WEBVTT - My Worst Night on Tour

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<v Speaker 1>How do everyone. Welcome to the Granger Smith Podcast. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>Settle in. We have some fun stories to tell. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell you about the worst day I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>had on tour, and that story. That claim is very

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<v Speaker 1>debatable because I've had some I've had some crazy times.

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<v Speaker 1>I've fallen off the stage, broken ribs, punctured lungs, dislocated shoulders.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got eight stitches in the front of my forehead

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<v Speaker 1>from running into a speaker one night. If you tour

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<v Speaker 1>as long as we have, you're bound to have crazy stories.

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<v Speaker 1>This one is none of those that I mentioned. This

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<v Speaker 1>is something I haven't talked about ever before, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably the worst night we've ever had on tour, and

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<v Speaker 1>you about the most embarrassing slash, the worst night of

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<v Speaker 1>my touring life. But like I said, it's worth telling.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Grangersmith podcast. Rolled the intro did change

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<v Speaker 1>in D much times and long line by four of

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<v Speaker 1>uspan down going back, it's range cogation. So the worst

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<v Speaker 1>night in my career, the worst night on tour. I

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<v Speaker 1>had forgotten about this, and I guess it's hard to forget,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe I wanted to forget about it. But this

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<v Speaker 1>was Oklahoma City. I don't I don't remember exactly the year.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was around two thousand and nine, twenty ten,

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere in that that era of me tour, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were in a van in trailer and we were playing

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<v Speaker 1>the Wormy Dog Saloon in Bricktown, Oklahoma City. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if Warming Dog is still around, So you

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<v Speaker 1>guys comment below if you're if you know, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>from there, and you know if Worming Dog is still around.

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<v Speaker 1>But man, what a place that was Warme Dog Saloon.

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<v Speaker 1>You can imagine by that title what kind of place

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<v Speaker 1>this was. We were not very popular. We would usually

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<v Speaker 1>draw if we played Oklahoma City, we would draw one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred people. I'd say it probably held about eight hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and we were good for drawing a hundred. So then

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<v Speaker 1>you add in the people that would have been there

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<v Speaker 1>on a normal night anyway, on a Friday or Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's fifty. So we would end up like one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty people. That's to put in perspective what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of band we were at the time. We did

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<v Speaker 1>have an opening act. I remember it was Kyle Park

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<v Speaker 1>and Kyle was opening for us, and I'll never forget

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<v Speaker 1>his face when he witnessed what happened. It all started

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<v Speaker 1>when we went to eat dinner before the show. We

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<v Speaker 1>went to a Mexican restaurant in Oklahoma City and I

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<v Speaker 1>got shrimp enchiladas. A lot of you might know where

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<v Speaker 1>this is going already, but shrimp inchiladas. And as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as I got back to the hotel. This is like

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<v Speaker 1>before we were on a tour bus. This is when

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<v Speaker 1>this is what our routine would be. We'd go in,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd load in soundcheck, go eat some dinner, go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the hotel and rest for a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>then get up there about an hour before showtime. So

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<v Speaker 1>we go back to the hotel and my stomach just

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<v Speaker 1>started feeling it started feeling not right. You know that

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<v Speaker 1>feeling when you eat something bad, and it's different. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a different kind of something wrong with my stomach feeling

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<v Speaker 1>than any other normal time, and it comes on quick.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not like the flu or it's food poisoning,

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<v Speaker 1>as you all know what that feelings. It's like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>very different. So I'm thinking I'm in denial. I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, not tonight, not now, which is a funny

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<v Speaker 1>way to think, because we tour all the time. Besides

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<v Speaker 1>the shutdown we've had in twenty twenty, touring happens all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. So you just have to be good, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have if you have the flu or some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sickness, you either have to play through it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, this is before pandemic days, but you

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<v Speaker 1>either have to play through it or god forbid, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to cancel for something like that, which I never have.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never canceled, ever canceled a show because of a sickness.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always played through it, and I've had I've had

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<v Speaker 1>some nightmare ish shows playing through a sickness. And the

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<v Speaker 1>worst of that is when you have some kind of

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<v Speaker 1>sinus infection or some kind of lung problem that really

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<v Speaker 1>bad out allergies where you actually can't sing. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I've been through shows where I have to sing everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to sing a different melody to these songs,

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<v Speaker 1>usually laying off the high parts of the show. So

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<v Speaker 1>if I have to sing high melodies, I would sing

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<v Speaker 1>the lower harmony of that particular chorus, and that sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>And usually, luckily, people don't really know I'm doing that

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose. They just think maybe I'm kind of loose

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<v Speaker 1>with my melodies that day, or maybe they don't even

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<v Speaker 1>notice at all. Maybe they're just happy to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>partying in a concert environment. And that hasn't happened very often.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only happened a couple times. I can remember this night.

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<v Speaker 1>This wasn't allergies, This wasn't I couldn't control my voice,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't sing high notes. This wasn't any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>This was a stomach bug. This was food poisoning. This

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<v Speaker 1>was bad shrimp enchiladas. And I felt that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was in denial. I was just thinking, no, please, not that,

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<v Speaker 1>not that something else, indigestion. We'll blame it on that something.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I've got a cold coming on and tomorrow i'll

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<v Speaker 1>be I won't be that good, but I can get

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<v Speaker 1>through tonight. No, it just kept getting worse and worse.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wasn't really telling the band about it because

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<v Speaker 1>I just I didn't want them to be thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>something that was going to be my problem, not theirs.

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<v Speaker 1>So we get to the show, I'm just all kind

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<v Speaker 1>of grumbly, you know, my stomach's just kind of gurgling.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that feeling I go on. What I remember

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<v Speaker 1>is the first song going out there, and the lights

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<v Speaker 1>from the stage were on me, and those lights felt

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<v Speaker 1>like they were a thousand degrees. It felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was out in the hot sun. And so I started

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<v Speaker 1>sweating just from the slight temperature change of being in

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<v Speaker 1>the lights. I started sweating. My forehead has just started dripping.

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<v Speaker 1>And I made it through probably about three songs, heating

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<v Speaker 1>up like that and starting to sweat. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>felt my stomach and I felt that feeling when there's

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<v Speaker 1>no turning back, you know what I mean? You know

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<v Speaker 1>that feeling when you think, am I going to throw up?

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<v Speaker 1>And there's a lot of am I am I, am I?

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's this there's this point of no return

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<v Speaker 1>when you think, okay, I am I'm definitely going to

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<v Speaker 1>throw up, and I need a place. It's like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when a dog goes off to die, they

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<v Speaker 1>need to go find a place to die. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of where I was. Where am I going to throw up?

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<v Speaker 1>I have a ninety minute show ahead of me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm three songs in, I'm gonna throw up. Well, once

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<v Speaker 1>that thought, I don't know about you, but once that

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<v Speaker 1>thought gets in my head, I'm going to It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>take long after that. So I remember being play in

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<v Speaker 1>this song, and we have these microphones on the stage.

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<v Speaker 1>We call them talkback mics, and these we wear an

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<v Speaker 1>ear monitors, so it's in our their earbuds, inside our ears.

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<v Speaker 1>So I go to the talkback mic, which only talks

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<v Speaker 1>to the band, not the crowd, and I say, I say,

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<v Speaker 1>just vamp. Vamp means just play, just keep playing, just

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<v Speaker 1>keep making up stuff as you go, no singing, just instrumentation,

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<v Speaker 1>just play just vamp. And I leave the stage and

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<v Speaker 1>I go out back, and luckily, hindsight, this was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit a little bit of a blessing. Luckily, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a back door to the stage with steps that go

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<v Speaker 1>down to the alley, and there's dumpsters out there, so

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully you guys are listening on Monday morning and not

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<v Speaker 1>eating right now. I don't want to gross anybody out,

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<v Speaker 1>but I go back to the dumpster and I throw up,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's, you know, like in my ears. I hear

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<v Speaker 1>the band. They're just playing and it seems like they're

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<v Speaker 1>playing for an hour. It was probably like an extra

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<v Speaker 1>thirty or forty five seconds. And I come back on

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<v Speaker 1>and you know that feeling right, like right when you

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<v Speaker 1>relieve yourself, you feel good. You're like, okay, whoa man,

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<v Speaker 1>that was good. I feel better. I feel better. So

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<v Speaker 1>I got it back up and I finished that song,

