that's your business man.

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't think that it's awkward to you if

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I think he's a good guy. I'm curious, like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think she still needs to not go on the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to go with both on that one.

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Speaker 5: I'm curious if your dad was a gynecologist, is that

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Speaker 1: My husband's grandfather was a gynecologist.

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Speaker 3: You go to your husband's grandfathers were saying, but if

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Speaker 3: that's his profession.

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Speaker 1: No, see my own father gross.

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 5: Fine, Okay, I'm not going to go into it, but

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Speaker 5: this is but let's talk about dating again. If you

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Speaker 5: have a day that you went on that didn't go

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Speaker 5: the way you planned, you can always email the show.

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Speaker 5: We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,