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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I went home in his shirt.

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Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty two years old and I've

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Speaker 1: been married twenty two years to my best friend. We

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Speaker 1: have a twenty year old son that's living at home

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Speaker 1: while he's in college. I let him use my car

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Speaker 1: a lot because he's trying to get through school without

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Speaker 1: a car.

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Speaker 2: Note.

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Speaker 1: I'm a regional rep for a healthcare company and I

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Speaker 1: do site visits twice a week. A male coworker has

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Speaker 1: to go with me for safety reasons. I've been partnered

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Speaker 1: with the same guy for three years and he's newly single,

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Speaker 1: so he's been vulnerable.

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Speaker 2: Lately. He's really opened up to me about a lot

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Speaker 2: of things in his life, and that made me open

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Speaker 2: up to him too.

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Speaker 1: I told him things that I should only tell my

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Speaker 1: best girlfriend or my husband. Deep into one of our conversations,

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Speaker 1: I told the guy that I have never had the

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Speaker 1: Big OH with my husband. He could not believe it,

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Speaker 1: and his eyes lit up when he said he was

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Speaker 1: going to make sure I experienced the Big Oh. From

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Speaker 1: then on, he couldn't keep his hands off me when

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Speaker 1: I rode with him. I began wearing sexy underwear and

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Speaker 1: new perfume to work. I told my son I needed

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Speaker 1: a car Tuesday so I could drive and my coworker

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Speaker 1: could work his magic. As I drove, it got so

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Speaker 1: good I pulled up behind the mall.

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Speaker 2: And we got in the back seat.

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Speaker 1: His hands and other skills are so magnificent that my

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Speaker 1: vision was blurry. Afterwards, he made a big mess and

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Speaker 1: I couldn't go home like that. So I got a

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Speaker 1: shirt from my son's gym bag and I went home

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Speaker 1: of all the day for my husband and my son

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Speaker 1: to be in the kitchen. When I walk in, my

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Speaker 1: son recognized his shirt and my husband asked what happened

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Speaker 1: to my blouse and jacket I had on When I

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Speaker 2: I didn't have a lie prepared. The guy is.

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Speaker 1: Getting my blouse cleaned, so I don't have it. My

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Speaker 1: husband has been side eyeing me every day. What do

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Speaker 1: I do? What do you do?

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Speaker 2: What do you do? That's what you're asking.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is just one of those classic cases

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Speaker 1: of asking Steve and I for help to fix a problem.

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Speaker 1: After the fact, you do realize you created this mess, right,

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Speaker 1: This didn't have to go down like this, but because

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Speaker 1: of you it did. But what gets me is how

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Speaker 1: easy this was really easy for you to just cheat

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Speaker 1: on your husband. All this man did was say he

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Speaker 1: could help you get the big oh cut to you

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Speaker 1: guys in the back seat in back of the mall

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Speaker 1: getting busy in the car.

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Speaker 2: I mean, huh.

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Speaker 1: You'd be grateful that your husband is only giving you

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Speaker 1: the side eye right now because you gambled with your

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Speaker 1: marriage and this could have ended quite differently, I mean

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Speaker 1: a whole lot differently. What should you do? First of all,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you should stop playing in the back seat

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Speaker 1: with your coworker. I mean, that's obvious. You're having a

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Speaker 1: full blown affair with this man.

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Speaker 2: Do you realize this?

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Speaker 1: If you want your coworker who you say is so

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Speaker 1: skillful and magnificent. Put your husband out of his misery

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Speaker 1: and get a divorce, and then you can have all

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Speaker 1: the big o's. You know that your heart desires Steve.

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Speaker 4: Surely you know your insensitivity in this letter kind of

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Speaker 4: threw me a little bit, you think, But I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: bring it home back.

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Speaker 2: You think I'm insensitive, Oh.

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Speaker 3: So sensitive to this woman?

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Speaker 2: No, but see, first of all, she fifty two.

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Speaker 3: She's been married twenty two years to my best friend. Yeah, yeah, see,

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Speaker 3: you need to be more than that.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: Ere ago, we got a twenty year old son at home.

