WEBVTT - Take a Hike B*tch 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.040 Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Mela and 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:06.320 I'm Erica and we're hiking. 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:11.840 Baby, we're on a high in the wild. Oh sorry, 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:14.319 I'm a fast walk we know we got he's into 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:18.160 this side. Sorry he's slow. You know I'm a fast walker. 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:18.920 I know. 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:20.919 There's a little sh tiny little legs you got. I 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:22.840 have long legs for a short person. 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:24.600 You do. I keep telling you this. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.600 That's why whenever, whenever anyone meets Mela, and they always 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:31.360 think she's so tiny, cause I think you're so much taller. 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:34.519 I know I look tall at my photographs, I look 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:36.280 tall and real life long. 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:39.040 Gate, you're bought tea. 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:45.519 Anyway, we're here in our hood. Uh, hiking in Pryman. 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:50.559 It's a beautiful place. This is a very valley girl staple. 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:54.800 This is nostalgic. I've been hiking Fryman Canyon since I think. 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:55.800 I could walk. 0:00:56.040 --> 0:01:00.600 My mom started bringing me up this hill. This was 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:03.040 my first type I ever went to. If you're from 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:05.280 the valley, then you come to Fryman. You don't go 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:07.080 to Runnian Canyon. You come here. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:08.759 That's a fact. 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:10.880 And you know what, I would even say that like 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.520 the vibes of Frymen are different than Runyan, Like. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:17.160 Yeah, so the people are different. There's more makeup on Runian. 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.880 I was literally about to say that you have to 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:24.600 be fully glam blam. I've gone to Runyan, like just gone. 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.240 I can't and I felt severely underdressed. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:27.520 Wait. 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:29.280 I bought these pants and they're supposed to like be 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:33.400 in your butt pants, but I think nobody but. 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:34.160 What they're called. 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:40.360 Ala like ariola there in my butt a little? 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:43.400 They're not. These are not the good kind. That's this 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.199 gunch right here? Are they doing it? Not? Really? 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:47.120 Okay? 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:49.280 Well you tried. I was really hoping this is me 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:50.400 dressing up on Fryman. 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:53.400 I wasn't dressing up. I was dressing warm because also 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:56.080 I'm not used to this forty degree weather in La. 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:57.080 I'm pissed. 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:57.800 You have one. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.600 Jacket in your whole closet. This is the most you'll 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.240 ever see fully dressed. I had to go pick up 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:02.640 a jacket. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:05.280 This is your ski jacket. This is the jacket you 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:06.040 go skiing. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:09.160 I know I do not like the cold. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:12.120 Did I get iris Stanley Cup? 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:16.000 No? I didn't realize that Stanley was like so important. 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.760 They're people they've been planning the seats and are fucking 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:22.320 kids that Stanley's a cult. The kids have gone mad. 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.120 I went to Target yesterday and I went to go 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:28.320 buy Iri some water bottles and why is every water 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:32.560 bottle thirty dollars in up? Because I'm like, my child 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:34.680 loses these bottles over and oh. 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:36.200 My god, I just reminded me she didn't put a 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:38.280 fucking name on hers. She better not lose that shit. 0:02:38.320 --> 0:02:42.359 I forgot Nisha got it, but still, yeah, you've got 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:45.000 my name. She took it to school today. I had 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:48.000 like a straw and like, what the fucking drinking coffee? 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:48.840 Drinking coffee? 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.720 Your daughter loves coffee. 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:55.800 She does not love coffee. She told me she loves coffee, coffee, 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:56.280 ice cream. 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:57.880 She said, she likes coffee. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:02:59.840 You know what I was thinking? 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:02.120 I was thinking about turtles because like one of the 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:05.400 long like the oldest living like animals on the planet 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.520 is this turtle and that's like five hundred years old. 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:11.320 Whoa yeah, bitch really thinking, how is what does that 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:12.000 heart look like? 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:14.800 What is a five hundred year old? Today's years old? 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:19.040 I was today years old Today's segment of Today years old. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:22.920 Fun fact, The oldest animal on Earth is a fucking turtle. 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:25.280 I can't remember her name or his name, but. 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:31.320 Is five hundred years old. Why does the turtle have 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:32.520 to be a day here? 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:36.560 She is five hundred years old, and I'm mind blown 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:39.520 because I'm whoa, it's a dinosaur. 