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<v Speaker 1>started another song, started another song, and by by about

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<v Speaker 1>two and a half songs later, I felt it again,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it started. The whole process starts over mentally,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I think I'm gonna go again. No I am,

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<v Speaker 1>I am gonna go again. So we get to the

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<v Speaker 1>guitar solo, go back to talk back, Hey guys, vamp.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, nobody knows what's happening, not the crowd

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<v Speaker 1>and not my band. No one knows that I'm going out.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then after that one, it was just dry heaves,

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<v Speaker 1>go out to the dumpster, just dry heave. They're they're

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<v Speaker 1>in there playing in my ears. I go back, all right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I feel good. I feel good, go back in,

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<v Speaker 1>start over. Two songs later, I go back. Guys, we

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<v Speaker 1>played twenty songs that night. That's about an average amount

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<v Speaker 1>of songs we play in ninety minutes, about twenty songs

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<v Speaker 1>every two songs. I was going out to the dumpster

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<v Speaker 1>and just dry heaving my brains out, just like so dried,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing's coming out, you know, just oh, terrible, terrible, terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was going back in and it probably every

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<v Speaker 1>time I came in. My face is more pale, I'm weaker,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sweating profusely, and I think, you know, the crowd

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<v Speaker 1>started to know something's wrong with this guy. The band

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<v Speaker 1>definitely knew by then by the time I left the

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<v Speaker 1>second time, Like maybe the first time they thought I

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<v Speaker 1>just had to pee really really bad and misjudge my

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<v Speaker 1>time my bladder. But by the second time they knew

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<v Speaker 1>that's not in my personality. This is not something I

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<v Speaker 1>normally do. I look over and I see Kyle Park

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<v Speaker 1>the opening act, staring at me, just wide eyed, like

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on? Maybe people thought I was a

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<v Speaker 1>methoad like, I just really had to get my fixed.

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<v Speaker 1>I was shooting up Heroin. I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what they thought. I didn't. I didn't talk to

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<v Speaker 1>many people that night, but every two songs I would

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<v Speaker 1>go and dry heave, So like ten times out of

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<v Speaker 1>twenty songs, I went out there and humiliated, embarrassed, and

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<v Speaker 1>the emotion that trump's all those is just sick. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just sick, and that is an emotion at some level.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so sick, and we finished the shot. Never

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<v Speaker 1>been happier to finish the show, but we went all

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<v Speaker 1>the way through. We played all the way to the end,

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<v Speaker 1>and by then the band knew, like, man, he's getting

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's he's sick. He must have got food poisoning.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were in the van, and in the back

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<v Speaker 1>of our van we had the two bench seats. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a it was a Chevy thirty five hundred Express van,

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<v Speaker 1>so it has four bench seats and we still have

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<v Speaker 1>that van away. I took the two bench seats out

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<v Speaker 1>in the back and made bunks, so we had four

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<v Speaker 1>bunks in the back. So I was laying back there

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<v Speaker 1>in a bunk and my head was in the back

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<v Speaker 1>of the bunk right where the van door's open, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I had to right off the show. I went

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<v Speaker 1>straight there, you know, boots on, everything on, all my

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<v Speaker 1>clothes on. I'd go get in the bunk and I

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<v Speaker 1>leave that back van door cracked and I would just

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<v Speaker 1>open it up, dry heave, close it, open it up,

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<v Speaker 1>dry heave, close it. And the bands loading the trailer,

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<v Speaker 1>and which is also another thing for me, I always

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<v Speaker 1>helped them load the trailer, so losing two more hands

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<v Speaker 1>from me was made the loading take even longer. And

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<v Speaker 1>by this time, a couple of hours have gone by

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<v Speaker 1>since I've been on stage, and I was just exhausted,

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<v Speaker 1>so tired, completely dehydrated. But every time someone would bring

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<v Speaker 1>me like a little sipagatorad, I would throw it up

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<v Speaker 1>dry heave or it would just come you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>gatorway would come right back. And then we drove home

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<v Speaker 1>from Oklahoma City to Central Texas Is. I believe we

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<v Speaker 1>were living in College Station. That's about six hours six

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<v Speaker 1>hour drive. So for six hours I had a little

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<v Speaker 1>bucket back there and nothing was coming out but air,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was dry heaving the whole way home. Finally

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<v Speaker 1>caught a little bit of sleep, made it home to

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<v Speaker 1>College Station, Texas, crawled out of the van. God blessed

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<v Speaker 1>the band for picking up where I left off and

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<v Speaker 1>picking up the slack and taking turns driving. I was

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<v Speaker 1>always a big part of taking turns driving and helping

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<v Speaker 1>load up and navigating home. And I wasn't a part

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<v Speaker 1>of anything. And when I went to bed that night,

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<v Speaker 1>I slept like a baby and woke up the next

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<v Speaker 1>day and it was fine and lived through the worst

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<v Speaker 1>day on tour, and I pray to God. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>said in the intro, I have broken ribs, punctured lungs,

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<v Speaker 1>dislocated shoulders, got stitches, numerous other injuries, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>take any of those over I've lost my voice. I

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<v Speaker 1>would take any of those over having the stomach bug,

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<v Speaker 1>food poisoning and trying to play a ninety minute show

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<v Speaker 1>was absolutely terrifying. And I hope I didn't gross you

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<v Speaker 1>guys out. It's good to tell the story. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to answer some questions that you guys sent in and

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<v Speaker 1>I harvested these questions from Instagram, and I set something

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<v Speaker 1>up this is new for this podcast. Today. I set

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<v Speaker 1>up an email address and this is Granger Smith Podcast

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<v Speaker 1>at gmail dot com, Grangersmith Podcast at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you have a question, email that and put

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<v Speaker 1>question in the subject line and ask your question. And

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<v Speaker 1>so then I could start going through Allstar instead of

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<v Speaker 1>going to Instagram all the time. I'll grab questions from

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<v Speaker 1>your email, and I think that'll be a better way

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<v Speaker 1>for me to And you could also write more because

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<v Speaker 1>I've noticed that people when they go on Instagram they

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<v Speaker 1>can't there's only a certain amount of characters. They can't

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<v Speaker 1>say their full questions sometimes, So you can write a

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<v Speaker 1>whole paragraph if you want, and I will read these personally.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not going to be fielded by a producer

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<v Speaker 1>of any kind. I'll go on and check this email

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<v Speaker 1>personally and go through these questions and then I'll use

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<v Speaker 1>these for future podcast. This first question comes from Brandon

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. He says, what are your plans for the

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<v Speaker 1>truck after it's restored? And he's talking about our series

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<v Speaker 1>on this channel on YouTube called Restoring Earl Dibble's Old Truck,

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<v Speaker 1>and we are we see the finish line, we see

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<v Speaker 1>the light at the end of the tunnel. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Restoring Earl's Truck and after it's finished. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll answer that two ways. Brain. And first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna drive this truck. I'm gonna drive this truck

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. It's probably going to become my main vehicle.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't have air conditioning, so I'll probably use it as

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<v Speaker 1>my main vehicle in the fall and winter, and when

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<v Speaker 1>it heats up again in twenty twenty one in the

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<v Speaker 1>early summer, I might go back to an air conditioning truck.