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Speaker 4: You let him use your call the time because he

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Speaker 4: want to get through college without a car. Note your

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Speaker 4: site visits and for safety purposes they tell you got

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Speaker 4: to travel with a male. And then y'all been partnering

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Speaker 4: with the same guy for three years. Three years now

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Speaker 4: he's newly single. Now here's a part in the letter

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Speaker 4: where it takes a turn. So he's been vulnerable lately.

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Speaker 4: What you know when you say a man is vulnerable,

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Speaker 4: what do that mean? He's newly single, So he's been

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Speaker 4: vulnerable lately. Why see right, tell what it's always some

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Speaker 4: woman feeling sorry for some man somewhere. He need a help,

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Speaker 4: He going through something. They broke up. He's single. You

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Speaker 4: don't even know why he's single. He's really opened up

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Speaker 4: and that made me open up to him too. Now

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Speaker 4: wait a minute, now, either you vulnerable or he vulnerable?

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Speaker 4: Because starting to sound like is you the one that's vulnerable?

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Speaker 3: I told him.

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Speaker 4: Things I really should have just told my girlfriend or

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Speaker 4: my husband. Well, deep into the conversation, she told the

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Speaker 4: guy that, Shirley, hear where you had a problem. You

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Speaker 4: said it was too easy. She said, I've never had

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Speaker 4: the big old with my husband. Shirley, you said that

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Speaker 4: was just too easy. All you needed was the big old. Well,

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Speaker 4: if you fitty two and you ain't ever had one,

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Speaker 4: I think that, Oh it's pretty damn important.

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Speaker 2: Oh you need that old.

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Speaker 4: And when you said you couldn't have it, his eyes

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Speaker 4: lit up and said, I'm gonna make sure you experienced

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Speaker 4: the big old. You know, because I'm vulnerable right now

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Speaker 4: because I'm newly single and you've been telling me all

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Speaker 4: this stuff, and now you've told me that I'm assuming

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Speaker 4: you must be telling me that because my job as

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Speaker 4: a man is to fix things.

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Speaker 3: So now let me fix you.

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Speaker 4: Having not twenty two years married to your best friend,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to be my best something for us

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Speaker 4: to stay married this life, and it ain't gonna be friends.

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Speaker 3: I'm tell you that.

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Speaker 4: You got to be the better something twenty years. You

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Speaker 4: gotta be good or something else to be and my friend.

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Speaker 2: All right, Oh, you talk all that thought.

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Speaker 3: End this stuff for twenty two damn.

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Speaker 2: Years, all that thought, Steve bo.

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Speaker 1: Part two of your response coming up at twenty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Subject for today's Strawberry letter, I.

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Speaker 2: Went home and his shirt. We'll get back into it

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Speaker 2: right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening.

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Speaker 2: Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 2: I went home in his shirt.

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Speaker 3: Wama fIF two years old.

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Speaker 4: Been going to work with this coworker for three years

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Speaker 4: for safety reasons. He's newly single, so they started sharing

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Speaker 4: some information. Her son is in college, use her card

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Speaker 4: a lot, and so that's important information for later on.

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Speaker 4: They got to talk and the man is newly single,

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Speaker 4: so she said he's vulnerable. He started opening up, telling

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Speaker 4: me everything about his life. Then she was vulnerable too

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Speaker 4: because she been married to her best friend for twenty

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Speaker 4: two years. Didn't say he was the best that, nothing else,

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Speaker 4: just the best friend. She's gonna need to be good

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Speaker 4: at something else for me to stay with you this

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Speaker 4: damn long. Let me tell you that right now. Anyway,

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Speaker 4: they got to talking and she told her dude that

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Speaker 4: she had never had the big old with her husband.

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Speaker 4: That's twenty two years. So he, being the fixer that

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Speaker 4: he is, said I'm gonna make sure you have the

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Speaker 4: big old and from then on he couldn't keep his

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Speaker 4: hands off me. Well, from then on you didn't want

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Speaker 4: his hands off me. See, man just can't stop grabbing

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Speaker 4: you as you let it. When I rode with him,

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Speaker 4: he couldn't keep his hands off me. I begin wearing

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Speaker 4: sexy underwear, new perfume to work. I told my son

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Speaker 4: I needed the car Tuesday so I could drive and

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Speaker 4: my coworker could work his magic.