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:41.040 Dinosaurs alligators too. 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:42.640 I want to know what the inside of that body 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:45.240 looks like, Like, what does your blood look like? 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:49.040 What is five hundred year old blood just recirculating blood? 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:55.160 It probably just looks like blood. I just mean your 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:58.280 heart's still pumping. I wonder is the fountain of us 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:01.760 in the turtle? We can drink the turtles blood. I've 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:06.000 heard about people drinking turtle blood like turtle soup. It's 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:09.800 like maybe that was snake blood. Anyway, you know, blood's 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.040 good for you for real. 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.480 Speaking of blood, I recently so I was talking to 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:20.400 one of our former guests, Mikayla Mama, mush womb Mama, 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:27.760 because I have been every every cycle. During my cycle, 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.680 I've been capturing my blood. And for those listening, if 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:34.440 you're freaked out, you should be. I've been capturing my 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:35.320 blood and. 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:36.680 Been using a sea sponge. 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.280 Well this yesterday was the first time I used the 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:39.840 sea sponge. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:40.600 How'd you like it? 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.640 So I didn't know how to use it because so 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.920 I had to call her because I pulled it out 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.880 and there was no instructions because they can't actually say 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:53.719 that it's for vaginal menstruation really, because there's so much 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:58.840 negativity around it because of not being able to like 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.880 fully fully made make sure it's like sanitized because it's 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.919 from the ocean, and that there might be sand particles 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:05.240 in it. 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:09.000 Well, it tells you to soak it and technically is 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:13.160 it a living organism? Still no, but. 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:17.800 I don't know anyway, So I pulled it out and 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.880 it was so hard, yeah, in the wood, and I 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:20.960 was like, how am I going to use this? 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:22.640 And so she sent me this video. 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:24.320 Did I do it right? 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:25.680 You did it? 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:26.520 Yeah? I used it? 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:28.680 Did you do it hard? Hard? 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:32.800 Oh? I was like, you pussy open minded directions? Oh 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.000 we had we've got it together. 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.880 I don't know mine. Did mine set directions for cleaning it? 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:38.200 Yeah? 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:39.360 And not for putting it in? 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:43.760 No, I figure stuffing it in there? Just stuffed the 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:44.520 sponge now? 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:46.520 Yeah? Yeah, pretty much? 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:46.760 Ok? 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:49.320 It Well, at first I washed it and I cleaned 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.039 it just I put a little vinegar on there and 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:55.240 I cleaned it first, and then you fold it up 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:57.960 like a little taco, yeah, and then you insert it. 0:05:58.000 --> 0:05:59.720 I don't know if the taco. I just stuffed it. 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.839 And may recommend that you still wear like either panty 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:06.960 liner yeah, like period panties or whatever on your heavy days, 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.200 and that you clean it after every use. And then 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:13.120 she was getting really talking about just making sure you 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:16.440 find a bathroom that has it has running water, and 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.280 like having a bidet, which now I think I need 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:19.640 a be day. 0:06:19.960 --> 0:06:22.240 I want to a day too. Yeah, you can just 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:22.880 attach it. 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:24.919 To I don't know why I felt like, and this 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:27.240 is stupid, but I always felt like the days were 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:30.279 insanitary because I was like, we're like I don't know, 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:31.760 I don't know why. I thought it was like just 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:34.679 it is the water from the toilet, but like it's also. 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:37.240 I don't know why. 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:40.000 My mind was like not processing it's the same ship. 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:44.160 But in the video she also says like worst case 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:46.640 scenario if you don't have water, flush the toilet a 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:49.200 few times and just throw the sponge in there and 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:51.320 use the toilet water to get it wet. 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:55.360 And I was like wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait wait, hold. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:57.360 Up apparently the same water. 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:03.240 Bitch now really has the same water bit in the toilet, but. 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:10.120 The particles scenario. No, I didn't do it. I'm doing 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:10.560 it at home. 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.480 But I was just saying it. Worst case scenario, you 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:14.000 flush the. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.200 Toilet and times and you use the water in the 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:20.800 public bathroom toil it. I don't have to talk to 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:24.680 her about this anyway. I'm going to have to talk 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.960 to her about this asap. She's very well educated. 