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<v Speaker 1>But man, I'm gonna drive the heck of it. But

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<v Speaker 1>another way I'll answer this is what are we gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do with the channel after we finish with Butch and

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<v Speaker 1>Bull my two bus drivers. What are we going to

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<v Speaker 1>do when we finish the truck and we're gonna start

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<v Speaker 1>something else, We're gonna start restoring something else. So comment below,

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<v Speaker 1>shoot me an email Crangersmith Podcast at gmail, and let

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<v Speaker 1>me know what you'd like to see us restore. My

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<v Speaker 1>thought is that we moved to sticking with the theme

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<v Speaker 1>of mom and Dad's ranch where I got the old

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<v Speaker 1>truck from out of the barn. I'm thinking about bringing

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<v Speaker 1>that old Massy Ferguson. It's we have an old Massy

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<v Speaker 1>two four oh and it's a song that I it's

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<v Speaker 1>a tractor. I've used a lot in my life. It

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<v Speaker 1>was dad's and I've used it in a bunch of songs.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a song I have called Tractor that talks about

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<v Speaker 1>this particular Massy two four oh. It's in several music

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<v Speaker 1>videos of mine, most known for the music video Tractor,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's also driven by Earl Dibbles a bunch and

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<v Speaker 1>this is just an old tractor that's kind of falling apart.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm thinking about getting Butch and Bull and bringing

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<v Speaker 1>that me old Massy into the shop here at EEEE

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<v Speaker 1>Apparel and starting that. So let me know if that's

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<v Speaker 1>something you'd like to see or maybe we should do

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<v Speaker 1>something else. Here's a question that says, what's the story

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<v Speaker 1>with your food poisoning? Amber mentioned it on The Smiths.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go. Woul answers that one for you. Tori.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, if you're if you're listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and you haven't seen The Smiths, that's our family

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<v Speaker 1>vog channel and it has a separate YouTube channel called

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<v Speaker 1>The Smiths and love that channel. Very passionate about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's much more it's much more personal usually uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>it involves my family and it's a very personal vlog style.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna start building a farmhouse and restore and building

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<v Speaker 1>that farmhouse. I'll do a series on this channel and

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<v Speaker 1>on the Smiths as well. Here's a question that's ironic

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<v Speaker 1>that I kind of answered earlier too, is what do

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<v Speaker 1>you do if you get a bad sore throat and

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<v Speaker 1>you're on tour? That is, uh, something I got to

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<v Speaker 1>work through. I gotta play. I don't cancel shows because

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<v Speaker 1>of sore throats, so we keep on playing. Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>have to change the melodies, but it sucks. I could

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<v Speaker 1>use different different things to spray in my throat. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you could spray vodka, yeah, literally on the back of

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<v Speaker 1>your throat, and it gives it just a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of energy to get you through several songs. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel when you see EEE stickers on cars when driving?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel great. I love seeing EEE stickers on cars.

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<v Speaker 1>And I screenshot of this to remind myself that one

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<v Speaker 1>of these days we've wanted to see one at the

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<v Speaker 1>right time, the right place where maybe we're in the

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<v Speaker 1>bus and we could actually stop the bus and it

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<v Speaker 1>would be amazing if we saw a EE truck, a

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<v Speaker 1>truck with the EE sticker parked at a house in

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<v Speaker 1>a driveway, and we could literally stop the bus and

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<v Speaker 1>all get out and go knock on the door of

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<v Speaker 1>that house and see who drives that truck. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that would be the coolest thing ever, and it would

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<v Speaker 1>have to be the right place, right time. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you have if you have a sticker on your truck

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<v Speaker 1>or on your car, park it in your driveway and

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<v Speaker 1>one of these days we'll the bus in and come

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<v Speaker 1>say hot to you. It's a good question from Bailey

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. It says, what can I do to teach

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<v Speaker 1>myself to think in the present and not overthink the future.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great question, and it's a great it's a

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<v Speaker 1>great strategy. And living in the present is such a

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<v Speaker 1>such an important aspect to sanity, and it's it's important

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<v Speaker 1>when I mention the concept of living in the present,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's a difference between frivolous expedient living, like don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about anything, just live in the present, do it,

0:24:47.480 --> 0:24:51.800
<v Speaker 1>do whatever comes to your mind. There's a there's carelessness

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<v Speaker 1>to that thought. And so I'm pretty sure what Bailey

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<v Speaker 1>means is the more conscious present living, where you plan

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<v Speaker 1>for the few, but you are aware that it can change,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not devastated if it does. You're not completely

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<v Speaker 1>thrown off the rails if the future you plan for

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen, because the fact is it might not. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not guaranteed. You can't change the past, you can't guarantee

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<v Speaker 1>the future. So the only thing you can control is

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<v Speaker 1>right now, in the present. So how do you teach yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>The question is what can I do to teach myself

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<v Speaker 1>to think in the present and not overthink the future.

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<v Speaker 1>The first thing that comes to my mind is devices phones,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to limit your phone time because it

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<v Speaker 1>creates an unconsciousness in the present for your brain. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things in life that become such a

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<v Speaker 1>distraction that it creates a literal unconsciousness of where you

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<v Speaker 1>are and what you're doing. It creates an unintentional daydream

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<v Speaker 1>where you are transported from the present moment to whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you're focusing on, your scrolling or on your mindless tiktoking,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever your vice is. So limit your time on there

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<v Speaker 1>and start with the mornings. In the evenings, those are

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<v Speaker 1>precious times. You can't spend your first waking hours scrolling

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:33.880
<v Speaker 1>social media because it's going to take you way off

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<v Speaker 1>your path. And then the same thing, you can't do

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<v Speaker 1>it at night right before you go to bed. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to give yourself about an hour, so for me,

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<v Speaker 1>an hour before you go to sleep. So for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't sleep with my phone in the same room.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a charger plugged into the wall outside of

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<v Speaker 1>my bedroom that forces me to leave the phone side

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<v Speaker 1>at night and in the morning, so when I wake up,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't just reach forard on my bedside and start scrolling.

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<v Speaker 1>There is an addiction to that. I feel it. Everyone

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>feels it. And then at night you don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>tendency to sit there and stare at that screen right

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<v Speaker 1>before you're so tired. You got to close your eyes

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:20.320
<v Speaker 1>and then you put it on your nightstand. So I

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<v Speaker 1>get it out of my room. I get it completely

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<v Speaker 1>away from me, to get away from that kind of temptation.

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<v Speaker 1>Part of that problem is just that blue light. Looking

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<v Speaker 1>at that light. And we've all heard about this blue

0:27:32.560 --> 0:27:35.560
<v Speaker 1>light problem of staring at screens and what that does

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:39.119
<v Speaker 1>to your brain as far as keeping you awake. But

0:27:40.320 --> 0:27:44.359
<v Speaker 1>it's such a huge problem in distracting you from being

0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:48.760
<v Speaker 1>having a conscious living. Another thing you could do is

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:54.160
<v Speaker 1>whenever you lay your head down on the pillow, which

0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>is such a huge tendency at that time to start

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 1>worrying or planning for tomorrow. Like you hit your head

0:28:02.240 --> 0:28:04.199
<v Speaker 1>on the pillow and the lights are out and you

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 1>close your eyes and you think, Okay, what do I

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:08.920
<v Speaker 1>need to do in the morning again? I need to Okay,

0:28:08.920 --> 0:28:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I need to make that I need to return this

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 1>phone call, I need to pay this bill. Oh and

0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 1>on my way to work, I've got to remember to

0:28:17.400 --> 0:28:20.879
<v Speaker 1>put air in my right front tire that's low. And

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 1>then oh and I forgot I'm gonna have a I

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:28.239
<v Speaker 1>need to go to the dentist at three o'clock, so

0:28:28.600 --> 0:28:30.400
<v Speaker 1>that means I need to take a short lunch break.

0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, these are things that are not necessary

0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:36.359
<v Speaker 1>when you get in bed, when you close your eyes.

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:39.360
<v Speaker 1>So I have a strict rule in my brain, like

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not thinking about tomorrow once I lay my head down.

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 1>So how do you get away from that? Sometimes it

0:28:45.320 --> 0:28:48.240
<v Speaker 1>comes all the way down to focusing on your breathing,

0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:52.200
<v Speaker 1>focusing on instead of thinking about tomorrow, thinking about the

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:56.760
<v Speaker 1>breaths coming in, the breath's going out, the chest rises,

0:28:57.360 --> 0:29:02.760
<v Speaker 1>the chest falls, the belly rises, the belly falls, the

0:29:02.800 --> 0:29:07.240
<v Speaker 1>air conditioner whirling out of event. You think about things

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 1>that are present for you right now. It's also a

0:29:10.080 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 1>really good way to fall asleep, and then during the

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 1>day you could do the same thing during the day.