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Speaker 3: As I drove. Now, that's dangerous.

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Speaker 4: You're trying to have ols big olds while you're driving.

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Speaker 3: Hum, that's wrong and tell your car I'm telling you

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Speaker 3: right now, got to pull that car over. That ain't

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Speaker 3: what you want to do. While you driving.

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Speaker 4: Plus you that seem to me like you need to

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Speaker 4: be able to focus to get there anyway. But now

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Speaker 4: you driving, you just can't. You just can't do that

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Speaker 4: while you're driving. You just can't blurt.

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Speaker 2: Out, oh, that's what we're doing right now.

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Speaker 4: Need to be pulled over. So I and going to

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Speaker 4: so magnificent that my vision was blurry.

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Speaker 3: That's good. Now, that's really good when it's happening like that.

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Speaker 4: When you can't see good, well, when you when you

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Speaker 4: can't see good, that's that's earl, earl, that's that's a

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Speaker 3: Eyes all in the back of your head.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had one before. That was so good. My

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Speaker 4: eyes rolled so far back. I was looking at my brain.

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Speaker 2: Okay, see what I oversharing? Over sharing, sir?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I saw how my brain work. I had

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Speaker 4: never seen it.

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Speaker 3: Look, will you.

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Speaker 2: Use it right now and stop?

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Speaker 3: Please? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Anyway, so he made a big mess and I couldn't

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Speaker 4: go home like that. So I got a shirt from

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Speaker 4: my son's gym bag and I went home. Of all

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Speaker 4: didn't have a lie prepare right here, let's stop, this

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Speaker 4: is where I come in at what happened to my

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Speaker 4: jacket and blouse? He said? And you said, I didn't

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Speaker 4: have a lie prepared? See right there, you got to

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Speaker 4: see it. I don't have to have one prepare. All

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Speaker 4: I had to do is have.

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Speaker 1: One See what what happened to my shirt and blouse?

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Speaker 4: I stopped at Windy's, and when the lady was handing

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Speaker 4: me my stuff through the window, it's spilled to drink

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Speaker 4: catch up, And I don't know the cheese machine in

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Speaker 4: the back shot cheese all over my checket. And I

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Speaker 4: didn't even know they had.

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Speaker 3: A cheese machine. Have you ever seen the cheese machine

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Speaker 3: at Wendy's?

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Speaker 2: What cheese machine into your car?

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Speaker 4: It was all in the carpet. So I've been down

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Speaker 4: get stuck because you know, I know, I know, Junior

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Speaker 4: needed to dry the car to work, and I didn't

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Speaker 4: want your cheese in.

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Speaker 3: Now, and I got my messed up. And when I was.

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Speaker 4: Vacuuming the cow, my blouse got caught in the vacuum

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Speaker 4: and sucked my blouse right off my.

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Speaker 2: Brawl.

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Speaker 4: Now I got everybody confused because now, first of all,

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Speaker 4: the vacuum sucked your blouse off.

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Speaker 3: I got them confused about that.

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Speaker 4: But I really got them confused because they tried to

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Speaker 4: figure out where that cheese.

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Speaker 3: Machine that was at that Weddy.

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Speaker 1: Dash.

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Speaker 3: What the best lie always has?

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Speaker 4: Uh, you know, the best lie always has an element

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Speaker 4: of truth to it. So and I have threw them

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Speaker 4: off anyway, Yes you have, sir. The guy is getting

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Speaker 4: my blouse clean, so I don't have it. No, see

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Speaker 4: that you don't ever bring that blouse back in the

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Speaker 4: house and let let that blouse build. Your husband ain't

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Speaker 4: gonna remember which one you had on nowhere. You could

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Speaker 4: just tell him, no, here it is, and sity this thing.

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Speaker 4: My husband has been side eyeing me every day.

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Speaker 3: What do I do? Nothing?

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Speaker 4: You can't do nothing. First of all, you don't know

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Speaker 4: how to lie, so whatever gonna happen. You're gonna happen

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Speaker 4: until you start lying. Wait what, Until you start lying,

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Speaker 4: your ass is, your life is forever jacked up.

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Speaker 3: You ain't go.

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Speaker 2: So that's your message for her today.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, every man understand.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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