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:29.679 I know she's a genius. 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.320 Her pussy probably smells like fucking jazz. 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.600 I'm not saying it's not. I'm telling her she shouldn't 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.840 do that either. Okay, Well, under no circumstance, I'm gonna 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:39.720 take that bitch to the sink with the common area. 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:42.160 Have a water bottle on me at all times, like 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:43.360 how I do my beauty wonder. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:47.680 Yeah, anyway, And I squeezed it in my plant, so yeah, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.920 so I used it, and so I used my blood 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:53.840 for my altar, and I also use it for my plants. 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:55.800 And now that I live in this new house, I 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:59.560 have no fucking grass anywhere. Oh it's fucking terf Yeah, 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.000 so I have to be creative. 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:05.320 But I put the sponge in I had it in. 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:07.960 For like, wouldn't mean if you created you were burying 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:08.440 it before. 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:11.280 I was burying it, yeah, before, But now I have 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:11.760 I haven't. 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.560 Maybe you can bury it in. 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:14.120 I have some tr I did. 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:16.160 I did, but I feel like that. 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.160 I feel like that soil is so old, Like I 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:20.360 need to resoil my plants and get some fresh soil. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:20.800 Yeah, I need. 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:25.160 Yeah, but I pulled I had it in for like 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:29.680 maybe four hours, and when I pulled it out, I 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:33.160 just I anticipated it being like totally soaked and bloody, 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:33.640 and it wasn't. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:35.439 And then you just run a little water over it 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:36.520 and you squeeze it in the cup. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.439 Yeah, you have all this diluted blood. Yeah, and the 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.520 magic for those watching are scared. 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:45.800 So the men that are recording that are like, what 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:48.240 in the fuck are these bitches talking about? 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:49.559 Like what? 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:52.199 Then we captured up blood and then you put it 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:53.800 in a pants and I take it home. 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.520 And then I kept it on my altar. 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:57.280 And my. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:01.160 But really. 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:04.760 No, I feel like I'm just trying to get really 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.360 used to not being so f grossed out by my 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:08.560 own bodily functions. 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:11.439 So this is my this is my year. 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.959 I don't know if I'm gonna be doing a period painting. 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:18.760 Okay, or I'm not open to that, but you know, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:20.760 I don't know what day. I would just stand over 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:21.439 the canvas. 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:25.600 No, No period painting is you take that water, diluted water, 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:26.640 you put a paint, brushing paint. 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:28.480 No, I said, I could just stand over the canvas 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:30.840 and just do a couple of drip and then use 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:34.040 my fingers, you know, finger painting with it. I don't 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.640 see myself doing that or spreading it on my face. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:40.280 But you can also like enchant your manifestations or have 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.800 your prayers and you can write them out and then 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:47.440 with semen or with blood with semen. Yeah, it's also 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:50.480 like love. It's also life force energy. It's also like 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:53.079 very ponent. It's of the body. So those things you 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:56.800 can enchant your manifestations with, plant those keep them. 0:09:57.679 --> 0:09:59.880 Hm, you have to capture some semen this weekend. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.040 Yeah, hey, excuse me. Can I just get a little 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:07.400 bit of that? I just wrote this one time. I 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.320 had like under my pillow and I was like, listen, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:12.200 when you're done, just pull this out. 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:18.680 The part our bills, our bills, so. 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:22.520 Right, didn't have your feet. 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:28.760 All right? Perfect? 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:33.040 Oh my god, wait, I was trying to do some 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:39.199 research speaking of periods, well about when you if you 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:42.080 bleed on the new moon or the full moon. Did 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:46.400 Sylvia talk to you about any of that because we're 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:50.520 bleeding on the new moon. Yeah, of course we of 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:52.920 course we are on the same cycle because we were 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:53.959 together every. 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:57.200 Moment, and of course we're wearing the same motherfucking outfit 0:10:58.040 --> 0:10:59.960 because this is not planned. 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:01.160 Guys, swear to god. 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.040 I also had the beanie, but then I said, bitch, this. 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:05.880 Is too much, this is too much. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:10.040 We're wives. I'm like, do we own any other fucking clothes? 