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 1>Driving is a good example. So many times when we're driving,

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:23.360
<v Speaker 1>were so distracted by daydreaming about the future or reminiscing

0:29:23.360 --> 0:29:27.600
<v Speaker 1>about the past. It's easy to let miles go by

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 1>in the car and you go, man, I forgot where

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I was the last five minutes. I've been unconscious. And

0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I've heard people say to grab that present moment back

0:29:40.080 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>when you're driving. Sometimes you got to put both hands

0:29:43.040 --> 0:29:46.440
<v Speaker 1>on the steering wheel and grip that steering wheel and

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 1>feel your hands and feel that vibration of the seat

0:29:49.520 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 1>you're sitting in, feel the moment you're in, and feel

0:29:53.640 --> 0:29:57.600
<v Speaker 1>your hands on that steerwell, feel what that vinyl feels

0:29:57.640 --> 0:30:02.400
<v Speaker 1>like in your grip, and that present thought of being

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 1>right here, right now. Not where I'm going, not that

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm running late, not that I'm in traffic. This ruins

0:30:07.640 --> 0:30:11.080
<v Speaker 1>my day, but I'm right here. I'm right here in

0:30:11.160 --> 0:30:16.920
<v Speaker 1>the seat driving my car. Those are ways to hack

0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:20.239
<v Speaker 1>your brain into not overthinking the future. I'm gonna take

0:30:20.240 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 1>a quick break. This is an interesting question that says,

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:32.240
<v Speaker 1>did you ever break up with your wife before you

0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 1>married her? Amber and I have an interesting story, and

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 1>I guess we have an interesting relationship. But I met

0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Amber on the music video shoot, my very first music

0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:52.240
<v Speaker 1>video shoot. She was the love interest in that music

0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>video called Don't Listen to the Radio. So you can

0:30:55.280 --> 0:30:57.840
<v Speaker 1>you can go back and look at the two thousand

0:30:57.880 --> 0:31:02.960
<v Speaker 1>and nine music video of mine and see us on

0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 1>our first day, the first day we met, the first

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 1>day we knew each other, and we fell in love.

0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:14.200
<v Speaker 1>I fell in love with that girl. And we thought

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>that maybe, or at least we worried that that love

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 1>or that infatuation we felt for each other was because

0:31:25.160 --> 0:31:30.160
<v Speaker 1>of the environment we were in and because the fairy

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 1>tale set up that we were living in for that

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 1>music video, and so we wanted to at least I

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 1>wanted to be cautious moving forward into a real relationship.

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:46.680
<v Speaker 1>And she had a boyfriend at the time, So the

0:31:46.720 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 1>first thing that needed to happen was she needed to

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 1>break up with it with her boyfriend, because regardless of

0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 1>me or how she felt for me, she had a

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>wondering eye, meaning she wasn't totally satisfied or happy, I

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>should say, with the guy she was with. So she

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 1>did she broke up with that guy, and or three

0:32:06.280 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>weeks later or so, we met up for coffee at

0:32:10.000 --> 0:32:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Starbucks after a show of mine, and we shut that

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:16.040
<v Speaker 1>place down. They closed down and put put chairs on

0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:18.760
<v Speaker 1>top of the tables while we were still there with

0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:21.400
<v Speaker 1>they kicked us out, and we had a really good connection.

0:32:21.560 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 1>And it was just a few months later after that

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I bought her a ring for her, a wedding ring,

0:32:28.120 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 1>and then a few months later after that I proposed,

0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>and then a few months later after that we got married.

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:38.360
<v Speaker 1>So all within a year of meeting, we were already married.

0:32:40.760 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>The funny thing is in that video don't listen to

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 1>the radio. The song is about trying to forget a girl.

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:53.360
<v Speaker 1>So I'm remembering in the video scenes of us in

0:32:53.440 --> 0:32:56.160
<v Speaker 1>our good times and scenes of us in our bad

0:32:56.200 --> 0:33:01.480
<v Speaker 1>times in a fictitious relationship. And we had a fake

0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:05.080
<v Speaker 1>fight on set on in the video, So if you

0:33:05.120 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>watch the video, you'll see like a fake fight where

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>she's mad and she's thrown clothes into a suitcase and

0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>she leaves in a hurry and flies off in her car,

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:21.000
<v Speaker 1>and that is the only time that that's ever really

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 1>happened to us. We've never gotten into a big, drag

0:33:26.680 --> 0:33:33.280
<v Speaker 1>out fight. We've never had a big heated argument, and

0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why. I don't know why. I know

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:41.120
<v Speaker 1>why from my perspective, because she's an amazing girl that

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:45.920
<v Speaker 1>is very patient with me and takes my side a

0:33:45.920 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 1>lot when maybe she shouldn't take my side, but I

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 1>do that in return to her. So what comes first

0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>her her being so patient with me and me repaying

0:33:58.000 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 1>that back to her or vice versa. I don't know,

0:34:00.960 --> 0:34:04.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's irrelevant. The fact is we just have a

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:07.120
<v Speaker 1>really good relationship and we have for ten years now,

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>eleven years now, ten years married, and I'm very grateful

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 1>for that. I feel like she's the biggest blessing of

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:21.640
<v Speaker 1>my life because relationships I had before her weren't like it.

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>We fought all the time, and she talks about her

0:34:24.000 --> 0:34:26.920
<v Speaker 1>past relationships they fought all the time. So it's not

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 1>something in my personality that is just non confrontational to

0:34:32.640 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 1>a girl, and same with her. It's just something that

0:34:36.080 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>when we come together, our personalities work. It's a match

0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 1>that's not to say that we don't disagree, but we

0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:52.719
<v Speaker 1>never let an argument because we want to be right

0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:57.799
<v Speaker 1>get in the way of our affection for each other

0:34:57.880 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>and our passion for keeping each other happy and content,

0:35:07.440 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>and our fear of ever damaging with words the other

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:23.720
<v Speaker 1>person damaging Amber with words is a much greater fear

0:35:23.760 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 1>of mine than me just being wrong in any in

0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:31.840
<v Speaker 1>any given situation. And so when we we don't see

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:37.880
<v Speaker 1>something eye to eye, we talk it out lovingly. And

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 1>that's just how it's been. Some people might think, well,

0:35:40.960 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>how could you have a relationship if you don't have passion.

0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I love passionate fighting, because then we make up and

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:48.720
<v Speaker 1>it's amazing, and then we're better than we were before

0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:50.960
<v Speaker 1>because we had we let it all out and we

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.359
<v Speaker 1>had a big, drag out fight, and then we had

0:35:53.360 --> 0:36:00.400
<v Speaker 1>this this beautiful makeup with each other and then we're better. Hey, man,

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:05.279
<v Speaker 1>that's amazing. If that works for you, my hat's off

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:09.799
<v Speaker 1>to you. And if you're truly getting better each time

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 1>that happens, that's great. But at the same time, I

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:17.280
<v Speaker 1>don't have something lacking in my relationship because we don't

0:36:17.280 --> 0:36:25.799
<v Speaker 1>have passionate fighting. So that's the way it is, and

0:36:27.040 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 1>to answer your question specifically here do you did you

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:33.279
<v Speaker 1>ever break up with your wife before you married her?

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 1>So that brings up an interesting point here because you

0:36:38.160 --> 0:36:41.880
<v Speaker 1>could be listening and in a relationship without being married

0:36:42.280 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 1>and you fight all the time, and to that, I

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:50.799
<v Speaker 1>would say, maybe you should break up for good. And

0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:53.560
<v Speaker 1>sometimes that's that's a hard reality to think about. But

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:55.960
<v Speaker 1>that's what I would have done, and that's what I

0:36:55.960 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 1>would do now before I was married. Now when you're married,

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 1>it's different. You got to work through things. That's your

0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:05.000
<v Speaker 1>obligation is too, for better or for worse. You got

0:37:05.040 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 1>to you got to find a way, even if it's

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 1>through passionate fighting. You've got to find a way to

0:37:09.680 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 1>make it work because you have committed yourself to this

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 1>other person in front of your family and before God.

0:37:17.280 --> 0:37:20.280
<v Speaker 1>So marriage is very sacred to me. I believe marriage

0:37:20.320 --> 0:37:23.240
<v Speaker 1>is a sacred thing. So you don't have that luxury

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:26.440
<v Speaker 1>just to back out as you would. But if you're

0:37:26.520 --> 0:37:29.239
<v Speaker 1>dating and you're just fight all the time, and you

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:31.319
<v Speaker 1>might you might be in love, because I believe you

0:37:31.360 --> 0:37:34.840
<v Speaker 1>can be in love with many people in your life,

0:37:34.880 --> 0:37:38.960
<v Speaker 1>and then sometimes the love is small and then it

0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:43.840
<v Speaker 1>could grow to a massive spousal love, or sometimes it

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:47.520
<v Speaker 1>could just fizzle away. I think love my belief can

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:53.239
<v Speaker 1>you could have a strong infatuation that feels like love

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 1>and might even be love that doesn't turn into a

0:37:57.040 --> 0:38:01.160
<v Speaker 1>lifetime of love. It could go away. So if you're

0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 1>in a situation where you fight all the time, I

0:38:02.600 --> 0:38:05.160
<v Speaker 1>think you could break up, and you're good unless you're married.