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:13.600 No? No, Sylvia told me that. Shout out to Sylvia 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.680 and Sestral. She's amazing. Make sure you go follow her 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:23.640 on Instagram. She's our Costa Rican spiritual witch mama. She 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:29.160 told me that during the full moon, if you're bleeding, 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.880 you capture your blood and it's important to cover your 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:35.400 head when you go out and you bear. You find 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:39.520 a place, dig a hole, pour the blood in, ask 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:42.640 like put your intentions into, like what you are trying 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:47.920 to remove from your life, bury it and then that's it. 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:49.800 And then for the new moon. 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:50.600 I don't know about new moon. 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:56.400 I got it. I gotta whatsapperrst time this episode comes out, 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.160 I'll put an episode description or maybe I'll put it 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:00.800 on Patreon. On Patreon, you can find out what we 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:01.880 need me to do with your period. 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:03.920 But blood on the new moon. But this new mood 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:04.840 is in Capricorn, and. 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:06.400 I know this new mood is inviting us to really 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:09.679 think about our creative ideas, to feel inspired and like 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:13.600 moving into whatever it is that really drives us. Are 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:17.000 p really reflecting on our purpose not necessarily acting on it, 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.640 because that feels really intense, especially in January, and we're 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:23.000 trying to ease into January but really kind of planting 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:26.439 the seeds and reflecting on the things that really get 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.640 you excited about your creative process. 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:35.079 And yeah, yeah, it was interesting this that last the 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:38.439 last full moon was in Cancer and then the new 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.000 moon was in Capricorn, which are like sot opposite. So 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:44.400 it's like you probably did a heavy release emotional and 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:47.320 then went into Capricorn mode. 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:47.680 Mm. 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:49.640 You know, so there's like a lot of balance in 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:50.040 that too. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:51.040 Yeah. 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.160 Yeah, but I've been feeling that too, Like we do 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.319 so much work and I'm like I forget that, like 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:58.599 this is what we get signed up is what we 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.400 asked for. And like even we had that shoot recently 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:03.480 and I was like getting anxiety about it. I was like, 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:05.440 so much shit to do, and then like we did 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:06.719 it and I was like, oh, yeah, this is fun. 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:09.079 I love my job. I love hanging out with my 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:13.360 friend and taking pictures. But you know, just like finding 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:18.439 the optimism in daily life and just like the things 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:21.640 that we actually do love and not like making the 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:24.080 work of it work, you know, making everything play. 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.440 Yeah, well, I think it's important too. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:30.120 It like come to these spaces, get outside, get into nature, 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:34.160 especially like when it's cold, it feels I think that's 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.360 why people get seasonal depression too, because it gets so 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:38.400 cold and you are like I'm not going outside. 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:39.559 Fuck that mm. 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.040 But it's important. 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:43.520 Yeah, cause I ha, I haven't been as motivated to 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:45.679 come outside and hike, but now that I'm out here, 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:47.080 it feels really good. 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:47.640 Girl. 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:49.719 Put them layers on, put that jacket on, right, and 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:52.280 two layers of socks on, three pairs of pants, and 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:53.280 get your ass outside. 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:58.079 And really we're bullshitting because there's people who are definitely 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:03.880 in much much colder spaces, right, We're actually very lucky. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.880 This is actually some bitch ass coldness. Actually some bitch 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:10.680 ass it's actually some very very mild cold. 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:14.400 I know, every time it gets cold in California, everyone 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:17.880 freaks out, and I I'm literally always reminding people like, bitch, 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.520 it gets cold here, right, it does. I mean not 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.240 cold like Minnesota. You guys, it's like forty one degrees. 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.280 But everyone in life freaks out. But you know why 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:29.080 everyone's cold cause everyone's ill prepared. Everyone refuses to get 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:31.760 with the program and actually put a fucking real jacket 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:34.240 on like this, like l like, literally we resist this. 0:14:34.520 --> 0:14:35.360 This isn't light jazz. 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.880 We resist this jacket in the winter in LA and 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:40.040 then we're like, it's so fucking cold. Well. 