0:38:05.160 --> 0:38:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Don't do that if you're married, But if you're if

0:38:06.640 --> 0:38:09.200
<v Speaker 1>you're just dating, I think you'd be good with that.

0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:12.359
<v Speaker 1>You might be better off. You got to be kind

0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:14.319
<v Speaker 1>of selfish when you're dating. You can't be selfish when

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you're married. It's all about the other person when you're married.

0:38:16.680 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>But when you're dating and you're single, Hey, you could

0:38:20.160 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 1>be selfish. That's okay, you need it's actually more fair

0:38:23.600 --> 0:38:26.480
<v Speaker 1>to that your partner if you are selfish at the beginning,

0:38:27.400 --> 0:38:30.759
<v Speaker 1>it's only fair to him or her that you're making

0:38:30.800 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 1>the right decisions for yourself so that you could give

0:38:33.520 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 1>your full self to them later. Does that make sense?

0:38:41.560 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 1>This question says, why didn't you build your new house

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:46.960
<v Speaker 1>on your farm you already had? Just curious and I

0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 1>think you're talking about the eee farm where I am

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:51.400
<v Speaker 1>right now, why didn't I build a house right here

0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:56.160
<v Speaker 1>on the eeee farm, right next Toyeee Apparel and a

0:38:56.640 --> 0:39:01.759
<v Speaker 1>couple answers it's probably a good question. This farm is

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:06.000
<v Speaker 1>not all mine. I own this with my brothers, So

0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:10.879
<v Speaker 1>it would be a serious decision to make a three

0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 1>way decision if I'm just going to build my house

0:39:13.040 --> 0:39:16.239
<v Speaker 1>right out here in the front of the property, because

0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:19.480
<v Speaker 1>I would be carving out a homestead in the middle

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:24.920
<v Speaker 1>of a commercial property that I don't fully own, and

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:30.920
<v Speaker 1>what happens if they don't totally agree with that. That

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 1>creates problems big time. So another reason is there's people

0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:43.960
<v Speaker 1>that work here. There's delivery services, there's a you know,

0:39:45.000 --> 0:39:47.479
<v Speaker 1>it's very busy here at the Eee Farm. There's people

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:50.120
<v Speaker 1>coming in and out all the time. And when I

0:39:50.160 --> 0:39:53.360
<v Speaker 1>go home, I always want a home that is not

0:39:53.520 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 1>business related all the time. So I wouldn't want to

0:39:57.160 --> 0:40:00.799
<v Speaker 1>live in a spot with my family where it's like, well,

0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Granger's not here, but he's home, and it's just a

0:40:03.160 --> 0:40:05.080
<v Speaker 1>couple hundred yards right that way you can just walk

0:40:05.120 --> 0:40:07.920
<v Speaker 1>down to his house. I would rather keep that separate.

0:40:08.680 --> 0:40:12.279
<v Speaker 1>So although it would make financial sense to build a

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:16.560
<v Speaker 1>house right here, it doesn't make a total sense for

0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:23.400
<v Speaker 1>me as a human being. Owen Dixon on Instagram says,

0:40:24.000 --> 0:40:27.279
<v Speaker 1>how do you stay motivated? What helps you push through

0:40:27.360 --> 0:40:36.879
<v Speaker 1>and do your best? It's a great question, and it's

0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 1>a tricky one. How do you stay motivated? What helps

0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 1>you push through and do your best? Discipline is the

0:40:44.120 --> 0:40:50.880
<v Speaker 1>first thing that comes to mind. Discipline in my daily habits.

0:40:52.920 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 1>It's easy to get off the track of motivation if

0:40:56.719 --> 0:41:01.880
<v Speaker 1>you don't have a squared away schedule. When you don't

0:41:02.160 --> 0:41:06.359
<v Speaker 1>have to have a squared away schedule, meaning if you've

0:41:06.360 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 1>got to be at work at eight o'clock and you

0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:11.320
<v Speaker 1>got and you get off at five whatever, that's your schedule.

0:41:11.560 --> 0:41:14.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what your boss makes for you. But when you

0:41:14.239 --> 0:41:18.960
<v Speaker 1>could choose on a Saturday or Sunday, whatever your schedule

0:41:19.040 --> 0:41:21.440
<v Speaker 1>might be, you have to kind of be careful with

0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:26.320
<v Speaker 1>that because I choose me personally to set my alarm

0:41:26.840 --> 0:41:30.600
<v Speaker 1>the same time every day, and then if something happens,

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 1>like like we work till on a music video till

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:37.239
<v Speaker 1>two or three o'clock in the morning, I'm gonna look

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:40.359
<v Speaker 1>at my alarm and go, uh, probably not gonna get

0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:42.719
<v Speaker 1>up at that time. I'm gonna I'm gonna try to

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 1>get my seven hours in here. But I like to

0:41:47.920 --> 0:41:51.479
<v Speaker 1>set my schedule and get up at the same time,

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:55.880
<v Speaker 1>eat the same kind of breakfast, and that keeps me

0:41:56.000 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 1>motivated to stay on task to eventually do my best.

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:03.479
<v Speaker 1>And I want to set instead of setting specific goals,

0:42:03.520 --> 0:42:06.239
<v Speaker 1>I like to set intentions so that I'm gonna wake

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 1>up and my intention is to do this and this

0:42:11.280 --> 0:42:14.680
<v Speaker 1>and this and this ultimately to have the best day

0:42:14.719 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 1>that I can, instead of worrying about next week or

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:20.759
<v Speaker 1>next month or this entire year. It's hard to have

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 1>a new Year's resolution and say, in twenty twenty one,

0:42:22.680 --> 0:42:27.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do this. It's way easier to go day

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 1>by day. I have three hundred and sixty five days

0:42:29.840 --> 0:42:32.160
<v Speaker 1>in twenty twenty one, and each of those days, I'm

0:42:32.200 --> 0:42:35.879
<v Speaker 1>gonna set an intention to be my best, to hold

0:42:35.880 --> 0:42:37.880
<v Speaker 1>my tongue when I want to say something sharp to

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:42.600
<v Speaker 1>someone else, to listen more, to learn more. Maybe that's

0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:46.840
<v Speaker 1>with reading or listening to people that know more about

0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 1>life than I do. I'm going to be more involved

0:42:50.520 --> 0:42:53.960
<v Speaker 1>with my family. You could set intentions like that, I'm

0:42:54.000 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna be the best I can for Ye Apparel and

0:42:57.520 --> 0:43:01.279
<v Speaker 1>for my tour and for the new album, and so

0:43:01.800 --> 0:43:04.240
<v Speaker 1>to me, that starts with some kind of regimented schedule.

0:43:04.520 --> 0:43:06.600
<v Speaker 1>It's the first thing I want to do to stay motivated.

0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Otherwise I'm gonna go probably just stay in bed for

0:43:10.120 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>a while. Let me parlay that right into the next question.

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever struggle with anxiety? And how do you

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:24.840
<v Speaker 1>overcome it? That question really parlays into what I've said

0:43:24.960 --> 0:43:29.920
<v Speaker 1>a couple times on this podcast already. Anxiety is a

0:43:29.960 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 1>tough thing, it's a dangerous thing, and it could be

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:40.560
<v Speaker 1>triggered by many things. The many things includes things that

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:45.600
<v Speaker 1>you can't control, and you really have to open yourself

0:43:45.680 --> 0:43:48.920
<v Speaker 1>up to life, the struggle of life, and know that

0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:52.440
<v Speaker 1>it's real, know that it exists, and be open to

0:43:52.600 --> 0:43:57.319
<v Speaker 1>accepting that struggle as part of the plan. What do

0:43:57.360 --> 0:44:01.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean by that? I mean today I could come

0:44:01.040 --> 0:44:03.640
<v Speaker 1>in here thinking, Kevin, I got to knock out this podcast.

0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:05.840
<v Speaker 1>I gotta do a bunch of cameos. I gotta do,

0:44:05.880 --> 0:44:08.719
<v Speaker 1>I gotta do a promo for the new album. I

0:44:08.760 --> 0:44:10.000
<v Speaker 1>gotta go in there and I got to do we

0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:12.160
<v Speaker 1>have to do a photo shoot for the new apparel line.