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:42.240 I remember when I went to college. I went to Atlanta, 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:43.480 and I'm like, I don't know what the fuck I 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.160 thought the climate was, but that winter hit and literally 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.720 everything I own was like my tits were out, my 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.240 crop top. I was just like, I was like what 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:54.720 do I do? And I was like, I'm not I 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.520 gonna created from cold climates and my wardrobe like I 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.680 couldn't believe it. But it was like a reality check. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.960 I like this has begun to got cold, you know 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:11.200 a little bit chilly. Should we do some deep rats together, Yeah, 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.520 we should, some Mela moons, some deep breaths. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:22.880 Wherever you are, just take a second. If you're driving, 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:28.160 don't close your eyes. If you aren't, closure. 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:31.080 Eyes or not, we have a really beautiful view. We're 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.600 looking at something very beautiful. I think sometimes when we 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:37.600 meditate we wanna close our eyes. But like outside is 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:50.920 so beautiful. Wherever your at is beautiful. I like to 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:54.440 manifest for my my Hollywood Hills house. Oh absolutely, because 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:56.080 now I can just pick the ones I like and 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:58.920 like which one's like gonna be mine? What designs I like? 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:03.720 M Imagine waking up to my Hollywood Hills infinite pool, 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:11.440 infinity pool, looking out to the beautiful ab Speaking of manifestations, 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:16.560 this morning, I had like a very intense fantasy manifestation 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:20.200 session with someone that I'm hanging out with, and. 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.120 It was like s one that I do a lot 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:27.640 by myself, and it is like it it involves like 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:31.040 a view. It involves like me being bent over a 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:35.040 balcony looking at my view and my man telling me 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.520 like how proud he is that I've created all of 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:41.160 this and that like I bought this house and that 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:44.640 all the work that I've put in and how powerful 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:46.480 I am and how amazing I am that I've been 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:48.400 able to create this space for it. 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.200 And we were doing that, and he. 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:52.920 Was doing it, and I was like, I I I 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:55.240 manifested this moment. I kind of like teld him what 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:55.960 I need him to say. 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:59.800 Here's the script. I'm on leave that f b ready 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:00.360 by Friday. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.400 And I was like, wow, this is so much nice. 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:05.000 It's really great by myself. 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:06.960 But I was like, oh my god, is this like 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:10.119 we weren't outside we were actually doing We could have 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:12.920 went outside. It was called we were my bed, but 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.000 you're looking at we were we were were we were 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:18.040 imagining cause I was asking what when what his fantasy was, 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:22.399 and he said that his fantasy was taking me outside 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:23.600 to my balcony and bending me over. 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:25.680 And I was like, funny, you should say that because 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:26.400 I have a fantasy. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:29.840 Similarly, I have a similar fantasy that involves you telling 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:31.160 me that I'm a boss ass bitch. 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:35.480 So I didn't do that in your own words? Ready go? 0:17:38.680 --> 0:17:42.159 Was that I did all this myself, just me, nobody, 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:46.560 nobody for it, right, I imagine? Tell me that I 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:50.520 did it all about myself? I think a lot of 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:53.080 women need to hear that from men, you know what, 0:17:53.280 --> 0:17:57.600 It's so true and honestly, I I've had many moments 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:01.000 like that with Orlando, and I don't take them for 0:18:01.080 --> 0:18:03.480 granted at all, Like they're all really beautiful. But I 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:05.760 didn't realize how much I needed it until I found 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:08.479 someone to do it. T sound, someone to like who 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:12.680 just naturally does that, Like and I'm just thinking about 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:17.000 you manifesting this moment and it happening, and like just 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:26.080 overall realizing the amount of things we've manifested, like C 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:28.680 like it's crazy, like I C Like, I know we 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:30.560 talk about this a lot. I know everyone's like I 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:33.760 got the manifest and manifests, but like, honestly and truly, 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:38.119 the amount of things that we have manifested in our 0:18:38.200 --> 0:18:41.719 lives since we started to tap into our power are 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:47.240 so clear. It's like you can literally not deny that 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:51.120 we have power. And and we have worked really hard 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:55.240 and like even in love, you know, and just like, yes, 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:58.920 it's been an obstacle, and yes we've gone through some 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:01.840 things and and it's not always been easy, and it's 0:19:01.880 --> 0:19:03.800 been hard, and it's been it's hurt. 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:06.280 What has it hurt. 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:12.600 It's hurt, but just arriving where you're supposed to arrive 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:16.080 is so beautiful. And then like being able to like, 0:19:16.080 --> 0:19:18.080 because we're such a witchy bitches, go back to all 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:22.160