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I have to meet with my brothers and we have

0:44:14.120 --> 0:44:18.120
<v Speaker 1>a conference call with the new product we're gonna put out,

0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:23.520
<v Speaker 1>and on my way to the farm, a terrible storm

0:44:23.560 --> 0:44:27.279
<v Speaker 1>comes in and blows out the road ahead of me

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:35.440
<v Speaker 1>and my truck gets flooded. Whatever. That is something that

0:44:35.840 --> 0:44:39.960
<v Speaker 1>is inevitable. The struggle, the roadblock is inevitable, and I

0:44:40.000 --> 0:44:42.399
<v Speaker 1>can't control it. But what I can control is how

0:44:42.440 --> 0:44:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I react to it. Now, I could I could look

0:44:44.560 --> 0:44:46.920
<v Speaker 1>at that as like my day's ruined, everything's ruined, or

0:44:46.960 --> 0:44:53.360
<v Speaker 1>I could say, well, this sucks, but I expect a

0:44:53.400 --> 0:44:55.760
<v Speaker 1>certain amount of suck with life because I'm a human.

0:44:56.239 --> 0:44:59.280
<v Speaker 1>I expect a certain amount of struggle because I'm a human.

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 1>And if you could open yourself up to that, that's amazing. Now,

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:09.640
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, there are certain anxieties that you

0:45:09.760 --> 0:45:13.680
<v Speaker 1>can control, right, So you've got a bunch of things

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:15.480
<v Speaker 1>coming in that you can't, and you've got a bunch

0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:17.400
<v Speaker 1>of things coming in that you can. So let's focus

0:45:17.400 --> 0:45:19.120
<v Speaker 1>on the ones that you can. So let's go back

0:45:19.120 --> 0:45:20.680
<v Speaker 1>to what I said about the cell phone. The cell

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:25.279
<v Speaker 1>phone you can control being addicted to social media and

0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:30.360
<v Speaker 1>scrolling and scrolling and scrolling mindlessly, becoming unconscious at times

0:45:30.480 --> 0:45:34.400
<v Speaker 1>that you don't need them morning, night, your lunch break,

0:45:34.440 --> 0:45:38.799
<v Speaker 1>whatever that might be. You can control that. You can

0:45:38.960 --> 0:45:42.120
<v Speaker 1>control when that phone rings and it's that someone that

0:45:42.200 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you didn't they there's someone in your life that drives

0:45:46.120 --> 0:45:49.240
<v Speaker 1>you crazy. Every time they call, they always have a problem,

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:51.160
<v Speaker 1>they want you to fix it, or they just want

0:45:51.200 --> 0:45:55.680
<v Speaker 1>to complain about something and expect you to soak it

0:45:55.719 --> 0:45:59.279
<v Speaker 1>in and listen. So you can control that too. You

0:45:59.320 --> 0:46:01.840
<v Speaker 1>could either an you don't have to answer that call anymore.

0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:05.759
<v Speaker 1>Be you straight up tell them listen, we'll throw mom

0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:08.279
<v Speaker 1>and their moms are notorious for this from people I

0:46:08.320 --> 0:46:10.839
<v Speaker 1>talk to. Mine is not. I love my mom, But

0:46:10.880 --> 0:46:12.640
<v Speaker 1>you can get a call from your mom and go,

0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:16.800
<v Speaker 1>you know what, Mom, I don't have space right now

0:46:17.600 --> 0:46:22.600
<v Speaker 1>for this problem. I love you, I want to be

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 1>here for you, but I have heard you complain about

0:46:26.040 --> 0:46:29.879
<v Speaker 1>this situation, and I don't have space with everything going

0:46:29.880 --> 0:46:33.880
<v Speaker 1>on with me right now to help you walk you

0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:37.160
<v Speaker 1>through this problem. It's only going to make me worse.

0:46:37.200 --> 0:46:39.799
<v Speaker 1>And I need to be my best for you so

0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:42.520
<v Speaker 1>that when you you really need me. I need to

0:46:42.560 --> 0:46:45.960
<v Speaker 1>be recharged and ready for your problem so I can

0:46:46.000 --> 0:46:49.239
<v Speaker 1>handle it. And right now I'm not. I'm dealing with

0:46:49.280 --> 0:46:51.239
<v Speaker 1>some anxiety. I got some stuff going on work, I

0:46:51.280 --> 0:46:55.320
<v Speaker 1>got stuff at home, and I can't be my best

0:46:55.719 --> 0:47:00.440
<v Speaker 1>if I absorb your problem. So you gotta with that

0:47:00.600 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 1>right now. Everyone's got that person in your life. You

0:47:03.120 --> 0:47:06.239
<v Speaker 1>got to deal with that person right now. It could

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:08.560
<v Speaker 1>be you don't have to text them back right now.

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Right they text you and there's this long text and

0:47:11.080 --> 0:47:14.960
<v Speaker 1>it's this big problem and you're part of it. You

0:47:15.000 --> 0:47:17.680
<v Speaker 1>don't got to reply right now. You could wait till

0:47:17.719 --> 0:47:22.840
<v Speaker 1>tomorrow to reply. You could train them to know that

0:47:22.920 --> 0:47:25.120
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to come at them and help them

0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:28.960
<v Speaker 1>fix their own problem right now, or their perception of

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:31.640
<v Speaker 1>how they think you messed up and you did them wrong.

0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:34.799
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to fix that right now. Right that's

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:43.600
<v Speaker 1>a big deal. Let's deal with that together. Okay. This

0:47:43.680 --> 0:47:47.520
<v Speaker 1>question says, will there be an actual CD talking about

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:51.959
<v Speaker 1>the new album or is that too old school these days? Yes,

0:47:52.040 --> 0:47:56.040
<v Speaker 1>there will be an actual CD. So this new album

0:47:56.320 --> 0:47:59.920
<v Speaker 1>is divided up into two volumes, Volume one in volume two.

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:02.760
<v Speaker 1>Volume one is gonna come out September twenty fifth. Volume

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:04.960
<v Speaker 1>two is gonna come out around Thanksgiving. Now, when volume

0:48:05.000 --> 0:48:08.080
<v Speaker 1>two comes out, all of the songs from volume one

0:48:08.160 --> 0:48:11.759
<v Speaker 1>will join it, and they will combine into one big

0:48:11.800 --> 0:48:17.440
<v Speaker 1>digital piece and one CD and one vinyl, so around

0:48:17.520 --> 0:48:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Thanksgiving it'll all suit. It's called Country Things Volume one

0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and Country Things Volume two, but by Thanksgiving it'll just

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:28.720
<v Speaker 1>be Country Things and it'll be all of them together vinyl, CD, digital.

0:48:32.120 --> 0:48:34.560
<v Speaker 1>This question says, will you be releasing new music with

0:48:34.640 --> 0:48:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Earl Diuvilis Junior anytime soon? Yes? Yes, yes, So this

0:48:39.600 --> 0:48:42.960
<v Speaker 1>new Volume one will have a song featuring Earl with

0:48:43.040 --> 0:48:47.160
<v Speaker 1>me singing with Earl, and Volume two will have two

0:48:47.920 --> 0:48:53.759
<v Speaker 1>Earl songs by himself, so yes, I will hang in there.

0:48:54.400 --> 0:48:59.920
<v Speaker 1>We'll be doing music videos with those. Also, here's one

0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 1>and it says, what's your greatest advice for someone who

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:10.080
<v Speaker 1>wants to do country music. It's a hard one to

0:49:10.080 --> 0:49:11.840
<v Speaker 1>even find a place to start with that question, but

0:49:13.920 --> 0:49:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I would I would highly suggest staying in your hometown.

0:49:18.239 --> 0:49:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Staying in your hometown. Don't move to LA or New

0:49:21.640 --> 0:49:25.600
<v Speaker 1>York or Nashville. Stay where you are, build your following

0:49:25.840 --> 0:49:28.560
<v Speaker 1>where you are. I can't I can't stress that enough.

0:49:28.960 --> 0:49:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Build your story. This industry needs a story nowadays. It

0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:35.600
<v Speaker 1>can't just it's not like the old days where you

0:49:35.640 --> 0:49:39.120
<v Speaker 1>move to Nashville, and you you get discovered and then

0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you blow up. There's way more to it. You got

0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:44.920
<v Speaker 1>to have a past, you got to have a struggle,

0:49:44.960 --> 0:49:48.000
<v Speaker 1>a story of a way, a path of building a

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:50.440
<v Speaker 1>following in your hometown. And then what I always like

0:49:50.480 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 1>to say too, and I answered this same question a

0:49:52.520 --> 0:49:55.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of times, and I'll keep doing it. But learn

0:49:55.680 --> 0:49:58.280
<v Speaker 1>an instrument. If you know an instrument, learn another instrument,

0:49:59.040 --> 0:50:02.719
<v Speaker 1>write songs like create, learn a recording software. I use

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:05.319
<v Speaker 1>pro Tools. I'm recording pro Tools as we speak for

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:08.720
<v Speaker 1>this podcast. There is not another producer in this room

0:50:09.160 --> 0:50:12.439
<v Speaker 1>right now with this podcast. It's me a camera and

0:50:12.800 --> 0:50:16.160
<v Speaker 1>pro Tools recording audio through this microphone. And I can

0:50:16.239 --> 0:50:20.080
<v Speaker 1>do that because I've spent many, many years recording audio.

0:50:20.160 --> 0:50:22.840
<v Speaker 1>So I think it's important. It's important to learn a

0:50:22.920 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 1>recording software and then play your songs into the recordings

0:50:27.080 --> 0:50:29.120
<v Speaker 1>and listen to them over and over and over and

0:50:29.160 --> 0:50:37.240
<v Speaker 1>critique yourself that way. This question says, do you remember

0:50:37.280 --> 0:50:41.920
<v Speaker 1>your first show and how'd you feel about it? I

0:50:42.560 --> 0:50:52.480
<v Speaker 1>first remember playing Amarillo by Morning at a little camp

0:50:52.520 --> 0:50:55.360
<v Speaker 1>retreat with a bunch of my high school friends junior

0:50:55.440 --> 0:51:00.640
<v Speaker 1>middle school friends, and getting up there because I played

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:04.759
<v Speaker 1>the guitar a little bit and sang a little bit,

0:51:04.840 --> 0:51:07.000
<v Speaker 1>but not in front of people besides people in my

0:51:07.040 --> 0:51:10.880
<v Speaker 1>own house. So people were nudging me like, hey, you

0:51:11.280 --> 0:51:13.799
<v Speaker 1>should get up there, you should sing, And I remember

0:51:13.880 --> 0:51:16.160
<v Speaker 1>getting up there and singing, and I sang George Strait

0:51:16.200 --> 0:51:20.160
<v Speaker 1>Emerald by morning, and people started singing it back to

0:51:20.200 --> 0:51:24.720
<v Speaker 1>me because it's a very popular song, and that feeling

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.759
<v Speaker 1>was very addicting. It's like, wait a minute, I could

0:51:27.840 --> 0:51:31.200
<v Speaker 1>play these chords and sing and then you guys will

0:51:31.200 --> 0:51:35.120
<v Speaker 1>sing it back to me in a big party atmosphere.

0:51:36.000 --> 0:51:38.600
<v Speaker 1>This is something I like. And I got very addicted

0:51:38.640 --> 0:51:40.719
<v Speaker 1>to that, and then it became more and more and

0:51:40.760 --> 0:51:43.120
<v Speaker 1>more the second part of that question, and how do

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:46.520
<v Speaker 1>you feel about it? It wasn't too long after that

0:51:46.520 --> 0:51:50.239
<v Speaker 1>that I started messing up and having mistakes, bad mistakes,

0:51:50.760 --> 0:51:52.920
<v Speaker 1>or maybe I was more conscious and aware that I

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:56.960
<v Speaker 1>wasn't good and I was messing up a melody or

0:51:57.000 --> 0:52:00.239
<v Speaker 1>a word or a lyric or forgetting a verse. And

0:52:00.280 --> 0:52:03.799
<v Speaker 1>then it got almost more addicting because I would get

0:52:03.800 --> 0:52:06.200
<v Speaker 1>so mad at myself for messing up that I want

0:52:06.239 --> 0:52:09.359
<v Speaker 1>I needed to redeem myself and come back and sing

0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:12.400
<v Speaker 1>another show and try to be better than I was

0:52:12.440 --> 0:52:16.879
<v Speaker 1>on this terrible mistake. I remember having a few video

0:52:16.960 --> 0:52:20.960
<v Speaker 1>recordings of those early days and destroying those recordings. I

0:52:21.000 --> 0:52:23.120
<v Speaker 1>wish I had them now, but I remember destroying them

0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:26.120
<v Speaker 1>so that they would be gone forever because I messed up.

0:52:28.360 --> 0:52:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I really wish I could play that for you right now,

0:52:30.160 --> 0:52:33.879
<v Speaker 1>but I don't have them. Here's a question that says,

0:52:33.920 --> 0:52:39.120
<v Speaker 1>what's the hardest thing about being on the road. That's

0:52:39.160 --> 0:52:43.960
<v Speaker 1>got to be a being away from family and friends,

0:52:45.000 --> 0:52:52.840
<v Speaker 1>being sacrificing that country music dream for being there for

0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:58.000
<v Speaker 1>funerals and weddings. And there was a lot of a

0:52:58.040 --> 0:52:59.799
<v Speaker 1>lot of my buddies from college. There's a lot of

0:52:59.800 --> 0:53:03.920
<v Speaker 1>ways things that I missed of theirs that on some

0:53:04.080 --> 0:53:08.759
<v Speaker 1>levels I regret not being there for those guys. At

0:53:08.800 --> 0:53:12.719
<v Speaker 1>the same time, that was part of the sacrifice to

0:53:12.960 --> 0:53:18.560
<v Speaker 1>build a career, meaning that if I had made a

0:53:18.600 --> 0:53:21.480
<v Speaker 1>decision to be at a one wedding, then why wouldn't

0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I make the decision to be at another, or a

0:53:24.600 --> 0:53:28.719
<v Speaker 1>birthday party or a bachelor party? Or where does it end?

0:53:29.280 --> 0:53:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Before you know it, you've lost the foundation of your

0:53:33.080 --> 0:53:39.200
<v Speaker 1>commitment to that dream. And unfortunately, the music business and

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:43.200
<v Speaker 1>dream and being on the road revolves around weekends, and

0:53:43.200 --> 0:53:45.640
<v Speaker 1>that's when everyone else does their parties. That's when all

0:53:45.640 --> 0:53:48.640
<v Speaker 1>the weddings and birthday parties and bachelor parties and even

0:53:48.640 --> 0:53:51.200
<v Speaker 1>funerals are on the weekends, usually because no one else

0:53:51.280 --> 0:53:53.879
<v Speaker 1>is working. So I would joke with my buddies and say, man,

0:53:53.960 --> 0:53:56.319
<v Speaker 1>I can't be at your wedding, but could you make

0:53:56.360 --> 0:54:00.719
<v Speaker 1>it on a Monday. No, because everyone works on Monday exactly.

0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I would say, Monday is my Saturday. To you, I'll

0:54:08.520 --> 0:54:10.640
<v Speaker 1>tell you what a lot more questions. I want to

0:54:10.680 --> 0:54:13.040
<v Speaker 1>take a quick break, reset the camera, you right back.

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<v Speaker 1>type in Granger. That's shipstation dot com. Enter the offer

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<v Speaker 1>code Granger shipstation dot com Make ship happen. I also

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell you guys about Cameo. The best way

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of me to find me right

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<v Speaker 1>now without meeting greets. You go to cameo dot com,

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<v Speaker 1>or you could download the app right there on your

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<v Speaker 1>phone Cameo See am e oh, and you can find me.

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<v Speaker 1>Type in Granger Smith and you could go on there.

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<v Speaker 1>You could send me direct messages. I check those personally.

0:56:37.160 --> 0:56:39.439
<v Speaker 1>No one else checks them but me. You could direct

0:56:39.480 --> 0:56:42.439
<v Speaker 1>message me and we could have a conversation that way.

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<v Speaker 1>You could also consign me to deliver a video for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll get on my phone and I'll record a

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<v Speaker 1>video message to you or your friends. Congratulations, happy anniversary,

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<v Speaker 1>happy birthday, motivation, answer a question, whatever that might be.

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<v Speaker 1>I could do that for you at cameo dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Really exciting times with this new album coming out, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be really excited when I could finally have

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<v Speaker 1>these songs out for you guys to listen to and

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<v Speaker 1>I could ask you what your favorite one. That's one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite things is to say, hey, what song

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys digging right now? Hate you like I

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<v Speaker 1>love you? And country things out there in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't wait for the other six to come out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then for volume two to come out and you

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<v Speaker 1>get another eight songs, so sixteen songs total. Yege Nation.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super excited to finally get those to you. One

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<v Speaker 1>of these questions on the Instagram says, Yegee storefront question mark,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's tough, especially these days, thinking about all the

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<v Speaker 1>stores being shut down earlier in twenty twenty and thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about I'm sure glad we didn't have Ayee appearl storefront.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will say that one of my dreams is

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to have a ee Seed and Feed

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<v Speaker 1>like a general store slash feed store slash apparel slash

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<v Speaker 1>good old boys drink coffee and hang out on the

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<v Speaker 1>front porch and talk about the weather. That's something I

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<v Speaker 1>think would be so cool. Ee Seed and Feed that

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<v Speaker 1>was Tyler's title. I think it has such a good,

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<v Speaker 1>a nice ring to it, and it might be something

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<v Speaker 1>we actually start up. So stay tuned for that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a good question. Will we get to watch your new

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<v Speaker 1>house being built on the Smiths Yes, you're gonna watch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do a version of it on the smith

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also gonna do a version right here on the

0:58:35.520 --> 0:58:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Granger Smith YouTube channel. It'll be something like building my

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<v Speaker 1>dream farmhouse, and we'll go in different parts so that

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<v Speaker 1>I could show the extreme details of the build through

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<v Speaker 1>this channel and then the family aspect of it through

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<v Speaker 1>the Smiths channel. And you could also be able to

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<v Speaker 1>so like you know, part It'll say part putting on

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<v Speaker 1>the roof, whatever you know, and everything we're doing is customs,

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<v Speaker 1>so it should be really fun. But then you can

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<v Speaker 1>go back and watch part one, part two, part three

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<v Speaker 1>leading up to it, just like we're doing with a

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<v Speaker 1>truck restore. Here's a question. Can you tell me more

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<v Speaker 1>about Cameo please? I'd love to keep in contact with you. Yeah. So,

0:59:20.080 --> 0:59:22.760
<v Speaker 1>like I just mentioned Cameo, you just download the app

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<v Speaker 1>on your phone or go to on your computer cameo

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<v Speaker 1>dot com and search Granger. You'll find my profile, click

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<v Speaker 1>on it and then you could see the options send

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<v Speaker 1>me direct messages or make video request and I'll do

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want. Super easy. Are you currently selling merch

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<v Speaker 1>at your shows? I'll be in Cincinnati on the second. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're still selling merch. I know it's a crazy time.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a very unknown time, but we are

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<v Speaker 1>carrying merch and we are selling it. It depends on

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<v Speaker 1>the venue, on how you line up and social distance

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<v Speaker 1>or wear your mask or whatever whatever rules of the venue.

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<v Speaker 1>We follow those. But you could still get ee apparel

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<v Speaker 1>at all the shows. Just no meet and greets. Yet

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<v Speaker 1>that sucks. Hate that. Here's a question that Molly Tisdale

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<v Speaker 1>asked me every single time. Every time I say ask

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<v Speaker 1>me questions for the podcast, Mallly Tisdale comes on here

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<v Speaker 1>and says this, do you believe you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>baptized to get into heaven? Molly? It's such a deep

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<v Speaker 1>question and it would take me an hour to go

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<v Speaker 1>through everything. And there is a great divide amongst Christians.

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<v Speaker 1>Some believe you do need to get baptized to get

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<v Speaker 1>into heaven. Some believe you don't, that it is instead

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<v Speaker 1>an outward expression of an inward change, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is such a that's a cool sentence. Let me say

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<v Speaker 1>it again. Baptism is an outward expression of an inward change.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I believe. So my answer, my quick answer

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<v Speaker 1>is do I believe I need to get baptized to

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<v Speaker 1>get into heaven? My quick answer is no, I do not.

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<v Speaker 1>I do believe it's important, and I do believe that

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<v Speaker 1>if you dig enough into the scripture, there is enough

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<v Speaker 1>evidence for me, not listening to anyone's advice, not listening

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<v Speaker 1>to preachers, not listening to evangelist, there's enough evidence right

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<v Speaker 1>there in the Word of God, in the scripture, that

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<v Speaker 1>you do not need to get baptized. There is a

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<v Speaker 1>there is the reason you're asking. I don't know which

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<v Speaker 1>way you feel, Molly, but there is there is some

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<v Speaker 1>scripture that can seem vague that well maybe maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>what Peter was talking about, that you you actually physically

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<v Speaker 1>need to get baptized to experience heaven. Well, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to before I get, you know, instead of getting super

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<v Speaker 1>deep into those particular scriptures. I don't have that in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me. I do this podcast completely off the cuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have notes in front of me. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>prepared to give you those specific things I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>but I will refer you to a really good podcast

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<v Speaker 1>called Desiring God. It's led by an amazing preacher named

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<v Speaker 1>John Piper. J O H N p I p E R.

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<v Speaker 1>John Piper is fantastic human being, older gentleman, very knowledgeable.

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<v Speaker 1>He could you could type in how about this? You

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<v Speaker 1>could type in and on YouTube John Piper baptism and

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<v Speaker 1>he will lead you on a really good path that

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<v Speaker 1>I fully endorse. The short answer just from the just

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<v Speaker 1>from surface level, I can answer that without scripture, just

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<v Speaker 1>surface level. And why I disagree with thinking that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to physically get baptized is because look at are

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<v Speaker 1>you telling me that what if you're in prison? What

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<v Speaker 1>if you're in prison and you you become a Christian,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning you accept Jesus Christ as your lord and savior,

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<v Speaker 1>except the fact that he came and and died on

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<v Speaker 1>the cross as a as a forgiveness of the sins

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<v Speaker 1>of humanity, and that by believing in him is the way,

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, and the light that that you will be

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<v Speaker 1>a follower and have eternal life in heaven with him.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you do that in prison and then you

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<v Speaker 1>die and you were never baptized, are you saying that

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<v Speaker 1>you are damned eternally? What if how about this, Molly,

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<v Speaker 1>what if you're in your car, or you're at home

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<v Speaker 1>and you become a Christian, fully, wholeheartedly become a Christian.

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<v Speaker 1>And you get in your car and you say, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm reborn, I'm a Christian. I am now a follower

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<v Speaker 1>of Christ. And you get in your car to head

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<v Speaker 1>to church to get baptized. You get in a car

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<v Speaker 1>accident and die. You think God's going to go ooh, technicality, gotcha.

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<v Speaker 1>If you had just not gone through that intersection, you

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<v Speaker 1>could have gotten eternal life. Sorry, I don't think that's

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<v Speaker 1>the case. I believe wholeheartedly that's not the case. And

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<v Speaker 1>there is one very distinct time in the Bible when

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus is on the cross and the thief next to him,

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<v Speaker 1>which we are led to believe lived a life without Christ,

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<v Speaker 1>and the thief looks at Jesus and says, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>remember me when you go into your kingdom, and Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>looks back at him without hesitation and says, yes, today,

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<v Speaker 1>you will be with me in heaven. Well, Jesus didn't say,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you need to step off the cross real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>get baptized to come back to me and then we'll talk.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't mean to make a joke out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's just the way I feel, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>encourage you guys not to take my word for it,

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<v Speaker 1>but go to scripture yourself, and then even further, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't interpret it as well, go to John Piper.

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<v Speaker 1>Type in John Piper Baptism and I think you'll get

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<v Speaker 1>You'll get the answer that I believe in. I'll say

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<v Speaker 1>that you'll get my full endorsement behind John Piper. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a magnificent human being. And it's probably my favorite podcast

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<v Speaker 1>other than this one. Thank you guys for listening. Love

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<v Speaker 1>y'all so much, and I seriously appreciate the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys could come in here and listen to this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially the ones that can make it to the end.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a new You guys are a new level

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<v Speaker 1>for me. We have been sitting here at the EU

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<v Speaker 1>Farm together having a conversation. If you're on a road trip,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're driving your truck right now, if you're on

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<v Speaker 1>a big rig, love you guys, man y'all, stay safe,

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<v Speaker 1>ye ye will see you soon.